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Oct. 30, 2024 - Fresh & Fit

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5 Ways To Properly Vet Women

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	Thank you.
	Thank you. - And we are live.
	What's up guys?
	Welcome to the Fresh Air Podcast, man.
	It's Wednesday, aka we're gonna teach you guys how to vet a girl.
	Let's get into it.
	Let's go. Let's go.
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	All right.
	What's up, guys?
	Welcome to the Fresh Shit Podcast, man.
	Regular edition.
	It's Wednesday, guys.
	Sorry for the delay.
	There's like a storm down here in Miami with the rain and everything.
	It's not windy for no reason.
	Yeah, it is.
	Another hurricane?
	Hopefully not.
	But we're here now.
	Fresh, what are you supposed to be?
	Thugnificent.
	I'm just here for the culture, you know?
	I'm for the hoes.
	That's why we're here.
	It's Wednesday.
	All right.
	What are you supposed to be?
	Just myself, I guess, at the moment.
	Great.
	Maybe you dress up for the next one.
	Let's do it!
	Yeah.
	So, um...
	Updates?
	You guys, just so you know.
	Yeah.
	So, I'll make some quick updates.
	Guys, I am back on Instagram.
	Alright?
	It's MyronGainesX, and my ex is also MyronGainesX.
	Both of them are the same exact handle.
	So, check me out over there, man.
	I post every single day.
	A lot of you guys...
	I guess people don't know this, because I got this question a lot on the Zoom call.
	Post a lot of my political views and stuff going on like with current events on X and then on Instagram I post like videos alright, so check me out over there guys Myron Gaines X on both Instagram and on Twitter right different types of content on both platforms right versus like I do more videos on Instagram a bunch of reels and then on X I post you know everything but mostly tweets and I also do spaces on there sometimes too I did one on censorship the other day and Yeah,
	Project Esther, but I also covered what's coming with a bunch of the conservative YouTubers.
	New York Times basically getting ready to launch a hit piece that's been kind of...
	It's being propelled by Media Matters.
	You know, Ben Shapiro, Tucker Carlson, Benny Johnson, a bunch of the big ones.
	And what they're basically alleging is that these conservative creators pushed a bunch of misinformation and conspiracy theories with the last election, and one of the reporters was asking him, or are you monetized on YouTube, or are you on the YouTube Partner Program, blah, blah, blah, which was all very strange questions to ask.
	I wonder why.
	So the New York Times is going to put this hit piece out very soon because Media Matters did a study where they found like 280 videos of conservatives providing misinformation in their eyes.
	So that's kind of what's going on there.
	Annette, the question is, who's the orbiter of truth?
	And I talked about this on X. Because misinformation can be construed in different ways.
	It's like, bro, how are you going to tell me what's right and what's wrong?
	But again, it's their platform.
	It's ridiculous.
	But yeah, but that's what's coming down the line with that.
	But guys, we're going to have a Zoom call.
	After this, we're going to go over five ways for you to be able to identify a girl from the vetting process to make your girlfriend.
	And then also, or like just to see where we're going to put her in the box.
	Also, this Friday, I'm going to be out with Vitaly, catching predators.
	I think I'm going to bring bills with me.
	We might live stream some of it for you guys.
	So that's going to be big.
	It'll be a little bit different than the usual type of programming.
	But I think you guys will enjoy that.
	So we'll be out there catching predators in California.
	This Friday, I think it's going to start at around 5 or 6 p.m.
	Eastern Standard Time, if I'm not mistaken.
	Or it might be 8 p.m.
	Eastern Standard Time.
	Maybe give them an update when you're there.
	You know what?
	I think it's 8 p.m.
	Eastern Standard Time because it's 5 p.m.
	It's going to be California.
	So that three hours ahead in Miami and New York.
	Should be fun.
	Yeah, so that'll be a good time.
	So you guys probably won't see us on the air conventionally like this doing a podcast on Friday.
	I'll probably take Bills with me and we'll go to California, catch some Predators.
	It'll be a good time.
	Give you guys some behind the scenes, etc.
	Give you guys a different perspective so it'll be a good time.
	And then, what else?
	Zoom call on Thursday.
	We're going to do a networking call with Castle Club only.
	Castle Club Premium.
	And then we also did a Zoom call yesterday with a bunch of you guys, as we promised.
	And we're going to do another one today because I noticed that a lot of guys had questions on dating and stuff like that.
	And a lot of you guys are kind of lost when it comes to women.
	I'm like, holy crap, we need to kind of rehash and go back over the stuff.
	It never ends.
	Yeah, because, right, we gain new followers, might lose some, blah, blah, blah.
	So a lot of the guys that come in, they might have come in because they like our political takes, but they're not necessarily, you know, familiar with the ladies, right?
	So we're here to kind of help you guys out with that as far as like vetting the women.
	Because guys, look, this is actually a very important skill, right?
	Because I don't think you guys understand how important this skill set is, vetting a girl, right?
	So...
	If you don't understand how to vet a girl, it's gonna lead to your misery for the rest of your life.
	Yeah.
	Because you only have this window of opportunity to discover and find out who she is, what her intentions are, and if she's gonna come into your life and fuck it up.
	And if she does come into your life and fuck it up nine out of ten times, it's your fault because you didn't catch the signs early on and you don't vet.
	Now, I know some of you guys in the chat might be like, Because let's just deal with the elephant in the room.
	Oh!
	Why is Frosh talking about vetting a girl?
	Didn't he deal with that Chinese woman that was on some bullshit, blah, blah, blah, got some girl pregnant, etc.?
	Well, guys...
	For those of you guys that are aware and know the truth of what happened with that matter, Fresh actually deployed some tactics that we're gonna share with you today to identify her as a girl that's not right for any type of serious commitment.
	And when he kinda let her go, because he found these things out, that's when she went crazy.
	She got mad.
	Because make no mistake about it, that response, right, the way she behaved, Was her being dumped.
	So that's why she came out so viciously.
	Because girls like her typically don't get dumped.
	Also, someone that's been through it can tell you what not to do and what to do.
	And also, having that process of actually going through that, I want to say...
	Journey itself, you see a lot of things that you wouldn't see normally from watching from the outside looking in.
	So having that perspective is important because I've been there myself in the past, as you guys saw recently.
	And you know what?
	It's a vetting process.
	It takes time.
	If you don't see it right away, cool.
	But it's also fun sometimes when you get into that dangerous spot, but not fun when you get hurt.
	So keep that in mind.
	So that's really super important that you play some of these strategies.
	Now, with that said, right, some girls might get mad and be like, oh, I'm going to get mad and do all this other stuff, which we told you guys we debunked a bunch of lies about how she's saying that she got the abortion because of him, blah, blah, blah, when in reality she had the abortion the whole time and she just used it as kind of like a scapegoat to get herself on certain podcasts and talk when in reality she had the abortion the whole time and But the reality is that she did the abortion the whole time.
	She didn't care about Fresh's opinion.
	She just called him to get him on tape saying, oh, well, I don't want a kid.
	And then she used that to try to rationalize and justify, oh, look, I got an abortion because of him.
	But the reality is she got the abortion the whole time.
	And one of her own co-conspirators admitted this, that, you know, loser-ass hater chick that just makes videos on us all the time.
	I don't even want to give her, say her name because she's a dork.
	But yeah.
	Pathetic, bro.
	Pathetic.
	There's literally YouTube channels that do nothing but exist to gossip on us.
	It's absolutely wild.
	And then also, just so you guys know, nobody's safe.
	You saw Tom Brady recently, what came out with his ex.
	Yeah, I tweeted about that.
	She's a moron.
	Yo, bro.
	Stupid.
	If Tom Brady is not safe, nigga, you're not safe, we're not safe, nobody's safe.
	So learn from my mistakes, his mistakes, and move better if you can.
	But I'll tell you this, man.
	Nobody is without being checked.
	Nobody's safe, brother.
	Yeah.
	Cold world out here.
	Very cold world.
	Yeah, so it comes with the territory, bro.
	And it just happens, you know what I mean?
	We've got five top topics to cover today.
	Five ways to vet a girl.
	So we're going to go over them with you guys.
	Then after this, guys, we're going to go right into a Zoom call and answer some of your guys' questions.
	Do we have any chats that we need to hit?
	We'll do it after?
	Okay.
	Okay, cool.
	Alright, so the first one, one of the most important foundational ones you can have, is time.
	Listen, at the end of the day, you might have an idea, an assumption, you may even say this is wifey right away, off rip.
	But we all know, people change, seasons change, women lie.
	Sorry to put that in there.
	No, but it's because, listen, at the very beginning, people play a part.
	They pretend to be who they're not to make you feel better, to make you feel good about them.
	Maybe even trap you in a situation because they think it's ideal for them and not for you.
	Which is why it's important to figure out someone's motive at the very beginning.
	Because networking, dating, same shit.
	What's their motive?
	Now, obviously with time, as time goes by, you see actions, you see people's intentions, and how they speak to you and to others.
	And again, with time itself, most of us are happy because she's hot.
	You know, we're into her, and we ignore the signs because, hey, she's hot.
	But then again, we've seen many hot girls destroy men's lives because, again, they ignore the red flags and they went right into it.
	But how much time should she actually take to vet somebody?
	We believe a year minimum is what you should take.
	It could even be more because, again, people can pretend to be who they're not.
	And you guys have seen, a lot of girls come on the show and they say, oh yeah, listen, I don't go out, I'm home, I'm a stay-at-home girl type of girl.
	Brother, I've seen them in the club right after the show, twerking again, going crazy.
	And it's like, wait, but you told us something completely different on camera.
	It's because, again, women sell purity at all times.
	And if you believe every word that she says...
	Understandably, you may not know what's happening behind the scenes, but you will see over time her actions, how she moves.
	And funny enough, you can even employ some tests to see how she really is going to be in person and when you're not there.
	But in reality speaking, guys, everyone needs time, no matter who you are.
	So to sit up front as XYZ, you may not know all the details, but with time, you can tell a lot of things over that period of time.
	So, the reason why we're making this step one, which is vetting for a period of time, which I always suggest to you guys, somewhere between 6 to 12 months minimum, right?
	Is because...
	The female strategy when trying to get into a relationship with you is to sell purity.
	I'm a good girl.
	I'm not like the others.
	You know, I don't party.
	I don't do XYZ, etc.
	And your job as the man, right, is to see if she's telling the truth or not.
	And the only way that you could properly assess this is by seeing her for a significant amount of time.
	Because The only way you'll be able to figure out what's really going on and see how she really moves is through the vetting process and over a period of time.
	One of the biggest mistakes that guys make is wifing up girls too early on in the relationship when you know her.
	And the problem for that is, you know, let's just deal with what it is.
	Guys will meet a girl.
	She'll be attractive or she'll have a look that he likes.
	And what he'll do is he'll start giving her a pass on certain things.
	Certain red flags...
	Or certain behaviors don't necessarily strike the same chord that they would have had the girl not fulfilled this look metric that you like, right?
	It might be the hottest girl you've ever talked to.
	It might be a girl that aligns with your religious beliefs.
	It might be a girl that comes from your town.
	It might be a girl that went to the same school as you.
	Maybe you guys are the same alma mater.
	Guys are fantastic at finding ways to give girls a pass that might not necessarily deserve a pass because they want to almost qualify her, and they rationalize it in their head to do so, right?
	Because deep down, we all have that ick or that little tick in our mind whenever a girl is probably not going to be a good candidate for a long-term relationship.
	But a lot of guys will overlook that because she does other things.
	Oh, dude, she plays video games.
	Oh, we're so alike, right?
	And Your eagerness and happiness that she has some similarities with you or maybe that she's the hottest girl it could be a multitude of different reasons why you might qualify her but the point is that you qualify her without doing your due diligence and what's up happening is Right?
	Is you don't check your work.
	When you don't check your work, you get the wrong answer.
	Remember in math class, you'd be in there, you know, 1 plus 1 is 2, or 10 plus 10 is 20, right?
	And you could, like, go back.
	The teacher would always say, go back and check your work or show how you came to your answer.
	A lot of you guys don't check your work.
	You just kind of come to the answer, but if I ask you, hey, reverse engineer that and tell me how you arrived at this number.
	Did you carry the 1?
	Did you divide this?
	Blah, blah, blah.
	A lot of you guys can't actually do that, right?
	You guys can't reverse engineer how you came to your conclusion.
	So, I want you guys, because a lot of you guys are analytical, some of you guys are engineers, some of you guys are involved in certain professions that are very, you know, how do I say this?
	I'm going to put you on the spectrum a bit, I'll just say it that way, right?
	I want you guys to look at dealing with women almost like a mathematical equation, where you need to arrive at an answer, and then I need you to be able to reverse engineer how you came to that answer, right?
	And know that you did it right.
	So, Going back to what I was saying, this is why time is so important because you're going to be able to figure this stuff out.
	And the thing is, there's this famous saying, there's three things that always show themselves.
	The sun, the moon, and the truth, right?
	But the truth can't necessarily be shown if you don't allow enough time for the truth to come out.
	Because girls will put on a facade in the first few weeks or months that you meet them to kind of...
	Because here's the thing, they're not stupid.
	You guys will sit there and talk, and you'll tell her your interests and hobbies.
	What she'll do is, if she really likes you, is she'll contort Her likes and hobbies to align with yours or she'll start doing certain things that you said that you're interested in to kind of create this aura of like, look, I'm the perfect match for you.
	Girls are very good at doing this, right?
	Especially when they're looking for a relationship.
	So this is why you need to have her for a period of time where you're vetting this out to see if she's actually genuine and authentic when it comes to that stuff.
	Because they will sell purity.
	They will sell the girlfriend appeal.
	They will sell certain characteristics or traits about themselves or characteristics.
	To kind of get you on the hook, line, and sinker.
	Because no matter what girls tell you guys, right?
	Women typically want a long-term relationship.
	They don't want to be, you know, having to be doing a hot girl summer all year, right?
	There's a reason why it's called hot girl summer, not hot girl year or hot girl life.
	They don't want to be single all the time.
	Whenever girls say, I'm single by choice, that's cope.
	No, you're single because the guy that you want doesn't necessarily want you back or you don't qualify for the man that you want.
	So therefore you rationalize it and say that you're single.
	Girls will go ahead and make fun of men and say that they're incels.
	Well, a lot of these girls are relationship cells.
	They can't get in a fucking relationship.
	But what they'll do is, a lot of them will to combat that, is sell you purity.
	And if you don't do your due diligence and vet them for a good amount of time, she'll get you.
	I'll use an example that's in pop culture right now.
	A lot of you guys might be familiar with some of these streamers.
	Right?
	Whether it's Lacey, or maybe Aiden Ross a couple of years ago, or...
	Jinxie.
	Or Jinxie, etc.
	These guys get with a girl, right?
	Jinxie in this case got with this girl, I forget her name, Bricky something?
	Bricky Hill?
	Yeah.
	Right?
	Clearly, right?
	Out of his league from a sexual market standpoint, right?
	He's a regular ass dude, and she's an attractive girl.
	But he has a lot of status and fame, so she aligned herself with him.
	But...
	Did he vet her properly?
	No.
	Because this is a girl that does OF, she's a content creator, so he should know to some degree, well, okay, this girl's with me because I'm famous and that I can go ahead and help her with her career.
	Same thing with Neon and Frank.
	He's getting with a girl where there's a significant disparity in sexual market value, so a lot of guys aren't, you know, maybe they can't or they don't want to reverse engineer why she's there.
	I'm a 3.
	This girl's a 5 or a 6 or a 7.
	Why is she with me?
	And then you're able to quickly figure out, oh, this dude's famous and that aligns with her goals.
	These girls are OnlyFans chicks.
	So they understand the game where...
	They will sell purity to a degree, get with said individuals, propel their career, and then bam.
	Now you end up in the situation that we've seen, where this neon chick, this girl is disrespecting neon all the time.
	Jinxie breaks up with his girl.
	She has the audacity to say, oh yeah, he watches corn when she's a corn star herself, which is fucking comical to me.
	Insane.
	Or Lacey, he wiped up this chick, taking her to Laker games, putting her on camera, and then he finds out later on that she's cheating on him at a party.
	This all came from what?
	Men not doing their due diligence and vetting these women.
	And guys, the more you have to lose, the more famous you are, the more status you have, the harder you have to vet these girls out.
	You have to employ more rigorous and invasive tests to see where the women really stand.
	Especially...
	Especially if they're girls that are involved in social media and want to be creators.
	Matter of fact, I tell you guys all the time, don't even wipe these girls up.
	I wouldn't even give them a chance.
	To be honest with y'all.
	You know?
	Because I already know they're there for ulterior motives.
	So the whole relationship is built on a fucked up foundation.
	Yeah.
	Very good point.
	So time, guys, is your best friend.
	100%.
	And with time comes experience and wisdom.
	So guys, I've been through a lot.
	You guys have seen the past couple years.
	Myron as well.
	But more importantly, I've learned to maneuver in certain instances.
	I'll give you one.
	So with time, right, she's going to act a certain way in front of you.
	Only you.
	Because obviously she wants to make you feel happy, good, in the moment.
	However, something you can employ with time, it's very elusive, very ninja-like, very sneaky, is you can have a friend that's a girl, chill with her alone to garner or show her intentions.
	Let me explain.
	So what I did was, I had this girl, that's cool with me, she happens to help me with a service, I wanna say what that is, not sexual, and she went out with Exhibit A, Chinese girl, And then, like, a little talk.
	They went to go get some drinks real quick, talk a little bit.
	And it's funny.
	She spoke about her intentions to the girl.
	And, beknownst to her, I knew from the very beginning what her plan was.
	Now, granted, though, it's funny because girls talk differently.
	Was this another chick?
	Yeah, a different chick.
	Not Angie.
	You know her.
	Oh.
	Because she also said some dumb shit to Angie, too.
	Yeah.
	Does the...
	You know?
	Back stuff?
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Alright.
	Okay.
	So, it was like...
	Oh, I didn't know that.
	Yeah, yeah.
	So, it was like, okay.
	She acts one way in front of me, but let me see what she acts with a different person that's not me at all.
	That's completely away from me.
	That's a girl herself.
	And you'd be surprised.
	Girls talk to sound impressive and to say like, oh yeah, I got this guy and this is how I move.
	And that right there will tell you how she is without you being in the room.
	I'll tell you this right now, guys.
	They act a certain way when you're there.
	When you're not there, let's see what they really act.
	And you'd be surprised.
	One tactic you can do, which really is behind the scenes.
	When we do the test, right?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	But I really wanted to harp.
	There's a reason why we made...
	The first step one, guys, time.
	Too many of you guys don't give it enough time.
	You guys are in a rush to give this girl a title.
	You're in a rush to get her girlfriend.
	And I'm here to tell you guys, six months to a year, no exceptions.
	Six months is bare minimum.
	And to be honest with y'all, even six months is going to be very difficult.
	And you might not get everything that you need to get.
	Because the less work you do, right, up front, the more work you're going to have to deal with on the back end.
	Because you didn't do your due diligence, now she's over here fucking up your house.
	Now she's embarrassing you.
	Now she's doing whatever, you know, it is.
	And then worse yet, it's going to be a lot harder for you to get rid of her.
	Right?
	Because you didn't see a lot of this stuff coming.
	9 out of 10 times it comes out of left field and you don't see it coming if it messes you up.
	Also, with time, you should do a background check.
	Hey Hero, chill out.
	Just to make sure.
	This involves a credit check, a life check, and a friend's who she's around check.
	Which means, if you can, I mean, you can't always do this because you might not know her friends or her family or who she's around, but if you can, get a vibe check.
	Wink wink.
	Figure out her credit score.
	Figure out mentally where she's at.
	She's on antidepressants.
	If she's taking any medication.
	And thirdly, see who her friends are.
	That says a lot about her in detail.
	We're friends.
	Any chats that we need to hit?
	Yes, we do.
	All right, let's hit some chats.
	And guys, we're going to try to read more chats and be more interactive with you ninjas.
	FNFSuperChat.com, guys.
	Let's go.
	Or RumbleRantedIn.
	So, please get your questions in now, guys.
	We're going to be reading chats a lot more with you ninjas, which I enjoy.
	Chris thoughts?
	Chris thoughts?
	I can't see.
	Okay.
	Hey, mine, I recently went to the hospital and I got diagnosed with fatty liver.
	And it turns out my liver doesn't produce fat as normal now.
	I've been eating healthy only grains of chicken.
	Every time I hear you go off about being fat, it really makes me think I'm a fat POS. I want to say thanks for reminding me.
	What I am so I can become better.
	Take care of WFNFA, man.
	I'm glad that you're doing better and you're not fat.
	Chris thoughts.
	Fresh, can you explain Nigalations 15.3?
	I can!
	Listen up, niggas.
	No, I thought normal.
	So for a nigga, right, bro?
	We have to feast on the booty.
	That is paramount to our success.
	Fried chicken, watermelon, and booty.
	Now, when it comes to these women, we devour them because we're hungry.
	And, if you're a nigga like me, you understand that it's ask first, ask questions later.
	That's it.
	Fresh, them knees, get some lotion.
	Guys, if you didn't know, I'm the ashy-ass pimp that's still on the block.
	Your uncle, John Pierre.
	That's me.
	Just saying.
	Ashy-ass pimp named Blackback.
	Alright.
	Yeah, let's go.
	What else do we got?
	Marner Fresh, can you take a minute to explain how you guys vet beginning at the number slash dating app?
	Do you move them to IG, then set up a FaceTime call, then to date?
	What kind of questions are you asking on the FaceTime?
	Because it should be only about five to ten minutes.
	Yes.
	Basic general stuff, bro.
	Like getting to know who she is, where she's from.
	A lot of times it's going to be biographical information.
	You know, interest hobby.
	Yeah, but you want her out the app so it's possible.
	Yeah.
	And Instagram, you can tell a lot by her page, what she's about.
	And then FaceTime calls just to set up a date.
	That's actually about it.
	That's really what it is.
	100%.
	Know a little bit about her and then set up the date and put a face and a voice to the name.
	And honestly, guys, just so you understand, when I go on dates, it's not to really take it serious.
	It's more like just have fun for the experience.
	So it's a little bit different than most people.
	It's more like for the experience.
	So just keep that in mind.
	Yeah, guys, the FaceTime call is really to make sure that you're not a weirdo.
	Yeah.
	I'm gonna be honest with y'all.
	True.
	Lighten up the mood, comfort her a little bit.
	You guys gotta understand, bro, that, like, by the time a girl's in her early 20s, she's dealt with a lot of strange men, right?
	Like, a lot of y'all niggas are weird, I'm gonna be honest.
	I don't even, like, blame them for doing this shit.
	Because a lot of you guys are fucking weird.
	No spatial awareness.
	You breathe funny.
	You say weird shit.
	A lot of y'all are on some pervy time.
	So, you know, a lot of dudes are whack jobs.
	So, a lot of times when they do the FaceTime calls or whatever, it's just to ensure that you're like...
	You know, cognitively functioning in a proper manner.
	Because a lot of you guys are stupid.
	And weird.
	And strange.
	For girls, guys are not really coherent on what they want or how to move with girls.
	Yeah, bro.
	Oh, he was weird the whole date.
	I didn't like the date.
	So common, bro.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	- So, alright, what's next?
	I'm Iron and Fresh, I start my new job next Monday, prepped it using old FNF videos.
	- Let's go! - See the interview tips, Big W, any tips on how do I handle bullies?
	I had some problems with that in my last job, could never figure a way out, shout out to the crew.
	Well, make yourself unbullyable, bro.
	Yeah, it seems like you're the common denominator here, where you're seen as the lesser than, so they bully you.
	But honestly, bro, if you're at your workplace, you can just go complain, nigga.
	Nigga, go to HR. He's bullying me.
	They'll help you.
	Yeah.
	Keeping it real.
	Dude, you're there to work, bro.
	Not there to have issues with bullying.
	I mean, you're our workplace, bro.
	Just complain, nigga.
	Yeah.
	Go be a snitch.
	How's it going, Fresh and Myron?
	I had a Tinder while back, and I matched with a girl who got her Instagram.
	She sent me a DM, but I don't pay attention to these hoes.
	I saw her a few times at the club.
	I showed my friend.
	And I just found out that's his girl I know.
	I don't care much about the chick.
	What bothers me is a lack of loyalty.
	Don't be friends with guys who lack women.
	Because they'll turn on you for pussy.
	Morals, I wouldn't do this to a friend.
	What's your take on this?
	Is this a bad friend?
	I'm very confused.
	Is it his girl?
	Yeah.
	No.
	He got a DM from a girl.
	And it's his boy's girl?
	That's his girl now Yeah, but he didn't want all right Yeah, he didn't pay attention, so I don't get that.
	Bro, if you dubbed her and then somebody else scooped her up, like...
	Why do you care?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I don't get your question here, Chris.
	Me either.
	Doesn't make sense.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Cause, yeah.
	I'll just say this though.
	If you're out and about and you're dating and your boy's talking to a girl, there's so many girls out there, bro.
	Don't talk to the same girl, bro.
	Yeah.
	I mean, you don't want to be buddies with people that can't get chicks because obviously we understand that.
	But I don't know if that qualifies under this story that you're saying.
	It sounds to me like you snoozed on the situation and then she went with your friend.
	So...
	Could be that, yeah.
	That's how it reads.
	But did he smash at all?
	No, because he said that he just ignored her.
	So yeah, I don't know where that...
	Dude, send up a follow-up chat because that doesn't make sense.
	Yeah, we don't understand that.
	Sure.
	WFNFL304, celebrating my 26th birthday today.
	What's your guys' opinions on girls who take combinations of antidepressants, ADH, birth control, anxiety meds?
	A lot of girls in their low 20s are on them.
	Yeah, that's a big L. Bro.
	It's not a W at all.
	Yeah, not at all.
	You know what's crazy, though?
	If it's not antidepressants, it's drugs.
	And either or is bad, bro, because imagine marrying her, having kids with her.
	Tough.
	You'd be cucked.
	Yeah, not a good move, bro.
	Pump and dump.
	A man must have goals, money, and a house to have me.
	What do you offer?
	A black man's baby.
	Oh, man.
	That's actually funny.
	Goddamn.
	Oh, man.
	What else do we got?
	Go on up.
	All right.
	Yeah, send that chat, fix it up, bro, because we don't know what you're talking about.
	Yeah, Chris, that was kind of vague.
	Yeah.
	All right, number two, usefulness and utility towards your goals and your vision.
	So normally, you meet a chick, and to be fair, we're sitting on a podcast, doesn't have much to offer.
	But, every now and then you find a girl that's actually useful, helps you with your business, maybe your chores after work, maybe even makes you dinner after you come home from work or whatever you do.
	That really is being useful because now she's adding to your life rather than taking away and subtracting.
	However though, This girl that you find that's useful to you, more often than not, may not be hot.
	She may be subpar of a 5, 6, maybe a 4, but you look at it as, alright, she's useful in a sense, and she's not hot, I'll keep her around.
	Here's the best part about this, right?
	You find a girl that's hot and useful, how do you keep her and vet her properly?
	Because more often than not, you fall into this trap where she's hot and you're like, damn, she's this hot and I'm like, falling for her, missing all the red flags.
	So you need to put her in the same category as the four or five that you have.
	If she's a seven or eight and she's useful, Keep in mind, the looks alone will kind of put you off track and make you forget about red flags.
	But again, keep it at the same level as a 4 or 5.
	I know it's hard to do because she's hot.
	She may be the best you've ever had in your life.
	But the best part is keep her the same level as a 5 or 4 so you don't lose track of red flags.
	And again, it's useful to keep her around because I'll tell you this.
	Most girls are not useful at all and they're just going to subtract from your life at all times.
	So keep it that way.
	Yeah, most girls are useless because they never had to be useful, right?
	That's just what it comes down to, especially attractive ones, right?
	Mid-girls, maybe they'll provide a bit more value, but if we're talking about women that are objectively pretty damn attractive, a lot of the times they're pretty useless because they've never had to be useful because guys don't really put them through the test, right?
	They don't put them through their paces, so...
	So, once you have this thing established where you have time, right?
	Six months to a year.
	Guys, during that period of time, you need to see her utility, man.
	Like, how does she help you out?
	Now, the thing is, is that every man is different.
	So, this is really based on what your needs are, right?
	Maybe you're a guy where you like coffee and you like to have coffee every single morning and she spends a couple of nights with you a week.
	She needs to make sure that she has that coffee ready for you, right?
	It could be something as small as that.
	Or it could be all the way up to...
	You don't like checking your emails or you don't like looking at mail and picking up your mail, right?
	You could delegate that to her.
	So it really comes down to how resourceful you want her to be and how helpful you want her to be and put it through her page and see what she can actually help you with.
	Now, the other thing too, guys, is that this also, why this is so important is because it gives you the ability to kind of take a leadership role where you're delegating certain tasks to her.
	When it comes to women, guys, women fall in love with you through acts of service, right?
	Now, most feminists won't dare admit this, but girls fall in love by doing things for you because most men never have them do anything for them.
	Most guys are just happy that she shows up and she's not able to build a bond with that individual because he's just happy because she's the most attractive girl he's never had, so he automatically pedestalizes her, right?
	Oh my God, this is the hottest girl I've ever got.
	I'm going to pedestalize her and take her everywhere.
	That's why you see these male streamers, they get these girls.
	A lot of times it's the most attractive girl they've ever had because they have low sexual market value relative to their fame, right?
	And then the girl just uses and abuses them and then bam, next thing you know she's on to the next, right?
	So what ends up happening is if you're able to get this girl, vet her, and then you have her do tasks for you, what you naturally end up doing is you create The attractive and the proper hierarchy.
	Does that make sense?
	Because by you giving her tasks, you automatically put yourself in a dominant leadership role.
	Yeah.
	Okay?
	So everything else works its way out naturally.
	Because if you're having her do things for you and seeing how much utility she provides, the natural order of you being the dominant leader falls into place.
	And then she starts going ahead and providing these services to you, right?
	Helping you out.
	And that puts you naturally up here and her here as your subordinate.
	And that's how relationships work.
	This bullshit, guys, that they try to tell you on the internet.
	Oh, it's equal partnership, 50-50, blah, blah, blah.
	I need you guys to get rid of that shit right fucking now.
	It's done.
	Like, that shit...
	I hate that I have to even say this shit again on this podcast, but it's so goddamn ingrained in Western society that men and women are equal, she's your partner, she's your better half, happy wife, happy life.
	All these stupid ass fucking idioms that are created to kind of destroy The natural order of men being over women and being the leaders, protectors and providers and most importantly fucking decision makers, right?
	So I don't need you guys to subscribe.
	Everything that you've been taught from like these TV shows, relationships, etc.
	It's all propaganda.
	It's all fucking propaganda.
	Ever since the nineteen, I'd say nineties, right?
	They've made men look like bumbling idiots.
	Where the girl's the smarter one, she's the leader, she's the boss, blah, blah, blah.
	It's all a bunch of propaganda to push forward this agenda that men and women are equal.
	But the reality is they're not.
	At all.
	And as a matter of fact, if you treat her like an equal, she's going to lose respect for you.
	She's going to lose attraction for you.
	Okay?
	The natural female attraction triggers don't align with conventional societal norms of what they say relationships should be.
	Of this whole bullshit equality.
	So, you guys need to...
	Destroy that whole mantra in your head of equality, happy wife, happy life, she's the boss, whatever she says goes.
	Remove that right fucking now.
	Remove that.
	Because I promise you, if you guys subscribe to that way of thinking and running a relationship in that manner, it's a matter of fucking time until you're done.
	Because when you do that, right, where she's the boss, you're giving her the frame.
	When she has the frame...
	It's a matter of time until you're out the game.
	Simple as that.
	She has a frame, matter of time until you're out the game.
	Because when she has a frame, right, now she's in a leadership role, that's a very uncomfortable position for women.
	Right?
	Very uncomfortable position.
	So, the more attractive you are, the more status you have, right, the longer she'll stay in that uncomfortable position, but at some point it's going to end.
	We use Tom Brady a lot as an example here.
	Gisele made it work with him for a significant amount of time, right?
	But I guarantee you guys that if he was a regular guy and he wasn't Tom Brady, he probably would have left a lot sooner.
	But his celebrity, his status, his money, their children, all these factors kept her around a little bit longer.
	Right?
	And sometimes you can buy yourself some time.
	Right?
	The more attractive of an individual you are, the more mistakes you can make.
	And the longer you have where she'll kind of tolerate you until she leaves.
	But I don't want you guys to be in that position where you're burning your sexual market value.
	Right?
	To buy time for her to find somebody better than you.
	That's what basically ends up happening a lot of times where girls stick in these relationships with guys that they don't like.
	I'll give you guys another example.
	Sam and Neon have been together now for what?
	Over a year?
	Something like that.
	You guys think she's there because she actually likes him and she wants to make it work?
	No!
	She understands that he's a means to an end.
	He's not sexually...
	Arousing.
	Arousing to her.
	But she understands that for her to continue her streaming career, she needs to tolerate him to some degree.
	So what winds up happening is, she's there on camera, but she's cheating on him in the back end.
	Right?
	Cold world.
	Because he didn't naturally put her where she needs to be in the hierarchy.
	She's the boss, she's the decision maker, he's following her, etc.
	So she's accelerating her because of ulterior motives.
	I don't want you guys to ever be in this position where a girl is simply tolerating you and then doing some shit on the side.
	Because if a girl's cheating on you, but she's still with you, there's something that you offer that the other guy doesn't offer yet.
	But once he offers it, she's fucking gone.
	This is the whole monkey branch concept, right?
	She's holding on to one branch like this while moving to another one, and she's not going to let go of this one until she has this one firmly in her grip, which, translation, this other individual fulfills all of her needs so that she no longer has a use for you.
	And if this guy can't fulfill it, let's say it's like this situation with Tom Brady where he's just a fucking martial artist that doesn't make as much money, right?
	She doesn't fully leave until she has a kid like we can see now.
	It hit the news that she's going to have a child with this guy, but I guarantee you guys that they've been banging raw for years.
	And we're just now finding out that they're about to have kids.
	She probably was cheating on Tom while they were still together.
	Because women don't just leave a guy randomly, man.
	They leave and they do it nice and slowly.
	It's like a whole exit strategy where they're leaving and In a manner that's most conducive to their overall success in the future.
	This is how girls move with relationships.
	They're not stupid like us, where we don't have a game plan if we decide to leave.
	They always have a game plan.
	They have a couple of backups.
	Every single time.
	I saw that to say this because I don't want to be ranting here and yapping.
	The usefulness needs to be established because it puts the natural order of things the way they need to be.
	That's why you need to make sure that she's useful because it naturally puts you in a leadership role.
	This whole equality thing, get rid of it immediately, guys.
	Cut that shit from your brain.
	It doesn't exist.
	It's not real.
	What's the next one?
	Just after your point real quick, the word boredom itself kind of encapsulates what you're saying right now because if you're not making her useful for your life and she's bored, you know what she's going to do?
	Go somewhere else and be unbored.
	Or, for example, find another guy that gets her excitement when you don't and use that time with that guy because she's bored.
	And again, Tom Brady was away At camps, working his ass off for the family.
	You know what she was?
	She was always bored.
	This guy gave her some excitement, some tussle on the mats, if you know what I'm saying.
	And the whole time, she's saying, Tom, come back.
	If you don't come back, Tom, I'm going to leave.
	But the whole thing, you know what she was doing?
	Tussling with homeboy on the mats.
	So listen, guys, when they're bored and they're not being useful to you, they're going to find ways to be useful to other men.
	Very true.
	Alright, number three.
	Let's hit chats.
	I see Azawallis, or no, was it Dennis?
	Okay, Azawallis says, someone told my girl they saw me talking to a co-worker that she told me not to talk to, but I was helping her with work.
	Now my girl's even mad calling me a cheater.
	Now I want to talk to her.
	I haven't replied to her last night text.
	What should I do?
	You already lost, bro.
	And I'll tell you why you already lost.
	She's questioning you.
	So we literally had this question come up yesterday where one guy, he was married with kids and his wife was, or not his wife, excuse me, his long-term girlfriend who he has children with, she was annoying him, making similar allegations like this.
	Guys, if you're in a position where a woman is nagging you, You're already fucking lost.
	Let me be explicitly clear about this shit.
	If you're in a relationship and your woman is nagging you, that means that she feels as though you guys are on the same footing if not she is better than you.
	Alright?
	One more time.
	If your girl is nagging you or questioning you, she feels as though she's at the same level as you if not better than you.
	Okay?
	Once you get to this point, you're already fucking lost, guys.
	Okay?
	Because your relationship isn't a fucking democracy.
	It's a dictatorship.
	Okay?
	And I have to use extreme language like this for you guys to fucking get this through your heads.
	This isn't a relationship by committee or whatever.
	This is a relationship by your authority and then she follows.
	Does she have some say so?
	Sure!
	But at the end of the day, you make the final decision and she doesn't question you.
	Alright?
	If your woman is questioning you, you're already in fucking hot water, my friend.
	You've already fucked up and lost half the game.
	We don't answer to women over here.
	Okay?
	We don't.
	You make your decision, it is what it is.
	Comply or goodbye.
	That's just how it goes.
	We don't negotiate with terrorists.
	Alright?
	So, the fact that she's over here and feels that she can go ahead and nag you on this bullshit...
	Tells me that you've already lost.
	And you're trying to find a way to keep her.
	Even though she's over-challenging your fucking authority.
	Also, she took their word over your word.
	That's scary.
	So imagine, your girl thinking their word over your word.
	What does that mean?
	No trust.
	No respect.
	Because your word should be paramount.
	Hey babe, this will happen.
	Here's what it is.
	Okay, I believe you babe.
	Versus, well, they said this and that about you at work.
	Bitch, who's that?
	Does she pay the bills?
	Does she help you out?
	No.
	So offer it, bro.
	Like, she doesn't trust you at all or respect you.
	Because she's taking their word over your word.
	Crazy world.
	Yeah, bro.
	What's the hell, bro?
	If you have to explain yourself to a female, you're already lost, bro.
	Yeah.
	You're already lost.
	So, stop being a bitch.
	Give her the back hand, bro.
	Yeah, man.
	Give her the back hand.
	What the fuck is wrong with y'all niggas, man?
	The back hand.
	You guys...
	Man, we gotta do this dating shit some more because...
	We have to.
	You guys literally are all losing frame with these girls, bro.
	It's absolutely fucking crazy.
	And the scary part is you guys think that you're RP aware you got your girl under control.
	A lot of y'all don't, bro.
	A lot of you guys got a girl by the skin of your fucking teeth.
	Right?
	And you're doing anything you can to fucking keep her happy, keep her around, etc.
	That's how you end up in a situation like this where she's calling you to complain and call you a fucking cheater.
	Like what?
	Bro.
	See, this is the issue with gossiping too as well, with girls.
	It's like, she could be so into you, her friends get in her ear, and then they're like, wait, well, what about XYZ? He does her, this and that.
	Bro, this is why, bro, you have to frame your girl because if you don't, other influencers will get in her ear and say, oh yeah, XYZ about your boyfriend.
	And then it's a whole issue at home, bro.
	It sucks, bro, but it's the world we live in.
	You need a friend with your girl, 100%.
	Faze Carter says, met a girl on a dating app over the span of two months.
	We went on several dates.
	We smashed a couple times.
	Thought it was a genuine connection.
	Then out of nowhere, responses are getting slower and slower.
	Am I cooked?
	Yeah, it's over.
	And you care too much.
	Yeah.
	Two things happened there.
	Could be an ex-boyfriend, or you were, again, boring to her, and she said, you know what?
	I'm out.
	Without saying anything to you.
	So.
	Yeah, bro.
	Like, uh...
	Yeah, well...
	See, the problem that I've realized with guys nowadays, the girls always say they're boring.
	It's like, I was with a guy, it was a cool date, but he was boring.
	No fun, no excitement.
	He didn't want to talk to me properly.
	And no conversation skills at all.
	So of course they're going to be like, this thing is boring.
	Yeah, 100% she met another guy, bro.
	And maybe she was looking for something more serious, you didn't give it to her or whatever, and she moved on.
	That happens too.
	You know what's crazy about this whole cheating thing?
	Girls would be like, I think you're cheating.
	I think you might as well just cheat then.
	The fuck?
	They're going to accuse you anyway.
	Just go cheat.
	Sorry, my bad.
	I'm just saying.
	But yeah.
	Yeah.
	Dennis Rose says, I've been watching you guys since February this year.
	You guys helped me get from 4K to 20K a month.
	Nice.
	Made 120K in profit in the last six months.
	I'm 26.
	I live in Romania.
	My problem is now I got a little bit more comfortable.
	Any tips to keep pushing?
	Go to the gym or take up a new hobby that will keep challenging you.
	Also, if you spend money in certain ways, you should do a SMART, of course, where you get investments, like what Myron does.
	You're going to be broke on paper, but not with your assets.
	That makes sense.
	So your company may be low because you're buying assets, but if you have the money in assets and it's not in your account, you're going to be like, damn, I'm still broke.
	I need to work harder.
	It's kind of like a trick you could do mentally with yourself.
	Yeah.
	But yeah, the dude that's over here talking about, like, someone said something about his girlfriend and co-worker, all this other bullshit, bro.
	Like, bro, you...
	Bro, get a grip, man.
	Get a grip.
	Yo.
	The fuck are you doing?
	No respect, bro.
	Yo, like, lie on it, man.
	Could you imagine if someone said something to Angie and she's like, Myron, what is this?
	And you're like, here's what it is.
	And she's like, well, I don't believe that.
	Makes no sense, because she respects you and loves you, so your word is final.
	Yeah, bro.
	She wouldn't even bring that shit up.
	There you go.
	Like, guys...
	And again, this comes back to the whole thing where a lot of you guys think that our relationship is a fucking partnership.
	It's not.
	Two-way street.
	At all.
	It's not a two-way street, guys.
	It's a one-way street.
	Your way or the highway.
	Okay?
	Okay.
	When you guys are driving, right, in New York City or Miami or one of these big cities, there's one-way streets, right, where you can't make a right turn because they're coming from that way?
	That's how it needs to be with you guys.
	There's no fucking...
	There's no two-way street here where it's like, oh, yeah, we could both...
	No.
	Like, fuck no.
	I'm here to tell you guys.
	We don't have two-way streets with women.
	This isn't a fucking partnership.
	This isn't like an equal representation party.
	Okay?
	It's a fucking dictatorship.
	All you niggas need to dress up like Fidel Castro for Halloween and remind yourselves.
	This is a fucking dictatorship.
	Okay?
	One leader, one ruler, one decision maker.
	That's it!
	I'll tell you this.
	If you don't lead, she gonna lead.
	And her plan is going to be good for her.
	Incredible.
	You're getting bitched up by your girl about some shit that you're doing at work.
	Are you fucking serious?
	Hopefully you're not paying the bills.
	50-50.
	What's the guy's name again?
	That said this shit with...
	Is it Faze Carter?
	Or is it Dennis Rose?
	I think it's Dennis.
	Wait, scroll down.
	Is this a guy from Romania?
	Yeah, this is a guy from Romania.
	No, no, no.
	That's not him.
	I'm talking about the dude that got caught at work.
	Azza Wallace.
	Yeah, Azza Wallace.
	Yeah, Azza Wallace, you're a pussy.
	Alright?
	You're literally a bitch.
	And if you keep going down this road, because I'm saving you right now from yourself, if you keep going down this road where your girl's able to question you and put you in a hot seat and then call you a cheater and you're over there like, oh no, it's not me!
	You lost, nigga.
	Because you're putting yourself on the same level as her.
	Yeah.
	What you need to do instead and be like, look, I don't answer to you.
	Alright?
	Don't fucking nag me.
	Just like that!
	Don't nag me.
	And you might lose her.
	And you might lose her.
	You might very well lose her.
	But you know what?
	I'd rather you lose a girl that you don't have frame with Than to maintain a chick that thinks that she could boss you around and question your fucking authority.
	Because that's a cancer that's waiting to ripen.
	Or marry her too.
	Yep.
	And then you know what she's going to say?
	No sex for you this week.
	No sex for you.
	And then you're stuck with a girl that you marry with no sex.
	Ta-da!
	She didn't like you that much.
	No respect.
	So all that awaits you is fucking pain, doom and gloom if you keep going with this chick.
	So you need to set shit straight right fucking now.
	And you might lose her in the process because you're clearly a bitch.
	So you need to let her know that you're not a bitch and tell her, look, you don't fucking nag me.
	This is not how this goes.
	And you might lose her.
	Oh well.
	I'd rather you lose her than continue to maintain this relationship where she's bossing you around and questioning you.
	Because here's the thing.
	You're just telling us about this incident, but I'm telling you, I don't know for a fact, she probably does way more than just that when it comes to nagging.
	It's true.
	Alright.
	Next one.
	Albo Ace?
	Albo Ace?
	Nigga, screw you, bro.
	First look like a booty warrior?
	Okay.
	Please, Johnson, straight out of the prison with that hat.
	Screw you, nigga.
	Alright, so, because we got to still do Zoom.
	Guys, we're going to be doing a Zoom call, alright?
	After this, a lot of you niggas need help.
	Join Castle Club.
	CastleClub.tv.
	We're going to be having a Zoom call, right?
	We're going to be answering relationship questions like this, etc.
	So join in, guys.
	CastleClub.tv.
	We want to hear your personal issues with your life and girls.
	We got you guys 100%.
	Alright, number three.
	Reputation.
	Reputation, man.
	This goes a long way with access and knowing your girl and trust and respect.
	So reputation is very important for men and women, but especially with your girlfriend you're going to marry or take serious, it's going to have to be a clean card.
	The whole fact has to be clean.
	So you know when we buy a car, right?
	You get the car facts.
	You need the whole facts for your girl.
	Because if you don't have that intact or have an understanding of what that may be, You end up buying a faulty car with multiple issues, and like a McLaren, it's sexy, it's hot, it's a nice car, it's fast, but it got hella issues.
	You don't want to get a car with issues, because I'll tell you this, bro, you can spend more time fixing issues than driving a car.
	Am I calling women cars?
	No.
	But what I'm saying is, they're very similar.
	Now, granted though, it costs reputation, right?
	How do you find the whole facts on a girl?
	This is going to work for you abroad and as well in America.
	Number one, you want to have A line of defense.
	What is that?
	You need to know your environment.
	For example, you may want to meet some bartenders that work at a certain bar in your area.
	You might want to meet some people that are good friends with you that go out often or work either in her workplace or her church or even in your surrounding area.
	Know people in your community, right?
	It's very important because they might tell you a secret that you may not know about the girl or even have info that you may not know at all.
	So have spies in your local area.
	Just follow me here.
	Number one.
	Number two, you want to have as well Her actual social media.
	Because people will either hide from your social media sometimes or give you a false one to hide who they really are.
	But you know what you can't hide?
	Tag photos.
	You can't hide friends' pages, right?
	So, what I'm saying is that, like, have her Instagram, have her social media, and see how she operates.
	Because I'll tell you this, guys.
	There's signs everywhere.
	And yes, we ignore so many signs because we're guys.
	She's hot.
	Understandable.
	But the vast majority of signs are going to be online online.
	Or on our phone, right?
	So keep that in mind.
	But I don't recommend going through our phone because it's kind of weird.
	That's kind of like a weird thing to do.
	Number three, though.
	Whatever language you know, she may know other languages.
	I'll give you an apple.
	Back in Colombia, when I used to go with my friends, girls would always talk in Spanish because obviously they're from Colombia.
	But one of our boys knew Spanish.
	So whenever they would talk, it's like, oh, yeah, well, this and that boy, this guy.
	We're there in the same room.
	But they're talking shit about some of these guys, right?
	Or saying, oh, we're going to charge him, whatever.
	Whatever that may be.
	Having someone that speaks language is big because now they talk shit.
	They don't know he knows the language.
	They can tell you off rip, yo, bro, she's saying this and this and this about you.
	The point is that, like, with reputation, you need to understand all factors that come into play.
	Language, who she's around, what she's about, and as well her history.
	And sometimes you don't get that up front because obviously you don't know her that well.
	But being her family, your friends, it tells you a lot about her indirectly.
	Here's the last part about this puzzle, right?
	So with the whole facts, it's a clean sheet, clean memo for the most part.
	But what happens when she meets a guy from your school?
	A guy that goes to your soccer team.
	A guy that's your friend back in the day.
	You should know these things because if you don't know these things, guys, I'm telling you right now, Imagine you show up to a room with your friends and everyone in here smashed your girl.
	How would you feel?
	Would you be happy about that?
	No, you wouldn't be.
	What the fuck?
	Jimmy too?
	He's a retard!
	He's a little bit slow, you know?
	So, the point is that, like, you have to have a, I want to say, roundabout way to figure out where she's been at, who she's been around, because the worst thing you can do is marry a girl that we all had.
	I'll tell you this, bro.
	In Miami, that's a common thing.
	Hey, bro.
	I don't call names, but, like, future had her one day, then, This person had it one day.
	Tory Lanez had it one day.
	Listen, bro.
	You don't want to be that guy with that girl.
	I'm telling you right now.
	So, what's important, guys, is her reputation.
	But more important is the whole facts.
	I gave you four things you can do to find ways about who she really is.
	But again, there's more ways you can do, which we'll cover on the Zoom call.
	But again, whole facts is very important.
	And listen, it takes time.
	This happens in one day, a week, or two weeks, maybe.
	It may take a month or two.
	Once you get it, don't buy the car.
	Yeah, I mean, I'll be brief with this one.
	When it comes to reputation, guys, whatever her reputation is, you're going to absorb that once you take her on, right?
	Because girls are chasing a man's last name in a serious relationship.
	So whatever she brings to the table from her past is going to absolutely affect your future.
	And knowing this as a man, that your reputation is on the line, you need to be very strategic and smart with how you move when it comes to women.
	Because as a guy...
	Your legacy can absolutely be tarnished if you put the wrong girl by you, right?
	I always use Will Smith as an example, but it's a good one because Will Smith, one of the best actors of our generation, Bunch of great movies, whether it's Men in Black, Seven Pounds, I Am Legend, iRobot, Ali, etc.
	Fresh Prince of Bel-Air.
	Legendary.
	People aren't going to remember that portfolio of films and acting.
	They're going to remember the fucking table talk with him and Jada Pinkett Smith.
	Where she said, oh, we got into an entanglement.
	Right?
	And then him slapping Chris Rock.
	And crying.
	And crying.
	That's what people remember.
	They don't remember all the legendary movies that he was in.
	Fortunately for me, I'm a bit older, so I remember when Smith was in his heyday doing a lot of these movies and the Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, etc.
	But like, the newer generation, and then even some people from my generation, they're not going to remember that.
	They just remember him being with a 304 and slapping Chris Rock at an award show.
	Because of 304.
	So, I say all that to say this.
	Your reputation and your legacy can be tarnished by just a few bad decisions by your girl.
	So, the more status you have, the more money you have, the more you have to lose, the more picky you need to be with which girl you bring next to you.
	Alright guys?
	Because you can absolutely have your legacy tarnished on some fuck shit.
	Not worth it.
	Yes.
	So this is an example of going through the fire for you guys.
	Learn from my mistakes.
	So, You know your boy, some whole facts on that Chinese escort.
	We got the facts.
	But, you can learn this for yourself as well.
	Because online, there's always what?
	There's a footprint you can follow.
	So, guys, if you're worried about a chick, if she does OnlyFans, does any type of porn online, you can find her by going to PimEyes.com.
	If you don't know what this is, it's a website that tells you in detail about a girl's past history.
	And all you need is a photo.
	A screen photo, a photo from Snapchat, whatever you need, you just get the photo, put it in PimEyes, and it tells you their footprint of digital work, either on camera or behind the scenes.
	And you'd be surprised, guys.
	You can find a lot about a girl.
	Type in her picture on the website.
	It's called P-M-I dot coms.
	P-I-M-E-Y-E-S dot com.
	I'm telling you guys, this is magic because nowadays, oh yeah, I don't do OnlyFans or I don't do none of this.
	Bro.
	You never know, bro.
	And here's the best part.
	Sometimes they exchange currency for the box.
	It tells you everything in that website.
	So guys, pimeyes.com.
	Check it out.
	Secret sauce.
	You heard it here first.
	Yeah, and you guys need to be more cognizant about this, by the way, today now more than ever, because what the Internet and this globalized world has done is it's effectively allowed women because what the Internet and this globalized world has done is it's effectively allowed women to utilize the Internet What do I mean by this?
	Girls are not able to earn a pretty decent living from marketing their sexuality on a grand scale.
	Whether it's through OnlyFans, webcam sites, Sugar babying, being on these sites, right?
	Women are able to almost sell themselves to a degree.
	And depending on the girl, some girls do it surreptitiously, right?
	Where they do it on the side and you don't know, they don't really put it out like that.
	And then some girls do it more overtly.
	The point is that whether they're doing it overtly or surreptitiously, you need to find out and make sure.
	Because if she's done any of this, automatically disqualified from a relationship with you guys.
	Because that stuff can always rear its ugly head.
	It used to be a girl could be a stripper, and you would never know.
	Because she did it in some random town years ago.
	She comes in, sells you purity, you don't know.
	But nowadays, with the ease of the internet and the ability to scale and globalize their sexuality...
	A lot of girls do this stuff on the side, and you might not know about it.
	Guys, it's funny.
	This is crazy, but ask a girl.
	I'm just curious.
	You ever sold your body for some change, some dollars?
	They're going to say to you, of course, no, I would never do that.
	But guys, I'm telling you, that website, penmice.com, you can see Claire's Day, the website that they use, and as well, the pictures.
	I'm telling you guys, it's simple, but accurate.
	And as well, guys, Most girls will never admit to you what they do.
	Because obviously it's bad.
	Purity is number one to sell because obviously if they're pure, we'll take them on seriously.
	But again, you need to know the whole facts.
	If you don't know the whole facts, bro.
	And the more attractive she is, the higher the likelihood that she's participated in it, by the way, guys.
	Also, to me, guys, I like an honest hoe.
	If I know what you do, you're honest about it, cool.
	We can rock, have some fun, but that's it.
	When you lie to me, I'll find out.
	I'll cut you off.
	Alright, next one is...
	Number four!
	Yeah.
	On the list.
	Number four.
	It's going to be Tess.
	Hey guys, Zoom call right after this.
	Yes.
	Literally going to turn it on over to a Zoom call.
	We'll probably stay on the same stream.
	So, join Castle Club right now, guys.
	CastleClub.tv.
	Alright.
	Number four is going to be Tess.
	So, again, we mentioned before things you can do to kind of test the girl that you're with in the vetting process over a year, six months to a year.
	However, when it comes to testing, right guys?
	It can't be an obvious test.
	Like, you don't want to say, okay, I want to test you.
	Here we go.
	You want to be as discreet as possible and natural as possible.
	Natural tests go the better way.
	And I'll say this right now.
	If you can test a girl correctly over a period of time, you're going to see who she really is.
	We mentioned one earlier of having a friend that's a girl go over here alone, get to know her a little bit better.
	See where her head is at.
	That's one way you can do a test for your girl.
	Also, there's another test you can do.
	I wrote it down here.
	It's going to be pretty simple as well.
	So, something called question and answer behavior is what you call this technique.
	It's where you ask a question to a girl, right, that you want her general response to.
	So, you can ask her, for example, hey, I'm just curious, do you prefer to go out and party or do you prefer to stay home and, you know, watch movies or stuff like that?
	She may tell you, oh yeah, I like to stay home and watch movies and that's what I like to do.
	I don't like going out at all.
	So she says one thing, I don't like to go out at all and watch movies.
	Cool.
	She said this to you, Claire's day, not drunk, sober as hell, right?
	Awesome.
	You got the answer.
	Now, behavior is the second part.
	So, let's say you're with this girl for 2-3 months, but it just so happens every week, at least 4 times a week, she's out at the club.
	So wait, she told you she doesn't go out at all, and she just stays home and watches movies.
	Cool!
	But her behavior says otherwise.
	So see how it doesn't line up?
	How she's telling you one thing, but it's opposite?
	You can do this in multiple instances for multiple reactions.
	And listen, guys, it's simple.
	If you have a question, you're not being mischievous.
	You're just saying, hey, listen, I'm just curious about this.
	What's your stance on this?
	Oh, I would never go outside like that.
	Lo and behold, they're outside.
	So it has to match up with the answer and the behavior to make sense.
	That doesn't happen to you guys, bro.
	What's she really doing to you?
	She's lying to you.
	All for it.
	Now, Selling purity is number one.
	That's her main goal to you, of course.
	But, as question, multi-behavior, you can see in real time who she really is.
	But yeah, Tess.
	Are there any chats or...
	Can I read some of these chats and I'll go into...
	Think about this.
	This thing.
	Our boy said, fresh looking like Bodie Warrior, Felice Johnson, right?
	We heard you, bruh!
	Think about this.
	All right.
	Are Nova says, why fresh dress like Black Popeyes?
	Nah, bro.
	Name Blackback.
	Blackest Panther says, I hear this rebuttal against men being sole providers and women staying home.
	Statistically, stay-at-home wives have a high rate of divorce.
	What they fail to state is that these men failed to leave their households and left her in charge of major decisions.
	What you said is important.
	She needs to be kept occupied, give her things to do, keep her busy, even if it's mundane shit.
	If she's not working for you, she's working for another man, even if she's sitting in her ass at home.
	Exactly.
	She has to be doing something.
	Yep.
	Stanley says, question from Iron and Fresh, if my fiancé is an aspiring, I think he means aspiring, singer, but she keeps spending way too much time with her producer than with me, and I barely can't find time with her because she's always spending time with her producer.
	Even now, see what time is that a red flag?
	Yeah, big red flag, nigga.
	Hold on, Bills.
	Please tell them, because, see, they might not know the culture of producers and the music industry.
	Tell them, Bills, what this actually means.
	First of all, am I muted?
	Please don't mute yourself, Bills.
	Can you guys hear me?
	Yes, because Bill understands the culture here.
	Alright, hold on.
	I'm good?
	Alright, cool.
	Thank you, man.
	Don't do it, bro.
	She for the streets.
	Unless you making beats, bro, or...
	Because usually guys in this scenario here, her main motive is to do what?
	Be successful by any means possible.
	Her producer is her golden ticket to success.
	So you are a back-end response to this equation.
	If it doesn't work out, I got my boyfriend, I'll take care of me.
	Wink, wink.
	But her main goal is to be what?
	Successful in the industry.
	So I tell y'all don't get with entertainers, man.
	Bro, I'm telling y'all, man.
	Yo, don't take girls serious that want to be entertainers, bro.
	Like...
	Don't do it.
	It's like, do these niggas be listening, bro?
	Bro, she want to be an influencer, she want to dance, or any of this shit?
	Bro, no, man.
	Fuck no.
	Kick streamer?
	Any of this shit, bro?
	Nah, bro.
	It's an elf.
	Because what you guys don't understand is that when a girl wants to be an entertainer, right?
	She wants to get into these professions.
	What the fuck?
	Niggas too ashy, bro.
	This is terrible, nigga.
	I was trying to be ashy, but this nigga is too ashy.
	God damn, nigga.
	Holy smokes.
	Anyway.
	Yeah, bro.
	The problem is that when our girl wants to be an entertainer, guys, she has to put herself in certain situations where men have access to her that you don't necessarily, you can't Alright?
	So, it's not about controlling your girl, it's about being in control of what the fuck is going on.
	And you're not able to How do I say this?
	Control certain environments, right?
	And then on top of that, she's got to be in environments that typically aren't conducive to a good long-term relationship, right?
	It's the same reason why you don't want a girl to be a stripper.
	Why?
	Because she's naked all the time in front of random strange men.
	Same shit, being an entertainer.
	And on her off days, she's working.
	On her off days, she's working.
	Yeah, bro.
	Yo.
	Fuck that, man.
	That's a huge red flag, bro.
	Fuck that.
	Okay.
	Last one on the list is going to be the very simple one.
	Does she follow your lead?
	Take this one away?
	No, you go first.
	All right.
	Guys.
	As you know, man, I am a prolific ho-whisperer.
	A.K.A. I like Honest O's.
	Honest O's.
	So, when it comes to actually following your lead man, it's not really my...
	I want to say strong point because I don't really care.
	But if you want to have a girlfriend long-term, then you should care because, again, she's following your lead all the way.
	Now, granted, though, they do follow my lead, but it's more like a secondary talk for me.
	I deserve your experience.
	But for you, though, if you want a girlfriend for a long period of time, she needs to follow your lead.
	And it's simple.
	You give her tasks to do, and she shouldn't ask you, but why?
	Or like, wait, why do I have to do this?
	It's like, no.
	Babe, can you get me some coffee?
	She shouldn't say, not right now, later.
	Or she shouldn't say, wait, what?
	This should be a common theme where she respects you, she likes you.
	Sure, babe, I got you.
	Please do the coffee.
	Now, if she asks after an action request, like, why are you making me do this?
	That can happen sometimes, but generally speaking, she should just do it right away.
	But how do you garner this respect for a woman off-rip?
	How do you gain the respect of a woman to want to help you and lead you, sorry, help your leadership or help you with tasks off-rip?
	Well, you gotta be that guy.
	You have your money on point, your frame on point, mindset on point, and as well, be someone that she wants to follow.
	Because if you're not, she'll look at you and laugh and say, nigga, no.
	Like, why am I gonna help you?
	So again, You have to become that guy, which we say on the show all the time.
	Money, fitness, frame, mindset, health as well.
	And if you're that guy and you have leadership roles in play, she will follow your lead.
	Now granted though, if you're not there yet, it is fine.
	You can still work on yourself to become better.
	But at the very beginning, at the very beginning of your journey, of course you're not going to be there.
	But over time, once you work on yourself, like you said before, fitness, mindset, money, and status, you'll be fine.
	But again, why don't you follow your lead?
	Look in the mirror.
	Is she going to follow you?
	If not, rethink and regroup.
	Good.
	So this is the most important one, but interestingly enough, this one actually puts the most accountability on you because, look guys, cooperation from a woman is required.
	It's literally like oxygen to live, right?
	Like, in a relationship, you're not going to live without oxygen.
	In a relationship, you're not going to last without cooperation, right?
	Right?
	Can you, you know, go underwater and sit there and hold your breath for a bit?
	Yeah.
	Maybe a minute, two minutes if you're really good, right?
	But at some point, you got to come back up for air.
	And that's what ends up happening if you're in a relationship with a girl that doesn't follow your lead.
	Like, you can go ahead and tolerate being with a girl like that, but the relationship is never going to last long.
	So, the goal here is to be in a position where she's always following your lead.
	But, see, women are kind of like Pokemon, right?
	I've given you guys the example of Pokemon badges.
	If you don't have enough Pokemon badges and you tell a Pokemon, hey, do X, Y, Z, the Pokemon's gonna look at you and not do it.
	Women operate the same way.
	If she doesn't see you as a superior, as the leader, she's not gonna listen to you.
	If she doesn't listen to you, well, you're in for a very dysfunctional, frustrating, and painful relationship, my friend.
	There's a reason why...
	You look at whether it's the Torah, the Bible, the Quran, almost every single religion tells you that women are supposed to follow men, right?
	And they even tell you you're better off sleeping on the roof than sharing a home with a quarrelsome woman.
	Like, where do you think a quarrelsome woman comes from?
	She comes from you not being able to lead.
	She also comes from her questioning you about your fucking co-workers, like this guy Wallace is making the mistake of realizing, right?
	If the girl doesn't cooperate, guys, the relationship is over.
	That's the thing.
	But, at the same time, you need to understand that the work for her to be cooperative is done without her there.
	When you meet your girl, right, and she ends up being soft and sweet and great to you and everything else like that, understand that she's behaving that way a lot of the times.
	Some of it is natural because she might come from a good family.
	She understands that she needs to be a lady and you need to be a man, etc.
	But you've already done the work where she's behaving that way, okay?
	So if you don't do the work up front, you're going to pay for it later on.
	This is why it's imperative, guys, to be in a situation where...
	You need to be the provider.
	You need to be the protector.
	You need to be the more interesting, intelligent individual.
	You need to be self-improving and everything.
	The reason why we do the podcast the way we do, guys, is you guys notice we've expanded into other things.
	We've expanded into making money.
	We've expanded into dating and mindset.
	We've expanded into geopolitics.
	We've expanded into history.
	We've expanded into a bunch of different things.
	Why?
	Because we want you guys to be well-rounded individuals.
	We want you to be...
	Highly competent, inquisitive, have a thirst for knowledge, and become a better man overall.
	Fitness, all this stuff.
	Because you need to be the complete package in 2024.
	You can't be a regular dude anymore.
	I'm sorry, guys.
	Being a regular guy is not going to work.
	It's not going to work.
	It's not 1954, it's 2024.
	Right?
	Used to be you could be a regular ass dude, don't go to the gym, work a union factory job, you know, Eight, ten hours a day.
	Live on one paycheck.
	Have a white house with a picket fence.
	And have a family.
	But those days are done, bro.
	Those days are fucking done.
	You need to be...
	Head and shoulders above your girl in every regard for her to take you seriously and cooperate, right?
	Because the bottom line is to get cooperation, but you can't get cooperation in a modern-day first world by just being an average guy anymore.
	Sorry.
	This is not gonna happen.
	So half the work needs to be done before you even fucking meet her.
	A lot of you guys are fat.
	You look like shit.
	Your vocabulary is a hundred words.
	You don't know anything about history.
	You've never traveled.
	You don't have a passport.
	You can barely speak the English fucking language properly.
	Use slang when you convey your ideas.
	You have no education.
	You work a shitty fucking minimum wage job.
	And then you wonder why women don't take you seriously.
	Why they don't respect you.
	Why it's so hard for you to have dates.
	Well, quite frankly, you're not in a position.
	You're not in a fucking position.
	And I'll take it a step further.
	I don't even think you guys should be bothering trying to find a girl unless you can support a family.
	Facts.
	Because if you don't even have the capability of taking care of a family, then why the fuck is she going to want to be with you?
	Guys, I'm a firm believer that as a man, if you get into a serious relationship with a girl, like, she's going to be fucking working.
	Or she does, like, maybe some job on the side or whatever.
	But you need to have the capability, at least, of being the provider.
	Right?
	You guys think I'm going to sit here and tell you guys that you're a dictator and you're the boss and it's your way or the highway without necessarily giving you guys some fucking responsibility?
	Mike, you guys want to go ahead and, you know, be a dictator and tell her what it is and be a boss.
	But she makes more witty than you.
	She's stronger than you.
	She's more assertive than you.
	She's more educated than you.
	She's smarter than you.
	So in that regard, you don't deserve to be in a fucking relationship.
	It's earned, not given.
	So don't even bother trying to get a chick if you're a fucking brokie.
	Some of y'all niggas have a step foot in the gym in a year.
	But then you complain that you don't get laid.
	Some of you guys make no fucking money.
	Live with your parents.
	And they wonder, oh, why bitches don't want me?
	You're a fucking loser.
	Rightfully so.
	You don't deserve a bitch.
	It's earned.
	You can't sit there and say, oh, I need a submissive woman, when you're a fucking bum.
	You submit to your parents, nigga.
	The fuck you talking about?
	Incredible.
	We need to have a little bit of accountability on the male side, too.
	So guys, because a lot of you guys watching right now, I'll be honest with y'all, are fat fucking losers.
	And you wonder why girls don't want to be around y'all.
	You guys don't deserve to fucking have a chick.
	Because when you get in the relationship, everything falls on you.
	Can you handle the weight?
	Can you handle taking care of a female and kids potentially?
	If the answer is no, then you shouldn't even be in the dating marketplace.
	You got other shit you got to focus on.
	Yeah.
	A lot of girls will see you, and if you can't even take care of yourself or even them, they want to give you a chance.
	They're like, bye.
	Yeah, you're gonna...
	Or let's say they do give you a chance.
	They're gonna respect you.
	Yeah, at all.
	I'd rather be single than be with a rambunctious fucking girl that's always questioning me and hassling me.
	Yeah.
	Some of you guys are so fucking thirsty for pussy that you guys will sit there and be with a chick that don't even like you like that.
	She's disrespecting you, calling you out your name at Target, saying you're a bitch-ass nigga, you're a prokey, slapping you and shit.
	And a lot of you motherfuckers will sit there and take it because you're so fucking thirsty for sex that you will sit there and be with an uncooperative, disrespectful, rambunctious woman that doesn't take you fucking seriously.
	You guys will sit there and tolerate that shit because you guys are so fucking thirsty for sex.
	You're better off being a fucking incel and building yourself up Than being with a girl that doesn't fucking respect you guys.
	I'm telling y'all, bro.
	There's nothing worse than being in a relationship with a fucking quarrelsome female that doesn't fucking respect your authority.
	It's torture.
	Hell on earth.
	It's torture, bro.
	It's literally fucking the worst.
	Alright?
	Guys, a lot of y'all don't qualify for a woman.
	A lot of you guys deservedly so are fucking incels.
	Because you're fucking losers.
	And that's a very tough talk that like...
	Because the other thing too is like...
	A lot of you guys right now are watching the show.
	We've got like what?
	4,000?
	5,000 y'all ninjas in here?
	Right?
	A lot of y'all ninjas...
	Look in the mirror and you don't even like what you see.
	You're ashamed of it.
	So...
	If you can't even look yourself in the mirror...
	And be happy...
	How the fuck...
	Can a woman look at you every day and be happy?
	A lot of you guys can't even look yourself in the fucking mirror and be happy at what's looking back at you.
	How the fuck do you think a woman is gonna be looking at your dumb ass every day if you're not even happy with it?
	And that's why some of you guys are in miserable, terrible relationships.
	You did it to yourself.
	You did it to yourself.
	Bro, guys, when it comes to dealing with cooperative women, half the fight is done before you even meet her.
	One more time.
	When it comes to being with a cooperative submissive woman, half the fight is complete before you even fucking meet her.
	Whether it's known to you or not.
	The smart guys know this up front.
	The idiots, you guys don't realize until you're in a relationship with her for a year, when she starts disrespecting you, like, damn, maybe I didn't do the work up front.
	This bitch is really tough to deal with.
	God damn, she questioning me and hassling me on everything.
	And now you want to change it.
	And now you want to try to change it.
	Started wrong.
	Too late, bro.
	Started wrong.
	You started off on the wrong foot?
	The whole walk is fucked now.
	Good job, stupid.
	Real talk, man.
	I'll tell you this.
	You guys literally start on the wrong foot and the entire walk is now null and void.
	It's harder to date a girl long-term than just to smash different holes.
	It's way harder.
	Because you need real frame and you need real active work on yourself before you get into that.
	Because remember, at the very beginning, how you start is how you've got to end.
	If you're not that guy from the very beginning...
	It's going to happen eventually.
	Yeah.
	A bunch of guys can keep the facade up for like a week or two or a month or two.
	That's how half the city of Miami runs game.
	Niggas are scammers.
	They're really brokies.
	You know what I mean?
	And they show this cool, extravagant lifestyle up front.
	The girl thinks they're somebody.
	Then they find out later on, oh shit, this dude's a fucking scammer.
	This nigga works at Walmart.
	He's like, yeah.
	So, guys, your job is to be authentic up front.
	So there's no nasty surprises later on.
	And you're able to go ahead and start on the right foot and end on the right foot.
	And half the work is done before you even introduce yourself to the fucking bitch.
	You guys understand that?
	Like, half the work is complete before you even introduce yourself to the girl.
	So you gotta build yourselves up, guys.
	There's no way around it.
	Sorry.
	Self-improvement is a requirement in 2024.
	Yeah.
	It's a requirement.
	The standards are too high.
	So what are you gonna do?
	Are you gonna bitch about it and complain?
	Right?
	About hypergamy and women?
	There's a bunch of YouTube channels that do that.
	We talk about the problems on this channel, but we also want to give you guys a solution.
	The solution is, you must be that fucking dude.
	Also a competition.
	Matter of fact, Rich Cooper shared this earlier today.
	Something like 67 to 70% of men identify single versus only about 30% of women identify single.
	I wonder why.
	I wonder why.
	Tells you a lot.
	They share it.
	About 70% of women identify...
	Right?
	Sorry, excuse me.
	About 70% of men identify single, whereas only about 30% of women identify single.
	I wonder why.
	The math, if you have any common sense, tells you that means, inevitably, that the women are with a small portion of men.
	Ta-da!
	You guys think this shit's a game?
	I'm telling y'all, man.
	The winners are taking everything.
	Feminism is here, and it's unintentionally put the higher-status guys in a position of power.
	So what are you gonna do?
	You gonna bitch about the situation?
	Or you're going to adapt to the situation off the solutions we gave.
	That's why we do this podcast.
	We teach you guys all the different facets of becoming the best version of yourself.
	Which we're going to do also on the Zoom call right now.
	Yes.
	Because it is time.
	Chats real quick.
	What a great segue.
	Freshest dog.
	Fresh looking like a street magician on Bourbon Street.
	Talking about, big man, big man, come here for a second.
	Screw you, bro.
	Yo, big man, big man, come here for a second.
	Big man.
	GJNYC7 says, What's up, FNF? Met his girl and her friend doing an Uber all weekend.
	Her friend asked for my Instagram and found me attractive.
	But I was more into her friend, which I got her Instagram as well.
	I've been questioning on her a whole month since.
	She's my type exactly how I like it.
	I decided to ask her out in DMs.
	She replied disregarding my ask out and asked me if I can be her personal Uber forever.
	Think she doesn't respect me enough because I'm driving?
	She's only 20.
	I'm 25.
	Thoughts on this?
	Is it possible to still get her?
	Bro, she just told you she wants to be her Uber personally forever.
	Dude, like...
	I mean, dude...
	Yo, bro.
	You just answered your own question, bro.
	She just told you what you...
	Hold on, hold on.
	You know what you should do, bro?
	I ain't never been asked that in my life, bro.
	Bro, bro, you know what you should do?
	You should be like, yes, please.
	I'm on my knees.
	I'll be your Uber forever.
	Because obviously, bro, it's obviously she don't want you, nigga.
	She wants to use you for your car to take her around like a taxi.
	Nigga, what are you?
	A taxi driver?
	I mean, you kind of are, but like, the point is like, bro, no, that's an L. She don't want you, nigga.
	Clear as day.
	She said it.
	She said it to you, bro.
	Clear as day.
	Goddamn, bro.
	Get out of there, bro.
	See, we need to do more of these episodes, bro, of dating.
	I'm telling you, bro.
	Yeah, y'all niggas need help, bro.
	Yeah, because...
	Bro, see you right now, bro.
	Uber driver...
	Yeah, bro.
	It's...
	Yeah.
	How you meet her, especially, could determine how it ends.
	So, that's not a good look, per se.
	It could still work, though, but generally speaking, it's not going to be a good look from the very beginning.
	So...
	It talks to you, bro.
	Period.
	Interview her mom.
	Look into her mom's history.
	Nine out of ten, she's going to end up like her attitude and all.
	If her father's around interviewing him, if he's a wimp, you are too.
	That's not a bad idea.
	Not a bad idea at all.
	Hunt says, my friend's girl won't ever come out to say hello to me, and my other friend, when we go to his house, what does this mean?
	She lives at his house.
	He might tell her that.
	He might tell her, don't leave that, don't fucking go say hi to my friend's.
	Might be telling her that shit, bro.
	Yo, what the fuck?
	Okay.
	Nick.
	Nick says, my girl has location on, texts me all the time, listens to me, only red flag.
	She hit me multiple times after argument.
	Oh, no.
	Made her talk to her parents after, and she apologized.
	Had her on scene for three days.
	Do I leave?
	She hit you, bro?
	Yeah.
	Yo, what the fuck?
	What?
	Yo, yo, yo, okay.
	There's a perfect example of him seeing low-colored glasses like he thinks like, oh yeah, it's okay because of X, Y, Z. I can save her.
	I can save her.
	Bro, look, you're just one fucking...
	Like, one vodka shot away from getting it popped in your fucking face again, bro.
	See, I had a friend that was similar to this.
	She was a good girl on paper, but she would hit him.
	Eventually, though, he kept with her.
	Actually, you know who I'm talking about.
	I'll show you after the show.
	And what happened was, is she got really mad one day.
	She said, fuck you, nigga.
	I'm calling the police.
	She calls the police.
	Now, obviously speaking, once you call somebody for DV, someone has to be arrested.
	But again, this started months prior.
	She's hitting you.
	You let it happen.
	You play around or whatever.
	You laugh it off.
	She's hitting you.
	You get really mad.
	She says, okay, this isn't working?
	Bet.
	I'm asking this even higher.
	Call the police.
	Bro, it starts small, bro.
	You give them an inch, it takes a fucking mile, bro.
	If girls say to you, bro, it's a dub.
	Because at that point, respect is gone, and next time it's calling the police, or even doing worse, you even stabbing you.
	You never know, bro.
	You never know.
	Yeah, bro.
	This is kind of like, this is a non-negotiable, bro.
	Chicks are handing you, bro.
	It's a wrap.
	Yeah.
	It's a wrap.
	So, I don't think you should be associating with her no more.
	They're making fun of Fresh's lotion thing?
	Yeah.
	When your pimp and strong, but your main bitch is main bitch, so you're going easy on her.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Oh shit.
	Awesome.
	I'm focused over there.
	Rule 12909, even if you get a lesser woman, lawyers can still take you for all your worth.
	Even the EBT girls are overly entitled.
	Damn.
	That's Poach.
	Question from Iron or Fresh, what's the best nightclubs, venues for Halloween party that has a favorable women to men ratio where you don't have to deal with too many competition from other men because I hate going to nightclubs.
	That's the sauce for us because damn, I get the biggest run on sentence ever.
	In Miami, I guess that's what he means, right?
	In Miami?
	I'm assuming, but he didn't specify.
	Maybe.
	So, I'm going to give you some right now that should pop in in real time.
	We have Van Dome.
	It's going to be popping on Thursday for Halloween.
	The guest artist is Young Miami.
	Go figure.
	Yeah, and then it's also going to be Eleven.
	It's going to be popping.
	You don't like Eleven.
	There's also going to be Go Rush.
	But the main party you want to be at, though...
	Is, uh...
	Gonna be...
	An after party at a house.
	Those are the best parties for Halloween.
	The ones at the mansions in Star Island, Hibiscus Island, those are the best parties for Halloween.
	Because it's hella women, really any men.
	But you gotta be invited to those parties, so it's kind of a...
	If you know, you don't.
	Pretty much, bro.
	Yeah.
	But I'll tell you this, though.
	They dress all as whores, bro.
	They always do.
	Just like a whore.
	They always do.
	I kid you not, bro.
	It's crazy.
	Literally, it's Halloween, man.
	Halloween.
	Halloween.
	Ah.
	Okay, what else do we got?
	That's it.
	All right, guys.
	So we're going to go on to a Zoom call.
	Calsiclub.tv, guys.
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	Somehow you need some goddamn help.
	Tell us your personal stories, guys.
	We got you.
	Yeah.
	So we are going to go ahead, guys.
	Come on over.
	Calsiclub.tv.
	We're going to end the YouTube and Rumble stream.
	We got you, guys.
	And X, hope you guys enjoyed today's episode of...
	We're going to keep the...
	I'll tell you this, guys.
	Yeah, we're going to keep...
	How are we going to do it?
	You want to keep the Castle Club?
	That's what you want?
	Just Castle Club, right?
	You mean the...
	Yeah, yeah, we're just going to switch Castle Club.
	Yeah, yeah.
	So, yeah, we'll keep rolling, right?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	So, guys, if you're watching on YouTube, I love you guys.
	We're going to end the stream here.
	We'll be back with some lovely ladies and some costumes.
	Yeah.
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	All that stuff is on Catholic Club TV. Stuff that I can't do on YouTube for obvious reasons.
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	And tomorrow we'll do a networking call on success, how to get there, how to network people higher than you.
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	All right.
	And some cool stories behind the scenes that you can't see online.
	Facts.
	By far, we give the most value on fucking internet, man.
	How to really vet, because this is surface level.
	Yeah.
	Some more lotion.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, give him a piece.
	Okay, guys.
	Later.
	I ran so far away.
	I just ran.

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