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Sept. 12, 2024 - Fresh & Fit
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The TRUTH About How Much Looks Matter to Women
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Welcome to the first iteration of this podcast between Redbeard Rants and Fresh Prince CEO.
I know who you are, brother.
You should tell them who you are as well.
Yeah, a lot of your audience probably knows who I am.
I go by Casey Redbeard on the internet.
My real name is Casey Brown, and I'm just a very average guy.
By the way, it's very gay to rate men out of 10.
So in the chat, if you want to let us know that you're gay, there's no problem.
We don't hate.
We don't have any issue against the gays.
But if you want us to let you know really quickly that you're gay, start rating me out of 10.
But overall, I'm a pretty average, normal-looking guy who dates absolutely gorgeous, stunning, beautiful women.
I get very scientific and nerdy about this.
I have a YouTube channel.
It's obviously Redbeard Rants.
I think it's tagged in the name of this stream.
And we've been good friends for a while.
I was friends with Fresh and Fit before Fresh and Fit existed.
We gotta tell them the very beginning, brother.
Because this is my old roommate, Casey Redbeard.
And it's funny because I was working at Wix.com, walking my dog, and I'm walking through this avenue called Lincoln Road.
And he's like, bro, that's a cool dog.
I know what you're doing over here.
I'm like, what do you mean what I'm doing?
You're picking up girls, aren't you?
I'm like, uh, maybe indirectly.
But it's funny that you said that because you're on point.
You start talking a little bit.
And he said, yo, whenever you go, let me know.
We'll hang out.
We'll chop it up and then go from there.
We hung out a couple of times, went out.
And he's like, bro, I'm moving to this spot.
You know, I need a roommate.
Like, do you want to become my roommate?
He's like, and I'm like, yo, like, why not?
So I actually was living in the hood about a property back then with my dog, Hero.
And I said, you know what?
I can rent it out.
Moving with Casey.
Make some money.
And as well, we had a cool marketing partner that knows the game as well.
So we linked up.
I became his roommate.
He would see from time to time how I would have my game and vice versa.
And he's all about, you know, American girls.
I like American girls sometimes.
You know, some foreign girls as well, as you guys know.
But Casey's the master when it comes to dating and foreign girls.
And as well, just coaching itself.
So shout out to you, bro.
Thanks, man.
Thanks, man.
Yeah, we'll talk more about strategy throughout this.
I think a good strategy is paramount to getting good at learning anything, whether it's learning to be good and competent with women or whether you want to learn to play the guitar.
And when we were out in Lincoln Road, I had a very amateurish strategy.
It used to work kind of well.
There's nothing wrong with it, which is you go to a spot where there's a lot of girls and you look around for said beautiful girls and you chase them and you try to flirt with them and you try to talk to them out of the blue.
It's called cold approach.
What'd you say?
Cold approach, right?
Yeah, it's called cold approach pickup.
But you actually had a much better strategy.
While I was going around chasing the girls, they were coming to you because you had hero.
And I always said, if I had just...
If I was one-tenth as handsome as Hero, if I got one-tenth the female attention that Hero did, it would be over.
I would just be...
I could never get anything done.
It would just be non-stop.
It's better to attract than chase, if that makes sense.
Speaking of which, we had a debate, actually, me and Myron, our first show, we spoke about Cold Poach versus, obviously, Instagram game.
And on this show, the After Hours, we always talk about where you meet your boyfriend or your husband, right?
And I kid you not, brother, at least out of 10 times, at least 7, it's Instagram or online dating app.
And it's because the world's changing.
The old dinosaur ways of dating are no longer accessible.
And if you think about it from a logical standpoint, Girls are terrified to be an approaching person.
They don't know who you are.
You could be, you know, crazy, weird.
And as well, bro, if you're not coherent, you're not actually speaking well, you're not actually good-looking, they're going to turn you down instantly.
So, the topic of today is, do looks really matter?
The age-old debate.
And Casey, you know very well, looks is a part of things, but not the entire package.
Explain to them about looks and what you think so far about looks.
Yeah, yeah.
Let me just, you know, the thing about, you know, modern dating, it is a lot, you know, social media based.
And for that reason, looks is ever more important than usual.
Now, neither Walter or myself or the guy to tell you, we're not here to say don't cold approach.
If you're out, you know, it builds character.
It's like lifting weights.
For the soul, right?
For the social skills.
It's really good to approach women.
And it's really good to do this thing called luxemaxing.
That's the new term.
So we're not here to tell you, don't cold approach women.
Don't build your confidence.
It's kind of a bad ROI, return on investment for your time.
But whatever, it's still good.
It builds character.
We're not here to tell you, don't go to the gym.
Don't get a skincare routine.
Don't get a hair transplant.
You guys, it's finally coming in.
It's finally, look at that.
Your boy kind of finally got hair.
However, in the whole looks debate thing, I feel like guys go a little bit too far with it.
Some people...
I haven't had a debate on my separate channel and I found out that a lot of people, both the host that I was talking to, like on the debate live and the people from from his community and even some people from my community.
But that attraction worked the same way with men and women, like how men are just, you know, super like everything in terms of like short term sexual attraction is looks based.
People thought it was like that for women as well.
And it's not.
And I will say this and I'll let you, you know, add your two cents on this, Walter.
But I think we're pretty much aligned in this looks are overall extremely important.
However, the way that looks really manifest themselves in terms of being super, super important in terms of dating is you have to achieve what I call not being gross to touch, a.k.a. getting up.
Again, it's really gay to rape men, but getting up to at least a five, maybe six point, which means going to the gym.
You're not chubby.
You're not obese.
You don't have some weird, scruffy beard or, you know, horrible acne or you're not, you know, insanely like, you know what summer teeth are.
That's when summer this way and summer this way.
So you don't have summer teeth or anything weird.
But once you get to like at least a five and a six, it is paramount if you're going to get any realm of attractive girl in America and pretty much globally that you at least achieve somewhat of a normal guy that's no longer gross to touch.
After that, it still behooves you to get better looking and looks matter a lot, but it's diminishing returns.
And we don't think it's quite as important as other guys make it out to be.
It matters more your status, your money, and the overall strategy to implement.
Listen, looks itself is important.
We did a whole podcast about dressing well, hygiene.
And you'd be surprised, Casey.
I don't know about you, but I see guys out here and their breath stinks.
They smell like they've been sweating the whole day.
No type of hygiene or deodorant used at all.
And if they do, they probably wore off hours ago, but they didn't go back home to shower or change up.
As a result, I see, especially here in Miami, we travel...
Guys talk to girls.
Oh, you know what's funny?
By the way, right?
I'll be out with a girl, right?
Maybe eating dinner or having fun, whatever.
I'll see a guy that looks at me, right?
And I'm like, okay, he knows who I am.
And he will literally go cold, post a girl in front of me to press me.
And I'm like, bro, it's okay, brother.
I don't really care, but props to you.
Anyhow, I'm trying to say here that the looks part of it does come into play with hygiene as well, but it's not the main issue.
And if you look at it from the standpoint of dating nights and tens, Nines, eights, nines, and tens, right?
They actually have a point where, like, they date guys that are not like a looking, but they take care of them, maybe financially, lifestyle-wise.
You're like, wait, this guy's ugly.
Why is she with him?
Well, guess what, guys?
Looks is not the main factor.
I will say this, though.
At certain age groups, it does matter.
For example, let's say you're 18 years old in college.
Girls in college don't really care about, like, money and finances because they're in college.
You know, they maybe live in a dorm.
They focus on, you know, school.
And if a guy looks good, they'll go have some fun.
But let's break down, Casey, the age groups and then, as well, the ratings from girls from six to maybe, like, five to seven and then from, like, eight to ten.
How they operate in that sense.
Yeah, and this is why so many of the Black Pillar guys, if you don't know what that term is, Black Pill is basically a term for a community of men that believe looks is basically the only factor.
They may acknowledge that status and money comes into it somewhat.
And height, for the extent of this argument, we're going to kind of group looks in with height a little bit.
It's just kind of easier.
They're all separate things.
Your overall looks is part of your height.
So what the typical black pill or incel guy, you know, they haven't even, you know, achieved even this level of five.
So they're just completely like they're getting rejected because of their looks because they can't even just do basic things like basic hygiene and not be morbidly obese.
Right.
And then the second thing is they could be noticing women from that certain age group that you just pointed out, Walter.
That was a great point.
From the typical incels perspective, he's like, looks, looks is the only thing that matters.
And, you know, yeah, sure.
Some drunken sorority party with this girl is two beers away from collapsing on herself.
She's 18, 19, living off of family money.
She'll be able to a private university like USC or something.
Family's got money.
And she just wants the hottest, tallest guy in that environment.
And like we said, you know, neither Walter or myself are here.
Don't get us wrong.
Looks matter a lot.
But we're just saying, for the most part, you got to get up to the point where, you know, you're not gross to touch.
And just to stick on this topic, you know, we were talking before, certainly when a girl gets to about, you know, 22, 23, especially for the vast majority of women that don't have a trust fund, they're no longer living off their parents's At the end of the day, bro, a chiseled jawline doesn't pay the rent.
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
You what?
Say it again, Casey?
At the end of the day, a chiseled jawline and a defined six-pack don't pay the bills.
I'm telling you, bro.
And when was the last time you saw a beautiful woman in Miami who was dating a broke guy in a long-term committed relationship with a broke guy?
Not even Miami.
Let's just say globally.
Even where I live in Brazil, when was the last time I saw a very beautiful, call it 88.5 and above, and a long-term relationship with a guy who is not doing well financially that can't take care of her?
Let me think.
That was zero times.
It's so funny because people will see a girl, maybe like a 6 or 7, with a guy that's pretty much good looking but not doing well for himself.
He may have some ambition.
Hopefully he's working on that to become better.
But let's say that it doesn't tank out the whole way.
He doesn't actually get to that point of success.
Guess what's going to happen in that relationship?
It's going to last a little bit, but once the bills come into play, life hits her hard, like, oh wait, we can't go on vacation?
Oh wait, I'm on TikTok.
I can't go over here for dinner?
Wait, my friends are going there.
Why can't we go there?
Oh babe, you know, I'm working on some stuff.
Bro, that works for Only so long.
I'm telling you right now, the beginning of a growth cycle of 18 to like 20, 22, okay, you could wing it a little bit there because she's still not open to the real world yet and she hasn't been sold the bill of goods of, you know what, looks are good for now.
But when life hits you, literally where you have to pay bills, you gotta pay for your car, your rent, your insurance, she's gonna say to herself, damn, I'm working my ass off just to live.
But this guy in wood ain't doing shit for me.
Why'd I want him?
And this is the problem nowadays, right?
Girls are independent as hell.
So the question is, why do they need you?
For some dick?
For a good time?
Or can you actually match their income or even surpass that to give them the lifestyle that they actually want?
Because girls like lifestyle, man.
And regardless of what you say, listen, I'm not a Tyrone.
Casey's not a Chad.
By any means possible, we're not.
But we've realized in the dating market, it It's a game being played here.
The game is being played a certain way, so we're going to adapt to it to make it work for us.
And same thing with you guys here.
You're not a Drake, you're not a freaking celebrity, but you can maximize your benefits of looks to a certain point and then focus on what really matters.
That's what I would say.
Yeah, and going back to, you said a lot of good things.
There was something I wanted to say, but I forgot.
But yeah, going back to these different demographics of women where looks matter a lot, going back to, again, the typical guy who's putting way, way over importance on this whole looks thing, they are also seeing a lot of mid-women.
That get very, like, they swoon and they go, ooh!
They get, like, weak in the knees and they almost get, like, aggressive.
You very rarely see women being, like, sexually aggressive.
You see this in Las Vegas.
I never went to one of these, but my buddy was an actual dancer in the Chippendale show, in the Las Vegas show.
For you guys who don't know that, that's a male striptease show.
I was a roommate with a guy who was a certified Giga Chad.
He was, you know...
Six foot four this way and he's like six foot five this way.
He was built like a brick and, you know, he would show me videos and stuff and you would see girls actually getting like sexually aggressive there at these shows.
But it was a lot of moms, the fives and sixes and look, you know, will an 8.5 or a nine get like sexually aggressive, you know, sometimes, but...
Side caveat too, at least with myself and I believe Fresh too, whenever we talk about female psychology or what women respond to or how to attract a woman or what's a good way to get a girl's attention and stand out and keep her, we're talking about bad bitches.
Mid-chicks don't interest us.
I don't have any interest.
I would never buy the dating course.
How to pick up the mid-girls.
So any of my advice or Fresh's advice and...
Ever since said 7.58, 8.5 and above woman turned 14, 15, 16, 17, she's felt pecs.
She's seen a chiseled set of abs.
It's no longer that much of a novelty to her.
And then what some guys do is they get hung up on the few GigaChads that are so good looking that almost everything becomes irrelevant.
So us, what we were saying about, you know, the pecs and the jawline doesn't pay the rent.
Okay.
If you are actually looking like you're the doppelganger of Brad Pitt in his prime, okay, maybe.
If you're that, you know, one out of...
10 million guys.
I don't know.
Who was the light-skinned black guy with the blue eyes that had the mugshot that went famous?
The criminal that's now out of jail?
Jeremy something was his name.
Yeah, Rihanna even hired him as a backup dancer.
If you're that guy...
Okay, yeah.
Maybe a baddie will put up with you, and she'll be one of those girls that then makes a nasty TikTok about you, like, I'm with this guy, and he's a broke-ass loser, this and that.
This guy, right?
Yeah.
That's not the best photo of him, though.
We gotta find the original one.
Yeah, everyone's seen.
If you click images up top, you'll probably get it.
This one.
Yeah, that was the original one that went viral.
Jeremy Meeks, nobody here.
Yeah, so if you're Jeremy Meeks or Brad Pitt in his prime, And then the other reason why I think these guys misinterpret the overemphasis on looks is getting a lot of matches on dating apps with girls that half of them will flake on them, half of them are bots, a lot of them don't look like how they really look in real life, and a lot of them won't be able to retain them because, again, I have never met a 7.5 or an 8 in any modern times.
Maybe, I'm an old man, I'm 36, maybe 10 years ago, maybe 15 years ago, but in modern times...
What?
You what?
36-year-old.
Yeah, I'm old.
Dude, I'm Casey Redbeard.
I'm Casey Whitebeard now.
It's coming in.
But yeah.
And do you want to say that?
I have something else we were talking about, too, that kind of a point system for attraction.
Let's go.
How would the guys that are struggling right now to understand their Lux Max and how to actually become a part of the culture of getting laid?
Because a lot of guys are not getting laid nowadays, they're virgins, and they're like, wait, why not me?
And they don't know how to properly adjust to the marketplace or even play the game correctly.
So how would somebody start from your point of view, Casey?
Because I know what I need to do as well, but how would they start to understand what to do at that point?
Oh gosh, yeah.
Where to even begin?
So I have a community that's closed right now.
You can't even buy it.
It's called Modern Dating Mastery.
But the things that we teach there is just how much modern dating has changed.
And this is the problem, right?
So when it comes to being confident around women, first of all, that's getting harder and harder to do for many reasons.
Feminism making women more masculine.
Feminism making women have higher standards.
Social media is making women...
I think a lot of guys will eventually, just through being around women, develop some type of natural confidence on how to relate to women.
It's kind of like rabbits in a cage.
If you put a male rabbit and a female rabbit in the cage, they're gonna figure it out.
No one has to teach them what to do.
But when it comes to online and social media, that's not in your DNA. Right?
The way you might look at a woman and, you know, hold eye contact.
You may need to watch a video or a course or get help on that at some point.
But at some point, that's innate within you.
Like, you know how to, like, you know, stare through a girl and not be reactive to her if she gets a little bit, what's the word, kind of like testy, snippy with you.
But the problem is no guys really know how to take good photos.
They don't know how to cultivate a social media.
They don't understand the importance of volume.
They'll be like, I DMed four girls and none of them responded.
So DMing girls doesn't work with their shitty profile not doing enough volume.
Yeah, 100 with a good profile.
Yeah.
Then talk.
The analogy I make for this, and we can talk about this a lot, is...
It's kind of like if you wanted to get a job and you were going to use LinkedIn as your source for getting a job.
And I believe this is one of the best strategies.
I believe this is the best strategy to succeed in modern dating.
And Fresh, you pretty much taught me this.
I pretty much took this from living with you, which is, number one, you have to build what I call the high status profile.
And actually, I'll share my screen.
I'll show an example of this right now.
I'm not going to show any of my actual Instagrams because then weirdos...
Try to track down the girls that I'm dating and tell them that I'm dating.
So, this video is going to play back.
I'm going to mute it as well because it might play some sound.
But anyway, I'm going to mute this.
But again, I understand that you're watching this and the screen is playing choppy, but you don't need to see the detail of it anyway.
But it's me giving a speech to a room full of, I guess there's about 200 250 people in the audience, and that's me on stage.
And I'll go through the other photos, but even just focusing on this 15 second reel.
Well, let me just continue.
We have this photo here.
And you notice that when I have girls in the photos, I'm intentionally positioned away from them.
So this guy's, you know, kind of with this girl.
This girl is with him.
And all the guys are thinking, you look like a loser like third wheel.
No, I look like a fucking boss.
Here I am at dinner with a group full of people.
But again, I'm not directly positioning myself next to any women.
Yeah, nice restaurants.
I go through these quickly.
Well-dressed.
Look like I have a cool group of friends.
This is, you know, the obligatory physique shop.
Remember, I said you have to get to at least a point where you're Your body is not gross to touch.
You have some grooming.
Like I said, if you've got a comically toucan beak nose, get the nose fix, get a rhinoplasty.
If you're going bald, get a hair transplant like I did.
What else can you do?
Get a skincare routine, all this other stuff.
Okay, cool.
We're kind of...
Yeah.
Dress really well.
I think you guys kind of get the point.
And to bring it all home...
And I'll just show, you know, maybe a car.
Let me go on.
You're showing a social proof on a different level that most guys don't ever take time to put into their Instagram or social media.
It's a tool, guys.
Social media is a tool.
And when you use it correctly, you get results for business and for dating.
I'll tell you right now, guys.
Literally, I've been roasted for being pug-faced, roasted for being not a good-looking guy, and I don't care because literally my life is amazing.
But understanding my weaknesses, I can work towards my strengths, which is having a good lifestyle and as well having the vibe that girls like.
And the vibe is nothing more than you having the lifestyle that they want.
You're not being a weirdo about it, which means when you take her on a date, before you go on a date, she's going to look at your Instagram, look at what you do for a living, who you are.
They may even Google you to see what comes up.
Of course, you know, we got a bad rep, but it doesn't matter because it surpasses that.
Anyhow, so your footprint in the digital world will have an impact on what they say or feel about you before the day even starts.
Which means, Casey, you guys, from the very beginning, dating apps, Instagram, that is the foundation of Of how they will see you nowadays.
Because the person...
Let's be real here.
Most of you guys don't want to post girls at all.
It's what it is.
Let's be real here.
Niggas don't want to get rejected.
I get it, bro.
It's like...
You want to get rejected?
Nobody wants that.
So...
We found...
The best push is online with the best profile possible to get a result.
And listen, this has been happening for at least a couple years now.
We've talked about this for our course before on the podcast as well.
And we've seen it in real time more so than ever.
Guys, look at the after hours.
I asked the last show, how's your boyfriend on Instagram?
And you know what he did?
He responded to one of her story posts and that was it.
But you know what she did?
That she didn't sign on camera.
That is very evident.
She looked at his page.
If he had bathroom selfies, if he had weird photos of just, like, food and trees and grass, if he had, like, weird photos where, like, the images are distorted, what would she think?
She'd be like, yo, this guy's a freaking bot.
I don't respond to this guy.
But his profile was up to par.
And he had a good following.
We're just like, you know what?
I'm going to respond to his comment on my story.
And that is the foundation of how most religiousists nowadays are founded and started.
Because, guys, literally speaking, because of the bear bug, people have been inside for quite a while.
And interaction with people on the outside, it's not the same as it used to be before.
And if you realize, club culture, all the things we used to do before, have weighed down in importance and volume.
So people are looking online for ways to meet people nowadays.
And listen, I think, in case he agrees with me, the best dating app in the world, hands down, is what?
Instagram.
Instagram.
Bro, I can't tell you the value you can have on Instagram with the right photos, right pictures.
And look, listen, Casey's a master of this.
I've mastered it too as well, but the whole photo arc of lifestyle, you got it, brother.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Yeah, and you know, what Walter was saying about cold approach, and again, neither of us is going to tell you, like, it's bad to cold approach women.
And again, just going outside of your house only for the purpose of meeting women, unless you know some street or some area, it's...
I love it.
random girl on the street.
You don't know me, but just so you know, I'm confident and I can hold the attention of a whole room and I'm not nervous to give a public speech.
And I've obviously acquired some type of amazing wisdom that would be worth sharing.
And just the fact that I would speak at a marketing conference probably implies that I've got a little bit of a spare change in my bank account and people listen to me and I walk into a room and I talk and people listen.
Oh, Oh, and you know, by the way, wait, wait, don't leave, don't leave, random girl that I just approached.
I also want you to know that I have dinner at nice restaurants and there's beautiful girls and well-dressed, cool-looking guys in my social circle as well.
And let me take my shirt off real quick and show you my physique real quick.
No, you can't do that.
That would be really, really weird.
But you put together this amazing resume, this amazing Instagram, and And it does the flexing for you.
Listen.
I'll tell you this.
A lot of times people come into the space, right?
And they're like, you know what?
I got a game.
I got girls.
Understandable.
That may be you.
A lot of guys don't have game at all.
And they don't understand how things work.
And they want to learn.
So, my thing is, if you're not getting results right now, Answer yourself the question, why is that?
Is it because it could be your hygiene?
It could be your photos?
Look, less is more.
I will say, you don't need a lot of photos.
You just need to have impactful things that show that you are the guy that she may want to be with.
And look, Casey just mentioned it.
You're speaking on stage.
You don't go to a girl and say, yeah, well, I'm a good speaker with all those people and I'm that guy.
No, you don't say that.
That's weird.
That's like you trying to impress the girl with words.
No.
What you do is, you literally show And have her fun out by Discovery.
So you know what I do on dates?
Casey knows as well.
It's very simple.
I reset it up so my strategy is in play from the very beginning.
When I meet a girl, it's all genuine connection, of course, but I have a plan as a guy.
I know where I'm taking her, what she's going to see on my profile, where we're going to end the night, and how it should end.
If it doesn't end that way, cool, but I plan it to work that way.
And as a result, listen, Instagram itself is my forte, I would say, for example, meeting a girl at the very front.
And she sees her profile.
She says yes or no on a date.
But before even that date happens, you're going to plan a date out from A to Z. And during that date, it's simple.
You ask questions, because remember, whoever asks questions is the one in control, right?
And you don't talk about yourself.
Ask questions about her, and you'd be surprised.
She says all the time, it's about the vibe.
You know what the vibe really is?
But you're not a weirdo.
You're cool and calm and collected.
If you're trying to be that guy, boastful, trying to cock yourself up, it's like you're doing too much.
Shorty has 10, 20 guys trying to do it already.
Stand out, have a good time with her, ask questions, and of course escalate sexually when the time needs to be.
But this is why it's important, guys.
So if you get to this point, the foundation is having a profile online At least have one online that's good.
And if you're a more in-person guy, cool.
Go out there, do your cold approach, talk to girls, get rejected a couple times, of course, because it's a numbers game.
But understand, the daily market today has changed, and the best way to get girls online, I would think, is through Instagram.
Yeah, and Instagram, you can post video too, right?
I think the dating apps, you can kind of start posting some video.
I think Hinge and Bumble will let you do some.
But the main thing is, you know, story highlights.
I don't want to get into this now, but something else I talk about, I call it charming content or sometimes funny charming content, but...
If a girl just looks at your Instagram page and it's just a bunch of flat 2D photos of you doing all this high-value stuff like we talked about, maybe there's some travel in there, like I said, you're well-dressed, you're at the best rooftop lounges, best restaurants in the city, cool social circle, fun events.
It could be on yachts, boats, jet skis, whatever it is.
That's amazing.
That's cool.
But you guys ever watch those TikTok skits?
I'm not going to try to act one out or anything.
Anybody who follows me on my YouTube knows this, but just you talking, showing some personality, you tell a funny story.
Or again, like, you know, it's like those one man, one person skits that you see on TikTok all the time.
Doing one of those kind of checks the box.
Oh shit.
This guy's funny.
The delivery of your voice, the confidence in your voice goes well.
And that's how you can get a lot of girls attention.
But I wanted to talk about, because Walter mentioned the word vibe to kind of talk about Just, you know, what we mean in general and Walter's vibe.
Can I mention as well, just about vibe?
You'd be surprised, right?
Your looks and vibe are totally separate.
So let me explain.
You can meet a girl in person, right?
You're not her type.
At all.
And you're not trying to force it at all either.
You're just like talking to her, conversation, you're asking questions about her, and you're being cool, right?
You're being a cool guy that's definitely making a point that you want to be with her in a certain way, which is sexually, but you're not forcing it, right?
And over that period of time of conversation, maybe checking out multiple spots, you're escalating sexually, you become her type.
Not because of your looks, it's because the vibe was created in that time space.
So when someone says, oh, looks are the most important thing ever.
Guys, I'll tell you this right now.
I've seen it, Casey's seen it, we've all seen it.
You've seen a beautiful girl with the most hideous guy possible.
You're like, Wait.
You what?
You're with this guy?
How is this even possible?
It's because he's created an environment where his lifestyle and his vibe, so to speak, which is basically nothing more than just him creating a cool environment for the chick.
It's possible because either he's made money, he's worked on himself, he's made connections, and as well, his looks.
Didn't play a part in this at all.
So the vibe itself, I just explained to you, is nothing more than the environment you create in that time period for a woman for her to say, you know what?
This guy isn't my type, but he sure knows how to make me feel good.
That's all it is.
I'm feeling good in that time and space.
Sorry, go ahead.
Yeah, I was going to say about your type, your vibe.
Walter has this amazing ability to make women feel good.
And even guys, I've never seen anything like it.
Walter, I remember I was telling you, I don't know if I ever showed you this, but for anybody who's a Rick and Morty fan, the episode where they go to the alien spa and it sucks out the toxic parts of their personality.
So long story short, there's this cartoon, they go to this alien spa, it sucks out anything that they deem as toxic.
So if they're too desperate, or they suffer from depression, or they suffer from anxiety, or they have...
I don't know.
Some mental issue.
It removes that from them.
And then when Morty, the guy in the cartoon, gets all those toxic parts removed, he's just walking around.
He's just high on life.
He has no more confidence issues, nothing holding him back.
And Walter had that same vibe.
Walter can multitask.
He could be playing Super Smash Brothers with one hand and the other on the phone.
He's doing an audio with a girl.
He's like, oh, yeah, yeah.
I'm sure you could do anything you put your mind to.
Really?
You think so?
Yeah.
I mean, you know, you're super smart.
And like, yeah, I just, you know, I think, you know, you got this.
It's a really good idea for your little swimsuit store.
I think it will work.
You gotta market it well.
And the girl is just like, oh my God.
Like, I couldn't do that with a straight face.
I couldn't do that genuinely.
But the girl's on the other side, like, he believes in me.
Like, oh my God, my dad never believed in me, but he does.
And it's just like...
I don't know.
And then networking, if we're ever driving...
I lived with Walter since way before the fame and the fortune.
And back when he was living damn near paycheck to paycheck, if there was ever a wealthy guy that he wanted to be, a guy pulled up in a Lamborghini or whatever it was, Walter had no problem.
Hey, man.
Just curious.
What do you do?
Nice car, man.
And there's just something about him and his vibe that women, guys, everybody just wants to...
You know, warm up and be around them.
But, you know, mind you, taking it back to the whole point of this, if Walter was obese, unkempt, I don't know, super, you know, grotesquely ugly, this wouldn't, you know, matter for women.
So again, let's get back to brass tacks.
We'll be talking, you know, about like the look stuff.
But, you know, vibe is important, you know, as well.
And it's something that...
I think a lot of these, you know, black pill, you know, incels, even if they were just, you know, granted by a wizard good looks, if they don't have the vibe and the other things, and an overall strategy and Instagram to attract them, then, yeah, they'd still be lost.
So, let's recap for the guys real quick on looks itself.
Let's go through three main steps to have looks on a scale that's presentable to go on a date with a girl.
So, I'll start first.
I think, like, for example, with the current marketplace, you have to be somewhat palatable to look at.
Which means, like you said before, have the body type where you're not obese.
You're not overly muscular, but you're simply in a good space.
Here's a picture earlier of you with your shirt off, right?
It's not too muscular.
It's just enough where it's the archetype of what women prefer.
Slim, not too chubby, and in shape, so to speak.
Kind of like Myron's look and your look as well.
That's one thing.
Two, I would say is, again, remember guys, it's not about looks because looks will play a part at the very beginning, maybe just initially, but over time, the vibe is what's important to maintain things anyway.
So, what I would say is, make sure that you're not weird or you have tics.
And what does that mean?
If you realize, right, if you're a cold approach, Right?
People literally will show you in real time how they see you.
Either by how they respond to you, how they react to you, or how they treat you.
Which means your interaction with somebody is based off of what they see in front of them in the moment.
So if you're getting rejected constantly by how I was back in the day, You have an issue.
You need to fix it.
And it's because either you're worried about how you talk to people, you're not coherent, or you just don't have that, like, I want to say, good hygiene.
Because, yo, guys, I'll never forget this.
I was in a club, right?
I'm with some girls.
Her and her friends, they flew into town to come see me, right?
And we're having a good time.
I kid you not.
My friend pulls up, right?
And he's like, bro, who's these baddies?
He's like, yo, they came into town, whatever.
Blah, blah, blah.
Go talk to her friend, right?
So then, he goes to talk to her friend.
All of a sudden, I'm just seeing her friend come next to me.
And I'm like, wait, why'd she move away from him?
Right?
Like, what's going on?
Then the girl I'm talking to was like, yeah, my friend doesn't like your friend.
I'm like, what?
He's six foot one.
He's in shape.
What's going on?
Like...
This is the homie.
I won't say who it is, by the way.
And then she's like, oh, his breath stinks.
I'm just like, are you kidding me?
But that small detail of your breath stinking, and you're six foot one, by the way, could cause you to lose that interaction.
So when it comes to looks, yes, looks plays a part, 100% height as well.
But For you to actually make that actually happen, the full interaction with a woman, if you're not on point with hygiene, your appearance out front, which is number one I said, so number two is hygiene, those two things right there have to be on point.
If they're not, sorry to say, you're going to reject it either In person, or in real time, we talk to her for the first time, regardless of the facts.
And sometimes girls will play the part where they'll string you along and say, oh, you know, yeah, you're cool, whatever.
And they'll be like, yeah.
Like, dude, in the first five minutes, a girl will know if she's going to smash you or not.
It's up to you to either ruin that moment or make it more concrete.
But number three is going to be the last point here.
And in case you want to chime in on this one, or you want me to give number three?
You go give me number three.
So I mentioned looks, having an architect where you're not too chubby, You're in some type of shape.
Not actually too muscular.
You're just like medium, slim, but in shape.
Two is going to be hygiene, how you smell, body odor, your breath.
Very important.
And if you can, smell is paramount.
You need white teeth as much as possible.
And some of you, I know, you don't brush your teeth.
You need to brush your teeth, bro.
And get white crests.
Actually, you know what?
I need white crests too, by the way.
So there you go.
And you can hop on that too as well.
Number three is going to be actually The vibe.
Which is the vibe.
Like I mentioned before.
And just to keep it short and sweet, all it is is nothing more than you saying to yourself, okay, it's not about the money.
It's not about the looks.
Remain humble and say, okay, I'm here to have a good time.
She is too.
Let me create an environment.
We'll both have a good time.
And you'd be surprised.
Having that mindset where you're not forcing it, or trying to, oh yeah, I need to smash her, I need to be with this girl, creates a chill environment where you have an open mindset to say, okay, I'm going to go where I want to go.
She's a plus one.
Let's have a good time.
And, and, granted, granted, This whole interaction is you getting to know her better, either to smash or keep it long-term.
Because I'll tell you this right now, guys.
You need to know what you want, like from the jump.
Because if you're going into it blindly, like, oh, I'm just going to wing it.
Well, you don't know what she wants.
You don't know if she's even going to be good for you at the end of the day.
So, again, the looks thing, yes, it is a looks to an extent, but it's a layer of things you need to do to even get the shot to be in that environment to make things happen.
Because those three things there, if you don't have that on point, guys, you can have all the money in the world.
You can be a fucking Chad Tyrone pro.
Those three points are not on point, you're going to lose her 100%.
Just saying.
Agreed.
Agreed.
And we can talk, I want to talk about, you know, how attraction works for women and why it's different for men.
And we'll talk about the point system in a second.
But first, I wanted to address this.
I guess I can't.
I was trying to click it to full screen, but whatever.
This guy, Shadow, says, work out.
As in, like, the guy should work out, do skincare, dress well, get a better haircut, grooming.
The same advice we hear every day.
Cope.
All right, listen, Shadow.
Thank you for pointing that out.
This isn't a Luke's maxing masterclass.
I don't think I'm fully qualified.
I got the hair transplant.
Teeth whitening is next.
You guys saw what I look like with my shirt off.
I grew a beard.
I think there's only so much you can get.
Looks are so, so, so, so important up to getting to a 5 and a 6.
Now, you might say, well, cool.
If you're a five or six, how can a girl that's an eight or nine?
This is where you have to understand that attraction works differently for women.
Their looks is way, way further down on their list.
At that point, it comes into strategy.
Now, in your overall strategy here, just to wrap up, But I already showed on my screen.
I was showing those high status photos.
Once you create this high status social media profile, the next step is to get that profile in front of as many women as possible.
To go back to my analogy for making a job on getting a job using LinkedIn, you would want to create this amazing resume.
If your resume says you worked as an intern for six months at a small web design agency in Uzbekistan, No one's going to give a fuck about your resume.
No matter how many people you show their resume to, you're not going to get a job at Google, Microsoft, or OpenAI.
But if your resume is the high-status resume, I'm making an analogy from a good, sexy, attractive Instagram to a tech resume.
would say, yeah, you worked at Google, you were lead project manager at Microsoft, has all these good things in your resume, then you can hire a virtual assistant and tell them, look, I want you to go on LinkedIn, track down, you know, the HR director at, I don't know, whatever a hot tech company is, track down the recruiting agency at this company, track down, yeah, whatever a hot tech company is, track down the recruiting agency at this company, track down, yeah, meta, you know, whatever exactly, track down these Because here's the thing.
Even if you are objectively a 6 or a 7, you guys got to take into account type.
Okay, so this is where the whole thing.
We've talked about, yeah, the same old advice.
Skincare routine, workout, fashion, get some little things fixed, grooming, whatever.
Now you're a 5 or 6 out of 10.
Now your strategy.
We talked about putting your profile in front of as many women as possible.
We talked about making it appear as high status as possible.
Now let's take into account type.
You guys could imagine, hypothetically, there's a guy.
Big, mean, ugly guy.
He's 6'4".
He's jacked.
He's hairy.
He's got huge muscles, but he's even a little bit chubby.
He's got tattoos, and he just looks mean and scary.
That's not going to be attractive to most women, I promise you.
Some women are going to look at that guy and go, Daddy, protect her, take me, just throw me behind the alley and have what you want with me.
There is a specific archetype that you can appeal to.
Some girls like the witty, sarcastic guy.
Some guys like the thug.
Some guys like the nerdy guy that can teach them things.
There's a lot of different niches that you can fill.
So part of the overall strategy, after you build the high status profile, let's be honest, most of you guys have no idea what you're doing, but we'll make a big announcement.
There'll be a way that we can help with that in the future.
And then the second thing is...
Yeah, just putting that profile in front of as many women as possible and understanding that the same way, you ever like show a photo of a girl to your buddy?
Oh, look at this new IG model that I found.
He goes, eh, mid.
I don't like her.
You're like, what the fuck?
She's like a 10.
Your buddy goes, nah, 6.5 at best.
And then vice versa?
Some of your boys argue, no, it's only blonde, skinny.
She has to be Scandinavian.
She has to have her cheekbones up to here.
You know, those like Those girls, I can't do it, but the Norwegian face.
Some guys only like that.
Walter, I'm the same.
A big booty Latina that's young, long hair, big eyes, great skin.
Coco!
Punch!
She can take it.
And then, heaven forbid, she's also...
She's eaten, you know...
One too many cheeseburgers.
She's just a little...
Not fat, but she's just a little bit chubby.
As if we care.
As if we give a fuck, but to some guys are like, no, she's fat.
I don't give a fuck if a girl's just a little bit chubby, but she's beautiful face, good skin, nice teeth, long hair, Latina, brown skin.
So this is where...
Someone put in the chat, Scandinavian females with a bar face.
Benjamin Nguyen put that.
Yeah.
Real quick, shout out to MDZ. He says, fresh on FedReacts, LOL, that's different.
Well, this is a Myron studio, actually.
I'm in FedReacts studio.
My studio is going to be finished, actually, today because there's some camera issues, but it'll be fine next week when we do this again.
And real quick, guys, we're going to leave YouTube and go to, actually, Twitch.com.
On Fresh and Fit.
So guys, on YouTube, on our channel, Fresh and Fit, we're going to leave this YouTube channel and go to twitch.com slash Fresh and Fit Podcast.
And if you're on YouTube for Casey, you can stay there as well.
But we're going to move over to Twitch right now on the platform.
So real quick, guys, how we're coming over to Twitch, and I'll see you guys there.
But Casey, continue.
Okay.
Did you have a link for them or something?
Yeah, the link is going to be in the chat right now.
Okay, cool.
He's dropping the link for you guys.
Okay, cool.
Join on Twitch because I'm about to cook.
By the way, we're going to be doing Instagram reviews and coaching on Castle Club in Zoom calls next week.
So we're going to break down more game in detail because this is surface level, guys.
This is nothing crazy.
This is just the foundation, but there's so much you can learn.
Guys, I've spent my entire career, actually, if you guys didn't realize, dating girls.
And it's not because I need to, it's because I want to.
Because I want to experience every scenario of failing, simping, mastering, looks maxing, money.
I've done everything you can think of to see all scenarios possible for the best solution to get either the smash or the girl.
And I'll take this right now.
KC has reported to leaving.
To other countries to experience his wealth.
So he has the aspect of going abroad.
I have the access of America.
You got both ends of the stick here.
So you can't lose in this endeavor.
And as well, we're going to hold your hand step by step and teach you one-on-one how this works to get either laid, a girl, or if you just want to have fun, either way is fine.
We got you guys.
Awesome.
Awesome.
So, yeah, let's show them real quick to this whole kind of...
Again, so many people are saying, oh, you know, this is Cope and blah, blah, blah, blah, whatever, whatever.
You guys have seen...
Listen, bro, I'll tell you this.
You know what I am, bro?
I'm a chameleon.
I'm able to see and adapt to any situation and...
Listen, I know sometimes on the podcast, I don't act as smart as I should.
It's on purpose.
I really don't care about being that guy.
I like being more chill behind the scenes.
But when it comes to actually getting stuff done in real time, in real life, Casey knows I'm that guy.
I'm not going to brag about it, but you know, just some sauce there.
But hey guys, we'll leave you to YouTube right now.
The link is in the chat.
I'll see you guys in there on Twitch.
Cool.
Bye Casey.
Yeah, so, you know, we're still going to get a lot of weirdos in the chat that say, oh, you know, this is cope and, you know, keep coping, this and that.
Bro, you guys have seen Walter's stats, or sorry, receipts in the U.S. You're seeing my receipts overseas.
So, and back in the day, you know, RSD, Tyler, Todd V. Dating, Dave Perota, Austin Summers, basically any dating coach that you could, you know, think of has seen me in person pick up girls of this quality back in the heyday, back when I still lived there.
So, yeah.
I'll just stop showing you that.
So for anyone who says, oh yeah, keep coping, blah, blah, blah, blah.
You guys have no...
Freshest receipts are already out there.
Now you saw mine.
So what?
We're very average looking guys.
Casey, if they only knew what we've done, bro.
Because see, when you show receipts, people always say, oh, you paid for that.
Oh, yeah.
And it's just like, you can't win.
But when you come to our events, when you see as a person, the network knows how to operate.
We had a free meetup Literally, two weekends ago, right?
Here in Miami, it was amazing.
We did ATVs.
We did clubbing.
We did a whole speech.
It was dope.
Shorty, I was with.
Took the walk to Poland.
Beautiful.
And they were like, damn.
But see, I'm not putting on camera anymore because it's over with that.
It's over.
Can y'all something on niggas?
Yeah, you showed so many receipts, bro.
And then, listen.
Listen.
You're playing a numbers game.
You might get a bad one.
She might be a bad person.
She might try to finesse you or extort you.
It is a part of the game, guys.
Listen, the numbers game is tough.
But you will have your ups and your downs.
Casey as well, ups and downs.
He's in Colombia.
He's in Brazil.
Got to do some changes.
Either way, we're making moves for you guys.
And by example, you're going to see how things work.
Uncle Luke, 20 bucks.
Shout out to you, brother.
Dropping a 20 burger from my guy Casey.
I really enjoyed the collaboration with you and Austin showing guys the game overseas.
I always enjoy content like this.
Watching Miami versus the Buffalo and you guys at the same time, LOL. Shout out to you, bro, for supporting.
Shout out to Casey as well.
But yeah, man, this is some game for you guys real quick.
And guys, again, we're on Twitch.
Shout out to everyone on Twitch for supporting as well.
Fresh Reacts?
No, no, no.
This is still Fed Reacts over here.
Fresh Reacts.
All right, go ahead, Casey.
Go ahead.
Yeah, let's talk about the point system, which we talked about earlier.
I'll kind of introduce it and I'll let you elaborate on it.
But I can't with this theory and fresh that he agrees.
I think it's just kind of common sense anyway.
To be, quote unquote, the sex-worthy guy for a girl, right?
So you're on some girl's radar and she's judging you.
Is this guy sex-worthy?
Is he boyfriend-worthy?
She's evaluating you, right?
And she needs 10 points.
So how can you gain these said points to, quote unquote, win to have enough points to be the sex-worthy guy?
Well, you can say maybe get two points from your height.
Maybe you're kind of tall.
Two points from your looks.
So now you have four points.
Maybe you get three points from the fact that she knows you're successful, your ability to be a provider.
And then the other three points can come from your personality, your charisma, your capability of making a connection, a romantic connection with her.
What these Black Pail and Incel guys is they focus on the few guys that are so good looking like the Jeremy guy that we talked about or Brad Pitt that they can just get all their 10 points.
Like, well, what about, you know, Matthew McConaughey?
Okay, Matthew McConaughey, you know, can get all his 10 points, you know, on looks.
Then there's other guys like rappers.
I won't say any names, but there's certain rappers that actually look like You know, their DNA got mixed with a cockroach or something like that.
And these rappers have zero looks.
They have weird personalities that are on lean or drugs.
They're like drooling half the time.
And they get all their 10 points from status.
So you can get all your points from looks.
You can get all your points from status.
But generally, you get your points from a mixture of this.
And something that Fresh is really good is that, you know, he's checked the box of like, Five to six out of ten, not gross to touch.
And then everything else, he's really good at maximizing everything else.
So you want to talk about that, especially one thing I think you're really good at, which is the part of, let's say, creating a strong romantic connection with the girl.
Yeah, so we spoke about the breakdown of looks, right?
Looks, hygiene, and vibe.
Once that's in place, that's the foundation, right?
That's the root of the cause of you getting even the date possible to be on and have that interaction.
When it comes to actually creating that environment where it's going to work, You gotta understand, like, girls wanna have fun.
You know what I'm saying?
Girls just wanna have fun.
Literally, that's the thing that is real.
Tell Hero to shut up.
That's actually Frank in the back.
Yo, Murray!
Tell Frank to be quiet, man!
Okay, I thought that was Hero.
That is Frank.
That's Frank.
Yeah, you know Hero don't run apart that much.
Yeah, he doesn't.
So, yeah.
So, literally, guys, this environment that you're going to create, right?
It's going to be one of two things.
It's going to be fun and interactive.
Because if the date is boring, you know who she's going to blame?
She's going to blame you.
Because you're the one that invited her on a date in the first place.
Hopefully, you did.
Hopefully, you'll follow her date plans.
It's going to be weird.
And if you did create this video environment, you can't be boring, guys.
Like, this is why I believe in multiple locations, back to back to create a fun environment or simultaneously giving her an experience of different environments at the same time.
Can you back up?
Let's go from, if you don't mind, from either the moment you're meeting her at a club or the moment you're talking to her on Instagram or on a video call, because I know you're particularly good at...
I'm giving a woman a much greater experience other than like, hey, you're beautiful and I want to put my dick in you.
You're very good at, in the pickup community we call it qualification, which means you give her reasons why the two of you would be a good fit, why you guys have a good connection together, why you like her.
You like her points of view.
You like her personality.
You like something about her other than her looks.
Talk about, maybe it's unconscious.
Maybe you're not even aware.
I don't know if you could even teach it because it's just so ingrained in what you do, but I know this is something you're very good at.
Is creating a unique romantic connection with the girl.
Yeah, so the thing is, you have to understand is, like, what do women actually want?
That's the biggest thing, because we assume they just want to have money, you know, just want to have a lifestyle and get smashed, right?
Obviously, it comes into play, but what do they actually want?
And if you look at the movies that they watch, the romance novels, you know, all these shows that give them this experience and this, like, feeling, it's...
They want romance.
Real romance.
They want love.
Now, sounds gay, I know, on paper.
But they don't want to have the guy that can cuddle with it at night, be with long-term, kiss under the moonlight, in the rain, all that yada yada stuff, right?
And look at nowadays, guys.
Most people are...
Just wanting to come to the crib and smash.
Which is understandable.
If you're at that point where you can achieve that, great.
Most of you can't.
And it's fine.
That's neither here nor there.
But the point is that, like, this interaction you have with the woman is going to be determined what you want, of course, but knowing what she wants.
And this is why it's important to ask questions to see where she's at.
Because some girls are down for a fun time and they're down for the fuckery.
If you want to fuck around and smash, have fun, she may be down for that.
Let me clear up one thing and then I want you to keep cooking.
Because some people are calling this like simping and stuff like that.
If you text a girl, hey, good morning, baby.
I was thinking about you so much.
I'm really, you know, what time is your flight again?
I'm so excited that you're going to come see me again, blah, blah, blah, blah.
And she's responding.
I couldn't sleep at all last night.
I feel nervous about you.
Sometimes I feel like I don't even deserve a guy like you.
That's not simping!
Because she's reciprocating the same feelings of the same romantic stuff.
It's only simping when you're spending money on her, you're leaving comments, you're giving all this attention, and she doesn't reciprocate it back.
If she's reciprocating back and you're being all romantic and stuff, That's not simping at all.
That's called creating a connection.
Let's define what simping is.
Simping is nothing more than you taking actions and having an effect for somebody that doesn't do it in return.
That's all it really is.
And if you break it down in that way...
All you're doing is you're doing what you want to do, and if you're responding in a favorable way where it's benefiting you, who cares?
Obviously guys don't blow the bank, but I'm saying plan a date and you go where you want to go.
But this is what I'm trying to say.
Questions in real time are important because if you understand where she's coming from and what she wants, then guess what you can do?
You can adapt and make it happen.
And when I say what she wants, it's in tune with what you want.
So let me explain.
She might say to you, and if she ever says this to you, don't go on a date, period.
She might say to you, hey, I'm going to this new restaurant called Komodo.
Can we go?
And you're like, okay, let's go over there.
Guess what you just did?
You just put yourself in a situation where she's the leader and following her lead.
That's what you should have done.
No, I got a better spot I'm going to take you to.
It's way more fun, and I guarantee that you've never been there before.
And I'll ask, just to make sure I'm correct, where have you been so far?
You know?
And she might say, okay, XYZ spots, but not that spot.
Oh, they're on the way.
They're a little bit late.
Yes, so you're going to take her to where you want to go.
And this could be tacos.
This could be, oh, yeah, I'm in love right now.
This could be tacos.
This could be pizza.
Whatever it is to you.
But it's your idea first, right?
But this is why I said on certain levels, guys be like, oh, you're simping.
No, no.
You don't understand.
I want to go there.
She's a plus one.
Very important, guys.
You're doing what you want to do.
She's coming along for the ride.
That right there should be your foundation because guess what happens at that moment?
If it's going to be you and what you want to do, I guarantee you, you don't want to go to a 6-7 restaurant.
You might just want some tacos.
A good vibe.
And at that point, you're actually going to enjoy that experience because you're just coming along for the ride.
She's a plus one in that endeavor.
Which means...
Never.
You're comfortable.
You're in your own space.
You might know the bartenders.
You might know the owner.
Whatever that may be for you, you create that environment.
And then she comes along, asks questions.
Oh, so, you know, what are you into?
What do you do when you're not working?
Things like that, right?
But you gather information to see what she wants out of you indirectly.
You see where I'm going here?
So, in order to give her a fun experience and give her the vibe, you need to understand, okay, What it goes like in general.
And then, what does she want specifically?
Because if you can cater towards that in a way that helps you and what you want, then you can win.
But if you are winging it, hoping that she'll like you because you think she wants X, Y, Z, you're like guessing.
And at that point, you're not going to win the game.
The game is to understand your, well, not opponent, but understand what she wants and understand what you want.
If it doesn't align, yeah.
That's a great frame to have, speaking of that romantic connection.
And again, we're still staying on topic here with the whole looks debate here.
I talked about my point system, and Again, right?
A third of the points can come from looks.
Other things can come from money and then your ability to have high status and whatnot, ability to be a provider.
But this romantic connection stuff goes really, really far.
If you see on their podcast a lot, they'll say the girls, well, would you do the classic one-sided open relationship?
So the relationship is open for me, but it's closed for you.
They'll be like, hell no, fuck that.
I wouldn't do that.
They go, okay, well, what if you're My boyfriend was Drake.
The connection you have with the girl, building a romantic connection, can value a lot.
There's a lot of girls, plenty of girls, surprisingly, would not cheat on their boyfriends with Drake, even if they had the chance.
Even if they knew, nobody would found out, because as much, like, general value has...
Just want to, you know, smash and hit it once.
And without that ability to, like I said...
Sorry, with the ability to make a romantic connection.
Again, taking this all the way back to the looks thing.
You have this amazing social media.
You've displayed signs of high status.
It's clear that you got a little bit of money and maybe you could be a provider.
You're not necessarily flashing Rolexes, but like I said, you're in nice restaurants.
You're dressed well.
You're in professional clothing blazers, like I said.
And then you meet her on Instagram, the dating app, whatever it is.
And you have what Fresh was talking about, that evaluator frame.
That's one of the strongest frames to have, whether it's a cold approach or the initial stages of kind of like, yeah, I'm intrigued by you.
You're still friendly and cool.
You're not negging the girl.
You're not that uncalibrated...
You're still very friendly and cool and positive, but you're just like, yeah, this is going really well so far.
I just hope that I don't offend you with my dark humor because if you're one of these Wokies or something, then we're just not going to get along.
But you're not nagging her.
You're not being rude.
But at the same time, you're kind of like, hmm, you're interesting.
So you're, I don't know, you're from Miami?
Oh, okay.
So you better not be one of those girls that's selling feet pictures because, I don't know, girls into that type of seeking arrangement, OnlyFans.
You know, it's not for me.
We are constantly, you know, saying things that you don't like.
And then she's going to want to jump through your hooves.
Oh, no, I'm not one of those girls.
I hate those girls, too.
I'm in, you know, nursing school.
Red flag nurses, by the way.
And then you can, you know, qualify her.
Oh, well, you know, that's good.
So you're beautiful and ambitious.
Okay.
Yeah, that's good.
Because honestly, like...
I need beauty and brains, you know, this and that.
If you were, you know, just, you know, I mean, there's a lot of hot girls in Miami, but if you weren't ambitious or something like that, then, you know, this wouldn't work out.
Now she's like, oh my God, he likes me for me.
He appreciates the fact that I'm, you know, ambitious.
He doesn't want one of these just, you know, brainless, you know, uh, you know, bimbos and stuff like that.
And listen, if I was actually having a conversation, these are kind of like generic qualifications I'm making up on the fly.
Qualifications being reasons why you like her that don't have to do with her looks, aka her accomplishments, her points of views, her ambition, things like that.
So I'm just making these up on the fly.
But if you can really make them feel special...
You can get like six points out of that.
Remember we talked about a ten point scale to be the sex worthy guy?
You can get two points from looks, two points from whatever, some random thing.
You're funny.
Just out to your point, if you notice, right?
These movies, these novels, what is the guy doing?
He's making her feel special.
Not because he needs to, because he knows if she feels special, she's going to do what?
Be his peace and give him what he wants.
That's all it really is.
But real quick, I gotta do a subathon with the boys real quick on Twitch actually after this.
So Casey, give them your last closing remarks and as well, what's coming next week on Castle Club for the guys in the chat.
Well, some of you guys may or may not already know this, but I am a dating coach.
You cannot buy anything from me.
As of right now, my programs are all closed, so don't even try.
I literally unplug the credit card processor.
We have a big announcement.
Yeah, and I guess exactly one week or six days, I guess, something like that.
Whatever the 18th is, so six days from now.
And I don't know.
How many details can I give out?
What should I say?
Should I say a lot or just kind of hint at it?
You can be short and sweet.
Okay.
Yeah.
So basically, you're going to be able to have access to personalized help in all your dating life from myself.
And Fresh, you're going to be in there as well, right?
Of course.
Of course.
Okay.
Yeah.
For...
A low monthly fee that's going to be so low that it's going to blow your hair back and you're going to have a buzz cut like mine.
I don't care how much hair you have, the price is going to blow your hair back.
And you're like, it's that affordable.
And also, Jeff the Club gets Zoom calls for free.
Exactly.
Yeah, it'll be all through Casco.
Basically, I'll share my screen just for two seconds.
One of the things you'll learn, I'll just wrap this up real quick.
You're going to learn how to, because you guys seen me do it, you've seen Fresh do it.
You may look at us as like, oh, you know, that's the YouTube influencers.
Here's just a super normal guy.
I've talked about him.
You know, it's funny talking about strategy and maximizing everything.
I'm actually taller than him, but for the photo, I crouched down to make it look like I was shorter.
He's like 5'8", I'm 5'11".
But yeah, we'll teach you how to build a super high status profile like this and then how to maximize and put that profile in front of as many people as possible.
I'll teach you how to be a catfish and touch up your photos to be, I don't know, 20 to 25% better looking in a way that nobody would know.
It could even just be light color grading and shit like that.
Yeah.
Girls do this on a daily to us.
Yes.
Girls do this every single day on Instagram.
Face app, Photoshop, Facetune.
What can we do it to?
That's what I always say.
Like, guys are like, but I'm worried that she'll notice.
First of all, this is pretty fucking subtle.
Like, is my arm a little bit bigger here?
You know, yes, it is.
I made my delts bigger or whatever.
Face, you know, skin is cleaned up.
I also added a little bit more of a friendly expression out of the smirky smile.
But again, a girl's not going to be, oh my god, here's Casey, this amazing guy, and then this version of me shows up and she's like, oh no, you're a different person.
And I always say to guys, don't be worried if she's going to notice that you look a little bit different from your photos.
Be worried about how different she's going to look from her photos.
Real quick, guys.
So this is, I feel like a lot of people are going to say it's very daunting, but once it's set up, You're good.
Like, you just maintain it, and you're a smooth ceiling.
Like, imagine you start a business, right?
At the beginning, it's rough getting it off the ground.
Once you hire employees, you have a stable system, and it's working in order, you just maintain at that point.
Same thing with this.
Once you're set up online, guys, I'm telling you right now, it is streamlined.
It is your business card.
It is your personal identification of who you are and who you want to be.
You create your own avatar literally online.
And all it is, guys, is you put that card down.
Hey, You seem pretty cool.
Here's my Instagram.
And you walk away.
And you'd be surprised.
You post a story.
Oh, wow.
I didn't know you worked over here.
Oh, wow.
I didn't know you worked over here.
Simple things you can do, which are going to go into detail, in Castle Club.
It's crazy, guys.
So, listen.
Next week, we're dropping this, man.
It's going to be insane.
I know everything's closed, but next week, you're going to see craziness happen in the dating space, Fresh and Fit, Red Bear Rants, Castle Club.
Let's turn up and let's go.
Casey, where can I find your brother?
And I'll get the last thoughts.
Yeah, Red Beard Rants on YouTube, Red Beard Rants 1 on Instagram, also Red Beard Rants 1 on TikTok and Twitter, although I don't post on those channels, but I'm going to start.
But yeah, mostly YouTube and Instagram, Red Beard Rants 1 on Instagram, Red Beard Rants on YouTube, and Fresh, pleasure, always a pleasure, my slightly more melanated brother from another mother.
More than slightly more melanated.
You're not bad for a...
Anyhow, we're out of here.
Yeah, for one of those.
All right.
Thanks.
All right, guys.
This is a great video.
Shout out to Casey, man.
It's my boy from back in the day.
And we'll see you guys next week.
And for the subathon on Twitch, right now, Freshly Fit.
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