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Sept. 5, 2024 - Fresh & Fit

02:42:16

Heated Debate On Men Vs Women Leading In Relationships...

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	Thank you.
	And we are live.
	What's up, guys?
	Welcome to Fresher Podcast.
	We got some lovely ladies.
	Let's get into it.
	Let's go!
	It's my world.
	It's my world.
	Ain't that good?
	Come on in here, bro.
	Get out Get out It's the night Gonna pack In the night No control Get out Put your shoes on outside
	You don't have to put them on in here.
	And we are live.
	What's up, guys?
	Welcome to Fresh Up Podcast after our audition.
	We got some lovely ladies in the house.
	A quick announcement we get into the show.
	Rumble.com slash Fresh Up.
	As you guys know, that is our home base.
	Also, guys, we're not going to be streaming on YouTube anymore.
	Alright, we're going to be streaming on Rumble and Twitch only.
	We're only going to be posting clips on YouTube.
	So, the main platforms are going to be Rumble and...
	Twitch to get the streams live, and then we're going to be posting clips after the fact on YouTube, which to be honest with y'all is the best way to do it anyway.
	It's better.
	But that's what we're going to be doing.
	So we're not going to be streaming on YouTube anymore because, you know, policies and guidelines and all that bullshit that they have.
	So we're just going to go ahead and put clips on there that we know are YouTube safe for the guidelines because, you know, we always get banned and censored and, you know, because of our takes.
	So it is what it is.
	I still think we're...
	Not even, I think.
	At this point, we are by far the most raw podcast on YouTube right now.
	For sure.
	Huh?
	What was that, Chris?
	I said no condom.
	Yeah.
	Anyway, yeah.
	So, yeah.
	So, anyway, you have anything for us?
	Honestly, man, we've done a lot on YouTube.
	We've given them a lot of time, energy, and look, time to move on.
	Bigger, better things, and we're still here, so don't worry.
	Yeah, we're still going to be on YouTube.
	Don't worry.
	Like, we're still just going to post clips on there.
	And that's what y'all want anyway, man.
	That's what people want.
	They want clips and shorts.
	So, you know, especially in this TikTok economy we got going on.
	So, live streams are going to be Rumble Twitch.
	And we're going to do a subathon on Twitch on Tuesday.
	So, it's going to be a good time.
	We're going to react to news, pop culture, whatever may be going on.
	So, check us out over there.
	Twitch.tv slash Fresh Fit Podcast.
	That's going to be a Twitch exclusive.
	We're going to grow the audience over there.
	And also, we're doing our first meetup pretty soon as well in Tampa.
	We got to figure out our dates, but we're doing it pretty soon.
	All right.
	Yes.
	So, Chris, go ahead.
	How long do you think we'll be on Twitch?
	I mean, we have bets going on.
	Chris is asking the wrong questions here.
	How long do you think we're going to last?
	I mean, someone said three weeks.
	I'm like a month.
	You know, who knows?
	But, you know, we'll see, man.
	You think we're going to get banned?
	No, not really.
	Because we spoke to, you know, our boy.
	And he said that we have to follow certain guidelines.
	So, we should be good.
	Who's our boy?
	Oh, my God.
	Anyways, shout out to the chat.
	Shout out to you guys.
	We got seven girls on the panel.
	Let's make it happen.
	Diversity, you know, all over the world.
	Maybe not Australia, but follow me on Twitch, Aaron Parkson.
	I won't be banned, by the way, hopefully.
	And let's make it happen.
	What are you doing on your Twitch, Chris?
	Yeah, what are you doing on Twitch anyway?
	A game.
	And talk shit.
	Andrew Kenny.
	It's fun.
	If you've ever seen one of his clips, right, it's him literally...
	Oh!
	Oh!
	Oh, you killed me!
	Oh, no!
	On Twitch Blade.
	What's that game again?
	Fortnite.
	Fortnite, yeah, yeah.
	And then there's Once Human and there's League, which you played before.
	I'm gonna leave, bro.
	Oh, you're pretty trash, Tryndamere Top.
	No, bro.
	I'm a beast.
	No, you suck.
	I've hit all critical traits for Blood Craze and as well other traits that you don't even have, bro.
	I'm telling you right now.
	What?
	Anyways, I played a Marvel Rival suit.
	It's like Overwatch, but a little bit better.
	You know?
	Yeah, I should have a guy, so, you know.
	Okay, buddy.
	In the beta.
	I believe you.
	And I play the Punisher too.
	He's just like Soldier.
	Alright.
	Yeah, Samara, you should play.
	That's what everybody's been telling me.
	You should play Overwatch?
	I haven't played in a while.
	Like a month now.
	I can tell.
	Alright, ladies!
	If you don't mind, don't mind our game talk here, Nerd Talk.
	Give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, we'll start right here.
	Welcome to the show.
	Name, age, what you do for a living.
	Thank you.
	I'm Stacey.
	Anastasia, I'm from Russia.
	I couldn't tell.
	And I'm in Miami for one month, and I'm 29 years old.
	What do you do for it?
	I'm a personal trainer.
	29, you said?
	Damn!
	Yeah, 29.
	And you're a personal trainer?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Highest education level completed?
	It's completed.
	No, I mean, like, did you go to college?
	Did you...
	I have master's degree in economics and here I did...
	In Russia?
	No, no, no, in Czech Republic.
	I lived in Czech Republic for eight years and I'm relocated from Czech Republic here.
	Okay, so master's degree in economics from Czech Republic?
	Yes.
	Originally from Russia.
	Okay, so did you like live in Czech Republic before you came here?
	It's pretty different because, I mean, Europe and United States, it's different.
	I mean, it's another word here.
	And for me, it's the second month in America and it's everything new.
	Okay, I'm confused.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	I'll make it simple.
	Before you came to America, where were you living?
	In Russia or in Czech Republic?
	Czech Republic.
	Okay.
	I like it.
	Okay, so that's where you were for like seven years?
	Eight years.
	Okay, to get your math degree.
	Yes, study and then I worked.
	Are you Czech citizen too?
	You have one passport, Russia?
	Yeah, one passport, Russia, and just permission in Czech Republic.
	Okay.
	And here.
	You're not a spy, are you?
	She didn't say no.
	They've been arresting people left and right for Farrah.
	Oh, what?
	She said she can't say nothing.
	Are you relationship status?
	Do you have a boyfriend?
	Are you single?
	Are you married?
	I'm married.
	How long have you been married for?
	It's one year, but we met like nine years ago.
	Nice!
	How did you guys meet?
	Actually, we first meeting in the school and then just came.
	Actually, it's why I moved to the Republic from Russia.
	It's because of my boyfriend.
	Got it.
	And now it's my husband.
	He's Czech, I'm guessing?
	No, no, no.
	He's Russian too?
	Yeah, yeah.
	Okay.
	He's Russian too, but he moved first.
	Where is he now?
	Where's he now?
	Home?
	In Miami?
	You came to Miami together?
	Yeah.
	That's good.
	Are your parents still together?
	Sorry?
	Are your parents still together?
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Jail.
	And then fresh, your favorite question.
	Birth control.
	Birth control?
	Like, you know, the pills?
	No, no.
	You gotta ask her if she's on it.
	She's not on it.
	Okay, she was a little confused by her question.
	Yeah, yeah.
	That's how I said it.
	Because you just said birth control.
	She's like, wait, what the hell are you talking about?
	She's not from here, so.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Alright, so she's not on it.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	My name's Angel.
	I'm from Brooklyn.
	Hey, y'all!
	How old are you?
	I just turned 25 a couple days ago.
	And you said you're from New York City, Brooklyn, if I'm not mistaken?
	Yes, Brooklyn.
	Do you live here in Miami now or are you just visiting?
	No, I'm actually a travel agent for my company.
	I'm going to be re-looking out here.
	We need some discounts, man.
	She belongs to the streets.
	What's good?
	Travel agent as far as health care and stuff like that.
	Oh, never mind.
	Are you a traveling nurse?
	No.
	I do health insurance and insurance.
	Okay, okay.
	So you travel on behalf of a health insurance company?
	Yeah, Blue Cross Blue Shield.
	Y'all got dental?
	Oh, okay.
	You got dental?
	Hey, baby.
	Okay.
	You let them know they need that dental.
	All right.
	Yeah, that's actually what I had when I worked for the government.
	Me too.
	All right.
	Yeah, you like us?
	Yeah, not bad.
	You're okay.
	Okay.
	Never used it, though.
	What?
	Never got sick.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	So, how is education level completed?
	High school, some college.
	Do you have your associates?
	Didn't finish, no.
	Oh, okay.
	Relationship status?
	I am in a relationship right now.
	How long y'all been together?
	About a few months.
	How'd you guys meet?
	Three months?
	Four months?
	Two months?
	Six.
	Oh, okay, alright.
	How'd you guys meet?
	We met in Atlanta, and I was outside getting food.
	You know, like that.
	How did he approach you?
	He said, you want some food?
	No, he asked me what I was doing over there.
	And I was like, who are you?
	Like, who is this guy?
	Talking to me.
	Who you is, nigga?
	She's like, you gotta have insurance.
	I got you.
	So he literally said, what are you doing here?
	Is that how he started the conversation?
	Yeah, he literally started it just like that.
	I was like, who is this?
	Asking me what I'm doing.
	Was it like during the day?
	Yeah, it was during the day.
	So you were at a restaurant and he asked you, what are you doing here?
	Yeah, he was like, what are you doing?
	Like, he knew me already, you know?
	What was your response to him on that one?
	I'm like, who are you?
	Nigga, who are you?
	Right.
	Okay.
	That's what I thought.
	It's a unique way to approach things.
	All right.
	Yeah.
	Are your parents together?
	It ended up working.
	They were married when I was little, but they're no longer together now.
	They're divorced now?
	Okay.
	Birth control for you?
	No.
	No?
	Okay.
	I'm not birth control over him.
	Okay.
	And what's your racial background?
	Just full black?
	Black, Indian, yeah.
	Indian?
	You don't see my arms.
	Oh, wow.
	Don't say it.
	What'd you see there?
	Hair.
	It's a hairy arm.
	Luckily, there's no...
	Wait, was that...
	I don't think that was the intention for showing you her arm.
	It was.
	It showed the hair.
	Oh, was the show the hair?
	I can't see that.
	Well, my vision sucks, so.
	Yeah.
	It's a lot.
	It's very hairy.
	When you say Indian, are we talking Native American or like Indian?
	Native American.
	Okay, please say that because that would tell me a lot more about your background.
	I never heard of Indian.
	I never thought Native Americans, like the stereotype is that they're hairy.
	I never heard that either.
	Yeah, that's like a...
	Aren't Indians hairy in general?
	Yes, they are.
	Are we talking about Native Americans or are we talking about Indians?
	Both of them.
	Both of them niggas, man.
	Exactly.
	That's not really the stereotype, though.
	Oh, wow.
	For Native Americans.
	I've seen them as hairy.
	Me too.
	Me three.
	I haven't really seen hairy ones, but that's fine.
	You haven't seen hairy ones?
	Like hairy Native Americans?
	Yes.
	Not like a thing where it would be like a defining feature.
	It doesn't like define you, but it's just like typical.
	Because real Indians, you can smell them.
	Can you smell me?
	You can smell curry for a mile, by the way.
	I know, I know.
	That's why I'm Indian.
	I don't smell you at all.
	You know what I'm saying?
	To her defense, that's why I was saying she can't be Indian.
	Exactly.
	The curry smell?
	That's why we're not on YouTube anymore.
	They could come again?
	Yeah, but that's not what she was trying to refer to.
	No, but I thought she was looking at her hand at first and I couldn't smell her.
	So I was like, you're not Indian, but Native American is different.
	I'm just saying, bro.
	There is a difference.
	What tribe?
	Do you know?
	I don't know.
	Oh, man, you're black, bro.
	Just stop.
	Come on, man.
	I need to do one of those.
	What tribe?
	The black tribe.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Black tribe.
	We was Kangs.
	Yeah, that tribe.
	What about you?
	What's your name?
	My name is Sea, like the ocean.
	Okay.
	Is that how you spell it?
	S-E-A, yeah.
	Is that your real name, or is that like a nickname?
	It's my first, middle, and last name.
	But my name is C the Light, so people call me C. Wait, your government name is actually C the Light?
	No, it's Sarah.
	Oh, okay.
	Thank you, Sarah.
	I'll put C here, though.
	How old are you?
	Yeah, C, like the ocean.
	I'm 23.
	Where are you from?
	I'm from Atlanta.
	Okay.
	What do you do for work?
	I'm a music entrepreneur and professional makeup artist.
	Nice.
	Okay.
	When you say you're from Atlanta, you live here now or you're just visiting?
	I live here now.
	I live in Florida now.
	Miami or...?
	Well, Fort Lauderdale.
	Oh, okay.
	All right.
	Right next door.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	How long have you been here?
	Four months.
	Okay.
	Four months, yeah.
	Corrupted.
	I'm assuming you guys know each other?
	Mm-hmm.
	Okay.
	All right.
	So you said music entrepreneur.
	What does that entail specifically?
	I'm a singer and I write music as well.
	Okay.
	And then you say makeup artist.
	Yes.
	Has your kids level completed?
	High school.
	Alright.
	Relationship status?
	Single.
	Still?
	Single, yes.
	Very single.
	Newly.
	I love that.
	Okay.
	No, no, no.
	That's fine.
	Don't tell my business.
	I was confused.
	You said still.
	Have you guys met before?
	No, I'm just kidding.
	Okay.
	You said single and newly.
	What happened?
	I'm just single.
	You don't want to talk about it?
	Mm-mm.
	Who hurt you?
	Nobody.
	What's his name?
	How about this?
	Just to have fun with this.
	Name one thing he did wrong in the relationship and then one thing you did wrong in the relationship.
	Ooh, that's a good one.
	Yo, that was a sign.
	That was God.
	That was a sign.
	Don't lie.
	Don't lie.
	I'm watching right now.
	Don't put the energy out there.
	Just one thing.
	This one thing he did wrong and then one thing you did wrong, you think.
	Thundercats.
	One thing.
	Um...
	Don't lie.
	I mean, I feel like I just want to focus on myself.
	That's it.
	Oh, okay.
	She wanted to...
	She belongs to the streets!
	Okay.
	No, no.
	That's okay.
	So your mistake is you wanted to focus on yourself.
	What did he do wrong then?
	Um...
	She was being too nice.
	I don't want to talk...
	I'm not...
	I don't want to talk about that.
	He was a nice guy.
	This is a dating podcast.
	Just give a short, like, you know.
	Yeah, you could say he wasn't attentive.
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	I just feel like telling the truth is a great thing.
	That's it.
	So he lied.
	Telling the truth, yeah.
	All right.
	Okay.
	Are your parents still together?
	Um, no.
	They aren't.
	Okay.
	And then birth control for you?
	No.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	No birth control.
	No.
	Okay.
	And then what's your ethnic background?
	West Indian.
	Okay.
	Wait.
	What?
	Just West Indian?
	I was raised in Barbados.
	My parents are from the islands.
	I'm from Barbados.
	You are?
	I heard your accent.
	I heard your accent.
	Cheese on bread.
	Cheese on bread.
	But how does she not have an accent, though?
	She probably wasn't born in Barbados.
	No, I wasn't born there.
	She said she was raised there, though.
	I was raised there until I was, like, six years old.
	And then I came straight.
	Did you go to high school, man?
	You went to high school here in Atlanta?
	Yeah.
	You went to high school in Atlanta?
	In Atlanta.
	Yeah, she fought niggas.
	Damn!
	I mean, you went to ACL, man.
	There's niggas over there.
	Well...
	Chris, you're funny.
	But I was there in August for Cropover.
	Really?
	Yeah.
	Rihanna was there, too.
	It was lit.
	I know.
	I saw her.
	She looked real good.
	Yeah, I look good, too.
	Yeah.
	Ow!
	All right.
	All right.
	What about you?
	What's your name?
	Mia.
	Hey, y'all!
	Just like Miami.
	Okay.
	How old are you?
	27.
	Where are you from?
	Philly.
	But I lived in Charlotte, like, the last 10 years.
	So, from Charlotte.
	Okay.
	Billy.
	So...
	Born and raised.
	Okay.
	Don't play with me.
	What part of Philadelphia are you from?
	Born and raised.
	Southwest.
	Alright.
	64th and L. What are y'all watching?
	What's good?
	No, I'm joking.
	I'm joking.
	What do you do for work?
	I am a pole dance instructor.
	Say something.
	She belongs to the streets.
	I do.
	I am a Best Small Business Winner, pole dance instructor, choreographer, author, big me.
	Okay, so you've written a book or two?
	I've written one book and it is called The Entrepreneur's Mom's Guide to Survival.
	That's fire.
	Thank you.
	Can you spell entrepreneur?
	Yes.
	I mean, no.
	Not alphabet.
	Maybe I can.
	I'm really smart.
	E-N-T-R-E-P. Don't put me on the spot.
	What's up, y'all?
	I don't know.
	Maybe if I write it down.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Cool.
	But yes, it's on Amazon.
	It's on my Amazon storefront.
	So wait, author, pole dance instructor, and then what's the other thing?
	Choreographer.
	I own Millionaire Social.
	It's a dinner theater where you can see dinner and a show.
	That's hard.
	It's in Charlotte.
	Were you ever a stripper before or no?
	For like three days and my family found out and they ridiculed me and then I left.
	Good.
	And then I put a pole up in my room and I got really good at it and I opened up a pole studio and I became a badass person that travels all over the world and teaches girls pole.
	Creative.
	Yeah, it's on the back of my leg too.
	So how many shifts did you do before your family found out?
	For those three days?
	Yeah.
	Like, you know, normal shift.
	You know, you walk in, they look at you just like they did on Players Club, and they tell you to go to the back.
	And I was like, okay.
	And I was really shy.
	It didn't really go good.
	I called my mom.
	So you worked maybe 24 hours?
	Probably about 36.
	Dammit, three days?
	You did like three, 12-hour shifts?
	It's probably like eight-hour shifts, like nine-hour shifts and a 10-hour shift.
	You know, you go in at like six and you don't leave until like four.
	Okay.
	I mean, that was like a long time ago, so I don't know, you know.
	So you did maybe around 30, 36 hours, and then your family found out, they shamed you, and you said, all right, I'm done, and then you decided to teach them.
	Yeah, I care what my family thinks.
	Absolutely.
	What?
	I know.
	What do you mean when my family called me?
	I mean, they say, hey, what are you doing?
	No, I called my mom.
	I said, mom, I'm in a club dancing.
	I want to make some extra money.
	And she said, have you lost your fucking mind?
	And then she told my brothers and they called me and told me I was blacklisted.
	Don't ask for anything.
	But I wanted to ask for stuff.
	So I didn't.
	I'm going to need them again.
	You know, so I cut that out.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I was in school, too.
	So it's that typical, you want to pay for school and not ask your parents type shit.
	So I tried to do it on my own, and it just didn't go.
	And I ended up making a career out of it.
	W shame.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Highest education level completed?
	Associate's degree in business management.
	I'm a small business winner.
	Shout me out.
	All right.
	And then relationship status?
	I just broke out with my boyfriend three days ago and I just moved to Miami.
	Why?
	What do you do?
	What do I do?
	I'll tell you what I did.
	I'm actually a nun.
	But that's probably what.
	But no, I moved to Charlotte September 1st.
	I moved from here from Charlotte September 1st.
	So four days I've been here.
	My sister is to my left.
	I call her after my breakup and I was like, I've been wanting to come to Florida where I've been seeing, you know, before I even saw her, this has been on my bucket list for like five years, I wanted to bring my company here.
	But I saw my sister take the leave and leave everybody behind and just come.
	My boyfriend broke my heart and I packed up a suitcase and I moved here.
	Okay, what is one thing he did wrong and then one thing you did wrong in the relationship in your opinion?
	He stayed out until 4 a.m.
	every single night and he was for the streets.
	I don't think he cheated.
	I will not say that, but he just is a fun guy and he just was addicted to alcohol and I just don't fuck with it.
	Okay, so he would party every night?
	Every single fucking night.
	What do you do for work?
	He's huge.
	You guys might have known him.
	I don't want to say who he is, but he was his...
	Like what profession?
	A rapper.
	No, he's a rapper from Charlotte.
	Well, he's from New York, but he lives in Charlotte.
	Don't worry about it.
	It could be so many people?
	Yeah, it could be so many people.
	Let's keep it there.
	What I did wrong was not stand up for myself.
	They will never.
	I didn't stand up for myself, no.
	He wanted an Ike and Tina relationship and I'm not Tina.
	I'm Ike.
	What's Ike and Tina's relationship?
	Falcon!
	Pawns!
	No, he said that.
	He actually has an interview where he speaks about that.
	And he says how Ike came into Tina's life and she was singing in a church and he elevated her and gave her a name so much that when they went to have a divorce, at the end of it, all she wanted was that name that he gave her.
	And he felt like he wanted to do that with a woman.
	I got my own name.
	So you're Ike?
	I'm Ike.
	You my Tina.
	Not you.
	So he's below you then?
	No, nobody below me.
	But I'm not below anybody either.
	But if it was a Game of Thrones, I'm going to be Ike.
	I wouldn't be Tina.
	But Ike elevated Tina.
	And I elevated him.
	But he's more famous than you.
	Not even.
	Who said that?
	Yeah, who said that?
	No, no, but you're saying he's a famous rapper, right?
	He's really known, but that happened during my run because of who I am.
	So, I mean...
	You made him poppin'.
	Fuck yeah.
	How?
	What the fuck?
	I make you poppin' too.
	How?
	You want me to upgrade you?
	No, no.
	How?
	After the show, we'll talk about it.
	And then you come back to the show and then you gonna tell them about it.
	You can't even spell entrepreneur!
	I don't give a fuck if I can spell entrepreneur.
	I can build your soul.
	How about that?
	I know, Fresh.
	Nigga, I got one soul.
	It's traumatic.
	Don't worry.
	And I turn all the bad boys good and I make them go crazy.
	He going crazy right now too.
	Why'd he leave then?
	He didn't leave.
	Nobody leave me.
	No, she left right.
	Nobody ever left me.
	And I'm a stand-on.
	I'm on live TV. No man's ever left me.
	Stand on business.
	Yeah.
	Because you said he broke your heart.
	He definitely broke my heart.
	So I had to leave him.
	Because he kept coming home.
	He doesn't think he broke my heart.
	Because he kept coming home late.
	- Yeah, he yelled too much.
	- Okay.
	- Oh yeah, I'm with yelling.
	- I don't like it.
	- I'm not with the yelling. - You can't yell at me.
	I'm a very sensitive soul.
	I talk like this all the time.
	Watch your tone.
	Was it Petey Pablo?
	Yeah.
	Whoa!
	No.
	You know what?
	He the biggest.
	I'll give him a shout out.
	I don't think Petey Pablo is from New York though.
	Charlotte, though?
	I don't know.
	He's from New York, but he doesn't Charlotte.
	Yeah, that's what she said.
	He's from New York, but he doesn't Charlotte, so I can't think.
	You know what?
	My sister said, don't even give him no clout to the interview.
	No, I'm saying they're going to find out in the chat, but they're going to find out.
	But I'm just a little confused, because you said this whole Ike and Tina thing.
	Yes.
	So you're saying that he wanted to give you a name, but you don't need that because you build your own name.
	I already had a name, so when he first met me, that was one of the first things he said.
	But in the beginning, I let him know I was already who I was, so you don't have to do that for me.
	You just fuck with me.
	You don't have to try to think you're gonna build me up.
	Sometimes when a person thinks they build you up, they think they can pop it and bring you back down.
	So I don't give anyone that much power to think they built me up.
	You know what I mean?
	Okay.
	Alright, and then are your parents together?
	No.
	Okay, and then birth control for you?
	I'm a nun.
	No birth control.
	Okay.
	He didn't smash?
	Yeah.
	So you're not a nun then?
	Now I am.
	I'm a new age nun.
	This is the new kind.
	The 2024 nuns.
	We can dress like this and we can be nuns.
	I don't want no penis right now.
	The nuns that I know don't get nothing, period.
	I don't want nothing, period, right now.
	I think you guys, every time I talk to one of y'all boys, y'all fuck up my algorithm.
	Emotional damage!
	Okay, what's your background?
	Full black?
	Yeah, I'm a full black girl from Philly.
	Okay.
	Alright, body count.
	Well, I've been in all relationships, so I don't got no virgin before I met you, baby.
	I never had nobody.
	Right now I'm a virgin, so I don't got no bodies.
	If I'm done with you, I don't got no bodies.
	Alright, gotcha.
	You can't reverse or retract bodies.
	I definitely retract bodies.
	Oh.
	Who are you?
	Who are you?
	Exactly.
	I'm Mia, but I'm saying after I finish with you, who are you?
	You what?
	We were never anything.
	Exactly.
	Not you, but we could be.
	Can I see the way you keep throwing it over here?
	I know what's going on.
	What the?
	Let's just move on, bro.
	This is crazy.
	Yeah, sorry.
	All right.
	What about you?
	What's your name?
	Tiffany.
	All right, Tiffany, how old are you?
	28.
	All right, where are you from?
	Miami.
	All right, what do you do for it?
	So I'm a lawyer.
	Okay.
	So you have your highest education, obviously you went to law school, and yeah, so you're a JD. What kind of law do you practice specifically?
	So currently I do business immigration.
	Oh really?
	That's a unique niche.
	Yes.
	When you say business immigration, are we talking about getting employees documents?
	So basically like work visas or investment companies that want to start their companies here in the U.S. from other countries.
	Okay, so H-1B visas and then people that are foreigners that want to start businesses here.
	EB-2s, EB-5s, a lot of O-1 visas, which is like talents, artists, producers.
	Extraordinary ability.
	Yeah, exactly.
	Okay.
	Actually, fun fact.
	Mr.
	O-1 Pizza, the owner came from O-1 Visa.
	That's what he called Mr.
	O-1.
	Oh, that makes sense.
	Yeah.
	It's not the easiest visa to get, but yeah.
	Really good story.
	Yeah.
	Celebrities and shit like that get that.
	Yeah.
	Okay, so you basically do a combination where you're helping people get work visas to come here and also foreign entrepreneurs to start businesses here.
	Correct.
	Okay.
	So where did you go to law school?
	I went to St.
	Thomas.
	Here in Miami, actually.
	Okay, where's that again?
	It's a little more up north.
	Broward.
	Broward?
	Around there, like, um...
	Kind of near Hollywood-ish?
	No.
	But closer.
	Yeah.
	I live around there.
	How long have you been a lawyer?
	What, probably two, three years?
	Because you're 28, so...
	So, I was barred last year.
	Okay.
	So, it's been, like, roughly a little over a year.
	How long were you in law school for?
	Three years.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	And then where'd you do your undergrad?
	FIU. Okay.
	And what'd you major in there?
	So I did criminal justice.
	Criminal.
	Criminal justice.
	Alright.
	She's fire.
	Relationship status?
	Single.
	Okay.
	Are your parents still together?
	No.
	Okay.
	Birth control for you?
	No.
	Okay.
	And then what's your ethnic background?
	I'm Colombian.
	Full?
	Yeah, through both sides.
	All right.
	And I'm assuming you were born here though, right?
	Yes.
	I have dual citizenship, but I was fully born here.
	Okay.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Hello.
	Welcome back.
	Thank you.
	My name is Katerina.
	I'm originally from Europe, Estonia, but I live in California now.
	Wait, how old are you?
	I'm 21.
	All right.
	And you said you're from California?
	No, no.
	I'm from Europe, Estonia.
	Oh, Estonia.
	Okay.
	But I live in California now.
	But you live in California now.
	Okay.
	What part of California are you living in?
	San Diego.
	I go to San Diego State University there.
	Okay.
	All right.
	What do you do for work?
	I work at a student financial center, like, talking about FAFSA, you know.
	Oh, okay.
	I remember now.
	You, like, deny and accept aid, and you're in admissions, right?
	Yes, yes.
	Okay.
	That's a good memory.
	That's a really good memory.
	I mean, I remember people by, like, their work, kind of.
	Not by their face.
	Because that's a unique thing, because I, like, yeah.
	Because you don't really deal with people that, like, deal with, like, FAFSAs and shit like that.
	So, um...
	I'm surprised you remembered that.
	That's interesting.
	You got a foreign national handling something that's like government aid.
	America, my friend.
	That's interesting.
	America.
	That is interesting because people always complain, oh, why don't you guys give me more money?
	And I'm like, I don't get any money.
	You know, I don't need it as well.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, so it's like, wow.
	It is interesting that they hired me.
	But I do it good.
	But it's work-study, right?
	It's through the school?
	It's work-study, financial aid, billing, everything kind of.
	Okay.
	So, okay, so you do work-study, you work in a student...
	You do admissions and aid, right?
	Yes.
	So you're pursuing your bachelor's degree right now, I'm guessing?
	What are you majoring in?
	Marketing, professional selling and sales.
	I also have a minor in psychology, but I plan to go to law school after as well.
	Relationship status?
	I'm in a relationship.
	How long have I been together?
	Year and a half.
	Nice.
	Still the same one.
	Yeah, I was in a relationship last time as well.
	How did you meet again?
	We met in the same city, different schools, kind of through friends.
	Cool.
	Oh, so you guys met in San Diego?
	Yeah, we met in San Diego.
	He goes to a different school, though, into Point Loma University, but he's from Orange County.
	Okay, he's American.
	Are your parents still together?
	No, they're divorced, but they're really good friends still.
	All right.
	Breath control for you?
	No.
	No?
	Okay.
	And then, yeah, you're Caucasian, right?
	Yes.
	From Estonia.
	Basic bitch.
	Estonia.
	Chris.
	I mean she's basically white, right?
	She's like a European though.
	She's not from LA. How many languages do you speak?
	That's a foreign woman.
	I speak four.
	Most Europeans.
	Yeah, more than two.
	Alright, your body count.
	Is that a part of the USSR? There's a big Russian influence, that's why.
	I speak Russian, Estonian, French, but it's a little broken, and English, of course.
	Okay.
	Is Estonian, like, Slavic language, like, similar to Russian?
	No, it's not, actually.
	A lot of people think that, but Estonian is more similar to Finnish.
	It's a different type of language.
	It's not Slavic language.
	Oh.
	It's really different.
	They don't sound the same at all.
	Okay.
	Mm-hmm.
	So Estonia was a part of the USSR. Okay.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Learn something new every day.
	What was that, Chris?
	All right, body count.
	I have to say?
	I mean, you don't have to say.
	I'm just...
	I can say.
	It's three.
	Okay.
	300?
	No, three, actually.
	Y'all believe her?
	I believe you.
	You know your poom poom.
	Good.
	Thank you.
	Thank you.
	Were you there?
	Yes, girl.
	You suck that man's dick.
	Never did we.
	I believe you.
	Fantastic.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	What's your name?
	Hi, I'm Irene.
	Konnichiwa.
	Konnichiwa.
	Chris, we don't even know.
	How old are you from?
	I'm 22 years old.
	22?
	Where are you from?
	Well, I was born in Dallas, Texas.
	Alright.
	Thank God.
	What's your ethnic background?
	I'm South Korean.
	Thank God.
	Chris is wrong.
	I was getting nervous, don't worry.
	We're getting worried.
	Oh.
	You thought she was Chinese?
	Deja vu.
	What?
	Oh my God.
	I don't want to see another one, man.
	Are you first generation?
	I'm second generation.
	Okay, so your parents were born and raised here, too?
	No.
	Okay, so you were the first one born in the United States?
	Yes.
	Oh, so you're a first generation, then.
	American, is what I mean.
	Oh, wait.
	Yeah, your first generation.
	First generation.
	Yeah, first generation.
	Yes.
	Do the math.
	Oh, my gosh.
	Okay.
	What?
	Yo!
	I'm not being raised.
	She's good at math.
	Yeah, clearly not.
	Hey, stereotype is bad.
	She's actually not good at math.
	Yeah, so if you were the first one born in the United States and your family immigrated here, then you're first generation.
	Thank you.
	Like me, I'm first generation as well.
	Like my parents came from Sudan, so your parents came from South Korea.
	Are you a spy?
	No.
	Okay, good.
	They're not known for that.
	So you said you're from Dallas.
	Okay, highest education level completed?
	Bachelor's degree.
	Okay, and what do you do for work?
	Currently, I am working on building my own business.
	I am a tarot reader, and I'm also working towards pursuing...
	Wait, what's a tarot?
	Tarot cards?
	Tarot cards.
	Isn't that scary?
	Such a spiritual.
	So, no doctor.
	Well, there's a controversial opinion surrounding tarot and oracle and divination, I feel.
	She's really good, too.
	How do you know?
	She read me some cards.
	Thank you.
	She always checks up on me.
	Oh, that's scary.
	Okay, so wait, so you're a tarot card reader?
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And you said you have a bachelor's degree in what?
	Psychology.
	Okay.
	So I'm assuming you graduated recently?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Are you guys going to school together?
	No, we actually met in Dallas.
	I was on an internship there.
	Oh wow, that's random.
	So wait, do you live in Dallas and you're just visiting right now?
	Yes.
	Do you see that?
	Are your parents together?
	Yes.
	What do they think about your tarot reading?
	Well, honestly, I feel that there's a stereotype surrounding Asian parents, and you know how they're strict, or they want you to be a doctor or lawyer.
	But my parents are actually very open-minded, in my opinion, and honestly they do support whatever creative ideas or projects.
	What does your family do?
	What's their profession?
	Right now they are retired, but before...
	Oh.
	What did they do before that?
	They own their own business.
	Okay.
	Oh, okay.
	Did they have like a restaurant or a store?
	It was more of like a clothing business.
	A clothing business.
	Okay.
	So they retired and then sent you to school and then you majored in psychology and then now you're starting a tarot.
	You said you're starting your business, right?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Did you see the movie Tarot?
	I did.
	I did.
	Thoughts on it?
	Is it real?
	Is it like, what do you think about it?
	I think it, honestly, I didn't want to watch it because I feel that it was going to make me mad because it's just so, like, corny and...
	Wait, is it horny?
	Corny or horny?
	Corny.
	The movie was very corny and it just overemphasizes on the stereotype of Nero.
	So it's not actually how it happens?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	You said your parents are together.
	Birth control for you?
	No.
	I had another question, but I forgot it.
	Body count?
	Did you grow up religious at all?
	What religion?
	Are your parents Christian, Catholic, Buddhist?
	My parents are actually not religious at all.
	You didn't go to church or anything growing up?
	I was kind of sent to church because they had to work and people who babysat us were religious, so we would follow them to church, Christianity.
	I guess it didn't work.
	Well, there's so many opinions I have about spirituality.
	Yeah.
	Isn't reading cards, like, wouldn't that be considered, like, um...
	Spirituality.
	Like, that's against the...
	Yeah.
	It's against most major...
	It's considered, like, witchcraft?
	Pretty much.
	Blathomists?
	Yes, it is.
	It's blas...
	okay.
	Uh...
	Yeah, in Islam it is, too.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, in Saudi Arabia, they execute people for that shit.
	Good thing she's in America.
	No, don't go to Saudi Arabia.
	Haram!
	Stay here.
	Yeah, don't go to Saudi Arabia.
	Stay here.
	It's literally a capital offense.
	Chop your head off.
	Yeah, okay, okay.
	All right, cool.
	So what, we can read some chats?
	Some chats real quick.
	Yeah, we'll read some chats.
	All right, guys, get your questions in now.
	And then we'll go to the...
	Or do you want to hit the topic question first?
	We'll talk first.
	Alright, go ahead.
	Ladies on the panel.
	So guys, get your chats in now and then we'll ask after.
	Dating nowadays is tough.
	We understand it's a culture shock.
	People are worried about dating.
	And the biggest thing is they don't want a toxic man, right?
	They want a man that's stable, not toxic, that loves them.
	But in your experience, how do you tell if a man's toxic or not at the very beginning?
	We'll start here.
	Give us one or two signs to tell us if he's toxic or not.
	How would you know?
	This is honestly like an example that I saw recently that stuck out to me.
	I don't really like whenever men are very...
	I mean, who likes an arrogant man?
	But I think when you overemphasize, I guess, what you have or what you can do, it is a bit icky, in my opinion.
	And I feel it shows like a lack of what you have rather than what you genuinely have.
	So, for example, like bragging about like followers or...
	I'm famous!
	One million followers!
	Look at me!
	Yeah, like, but the more like...
	I have a dog.
	Do you know who I am?
	Yeah, kind of like that.
	I'm cool.
	Yeah.
	Okay, I got you.
	All right.
	So, you only want them to name one thing, right?
	Yeah, one thing.
	Okay.
	That signifies toxicity in a man.
	So, arrogant, bragging.
	Yeah.
	All right, what about you?
	I will say in the opposite way.
	I think what shows me that someone is not toxic is consistency and that you can rely on them.
	Like if they're saying, oh, this is the plan, then we're doing it.
	I'm really straightforward, so for me it's important.
	Do you want to give the opposite?
	Yeah, we need a toxic trait.
	We need the opposite of the opposite.
	Inconsistency.
	Yeah, inconsistency.
	How do you see that play out?
	Give us one example.
	Well, for example, I don't like people in general like that.
	They like people?
	Your job is working with people.
	I don't like people like that who are generally inconsistent.
	What I mean by that is, let's say people are like, oh yeah, let's do it, that's the plan, we're doing it for sure.
	I take it really seriously, and then once it's time to go, then they're like, oh, I'm not actually doing it, or I can't, or let's reschedule.
	I'm really punctual, so it's important for me that plans are consistent.
	Okay.
	For everyone in general, for me.
	Did you ever fleck on a date?
	Not exactly flake, but keep rescheduling.
	You're one of those, huh?
	Gotcha.
	Not me, not me.
	I thought you meant another guy.
	He's asking if you flake on it.
	Oh, no, I don't.
	I'm really punctual.
	If I say I'm doing it, I'm doing it.
	I believe you.
	I believe her as well.
	I'm just kidding.
	What about you?
	I mean, it's a weird question in my opinion because I'm big on, like, vibes.
	Energy.
	Yes, so I can read the room very well and I have a very good character of like judgment, like judgment of character, sorry.
	So I can just easily tell by like talking to a person whether we click or we don't.
	Alright, so give us one of these.
	So the toxicity comes.
	Yeah, what's one trait of the toxicity then since you're a good judgment of character?
	Yes, tell us.
	Like, basically, when...
	Well, if they cut you off, if they're just so self-centered into their own thing, like, just not present in the moment and just, you know, I don't know if it makes sense.
	Ghosting makes a lot of sense.
	Yeah, just not...
	I didn't understand at all.
	That's what I'm going to clarify right now.
	When you say cut you off, you mean as in your mid-sentence and he just stops you abruptly?
	Is that what you mean?
	Well, yeah, like being disrespectful, being rude, or just not present in the conversation.
	Because if you're saying how you can meet someone toxic immediately, it's because it's like the first impression of them and it's the first moment.
	Right.
	So something like that.
	And then you can just kind of feel it, you know?
	So being abrupt.
	Yeah, or just not present.
	I don't know.
	Okay, so I'm assuming these are two different things, right?
	Abrupt and, yeah.
	Yeah, because I would argue if they're interjecting in what you're saying, they're very present because they know what you're about to say or they're, like, not interested.
	So they're, like, moving it to something else.
	And just, like, their body language, like, you can tell when someone's, like, more toxic.
	All right, so you name two things.
	One is cutting you off when you're speaking, and the second is not being present in conversation.
	I would say the second one is, like, way bigger than the first one.
	Okay, not being present.
	Okay.
	This is very telling, how women perceive this question, but I will continue.
	What about you?
	Insecurities.
	You know, one of my first, one of the first things I noticed with my past relationship is that the first date, he went through my phone.
	No way!
	Yeah, like, I went into the, I don't drink, and I got out the car to go into the store, and I left my phone to play music, and he went through it.
	And when I got out, he told me, when I came back in the car, he told me that he went through it.
	And to me, that was a red flag because that was like our entire relationship.
	Like, there were multiple times that that happened.
	You said this was the first date this happened?
	Our very first date, yes.
	And you stuck with him after?
	Yeah.
	Listen, bro, that's crazy.
	What the fuck?
	Okay, what was his assessment when he looked through your phone the first time?
	Like, what did he tell you?
	He said, hey, I went through your phone.
	I saw that you were texting a few guys.
	And it was our first date, so I felt like I was in the dating field at the time.
	So I didn't have any loyalty to anyone.
	But one particular text message, it was like a dick pic.
	And he was like, why did he send you this?
	But I'm going to tell you, that guy was in jail.
	And he had a jail phone, and he texted me.
	And he just sent it.
	I didn't even respond.
	How did he get your number?
	He was my friend before.
	We knew each other since high school.
	He was a friend?
	He was my friend.
	Like, we were like, you know, neighborhood friend.
	You grow up with a person, like, we never had sex.
	We never chilled.
	He was in jail.
	He just wanted attention.
	And I would just not, like, be rude to him.
	So he saw the dick pic.
	Hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up.
	What?
	Listen.
	Red flag.
	I'm not gonna hold you.
	That is crazy.
	Because, listen, attention is one thing.
	But dick pics and responding is two different things.
	I didn't respond to the dick pic.
	So you just opened it?
	No, I never opened it.
	He opened it.
	No, but when he sent you the...
	Chris, put the camera on you, man.
	Like when your friend was in jail, right?
	Yes.
	He sent you, hey, how you doing?
	No, he said, good morning, beautiful.
	I hope you have a good day.
	Dick pic.
	And I actually, to be honest, I think every girl at the table can agree.
	We all hate dick pics.
	And if we don't respond, that's cringy.
	That's like super like icky.
	We don't like dick pics.
	If your girl responds to the dick pic picture...
	We never asked for them.
	Why did you keep them?
	I didn't ever open it.
	Why did you keep them?
	I didn't know that it was that he opened it.
	Let me get this straight.
	So he met you for the first time.
	Yes.
	First thing he saw was someone else's dick?
	I never looked at it like that.
	You guys just said that.
	That shit, great, bro.
	And you stay with this nigga?
	We just broke up.
	Yeah, I just broke up.
	Oh, that's the one.
	That's the same one you stay with.
	How long were you together?
	14 months.
	I mean, Clark Carey's man.
	And they say women are more mature than men.
	No, no, no, no.
	I felt like he had a reason because of who he was and maybe he thought like, let me make sure she's not trying to do a drop before I take her to my house.
	So I'm thinking maybe he's looking at my phone to make sure I'm not staring at a location or doing some weird stuff with my homegirls because of who he was.
	So I let that slide.
	But then throughout the relationship, the 14 months...
	Did he say that that's why he looked through?
	No.
	Similar to it, but not those words.
	He was like, I just gotta make sure I'm who I'm with.
	I had to make sure you're who you are kind of thing.
	Okay.
	So I kind of just gave it to him like, okay, maybe he's like that weird kind of guy who, like we were just talking about, like who thinks they're somebody and, and you know, so I'm, I gave, maybe it was that, but to me that's insecure.
	If he was an average guy without the fame, would you let that slide?
	No.
	Okay.
	Makes sense.
	Okay.
	So insecurity is your biggest red flag.
	I think it should be every girl's red flag because then they begin to...
	That's how insecure guys control you.
	Type shit.
	Yeah, they pull you out of clubs.
	They pull you out of, like, your happiness.
	They just...
	Insecurity's real.
	And you think that's a bad thing?
	I think it's awful, especially if you're a good-looking girl.
	Like, if...
	Everyone at the table is pretty.
	We know how it feels to have a jealous guy.
	And you see that in the beginning, and it just progressively gets worse.
	Just out of curiosity, who agrees with her that insecurity is a toxic trait and them pulling you out of clubs and stuff like that is a problem?
	Raise of hands.
	Who agrees with that?
	Okay.
	Everybody.
	Insecurity.
	All of you agree that it's a problem.
	Period.
	Period, Pooh.
	What about you?
	One toxic trait that you've seen.
	The number one.
	I really agree with everything that was already said.
	No no we need your unique take on this.
	Good thing it's water.
	Definitely inconsistency is the biggest thing that popped out for me like ghosting or just definitely inconsistency just it doesn't make sense.
	Could you define what ghosting is and an example of it?
	Someone who's there one day and then not there the next day, you know?
	Has that happened to you?
	Or somebody who, like, would say all these things and then you don't see it.
	So they give you promises and they never show up?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I pay attention to how fast somebody, not necessarily does something for me, but if I ask you for something small, I want to see a sense of urgency, if that makes sense.
	So if they don't move with a sense of urgency for this thing, it's a red flag for you?
	Not even for a specific thing, but it could be something like, oh, can you go grab this?
	It's like a real tedious small thing.
	Got what though?
	But it's like, sense of urgency is like big to me.
	Like, if you don't have a sense of urgency about what I'm asking you for, if it's a thing or like something that I need done, I don't like that.
	As far as like, you're a man.
	Like, if I ask you to take the trash out and you take a day to take the trash out, that's a red flag for me.
	Not saying like, oh, he would be at my house or nothing like that.
	Taking out trash already.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	So, you're not listening to...
	A request, I guess.
	Yes.
	And not moving quickly with it.
	Yeah, like, I want somebody to have a sense of urgency when it comes to me.
	Like, I want somebody to be quick on their feet for, like, what I need.
	You want to be a priority?
	Yeah, a priority.
	Basically, every female that deals with somebody wants to be a priority.
	Who do you think, okay, and I guess that's, I guess my next question is, like, from male and female dynamic, who do you think needs to be the one that's, like, more in charge?
	Both.
	Both.
	It's equal, but the man leaves, even in the Bible.
	The man leaves.
	Okay, so then it's not equal.
	I mean, it depends.
	It depends.
	It depends on what?
	It depends on like...
	You do understand that if it's equal, then that means that there's no one in charge.
	But if there's someone in charge, by definition, that means they're not equal.
	Well, if we're talking about sense of urgency, then it would be that.
	It would be equal.
	Because if any one of the partners are asking for anything, it should be done with the quickness.
	Yeah, but one person, you just admitted one person's in charge.
	Yeah, in the Bible the man is supposed to lead, but nowadays...
	Nowadays the females...
	If they're supposed to lead, then can you really dictate the urgency at which a request is made if they're the ones that are leading?
	Oh, that's a good question, but you still can.
	Because if they value you to a certain amount, or a certain state, not a mouse, excuse me, but they value you to a certain extent, right, they would have a sense of urgency when you ask them for something.
	So that puts you in the authority chair then?
	Still put you on priority, still have you on that pedestal.
	So that means that you're put in the authority position then?
	I guess so.
	It just depends on what's being asked.
	Are you okay with that?
	Yeah.
	So you're okay with being the leader in a relationship then?
	Sometimes that's okay.
	It depends.
	It's a time and a place, but really, the man is supposed to lead.
	So I have no problem letting a man lead.
	But it's just like, you know...
	Kind of contradicting yourself, but is this fine?
	I guess.
	Could you imagine?
	Let's say we're dating, and we're in the house, and your priority is...
	Nigga, take out the trash!
	And I say, listen, I gotta go to work real quick, but I'll do it later.
	In that example, I hear what you're saying, but the priorities work to pay the bills.
	Yeah, that's fine, but at least you're letting me know what you have going on and not sitting there, like, just sitting there.
	I have something to say about that, because that's so funny that a man would say that.
	Here we go.
	You say your priority is to work and pay the bills.
	But what if she pays her own bills?
	No, no, no.
	That's not what I was going to say.
	What I was going to say was, as a woman, our priority is to also pay the bills and also cook and also raise the children and also we can take out the trash and we can change a diaper.
	Who are you dating?
	I'm just saying.
	I'm not dating anyone right now by choice.
	But as far as handling the responsibility, I feel as though that's a cop-out.
	You can still take the trash and handle the responsibility.
	That's a five-second job.
	Don't give me that excuse when you come and say, I gotta go.
	How can I remember?
	I'm gonna give you shit when you come home.
	I'm gonna be like, but babe, you could've took that trash out.
	It was five seconds.
	Because you know what?
	On the way out to school or work or to work out or to take the kids to school, I took the trash out.
	And I still did something else.
	Who was the leader in your prior relationship?
	Like, who was the shotcaller, you or him?
	I let him be the shotcaller.
	You let him?
	Yes.
	She let him, brother.
	And I said that word on purpose.
	She let him.
	I let him.
	Because that is not my husband.
	So it was my choice to let him lead.
	I see why I came along late.
	Yo, I kid you not, that's your trash.
	That's not my trash.
	It is your trash.
	If you live in my house, that's our trash.
	Because if I'm the leader, and I'm guiding the households, that's your job.
	Says who?
	Says me.
	Oh, maybe.
	What's going on here?
	What they're both trying to say is they want to be in their feminine state, right?
	Yes.
	And they, a man will be, don't men want to have their masculinity?
	Yeah.
	Don't, isn't that what men want, right?
	Yeah.
	So by women being in their feminine state, it's letting the man dictate and just Take control of the situation.
	It's not necessarily, oh, you do this, take this out.
	It's not really the actual act of what we want you to do.
	It's more of just us being in that feminine energy and letting you be the man of the house.
	And that's what we mean by, we're both equal, yeah, obviously, but...
	You're moving the goalposts and you're trying to save them.
	What they were saying is, do what I say, nigga, now, or else.
	That's what they were saying.
	No, they're saying what I'm saying.
	I never said that at all.
	I've never treated my man like that.
	You quite literally said, move with a sense of urgency when I request something, which does translate to do this, nigga, now, do this, nigga.
	For example, if I'm sorry.
	No, no, no.
	Let me give y'all an example.
	If I'm somewhere and I tell you, okay, come pick me up or something and my car is not around, I expect you to get there as fast as you can.
	I don't expect you to prioritize and do other things before coming to get there.
	Yeah, yeah, that's fine.
	Stuff like that.
	Interesting.
	But I've also dated men who feel like that.
	What is this place that, let's use this example, what is this place that you're at that you need to urgently be picked up at?
	The gym.
	Yeah.
	You better get an Uber, nigga.
	I would never date a guy like you.
	No, see?
	I would never date a guy like you.
	Well, how did you get to the gym in the first place then?
	Let's just say my boyfriend dropped me off.
	Okay, but then wouldn't it have made arrangements like you would pick you up then and you don't need to call him?
	Yeah, we could say that No, I mean It's not really feasible, but I mean Okay, I'm feasible to me because When I say this is an urgency, I expect Anybody I'm dealing with to move a certain way with me or It's just not gonna be that Listen, you know what I'm hearing?
	I am hearing you're the priority, and nigga, whatever you got going on needs to stop for me.
	And that is a problem, because now, as the man leading the household...
	Not all the time.
	That's interesting.
	Not all the time?
	So when would I know I need to stop to please you?
	When it's getting to the point where it's overwhelming or something like that.
	But if I'm not overwhelming you, if I'm bringing you peace, and I'm asking you for small things out of whatever your daily tasks are or whatever, it doesn't matter.
	No, granted, I understand.
	I'm not talking about money.
	I'm talking about time and stuff like that.
	Time is money.
	Time is money, but just certain things, not just time or anything like that.
	I think that's all acts of kindness and love languages, stuff like that.
	And one of my love languages is I want somebody to have a sense of urgency about me.
	Like I do.
	You mean acts of service?
	No.
	Love language.
	Have a sense of urgency.
	That's not a language.
	How do you know that?
	Because it's only five.
	There's not five love languages.
	There's so many.
	How many are there?
	There's five.
	There's plenty other love languages.
	That you made up?
	Yeah.
	That I made up.
	Yo!
	Okay, you know what?
	We can move on.
	We can move on from here.
	You want to say something and then we go back to the lawyer.
	What are you going to say?
	Yeah, I wanted to address how you view that and saying that I demand or she demands or a woman demands you to stop everything.
	If my man calls me right now, if I was in a relationship, if I'm dating him or you, and I'm having lunch with my homegirls, this is how inconvenienced you guys can be sometimes.
	I've dated them.
	And I'm having lunch with my homegirl, and you say, babe, I got something going on.
	I need you to go over here and pick this up or go do this.
	You know what?
	I'm going to tell you right now, I'm such a for-my-man type of person.
	Baby, can you get rid of my tab?
	I got to go handle something for my man.
	I'm not going to question.
	I'm not going to ask him.
	I'm going to go do exactly what he called me to do.
	That's good.
	Because that's the kind of girlfriend I am.
	So if I am outside and I'm stuck at the gym, whether you drop me off or my car just lost its battery, and I say, babe, can you pick me up?
	And you say, I'm with the boys right now drinking.
	Hell yeah, I'm going to fill away because every time you call me, I'm going to stop.
	Or maybe you're just like, oh, babe, we're playing a game right now.
	Or, babe, I just pulled up to the car light and I'm looking at a car and I'm like, okay, cool.
	How long do you think you're going to be?
	Oh, bro, you can't rush me.
	I'm going to be like, whoa.
	That's rare, though.
	Not every day.
	It's not every day.
	Wait, wait, hold on.
	That's fucked up.
	So no, I get what you're saying because it should be respectful.
	Yeah, that's all I'm saying.
	You got my back, I got your back.
	That's it.
	I'm that kind of person.
	But granted though, let's say the guy actually has like a business deal going on.
	Oh, I understand.
	His business going on.
	I can't just dip and say, oh, deuces buddy, I got to deal with this shit.
	So on some level, I get it, but I understand also men's activities are something more important.
	So, to me, it sounds like their authority is reciprocal on both ends.
	Yeah.
	You know what?
	Sometimes you deal with a boss female, so sometimes a boss is going to ask you to do something.
	Okay, so you agree?
	Okay, hold on real quick so I can make sure I understand the temperature of the room here.
	Even if it's taking out the trash and you can't be scheduled.
	Okay, do all the ladies here think authority is reciprocal between the two genders?
	Raise of hands if you agree with that.
	I do.
	You, too.
	Anybody else agrees with that?
	Authority is reciprocal?
	Three?
	Anybody else agree with that?
	You're just a running lawyer.
	Do you agree with that?
	Yeah, lawyer.
	Yeah, lawyer.
	You do, too?
	Authority is reciprocal between the genders?
	Okay, what about you?
	She got caught up.
	Can you explain that a little bit?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	So they're basically saying, if he asked me to do something, I move with a sense of urgency.
	Okay.
	But if I ask him to do something, he should move with the same exact sense of urgency as essentially what they're saying.
	I mean, it really depends on the situation.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	So do you think that that authority is reciprocal between the two?
	It depends.
	Relationships are two ways.
	It depends on the situation.
	My man never has to worry with me.
	And I'm talking about to the point that any man who's ever...
	Okay, so you agree.
	It don't matter if I could have a man.
	Do you agree with them too?
	I think it's...
	That's a clarify.
	Let's assume it's not a safety situation because you guys are using a safety situation to rationalize your argument.
	Let's assume it's not a safety situation.
	It's just move the trash or hey, do this for me or something.
	Let's assume it's not safety-based.
	Is the authority reciprocal?
	Yes.
	Still.
	Okay, all of you agree.
	I'm a bust too.
	That's interesting.
	I'm always, and I'm always going to do that.
	He could say, babe, go get my laundry from the laundromat and then fold it.
	And you could tell him the same.
	Yeah, and he wouldn't even have to ask me twice.
	I'm going to fold him.
	What do you think?
	No, no, I specifically said, no safety involved.
	Is the authority reciprocal?
	You gave the example of moving the trash when you want.
	Yeah.
	So to you, because you're the one that actually started this discussion.
	I did.
	So you do think it's reciprocal?
	And you just said a second ago, it's because I'm boss girl energy.
	Or a girl can have boss girl energy.
	Yeah, not just me, whoever.
	Sometimes some females are, like, you know, I'm not saying they necessarily are the only breadwinners or something like that, but sometimes Ben do deal with breadwinners.
	That's fine.
	I'm just trying to see the temperature here so you guys think it's equal.
	In the Bible, though, it does say that too.
	No, no.
	Who made more?
	You or your man?
	In the beginning, I made more.
	And then towards the end of the relationship, his career had already started to skyrocket, so then he made more.
	But the reason that he was able to balance out because I came in a relationship, yeah.
	Who made more?
	Who makes more?
	You or your boyfriend?
	Me.
	That makes sense now.
	Okay.
	Well, okay, well, with the other girls, because all the girls think, does everyone agree that authority is reciprocal, right?
	Oh, you don't think so, it's now.
	But I think it's the situation.
	It's the situation, but the man is supposed to leave.
	I literally said there's no safety involved.
	Okay, well, the man is supposed to leave.
	The man is supposed to leave.
	So the authority is not reciprocal in your opinion.
	I'm still really not understanding.
	When you say authority, it's like demanding something or asking them to do something for you?
	It means both parties have the same amount of urgency.
	Or same amount of authority.
	And they can delegate to each other commands.
	I mean, it's a partnership, isn't it?
	It's supposed to be equally yoked.
	Okay, so I know you guys already think it's equal.
	I'm asking her, do you think it's the same?
	That's the wrong...
	Do you think it's the same or not?
	I know what you're talking about.
	I'm asking her in the corner, do you think it's the same or not?
	Men are supposed to lead.
	Men are supposed to lead.
	I agree with the man is supposed to make certain demands.
	So it's not reciprocal.
	Yeah, because we need men to guide us.
	Okay, do you think it's reciprocal?
	But there's not enough men.
	Let's get that.
	Okay, what about you?
	Do you think it's reciprocal?
	I think men should guide too.
	You think it's reciprocal as well?
	I understand both.
	I understand both perspectives.
	Genuinely, I do.
	Ladies, what is your stance?
	Is authority reciprocal between the two genders outside of safety urgency?
	Yes.
	Where she can dictate to him, I need you to do this, and he can do the same to her.
	Yeah, in 2024, maybe back in the days, but in 2024, it's the same.
	Who agrees with this?
	Raise of hands, please.
	Raise of hands so I can see.
	Raise of hands.
	I know you agreed.
	Raise your hand.
	Y'all scared.
	What the fuck?
	What's going on?
	Okay, look, look, look.
	This exercise, I'm just gonna fucking say it.
	This exercise proves my fucking point.
	You guys shouldn't lead shit.
	Why?
	You guys can't even come to this.
	I'm a leader.
	I came up here.
	No, no, no, hold on, hold on, stop.
	Now I'm gonna fucking talk, 'cause this is pissing me off.
	I'm asking you guys a simple question.
	Hey, do you agree or disagree with this stance?
	Half of you are like, ah, ah!
	This is precisely why you guys shouldn't vote.
	You guys shouldn't be leaders of anything.
	You guys shouldn't have authority in relationships, et cetera.
	Women are communitarian and you guys are followers.
	You guys are not born leaders.
	And this proves my point.
	We've interviewed almost- Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	No, I'm gonna finish what I'm saying.
	I've interviewed almost 4,000 girls on this show now, and it's incredible to me, whether where they're from, education level, background, status, it doesn't matter.
	Women have a very difficult time making concrete answers and standing on something, and they're not sure.
	And I've noticed, as you guys are trying to make an answer, you guys are looking around at each other.
	I didn't look at nobody.
	So just because you might be a little bit braver than the others doesn't refute what I'm saying.
	I'm a leader.
	I ain't never follow nobody.
	He's saying in general.
	I don't care.
	In general, the theme is typically women have an issue with standing on a certain viewpoint and there's a bunch of biological reasons for that.
	But this literally proves right now, hey, do you think authorities are reciprocal between the two?
	Uh, I don't know.
	Uh, well, I made an argument to the defender, but I don't know if I stand on it.
	Like, come on, guys.
	Listen, listen.
	Can I say something?
	If you are in a relationship with a man, you can't just say, oh, you need to do this, you need to do that.
	It's more like, hey, bae, can you please do this for me?
	Can you please do that?
	It's not like that.
	I don't know what kind of girls y'all know.
	Y'all must date men.
	We know you girls.
	That's your conclusion?
	I'm telling you.
	I mean, who's a hard girl like that that talks to their man like that?
	Who sits and talks to their man like that?
	We asked you the scenario and your friend told us, it's trash.
	Take out the trash, nigga.
	That's my sister.
	I don't say it like that, though.
	It's a way to say it.
	It's not what you But piggybacking on what he's talking about, this young man here saying that proves his point of how women are followers.
	You gotta choose your words wisely because that's a broad statement.
	No, I've never been a follower.
	That's actually something that's very known.
	I'm a leader.
	If I tell a motherfucker to eat a cookie, the whole world gonna eat a cookie.
	You heard it.
	So, I never followed nothing.
	On the playground, I was the fuckin' leader.
	I was the white Power Ranger, the pink Power Ranger, the fuckin' president, everything.
	Everybody follows suit.
	You see the fuckin' chain on my neck, I say, boss lady.
	The ring on my finger probably cost, I don't even gotta talk about it, but it is to say, I've been a boss.
	And nobody ever made me do shit, and I listen to my man.
	That stereotype talk about men like you, men like you give little dick energy.
	Like, I would never give a hit to a nigga like you, and I give a great hit.
	But I would never suck your dick because of how you talk to women saying they can't be no leaders.
	A little boy would say that.
	Like, you know the type of shit that women created?
	Like, I created you.
	What did they create?
	What did they create?
	A lot of things.
	Women created hair care products.
	Women created diet regimens that became worldwide that people like Oprah have done Oprah.
	Let's talk about Beyonce.
	Let's talk about leaders.
	Let's talk about Michelle Obama who helped President Obama become president.
	I don't know if y'all read her book but she talks about how Obama was in a restaurant that her ex-boyfriend owned and he looked at her and said, if you didn't marry me, you would have been the owner's wife.
	She said, if I didn't marry you, you wouldn't have been a president of the United States.
	You gotta know the type of woman you're dealing with.
	Y'all deal with weak-minded women.
	A weak-minded woman to follow Lee.
	You can't make me follow shit.
	I'd own this podcast if I wanted to.
	You can't make me do nothing.
	You gotta watch your mouth when you tell somebody they a follower.
	A follower is a person who do a podcast like everybody else.
	Do something different.
	We started our own genre.
	I don't care.
	It's not a genre.
	Y'all do everything that every other guy do.
	Y'all bash girls.
	Why are you getting personal with it though?
	Move along from that comment.
	Don't live on that.
	Move along from that comment.
	And then you're getting personal with it.
	I'm not personal.
	Let me ask you a question.
	No, y'all taking it personally.
	No, we're not.
	Y'all don't live on this comment.
	Do you think, because I made a general comment that you have, I made a general comment that women are typically followers and not leaders.
	You didn't say typically.
	I literally just said that the majority of women are followers, not leaders.
	And you had a point of contention with that.
	That's what I hate the guys do.
	What they do is say, I say it and then we heard them and you didn't say that.
	I did say that.
	That's not, run a tape back, that's not the words.
	I'm speaking in generalities.
	You even admitted just a second ago, you're speaking in generalities.
	And I was like, yes, I am speaking in generalities.
	Most women are followers.
	And would you not agree with that?
	I do not agree that most women are followers.
	Okay.
	Do you think men find it attractive when women are bosses and leaders and dominant and aggressive as you claim?
	No.
	No, I feel like they like it, but then they're intimidated once they get around.
	They want it, but then they don't want it.
	Every guy says, I want a boss girl.
	You're hearing all the raps, but then when you get a boss, you don't want her.
	Do you think they actually want that?
	Clearly, I just said no.
	Until they get her, yeah.
	So, if men aren't attracted to that, and they don't find, and like, wouldn't it make sense that...
	They're all type of men not attracted to it.
	I know a few men is attracted to it.
	Okay.
	Men that are attracted to women that are masculine?
	I don't know who masculine over here.
	You just described masculine tendencies.
	Being a leader, being a boss.
	That's not masculine.
	Who said being a leader is a masculine thing?
	You know what the word masculine stands for?
	Why is being a leader masculine?
	What does masculine stand for?
	It stands as, are you a man?
	That's where the text comes from.
	Naturally, there's masculine and feminine energy.
	No, I just answered it.
	What does it mean?
	You're relating it to you.
	What does it mean to you?
	No, I'm asking you.
	I'm asking you.
	The definition itself.
	Masculine.
	Masculine.
	You can't relate that to a woman.
	Like, stop.
	What the fuck is going on here?
	So, again, like I was saying, my original argument was that women in general...
	Can you please stop interrupting me when I'm speaking?
	Yes.
	Because I've let you speak.
	Yeah, we did.
	So, what I'm saying is, in general, most women follow men, and that's what they want to do.
	Now, if you don't align with that, that's great.
	But you're an exception to the rule.
	A majority of women would prefer a man that's a leader.
	Hell, matter of fact, you even admitted in your relationship, you let your man lead.
	I didn't say I didn't want no leader.
	I don't know where you're getting that from.
	I never said that.
	Okay, cool.
	So you want a leader?
	I definitely want a leader.
	Okay, so...
	But you're not going to tell me I'm not a leader either.
	Just because I want a leader don't mean I'm not a leader.
	Okay, well, you do understand.
	I'm a leader of my women.
	That's cool.
	But you do understand that if you want a leader, by definition, that means you must be a follower.
	100%.
	I'm not following you.
	All leaders are followers first.
	All leaders are great followers.
	I'll follow my man, but when you're saying women are followers...
	So women are followers in general!
	That proves my point!
	You even admitted it!
	All great leaders are followers first.
	Do you not see your logic?
	I said, hold on, hold on, hold on.
	I literally said...
	In general, most women are followers and want to be followers.
	And then you say, well, I'm not, Dan.
	You went on a whole tirade about, I'm not a follower.
	I'm a boss.
	I'm a leader.
	My pinky ring, this, blah, blah, blah.
	I'm a boss, etc.
	It's this ring.
	It's not a pinky ring.
	Fantastic.
	Whatever it is.
	Yeah.
	Right?
	And then I go on and say, well, don't you want a leader?
	Yeah, I do.
	Well then, by definition, that makes you a follower, which was my point.
	No, it doesn't.
	It can't be two leaders.
	No, it definitely cannot be two leaders in a relationship.
	You can follow your man without being a follower.
	And I can kill people and not be a murderer.
	That makes sense.
	I can follow my man without being a follower.
	That's just the man making that right wrong.
	I could follow my man without being a follower.
	You said women are followers.
	They are.
	That's a general statement.
	Following, meaning, if she says right now, let's all get up and go.
	The way you said it was, we all looked at each other when you asked us a question.
	So we're followers.
	But you're also relating it to saying, if your man is a leader, you follow him.
	That's two different things.
	I can follow my man without doing something that these people tell me.
	No, what I'm saying is that...
	You said we all looked around, so we're followers.
	Yes, a bunch of the girls, as you guys were trying to make an opinion, we're looking around.
	And here's the thing, you don't even notice it because it's a subconscious female trait to want to be accepted.
	It's literally biology.
	But by who?
	That's where you're wrong.
	Huh?
	By who?
	What do you mean by who?
	Who do we want to be accepted by?
	Society.
	Other women.
	Society?
	Yes.
	But the thing is, just because we looked at each other...
	Matter of fact, let's have fun with this.
	How many men have you had sex with?
	How many men have I had sex with?
	Yeah.
	It's none of your business.
	Oh, okay.
	Perfect answer.
	Why do you not want to say it?
	Because that's none of your business.
	Good.
	Okay.
	That's none of anybody.
	Okay.
	No, no, no, no.
	That's like a society question that people ask now.
	Okay.
	I need you to not.
	Okay.
	Okay, go ahead.
	I'm listening.
	Now, I want you to tell me, societally, why do you not want to answer that question?
	Not you personally, but like, why do women have an issue answering that question?
	Because that's not like a question that, like, it's not no shame in what I have going on, but it's like, that's not a question I would ask.
	Would it be fair to say that people would judge you and that's fucked up and it's a fucked up reality?
	No, I don't think y'all would judge me for what I would tell y'all.
	I mean, in general, people would judge.
	Yeah, sure, but y'all not that.
	Now, would it be fair to say that women are secretive about certain things that they do, especially sexually, because they can be judged?
	Not you, but in general, women.
	No, it depends on how comfortable I am to tell you.
	No, no, not you.
	I'm sorry, in general.
	Women in general.
	They don't want to disclose their body counts because of society judging them.
	I don't really care about being judged.
	Not you.
	Most females.
	Other women.
	Other women, of course they care.
	Social media has everybody's heads wrapped around a certain lifestyle.
	Stuff like that.
	It's very difficult when I try to put them in a situation because they'll internalize it.
	Women are easier to get in line through shame.
	Okay?
	That's why, for a very long time, what would people do to get women in line?
	Oh, you're a whore, you're a slut, scarlet letter, etc.
	This is why women a lot of the times need more acceptance from society.
	Because women don't have the ability or capability to physically defend themselves to the same extent as a man.
	My father shamed you, right?
	Your father shamed you?
	Your family shamed you, right?
	No, first of all.
	Let me just finish what I'm saying.
	So, every revolution that's been fought has been fought by who?
	By men.
	Because a man had an idea.
	He said, I don't like this.
	You guys are taxing me too much.
	I don't like these laws.
	They picked up a sword and fought for their ideas.
	Women don't start revolutions.
	Men do.
	So, with that said, since this is the truth.
	So, Harriet, tell me they do nothing.
	That's one woman.
	That's one woman.
	Okay, so does it have to be more than one for change?
	Okay, did women lead the civil rights movement?
	It was men.
	Anyway, so to continue on.
	Nice try.
	But the point I'm trying to make is that men lead revolutions and men don't need the same societal protection that women do.
	Women must acquiesce to social norms and social standards because they understand Holy shit!
	Me, being a whore, will hurt my ability to find a man and get taken seriously and get resources from said man.
	You gotta remember that feminism, this whole thing about being a boss and making your own money, it's a relatively new thing in the past eight years.
	Yeah, it is.
	For centuries, women have depended upon the security of a man.
	And they understood that if I'm a whore and I have a certain reputation, it's gonna be hard for me to get married and find a man.
	So women are far more susceptible to shame.
	She proved it through her story.
	She danced for 36 hours.
	Her family said, we're cutting you the fuck off.
	And her brothers told her that there's gonna be consequences.
	What did I say?
	I wanted the money.
	That's fine.
	I wanted the help.
	I didn't give a fuck about the shame.
	But the shaming was what helped.
	No, the shame didn't help.
	The money.
	Notice my mom said, did you lose your mind?
	I was gonna go back.
	My mom did not make me stop by shame.
	The help from my family made me stop.
	Regardless, shame comes with a cut.
	I still do it.
	I still did it.
	Okay, shame comes with different consequences, whether it's family ostracization, financial ostracization.
	Nobody can't shame me.
	Shame comes in different forms.
	Nobody can't shame me.
	That's fine.
	Awesome.
	The point I'm trying to make is that they were able to use that tool of shame, and in your case, financial restriction, to get you in line.
	Now, financially, you can get me.
	Okay, but that's what I'm trying to say.
	I like money.
	Okay, so by a woman doing certain things, her ability to find a man and get money is hurt by that to a degree.
	Okay, of course you can be a boss or whatever, but girls typically want to be accepted by society.
	This is biology.
	I never want to be accepted.
	How did this get into us being wanted to be accepted by society if we were asking relationship questions?
	Because when I asked you guys to give your opinion on this topic, a lot of you were reluctant to raise your hands and actually stand on an opinion because it comes back to what I've said.
	Females in general are high-minded.
	Women in general are high-minded and they want to be accepted by society and they're less likely to voice out their views or stand on something.
	It's not even that.
	I think we voice our views perfectly.
	It's just your question generally was Yeah.
	All of you?
	My question was pretty specific.
	Your question wasn't that clear.
	Yeah, it wasn't that broad.
	Is authority reciprocal between the two parties?
	And does the man have the same amount of authority to tell the man to do what he's got to do and the woman to tell the guy what he's got to do?
	And I don't think there's a yes or no answer to that.
	That was extremely clear.
	But there's no yes or no answer to that.
	Even outside of safety, it's still so situational.
	So give your opinion on what you think it is.
	That's it.
	That's what we've been doing.
	No, you haven't.
	You won't!
	They won't give!
	I don't know!
	You said an opinion, but...
	And a matter of fact, hold on, hold on, because you were arguing on their behalf, trying to clarify, and then I asked a question, and you couldn't even raise your hand fully up.
	Because I also see the other side of it.
	Exactly.
	Are you a lawyer?
	Yes.
	I am.
	She is.
	She is.
	That's crazy.
	Which is suiting.
	I mean, you gotta see all perspectives, no?
	Yes, you do.
	But make a choice, though.
	Listen, I've...
	Yeah, I made a choice if it's a very...
	But the thing is...
	You need to be able to make an argument for a side.
	Just because...
	Oh, I can make one when I need to.
	Pop it.
	Listen, I'm convinced...
	But just because we're still seeing the different perspectives of it, doesn't mean, like, we cannot make a choice.
	Look, if I ask this question to a group of men...
	Hold on.
	Keep it simple.
	If I ask this question to a group of men, it would be simple.
	Yeah, I agree.
	I don't agree.
	Men don't think that much.
	They're not that logical.
	They're not that rational.
	They're actually far more logically sound than women are.
	Far more.
	Men are more logical.
	I'm going to say this.
	I will 100% agree.
	Men are more logical in certain situations, but these new age men, y'alls, all of y'all, y'all are all boy lovers.
	And y'all sit around each other and stroke each other's egos and jack each other's dicks off.
	And so y'all be agreeing to what y'all say, like y'all doing right now and broing it up.
	So when we do it though, it's like we're, we don't know how, we're not leaders, we're following each other.
	No, I wish you guys would agree with each other when we would have this conversation.
	It's actually the opposite.
	This conversation started because you guys couldn't agree on something.
	I wasn't looking for anybody collectively for me to make a decision.
	I was making it make sense in my mind.
	And if you know, real women, we don't look to our friends to make our decisions.
	I don't.
	We do not look to our friends.
	Y'all might go to y'all homeboys and be like, so bro, you think I should talk to her?
	Bro, you think I should go pick this new sneaker up?
	Bro, you think I should start this?
	We'd be like, girl, I'm about to go do this.
	I'm about to go buy these shoes.
	We don't ask our friends.
	We do it and then we pop it to our friends.
	And I ask your opinion.
	And even if you tell me, I'm still going to go do what I want to do.
	That's actually not true at all.
	Women actually seek way more acceptance from peers when they're making a mating selection.
	Y'all slap each other butt when y'all play basketball.
	How does that refute my...
	I don't know.
	That's how random you are with these conversations right now.
	No, because you made the argument saying, we do what we want, we don't need approval.
	Right?
	That's your argument.
	That's literally what you just said.
	Women don't need approval to do what they want to do.
	From each other.
	Okay.
	We don't need it from each other.
	And I'm telling you that's incorrect.
	Do you call your homegirls when you want to color your hair?
	No.
	I'm talking about a guy.
	Because you had mentioned we don't need approval for dealing with men.
	Oh, no.
	If I want to ask my man if I should wear this, I'm going to ask him.
	I do want approval from my man.
	No, no.
	You made the argument you don't need approval from your girlfriend or your female peers when making a decision on a guy.
	No.
	And I'm saying that's not true.
	On whose behalf?
	Mine or theirs.
	Women in general.
	That's not true.
	At all.
	Women absolutely need approval from their peers.
	I just need approval from...
	Girls do not listen.
	And that's about it.
	No girl listens.
	That's like a girl code.
	Do you know how weird females are out here for me to care about their approval?
	It's subconscious, though.
	You don't even see it happening.
	You're doing it subconsciously with action.
	You don't even see it.
	We see it because we thought it goes all the time.
	Matter of fact...
	Y'all doing it right now.
	You're bouncing off of him.
	Like, right, bro?
	Right, bro?
	Y'all doing it, too.
	You are, and we're not either.
	I'm just as offensive as you guys are.
	I'm not doing it either.
	I'm the same way you guys are.
	Okay, let's use your own example that you gave.
	You said on the first date that you met your guy, he went through your phone and you didn't like that.
	But, given who he was, you made an exception, correct?
	Absolutely.
	Okay.
	Let's peel the layer back.
	And you even admitted, had he not been who he was, you would not have accepted that, correct?
	Y'all throwing it up right now with the ha-has, but go ahead.
	What?
	Okay, you're trying to deflect.
	Going back to what I was saying.
	Hard.
	You admitted that had he not been the individual that he was, you would not have accepted that behavior.
	Fair?
	Absolutely.
	Okay.
	How about if I told you the only reason you accepted that from him is because he had social proof, he was a rapper, he had some people behind him, he had some money, he had some status, so therefore, he was able to do certain things that other men can't do.
	He didn't have money, he didn't have status, he didn't have people behind him.
	He did not.
	It wasn't happening when you met him?
	No, he was just trying to get it started.
	He had a big viral video and it blew him up.
	Boom, thank you.
	That was six months into the relationship.
	That wasn't in the beginning.
	That was six months into the relationship.
	Why did he get a pass then?
	Why did he get a pass?
	Because I knew what he was going for.
	He didn't have anything.
	That man probably had $300 in his pocket.
	He probably had maybe less.
	He had social status.
	No, he had no social status.
	You just said he had a viral video.
	It happened after I met him, six months into our dating relationship.
	I recorded a video.
	If he was a regular guy, you said no.
	He wasn't a regular guy.
	That's the point!
	He still didn't have that status that he has.
	No, hold on, hold on.
	Real quick.
	You know what you do?
	What?
	People confront you of a topic, and you deflect it totally.
	That's exactly what I'm doing.
	I'm marrying you guys right now, because you guys just did that to us.
	This is why that guy probably showed up, because he's like, yo, this is frustrating.
	Talking to you, you deflect all day.
	Yeah, all day.
	All day.
	I'm like the worst girl you guys can ever talk to.
	You will never break my...
	You can't give it to me.
	No, we've seen worse.
	It's literally up here.
	Maybe, and I think you guys are wrong.
	That's your opinion, and I think you guys are wrong.
	Okay.
	And I think you guys are bouncing it off of each other.
	I don't give a fuck if everybody was watching.
	It's very simple.
	The whole worker get against me.
	You gotta know me.
	I'll stand by myself and still say what I'm gonna say.
	That's cool.
	The fact is this.
	You're not gonna be mean to girls.
	The point is this.
	You're not gonna be mean to girls.
	Who's being mean?
	You guys are just...
	You guys are followers.
	You guys don't...
	That's the truth.
	That's a biological truth.
	Women follow men lead.
	She's probably smarter than both of you guys put together.
	You know what's funny?
	You do marketing, right?
	Yes.
	Who do companies target to sell products mainly?
	Men or women?
	To women.
	I have to agree with what you're saying.
	Listen, this is facts.
	This is not how we feel.
	This is facts.
	If you don't accept it, that's not you.
	If you agree, it's okay.
	It's true.
	You can agree, and I'm still going to hold on to what I feel.
	That's fine.
	You can deflect and be disagreeable.
	The fact is this.
	Women want men with social status and money and the ability to provide resources.
	Cool.
	So therefore, a man's status and his background matters.
	Other people respecting him and other women want to be with him.
	So women definitely do, whether you want to admit it or not, need social proof from a man.
	Men, however, don't.
	If I see a girl and I find her attractive, it doesn't matter what people think about her.
	That's you.
	Please stop interrupting me.
	In general, men don't need approval of a girl socially to find her attractive.
	I don't care if a girl's lit on Instagram.
	If she's attractive and I like her, that's all that matters.
	Matter of fact, I would argue men want women that have less status.
	Women, on the other hand, you guys need status.
	You guys need a background.
	You need money.
	You need these things.
	So women absolutely care about social status from a guy.
	You're saying, oh, we can make independent decisions on our guy without approval.
	Actually, no, because that man has to be approved by society for you to even give him a chance.
	That's my point.
	Men don't need social...
	I fuck with a lot of bums.
	And where are they now?
	They're gone.
	They're still bums.
	Thank you!
	That's the only point!
	They're gone!
	So that don't mean I stayed with them for seven years.
	Yo, you are the queen of refuting your own arguments.
	Yeah, literally.
	Queen, you've contradicted your own arguments three or four times.
	I ain't a leader, but I want a man that's a leader.
	Or I'm a leader.
	No, I'm a leader.
	I am a leader.
	But I want a man that's a leader.
	I absolutely do want a man that's a leader.
	Okay, well that makes you a follower.
	No, I'm not a follower.
	I can follow.
	I'm not a follower.
	I'm not a follower of people.
	You literally said.
	You're trying to make it broad.
	Say it real clear.
	Say, do you follow your man?
	Yep.
	Do you follow people?
	No.
	So by definition, you're a follower.
	No, you're trying to make me a follower.
	You want to make a point?
	You're a follower.
	I think what she means is there's like certain parts in life where you can be a follower and some parts of life where you can be a leader.
	Maybe in her relationship she's a follower, but with random people she's a leader.
	I do everything my man do.
	I follow the leader.
	Maybe she goes to work.
	So you're a follower?
	Of my man.
	Yes, I'm a follower of my man.
	You just made a whole argument.
	I'm not a follower, nothing else.
	That's what he's saying.
	You're contradicting yourself the whole time.
	Chats even annoyed listening to you.
	They're like, yo, this chick is crazy.
	I don't grab the chats.
	I'm not even looking at the chats.
	I do this on TikTok all day long.
	I irk people all day long.
	All day long.
	You just don't make sense.
	Is there another question?
	She admitted she don't make sense.
	I'm not mad at all.
	I'm not mad at all.
	Yes, you are.
	I'm not mad at all.
	Yes, you are.
	You know what?
	How much is your ring cost?
	$2,500.
	Just for the ring.
	And it's a custom.
	You mean the comments saying that, like, that ring costs more than what we had?
	No, I was going to say these microphones.
	That one microphone you holding.
	But it don't matter.
	How much does this cost my ring?
	You want me to keep working?
	Y'all can keep going.
	Y'all that's not going to work.
	Why you don't ask nobody else questions?
	Don't let me make your show.
	Don't let me make your show.
	But probably not my bag and my chain and everything together in this Chanel belt on me.
	Don't play with me, little boy.
	Oh, shit.
	This costs more than your whole collection right there.
	Stop playing with me.
	I'm definitely walking in with like 10 racks on me.
	Which is funny because...
	Why you want to make this a money conversation?
	You being a man, you want to overpower me.
	You want to hover me.
	And nobody can ever stun me.
	No man ever did it.
	No man ever did it.
	This is custom.
	I went here and picked it.
	Your ring's fake and that bracelet's fake and it's moist tonight.
	Stop playing.
	It's too white.
	It don't even light up in the dark.
	What are you talking about?
	Stop playing.
	You got that moist night ass.
	It is light right now.
	Stop with your moist night ass stuff.
	Y'all so mad at him.
	Anyhow, you're doing the collection?
	Man, that's crazy, man.
	Nothing you can say.
	Maybe at least 5k.
	Nothing you can say.
	Nothing you can say.
	I'm so good at tuning shit out.
	This mic costs money in your collection.
	Maybe.
	My whole shit costs money.
	Everything in here.
	Keep it to yourself.
	No, everything in here.
	Your shit is...
	Everything.
	This is more than anything.
	And this shit slide up in a dump.
	That ain't bronze, man.
	Everybody knows this shit, bro.
	You know what the fuck it's hitting for.
	No, that shit's probably fake.
	Yeah, and like your bracelet.
	You know fake because you wear fake shit.
	This is actually real.
	And what kind of shit you got on?
	Jordans?
	This is real.
	What you got on Jordans?
	No, McQueen's.
	Thank you.
	What you got on Jordans?
	The real queen.
	What you got?
	Yeah.
	You mad?
	You mad?
	No, I'm happy as fuck.
	Y'all be mad.
	Everything's real on me.
	Y'all be mad because you can't get no girl mad.
	Your vibe is fake.
	Everything's fake.
	And guess what?
	And it paid a lot.
	And guess what?
	Guess how you're trying to go?
	You're mad that you tried to compare his ways.
	You know how I know you're insecure.
	I said you got nice ways.
	You had to include yourself.
	I was trolling.
	No, and I'm trolling.
	And I'm trolling.
	And I'm trolling.
	And I brush.
	I've been even before.
	It don't matter, baby.
	It's nothing you can ever say to make me mad.
	I never could be mad.
	You can't make me mad.
	I'ma just keep talking shit.
	I'm a shit talker.
	I'm from Philly.
	You can't stop me.
	I don't want to hear nothing you're saying in your eyes.
	I know what the fuck I got on.
	I know what my money like.
	I know what it's like.
	I'm just going to keep picking.
	Move along.
	You're making me the star of the show.
	Move me.
	Move me along.
	You're making me the star of the show.
	Keep being an editor of the show, still being a star, but I'm giving you your most content right now.
	There's nothing you can say.
	I can keep going until you can't end it.
	We can talk about this just like this.
	We can keep going back and forth.
	I'm never going to stop talking.
	I'm never going to stop talking.
	There's not nobody capable of making me.
	So what you going to do?
	What you going to do?
	What are we going to keep talking?
	Y'all going to focus all on me.
	Y'all going to focus all on me.
	If I wanted to.
	I'm just going to keep irritating y'all.
	We're just going to move on.
	Yeah, move on to the next person.
	Because I want to, not because you want to.
	No, because I want to.
	I'm stopping.
	Let me stop talking.
	Talk again.
	That's what I thought.
	Okay.
	I'm online.
	Toxic for me is selfish.
	I think that more toxic, can you say, it's selfish.
	Because you start to feel uncomfortable.
	You can feel stressful.
	And...
	We can feel it now, actually.
	Because for me, when people just thinking about yourself, it's more toxic than you can feel safe or something.
	So the toxic trait being selfish?
	Can you give us an example of being selfish?
	Yeah, selfish.
	Yeah, give us an example real quick.
	If you want to do something, first, you need to think about yourself.
	I mean, if I want to do something, first, it's...
	I mean, my first thing, it's not how it...
	what we'll think about my husband or someone, I mean, my friend.
	And...
	If in the end, I need to ask someone for doing something, because, I mean...
	You're not selfish.
	Yes, yes.
	When...
	When it's relationship, it needs to go to both sides.
	Both sides?
	To respect each other?
	Yes, yes, yes.
	And if I can do something because of some reason for someone told me something.
	You think about it.
	Yes, yes, yes, yes.
	So you're not selfish?
	For me, for me, no, I mean not by my side, but...
	I got you.
	So she's saying that your relationship is both sides.
	So if she wants to do something outwardly, she'll say, you know what?
	What does he think?
	Exactly.
	She's not selfish, basically.
	She's not selfish at all.
	Yeah, but her argument is like the toxic trait is the guy being selfish.
	Yeah, which means he does whatever he feels like without asking her for any input at all.
	So he needs to ask you for your opinion on what he does.
	At least think about it.
	Before you act on it, selfishly.
	Like for example, let's say they're going to, I don't know, a game, and he just says, we're going, I don't care what you're doing, just come.
	So he needs to consult with her.
	Do you guys agree with that, that the man needs to consult with you when he does things?
	Yes.
	Yes, I do.
	Raise of hands, please.
	Can we do this nice and concretely?
	All of you agree?
	Okay.
	Interesting.
	Do you have another question that you want to ask?
	Well, no.
	I got this video to play.
	Alright, let's play the video.
	This was very telling.
	And I gotta say, man, you're big mad.
	Let's go.
	I'm not even talking about y'all.
	I'm talking about my titties.
	Why am I now?
	Sorry, we have a third more chance to refresh.
	What titties?
	Yo, why are you mad at me?
	Because I got an opinion, bro.
	I'm messing with you.
	Yeah, I love you.
	I'm quiet now.
	I love you too.
	I'm quiet.
	Listen, we both flat.
	We good.
	We good.
	See, I'm nice, y'all.
	I love you.
	No, I just watched the show and I know what it's about.
	I had to do this.
	Sorry, sorry.
	I'm back to normal, guys.
	You watched the show and you didn't come with an actual argument?
	I had to give y'all some content.
	Love me later.
	That's why we over here laughing about you guys.
	No, we laugh at you.
	I love you.
	I'm sorry.
	We got some chats here, man.
	Oh my God.
	I mean, we've done it for four years, man.
	Stereotypes are confirmed.
	Just feeling like an asshole.
	What is this?
	Just feeling like an asshole.
	Pause.
	So here we go, Mo.
	You look like first form Boo if you use the power in himself.
	Because you look like shrunken voodoo doll.
	Fresh, you look like a shadow demon.
	You look like Bin Laden, less successful cousin Trash Loud.
	And Chris, next time you go to the sewers...
	To get out the rain, don't bring the rats on the show.
	What the fuck?
	That's crazy, bro.
	Black Zero, 94, appreciate that.
	Shout out to my brother, Lyrical Detox in the building for making shit happen for the after hours.
	Question for the ladies, do y'all want a man who flexes their lavish lifestyle on social media?
	Okay, that's a good one.
	We could do this with a raise of hands, yes or no?
	Who wants a man that shows their lifestyle on social media?
	Like Instagram?
	Just raise of hands if it's a yes?
	Oh, that's a no all around.
	All right.
	I don't believe in it though.
	Yeah, facts.
	Because they're going to see it and say, okay, he's somewhat competent.
	If you're doing good in life, I'll go for a date.
	Versus not going at all.
	You know, it's interesting because everything you guys, and I'm going to reveal this later, but everything you guys have said that you want is actually counterproductive to being attractive.
	Counterproductive.
	Yes.
	Everything that you guys say that you want during the course of this podcast, you know, egalitarianism, equal rights between the two, authority both sides, a man being insecure, being bad, all of these things that you guys are saying, it's actually like counterproductive for a man to be attractive.
	But we'll talk about that later.
	I just, it's, I mean, it's very common.
	Alright, what else do we got here?
	We got, uh...
	I did some research on social psychology in my class.
	The majority of FBA or ghetto black girls have the lowest acceptance rate, nothing new, in the dating market due to their masculine personality.
	That girl in the middle is a perfect example, and her level of narcissism is palpable.
	It is understandable that most black athletes prefer a feminist submissive woman, not black.
	I see why I only date Asian and Latin women who are none.
	Then I'm Elon Musk, WFNF Al Lingling.
	Do you have anything you want to say back to him?
	Do you want to respond to him?
	No, guys.
	It's all love.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	Who do we got next?
	Okay.
	I can smell a Frank Castle in here.
	Alright?
	I don't know.
	What does that mean?
	Don't worry.
	You might find out.
	Never ask a girl if she's single because if she likes you enough, she will and shall become single.
	True.
	Because every single woman in her 20s has a little bit of door to explore because they love going out and charming a new and better Cobras.
	Okay.
	Oh my god.
	That is not true.
	You guys disagree with that?
	That's not just about on.
	You guys are just trying to say something.
	Who disagrees with that or somebody was saying something stupid or they disagree?
	Go ahead.
	Why?
	Everybody is not out here looking for a person.
	Some people are waiting for it to just come.
	Do y'all believe that or not?
	Waiting?
	How would you see them coming if you're not looking?
	Because you're just supposed to let them come to you.
	Yeah, but you gotta see them coming to you though.
	Because when you look, you find the wrong thing.
	When you look, you find the wrong thing though.
	Okay.
	So you don't think women bear any responsibility with finding a man?
	It's the man to find her.
	Yeah, yeah.
	I guess you could say that.
	You guys find each other, but really the man finds her.
	I'm just trying to figure out.
	So the woman bears no responsibility.
	The man has to find her, in your opinion.
	Come on.
	It's okay.
	Yeah, but no, at the same time.
	Bro.
	Okay, alright, alright.
	Email.
	See, she can't even...
	The woman has to go somewhere for the man to find her.
	We'll do this with a raise of hands again.
	Ladies, do you think the woman has to bear any responsibility with the man finding her, or is it all in a man to find her?
	Raise of hands if you think there's some responsibility on the woman.
	Raise of hands.
	Oh, okay.
	You just...
	I'm not looking, though.
	I'm not looking.
	I want them to find me.
	You gotta be kidding me, bro.
	I'm in a relationship, though, so this does not apply to me.
	The responsibility is actually being out there, I guess.
	But, you know, not really being like, oh, where my man at?
	Yeah, like, where the nigga is.
	Understandable.
	But there's some effort.
	There's effort.
	Like, you must go out and you...
	Must look good, smell good, take care of your body.
	It's not for the man, it's for yourself.
	No, it's for the man.
	It's not for the man.
	Okay.
	That's where I get it messed up.
	Oh, so you do it for yourself?
	Yeah, I get myself together for myself.
	I keep myself together for myself.
	I keep my nails done, my feet done, all of that.
	Drake said, you don't do it for the men.
	Men never notice.
	You just do it for yourself.
	You the fucking coldest.
	That's what Drake said.
	Exactly.
	And then Drake fucked girls like you.
	Who said that?
	He does.
	I know.
	Single blowers.
	Yeah, I love Drew.
	He can do whatever.
	Well, I'm not talking, though.
	I'm done.
	I find that most men, they like women when they're not really all...
	This is just like indoctrination to a whole other level.
	They don't want to be saved.
	Don't save her.
	Ladies do realize that these musicians say things because they know that women are going to buy it hook, line, and sinker even though they don't agree with it or believe in it.
	Kamala Harris, for example.
	She literally admitted that marketers market to women more because women are consumers and women are more likely to buy.
	So if I know that my target demographic is easier to sell to if I say certain things, wouldn't it make sense to behoove me to say those things to make sales?
	That's why Meg went on with the Kamala.
	Does that make sense?
	No?
	Yeah?
	Let's critically think about this for a second.
	Would you guys all agree that men have gone soft within the past 15 years?
	Yes.
	I agree with the statement.
	Do you guys all agree with that?
	Some of them.
	Not all of them.
	But a majority?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Would it be fair to say that during this same time we've pushed out music that is extremely feminine and emotional and one of the leaders of this was someone like Drake.
	I'm in my feelings and all this other shit.
	W Marketer.
	Like, um, Loverboy and all of that, yeah.
	Yeah.
	Even though, when you look at his personal actions behind the scenes, he doesn't actually do what he says in his songs.
	No, he doesn't.
	A lot of rappers don't.
	Oh.
	So he says this shit about, oh yeah, we don't know this and blah blah blah, but what is he doing on the side?
	Hiding kids?
	Fucking bitches?
	All this stuff.
	He's a loverboy?
	Hiding kids is crazy.
	He does all the things.
	Amen.
	Hiding kids is crazy.
	He does all the things that are contrary to what he says in his songs.
	Have you guys caught on to that yet?
	No.
	So he lies to y'all, feminizes the men because they think it's okay to be on their feelings and shit like that.
	It's all propaganda.
	It's good marketing.
	It's definitely marketing.
	Everything's marketing, though.
	Yeah, but if I didn't point it out just now, y'all would have been still quoting Drake.
	I didn't quote Drake.
	I'm going to always quote Drake because I like his lyrics.
	I don't say anything about Drake.
	I like the lyrics.
	I wrote that part, thought about us, and I relate to that part.
	Yeah, I thought about y'all because you guys are easier to fool.
	You guys are way easier to fool.
	This is why, if you look at the advertisers...
	I fool y'all every single day.
	So I think y'all are easier to fool.
	Y'all give us the money.
	Who?
	Who?
	I fool men every single day.
	So I think y'all are the clowns.
	Y'all pay us.
	Y'all pay us for OnlyFans, for videos, for dancing, for food.
	There's a difference.
	Same for women and girls.
	The argument I was making was not for women who fools who more.
	It's simply that advertisers target you guys because you guys are easier to sell.
	No, you didn't switch it.
	No, you didn't.
	Because I was keeping it to advertisers and females, then you said, well, I fool a bunch of dudes.
	What does that have to do with what I said?
	I was piggybacking off of it, but it's okay.
	I don't want to go back and forth.
	Doesn't make sense.
	It had nothing to do with the argument at hand.
	I apologize.
	Like, that's like saying, oh, the sky's blue.
	Well, you know what?
	It's actually gray some days.
	That didn't have anything to do with what I was saying.
	But, alright.
	I'm losing brain cells.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Next one.
	Take the trash out, nigga.
	Okay.
	I said that.
	She said that.
	Fresh updates.
	That wasn't me.
	If you met a man who had his life more together than anyone you've ever known, someone you didn't teach a thing to, but could make you better in every way, your health, your money, your thinking, would you submit and follow his lead, or would you still try to lead him?
	Yes, I'm submitting.
	Sorry.
	Would all of you follow a man?
	Absolutely.
	I thought you weren't a follower.
	I said I follow my man.
	So that's where you keep switching words.
	Exactly, I follow my man.
	What you do is just like men do.
	Y'all twist words, y'all hear what y'all want to hear.
	You heard me very clearly, but you're going to do this thing like you didn't fucking hear me.
	Watch this back when this is over.
	Yeah, and I said I want to follow my man, not people.
	So you're a follower.
	If my man was this, I'm going to follow him.
	So you're a follower?
	My man, yep.
	So by definition, that makes you a follower?
	No.
	Because the way you're trying to use it.
	The context was in relationship, not in general.
	Yeah, if you follow your man, by definition, you're a follower.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, in context.
	We never said work or anything else.
	This is crazy.
	Holy.
	Can you imagine living with her?
	One on one.
	Yo, it's about her man came home late, man.
	That's why the nigga was drinking.
	Yeah, he was drinking hot.
	He was like, fuck it, bro.
	I need a break.
	He's like, I need a penny, man.
	Niggas out till 4 a.m.
	I'm out of here.
	Why are you home late?
	I don't care, fuck, man.
	I don't care, fuck, man.
	I don't care.
	I took my dick, man.
	Bro, hi, nigga.
	Yo.
	I don't get drunk, too.
	He became an alcoholic.
	Yo, what the fuck?
	He was stressed out.
	He was.
	Yeah, I stand on business.
	Hey, listen.
	All right, queen.
	That nigga next.
	I hate guys who call girls queens.
	Y'all are the biggest abusers.
	Okay.
	What the fuck?
	That is actually true, though.
	That is a fact.
	Ain't calling nobody a fucking queen.
	Manny Hernandez says, the question is for a woman in the middle.
	Or that question.
	They love me.
	I told y'all this was my show today.
	All right.
	Sampson says, Thank you for the content.
	You guys got me through the scandemic when I got divorced and I had to live in my truck for a year.
	So I got back on my feet.
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	I'm tracking my fitness while I get back in shape on the road.
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	YouTube at Iron and Steel on 18 wheels.
	Good job, bro.
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	Sampson Atlas, good job.
	That lawyer is dumber than a box of rocks.
	Cozy comfort.
	What the fuck?
	You want a response to this nigga?
	Don't say nothing.
	Well, she practices a law that's very, uh, nebulous.
	She's fucking smart.
	She's an immigration lawyer.
	He only took one dollar.
	She richer than you.
	Let me shut up.
	Chaos Wax says, Coastal Club Miami provided so much value.
	Shout out to the best mobile detailer down south.
	Downsold detailing.
	How do you spell it?
	That's kind of...
	Yeah, it says, First of all, there definitely needs to be Castle because the Queen is wilding out.
	Second, Myron, there's a vocal translator on Amazon for Club 100 for all the foreigners that Chris keeps bringing on.
	Vocal translator?
	They can't understand Russia.
	I mean, I thought she was good, bro, but I don't know, man.
	I got tough skin.
	The man cloud.
	He said, oh, the black bitch in the middle is trying to get...
	trying everything to get a good argument.
	Yeah, she's in the family.
	Yeah.
	Never ask a girl if she's single because she likes you.
	Oh, we read that one, Cam, two times.
	Anything else?
	WFNF, thank you so much.
	I sent you a DM on Twitter, fresh update.
	Okay, ladies, you think men or women are more privileged in 2024?
	And how are they more privileged?
	All right, this is actually a good one.
	Last this one real fast.
	Are men or women more privileged in 2024?
	We can start here.
	Yeah.
	Comrade, do you understand?
	Not a lot.
	So who gets more benefits, men or women?
	Men.
	Men?
	Sure.
	In America, not Russia.
	We are not talking about Russia.
	America.
	It's simple here, yeah, but in America, I think it's the same.
	Like, not the same, but men have more power.
	More privileges.
	Yeah, more privileges.
	All right, what about you?
	Who has more privileges in 2024, men or women?
	I'll have to say...
	Women.
	Women?
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Woman.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Women.
	Alright.
	Period.
	Women.
	You fucking with me?
	Right now?
	Oh no, I'm just saying general.
	Type shit.
	What about you?
	I agree, women.
	But, I mean, the thing, why I think that is because women have the ability to choose kind of what they want to do.
	As for man, he always has to work, you know, to get that status and everything.
	But for me personally though, I want to work on myself.
	So I think it depends what you want to do.
	Whether you want to be in your feminine or masculine energy.
	Period.
	But you still think women have more privilege?
	Yeah, I do think.
	In general, for sure.
	What do you think?
	Women.
	Alright, why do you guys think women?
	You gave your answer, but why do you think women?
	For me, I think, objectively speaking, society does...
	Acknowledge a woman based off their physical beauty.
	I feel that that's just what society expects.
	So because of that reason, women do have pretty privilege.
	And that's just something that you don't really, like you can't really deny that.
	Even if you were to believe something else, like if you have other core values or ideals, that's still what society does expect.
	So I do feel that.
	A woman's looks does get them some sort of access to certain things and I'm not gonna lie and say men don't have their own privileges, but in that way...
	What privilege do we have over women?
	Yeah You said about this you said in the last one the fact that you guys can um No, no, let her answer.
	Think about this.
	Can you think of a privilege that men have?
	If you can't, it's okay.
	That women don't?
	I can only think of one.
	It's not even really a privilege.
	Can I come back after?
	Sure, sure, sure.
	It's a tough one, I know.
	We'll give you two hours.
	Okay, she already gave her reason.
	Why do you think women have more privileges than men in 2024?
	I mean, especially in Miami, too.
	Let's make it not as easy.
	No, let's not say Miami.
	Well, what about generally speaking?
	Why do you think women have more privilege?
	If you want to go into Miami, then go extrapolate that into the rest of the world.
	That's fine.
	But why do you think so?
	Extrapocate.
	Wait, what?
	I just repeated the way he said it was funny.
	Wait, say it again?
	No, I was just being funny.
	No, no, no.
	I want to hear it.
	He is.
	Sorry, no, no.
	I didn't hear it.
	Extrapocate.
	That's not what I said.
	I know.
	I was just being funny.
	I was just being funny.
	I was just repeating.
	When I hear big words, I just repeat it so that I can use it one day.
	Coconuts and Barbados.
	Cheese.
	That's two words.
	Cheese on bread.
	Cheese on bread.
	Why do you think women have more privilege?
	I just feel like sometimes it's easier for us to get stuff like naturally without really trying just kind of like piggybacking on like what she was saying like as a female like sometimes it's just easier all right you know why do you think it's women have more privilege Me?
	Yeah.
	Just by what you require these days.
	If you're dealing with someone who, for me, like she said, if you want to work, you don't.
	If you want to work on yourself, I just feel like we have more leisure to do those things than men.
	Like, we don't necessarily require those to have to work like you guys do.
	Alright, what about you?
	Didn't I already answer that?
	No, you just said women have more privilege, but I'm asking why do you think that?
	Um, the societal things, like pretty, we get indoors easier, we can, you know, just stuff like that, because we're pretty.
	Okay, what about you?
	Yeah, I feel like as far as, you know how they say, like, face card never declines.
	It would have to be, like, when they first see you, it's definitely, like, pretty privileged.
	That's the thing, like she said.
	But I feel like, honestly, women, they have it easier because we can, there's other ways that we can get, like, what we need as far as, like, we can just be nice to somebody and we can get something.
	Guys, you guys have to get a career, get a job, like, Have nice shoes.
	Yes, you have to have nice shoes for somebody to want to deal with you, you know, like stuff like that as far as like image and stuff like that.
	What about you?
	You're the only one that disagrees.
	You think men have more privilege.
	What about getting job?
	I mean, higher position, it's more about men.
	Oh, that is true.
	It's actually not.
	Well, she's from Eastern Europe.
	In the United States, you're far more likely to get a job as a female than as a male.
	Well, she's talking about levels of the job, though.
	They're most likely going to give the position to a man.
	I would argue women could promote easier than men, especially if it's male-dominated.
	I don't know.
	She has a different outlook because she comes from an Eastern European world where they don't, like, you know, they kind of acknowledge gender differences there more realistically.
	So I can see why she came up with that answer.
	But we're talking about the United States.
	Oh, okay.
	But in Europe it's the same situation in Europe.
	It's like...
	No, it's not.
	In Russia?
	It's Russia and...
	No, I'm not talking about Russia.
	Yeah, in the Czech Republic it's not either.
	I mean, feminism is a thing, but you guys aren't as far ahead as we are.
	Which is why you have that belief.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Did you come up with the privilege?
	I did.
	Okay, what's the privilege that men have that women don't?
	So, I have two.
	Go ahead.
	I feel that men have the privilege of feeling more safe than women.
	I knew she was going to say that.
	Okay, and number two...
	You're wrong on that, but it's fine.
	I'll let you keep going.
	So, for the second one, I do believe that, especially like you mentioned, in a more male-dominated field or where these, I guess, traditional views of men and women do exist...
	Women are not taken seriously than men are, and I feel that that is a privilege that men do have.
	Yes.
	Okay, so your two things that you think men have experienced privileges, one, feeling safer, and then two, being taken seriously in the workforce.
	Okay, the first one is wrong because men are overwhelmingly the victims of violent crime, not women, it's men.
	Like where you're like 10 times more likely as a man to be the victim of violent crime versus a woman.
	And then the second thing you mentioned about being taken seriously.
	All right, you can make that argument, but I would argue that women get more opportunities at least so they can at least be taken seriously.
	So you can go ahead and get into certain rooms that I can't because you're a woman, and then you at least get the opportunity to prove yourself that you're not a bimbo.
	But whereas the man doesn't even get the opportunity.
	So yes, you might not be taken seriously in the beginning.
	They're like, oh yeah, she's probably just a hot piece of ass.
	We brought her in here for looks.
	But then if you actually show that you're competent, you can do shit.
	They're like, oh wow, okay.
	You know, they'll change their minds.
	So, I would argue, if a woman doesn't get taken seriously, that's her fault for being incompetent.
	But she at least gets the opportunity to show her prowess.
	And get in the room.
	I disagree.
	Why do you disagree?
	Tell them.
	Well, first I'm going to begin with the safety.
	Okay.
	I think you mentioned earlier how men, I mean, we can acknowledge that men are physically more stronger than women.
	Yes.
	So, therefore, I think it is way more understandable that a woman would feel less safe and a man should.
	Yes, there are men against other men.
	Okay, you said an important word just now.
	You said feel.
	Right?
	You do understand that you can feel something, but it's not real.
	I'll give you an example.
	I can feel unsafe, but the reality is you're very safe.
	So feelings doesn't necessarily represent reality.
	But a lot of the times women tend to think that their feelings do represent reality.
	So just because you feel, I feel unsafe, statistically speaking, you're far less likely to be assaulted than I would be walking down the same dark street that you're worried about, statistically speaking.
	Wait, what statistic?
	I just explained it.
	Men are far more likely to be the victims of violent crime than women.
	Okay.
	Way more.
	Okay.
	I was about to say.
	I feel that also with femininity or like masculine feminine energy, feminine represents emotions, intuition, feeling.
	So I feel that intuition is associated with feeling and that in a lot of situations can keep you safe.
	I mean that's cool but like what does that have to do with like I would say that that you just made my argument stronger by saying that women have more privileges.
	The goal here is you're supposed to show how men have more privilege.
	There are two things that men have a privilege that women don't.
	I'm saying those two things you mentioned aren't true.
	Much.
	Because the two arguments you gave was women aren't as safe, because you don't feel that safe, but I'm saying that it's not true, because men are more likely to be assaulted physically, victims of violence.
	The second one is being taken seriously, but I'm making an argument that you at least get the opportunity to be taken seriously.
	I just feel that the only reason that a man would feel unsafe is against another man.
	So I do feel that it's more privilege for a man to feel safe because it's only against their own gender, whereas a woman does have to worry about a man because of the physical, I guess, strength difference.
	I get that.
	You can worry about it, but it doesn't mean it's real.
	You can feel unsafe, but be completely safe.
	You understand it, right?
	It's a threat, but...
	So, like, if I'm in my house, right, and I'm scared of ghosts, and I hear a sound, right?
	Like, I can...
	Oh, my God!
	I feel unsafe!
	Casper's here!
	But, realistically speaking, I'm perfectly safe.
	I just feel unsafe, because I think a ghost is there, but it's not true.
	And this is kind of the difference between men and women.
	It's like, you guys tend to interpret your reality through your feelings.
	It's actually an inherent flaw in female nature.
	I hate it.
	Oh, damn.
	Thank you.
	Like damsel in distress vibes.
	I don't like it.
	No, I was going to argue more low IQ vibes.
	But like, it's women interpret the world around them based on their feelings.
	You just made an emotional argument that's not true, factually speaking.
	I feel that.
	I like to say feel.
	That's the problem.
	Emotional intelligence is also a form of intelligence to me.
	Can you define emotional intelligence first?
	What is that?
	I'm curious.
	Emotional intelligence is when you're able to utilize your self-regulation as skills by understanding your emotions and allowing that to help you understand the world around you and people around you.
	Would it be fair to say that that boils down to interpreting the world through your feelings?
	Yes.
	That's precisely why I just said it's a fault of yours.
	Interpreting the world through your feelings is a flaw.
	You know what?
	I'll give you an example.
	I feel like you make orange chicken.
	Do you?
	I can.
	I can air fry it.
	But do you?
	I have.
	And I bet you it's good, right?
	Period.
	You might feel like I like chicken.
	Fried chicken.
	But is it true?
	What?
	No, is it true?
	What is true?
	I said you might feel like I like fried chicken.
	Is it true?
	I'm not sure.
	But it's a feeling, right?
	Yes.
	But does it make it true?
	No.
	That's all he's saying right now.
	She does like fried chicken, so you'd be feeling right.
	But the reality is that your feelings are not, like, how you feel versus what's real are two different things is what I'm trying to explain.
	I agree.
	I think what she's saying is there should be a healthy balance between logical thinking and also, like, intuition.
	Yes.
	You know what I mean?
	Masculine.
	Yeah, it has healthy balance with everything.
	No, it should all be logically sound thinking.
	No, definitely.
	But that's, you're a man.
	What in life is balanced, though?
	Yes.
	That's a good thing.
	And that's why we're better decision makers than you guys and we're better leaders.
	This is why 90 plus percent of the inventions in the world were created by men and the civilization that we live in was created by men.
	I don't want to sound like an asshole, but women don't really contribute much to society.
	And a lot of men became successful off of having a great woman in their life.
	Not really, bro.
	I just told them what Michelle Obama did.
	I'm just saying.
	No, because it's law.
	Have you guys read Think and Grow Rich?
	Chapter 11 talks about this.
	Yeah, like really, really.
	Same for Michelle Obama's book, same for Trump's book.
	And you're also forgetting how many men's downfall came from one woman as well.
	Exactly.
	So it's a give and take.
	It's a give and take.
	How many women's downfall came from a man as well?
	Look, I don't know too many.
	You said how many what, downfalls?
	What was that?
	You can ignore her.
	I'm asleep.
	Please don't yell at me again.
	I don't want to talk.
	I just had an opinion.
	I mean, I don't want to go back and forth.
	I don't want to go back and forth.
	I just had an opinion.
	Are you okay?
	Yes, I just don't want to go back and forth.
	She doesn't want to have her opinion challenged?
	No, I don't want to make it about me.
	We can go on all night.
	Anyway, so with the whole thing about a woman being behind a man, look, I understand that a woman can come in and accentuate a man's success, but I'm under the firm belief, and I think we have evidence to kind of show this nowadays especially, women don't really build, they move in.
	And what I mean by that is, the man has to be in his position where he's established, where the girl is even going to give him a chance.
	Or, at least beyond the trajectory, to be established.
	Ambition.
	At least.
	Okay.
	I could go ahead and marry a girl and turn her into a millionaire.
	Right?
	A chick that's a millionaire ain't going to look my way if I'm not one already.
	That's the difference.
	Women marry up.
	Or they date up.
	We are okay with dating down and raising a woman up to our level.
	So women don't build.
	That's what I'm trying to say.
	So when you make that argument, oh, she could come in and help and whatever.
	Cool, she can.
	She could accentuate what he has going on.
	That's all that I'm saying.
	Yeah, but he would be successful regardless is my point.
	That's okay.
	Maybe not reach the same level, but he would still be successful.
	I was only saying that a woman comes in and accentuate.
	I wasn't disagreeing with you.
	No, but you're trying to...
	See, women love to...
	This is the thing, because I've talked to so many of you.
	You guys love to try to trivialize the man's struggle and success and say that it's attributed to a female.
	And my argument is that it's not attributed to the female at all.
	She kind of made it a little bit better.
	That's all I'm saying.
	Look, a good cake is a good cake whether you put a cherry on top of it or not.
	The cherry on top is the female.
	The man is the base of the cake is my argument.
	That's okay.
	I agree with that.
	So you're literally like, and I'm agreeing with you.
	Okay, so by definition, you're not significant.
	Well, I am significant.
	I'm very significant.
	You just agreed that you're the cherry on the cake.
	Yeah.
	Yo, Terry.
	So you're insignificant.
	You're replaceable.
	To the man, is my argument.
	Can I ask a question?
	Look, simply put, I don't think a woman's presence in a man's life Is as significant to their success as many women try to propose.
	Okay.
	That's what I'm saying.
	Because had the man not been in a certain position or have a certain level of ambition or not have a certain stature, he would have never gotten the woman in the first place.
	The woman was just intelligent enough to understand that he was on the path to success and she's like, I'm going to jump on this because I can help accentuate this.
	Right.
	But that's my point.
	You're fairly insignificant to the process.
	Can I ask a question?
	I agree with you.
	That's fine.
	We are.
	But how are you insignificant to the process if that's what the man wants?
	Because he would have reached that level regardless whether or without you.
	A man is going to do what a man is going to do.
	Maybe not as far, but he would have reached 90%, maybe not 100%.
	How much money do you make a year on paper?
	You asked us, what's our body count?
	Why can't we?
	How much money you make of your own paper?
	On paper.
	You could pull up your taxes right now.
	Let's just say we do very well.
	No, let's just say that's so vague because you made her say she was in bed.
	That was a rhetorical question.
	I wasn't actually going to have her answer.
	No, you said social status requires us not to announce those things because we don't want to be judged.
	But a man won't answer me right now because you don't want to be judged.
	No.
	What do you make?
	What did you make on paper, honestly?
	Man.
	Exactly.
	No, no, no.
	I don't want to talk about no more.
	It's okay.
	He said it before.
	I hear him.
	Look.
	So I'm asking right now.
	What did he say?
	Did y'all hear what he make a year?
	Look.
	Exactly.
	So you're trying to complain.
	So you're trying to tell me right now, and if I dated you and you came into the store, this is outside of the podcast, I just saw you coming to Publix.
	You're a tall, attractive man, okay?
	I'm gonna be like, hey, I don't care what you do.
	I don't care how much you make.
	I like the vibe you just gave me.
	The vibe.
	I like the energy you just gave me.
	You probably looked handsome.
	You probably gave me a compliment about the color I was wearing.
	I'm like, okay, so let's switch numbers.
	And then you're going to take me on a date.
	I've definitely gone on dates with guys who have made less than me, and I've liked them still.
	If I didn't date them anymore, it's probably because they did some...
	No, I stayed with a guy for seven years, and I don't want to put his business out there.
	No, that's not why I left him.
	I left him because it was something very serious.
	He got someone else pregnant, and he wanted to stay.
	He wanted to work it out, but I didn't want to stay.
	And I felt bad because I was like, did I stay with his broke ass for seven years?
	And that's the reason I will not stay and help build a man again, because after I did that, it was pointless.
	So that's not true.
	All women don't do that.
	Some women just like you.
	I'm a woman...
	I know my sister is.
	I know she is.
	Sometimes we just like the guy.
	It's not about the money, the social status.
	I just like you.
	Like, I would date a poor, I would date a regular working guy who worked in fucking Target that was nice to me, who came home every night, who respected my family.
	And you know what you would do?
	I would never.
	Boss him around.
	I never bossed him around.
	No, I let him boss me around.
	I let you drive my car.
	I let you.
	I split my money with you.
	See, but you know what you're doing?
	You're saying, I let him.
	No.
	I'm sorry for just saying that, because I did say that.
	It's true, though.
	It's true.
	But I only said that because you're like, oh, you wouldn't let him.
	No, I would.
	If you want to drive my car, I don't mind.
	So, question.
	If he was rich and fucked my other girl, would you have stayed?
	No, because he did this time and I still left.
	So then, why'd you stay with a guy for seven years who was broke?
	I learned my lesson.
	That's pretty stupid.
	That was very stupid of me.
	And most girls will learn that the hard way.
	I learned the hard way, but I'm only pointing that out to say I dated someone when I was making six figures and they were making $35,000 a year.
	And I never made him so bad.
	He made one mistake.
	Yeah.
	Cool.
	So I guess now you're saying it's a mistake, but then you're saying I only choose people who are up.
	So is it my mistake for just loving someone?
	You said it was a mistake.
	So what's a mistake?
	You said he did a bum.
	You gotta understand that when we speak in generalities, it might or might not reflect what's going on with you, but it does not refute the fact that it's still true.
	Yes.
	So when I made the comment that women don't build, they move in, what I mean by that is a majority of women would prefer to not build a man up.
	They'd rather kind of either get on a guy that's on his way up or already is up and then accentuate that.
	I believe that.
	They don't want to sit there and build a man up.
	Now you even admitted in your own situation that you built guys up and it was frustrating and you had issues with it.
	I definitely did.
	So I wouldn't want to do it again.
	And you won't do it again.
	Because I learned my lesson.
	Absolutely.
	So that's my point.
	Yeah.
	Even in your own experience, you will never do it again.
	But you can't say a woman won't do it because we will until we learn our lesson.
	Absolutely.
	We will until we learn our lesson.
	So we will do it.
	But you learn your lesson.
	So it's not the right lesson then.
	It doesn't matter, but we will do it.
	It doesn't matter because it's not right.
	And you also got to understand that different women have different tolerance levels for men ineptitude.
	So you...
	Have a higher tolerance for it.
	I dated a guy that made 35k and I tried to build him up.
	There's other girls that won't even give a guy a date that makes that kind of money.
	Exactly, and that's why I say there's an exception to women that you put in this broad bucket.
	You do understand when you make general statements, the exception doesn't make the rule.
	Yes.
	Okay, so I made a general statement.
	Now, going back to the whole thing because you asked me about my money or whatever, I think it's important to note that With men, we have many metrics of what we can be attractive by.
	You guys only have one, really.
	Your looks and then your sexual past.
	That's really the two main things that men look for.
	Men, on the other hand, we can be charming, funny, make money, have status, have charisma, be good looking.
	We have many different things that we can bring to the table.
	You guys really only bring two things to the table.
	Not be a whore and be attractive.
	That's what men look for.
	So, I would argue that what you guys bring has a lot more weight because it's only two things.
	Those two things have a lot more weight.
	So, to try to conflate a man's status to a girl's sexual past, I see what you're trying to do there, but they're not the same.
	No, no, I just had to bring up that topic.
	I really wanted to know how much you make.
	I don't understand how that, I mean, I'd be happy to tell you that off air, but I'm not going to say it off air.
	Exactly, because that's a part, that's something that you care about.
	I mean, I've been pretty transparent about it.
	No, but remember we were talking earlier.
	Because I have real estate and then how much I make on paper versus how much I actually earn.
	Give me an average of what you make a year.
	Are you the feds?
	No, no, no, because I can go get my phone right now and pull up my tax papers and mine say 175 last year.
	So I just wanted to know what you're saying.
	And when we leave here, I'm going to go get my tax papers so I can show you.
	That's crazy.
	Yeah, so I wanted to just know what you made.
	You was talking shit about how much money we make earlier.
	I just want to know.
	Are we a pair of penises here?
	I guess y'all can say that, but still never drop the number.
	To me, I just think y'all broke.
	I just think y'all broke.
	Well, you fuck broke, niggas.
	That's why I think that y'all broke.
	I can smell one because I'm used to them.
	I can smell one.
	Y'all do this because y'all don't want to answer how much y'all make, so y'all making it about me again.
	Nobody does.
	But no, the guy in there, the other guy in there showed me what he made.
	The other guy in there showed me what he made.
	He didn't mind.
	He opened as soon as he'd known me for two minutes.
	Yeah, I'm broke.
	No, y'all broke.
	I just think y'all broke.
	And I'm a hoe.
	And I fuck broke niggas and I'm a hoe.
	And y'all broke.
	I still drive my 2,200.
	I'm broke.
	Y'all broke.
	Y'all broke.
	Yo, you broke.
	It's blacked out.
	Toyota Corolla game.
	Y'all probably date girls who got me signs.
	Yeah, facts.
	Big asses, BBLs from Niggas Will Pay.
	Word.
	They do pay for the bodies.
	They do pay for the bodies.
	Definitely.
	The whole building thing.
	I don't think they build in general.
	I was explaining that.
	Anyone else disagree with that?
	It's fine.
	In general, yes.
	What?
	No, she agrees.
	I just agreed.
	In general, yeah.
	And the whole privilege thing, does anyone else have anything that where a man, I guess, has more privilege than a woman, or you guys think he does?
	We all said women, except her.
	Okay.
	All right, well, we got some more chats, or you want to do the video?
	Yeah, chats.
	I just got one more question.
	I got one more thing.
	All of you guys agree that women have things easier than men?
	Yes.
	So it's easier to get ahead as a female in 2024?
	Yes.
	We run the world.
	Eaters.
	We run the world.
	They're all here.
	We're tapping everything.
	Sports, music, movies.
	We run the world.
	Podcasts.
	I'm talking about the WNBA right now.
	We made a lot of noise this year, so don't hate on us.
	Y'all really hate girls.
	Let me go around the table and ask you a quick question.
	You guys, you're a college graduate.
	So, like, how'd you feel if, like, you, someone that was less educated than you or didn't work as hard as you to get to your position tried to be your boss and tell you what to do?
	How would you feel about that?
	It happens.
	I mean, I would feel it's very unjust.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	What do you think about that?
	I agree.
	I think I know what point you're trying to make, but I agree, yes.
	What about you?
	I agree, too.
	Someone that didn't get their law degree trying to tell you what things are, how the world works?
	I agree.
	What about you?
	What do you think?
	I agree.
	You agree with what, specifically?
	I agree that no one can, like, I agree what you said.
	Say the sentence again.
	I can't repeat you, but I agree of your statement.
	Repeat the...
	I just asked the question, like, how would you feel if someone...
	How would I feel if somebody came in that didn't have an agreement?
	...that was less competent than you and tried to tell you what to do or how to do things?
	I would be upset.
	Alright, what about you?
	If somebody less with less experience try to tell you something in the same position that you have more experience than them.
	Oh yeah, like I'm a makeup artist, so if someone who doesn't know how to do makeup came to me and tried to tell me how to do it.
	Fair enough.
	I would be like...
	What about you?
	Someone knows more about...
	For sure.
	They claim they know more about insurance.
	For sure.
	For sure.
	Alright, what about you?
	Okay.
	So, I kind of find it interesting when women say that they have the same authority as a man.
	It's a reciprocal, going back to what we said before.
	Like, as a man, you have to do...
	And you guys admitted that it's harder for men, and it's easier for women.
	So, if it's easier for you guys, why should a man listen to you?
	I feel that masculine energy and feminine energy differs because you lead with your heart or you lead with your head.
	And both parties have to be able to rely to take the lead and be able to make that decision on following someone.
	What's more important, making a decision by the heart or the head?
	Who makes a more rationally and logically sound decision?
	Someone that makes a decision with their heart or someone that makes a decision with their head?
	I'm not gonna say one is better than the other and the reason for that is if you live life only leading with your head you will never truly be able to see what you truly enjoy in life and whenever you lead with your head it's more Yes, it's important for survival skills.
	Masculine energy is decisiveness, being sure and secure, providing, whereas feminine is more receptive and nurturing, compassionate, intuitive.
	So I do feel that those are both equally important in my opinion.
	Yeah, but who needs to be the leader knowing that the stark difference is between the two?
	But there are exceptions.
	Some women, like for example...
	Yeah, but I'm asking her.
	I do feel I agree with her as well because I... She didn't even finish her sentence.
	What do you agree with?
	The fact that she said that there are exceptions to the rule.
	I feel that some women are more in their healthy masculine or wounded masculine energy.
	But what's going to be more conducive to a successful long-term relationship?
	The woman being in her healthy masculine energy as you're trying to claim or the man being in their masculine energy and being the leader?
	I think all that matters is there is opposing energies.
	Okay, so how can there be opposing energy if the man's masculine and she's masculine too?
	That's why she wouldn't go for a masculine man.
	Yeah, I would go to somewhere more on the feminine side for a guy.
	That's not true at all.
	Masculine women actually prefer hyper-masculine men.
	That's not always true.
	For me, I know I couldn't be with a really masculine guy.
	She's hyper-masculine.
	Hey, would you prefer a guy that's feminine or would you prefer a guy that's more masculine than yourself?
	I don't like feminine guys.
	I don't like hot guys.
	There you go.
	She accepts her masculinity.
	Yeah, I like pretty boys.
	My boyfriend is really pretty.
	Who's the decision-maker in your relationship?
	I definitely make more decisions.
	Do you think your relationship is going to last?
	Yes.
	I promise you it won't if he keeps going that route.
	It's lasting.
	Has he ever cheated?
	She's in college right now, so she doesn't have to deal with it.
	He hasn't cheated one time.
	He?
	No.
	Me?
	Either.
	Nobody has cheated.
	Where's he right now?
	He's in San Diego.
	I know.
	He's in school.
	What's he doing right now?
	I don't know.
	He's probably in his apartment or with his friends.
	Look, this is what's going to happen.
	I'm going to give you a...
	Don't put that in your head.
	Don't even create those scenarios.
	That's why girls become insecure.
	This is what's going to happen.
	I'm going to go ahead and predict what's going to happen.
	You guys are going to get out of college and you guys are probably going to move in together or you guys are going to live separately.
	If he doesn't assert masculine dominance over you to some degree where he becomes a leader and a provider and a protector, you're going to look otherwise for another man.
	Because this only works when you're in college and you have the social confinement of protection, living in your dorm, having a job where it doesn't really matter how much money you make and you have the security of that.
	But once you get out into the real world and you're no longer in college and that there's real consequence of not being financially adept, You're gonna go ahead and either, A, raise your masculinity and be unbearable to him, or B, he's gonna have to step up and become the leader.
	So, yes, this is great.
	I'm a college grad myself.
	I get it.
	It works when in college, like, you can both be broke and be like, yeah, we're so happy together.
	But once you get out into the world, I promise you, if he does not step up and actually become a man and tell you what the fuck is going on, you're gonna leave him.
	But I can provide for myself as well, and I can provide for him.
	That's true.
	That's true you can provide for yourself.
	I agree with that.
	However, you're not going to provide for him is my point.
	Yep.
	How do you know that?
	Because I know female nature.
	Women that provide for themselves.
	Matter of fact, you said you make more than your guy, right?
	Yeah, I do.
	If he doesn't step up, you're going to leave him too.
	No, I'm not.
	Okay.
	It's not about the money.
	Oh, really?
	No, it's about how somebody makes you feel.
	It's not about the money.
	That's the thing.
	I'm making it about money.
	It's about how somebody makes you feel intellectually, spiritually.
	You never know what your person needs you for.
	Sure.
	You just said it, right?
	How he makes you feel.
	Yeah.
	Guess what feelings are.
	Okay, we get that part.
	Not constant.
	We get that part.
	We get that part.
	People change every day.
	So granted, you probably won't stay then.
	You don't know if I'm gonna stay.
	That's not for y'all to decide.
	That's for me to decide.
	I'm staying.
	I'm loyal.
	He loyal.
	I haven't had no issues.
	See, I can't save you.
	Who cheated on y'all?
	First of all, you have problems, so you can't be talking, man.
	I can talk to myself, man, because I left them.
	If I was still with them, then I couldn't talk, but I was a woman of two weeks.
	But you're saying for now, over people's situations, you guys don't know what people have going on.
	You're living on it.
	We thought the same thing.
	You thought, you know what?
	The feelings are there.
	No, keep it real.
	They hate girls.
	I love this woman.
	She loves me.
	They hate girls.
	Love forever.
	No, we're just very fast.
	Hold on, hold on.
	What did we say that makes us hate girls?
	You've said this comment a few times.
	I'm just a little confused.
	I mean, she's watched clips.
	What have we said that makes us hate girls?
	Who said I watched the clips?
	You just said that.
	No, I just wanted to know.
	I wanted to put the voice in.
	I know, I did say that.
	What makes us hate girls?
	Can you give us one comment that makes us hate girls?
	No, I don't want to.
	So you can't even substantiate your stance?
	I don't want to do it.
	Substantiate.
	So you can't...
	No.
	You made an assertion, so I'm asking you, okay, can you substantiate that assertion through facts?
	Yeah, when I get home and talk to my girls about it.
	I'm like, y'all remember when they said this?
	Alright, so what you said is false then.
	Yeah.
	So we hate girls and you can't even prove it.
	She is not single.
	I'm not single.
	Y'all ain't married though.
	Okay, soon come.
	Alright?
	Uh-huh.
	Alright?
	There's an issue here, right?
	You remember Noah's Ark in the Bible?
	The story about Noah, right?
	About the flood?
	We're telling you, as messengers, I want to say, prophets of the truth.
	We're telling you what's coming, which is the rain, but you're saying to yourself, you know what?
	I got this.
	I'm in charge.
	There's no rain coming.
	Then when it rains, you're like, damn.
	They warned me about the rain, but I was too arrogant and insecure to understand what's happening.
	I just want to know, are you married?
	I was married.
	Okay, why'd you get divorced?
	I don't want to be there.
	I know, but why?
	I didn't want to be there anymore.
	I know, but what was the reason?
	I just felt like I made a choice where I was following more so religion and it wasn't...
	Marriage isn't the man's mission though.
	Wait, I wanted to hear what he said.
	I wanted to hear what he wanted to say.
	So I made a choice off of being...
	So why did you marry her the first time?
	Religion.
	So you marry her solely off of this is what I have to do?
	Yeah.
	And then why'd you divorce her?
	Because I didn't want to be there anymore.
	I would never take advice from you.
	I need more...
	Would you ever get married?
	Hold on, hold on.
	Are you married?
	I'm divorced.
	Exactly.
	Yes, because I left.
	He didn't have ambition.
	Oh, so you're better than me to talk about this?
	No, you're not.
	No, that's why I don't give relationship advice.
	That's why I don't do that.
	Ladies, hold on one second, because you're trying to disqualify the whole Reign analogy.
	Okay, you do understand that men are the ones that give out the relationships, right?
	That give out?
	We give out the relationships.
	In order for you to get married, which is what I think most women typically want, is to be in a secure, long-term relationship, which, you know, pretty much ends up in marriage.
	A man has to get down on one knee and give you the relationship.
	That is true.
	Okay.
	So, since we control relationships, we're telling you guys what men look for for you to get wiped up.
	So, to tell a man...
	Are you divorced or are you in a relationship is a faulty premise because we are the ones that give out relationships.
	That's like me saying, do you fuck people?
	You'd be like, the fuck?
	You weirdo?
	Why are you asking that?
	We're humans.
	No, you're a girl.
	I'm giving an analogy.
	We're all humans.
	I'm a girl, you're a boy.
	No.
	Holy shit.
	I'm giving an...
	You're tracking, right?
	What I'm trying to do here?
	I'm giving an analogy.
	Men give out the relationships.
	Women give out the sex.
	Correct?
	Can we agree on that?
	It's more than just that.
	Is that all you guys think that girls have to offer?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	The main commodity.
	What is the main commodity that women offer men?
	I mean, we cook.
	I don't.
	I said main commodity.
	Main commodity.
	Some women can also, like, help a man get, you know, like...
	Let me make this simple.
	The main commodity women provide is sex.
	The main commodity men provide is resources and security.
	Okay?
	That's what it is.
	Back in the day.
	That's what it still is today.
	It boils down to those two things.
	Okay.
	Okay?
	Because you want a marriage, right?
	Everybody would want marriage.
	Okay, well, marriage is a traditional thing.
	Back in the day.
	Okay.
	So, for a marriage...
	Sorry.
	So, the man wants sex, woman wants a relationship.
	So, we're the ones that give out the relationship.
	So, for her to say, are you divorced?
	You can't really use that as a sting to us.
	If you guys aren't married, that's your L. We're the ones that give out the marriages.
	Like if I was to say, oh, you're a loser because you're a virgin.
	That'd be stupid for me to say that.
	You want to know why?
	Because you can go get sex anytime you want.
	So you think when a relationship ends in a marriage, you think that was his wife's fault he chose to leave because he chose the relationship so he also was able to choose to leave?
	She failed, yeah, because a woman that isn't married is like the same as a guy that's like a virgin.
	They're all losers.
	I'm so sorry for all the girls y'all dealt with, because no wonder the guys, I get these guys hell, because I never had that issue.
	Okay.
	Women are selective with who they fuck, and they can pick who they fuck.
	We pick who we marry.
	I never had that issue.
	We pick who we marry.
	By choice.
	Okay.
	Impossible.
	But no, it never could be impossible.
	Yes, because...
	What the fuck?
	Yes, yes, it is.
	You're single, because no one likes you.
	I would never date you.
	I could never even listen to you talk.
	Add hominist to text.
	Relax.
	I have to.
	Men dictate who gets married.
	Women dictate who fucks.
	A woman that's a virgin has kept her value and guys want her.
	A guy that isn't married and has status, he has value.
	Women want to get married to him.
	I was a man in my other life, I'm sure.
	We have different things that we bring to the table.
	Like, you guys want to get married and get in a relationship.
	We want to get sex.
	I don't want to be married.
	Are you saying that that's all men want, though?
	I don't.
	That's the main commodity that women bring to the table.
	And here's the other thing, too, I find funny when girls say I'm single by choice.
	That's a lie.
	That's like me saying, oh, I'm watching porn all the time in my basement, but I don't have sex with girls out of choice.
	No, I can't get laid because my sexual market value isn't high enough and women don't want to fuck me.
	I'm an incel, okay?
	That is the same as a woman that can't find a husband.
	You are a wife cell.
	But here's the thing though.
	Women don't like to take L's and you guys don't want to hear the truth.
	If you can't get married as a female, you failed!
	You fucking failed.
	But we don't tell women the truth, man.
	Like, you guys are always winners and princesses and tens.
	It's bullshit.
	There's a metric of failure for men and there's a metric of failure for women.
	The metric of failure for men is I can't get laid.
	I am a fucking loser.
	I'm an incel.
	A woman that can't get married is a wife's cell.
	You can't get fucking married.
	And I would argue it's even more embarrassing because you guys get thousands of opportunities and you still can't get married.
	So that's even more embarrassing.
	Damn.
	Anyway, mic drop.
	Thank God I was married.
	And you ain't married anymore, it ain't count, but I can still get a ring.
	And she can get a ring, and she can get a ring, and she can get a ring, and she can get a ring, and she can get a ring.
	She can get a ring.
	I got time today.
	Can you keep the ring, though?
	I can keep my ring.
	I took the ring off.
	Look, getting a ring, you gotta get a ring from a man that you actually respect and admire.
	Why would I like him?
	I did.
	Okay, let's use your logic.
	You can get a ring anywhere.
	Let's use your logic.
	Let's say I walked around and I said...
	The last guy just tried to get me a ring too, didn't want it.
	I'm gonna use your logic.
	The guy before him tried to get me a ring, didn't want it.
	Okay, you can get a ring.
	Cool.
	What if I told you, I fuck hella bitch, I'm very attractive, and I whack off to porn, and I whack off to a new bitch every day.
	What would you say to that?
	That's kind of like cringy.
	I don't know if I like that.
	Why is it cringy?
	Probably true.
	Like, you said you jack off to porn?
	Yeah, it's a nude bitch every day.
	I don't like that.
	Blondes, midgets.
	You don't like it, right?
	Can you tell me why, bud?
	Why you feel...
	I don't feel...
	I don't know how anyone else has felt, but to me, I just don't like a man that's into porn.
	Okay.
	I just don't like it.
	Okay, would it be fair to say that it takes no skill?
	For porn?
	Yeah, for me to whack off to porn, it takes no skill.
	I can just whack off to it.
	I mean, I guess I don't know, you know, how guys, I don't know what turns you, you know, as far as porn, I don't know what you get from me.
	The reason why you don't like it and you don't respect is because the man doesn't take any skill or work to whack off the porn, right?
	No, it just, it just...
	Ow!
	No way!
	No way!
	Stop the show.
	We're done.
	What's going on?
	He put lotion in his hand.
	Just Chris.
	What happened?
	Cut it.
	That's so deep.
	I don't know about the...
	Damn, that kind of threw me off.
	The topic was men whacking off to porn.
	You don't respect it, right?
	No, I don't respect that part.
	You do understand by you saying, I can get any other guy I want.
	That's like a dude whacking off to porn.
	Takes no skill.
	The skill is getting the man that you actually want.
	I've got men that I want and I don't like them after a while.
	Whose fault is that?
	It's probably theirs.
	Why y'all act like that?
	Then they're not the guy!
	That's my point!
	Probably after a while I get bored fast.
	I wanted that bitch too and then I went up and I'm bored now.
	I don't like commitment.
	I have commitment issues.
	I just have commitment issues.
	It's me.
	It's definitely me.
	I come to realization issues.
	No, they love me and then I leave them and then they get hurt.
	That's why my name is the addiction.
	They fuck you and then they leave you.
	I've never.
	No, no, no, no, no, no, no, baby.
	No, they love me.
	They all got my name tatted.
	I'm all over on their social medias.
	Their mommies love me because I don't want them.
	I have commitment issues.
	It's me.
	It's never y'all.
	I'm the problem.
	I ain't talking your name, baby.
	I'm a problem.
	They get obsessed.
	You missed the entire point of what I was trying to illustrate is that you cannot brag about men wanting to propose to you or be with you if they're not the men that you actually want.
	Just like I can't brag about saying I get bitches when I'm whacking off to new girls every day on porn.
	It doesn't take skill.
	You don't get bitches because if you was getting bitches you would be fucking a bitch every night.
	Thank you very much.
	That's my point.
	That's precisely my point.
	It doesn't take skill for a woman to attract a man, and it doesn't take skill for me to whack off to porn.
	That's true.
	That's my analogy.
	That's true.
	I'm using an analogy to show how your argument is futile.
	It doesn't make sense.
	Yeah.
	Futile.
	Fatality.
	In your mind.
	In my mind it does.
	Fatality.
	We got a lawyer in the house.
	I mean, does this make sense to you?
	I'm giving a functional equivalent.
	I know you understand logic because you have to do it on the bar.
	I'm giving a functional equivalent to show that your argument makes zero sense because you try to sit there and say, well, you're not married.
	You're divorced.
	That's a false equivalent.
	It's not the same.
	I didn't say that.
	I wanted to know if he was because I wanted to see his point of view.
	It doesn't matter, though.
	That's irrelevant.
	I don't take advice from people who don't master.
	Like, you didn't successfully have a good marriage.
	I wouldn't give a person...
	I don't want to be married, though.
	I wouldn't give anyone marriage advice because I didn't successfully complete that.
	So I don't sit...
	I didn't give marriage advice, though.
	But you talk about relationships.
	I'm telling you that.
	He gave you examples of...
	That was...
	I'm talking about earlier's conversation.
	Y'all talking about now.
	But I'm saying right now.
	I don't talk about it.
	Because...
	You...
	Said earlier that me being divorced is a cause to not listen.
	But if you knew how men work, how society is now, being married as a man is an L. So that's why I don't want to be married right now.
	It's a huge L. I could lose half my wealth.
	I could be...
	They're missing the point that we're the ones that give out the relationship.
	So to shame a man for saying you're not married is like saying, hey, you're a virgin, woman.
	When in reality, that woman has high value because she's a virgin.
	Because she picks who fucks.
	We pick who gets married.
	How do you guys not understand this shit?
	Like, you're either low IQ... Okay, then what are you arguing?
	What are you arguing?
	You cannot sit there and say, you're not married to a man when we're the ones that give out the marriages.
	That's like me saying, you don't fuck!
	Yeah, and I'm not a whore.
	Stupid.
	Yeah.
	That was kind of dumb.
	And we're not simps.
	Stupid.
	We marry the girl that we want.
	Stupid.
	This is crazy to me.
	Like, it's common.
	Stupid.
	This is what I mean.
	Logic, facts, giving you an analogy, functional equivalent.
	Oh, I don't agree with that.
	And I still disagree.
	All right, man.
	You just don't agree with reality.
	Yeah, that's fine.
	That's fine.
	We ain't gonna...
	Yeah, it's fine.
	What do we got here?
	You want to play the video?
	No, no, no, no.
	We'll do the chats for now.
	Okay, the chick in the middle has two brain cells.
	Yeah, sound about right.
	And they both competing for third place.
	Based on her arguments, you can tell she's sharp as a marble.
	Sound about right.
	As intelligent as some of these girls believe they are, somehow they still can't connect the dots as to why they get put in the sex-only category.
	I've never been in the sex-only category.
	I've always been wiped up.
	I don't know.
	That's what I told you.
	I guess.
	Debbie Meyer for ratio in that trap thought on X. Yeah, she's a whore.
	Bro, this shit is crazy.
	These women know that there are two multi-millionaire table at the men, bro?
	bro what the fuck nah chill man we're broke we're broke yeah we're definitely broke yeah thank you 175k uh yeah i just want to see what y'all is and that's me by myself That's me by myself, and that's on paper.
	I just wanna see what y'all's are.
	I mean shit, and I don't have debt in my credit goods, so I just wanna see what y'all's are.
	So I come to the table with no baggage.
	I have a lot of debt.
	Like I literally don't.
	I have so much debt, you and I believe.
	That's on your real estate.
	How'd you know that?
	Oh, oh, Barbados.
	Oh, shit.
	Barbados?
	She's on bread.
	She's on chicken bread.
	In my back, in my back, I plant this tree.
	You're crazy.
	You're a asshole.
	She's cute.
	How'd you know that?
	Alright, what's up next?
	CO Network, shout out to you, Grizzman.
	What else do we got here?
	I'm eating chicken right now, and you can't have none.
	Why do women believe Harris will protect the right to choose when she doesn't have children of her own?
	That is a good question.
	Let me ask, actually.
	Alright, who's voting for Kamala Harris?
	Raise of hands.
	She don't want to raise her hand.
	I can't even vote.
	For the American citizens here, who's going to vote for Kamala Harris?
	Or who's going to vote for Trump?
	I don't want to vote for anybody.
	If I'm being honest, I am leaning more towards voting for Trump, and I think it's just less propaganda with Trump.
	Okay.
	I think I can't vote, but if I could, I would probably also vote for Trump because he's being upfront on what he's gonna do and also- A leader.
	I believe he's gonna bring- You see what happened?
	I don't know if you noticed that it's able.
	What?
	They are reluctant to answer the question until the first girl spoke up.
	Listen, Trump is a businessman.
	You see that?
	Yeah.
	Chat, y'all saw that?
	Trump is a businessman.
	Look, politics- No, no, it's fine.
	We're just noticing how you guys like- Politics is a little- What?
	Really deep.
	I mean, who's gonna attack you?
	No one.
	Alright, so you said, what about you?
	You said you're leaning towards Trump too.
	What about you?
	Trump, I mean, I really, I didn't raise my hand because I prefer not to vote really, but Trump is a businessman.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	So I'd vote for Trump.
	You're not voting at all?
	I don't have a comment about that.
	Alright.
	I would just pick...
	What about you?
	I don't speak about politics.
	I'm not going to get into that.
	Exactly.
	I don't speak about politics at all.
	I'm just curious why.
	I'm not going to get into that.
	Because...
	No, if you don't get into it.
	So many layers.
	People always end up upset for some reason.
	We're just asking.
	That's it.
	We're not going to actually...
	This isn't a political podcast.
	You can just say you're leaning towards Kamala or Trump.
	I'm leaning towards Trump.
	Me too.
	What?
	Okay.
	He still made you say it.
	That's fine.
	Why were you scared to disclose that, just out of curiosity?
	No, not to disclose it, just not to get into it.
	Exactly.
	I can disclose it, that's fine.
	Why were you worried about, like...
	I'm not worried, I just don't like to get into politics.
	I can disclose that, I mean, I did.
	You know what's interesting?
	That I've noticed?
	Women that are Trump supporters never want to say that they're Trump supporters, or are leaning towards him.
	I wonder why.
	Because it's a tight...
	Wrong.
	It's a tight thing with that.
	You do realize you proved my argument that I said way earlier in the show, right?
	What?
	You remember?
	What was it?
	You are fake news.
	Who's fake news?
	Nobody.
	I made the argument earlier saying that women are communitarian and they're far more likely to go with what other people say and they don't lead revolutions for a reason.
	Oh yeah, females.
	Yes, and they're followers more than leaders.
	It depends, again, on that.
	In a majority of situations since human history women have typically been in follower subordinate positions because of this very thing.
	Men follow too.
	If he's big bro, you're gonna follow big bro.
	Pop it.
	Yeah, but men don't follow for the same reasons women follow.
	I guess so.
	Depends.
	You don't really make any arguments.
	Did you notice that?
	I don't want to make an argument with y'all.
	That's not what I'm making.
	You respond and you deflect and give a wishy-washy...
	I didn't deflect, though.
	You are, because you're like, oh, it depends.
	It does.
	On what?
	It depends on what?
	It depends on...
	It's a deflectory comment towards something that is generally true.
	And then you try to minimize it by saying, well, it depends.
	It does.
	It does depend.
	We live in a day and age where it depends.
	Times are changing.
	I promise you, sisters, for real.
	I see it.
	No, I mean, she's made a bunch of contradictory statements and stuff like that.
	They both deflect.
	Like, I'm a leader.
	Okay, cool.
	It says so in the Bible.
	It depends.
	That's not what I said.
	That's not what the Bible says.
	No, no, no.
	That's not what I said.
	You said, I could be a boss, too.
	And I can't.
	We're both leaders.
	And then I was like, okay, well, one has to be a leader.
	And you're like, well, I don't know.
	It does say in the Bible that men are supposed to lead.
	It does say that.
	Does it not?
	So then how can you both be leaders then?
	I never said that we could both be leaders.
	You literally said, verbatim, it's 50-50 equal, yes.
	Okay, so sometimes a man can lead and sometimes a female can lead because a man can't lead in every single aspect of his fucking life.
	Like what?
	A female has to fit in somewhere.
	You do understand, by saying it's 50-50, that means there's no leader.
	Okay.
	Wait, what can't a man lead in?
	Um, shoot.
	Some men don't be spiritually, like, together.
	Like, some people don't be spiritually together.
	Like, sometimes men need prayer.
	We don't need to check off.
	Like, for real, for real.
	Some dudes really don't be spiritually women.
	- No, no, man.
	- Yeah, spiritually like females do for men.
	- We don't need to be females.
	- Gay.
	- Hot sauce.
	- We're gay, man.
	- Like spiritually, some men don't know how to pray.
	They don't know how to do certain things.
	- I'm trying to see what. - I don't wanna joke out with hot sauce and be with you.
	- Like men don't lead in every single thing.
	They be like, "Oh babe, can you do this?
	"Oh babe, can you organize this?" They're not good at organization.
	- Look man, we're gonna hire somebody.
	- Men are better than women at almost every single human endeavor that actually matters.
	Because you said so?
	That's a fact.
	Name one thing that women are better than men at.
	I said human endeavors that actually matter.
	Actually, the best chefs are men.
	The best chefs in the world are men.
	I'll say it one more time.
	Men are better than women at almost every single human endeavor that matters.
	There you go.
	Look, it's the truth, man.
	Like, are there some women that are exceptional?
	Why don't y'all just have an all-man podcast where y'all just sit and talk about women instead of having us on here and to tell us to our face that men are better than everything?
	Can you refute what I said?
	Nope.
	Use it.
	Probably not.
	Okay, that's why I bring y'all out, to show how much better we are than y'all.
	Alright, let's keep on.
	Alright, first of all, it's $10, yep.
	Because we need to see it with their own eyes sometimes.
	Yep.
	Why do women believe Harris will protect the right...
	Oh, no, we got that one already.
	Yep.
	Most of the girls here actually support Trump, it sounds like.
	Found this on Instagram, AI No Joke.
	Okay.
	Ladies, do you think Lizzo is hot or not?
	I feel like Lizzo is forced on us.
	Lizzo is forced on us.
	Not gonna lie.
	That was the question.
	Do you think she's hot or not?
	No.
	She's forced on us.
	Alright, who thinks she's hot?
	Nobody?
	I don't even know how she looks.
	Okay.
	I don't even know how she looks.
	If you think Lizzo is hot, would you be...
	Oh, no, we already got it.
	W. Chris.
	W. Chris.
	Alright.
	What the fuck?
	Okay, Big Mo, sing your theme song.
	Say this name and he appears.
	I believe in Mo Hendry.
	Clap, clap.
	I believe in Mo Hendry.
	Alright, move on, man.
	Yeah, move on, man.
	Alright, man, let's go.
	That wasn't gay at all.
	What the fuck was that?
	I don't know.
	The cards see three castles in the near future.
	Okay.
	WFNF, WBills, WMO, WChris.
	Fuck these hoes.
	Oh, is that what it says?
	Yeah, probably.
	What else?
	Oh, okay.
	Forget to send this last week when it was National Dog Day.
	WFNF, Dogs, Leah, and Hero.
	Is that real pictures with y'all, with y'all dogs?
	Yeah.
	I can't stand both of y'all.
	Oh, that's cute.
	Hero's cute.
	Hero's cute.
	I don't know about that little thiefie dog.
	I can't stand both of y'all.
	Look how nice they are to those dogs and how mean they are to girls.
	Don't worry.
	You're shutting down right now.
	Hero?
	I think we've been fairly respectful given the rhetoric that's been said on the podcast.
	I think we've been extremely patient and respectful.
	Again, I think y'all should have a whole table of dicks up here.
	I mean, we've had dicks.
	You've had quite a few dicks.
	I just feel like you guys should have a whole table of dicks up here.
	What makes you say that?
	I just feel like you guys should have a whole table of dicks up here.
	What makes you say that, though?
	I feel like y'all should have a whole table of dicks up here.
	What makes you feel that way?
	I'm asking, what makes you feel that way that we should have a table of dicks here?
	Because all y'all do is bash girls.
	Did we actually bash women, though?
	Pretty much.
	What did I say that was bashing, specifically?
	Don't worry about it.
	Interesting.
	You make an assertion.
	Interesting.
	I ask you to go ahead and explain said assertion.
	But you can't.
	And you can't.
	So are we actually bashing women?
	I just don't feel like it.
	Then tell us how we bashing women.
	I don't feel like it.
	Feel?
	I don't feel like it.
	Okay, so you can't prove your point.
	Maybe.
	No, it's fine, bro.
	All right.
	Because the thing is, if I make a claim, I'm able to explain precisely why I made that claim.
	And I am, if I feel like it.
	For you.
	You actually can't.
	I guess.
	Because I'm asking you to, and you can't do it.
	I can't.
	Fantastic.
	That was my point.
	Hey, for you.
	I like proving your point.
	You have been the whole show.
	Thank you.
	Shout out to Lingling and Exumiron from Arlington, Texas, WCast Club.
	Are you from Arlington?
	No, I'm from Dallas.
	Oh, sorry.
	You got it wrong, buddy.
	Alright.
	Oh, no, I think he said he's from Arlington.
	Arlington is like...
	Yeah, it's right next door.
	Right there, yeah.
	Yeah, what else we got here?
	No, bro, it's not like last time.
	I swear she's changed.
	She promised me it'll be different.
	And then I think we might actually have a future together.
	Yeah, that's a clown shit.
	What else?
	Alright, let's go to the video.
	Like, we have no time.
	Men talk, too.
	What do you mean?
	It's 1.30.
	Chris, go to the fucking video.
	Alright, go ahead.
	Go to the fucking video, man.
	Alright, do it, man.
	Can you explain the background on this video?
	So, basically, toxic men are all over the place, according to women, and they love getting you pregnant.
	So, this is the video.
	Yeah, let's enlarge the video here.
	When a man says he wants to get you pregnant and he doesn't respect you, you guys aren't happily married, you should view that as a threat.
	Toxic men love, love, love, love, love to get you pregnant.
	And they love to make you have multiple babies.
	You gotta understand, a baby for a toxic man is a form of control.
	A baby is an indication to him that he has you on lock for life, at least for the next 18 years.
	They think you're going to be stuck.
	They think they can come back whenever they want.
	They think that they're going to delay you and ruin your life with the baby.
	If the man is toxic, I'm telling you that's how he thinks.
	You really have to protect your womb out here if you are dealing with somebody who is toxic and always asking, when you gonna have my baby?
	Never.
	Please tell him never.
	Because I'm telling you.
	Once that baby comes, he's gonna switch up.
	Sometimes they even wait before the baby comes to switch up.
	Don't do it.
	If you're not happily married to somebody, this is why the Bible says be celibate because y'all, it's real out here.
	They really target your womb, especially if they know you're a good woman or if they're jealous of you in any type of capacity.
	Or if they even hate you, oh, they're going to want to keep you pregnant.
	Trust me.
	All right.
	Interesting take there.
	Crazy.
	Guys, come on over to Castle Club.
	We're going to go ahead and have a deeper discussion on this and then we'll close out there.

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