After our edition, we're joining some lovely ladies.
Let's get into it, guys.
Let's go.
What are you doing?
What are you doing?
My money cares, bro.
Get out.
Get out.
It's the night.
Kind of pattern.
In the night.
No control.
F*** out.
Put your shoes on outside.
Yeah.
Get out.
Get out.
You don't got to put them on in here.
I know the night is not just what seemed.
I must believe in something so I'll make myself believe it.
It's like a moment.
Even I will never tell a sign.
If you can't believe it, I will never tell a sign.
Questions and questions.
All right.
What's up?
Welcome to Fresh It Podcast.
After hours of this show, we're joining some lovely ladies.
Before we get into that, quick announcements.
Number one, guys, yacht party, okay?
On this Saturday, August 10th, 2024, 9 p.m.
to 1 a.m., we're going to be leaving from Fort Lauderdale, Florida.
So for all you guys that are maybe out of Central Florida or maybe not in Miami or in the middle, you guys will be able to find us a little bit easier there in Fort Lauderdale, Florida.
That's where we're going to be leaving.
And we're sending you the address tomorrow.
Yeah.
Full detail.
Yeah.
Yeah, so 9 p.m.
to 1 a.m., guys.
We're probably going to leave around 9.30, so make sure you're there early.
We're going to have a bunch of girls there.
I don't know, I see what the number is at right now.
What's the number at right now?
Over 150.
Over 150?
Which is a lot more than we expected because...
They're all baddies.
So it's going to be a good time, guys.
We've got 150 girls right now so far.
Probably going to have some more.
So it's going to be a lady, man.
And the yacht holds up to 380 people, man.
It's going to be a three-story yacht.
130 feet plus.
I mean, we can show some of the pictures for you guys.
So it's going to be a good time.
Only baddies, no fatties.
Yes, no biggies.
Yeah, here's the yacht, guys, right here.
Let's go!
So, it's going to be a good-ass time, man.
We're going to be leaving from Fort Lauderdale, like I said before, on Saturday night, and it's going to be lit.
We're going to have open bar, free food, etc.
Ticket prices.
And then VIP. I'm going to see another email.
What's going to happen after the yacht?
We're going to go to another club.
Only us, though, with some girls, so it'll be lit.
We're doing a Rolex giveaway for the VIP guys?
Yes.
But right now, we don't have any more VIP spots, guys.
There's only general admission left.
Tickets are only $9.98.
Pretty good price.
You ain't gonna get a yacht for that cheap in South Florida ever, especially with the open bar.
You're gonna have to hire a captain that's from Cuba that doesn't speak English and you'll only be able to bring like 12 people, 13 people total.
So it's not going to be a good time, man.
So we go ahead and we're handling that for you, handling all the logistics.
So guys, go ahead, join in.
FFpod.org, link is right there.
Ratio is going to be crazy!
We just gave away three tickets, Council Club only, winners.
Can you bring it on the screen real quick, if you don't mind, Bills?
Yeah, we might.
Well, depending on how we feel, we might do another three tickets giveaway.
We might do another three tickets for y'all to give it away, man.
So we're feeling generous here.
We want you guys to have a good time, like I said before.
It's going to be a great time.
What was that?
No, not right now.
We'll do it maybe in the middle of the show.
Whatever Noble decides.
Noble, you decide if you want to give away three other tickets.
It's up to you, bro.
It's up to the Indian guy.
So we'll let him pick.
And then Chris.
Welcome back.
Shout out to the chat niggas, by the way, and shout out to the girls on the panel.
Guys, please follow me in my...
Don't worry, I'll tell you soon, because right now I'm working on a few things.
But, on Twitter, too.
I'm Aaron Parks and C, and I don't tweet shit, but according to Myron, and he's right, and...
Yeah, you know, your ex is trash.
Yeah, man, bro, like, you know, I was forced to have it, because some nigga made a fake profile.
I'll keep it a thousand with you, bro.
If you don't talk politics, don't be on ex.
Ex is a political act.
That's why Fresh don't post shit.
You don't post shit.
He's like, I post my lifestyle.
He didn't have a fake account, so I had to make it.
Listen, listen.
I post my lifestyle.
People like it, people don't like it.
It's what it is, bro.
Dude treats X like Instagram, bro.
Instagram's fun.
This is boring.
Yeah, but X isn't for that, bro.
I know, bro.
I made that for me, okay?
Bruh.
This guy tries to use X like Instagram, man.
Take it out.
It's all day.
I got PTSD, bro.
I got PTSD. I got PTSD, bro.
You know, like, X is a political app, which is why I like it so much.
I be talking politics out there.
I don't talk about it as much on YouTube, guys, for obvious reasons.
But check me out on X, guys.
Y'all ever use X or Instagram?
Instagram.
Instagram.
See?
I don't know where the girls are at.
We know that.
We know that.
The only girls that use X typically are prawn stars, if you know what I'm saying.
Oh, yeah.
Regular girls really don't use X like that.
Anyway, with that said, any other announcements?
Oh, guys, so I'm trying to figure out what we're going to do for Friday.
I'm going to bring Tommy Robinson to the show.
I just got to figure out when because the time difference is so crazy.
And then also Vitaly is going to be in town as well.
And I know you guys want me to catch some predators with him.
IRL? Yeah, IRO, yeah.
So I got to figure that out how we're going to do it.
But don't worry.
Tommy Robinson is locked and I'm going to get him on the show.
I just got to figure out when because he's in a way different time zone.
I'm not going to say where he's at for obvious reasons, but way different time zone.
And then I got to figure out what we're going to do with Vitaly as well.
So stay tuned.
I'll make announcements probably on X or here maybe later tonight.
We'll see.
Cool.
Anything else we're missing?
That's it.
Ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age.
We do for a living.
Datings at us.
If you want to, of course.
Body count.
We'll start right here.
Welcome to the show.
Hi, so my name's Ashley.
My Instagram is dollnails.
I am a nail tech and I'm 22 years old and I'm happily engaged.
Where are you from originally?
Here in Miami.
Okay.
I'm assuming you said you're a nail tech, so does that mean you got your license probably for that or your, what would it be?
A certification?
Yeah.
Okay.
Esthetician?
No, just nail.
Okay.
And then you said you're engaged.
How long have you been engaged?
Six months?
Alright, congrats.
How'd you meet him?
Literally, Instagram.
I'm telling you, man.
Funny story, we lived in the same neighborhood at the same time, but we never bumped into each other.
No way!
Tell me more!
Okay.
And you guys have been together for six months.
What does he do?
No, we've been together for two years, but engaged six months.
Engaged, yeah.
What does he do?
He works at the airport.
Okay.
Are your parents still together?
They are, happily.
Okay.
And then, Fresh, your favorite question.
Birth control?
No, never.
Kids on the way!
Yeah, let's go kids on the way.
I mean, happily, yeah.
Okay.
And then, what's your ethnic background?
Cuban, or?
Cuban, yeah.
Okay, full?
Yeah.
Cuban, Costa Rican.
Okay.
Who's parents wise?
Mom, dad?
My mom's Cuban and my dad's Costa Rican, but they've been married like 35 years, so my dad is like basically not Costa Rican anymore.
You know?
Cool.
Body count?
You know.
We don't know.
We don't know.
If you're getting married, that's us.
He has to know this shit.
No, I'm joking.
No, no, it's fine.
It's fine.
You're getting married, though.
Don't do it, bro.
It's a trap.
He's telling you.
He's telling you.
Is that called breaking a fourth wall, third wall?
Something like that.
A fourth wall, right?
Yeah, yeah, fourth wall.
Yeah, you are, nigga.
You should know.
All right.
Interesting.
All right.
What about you?
What's your name?
Hi.
Monique.
Okay.
What were the other questions?
I'm so sorry.
No, that's fine.
Don't worry.
I'm going to guide you through it.
How old are you?
37.
Okay.
Where are you from originally?
Fort Lauderdale, Florida.
Okay.
All right.
What do you do for work?
I'm a realtor.
Okay.
Wait, you're a realtor?
Yes.
How many have you sold in your career?
Three.
How long you been a realtor?
Two years.
That's good.
Okay.
That is more than I thought.
Well, she probably does more apartment listings than anything, right?
I'm assuming that's like the majority apartments?
Right now in this market, but the solds have been homes.
Okay.
Well, yeah, that's what I meant.
Yeah.
Of course, that's what you're going to sell.
Yeah.
Yeah.
All right.
Highest education level completed?
Business administration, University of Phoenix.
Okay.
So, your bachelor's degree?
Yes.
Okay.
Wait, is University of Phoenix the one that's like online?
There's actual locations here.
Oh, there's actual...
Is that DeVry?
Welcome to DeVry.
It's not, but I mean, some people...
Yo, yo, yo, yo.
Where's that?
- Oh, what's it?
- It's Florida. - Com.com, nigga.
That's what they say.
- Is that good?
- All right, relationship status?
- Sitting here on the couch.
- In a relationship.
- Okay, how long have I been together?
Three years.
Okay, how'd you meet him?
He was trying to get at me through my homegirl and...
Okay, so you met through a friend, mutual friend.
Yeah, through a friend.
Wait, hold on, hold on.
So like, he was trying, but like, what did he do to actually make it happen?
The homegirl hollered at me, we actually met, we hit it off, and then that happened.
Okay.
I'm sure you saw some assets.
I'm sure.
All right.
Are your parents still together?
No, my father is deceased.
Oh, okay.
So your mom was widowed?
Yes.
So they were together?
Okay, so they were together.
What's wrong with you, Chris?
Stop it!
I know what you want to do.
I want to do, but I'm not going to do it.
The button, you want to press it.
I know what you want to do.
You sure?
I don't even know what that means.
Alright, don't worry.
Uh, birth control for you?
Yes.
Okay.
And your ethnic background?
Haitian.
Okay.
Hey!
I'm sorry?
Yaskara.
Yaskara.
Okay.
Okay.
And then wait, you said your degree real fast was in business administration?
Business admin.
Okay.
Yes.
All right.
You should be Skara niggas.
Yaskara.
Okay.
Stop it.
All right.
Yaskara, how old are you?
28.
Okay.
Where are you from?
Miami originally.
Okay.
What do you do for work?
Ex-military slash still in the reserves and I do makeup.
What branch?
Navy.
Okay.
What's your MOS? YN2. So MOS is administrative.
Like your job?
Like administrative.
Oh, like you're an administrative assistant?
Executive assistant.
Okay.
All right.
And then you said you're in reserve now, right?
Yes.
Okay.
So you drill like- Once.
Once a month?
Mm-hmm.
Okay.
And then relationship status?
Dating.
She belongs to the street.
So you're single right now though, right?
I'm exclusive-ish.
Oh, you're exclusive to a guy?
Yes.
Okay, how long y'all been seeing each other?
A while.
What's a while, specifically?
Why do I have to give specifics?
We're just curious.
I don't want to give specifics.
How'd you meet him?
Hanging around my military friends in Orlando, and we hit it off.
You hit it off or?
No, what the fuck?
Come on, you in the Navy, you on the boat, my niggas.
That's all you're doing.
Don't be ignorant.
I'm not ignorant.
I'm just curious.
You said you was with your niggas on the Navy.
You guys fucked.
I'm just curious because...
I ain't say shit like that.
It's hard to come by True Love nowadays.
How did he win you over?
We're just kicking it and...
On the boat.
All right, so Chris, it's the game.
Got it.
Cool.
All right.
Vibes.
All right.
Are your parents together?
No.
Okay.
Birth control for you?
Just got off the IUD. All right.
So, no.
All right.
And then, Anthony, background?
Hispanic, mom Colombian, dad Cuban.
All right.
Okay.
Do you know Spanish?
Si, yo lo español.
Ah.
Mi hablo español poquito.
Si?
Si.
Yo, you got small penis.
How'd you know Chris that's gay?
How'd you know that Chris is there, right?
But how'd you know that?
How'd you know that?
This was like the same reaction you had last time.
You realize that?
I don't remember you.
When Chris kicked off the girl for being here two hours late.
Or three hours late.
Oh, the two girls that were here?
Yes, the two girls that were here.
Oh, now I remember you.
Okay, cool, cool, cool.
I was sitting in the same direction.
Yeah, you were actually.
Oh, really?
Oh, look at me.
I missed that one.
Okay, the producer, man.
Funny shit.
That'd be Scarra.
Um, all right.
Kind of.
Who's up next?
What about you?
Me.
What's your name?
Hey, my name's Ruby.
Ruby?
22.
You said Ruby or Rudy?
Ruby.
Ruby, okay.
How old are you?
22?
22.
Where are you from?
Dallas, Texas.
Okay.
Do you live in Dallas now or you live here now?
Yeah, I live in Dallas.
Oh, so you're just here visiting?
Yeah.
Okay.
What do you do for work?
Bottle girl.
She belongs to the streets.
You work at Puddle Blonde?
I had to ask it.
No, I did apply there, but no.
No, there's one in Dallas.
No, there's two.
Yeah, the one here, obviously, where she says she's from Dallas.
The original is from Dallas.
Okay, you said you applied, it didn't work out.
Okay, fair enough.
Highest education level completed?
High school.
Okay.
Relationship status?
Taken.
Okay, how long have I been together?
Two years.
Nice.
How'd you meet?
Instagram.
Yo, we made a course.
We've been talking about this for years.
The end of the man.
I'm telling you right now, guys, the new way to meet you is Instagram.
Sorry is what it is.
If your page sucks, that's on you, bro.
But guess what?
My page doesn't suck.
It's gone all day.
I predict in the next 10 years or so, a majority of meetings are going to be from the internet.
Yeah, 100%, bro.
By far.
Because people don't leave the house anymore.
And if they do, they're scared to talk to each other in person.
It's like, oh, I saw you over here.
Send a DM. So, yeah.
Wait, so, question.
Do you have dragons?
No, I know it.
What's her name?
Targaryen?
Khaleesi?
Yeah, I get that a lot at work.
Game of Thrones.
I get that a lot.
I'm like, I haven't seen that show.
Yeah, Targaryen, yeah.
Alright.
Okay, what does he do?
He's a blue-collar man.
What does he do specifically?
HVAC. Okay, that's good.
So you're cheating then?
No, he's here.
He's here.
Oh, he's here?
Okay.
Yeah, that's why I came, because he's here.
Oh, so y'all came to Miami together.
Yeah.
That'd be a girlfriend.
Yeah.
Birth control for you?
No.
Okay.
Are your parents still together?
No.
Divorce?
Yeah.
What's your background?
Athletic background.
Like my ethnicity, I'm Mexican.
Yeah.
I can tell.
What part of Mexico are your family from?
Guanajuato.
That makes sense.
Yeah.
A lot of them look like are, yeah, white, light-skinned.
There's some Mexicans that look white, bro.
Oh, wow.
From certain places.
That's scary.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That's scary, man.
They'll have, like, colored eyes and everything.
You'll think they're...
I mean, a white girl!
You'll think they're gueras.
No, I don't.
That's what y'all refer to white people as?
Gringa.
Yeah.
Okay.
All right, queer.
Do they call you the la guera?
Yeah.
They do, right?
Literally.
Yeah.
La flaca.
Yeah.
All right.
Blaca, blaca, blaca.
What about you?
What's your name?
I go by Alaska.
Hey, y'all!
Alaska?
Yes, Alaska.
I'm from Alaska, so.
Okay.
Wow.
How old are you?
Yes, I'm 33.
Okay.
Damn!
And you said, what part of Alaska are you from?
Anchorage.
Oh, shit.
Okay.
What part of the year is it where you guys get, like, all day days and then all night nights?
It's more so, like, the summer.
Yeah.
Days are longer.
Daylight saving time.
Okay, and it's like sunny all day.
Pretty much, yeah.
For 24 hours.
Correct.
That's fucking wild.
That's crazy.
Wow.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Okay.
I don't throw you off.
Yeah.
Anchorage, Alaska.
You grew up there, went to high school there, everything.
Correct.
Okay.
Highest education level completed?
High school.
Okay.
Relationship status?
I belong to somebody.
The streets?
No, not the streets.
Sorry, I was too easy.
Sorry, I was too easy.
Sorry.
It's okay.
I have to hear you.
That's alley-oop, man.
In this case, the forest, okay?
The forest.
Get out there.
Oh, she's in the city.
True.
Well, I wouldn't say major city, but she is in the city.
Wait, they got cities over there?
They do, surprisingly, yeah.
Is Anchorage the capital?
Penguins!
I believe Juno.
Juno's the capital.
Okay, all right.
Is Anchorage bigger than Juno?
It is.
It is, right?
That's your biggest major city in Alaska.
Yeah.
Okay.
Are there a lot of, like, pet huskies over there?
Yo, uh, just niggas in Alaska?
Nah, I guarantee you she's probably in the military.
Like, you're in your family in the military?
No.
How'd y'all end up?
Um, my dad was like on the run.
What the fuck?
We were just in some trouble, so we ended up in a national trans friend to the middle of, I guess, nowhere at the time.
Oh my god!
Yo, what the fuck, bro?
Was he running from another country?
Yeah.
No, he was just running from some trouble.
Okay, you gotta tell us.
What was he running from that had him going all the way to Alaska?
I'm really not sure.
I was young, so I just knew he got into some trouble.
Like legal trouble?
Legal trouble in Wisconsin.
Where's he now?
He's in Arizona.
Oh, he caught now.
I guess.
The time passed.
He caught now.
Do you know what he was like?
He was wanted for a crime, I'm assuming?
I'm assuming, yes.
You don't know?
I don't know.
You never had a conversation with him?
No, it was none of my business.
I was a kid.
I was just trying to stay in my place.
Oh, like as an adult now.
You never ask, like, Dad, why the hell did we end up in Anchorage?
No.
You want to be curious?
No, it was what it was.
Wait, are you only a black girl over there, though?
There are black people there.
Not really.
There's gonna be a lot of Native Americans, right?
A lot of Native Americans over there?
Yes, Samoans.
A lot of Native Americans, yes.
What do you even do in Antarctica?
Not Antarctica.
Same thing.
No, sorry.
I'm kidding, I'm kidding, bro.
Are there penguins over there?
Penguins and shit?
No.
What's over there?
In the zoo.
But like, you know, black bears, brown bears.
Bears?
You might see them come into the...
Question for you.
Like, real quick.
Would you rather be in a forest with a bear or a man?
And why?
I would say maybe...
I would say a man.
Okay.
Because who's going to protect me?
There you go.
The bear would eat you.
Yes.
Tear me right up.
I don't want to make this a Joe Rogan podcast, but it depends on the bear.
True.
If it's a polar bear...
You're fucked.
It's kind of funny because polar bears were like the coca-cola advertisers for a bit.
Y'all remember the old polar bears?
Yeah.
They make it sound all peaceful and shit.
But it's like, no, they'll eat you.
Polar bears are carnivores.
Versus brown bears and shit.
There'll be some fruits and shit like that.
But polar bears, and they'll chase you.
They don't run out of energy, apparently.
Not at all.
Yeah, they'll just keep chasing you.
And they can swim, too.
Yeah.
Because there ain't nothing up there when you think about it.
It's just snowing penguins.
So what do they do?
Eat penguins and seals.
I mean, at least they'll give Murray...
Well, okay.
Well, I guess...
At least they'll give Murray his Coke Zero.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
There you go.
But yeah, polar bears are like fucking deadly.
So they're not nice at all.
No.
They will...
I'd rather...
They're the most dangerous by far.
Yeah.
Run up to like 40 miles per hour.
Damn.
Yeah, I be watching animal shit sometimes.
I'd be studying history and I'd be watching animal shows.
I don't know, it's weird.
I'm always trying to learn weird facts.
I know a bunch of weird ass facts.
I don't know.
It's normal, man.
It's normal.
Back to you.
Okay, so you grew up there, high school.
Highest education level completed for you?
High school.
Okay.
How did you meet your boyfriend?
We met online.
Instagram?
No, it was just like a dating site.
What's it called?
Igloomatch.com.
Even though there's no igloos in Anchorage, it's actually a very developed city, but...
Yeah.
You know that...
High Five?
penguin vibe high five high five oh my god that's cool you're in the Caribbean I'll tell you that shit you was black oh my god it's like what four people in black four niggas they're all next each other no family Did you use Tinder?
No, it was actually BLK. No, I didn't.
Are your parents together?
No.
I'm assuming they're divorced because of him being on the run or something?
You can say it.
Wait, where's your boyfriend now?
Chicago.
Wait, so why are you here?
I'm here just to be on my podcast.
Okay.
Did he approve that you've been here?
He knows that I'm here, yes.
Wait, okay, so is he not from Alaska?
Like, did y'all meet on Black?
Like, he was in Illinois and you were there?
I moved to Wisconsin.
Okay.
I'm originally from Alaska.
Okay.
How long have you been in Wisconsin?
About 10 years now.
Oh, okay.
Where are we?
Milwaukee?
Where?
Yes, Milwaukee.
I was just there.
Yes, I heard.
You said it sucks, dude.
I know.
I love it.
A lot of it.
There ain't nothing there, man.
I was there for the RNC, and Milwaukee fucking blows, man.
You know what else blows?
What?
Girls in Alaska.
That's what I heard.
Oh, I remember this.
Yeah, I remember the girl.
Yeah, I know.
There you go.
I got you.
They're bored up there and then they come here and go crazy.
Yeah, yeah.
I got you.
Okay, but yeah, yeah.
Milwaukee is like, do you spend a lot of time there or do you be leaving a lot?
I try to travel a little bit.
Okay.
I don't even blame her, bro, because Milwaukee is not.
It's a little day.
Do you work out?
A lot of day.
I do.
I can see you got some guns there.
Thank you.
What were you going to say about Milwaukee?
Sorry.
I'm not sure.
Is dead?
It is dead.
It is dead.
It's pretty dead.
Yeah.
All right.
Well, okay.
Birth control for you?
No.
No?
When was the last time you talked to your dad?
Maybe like a week ago.
Man, ask him why you're mad, bro.
I'll find out.
Come on, man.
Call him right now and ask him.
I'm curious, man.
You're on the run.
Why are you on the run, man?
Can you text him that?
Let's see, bro.
I want to know, like, what would drive you to go all the way to Alaska?
That's far too, bro.
It's like in the 90s, so, like, nobody was really out there.
And he had an uncle that moved out there, so it was just, I guess, the safest place for him to go at the time.
I'm not...
What was he running from?
That is so crazy.
This man, uh...
He was running from, I'm assuming, Wisconsin?
Correct.
So he was running from Wisconsin for something?
Yes.
Okay.
Alright.
What about you?
What's your name?
My name is Samantha.
Samantha?
Okay.
Oh, and then your ethnic background?
Black?
Yes.
Okay.
Alright.
Samantha?
How old are you, Samantha?
We can't hear you, nigga.
I'm 24.
24.
Okay.
Where are you from?
I'm from Miami, but my family is Puerto Rican Colombian.
Okay.
Alright.
And then what do you do for it?
I'm a delivery driver, but I sell Frenchies.
Okay.
How much do they sell for, like, a pop, roughly?
Well, it depends on what type of dog you want, because they differentiate from different prices.
So, Merle's go for $3,500.
We have Fluffies.
They're about $10,000.
What's the highest price?
Fluffies.
Fluffies?
Yeah.
Do you actually breed them, or do you sell them and breed them?
Okay.
Okay, so you said delivery, like when we say delivery, what are you talking about?
Amazon delivery?
Yeah.
Okay.
Don't sleep, because let me tell you guys, that makes bread.
Okay.
You're right, you're right.
Yeah, since 2020, you guys have like grown significantly because people are lazy now.
They just order everything off Amazon.
People don't go to retail no more.
I actually predict in the next 20 years, retail stores are almost going to be defunct.
Yeah.
Like you won't see malls and shit like that anymore like that.
Okay, what about relationship status for you?
Single.
Okay.
Highest education level completed?
High school and I got my nail license.
Okay.
Are you guys friends?
You two?
Possibly.
Wait, you know her?
No, not really.
It's a strange way to...
What do you mean possibly?
I know you?
No, not really.
So what do you mean possibly?
Wait, was it one of her...
her boyfriend?
Was that it?
Girl, no.
She doesn't know her.
I don't know her, so I don't know what possibly means.
I don't want to see the reaction.
Okay, cool.
My husband is in the house.
As far as you know, you mean.
No, no, I know.
Well, tell us why possibly.
Right, that's what I want to know.
I already know her.
I was just, you feel me?
I didn't feel to the fire.
You feel me?
Oh, she's trying to...
I don't, that's why I'm asking.
I was trying to troll you back.
Ah, okay, all right.
Possibly.
Okay, and then birth control for you?
I don't need that.
Sorry about that.
At birth?
No.
Oh, later on?
Okay.
I'm sorry.
Chris, no, Chris.
Chris, no.
He's not doing it.
No, Chris.
No.
Go ahead.
No.
No.
I'm ready.
What you gotta say?
No, just don't even do whatever.
Next.
Say it.
What happened?
I just had a sound effect.
Wait, it's all.
But not for you, though.
Martin wanted him to do it.
No, I didn't want him.
I didn't say shit.
I didn't say shit, man, you asshole.
You gave him that nose fresh, man.
Okay.
No, I can't say what they just said.
Oh, my God.
All right, should I say it?
No, no, no.
Okay.
No, it's pretty bad.
It's bad, okay?
It's bad.
But now you've done something about it.
Listen, I grew up a brother.
There's nothing you can say that will offend me.
Yo, so like, I don't know if...
No, you know what?
Come on, man.
Say what I'm saying, man.
He said she ate her kid.
Oh.
Damn, maybe.
And I said, that's fucked up.
Maybe.
Maybe.
I was a little hungry.
All right.
Okay.
That was messed up, bro.
You got some assholes in the chat, man.
You got some fucking assholes in the chat, man.
You guys are fucked up.
What's wrong with you, bro?
All right.
Who raised you?
I love your trolling.
Fucking dickheads.
Yeah, who raised you, man?
Period.
You guys are evil.
You feel me?
All right.
What about you?
What's your name?
My name's Susan.
Susan.
All right.
How old are you, Susan?
20.
All right.
Where are you from?
Miami, Florida.
Okay.
What do you do for work?
Well, I work with kids, but I work at a gym at LA Fitness.
Period.
Which one?
It's down at Kendall.
Okay, so you work at a gym and you're like a gym teacher?
Because you said you work with kids.
Well, I like, while their parents go work out, they leave the kids with me, so I'm like...
Oh, you're a part of the daycare at LA Fitness.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Okay.
You look familiar, though, somewhere.
I don't know where, though.
Somewhere.
You ever went to Bogies and Kendall?
Bogies?
Bogies, no.
Wednesday night?
No?
Okay.
Educators.
There's like a spot who leaves to party at on Wednesdays, late night, goes drink free.
Close to Kendall.
No?
Okay.
Relationship status or highest education level for you?
High school.
Okay.
Relationship status?
Just recently said I talked to someone, but I'll say take in.
Okay.
How long have you been talking?
To be fair, how'd you guys meet?
In person, at the gym.
Nigga gave her her kids.
Hey, you wanna do this full time?
No!
You're gonna ask me on a date.
Okay, where do you take you?
You're being exclusive to me.
She's single, but she's being exclusive.
My man drop this annoying ass kids off.
Hey, you wanna do this all the time?
I need a free babysitter.
Where do you take you?
We went to Dave& Buses.
See?
Hold on.
Hold on.
How was that actual date?
Was it fun?
It was good.
He gave me two options between golfing because he wanted to do something interactive and then be able to show.
He gave you options?
Yeah.
Interactive?
Wait, hold on.
Hold on.
He's doing golfing or Dave Busters?
Yeah.
I would say golfing.
Just do it, man.
I think it's a good first date, but she has to be into you.
Like, really into you.
Yeah.
I mean, I enjoyed it.
How did he?
Did he smash?
He's 25.
Hey, since we're here, you know what I'm saying?
Did he smash first date?
I don't know.
Hey, my nigga!
It was supposed to happen, right?
It's supposed to happen.
It wasn't?
No.
It worked.
Locked in.
Okay, good.
That's good.
All right.
Fantastic.
Okay.
So one week you've been talking to a guy or having sex with a guy.
Cool.
Breath control for you.
No.
Living life on the edge, I see.
She wants to add to the actual job, you know?
Yeah, I guess.
What's your ethnic background?
Hispanic, half Cuban, half Nicaraguanse.
Okay.
I love fritangas.
All right.
Cool.
So, do you want to hit chats or topic at hand?
We can do chats first and a topic.
Because this topic is kind of crazy.
All right, cool.
Let's go viral on Twitter.
Let's smash it there.
Yo, come on.
Party, bro.
You better be here, bro.
You better be at the app, man.
Better see you there, bro.
Yo, all I'm going to tell you guys, the guys that are going to come on the app, This is going to be the greatest ratio you guys have ever seen.
Huge ratio.
Shit's crazy, bro.
Honestly, bro, we're going to turn those back again.
It's that many.
I bet some of Barbados are coming too.
Baddies, bro.
Pulling out for the opportunity.
I'm curious.
Are they Bayesian?
Some are, some are not.
They're all baddies with some ass, bro.
Come on, man.
They got ass, though.
Yeah, that means they're probably fat.
Nah.
They are right on point.
I can trust your judgment, bro.
I trust first.
I think it's Castle Club.
I trust first.
Some of them are baddies.
Mo, I definitely don't trust your judgment, bro.
I'm Moe, is he talking?
Bro, I'm options.
Moe, it really is options.
Moe really is options.
Alright, what else do we got?
If you rub Buddha Moe's stomach and ask for a wish, it will come true.
He also likes getting his ears nibbled on, which will get you another wish.
Do the female species agree with the term birds of a feather flock together, meaning if you hang with hoes, more than likely you're a slut.
That's not always true.
Okay, we'll go around the table on this one.
Do you agree or not?
Do you agree with that?
No.
Do you have whole friends?
I don't know.
I don't really have many friends, to be honest.
And the ones that I don't have, they're taken.
Okay, that's good.
Alright, what about you?
Yeah.
You believe in that?
Okay, what about you?
Yes.
Hold on, do you have whole friends?
No.
No?
I don't have friends.
Of course, no, they don't.
You don't have friends?
Nope.
What about you?
Makes sense.
Yes.
I agree.
Birds of a feather flock together.
Okay.
What about you?
Do I agree or do I have friends?
Both.
You can answer both.
Do you agree about birds of a feather flock together?
I feel like yes in a way, but I don't know.
In this case, dragons.
She has whole friends, I guess.
Do you have whole friends?
Of course she does.
No.
I don't really have friends.
What the fuck?
Okay.
Okay.
You know what?
Wait, is it by choice or did your boyfriend tell you like, yo, No three or fours, friends.
No hoes as friends.
I think by choice, yeah.
Okay.
What about you?
Do you think birds with a feather fall together?
I'm biased.
No and yes.
Like I had a friend who was a hoe, but then like eventually we fell off.
Why'd you fall off?
Was it because she was a hoe?
Because she was a hoe.
But I mean, I was friends with her for years, and I didn't consider...
I'm not a hoe, so what she did had nothing to do with my life and what I do.
If I see a bunch of seagulls flying together, am I going to say, that's a seagull, that's a pigeon, that's an eagle?
Or am I going to say, they're all seagulls, they're all fucking whores?
They're all seagulls.
That's exactly why you don't see me with seagulls.
I'm just saying, though.
I guess.
Well, yeah.
Because they were sucking.
All right, cool.
What were you?
I agree.
They agree?
Do you have any whole friends?
You said what?
Do you have any whole friends?
I have whole friends.
I have married friends.
I have single friends.
I have all types of friends.
Who do you hang with the most?
I hang with myself.
Period.
Yeah, I be by myself.
Very interesting.
Yeah, I got all types of friends.
No, I mean, shit, if y'all want to say that, I could be a hoe, I could be a wife, I could be whatever the fuck I want to be whenever I want to be.
Excuse me.
All right, queen.
My bad.
My bad.
Yeah, so...
Wait, would your guy be okay with you being a hoe?
Of course not.
Okay.
So then can you really be a hoe then?
Not if I'm in a relationship, no.
Okay, so you're off at Lauderdale.
Where do you party when you hang out with your friends?
American Social, Moxies, Las Solas?
Moxies, usually Las Solas, Fort Lauderdale downtown area.
We should be having fun, man.
Okay.
Yeah.
Okay.
What about you?
Well, yeah, I agree.
And I don't have any.
What do you agree with?
Like, yeah, like, birds are birds, you know?
She a bird.
She a bird, she a bird.
Okay, huh?
Wait, wait.
Alright, and then, so you agree with that.
And then do you have whole friends?
I don't have no friends.
You don't have any friends?
No friends, no whole friends.
This seems to be a trending topic here.
You know, I gotta go around the table.
I suspect my answer.
Why do you not have any female friends?
I wish I would, and I recently did, but I fell out with them, you know?
Why?
Because they be fake.
Girls just are fake.
They're envious.
They're jealous.
They're not happy for what you get.
They want what you get, you know?
And if they're not on your level, then they just hate.
Period.
You do have female friends, right?
I mean, I have friends that I've had for a really long time.
I consider them my female friends.
But as far as, like, just friends, like, no, I don't really have friends.
I'm usually by myself.
Okay.
Well, what is the reason for that, that you don't spend a lot of time with them?
Because I guess at this point you would say they're more associates if you're not with them.
Yeah, they're associates, but also I would say that, I mean, it's 2024.
If you don't get to know yourself and know who the fuck you are, like, if you got to have a whole bunch of people around you, then, like, who are you for real?
Facts.
Tell them, sister.
But you can still have friends.
You can have friends, but I'm just saying...
I have friends, but my best friend, she lives in Fort Myers.
I live here in Fort Lauderdale.
Yeah, so that's what it is.
So I'm not with her all the time.
But as far as female friends that I'm hanging around with, usually I'm on my own.
Okay.
Yeah.
Why is it that you're on your own so much?
Is it like girls aren't trustworthy?
Is it they're not...
What is it?
What reason?
Oh, I don't like people, period.
Period, period.
I don't like people, period.
Alright, what about you?
Why do you not have female friends like that?
Most of my female friends are spreaded out.
So, I mean, either out of state, military, doing their own thing.
Okay.
So...
So you do have them, they're just not local?
Yeah.
Alright, what about you?
Why do you not have female friends?
Well, I used to have friends, but after high school I just fell off with them.
Why?
Just because, like, I grew up, I guess, like, I wanted to get my life together and they were still trying to, like, party and everything and I was trying to, like, settle down.
Okay.
So you wanted a real long-term relationship and they didn't?
Yeah.
They were more like, oh, going out every weekend and all that.
And I was just like, no.
You don't want to do that?
Yeah.
What made you say, I don't want to go out every weekend and I want to find something serious?
Just because when I was really young, I used to go to clubs with my cousins in Mexico.
That's something that they do over there.
So I had my party era really young.
So after high school, it was dead to me.
Okay.
Interesting.
All right.
What about you?
Um, I don't have a few more friends because I guess like most relationships are superficial.
There's like always a competition kind of thing and nobody really is, um, I guess, cheering you on.
They're more like just preying on your downfall, I guess.
Interesting.
Okay.
What about you?
I don't have friends because my friends are in my pockets.
I got sisters.
Okay.
Family only.
You feel me?
No, I don't.
But you don't even got to be family.
Those are my sisters.
They're not friends.
Because like I said, I got friends in my pockets.
Blood sisters or?
No, I'm saying they don't have to be blood related to be sisters.
I don't count people as a friend.
Wait, what does friends in your pockets mean?
My money is my friend.
Oh, okay.
Alright, alright.
I was confused by that.
I was like, what's that?
So Benjamin and some other folks?
Got it.
Interesting.
The dead folks.
Damn.
Alright.
You're very based, aren't you?
You're very based to yourself.
Yeah, but, I mean, let's not even get into it.
I'm by myself all the time.
Makes sense.
Alright, what about you?
Why do you not have female friends?
Um, I don't know.
I feel like I'm always just giving more than they are.
In the friendship, what?
It's giving...
It's giving, why am I doing the most, and then you're complaining every time.
Complaining?
Or, like, making a big issue out of it.
Like, no reason.
Haha.
Okay, who do you think are better?
Because a lot of you guys are complaining, not complaining, but you guys have your reservations about having female friends.
Do you think male friends are better?
Yes.
They're worse.
Yeah.
You think male friends?
Okay, yes.
What about you?
You said they're worse.
Okay.
What about you?
I would say I don't have male friends, but you know, like my guy is my friend.
That's where you're supposed to find companion.
And so I find he's my, that's my friend.
Okay.
What about you?
No, I don't have guy friends.
You don't either?
Okay.
Don't cap.
You got one or two?
I have one.
There we go!
I knew it!
What about you?
But I'm good with my friend girls too, so like, I can't relate to y'all complaining.
Has your boyfriend met your guy friend?
No.
Boyfriend?
I don't have a boyfriend, but he, like...
He means the guy that you're talking to.
He's what he means.
No.
You don't meet him.
Does he know about him at all?
No.
Gotcha.
Nope!
What about you?
But it's not a secret.
I have two guy friends.
And I do think they're better than the girlfriends.
Okay.
What about you?
I don't have no guy friends.
No guy friends?
Okay.
Let me ask you this.
It doesn't have to be right now, but when you've had guy friends versus girlfriends, who do you think were better friends in general?
Which one added more value to your life?
The guy friends or the girlfriends?
Start here.
Okay, one?
Neither.
But...
So you have to pick one of the two.
Who added more value?
Guys be bummed.
But...
The guys just don't have drama.
Like, they just call your phone and like, boo.
Boo, you guess what?
And then it's just like they're brothers to you.
But females just have drama.
So that's how they add more value.
Okay.
You said already that the guys add more value.
What about you?
No, no, no.
I don't have a problem with my friend girls.
I didn't say that.
The girls...
No, I said I like my guy friends better, but the girls add more value.
Oh, the girls add more value.
Yeah.
Okay, so if you had to pick one or two, you would say the girls.
I would pick the girls.
Okay, what about you?
I feel like they're both equally valuable.
Like, I have friend girls.
If you had to pick one, the guy friends or the girl friends are more valuable in your life.
What do you think?
Both.
I'm not going to pick.
If your man told you, listen, babe, I want my guy friend gone tomorrow, would you just drop him for your man?
Yeah.
No, no, her.
Sorry.
Remember, it's new.
No, no, but let's say this was your real man.
I would.
You would?
It was my real man.
Really?
Yeah.
I mean, I've known my guy friend for years.
I would tell him.
See, she ain't dropping that nigga.
Alright, what about you?
Who adds more value?
The girls.
The girls add more value?
Okay, what about you?
Men.
The men?
Okay, what about you?
The females.
The females add more value?
Okay, what about you?
I'd say girls.
The girlfriend?
Yeah.
You'll say or what do you actually think?
I'm like, no, I would say just from experience, I guess.
Because I have close, yeah, I have like close, I want to say two friends at least.
Two female friends?
Yeah.
Okay.
Do you think, and then my last question here on this is, do you think men should have female friends?
Do you think it's worth it for men to have female friends knowing what you guys know?
Because all of you seem resentful on having, not resentful, but reluctant to have female friends or you guys have your criticisms of female friends.
Do you think it's in a man's best interest to have female friends?
We'll start with you and then work our way.
Yes or no?
No.
No?
What about you?
It depends.
On?
Okay, let's assume it's not sexual.
There you go.
Yeah, he can.
Interesting.
What about you?
Yes.
Interesting.
No.
Why do you say no?
Because I know how girls are.
Okay, what does that entail specifically?
No, and this has happened to me, like, one of my old friends, when I was, um...
She was trying to get on my boyfriend.
No way!
Tell me more.
Yeah.
And it was funny because she was trying to get out right now or somebody else?
No, somebody else.
Okay.
Yeah, she was trying to get out my boyfriend and she would try to get me to do stuff.
To go tell him, right?
No, to go out and just to be hosed with them.
And I'm like, no.
And then after me and him broke up, she got at him and they started talking.
They're foul.
I'm telling you, girl.
Like, that's crazy.
Period, Pooh.
So that's how, like, and it's funny because, like, there were friends before me and him were in relationships.
That's messed up, man.
Typical.
Yes, but I've been in a different dynamic with military.
So, like, I've seen men interact with females and it's cohesive, like, so...
Outside of the military, do you think it's beneficial for men to be friends with women?
The silence is deafening.
If you're a civilian and never experienced military, I'll be kind of iffy.
But I feel like if you're like military, I'll...
You want to be totally honest with the people, though?
If you think about it from the biological standpoint, they want to smash, though.
You know that, right?
Not all friend boys...
Bro, you're out in the open field and shit going on.
Niggas are bored.
Niggas are horny.
What do they want to do?
Just talk to you all day?
Oh, hey, friend!
Yo, Derrick, do you want to smash?
I want to smash too, bro.
What do you think?
Not all of them.
Most of them, though.
Most.
Probably.
So you agree?
Maybe.
Yes.
Okay, moving on smartly.
Wow.
To get out of you, but...
So is it beneficial for a man to have a girl as a friend?
Yeah, platonic only, not sexual.
Depends on the man.
Depends on the man.
Depends on what, specifically?
Like, is the man a hoe?
Is he a good man?
Like, you know, it just kind of depends.
Okay.
Let's assume he's a good man.
A disciplined man.
That's very strange.
I find it interesting how your differentiating standard is if they're promiscuous, they're not a good man, but that's fine.
No, no, no.
You're right.
I did put it like that.
Yeah.
But not necessarily like that.
But, like, you know, character, morals.
Like, if you know he's a hoe and you know he's fucked up, I don't think you would want him to have a female friend.
You'll probably be insecure about that.
But if you thought that he was, you know, an upstanding man, not saying that he wouldn't do it because, of course, you know, he's a man, he might still go for it, but you'll probably be more comfortable with him having a friend as a female.
That's where I'm coming from.
Interesting.
Okay, what about you?
What do you think?
Do you think men should have platonic female friends?
No.
Why not?
Well, okay, look, if you're single and you're not in a relationship and you have female friends, yes, because you're going to learn from them.
You could be like, oh, like this happened.
Like just how to be like, not stupid.
Like how to be a good man.
But look, if you're like, like if you're my man, no.
Because you're going to learn everything you're going to learn from me, my mother, your mother, that's it.
Your grandmother.
Do you think women are the best advisors when it comes to attracting other women?
What?
You think women are the best advisors?
Because you mentioned you can talk to girls and learn how to be attractive or get girls.
Oh, like if you're single and you have a homegirl, could she help you?
Yeah.
You really think so?
Yeah.
Right.
What do you think is better, asking a girl or asking a guy that's good with women?
with women, what do you think? - Hmm, excellent guy that's good women.
Women.
That's a tough question.
I think I would ask just both if I was a guy.
Like I would be like, I guess my bro, like if I was a dude, why would I like, you know?
But at the same time- Let's ask you then personally, do you like think you personally, if you were a guy's friend, you would be more valuable with helping him deal with women than a guy would?
Yeah.
You think you'd be able to help him more?
I mean, yeah.
Everyone's different.
She thinks she can't.
I used to be that friend, but then I got in a relationship with a man, so I cut that off.
Of course.
But the question is general.
Honestly, do you think that you, as a female friend to a guy, you would give better advice to being attractive and getting girls than a man would?
Yeah.
Okay, we'll put that to the test.
Who else thinks that?
Raise of hands.
Who else here thinks that they would be better at helping a guy with their female problems than another man?
Who else thinks that besides her?
You think so?
I think so.
Who else?
You think so as well?
Because I feel like a man deals with it.
She thinks not.
No.
I think if he comes to you and asks you.
Okay, let's do this with hands.
How many of you think that you would be able, I'll be very clear and precise about this.
How many of you think you'd be better as a confidant to a man about getting women than a man?
Raise of hands if you think that you would be better at giving advice on getting girls as a female than as another fellow guy.
We got three girls here.
Like, not pulling them.
Like, being in a good relationship, because pulling them is like...
No, I'm talking about pulling.
He's talking about pulling.
Let me take you home.
Let me holler.
How do I have sex with you?
To smash.
To smash.
To smash a guy.
Ladies, ladies, ladies, ladies, ladies.
Let's use some common sense here real fast.
Sorry.
You have to pull the girl to get in a relationship in the first place.
Let's use common sense here.
You can't be in a relationship with her unless you pull her.
Pulling and I'm going to go out on a date?
No, call your boy.
But if you need some deep thoughts like, yo, I've been all on the girl with this girl and I need more advice.
Okay, so you guys will not be able to teach him how to actually attract a woman.
We could, but not more than a guy.
Because I don't know what they're looking for.
Maybe they're looking for a certain thing to attract a girl.
Okay, so anyone here, do any of you think that you can help a guy attract a woman better than a man?
Better than a man?
Not a track.
You can?
She can.
She has brothers, though.
No, it's not it.
I don't even have a brother, so I don't know.
I got two brothers.
Raise your hand if you can.
You can.
Who else?
Who else can?
Anybody else?
Don't look at me.
Y'all are confident?
I thought y'all were queens, independent.
Yeah, but emotionally, it was different.
He switched the question.
That was pretty clear.
Yeah, he's just talking about attraction, period.
Thank you, right.
Yeah, you're talking about being in a relationship.
That's right.
How to be with your girl.
Let's say I wanted her.
I would argue you guys don't even have good advice for that.
Damn.
Maybe not.
I mean, hey, we might think we do, but maybe we don't.
I'll tell you why.
Well, actually, hold on.
Before I tell you why, we should run the experiment.
We should have her try to pull you.
Let's do it.
I'm gonna have you, since you think that you can attract a woman or give better advice.
I don't think.
Chris!
Stage left.
Your turn, buddy.
All right.
Christina.
So this is what we're going to do.
Pop up, Christina.
Let's pull out these microphones.
Do we have them?
Oh, Mo's getting them set up.
So let me explain the rules.
This is what we're going to do.
We're going to have a guy, Chris in this case, role play as a female.
Christina.
And don't worry, we're not going to make it hard.
He's going to behave like a typical female would when you approach them and try to get their number or get their name.
He's going to behave the same exact way.
So think of all the bullshit that you tell guys, whether I have a boyfriend or my phone's broken, whatever lies you say, when guys come up to you, you might have to deal with some of these normal...
I call them objections, right?
So you need to push through it and see if you can get his number and get on a date, okay?
And he's gonna act like a normal girl.
We're not gonna fuck it up and be like, make it super hard for you.
Like, no.
He's gonna behave like a typical female.
So I want to see how you deal with it as a woman, all right?
I don't know what's a typical female.
No, no, we're gonna role play.
You're gonna stand up.
He's gonna be the girl.
I want you to walk up to him and talk to him.
Now, here's the thing, though.
What scenario do you want this to be?
Do you want this to be a...
I'm gonna give you the advantage.
Do you want this to be a nightclub?
Do you want this to be a supermarket?
A restaurant?
On the street?
Casuals.
Well, hold on, let me ask her.
What scenario do you want?
Because he's going to behave according to the scenario that you give.
I don't know.
This is your outcome.
Yeah, this is your scenario.
So if you want to...
You tell us.
How do you want to...
Under what context do you want to meet the girl?
You can make it easy or hard for yourself.
A club?
I don't know.
Okay, what nightclub in specific?
Because that matters a lot.
Liv, Coco, I don't know.
Swan.
Again, he's going to be super fair in how he treats you, but we need to know the context, because the context in which you meet the woman matters.
So what club do you want?
Tootsies, I don't know, 11...
- The office.
- The office.
- Oh.
- No, come on, you're trying to kill this.
- Yeah, come on, man.
- We outside.
- We outside.
- We're leaving, guys.
- The office is the hood, ain't it?
- Yeah, that's crazy.
- We outside.
- For the chat, so they understand, 'cause they might not be from Miami, that's the ghettoest strip club in Miami.
The ghettoest strip club in Miami is the office, bro.
They're in G35, man.
Ghettoest strip club.
Where do you want?
You said the club.
Which one?
Any club.
Liv, I don't know.
Liv.
Liv isn't even open anymore, but that's fine.
Story's closed.
Story's closed.
Okay.
Which one?
Pick one, because they're completely different.
We'll do 11.
11, okay.
For the audience, fuck that place.
But it's a strip club slash nightclub that is fairly fancy, okay?
So I want you, so go ahead, stand up, take off the headphones.
You're gonna walk up to him.
He's gonna be the girl.
Let's get her a mic, please.
Do we have it?
Okay.
Okay.
Here's your mic.
So, alright, stand up.
Stand up.
So I'm gonna get out of the way.
I want you to, I'm gonna go take Chris's position.
I want you to like walk up to him as you would as a guy and try to attract him, okay?
And like say what you would normally say and what you think will work.
He's gonna behave like a regular chick.
And that's what it is, okay?
That's a whole act.
All right.
All the ladies here, just so you guys know.
Mo, you know what?
Mute their mics.
Try to be quiet, guys, so that we can actually make this objective here because I do want to give her a fighting chance.
What's going on, girl?
Son of a girl.
Oh, yeah.
You should act like his girlfriend because girls are never in the club by themselves.
Let's be honest here.
They always have a friend.
So let's make this realistic.
And guys, don't be too hard on her, okay?
We're in the club.
I'm going to count to like three, all right?
Zoom out one?
Yeah, yeah, I will.
Let me set up the...
We're some bad bitches.
Hell yeah.
I got the Hennessy and Cranberry.
Okay, so guys, I'm going to get out the way.
I'm going to have her approach them.
Okay, I want you to approach them and how you think would work.
Yeah, girl.
And they're going to act like normal girls.
They're not going to be too hard on you.
This is fucking The Office.
We ready?
You guys ready?
We're on roll.
Okay, go ahead.
Go.
Some bad bitches, bitch.
You got to pose that face.
Wait.
Bitch, do your lips better, bitch.
Hold on, girl, man.
Relax.
Pose, bitch.
Alright, alright, ready?
Yeah, tequila.
Hello.
Hello.
Girl, don't be on my photo and shit like that.
I don't know.
What are you doing?
Who are you?
That's rude.
I got this, girl.
First of all, we were taking a selfie, and you came, so what?
Girl, hold my drink, girl.
She's about to get in the office right now.
Alright, alright.
Hey bitch, what's up?
What then?
Are you quiet now?
Because I can't take you serious.
I can't take you serious.
Alright, that's an L, bro.
Hold on, hold on.
The acting is bad.
One more chance.
One more chance.
Hey, hey, listen.
I'm telling you guys about this.
Hold on, that does happen.
If you're someone to a girl solve it, they'll be rude as fuck.
Yeah, they will be.
Listen, listen.
This is rude.
Girls do that shit all the time.
Guess what?
I don't care about the rudeness, because guess what?
They're not doing nothing.
No action behind it.
We're starting over.
You gotta start over.
That's fine.
We're gonna start over here.
So start from the beginning.
Y'all need to act like girls.
Girls.
Not like obnoxious, stuck-up girls.
That's how they act?
No, they don't.
In the club?
No, they don't.
Listen.
When I go home to the club...
No, no, no.
I'm outside every day.
I know how they act.
Listen, listen, listen.
You might bring them with me to a club.
I know how to act.
That's how they act sometimes.
Keep it real.
I don't know.
I don't have that problem.
Come on, camera.
You're not a man.
That's why.
You're not a man.
Exactly.
You said you could.
Listen.
We're going to go again and roll.
I want you to approach them.
You want to try?
You want to try?
She's next.
She's next.
I just woke up.
Go ahead.
Girl, this place is kind of funky, huh?
Yeah, I'm bored.
Smell like fucking pussy and shit.
Kinda bored?
Man, she got a fine ass, man.
She got no ass.
She got no ass, nigga.
You got no ass, nigga, right?
Nah, shit's all right.
I mean, soon, Cup 11, soon after this?
We are 11, bitch.
No, we're in office.
We're at Cup 11.
I don't know.
Oh, yeah.
You must be drunk.
Oh, you're mine.
Yes, girl, I am.
I am too, though, but you don't know where you're at.
You driving or I'm driving?
We're gonna find a nigga to drive us.
Okay, all right.
Terrible acting.
Are you coming or not?
Make the approach, man.
Are you approaching?
Make the approach.
You hear that?
Hey.
Hi.
Hey, what's up?
Let's go to the bar.
We're at a table.
Okay, who are you?
That's none of your business.
I mean, you want to buy us drinks?
Okay.
Sure, let's go.
Okay, I want more Hennessy.
What do you want, girl?
I want 1942, and I want as well a side of Sprite to ease the pain.
Okay, cool.
You got it?
Yeah.
Okay, what's your name?
Samantha.
Samantha, my name is Christina.
What's your name?
My name is Frashina.
We some bad bitches.
Bad.
I'm a bad queen.
Okay, bad queen, go off.
Okay, you buying the drinks?
Yeah, let's go.
All right, cool.
Ready?
Thank you.
Cheers.
Alright, so you guys are at the bar now.
Alright, bye!
Bye.
Bro, you fucking suck, man.
Thank you!
See, this is...
I love this shit!
Because women have no fucking clue what men deal with!
No clue, bro!
No fucking clue!
Yeah, like...
Bruh, you know how many times girls say, oh, we'll get a drink, and then you walk over to the bar with them, they get the drinks, has no point of conversation.
It's like, come to the bar.
Here's some drinks.
Yeah, we want to try next.
Come on, over.
You know what?
Two dudes, two girls.
Oh, shit.
Let's do this.
Let's do this, man.
Let's do this, man.
All right.
Let's do this.
No, no, I'm good, no, no.
Hold on, real fast, before we do this, what's the scenario?
You guys pick, where are y'all meeting them?
Get them, the mic, the mic.
Which club?
Get them the mic.
Which club?
Uh, let's see.
G5?
Yeah.
I'm trying to get these things.
G5, yeah.
Wait, what's your name?
Man 10, whatever.
I don't know.
Pick one, ladies, please pick one, because that's going to dictate how they behave.
- Okay, for those that are not aware.
- I make a social.
- Okay, I've never been to you, it doesn't matter.
- There you go. - 'Cause there's a few people skills. - I have people skills.
Okay, just so the audience knows, American Social is like a sports bar.
They play sports there.
They got like, you know, bottomless mimosas on Sundays and shit like that.
It's a white people's sports bar, so they get the vibe.
Alright?
You would love that.
Yeah, you would.
That's why he knows about it.
That's why he knows about it.
Okay.
Well, I haven't been there in years.
Okay.
So we're at the bar, just getting drinks.
Yeah, cool.
So you guys can act like ratchet hoes, by the way.
Okay, FYI. I mean, that's over there too, but we'll act white.
Yeah.
So you guys go ahead and approach them.
Let's see how it goes.
And I want to see you guys actually, like, try to move the conversation and see what happens.
And I'm telling you, this is how girls be acting.
Y'all act like this one.
Can I get, um, uh, Jack and Coke?
Go ahead, ladies.
Go ahead.
So, girl, I was at Starbucks the other day, and they mess up my order.
Really?
I want a latte.
Benti, and they gave me a regular latte.
And I'm like, what's wrong?
Hi, ladies.
Oh, hey.
Sorry to interrupt.
How's it going?
How are y'all?
We're doing okay.
Here we go.
Okay.
Yeah.
What bring y'all to the club tonight?
Well, we're just getting some drinks.
We're just tired from work.
We're traveling.
What are you drinking on?
I'm drinking on Jack and Coke.
Jack and Coke?
Yeah, you know, I'm bougie.
Ratchet.
That's a bougie?
That's not bougie.
Oh, really?
Thank you.
I'm drinking, literally, tequila on ice.
Okay.
Do you guys want another round of those drinks?
Sure.
Yeah, sure.
Okay.
Okay.
Where you guys from?
Over to the bar.
Where you guys from?
No, we have the bar already.
Oh, okay.
First time here?
Oh, no.
No, no, no.
Not at all.
Okay.
We was just trying to make sure you guys was good, though.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
We good?
Y'all want another round and we're at the bar, so let's just go ahead and get another round of drinks for y'all.
All right, cool.
What do you want, girl?
1942 again?
1942, you know what?
I take one too.
Yeah.
Yeah, yeah, let's go.
All right, cheers!
Cheers!
Yeah!
Cheers!
All right.
So what are y'all doing after the club?
Oh, we don't know yet.
Yeah, yeah.
We're just chilling right now.
Yeah, we're occasionally.
Okay, well, actually, I have a friend of mine who has another situation going on after the club.
I mean, if you guys enjoy us here, do you guys mind coming with us?
Situation?
It's a club.
It's a party.
It's another party.
What's that called?
What's it called?
It's called...
It's called...
- Girl, she-- - Dunk a new.
- Girl, girl, girl, they line.
Girl, girl, they line though. - We won't go to live tonight.
- Y'all wanna go to live?
- Yeah, tonight.
- Okay, we gonna live?
- Yeah?
- So we can all meet up there.
- Oh boy, what, what?
- Are y'all gonna take one car?
- Tables?
One car?
Nah, nah.
Uber?
- No, no, we got everything you need to live.
All you gotta do is meet up there.
What time?
As soon as we leave here.
What time are you guys leaving?
Get the Instagram.
Get my Instagram real quick.
I'm opening your phone.
What's your Instagram?
Go ahead and put it right here.
It's my Instagram right there.
I'm going to follow you right now.
It's on private though, so I have to accept you.
We just sent you a request.
Make sure you accept it.
Okay, so what time should we be ready at Liv?
We'll order the Uber.
Yeah.
Okay.
As soon as y'all ready.
Give us like an hour to get ready, okay?
Okay, so just let me know when I order the Uber.
Okay.
All right.
We'll see you then.
Okay.
Bye, guys.
All right.
Make sure y'all enjoy them extra drinks.
Thank you.
On us.
Alright, girl, we got free drinks, man.
That was W, man.
We got free drinks.
They got a table for us.
Really?
They got a table for us?
No, no.
We're not done yet.
Oh, we're not done yet?
Club live.
Come on.
Okay.
Now they're at the live?
Okay.
Now we're at live.
Okay.
Here you go.
We got pretty cars.
We got an Uber.
We got all the way to live, guys.
We've been drinking all night.
We got Instagrams and live.
All right, girl.
So we're here right now, but I know there's other guys here, though.
Yeah, yeah.
Let me text the guy real quick.
Hey, we are here in front of live.
We're...
We'll meet y'all at the front door.
We're gonna meet y'all at the front door.
Y'all just wait up real quick.
Hey.
What's up, girl?
How was the ride?
Me boy.
I'm good though.
What's up?
Sorry, she's drunk.
Yeah, I was pretty drunk drunk.
How's the ride?
Y'all good?
We good.
How y'all feeling?
Y'all good?
Y'all ready to turn up?
We're at the party!
Okay, let's go.
All right, let's go.
Okay, y'all just follow us.
We're going straight to the bar.
Y'all have a table?
No, a table.
Okay.
You got a table?
Yeah, we got a table.
All right, let's go.
So what y'all want to drink?
Because we're going to order bottles.
I want tequila.
What kind of tequila?
1942.
1942.
Okay, what do you want?
No, no, we got the same thing with your camera.
Okay.
1942, it's no pressure.
Okay, it's no pressure.
How much does the table cost at this place at this time?
$85,000.
Can I tell them how much money they're down at?
Between $4,000 to $10,000.
So it's like $8,000 to $10,000, right?
So we're down like $6,000 now.
We're well connected and live at this point.
We're well connected.
Yeah, we got the people.
We got the people.
Okay.
Okay.
Or if not, we just went to the bar.
No, we went to the bar.
I thought you were at a table.
I thought you had a table.
No, y'all coming in the club with us, so we got a table.
Okay, great.
Yeah.
Okay, so we do have a table.
Let's go.
Let's go.
Okay.
I like him.
I want to buy this one right here.
She a little bit.
He been stingy with us.
He got money.
What do you do for a living?
He's the one with money.
Well, I'm a model, and actually, like, I do a lot of model gigs in Miami.
Oh, so how much you get paid a year?
It depends on the gig, but I'm pretty good at modeling.
I'm independent, too, and I'm a queen.
Okay.
Yes.
What do you do for a living?
I'm an influencer.
Oh, okay.
How many followers you got on Instagram?
How much do you get paid?
Girl, a lot.
I'm a bad bitch, alright?
Y'all make my money on OF. You got OnlyFans?
You want OnlyFans?
Yeah, but we don't like that, though.
We not the type of dudes that like OnlyFans, girls.
Oh, really?
Yeah, you gotta switch that up.
Oh, why?
How dare you?
Okay, so you can get in, but your friend can't call.
I can't go without my...
Okay, I can come.
No, no, no.
It's cool.
We'll go with them.
Alright, so we're at the section now.
Okay.
What's happening?
We just dancing.
Okay, so what?
We got the bottles?
We drinking and dancing.
Okay, we got the section, so we got the bottles?
Yeah, yeah.
Okay.
Look, Devon just texted me.
Devon?
I'm gonna go to 11 after this.
Oh, yeah?
Oh, y'all not going nowhere after this.
What you said, y'all was in the train?
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
What y'all said y'all was drinking?
We coming too.
You can't hear us right now.
We're talking.
And put my number in your phone while you're at it.
Okay, no, y'all not going nowhere.
First of all, you can't be on the phone while you're in my section.
Y'all can't be on the phone...
All folks getting confiscated while we in the section.
All folks getting confiscated while we in the section.
It's men that do this.
All folks getting confiscated while we in the section.
Fante!
Get my number before you leave!
Oh my God, you assaulted me.
Oh my god!
Yo!
What the fuck?
Yo!
The men do that though!
The phone take a hand right now!
Touch me the phone!
I'm about to get out of here, please.
What the fuck?
Okay, I'm sorry.
Yo, they committed like three crimes.
Girl, let's get out of here.
Let's get out of here, girl.
I don't know what we need.
This is funny, actually.
Whenever we put girls in the guys' role, they always commit crimes.
Why is it that?
Literally.
Bro, what the fuck?
Guys, all jokes aside, I ain't gonna hold you, bro.
She got ass.
Just saying.
But yo, that was terrible.
That was terrible.
It's funny because the whole time, they were not very, I want to say, entertaining.
So I'm texting other guys while I'm at the table, and I got an invite to Club Live.
I start Club 11, and it's like, yo, this is boring.
I got my shots already.
I'm lit.
I'm going over there.
And you wouldn't even know I was texting another guy at a club.
You wouldn't even know.
Oh, I know.
I'm a female.
No, but you heard me say it, though, live.
Yeah.
But you wouldn't even know if I didn't tell you.
That's true.
And I'm like, yo, I got work in the morning.
I got to go.
Bye.
I got free drinks.
I got a table I live.
All because you did what I wanted you to do.
I didn't fuck.
Yeah.
So see how easy this goes with finesse?
Get what they want?
Yeah.
And that was them telling you like what they're doing.
Like normally the girls just be on their phones to send some up and you don't even know it.
They drink your liquor and then they leave.
That's why when she was like, oh, let's go to the bar.
I'm like, all right, let's see what happens when you go to the bar with them.
And then if you don't entertain them, they're going to leave immediately.
So I just find it funny.
Like when you put the shoe on the other foot and girls are the guys, y'all start getting way more aggressive than the dudes even.
Give me your phone.
Give me your phone.
You ain't going nowhere.
Wait, where you going?
Where you going with you?
Where you going with me?
Bro, what the fuck?
That's crazy.
So this is what I'm trying to say when I say, like, yo, girls have, you guys have zero idea how difficult it is to be a dude and be a dude.
And then that's kind of why I was laughing because you were like, oh yeah, we want to meet them in the club.
I was like, wow, okay.
You realize the club is one of the worst ways and hardest ways to deal with girls.
She started the club.
Y'all don't see how hard it was and you guys picked it too.
I would have picked out, no, because I was just, from what she did.
So no, for you, I would have said the grocery store.
Here's the thing, you said they're bad actors.
No, that's how girls actually act.
So I'm going to give you a tip.
That's how they behave.
That's how they behave.
Girls don't act like that.
That's how they behave.
No, girls act like that.
As a guy, you know how it works?
You know what I do?
I bring my own girls to the club.
Then once they're there, they're cool with other girls, they become friends, and they come up with me again.
It's almost like a chain effect.
You're saying, naturally, girls are going to be like, pleasing to you and want to talk to you.
No, they don't.
Fuck no.
They don't know who you are.
For a man, no.
That's the point!
You're a man!
You're the dude!
No, the hell I'm not!
Oh my God!
I cannot act when I'm not.
Yeah.
Bro, just take the L. This is what I'm trying to say.
This is where I'm going to go with this.
This exercise demonstrated what I've always said about women.
You guys are fucking useless in a lot of situations, especially being friends with us.
Because you guys don't understand what it takes to be a man.
You guys don't understand what it takes to be attractive to a man.
So there's really no point for us to be friends with you guys.
Because I don't think women can really help men.
And this exercise demonstrates that exactly.
She went ahead.
And here's the thing, you don't know this because you're a woman.
This is how women behave in a club.
Extremely entitled, extremely rude.
You come up to them, they're like, why the fuck are you coming up to me a lot of times?
No, we agreed.
I definitely agree.
No, no, but she disagreed.
Sorry.
She disagreed.
She never experienced it.
And she was shocked that this isn't real.
This is real.
This is how women behave in nightclubs to guys.
This is how they behave a lot.
Very dismissive, very rude, very entitled.
And then you're like, well, let's get a drink.
It's easy.
Yeah, you get them to the bar, you buy them a drink, and then they leave if you don't keep them entertained.
Here's the joke, by the way.
So they leave.
Any man can get a drink.
Then you lose!
Lose what?
The money and time!
Yeah, money and time.
See, that's what I'm trying to explain.
Like, you guys don't even...
You spend $60, $100, $200, $300 on a woman's drinks.
Yeah, this is my bottle.
Yeah, you spend that money...
If you can't go out and spend it and it not affect you, why are you going out to spend?
Yo, this is why...
You should be saving it.
Bro, did you not just say a second ago that your friends are Benjamin Franklin and his composers?
How would you feel if you lost your friends every day?
Come on, man.
By your own logic.
You're losing your friends every day.
Not getting smashed at all.
How would you feel?
First of all, I wouldn't even put myself in that position.
Oh, here we go.
There you go.
See?
So just take the L and admit that you don't know what you're talking about.
You can't attract women, and that's what it is.
Just admit it.
But I always laugh when girls say, I can guy game.
I can help guys get girls.
No, you can't.
Also, you know who he's supposed to do with your competition?
Actors, celebrities, rappers, promoters.
Security guards.
Security guards, for sure.
Base level of just being in the club.
And you know what they all have?
Liquor.
Congrats!
Ta-da!
Ta-da!
Tequila here, tequila here.
What you gonna do?
And jewelry.
And jewelry too, yeah.
So hold L, man.
Just hold L, bro.
Yeah, just hold L. Yeah, bro.
Like, you know what's funny?
This is always very revealing.
Like, she was shocked that girls behaved that way.
They were being nice to you.
Yeah.
That wasn't bad at all.
They wouldn't even turn around.
They wouldn't even turn around.
They'll just, they'll straight up just keep dancing and ignore you.
Ignore you while they eyes at you.
Yeah.
Yep.
So that answers me.
Move from around there and find your crowd.
That's why you move from around there and you find your crowd.
It's not that easy.
It's a lot of women like that.
Life is what you make it.
I don't want to hear that.
Life is what you make it.
You failed, bro.
You failed.
Y'all are bad actors.
This is how women really behave.
I'm trying to tell you, like, this is how women behave in a nightclub.
Like, that's just what it is.
That's why I found it funny when you said I want a nightclub.
See, you don't know this because you're a female.
So, like, you're...
I don't want to sound like an asshole, but your opinion is irrelevant.
And also...
Because you don't understand because you aren't a man.
When you deal with women as a man, it's a completely different experience.
It's not even the same.
Also, people underestimate bolsters and security guards.
They pull holes with nothing.
Trust me.
I know, just standing there.
Just standing there.
I know.
So your approach was terrible?
You feel like, or you know?
Your outcome was terrible.
Okay, we can move on for sure.
You don't know what's going on.
See, here's the other thing too.
She doesn't account for the money it costs to get inside, the money it costs the time, getting Ubers there, whatever it may be, and then you're buying these girls liquor.
You said you buy them both a drink.
That's 50 gone immediately.
Entrance fee.
Whatever you paid for to drink beforehand.
And you just said a second ago, my best friend's is money.
Well, you're losing your money every fucking day, bro.
Every day.
I don't think you're going to be that happy when you're actually spending money all the time on people that aren't necessarily reciprocating.
Benjamin, all the niggas gone.
They gone, for real.
What club did she pick?
Liv?
Definitely gone.
No, The Office.
No, no, no.
No, it was Liv.
I said The Office.
She said Liv, which is going to be, a mixed drink at Liv is going to be $30 automatically by itself on a Saturday night.
$30 bucks?
A mixed drink is going to be $30.
We've got a video to react to that's been going viral on X. So basically, there's been this video where this woman was married to obviously her husband and she had friends that were, I want to say, not the nicest to her husband.
We'll watch the video to see what happens.
Alright.
If you don't mind.
Also, her husband put a camera in the room to see who comes into the house.
Because he was a little bit worried about certain things.
He saw some signs.
And her friends were popping up out of nowhere.
So let's go.
Here we go.
You know we love this word.
Pause it.
I think the music is kind of copyrighted.
The music is probably going to be off.
Here we go.
Oh.
He's just a friend, honey.
Don't worry about him.
At least he took his shoes off.
Let's see here.
What?
Who is that?
A different one?
A different one?
Oh, okay.
He brought something.
He's a friend, honey.
He opened it to us, too.
Yo, this man put the wall in his pocket, man.
You already know, man.
What is she doing?
The same day?
No, that's not a different day.
The same day.
Oh my god.
Different day, different day.
She's mid too, man.
Mid as fuck, man.
Not even mid.
Like below mid.
She's at three.
Bro, she got no ass.
Oh my god.
She don't go to the gym.
Nothing, bro.
But that's crazy.
That's wild.
That's fucking niggas, man.
He's her friend, honey.
What the hell?
That's wild.
Yo.
Oh, no.
Same outfit.
Same outfit.
Oh my god.
Wait, whose bags are...
Disgusting, bro.
Now she switched them out.
She switched them out.
She said, now I'm going to drop you off and I'm going to go pick up the other one.
I lost count.
Are you guys still sure that's insecure?
What do you mean?
Let's start here.
He was secure about his thoughts.
What was your thoughts on the video and was that insecure or not?
Him putting the camera in there.
No, because obviously if he had an inkling, he wasn't just feeling like, he didn't have, he didn't do it for no reason.
And he got proved right.
My notebook real quick.
Okay.
What about you?
Follow your intuition.
If your intuition is telling you something's off, go for it.
So was he right in doing that?
He's right.
If you feel like your partner's cheating, first of all, there's too many STDs in this world to be even playing like that.
That's number one.
Okay.
What about you?
He was not in the wrong for that.
I guess, like you'd say, follow your intuition.
For you?
Yeah, he's not insecure at all.
Do you think that she just had like friends that were cool?
That was okay?
Have guy friends?
Wait, so he lives there with her or who owns a house?
Apparently he does.
So he put a camera in there to watch her movements.
And he works at night?
I don't know when he works.
Tell us in the video.
He wasn't...
He wasn't wrong for that.
He's not insecure?
No.
Fresh, you're asking the wrong question, bro.
They know now because obviously she was cheating, but I guarantee you, if they had known before, they would say, this dude is insecure or some bullshit like that.
Because I said that.
You said insecure.
I did say that.
But what if she wasn't cheating and he put a camera there?
So that would make it insecure?
It would be like, why are you recording me?
And I don't have nothing going on.
What about all the other guys that were there?
No, no.
Now, because she's cheating, of course, and she's coming in and out the house with multiple men.
But what if she was someone who wasn't cheating?
This was like...
So because she got caught, it's not insecurity.
But if she didn't get caught, it'd be insecurity, is what you're saying?
No.
I thought, what if she wasn't doing anything at all?
Like, what if she wasn't cheating?
Wouldn't that make him insecure?
But it's the fact that she is cheating.
So he had a feeling that she was cheating.
Put a camera there.
So it's okay.
So it's okay.
Yes.
Okay.
What about you?
Yeah, he had a feeling that she was cheating.
He put a camera there.
He caught her.
So he wasn't wrong.
And for you?
I think like Shit smells, so he smelled it, and he put a camera.
I just feel like if it's my own house...
But I don't think, like, I mean, I have cameras in my house, and, like, you just, you can't be doing nothing wrong.
That's it, like...
You can't be doing nothing wrong.
You shouldn't be doing nothing at all.
No, you shouldn't be doing nothing at all.
No, I'm saying, but like, I got cameras in my house, make sure, like, because I live in an apartment, so if somebody comes in at my house, I want to know.
So, knowing what you know now about girls on camera with me, should girls have guy friends, you think?
Should girls have guy friends?
Yeah.
No.
For what?
What about you?
Should girls have guy friends?
You got two, right?
People need to have friends with whoever the hell they want to have friends with.
Period.
Watch the people who you with, and if you don't trust them, get out of a relationship with them.
How would you know, though?
If you don't trust them, stay with them.
How would you know?
You won't know until you know.
That's the risk of being in a relationship.
Yeah.
Period.
So if your man wanted you to drop your gay friends, would you drop them?
I mean, I would drop them to a certain extent.
Fully?
Honestly, I would.
Because my guy friends would understand.
Like, I'm in a relationship.
He doesn't agree with you guys.
My guy friends would understand.
Like, it's not that deep for me to be trying to hold on to a relationship with a guy friend who ain't dicking me down.
He ain't doing that for me.
We don't need them.
We don't need them.
So, for what?
And also, my guy friends would understand if they are truly my guy friends.
If they're not your guy friends and they're trying to fuck on you, then they're going to have a problem.
But other than that, like, you my guy friend.
My dude ain't really trying to fuck with you like that.
Like, I'm straight.
I'm trying to go ahead and figure out this relationship.
After I figure out the relationship, if it don't work out and you still my guy friend, then we could be friends again.
Like, I don't know.
Could you imagine how he would feel just thinking about you haven't got your friends?
Would you care about his feelings at all?
Of course.
Yeah?
Okay.
Stop the cow!
Yeah, sure.
What about you?
I guess.
That's what I just said, but okay.
Know what you know now.
Should girls be friends with guys like that?
My opinion still remains the same.
And that was?
Men and women can be friends.
If you're in a relationship and your partner isn't in agreeance with it, then I feel like you should drop your girlfriend or boyfriend.
But if they're okay with it, then it's fine.
Shouldn't you be proactive?
Ahead of time?
I feel like if it's innocent, there shouldn't be a problem.
But if it bothers my partner, then I will be susceptible to dropping him.
Okay, what about you?
No.
Why?
My girls shouldn't have guy friends because we're opposites, so we don't even understand each other.
Like, even a relationship, like, you know?
Alright, for you?
I say no.
Like I said earlier, whatever man in my life, that's the relationship I'm in.
So that's the male figure that I'm reaching out to for advice and this and that.
But I don't need any male friends for advice when I can ask my man.
That's fair.
Wrong person to ask.
I'm single.
If you had a man, by chance...
Would that matter?
Not really, because honestly, I'm not going to sit here and control a man.
Like, who am I to control that man?
He can have friends.
That's toxic.
No, no.
You as a woman having guy friends.
What's the problem?
Your man doesn't like that.
Because that might happen.
That's his problem.
That's not your man anymore.
Okay.
What about you?
No.
I'm like, well, I have my brother.
I have my cousins.
They're all males.
I don't know how I got this.
No, I'm good.
Thoughts on the video?
No, I mean, did you have another line of question with this?
No, I got quite enough from what I heard here.
It's crazy because as a guy, you would think your girl would say, you know what?
All right, I have a guy friend that wants to poly smash me.
So just to be smart about it, I got a man now that's actually taking care of me, maybe paying my bills, whatever, giving me dick.
I don't need this guy anymore as a friend.
Drop him.
All right, let me ask this then.
Yeah, I mean, I'll become distant from him out of respect or whatever or not, but, like, what do you mean drop him?
Like, if he hits me up and he's venting to me about his girlfriend or, like, he wants a question or use me as a reference or whatever the case may be...
If my guy friend, like if my, the guy that I'm dating doesn't have a problem with it, I'm still in contact.
But I'm not like talking to him every day and like, you know what I'm saying?
Like, he's just a friend.
Like, innocently.
Do you think it's controlling?
I'll go around the table on this.
Do you think it's controlling if your guy, if your man or a guy that you're talking to told you, I need you to get rid of all of your male friends?
Is that controlling?
Yes or no?
I feel like if a man comes to you out of respect and is like, hey, I just don't find a reason for you to need all these guy friends, I feel like this, this and this, then you guys should have that conversation, you know?
So it should be a conversation?
Yeah.
What about you?
What do you think?
No.
No.
You don't think it's controlling?
I don't think it's controlling.
Okay.
So for you it needs to be a conversation unless otherwise it's controlling.
No, no, no.
I don't think it's controlling like if you're telling me how you feel.
Yeah, you want a conversation?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
What about you?
I think I'll be in agreement with her.
Like I would want to see why.
I don't care why.
Don't be like, oh, cut him off.
Have a conversation.
Be like, I don't feel comfortable.
Otherwise, it's controlling.
And what about you?
You think it's not controlling to have that?
I don't think it's controlling.
Okay, what about you?
Do you think it's controlling for a guy to say, hey, cut your friends off?
No.
It's not?
Okay, what about you?
No, cut him off immediately.
Okay, not controlling.
What about you?
Do you think it's controlling?
You know my answer, yes.
It is controlling, regardless if there's a conversation had or not.
Yes.
Because what's the problem with having friends if you know it's not more than just friends?
What's the problem?
That's insecurity.
Okay.
What about you?
No, I don't think it's controlling.
You don't think it's controlling?
Okay.
So you would just drop it.
You wouldn't even need the conversation like they do.
I was very specific.
I'm not going to ask why.
You're not going to just hit my phone on some toxic shit and be like, oh, do this.
And then I'm like, okay.
You're going to be like, hey.
Yeah, you want a conversation.
That's literally what I just said.
But if you did text me like, oh, do this, then I don't care either.
I just would want it reciprocated.
I feel some type of way about some girl, like we can talk about it.
No, not talk about it.
You're gonna tell him to drop them girls.
If it's reciprocated.
Alright, so that's important.
So now you're saying that you're okay with it, but you need to be able to also be able to do that to him and tell him you need to drop your female friends.
Yeah, if he's doing it to me.
Who else agrees with that?
Do you agree with that too?
That it's reciprocated, reciprocal.
It should be reciprocal if he's asking me.
Should be, okay, cool.
What about you?
Do you think it's reciprocal?
No.
What about you?
Is it reciprocal?
So you need to be able to tell him he has to drop his female friends?
Yeah.
Interesting.
Okay, what about you?
Because you also said it's not controlling, but...
I don't think it needs to be reciprocal.
Okay, so it's one-way street.
I mean, that's how he feels.
If I don't necessarily feel that way, I'm not gonna do it just for it to be reciprocal.
Meaning, if I didn't have a problem with him having girlfriends and he has a problem with me having guy friends, I'm not gonna now have a problem with him having girlfriends because it's reciprocal.
Okay, interesting.
Well, I think a lot of girls have an issue with it because of the reciprocal thing, but you're saying for you it's not?
No.
Interesting.
Okay.
Okay.
Do you have high standards in men?
Sure, yeah.
Okay, do you have high standards of men?
I do.
What about you?
I do.
What about you?
In this generation, not really.
She's being honest.
I asked you if you have high standards of men, not women in general.
I'm asking you.
The generation of men, she wants.
She's saying the current climate of men isn't...
That's not what I asked.
I asked, do you have high standards of men?
No, she's asking no.
I try, but, you know...
Wait...
Wait.
She's explaining why she's giving her answer.
Yeah.
Because the claim of men isn't...
It's a yes or no question part taken.
Is that what you're saying?
No, she's not.
Yes or no question.
Do you have high standards in men?
I do.
Okay.
Thank you.
Do you have high standards in men?
Okay.
Yes.
What about you?
I probably saved you, man.
You do too?
I was trying to.
I was trying to, brother.
But it's tough.
Yeah.
Yes?
Okay.
Can men have standards in your opinion?
Yeah.
Of course, of course.
What do you mean?
All right, go to Castle Club.
Guys, we're going to go over to Castle Club because what I'm going to say here will not be.
Come on over to Castle Club.
What are we talking about?
No, no, I'm just asking if men can have standards.
Of course men have standards.
They can, right?
They can, right?
They can.
What?
I don't think it says...
All people can have standards.
I don't think it says...
Yeah, we're going to Castle Club.
Guys, come on over to Castle Club, Ben, because I want to say some things and, you know, it is what it is.