June 11, 2024 - Fresh & Fit
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| Thank you. | |
| What's up, guys? | |
| Welcome to Fresh A Podcast. | |
| After our additional join with Five Loving Ladies, let's get into it. | |
| Let's go. | |
| What's your name? | |
| How many cares, bro? | |
| Get out. | |
| Get out. | |
| It's the night, kinda pattern. | |
| In the night, no control. | |
| F*** out. | |
| Put your shoes on outside. | |
| You don't got to put them on in here. | |
| All right, what's up, guys? | |
| Welcome to Fresh Fit Podcast. | |
| After our edition, we're joined with five lovely ladies in the house. | |
| Quick announcement against the show, guys. | |
| Rumble.com slash Fresh Fit. | |
| As you guys know, that is the home base for us. | |
| If we ever get canceled, we know exactly where to find us. | |
| Rumble.com slash Fresh Fit. | |
| Also, CalsClub.tv. | |
| We just got off an awesome Zoom call with Paul and JJ. We talked about how to make money with ATMs, whether it's the cash ATM, Bitcoin ATMs, and we also talked about starting up your business, man. | |
| As far as merchant services, you can go ahead and go direct to mom and pop shops. | |
| We had a whole discussion on that, man, and how to make passive income doing that. | |
| As you guys know, I have my own Bitcoin ATM. It makes me money. | |
| It's up here somewhere. | |
| Broward County or something like that. | |
| I forget where I have it, but they handled a lot of that crap for me, guys. | |
| So it's over there. | |
| It's on cowsclub.tv, man. | |
| We're going to be hosting more Zoom calls like that. | |
| We've got a bunch of special guests this week. | |
| We've got Suleiman coming on Wednesday. | |
| We're going to be talking about October 7th. | |
| And then Friday, we've got Milo Yiannopoulos, and we've got Mark Lobliner coming to the house. | |
| We're going to talk to you guys about... | |
| Politics, fitness, getting in shape, feminism, we're going to have a debate with that. | |
| So it's going to be a good time, guys. | |
| And also, Zoom call, we're giving away two businesses with Paul and Juan. | |
| It's going to be ATM business and then Merchant Services business. | |
| And it's going to be free. | |
| So if you're in Castle Club and you want to apply for that, go type into that link. | |
| It's up right now. | |
| And Castle Club, we love you guys, man. | |
| Yeah, it's all over there on Castle Club for y'all. | |
| So go ahead and get in there. | |
| And then anything else? | |
| Chris, go ahead. | |
| I see you niggas on the channel. | |
| El Pano, El Pano. | |
| You may be right. | |
| But that being said, ladies, DM me there. | |
| I see Poxon on IG. Make sure you send me a DM if you want to come onto the show. | |
| I've been seeing more and more DMs late recently, girls flying into Miami, etc. | |
| But at the end of the day, if you're not in Miami this week or next week, don't DM me too late. | |
| Have one girl DM me, hey, I'm coming to Miami in August. | |
| I'm like, bitch, hit me up then. | |
| All right? | |
| So, with that being said, have a great panel. | |
| And, yeah, we do live. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Speaking of which, I don't think we're going to have After Hours on Wednesday because just the topic that's going to be covered, it's going to be a longer podcast because we're going to need at least two to three hours to cover that. | |
| Obviously, we're going to talk about October 7th, what really went down. | |
| We're going to go over the mainstream narrative, then we're going to go over what really happened. | |
| Suleiman, it's going to be controversial. | |
| It's probably going to have to be on Rumble, but we're probably not going to have an After Hours on Wednesday. | |
| However, we will be giving you guys a three-peat. | |
| On Friday, we're going to have Mark Lobliner, then we're going to have Miley Annapolis, then we're going to have the girls. | |
| So you guys are going to get three shows, and then tomorrow we're going to be in Sarasota. | |
| With Russell Brand. | |
| We're going to be doing an interview with Russell Brand, so shout out to him. | |
| And then I think we might do something for our pod, too. | |
| I don't know. | |
| We'll see how much time we have, but yeah, we're going up there. | |
| We'll do his official first in NCAA bars. | |
| Yeah, because I think he's on live stream, right? | |
| Yeah. | |
| He is? | |
| Yeah. | |
| So yeah, I'll see you tomorrow on Russell Brand, so shout out to him. | |
| And I guess... | |
| What don't further do? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh, Yacht Party. | |
| June 28th? | |
| Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. | |
| We got Yacht Party. | |
| June 28th, guys. | |
| We're still figuring out if we're going to open it up to the public, whatever, or just Castle Club members. | |
| But don't worry, Castle Club, guys, if we do open it up to the public, y'all will get a discount. | |
| And you get it first. | |
| And you'll get first access. | |
| So June 28th, guys, it's going to be us, and then... | |
| We're debating whether we want to bring celebrities or influencers. | |
| I don't know. | |
| You guys know how I feel about rappers. | |
| I don't like them. | |
| Let the chat decide. | |
| Maybe they could decide. | |
| Castle Club members. | |
| Yeah, we could. | |
| Do you want, for example, streamers like Sneeko, I don't know, people that we know, Rolo, Rampage Jackson, people like that? | |
| Or do you want famous celebrities like LaGrosse, something like that? | |
| Yeah, let us know. | |
| Or Sexy Red or these rappers. | |
| There you go. | |
| I mean, y'all know where I stand with that shit. | |
| They're all degenerative losers, but that's my take on it. | |
| But you guys go ahead and let us know what you guys want in the chat. | |
| But without further ado, let's introduce the girls. | |
| Ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course. | |
| Your body count. | |
| And we'll start right here. | |
| Let me do the show. | |
| My name is Amber. | |
| I'm 25. | |
| And what I do, I ain't gonna disclose that I might get, you know. | |
| And I am in a relationship. | |
| Nice. | |
| How long has it been and how'd you guys meet? | |
| A year, and I'd say about seven months now. | |
| And Instagram. | |
| Instagram. | |
| I'm telling you guys Instagram. | |
| It's a new DM. You never know. | |
| Where are you from? | |
| Belle Glade, Muck City, Florida. | |
| Middle of nowhere! | |
| It's nowhere, but very treacherous. | |
| Y'all gonna know about us. | |
| Middle of nowhere, man. | |
| For sure. | |
| Are your parents still together? | |
| Huh? | |
| Are your parents still together? | |
| Nah. | |
| Nah. | |
| What happened? | |
| Oh, we're fixing the camera angle? | |
| Kind of zoomed in, but yeah. | |
| I thought it would be better given the situation. | |
| Are you on birth control or no? | |
| No, I don't believe in that. | |
| That's bad. | |
| Yeah, I have two. | |
| Girl and a boy. | |
| Okay, okay. | |
| And you said you've been with your guy for a year and seven months? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Wait, he's not a father, right? | |
| Nah. | |
| He's cool with taking care of two kids? | |
| Yeah. | |
| He's an awesome stepdaddy. | |
| He called himself that. | |
| Period. | |
| He didn't put that label on there. | |
| He did. | |
| That nigga stepped up. | |
| He stepped up. | |
| He did. | |
| He a real one. | |
| Salute. | |
| He need to step down. | |
| You said you can't say what you do for? | |
| Nah, I'm gonna keep that disclosed. | |
| She be outside. | |
| Nah. | |
| Is it legal? | |
| I'm back outside. | |
| I mean, to me, it's not bad. | |
| It's not bad to me. | |
| It ain't no crazy off the wall shit, but yeah. | |
| I can get in trouble for it, for sure. | |
| She get her money. | |
| Yeah, I'm getting my money. | |
| She get her money. | |
| It don't matter how I'm getting it, but I'm getting it. | |
| That's all that matters. | |
| I'm taking care of what I gotta do. | |
| See, that's it. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Get her how you live. | |
| I don't care what you gotta do. | |
| Yeah, pool. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I'm next to a criminal. | |
| I'm not going to be convicted. | |
| The chat's going to find out right now. | |
| They're going to find out. | |
| Yeah, they're going to go. | |
| That's okay. | |
| Let's see what happens. | |
| I'm going to ask her. | |
| You're right. | |
| Wow, baby! | |
| She's saying, wow! | |
| Alright, who's up next? | |
| What about you? | |
| My name is Wendy. | |
| Wendy? | |
| Yes, Wendy. | |
| I guess Wendy outside. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm from the Bronx. | |
| I just moved out here. | |
| New York? | |
| New York, New York. | |
| Big Bronx, okay. | |
| How old are you? | |
| I'm 21. | |
| Alright, what do you do for work? | |
| Right now, I'm fully a single mom. | |
| As of right now, I just moved to Miami. | |
| I'm figuring shit out, and I model on the side. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| What made you want to go to Miami? | |
| All my family was out here. | |
| I was like the last one in the Bronx, and I was like, fuck it. | |
| I always wanted to move to Florida, so it's hot, no snow, no wind, no coldness. | |
| It's hot all the time. | |
| All I got to worry about is the thunderstorms and the rain. | |
| I'll be fine with that. | |
| Hey, I live in a new town that was built three years ago, so ain't no flood over there. | |
| There's only man-made lakes and shit, though. | |
| I'm good on that side. | |
| So, unemployed, and you do some modeling on the side. | |
| How is education level completed? | |
| High school. | |
| Okay. | |
| Oh, what about you? | |
| High school too? | |
| Yeah, high school. | |
| Okay. | |
| Relationship status for you? | |
| I am single. | |
| Wait, what happened to the daddy? | |
| Shit just don't happen. | |
| Hey, if it's meant to be in the future, what's for you is for you, and right now it ain't for me. | |
| That's right, girl. | |
| Manifest. | |
| Manifest is crazy, but if it's a good stepdaddy like her. | |
| Yeah, maybe, but like my brother. | |
| Okay. | |
| Are your parents still together? | |
| Hell no. | |
| Okay. | |
| Birth control for you? | |
| I actually am on birth control. | |
| She said, no more, nigga. | |
| I might be one and done, okay? | |
| What's your race? | |
| Are you Puerto Rican? | |
| I'm Dominican, actually. | |
| And then you're full black? | |
| No, I'm black and white. | |
| Okay. | |
| Your mom is white? | |
| No, my dad. | |
| What? | |
| Oh! | |
| Yeah, my dad's like, full white. | |
| And from Belgrade. | |
| She like that vanilla. | |
| The mom, the mom like that vanilla. | |
| That squirrel, nigga. | |
| Yeah. | |
| The daughter, the daughter like that dirt shit. | |
| So, like, do you live, you said you met, like, did you move in with relatives or something when you moved down here? | |
| Say that again? | |
| Did you move in with relatives? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I moved down. | |
| It wasn't planned moving down here. | |
| It was just a spur of the moment. | |
| But hey, I'm going to be having my own shit soon. | |
| What about you? | |
| What's up? | |
| My name is KMG. I'm sorry? | |
| My name is KMG. KMG. Yes. | |
| Everybody just call me K if you want to keep it short and sweet. | |
| I model. | |
| I rap. | |
| I sing. | |
| I do reality TV. How can I hold you? | |
| I'm 27. | |
| Okay, and where are you from? | |
| I'm from Palm Beach. | |
| Okay, Palm Beach in the house. | |
| And then you say you do modeling, singing, what else? | |
| And I rap. | |
| I do reality TV. I'm a background dancer for Zoe Brinks on Love& Hip Hop. | |
| I'm just a jack of all trades. | |
| Whatever for the bag. | |
| And I got one kid. | |
| That's it. | |
| And yeah, I'm trying to chill out. | |
| So I'm on probation right now. | |
| It's a single mom panel. | |
| Trying to chill out. | |
| Highest education completed for you? | |
| High school. | |
| Okay. | |
| Relationship status? | |
| Single. | |
| Are your parents still together? | |
| Nope. | |
| Okay. | |
| Birth control for you? | |
| Nope. | |
| Okay. | |
| And what's your racial background? | |
| Black. | |
| Okay. | |
| Black liberty, sweet of juice. | |
| Okay. | |
| Say it again. | |
| Wait, hold on, Marne. | |
| What? | |
| Spit it bar? | |
| KMG, Kim, whatever your name is. | |
| Why are they putting you on the spot? | |
| Oh, that's not mine. | |
| I don't care. | |
| That's it. | |
| Yeah. | |
| For the people in the chat, just in case y'all want to talk shit. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Watch me pull up in the range. | |
| Yeah, I'll do my own thing. | |
| Bitch, I'm a monster. | |
| Party, animal, birth, swan, so sad past you don't really want. | |
| This King Kong, I'm a conker, ape shit. | |
| I'ma stomp you, thump my chest. | |
| Bitch, I'm on you, make you step your game up. | |
| Trans said I want no sponsor, own that hot shit like a sauna. | |
| Put the shit up, I'll put you on the fuck a hot girl summer. | |
| Always dressed in black, know for a fact. | |
| I'm the pretty bitch that hurt a strap. | |
| Cause my brothers know I get you whacked. | |
| You never too far, so watch your back. | |
| Come on for your hoes with a dispatch. | |
| Y'all only come for me on the internet. | |
| Watch the bitch switch it up, put a dress with a tech, never does spit. | |
| Cam G, that's so net. | |
| Yeah, I'm my side, bitch, yeah. | |
| I'm my side, I side. | |
| Bitch, I'm with the shits. | |
| We gon' pull up and slide. | |
| Yeah, I'm my side, I side. | |
| Bitches talking crazy, they gonna wind up dead flies, Big K. What the fuck they thought was going on? | |
| Short and sweet. | |
| Big K in the house? | |
| Big K, I gotta know Big K. You ever been to jail? | |
| I have, multiple times. | |
| I'm on probation right now. | |
| I just said that. | |
| That song is crazy, bro. | |
| She just took me to check into my piano today. | |
| What the heck? | |
| Myra, I believe her. | |
| That song is crazy, man. | |
| Myra, I believe her. | |
| You guys, after this, I'm staying out of trouble. | |
| I promise y'all. | |
| Okay, good. | |
| Court fees. | |
| Stop the cap. | |
| What'd you get arrested for before? | |
| I mean, it's all probably public, right? | |
| It is. | |
| Yeah, so what'd you get arrested for before? | |
| Domestic, Stolos, a lot of other stuff. | |
| Wait, you said what? | |
| Stolos? | |
| Yeah, in the past, in the past. | |
| Okay. | |
| But 18, adult life, you know, a lot of fights. | |
| A lot of people start stuff with me and I finish and then they call trolls. | |
| So, you know, how that go. | |
| It's really bad. | |
| Okay. | |
| Do you have any open cases or are they all closed now? | |
| This is the open case. | |
| Well, if you're on probation, that means that you're... | |
| Now I am. | |
| Yeah, so the case is done then. | |
| Yeah, now. | |
| So it got adjudicated. | |
| What are you on probation for? | |
| Oh... | |
| Okay, so look. | |
| They're going to find out in the chat. | |
| I'm going to open a book, so I really don't care. | |
| And at the end of the day, it was really for my peoples. | |
| It was some girl. | |
| You know how females are. | |
| They petty. | |
| My sister broke up with her baby daddy type shit. | |
| She left them and his little side bitch knocked on the door and was like, oh, I'm fucking your nigga. | |
| My sister's like, I don't care. | |
| I left them type shit. | |
| And I guess the girl didn't have the... | |
| I guess she didn't get the reaction she wanted, so she just stole my sister and her shit. | |
| I ain't even gonna lie. | |
| She just rocked my sister. | |
| And then my sister beat the girl up. | |
| The girl mama saw her daughter getting beat, so the girl mama jumped in. | |
| Then I came in, fucked them up, bashed some windows, bashed some cars, you know, called Troll. | |
| Damn. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I called out the punk-ass brother, too. | |
| He didn't want to do nothing. | |
| Nothing, nothing, nothing. | |
| All right. | |
| So, okay, so you beat her and her mama up. | |
| I had weapons. | |
| Okay. | |
| That's what they called Troll for. | |
| - Oh! - You pulled it up for me! - Oh! - I told you that you pulled it up for me! - I was hot, that's an old one. | |
| Oh, see? | |
| Nope, that's old. | |
| Maybe I got history, baby. | |
| Look up the new one. | |
| She said, look up the new one. | |
| Because the new one, my eyebrows done and everything, lashes and everything. | |
| Old one. | |
| No. | |
| You want me to show you? | |
| Because I got it on my phone. | |
| You want me to show you? | |
| I got too many. | |
| I got too many. | |
| I've been going to jail since 14, y'all. | |
| I got too many. | |
| We got two. | |
| And I'm high in every last one of them. | |
| Wow. | |
| And by the way, that came from the chat. | |
| They're the ones that found this right away. | |
| Hey, well, find the recent one. | |
| The most recent one is 2024, y'all. | |
| 2024? | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I'm not gonna lie. | |
| Show her for the FBI. These guys in the chat, they know everything. | |
| Clearly, they're not that good. | |
| Y'all found a recent one because I was supposed to get a year and a day. | |
| I had to pay my lawyer. | |
| That's how I got probation for six months, y'all. | |
| So please leave me the fuck alone for six months. | |
| Oh, so she's a convicted felon, too. | |
| Great. | |
| No, I'm not a felon. | |
| You said a year and a day. | |
| No, they were going to give me a year and a day, and I paid my lawyer, and they dropped that bit. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| I'll never be a felon, okay? | |
| This is a first-degree misdemeanor, okay? | |
| I'm not a felon. | |
| I'll never be. | |
| Did you get convicted of domestic violence or no? | |
| Yes, I did. | |
| You did? | |
| No, so you still can't get a gun, then? | |
| I can't get a gun, baby. | |
| No, you can't. | |
| No, you can't. | |
| It's something called a Weinberg act. | |
| If you're convicted of a crime of domestic violence, you can't get a gun. | |
| Wait, you beat niggas too? | |
| Oh? | |
| Look, see, I didn't say all that. | |
| Look, I defend myself. | |
| That is it, okay? | |
| It ain't my fault. | |
| God bless me. | |
| God bless me with hands, okay? | |
| You're a defender. | |
| That's it. | |
| I don't start shit, though. | |
| I don't play that shit, because if a girl hit my brother first, I'm going to knock their ass out. | |
| Is that it? | |
| The picture that you're talking about? | |
| That's not the one. | |
| I keep telling y'all, that's not the reason. | |
| I got multiple, y'all not gonna catch it. | |
| Y'all gonna have to go all the way back. | |
| How many you got though? | |
| I jumped off the porch at 14. | |
| How many times? | |
| I can't count. | |
| She can't count. | |
| She been going since she was 14. | |
| I can't count. | |
| Did someone check on her way in? | |
| I'm serious. | |
| Yeah, all right. | |
| All right, well, anyway. | |
| Next person, because I'm a good person. | |
| I'm tired of this. | |
| You're a turn. | |
| You're a turn. | |
| All right. | |
| So she can vote, but she just can't get a gun. | |
| All right, that's fair enough. | |
| Who do you vote for, Trump or Biden? | |
| Nobody. | |
| You're not voting for anybody? | |
| I don't like neither one of them niggas. | |
| Okay. | |
| Fuck it. | |
| Well, Trump went to jail, too. | |
| The only thing I fuck with Trump is... | |
| The only thing I fuck with Trump is... | |
| Well, not jail, but he's a felon, too. | |
| He got arrested. | |
| Oh, I'm not going to be a felon, y'all. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| I'm too good for that. | |
| I beat all my cases. | |
| And if I can't, I'm going to pay. | |
| I get my money up, okay? | |
| I don't have a public defender. | |
| 24 charges? | |
| Federal charges. | |
| 34. | |
| Well, whatever he did, free him. | |
| Free him. | |
| I fought with Trump. | |
| I fought with him because he gave that money. | |
| But I fought with Trump, I ain't gonna lie. | |
| I'm gonna tell you, now he got a black vote, for sure. | |
| Yeah, he got my vote. | |
| If I vote, I'm gonna vote for Trump. | |
| Yeah, I ain't see Shuff G at the Barnes New York parade. | |
| And when he was doing stuff, he was doing stuff for the people. | |
| Biden stuff, Biden said, I ain't all into politics, and I ain't gonna lie. | |
| But Biden stuff he was saying, he didn't really do. | |
| But, you know, just... | |
| I'm still waiting on that student loan forgiveness. | |
| I fought with Trump. | |
| The man bought the damn die. | |
| Y'all expect him to be a bitch. | |
| They didn't want to elect Bernie Sanders because they said he was too old. | |
| Y'all thought because we had a somewhat black female behind him, y'all thought she was going to get shit done. | |
| She ain't doing shit. | |
| They didn't elect Bernie Sanders because they said he was too old, but they going to elect Biden? | |
| Exactly. | |
| Anyways, like I said... | |
| Biden touched kids anyway, so let's... | |
| I don't care. | |
| Biden touched kids anyway. | |
| They all nasty. | |
| Everybody got skeletons in their closets, so I don't mind my business. | |
| No Diddy. | |
| What about you? | |
| What's your name? | |
| My name is America. | |
| America. | |
| America. | |
| America? | |
| Like the continent, yes. | |
| But you say America. | |
| America. | |
| America. | |
| Because my first language is Spanish. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So that's... | |
| Alright. | |
| How old are you? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I'm 32. | |
| You look good. | |
| You could have fooled me. | |
| I thought you was like 22. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Where are you from? | |
| Thank you, Mom. | |
| I'm from Guatemala. | |
| Yes. | |
| You were born there? | |
| Yes. | |
| When did you come to the States? | |
| Oh, I don't leave here. | |
| Oh, you live in Guatemala? | |
| I live in Guatemala. | |
| So you flew out of here? | |
| Yeah, I'm just... | |
| Visiting? | |
| Visiting, yeah. | |
| She belongs to the streets. | |
| So are you here on a B1B2 visa? | |
| Tourist visa. | |
| Is that one? | |
| Yeah, that's B1B2. So how long is that for? | |
| I'm leaving on the 20th. | |
| Okay, so how long were you here? | |
| For three weeks. | |
| Do you like it? | |
| Yeah, I like it. | |
| I like Miami. | |
| I like the beaches. | |
| Is this the first place you visited since you came to America? | |
| No, no, no. | |
| So where have you been? | |
| I've been in Washington. | |
| Like, I know some places in the U.S. Okay, she's been in America. | |
| Yeah, I've been in America before, yeah. | |
| Alright, what do you do for work? | |
| I'm a content creator and I work in marketing. | |
| Okay, when you say content creator, what kind of content do you make specifically? | |
| On Instagram, like... | |
| Like photos, videos. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Everyone does photos and videos, but what do you do specifically? | |
| Beauty, beauty blogger. | |
| Bikini pics? | |
| Okay, so she blogs. | |
| Yeah, she blogs. | |
| I like cosmetics and stuff? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay, so you do beauty vlogs? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like you do makeup tests and stuff like that? | |
| Yeah, makeup, clothes, things like that. | |
| You're on IG and what other platform? | |
| Yeah. | |
| IG. I'm starting YouTube too, but I kind of... | |
| What did you call it? | |
| Never mind, never mind. | |
| Don't repeat it. | |
| Please don't. | |
| Thank you. | |
| No, please don't. | |
| She said YouTube, but in a very... | |
| No, no, no. | |
| Spanish. | |
| With the accent. | |
| Oh, YouTube. | |
| I'm so sorry. | |
| My English is really bad today. | |
| It's fine, it's fine. | |
| Okay, relationship status for you? | |
| I'm taken. | |
| Okay, how long have I been together? | |
| For a while, we met at work. | |
| What's the law? | |
| Here or? | |
| No, in Guatemala. | |
| What's the law? | |
| Um, some months. | |
| Some months? | |
| Is it longer than what I've been? | |
| Wait a minute. | |
| Hold on, hold on, hold on. | |
| Like eight, nine months. | |
| That's a while? | |
| What's your longest relationship? | |
| Oh my god, I don't want to talk about that. | |
| Because if eight, nine months is a while. | |
| My longest relationship is seven years. | |
| Okay, me too. | |
| You got it. | |
| She's kind of older. | |
| Alright, what does this guy do for a living? | |
| Is he also on the internet or what does he do in Guatemala? | |
| Well... | |
| Is he in Guatemala? | |
| Yes, I don't... | |
| Yeah. | |
| You don't want to say what he does? | |
| No, I don't want to talk about that. | |
| That's just close. | |
| I know. | |
| Oh my God. | |
| FBI, open up! | |
| What does your parents do together? | |
| Yeah. | |
| No, thank God. | |
| Thank God? | |
| Yeah. | |
| What happened? | |
| Birth control for you? | |
| No. | |
| Do you have any kids? | |
| I have two cats. | |
| Shout out to Biscuit and Zimba. | |
| I love them. | |
| Y'all all trust in God? | |
| Who said it'd be letting anybody night in them? | |
| Accidents happen. | |
| Hold on, guys. | |
| Let's let her finish. | |
| Okay, and then highest level of education? | |
| I'm about to finish my master's degree in digital marketing. | |
| Oh wow, congratulations! | |
| Is that back in Guatemala? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay, so it don't count. | |
| So you have a bachelor's degree in Guatemala? | |
| Yes. | |
| In what? | |
| Legal translation. | |
| Oh, wow. | |
| That's nice. | |
| Legal translation? | |
| Yes. | |
| You know, for people who need legal aid but can't speak English? | |
| Yes, and you have to translate. | |
| But she's in a Spanish-speaking country, so it's the other way around. | |
| It's both ways. | |
| No, but I'm saying you translate for people that don't speak Spanish? | |
| No, no, no. | |
| For example, someone wants to, I don't know, do something in the States and they don't know how to translate the paperwork to English because it has to be in English. | |
| So I have to translate it for them. | |
| You are a company that officially transcribes documents. | |
| Yes. | |
| Yeah, but I don't work for that right now. | |
| That's what you got your degree in. | |
| You got your degree in officially transcribing documents. | |
| Yes. | |
| What about you? | |
| What's your name? | |
| Hey, y'all! | |
| My name is Abernique, but I go by Unique. | |
| Abernique? | |
| Yes. | |
| That's a unique name. | |
| Who left? | |
| That's her own name. | |
| She said she go by Unique. | |
| How old are you? | |
| I am 23, no kids. | |
| I am in a very much committed relationship. | |
| I'm engaged. | |
| Where are you from? | |
| Originally from the Bahamas. | |
| I came here when I was a kid. | |
| Where'd you grow up, like in Miami? | |
| Yeah, I grew up in Miami, Miami Gardens, Cal City area. | |
| Miami Gardens, Cal City? | |
| What do you do for work? | |
| I mean, I heard Miami Gardens got some good parts to it. | |
| I'm a model. | |
| Maybe now. | |
| I have my own business. | |
| I sell clothes. | |
| Yes. | |
| Very much LLC, not a hustle, you know. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Okay. | |
| Highest education level completed for you? | |
| College. | |
| You have a bachelor's? | |
| I have my associates and nurses, and I'm planning on going back to school for my LPN. Wait, nurse? | |
| Okay. | |
| And then your relationship status, you said you're engaged. | |
| How long have you been engaged for? | |
| Four months now. | |
| How'd you guys meet? | |
| We were high school friends slash crushes. | |
| Oh, so he gave him a chance. | |
| And then he crushed you? | |
| No, not yet. | |
| How long have you guys been together? | |
| So four months to engagement, how long were you together prior to that? | |
| Oh, two years. | |
| Okay, so you guys got together at 21? | |
| Yeah. | |
| But you guys said you were a high school sweetheart, so there was a gap? | |
| Yeah, he went to the military. | |
| Okay. | |
| So he came back. | |
| He went off to the military and came back. | |
| He's still in the military. | |
| He's still in. | |
| Oh, so you fucking... | |
| Oh. | |
| Wait a minute. | |
| He's saying like you're having sex with other people. | |
| He's trying to say when the guys in the military are gone, y'all deal with other people. | |
| Oh no, my man fly me out every time. | |
| Why the fuck you lying? | |
| Where's he stationed? | |
| Texas, San Antonio? | |
| Cali. | |
| Okay, okay. | |
| San Diego? | |
| Yeah. | |
| He's a Marine? | |
| Yes. | |
| Dang, he know a lot. | |
| He Just picking apart your little... | |
| Are your parents still together? | |
| Interrogation. | |
| No, they not. | |
| Okay. | |
| What's control for you? | |
| In God we trust. | |
| I don't have no kids. | |
| I done made it to 23 no kids. | |
| That's not very far, by the way. | |
| Why y'all keep trusting in God? | |
| So you guys went to high school together and then he went enlisted in the military right away. | |
| Yeah, right after high school. | |
| Okay, and then you guys, I guess, kind of got together three years after the fact. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And then you've been together for two years, you said? | |
| Kind of? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay, and engaged for four? | |
| Yes. | |
| All right, cool. | |
| All right, body count. | |
| Mind your business, but it's under 10, under 7. | |
| What? | |
| Yes. | |
| Under 7. | |
| You said under 7, but under 10? | |
| It's under 10, under 7. | |
| My shoe is fucking. | |
| That's fucking to y'all? | |
| Yeah, man. | |
| 7, buddy? | |
| That's fucking to y'all! | |
| Wait a minute, at 23, that's fucking to y'all? | |
| She's been with a man, and within that time gap, she's been fucking six other guys, some other guys. | |
| And she's 23. | |
| Some guys are virgins at 30. | |
| But... | |
| Wait, so what's a lot of bodies to you? | |
| A lot of bodies to me. | |
| For a woman or for a man? | |
| For a woman. | |
| For a woman? | |
| I mean, honestly, I've been keep... | |
| Pass your fingers. | |
| I feel like a... | |
| If you gotta keep a list in your notes, then you know you got a little too much. | |
| If you can't remember off the dome, then you got a little too much. | |
| That's more than a look. | |
| That's more than a look. | |
| You gotta keep track. | |
| On a phone, that means you can't rant on me. | |
| You know how many girls I met? | |
| Girls, one mic at a time, please. | |
| It's not a fucking BET. I don't know. | |
| Because I'm not a sexual person, so I would, like, I don't know. | |
| I feel like that's... | |
| We'll go one by one to make this simple. | |
| How much is too many bodies for you? | |
| For women? | |
| For women? | |
| Yeah, I'd say a few past your fingers. | |
| Even a little... | |
| So 11 and above? | |
| 10 and above. | |
| Shit. | |
| For you? | |
| I mean, I honestly feel like it also depends on the age. | |
| If you're under... | |
| I'll say 25. | |
| If you counted more than your fingers, like... | |
| But at the same time, it's like if you clean... | |
| So if you're 25 and below, 10 and above is too much for you. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| 10, too much. | |
| 10 is too much? | |
| Yeah, for a girl. | |
| At any age? | |
| Yeah, it don't matter, yeah. | |
| Okay, all right. | |
| What about you? | |
| Yeah. | |
| 10 is too much? | |
| Yeah, 10 is too much. | |
| All right, and then you... | |
| Okay, well, you said you're under... | |
| You think 10 is too much as well? | |
| I mean, you know... | |
| For a girl, he's saying. | |
| For a girl, you know, every girl's sex drive is different. | |
| I can't speak for them. | |
| That's true. | |
| So, you know, 10 might be a little bit for... | |
| For her, and then it's for her. | |
| Yeah, so... | |
| As long... | |
| For me, you know... | |
| I ain't getting no more in there right now. | |
| So, you know, six is enough. | |
| But think about it. | |
| As long as you clean, your vagina's clean, you ain't got no STDs, you ain't got no undetected STDs, who's to tell you that you can't have as many bodies as well? | |
| Don't forget to slip and slide, because you know you got something that dry like it does. | |
| I hate that. | |
| I hate that girls get that shit. | |
| But think about it, because men can fuck two, three, five bitches a day, and it'd be all cool, calm, and collected because they're men, right? | |
| Yeah, it's all cool, calm, and collected for them. | |
| That's cultural. | |
| That's really accepted. | |
| It's okay for them, but you got to think, as a woman, too, okay, this man doing all this with all these women, right, but he's coming home to you and sticking that shit in you. | |
| All them women, they coming on to you. | |
| That's where the STDs are coming. | |
| It's okay. | |
| You don't have sex with a lot of men. | |
| But because that man has sex with a lot of women, that's where the pH balance gets thrown off and the STDs come. | |
| No one's ever going to tell you, hey, well, I got this. | |
| It's up to you. | |
| Do you want to mess with me? | |
| But I think, honestly, the first day should be y'all going to Planned Parenthood together. | |
| I ain't even gonna hold you. | |
| I did that. | |
| I ain't gonna hold you. | |
| Like, you know. | |
| For two years, I got tested. | |
| Let's go get tested together. | |
| That's a good practice, though. | |
| I go every three months, though. | |
| Everyone's different. | |
| What happens actually, though? | |
| Huh? | |
| What happens actually? | |
| What do you mean? | |
| What happens? | |
| No one does that. | |
| All you gotta do is... | |
| You just gotta have that conversation. | |
| Like, if we all grown. | |
| But at the same time, men are not real enough to... | |
| You can't say that. | |
| You can't say men. | |
| You can't speak for all. | |
| Some men. | |
| I'm not generalizing men because I know how y'all feel about that topic. | |
| You can generalize. | |
| We don't care. | |
| Okay, so some men, let me just put it out there. | |
| Some men are not real enough to sit there and have a conversation with their woman and say, you know what, I'm fucking so-and-so and so-and-so and so-and-so. | |
| You don't even, that ain't even gotta be your man. | |
| I'ma tell you, sometimes you're right, but you'll come across that real nigga. | |
| Listen, man, this is what's going on. | |
| I'm messing with her and her, but I want to rock with you too. | |
| But guess what? | |
| How many men are you going to come across that are going to be real and tell you that's what it is? | |
| I've dealt with two. | |
| - Out of 10 men, how many of those men you think will come to you and be like, you know what, I'm not only fucking you, I'm fucking so, so, so, so, so, so. - Well, at the end of the day, as a woman, you should know what it is though. | |
| You know what's going on with a man. | |
| Speak for myself. | |
| I feel like... | |
| I grow with brothers, so I feel like when a nigga tell me straight on what it is and what it ain't, you gotta either accept it or you can walk away from it. | |
| That's it. | |
| Respect it. | |
| That's it. | |
| You can't sit here and get mad at me. | |
| How many of you can handle the truth? | |
| Listen. | |
| Listen. | |
| Honestly. | |
| Honestly. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Y'all niggas funny, man. | |
| I'm just saying, like, I can handle the truth. | |
| I'm fucking a nigga right now. | |
| No, you're not. | |
| That is a hoe. | |
| I'm being so real with you. | |
| He's the biggest hoe. | |
| I'm not even gonna lie to you. | |
| But at the end of the day... | |
| But at the end of the day, the munchaus don't mean nothing. | |
| He's still coming to fuck after I get out. | |
| After I get out, he coming to pick me up. | |
| Still getting fucked. | |
| What are you talking about? | |
| Jail don't stop nothing. | |
| What do you mean? | |
| In the jailhouse, the girls are trying to eat my pussy. | |
| So what the fuck are you talking about? | |
| Don't stop nothing. | |
| That's scary. | |
| That's what you mean. | |
| It is scary. | |
| It is scary. | |
| Yeah, it is very scary. | |
| All right. | |
| So I got a question for the ladies. | |
| What do you believe women look for in a man? | |
| It could be what you look for or it could be in general. | |
| I would say most women looking for... | |
| Yeah, we'll start here. | |
| Yeah, yeah, yeah. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| Finance, stability, quality time. | |
| You know, if they could be themselves. | |
| Like, you know, because some women... | |
| I ain't gonna lie. | |
| Hold on. | |
| So you're saying women look for what? | |
| Give me three. | |
| Finance, stability... | |
| Okay. | |
| What else? | |
| And security. | |
| Okay. | |
| Can you protect them? | |
| All right. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| Loyalty. | |
| What do you believe women look for in a man? | |
| Women looking for in a man. | |
| Okay. | |
| From a point of view, loyalty. | |
| Uh-huh. | |
| Stability, both financially and mentally. | |
| All right. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Maybe. | |
| That's fine. | |
| Loyalty and stability for you. | |
| Okay, finance. | |
| Fuck it, I'm going to say me. | |
| I like finance, respect, and I like an equally yoked partner. | |
| I could work out anything with you equally yoked. | |
| I need somebody that's on the same time as me. | |
| We're on the same page. | |
| Yeah, you feel me? | |
| I don't mind. | |
| See, I'm the type of female regardless. | |
| I'm going to pay my bills regardless. | |
| You said equally yoked. | |
| Equally yoked, yes. | |
| An equally yoked man. | |
| That means a lot. | |
| A God-fearing man, that means a man that understands compromising, a man that understands his role and my role. | |
| That's what equally yoked. | |
| It's a lot. | |
| Okay, so you want an equal partner? | |
| I guess. | |
| If you want to simplify it, yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| If I'm going to be completely honest, I feel like a lot of women always ask for honesty over loyalty because I'd rather you be honest with me about what you're doing than say you're loyal and go ahead and do this, that, and third. | |
| Loyal? | |
| Okay. | |
| What else? | |
| Honesty, not loyalty. | |
| Honesty. | |
| Oh, you said honesty, not loyalty. | |
| Yes, honesty. | |
| Okay, what else? | |
| Communication and comprehension because without comprehension, there ain't no communication. | |
| Without communication, there ain't no comprehension because I can speak a whole bunch of shit and if you're not understanding where I'm coming from, we're not communicating at all. | |
| Who hurt you? | |
| Listen, I'm only 21, but I've been through a whole bunch of shit at the end of the day. | |
| That makes me the woman who I am today and today. | |
| You've been through a lot, huh? | |
| Bye. | |
| Bye. | |
| 21, huh? | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay, what about you? | |
| What do you believe women look for in a man? | |
| Could it be yourself or... | |
| I'm gonna speak for me. | |
| Knowledge. | |
| Come on, we need knowledge now. | |
| Period. | |
| Knowledge, what else? | |
| I'll say, you know, loyalty and respect, that's the same for me. | |
| Because if you respect me, you're going to be loyal. | |
| Well, that's not. | |
| But my man, if you respect me, you're going to be loyal to me. | |
| I'm going to make it happen. | |
| That's it. | |
| You're going to make the man be loyal and respect you. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, nigga, but respect me. | |
| It's on you. | |
| No, I ain't gonna be like, yeah, nigga, respect me. | |
| No, I'm gonna respect you as a man. | |
| I'm gonna treat you like a king. | |
| I want the same thing. | |
| But if you're not, I'm on what you want. | |
| You want to be a rude ass nigga? | |
| I'm a rude ass bitch. | |
| Fuck it. | |
| So basically, what he pouring into you, you'll pour back into him. | |
| Not even, because if it's... | |
| I don't... | |
| I dealt with the toxic stuff. | |
| No, I'm not going to pour no toxic back. | |
| I'm going to get gone from you, baby. | |
| You can have that. | |
| Get gone? | |
| Yeah, I'm going to get gone. | |
| Okay, I got you. | |
| What's sexy where it's at? | |
| But yeah, and stability. | |
| I have kids, you know? | |
| I want you to make sure I'm stable and I also want to make sure you're stable. | |
| Wait, kids? | |
| Yeah, I have two. | |
| A girl and a boy. | |
| Is it the same dad? | |
| Yeah, my baby dad. | |
| Alright, now, what do you believe men look for in women? | |
| We'll start with you and then work our way backwards. | |
| So we went over what you want, now we're asking what do you think men want? | |
| Okay, men. | |
| We're talking about men, right? | |
| Not boys. | |
| Yeah, men. | |
| Okay, men. | |
| However you want to phrase it, yes. | |
| No, I'm going to speak for men then. | |
| Real men. | |
| I'm still kind of young, so I don't know. | |
| I'm not really all out there like that. | |
| From what you can tell us. | |
| I feel like a man needs a strong woman. | |
| Because even when a man breaks down, that woman's going to be there to lift you up. | |
| Women can take a lot of shit now. | |
| So he needs a strong woman. | |
| What else? | |
| Anything else or is that it? | |
| No, men need loyalty. | |
| Okay. | |
| Men need loyalty. | |
| Alright, cool. | |
| What about you? | |
| I think men need somebody, a partner. | |
| What do they look for? | |
| They look for somebody who makes them comfortable. | |
| Men don't really speak about their feelings and what they're going through and when they find that person that they're able to, hey babe, I feel so and so this type of way, this made me feel this, this made me feel that. | |
| Come for anything else? | |
| Loyalty, always. | |
| That's what men always look for. | |
| And just to be there through thick and thin, through the ups and the downs. | |
| No offense, but you were about to get into a word salad, so I was trying to save time here. | |
| What about you? | |
| I think men look for a nurturer, submissive woman, a woman who can hold down the household and also stand on 10 toes on their own and be there for their men. | |
| That's what I feel like. | |
| So independent? | |
| Okay. | |
| I won't really say that because when you say that, you know what I'm saying? | |
| So, nurture and submissive. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Dependable, I guess. | |
| Someone is dependable. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| Nurture, I was going to say that. | |
| And loyalty as well and respect. | |
| Alright. | |
| What about you? | |
| I feel like a man looks for a woman that's gonna listen. | |
| Because some women don't listen. | |
| Preach. | |
| So hold on. | |
| When you say listen. | |
| I said submissive. | |
| Do you mean listen as in, I'm listening to your problems? | |
| Or do you mean listen as in, obey him? | |
| I'm saying listen as in understand where he's coming from. | |
| Understand what he's trying to communicate to you as a whole. | |
| Respect your man. | |
| Okay, so listen and understand. | |
| Not necessarily obey. | |
| Not necessarily obey like massa. | |
| Damn. | |
| You had a glitter, huh? | |
| You had a glitter. | |
| I didn't hear one sandwich. | |
| All right. | |
| What else? | |
| What about you? | |
| What else? | |
| Anything else? | |
| Just a listener to understand. | |
| What else? | |
| Another thing I would say is... | |
| A woman that could cook, because half of you can't cook. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| I'll be real. | |
| It's her take. | |
| Someone that they could grow with. | |
| Like, you know, because some men do be having that inner child in them before they actually become that man that you want them to be. | |
| So, you know, grow with them, not try to, oh, no, you're doing this. | |
| No, like, bother, man. | |
| Grow with them. | |
| That's interesting. | |
| So you think the man wants the girl to grow with them. | |
| All right. | |
| So do you think when a guy gets with a girl, he wants her to change? | |
| I mean, in a relationship, you change. | |
| Yeah, but do you think the man wants that? | |
| That's what I'm asking you. | |
| A little bit. | |
| Not completely. | |
| Not change who you are, but like change... | |
| For him? | |
| Change to meet him in the middle that will make you a better person. | |
| A better you for him. | |
| A better version. | |
| At the end of the day, when you get... | |
| Hold on. | |
| So let me ask you this then. | |
| So you think change a little bit. | |
| What about women? | |
| When they get with a guy, do you think they want him to change? | |
| Yeah, most definitely. | |
| Women be wanting a man to change his haircut, his wardrobe. | |
| I changed his style so much. | |
| So again, can I ask that because you said grow with them. | |
| So do you think men actually want to grow to change as much as women want their man to change? | |
| I could agree, yeah. | |
| I think it depends on the person. | |
| How do you define change though? | |
| Because if you don't like him from the beginning, why would we date him? | |
| That's common sense. | |
| Don't date him if you don't like him. | |
| Why would you? | |
| Yeah, but why do you want to change them? | |
| Change is for you, not for the man. | |
| So say me and you're in a relationship, right? | |
| And you don't like my hair. | |
| I love your hair. | |
| Just saying for instance, you don't like my hair, it bothers you. | |
| And you want me to try, like, you know, some color, some short pixie, some braids. | |
| I might look bomb as hell in some braids and a pixie cut. | |
| I would never see that until I actually try it. | |
| So that's me kind of changing. | |
| Not changing who I am, but changing to see. | |
| Kind of step out the comfort zone. | |
| Open to new things. | |
| Open to new things. | |
| For instance as well. | |
| Well, when we talk about change, we don't necessarily talk about appearance or style. | |
| It might be the little mini habits that you might not see as a person that is like, damn, I shouldn't be doing that. | |
| But your person recognizes that. | |
| And it's like, you know what? | |
| I see you do this, that, and the third. | |
| You know what? | |
| Maybe you should try doing this sometimes. | |
| Or I see when you get mad, you do that. | |
| You black out and you do this in a third. | |
| It's like, let's try to walk away. | |
| It's little changes like that because at the end of the day, you got with that person to be with that person. | |
| That's who you've been along with. | |
| I'm not asking you to change who you are as a person, but at the end of the day, we all have tendencies that we know it's not healthy and it's not good for your partner. | |
| Now, I'm not asking you to change, oh, your hair is black, I need you to be blonde. | |
| Or I need you to get muscles because I need a six-pack. | |
| But it's like, hey, when you get mad and you start yelling and throwing shit, I don't like that shit. | |
| So change that about yourself and handle it different. | |
| Some things do come from trauma responses, like male and females. | |
| We carry things from, we've been with some person, somebody from high school, somebody for six months, and you know, that person changed who you naturally are. | |
| You got attached to them and you start doing things. | |
| And you just doing things out of the normal. | |
| So change doesn't happen like that. | |
| Like, you got to go back to, you know, who you was six months ago before you started acting like guerrilla and, you know. | |
| But it also takes somebody to point it out, because you might be doing something for, let's say, for instance, for me, I've been doing something for 21 years, and it ain't changed until I met this guy, and I've been with this guy for six months, and he's like, do you know you realize you do this, that, and the third? | |
| And I'm like, oh shit, that comes from my childhood traumas, or that comes from my ex that fucked me over. | |
| Oh, that's something unhealthy that I need to change. | |
| That's when change comes in. | |
| It doesn't necessarily have to be changed. | |
| You know what I'm saying? | |
| It changes when you recognize something in you as a person. | |
| And you're like, you know what? | |
| I need to change that. | |
| And I need to... | |
| You know, this isn't healthy. | |
| This isn't correct. | |
| This isn't the right way. | |
| Right. | |
| Everybody's talking about change. | |
| But when it actually happens, when a male or a female come to you, can you actually accept that real shit? | |
| Exactly. | |
| Can you actually accept it when a man be like... | |
| Hey, babe, I ain't gonna lie. | |
| I don't like how you talk. | |
| Like, cause you know, some females are used to toxic relationships. | |
| You know what I'm saying? | |
| So like when your man come to you, be real as a woman. | |
| Cause I know I have some friends who can't take real shit. | |
| They get emotional. | |
| Can y'all take that though? | |
| When a man be like, oh, I don't like that. | |
| Change this, change that. | |
| Because everybody thinks men are so harsh, but I'm going to be real. | |
| I think men are just blunt. | |
| But I also think that it also comes in the way that you say things. | |
| Because it's not what you say, it's how you say it. | |
| So therefore, if you're getting me tight and you're throwing this and that, I'm not going to be like, babe, you need to stop fucking throwing that shit. | |
| That shit gets me fucking tight. | |
| No, I'm going to sit you down and I'm going to have a conversation. | |
| I'm going to be like, you know what, babe? | |
| I noticed that when you get really mad, you be throwing shit and you be saying shit that you do not mean. | |
| And I think we should work on that as a couple, as yourself. | |
| There's different ways. | |
| It's not what you say, it's how you say it. | |
| So the way you come across as a person, because it's like, for instance, if a man is getting mad at their girl bringing up the same scenario over and over and over again because they're obviously not used to it, it's okay, let's have a conversation. | |
| Let's talk about what's wrong. | |
| Let's talk about what's bothering you and let's see what we can do to fix that instead of... | |
| Bro, you always gave me how you always bringing up this shit. | |
| It's been two years already. | |
| So you know all this information, is still single? | |
| Oh my gosh. | |
| I'm single. | |
| I'm single on purpose. | |
| I'm single by choice. | |
| Because if I wanted to, I could have a whole bunch of niggas. | |
| And I can have my baby daddy as well. | |
| Why the fuck you lying? | |
| Why you always lying? | |
| Oh my god. | |
| Stop fucking lying. | |
| We got a video to play. | |
| Let's play the video. | |
| Mo, can you give her the background on it? | |
| And we'll react to it. | |
| This is a viral video of a 31-year-old woman who is naming all of her accolades and accomplishments and still wondering, why is she single? | |
| Oh, there you go. | |
| Let's go ahead and roll the clip. | |
| I think this one came from one of the supporters, potentially. | |
| A lot of supporters, actually. | |
| You sent this one? | |
| A lot of you guys sent it. | |
| I don't have any kids. | |
| I got a credit score of 803, exact. | |
| Recently pulled. | |
| I have two paid off cards. | |
| I'm about to close on my first house this year in May. | |
| I'm not toxic at all. | |
| I got a big booty. | |
| I'm releasing an app on iOS and Android. | |
| I work hard as fuck. | |
| I'm not clingy, but I'll always make sure my partner feels appreciated. | |
| Okay, so I don't cook, but I can. | |
| I can learn. | |
| And it's not like I don't know how to cook, but I just don't cook as much as I should. | |
| I'm probably not as feminine as the average feminine female, but I wear heels. | |
| I dress up. | |
| I just feel like I have a very dominant Personality. | |
| I'm 5'8 in my head, but 5'4 on paper. | |
| I've never actually lived with a partner before. | |
| I'm just trying to figure out how am I not married with five kids running around? | |
| Like what the fudge am I doing wrong? | |
| Most people say, oh I don't give people a chance. | |
| Yes I do. | |
| I have boundaries, though. | |
| And I don't let people fuck me over, I'm gonna say more than three times, because I give chances. | |
| I even give you a second chance. | |
| But it's so easy for me to just walk the fuck out once you start playing with me. | |
| But I still don't understand how I'm still single. | |
| I'm 31. | |
| Alright, um, okay. | |
| So, uh, ladies, we'll turn it over to you guys. | |
| What do you guys think is keeping her single? | |
| Maybe she's too dominant. | |
| We'll go one by one. | |
| We can start up here. | |
| Okay, maybe, yeah, maybe she's too dominant. | |
| Sometimes a man likes a... | |
| Submissive female. | |
| Some men do like dominant females, but baby, you may be a little too dominant. | |
| Like, you're not the man in the relationship. | |
| I want to still be the man. | |
| Yeah, this and that could go on, but I'm still the man. | |
| Alright, so you think she's too dominant? | |
| Yeah, because you got everything, baby. | |
| I ain't really got to provide for you, even though I will, but you on your shit. | |
| Yeah, she was talking about some of her accolades, 803 credit score, something like that, closing on a house. | |
| She said that she had a big butt. | |
| Well, if you do, forget your butt, baby. | |
| But if you do, congratulations to you. | |
| That's what she was saying. | |
| Oh yeah, I'll get my talk at the end, but yeah. | |
| So you think she's too dominant? | |
| What do you think? | |
| Why do you think she's single? | |
| I also do agree with the dominant part. | |
| Just by the way she spoke in that video, I can tell that she's very assertive and very like, it's my way or the highway. | |
| When you're dealing with a man, it's mostly like, what I say goes, and if you don't agree with it, maybe we can talk about it, but it's still my way or the highway. | |
| So in a relationship, you can't be both It's my way, it's my way, it's my way because there's obviously going to be conflict. | |
| That's why in a relationship you have to learn when and how to be submissive to your man. | |
| When is the perfect time to be submissive to your man? | |
| You can't be dominant all the time because at the end of the day your man is going to leave you. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| You think that there's times where it's appropriate to be dominant? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Because you said when. | |
| Yeah, it is times. | |
| Such as when. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| Well, yeah, I'm asking you when. | |
| Oh, for instance, like, if you know, for instance, you live with a man, you're sharing finances with your man, whether it's 50-50 where he's taking care of all the bills, If your man is out constantly spending out money that you know you shouldn't be spending on, and you're buying $2,000 shoes, and you're going out shopping, you're going to strip clubs, at that point, that's your point to be dominant and be like, you know what, babe? | |
| This is not what we should be doing. | |
| This is our money. | |
| This is us together as a family, as a home, is what we're trying to build. | |
| This is where you need to step up. | |
| That's assuming you go 50-50 with the guy. | |
| Let's say he pays all the bills. | |
| Would you still think it's appropriate to go in and tell him how to spend his money if he took care of all the bills? | |
| His money or our money? | |
| I said, assuming he pays all the bills. | |
| But again, is it his money or our money? | |
| Interesting. | |
| That question tells you everything you need to know, right? | |
| What does that tell you? | |
| I think he said his money, though. | |
| Yeah, like if he's the breadwinner and he pays all the bills, etc. | |
| But she's putting under our money. | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| Because what if we're married and he's still paying everything in the house? | |
| Is it his money or is it our money? | |
| So you still think it's appropriate to be able to be dominant in an area? | |
| When you're in a relationship with a man and you feel like your man is going downhill or you feel like your man is doing unnecessary spending, you should feel like you have the comfortability to get up and be like, you know what, babe? | |
| You're down high. | |
| If your man is over here gambling $100, $200, $3,000 and losing that shit, if you don't step out as a woman and be like, you know what, babe? | |
| Maybe you should take a fucking break and maybe you should relax. | |
| Then what are you doing? | |
| Honestly, that's your time to be dominant. | |
| That's your time to, because at the end of the day, a man, even though the man is a leader of the family, of the relationship, of me and you, a man knows when to bow down to his women, when the time is correct. | |
| So therefore, if my woman is telling me, you know what, maybe I'm spending too much, maybe I'm gambling, maybe this and the third, maybe I should listen to my woman, because at the end of the day, it's both of us in a household. | |
| What if that's his, like, what if he don't do nothing? | |
| Like, you know, he don't hang out with the boys. | |
| Like, gambling is his happy place. | |
| Like, they look... | |
| It ain't his happy place if he gambling $2,000 and he cost a losing. | |
| Wait, he taking care of you and he taking care of the house and he paying the bills and all of this. | |
| That's $2,000 we could have had. | |
| Who was we, though? | |
| But she's saying, like, if the man's secure like that to have that money to gamble, that's the only thing he'd want to do. | |
| Like, that's what makes him happy. | |
| He enjoys going to the casino for, like, four or five. | |
| That's where budgeting comes in. | |
| You budget yourself $5,000 a month to gamble. | |
| Sorry, Buki. | |
| I don't know. | |
| So you want to be a manager? | |
| I don't want to be a manager, but when it comes to me and my family and the place under my head, because at the end of the day, you guys know that gambling is an addiction. | |
| So it could start at $1, it could start at $5,000, it could go to $10,000, $20,000. | |
| Next thing you know, our house is up. | |
| No. | |
| It just depends on the guy. | |
| It depends on the guy. | |
| And his mindset. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Honestly, not saying that I'm trying to comfort you, but you sound like money manager. | |
| If I'm holding it down, I'm holding you down, I'm holding the bills down, your hair done, nails done, you got money in your pocket. | |
| But at the end of the day, who are you as a woman? | |
| Who are you as a woman to allow your man to spend $10,000, $15,000? | |
| No. | |
| So you want your man to pillow check you that you're spending $2,000 every day in the Louis store and then you paying for your friend's dinner. | |
| You're inviting your friends out on his time. | |
| That's okay. | |
| Okay, that's the difference. | |
| It is because at the end of the day, me and you are different as women. | |
| So what you might go out and spend $2,000 on a bag for, I might spend $2,000 on a trip. | |
| That's the difference. | |
| So that makes it better? | |
| That doesn't make it better, but at least I... There's still no difference, though. | |
| I'ma spend $2,000 on a bag that's gonna sit on my shelf and I'm gonna wear it one or two times just to say I got a Louis bag? | |
| But the question was... | |
| I'ma spend it on a trip to the Bahamas. | |
| Or to go to Trinidad. | |
| I think what she's trying to say is that the guy made the money. | |
| You have no say so. | |
| Simple, you have no say so. | |
| Because he made the money. | |
| When you are together in a relationship, let's say for instance we are married, at the end of the day, who am I as a woman to let you, if you decide to go out one day and you feel unlucky and you blow out the whole, everything you got in your savings, who am I as a woman to stay at home and be like, oh damn babe, you just blew $60,000 in a casino and now we're But if a man goes out and blows all that money, then he's the dummy, really. | |
| You as a woman should know your position. | |
| I think the main thing to take away here is that you're saying that you got to be assertive. | |
| You said the reason why she's single is because she's assertive and too dominant, but you said that you got to know when to be dominant is what you're saying. | |
| You're saying it's appropriate if your man spends too much money. | |
| You need to know where to be. | |
| You get the example of him gambling or something like that. | |
| And he needs to bow down. | |
| Bow down to her. | |
| And to her, regardless of who earns the money, she's saying that she has a say in him spending the money he'll be able to spend. | |
| It's not more of as a say, it's more as of if we are living together and we're constantly spending rent on this, whether you are paying it 100%, whether it's 75, 25, whether it's 50, 50, regardless of the fact. | |
| You still have a say is what you're saying. | |
| Exactly. | |
| Just like if I was the money, if I was the breadwinner and I'm spending and I'm paying all the bills and I'm taking care of you and my kids and all this other shit, at the end of the day, you as a man, you would want to be like, damn, babe, you keep spending $15,000 a month on bags and shoes and purse. | |
| Don't you think we should cut down a little bit and put it towards stuff that's actually... | |
| Yeah, if you were making all the money, would you actually hear him out, though? | |
| Yes, I would. | |
| Me as a woman, you, I don't know how many women you've spoken to on this panel. | |
| I don't know how many different women. | |
| Over 3,000. | |
| Okay, but I am not one of them. | |
| Point blank, period. | |
| I mean, I don't know. | |
| That's what they all say. | |
| I ain't gonna lie when I'm with somebody else. | |
| Literally, the talking point you just gave is what a bunch of girls say. | |
| Them took this to Cali, it'd be a thousand dollars. | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| That's not what they all say. | |
| That's fine. | |
| All right, what about you? | |
| Why do you think that girl is single? | |
| I ain't even gonna lie. | |
| I ain't even got an answer. | |
| I ain't even gonna hold you. | |
| You don't know why she's single? | |
| I don't know because nowadays a female can have the whole package and... | |
| That's the answer in itself. | |
| Okay. | |
| Alright. | |
| What about you? | |
| So you think she shouldn't be single then? | |
| Given all her accolades, like she shouldn't have a man, right? | |
| Because you don't even know why, so you're like... | |
| Yeah, I don't know why. | |
| Okay, so she should have a guy. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| Why do you think she's single, that girl? | |
| Well, I have a different take. | |
| Sure. | |
| Because I'm 32, and I have a girlfriend. | |
| My girlfriends are 30, 31, and she's 31. | |
| So, she's saying, like, she's independent, and she has, I think she's a whole package, and she's really pretty. | |
| But sometimes, men or age, I feel like, millennials, they get really intimidated by that, and their ego is hurt. | |
| Mm. | |
| So when they see like a lot of independence and a lot of like put together they are like no I want to help you and I want to like give you because that's the provide yeah that provide and everything but she I think she doesn't want that she she can take care of herself and And she said that, | |
| and she said that she could leave really fast, and she gives you one, two, and the third time she leaves. | |
| And I think that's also something, because, like, she's a whole package. | |
| Maybe she doesn't, like, really settle for less. | |
| So it's the man's fault. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So you're saying, besides, besides... | |
| It's always the man's fault. | |
| What do you mean? | |
| Okay. | |
| Alright. | |
| Hey, that's America for you. | |
| It's the men's fault. | |
| It's the men's fault. | |
| What do you mean? | |
| She has high standards. | |
| So I have that right. | |
| You put men's egos because she's accomplished and then it's the men's fault and then she has higher standards. | |
| Yeah. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| What do you think? | |
| Why do you think that woman is single? | |
| I feel like she's probably just looking in the wrong places. | |
| If you are a highly accolated woman, you should not be looking for somebody that works at Burger King McDonald's to fulfill your needs. | |
| Like, just as if you were a man. | |
| Like, most men, if you know they got everything going for themselves, So do you think a man that's a... | |
| So your critique is that she's looking in the wrong places, maybe at lower socioeconomic men. | |
| Do you think if she looked in places where men make more money, they'd be interested in that? | |
| I mean, probably if she'll learn how to not run her mouth so much. | |
| Probably, or yes or no. | |
| What do you think? | |
| I mean, generally, what do you think? | |
| If she met a guy that makes as much money as her, or better, do you think it would be easier? | |
| I feel like it would be easier. | |
| She'll learn a few things from just talking to that man or being around that man that, you know, he's financially stable. | |
| He got his own thing going on. | |
| So it's like both of them are in a position where I don't need you. | |
| So I don't have to settle for your attitude. | |
| I don't have to settle for what you want and how you're feeling because, hey, I could do the same thing. | |
| So it'll force her or the man to change either way. | |
| Okay, so you're saying both of them need to, or she needs to get with a guy that doesn't need her? | |
| Yes. | |
| She needs to get with a guy on her level. | |
| Same. | |
| Same level? | |
| That doesn't need her. | |
| Okay. | |
| Interesting. | |
| Who do you think that, if you had to pick one party in the relationship to need the other party, who do you think it's more important to need the other for the relationship to last? | |
| Men or women. | |
| So let me say this again. | |
| So let me be clear about this. | |
| Assuming one party needs the other, whether it's the man needing the woman or the woman needing the man, which dynamic you think is more conducive to a long-term successful relationship? | |
| We'll start here and then work our way back around. | |
| I feel like... | |
| Does the man need the woman or the woman need the man for the relationship to actually last? | |
| Nah, that's a tricky question, but because I have brothers, I'm going to speak on behalf of my brothers. | |
| You got this, sis. | |
| It's fine, whatever you want to say. | |
| A man don't really need a woman. | |
| Most men that grew up in a household with their mom, they teach them how to cook. | |
| They teach them how to do everything for themselves. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Let her finish her point and then we'll get to you. | |
| For the relationship to last, who do you think needs to need who? | |
| I think the women need a man. | |
| More. | |
| Yeah, don't come for me now. | |
| Why? | |
| Hey, it's why you engage. | |
| Why? | |
| Alright. | |
| Well, she just explained why. | |
| Because men are taught how to cook? | |
| No, she said that men are taught how to be self-sufficient to a degree is what she was basically saying. | |
| Okay. | |
| Cooking is just one example she gave, but that's fine. | |
| What about you? | |
| What do you think? | |
| Well... | |
| For the dynamic to last, who do you think needs to need who? | |
| A man needs to need a woman or love the woman more. | |
| You think a man needs to need a woman? | |
| Like, yeah. | |
| Worship the woman? | |
| Like, I think... | |
| Someone has to love someone more. | |
| And at this point. | |
| Has to be the man. | |
| Okay, need love. | |
| Okay, we can say that that's the same thing essentially. | |
| So you're saying the man needs to need the woman and or love the woman more. | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| Oh, all right. | |
| What about you? | |
| What do you think? | |
| I ain't gonna lie. | |
| I understand from both sides. | |
| I'm that type of person. | |
| I understand from both sides. | |
| So, to me, I feel like it has to be in the middle. | |
| The man has to want the woman, and the woman's going to have to want the man. | |
| Amen. | |
| That's not realistic. | |
| That's not going to happen. | |
| That's not realistic. | |
| In every single dynamic, okay, in every single social dynamic, there's always someone who has leverage, whether it's a business relationship, an establishment. | |
| There are always, in every relationship, there's one party that needs the other party more. | |
| I'm simply asking. | |
| It could be 51%, 49%. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But who needs to need who more, in your opinion? | |
| For the relationship to last. | |
| I think that's the key here. | |
| Not just to be in a relationship, but for the relationship to last. | |
| You think the man needs to need the woman more or the woman needs to need the man more for the relationship dynamic to last? | |
| Okay. | |
| I think it's the man need the woman. | |
| Okay. | |
| Man needs the woman. | |
| From what I've seen. | |
| All right. | |
| Because, you know what I'm saying? | |
| Um... | |
| Half of the time, like females, we take a lot. | |
| Like she said earlier, females were strong, but we're most likely the ones to leave, to be honest. | |
| Like, I'm going to be real. | |
| It's very rare. | |
| I heard my homeboys, like, they may talk their shit like, yeah, I'm done with that bitch, fuck that bitch, but they really don't leave. | |
| You feel me? | |
| Like, it takes the female to leave for a nigga to be like, oh, she left me? | |
| Oh, fuck that hoe. | |
| Now I'm going to go, you feel me, do my thing. | |
| So I feel like it's the man need the woman because they eventually always come back and that's what I feel like. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I don't feel like no female. | |
| You do realize that you just contradicted yourself, right? | |
| I said both, but you want me to pick. | |
| Well, I said the question was who needs to need and or love, whatever term you guys want to use, for the relationship to last. | |
| But then in your example, you just specified that women are the ones that are more likely to leave. | |
| Man. | |
| That man need him. | |
| How? | |
| How? | |
| I just said what it is. | |
| The man's gonna love the woman more. | |
| Yeah, but you just said that women are more likely to leave. | |
| And I said that women... | |
| And I said for the relationship to actually last. | |
| Okay, that's fine. | |
| What about you? | |
| Same answer, nigga. | |
| At first, I was going to say that women definitely need to love the man first, but the way that you reworded the question and the dynamic of the relationship, I feel like men are way more easier to leave than women. | |
| Women are going to stay through thick and thin, whether you cheat on her, whether you get somebody pregnant, whether she just walked in on you fucking somebody else. | |
| Women are going to stay. | |
| But in order for the relationship, who needs who more? | |
| I feel like women need the men more. | |
| Because at the end of the day, why do you think these women stay in 3, 4, 5, 7, 10 year relationships? | |
| Even though the man has done them dirt. | |
| Why do you think marriages still work to this day? | |
| Or the old marriages actually in case? | |
| Because it's been 50 years and how many times has that man screwed up? | |
| But how many years they've still been married together? | |
| So you think women need men more, but then you also made the argument that men leave relationships more than women do? | |
| Yes, because at the end of the day, men are quick to leave. | |
| That's not true. | |
| That's not correct at all. | |
| Why do you say that? | |
| Statistically speaking, women end 70-80% of their relationships. | |
| Yeah, but after how many times? | |
| After how many times have they stayed? | |
| After how many years have they stayed? | |
| But how many times are men... | |
| What? | |
| How many times have men be like... | |
| You catch me cheating, are you going to stay? | |
| Okay, then. | |
| But that's not even... | |
| Yes, it is. | |
| Yes, it is. | |
| No, but the argument is who ends up leaving? | |
| It's women. | |
| No, the argument... | |
| Doesn't matter how it happens. | |
| The argument actually was who needs who more in the relationship. | |
| In order for it to last. | |
| In order for it to work. | |
| Yes, but you substantiated your stance on a faulty premise. | |
| He kills me when he tells me. | |
| At the end of the day, women need men more because at the end of the day, women stay longer and would stay through a whole bunch of bullshit before leaving a man. | |
| That's not true. | |
| A man can cheat 5,000 times and that man... | |
| I understand your conclusion, but the way you got to your conclusion is incorrect. | |
| Listen, okay, so let me fix it for you. | |
| Let me help you understand where I'm coming from. | |
| Okay. | |
| A man can cheat 5,000 times and that lady will still stay there through thick and thin. | |
| But as soon as a woman cheats, he says, Oh my God, it's the end of the world. | |
| I can't believe you did this to me. | |
| I'm leaving. | |
| Okay. | |
| Point blank. | |
| Once again, you can say that, you can use the example of cheating, but statistically speaking, women overwhelmingly end relationships more than men do. | |
| But at the end of the day, you're speaking about statistically, but how many women in those statistics have left after the first, second, third, fifth, five, six, seventeenth time? | |
| That's irrelevant. | |
| The statistic not about that. | |
| That's irrelevant. | |
| No, it is relevant because think about it. | |
| It don't matter. | |
| What are you talking about? | |
| It is relevant, because at the end of the day, the woman could leave after the seventh time, but she still ended up leaving. | |
| That's why the statistic... | |
| The bottom line is that women want more, is my point. | |
| Men don't leave relationships. | |
| Women do. | |
| And he told you, because I just said that. | |
| How did it come to your hypothesis? | |
| Like, how did you come to that point? | |
| Men don't even leave. | |
| Because they don't stop talking to you for like, you know, six months to a year and still probably double back to see what you got going on. | |
| If you still got... | |
| But how many times do women be delusional? | |
| That's true. | |
| I mean, some of y'all enjoy delusionalness from the little person in y'all head too now, your friends. | |
| So this is an example of what I mean when I say I can say something that's factual and you'll argue with me about a fact. | |
| I'm not arguing with you on what's statistical. | |
| I'm not arguing on the fact that women leave more than men. | |
| I'm not saying that, but how many times does it take a woman to leave? | |
| You're talking about the why when the why isn't relevant. | |
| But yes, it is. | |
| It isn't. | |
| But it is. | |
| Because you made the argument that men are more likely to leave relationships. | |
| That's factually incorrect. | |
| You corrected me on that and I corrected myself and I said at the end of the day, okay, if women leave more, how many times did it take that woman to leave? | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| You're not focused on the how many times, you're focused on the fact that women leave in general. | |
| Yeah, because that's the most, that's the pertinent part of the conversation. | |
| But how many times did it take a man to leave? | |
| Because remember, what was the original question I asked? | |
| How long, I mean, which partner needs to love each other more in order for it to last? | |
| And what did I say? | |
| And for it to last, correct? | |
| What did I say? | |
| So therefore, for it to last, that means no party can leave, correct? | |
| Okay, and then she made the argument that men leave more, and I said, no, they don't. | |
| It's the women that leave more. | |
| Yeah, I even said women leave in my argument. | |
| You see now why it's partner for me to correct you on that stance? | |
| Because it's critical to the question? | |
| Gotcha, bitch! | |
| You would think... | |
| You still stand by that in this generation. | |
| Damn! | |
| It's even more so. | |
| Do you look at divorce rates? | |
| I do, actually. | |
| Okay, so then who leaves more? | |
| Women. | |
| That's what he's saying. | |
| What are you arguing? | |
| Are we going to argue about statistics or are we going to argue behind the facts of statistics? | |
| Yes, women leave more, but how many times does it take for how many times? | |
| That's not the point, though. | |
| It tunes into the point, though, because at the end of the day, I can say that a man leaves more, but a man will leave off the first, second... | |
| We're going to rumble at this point. | |
| Come on over to rumble. | |
| Let's just finish with this line of question and then we'll switch over. | |
| We're going to start switching over to rumble here in a second. | |
| Sorry. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| You were saying something? | |
| I'm saying, yes, women are more likely to leave, but how many times, how long has it took them to leave a relationship compared to how long does it take a man to leave a relationship? | |
| A man will stay in a relationship with a female. | |
| Why? | |
| Because of a pussy. | |
| Point blank, period. | |
| No, not really. | |
| I don't care if the girl is being annoying, because guess what? | |
| When I call her at 10 o'clock at night, what's she going to do? | |
| Pick up and give me some pussy. | |
| Right or right? | |
| You're changing the premise of the conversation. | |
| The question was purely... | |
| It still plays into the part. | |
| And this is why... | |
| This is why what? | |
| I mean, some women are great conversation holders. | |
| Like, you know, coochie don't be everything. | |
| Like, a man would literally call a female at 2 o'clock in the morning. | |
| You guys just see how we just deviated into a whole other thing. | |
| The question was simply, what party needs to need the other more for the relationship to last? | |
| And I answered the question. | |
| And then you said, I think women need to like men more. | |
| And I was like, okay, that's your stance. | |
| But then you went ahead and said, I think that because men leave relationships more than women do. | |
| And that's just not factually correct. | |
| What can I say how I feel? | |
| That's just not factually correct. | |
| From everyone's point of view, I don't know, but to me, we need each other. | |
| If we can't have each other, it ain't never gonna work. | |
| That's a politically correct answer, but to actually answer the question, what party needs to like or need the other one more? | |
| Y'all don't jump on my shit now, but this is just for me. | |
| I feel like... | |
| I feel like a man needs a woman because at the end of the day, I'm going to tell you, at the end of the day, when stuff goes wrong, who does a man run to? | |
| Either the mom or his woman, right? | |
| Or his sister. | |
| Any woman. | |
| But the main two, I'm going to my mom or my woman. | |
| When stuff crumbles, when stuff hits the fence, anything, it doesn't matter. | |
| Anything. | |
| Anything hits the fence, I'm going to... | |
| Half of y'all can't even fucking twist a damn jar off of the lid. | |
| Listen, I can't do that. | |
| We're talking about men and women, not girls and boys. | |
| So you're saying when things go bad, he calls his mom or his girl. | |
| Yeah, that's true. | |
| Question for you then. | |
| What made you come to that conclusion? | |
| Is it past experiences maybe? | |
| Yes. | |
| And I've dealt with someone. | |
| So every guy that you know has went to their mother or girlfriend? | |
| I'm not gonna say every guy, but most people... | |
| That I know. | |
| Mom, come on, you have a lot of mama's boys now, come on. | |
| And girls be mad about that shit. | |
| Y'all ain't date them, though. | |
| I date them. | |
| Yeah, you damn right, because my baby a mama's boy, and I love it. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| All right, so your guy that you're with now... | |
| No, not my guy that I'm with now. | |
| Exactly. | |
| Because, rest in peace, his mom is deceased. | |
| Yeah, his mom died. | |
| But, okay, past relationships. | |
| Past relationships. | |
| I'm not gonna say who, I'm just past relationships. | |
| Okay. | |
| Not gonna put anything on it. | |
| Okay. | |
| Always ran to the mom. | |
| Okay. | |
| He went to the mom. | |
| Yes. | |
| And sometimes it went with him in the moment. | |
| So he coming to me. | |
| Okay. | |
| I know everything about what's your situation. | |
| Now let me ask you this. | |
| Did he have a father? | |
| He had a father figure. | |
| You understand? | |
| The man that's been there his whole life. | |
| He didn't have a biological father. | |
| He did, but you know, basically. | |
| So you feel like it's a difference if they did? | |
| Oh, I am. | |
| I feel like you're shouting. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| I'm sorry, you guys. | |
| So, interesting. | |
| So the past relationship and the men that you're framing here, you're saying that they normally go to the You know, a matriarch in their family. | |
| Not just speaking about my relationships. | |
| Okay, but other men. | |
| Do you think that's a byproduct of them coming from fatherless households? | |
| Maybe. | |
| It could be because sometimes if a man ain't got his dad, I mean, all I have is my mom to go to. | |
| She's the only one that, you know, guiding me. | |
| I don't have a father figure to teach me to be an actual man. | |
| You understand what I'm saying? | |
| I understand. | |
| So, yeah. | |
| Do you think that's the, assuming you have both parents, do you think the mother is the person to go to for problem solving? | |
| If you're assuming you had both parents, who do you think would be the better problem solver? | |
| I mean, sometimes... | |
| In a healthy relationship. | |
| It just depends because... | |
| This is just me. | |
| I just feel like, okay, the son is closer to the mom, so he's going to always go to the mom, you know, for... | |
| It depends on what it is. | |
| But he's going to go to the mom because she's always going to show that love and affection. | |
| I go to dad, man, man up, you know? | |
| Yeah, but who do you think is actually better for the problem solving is what I'm asking. | |
| Not about who feels better or whatever, but who do you think is going to actually be able to solve the problem? | |
| Assuming you have both parents in a stable household. | |
| I feel like it depends on the situation. | |
| Yeah, it depends on the situation. | |
| Every situation is different. | |
| Well, she gave more like, seems like financial issues. | |
| Like, you said business crumbling or something like that? | |
| No, I just said anything. | |
| It doesn't matter what it is. | |
| It could be anything that's happening in your life. | |
| Not even financially. | |
| It's just anything. | |
| Me and this person going through it. | |
| You know, your mom's going to sit through it there and listen. | |
| She's a woman. | |
| Your dad, man, I ain't trying to hear that shit. | |
| Some dads now, not all. | |
| I'm just saying. | |
| But, okay, where I'm from, I'm just saying. | |
| A lot of dads... | |
| Ain't there. | |
| Ain't there. | |
| We're tall. | |
| I'm going to speak from where I'm from, kind of. | |
| That's some hood shit, you know? | |
| I feel it, and I understand 110%. | |
| Do you think that's the most appropriate way to deal with problems, though? | |
| Is going to the mom? | |
| No. | |
| I feel like whoever can help you, that's who you should go to. | |
| Whoever has the right path for you, that's who you should go to. | |
| Man or woman, it doesn't matter. | |
| I feel like I'm in the middle with that because when it comes to a relationship, you can't go to your mama for everything. | |
| Male-wise, you really can't. | |
| That's why I say it depends. | |
| Like I said, it depends on the person and the situation. | |
| Like, everybody ain't mature to deal with that. | |
| You say go to in a relationship. | |
| I'm just saying, period. | |
| No, I'm saying in general. | |
| Like, sometimes going to your peoples, your mom, it ain't good sometimes. | |
| As a grown-up, I don't feel like you need to go to anyone with your relationship because that messes your people up with them. | |
| Their image of that person. | |
| Yeah, keep your relationship between y'all. | |
| I don't care what you go through, how bad it is. | |
| If you're not going to go to the police about it, then shut up. | |
| You're going to go back. | |
| Shut up. | |
| I feel like, you know... | |
| Because I'm speaking from a place where, you know, both my parents, they're not together, but, you know, I could still call either one of them. | |
| And then my partners, his parents, are still actively together. | |
| So it's like, me and him will have problems. | |
| Depending on what the situation is, he'll call his mama. | |
| Oh, he calling his mama? | |
| No, finish your point, then we'll make the switch. | |
| Oh, like, depending on what we're going through, he'll probably call his mama. | |
| And if we're going through something serious, like, you know, you don't need a female standpoint. | |
| Because, you know, we're considered most nature and creatures. | |
| Like, we're emotional. | |
| So before we think about logic, we're thinking about... | |
| How somebody's about to die. | |
| How we feel. | |
| We putting our feelings into it. | |
| So it ain't logic. | |
| It ain't wisdom at all. | |
| It don't make no sense. | |
| You just thinking from your heart and your booty crack. | |
| It just depends on the age. | |
| It depends on the age. | |
| But I would say it's not good to tell people your business, but Being that I'm young and I do have older friends, sometimes you need that mature advice. | |
| It might not be your mama that you want to go to to take a business, but you know somebody that has that little old soul in them that gives you that, not what you looking to hear, but what you need to hear. | |
| I don't want to have a yes man as a friend. | |
| I want to have somebody who's going to keep it real with me 100% whether I'm going to get mad or not. | |
| Okay, so I'll give my take on this because this is interesting that you guys... | |
| Most of you think that man needs the woman. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And then a bunch of you guys gave basically reasons why you think she's single, she's too dominant, assertive. | |
| One of you didn't know. | |
| One, you think the ego, because she's accomplished and it's men's fault. | |
| That's me. | |
| And then you think it's her, she's just looking in the wrong places for a guy. | |
| So guys, come on over to Rumble and we'll continue the discussion over there because... | |
| You guys were wrong about so much stuff, but that's fine. | |
| Is it us being wrong or is it us just having an opinion? | |
| Your takes are definitely wrong. | |
| It's an opinion. | |
| This man go off straight statistics, so ain't no point of arguing with this man. | |
| I learned that a long time ago. | |
| There's no point. | |
| How do you know that? | |
| This is not my first time. | |
| How do you know that? | |
| It's been like two years ago. | |
| Thank you. | |
| And I've seen what y'all do to other people. | |
| I'm a great observer. | |
| Okay. | |
| With him, he do his research. | |
| What are your thoughts on the video, Myron? | |
| No, well, hold on. | |
| I got one more thing here. | |
| Okay. | |
| So you guys gave suggestions. | |
| Do you know women going through similar situations as her? | |
| I know you said that you did because you know other girls that are like in her age that kind of have like things together. | |
| So you said yes. | |
| What about the rest of you? | |
| Yeah, I do. | |
| I mean, I see it a lot on Instagram. | |
| I'm not gonna lie. | |
| A lot of girls been complaining lately about why they don't have this and why that or why... | |
| I mean, I don't have them problems with it. | |
| What about you? | |
| Do you know girls going through that where they have everything on paper? | |
| Not really. | |
| I stand my own lane. | |
| You're gonna let me know what you want me to know and I don't care to know what y'all got going, so not really. | |
| Okay, you? | |
| I mean, I have friends who can relate to the same things that have gone to the same things and I also have friends that haven't. | |
| So like I'm like stuck in the middle. | |
| But seems like to me like all of you know a girl that might be in the same situation where they have everything but they still can't find a guy? | |
| Yes. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| I guess I'll address the first thing here. | |
| A lot of you think that men need women more. | |
| What makes you say that? | |
| Specifically. | |
| You said that. | |
| We'll start with you. | |
| And you gave the example to call? | |
| You know, just when... | |
| Times of crisis? | |
| Yeah, just a man wants to talk to his mom or his woman. | |
| That's who comforts him. | |
| And you gave the example because men are more likely to leave relationships? | |
| That's the example you gave? | |
| He on you. | |
| He talking about you, huh? | |
| Even though that's not correct? | |
| Is there another reason why you think women need men more? | |
| Um, I also feel like In this generation, I feel like a lot of us weren't raised with a two-parent home. | |
| Okay. | |
| So that plays a lot into who we choose to be in a relationship with and who we choose to love us. | |
| So therefore, I feel like women, from a standpoint, come in like, you know what, I need a man to take care of me. | |
| I need a man to be there financially, mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually. | |
| I need a man to be there. | |
| I need a man to lead. | |
| That's where women are coming from. | |
| That's why I believe that women... | |
| Just solve issues. | |
| Okay, and then you said men... | |
| No, you said you didn't. | |
| Yeah, you said the man needs a woman. | |
| I think both. | |
| And you came for me. | |
| You think the man needs a woman more, though. | |
| And then you did as well, and then you did. | |
| He covered all of us. | |
| Y'all watch this. | |
| Interesting. | |
| I'm telling y'all already. | |
| I'm just like... | |
| You triggered my track card! | |
| I'm interested to get your guys' takes on stuff because it's just interesting to hear... | |
| Different point of views. | |
| Right. | |
| Incorrect point of views. | |
| Oh! | |
| Okay, what do you think? | |
| Well, I'll tell you guys why you guys were all incredibly wrong. | |
| So, okay, let's make this simple. | |
| Who has more requirements of the opposite gender? | |
| Okay, who's pickier, men or women? | |
| We'll start there. | |
| I'll say women. | |
| Women are pickier. | |
| Women are pickier? | |
| Okay, what about you? | |
| Women. | |
| Women are pickier. | |
| Men. | |
| You think men are pickier than women? | |
| Men. | |
| You think so? | |
| Men. | |
| Okay, you feel that way or you know that way? | |
| No, I know that way. | |
| Okay, what makes you... | |
| Well, at least from what I saw. | |
| Okay, what makes you say that men are pickier than women? | |
| Like I told you, I have hella brothers, hella homeboys. | |
| Like, I don't really fuck with females like that. | |
| I ain't gonna lie. | |
| But from what I see, like... | |
| It's just that way. | |
| Like, my homeboys be like, I want a bitch with a flat stomach and a flat ass, or I need a bitch with big boobs, or I need a bitch with... | |
| This part, I don't agree. | |
| Okay, who's more willing to settle then? | |
| Who's more willing? | |
| With the opposite gender. | |
| Who's more willing to settle on their standards? | |
| A female? | |
| You think women are more willing to settle? | |
| Yes, they will. | |
| I mean, that's a goddamn lie. | |
| But niggas smash anything. | |
| I got you for that. | |
| But y'all only do that because y'all thinking what y'all dig. | |
| Y'all just want y'all dig wet. | |
| A female... | |
| A female is easy too now. | |
| That's what I'm trying to say. | |
| A female will settle just because they're lonely. | |
| Okay, let me ask you this. | |
| Niggas don't get lonely. | |
| Y'all got holes. | |
| I'll give you an example. | |
| So shorty right here, right? | |
| She seems pretty cool. | |
| Yeah. | |
| However, let's real here. | |
| Her stepdaddy, he stepped up, right? | |
| But he settled. | |
| Exactly. | |
| Damn! | |
| So, just keeping it real, though. | |
| For a situation, I feel you. | |
| But again, a man that's comfortable with going for sex, he'll settle with anybody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| A woman's like, you gotta make some money. | |
| You gotta at least have something going on for yourself. | |
| You gotta be tall, at least. | |
| I know that's my requirement. | |
| I know that's a goddamn lie. | |
| I know a lot of females are taking care of a lot of bum ass niggas. | |
| Alright, you use your brothers as a reference. | |
| No, not my brothers. | |
| I'm just saying like, I mean, men, period, in my life that I saw. | |
| Yeah, but that's where your frame of reference is coming from is your brothers. | |
| From what I saw. | |
| Why you think men are pickier than women. | |
| So who's pickier then? | |
| Do you think you're pickier or your brothers are pickier? | |
| You pickier with your men or your brothers pickier with their women? | |
| Who's pickier? | |
| Exactly. | |
| Exactly. | |
| Period. | |
| Gotcha, bitch! | |
| So your own frame of reference doesn't even check out. | |
| Yes, it does. | |
| I didn't say anything. | |
| I just laughed at your comment. | |
| How many niggas do you be smashing weekly? | |
| I don't. | |
| Why? | |
| Because I don't want to. | |
| Why is that? | |
| Because you're picky, right? | |
| No, because I care about my pussy. | |
| My mama raised me, right? | |
| By default, you're picky. | |
| No, I'm not, actually. | |
| You're pickier than your brothers is the point. | |
| No, I'm not. | |
| Actually, I care about people at heart. | |
| I'm really a soft girl. | |
| Think about this. | |
| If you have a good talk game and you have a cool vibe, I can really work with that. | |
| Let me just move on. | |
| Who do you think is pickier, men or women? | |
| They don't believe nothing, bro. | |
| I'm pickier. | |
| I'm picky. | |
| I mean women and men in general, not just you. | |
| Yeah, women. | |
| You think women are pickier? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay, what about you? | |
| I feel like men are pickier in a way because, you know, they could chill in general. | |
| I feel like men are pickier because, you know, men can chill with anything. | |
| Okay, you're all fucking wrong. | |
| It's the women are pickier. | |
| The women are by definition pickier than men. | |
| Can I say something? | |
| And it's very simple, ladies. | |
| It's because... | |
| You can only bring one child to term per year, right? | |
| Nine months for you to have a kid. | |
| We have a couple moms here, right? | |
| So you can only get impregnated once, right? | |
| And then it takes you nine months to have a kid. | |
| How many kids can we have a year? | |
| One. | |
| Hundreds. | |
| Thousands. | |
| That's true. | |
| That's women, yes. | |
| No, the men. | |
| That's men. | |
| Hell, fuck again. | |
| One sperm, they got about a hundred. | |
| Us women, we have a certain amount of eggs. | |
| Okay, so from a biological standpoint, Women are pickier because they have to be because you guys can only bring one child to term per year versus we can bring a million. | |
| Yes. | |
| Right? | |
| So, biologically speaking, women are pickier than men. | |
| This is just what it is. | |
| They are. | |
| That makes no damn sense to me. | |
| I get what you're saying. | |
| I get what you're saying. | |
| How does that not make sense? | |
| Like she said, women have a certain amount of eggs. | |
| Like she said, okay, cool. | |
| Men, I could go out here skidding everything. | |
| You my baby mama. | |
| You a baby mama. | |
| You a baby mama. | |
| I could have so many kids right now. | |
| Today, tomorrow, next day, next day. | |
| What about what I said doesn't make sense, specifically? | |
| Just because you choose to fuck someone and get pregnant don't mean that you was picky about it. | |
| Just because you choose to fuck somebody don't mean you was picky about it. | |
| Because I know a lot of motherfuckers who had one-night stands, wasn't giving a fuck about being picky or nothing, and oops, a bitch was pregnant. | |
| I know a lot of people like that. | |
| Like, slipped up. | |
| That got nothing to do with nothing. | |
| Men are more pickier. | |
| They want a bitch to have a whole list of things. | |
| You coming from a finance view, like, oh, man gotta be a provider. | |
| A man, because I heard you say all that before. | |
| Okay, what is it easier to do? | |
| Is it easier to be pretty as a female or be successful and attractive as a man? | |
| Oh my God. | |
| It's easier to be pretty. | |
| Pretty? | |
| You know what? | |
| I get that. | |
| Pretty privileged wins. | |
| I get that. | |
| Pretty privileged wins. | |
| So therefore, it is harder for men to be attractive, right? | |
| Okay, yeah. | |
| It is. | |
| I gave him that. | |
| I'm speaking for me, but for women, you're only attractive. | |
| You could be ugly as shit. | |
| I don't like you. | |
| But now I see you got chains. | |
| Oh, you got Rollies. | |
| Nice cars. | |
| Wait, wait, hold up. | |
| Fuck the chains. | |
| Fuck everything. | |
| I'm just saying the money. | |
| No, fuck the money. | |
| You could be ugly as shit, but you got a right head on your shoulder. | |
| You went to school. | |
| You got a good job. | |
| You got your own apartment. | |
| You got your car. | |
| I'm taking you home. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| Think about it! | |
| Think about it! | |
| Come on! | |
| It's kind of crazy in this generation because if you walk down Miami right now and you ask a female, would you rather a nigga with chains and jewels and money or would you rather have a man that has a foundation, a car, a house, has money, has a business? | |
| What they gonna choose? | |
| The man with the chains and the money. | |
| Why? | |
| Because that's what they want. | |
| They want a man in a Lamborghini and a Corvette so they can take him out. | |
| That just proves my point even further. | |
| Women are more picky. | |
| I never disagreed with Tito. | |
| I know, but I'm saying for her. | |
| No, he's talking about for me. | |
| That just proves my point further that women are pickier and the things it takes to be attractive for a man are not necessarily easy to come by. | |
| So, women are pickier than men. | |
| Okay. | |
| So would it be fair to say that it's harder to satisfy a woman, right, for a man than it is for a woman to satisfy? | |
| Yes. | |
| So a man has to work harder to satisfy a woman than a man has to do the other way around. | |
| What type of satisfaction are we talking about? | |
| To be attractive to even get the foot in the door. | |
| All you gotta do is have sex with a man sometimes and you good. | |
| You're in there. | |
| That pussy good, baby. | |
| I love you. | |
| Not even that. | |
| I'm just saying, period. | |
| That's just easy. | |
| But for long term, though. | |
| Okay, you have a good head on your shoulder. | |
| I see you're a hard-working woman. | |
| You have potential and stuff. | |
| Come on. | |
| Okay, but after sex, what is there? | |
| Nothing. | |
| What do you mean? | |
| It depends. | |
| After sex, we could talk about something. | |
| What are you trying to do? | |
| You gotta piecemeal this. | |
| First, we established that it is harder. | |
| Women are pickier than men. | |
| We've established that, and we explained from a biological perspective. | |
| The reason why is because women have more requirements because they can only bring one child to term. | |
| Agreed? | |
| Men have to have a bunch of things in place to be attractive, right? | |
| Right. | |
| Now, who's more likely to leave a relationship? | |
| We went over this too. | |
| We just went over this and I was wrong. | |
| Women, right? | |
| Mm-hmm. | |
| So, since now, who needs more emotional stimulation in a relationship, men or women? | |
| Women. | |
| Women do, right? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay, everybody agree on that? | |
| Okay, so, who needs to feel, right, the love and the emotions, et cetera, more in the relationship to stick around? | |
| Women. | |
| Okay, so who gives more emotional investment into a relationship? | |
| The person that's in love or the person that is being loved? | |
| So in other words, the adored or the adoree? | |
| Who gets more emotional stimuli? | |
| Man, the person that's being loved. | |
| I feel like it all has to come down with to the way you were raised. | |
| Okay, man. | |
| Look, you try to complicate things. | |
| It's very simple. | |
| Let me simplify this for you ladies because I notice if I go too much, you guys... | |
| He don't want y'all to think personally. | |
| He wants y'all to think just general, statistically. | |
| Just listen to the question, okay? | |
| Don't go into random things. | |
| You have a person that's adored and the adorer. | |
| Make it simpler, right? | |
| The adored and the adorer. | |
| Who gets more emotional stimuli? | |
| The person that's being the adorer or the adored? | |
| The person that's being adored. | |
| We'll just start here. | |
| This might be a bit too high IQ. So let's say loved and the lover. | |
| I'm just saying. | |
| What you trying to say, honey? | |
| Loved or lover? | |
| He said it like three times. | |
| You got it? | |
| I knew it. | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| So who gets more emotional stimuli? | |
| The person that's giving all the loving or the person that's being loved? | |
| The one that accepts receiving it. | |
| Receiving the love. | |
| The person that's receiving the love. | |
| What? | |
| Okay. | |
| The person that's giving the love. | |
| Giving. | |
| Giving, what about you? | |
| Giving? | |
| Receiving. | |
| Receiving. | |
| Yeah. | |
| What about you? | |
| Giving. | |
| Okay. | |
| So a majority of you agree that it's the person giving. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So this is interesting. | |
| This is precisely why Thank you. | |
| So by definition, that means she needs to love the man more than he loves her. | |
| Because our requirements are low. | |
| We're sticking around. | |
| We don't end relationships. | |
| We don't break up and we never divorce. | |
| Women do all that shit. | |
| So the reality is that the woman needs to love the man more for the relationship to actually last. | |
| Okay. | |
| But, you know, women like you, no offense, older, you guys have a faulty mindset, and you think, it's the man's fault, the man needs to entertain me, blah, blah, blah. | |
| And the reality is that when you want all these things, the guy will play the game. | |
| Maybe he'll entertain you a little bit, take you on a trip here or there, and then have sex with you, then he'll leave. | |
| Because... | |
| It's got to be the other way around, ladies, for the relationship to last. | |
| The woman has to like the guy more than he likes her. | |
| Never works the other way around. | |
| Because the person... | |
| Because you need to... | |
| The man is the prize. | |
| That's another thing, too, that I wanted to say that you guys kind of didn't understand. | |
| The man is the prize. | |
| And the reason why the man is the prize is you have higher standards than he does, correct? | |
| Okay. | |
| You want a guy that's better than you, right? | |
| Makes more money than you. | |
| You want to knowledgize, I wrote down earlier. | |
| You want a mentor. | |
| You want a guy who makes more money than you, finances, security, stability, all these things. | |
| Is someone who's less than you gonna be able to provide these things? | |
| No. | |
| Someone who's superior to you, correct? | |
| Right. | |
| Yes. | |
| So therefore, if you're with someone who's superior to you and a leader, et cetera, how can you expect them to treat you equal, like you were saying earlier? | |
| See how it doesn't make sense? | |
| This is what I mean when I say girls don't know what the fuck they're talking about. | |
| I kinda let you guys yap earlier and say what you guys wanted to say. | |
| But the reality is, you guys don't know what it takes. | |
| Honestly, think about it like this. | |
| Y'all don't know what the fuck you're talking about. | |
| I'm telling you right now. | |
| Let me finish what I'm saying. | |
| We let you guys talk earlier. | |
| Because it's one thing to attract a man. | |
| It's another thing to retain a man. | |
| And I'm teaching you how to retain. | |
| Now, if you want to go ahead and continue to attain and just get fucked and not taken seriously, that's fine. | |
| You keep yapping. | |
| But I'm telling you how to actually retain a man. | |
| You retain a man by being submissive all the time, not when you pick and choose. | |
| And the other thing, too, is that because you mentioned like, oh, well, you know, I can pick and choose when I want to be dominant. | |
| If he's gambling and stuff, I'm going to step in and say something. | |
| Well, I'm going to say you fucking lost in the beginning. | |
| Why are you getting with a guy that's gambling money like that? | |
| It's on you as the woman to get with a guy that doesn't have destructive habits. | |
| If you get with a guy that's gambling and doing stupid shit, whatever, and this is your man, this is supposed to be your leader, you're a dumbass for getting with him. | |
| Why are you even there? | |
| If you gotta be with a guy where you gotta correct him about shit like that, then you're already lost as a female. | |
| To be honest with y'all. | |
| This is where it's very important. | |
| This is why I don't, I think, again, remember how you guys said before, oh yeah, well, you know, men run to women with their problems. | |
| That's not good. | |
| You should be going to your dad. | |
| You should be going to your brother. | |
| Because men are better problem solvers than women. | |
| We've already proven this. | |
| Everything that you see, everything that you... | |
| I'm wrong? | |
| The microphone you're using right now is built by a man. | |
| The studio here was built by men. | |
| Men build and create society. | |
| Women don't build and create anything besides kids. | |
| And you need a man to do that too. | |
| So the reality is... | |
| Everything I'm saying is factual. | |
| Men build and create society. | |
| Women don't build anything. | |
| Women don't build anything. | |
| They just extract resources from men. | |
| That's why when I asked you guys, what do women look for? | |
| Excuse me? | |
| You said it's Cap? | |
| There are some women that build shit that men even use. | |
| What? | |
| There are some shit that men build. | |
| No, no, no. | |
| Tell us three things. | |
| Yeah, tell us about it. | |
| Madam CJ Walker. | |
| It's a female that made the freaking first tub and shower. | |
| Like, I can't If you could give me my phone, I could show you. | |
| When I went around, look, it doesn't matter because men create like 95% of inventions and modern things that you enjoy today. | |
| Another thing too is that when I asked you guys what do women look for, all of you gave resource dominant traits. | |
| Security, stability, finances, etc. | |
| Almost all of you gave, or knowledge, stability. | |
| All of you guys gave things that are pursuant To the resource creation. | |
| So why is that? | |
| It's because what I said, men create and women extract. | |
| It's not like, it is what it is. | |
| Like, women don't build anything. | |
| That's just the facts. | |
| You look at construction sites, do you see women there? | |
| No, almost never. | |
| There are female construction workers, though. | |
| We're not going to try to downplay them. | |
| What's the percentage of them? | |
| Like 2%. | |
| Come on, man. | |
| Okay, hold on. | |
| If we're going to do this, we're going to do it correctly. | |
| Because at the end of the day, women didn't have rights to how long ago? | |
| So number one. | |
| So then number two is, so just because it's a lower percentage of women in construction or mostly man businesses, that means that it doesn't fucking matter? | |
| No, just because there's 2% of women in construction, that means that, oh, it's still a fucking man. | |
| Okay, so explain this to me. | |
| Women are more educated now than ever before. | |
| They're graduating college at a higher rate than men. | |
| Almost three-quarters of college attendees are females, right? | |
| But why is it that men overwhelmingly are the representative when it comes to hard manual labor jobs that we just discussed? | |
| That's true. | |
| Men build roads. | |
| They build a lot of stuff. | |
| Women have more rights and privileges now than ever before. | |
| I would argue that women have more rights and privileges than men do. | |
| However, they still represent a minority of hard labor jobs. | |
| Why is that? | |
| I can't tell you the reason why. | |
| Oh, I'll answer it for you. | |
| Don't worry, I wrote a book on this shit. | |
| Actually, lecture me. | |
| I'm not lecturing you. | |
| I'm just telling you the truth. | |
| No, I'm not saying it in a bad way. | |
| Teach me something. | |
| Teach me something I don't know. | |
| It's because women are inherently lazy when it comes to resource creation and making money and doing hard labor jobs. | |
| They don't want to work these jobs. | |
| So is that the reason why a lot of women own a whole bunch of businesses, nails, hair, lashes? | |
| Notice how none of them are manual labor jobs, which is what I'm talking to you about. | |
| The discussion started with hard manual labor jobs in creation. | |
| Remember that? | |
| So I said women don't create things, really. | |
| They really don't. | |
| Creating a business here and there with a salon, fantastic. | |
| But I'm talking about infrastructure of humanity, society, the water running, the power running, all the modern conveniences that you don't even think twice about, that's all male run. | |
| Women don't run none of that shit. | |
| Man-made. | |
| Yes, it's man-made for a reason. | |
| Women don't create these things. | |
| And then now, today's society... | |
| If you apply for an engineering job, and a man applies for an engineering job, assuming you're both engineers, you're way more likely to get that job. | |
| But why are women still underrepresented in these fields? | |
| Because they don't want to do these jobs. | |
| Women want to sit in an air-conditioned building, in their little suits, or maybe a hair salon, and do jobs that aren't necessarily hard. | |
| And that's fine. | |
| But that's from a biological standpoint. | |
| Honestly, I would say in this generation and right here in 2024, there's a lot of women out there that are getting out into the field and doing a lot of things that women weren't doing before. | |
| I know a lot of women that are construction workers that work besides women. | |
| That's irrelevant if you know because it's a small minority of women. | |
| If we went ahead and actually someone made a video about this shit. | |
| It's very interesting. | |
| If we went ahead and relied on our infrastructure to be run by women, the world would shut down. | |
| But the only reason why it would be shut down is because men never gave women a chance. | |
| Women were always the ones in that house cooking and taking care of kids. | |
| What did I just tell you? | |
| If a woman applies for the same job as a man, an infrastructure job... | |
| But why is it like that? | |
| Why is there not equal pay? | |
| Why? | |
| Because back then, men had to do the work, had to do this, had to do that, and women had to stay in the house and cook and clean and take care of the kids. | |
| I know. | |
| So therefore, when times and years are coming and changing, at the end of the day, men and women are not going to be equal, and women are not going to be doing the same thing as men, because at the end of the day, when it was there and then, back then, men and women were doing the same thing. | |
| I just literally explained to you that if a man... | |
| - She's incorrect again. - I just understand. - If she's incorrect again. - I'm incorrect again. - Do you understand? | |
| - If I took him, no, no, no. | |
| Here's the difference between me and you. | |
| I understand your argument, which is why I'm able to refute it. | |
| You don't understand what I'm saying. | |
| I understand where you're coming from, but at the end of the day, just because I don't agree with what you're saying, I can understand what you're saying and make my point still. | |
| You just made a point that was directly refuted by what I said a second ago. | |
| You said, women aren't able to work these jobs. | |
| And I literally just told you. | |
| I said back then. | |
| Okay, but right now, they can. | |
| And as a matter of fact, they are hired at a higher rate, even if they're not qualified. | |
| So explain this to me. | |
| You can go ahead and be a construction worker as a woman. | |
| Make $100,000 per year. | |
| You can be a plumber. | |
| You can be an electrician, etc. | |
| Hell, we even brought a plumber on this show one time. | |
| A female. | |
| She couldn't have passed the test, but guess what they did? | |
| They passed her anyway because they needed women on. | |
| That bad. | |
| She was not qualified and still got the fucking job. | |
| There's women right now that are police officers that can't pass the physical fitness test of the man's side, but they get hired with lower standards. | |
| So, women can... | |
| Absolutely get into these career fields that you're complaining women can't get into. | |
| And not only that, they can get in when they're not as qualified, right? | |
| And they get hired at a higher rate. | |
| So what is the excuse? | |
| Again, I never said that women couldn't get hired. | |
| I'm just stating back to your talk. | |
| You, the main question was man-made things and how men built roads and how men did this, that, and the third. | |
| So I'm bringing it back to the fact that when men were making these things, that women were allowed to be outside and build and build constructions and do this and do that and third. | |
| Why? | |
| Because they were in the houses. | |
| So now... | |
| Are you trying to make it seem like it's an issue because now women are getting hired even though they don't have the correct qualifications or because now they're getting jobs because they're not qualified? | |
| I'm telling you that women don't work these jobs because they don't want to. | |
| That's what I'm telling you. | |
| It doesn't matter if they were allowed because you're trying to make the argument that they weren't allowed. | |
| No, they were allowed. | |
| They just choose not to do these jobs. | |
| Back then, women were allowed to work those jobs. | |
| He's talking about now. | |
| Okay. | |
| We just don't leave it at that then. | |
| We agreed to disagree and that's fine. | |
| Are you aware of the fact that in World War II, women were in infrastructure jobs when all the men went over to Europe? | |
| Yeah, the women had to do all the men's jobs. | |
| And then when the men came back, what did the women do? | |
| Tell me. | |
| They did what they wanted to do. | |
| They went back to the fucking house and that's how you have baby boomers, a whole generation of them. | |
| So if women are given the... | |
| See, that's what I'm trying to say. | |
| You don't know what you're talking about. | |
| Okay? | |
| Because women were given these opportunities back in World War II, and then when given the opportunity, when men come back, what do they fucking do? | |
| Let's have babies. | |
| Because women don't want to work these jobs. | |
| Okay. | |
| And that's fine. | |
| That's what the fucking is. | |
| That's fine. | |
| Don't sit here and try to argue with me about women weren't given these opportunities. | |
| They fucking were. | |
| They just don't want to work these jobs. | |
| That's just the reality. | |
| Let's call a fucking spade a spade. | |
| Women are fucking lazy when it comes to laborious jobs. | |
| They don't want to fucking do it. | |
| That is how the world works. | |
| It works on generalizations. | |
| The majority of women don't want to work these jobs, okay? | |
| You guys want to have your nails and do your hair and shit like that. | |
| And these laborious... | |
| He said majority. | |
| He's not saying all. | |
| He said majority. | |
| No, no, no, no. | |
| It's not that they don't want to. | |
| It's just that the world has been saying over and over again that ladies, women, they cannot do that. | |
| So it's been said and it's been put into our heads since we were kids. | |
| So it's not that we don't want to. | |
| That society put us through this. | |
| Alright, let's use your mindset. | |
| Let's blame the society, right? | |
| Because I worked hard labor jobs when I was pregnant. | |
| Two jobs. | |
| Yeah, but I literally was out in the sun flagging that video. | |
| You're not doing it now. | |
| Women cannot do that. | |
| But you did it, but you didn't want to do it. | |
| I didn't care. | |
| But you're not doing it now, right? | |
| No, because I don't have to. | |
| That's the hard argument, right? | |
| Men do it because they have to. | |
| It's engraved in our heads that we cannot do that. | |
| Men are far more willing to do laborious jobs to earn income than women are because women are lazy when it comes to doing laborious jobs. | |
| I don't know why you guys can't accept reality, biological reality, that you guys simply can't do a lot of things that we do. | |
| That's true. | |
| That's your reality. | |
| I don't give a fuck. | |
| I'm gonna do what I gotta do, because I was raised like that. | |
| My dad didn't play that. | |
| I know how to change my own tire. | |
| But how many women can do that? | |
| That's a low IQ argument. | |
| No, I agree with you. | |
| You're saying like majority, but I'm stating I'm not the majority, not all females. | |
| If someone makes an objective statement, and then you respond by saying, that doesn't apply to me, and you make an entire rant on what doesn't apply to you, that's low IQ behavior. | |
| How? | |
| Because I'm speaking objectively. | |
| The words you're using, you're saying all. | |
| I never said all. | |
| Never once said all. | |
| You said majority, all, and majority is women at this table. | |
| Majority and all are not the same. | |
| You just said he said majority, not all. | |
| Yeah, majority. | |
| I never said all. | |
| I said a majority. | |
| Are you the majority? | |
| Because he literally said, females? | |
| All of them are lazy. | |
| The majority. | |
| Okay, he can say some. | |
| Some. | |
| See what I mean? | |
| Right now, this is why women can't be in positions of leadership. | |
| Can you imagine this? | |
| And I don't think y'all should be able to vote either. | |
| This is what I'm trying to say. | |
| Stop talking. | |
| Stop talking when I'm talking. | |
| Stop talking when I'm talking. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm just saying. | |
| Shut the fuck up when I'm talking. | |
| That's the last time I'm going to tell you that. | |
| Look, look, look, look, look, look. | |
| I'm going to be very blunt about this. | |
| Shut the fuck up when I'm talking, okay? | |
| You don't got to get on the last word. | |
| I'm not your man or whoever the fuck you think this is. | |
| I'm not trying to get the last word. | |
| Get the fuck out of here, bro. | |
| I ain't trying to get the last word. | |
| Just get out of here, bro. | |
| You're trying right now. | |
| I'm not trying to, but okay. | |
| You literally are right now. | |
| That's what I'm trying to say. | |
| Get the fuck up out of here, man. | |
| All right. | |
| Let's go. | |
| Goddamn, bro. | |
| Holy shit, man. | |
| I don't know how y'all niggas deal with you girls. | |
| Bye. | |
| I don't know. | |
| What the fuck, man? | |
| That's him. | |
| He's stressed out about other shit and being emotional. | |
| No, I'm not getting emotional. | |
| You're annoying. | |
| That's a friend, so... | |
| Alright, then if you gotta go, then go with her. | |
| Then go with her, ma'am. | |
| Then go with her, ma'am. | |
| Just go with her. | |
| Just make it quick and just get off. | |
| Understandable. | |
| Holy shit, ma'am. | |
| Yeah, have a good way. | |
| Okay. | |
| That got it. | |
| Just walk out real quick. | |
| That got hot real quick. | |
| That got hot real quick. | |
| Incredible, bro. | |
| And she got no ass. | |
| Why you did that? | |
| I'm being a thousand. | |
| She can hear me. | |
| I'm just saying. | |
| Why you did that, though? | |
| Because it's true. | |
| Why ass gotta do anything? | |
| Everything. | |
| So fucking annoying. | |
| So wait a minute, so wait, so I didn't land in for real? | |
| And this is why, yo, like real talk man, it is very difficult guys to have conversations with stupid people because stupid people don't understand the English language. | |
| They don't understand when you're saying an objective fact and it might not necessarily apply to them how to shut the fuck up when someone is stating an objective fact. | |
| For example, if someone said, a predominant amount of terrorist attacks are conducted by Arabs from the Middle East, etc., I'm not going to sit there and say, well, I'm not a terrorist. | |
| No, I'll be like, that is objectively true, sir. | |
| You're right. | |
| And I'm going to be quiet. | |
| However, idiots respond, well, that doesn't play to me, so let me go ahead and say that this doesn't play to me. | |
| So I'm trying to say, bro, fucking retards everywhere, surrounded. | |
| Ladies, if you learn one thing about this, when someone says an objective fact, whether it applies to you or not, shut the fuck up and listen to the objective fact. | |
| This is the difference between men and women. | |
| When I say most men are bumbling idiot retard fucks that are losers, no one sits there and argues with me and says, not me! | |
| Only stupid ass bitches do that shit. | |
| And you guys have done that a couple times on the podcast and it's fucking frustrating because I think to myself, holy shit! | |
| We've interviewed 3,000 girls, and so many girls, when I say an objective fact, go ahead and say, well, I'm the exception. | |
| Shut the fuck up. | |
| Nobody cares if you're the exception. | |
| I'm telling you what it is. | |
| Like, this is incredible to me. | |
| Wild. | |
| When I talk to men, I don't have this issue. | |
| When I talk about higher IQ individuals, I don't have this issue. | |
| Only dumb bitches get angry when I say something that's true, and then it doesn't apply to them, and then they gotta go ahead and say, well, I'm the exception. | |
| Shut up, bitch. | |
| Who cares? | |
| I just find it funny. | |
| Fuck! | |
| You said majority, and then she says all. | |
| I'm like, that's not the same thing. | |
| Two different words, but it's what it is. | |
| Oh my god, bro. | |
| What the fuck, man? | |
| This is so annoying. | |
| Well, that's why I say men like women that listen. | |
| Holy fuck, man. | |
| You need to learn what to listen. | |
| Yeah, you need to listen. | |
| Just say it. | |
| You need to learn what to... | |
| And it's like, the thing that makes me even more like, what the... | |
| Clearly I'm smarter than you, so shut the fuck up when I'm talking. | |
| That just pisses me off when dumb people think that their opinions are relevant. | |
| I'm going to give you some advice right here, Ms. | |
| D.R. Bronx. | |
| When someone is smarter than you is talking and they're telling you what it is, just shut up and listen. | |
| Like, girls need to learn this. | |
| Like, shut the fuck up and listen to the man. | |
| Because most of the time, the guy is smarter than you and knows what the hell he's talking about most of the time. | |
| Especially if they're older than you, they got some shit. | |
| If he's an idiot, he's an idiot. | |
| That's one thing. | |
| But you can tell if he's an idiot. | |
| You're a female. | |
| Girls know when a guy's a fucking bumbling moron. | |
| Are you giving me advice? | |
| Yes, that's for you. | |
| That's for me. | |
| That's advice for you, yes. | |
| So when you have spoken, have I not shut up and let you listen? | |
| No, you've been trying to interject with your standpoints, which are relevant to the point at hand. | |
| Or have you argued back on my standpoints? | |
| Because I don't necessarily agree or have been supporting the facts that you have been providing. | |
| But I have been letting you speak. | |
| Facts are facts whether you support it or not. | |
| Like what you've said a bunch of times are incorrect. | |
| Men break up more than women do. | |
| No, they don't. | |
| That's facts are incorrect. | |
| Okay, okay. | |
| And then the whole thing with women working jobs of hard labor, they don't get into it because society doesn't allow them. | |
| Women have the ability to get into these jobs even more so than ever before. | |
| The advice you gave me was to shut up when people smarter than you are listening. | |
| Not you specifically saying that the points that I'm making don't make sense because they don't add up to the facts that you're providing. | |
| Your facts, your points were incorrect. | |
| They were incorrect, but I still let you speak and say your facts and say your statistics, right or right? | |
| I don't know what you're trying to get at here, but continue. | |
| Because your main point was the advice that you're giving to me, the DR Bronx girl, was to shut up and learn how to listen when smart people are talking. | |
| Yes. | |
| But then you're going to throw up the fact that my opinions and the things that I made didn't... | |
| They were wrong. | |
| They were wrong, but that doesn't mean that I didn't listen to when you were speaking. | |
| That just means that my facts and what I was saying... | |
| They're not facts. | |
| My opinion. | |
| It's like, you know when you tell a man, and it's like, I saw you at the movie theaters with a chick and you was drinking a Sprite, and they're like, well, I wasn't drinking a Sprite, I was drinking a Coke. | |
| That's what you're doing right now. | |
| I'm not, you're taking what I'm saying too, literal. | |
| Bless you. | |
| Thank you. | |
| And your point was, your advice to me was to shut up when smarter people are speaking to me. | |
| That's fine. | |
| I have been letting you speak. | |
| I have been letting you say your facts and your statistics. | |
| Although my opinions might have been wrong and don't add up to your statistics, I have been letting you speak your statistics. | |
| I'm not hurt. | |
| I wasn't cutting you off when you were speaking. | |
| You were cutting them off. | |
| Yeah, you were. | |
| You were ad-libbing? | |
| I was cutting him off? | |
| Like the Migos. | |
| You were ad-libbing like crazy. | |
| Okay, ad-libbing? | |
| Okay, but constantly... | |
| Oh, I can understand making my little side comments while you're still speaking, but constantly... | |
| If I'm talking over you right now like this, that's... | |
| Is he ad-libbing you? | |
| But I'm on the back end. | |
| I understand. | |
| He's the host! | |
| What the fuck? | |
| He's the host! | |
| Alright, so I apologize for making Migos ad-libs while you're speaking. | |
| No, no, no, no, no, no, no. | |
| What the hell, man? | |
| What's the argument here? | |
| No, I'm trying to explain to him that I didn't blatantly cut you off. | |
| You weren't in the middle of this, that, and the third. | |
| And I'm like, yeah, well, can we just move past this point? | |
| Yeah, can we talk about something else? | |
| Let her finish her point. | |
| Right or wrong? | |
| Okay, I was saying Al is behind the scenes, but I'm like, damn, okay. | |
| Behind the scenes. | |
| Although, I understand that's cutting you off, but I'm not blatantly speaking. | |
| Like, say a sentence right now. | |
| Say a sentence. | |
| Yeah, that's wrong. | |
| That's correct. | |
| I didn't say what this is. | |
| I didn't say. | |
| I'm not speaking over you like this. | |
| But I'm in the back. | |
| Damn, that's not correct. | |
| No flavor. | |
| Salty as hell. | |
| That's what I was doing in the back, but you still clearly hear your voice. | |
| I can hear you for sure. | |
| But you still clearly hear your voice. | |
| I'm just in the back. | |
| You know what I hear? | |
| I'm moved. | |
| So where are you going with this? | |
| You're trying to say that you allowed me to speak to tell you the truth about what things are, and you're saying that, well, I gave my interjections even though they weren't correct. | |
| Well, I'm saying this is a podcast, so at the end of the day, I'm not gonna agree with what you say, and you're not gonna agree with what I say either, but at the end of the day, although my opinions and the way I might feel might not equip to your statistics and the facts that you are bringing out. | |
| So you don't agree with statistical facts? | |
| No, I'm not saying that. | |
| I'm saying that even though my opinions before you brought out your statisticals did not match up to your statistics and the facts that you kept bringing up. | |
| That's what I'm trying to explain. | |
| Do you not... | |
| Because I'm saying something that you don't... | |
| No, it's not that. | |
| It's that you don't... | |
| It's wild to me how you can say things that are not correct... | |
| Right? | |
| And then I tell you what it is, and the truth, and then you say, well, just because my opinions don't match up with your facts, blah, blah, blah, if you're trying to dismiss the facts, and it's like, well, I don't agree, well, then you just don't agree with reality if you don't agree with what I said, because what I told you, everything I said was factually correct. | |
| No. | |
| I understand where your point of view is coming from, but at the end of the day, that could be me saying, for instance, the sky is fucking purple, and you could be like, well, the statistics point out that the sky is blue. | |
| And I'm like, okay, damn. | |
| The sky might be blue, but I still feel like the sky is purple. | |
| You feel it. | |
| That's your opinion. | |
| That's my opinion. | |
| That's not me saying, no, for a fact, I believe that women... | |
| Okay, can I say something? | |
| I can be wrong with my opinion. | |
| She's telling me that's wrong. | |
| Can she say something? | |
| Can I say something? | |
| See, what you're trying to say is that if I say the sky is purple, it should still be valid. | |
| That's what you're trying to say. | |
| No, I'm saying at the end of the day, when you have a discussion with somebody, even though you're bringing up facts and statistics, opinions should be heard. | |
| We might agree to this. | |
| No, they shouldn't be. | |
| That's the fucking problem. | |
| What? | |
| Yes, they shouldn't be. | |
| Because here's the thing. | |
| If your opinion is incorrect and it doesn't line up with reality, it shouldn't be fucking heard. | |
| Because I don't like to perpetuate stupidity. | |
| That is the difference here. | |
| I don't think everyone's opinion is valid. | |
| I don't think everyone should have a voice. | |
| I think... | |
| Honestly, and the way it should be, is the smartest people lead, the people that aren't necessarily smart, shut the fuck up and stay in the back and follow. | |
| That's how it should be. | |
| Because when we sit here and listen to everyone's opinion and everyone's valid and your feelings matter, your feelings matter, let's go ahead and listen to your viewpoint. | |
| That's how we end up in a clown world. | |
| Not everyone is in a position to speak. | |
| And not everyone deserves to fucking speak because I think it should be earned, not just a right. | |
| Now, fortunately for you, we live in a country where the freedom of speech is a thing. | |
| But guess what? | |
| Freedom of speech doesn't necessarily mean that everyone is correct because a lot of people say dumb shit. | |
| And I think if you're going to say dumb shit, that isn't right. | |
| You should be ready to stand corrected by someone who's telling you what it really is. | |
| So you're trying to say, well, if I have an opinion, it's valid. | |
| I argue not every opinion is valid. | |
| I never said that. | |
| You can voice your opinion, but he's going to tell you if it's correct or not. | |
| No, and I completely understand that because at the end of the day, when I speak from my opinions... | |
| See, I would never be having a discussion like this with a man. | |
| Just FYI. Like, if I had a discussion with a guy and I was like, this is what it is, he'd be like, oh, really? | |
| Okay. | |
| That's it. | |
| But with women, it's like, well, hear me out. | |
| This is my take and I think this is blah, blah, blah. | |
| Even though it's all wrong. | |
| Okay. | |
| Like I said, I can have an opinion. | |
| My opinion might be wrong. | |
| You might disagree with my opinion. | |
| My opinion might not go with your statistics. | |
| And I might be completely, utterly wrong. | |
| That doesn't mean I'm going to stand, oh, well, my opinion is my opinion and I feel how I feel. | |
| I can take from what you're giving me because you're providing facts and I can change my opinion around that. | |
| But at the end of the day, I said what I said. | |
| Now, it's up to you for you to be like, you know what? | |
| There's 93% of this, and there's 7% of this, and there's 23% of this, and this is actual statistics, and I could sit here and be like, you know what, damn, you might actually be right. | |
| You're actually right. | |
| I am right. | |
| I corrected myself. | |
| I said, you're actually right. | |
| You're providing statistics. | |
| You're providing this, that, and the third. | |
| Okay. | |
| So, you gave your opinion. | |
| You commented on it. | |
| Which is fucking wrong. | |
| You agreed that it was wrong. | |
| Regardless, at the end of the day, you might not agree with my opinion. | |
| She down there might not agree with my opinion. | |
| Him over there in the back might not agree with my opinion. | |
| Can I say something? | |
| I just think the moral of the story is... | |
| He understands what you're saying, but he's just letting you know that, okay, he understands and he hears how you feel, but the way and how you feel about what you're going on about, in his brain, is completely idiotic and wrong. | |
| Okay, and I completely accept that. | |
| And you accept that. | |
| But I don't think that you get in the fact that you accept that because you're diffusing what you're saying. | |
| I'm not diffusing, but it's come to a point where he's constantly telling me that I'm constantly going back and forth with him. | |
| When I said my opinion, you said the statistics, and I shut the fuck up. | |
| And I was like, you know what? | |
| You asked the next person a question. | |
| And okay, that's it. | |
| I was wrong. | |
| My opinion is my opinion. | |
| I didn't come to you with facts. | |
| Well, 97% of women did this in the back of the days and 57% of men did this and that. | |
| I didn't come into that. | |
| I understood and I heard what you say. | |
| Again, like I said, it's a podcast. | |
| It's five different people sitting in this chair. | |
| We can always agree to disagree whether you have facts or not. | |
| Because at the end of the day, my opinion is my opinion and I'm going to stand on what I feel. | |
| Now, if you're showing me statistics and I can be a real woman and I can be like, you know what, damn, my opinion might actually be wrong. | |
| If it's wrong, shut the fuck up. | |
| You have changed my opinion. | |
| No, I was wrong. | |
| Shut the fuck up. | |
| If I was wrong, I would shut the fuck up. | |
| And that's exactly what I did. | |
| Can we go back to talking about relationships? | |
| Can we go back to talking about relationships? | |
| You said it's a podcast, so I'm going to talk even if I'm wrong. | |
| It's crazy, bro. | |
| I never see someone be wrong and just keep talking. | |
| It's crazy, right? | |
| And then talk about how they're wrong for longer. | |
| Like, that doesn't make sense. | |
| Because you keep going back and forth with me. | |
| No, no, you're going back and forth. | |
| Yeah, you are. | |
| No, because I say something and then he constantly brings up the fact that I was- Shut up, bitch! | |
| He's telling you that you're wrong. | |
| This is low IQ behavior, man. | |
| I don't know what to say, bro. | |
| This is just low IQ behavior, bro. | |
| This is low IQ behavior, bro. | |
| This is low IQ behavior, man. | |
| It's the ick. | |
| It's fine, man. | |
| Let's be correct. | |
| It's the ick. | |
| What is the ick? | |
| I don't know. | |
| No, I'm saying he said ick, so let's use the correct term. | |
| It's the ick. | |
| Can we just go back to relationships? | |
| What?! | |
| Chissy's back real quick. | |
| What the fuck?! | |
| Or whatever we were talking about before this topic? | |
| Yeah, um... | |
| Are we taking a bathroom break? | |
| No. | |
| Well, she is. | |
| You can go right after her. | |
| Okay. | |
| We read some chats, I guess. | |
| This is fucking crazy, bro. | |
| It's piling up right now, man. | |
| Yeah, what was that? | |
| Yeah, it's piling up right now. | |
| Piling up? | |
| Okay. | |
| When Blondhair said, let's look behind the facts and statistics, I know we lost a generation. | |
| Yeah, bro. | |
| Yeah, you said that earlier. | |
| Don't worry. | |
| I stated what it was, and you're like, well, let's look behind the facts. | |
| Don't worry. | |
| It's on video. | |
| You can watch it back. | |
| Mr. | |
| Ransom. | |
| It's crazy. | |
| When they don't even remember what they said, that's how you know they're arguing with emotion. | |
| Because they're just saying what feels good at the time, and they didn't think about it, so they're just responding. | |
| You can hear your opinions, but when it's wrong, he's telling you it's wrong, you keep going, it's like you're being retarded. | |
| I admitted that I was wrong though. | |
| And gentlemen, this is, honestly bro, I tell y'all on this podcast all the time, this is why, like, don't argue with women, ever. | |
| Like, I do this shit professionally for you guys just so you guys see it. | |
| But like, don't fucking, like, don't get with a girl that's gonna sit here and give you back talk. | |
| Like, cause you guys can see here, no offense to you, but this, a lot of girls do this shit. | |
| We've had over 3,000 y'all and you said, I'm not like the other girls, but you quite literally are like the other ones. | |
| I never said that. | |
| Yo, bro, I'm next to you. | |
| You said it. | |
| You literally said, I'm not these other girls. | |
| I'm different. | |
| I'm not like them. | |
| I'm different. | |
| He said, I'm not like them. | |
| I'm different. | |
| I'm like, okay, great. | |
| You just proved us you're the exact same up as all the other girls. | |
| Oh, yeah, yeah. | |
| You know what? | |
| I take that back. | |
| You're correct. | |
| You're correct. | |
| I just said that. | |
| This is why you can't argue with girls, bro. | |
| And this is why you can never be in a relationship with a girl. | |
| At least I didn't admit that I was wrong. | |
| No, just be quiet for two seconds. | |
| Like... | |
| Don't be following these niggas, bro. | |
| Relax, I'm just waiting for you to be quiet so we can go on with another topic. | |
| I've been quiet for the last couple minutes. | |
| You've been talking the whole time, bro. | |
| Shut the fuck up. | |
| The only thing I said was, damn, when did I say that? | |
| You're still talking. | |
| No, because we're not going to act. | |
| You're literally talking. | |
| Let's continue. | |
| Whose show are you on? | |
| Let's continue. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| What show are you on? | |
| Let's go. | |
| I'm on y'all show. | |
| Then shut the fuck up. | |
| I did. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Last word? | |
| Bro, see? | |
| These bitches always gotta get the last word. | |
| Bro, get the fuck up out of here, man. | |
| These fucking bitches, man. | |
| Get the fuck up out of here, man. | |
| Tired of you fucking hoes, man. | |
| Gotta get the last word, you ghetto ratchet fucking bitches. | |
| Every time you sectionate bitches. | |
| I gotta get the last word. | |
| Okay. | |
| Get the fuck up out of here! | |
| Yes! | |
| You! | |
| Get the fuck up out of here, man! | |
| This ain't the Bronx! | |
| Tired of you bitches, man! | |
| Get out of here, bro! | |
| Get the fuck up out of here! | |
| Ridiculous, bro! | |
| Gotta always get the last fucking word every time with these ghetto bitches, man! | |
| Holy fuck! | |
| Yo, just shut up and get out of here, bro! | |
| Just shut the fuck up and get out of here! | |
| I'm not your baby daddy, man! | |
| Get the fuck up out of here, man! | |
| Gotta always get the last word and shit, man! | |
| Get the fuck up out of here, bro! | |
| These bitches are ridiculous, bro! | |
| Holy fuck, man! | |
| It's like they can't shut up. | |
| You're on a fucking show with tens of thousands of people watching. | |
| Can't shut the fuck up when niggas are talking. | |
| She has a what? | |
| I just confirmed, bro. | |
| She got no ass. | |
| Yeah, I swear to God. | |
| All the chicks that talk the most shit have no ass, bro. | |
| Yo! | |
| It always be the fucking number two. | |
| Incredible. | |
| It's the flat back. | |
| It fucking incredible, man. | |
| Jukos. | |
| That's what Coach would say. | |
| Yo, chat wasn't right, man. | |
| Yo, that is, yo, literally, that's like the, that's like the, like the fucking quintessential example of a ghetto bitch. | |
| Like, they gotta get the last word in, bro. | |
| Every time, get the fuck up out of here with that shit. | |
| We were being nice. | |
| Flat, flat, flat, flat, flat, flat, flat. | |
| But, bro. | |
| The ghetto bitch from West Palm earlier, the fucking single mom bitch. | |
| Like, bro, it's crazy. | |
| They always gotta get the last word in, man. | |
| Shut the fuck up when niggas are talking, man. | |
| See, when they talk, we're quiet. | |
| Yeah, we let them talk the whole first fucking plus hour. | |
| Giving their takes and all this other shit. | |
| Yapping a bunch of shit. | |
| Let them talk. | |
| And then, all right, now this is what it is. | |
| I gotta get my takes. | |
| Shut the fuck up, man. | |
| Holy shit. | |
| But you know what's scary? | |
| This is the future of America. | |
| Bro, tell y'all, man. | |
| You're going to go wife one of these chicks up, give them a baby, marry them. | |
| Guys, learn from this fucking podcast. | |
| If there's one thing you fucking faggot say from this shit, it is this. | |
| Never, ever, ever be in a relationship with a chick that thinks she's the boss of you, bro, because you're going to deal with bullshit like that. | |
| Your girl talks to you like that? | |
| Any of that bullshit? | |
| You guys have my fucking permission right now. | |
| Tell her you're fucking single, man. | |
| Do not ever be with a fucking bitch that talks to you like that. | |
| Or talks back to you. | |
| You don't want to be a woman that talks back to you. | |
| If a girl talks back to you, Yo, you're gonna be dealing with bullshit like that. | |
| Gotta get the last word and shit. | |
| We don't play that shit over here. | |
| Get the fuck up out of here, bro. | |
| Don't deal with bitches like this. | |
| You guys will live a miserable fucking life. | |
| That's why these hoes are single. | |
| What do y'all niggas think? | |
| With kids. | |
| With kids. | |
| Oh my god. | |
| Like, that's the truth. | |
| Fuck, man! | |
| Like, guys, fuck them and dump them. | |
| Holy shit, man. | |
| What were you gonna say, Fresh? | |
| Nah, I was just gonna say, um... | |
| Let me get some water. | |
| Wait, wait, hold on. | |
| Goddamn. | |
| Gotcha. | |
| Think about this. | |
| Uh... | |
| I was gonna say, like... | |
| Incredible. | |
| Right now, in this current economy, you don't wanna waste time. | |
| And also, as well, these women out here, man... | |
| Some are good, some are bad, but girls like that, you don't want to wipe up, bro. | |
| Because imagine being at a house with her alone. | |
| It's torture, bro. | |
| And if you're married to her, you can look high for shit. | |
| For that? | |
| Nigga. | |
| I'm good. | |
| Look. | |
| I'm good, bro. | |
| Look. | |
| Guys, take one piece of advice from this man. | |
| Myron Gaines, fucking multi-millionaire famous, etc. | |
| Telling these bitches what it is, and they got the nerve to talk back to me. | |
| What the fuck do you think is going to happen, y'all? | |
| You're done. | |
| Just be honest. | |
| Like, yo, keep it a thousand with y'all. | |
| These girls are sitting here talking this shit to me. | |
| Right? | |
| On camera in front of tens of thousands of people watching. | |
| What the fuck do you think is going to happen to you? | |
| You're done. | |
| I'm telling y'all, man. | |
| Don't ever get with girls that sit there and fucking talk back to y'all, man. | |
| Or give you this bullshit, want to argue with you all. | |
| No, man. | |
| No. | |
| You think Angie argues with me? | |
| No. | |
| Angie, be quiet. | |
| Done. | |
| That's it. | |
| Don't ever fucking get with a girl that wants to sit there and get the last word or argue with you. | |
| Use this as a fucking learning lesson. | |
| You guys are seeing modern American women in the fuckery. | |
| If they're doing this shit with me and Fresh, and we're like, who we are? | |
| Nobody's safe. | |
| Yo, nobody's safe, bro. | |
| Nobody's safe. | |
| Nobody's fucking safe, man. | |
| All right. | |
| We'll read the chats. | |
| Ladies, you guys got any opinions on this or things? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Whatever you guys want to say. | |
| They're just shocked right now. | |
| They're shocked right now. | |
| I don't know what happened. | |
| I just feel like she just needs to just listen. | |
| I mean, you called it out earlier, so shout out to you. | |
| Yeah. | |
| See, you understand. | |
| Like, she just needs to, like, he wasn't trying to downplay her, like, but at the same time, she was downplaying her own self. | |
| You going over the question, you explaining too much of your personal feeling and not really the question, and then you want to think I'm dick riding because you the one sound dumb? | |
| Mm-hmm. | |
| Make it make sense. | |
| Dumb dummy. | |
| Stupid. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah, that was well. | |
| You know what's interesting? | |
| The girls that are engaged or married, they always have a different temperament than the single girls. | |
| Every single time, bro, if a girl comes on and she says, I'm engaged, or she's married, they kind of understand male authority. | |
| But, like, the girls that are single, or single moms especially, And then they wonder, why are they single? | |
| Ta-da! | |
| Actually, the girl in the video, bro. | |
| The girl in the video? | |
| Nigga, she's talking to me like that on my show with all these people watching, when there's clearly a fucking divide of who the fucking leader is on this shit. | |
| She's still behaving that way. | |
| I'm telling y'all, man, you guys are... | |
| We're doomed. | |
| We're fucking doomed, man. | |
| I was more concerned about... | |
| Society is doomed. | |
| The respect level of, like, you letting her talk, but whenever you talk, it's like, oh, no, I'm gonna bite in when I feel like, because I'm gonna be dominant. | |
| And there's cameras on, Could you imagine behind closed doors in a relationship with somebody? | |
| And then they see a clip. | |
| Oh, he's being mean. | |
| No, but he just gave her a chance to speak, but then whenever he speaks, he's like, oh shit, I'm going to talk before her because I want to talk. | |
| Guys, please, man. | |
| If you guys take anything away from this podcast, never take girls seriously that don't shut the fuck up when you're talking and don't understand listening to you and most importantly, obeying you too. | |
| Because if you tell her, hey, this is what it is, and she's like, oh, well. | |
| What do you mean by obeying? | |
| Listening to a man. | |
| Shut up, bitch! | |
| Submissive to the point where, you know, if he tell you jump, you say hi-hi. | |
| I feel like the word obeying is too aggressive. | |
| I mean, you're 32 and a second, man. | |
| You run your man problem. | |
| No, no, no. | |
| She ain't married, though, man. | |
| Come on, man. | |
| I'm not married. | |
| Man, she's that old, man. | |
| Look. | |
| Look, let me... | |
| Okay. | |
| When you get a certain caliber of guy, we don't sit there and negotiate with you guys. | |
| I don't listen to women ever. | |
| And the reason why I don't listen to you guys is because you guys have a skewed perception of how the world really works. | |
| You said earlier, the man needs to need the woman more. | |
| Then I explained to you why that's not true. | |
| Why the woman needs to need the man for the relationship to last. | |
| And you agreed. | |
| So you're 32 years old and you didn't even understand that concept. | |
| So what I'm trying to say is that, right? | |
| And you're 32 years old. | |
| What does that have to do with anything? | |
| My age. | |
| You're old as shit. | |
| Thank you. | |
| I know that. | |
| You're 32, you're an adult, and you didn't understand that concept. | |
| So what I'm trying to say is, is that women, a lot of the times, operate with a... | |
| Emotion? | |
| Yes, that's a component. | |
| But then also, to make it worse, you guys operate with a perception that isn't reality. | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay? | |
| I cannot get, yeah. | |
| Because women live a way easier life than men do. | |
| We have to earn everything we get. | |
| Okay. | |
| We have to make the money, we have to get the status, we have to go to the gym, etc. | |
| Nowadays, it's not quite like that, though. | |
| I mean, but... | |
| Okay, I'm gonna explain myself. | |
| I'm gonna explain. | |
| Sure, go ahead. | |
| I feel like now that everything has to be equality and everything, and that's great, but I've had some situations when the man... | |
| He doesn't want to do what you're saying. | |
| He doesn't want to like... | |
| Whose fault is that then? | |
| With getting with a guy? | |
| You just said a second ago, going half and half. | |
| Whose fault is that if you get with a guy that wants to go half and half with you? | |
| That's your fault. | |
| If your guy's not stepping up to how... | |
| Yeah, yeah, yeah. | |
| But it's not... | |
| I'm not saying that I've dated guys like that, but it's been like I've encountered some situations like that. | |
| When I was giving you that example, I said certain guys. | |
| I didn't say all. | |
| I said certain men that have their shit together are just not going to tolerate women trying to tell them what it is or their world views. | |
| To me, I don't... | |
| Women live life on easy mode. | |
| If you're a halfway attractive girl, like, you can get anything you want, honestly, if you know what you're doing, right? | |
| Pretty privilege? | |
| Huh? | |
| Yes, pretty privilege is a real thing. | |
| So, I don't take women seriously with their opinions, their worldviews, etc., because... | |
| You guys simply don't live the same life and experience that men do. | |
| A man has to build himself up from the ground up, right, and get to a certain point. | |
| We don't sit here and negotiate with women. | |
| It's my way or the highway. | |
| I don't sit there and be like, well, what do you think? | |
| And then, like, I might take your opinion into consideration, of course, but if I make a decision, I make the decision. | |
| And if I tell you do this, you do it. | |
| And if you don't obey, then you're single. | |
| Have you ever have you ever gotten like ask a woman or your girlfriend or somebody for opinion and just to consider it? | |
| I just said that I said I might take your opinion into consideration but if I make a decision I make a decision and it's your job to obey as a woman not the other way around now you're saying that's that's aggressive no one's forcing you no one's forcing you to obey If you don't want to obey, that's fine. | |
| Then you're fucking single. | |
| You're not in a relationship with me no more. | |
| Go to a guy that isn't going to make you obey. | |
| Or you don't have to obey. | |
| But guess what? | |
| You're paying half the bills. | |
| He's not sure about what he's going to do in his life. | |
| Guys that have their shit together, you don't question us. | |
| We tell you what it is and then you decide if you want to operate or not. | |
| No! | |
| What the fuck? | |
| And I want all the guys that watch this. | |
| You make a certain amount of money, etc. | |
| I tell you guys to become successful, so you tell women what the fuck it is. | |
| And guess what? | |
| Women like you respect guys like me. | |
| Because you guys don't want to sit there and go 50-50 with a guy. | |
| No, you want a guy to just tell you, this is what it is, we're going to go do this. | |
| Okay, cool. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay, exactly. | |
| So why are you mad about obey when you guys are attracted to it? | |
| No, just the word. | |
| It's the word. | |
| I don't like it. | |
| I don't give a fuck what you like. | |
| I'm telling you what it is. | |
| That's what I'm trying to say. | |
| Words, oh my God, words. | |
| You're a transcriber. | |
| You should know better than this. | |
| Obey us to follow a command. | |
| Simple. | |
| Like, you don't like the word, who cares what you like or not? | |
| You like the money, right? | |
| You like the fucking confidence. | |
| You like the ambition. | |
| Well, guess what? | |
| Obey, bitch. | |
| That's how it comes with this attitude. | |
| I don't become this type of guy and sit there and tell you, well, what do you think? | |
| No, I tell you this is what it is. | |
| That's how I made this money. | |
| That's how I became the man that I am. | |
| That's how I have the confidence, the ambition. | |
| I fought a bunch of fucking people to get to this point. | |
| You think I'm going to sit here and fight with you now? | |
| No. | |
| Do what I say. | |
| No. | |
| You're fucking single. | |
| Get the fuck up out of here. | |
| That's how it goes. | |
| I don't negotiate with women. | |
| And I want all the guys watching the show to be that way. | |
| Because women respect men that don't negotiate. | |
| We don't negotiate with y'all. | |
| You guys live life on easy mode. | |
| What the fuck do I look like listening to someone who lives life on easy mode? | |
| Doesn't make sense. | |
| Obey! | |
| Or not! | |
| You better get your money up and status up, though. | |
| Bro, I'm telling y'all niggas, man. | |
| This is how you guys need to talk. | |
| Look, she instantly respects me now because I'm telling her what it is. | |
| This is what it is. | |
| No, I'm just laughing about his comment. | |
| I'm not saying that. | |
| Does your guy in Guatemala talk to you like this? | |
| Probably not. | |
| He probably tells you, baby, what do you think? | |
| She's in Miami and he's in Guatemala. | |
| Look at her face, man. | |
| This is what the fuck happens when you go half and half with your girl. | |
| She fucking smiles. | |
| That's why I tell y'all niggas, man, make money, become successful, and don't fucking negotiate with women because this is what happens. | |
| No offense to you. | |
| I don't mean to use an example, but this is the truth. | |
| If you had a guy that told you, obey, stay your ass to fucking Guatemala, and he had money together and he was successful, you'd be staying in Guatemala transcribing fucking things. | |
| That's what you'd be doing. | |
| You'd be out here doing, I do beauty vlogs, and traveling to Miami and shit. | |
| You think my girl travels anywhere without me, without my permission? | |
| Fuck no. | |
| Hell no. | |
| Hell no. | |
| My girl tells me everywhere that she's going to go, and I have to approve it. | |
| That's how it goes. | |
| Well, he knows where I am. | |
| No way. | |
| You're not understanding what he's saying. | |
| I know what he's saying. | |
| Man, you fucking mind me, bro. | |
| You fucking mind me. | |
| I would never let my girl go to Miami and I'm still back in Guatemala. | |
| Bro, she gettin' trained and everything, bro. | |
| Yo, man. | |
| You guys are saying that 1080p right now red pill shit, man. | |
| Yeah, yeah, yeah. | |
| Hope y'all are fucking... | |
| Chris Wright, though. | |
| My girl, man, I'll ship her off to fucking Mexico, bro. | |
| What? | |
| But she's from Guatemala, though. | |
| Oh, girl, fuck, man. | |
| Same shit. | |
| No, it's not the same. | |
| Don't say that. | |
| You might have fans that are from Guatemala, and Mexico is not the same. | |
| Well, I'm your fan, man. | |
| Shout out to them, though. | |
| Mexicans eat pupusas, too, so... | |
| Pusas on El Salvador. | |
| I know. | |
| They're delicious, though. | |
| All right, fantastic. | |
| We're back to Fresh and Fit from 2021 now. | |
| All right, let's do it. | |
| Have you been there? | |
| Have you been there? | |
| There's going to be a day. | |
| No, but that's not a dish. | |
| When there's no more girls. | |
| So look, I get that you're like, I don't like the word obey, but... | |
| Guess what? | |
| Guys that have their shit together, we don't give a fuck what you think. | |
| It's obey or leave. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| You think a dude makes millions of dollars to listen to a woman, bro? | |
| You really think that? | |
| Okay, now I have a question. | |
| Or makes hundreds of thousands of dollars, whatever it may be. | |
| Why do you think there are guys that they have not their shit together? | |
| Because most guys are bums. | |
| That's a mentality thing. | |
| You have to want better for yourself. | |
| You want to know why? | |
| Because they're scared to embrace their masculinity to tell women like you, obey. | |
| That's the reason why. | |
| Because men don't understand. | |
| No problem, thank you. | |
| If you don't get your money on point, if you don't get in shape, if you don't understand being ambitious, being confident, being able to look a woman in her eye and tell her this is how it is, or you're gonna be single, right? | |
| That's how you keep a relationship going, by letting her know that she's expendable at any time. | |
| They think, what you're saying, what the girl before was saying, 50-50. | |
| It's an equal partnership. | |
| It's okay. | |
| We're going to build together. | |
| That's all a fucking lie. | |
| Okay? | |
| Women don't build with you. | |
| They move in. | |
| I want you guys to build a castle so they move in so you can dictate the terms. | |
| Because, literally, you're saying it right now. | |
| Well, why don't guys want to be ambitious or whatever? | |
| It's because they believe the feminist bullshit. | |
| They believe the whole equality thing. | |
| Don't say yeah now. | |
| No, but I'm not. | |
| I'm asking you because I want to know your opinion. | |
| But you're making sense. | |
| It's because they fall into the lie that you've been perpetuating. | |
| Like, I don't like to obey, but the reality is you're turned down when a guy tells you to obey. | |
| If you were single, you'd probably be thinking about getting with me right now. | |
| Not that I would. | |
| But the point I'm trying to make here is that men need to lead, and you lead by example and by being that fucking guy, and not falling for the propaganda that they push saying, men and women are equal, it's okay to be in your feelings and be vulnerable. | |
| No. | |
| No. | |
| None of this fucking faggot shit. | |
| You're the leader. | |
| You're the dominant. | |
| You tell her what it is. | |
| If she doesn't listen, then she's single. | |
| That's it. | |
| We don't negotiate with women over here. | |
| We negotiate with other men. | |
| That's it. | |
| I don't negotiate with women ever. | |
| It's a joke. | |
| Oh my god. | |
| No. | |
| Am I a gif? | |
| Yeah, they turned you into a gif. | |
| Congratulations. | |
| Oh my god. | |
| Alright, we're going to finish off the show on Castle Club. | |
| Guys, come on over at CastleClub.tv. | |
| And then we're going to go a little bit longer on there. | |
| And then, yeah. | |
| And if you don't want to join, that's fine. | |
| It's up to you guys. | |
| CastleClub.tv. | |
| What? | |
| Oh, let me read the wrong ones. | |
| Sorry, sorry, sorry. | |
| What do we got here? | |
| Oh my god, I hate that. | |
| This is funny, man. | |
| This is back to the old days. | |
| I can't believe you just dismissed everybody. | |
| Yeah, it was worse. | |
| I mean, bro, this is... | |
| I'm glad that you go against the stereotype, though. | |
| This is why nobody fucks with black women, man. | |
| And I'm telling you, I'm just keeping a thousand. | |
| I'm glad that you're not aligning with the stereotype. | |
| But this is why, statistically speaking, more numbers, black women score the lowest on all dating apps. | |
| They're the least desirable race of female. | |
| And it's because of, like, the behavior of, like, these girls. | |
| I mean, that Dominican girl you can maybe count her as black. | |
| I don't know. | |
| She's Hispanic. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But she ghetto, though. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But, like, yeah. | |
| Like, holy fuck, man. | |
| It's so bad. | |
| What? | |
| They ghetto, too, out there. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| She's from the Bronx, man. | |
| Like, what are you, bro? | |
| This is what it is, man. | |
| Section 8 Central, man. | |
| Martin, this is hood, ain't it? | |
| Like, ghetto is ghetto, regardless of skin color. | |
| I'm just saying, like, it just tends to be that a lot of black women are ghetto. | |
| What do we got here? | |
| Oh, Mythos Gear. | |
| Let her go die, her here tomorrow, while the boys go make bread and back, breaking work for a paycheck. | |
| What'd he say? | |
| Fucking W. Myron Rance Holy. | |
| Yeah, I appreciate that. | |
| Bro. | |
| Those rants come at a cost, man. | |
| I'm losing my hair with these girls. | |
| Okay, oh my god, what the fuck? | |
| 2 plus 2 equal to A76. Women just can't stop. | |
| Holy shit, Myron. | |
| I can see the pod taking a toll on you. | |
| Don't lose faith. | |
| WFNF and crew. | |
| Bro, we ain't doing a show on Wednesday, man. | |
| Thank fucking God, bro. | |
| Oh my god. | |
| Shit. | |
| Like, we're gonna do, we're gonna have Suleiman on, have a high IQ conversation, because I get annoyed talking to girls, bro. | |
| I ain't gonna lie to you. | |
| You? | |
| Let's fucking it. | |
| Nigga, you ain't saying nothing. | |
| You just sit there and talk a shit. | |
| The whole day, I'm talking to girls, man. | |
| They flake. | |
| They doing some bullshit. | |
| Is what is, man. | |
| Every fucking week, man. | |
| Three times a week, man. | |
| Bro, we've been going the longest doing this dumb shit, bro. | |
| Three times a week, yeah. | |
| Three times a week, bro. | |
| I think we can cut girls, bro. | |
| Yo, it's not easy, bro. | |
| Eventually. | |
| And then Chuck plays, oh, oh, Chris, chill panel. | |
| I'm like, nigga, new girls every fucking week, man. | |
| Relax. | |
| Chill. | |
| Like, y'all still fucking these bitches, man. | |
| That's true. | |
| Right? | |
| Am I right or wrong, man? | |
| Like, stop giving these hoes things, man! | |
| Goddamn! | |
| Never mind. | |
| Alright, what do we got here? | |
| Don't take that back. | |
| I love my mother, truly, but I always go to my father for advice. | |
| Absolutely, bro. | |
| Always go to your dad, man. | |
| Hey, Myra, why are black women the least desirable of all races? | |
| Is it the stereotypes or the obesity and attitudes? | |
| Oh yeah, they're also the fattest. | |
| The average black woman weighs 187 pounds. | |
| I think he understood after this episode. | |
| I feel good, because I'm the only black girl here. | |
| Yeah, good job. | |
| And you're engaged, too. | |
| So, hey! | |
| Literally, when a girl is married or engaged, we rarely ever have issues with girls that are in a relationship. | |
| They get it, bro. | |
| They fucking get it. | |
| So, it's the single bitches, man, that always cause the issues. | |
| She's smiling, she's happy. | |
| And they wonder why they can't get a guy. | |
| Is she so young? | |
| What, 23? | |
| Literally, I was trying to teach them. | |
| This is what you do. | |
| I have two kids. | |
| Fuck you, I'm 32. | |
| I know what I'm talking about. | |
| It's stupid, bro. | |
| Like, these girls are so dumb. | |
| It's like, I'm literally giving them the rubric to get a guy. | |
| Because here's the thing. | |
| All the guys I know that make money that are successful, they have the same fucking mindset. | |
| Like, this is what they want in girls. | |
| You know? | |
| It's just... | |
| Whatever. | |
| Okay. | |
| Niggas making fun of Chris. | |
| Yo, Castle Club is crazy. | |
| Yo, Castle Club is crazy, bro. | |
| What do we got? | |
| Yo. | |
| Everything else is Castle Club. | |
| Everything is Castle Club? | |
| All right, guys. | |
| Come on over to Castle Club. | |
| CastleClub.tv, man. | |
| Come on over. | |
| If you're not in there, I don't know what y'all are doing, bro. | |
| Yo. | |
| Yo. | |
| By the way, we got 15 cities. | |
| Real quick, before we go over it, I want to let the Rumble niggas know. | |
| Um... | |
| 15 generals? | |
| Yeah, we got... | |
| And I'll tell you what, as a city. | |
| We got New York City, Las Vegas, Melbourne, Australia, Cleveland, Ohio, Atlanta, Georgia, Tampa, Florida, Honolulu, Hawaii, Tokyo, Japan, Los Angeles, California, San Francisco, California, Seattle, Washington, Chicago, Illinois, Dallas, Texas, Boston, Massachusetts, and Houston, Texas, guys. | |
| So we got a main POC/general for all these major cities in the United States. | |
| So you better get a podcast club if you live in any of these geographic areas because, and we're gonna build more communities, but this is where we're gonna be starting. | |
| These major cities, again, New York City, Vegas, Melbourne, Cleveland, Atlanta, Tampa, Honolulu, Tokyo, Los Angeles, San Fran, Seattle, Chicago, Dallas, Boston, and Houston are gonna be the cities where we're gonna be having generals and we're gonna be doing meetups, et cetera. | |
| So, again, guys, Castle Club is more than just us doing content over there. | |
| It's a brotherhood. | |
| It's also a fucking brotherhood. | |
| It's a community. | |
| We're going to be doing a Zoom call more than likely either Wednesday after Suleiman or on Thursday. | |
| It depends on how long we get the shit done. | |
| I'm going to be introducing you to the generals from all these places. | |
| Shout out to D.L. St. | |
| for helping us out with this. | |
| He's actually going to be the general out of Tampa. | |
| We're building communities in all these fucking cities. | |
| Toronto will be coming up soon, guys. | |
| I know some of y'all saying Washington, D.C., Toronto. | |
| Yeah, don't worry. | |
| We're going to be getting these places. | |
| So, guys, join a cast club. | |
| It's more than that. | |
| It's a community as well. | |
| castclub.tv. | |
| Come on over, guys. |
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