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July 31, 2024 - Fresh & Fit
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Ray J Drank ALOT And THIS Happened...
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Thank you.
Welcome to the Fresh Fit Podcast.
Let's go into intro.
Let's go!
What do you do?
How many cares, bro?
Get out!
Get out!
It's the night, gonna fall in the night, no control F*** out, put your shoes on outside.
You don't got to put them on in here.
We are back.
Straight up and down.
We got Ray J in the house.
We got motherfucking Ray J in the house!
Let's go!
Long time coming.
Rich is here, man.
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and go ahead Chris shout out to the chat shout out to you guys talking to my socials ladies please DM me Chris Aaron Poxon and find me on Twitter and let's have a great show ladies alright I know Martin isn't here right now but he's a bit busy but he'll be here probably later on But for the ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status.
If you want to, of course, we'll start right here.
Welcome to the show.
Hi.
What year you were born as well?
I was born in 2002.
I'm 21.
My name is Jillian.
I'm a student and a dancer.
Dating status?
I'm single.
A dancer?
What kind of dancer?
Exotic.
You mean stripper?
She belongs to the street.
That's not true.
Do you dance for dollar bills basically?
is that what you're saying?
Yeah.
Dollar, dollar, dollar.
Your stripper is fine.
Okay, and then highest level of education.
Yeah, she is.
Oh, wow.
Okay, I couldn't even tell.
And then education level, highest level for education?
Education, I'm currently in trade school I did my associates in college.
What's that?
A two-year degree.
What is an SOC? What does it mean?
Associates.
What did you get in?
Nutrition science.
Nutrition?
And you're a dancer, that's funny.
I love that.
I love the dimples as well.
Thank you, I only have one.
How many dimples do you have?
Just one.
Just one on this side?
I mean, like in my back, but I don't have it on my sheet.
Oh, you have dimples in your ass, too.
Okay.
So, just one.
I love that.
And then, uh, birth control?
Am I on it?
Yeah.
No.
It's illegal.
I don't believe.
I mean, like, I just, the hormones things, like, I personally was on it, and it ruined me.
And, like, not ruined me, but, like, it just, it messes up a lot of things.
Yeah, I think condoms are the best way to go.
I got these new condom lines.
It's called the Mustang.
It's way different than the Trojan, because it's a real wild horse.
I think so.
It's the new wave for me.
Okay.
I feel like that.
Look out for the Mustang condoms.
Coming soon.
Yeah, well, no, coming Coming right now Okay, what about you?
Wait, wait, wait, hold on, body count?
Oh, yeah, body count as well Body count?
Come on, man 25 A million and seven Hey, well, she ain't lying What?
She ain't lying, man That's the first time she went over You know where my lucky number is 17?
So why she said a million and seven meaning 17?
I don't know, but one seven was in there But that's a lot of people I had one more in there Make it 17.
I mean, a million and seven is a lot of people.
It is.
But I think you were exaggerating by at least 500,000.
Only seven.
Okay.
Okay, what about you?
My name is Mari.
I'm 23 years old, and I got my associates.
I'm working on my bachelor's right now.
What does that mean by associates?
What is the associate degree for somebody who got their high school diploma but never went further than that?
Um, so the associates is like basically like when you don't know what you want to do.
So it's like you go there to do all the like the basic classes first.
Yeah, like kind of I've graduated from college too.
I got the multiple disciplinary studies.
That was on College Hill.
The TV show diploma, but I can discipline myself in multiple areas.
I think that's what I learned how to do.
What'd you get in though?
What'd you say?
Your associate, what'd you get in?
It was just an...
What do you mean?
Like, what's the subject?
Well, now I'm doing like...
Fried Dick!
Fried Dick works.
But now it's event management.
Okay.
And then, is that your full-time job?
No, I also content create, I make vlogs, and I stream on Kit.
I don't know if I'm allowed to say that, but I stream.
Okay, you stream on Kit.
What are we on right now?
Rumble, YouTube, Twitch, everywhere.
So we on Rumble, YouTube, Twitch.
And so, how do I connect this to the Ray J socials?
Or should I just have y'all manage all my socials?
I mean, you could.
Tell your boy.
Will we make money?
I mean, we could.
Definitely.
We'll talk about it.
For sure.
Okay.
We'll talk about it.
And then dating status?
I'm single.
Okay.
And just have breath control.
Uh, no.
None?
I want to make sure we know that in certain states, you can't use that, right?
Or no, you can't do Plan B. It's the abortion.
Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, my bad.
Yeah, okay.
You can still use it.
Nah, everybody should have a choice to do what they want to do, what they twat.
Everybody's your choice.
And then, um, I guess...
Body count?
Six.
Six?
Six?
No, six.
Six?
Okay, so one, two, three, four, five, six.
I was in really long relationships.
I've been single for two years.
How old are you?
23.
23 and six guys is a lot.
I guess.
Is it really?
I think so.
And she wants somebody, too.
Yeah, because it's like, if you had time, like, you was with somebody for a very long time, how long?
Well, no, because...
Six is a long time.
Because first it was three years.
23, 22, 21, 19, 18, 17.
No, but you gotta think about my first boyfriend, too, when I was, like, 15.
Yeah, so that's one.
But you was only with him for, like, a year.
And then you spoke with six guys after.
No, and then right after...
No, it's just I kept jumping into relationships.
I appreciate the honesty.
I'm at, like, 7,500.
Yeah, no, I kept jumping in, and I realized I need to, like...
You're fine.
I was like three relationships and I'm like, I just need a break.
No, it was more like, hold on.
It was more like five or six more, right?
For the math, but you're still like late.
Wait, repeat that?
Well, you say you have six guys.
Mm-hmm.
And you're 23?
Yeah.
So 23 minus six is what?
17?
Damn.
Oh, I didn't know that.
Let's subtract, everybody.
Let's subtract.
23, 22, 21, 20, 19, 18, 17, 16.
It is 17.
Okay.
So with 17, it don't matter if y'all do that.
I'm fine with that.
I was trying to see what I said.
I did that.
So yeah, so before the six guys, it was one guy, then with the six guys.
You know what I'm saying?
It's confusing after that.
You want me to go into detail?
I don't want to.
You know what?
Like I said, I tried to tell you my number so we all feel good and comfortable.
I'm happy to have you here.
Thank you for being honest.
Of course.
I'm happy to have you here, too.
I'm happy to be here.
Alright, welcome back, Juicy.
It's your birthday as well, right?
How old are you?
Y'all, I'm finally legal.
I'm 21 now.
Well, you was legal at 18.
But you know, I am glad to be back.
I'm glad.
I really did want to celebrate my birthday with y'all, so I'm glad.
Oh, my voice know because I was lit yesterday, okay?
I was gone.
So we know who you are, but they may not.
If y'all don't know who I am, first of all, shout out to Detox.
Always.
What do you do for it?
Well, firstly, I'm 21.
I'm from Belgrade, Florida.
I am a model, and I just got into digital marketing.
Shout out to all the sexy ladies backstage, too.
I see y'all.
I'm a retired scripper.
Yeah.
You a retired stripper?
Yes, I quit!
When did you quit?
I quit like three months ago.
How old are you?
I'm 21.
You just quit stripping, you just started.
That's stressful.
Like I tell them, don't let the money make you, you make it, and that money was not finna make me.
Period, blood.
I'm on period, blood.
Shout to Mo!
Shout to Mo.
Okay.
I am currently still single.
Okay.
Every time I come.
That makes sense actually.
Heavy on birth control.
Every time you come?
You heavy on birth control.
How many birth controls a day?
I have the one in my arm going on my third year.
And when you get the one in your arm, how do you get it in there?
How do they get it into the arm?
They cut my skin open.
Really?
And they put it in.
Brother F! Yeah.
Brother F! And what happens inside of it?
What is in the birth control pill that stops it?
The difference between other birth control and my birth control is...
What's it called?
Esplanade?
No matter.
I don't know what it's called.
No matter what it's called.
You know what?
Keep it private.
But it's a birth control that lasts up to three years if nobody knows.
It prevents pregnancy and it's really true.
It does other than other birth control.
Are you crying about it?
Crying.
No, I lost my voice.
No, no, no.
I swear to God I didn't know and I'm sorry if you were.
Okay, so just for the chat real quick.
Education level?
I'm currently in college going into my third year this year.
So I guess high school diploma?
Yes.
Any kids then?
I have one.
I have one.
He's two.
He's two.
And my body can't bleed the fifth.
Every time.
We know it's pretty high but it's fine.
What about you?
Hi, I'm Trigga.
I'm from Jacksonville, Florida.
I'm 24 and I work for my mom.
We do real estate.
Okay.
You want to ask a question, Richie?
No, I'm just looking.
Okay.
Dating status?
Single.
And education level?
Real estate license.
Okay.
Yo, education level is loud, bro.
What does that mean?
What does that mean?
Because here's the thing.
I've never had a list of anything that said, what did you graduate from high school?
No, yeah, you're right.
I've never had to present my diploma to anybody.
We just want to know.
So why did I get it?
No, you're right.
Why did I get my diploma?
Because we're told to.
School is a scam.
Let me not say it.
It's a scam in a certain scenario.
I get what you're saying.
All of it.
And then birth control?
No.
Body count?
I'm not going to say.
I'm a lady.
Is that much?
No, I'm a lady.
It's over nine thousand!
I'm a lady.
Okay, you're right.
Alright, sorry about that.
Alright, moving on to Marlee.
What about you?
Hey everyone, my name is Mia Millions.
I am 27.
I'm not on birth control, and I actually don't believe women should be on birth control because there's a lot of chemicals and things involved, but that's a different scenario.
I went to college.
I have my masters.
In what?
I'm a PhD.
I have my master's in international business.
Okay, great.
That's actually my goal.
I'm an entrepreneur.
International business?
International business.
What kind of business do you have going on internationally?
I'm international.
I'm from a West African background.
Okay, much respect.
Shout out to President Tanubu.
Shout out to Shea, who is his son.
Everybody in Nigeria.
Shout out to them.
Yeah, shout out to everybody back home, man.
Y'all know.
Shout out.
Mia, what country?
Sierra Leone.
Okay.
And body count?
I'll let y'all assume what y'all want to assume.
You want to plead the fifth?
Yes, please plead the fifth.
I have been in a few serious relationships.
How many?
I'd say five.
How old are you?
I'm 27.
Okay.
Yeah.
Seasurable, right?
Pretty serious.
Seasurable.
What about you?
Hi, my name's Eve.
What's up, Eve?
How you doing?
Where's Adam?
What did you say?
Where's Adam?
Big dick Adam!
There you go.
I'm joking.
I just felt like that.
Let me finish.
No, my name is Rain.
Hey, by the way, he's on the market, by the way, just so you know, he's on the market.
I'm a freelancer.
I do photography and also I started to like promote my vocalist position Which one?
The vocalist?
Vocalist What does that mean?
What's that?
Like I sing What are you saying?
I don't play any instruments Vocalist Oh, you mean vocalist I'm from Ukraine, so I'm sorry if I make a mistake So vocalist was a cute Ukrainian kind of way to say vocalist Vocalist Let's see your vocals Huh?
Let's see what you got So you got a master next to you, a legend in the house Oh, you want to?
Anything you can do, rendition, something real quick Okay I keep on falling Oh Yeah And a lot of love That was so beautiful That was pretty good That was pretty good
I'm so happy you were good because you're sitting right next to me.
I know, that'd be awkward, right?
No, I would have got you through it.
I don't think you need to do anymore.
What?
No, I like you now.
I like it.
I'm in the market.
You didn't want me before?
Well, I'm available for a little while.
Oh, I can hear that.
Just for a little while.
And don't tell them when princess is going to snatch me back up.
Uh-oh.
Uh-oh.
Uh, dating status?
Single.
Okay.
Breath control?
Not for long.
Yes.
Oh, he said not for long.
You on B.C.? What kind of B.C.? Breath control.
I don't remember the name, but I don't need to know.
It's one called Revive.
You said you're from Ukraine, right?
Yeah, I'm from Ukraine.
When did you leave to come to the States?
In 2022.
Okay.
And you got family back there?
Yes, I do.
Okay.
Well, you know what they say about Ukraine.
How's it going over there?
It's called Russia.
I mean, how's it going with the world over there?
Just say it, my bad.
Okay.
I don't want to talk too much deepness because I want to pick sides, but I just want to know how you feel about it.
I mean, obviously it sucks.
Why are you so close to me?
Like, he took the topic to be closer to me, yo.
He's trying to listen to you.
No, I was trying to listen.
He's trying to listen to you.
My earphones, yeah.
It's okay.
I mean, it's pretty tough, you guys, having, like, family back there and talking to them and just, you know, being worried all the time.
But thank you, everyone, for my family.
It's fine.
Look at the eye contact!
Well, I'm curious.
I'm an interviewer.
I do this all the time, yeah.
I interview people.
That's it.
I don't have my own podcast, but I will.
Soon, when somebody gives me one.
The eye contact is crazy.
Yeah, well, you have to have that.
Especially when you're nothing.
Okay, moving on, Smartly.
What about you?
I'm sorry.
Let me say this.
This is a 24 late night hour kind of session, and I have richer prior jokes.
So they're a little uncut.
But they're all jokes.
No, they make it funny.
I don't mean in a dirty sense.
I mean in a very clean sense.
Whether I took a shower or not, it's a clean sense of things like where I'm trying to go with this, okay?
Look at that.
He's a comedian.
That was a big bum.
There you go.
I'm a comedian.
There you go.
I'm Richard Pryor jokes, though.
They're a little dirtier than usual.
The black Richard Pryor.
No, darker.
Well, he was burnt.
The homie got burned.
You're right, you're right.
In his later days, he was blacker than everybody.
Shout out to Richard Pryor.
There you go.
Everybody lay off, crack ain't in no more and don't burn yourself.
Please don't.
Shout out to Richard Pryor again.
What about you?
My name is Mary and I'm from Russia.
Oh, so you guys are from the same country?
Oh, shit, I just realized.
That's awesome!
Do you guys want a box?
Wait, do you hate her, actually?
I don't even know her.
Like, that's kind of exceptional.
We got Russia and Russia.
Look at each other.
Stop saying that.
It's true though.
Why?
I think Ukraine is Ukraine and Russia is Russia.
Okay, let me educate you for a little bit.
Please, educate us because I think Ukraine is Ukraine and Russia is Russia.
Please do.
No, these are two separate countries.
I agree.
I've been in Ukraine.
Where have you been?
Kiev.
So, Kiev is the capital and this is a pretty small country and because we speak Russian as well, people assume that it's Russia, but it's not.
Stop the cat!
They had the sample saying stop the cat.
Can you guys talk to each other in Russian really quick?
I speak English.
I forgot.
Hey, real quick, who was there first?
Who hit it first?
Russia did.
What about you?
What about me?
Name, age, what do you do for a living?
I'm 21 and I'm a student.
I'm going to be in my senior year.
I'm majoring in computer science and business and minor in math.
Are those your real eye colors?
I did genetic modification.
Really?
No bro.
Tell me more.
Tell me more.
She's kidding.
No, I would never.
Dating status?
Divorced.
Oh, shit.
Recently?
Yeah.
Oh, we're going outside.
Okay, whose fault was it?
These are your fault.
Her.
Her?
Wait, wait, wait, wait.
Girl?
It gets crazier again.
Wait, why'd you guys break up?
Just distance.
I'm sorry.
He's adding some adlibs to her.
Oh no, we wasn't listening.
I'm sorry.
I'm checking my head.
Why'd you guys break up?
Um, distance.
Distance?
Is she in Russia?
No.
Atlanta.
Okay, that's a little bit...
I got you.
Well, you don't need birth control then.
I never had one, and by the count minus 100.
You don't date guys at all?
No, just tell me.
I've never had a boyfriend, no.
What's going on?
Undisclosed, undisclosed information.
I pled the fumes.
Wait, uh...
Is there anything important that you guys need for me?
So who wants me?
Huh?
Who wants me?
We on tagged.
Is there anything you guys want from me?
Alright, so here, I'm on tagged.
I was getting money, but alright.
You guys gotta use your own phones.
Or my glow in the dark phone.
Come on, you guys.
I love you guys.
Okay.
Your tag was loving me.
Here you go.
Take my phone now since I got off-tagged and said fuck the money.
Alright?
There you go.
Thanks, man.
Okay, what about you?
My name is Kayla.
I'm 24 years old.
I'm a cosmetology student for skincare.
Body count, I plead the fifth.
You won't get that out of me.
When you plead the fifth from the body count, is it because there is ten or more or ten or less?
Ten or less.
Ten or less.
Five or more?
No.
Five or less?
Five or less.
Okay, so then you're good.
Four people.
Are you including condoms?
I mean, if we're in a long-term relationship, obviously, you know, it comes off.
Well, you gotta, I mean, if you're in a long-term, you gotta let him hit it off.
Yeah, you know, trying to feel the vibes.
But did he hit it first, though?
No.
He didn't hit it first?
No, he had to wait for a little bit.
Damn, Reggie, that's crazy.
Sorry.
I'm a wife, I'm a lover girl.
First off, I'm not proud of the song I hit it first.
I'm ashamed and I'm embarrassed.
I'm not ashamed.
I need to know what I'm working with.
No.
And what's your background again?
I am Mexican and Cuban, but I was born here in Miami.
Cool.
All right.
Thank you.
Last but not least, welcome.
I'm Michelle from Dallas.
Shout out to Dallas, my assistant from Dallas.
Shout out to everybody in Texas.
Shout out to all the bops.
Dallas is where it's at.
How old are you?
I'm 36.
Okay.
And I have an associates.
I am a real estate agent.
Y'all chill out with the sound effects because I'm trying to like stand my ground.
And the sound effects is a lot.
Okay?
Thank you.
Brooke can't handle your sound effects.
I'm too funny.
Just give it 25.
Okay.
I have a business with health and fitness.
That's why.
But I'm also a real estate agent and I'm a women's mentor.
I'm not on birth control and you can guess my body count.
Um, let me guess here.
36?
Right?
36 people?
No!
He said 36!
Wait.
Okay, so last one more.
I was just saying you can guess.
So, 42.
Okay.
Okay.
Is that on point?
I'm not gonna say, but you can guess.
42 solid.
I think it's pretty solid.
I like 42.
Okay!
I like a girl that slept with 42 niggas.
I love that.
Oh, y'all like no walls.
I'll leave that one there.
Uh, yeah.
No walls.
Okay, last but not least, guest of honor, legend self, Ray J. My name is Ray J. I am, um, a humanitarian.
Love that.
I'm a philanthropist.
What do you give?
What do I give?
Yeah.
I also give no fucks.
Period.
That's a good thing.
What's going on with you, company-wise, work-wise?
Any updates?
Well, the work is going to work, right?
I don't like to come on here and promote brands and promote what we're doing because it doesn't matter.
What matters is that we're here today and we're turned up.
We're having a good time and that we're lit.
If I don't come on here lit and having a good time, then people think that there's a problem and I'm sad.
And I'm not sad.
I'm happy here today.
Good.
With all you beautiful women.
I hope so.
From different places.
All different shapes and sizes.
All different colored eyeses.
All of you are angels in disguises.
Can you put that verse in your song, though?
That shit was hard.
Okay, so we spoke about something before the show for Love of Ray J, and I just want to know from the ladies here, what is love to you and do you think love is possible to find nowadays in the current dating market?
We'll start here.
Oh, what is love to me?
I believe you have to have it to give it.
So, I believe you have to have it to give it.
So, taking care of and loving on yourself, and then giving that to others.
And you said you're single, right?
Mm-hmm.
What do you think that is?
It's by choice.
Has anybody wore a red nose when they was fucking?
Like, if they popped on a clown, like, in the pussy in the circus.
No?
You basically saying, um, you...
What do you call it?
Clowning in it.
Role playing?
You just clowning.
He just clowning.
He like role playing.
Nah, I ain't even like role playing.
I don't know why I thought of that.
You scared of clowning?
Maybe you just spit on your nose until I'm done.
So in the comments I'm seeing like I don't know like clown pictures a little bit so I'm thinking like what if somebody put the red thing on it just was fucking I don't know what it means here.
You see the clown thing, you see the happy faces, but that's all I can see.
Fires.
I can't see the words, though.
I don't even lie to you, I'm blind, but I just thought about that.
I'm high.
That's funny, bro.
Okay, so you said you're single by choice, right?
But what if you found your dream man?
Would you give him a chance?
How are you going to find him nowadays?
Oh, I don't know.
That's the question.
Wait, at 36 you don't know?
That's the question right there.
I mean, do you want to...
Well, because I believe there's a love at every stage of your life.
So, as you evolve...
Yeah, I mean, I've had loves.
Here's a good question tonight.
I have.
Is anybody here, and I'm not saying for me, because I'm totally going to go to sleep tonight watching a movie, but who here is having that one night stand at night?
I mean, do you plan a one-night stand or does it just happen?
We don't know until tomorrow morning.
We don't know until tomorrow.
No, no, no.
I'm tired.
Probably.
He wants to know who's open to it.
I ain't gonna lie.
Probably.
I'm getting fucked up, so probably.
Oh, it's your birthday.
Who said probably?
Birthday girl.
Birthday girl.
Okay.
It's right for every birthday girl to get fucked.
Know what I'm saying?
By the person that you love.
Love.
Or the person that you want to be with.
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
It'll be a toy or whatever.
I'm a very vulgar kind of person.
These are all Richard Pryor jokes.
Everything I'm saying is coming from a script.
I'm a paid actor.
She belongs to the street.
Okay, great.
Love to me would be trust, communication, and comprehension for sure.
I mean, if you guys don't understand each other's point of view or whatever aspect that you guys are going at, then it's never going to work.
Are you single now?
Yes, I am.
Why?
Because men are shit.
I got a new song coming out.
Me, Smiley, and Sukiyana.
It's called Poppin' Pussy on My Period.
It's a really good song.
I want to know, how many girls like to still get it popping?
On their period?
On their period.
Bro.
I mean, when you're in a relationship, sometimes, like...
You like a little ketchup on a hot dog?
If you're in a three-year relationship, and I get my period every fucking month...
Yeah, right?
Mostly everybody does, right?
So is it is a guy freaky as he wanted to eat your pussy on the period and then take the string By the way in the room Mo, he's an expert.
Mo, are you a pussy-eating, period?
It was only one time?
I just wasn't mad, dawg.
And it was kind of like copper, right?
Yeah, that's it!
Yeah, that's it!
Yeah, yeah, yeah!
I didn't know what it was like.
No screens.
That's nasty.
I don't want a girl to dush with strawberry in it, and even vinegar.
Just flush it out with your fingers and like some soap.
Okay, what about you?
You said you just broke up with your ex, but...
Yeah, but it wasn't like that recently.
I've definitely moved on, but the thing about love is I believe in the love for money.
Because...
Well, she's Russian.
That makes sense.
Yeah, it's like...
So, let's say someone you met genuinely was really nice to you.
Maybe you're a dream guy, so to speak.
He was maybe, like, mediocre, like, minimal...
I'll say, like, middle-wage.
He's not, like, super rich, but he's, like, in the middle.
Would that be good for you?
Like, I would say...
Or do you need, like, a lot of money?
Okay, look, look, look.
It's like, I'm gonna, like, love someone, right?
And then hearts change.
Like, love goes away.
A love changes, a thug changes, and best friends become strangers.
Yeah.
I might as well just stick to your goal and try to reach your goal instead of just getting distracted by something in the middle.
I reached my motherfucking goal last night.
Would you date a guy though?
So what do you prefer to date?
Men or women?
Depends.
I'd say men.
Long term you'd say men?
Yeah, but I've never had a boyfriend, though.
That's the difference, like...
Oh, gotcha.
I'm just too independent, like, it's gay, like, if someone's gonna kiss me in Walmart, like, I can, like...
Wait, so I'm confused.
Like, when you were dating your ex, who paid the bills?
You or her?
I would say both, yeah.
But you prefer a man to pay the bills.
Of course, like that's how it should be.
Nigga, I'm healthy as fuck.
Look at me, nigga.
I'm lost weight.
I got a four pack.
You didn't lose weight.
I didn't say I got a four pack.
You didn't lose weight.
I did, yeah.
I got a four pack.
I'm working on my six.
Okay.
You be in a gym?
Okay.
I don't be in the gym, but my body on lean.
And that's no exempting, by the way.
What about you?
I got the hookup.
I got the vowels, though.
Okay.
What about you?
I think love is something that adds value to my life.
Because if it doesn't, then I don't need it.
I need someone who supports me with my goals and just walks this life with me.
When you were in Ukraine, did you have a boyfriend back then?
So no, I didn't have a boyfriend.
I broke up with my ex recently, but before that I was not in a serious relationship ever before.
And it was here already.
Are you open to it now, being in America?
To the American?
So the thing with me, I mostly date like American guys or like out of my culture.
I don't know why, it's just my preference.
But I keep this like the same mindset, like the Ukrainian mindset, if I can say so.
What about you?
I do believe that love exists.
I believe in true love.
But I think that love is something that takes sacrifice.
To me, that's the definition of love.
And I'm single because, honestly, I want to be selfish right now.
I'll say to anybody, I want to be selfish with myself.
I want to go where I want to go, do what I want to do, work on what I want to work on.
And love requires a lot of accountability that I just don't feel like giving right now.
Is your like, is a man in your priority list at all?
Or is that like gone?
Oh yeah, it's definitely in my priority list.
But, man, when it comes to men...
Let's say like career, a man, maybe even kids and family, what's like the priority?
I mean, I'm going to be honest.
Right now, it's career.
Traveling, having fun?
Not having fun.
Is that career?
No, career.
Career, yeah.
Career.
Career, bro.
Career.
Career.
Like, what you got?
You got a career.
It's a career.
Stop career.
It's a lot of accents.
Career.
But, um...
I mean, I've undergone a recent career change, recent mindset change, lifestyle change, everything.
Like I told y'all, I went to college, but you see me sitting here right now.
So that's, I mean, I have a master's and I'm sitting here.
So that's not a typical thing.
Usually people follow a path.
I'm on a whole new path.
Right.
Entrepreneur.
A lot of things.
A lot of things.
What about you?
Man, Eileen is strong.
Yes, I believe love exists.
I've never...
I'm happy to be here, everybody.
Thank you for having me.
Thank you for coming.
Thank you for having me.
Yeah, I believe love exists.
I've never experienced it, but I do believe it exists.
I've seen it.
You've never experienced love?
No.
At all?
I've never been in love before.
I've loved someone, but I've never been in love before, no.
Damn.
Yeah.
Man, you successful.
I'm 24.
Appreciate that.
Wow.
Okay, so let's say, are you open to getting a boyfriend or a husband?
Yeah, of course.
I want to get married, yeah.
Okay.
What about you, Juicy?
I mean, is all hope lost for you?
Honestly, I do believe in love.
Low key, low key, low key.
I mean, I do believe in love, but honestly, nowadays it's hard to find a man who actually loves their self.
In order to love somebody, they gotta love their self.
Like, I love myself 100%.
100%.
I have high self-confidence, high everything.
I need a male to match the standards.
Like, how you gonna love me if you don't love yourself?
Not even if you don't love yourself a little bit.
I don't need that.
So would you change for your next guy?
Would you change your, like, current habits?
Nope!
Y'all tell the words out of my mouth.
Like I said, y'all know the only reason I'm sickle is because I beat my ex up with a stripper pole.
You beat him up.
Yes, I did, by my feelings.
So look, if I ever look like I'm leaning and I'm, like, going to sleep, that's for the show.
Like, I'm playing around.
Yeah.
Respectfully.
Yeah, I'm a paid actor.
There you go.
I ain't really sleepy.
Guys, just so you know, Ray is the character, by the way.
That's what I'm saying.
It's all for the show.
He's the TV. Yeah, so if I'm like, uh, I was doing that because I'm like, you know what I'm saying?
You're a professional.
Would you put her life on reality TV? Because her life is crazy, by the way.
Beat her boyfriend with a pole.
I'm not gonna lie.
I do positive shows.
But I changed my life.
I don't know if I've ever done any shows that have fakes on it.
I changed my life around a lot.
So technically, I got to a point in life where I don't look for love, I let it look for me.
I believe in love and kind of piggybacking off what she said.
I feel like you have to love yourself in order to love someone else.
I don't know, maybe just all of this stuff is like when you guys are talking about this shit is making me sleepy.
Get the fuck out of here.
You guys are too young for that.
It's time to turn up and have a good time.
That's it.
All this other shit is just too much for a youngster.
You said we too young.
How do we need to wait then?
No, no, no.
I'm falling asleep.
So how long do you expect us to wait?
To y'all like 35, 40.
Then you old.
Good.
Now we can't be old.
Now we can't be old.
Balls?
Balls gonna be droopy.
Y'all don't want that.
You mean the guy's ball?
Yes, I mean, we need to do all this young.
She want them nice and tight.
You feel me?
So when we get old, we can just be in a bed.
I ain't gonna even talk about my balls, right?
But I'm old, but my balls ain't droopy yet.
They got wrinkles Other than that just like I feel like it's also really like it's a huge energy feeling so like if you pay attention Niggas, I love y'all w comments
if you pay attention to like who you're Committing to you can feel like if they're being shady or not like there's always that feeling and then when you finally Find someone like you won't get that feeling and i think a lot of people don't realize that and that's why they're constantly like looking and yeah that made a lot of sense to listen to your intuition that was great I don't know what you said though.
Alright, what about you?
So I definitely do think that love still exists.
Is that funny?
I definitely think it exists.
It's probably more rare with the media and everything infiltrating things now.
I'm single because I don't feel comfortable getting in a relationship and asking someone certain things if I don't have that for myself yet.
And like, I want to meet somebody somewhere rather than have them like pull me across the finish line or like vice versa.
Period.
Wow.
You believe me 50-50?
Fuck no.
I'm only fucking girls that's 40 and up.
Y'all girls are young, and y'all got so much to look forward to.
35 and up.
We can get it popping, but I think everybody else has so much to learn.
And I don't want to have the cheat code to be like, well, the stars are going to turn purple and blue in December 31st, 2027.
And y'all believe me, because they're not.
How old are you?
I'm old.
No for real.
43?
Let me live.
I told niggas with my shit on track that I was 33.
They had 43.
I don't give a fuck.
Black don't crack.
You're not even that old.
I mean, I just had a little gray hair.
You wise, but black don't crack.
But I think anybody that's 43 that got game and you fucking with a girl that's 21, you cheating.
Because now you know more shit than they know and it's not fair.
Now 25, that's got like a big body maybe.
And then like 30, you know you good.
But a 23-year-old, she gotta have a big body.
Wait, what about DiCaprio?
He gets girls under 25.
No, I'm saying, you gotta have, if you young, you gotta have a big-ass grown body in order for a nigga to accept himself smashing, right?
Other than that, you just know the cheat code too much and you can say what you want and it can work.
And I think that's not fair.
It's not fair to young girls who should experience younger guys who are shy and naive and living life as well and they're all learning together.
So you prefer an older girl who's slow or a younger girl with commitment and a life going on?
I don't give a fuck because it's really just a one-night thing to me.
I'm only going to fall in love with one woman.
I already did.
So Princess is the only girl I'm falling in love with.
I'm fucking bitches here and there.
I'm so sorry for you, princess.
No, no, no, no.
She's in a divorce from me, I'm single.
First and foremost, I would've never said that I'm just fucking bitches and still in a relationship.
That's cold as fuck.
I respect that.
Is niggas out there saying that kind of shit?
My woman threw me back to the streets.
So here I am, and I still am very selective with the twat that I'm sticking my ding-a-ling in.
And that was two old-school words.
Twat and ding-a-ling ain't for the 2025 girls.
That's old school.
That's 1990s.
Are you dating in Sukhanna?
Come on, bro.
Listen, you tell Dr.
Umar to stand down, too.
You saw Dr.
Umar tripping?
You tell Dr.
Umar if he want to go three rounds, he can run that fade because he should have never...
Let's set it up!
I mean, he like 6'5".
That nigga like maybe 300 pounds.
But it don't matter.
If he wanna box me, Dr.
Umar, I'll knock you out of a ring.
Scratch first.
Meaning I'm gonna knock you out of the ring, the ring that you was trying to give.
Make sure you scratch first though.
Tyrese didn't want it.
And now Dr.
Umar wanna have some problems?
Run it, Dr.
Umar!
Damn!
I'll knock you out of politics, nigga, and you'll be talking politics, nigga!
Paco!
Punch!
As Ratchet stars, we practice and we talk shit all day to practice our skills for our next show and our next scenes.
He's a paid actor.
Yeah, I'm a paid actor, so I'm just practicing.
But Dr.
Umar don't want me.
I hit that nigga three times in the stomach and that nigga be dating white women for the rest of his life.
Okay?
And then real quick, you being a dancer, so to speak, do you think that would impact you finding guys long term?
Yeah, like, I don't obviously go to the...
Oh, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
I definitely think it does, and also I've kind of put it on the back burner because I understand why guys wouldn't want to date a dancer.
Like, if I was a guy, I probably wouldn't either.
A stripper?
Yeah.
I can't even fall in love with nobody unless they're a stripper.
Yeah, but it's not real love.
No, no.
It's the only love that I have.
I can never date a girl that went to Yale.
Now, shout out to all my women that got PhDs and that are respectful, like, educated women.
I support y'all.
I need y'all to talk to me when I'm falling off the deep end.
But I can only fall in love with a stripper.
At least you're honest.
Or a whore.
I feel like love could come from a stripper.
That is cool, bro.
Hey, man.
You're honest, though.
That's what's up.
I mean, shit, man.
I got fun, but I can't take it serious.
If you're a stripper, never date a dude that you see in a club.
No, no.
I'm not playing.
I believe you.
And if you meet him, never tell you you work in a club.
See how he moves first.
If you're really messing with you, then tell him.
I mean, I'm in school, so it's like, I'm just busy trying to, like, do all of that.
So I'm not really, like, I don't want to get distracted by a boy right now, because nine times out of ten, like, they're not really trying to, like, marry you right now.
What if he paid for your lifestyle, like, took care of you while you were at school?
Like, what if the guy did that for you?
Um, if he did, I mean, that's one thing, like...
But I don't want to go, like, I don't go around, like, asking for that, because it's like...
But if it happened naturally, would you stop stripping?
If I was in a serious relationship with someone who was financially stable for themselves, and like...
Hey, fuck y'all niggas that said I had a high-pitched voice.
My shit ain't never got deep, nigga.
And that's why I'm still young, fam.
You up in here and talk to Tyrese.
His voice is too deep.
You know he's 45.
He's older.
He has an older tone.
We're the same kind of age.
These niggas is acting like having a high-pitched voice is something that's gonna affect me, nigga.
Stop playing with me, nigga.
Okay, ladies.
Questions for Ray J? I'm sure you have some as well.
Anything for Ray J at all?
Any questions?
Are you gonna get married again?
I do.
I have a good question.
Hold on, hold on.
I'm sorry, I was speaking out loud.
So she wants to know, are you getting married again?
Are you getting married again?
Nah, I ain't nobody.
I'm nobody.
And honestly, everybody's special or nobody's special.
Right?
Ain't nobody in here special.
Or everybody in here special.
Everybody's special.
Okay, cool.
Then we all special.
Or we ain't all.
All of us ain't shit.
Right?
Nobody's special in here.
We all take shits, and we all get constipated, and we all get frustrated.
Exactly.
I was going to answer my question, right?
What was the question?
Or are you going to get married again?
I can't get married again if I ain't never got divorced.
That's how the law works.
You gotta get a full divorce before you get remarried.
But I wanna thank Princess.
I wanna thank my kids for being the most special thing in my life.
I don't give a fuck about nobody else but them.
But shit, if she kick me to the curb, then I'ma live my life until she's ready to take me back in.
We love Princess.
That's beautiful.
Leave me outside for the rest of the summer.
Let me go into the holiday.
And then, you know, pick me back up next year.
Because I'm enjoying myself.
I'm so enjoying myself.
All y'all women in here is too young except you.
Everybody else is too young.
Y'all look good though, but you guys are too young.
You're in the industry I'm starting to get into.
What made you get into the music career?
I didn't get into the music career, I got out of the music career.
I'm blackballed in every industry except technology and except Ratchet TV. So these niggas blackballed me in every industry, but I made my own way, so that's it.
What I meant was...
Period blood.
I mean, no, period blood.
Yeah, we all done heard his music.
Everybody know who you are.
You're a good person.
I love your music.
I got like one or two hits.
One Wish.
And maybe Sexy Canna.
Okay.
Oh, I don't know that song, but I know One Wish.
But that's it.
But that's it.
It's a classic.
I'm happy to have him, though.
He's still making money, right?
Yeah, but it's neither here nor there.
Making money and balling and shit, that shit's for the birds.
The struggle is real no matter what.
Go ahead, Jesse.
I was singing.
Tommy Down is kind of a hit.
It is.
It is, man.
Kind of.
So I got kind of hits.
Is that kind of his?
I'm happy with that.
When you got into the music career, even though you're not in the music career, I should say, what made you even start?
What was your purpose?
Why did you even get into it?
I don't know.
I just knew I didn't give a fuck.
And as long as I didn't, I was going to do everything I wanted to do.
What made you stop since you say you done?
I didn't stop.
I just started doing Ratchet TV and technology.
I do music, but just for fun.
But Ratchet TV and technology is how I... So you gonna do...
So is you gonna give me my feature or what?
Like, I'm hard.
I ain't gonna lie.
I'm gonna give you a gold feature.
It might not be the feature you want me to feature on.
What's your favorite Ratchet TV show right now?
Favorite Ratchet TV show?
Bad news.
It's on Tronix.
It's called The Girls Club.
It's 13 transgenders in one house.
It's on my new network.
It's called Tronix Network, T-R-O-N-I-X Network.
It's on all the app stores.
I done finally got it approved through Roku and all these motherfuckers.
So, shout out to all y'all niggas that let me get my network on.
Roku, Apple, all y'all motherfuckers, thank you.
That's fire.
Hold on, hold on.
You said 13 Transformers?
No. 13 Transformers.
Not 13 Transformers.
13 Transgenders.
That's a TV show?
It's called The Girls Club.
The G-W-O-R-L-S Club.
The Girls Club.
It's one of the biggest shows we have on TV. What's up, David?
I'm inside of an interview right now.
Talk to me.
What do we got to do?
to do.
I'm almost done.
I'm just following up because they following up.
So we're all on this phone call.
They said that as of right now it's only one episode.
Okay.
So if they want to stuff all my shit that I did in one episode, that's fine, just Just run me my change.
If not, I'm leaving here first thing Monday morning on my own bill.
Hello.
Bye, Felicia.
That kind of shit.
Let me finish this interview, David, and I'll hit you right back.
Alright, on blocks.
That's some, like, business shit right there.
Okay, some chats real quick, and then we'll get back to the show.
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Fresh Up This says, think about this, listen man, anyhow.
Yo, Ray J, can we get a port part three?
It's kind of horny.
Damn!
That's crazy.
I don't know about a part two.
I don't know where I've been.
I'm just trying to stay innocent and stay above water.
Douglas PNG says, W5 for solo hosting tonight.
Thank you, bro.
We have here, Mint Lainey just says, WFNF, WRay, Ray J. He looked kind of like Saint the Sinner.
Pause.
What the fuck?
Ray J looked kind of like Saint the Sinner.
Which is this guy right here.
The Sinner.
He's another YouTuber as well.
The Sinner.
Pause.
Pause, my nigga.
Yeah.
Shout out to her.
I appreciate that.
Even if it was a diss, I appreciate it.
You know, I love diss.
He's cool.
No, yeah.
But I'm disrespectful, so I love diss.
No, I love disrespectful.
Same school.
We have here HK99. Okay, I don't know what he said.
The Russian guy says, Ukrainian girl is a fraud.
No true Russian would want her.
She can't even speak the language, probably can't even cook.
Putin's king.
Russian claiming girl looks too dark-skinned to be Russian What the fuck?
I'm on the beach, bitch Oh my god Oh wow Oh my god You ain't gonna tell him I know you had a relationship too How you done tell me you're in a joke?
I gotta know though Who actually hit it first?
Because it wasn't...
Who hit it first, bro?
Wait, are you claiming that?
No, no!
I'm just saying!
Did I know?
Yeah, that you know.
Because I know.
It's in the past, but like...
Who actually hit it first?
You know, first off, before I answer, you're my nigga, so I came up here and you're showing us love.
So I would like to play the fifth on this question, but I'm not because you're my nigga.
Okay.
Thank you, bro The guy she doing I Would say in my world And that's out of respect for everybody who's been in it I Out of respect.
DT. DT? DT. Wow, that's different.
Okay.
Yo, that's wild bro.
I want to move on with my life, right?
And I don't want to ever talk about it again.
I don't want to ever talk about it again.
We're going to move forward.
I don't want to ever talk about that.
It really hinders me.
It doesn't do anything for me through the ups and downs.
It doesn't affect me in any way, but I just don't like it.
You know, Damon Thomas.
Okay, Morgan, meet Stallion with shaking ass for the black vote.
Ladies, Trump or Kamala on why?
You must choose one or pull over those.
What the hell?
Who are you choosing, Trump or Kamala?
Real quick.
Who's your vote?
I mean, you really want to know my vote?
We want to know.
I don't think who we vote for is really going to make a difference because I don't think that's really who runs the show.
Understandable.
Who you voting for tonight?
Tonight?
Oh God.
God.
Ten hours later.
I mean probably Trump.
Okay.
What about you?
Michelle Obama.
She's not a candidate.
What the fuck?
He ain't even running.
That nigga's not running at all.
Alright, cool.
What about you?
I just feel like the choice is so obvious.
Like, why are all those rappers and all the singers, like, why is Taylor Swift telling us who to vote for?
And it's like, if she's saying that, it's like, maybe like, that's not really an option, you know?
But I can't vote because I'm not a citizen.
But if you could, would you?
Okay.
What about you?
Same.
What about you?
Who'd you vote for?
I'm so split.
I'm so split.
That's what she told me last night.
I'm so split.
But I will say this, though.
In regards to...
I didn't watch the whole...
Debate?
No, not the debate.
The rally.
Megan Thee Stallion.
I will say this.
I think it's hilarious that Kamala Harris is literally acting like Trump.
It's like they're both almost the same person when you really watch them.
And it's like they're just trying to beat each other at the same game.
Listen, Trump is tripping about the immunity for cops, though.
He trippin'.
Who you voting for?
I mean, Trump trippin' about the immunity for the cops.
I don't know now.
I ain't voting.
You voting for the cops?
Basically, he giving up permission to do damage to us.
Whatever they want, and then the cops ain't gonna be real.
Whatever they want to us.
Like, come on, Trump.
My nigga, don't do that to us.
They can do what they want right then and then.
Why do they make Black Lives Matter if they're gonna support this shit now?
It don't matter about Black Lives Matter.
The police would matter.
They could beat anybody up and don't face no charges.
So all that motion for years is like...
I ain't with that.
I'm not with that, Trump.
That's not what I'm with.
I will say this though.
Period blood.
I mean period blood.
I'm split because I'm like a Republican at heart, but being a black woman and living the life I've lived, I understand, you know, a lot of the foundation of the Democrats platform.
And I will say this.
I lean more towards Kamala because I do believe, even though I know people think that welfare is pointless and it's a crutch and da-da-da-da-da.
I moved to New York last year and it's crazy out there.
It's a zoo.
It really is.
So I would vote Trump and I would vote Republican if they would be more sensitive to the needs of the typical person dealing with poverty, mental illness, that type of stuff.
Welfare is important.
It's needed.
Okay, what about you?
I don't know, I'm probably not gonna vote.
At all?
Probably not.
I agree.
I can't answer that right now.
Okay, what about you?
Respectfully, I feel like we need better in our political running.
I don't really know too much, but I would say Camilla because all the things that I've been hearing that Trump is trying to do, I really don't agree to it.
If y'all want me to vote to be the president, y'all hit Ray J24 right now in the comments, nigga.
Ray J24? Ray J24 president.
Okay.
Donald Trump, he really got me.
No Ray J24. No, yeah, no.
That'd probably be a better option.
Damn.
Okay, I just said Camilla.
Anybody?
Camilla.
I see two.
You see two of them?
You see two?
Oh shit, three.
Oh shit, Ray J24. I'm not voting though.
I'm losing debate because my dick has been on television, but I could win.
Ray J24, baby.
Well, I'm not voting.
Listen, Kanye24, Ray J vice president.
Okay.
What about you?
I'm not registered to vote.
I never really plan on doing it because I just think it's all a facade.
Do you even care?
I don't because it's just a puppet show.
But I would vote Trump if I had to.
Okay.
But yeah, I don't care about that shit because it's all a puppet show in my opinion.
I can tell.
Yeah.
I get what you're saying though.
It is kind of like a mystery behind the scenes.
What about you?
I think it's definitely really hairy.
I don't really know if we have as much of an influence as we think we do but I would probably say Trump because I mean Kamala's history of her past leadership positions I mean she was wrongfully locking people up for things they didn't do and I mean that's really wrong obviously and people look past that and I obviously think that It'd be cool to have a woman and, you know, a black woman at that, but I would rather...
It'd be cool?
It'd be cool to have it.
It'd be a big step, but I mean, not her.
Like, I'd rather have someone who is, you know, more morally...
Big Mike?
Not her either.
Okay.
That is definitely going to be a lot of opinions in the chat.
Okay, cool.
You got someone here?
Douglas again, shout out to you, bro.
I want to play my song.
It's called Titty for Me.
We can do it on Rumble.
Cyborg says, Ray J, please don't end up another Brandon Jamal.
Who's Brandon Jamal?
He's a guy that came on the show that kind of like went crazy and acted like a fool.
These niggas is all trying to pretend like me.
Every interview I acted a fool.
Y'all know how this shit go with me with interviews, nigga.
You know I'm going to act a fool on these motherfucking interviews and then get up off of here and go home.
That's true.
I'm the king of turning up and not giving a fucking fucking up on these interviews.
I fuck up everywhere I go.
Paid actor.
We got, uh, AV says, uh, ladies.
Okay, we done that one already, basically.
But I appreciate your kindness and your generosity, and thank you for looking out for me, and I try to do my best not to fuck up today, okay?
Thank you, and I love you.
I appreciate that.
There you go.
Um, okay, ladies.
You have questions from before for the actual panel.
We'll go through these questions real quick.
Let me get some more Tito's.
Let me get Michael Jackson's brother.
Okay, Ray, I'll put these towards you, bro.
These questions are here.
What does it say?
Have it gone on your ass eight.
Ha ha!
Who asked that question?
Be honest.
Who did ask that question?
I remember somebody said they was going to piggyback off my question.
Let's guess who asked that question.
I'm guessing it was...
It was her.
I think it was her.
I think it was her, too.
I think it was her.
Definitely.
Have I ever got my motherfucking ass ate?
Pause.
Do you like it?
Resume.
Don't get me wrong.
I'm going to keep it real, y'all.
She was licking my balls.
She was licking my balls.
And then all of a sudden...
She's like, keep going.
All of a sudden...
She ended up licking the bottom of her balls.
At that point, just go ahead.
I'll just let go.
That's the shit in your mouth.
Next one is, what is the sentence that a girl might say that makes you understand you won't marry her?
So I guess what would turn you off about a girl?
Me?
Yeah.
I'm still married.
So I can't.
I can't be told.
And you weren't married!
Well, it don't ever go like that.
I ain't loving nobody but princess ever in my life.
It's lifetime.
Cap.
Anyway, that's cute though.
I'm just playing.
I'm not capping.
I'm still fucking bitches because I'm single.
But am I gonna ever love a bitch?
Never.
What if you meet the right stripper?
I'm never gonna meet the right stripper.
Listen, Princess gave me everything I needed.
I dropped the ball.
Period.
Damn.
You feel me?
So, I ain't never gonna love nobody no more.
It's always the dudes.
So if y'all thought that's what this was tonight, then y'all got me fucked up.
It's always the dudes.
But we can have some fun, but that's it.
Okay, what's the first thing about a woman that catches your eye?
Princess caught my eye, my nigga.
Okay.
Personality.
What is the most repulsive thing you've seen a woman do?
Ooh.
You've been around the world.
What's the most repulsive?
Yeah.
What the fuck that mean?
Disgusting.
Disgusting.
Terrible.
What's the turn off?
What would turn you off?
Nothing gonna turn me off, because even if we...
If I'm married, then I'm locked down.
But if Princess threw me back to the streets where she did...
Even if the homie fuck first...
Wait, you don't care if your homie fuck your girl first?
At all?
My girl?
No, I'm not playing with these niggas.
I kill these niggas.
Not my girl.
But if we hoeing...
If we hoeing...
It don't matter.
Why would I give a fuck about fucking first?
Okay.
As long as I fuck.
But I'm not playing around with, like, I love my wife, even though she don't ever want to be with me again.
What did I miss?
Ever again?
What did you do?
What'd you do, bro?
No, that was just me.
You don't think you could change yourself to fix that?
Change myself to, why would I change myself?
I mean, when I say change yourself, I mean change.
I'm not changing nothing about myself.
I'm not saying change yourself, I mean change your actions.
Fuck that.
If you could take back what you did to her.
I'm just going to continue to make a lot of money so I can make sure I take care of my family.
There you go.
I ain't changing shit.
I respect that.
Period blood.
I mean, period blood.
I don't know what happened here and I'm sorry.
What's your goal to pick up line to get girls and why?
I don't have a pick up line.
I ain't never flirted with a girl in my life.
You telling us you're on the market every single person?
I'm on the market.
I don't know how to flirt.
I feel like that's a way of flirting.
Every time I try to say something sexy, it was corny.
Okay.
I'm corny as fuck.
You don't know nowadays.
Everybody knows who he is, so love is going to be powerful.
So I can just be like, how much?
Corny is a good thing.
You just say how much?
How much?
I'm curious though.
How much?
Being yourself, right?
How is it when girls approach you?
I'm not about to play around with no woman that go to college or that's professionally doing her thing or a classy woman.
I don't fuck with none of them kind of women.
I love a classy woman to be her friend.
So you want a slut?
That's what you're saying.
You're like straight whores.
You're like a slut.
You're like a demonic slut.
That's what you basically said.
You don't want no good girls, you want a slut.
That's basically what you're implying.
But I respect good girls.
And I love women that have continued to build themselves up and be great, right?
Those are the girls that I just want to hang out with and talk to and learn from.
They're not the girls I want to get it popping with.
I'm not going to get it popping with the girls that's going to change the world for us.
I don't want to fuck with you like that and curve your enthusiasm.
Now your friend down the block that you know run me her and then let's continue to build you up and be great and you can be our spokesperson for greatness.
So I love a respectful woman.
I love a woman that's got her head on her shoulders.
I love that but I'm not about to be playing around with them.
I need me all.
Because Princess left me.
I'm sorry.
You think a good girl can be a freak or no?
I think a good girl has freaky qualities, but not enough for me.
I can only imagine what you've seen, Ray J, like, over the years, being a celebrity.
It's haunting me every day.
I've heard that.
That's why all y'all pretty young women in here, y'all need a young nigga with y'all.
If y'all fucking with that nigga that's 20 years older than y'all, don't fuck with that nigga.
He cheating.
He telling y'all shit that y'all don't know yet.
And he's giving y'all the shit that's like, do you know, later on the moon gonna turn purple and red.
And you're like, really?
What time?
And you're like, 745.
The moon didn't turn tonight.
No, you're right.
So don't believe it, man.
Gotcha, bitch!
I ain't trying to hate on y'all old niggas.
You giving the game, bro?
Nah, shit.
Y'all just love a young nigga.
30, 32, 33.
He learning, too.
Don't get with no 55-year-old nigga.
Like, we should date guys younger?
Y'all should just date guys and y'all kind of like age range.
A little bit older.
But don't be dating no 55-year-old nigga.
Oh no.
Fuck no.
That's not a date.
Well, that's bad for me cause who?
He know too much.
I like my nigga so dumb.
Well, I mean, you know.
Preferences.
I'll see you later.
But everybody else in here, y'all too young to be dating old niggas, okay?
I want y'all to stay focused on y'all careers, on being successful, making y'all own money.
So whoever y'all fuck, they got fucked.
Not the nigga fuck y'all.
Y'all fuck that nigga.
Mm.
You get what I'm saying?
I don't get what you're saying.
Well, if you don't get what I'm saying, then you gotta get a little more educated.
So, on the opposite side...
If you don't get what I'm saying, just watch this play and play back.
And your older cousin will tell you what I'm saying.
Nah.
So, Ray, I get what you're saying, Ray.
I just think for a guy that's been successful, that worked on himself, that's been that pinnacle of, like, what you would consider high value, if he wants a young girl, I mean, by all means, why not?
No, I think that the young girls are our future, and they're here to make sure we're all good in the future.
And we gotta keep them safe, and we gotta make sure they're treated with respect.
Yeah.
And these other niggas that's trying to do that shit, I'm not with it.
It's like grooming a little bit.
Don't.
Don't have me run past these niggas.
Especially these old-ass niggas.
Now, a young player, if he telling y'all shit and y'all believe in his dreams, good.
He a young player.
He good, nigga.
You know what you doing.
But not no 55-year-old nigga.
That ain't fair.
Not no 50-year-old nigga.
Not no 49, 48, 47, 46, 45, 44, 43, 42, 41, 40.
39, 38, 37, 36, 35.
Five is cool.
Okay, so I think it was Tobey Maguire showed up to...
I don't give a fuck about Tobey Maguire.
Shout out to that nigga.
Yeah.
That's Spider-Man, right?
Yeah, it's Spider-Man.
I saw that nigga at the restaurant.
He's dating someone that's like 19, 20.
Can't get in his business.
As long as Spider-Man know what he crawling into.
Wait, how old is Spider-Man?
I don't know how old.
I'm not going to flabbergast.
I just know that don't break my glasses because I don't give a fuck.
I do flabbergast.
I do not agree with your statement about the dating code.
I'm happy you don't.
Only because I done been on Fresh or Fit too long and got so many messages from Myron that's why.
God bless you then.
Shout out to Myron.
We do appreciate you.
We miss you.
Myron got on me one day about that and he came and he told me and his words exactly was.
For example, he described it with a car.
Like, some dudes have some lessons, even though they're older, they go through enough to teach you something.
I'm not about to support no 55-year-old nigga with no 19-year-old woman.
I'm not saying support.
It's not what you do.
It's up to him.
I don't give a fuck about him.
I'm just saying it ain't right.
But respectfully, as a young woman who have dated someone older than me, I have learned a lot.
How old?
My ex is 40.
The last dude I was communicating with is 47 years old.
That's ridiculous.
How old are you?
I just turned 21.
That's ridiculous.
Only because when I say...
He's a what?
A pedophile.
He's a fucking pedophile.
How about that?
A pedophile.
Where he at?
He here?
Pedophile.
Is he here?
I don't call that a pedophile.
Where is he at?
Is he here?
The legal age is 17, as people say.
In certain states.
Well, bring him up in here then.
In certain states, he's 17.
But I done learned a lot.
Let's meet your pedophile.
Basically, females learn from their daddy.
He's older.
They're not with them.
So what's the problem with learning from other older men?
I'm not going to get into older niggas, you know what?
I'm not playing.
We're not talking about your daddy and your pedophile friend.
I'm not saying that.
I'm saying in general, what's wrong with learning something for somebody older?
I don't want to get into it either because I'm not talking about pedophiles.
What are you learning?
What are you learning?
I'm tired and I'm done with this conversation.
You feel what I'm saying?
An older dude would tell you, like, hey, you know, I done had an older dude.
Like, my father, I have my father in my life.
I'm not going to say I don't got my daddy.
I have my father.
Not even dating.
I don't consider it dating.
So you want a mentor basically?
I don't even want a mentor.
I have a father.
My father is my mentor.
Don't leave me this shit getting too deep.
I'm not doing this.
My father is my mentor.
I'm just saying like...
This shit went from being a bad one to being freaky and dirty.
I want to date somebody older instead of somebody younger and childish.
That's lame.
Fuck all y'all pedophiles out there, nigga.
If you fit in vibe and you know and you dating a young girl, you was a punk, nigga.
You a groomer.
Date somebody that can handle your playerism.
And then some rappers go to the club and see a random bitch and think she older and she's young as hell.
And that's why I don't hang out with no rappers.
And that's why I said I don't like no Clippers.
And I barely like Lakers.
Now that PG gone from our city, I don't like none of these niggas that's playing for our basketball teams.
Okay, look, look, look.
There was this model who dated a very old girl.
These niggas is not telling me that I pay $7,500 a ticket when I want to sit courtside, so fuck them niggas playing.
Yeah.
Yeah, fuck them.
There was this girl, a model, who dated like a 50-year-older guy.
He was like 70 or something.
He was almost dying, but he was a billionaire.
And like, she did love him.
Like, everywhere, she was like showing her ring.
Until we get the right players out here in L.A., I ain't saying what's up to none of y'all niggas when I buy my tickets, nigga.
No.
So how many of you in here would date a guy that's older than you or you prefer that over a younger guy?
How much older?
Not 20 years.
I'd say like 8 max.
I'd say like 4 or 5 years older than me.
Crash out.
I'd say about 4 or 5 years.
Let's say like 10 years, 15 years.
Is that doable?
I mean, that's like, that's like, that's just too much of a difference.
Like, I can't, I can't really relate to somebody who's 37, 38, and I'm 21.
Like, they're not gonna, I don't know.
Yeah.
Okay.
What about you?
Um, same.
Yeah, I wouldn't.
I just see it as, like, they're older and they're trying to turn you into something that, like, you know, like, as a daughter, basically.
It's like a form of grooming.
And I just...
I mean, that age isn't that old, but like the older it gets, it's just like, I don't know.
But wouldn't you say that women prefer an older guy that's more like experienced?
Well, like I said, maybe like five years older, like...
But, um, yeah, no, I, like, experience, I mean, I'd rather learn with a guy or something, you know?
Like, I don't know.
Like, I don't...
Yeah, I can tell you don't know what you want.
Alright, what about you?
I know your stance.
I don't have nothing against it.
I honestly feel like if you got a mindset on your own, he can't little girl you or nothing.
He could guide you and tell you like certain things that certain things that will be tolerated and won't be tolerated.
I do respect older men.
I dated multiple older men.
I think from a point of view, if the guy is experienced and knows what to do, he can lead you in the right direction.
If he's young, he's like, I don't know where to go.
You might help me, but you need a leader that can lead you in the right direction.
I like an older man who had a good bond with their mother and got sisters.
They know how to treat a woman.
That's why I said I need an older man.
Older men I dated either got a daughter or have like hella sisters and got their mom.
So you know, they know right from wrong.
They've been raised around it.
They don't feel disgusted on certain things and they know how to handle certain things.
They know how to talk to you and treat you.
Some men with no mother or no siblings would never know how to treat a woman right.
Respectfully.
So I love older men.
What about you?
Yeah, I would.
What's the oldest you ever dated?
Like two years older than me.
What about you?
I did when I was younger, like when I was 18, 19, I did date guys that might have been like 30, 40, 50.
How was that experience?
Back then, I kind of had her perspective.
Now that I'm older, I'm completely against it.
What made you change your point of view?
Because I saw it for what it really was.
It's sexual.
Like, let's just be for real.
It's easier.
Me, as an older woman now, I know that if a man wants to deal with me, I have standards and he has to put in work.
When I was 18, I didn't know any better.
He didn't really have to do much.
And that's really what it's about.
You don't see it now because you're still young.
I got a question, though.
How long it took, since all y'all are older and y'all probably all say no, how long it took y'all to realize that?
Cause I'm young and I... Hold on, hold on, hold on.
Let's just focus on...
Okay, go ahead.
That's my question though.
What about you?
I'm just going to add that I think the guys who are in their 30s, 40s sometimes can be less mature than guys who are my age.
That's why I'm in it.
I've dated an older guy.
How much older?
We had 12 years of difference, but because he had, let's say, young soul and he was into all the stuff I'm into, We had a lot of mutual things, but I do agree that guys often use younger girls to get what they want, and my perspective absolutely has changed in the span of three years.
So I respect that side, but I don't mind having someone who's older than me.
So what's the max you would go age-wise now?
Right now, like 10 years.
I think it's a logical and normal difference.
Okay.
What about you?
The oldest was like 30 and it's perfect.
I would never date a guy who was like my age because men mature very late.
Like very late.
It's like it's a child, you know, literally.
And someone younger than me, like it's a headache always.
But someone, they say like once a player, always a player.
If someone at 56 looks hot and he's rich, like yeah, like he might catch my eye but it's because like he got his look still, you know?
But if not, someone's ugly.
At that point, is money still like the main thing?
Money?
Money for me, it's not the main thing, of course.
I'm just saying that because I'm a little hurt.
But it's like...
Emotional damage!
I wouldn't push it to ten, but definitely in that range.
I could say it could be up to 10, but I really think it's more about their life force energy.
Like when a man really takes care of himself, drinks his water, fitness, health, like he has that vibrant energy, then I don't really think the age number-wise matters as much.
Because I've met younger guys who have like drained.
They're just like, you know?
And then I've met older guys that have a lot of life force.
Would you think younger than you, you would say?
Like younger?
Oh, I haven't yet.
I've played with the idea, but I haven't yet.
So I'll keep you updated.
Cool girl.
See, because I think for most girls, they have an idea of what they want, but they don't really know what they want until they see it for themselves.
And like, a guy that's successful, that worked on himself, I think he wants to find a girl that's going to be young, fertile, and ready to go and follow his lead.
So on some level, I get what...
Ray's saying, but then it's like, okay, if I work to myself and bust my ass off, like, I want a kid that's going to follow my lead.
And if you're too old, too stuck in your ways, you're not going to change for me.
You're going to be like, oh, I'm independent.
I'm a boss, babe.
This is who I am.
Versus if you're young, all right, cool.
I got you.
I know your wants and your needs.
I'll lead you from here.
Yeah, definitely maturity and emotional intelligence matters a lot.
So maturity?
Oh no, I have a father.
I really don't depend on man because I have a dad that's always been in my life.
So he gave me all the little rundowns and stuff like that.
So older or not, I know what they're expecting to do, they're not expecting to do.
I know how to let a dude control me and not control me.
It's up to me.
It's not up to him.
You can voice your opinion.
If you're financially doing something for me, then okay.
Yeah, I'm gonna follow your footsteps.
But if I'm taking care of me, you're just talking to me, then that's different.
So you need the financial push to follow his lead.
Got it.
Alright, we got some more here before we close this out.
And Array was definitely in a mood there because he was not having it.
It's okay.
It happens.
Do you prefer a woman who has her own thing or is it all about you?
Uh, I think for me, I like a little bit of both.
She's doing her thing on the side when I'm working, doing my stuff, and she's not gonna annoy me.
And then, uh, of course, I'm gonna give her as well some stuff to do for me.
So, once she has time for my stuff, then I'm okay with that.
And then, uh, another one here.
This one says...
This is for Ray.
Uh...
The second question.
Another eating ass.
Was that you?
Ask the second question.
Was that you?
Ask the second question.
Bro, it has to be here, bro.
Can you ask the second question, though?
Okay, so...
Because I'm interested.
No, but he's not here anymore.
The second question for you is, is he not here, then you.
Oh, why dudes eat ass?
Why do niggas he ass?
Why?
How would I know, nigga?
See, he should have been here because he likes his booty ass.
So why do niggas he ass?
I know that.
He just said she would ass.
He ain't had a problem with it.
My question would have been perfect for him, then.
I don't play ass games, but of that league, okay.
Okay, and then the last one here says, do you believe double standards are innately immoral?
Because it places one group above another.
Immorals require fairness.
Um...
I think double standards are more like a general idea that society has came up with.
And I think for most people here that are on the panel as well, you would agree, it benefits you more than us.
So definitely for guys, it's cool, but you guys win all the time.
Our only double standard is that we get to smash girls and not be judged for it.
I love double standards.
Wait, you think double standards favor women more than men?
Hell yeah!
Are you living in Miami?
No, I live in New York, and I've lived in Atlanta.
Okay, I'm gonna just tell you, if I was a hot chick, what my life would be like, just come here.
I'm like, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
Let's say it was Christina.
Pretty bitch privilege.
I know, I mean, yeah, we know the pretty privilege, we get drinks, we get to go, we know all of that, but it's not free.
It's not free.
It's not free.
That's not true.
All right, nigga.
If I was a hot, hot bitch, I put some money, I'm getting free up parties, I'm getting free drinks, free dinner, I'm getting rich niggas taking me out, and you know what?
I don't gotta fuck.
Bruh had the whole car, everybody.
So, I'm just telling you, nigga.
Okay, so you're- So, you're- So, you're not us.
What about your life?
You have to wear.
I believe that the benefits that we get are superficial.
The benefits that men get, like for example, if we're both going for a job, the fact that I'm a woman, sometimes the man just automatically gets it.
Like you just get the job.
That's way more important than me.
Yeah, I want to party and all that, but longevity, like when I'm 30, 40 and the world is telling me, oh, your life is over.
You're 30 and 40.
You're in your prime.
Those are the benefits that count.
Hanging out on a boat, that's...
But that's biological, you know?
That's biological.
And also, another benefit of the double standard, like, I come from overseas, there's war all the time.
The only reason, like, my people that I grew up with, they died and I didn't is because I'm a girl.
So I do believe in double standard because men go fight on the front lines when women don't.
That's a good point.
Look, they're from Ukraine and Russia, right?
What do you mean by that?
But, no, hold on, real quick.
So, they actually came here and they're living pretty good, I assume, right?
Versus their counterparts that are men.
Guess what they're doing?
Fighting wars that they don't want to fight.
Now, tell me if I'm a double standard or not.
Well, I'm from West Africa.
So if you want to talk about...
My nigga.
Yeah, so when you talk about double standards, it's a whole different ballgame.
Like, where I'm from, just the fact that you're a woman, you could be considered worthless just because of that.
Because of the way women are treated in that culture.
Well, I would say where you're from, I get it because you guys are more tolerant of like men, just me and men.
So I get that part.
Men get all the benefits.
But generally around the world...
You guys win, I would say, 9 out of 10 times.
Yeah, but how many of us would die if the women went to the war?
If it was the women that were in the war, we would all be dying.
Women are meant for war.
That's right.
But hold on.
You guys want equality, right?
You guys want to be equal to us?
You want to be as similar as men?
Well, not you, but generally women want that, right?
So my thing is, if you want equality, then do what we do.
Exactly.
But you won't.
No.
I don't want to fight in the war.
I'll let you.
I don't think any of us should fight in the war.
I feel like respectfully, y'all say dumb but standard.
It's how you approach yourself.
Y'all say females get stuff freely, but it's not free.
It's how you approach yourself to other people.
You could be a classy girl and don't get handouts, or you could be a whore and you could get handouts.
Listen, I had a girl that's...
Down here, though.
That's only down here.
She wants to be a lawyer, right?
And she went to law school, went to a very good law school, did very well, and she wanted to get a job.
Within her school, alumni, they gave her a job just for being, you know, alumni.
Now granted, though, like, she had classmates that are guys that are doing way better than her as well.
She got the job.
Now she's in the office, she's like, okay, cool.
I want to level up.
I want to get to a higher position in the company.
Her mindset was your mindset.
Oh, I'm a woman.
It's going to be almost impossible.
So I have two options.
Either have sex to get to the top or work harder and see what happens.
And my thing is like, okay, yes, they're going to see you as a piece of meat at the very beginning.
But like she said, how you carry yourself will determine how they see you.
And she said, you know what?
I'm going to work the hard way.
Within two years, her actually coming together, saying, I'm going to take this seriously.
I think they're going to talk about double standards.
I think there was a talk about double stage.
So I hope they won't come in real fast and talk about this because this tends to be something that I talk about.
Welcome back.
Thank you, thank you.
No, just hot outside.
Just for all the ladies here that think there's a double standard, can you name one double standard that benefits men that women also don't enjoy besides the ability to have sex without consequence?
How about you answer it?
Since you were talking about it the most, actually?
Yeah, like for example, I was saying the job.
I believe that there is this idea in society, even though they say if you want it done, get a woman to do it, no.
I believe that this whole idea of women are emotional, women work off hormones automatically Most people don't even give you the opportunity to try to do the job.
They're just going to say, man, woman, man, woman.
Let me give it to a man.
Like what type of job?
Any type of job.
Any type of job.
Correctional officer.
I mean, we're talking more career.
Things that are not based on your books.
Well, since you mentioned law enforcement, that used to be something I used to do.
Are you aware of the fact that there's hiring protocols that favor women where there's female-only announcements?
By law.
Yeah, but that's like affirmative action.
Why they have to make that law, though?
Yeah, but affirmative action, who does it benefit?
But I believe that the benefits or the claimed benefits that we get...
First of all, there's a quota on it.
Every woman is not just going to get passed along just because she's a woman.
It's actually the opposite.
I believe that most women are going to get turned away because they're women.
And I feel like the mediocre, the little superficial things that are considered benefits, like, oh, you're a woman, you don't have to pay for your lunch...
It's nothing compared to the benefits that the men get that lead, like behind the scenes it leads to power, it leads to wealth building, it leads to all these other things that I believe women don't even realize we don't have access to.
No, the reality is you do have access to them, it's just that a lot of women choose to not have access to them because a lot of the time women are lazy.
They want to go ahead and get free handouts and be treated like a lady and get all these benefits of chivalry, which inevitably puts you in a position where men give you things for free.
Now if a woman wants to work and get into law enforcement and get into these professions you're talking about that they would not get, They actually would.
Because if you want to go ahead and be an FBI agent right now, there's a female-only announcement for you.
There's a DEI hire announcement for Secret Service agents for women.
So in law enforcement, women actually have a higher likelihood of getting these jobs.
And any type of law, any type of career field that favors men, they favor the women to come in to make it more diverse.
So, I don't think, this whole double standard thing that women always cry about, double standards inherently benefit women.
That's why we have to create another standard for you guys, because you guys suck at most things.
Let's be honest.
The military, law enforcement, etc.
Why are there two different standards?
Why isn't there just one?
Like I said, I believe that's a distraction.
No, no, but the fact that that even exists proves my point that the double standards inherently benefit women.
They don't benefit men.
But those double standards are set on the fact that, one, women are not going to want to fight in the army.
There's just the physical limitations that women have.
I believe that there are women that say, oh, I want to grow old and go to the army, or I want to be a correctional officer.
But typically, women don't want to be in physical jobs, even if you're looking at an industry like trucking.
If you're looking at an industry like nursing, always, the women are always going to hold the bottom rolls.
And why is that?
And the higher rolls, because I believe it's double.
It's their choice.
I don't think it's their choice.
It is.
I don't think it's their choice.
We had recently an assassination attempt on Donald Trump, right?
Who was next to him putting him in the car?
Male and female.
A female.
Female.
So she was there, even though she didn't have to be.
That was the choice that she made to be there, even though she failed terribly.
To be honest, she was the only the man that jumped on him, though.
Thank you.
But the fact is, she was still there.
She made a choice to be there and be a part of that team.
The fact is, yes, you're saying, yes, things can happen in that way, but it's just a choice.
The only thing about the career thing, that women's career mattered that much, it's like, look, Ronaldo, he used to take Irina Sheik, right?
Who is Irina Sheik now?
Look at Ronaldo's girlfriend, Georgina.
She got three times more followers than Irina, and she's a professional model.
She built a career based off a man's career.
So it's like...
If you really meet the right man, you can actually build up your whole future, like your whole life off him.
So it's like, in that way, it's like, what is women like gonna run for the career, run for the career?
One of the things I get attacked for a lot of the times is I acknowledge the fact that women live life on easy mode and people get angry at me for saying that.
But the reality is that women do live life on easy mode.
Explain what I mean by this.
A woman can choose to be a hard worker, go to college and build herself up.
However, she can also choose to be useless and smoke weed and marry a millionaire.
Men don't get that choice.
The same double standard that you're talking about, there is no double standard for us.
It's one standard.
Succeed or not.
But if you don't succeed, you're going to have a miserable life.
As a woman, you could be a bum and still find a guy that has a future.
Well, first of all, there's more male millionaires than female millionaires.
Why is that?
Because they're lazy as hell.
No, I don't believe that.
I believe it's a double standard.
Like me, for example.
Lazy.
I was a girl that started off doing the hard worker thing.
I went to college, got my master's, I'm applying for jobs, I'm getting hired.
And in every field that I work, And I hate to sound stereotypical, but I always felt like I would get into a position and I want to work my way up.
What fields were you working in specifically?
I've done trucking, like trucking for example.
I was an executive assistant.
Sure.
Of course, an executive assistant never would be considered for the possession of executive.
Why?
Because, first of all, the guys who own the company, they're never even going to allow someone that is not in their bloodline or a friend or a relative to even apply for certain jobs.
Me being an executive assistant was the highest position I could ever get to in that company, and I knew that.
And no matter how hard I worked, no matter how much money I saved them, I'm never, I'm never going to break that mold.
I know because I tried and I know the politics.
But yes, you're right.
So I decided at a certain point, you know, I went on a weight loss journey.
It started off as, okay, let me just get fit.
Let me get myself together.
I went on a weight loss journey and I realized, you know, as a woman...
Why'd you quit the trucking?
It's pointless.
I quit a lot of jobs because you realize that you're just not going to get where you want to go.
What if I told you that's a privilege as a woman that you can quit a bunch of jobs?
You know how many guys work jobs that they absolutely hate because they must work it because men understand that the amount of money that they make in their title defines them?
This is one of the benefits of being a woman.
You're not defined by your title.
You're not defined by what you do.
You're not defined by how much money you make.
You're defined by how you look.
That's the reality, okay?
Nobody's a fuck about your background and your title.
Exactly!
Okay, so, here's the thing.
That's a privilege, though.
You're able to hold all these different jobs and leave and, you know, pick up another job as much as you want.
What if we took a man and put him in your position?
You know what we say?
He's inadequate, he's an idiot, he's a quitter, he's a bum, etc.
Because men don't have a choice.
We don't have to be like, we can't be like, you know what?
I can't move up, so I'm going to quit.
You know what?
I'm going to go on a weight luster.
You know what?
I don't want to do this trucking anymore.
Men are more willing to sacrifice to do jobs that they hate to earn money because we understand that our value is derived by how much money we earn.
Women, you guys can go ahead and pursue what you guys want.
Why do you think women work stupid jobs?
Let's be honest here.
You guys want to be artists.
You want to be sculptors.
You guys want to do a fashion line where it makes no money, etc.
Women tend to dominate jobs that are useless and don't make as much money.
Why?
Because women have the ability, right, being honest here, to chase their dreams without consequence.
We, if I want to chase my dreams and be a SoundCloud rapper, et cetera, I'm going to deal with some consequences of that.
People aren't going to respect me, they're going to say you're a fucking dead-end rapper, et cetera.
I get made fun of for being a loser.
You don't get made fun of for being a loser.
No, you don't.
No, no, no.
Being a slut and being a loser are two different things.
In certain fields, you're automatically considered a slut.
Like, us sitting here at this table, we're already automatically considered sluts.
Honestly, can I say something?
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
All I'm trying to establish to you is that women have the privilege of not necessarily having to work as hard or working a job that they don't like for a career because money doesn't define you.
Money defines us, though.
Correct.
So since men have a higher burden of performance to earn money, we're more willing to sacrifice our wants and needs for the betterment to make money because we are looked at as the providers and protectors.
You know how many guys out there work jobs that they fucking hate, but they do it anyway?
Correct.
Because they know that their choice is okay.
But women are not willing to do these jobs.
Women aren't willing to be sanitation workers.
They're not willing to be truck drivers, as you just proved.
They're not willing to be forklift operators and be plumbers.
They're not willing to do construction workers.
They're not willing to do these very difficult jobs.
You guys want to sit in an office with air conditioning and look pretty with your makeup on.
You guys don't want to do the hard jobs that pay a lot, by the way, because women just don't have the same proclivity to go out there and earn money.
I agree.
That's why y'all earn less, because you guys deserve less, quite frankly.
Sorry.
I honestly agree with that, because every person has their own...
You can choose what you want to do.
I know a female to this day right now is in a trucking, do truck driving, and she's a female.
I know a lot of females, if you look on social media, drive trucks because they want to do it.
Yeah.
Like you said, they do look into men's background.
When we get a job, they don't really look into our background.
They ask, well, I didn't keep us pushing.
With a man, okay, let me see if you got a record.
Let me see what you got going on.
Let me see this, that, and there.
Because I know that he can be president.
Y'all saying, no, let me put it in a way so y'all can understand.
For example, dating a female costs money.
You don't want a nigga that don't got no money.
Right or wrong?
Did I lie?
Because I have money.
When he say a man will do a job that he don't want to do, only because men think differently than us.
They think beneficial.
They think future references.
Us, we think right now, this day, what they're going to do for us.
No, I think about future too.
You say that now.
And I think about that.
But when you get a man, and tell me if I'm wrong, Myron.
Female will get a man and be like, oh, you got money.
How can you help me?
What can you do for me?
No.
I don't do that.
I don't do that.
Myrie wasn't here, but y'all on this panel, and I've been listening for a minute, as a person who been here a lot and actually learned how to do it on different sides, all y'all said, y'all need a man with money, and you did too.
I didn't say that.
I didn't say that.
Almost every female on this panel said they want a man with money.
It's okay, don't worry.
I already paid attention.
Hold on, did you get a divorce from a woman?
Yeah.
Why'd you get divorced?
Don't worry, I've been paying attention.
Why'd you get divorced from her?
I told you, distance.
Distance, okay.
Not you, but the channel.
But then you mentioned earlier that you would be with a 56-year-old guy if he built himself up and had some money, etc.
I didn't say it was about, I said if he was hot, but money is a plus.
And so you missed that though.
I said that thing about the money is because love hurts.
So are you bisexual or are you lesbian?
What are you exactly?
Vicarious.
fuck labels no labels are important I don't like labels I don't like labels what was that?
no pronouns no so why is money important hold on hold on I'm just trying to figure this out So you were married to a woman and then you left and you're claiming it was because of distance.
Who was the main provider in that relationship?
Both.
There's always a predominant provider.
Were you, there's no way you guys were, were you guys really 50-50?
Yeah.
Realistically speaking?
50-50.
But you just said a second ago that you guys were split distance, which means you had to pay for your own living accommodations.
No, that would, yeah, of course, like, I pay for my own, she pays for her own.
That's still 50-50 in the whole relationship.
Okay, so you were paying for yourself, she was paying for herself.
Yeah.
Okay, so that's not really 50-50.
That's not 100-100.
It's like, okay, okay.
Facts.
Looking from a perspective, dating a woman and dating a man as a girl is different.
It's different.
And I was actually going to get to that.
Men have to provide way more value when they deal with women than women have to.
That proves my point.
I wasn't disagreeing with you.
I was disagreeing with her.
You disagreeing with me?
But when you get married, who you want to pay your bills?
Of course a man, he has to.
Okay, so you're relying on a man to pay your bills, so obviously he need to work a job that he don't want to do.
Why is the right to work a job that he doesn't want to do?
Am I correct or am I correct, Myron?
Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
I don't know if you just caught on.
She just named the double standard right there.
Because, do you notice what she said?
If she's with a man, he needs to pay the bills, but she was content being in a marriage with a woman that was not paying the bills.
But that's what I was trying to say.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
No, no, stop, stop, stop.
That's in her world.
No, no, no, but that's a majority of women would...
No.
That's not true in the black community.
In the black community, I know you don't want to say that, but I'm telling you the reality of it.
So you guys are sitting here talking about finding a man with money and, oh, I want this, I want that.
That's in your world.
In the world that I've seen and the world that I've come from, Women, it doesn't matter how pretty you are, you don't necessarily get the luxury of sitting there saying, oh, I want a man with this much money, so I'm gonna chill.
Saying I want a man like that doesn't necessarily mean I get a man like that.
Stop, stop, stop.
Ladies, ladies, ladies, stop, stop.
Okay, so, number one, I just wanna real quick illustrate the fact that she's totally named a double standard and that's fine.
I like double standards.
Okay, but she's saying that women, there's these double standards that don't benefit women.
That's one right there that proves my point.
You would tolerate certain things in a relationship with a woman that you would never tolerate from a man.
And that proves my point that most women, by the way, would agree with you that if I'm with a man, he needs to be at least providing something versus if you're with a woman, you would not expect her to have the same level.
Now with you saying the black community, blah, blah, blah.
The reality is that the lower end in terms of income.
Let's not just say the black community.
Let me rephrase that.
I'm not referring to upper and middle class.
You can say whatever you want to say, but the reality is if I take 100 women, whether they're rich or not, and I ask them, would you prefer a man that's a breadwinner over a man that's going to go 50-50, would you know what they're all going to say?
Okay, that's what we're trying to illustrate here.
So just because women don't have a man that's a breadwinner doesn't mean that they still don't want it and wouldn't prefer it.
It's just that she doesn't have the ability to attract that.
No, she just doesn't have the ability to attract it.
Question.
It's not her reality, yeah.
Can I ask every female question since we're on this topic?
Right now, since a man, y'all want mans to benefit y'all.
If you were to date a man that went through a rough time, would you benefit him for that moment or not?
Yeah, I do it all the time.
You say, yeah, when I say, listen to the question.
When you benefit a man, you benefit a man, and then he's gonna go cheat on you because every man, and then he's gonna fucking embarrass you in front of everyone.
I'm never staying down with that man, no.
He can struggle himself, and then when he gets up...
You're actually explaining exactly what I mean.
You feel what I'm saying?
Double standard.
When we're down bad, I'm not saying you're down bad.
Your parents are supposed to lift you up, not your man.
Your parents are too old to still be dependent on your parents.
You're the one.
Why somebody needs to lift you up?
You can lift yourself up.
The only thing your parents are supposed to be doing once you're past 21 is giving you advice.
Your parents shouldn't be doing nothing financially or nothing.
You're a grown ass lady.
I feel like at the end of the day, your family is going to support you no matter what.
They're going to support you.
We're talking about a man and a woman.
We're not talking about family.
We're talking about a man and a woman.
So if you don't got it, you would expect a dude to have it.
Bitch dude!
- I'm not dating nobody. - That's my, you're saying witch dude, you're not understanding what we're, if you have a dude, - She's not saying in general. - If you have a dude, and you're going through it, and you ain't got it, you expect him to jump, So you're saying if he don't got it, he going to go jump on the next person.
That's not how it goes.
That's not life.
If you're really sticking by a man and doing it, first of all, you got to be a right woman to be within a man.
Because trust me, I done been with a dude who didn't have it.
And I ain't asked for her back.
Some females, dudes go through it and they be like...
Want the money back.
Give it back.
Give it back.
Hold on, I'll stop real quick.
You said you had an issue with men cheating, right?
For you?
No, I've never been cheated on because I've never had a boyfriend, but I've had issues with men cheating in general.
Okay, so you want a man that's going to be monogamous to you, and you said that most men are going to cheat, correct?
All men are going to cheat.
Oh, they're going to cheat.
Okay, so since you think all or a majority of men are going to cheat, would it be fair to say that a man that's actually monogamous is rare?
Yeah.
Okay, so let me ask you a question.
Unexistent.
Okay, do you think you deserve one of these guys?
Who?
The ones who cheat?
No, a guy that's monogamous and faithful.
Do you deserve one?
They don't exist.
Okay, but if there is one that existed, do you think you deserve them?
Of course.
Emotional!
How many other ladies here feel that they deserve a man that's monogamous?
To only them?
I mean, if that's what I'm going to say.
A majority of girls here think that they deserve a guy that's monogamous.
Yeah, I don't think all guys are whores.
Okay.
Would you guys agree that a majority of men cheat, though?
Yes, I agree.
Hold on, hold on.
One by one.
I don't think so.
What do you think percentage of men cheat, then?
Like, I'd say half and half.
You think it's a 50-50 shot?
I think so.
Alright, what about you?
Sorry, I'm sorry.
What about you?
I want to say like 30%, 40%.
Cheat?
So you think a minority.
What about you?
You think a minority or a majority?
Honestly, I don't know.
It's something a female got to do for a man to cheat, so I don't know.
Okay, what about you?
I don't know.
You don't know.
Okay, what about you?
Minority or majority?
I think it's 50-50.
I don't believe all that.
What about you?
Do you think a minority or majority?
50-50.
I think 50-50.
Okay, what about you?
I haven't been cheated on, but I've been cheated on with, basically.
Okay, so you think...
Well, you said all men, Chi, so I know your stance, actually.
What about you?
I believe majority.
Majority, Chi?
Okay, what about you?
50-50.
Okay, now let's make this more fun.
A man that's actually attractive, let's say over six feet tall, has a bunch of money, maybe somewhat successful, has respect to his peers, do you think he's going to be...
Do you think their likelihood of being monogamous is high or low?
Low.
High.
Okay, so...
I think the more men...
Okay, we'll make it simple.
Attractive man, tall, good-looking, has money, etc.
Do you guys think that he's more likely to cheat?
Raise the hands if yes.
If he has money, the money.
That's what I mean.
Yes, the money.
He has it all.
I feel like if people think he's really good looking, he's going to cheat.
Okay, so you guys...
So some of you are saying 50-50, but if he's attractive and has money, etc., the chances of him going to cheat and go up, right?
Yeah, majority of you say that?
Yeah.
Okay.
So, interesting, interesting.
So, for you, how many of you think you deserve monogamy from this guy?
This top tier guy that's good looking, etc.
How many of you think you deserve monogamy from that guy?
If that's what I'm giving.
If that's what we agreed on.
Do all of you guys want a guy at this caliber, I'm assuming?
Most of them want a guy that has his shit together, tall, good looking, etc.
I want an ugly dude.
Give me an ugly dude.
You would want the money though, right?
No.
So you could be broke and ugly?
Not even broke and ugly.
Honestly, when I say it, because as y'all put it, y'all people want men for their money.
I don't look for money in a man.
I don't.
Not anymore.
Not anymore.
You're right.
What do you look for then?
First of all, I look for personality.
I look for...
Energy.
I learned a lot from being on here, so I expect not to expect.
How you put it.
I expect not to expect.
Then why you need them?
Who said I need it?
I have a father.
When I say I have a dad, I mean, I don't expect nothing.
Let me just go back to you.
So for you, because you think most men are going to cheat, or you said all men are going to cheat, but you don't want a guy that's going to cheat on you.
So let me ask you this.
What would you bring to a guy that is attractive and has these things?
Because you want monogamy.
That's rare.
That's hard to find.
So what does he get in exchange for being monogamous to you?
Being with me.
Yeah, what does he get in exchange for being monogamous to you?
His being with me.
Being with you.
That's my answer, yes.
As in like a wife?
Okay.
Maybe a wife to him?
Okay, so you think just you yourself is enough?
And I. Yes.
Okay.
Let's have fun with this.
Let's say, you know, I went up to a girl at the club, right?
And I was just being me.
And I said, hey, you should date me.
And she says, oh, well, tell me about yourself.
And I'm like, I'm me.
And then she asked me again, what do you do?
I speak four languages.
I've been waitlisted for Harvard.
Okay.
Okay, let's go with that.
Now, you're saying you're trying to use your intellect.
Cool.
What if I said, I asked a girl.
She asked me, oh, so tell me about yourself.
And I'm like, I'm me.
And she's like, well, no, tell me about yourself.
And I say, I'm me.
Then she asked me the third time, tell me about yourself.
And I say, well, I got an extensive Jordan collection.
What her response be to that?
That's gay.
Oh!
Well, how do you think I feel when you said that I went to Harvard and I speak four languages?
I didn't go to Harvard.
Or I got accepted by Harvard.
Huh, yeah, what about it?
Like, you feel it's gay?
Yes.
Yeah.
I don't know if you see what...
No, you got accepted to Harvard, so you should understand analogies.
So, just like you said, I speak four languages...
But Jordan Collection and Harvard is different.
Let me explain.
Hold on.
I like that you're going there.
Okay.
You triggered my trap card!
Now let me ask you a simple question.
Does your four languages and you getting accepted into Harvard benefit me if I was your boyfriend?
Yes.
How so?
I'm way more mature than like, you know?
That's relative.
Now, let me ask you the question again.
Does me having an extensive Jordan collection benefit you?
That doesn't mean you're mature, it just means you're spending money on Jordan.
Why do I compare having Jordans and fucking Oxford degrees?
Okay, look, ladies, okay.
This is where curriculum thinking comes in.
Hold on, hold on.
It's very simple.
Because men and women are attracted to different things.
Your degree, your education, and speaking four languages and getting accepted to Harvard doesn't benefit me as a man.
Just like me saying, I got an extensive joint collection.
You'd be like, what the fuck?
That doesn't benefit me.
Men and women look for different things.
What do you look for?
Hold on one second.
We want to go, that's beautiful, not annoying, not combative, not argumentative, etc.
Men want different things in women and women want different things in men.
So my ability to have sneakers and Jordans and look a certain way doesn't matter because it doesn't benefit you.
What benefits you is me being able to protect you, provide for you, etc.
So you saying that I got accepted to Harvard, that doesn't benefit me as a man.
Okay, look, what benefits you as a man and a woman?
Her being attractive, her being able to be a mother to your kids, her being able to build an empire with individuals, like, you're mostly building, she's just there for you, you know?
Yeah, but I find it interesting how I asked you, because you're basically admitting that this guy doesn't exist, going back to the monogamy thing, you're admitting, and then when I asked you, okay, well, what does he get in return for being with you, and you listed off a bunch of accolades that don't really benefit him.
But you understand my point, though, like...
No, I do, and that's why I'm refuting it.
Okay.
No, why are you refuting it?
Because you getting accepted to Harvard and speaking four languages doesn't really benefit that guy.
I'm also hot, so...
Huh?
I'm also hot, like, I look good.
Okay, but is beauty common?
No.
There's a bunch of hot girls at the table right now.
There's attractive girls here at the table right now.
Beauty is common.
And then also, it's like when it clicks, you know, chemistry between people.
Even if Harvard is for you, that's your sake, your degree, that ain't for you.
He ain't at Harvard.
How can I help him?
What he's trying to say is, for example, you was married to a girl.
By you going to Harvard, that's for you.
Your diploma, whatever it is, scholarship and everything.
How does that benefit?
How do you benefit a man?
How do you personally benefit a man?
It's not even benefiting a man.
We're talking about what you just said right now about you going to college.
How do you personally benefit a man?
Honestly, I don't agree with what you said respectfully because honestly, I go to Barrett University.
That is a private school down here.
That does not matter.
What matters then?
Tell me.
Can you let me finish?
I'm trying to answer your question, but you continuously let me finish.
That's for me.
That's for me.
That's my education.
That's what I want to do.
I have met plenty of girls who dropped out and didn't go to college and still do better than people that went to college.
You don't know those vibes.
Tell her let me cook!
Tell her let me cook!
By you going to college, at the end of the day, how can I help him?
Answer my question!
How did you benefit your boyfriend except for not sexually?
I worked at a laundry man.
I benefited myself before I benefited anybody else.
No, but we're talking about benefiting a man.
What money is you making while we're in college?
Man who has money does not give a fuck about how much money you make.
A nigga do not give a fuck about you going to college!
So why should I give a fuck about you?
What's the reason for him to pick you, for example?
So why should a nigga...
Give me a reason.
Give him a reason.
Listen, I can tell a nigga every day, hey, I'm going to very end of university.
Exactly, it's all worse.
What the fuck that got to do with you?
No, no, no.
She wants to know, how did you give her man what he wants piece of money?
Why is he going to pick you over me?
Tell me why.
Just what he said to me.
She wants to know what?
Why a nigga would pick me over you?
Because I have more common sense and I think logically before I excuse my words.
I'm not hearing that.
What you're saying right now is great bullshit.
You're saying I went to Harvard.
And you're not giving me a culture argument.
I'm giving you an argument.
That's why I say I have more maturity than you.
You think this is an argument, baby.
This is a debate.
Debate is an argument.
It's a synonym.
You see what I mean?
At the end of the day, it's maturity.
You could go to Harvard and I go to Barry.
It's all about mindset.
I have a mindset too.
Your mindset is crazy right now.
How can you know that I don't have a mindset if you don't know me?
Crazy right now.
Your mindset is not.
I think the bottom line here I'm trying to illustrate is men don't really care about women's education and accolades.
I think that's the important thing, which goes back to the whole double standard thing that you were mentioning before, because you said that there's double standards, and I would argue double standards only benefit women.
They don't really benefit men.
I disagree with that.
Okay, tell me how you disagree.
Because I believe that the benefits that we're giving as women in terms of double standards are peanuts compared to the benefits that men get.
Because we get the little things like, okay, perfect example.
You said...
When it comes to resumes, right?
They will look at a woman's resume and they'll just pass her through and give her the job.
That's not true at all.
Women actually got hired at a higher rate if they have a female name on a resume than men do.
Thank you.
That's not true at all.
It's not true, but I was making a reference to this statement.
These are points that have been debunked a million times.
Feminism has lied to you guys.
Oh, no, no, no.
It's not feminism.
It sat there and told you guys that you're victims, the patriarchy, etc.
No, but that's not what I was going to say.
It's all a lie.
What I was going to say is the reason why the woman's resume is not scrutinized as hard as the man's resume is because it's already been built that this woman, it doesn't matter what her resume says because she's not going to get past this position anyway.
Whereas a man, once we have hired him, there's always the possibility that he could move up and potentially be a leader in the company.
And that's why a woman's resume is not as scrutinized as much as a guy is.
And I have been a recruiter before, so I know that this is in the back of certain people's minds.
It's just a fact.
We get little things.
We get peanuts.
Oh, you're a pretty girl.
You get free dinner.
Okay, once again, name one right or privilege, since you're saying double standards and all those other things.
Name one right or privilege that men have over women, besides the ability, where we can fuck bitches and not be judged for it.
Go ahead.
Name one.
One right or privilege that men have that women don't.
A man having children with multiple women, right?
If a woman has children...
That goes into what I just said.
Except for the ability to have sex with multiple women without being judged.
Okay, well what I meant more so is building multiple households.
It's not the act of the sex.
It's the fact that you have built multiple households.
You have multiple families.
Oh, I'm sorry.
I like the word that you used there.
What was the word that you used there, the verb?
I used a lot of words.
You used a certain verb there.
You mean build?
Oh, build.
Yes.
What does it take to build?
Okay, so what I'm saying is this.
Money.
A man.
And what does it take to earn money?
Men.
Work.
See?
Because you guys are looking at it.
Stop, stop, stop.
You're looking at it on the surface.
You're looking at it on the surface.
See, that's what I'm trying to say.
Women live such a privileged life that you guys forget that men have to fight.
We don't have a choice.
We don't have a choice.
Excuse me?
We don't have a choice.
What do you mean you don't have a choice?
And I've repeated it multiple times, right?
Let's say there is the woman that decides, you know what?
I don't want to depend on my looks or this or that.
I want to play the game.
I want to play the game from beginning to the end.
That woman, I'm not going to say she's lost before she's already started, but the chances of that woman even making it to the halftime point, it's very, very small.
It's like, me, women almost get forced into this hole.
Okay, let's go back to the beginning.
What was the first thing you said in your census just now?
Just rewind a second ago.
Which one?
What did you literally say right before you started that?
Oh, I said, if a woman decided, if she chooses to play the game.
Oh, wait, hold on, hold on.
Did you just name that she has a choice?
The reason why she has a choice...
Hold on, hold on!
Stop the fucking show!
Stop!
I've said this before and I'll say it again.
Privilege is invisible to those that have it.
The fact that you even have a choice and you're complaining about having a choice is ridiculous.
But do you realize you could also have that same privilege?
It's not for every man.
It's not for every man.
Okay, you're handsome, you have nice teeth, you're tall, you're good looking.
The same way, the same way.
The same way.
Listen, listen, listen.
The same way I could choose.
The same way I could choose The same way I can choose...
Is that every man?
It's not every man.
But it's also not every woman.
It's also not every woman.
And that's what I was explaining to her.
You're sitting here talking about...
Okay, stop one second.
Let me just be very honest about this.
Let's say I'm this guy that you're talking about that's like, I can go ahead and get girls.
I'll be honest with you, most women are not going to support me financially, though, to the point where I don't have to work.
Like, I might be able to get a girl to go on a date with me or whatever, but I'd be hard-pressed to find a girl that's actually going to be a sugar mama for me, okay?
And most men can't do it.
And only a minority of men are even found attractive by a majority of women.
So a girl that's mid can go find a man that's top-tiered that will take care of her.
A man, though, needs to be top tier to get a chance with a men girl.
First of all, look at this.
Let's say there's a man.
This situation I'm going to explain to you is a standard situation.
There is a man living in a woman's house.
He doesn't have a job.
The woman is the one working.
She's the one that owns the car.
She's bringing in the bread.
He's laying on the couch for whatever reason.
He could be a felon all the time in certain communities.
It's more standard in certain communities to have households with women working and men not working.
You guys have the privilege.
You guys have the privilege of never living in a certain demographic or maybe never living below the poverty line.
So maybe you're not aware of it.
But there are certain neighborhoods that you go into.
You could be in a certain neighborhood and every single man in that neighborhood might not have a job.
You might have the ones, and I know it sounds stereotypical, but stereotypes don't just pop out of thin air.
I'm telling you a fact.
You will go to a family.
It's just a whole community.
Going back, going back, going back.
Hold on, hold on.
We're talking about the whole world.
Stop, stop.
Number one, you're talking about a certain group of people that isn't the majority.
That's the group I came from, so that's my reality.
But you've got to understand that your reality, a lot of the times, doesn't reflect the real world.
Yeah, my past.
I pulled myself out of that.
Okay, that's fantastic.
How many people do?
Okay, listen, I came from a poor background too, but I would be an absolute idiot to go ahead and use my personal experience and where I came from and my background and try to extrapolate that into the general population.
The general population is much different.
You ask for an example.
It's an example.
Real quick, and a woman's one of you.
Okay, again.
Remember, the conversation was, this double standard that you're talking about, right?
I asked you, what benefit, right?
What double standard...
It happens in higher end communities, too.
There's men that go work real jobs, women take care of them.
No, no, no.
Because you don't even...
Because I'm asking you, name one privilege or benefit that men get, right, from this double standard that you're claiming that women also die in joy.
And the only thing you gave me...
The ability to move up!
Management!
Didn't you say you drove trucks?
It's a fact!
Did you say you drove trucks?
No, I never drove trucks.
I worked in the corporate side of a trucking company.
And like I said, it was your choice to stop working with them as a man.
Because I realized...
Listen, you realize all the benefits of my hard work were going to the man.
I'm an executive assistant.
Hold on.
Myron and Fresh, did y'all have a choice?
Stop, stop, stop.
You do realize that there's plenty of men also that you probably competed with that didn't get the position either, right?
Correct.
Yeah!
Maybe it wasn't that you didn't get promoted because you're a woman.
Maybe you just didn't do as good of a job.
No, I got promoted.
But once you're the executive assistant, the only place you can move up is to become the executive.
And it's not going to happen.
And it's a fact.
I don't know the exact statistics, so I'm not going to give the numbers.
It's just like if you're in a hospital.
There are going to be a lot of female nurses.
There's going to be a lot of female...
I mean, yes, there's the janitor.
They're the janitors that tend to be male.
You're going to have the staff in the office, the administration.
But when you get high up, when you're talking about who owns the office, when you're talking about who owns the practice, when you're talking about board of directors, when you're talking about upper-level management, when you're talking about doctors, those roles are usually held by men.
But as a woman...
Men are just better.
The ultimate benefit of being a man when it comes to double standards is the fact that men are always assumed to be better.
America still hasn't had a woman president.
So maybe that shows that men are better at some things.
The ultimate benefit is the fact that men always, call it a stereotype, call it an assumption, call it what you want.
Okay, so explain this to me then.
Men always have men to be better than women.
That's the ultimate benefit.
Explain this to me then.
So why is it that women are graduating college at a higher rate, three quarters of college attendees nowadays are women, women are dominating education in general, right?
They're just more educated, and they're starting to make more money than men in a lot of major cities.
Gotcha, bitch!
Just to hold the lower roles.
No, they're starting to make more money than men in a lot of major cities.
They're starting, yeah, it's starting.
We're in the beginning of something new.
So are women actually really being held back like you claim it?
Okay, what my question was, what my original question was, What my original question was.
My argument is this.
I would argue that women have an easier time in life now with the double standards that you're complaining about than men do.
I'm not complaining about them.
You're telling me that the double standards only benefit men.
I'm telling you that the double standards benefit women.
I'm not saying they only benefit men.
What I'm saying is the benefits that we get as a woman that are supposedly better are actually, it's like a distraction.
It's like peanuts because the benefits that men get when you talk about longevity...
Yeah, but men have to earn those benefits.
You know why they're wrong?
Women do too.
No, no, because it's based on longevity.
The longevity it comes from because it's based on meritocracy.
With men, you only get ahead if you add value.
With women, you can get ahead if you don't add value.
If you're 300 pounds and you look ugly and this, this, that, you don't get the benefits of the woman.
The Democratic nominee of the United States of America, right fucking now, sucked dick to get to where she's at.
Thank you.
Are you seriously sitting here telling me that there aren't situations where women aren't able to move up?
This woman is literally running for President of the United States.
Because Biden dropped out.
Exactly.
But why did she get picked?
I'm not refuting that.
I'm not refuting that.
Why did she get picked as the Vice President?
Because she was already in the position of Vice President.
Okay, now find me a fucking guy that got picked For where he's at because of his gender and because of his skin color.
What do you mean?
When Trump was in office, if Trump would have been impeached, if Trump would have been impeached, Pence would have naturally stepped up.
That's the order.
President, vice president.
He didn't pick him because he was a black woman.
That's my point.
That's my point.
That's the complete point of what I'm trying to say.
I'm not saying that Harris got lucky, but let's be for real.
She's only where she is because Biden dropped out.
If Biden would have never dropped out, she would not be in that position.
How did she get there?
She was Biden's vice-person.
How did she become vice-president in the first place?
Because she was nominated.
Why?
You think she was nominated because she's a black woman.
Yes!
Correct!
Thank you.
So you just proved my point.
You just proved my point.
So the double standard is as a woman, the assumption is that you're never really worthy of what you're getting.
Men are always inherently assumed to be better.
Well, you can.
Hold on, hold on.
That matters.
That's what I'm saying.
But at least you get it.
At least you get it.
No, you don't always get it.
At least you get it.
You don't always get it.
And then guess what?
Do you know what ends up happening?
They get it, and then it's up to them whether they're going to prove the stereotype right and be a bimbo, or they're going to prove it wrong and show a lot of work.
But they get the opportunity is the point I'm trying to make.
You know how many women get into law enforcement positions, become FBI agents, Secret Service, Homeland Security?
They don't deserve to have that job, but they get it because they're female and they meet the requirements.
And then they're like, you know what?
I'm iffy about you.
But then they get on the job, they work really hard.
People are like, damn, she's a go-getter, and they respect her.
And guess what happens with men?
Same shit.
We have to earn our respect, too.
That's why we get bullied and haze, etc.
When you look at male sports, you look at anything with males, right, where it's male-dominated, what do we do?
We pull the fuck out of the new guy.
But women, for some odd reason, they're getting bullied and judged.
Guess what, bitch?
Everyone gets bullied when they get into a new position.
Men are getting paid more regardless, but you're already getting paid more to work.
Men get paid more because they deserve more because women don't want to work hard longer.
That's the ultimate benefit.
And that is the ultimate benefit.
Stop.
I wrote a book about this shit.
I literally wrote a book about this and researched this.
Women get paid more, sorry, wait, they get paid less because they work jobs that earn less a lot of times.
In the same position a woman and a man, a man is going to earn more.
That's statistical.
Are you going to watch real basketball?
I don't make the rules.
It's a fact.
Just like, and I'm not here to push stereotypes, but if we're going based on numbers, for example, I had a friend.
Are you saying that there's a wage gap?
Myth.
Sorry, are you making the argument that there's a wage gap based on gender?
There's a wage gap based on gender.
There's a wage gap based on race.
There's a wage gap based on education.
Based on skills.
So you're saying, do you believe this whole argument that women earn 80 cents on the dollar?
Is that the argument you're making?
I mean, that's the life I'm living.
That's the wage gap.
That's the wage gap, by the way.
Yeah, and being a black woman is going to be even less.
Who else agrees with this?
Who else agrees with this that women earn 80 cents on the dollar?
Wait, wait, wait.
Let me ask this question.
How many women here at this table have actually been in corporate America?
Hold on.
Okay, first let's establish that.
Raise your hands.
Raise your hand if you guys agree that women earn 80 cents on every dollar that a man makes.
Who agrees with that?
Raise your hand if you've ever worked a job.
Since 13.
Okay, so you've worked a job.
Before we start speaking about salary, make sure that you're talking to a person that's actually earned a salary to begin with.
Honestly, it's not even about that.
I'm just asking the ladies here on the panel, do they believe that women earn 80 cents a dollar every man makes?
Who agrees with that?
Okay, so you two agree with that.
I agree because of skill.
Because men are better at basketball, for example.
Who's going to watch WMB when they can watch somebody dog?
That's an extreme example, but okay, fine.
So you're claiming that...
Are you aware of the fact that the reason...
That was wild.
Okay, the reason why women earn less than men a lot of times is because...
Okay, let's just be honest about this.
They work jobs, okay, that pay less a lot of times.
They go into social work, nursing, jobs that, you know, teaching, etc.
They want to be, you know, executive assistants, etc.
They want to be more and more clerical jobs.
Because I can't be the executive.
Okay, but what I'm trying to say here is that women have more education than ever before.
And I'm better than the executive.
Okay.
I don't like that you're throwing black women in there.
Women have more education now than ever before.
They graduate college at a higher rate, etc.
But why do they earn less?
Well, we gotta look at the real things.
When you look at the wage gap, right, what you're really doing is you're taking all working men and all working women, right?
Well, they're not accounting for hours work.
They're not accounting for degrees held.
They're not accounting for experience.
They're not accounting for meritocracy, education, none of that stuff.
They're just taking all full-time working men and all full-time working women.
Which, if you do that, then yes, women earn less.
But then if you actually account for experience, education, all the things that actually matter that are heavily influenced with how much money you earn, the wage gap evaporates.
Matter of fact, women actually earn more than men when you actually account for apples versus apples and not apples versus oranges.
The problem is that a lot of people will sit there and say, oh, well, women earn 80 cents on every dollar that a man makes.
Yeah, that's because men take less vacation time, they work more hours, etc.
They're more dedicated.
They're more dedicated.
That's why.
And man doctor is going to be the head doctor because he will devote more hours to his job instead of going and having babies and like raising cheese.
See, that's what I'm saying.
Now y'all see what he was saying the first time.
And all the time as well.
They just deserve it more.
So y'all see what he was saying the first time though when he say y'all have a choice.
I was not arguing with him.
Y'all don't, now y'all hearing what y'all saying right now, that's going back on him saying that females have more of a choice than a man do.
As of what y'all saying.
No, I believe women are pushed into it.
I'm not saying that.
I'm against that argument.
Right now, if a female lose a job right now and don't have shit, you can go right on the back page and do what you gotta do and make some money.
A nigga cannot go and sell dick.
I think you cannot go out and sell dick like So look look I just systematically debunked the argument about women earning earning less than men The reason why women earn less is because...
We're lazy.
You said that's not numbers?
Yeah, because you're not giving me an exact statistic.
You're saying this whole thing.
Google it!
Google it right now.
Look up some exact statistics because I know for a fact...
Speaking of Google, there's a study that Google did and they found out...
Everything on there is not factual at all.
Guess who made more?
Who?
In company.
What company?
Yeah, because it's Google.
You just asked for stats and facts.
What I'm saying is because it's Google, that's a company that's already built their foundation on things like sustainability and people rights.
What do you mean it doesn't matter?
You missed the whole concept here that the reason why men earn more than women in a lot of the scenarios is because of the factors I just mentioned.
Because they're men.
No, because they're better at that job.
That's why.
Yes, because they're better at that job.
It's the whole Adam and Eve thing.
They're men.
No, no.
I mean, it's just a fact.
I'm not saying that there's anything.
Did you literally miss the part where I said hours work, types of jobs work, men work more dangerous jobs, men work more hours, men take less vacation time, men are more likely to do overtime.
But I'm saying if you go position for position, if you go in a company and you go...
Position for position.
A man is going to earn more.
You know what company did that?
Literally, he just said it.
Google did it.
Google, that's Google.
Yes, but that's Google.
That's Google.
It's one of the best companies, no successful companies.
Bruh, bruh, look, look.
You gotta get your head out your ass for two seconds and analyze the facts.
That's Google.
That's Google.
Here's the thing.
That's an example.
Oh my God.
That's like asking Tesla.
Be quiet for two seconds.
Everybody be quiet for two seconds.
Literally, it proves the point.
Because you made the argument earlier, if they work the same position, the woman still earns less.
But then we took an example where they're both same position, same job, and guess who gets paid more?
The women actually earn more.
So what I'm trying to say is that if you're going to go ahead and make this argument that women earn less, then we need to go ahead and compare apples to apples.
The reality is women don't work infrastructure jobs that pay a lot.
They don't want to be...
Alaskan fishermen.
They don't want to be plumbers.
They don't want to be electricians.
They don't want to be power linemen.
They want to do jobs where it's nice and comfortable in an air-conditioned room.
Well, guess what?
You're not going to get paid as much as someone that risks their life.
And here's another thing, too, that women love to say.
Oh, well, men are controlling all the money and all the success.
Hold on, hold on.
That's what you were saying before.
You're making a complaint that they're on all the boards.
That's what you were saying before.
No, no, I'm not saying that they're...
I'm not...
Okay.
That's quite literally what you just said a second ago.
Okay, I understand that a man doesn't walk into a room and says, oh, I'm a man.
Give me the higher position.
Give me more money.
I understand that.
But there's something already in this whole double standard.
There's something innately in our way of thinking that naturally we assume.
Just like you said, men are better.
That is the double standard.
Men are better.
No, they're better and women still get the positions.
That's my point.
That's personal experience.
If you couldn't get to that executive position, it doesn't mean that if any woman went to your position, wouldn't get to that position either.
It's not personal experience.
If it comes from you, it's called personal experience.
It's not personal experience.
What I'm explaining, it's not just like an American thing, it's an international thing.
And the first time I really noticed is when I was in school for international business.
So this is something...
Okay, and for example, we were discussing, and that's not the reason.
Men, inherently, okay, for example, let's talk about international business.
Let's say there's a company like Shell, right?
Shell has a contract that they're working on in Dubai.
Who are they going to send?
It doesn't matter if a woman is the best negotiator on the team.
They're not going to send her in that situation.
The assumption is that the man is always going to have control over the situation.
Because you want to know why?
Because on the board of directors, it's going to be majority of men.
Stop, stop, stop.
This literally was just what I said a second ago.
You went into a long-winded explanation as to men being on the board of directors and how women can't move up because men are on the board of directors, correct?
Because it's a system.
Cool.
Alright, so this very system that you're complaining about.
I'm not complaining.
I don't have an issue with it.
You're making the argument that there's this glass ceiling, which is a feminist talking point.
I'm modeling, I'm doing YouTube videos.
I took the easy path.
Yeah, you did take the easy path.
Because you're a female.
That's my point.
You literally just admitted in your own argument.
You took the easy side because you're a woman.
But there's men on this path also.
No, there are not men on this panel.
Yes, there is!
You're not that man.
You're not that man.
What you're talking about?
What, in my world?
In my world?
How many?
That's the problem.
You live in your world.
Guys, we're going to cut the cast club.
Hold on, hold on.
Be quiet for a few seconds.
Be quiet, sir.
Guys, we're going to cut the Cals Club.
Come on over to Cals Club so we can talk about this.
Okay, you just made the argument just a second ago that there's a male board of directors, you'd use the typical talking points that feminists do, glass ceiling, I can't move up, etc.
I'm not a feminist.
You're making feminist talking points.
It's fine.
I'm just saying in the back.
You might as well be feminist.
You're making a lot of talking points that feminists give all the time.
Glass ceiling, etc.
Men control everything.
That's fine.
Here's the problem, right?
Women tend to look at, oh, I'm being held back by my success, et cetera, because the man controls everything.
But okay, let's talk about the bottom.
Who is most in poverty?
Who are most the people that have mental aid problems?
Who are the people that are homeless, et cetera?
It's all men.
Because here's the thing with women, right?
You guys tend to look and be like, the man's holding me down, male board of directors, blah, blah, blah.
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