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June 1, 2024 - Fresh & Fit
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Thank you.
What's up, guys?
We're in the Fresh and Fit Podcast.
Yeah, I sound like fresh, right?
Hey, or Chris, worse yet.
Guys, check us out.
I need to get some caffeine in me.
Guys, let's get into the goddamn show.
Let's go.
What are you doing?
Nobody cares, bro.
Get out.
Get out.
It's the night.
Kind of back.
In the night.
No control.
Bye.
F*** out.
Put your shoes on outside.
You don't gotta put them on in here.
Alright! - Oh.
What's up, guys?
Welcome to Fresh Shift Podcast.
We're joined with some lovely ladies in Brandon Jamal, man.
And we got the kick of controversy in the house as well.
He's going to come in here in a little bit.
After the fact.
But quick announcement against the show.
Guys, rumble.com slash Fresh Shift.
As you guys know, that's the home base for us, man.
We can get all the content that is, you know...
Not safe for YouTube.
Not safe for YouTube.
Also, cowsclub.tv, guys.
We are building a huge community over there.
We got 6,000 plus you guys in there strong.
we're going for 10k I already got a bunch of guys that are from different major cities who are going to be basically generals and what I'm trying to have is we're going to have different chapters in different parts of the world we already got in Australia and Melbourne we got a couple guys in Texas we got a guy in New York we got a guy in Tampa so we're building it out where you're going to be able to join a community of like-minded individuals in your local area because we know that it's hard to find RPO-ware guys South America as well.
We've got a guy out of Peru.
So we're slowly building this infrastructure.
We want 10,000 plus strong in there, guys.
So CastleClub.tv is the only way to get in there.
And then also we're going to be doing Zoom calls.
We're going to be giving you guys value.
I'm going to be giving you guys some of my hot tweets that I wouldn't put on Twitter over there.
I think I posted something earlier today about a certain event from the 40s.
So yeah, we can't talk about it on YouTube, but it's over there on CastleClub.tv.
But yeah, guys, that is where you're going to be able to get all the stuff and join a community.
And Chris?
We have eight girls on the panel.
We got a special guest and one coming later.
Shout out to the girls that came on to the show.
Seven new girls in one repeat.
Girls, Demi and R.C. Parks on IG. Let's make it happen.
And I think we got a special, you know, surprise for someone.
All right!
This nigga trying to be humble.
Hey!
Let's go!
Let's go, Mo!
Happy birthday, man.
Nigga, how old are you?
34.
34.
That nigga old as hell.
Goddamn!
Yeah, man.
He is old.
Me too.
Hey, but you can't have none of that cake, nigga.
That was strictly for show.
You can't have none of it, fat ass.
No cake.
No cake for you.
No cake, bro.
That shit is strictly for show, nigga.
Oh, boy.
The rest of the girls can have it in the back.
Shout out to all the ladies that work for us.
You guys go eat that cake, man.
No, you can't have a bite, nigga.
You can't have none more.
Everyone gets made fun of here.
But you are down 157 pounds, so shout out to Kuber.
Congratulations.
He wasn't always that fat, guys.
He was like 500 pounds when he first came here.
He was huge.
Yeah.
And we're going to roast him until he's under 200.
There you go.
But ladies!
Yes.
If you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course.
Your body count.
We'll start right here.
Welcome to the show.
Thank you.
I'm Sapphire Achilles.
I'm 20 years old.
I'm an IT cybersecurity.
I work for the Department of State.
And I'm a barber on the side.
And I'm also a podcaster on the side and a model.
That's a lot.
I'm single right now.
What was the other question?
What's your background?
Ethnicity-wise, South African and Malaysian.
Are your parents still together?
Yes, they are.
Birth control?
Birth control?
Am I? I'm on monk mode right now.
Hold on, hold on.
Celibate, yes.
He was asking if you're on birth control now.
Yeah.
Yeah or no?
I've never been on birth control.
Never been on it before?
No.
And then you said you're Malaysian and what?
South African.
Okay.
And then you said you do IT for Department of State and you're a barber?
And a model.
And a model, okay.
And a model?
Did you fill out your outside employment paperwork?
Oh yeah, definitely.
Okay, good, good.
Okay, she's on point.
Good, good, good, good.
Alright, awesome.
I thought she's Chinese Jamaican at first.
What was that?
BUMBOKA! Body count?
Body count?
Don't worry, Chris, I got you.
It's over 9,000!
She don't answer it.
She's going to plead the fifth.
Okay, that's fine.
What about you?
What's your name?
My name is Abigail.
I'm 23.
I'm from Toronto, and I work in hospitality management.
Well, yeah, that's what I get paid to do, but my full-time occupation is working in dog rescue on a volunteer basis.
I'm a PhD.
Talk to the dogs.
So I've fostered over 145 dogs.
And yeah, I love it.
I love what I do.
Hi, it's education level completed for you.
I have my high school diploma, obviously.
Are you single or relationship status?
You don't know?
It's been a rollercoaster.
I'd prefer not to deep dive.
Deep dive?
Yeah, I also did go to school for two years studying finance.
Do you live in Miami or are you just visiting?
I'm just visiting for the weekend.
I live in Toronto.
I'm sorry to hear that.
She's single, bro.
Yeah, yeah, you're single.
Is it for swim week?
No, it's my aunt's here on business, so I was just asked to come, and I was obviously like, yeah, thank you so much, I'd love to come.
You know what's crazy?
Girls from Canada or Toronto that come here, they always try to stay, but it's Miami, yeah.
I would love to stay.
My mother and my father, like, my biological father are not together, no, but my mom is with my stepdad and has been, and he has raised me, and I love him so much.
From how old were you when he raised you?
I was in my early teen years, so not from a baby, but from the years that kind of really matter.
Are you on birth control?
No.
No?
Okay, and what's your ethnic background?
My mom is from Singapore.
She's actually an immigrant, and then my dad is from Newfoundland in Canada.
The biological one?
Yeah, the biological one.
And then for you, what's your highest education level completed?
I didn't get to ask that.
High school.
High school.
Alright, cool.
Do you speak Chinese?
Singapore?
I don't.
I actually went to school for, I went to Mandarin school for like seven years and I didn't learn a thing.
Wow.
It's actually such a disgrace, but it's okay.
I speak French.
You said it, not me.
Oui, oui.
Okay.
Wait, hold on.
Many kids?
Any kids?
Yeah.
For me?
Oh my god, no.
Chris, put the camera on you when you ask because they keep looking at me.
Yeah!
What about you?
What's your name?
Hi, my name is Alyssa, or Eve.
I'm 22, and I do OnlyFans for a living.
Where are you from, Merzley?
Long Island, New York.
Just living?
Visiting?
Visiting for Swim Week.
High school, and then I went to school to be a medical assistant.
Okay.
It was a trade school.
Relationship status is single.
Alright.
And then, are your parents still together?
Well, my mother is with my stepdad.
Okay, so divorced.
And then, birth control for you?
I'm about to get my IUD implant on the 20th.
Okay, and then you said you completed the trade school or no?
I did.
Okay.
And you said it was a medical assistant trade school?
Yep.
Alright.
Cool.
What's your ethnic background?
Jamaican and Italian.
Boop, boop.
Love it.
Boom, boop.
Forget about it.
What about you?
Hi, guys.
Let's go.
It's both, right?
Yeah.
Both sound effects.
Yeah, what about you?
Hi, guys.
I'm Gigi, bossy Brazilian on Instagram.
I'm 24.
I do OnlyFans.
I'm a Sagittarius.
Where are you from?
I'm Brazilian.
I was born here and my parents are Brazilian.
Okay.
Well, you were raised here in Miami.
I was born and I was like, I'm from all over.
I was born in Fort Lauderdale, but I was raised in Pompano and Boca.
And then when I was 13, I moved to New York.
I lived in New York for a few years, Connecticut, a few years, Massachusetts for one year, New Jersey, and then I'm back.
Where in Connecticut were you at?
Bridgeport.
Oh, that place sucks.
I grew up in New Britain, so...
Oh, you're fancy.
Yeah, right.
It's not fancy at all.
New Britain.
New Britain sucks.
New Britain's in Bridgeport?
Yeah, and Bridgeport sucks is really bad, too.
And where in Massachusetts?
In Framingham, where all the Brazilians are at.
Yeah, that's where all the Brazilians are at, yeah.
And Papano Beach has a big Brazilian population, too.
All right, so, well, so I'll just say Miami, I guess.
Haise, did you care to have a computer for you?
Um, this is so embarrassing.
I wasn't even gonna say it.
I didn't even graduate high school.
I was working so much.
Okay.
Yeah, I've missed who any days of school.
It happens.
Relationship status.
What she does for it.
Huh?
Nothing.
She said OF. Oh yeah, OF. I'm Bossy Brazilian XXX on OF. Okay, guys.
There's something else that you know, sir?
Can I say how I know you?
I know.
Yeah.
Mm-hmm.
She in the streets, man.
The real streets.
Booby-trap streets.
Not anymore, though.
I don't dance anymore anymore.
What's a booby-trap street?
Oh, it's a strip club here in Miami.
When did you quit dancing?
Well, I stopped like six months ago when I began getting serious on OF. But yeah, I stopped.
But she's always been cool, though.
Huh?
I've always been cool, right?
Yeah, I remember.
You're close to me.
Thanks for all the money you throw at me.
Hey, man!
You're fine to chill out, bro!
Are your parents still together?
No, I wish.
Okay.
Aw, who said that?
Don't feel bad for me.
So it's like, you know, birth control for you?
Um, I need to get on that ASAP. I don't know.
God got me.
That's all I ask for.
No, don't say that.
Don't say that.
You can look on the table right there if you're not careful.
Ew!
You're right.
God forbid.
Can I borrow these if anything?
I have four kids.
What, you have four kids?
Yeah.
What, cats or dogs?
No, I'm just kidding.
I know you're kidding.
There's no way.
I'm stupid.
Do you have any kids or no?
I have two dogs, no kids, no humans.
I still believe her.
Alright, cool.
What about you?
What's your name?
My name's Kay.
I'm 27.
Okay.
Where are you from?
New York.
The city or?
New York City.
I'm from Queens.
Okay.
I'm a part owner of a medical lab and office.
A couple of them down here.
A what office?
Medical lab and offices.
Oh, medical lab office.
Okay.
And you have staked in a couple of them?
Yes.
Okay.
Is it like mobile philobotomy or something like that?
No, we test right now for people with neurological problems.
Okay, so do you keep like the samples, I guess, at your place?
And then we send them over to the lab.
Gotcha.
Doctor takes it, gives it to you guys, you store it, you send it to the lab.
We send it to the patients, the patients send it back, and then we send it to the lab.
Alright, so you guys are the intermediary to get the...
Okay.
Highest education level completed for you?
Two years of college for law.
Okay.
What made you?
You dropped out?
Yeah, I made more money than a lawyer.
Did you get your associates or...?
Okay.
So high school is the highest completed.
And then, relationship status?
I'm dating.
So single.
Alright, are your parents still together?
No.
Birth control for you?
No.
Okay, do you live in Miami now or are you still in Queens?
I'm in Miami now.
Oh, you live here now.
I swear to God, everyone wants to live here.
How long have you been here?
I moved like three years ago, but I'm still going back and forth often.
Okay, and then what's your ethnic background?
Russian and Colombian.
Russian at Columbia?
Bruh.
I have so many questions, but that's fine.
Me too.
We'll get to that later.
All right, what about you?
What's your name?
Oh, my name is Julissa, but you can call me Lisa.
Welcome back.
Thank you.
Happy to be back.
How old are you?
24.
Okay, where are you from?
Haiti.
Yes, sir!
Suck up, Pat!
Hey!
Hey!
Were you like born there?
Yeah I was, but I was raised in the local public.
Do you live in Miami now?
Yes, Miami Beach.
How long have you been here in Miami now?
Two months.
Oh, so you just came?
Yeah.
Yeah, she'd be outside too, though.
Oh, really?
Yeah, she'd be outside.
Wait, you were born in Haiti, but you were raised in the Dominican Republic.
Yes.
And you just came to the United States just now, two months ago?
No, no, no.
I moved away in, like, Lankpool's area for, like, four years.
Did you go to, like, high school here in America?
Yeah.
Okay, I was going to say, because you don't have an accent at all.
All right, so you're an American citizen?
Yes.
Okay, all right.
High school, did you get your level completed?
I graduated high school and I'm planning on studying in college.
And what do you do for work?
I am a waitress in South Beach.
I also do a massage on the side.
Happy endings?
Oh my god, we can talk about that later.
I'm just curious, man.
Not for me, but of course, for Brian and Jamal.
Business cart?
A little bit.
Are your parents still together?
My father died when I was seven.
Okay, so your mom was widowed?
She remarried, and she has two kids now.
But I mean, they were together when he passed.
Yes.
Yeah, yeah, so she was widowed.
Okay.
Damn.
And then, birth control for you?
No.
Alright, cool.
You have any kids?
No.
Does anyone on the panel have kids?
You do.
Okay.
How many do you have?
Just one.
Just one?
Wait, wait, hold on.
She has kids?
I can't even tell.
Yeah.
Damn!
Wait, the girl next to Brandon has a kid?
Yeah!
Apparently.
Oh, my God.
Slamo.
You let him hit it wrong.
You didn't know what the fuck's.
Man, it's a single mom.
Now you're a single mom.
This time I had this kid.
Don't care if it's fun.
Yo.
What the fuck?
I'm sorry.
Oh, man.
It's hard to talk to mom.
That's fucking funny.
That is funny.
I've been here for that one for a while.
America.
Yeah, let's go.
Okay.
I don't want to, man.
Okay.
Do you have any kids or no?
No.
Okay.
All right.
What about you?
What's your name?
I'm Heather.
Alright Heather, how old are you?
35.
Look, you didn't even let her get the number out.
Alright, where are you from, Hursley?
San Antonio, Texas.
I've lived all over Texas, North Carolina, and we're currently in Phoenix.
Okay.
San Antonio, I like San Antonio a lot.
What do you do for work?
I am currently a stay-at-home wife.
Previously, I was a corporate director of food safety and quality assurance for a major food manufacturer.
And then in August, I will be a law student.
Wow.
I need a lawyer soon.
So you're married, right?
For what?
For the crime I'm going to commit.
We got married April 5th.
Oh, literally just last month.
Yeah.
How long have y'all been together?
Year and a half, two years.
Okay.
How'd you guys meet?
Congratulations.
You actually did a consult with my husband about three years ago.
Wow!
Really?
And that's how he changed his dating profile.
Can I just say?
Can I just say?
Look at these niggas changed their lives.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
Who would pay fresh a thousand dollars for a consult?
Nigga, I make things happen and people come together.
Shut the fuck up, man.
That's all I'm gonna say.
That's great.
So, his dating profile was improved, and that's how you met him.
Correct.
That's awesome.
Hey yo, Fresh, I guess you can call that...
Let's go.
A Fresh Match!
For all the haters there.
Congrats for you.
No, that's great.
What dating app was it like?
Tinder, Bumble, Hinge?
Seeking.
Seeking?
Okay.
But it's anything.
Instagram.
Well, hold on.
I've said this before.
I'll say it again.
What were you doing before you met him again?
You said that you were involved in a managerial position as far as food compliance, right?
Correct.
Yeah.
So she had a corporate job.
I mean, I was making six figures.
I had a good job.
But she doesn't want to date a bum.
Yes, that's the other side.
That was the issue I was having.
I mean, I was married for eight years previously.
We were together for about 12 years.
And he made maybe a third of what I did.
And I got frustrated with Bumble, Tinder, Hinge, and just getting coffee dates.
And my roommate actually told me about seeking.
And she's like, you need an intelligent guy.
Here's a site.
You can go find intelligent guys.
Hmm.
You know, it's interesting because, you know, seeking gets a very bad rap, which, I mean, rightfully so, most of the girls on there are escorts and 304s.
However, and I've said this before, there's actually like a lot of girls on there that come from corporate.
Lawyers, doctors.
Make money, doctors, lawyers, etc.
That are on there just to find a guy that has his shit together.
So, it's a minority, but they definitely do exist.
They just make their profiles on private, and then they message the guy instead.
That's kind of how it goes.
It's like hidden gems, basically.
Yeah, so, alright, cool.
His profiles specify that he was looking for somebody to build a life with.
And I was on there swiftly to find a long-term boyfriend.
I wasn't really sure if I wanted to get married or not.
Because you were in a eight-year relationship before that, right?
And then you had a corporate job.
12 years total.
12 years total with the other guy.
By the way, we have a show every Wednesday on Matchmaking 101.
So if you want to find your true love, come on the show.
We got you guys.
Men and women.
All right.
Well, congratulations for being married.
Congrats.
That's what most girls aspire for, and you got it.
So, okay.
She got the ring, too.
Did you see the size of it?
The dude has money.
What does he do?
He is a doctor.
I told y'all she was spitting.
Damn, I told y'all she was spitting over here.
He specializes in internal medicine and then went back, got his MBA. He's a corporate physician advisor for a hospital chain and also has his own company.
Well, I'm happy for you that you guys met and were able to make something happen.
Are your parents still together?
Yes, 35 years this September.
And then birth control for you?
hysterectomy five years ago.
Oh.
It's also so cute.
No kids?
No kids.
Okay, body count.
This nigga Chris, bro.
Nah, you're married.
Never mind.
He has to be a good question.
It might be a good question.
All right, what about you?
What's your name?
Do you know my background?
Hello, my name is Yancy.
I'm 20 years old and I'm single.
Okay.
Where are you from originally?
She got right to it.
Guatemala.
Actually, yeah, I wasn't born there.
I was born in Maryland.
I thought she was Asian, bro.
Yeah, me too.
Yeah, everyone says that they think I'm Philippine.
Okay, so you're in Guatemala and you're only 20, so high school is your highest education level completed, right?
I'm currently in school.
I'm in...
In college?
Yes.
That's at Guatemala.
What are you majoring in?
Majoring in interior design.
Okay.
So you have a degree, fantastic.
You said you're from Maryland originally, Baltimore?
No, from close to D.C. Are you guys friends?
Yes, we are.
Ah, makes sense.
We flew in together.
At the DMV? That's funny.
Are you in the DMV? Okay.
So, DMV, but you're, okay, so you're Guatemalan, national, ethnically.
Alright, relationship status, you said you're single, you said that right away.
What, do you guys in the DMV suck or something?
No, it's just that my boyfriend actually just passed away.
- Yeah, don't say it.
- Oh, damn.
- Okay, uh.
- The flu. - How'd he pass away if you don't want me to ask him?
- No, the flu is crazy. - He had a very rare disease It was an autoimmune disease.
He had dermatitis.
I don't know how it happened.
He lasted a year in the hospital and eventually he died.
And she held by his side the whole way through.
She a real one?
Yeah.
You know what girls in Miami would do?
Go party, go drink, and say, all right, nigga, are you here yet?
My condolences.
Damn, you were quick to say you were single, though.
Goddamn.
She said that first.
I just know it was one of the questions, and that's all I remembered.
Okay.
Are your parents together?
Yes, they are.
Okay.
Are you on break the show?
No, I am not.
Okay, okay.
And how tall are you?
Well, Chris, how tall are you?
Like three something?
Like, can you sign up?
Oh my gosh.
They're trying to clown you.
It's up to you.
You don't have to if you don't want to, but they're saying you're very short.
How tall are you?
Oh, I'm 4'10".
I get it.
I'm very short.
Is that Kevin Hart's height?
4'9".
Nah, he's a little bit taller than that.
So wait, question.
Can you get a handicap sticker in your state?
410 is what it is.
There's a lot of states a threshold if you're...
Actually, I drive a truck, so...
No, a big truck.
A big, like...
We're talking about, like, legal handicaps, though.
Legally, at 410, you can apply for a check.
Get that check.
Get that check.
That's what we saying.
That's straight what I'm about to do.
410, you can get a check.
You have a legal disability.
Get that motherfucking check.
Get extensions and stuff.
Pedal extensions.
So what if you get an extension?
Every time you gotta go renew it, all you gotta do is get measured.
Most states will give you a handicap sticker.
At least you can park closer.
They'll give you a handicap sticker.
Can you imagine going on a date with her?
Is that your daughter?
If I was 14, I'd be at the DMV immediately trying to get a handicap sticker.
You know how much time that saves?
Yes.
You know what?
Handicap sticker, disabilities.
Wait, hold on.
Can she?
No, that's fucked up.
Never mind.
I'm not going to say that.
Yeah, don't say it.
All right.
All right.
Cool.
And we got a special guest in the house.
Welcome, Brandon.
We know who you are, but...
Welcome to the show, man.
Appreciate y'all for having me.
It's about time we made this shit happen up at here on my mama.
The Fresh and Fit Takeover.
The Now You A Single Mom guy.
You can call me Brandon.
You can call me the Now You A Single Mom nigga.
I don't give a fuck what you call me as long as you bring in a chick, you feel me?
Whatever you like.
Welcome to the podcast, my friend.
Appreciate y'all.
Appreciate y'all for having me on, man.
Your song came out at perfect timing for Fresh.
I'm not gonna lie.
That was a life-changing song.
Bro, I am so happy to hear that.
The best part about this is the bros in my inbox telling me stories about how...
Bro, there's one guy at my meet and greet that I had in the city, right?
Oh, there we go, my bad.
How's this?
Bet it up.
Way better.
Bet it up.
All right.
There was one guy at my meet and greet I had, bro.
He told me that my videos changed his life because lots of guys in the Midwest are just simps, bro.
Like, it's a very female-dominant culture.
And where are you from so that people can, like, know?
I was born in Chicago, but I grew up in North Carolina.
So I live in Chicago now, but I'm country as hell still because I spent my whole childhood down there.
You know what I'm saying?
Okay, gotcha.
So I'm very nice and country until you try me.
Then it's like, bitch, I'm a Gemini.
Why would you play with me?
You know what I'm saying?
It's that simple.
Oh, my God.
My birthday on Monday, by the way.
You feel me?
I'm gonna cheat this motherfucker up.
There you go.
Appreciate it, appreciate it.
I'll be 36.
Oh, damn.
You should've kept that to yourself.
Bitch, do you see how I'm doing?
I'm weak.
Put the camera on me, please.
I thought you were in your 20s, bro.
Me too.
I looked at 29.
You wish you looked this good at 36, motherfucker.
You better shut your eyes up when you talk to me.
You're talking to the wrong nigga.
Anyway, though.
What was he even talking about?
She got me distracted.
Your meetup, you brought guys in, changed your life.
Yeah, yeah, so the homie, he told me that my videos changed his life because lots of Midwestern guys are just simps, bro.
They won't tell their girl to shut the fuck up even when she's wild and wrong in public.
Like, bitch, you finna get a shot.
Shut the fuck up.
You know what I'm saying?
But no, they don't even do that out here.
This man, he's a 24-year-old virgin, and that's only important because it's important to the story.
I'm not clowning his virginity, but he told me this because his girl popped up pregnant.
So he's like, It was by her ex.
He was going to take her back and raise that kid until he saw my videos and said, I can't be getting a clown like this.
There's no way in the fuck.
He said, bro, my videos changed his life.
That's...
You know what I mean?
Motherfucker just calling me goat and legend and shit.
Tell me Kevin Samuels lived through a nigga and shit.
Bro, that is the...
Recipe, Sam.
There you go.
You know what I'm saying?
Like, the more fans I get, the more love I'm getting.
Nigga, I'm simple and crunchy, man.
Thank you.
Appreciate you.
Thank you.
I'm blush and shit.
I'm light-skinned.
We're glad to have you, bro.
Yeah, appreciate y'all.
Appreciate y'all.
Thank you.
Thank you.
And I think the girls here had something they wanted to say.
Are you guys ready?
Yeah.
Or not yet, Chris.
Go ahead.
Yep.
Okay, go ahead.
Hey, guys.
You guys use camera five, probably, Chris.
Yeah.
We have an announcement to make.
We have a contest for the supporters so we're gonna launch like a rebrand of the merch so we need people to submit two to five designs like really cool designs from like graphic designers Oh yeah.
So basically all graphic designers, please submit to fnfreach at gmail.com.
We're doing a contest.
So next Friday we'll be announcing the winner.
You'll be receiving $500 and then you will also have the opportunity to work with us and continue making merch.
So, you guys, please take the opportunity to make this happen.
If you want to work with us, all graphic designers, fnfreach at gmail.com.
Get into this contest right now.
You don't want to miss out on this opportunity.
Also, you have seven days.
So, from next Friday to next Friday, you have to meet.
Two to five designs.
Really cool designs.
Be free to be as creative as possible and as simple as possible.
Remember, this is FNF merch.
We're trying to get away from this.
You know what I'm saying?
We're trying to get Myron to wear something different.
Make it more trendy, more hip-hop.
We got a lot of ideas.
And then last thing too, if you guys want to send Fresh, Myron, Chris, Mo, Bills, anything, anybody on the team, hit me up on Instagram, underscore She's So Icy TV if you want the P.O. Box address.
Thank you.
All right.
Cool.
We've got a special guest in the house that we're going to bring in right now.
Yep.
So guys, can we switch over to Rumble?
Wait, wait, wait, wait.
That nigga's ready.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So guys, we're going to go ahead and bring the special guest in.
Guys, we're going to have to cut the YouTube stream here.
Yep.
So guys, come on over to Rumble right now.
Rumble.com slash Fresh Fit.
And Castle Club as well.
We've got a special guest in the house with Brandon.
The King of Controversy is coming in.
Tommy Sotomayor.
Let's get into it.
Go ahead.
Say that again.
Actually, never mind.
I know the answer.
No, no, no, no.
Yeah, this nigga's ready to go, bro.
He's just like, I'm ready to hit the road running.
- We're good, we're good now, we're good now.
Come on in.
It's just you two.
There's a legend right here.
I'm dramatic.
I'm from the Bahamas.
We did a fire stream earlier.
I'm being dramatic, man.
You're welcome.
You're welcome.
I'm one second time.
Thank you.
You're welcome.
Welcome to Tommy Soto Mario to the panel.
Guys, while we wait for this, Casco.tv, man.
Jump on in there, guys.
Get a membership.
Like I said, we're building a fucking army.
Two Zoom calls this week, actually.
Yep, and we're going to have another one with Tommy on Monday.
Make sure to get in there.
We're going to teach you guys how to make money on the internet, even as a creator that, you know, might be a little bit more controversial or canceled.
So all you guys that want to be influencers, et cetera, because they hope young people, that's the number one thing that people want to do.
We're going to go ahead and give you all kind of a crash course from a beginner standpoint how to do it, especially when you have takes that are a bit more controversial, not socially correct, not politically correct, et cetera.
So, make sure to jump in there, guys.
CalsClub.tv.
And then also, if you want to get the whole show, we're going to have to put a portion of the show also is going to go to Cals Club.
So, you know, it is what it is.
Tommy, what's up, man?
Welcome to the show.
You want to introduce yourself to the people real quick that might not be familiar?
We know who you are, but they may not.
Hello, everyone.
I'm Tommy Sotomayor.
I am the producer and maker of a movie by the name of A Fatherless America that you can go and download off of Amazon Prime.
I'm also a man who talks a lot of shit that bothers people, but I've never been caught in a lie.
How dare you?
So we'll leave it at that.
Well said.
Okay!
Any of the guys got questions for the ladies on the panel before we hit the chats?
Brandon?
You've heard their stories, their backgrounds?
I mean, you covered it all.
It all sounds pretty basic.
Actually, except for you, can we get a round of applause for this Caucasian woman right here and everything she got going on?
Are you Russian?
I am half Italian, half Alsatian.
What is Alsatian?
Alsace, Lorraine.
It's a province between France and Germany.
It was German when my family immigrated.
It is currently under French rule.
Oh, wow.
Okay, my bad.
So you people are actually from there, not like...
My people have been here for four generations.
Are we still saying...
I mean, we're Italian and German.
Two, three generations.
Two or three.
Oh, yeah.
I mean, our genealogy goes back, like, we have everything mapped out.
Nah, she definitely looks like it, though.
Yeah, but if your grandparents were from here, you're in America.
No, but look at her.
I thought she was Russian.
I feel like my nose, you know, kind of shows the German.
Why do people in America always say that shit?
Like, your grandparents are from America.
You're white and Caucasian and American.
Just accept that shit.
You're not Italian.
You're not fucking French.
Shut that stupid shit up.
Nah, she definitely looks French.
Look at her.
That's pure French.
Didn't you just say your education level was yadda yadda yadda?
First of all, what is your education level again?
Oh, I'm just a high school graduate.
That's what I thought.
But I listened with both ears.
But guess what?
I almost graduated, but then I missed the teacher.
Fuck you, Miss Axe.
She was like, if you miss one more day of school, then you're not going to graduate.
So you didn't go to one day of school?
No, the thing is I missed multiple days of school after that.
That was the problem.
They don't even hear themselves.
Question for you.
I was working.
Truancy is a crime.
Did your parents deal any jail time?
Where?
Bridgeport?
Yeah, like truancy is a crime.
Yeah, if you don't go to school, they come out to your parents for that.
Oh, I don't think they take that serious in Bridgeport.
Wow.
It's the hood.
Really?
It's a fucked up school system.
It's the hood, ain't it?
But yeah, I mean, normally, you know, if your kid doesn't go to school, like, police are supposed to show up.
Yeah, no, they used to tell me that.
They're like, blah, blah, blah, blah.
That's crazy.
No, the thing is, I did start showing up to school, but then I would get there at 10 o'clock in the morning, because I'm not going to lie, I started dancing when I was 18, so I would leave Connecticut, take a train to New York, and then come back to Connecticut, and then make it there at, like, go home at, like, 8 o'clock, and then, like, take a shower, get ready for school.
I used to skip first period, which was her class specifically, and that's why she knew that, like, you know, like, I was skipping.
I wasn't really skipping.
I just always missed first period, which was her class.
She was a snitch, huh?
Yeah, fuck that bitch.
Damn, that's crazy.
But she was right, though.
At 18.
No, she wasn't.
That's why I get paid more than her.
Fuck Miss Axe.
Not all money is good money.
No, it's good for me.
It was good for me, and it's still good for me.
Okay!
You disagree?
You said not all money is good money.
What makes you say that?
Because I feel like there's a lot of money that people are making now that are, I guess, in the way of morale or integrity.
Damn Oh shit That was solid It's got your hole Damn Damn I'm just trying to You know what I'm talking to you like that Yeah What up Brandon Yeah Like all that word vomit All I heard was I used to go out late at night And I couldn't get my lazy ass up An hour early I'm dead.
I couldn't get my lazy ass up an hour early to go to fucking school.
Like, nobody gives a fuck that you work.
Like, it's great that you work.
Me?
I just said I was dancing.
I literally...
I didn't interrupt you when you spoke.
I'm gonna let you finish, but you're wrong, though, because I did work, and then I was still making in the morning.
I'll leave the podcast if you can't get these bitches under control, bro.
I didn't interrupt her when she spoke, did I? It's girls, man.
Let's just say I interrupt her when she spoke, ladies.
You seem a little girly-ish, too, with your nose ring.
I am quite sassy, because bitches define sassy as a man who don't take your shit.
So I'm sassy as fuck, bitch.
The nose ring is sassy, too.
And it costs $300, also.
Oh, so does my belly button ring.
All I heard was this lazy ass bitch got a job at night and she couldn't get up to go to school in the fucking morning.
It's not that I used to go to sleep.
I didn't even go to sleep.
That's the whole thing.
I used to get out of fucking 6.30 in the morning.
So why the fuck couldn't you take your ass to school if you didn't go to sleep?
The more you talk, the stupider you sound, you stupid motherfucker.
Look into the chat.
The more you talk, the stupider you sound.
The fucking thing!
What the fuck do you mean?
You got off of work, didn't go to sleep, but your dumb ass couldn't go to school a long time?
Why would I get out the strip club and not take a shower?
Guys, how about this?
How about this?
How about this?
This is what we'll do.
It took you 45 minutes to an hour to take a shower?
You couldn't go to school?
I just said I got out of six days.
I used to ride in my car.
This is what we'll do.
This is what we'll do.
Oh my God.
Brandon, I'll turn it to you.
You can say what you want to say.
And then I'll turn it to her.
She can respond.
God.
And then we'll just go one mic at a time.
I don't know what to say to her.
She said enough.
You don't want to?
Oh, no, no.
She said enough.
Yeah, yeah.
I just want to let Brandon finish this thing.
Get her out of here.
Shout out Global Prenup.
And then we'll let her respond.
I think they like me better than you.
Shout out Global Prenup.
Get these niggas.
Get this bitch up out of here.
Damn.
Who is this guy?
I just heard of him today.
Let me tell you who this guy is.
I just heard of this guy.
It's goofy.
Can I tell you who I am?
Real quick, bitch.
Can I tell you?
If you don't mind.
I'm the guy whose TikTok grew from 70k to 300k in a month and a half because of one.
I'm the motherfucker whose video got two million views on YouTube.
I didn't watch it though.
I'm telling you who I am, bitch.
I'm breaking it down.
Shut the fuck up when I'm talking.
I'm the motherfucker whose video got two million views in less than two months and the only promotion has been his social media.
I'm the motherfucker who got 1,500 orders of merchandise.
That's my silhouette on the logo.
T-shirts.
$1,500?
$1,500 orders, motherfucker.
I stuttered.
My bad.
$1,500 orders.
Niggas is buying stickers with my logo on them.
T-shirts with my logo on them.
I got a song in Spanish that motherfucker's been begging for.
I thought you were going to say $150,000.
What did you say?
$1,500.
My YouTube channel grew from $9,000 to $118,000 in a month and a half.
Shut the fuck up when you talk to me, bitch.
I might just let this slide because in real life I would.
I'm a man-beater.
And you would go to jail, you stupid motherfucker!
But since you don't go to school, you don't realize that you hit a motherfucker and I'm probably going to jail.
First of all, you're in the same place as I am, so what does that mean?
Like, you're in the same place.
I am not in the same place as a bitch who does OnlyFans.
No, I'm doing better than you, I bet.
We are going to reset here.
Tony is sassy.
Who the hell here is sucking his dick?
Somebody here is sucking his dick and I'm going to find out.
And I need a man.
Which one of you guys here is sucking his dick?
Now she's insulting all the men's sexuality in here.
That's what they do when they're wrong.
They go to the sexuality every time.
You bitches know this.
It's an A. A tale as old as time.
Song as old as time.
A future single mom.
Nah, didn't you just say earlier during the introduction you let go and let God let niggas nut all in you?
Uh, no, I don't.
That's exactly what you said.
I don't.
Because you don't know if I'm fucking a million niggas.
I'm definitely not.
It doesn't matter.
You literally said you're...
I listen with both ears.
Listen, God made me with two eyes, two ears.
And the question is, are you even fucking?
Do you get pussy?
God made me with two eyes.
Do you get pussy?
I know you don't get no pussy.
You don't look like you get no pussy.
I'm sure.
We'll just move on.
Yeah, we're gonna move on here.
He's sweaty.
Look at him.
He's breaking a sweat.
Nah, cause I just stressed you out right now.
That's what I love to do.
This is Support Friday.
So we have some chats here as well.
Tommy, what do you think about this so far, bro?
Stressed out by a dumbass bitch who couldn't even go to school with.
And you still stressed out.
I still stressed you out.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
Wait, sorry, Brandon and guests and girls.
And get, Brandon, what'd you just say?
What's her name?
Well, look, tell me her name.
Brandon.
Tell me her name.
I don't know her name.
Because she's not fucking important.
Exactly.
Can we please keep on track for the show, please?
Hold on, hold on.
Tommy, tell me.
I'm gonna let you have the floor.
They said Brandon and Guest.
Okay.
So, uh...
Whose name do they know?
Miss OnlyFans.
Oh, okay.
Well, they know.
They're about to know my name now.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay, I still...
I just found out your name, too.
Brandon.
They just said it right now.
You just found out my name.
Exactly.
You're one person.
And I'm pretty sure that nobody here knew your name except for the guy.
Okay, after this, y'all get a room after this.
Get a room after this, okay?
I had to get a room with one of these bitches than with him.
Can I watch that shit go down?
I'm with that.
Now you want to watch it.
You're not invited.
Oh, man.
Fantastic.
Put a diaper on.
Is this for you?
It's okay.
The hub is popping.
I don't have to watch you, bitches.
I can...
Easy work.
I can find Latina and dark-skinned black girl threesome right now on The Hub.
Yeah, you can't afford another subscription for OnlyFans.
Why would I subscribe to a bitch's OnlyFans when The Hub is popping for free?
Why in God's name would I ever?
That's just you.
Do you know how vast The Hub is?
Have y'all been on The Hub?
You ain't never been on The Hub?
They got the porn hub.
They got everything on The Hub, my nigga.
Yo, yo, yo.
You know what I sense right here?
Actual attraction between two of you guys.
You know what I'm saying?
Nah, because she's there.
Bro, she was real fine until she opened her mouth.
I'm not gonna lie to you.
No, you were real fine.
No, no, no.
You were never fine.
I thought you were like my friend after I took your diaper and I put it...
That's the problem, bitch.
You thought you had a friend.
No, no, no.
You're not a friend, but I thought you were cool.
We did a little knuckle bump.
But then I see that you're sassy as fuck.
Look at this!
You remind me of my gay cousin.
We could be friends.
If you want to be besties, just say that girl.
Only in America do they call you gay for doing anything besides sleeping with a man.
That's because we already know what's going on.
We already know.
Tommy, welcome.
Tommy, you've been quiet this whole time.
What have you been so far about this?
Cocoon punch!
Listen, I don't go places trying to fight.
I don't get into fights.
Really?
Wait, hold on.
Well, last time you were here.
What's up, the Feds, though?
What's up, the Feds?
Yo, I'm high and deja vu right now.
He picks up that one's wisely.
That's what he's saying.
I'm a follower of Jesus Christ.
I believe him.
I don't know what just happened.
Myron, I believe him.
Yeah, that was crazy.
That last time it happened.
But she did hit him first, so...
Oh, man.
Oh, man.
So, yeah, we'll reset these chats real fast.
And then also, the ladies asked questions for us as well.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And it is Friday, so if you guys got...
Yeah, we're going to go ahead.
Guys, just so you know, Talk to Speech is only on FNFSuperchat.com.
Right now, it's not working for Rumble.
So, if you want to go ahead and get your chat read in TTS, you got to do it through FNFSuperchat.com.
It's only 50 bucks, and then 20 bucks will be read.
What an intro.
Yeah, we're crazy.
Fresh, can you read that stuff real quick?
We got you.
BBW's For Life says, This is long overdue.
Welcome back, Tommy.
The Tinder Swindler episodes were epic and had me laughing.
Underestimated and underrated.
FNF Hall of Fame.
Shout out to you.
I agree.
Um...
We have here as well, Silky again says, The guy really cares about men, bro.
No, that's true.
C Priest says, thoughts on a man putting his tongue in all three holes before you get the D? What?
I'm going to say that again.
Dog saw a man putting his tongue in all three holes before you get to the dick.
Does that trigger anything in you?
This chat is wild.
That's different, right?
Is anybody done with that at all?
Is anybody done with that?
I guess not.
Okay, cool.
We'll move on.
That was kind of weird.
Gaza 6969 says, A girl who says a lot of boys want me needs to understand that low prices attract a lot of customers.
Okay.
The Wraps Florida says, let's try this again.
On this panel, this is not a riddle.
It's a straightforward question, ladies.
What is closest time to midnight?
We have A, B, C, and D. So let's do this one by one.
Closest time.
To midnight?
Yeah, right here.
A. A? Okay.
For you?
You have A, B, C, and D. D. Okay.
For you?
D. For you?
A or D? No, no, you got to choose one.
Your best judgment.
Your best hunch.
What is it?
Okay, so D? D. D? 1203.
Oh, sorry.
D. D? D. I guess I want D. All right.
It is D. All right.
What else we got here?
Brandy, you are a motherfucker.
Glad you can't stop blasting it in the car.
All right.
Shout out to you.
Jake Kamulet.
He's probably a loser, too.
Jake Kamulet.
Oh, my God.
This bitch over here.
She can literally sniff our neighbor galaxy.
Oh, my God.
I wonder why I call bitches bitches.
Let's do this real quick.
Yeah.
What is it?
We on Rumble.
Okay, okay.
We on Rumble.
It's fine.
Someone said, oh, Angie's fresh-over-the-border accent.
Okay, W-Angie accent.
Hey, man, she's working on it.
Can y'all bring on FitXFearless again?
The podcast was fucking amazing, especially with how well he flowed with you and Fresh.
Yeah, I mean, he's here in Miami.
He hasn't...
Yeah.
He's cool.
Yeah.
Men see women like clothes.
They want to have their favorite outfit, but they want to go to the store and get new clothes whenever they want.
But very few men can do that.
That's very true.
But majority of men are window shoppers and very few men have one outfit.
Also, few men try it outfit and buy it and return it later.
That's actually a fantastic analogy.
That is so true.
That's a great analogy.
Happy birthday, Big Mo.
Give us a laugh, big homie.
P.S. I love Tommy Paws by far one of the best guests for the show.
All right.
Thank you.
For the ladies, name one right or privilege that men have that women don't.
WFNF, WIC, Big Mo, Bills.
And of course, we can't forget about Krista Bomb, Wgirls, behind the scene.
By the way, think about this.
Hoes will be hoes.
Goddamn, bro.
Okay.
Yeah, shout out to all the girls behind the scenes.
Think about this.
That's it.
Even Cuban in the back helping.
Thank you.
Appreciate that.
Is that my voice?
Yep.
W. Yeah.
Ladies, what is something that you do for yourselves that makes you more attractive to them, the men you want for a relationship?
Ooh, that's a good question.
Alright, we'll start here.
Oh, wow.
What is something that you do for yourselves that makes you more attractive to the men you want for your relationship?
So what do you do that makes you more attractive for the ideal man?
Your dream man, basically.
Yeah.
We could start here.
Makes me more attractive to the men.
I cannot read.
We could pull it back up.
My apologies.
No, it's fine.
Basically, one thing that you do that makes you more attractive to the man that you want.
Not attractive to just a regular fucking weirdo.
Like, for example, let's say you got a boob job.
Well, you'd be attractive to any fucking guy, but to the dream guy that you want that probably has options, that's attractive, that can get other girls.
What do you do that makes you attractive, that makes you stand out?
Prayer.
Okay.
Prayer.
What about you?
Wait, hold on.
Could you explain a little bit more?
Just prayer?
Sure.
A relationship with God, being more nurturing, working on myself every day in terms of femininity, caring.
Is that why you're celibate?
I think I'm celibate because I don't want to have babies right now.
So why would you have sex if you don't want to have babies?
Work on them.
I'm what?
You spitting.
Oh, they are?
Yeah, you spitting.
That's what I'm talking about.
Yeah.
But what if you got in a serious relationship with a guy?
Like, if you got in a relationship with a guy, you wouldn't hook up with him at all?
I would try not to.
Would you be content with him leaving you then, at that point?
Sure.
You would be?
I would be okay with that.
Okay.
Some men have needs that I can't provide, then that's okay.
When's the last time you got laid?
Why'd you ask me that question on the podcast?
I'm going to go on the panel on this one, because it's always interesting whenever girls say this.
How many hours ago?
Do I have to answer?
Last night?
No.
How many hours ago?
You said how many hours ago.
You said how many hours ago.
Don't worry, I'm going to ask all the girls this.
Okay.
Very long time ago.
Over a year?
Yeah.
Over two years?
No.
A year and a half?
About.
So 18 months?
What about you?
What?
I do not talk about my behind-closed-doors life publicly, but...
It's the thing that she said that she's in a situationship.
No, it's not a situationship.
No, it's not.
It's just it's a complicated situation that has...
Oh, it wasn't with him.
Hold on, please.
Here we go.
Oh, hold on, hold on, hold on.
I'm not in a situation-ship.
I'm in a complicated situation.
No, no, no.
Did you hear yourself?
I'm saying it's a complicated situation that has been going on for two and a half years.
That's the literal definition of a situation-ship.
It's not.
We were at the point of engagement, so it's not a situation-ship.
It's just something that I hold it sacred, and I don't think it's appropriate to talk about it publicly and just out of perspective.
Hold on.
Did you break off the engagement with him?
A lot has happened, and I think we'll always have love and respect for each other, but it has been very recently up in the air, so I don't know.
I don't really know where we stand right now.
We literally had a fight last night.
Me.
I push the snowball off the hill kind of thing.
And what do I do that makes me attractive to the person or the people that I want to attract?
My dream man.
I eat really healthy.
I cook all my meals and eat really healthy and work out.
And then I do full body laser every six weeks.
Interesting.
I'm going to come back to the last time.
Because I genuinely believe that there's A majority of women are either always, they're smashing somebody, bro.
There's no way, these girls run around and say that they're celibate.
Maybe five to 10%, but the other 90 are sexually active as somebody.
If you have a rose toy, you definitely don't need to.
If you have a rose toy, you're good.
But even then, with a toy, it's not really enough.
They have some dude that's in their rotation that they've hooked up with before that they feel like they're not collecting a body from or some shit like that.
For you, it's probably him.
Or it might have been someone else, which is why you want to disclose it.
But I find it interesting, so you broke off the engagement.
We were not engaged.
He did tell me that we had gone ring shopping.
He had kind of told me about his plans for what he wanted to do had we worked out.
Why didn't it work out?
How old is he?
I'm 23 and he is turning 34, so he's quite a bit older.
He's a great, great, great person.
He's financially stable, provider, takes care of himself.
So what did you do to fuck this one up then?
Because men never end relationships, it's always women.
You're just 24, that's why.
She said he was a good man though.
He is a good man.
And to be fair, the last thing that we said to each other was like, I'm getting on a plane, I love you, I care about you.
That's what you said?
Yeah.
Why?
Because you're stupid.
If for whatever reason I got in a plane crash, I actually had a near-death experience a couple of days ago, and we weren't on speaking terms at the time, and he came to the hospital being like, oh my god.
So he loves you.
He loves me, 100%.
He's stupid, too.
Why would you drop the bag?
He's dumb as a mug.
Because she's stupid, I just said it.
What the fuck?
I'm disrespectful when you're stupid.
Maybe you'll wake up and go back to that man.
Stop being stupid and go back to him.
He fucking loves you.
Wake up, bitch.
Yeah, and I love him too.
Do you not have men in your family who tell you shit like this?
They're supposed to talk to you like this.
Wake up, bitch.
Go back to that man.
He loves you.
He wants to marry you.
Yeah, the men in my family...
Yes, the fuck they are.
Because you're being stupid.
The men in my family definitely, definitely...
Let this resonate you when you go home.
Go back to that motherfucker.
Stop being stupid.
The men in my family definitely deliver a similar message, but with a much more gracious...
Well, you're not listening to their gracious-ass message, are they?
You're still in a fucking situationship and don't know it.
I'm an adult and I'm not in a situationship.
Ask the chat.
Is she in a situationship or not?
Let me just say this.
Tell me yes or no in the chat.
Let me just say this.
I think, and the reason why I ask these questions isn't to shit on you or anything like that.
I just think that what I've realized with women, right, is that you guys have this mentality of the grass is always greener on the other side.
I don't think the grass is greener on the other side, but at a certain point it gets to...
Men think that too.
It's a similar thing with my father, my biological father, and sorry to cut you off, but it's not that it's greener on the other side, it's almost just like...
You ended the relationship, right?
It's almost just like it's so bad, it has gotten so bad that I would rather have nothing.
Yeah, but you ended the relationship, correct?
Right.
At first he did.
At first he did.
And then...
Why did he end it?
Because men don't end relationships ever.
Right, you must be terrible.
Rarely do they end relationships.
I'm trying to think the first time that it came to this point.
She's trying to think something that sounds good for the internet instead of being real.
I'm just trying to think.
It was two years ago, so I'm just trying to think what brought it up to that point.
But it's a serious situation in your life.
You should know exactly what the fuck happened.
Stop lying to the chat and be real.
The fuck?
I'm not lying.
I'm sorry.
It'd have to do anything with, because normally the only things that I've seen guys leave a woman for is like infidelity.
That's typically like the only thing that most, not most, but a lot of guys just simply won't accept.
Was that what it was?
Keep it a thousand.
I like, I'm going to say this.
We both made mistakes and I won't say, it's not like eye for an eye, but he made, he made.
He's answering the question.
Did you cheat or not?
He made a mistake.
Yes.
She cheated.
So he cheated first and she got, get back.
And this is my thing, and this is no disrespect to the girls who do OnlyFans or, you know, like, that's your source of income.
Why are you deflecting instead of answering the questions directly?
I'm about to if you'll let me finish.
No!
Like, you're being stupid.
Let's let her finish.
Let's let her finish.
This guy's just stacking diapers around his mouth.
Because you're spouting words on it.
Because I'm spouting words and I'm being stupid.
Do you have anything constructive to say?
Because it's, like, people are calling you sassy and cornball.
No, no, that is very constructive, calling you stupid when you're stupid.
It's because I love you.
So can we call you stupid?
If we're family...
If he's being stupid.
We're family, we love each other, but you're stupid.
Don't you call your man stupid if he's being stupid?
Because you love him, right?
This bitch is being stupid.
Here, let's let her finish Brandon.
Alright, so you were saying, so he made a mistake, you made a mistake following up.
Yeah, so just no disrespect to the people who consume OnlyFans or porn or anything like that or even physical.
You had a porn addiction?
I would say if you're not able to, after setting a clear boundary, that our time is reserved for us and I don't want there to be any external distractions from that, including porn and especially paid porn...
Like, how is it supposed to make me feel when you're paying money?
Like, as the provider, you're paying money to consume something when, like, I'm willing to do anything to, like, please you.
You know what I mean?
I have a question for you real quick.
What if he left the house for another woman and would that be better than paying for porn?
Yeah, I would actually rather.
That makes no sense, but rather.
I would rather because if you seek out a connection, a physical connection with somebody inorganic and maybe there's even some emotional, mental, spiritual, something you're getting from it, I would rather you go and consume it that way as opposed to like virtual, unrealistic expectations like Pick something that you're paying for.
I respect it.
You're using our money, the money that we go to Costco and we buy groceries, you're going to use that money to go and buy porn?
That upsets me.
Actually, you know, as a provider...
I respect it.
That makes sense.
I would be upset, too.
What she just said, I don't know if the chat's going to understand that.
What she said is extremely real.
In other words, she would rather you...
Go actually do the work, be attractive, fuck another bitch, come back to her, then spend her resources, because that woman depends on you when you're the provider, right?
Security.
And jeopardize her security for some hoes online.
So, okay.
But you do realize that it would be very difficult for you to satisfy him the way he wants.
Because a lot of times when guys watch porn, it's not because their girl isn't hot or they're not satisfied by their girl.
Right.
It's because men yearn for variety.
Variety is the spice of life.
Women, unfortunately, can never satisfy that by themselves.
Yeah.
Right.
I also think it can come into really strong prominence when there's fetish, like something specific, like an itch they're trying to scratch.
What was his fetish?
Tommy, what do you think about this?
Because I know you want to say something.
I can see it in your face.
Yeah, go ahead, Tommy.
I mean, there's several ways to look at it.
She has a point.
But then if he's seeing somebody in real life, he's spending money in real life.
He's not not spending money.
And one thing you can't catch if he just loves the shit out of the internet is STDs.
It ain't a bitch gonna run up on you at Costco and whoop your ass because she fucking your man.
I wish they would try.
She's not gonna show up pregnant.
If the internet bitch show up pregnant, that'd be impressive.
You're right.
You're absolutely right.
So I mean, on its face at first, what you said makes sense.
And then when you break it down logically, it makes no sense.
No sense.
No, I hear what you're saying.
But I feel you personally.
So when people make arguments, a personal argument, I'd have nothing against it.
It's my, yeah, it's my story.
It's my story.
So whenever people do that, like there are people who are okay with somebody sleeping with their wife.
And they call those guys cuckold.
But if that's what makes them happy, that's what makes them happy.
So I'm a big believer in that.
So if you know what makes you mad, and if it makes you mad that this man is having a relationship online where it just looks to you like it's like that's some fake ass shit, like that's weird to you.
And then I saw you alluded to it, but you didn't go into it.
But it sounded like she was talking about Some fucked up fetish porn that she's like, wait a minute, you're into that?
Yeah.
There's a level to that.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Okay.
Probably some weird shit.
And it's funny because like...
Because at least if you cheat and she finds out you fucked a bad bitch, she's like, okay, I can respect that.
Yes, 100%.
Versus, you know, whatever he might have been whacking it to.
Because we're like, well, what do I do with this?
Yeah.
But, This is like, who are you?
You made a good point, Tommy, because the money he spends on paying for dates, getting food, drinks, whatever, it's still money for security.
It's coming out of the house.
It's coming out regardless.
The point he was looking at made him lower status and rise.
That's what it is.
It's the equivalent of if you talk about real life, if your woman see you fuck somebody and she's like, I could have said you fuck somebody, but this bitch look like Gollum.
And let's also, like, I know, and these lovely ladies, and they're beautiful, and, you know, all that stuff.
But, like, we know, I think we all know as women, like, it's something...
That would be ridiculous, yeah, if I caught my man on OnlyFans.
Yeah, like, it's such a strong power that we have, and we know it's, like, these clowns are consuming.
Like, they're paying for it, and, like, yeah, you got, you know, you got gone.
Exactly.
So it's, like, my man consuming that is, like, I don't want to be with, like, a person...
Yeah, like a goof...
Yeah, he's a simp.
Brandon, short and sweet, what's your take on this?
Bro, she's just yapping.
I see her perspective.
I see her perspective that it's more redeemable that he had the ability to attract another attractive woman versus looking at whatever point he was looking at.
We don't even know what it is.
It could be tranny point.
It could be some weirdo shit.
It could be kid shit.
Who knows?
I wouldn't go that far.
If it was, he would be in jail.
It was probably some weird shit because guys like some strange, but it probably was something that was weird.
Was it animals?
Can you stop?
You have to look at it this way, too.
When she sees that another woman is willing to actually get with you, that's completely different than, she knows this other woman probably ain't even paying you no attention.
You're just paying her.
She doesn't even know you exist.
She does not care about you anymore.
Good point.
It makes her man look crazy.
Shouts out to Georgia Tech.
And that's exactly why I would prefer.
If you were to find a connection, you know, if you were to meet a beautiful woman on the street.
So you would have been okay with him stepping outside of the relationship from time to time?
It's not that I would be okay with it, but, like, I would feel less embarrassed.
I would have more understanding.
I would be willing to have more of a, like, okay, I can understand.
It's like finding out your girl was fucking a dude, but he was rich and she was getting shit from it and was bringing it home to you versus your girl was taking the money you work for and giving it to him.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah.
I mean, it's so fucked up, but yeah.
Yeah.
I see.
Yeah, I see.
I see.
Because in one angle, at least your man's higher status and value, like, yeah, these bitches want him.
But on the other one, oh, my guys have lower value giving these random bitches or whoever the fuck it is.
I understand.
Yeah.
Okay, Brandon.
I know what's up, man.
None of these examples that y'all are getting as metaphors are even kind of the same.
Like, can I ask a couple of very serious questions that aren't sexual?
Do you like this man's character?
Yeah, yeah.
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Do you like his job?
Does he have a decent job?
Does he make decent money?
He does make decent money.
He does, he does.
We're getting straight to it.
Does he have kids?
No.
He wasn't cheating on you?
I mean, other than what has been discussed.
That is cheating.
You get to determine what's cheating, right?
You get to determine what is important to you, what upsets you, what's crossing a boundary.
Exactly, boundaries.
And for me, that crossed a boundary.
There are lots of relationships where people are able to have the first month of the week.
Understandable, but I think he means more from the conventional standpoint of actually entertaining a real physical material relationship with a female.
Maybe you don't even know.
That's what he's asking.
Conventional cheating.
I think that lining up a session with a sex worker is cheating.
I'm trying to keep it, you know, he's still a person.
You're holding back, so we can only go off of what you tell us.
She said he might be watching, and they might get back together, so she's not trying to put this shit out.
She's not.
She's just a respectful person.
You can tell she's respectful of people's business.
She doesn't want to play his business out there.
It's just his privacy, and he didn't choose to be on here.
I did, and he happened to be a part of my life, so I'm just trying to keep it as, you know.
But I mean, that changes things a lot.
Yeah, but that's what it is.
Now that you're saying you try to line up and meet up, that's significantly different than just fapping the porn.
100%.
Right.
That's why I said she was lying.
I told you guys from the beginning.
Didn't I say that?
I clapped this shit, man.
I knew something else was going on, too.
I saw your eyes going back and forth.
You want to comment on this?
No.
What about you?
Me?
How would you improve?
How would I improve?
One trait for your dream man.
I think the only thing that I really need to improve is the way that I make money.
So I'm working on other efforts and methods to make money.
Yeah, she wants to get out of OnlyFans.
Essentially.
Okay.
So you bring money to your dream man.
Not that I would bring money to my dream man.
I just know that I shouldn't be pursuing a relationship while I'm in this field because I've had multiple failed relationships already.
And also the type of man that I'm going to be attracted to would not be okay with me doing OnlyFans.
Understandable.
Do you think you might have shot yourself in the foot already though?
Yeah.
And actually you're going through the questions right now.
One of my questions is on there.
It's in blue.
Okay.
I just wanted to ask you, since OnlyFans, everything's on the internet and everything can come back to you, don't you think that when you have your man that you are attracted to and everything that he might go back and see all of that stuff?
Yeah, that's definitely a real concern for me, and so I'm kind of stuck in a standstill where I already have a child, and I have multiple failed relationships, and I did make the choice to go into this field, so I sometimes wonder if marriage is in the cards for me at all.
I would hope that it is, and I would hope after a few years of not doing it anymore that that stuff would go away because it's behind a paywall, but I'm not 100%.
I don't know what the future holds.
That shit don't ever go away.
Well, at least she's blunt.
I would say she's alright.
Yeah, at least she's blunt.
She ain't even giving no bullshit answers.
But her honesty and her integrity, I would say at this point, I think is admirable.
Yes.
Thank you.
Yeah, and your question is here.
What do you recommend to women who have already chosen to be in the sex industry?
Should they continue because it's too late or is there a hope for that woman to find a lifelong partner in the future if they choose a new path?
I'll turn it to the guests first and I can give my take on it.
Tommy, what are your thoughts and then we'll go to Brandon.
Ugh.
I don't think people will let it bother them like that as far as what they've gone through now.
Because I think every guy knows that he's walking into somebody else's shoes at this point.
At this point, yeah.
Yeah, so I think that what it is is how you carry yourself because if you look at it, Kanye West had no problem marrying Kim Kardashian and they knew what she did.
It's how you carry yourself at a certain point in time.
Um...
Cleaning it up is probably going to be a problem when you go into PTA and shit like that.
Right.
But as far as finding a man, we know we already step into somebody's shoes anyway, so that's just how I look at it.
Okay.
Brandon?
I'm a big individuality respecter.
Like, for example, I would never address you or you or you the way I address this one.
You know what I'm saying?
Everybody's different.
I don't know shit about you until I learn you.
That being said, when you're dating, dating, you only got to get it right once.
And your mindset is going to make you successful in dating because you accept reality.
Do you know how many women are delusional?
Do you know how many women on TikTok have built their following off being fake delusional?
And bitches in the comments are like, yes!
That's me!
So the fact that you live in reality...
and the shit goes around, and yada, yada, yada, they found you busting that shit open or whatever from 10 years ago, your kid might have to change schools.
You live in reality, and that's cool.
You know what I'm saying?
So if a guy finds out, he could be with you for three years, but that's not his morality, he can't fucking do it.
You're like, this hurts, but I understand.
I think you probably tell him up front, though.
But you never know, though.
We got guys.
We got egos.
We cool as shit until motherfuckers start roasting your ass.
I'm a huge believer in the law of attraction.
So it's like, being that I'm in this field, I've become, and I'm also a single modeler, I've become very, very masculine in the way that I carry myself.
So it's like, I'm not going to continue dating when I'm attracting these feminine men.
I'm attracting men with no cars, shit jobs, You're a single mom?
Yeah.
I love them a lot.
Y'all are even better.
Excited.
You see that coming?
Nice.
Alright.
Let's let her finish her point.
Hey!
Yeah.
I think I did finish my point.
Oh, that was it?
Okay.
But thank you for showing and being honest with the audience.
What's your take on this, Fresh?
Honestly speaking, we have a culture in this manuscript to say that we want virgins.
And I understand, because having a virgin is awesome, so to speak, because it's not touched at all by any man.
But in reality speaking, are we getting virgins nowadays?
No.
It is what it is, bro.
Got OnlyFans, prostitution, girls getting dicked down by hella dudes.
As a result, what do you find out there?
It's in your face.
Now, if you're honest to me, that's admirable for sure.
And it's like, at this point, if the man understands where you're coming from and is cool with it, what's wrong with that?
Think about this.
Are most men going to be like that?
Probably not.
No, and a lot of the men that I have chosen to date in the past will tell me that they're okay with it, and then they...
At the beginning.
Right, and then they build emotions for me, an emotional connection, and now it's you have to delete this, you have to change your entire lifestyle.
Now, could you imagine, you meet a guy that's cool with it, and then let's say, Brandon, Tommy, me and Myron say, yo, bro, this your chick?
Pull up a video, he's going to be like, fuck!
And that's going to hurt his soul.
Absolutely.
So, as a result, that's what you've got to deal with at this point.
Right.
It's reality.
But she lives in reality.
So she's good.
You know what I'm saying?
That's why I'm saying she's going to be alright.
Because at the end of the day, it don't matter how many times you get it wrong, you only got to get it right once.
Right.
I would like to be out of the game by the time I'm 25.
I mean...
How do you know?
22.
Oh.
Okay.
I thought you were going to say 24.
I got a year.
I got a year.
You know what I'm saying?
You be alright.
All right, so you mentioned that like, and I wrote down some notes here as you were talking and the other guys were talking to you, because I'm really trying to give you the best answer I really can here.
That's well measured and not to kind of give you the raw.
You mentioned earlier that you dated a bunch of guys that tend to have feminine tendencies, right?
Yes.
Don't have their money together, let you take leadership roles, et cetera, right?
Yes.
Okay.
So what I found with hyper-dominant masculine men that women find the most attractive is they typically also correlated with a behavior tendency of being very territorial.
So the more masculine a guy is, the more dominant he is, the more assertive he is, and the more successful he becomes, typically him being territorial with his woman goes up alongside it.
So the men that you're looking for, that you want, that these feminized men aren't necessarily being, Would disqualify you off rip in most situations, which is a problem.
Am I saying you can't find this guy?
Is it possible?
Of course it's always possible, but I think one of the biggest things that girls don't get is that possible and probable are two different things.
So, the probability of you finding a guy that's hyper-mask and has the shit together, is attractive, has money, is charming, charismatic, and funny, with a nice smile, and loves dogs, and wants to have a family, and all this other shit.
Taking a girl like you seriously in a relationship is extremely slim because he can find another girl that looks like you, that has your traits, that doesn't do that work and doesn't have a child.
And that's how men that are very successful tend to think.
They think objectively in that regard where I have a bunch of girls that want me.
Why would I go for this when I can get something else?
So I think women that get into certain lines of work, whether it's OnlyFans, pornography, even showing a lot of skin on Instagram or being a model or whatever where you're using your sexuality to make yourself money, It comes with long-term consequences that you might not foresee when you get into the field.
And then some girls say, well, I'm going to do it for a bit, make my money and get out.
But the problem is that it's always going to follow you and the man is always going to have a problem with it to some degree.
That's why you had this issue before where they're like, oh, well, it's okay.
It's not a problem.
And then they switch up later on.
Right.
So, yeah, I think the chances of you...
This is my basic thing.
You're not going to find your dream man.
That's the bottom line.
So I should settle.
Yes, you need to get comfortable settling with a guy that, let's say, he's not the most attractive, but he takes care of you and he's a good man.
Or he's a little feminine.
That might be what you have to settle for.
Or you get with a guy that's hyper-attractive, takes care of you, but he doesn't have the most money and you guys got to go 50-50.
Basically what I'm saying is that you're not going to get a complete package.
You're going to have to concede on something.
So what I would say is, maybe if you don't care about height as much, look at guys that are below 6 feet.
That was my last ex, and he was also, we were just talking about, like, cucks and stuff, he was into that type of shit.
Oh, shit.
Yeah, it started to get really bad, I had to break up with him.
Into what?
He's very insecure.
Well, what that says.
Wow!
Let me give you some tips, though.
Where did you meet him?
There's some things that's right now, I meet this nigga.
He's white, he was white.
Oh, there it is, she is.
I'm going to give you a list of things that should be non-negotiables.
I don't think you should try to do a 50-50 relationship.
The guy should pay the predominant amount of bills.
He should be the decision maker.
He should be the head of the household.
And he should go to the gym and have some kind of masculine semblance about him.
Other than that, Good looks, whatever it may be, you might not get that.
But I think if he has those four things in line, that's going to put him in a position to be a good father, at least.
Absolutely.
Bare minimum.
And I think that's the most important thing.
So, yeah, you just won't get your dream guy, unfortunately.
Well, thank you.
Yeah.
And thanks for being such a goddamn good supporter.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I like her.
I would say she's one of the most, I want, humble and, like, understanding.
Yeah.
What was the question again?
Don't worry, we got you.
No, I got you.
Stupid.
The question was, if you were going to find your dream man, what would you bring to the table for him?
Okay.
I'm definitely like a best friend, like the only friend a man needs.
That's it.
That's not good.
No, no, because they really, like, I have, I'm in a, I'm not a situationship.
I don't want to say a relationship, but I am sorta, like for a year and a half.
And even before that, like, in high school, da-da-da, like, whenever I have a boyfriend, it's always, like, I'm their best friend.
Like, they don't even, like, they just tell me, like, all their, like, secrets, you know what I mean?
They tell me about their business, like, they're like, what do you think, what do you think?
And I'm always, like, right there, like, and I'm just their best friend.
So you're gonna offer your dream man friendship?
I can offer my dream man whatever he wants.
Everything.
I can cook.
I don't clean, though.
But I don't think I'm gonna have any problem.
I feel like I'm at a point where I'm like, I don't even know what my dream man is.
Like, you know what I mean?
Like, I feel like that's just a fairy tale.
Like, before, like...
I used to dream of finding a rich man.
But then I'm like, wait a second.
I gotta get this shit on my own real quick.
I cannot wait.
You know what I mean?
I want to get it right now.
I don't care what a man has to think.
I know that eventually when I do find...
Like, wanna sit down and think about marriage and having kids, I already know that, like, I'm gonna have no problem, like, finding a man.
I'm not gonna have any problem.
Because whoever I end up with, he's not gonna be a square.
So, what is a square?
Uh, her saying that, she'll find a man.
I don't care if he's the hottest guy in the world.
I don't care about looks.
Before, I used to care about how a guy looks.
When was the last time he got pussy?
Like, over here.
Anyways.
Well, I mean, so are you content with what I told her that, like, if you choose certain professions, you're gonna have to concede on some things?
Yeah, I already accepted that a long time ago, and at this point, I'm just like, fuck these, like, the nice guys, like, I don't, like, you're, everybody's a loser, like, you know what I mean?
Like, the nice guys, like, I don't want that shit, I'm sorry, like, I don't, like, it's not, like, a bitch, like, you call them guys losers, and you wonder why I call you a bitch.
Shut the fuck up.
Anyways.
I'm a male apologist.
That's what I am.
Look at you.
Instead of holding up racks, you're holding up diapers.
Have you not caught the joke by now, bitch?
You're stupid.
I know you don't get jokes.
No, I just didn't think it was funny.
I don't think nobody thought it was funny.
Nobody laughed.
Two million views.
I got millions of views too.
Do you know in my playlist that says a million plus on TikTok, I have 50 videos with million views.
He is so cool.
Everybody clap!
Everybody clap!
I'm clearly hilarious, bitch.
It's so funny.
Ha ha ha!
Alright, so, just going back to what I was saying, so, because my thing is this, because we brought a lot of girls on, right, that, you know, maybe they might have been a stripper, or they did OnlyFans, or they did porn or whatever, and they still think they deserve a guy that's like 6'4", with a great smile, charismatic, family man, loves dogs, and he's the dream guy, and I'm like, I think if you do certain things as a woman, right, if you fuck up your past, you've kind of hurt your future, right?
Whereas, like, for men, it's like, if your future isn't bright, girls aren't going to want to fuck with you, so...
I mean, as long as y'all kind of know that you're gonna have to lower your standards significantly because here's the other thing too, especially you being at Booby Trap, you've probably dated or been around very successful men.
And I see how men are.
I think that's exactly where I changed my mindset, working there.
I'm like, yo, look at all these fucking celebrities, millionaires, billionaires, and I'm just like, none of these men ain't shit.
You know what's crazy about being in a club?
That's the thing, though.
I'm in a small, closed environment.
I know there's stuff out there, but the thing is, this is where I'm at right now.
I feel like eventually when I... Merch.
When I'm not into OnlyFans, I don't know when that's gonna be, but...
But let's be honest here.
You've dated and or dealt with these high-caliber men before.
You're not an ugly girl, right?
So you probably have dealt with these guys.
Yeah, but...
Let me tell you why that's important.
If you're talking to almost 3,000 of you ladies, I've noticed one glaring trend.
Over!
Over 3,000 girls.
It's very difficult for girls to go backwards.
So in other words, if they date a guy that makes $100,000 a year, the next guy better make 150.
If they date a guy that makes a million a year, it's gonna be very difficult for them to go back to a guy that makes 100K a year.
Does that make sense?
What I've noticed with girls that are in fields where they're around higher status, affluent men, is they think, okay, these are the men I'm around all the time.
These are the men I deserve.
No, I definitely don't think I deserve.
That's why I don't work at the club anymore.
I don't deserve those kind of men.
So you haven't been poisoned yet, allegedly?
No, no, I'm poisoned.
And I am poisoned.
Okay, so you are poisoned.
Yeah, she's tainted.
What about you?
I believe her.
Can you repeat the question again?
So the question is...
Stupid!
Let's just move on from that question.
It's a gay question.
They're going to give bullshit answers.
What would they do to be attractive for their dream man, bro?
They're going to say a bunch of cookie cookie shit.
I want to hear her answer, though.
I have an answer.
Sure.
We'll go with her, and then we'll go.
Because we've got a lot of chats.
One answer.
Oh, me?
Yeah.
What would you give your dream man?
My personality is...
Got it.
Personality.
What did I tell you?
Exists.
Same things.
I used to think you were so fine until you just said that.
She said exists.
What about you?
The things that...
Hey, at least you keep it real.
That's how girls think.
That's how they think, though.
That's why I thought she was fine until she said that.
You can't be mad.
Yeah, you can't be mad.
That's how they think.
That's the thing.
Every girl I date is super fine, so I listen to what you say.
As soon as you open your mouth, I'll be like, oh, my God.
You're just one of those.
What about you?
So I guess the things I did to get my dream man and to keep him, made sure I'm into fitness.
I mean, I gained a ton of weight in my old marriage and I lost over 100 pounds after I got divorced.
Sly queen.
I mean, went to etiquette classes, went to finishing school.
Oh shit.
You put your own money into that probably too, right?
Mine and my family.
I told y'all she was spitting.
Didn't I tell y'all from the beginning she was spitting?
Stay feminine.
I mean, I go to the gym all the time.
I work out with a trainer.
I eat really clean.
Yeah, but she hit a Hail Mary, man.
So shout out to her, man.
No, no, no.
She didn't hit a Hail Mary.
She earned that shit, bro.
You heard all the shit she just said she did?
She worked on herself.
And she knew what men wanted, and she became attractive to the kind of men that she wanted.
So she became independent in the sense of self-development.
And that's hard to find because most women are like, oh, take me as I am.
She said, no, fuck that.
I'm working on myself.
Become better for my dream man.
I mean, because I have a very masculine job.
I love this chick, bro.
And so I knew I needed to have the femininity for my dream guy.
That's why they say you have to become a wife.
So he didn't care about your career whatsoever, right?
He retired me.
He didn't give a shit about your job at all.
When he proposed, he told me to quit my job.
Okay.
Yeah.
Okay.
Cool.
That's good.
You know what?
Never mind.
What, Chris?
What are you going to say?
Also, how's the sex life?
I mean, like...
Chris, come on, man.
Did you fuck up?
I'm kidding.
Because the girls that are watching the show, right?
They're like, well, how can I become married?
You know, with a ring as big as hers.
True story.
So guys want to know, like, you know, once a day, three times a day, like, how did you get them, man?
Chris is asking the right question.
Come on, man.
How did you get them, Chris?
Come on, man.
Your brain isn't enough, man.
You don't have to give, like, an XXX concert.
Give the PG-13 version.
You know what I'm saying?
I mean, honestly, as much as he wants, but I know I initiate a lot of times, too.
Okay, there we go.
There we go.
That's the etiquette class for you.
Is that what you call a genuine burning desire?
Yeah.
That's that dick etiquette class right there.
You know what I mean?
She learned that shit.
Okay.
To keep having respect for myself.
I think that's very important because if I don't have respect for myself I'm not gonna find someone that's loyal to me or that's gonna want a future with me or is gonna want kids with me so I feel like Murch.
Okay.
I feel like if they see...
You lost me in the beginning, but you got me now.
That makes a lot of sense.
Okay, yeah.
Yeah, that makes a lot of sense.
Keep having respect towards myself because my old relationship, he told me a lot.
I'm not gonna lie.
He told me that guys will always cheat.
They will always cheat no matter what, but you just gotta stick by them.
You gotta stick by them.
I love this bitch!
She lives in reality.
Like five years from now, the same coochie gets old.
We don't want something else.
How many of you agree that men are always gonna cheat?
Raise of hands, ladies.
How many of you agree that men are always gonna cheat?
Okay, only three.
Yeah, only three.
Okay, I was asking the girls, but yeah.
Alright, sorry, you can continue on what you're saying.
I do think they're always going to cheat.
I mean, unless they are with God.
And that's the kind of man we need to look for.
So, hold on, hold on.
Are you going to leave?
It's also rare.
I didn't leave with him, no.
So...
Okay.
Alright.
You got something?
Please.
Yes.
Go ahead.
Talking about some, a man of God.
How many wives did the niggas in the Bible have?
Can we talk about it?
Can we talk about it?
If you're Muslim, how many wives are you allowed to have?
All the religions say that men can have as many wives as they want.
All the religions say that men can have as many wives as they want.
All the religions say be fruitful and multiply to all the men.
All the religions say.
So whenever y'all say that, unfortunately, you're speaking the fact that we should be polygamous.
You're speaking it.
You're speaking it.
You brought God into it, miss.
You can't take God out of it now.
All the religions say that all the men should have as many wives as they can handle.
That's actually not true.
Yes, they do.
Read the scriptures.
How you gonna tell me?
All of them, I tell you.
Who's Muslim in here?
We gotta take our shoes off.
Don't they say you have as many wives as you can afford and take care of?
Wait, who said that?
God said that.
Where did he say that?
In the Bible and the Quran.
Multiple times.
How many wives did Abraham have?
Hold on, hold on.
Can I say something really quick?
Oh my God.
I can only speak to Islam.
Four wives is what you can up to, but you gotta treat them all equally.
You heard me?
So he was talking about the Bible, right?
Who was the nigga in the Bible that had 100 wives?
Hold up, though.
Hold up, though.
King Solomon.
Because if you talk about King Solomon, if you talk about King Solomon, he did go outside God's will, and that's why he fell.
And he admitted to that, too.
Not with the wives.
But he admitted that foreign international women was his downfall.
And if you say men are- I better cut you off because it's irrelevant.
It's irrelevant though.
We're talking about the number- How is it irrelevant?
No, no, no.
Because you're talking about personally King Solomon.
I'm talking- Sure.
Please, let me finish.
Please.
I'm sorry.
I'm not- because you're really smart.
I really respect you.
The number of- the type of wife he had was irrelevant to the actual point.
Sure.
The actual point is God said motherfuckers can have wives.
Where?
I'm only asking you to point out a memory verse.
It's in the Bible and the Koran.
You can't just say Bible.
I don't know the verse, but it's in the Bible.
Ask anybody who knows the Bible anywhere.
It says it multiple times with multiple examples of multiple men who were chosen by God.
The downfall wasn't having multiple wives.
It was their individual story.
It wasn't the actual number of wives or the fact that they had more than one woman.
Men of status, of affluence, kings, so to speak, are supposed to have.
Let me ask this, because I know you know the Bible pretty well.
For King Solomon, was it the fact that he had multiple wives, or is it because he listened to one of the wives that fucked him up?
It was the one woman that was outside of his country that God said, hey listen, these women are evil, they're not of me, don't partake with them, and he chose her.
It's not the number, like what he's saying.
Okay, so the numbers are relevant.
It's listening to that one.
However, that's the Old Testament, though.
Okay.
So, if you say one thing, there's two parts.
Old and new.
So the Old Testament, yeah, you could fuck hella girls, bro.
Those are the times.
Yeah.
New Testament is like, Jesus came to die for our sins.
It's completely different.
It's not like how it used to be.
Because remember, sacrifices...
That's where the monogamy comes in?
Yeah.
Yeah.
New Testament.
So it used to be fun, then y'all switched it up?
And Paul mentioned you could take a wife, or not take a wife, but it's one woman.
Okay.
Yeah.
But I get what you're saying, though.
So you're saying Jewish people who believe in the Old Testament...
I don't like that.
Yeah, I don't know.
And Muslims who's two-thirds of the world, one-third of the world, whatever.
Go at it, bro.
Wait, can Jews have multiple wives?
I don't know.
No, no, no, but he said the Old Testament.
And they follow the Old Testament?
That's what they believe in.
Right.
So, it just depends on what you believe in.
You wanted to say something?
All I'm saying, a lot of men will say like, oh, men are polygamists by nature, right?
Yes.
But I would say sin is also pretty, pretty, uh...
It's not the same.
It's natural.
It's not the same.
Polygamy is not a sin.
Treating people certain ways, obviously.
But like, polygamy itself is not a sin.
Lying to your women is a sin.
If these women are mine, I love them dearly, and I'm not going to lie to anybody, right?
Now, mind you, I'm speaking as if I am polygamous.
I'm not going to sit here and say I'm polygamous, but I'm really good at empathy, so I'm putting myself in a polygamous body.
You know what I'm saying?
It's justified by...
Nigga said I'm wrong in the chat.
Read your fucking Bible, bro.
You know what I'm saying?
Read the Bible.
You don't know shit, bro.
Come on, man.
Sorry, go ahead.
You know what I'm saying?
People love to have feelings over facts.
Y'all say it all the time, right?
Like, facts are just facts.
That's what it is.
Tommy, you got anything?
No.
The last part of what he said, I believe it's...
I'm 100% in agreement with that.
Which part?
The part where he said, if those people, whoever in that relationship...
It goes back to what I said to the young lady earlier.
Whatever your relationship is, if you guys are okay with it, then I'm okay with it.
And if it's...
I've never understood how it is illegal for me to marry more than one woman, but I can go out and marry a grown-ass man?
Right.
Or I can make babies with a million children, with a million women, but I can't take three of them as wives and have benefits and have life insurance that comes to them.
You know what I'm saying?
I don't understand.
America is washed.
As far as laws and shit.
But there's no verse that says you can't have, I want to say, standards in your own relationship.
What do you do behind closed doors?
That's up to you.
But I don't see a verse that says you can't do that.
No, you can't.
That's what I'm saying.
We are too busy to get in other people's bedroom.
It's like our bedroom is so fucking boring that we got to get in yours.
Out of curiosity, and I'll start here and work my way this way.
Do you think every girl deserves her dream man?
No.
No?
I know I liked her.
No.
Yes.
Yes, okay.
No.
No?
Yeah.
Yeah, of course.
No, but I also don't think that every guy deserves their dream woman either, you know?
Okay.
Oh, okay.
Of course.
I agree.
With her?
Yeah.
On both ends as well?
Absolutely not.
You don't think that everyone does?
For the girls that said no, tell me why not.
We'll start with you.
Why do you think girls don't deserve their dream man?
Not every girl deserves a dream man.
Because there's some girls that don't know the true meaning of having a husband.
They don't know that it comes with a lot of work and a lot of respect towards your husband and that he's gonna stick by you towards the end and you have to do the same.
Okay.
Why do you think no?
I agree.
I mean, I think you have to know how to be a wife inherently.
It's hard to learn how to be one.
It's hard to learn those characteristics.
And you think that every girl doesn't deserve a dream, and why do you say that?
I don't know.
A shot of wood.
No, no, no, this water's doing me fine.
I don't want to get an asshole.
I've even said something out of mine.
All right, all right.
So, you just think they should just have their dream husband and you can't stay away?
Everybody deserves a good life.
No, no.
No, no, no.
Just for being here.
No, no, no.
Just for being here, right?
Uh-uh.
Everybody makes mistakes.
You get what you are.
It all depends about who you are as a person.
Oh, yeah?
Yeah.
So, just so I'm correct here.
Not all people are good people.
Yeah, you get what you are.
No, hold on.
Hitler deserved a good life, right?
That's way back.
And that's a man.
I knew it!
Y'all missed the important part.
She said that was long ago, and that's a man.
Fuck him.
That's a man.
Fuck him and his happiness.
He's a man.
Right?
Fuck him.
He's a good woman.
Ava LeBron was a good woman.
She stood beside him and died with him.
She was a good woman.
She's a down-ass bitch.
Most women are.
No.
No, no, no, no.
I disagree with that.
That's what he's saying.
You can't say that most women are good people.
She crazy.
I just don't feel certain women are deserving.
You're not wrong.
If you don't have the qualities to be a white, or you don't have the certain qualities for your dream man, I don't think you're deserving of it.
Some women just feel entitled.
People in general just feel entitled.
I don't feel that means they are deserving.
That's like saying most people deserve their dream job.
You said yes, why do you think so?
If that's what you want, then I believe you can manifest it.
If that's what you want, you have a dream man, if that's what you want, you got a dream man in mind, then why can't you find him?
I mean, I don't know about every woman.
I know I can find my dream man.
I don't know about every woman.
Brandon is crazy.
My standards?
I feel like my standards are pretty high.
I mean, to other people, to somebody else, it would probably be high.
Hold the calculator, Chris.
That's fine.
We'll have fun with this one.
Wait, but didn't you say on the previous question that you know that you have to settle?
Yeah, I was going to ask that too, but that's why.
So she asked you, she said, in the prior discussion me and you had, I told you, hey, you know how you're going to have to, given your track record of work and what you've done in the past, you might have to concede and get a guy that might be less than Dream.
And you agreed to that, so now she's saying you switched it up.
Why?
Right?
Is that what you're drawing on?
Yeah.
Wait, what?
Say that again?
No, no, because someone was talking to me.
Someone was looking at me.
Okay, I'll rephrase it.
Earlier in the discussion, I told her first and I told you as well, hey, if you do certain professions, et cetera, sex work, whatever, There's a high likelihood that you're gonna have to concede and give up certain traits that you want in your dream man because he might not want the type of girl that you are back.
Does that make sense?
And then you agree to that.
And then she's saying, well, why'd you agree with me before that some girls have to concede on their dream man when now you're saying every girl deserves her dream man?
Because every girl's perspective of a dream man is different.
Like, mine is probably different, way different from hers.
You know what's interesting?
I would argue that they're actually way more similar than you want to admit.
Well, I mean, all I care about...
As a matter of fact, I'll take it a step further.
They've done studies on this.
Tommy, you can probably back me up.
When women are polled on what they like in a man, it's actually far more rigid than women like to admit.
That's why people are only dating the time.
Bro, you know she don't know what rigid means.
First of all, I was an honor student, okay?
I was a straight A honor student.
Does anybody believe this woman when she says she was a straight A honor student?
I really don't care.
I was a straight A honor student my whole life until I started working and then I'm like, wait a second, I'm making too much money.
You are a liar.
First of all, I'm pretty sure I'm way smarter than you.
Like, way smarter.
Can you spell elephant?
E-L-E-H-A-N-T. That's supposed to be impressive, bitch?
I don't know, because you're just that stupid to me.
Can you spell octopus?
First of all, he's the type Guys, chill out.
Please chill out.
This is becoming a circus and we don't want it to become a circus.
All I'm saying is that And Tommy, please feel free to chime in here.
When they polled women, they typically look for the same demographic of men, right?
If you look at, like, a Bumble or a dating app, right?
The women only swipe right on 5% on the men.
And when you look at the men, they all have very similar things.
Jaw lines, a certain physique where their shoulder is a certain width from their body.
I don't care about that.
Again, I understand that you're saying that that's not what...
You don't care about that, but...
Women tend to be way more selective, and they like the same things, and they won't admit it to the same degree men.
Like, we'll admit, we want a slim waist, nice ass, nice tits, etc.
Women like the same things than men, but they don't really want to admit it because it makes you guys look shallow.
The thing is, of course, like, oh my god, I see like a freaking hot guy, and I'm just like, I see a hot guy, and I'm like, oh my god, that guy is fine as fuck.
But, like, men and women think different.
Let's go ahead and punch in your numbers real fast.
So, what is the minimum age and maximum age you want your guy to be?
Minimum age, probably 32.
32 to what?
Maximum 43.
Okay.
Minimum height for you?
At least 5'8".
Okay.
How tall are you?
5'4".
Okay.
Alright, so you can't wear heels then.
Are you okay with that?
Maybe 5'9".
Okay, 5'9".
Alright?
And remember, we're building your dream man here that you mentioned that you want, right?
Okay.
What race do you want him to be?
Any race.
Wait, Asian?
Any race.
Indian?
Man.
I don't...
Indian?
You know what?
I don't care.
Thank you.
Come again.
They be cute.
They be cute, Indians.
Thank you.
Come again.
Like, I lived in New York.
There'd be some fine-ass Indians.
Okay.
Yeah, but they don't...
It's not fucking Raj.
Like, thank you.
Come again.
Not that guy.
I like cultures.
I love cultures.
You like Ping?
Love you long time?
That Asian guy?
W. Marsh.
You okay with that?
Like an Asian guy with the oriental accent?
You cool with that too?
No.
Fuck it.
We'll check it all out for her.
Minimum education for you.
Minimum education.
Yeah, he has to have high school diploma.
It doesn't matter.
It doesn't matter.
Because if he got money, then it doesn't matter.
All right, what's the bare minimum he's got to make a year for you?
At least a million.
Wow.
Damn.
Wow.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Oh, my God.
Okay, maybe not that much.
I'm talking about the last year.
Let's say at least 300k a year.
Everybody be quiet.
Let her say what she wants.
You guys just literally influenced her to drop it off negatively.
These are her standards.
These are her standards guys, not yours.
Everybody chill.
Now, again, uninterrupted.
What is the bare minimum he's got to make per year?
Keep it a million with us.
Don't fucking drop it down, you know, 60% because they don't want to fucking shame you.
What do you think you deserve as far as your guy to earn per year?
Go ahead.
Or you can do it by month if you wanted.
That's easier.
Don't settle, baby.
I mean, I'll stick to the million.
Can he be married?
Can he be married then?
No.
Can he be obese?
Yes.
What?
Are you aware?
Obese is like...
She know fat niggas get money.
She know what time it is.
I like fat niggas at all.
Fat niggas get money.
You know what I'm saying?
She know.
Obese...
That's like Moe.
Just so you know.
No, I don't have a problem with that.
For some reason, I don't have a problem with that.
I used to be fat.
I'm fine with that.
Okay.
We can tell.
All right.
So, she's not excluding obese guys.
Okay, so just so you ladies know, this comes from the 2023 Current Population Survey, U.S. Census Bureau, and the CDC as well.
So, this is the most accurate representation of men in the United States, as a matter of fact.
So, we had one of our supporters bill this for us.
So, let's go ahead and see how common and prevalent this guy is your dream man.
Let's see what common is.
Go ahead. - Congratulations. - You scored.
Your guy is less than 1% of the male population.
Y'all didn't check fat.
She said she'd take fat.
Yeah, we did.
No, we unchecked it.
Like, you can't be obese.
No, she said she would take one.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, we kept it.
Wait, go back.
Y'all excluded.
She said she'll take a fact.
I think you guys clicked it.
You guys clicked that one.
Reset it again, reset it again.
Yeah, y'all didn't click it.
She said she didn't want him to be married.
Minimum 32.
No, he had it right the first time.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
No, it's correct.
It was correct.
Because it said exclude.
So like, exclude married so she wouldn't do, yeah, we got rid of all the married dudes.
And then the fat dudes, we kept it open for her.
If we check it, it means we're excluding them.
So yeah, so it's correct.
So it's less than 1%.
Yeah, less than 1%.
Y'all set her up.
No, we just set her up.
I'm just being honest.
That was her standard.
We've done this before because, look, the reason why we have this calculator, ladies, you know, it's not because we're going to set her up.
It's because we've noticed a growing trend of women that are, quite frankly, fairly delusional about How many of these guys are out there that are attractive?
And keep in mind that we didn't even go over him being charming, or funny, or cool, or having a vibe, being straight.
We didn't even account for any of that stuff.
This is just strictly the raw numbers you gave us, so it's gonna be even less if you want him to be attractive.
So nobody's making a million dollars a year, it looks like.
Are these numbers?
If you look at how many people in the United States are actually making over a million, Hell, you gotta look at what the property line is in the United States.
They're like, yeah, that's reasonable, yeah.
But it doesn't have to be in the United States.
I'm open to anybody in the world.
See, when you work in an environment like...
If you ain't gonna find it here, it's gonna be worse in other countries.
I think you just fooled your point when you were saying once they get to working in an environment, they start to think that the whole world is that environment.
It's not.
Yeah, remember, this is like all men, like a million dollars a year.
I just know that in Brazil, like you could find a good man, like a decent man, like who makes millions of dollars while I'm here, because I was born here.
So when are you going to Brazil?
I go all the time.
Wait, wait, wait.
You were born here saying you lived in immigrant struggle on purpose?
You were born here and lived in immigrant struggle on purpose?
I'm not looking for a man like a husband.
I'm 24.
Okay.
Like, I'm not looking for a husband.
Like, when I'm 30, I'll start looking for a husband.
Just asking you real quick.
Okay.
Now, let's just have a little...
I don't care.
I'm being real.
When I'm 30, that's like a woman.
That's what you want.
That's what you want.
I understand that.
But let's say you meet a man that does have these qualities.
Let me ask you this.
What do you think he wants in return?
If he loves me, like if I want him...
Before the love, what do you think he wants in return for him bringing this kind of value?
He's going to want somebody to nurture him.
He's going to want a best friend, somebody to nurture him.
A best friend?
He's going to want to...
I know men want to have sex all the fucking time, like...
What, you?
Can you handle?
That's not it.
I mean, honestly, I'm not really, like, a sexual, like, even though I do all this work, like, I'm really not, like, a sexual person.
But I do handle, though.
I can handle.
If I'm, like, literally, if I'm married, then I guess that's what I gotta do for my husband.
You guess that's what you gotta do?
No, I know that's what I gotta do, but I'm just, like, that's why I'll leave it for when I'm 30.
How old are you?
I think once you're 30, it's a lot harder to find you.
27.
She's got to force it.
I guess I'll do it for my man.
Here you go.
Take it.
Starfish.
Okay, you said you think at 30 years old, do you think you'll have more value at 30 years old or now?
But right now, I don't want to get married, so I don't think that this question is relevant to me.
But you do understand that it's relevant to the man that you want.
But right now I have a man who is literally obsessed with me and does everything and literally kisses my feet, massages my back 24 hours.
But you don't want him, do you?
And he does want to marry me.
He calls me his wife.
I know he's loyal as fuck.
But do you want him though?
No.
You don't want him.
I like him because he literally is my slave, but...
That's the point.
What?
He's submissive to you.
He's not a fucking man.
And that's what I like.
That's the good word right there.
I like men who are submissive to me.
That's what I like.
He won't say that.
I don't think you understand.
I'm 24.
This question is like, I don't give a fuck.
I don't give a fuck about that shit right now.
I don't wanna get married right now.
I already did that.
I was so in love with the guy, and I'm like, bro, this guy, he was my age, and he's like, I want to go make money.
He's like, I want to go make money, da-da-da-da-da.
And then I'm like, I want a certain lifestyle, and you're my age.
You make more money than your current slave?
No.
What does he do?
I can't say.
Teal the soil.
Yeah.
Okay, Tommy, you said you want to say something?
Go ahead.
There's just so many things here.
I mean, if you want to go ahead.
Please.
And I mean no offense, but I got to say this to guys.
The majority of women are functional retards.
Oh!
You can't be your 24-year-old man going around talking stupid like this and survive.
If you have a vagina, you can be stupid.
And they've allowed women to have a vagina and just be a dumbass.
Tell me more about how I'm the asshole.
I don't understand how I'm dumb.
What were you doing when you were 24?
What were you doing when you were 24?
What were you guys?
Everybody, everybody, everybody.
You're 12, you're older then.
Hey, everybody, everybody be quiet.
Look, look, look.
This is how we're going to do this.
Tommy's going to make his point uninterrupted, and I promise I'll give you a chance to rebut his argument.
I promise you.
You said what you said.
He didn't interrupt you.
Please give him the ability to finish his thought, and then I will give you absolutely the opportunity to respond to however you want.
Go ahead, Tommy.
One mic at a time.
Please don't interrupt, guys.
Go ahead, bro.
Yeah, that's why I said it in general.
I said no offense to you, and I know when you say that, it's going to be offensive.
But I'm trying to get you to understand...
A man at your age speaking like that out in public, they would think it's something wrong with him.
What do you mean?
What?
Speaking what in public?
Okay.
It's late.
That's literally what he says.
He's like, I'm your slave.
I'm part of your slave trade.
That's what he says.
His own words.
Even that.
You said that's literally what he says.
Stop.
Let me finish.
You were repeating the same thing as if saying it a fifth time was going to make it sound different.
I got it.
If you said it was two plus two and I said four, just saying four, four, four, four, four, four, four.
So the person can go on and make the point.
The point I was trying to make wasn't that.
The point I was trying to make is when he asked you a question, he said, do you think your value will be higher at 30 than 24?
Your response was, I don't care.
I'm not there.
I feel like you will be higher.
Listen to what I'm saying.
If someone asks you, what's your favorite car?
What's your favorite car?
Um...
G-Wagon.
I was going to say Porsche or G-Wagon.
Do you have one?
No.
There it is.
You see how you had an answer for something?
You're not there?
Yeah, I'm not.
So that's all I'm saying.
I'll get there when I'm 30, though.
Hold on.
But, like, you asked, you said, well, how were you when you were 24?
I had my psychology degree.
I was a master's in psychology.
That's good for you.
What I'm trying to say is some people are not everywhere that you think, but you should have an idea of a future where you're trying to go even if you're not there.
So when someone asks, do you think you have more value at this age than that, it should be easier to say it.
Like, I am 48.
I know I had more sexual value when I was 19.
I could fuck through an orgasm and keep going.
That's the thing.
It's only about sex, though.
No.
It's not.
No, I am.
I literally am.
That's what I'm saying.
I said, are you hearing what I said?
I did not say it was all.
I said, at this age, I was better at this thing.
If someone asked me these questions, a man has no problems conceding certain things.
Women seem to believe that they're every woman.
It's all in me.
Anything you want done, baby, I get it naturally.
They really believe that, Kyle, you kept saying, I'm everything that a man wants.
Humility is something that these women today don't have and it's because of the fucking internet and people giving y'all these damn likes online.
So y'all believe that that shit is real.
It makes no sense to even walk out of the house and believe I'm everything that someone wants.
But you didn't do what she did, which was what?
Let me find out what the fuck they want.
Because when they asked you, what do a man want?
You said some of the most basic shit possible.
He want a friend.
Most men would tell you, I'm not looking for a fucking friend.
I got a friend.
He my homeboy.
That ain't why I'm with you.
But that's exactly why I said I'm not looking for a husband right now.
Sorry to say, but you're older, you finally found a husband.
Right, I also got married when I was 23.
It didn't work out, though.
She did it twice.
And it didn't work out.
Why would I want that for myself?
I've already seen it happen with my parents and everybody else.
I don't want that for me.
When I'm older, and when I get my shit together, then I will be in a place A woman is never going to have her shit together.
She's always going to be a work in progress.
So you think 30 years old, you're going to be more attractive than you are now at 30 years old?
I don't think I'm gonna have any problem at 30 years old finding a man.
No, I'm asking you, are you more attractive now at 24 or at 30 years old?
I'm more attractive now, I guess, for you guys.
Now that's important.
So let me ask you a question, because I'm starting to see that you, okay.
Let's switch the roles real fast, okay?
Let's switch it.
Let's say me, okay?
I'm 19 years old, I live with my mom, I don't have a job, and I smoke weed every day.
But I deserve and I want a bad bitch to have a family with.
Am I delusional or not?
For sure.
Why am I delusional?
Because are you lazy?
Yes.
Then you're delusional.
Okay.
So would it be fair to say by me living with my mom, being broke, 19 years old, I don't have the attractive traits that women are looking for?
Yeah, correct.
Okay.
So what if I told you that you being 30 years old Being a former stripper, doing OnlyFans is the same exact thing as that 19 and living with his mom.
No, hold on.
Let it sink in.
Wait, hold on.
See, let it sink in.
I'm not attracted for being a loser.
Rightfully so.
I don't deserve a bad bitch and a wife.
Same thing with you.
30 years old.
OnlyFans.
Being a stripper.
Same thing.
That's not what a man that you want making a million dollars a year is going to want in return.
That's all I'm telling you.
You trigger!
When you're looking at dating the opposite gender, you have to think about what the other gender wants.
I don't show up on a date with my dick out for a reason.
Because I do want to have sex with a girl.
I understand that I need to build rapport.
I need to be attractive.
I got to make her laugh a little bit.
I got to come smelling good.
I got to dress good.
I got to set up a date.
I got to properly do things for her to be attractive to me.
Why is it that when I tell women, well, you should probably do the things that the man that you want wants from you.
But girls say, no, I'm not ready yet and I'm not gonna do that.
That's like me being 19 years old, living with my mom and saying, I demand a bad bitch.
See how delusional I sound?
But the thing is, like...
Does that make sense?
Yes, it makes sense.
It definitely makes sense.
The thing is, I'm 24 years old.
I'm not looking for a husband right now.
Like, I don't...
These qualities...
She belongs to the street.
Yes, I understand that you're not looking for a man now, but you do understand...
And I'm for the streets, but I have a boyfriend.
Stop for two seconds.
At 24 years old, you have more negotiating power to get a man than you do at 30 years old.
Do you understand that concept, at least?
Yes.
I do understand that concept.
The thing is, me, myself, me, I don't want to get married right now.
I don't want to get married.
I don't want to have kids right now.
I just don't.
Right now, I don't want to do it at 24 years old.
And that's fine, but you're shooting yourself in the foot in the future to find the guy that you want.
Because you're purposely...
Essentially just letting the mileage run out without getting an owner.
I don't mean to sound crass like that, but that's really the simplest way I could put it.
Because men look at women as cars.
The lower the odometer, the more attractive you are.
The higher the odometer, the less attractive you are.
And then also another thing with your boyfriend that you mentioned.
So at the top of the show, I asked you, what's your relationship status?
And you said single, correct?
I don't think I answered that.
Yeah, you did.
You said you were single.
And I think that's very important.
Because I can tell a lot about a woman when I ask her about her relationship status.
If a girl tells me she's single or something like that, and then she comes back later and says she has a man to kind of save face.
She's a liar.
It's not that she's a liar.
I believe her that she has a man.
She just doesn't like him like that.
And the reason why is because you refer to him as a slave.
No woman wants a man that she can actually call a slave.
A girl wants a guy that if she dared say he's a slave, he would break up with her.
A woman wants a guy with a backbone.
Whenever a girl can emasculate a man like that and call him a slave or whatever, she wears the pants in a relationship and she don't respect him, which literally was shown earlier when I asked you if you're single, and you said single.
I literally wear the pants.
That's the problem.
I don't know what to...
That's the way it shit is.
Notice how, real quick, when I asked her what she did for work, she led with her relationship.
I didn't even ask her what her relationship was.
She said, I'm a stay-at-home wife.
Women that have a man that they actually respect and admire are proud to show that shit off because women know that their value is contingent upon the man they can attract.
So, the guy you're with, you don't respect him.
You just tolerate him for now.
So, I don't know, man.
I think you need to really reevaluate how you do things if you want to get your dream guy.
That's the thing, though.
You guys keep talking about a dream guy.
I'm not...
That's not like...
Why do people just care about your dream guy?
I have other goals and other things that I want to do and aspire to do.
Like what?
Like a guy like I. I already met a million guys.
That's not my thing right now.
That's fine.
I did all the good things.
I was loyal.
I stayed at home.
I was actually engaged when I was 21 years old to a guy from New York that I was with for three years.
But then I'm like, bro, what am I doing with my life?
This is not okay.
This is like a fairy tale so that I can get a divorce when I'm 32.
It just doesn't matter.
Just like she got married at 23.
That shit doesn't work out, bro.
This is not 1932.
This is not 1920s anymore.
It's a different world.
I did get married at 23.
I was also kind of pressured into it.
I almost didn't walk down the aisle.
I knew he was the wrong guy for me.
We had 400 people at our wedding.
400?
Huh?
400?
Wow, that's awesome.
Big, huge Roman Catholic wedding.
That's not a pressure.
Both families.
I was told I had to go through with it.
And I was told I couldn't get divorced because we were Roman Catholic.
Can I butt in also?
Yes.
I want to say that like a lot of women in the sex worker industry or in the OnlyFans industry do have a different type of upbringing than a lot of other women.
So maybe where she was at at like 21 versus where you were at at 23 might have been different mentally.
You know what I'm saying?
I mean, and I had a fairly good upbringing.
But also, she didn't judge her.
She judged the fuck out of her.
I'm not judging her.
It's just what happened.
It's the facts.
She got married at 23.
And I just know that that's going to happen to me if I get married right now.
It's not going to work forever.
It's about choosing the right guy, though.
Exactly.
I didn't find the right guy.
And I don't know what the right guy is.
I just don't know what the right guy is.
That's the most honest shit she said the entire time.
And I can respect that.
Hold on.
I have a question for you.
I think women need to get married or get in a serious relationship as young as possible.
Hold on.
Are you 24?
Yeah.
Imagine buying your G-Wagon six years after somebody drove that car.
Would you want that car still?
No.
So you being 30, why would you want you?
You guys are not married either.
You guys are literally the men that I know that ain't shit.
You guys are literally the men that I know ain't shit.
Are you a man?
But I know, first of all, I know men.
You know the niggas in the club that ain't shit can last 50, 60 years and then find a girl.
But can you?
Who says I can't?
Who says I can't last without a man?
We just went through this.
Okay, I can't last without a man.
Like she said, I went eight months celibate.
Like, I can't last without a man.
That's true.
That's a cat, bro.
I think you're missing the point that men age like wine, women age like milk.
As you get older, your chances of finding a man go down.
As we get older, our chances go up.
Then pour me in a few years.
I feel bad for myself in a few years.
I don't know.
Facts.
Yeah, facts.
It's not the same.
Pray for me, guys.
I don't know what to say.
Nah, man.
You all...
It's not the same, but I will say that, like you said, it's probably better to have women get married at a younger age.
As young as you can.
Right, because the further you get and the deeper you get into this type of game, it becomes very, very difficult.
One, your viewpoint and your standpoint on marriage and men in general just changes from being in this field.
So, I can understand where she's at because I empathize because I'm in the same field, but...
Yeah, it's like...
But see how she's not able to come to the same logically sound conclusion, though.
Like, she's not able to come to the same conclusion.
She lives in reality, bro.
Yeah.
Hold on.
You got a point?
Because she's saying men and women are different, though.
Because, like, at 40, you'll see a woman, she's like, oh, she's beautiful for her age.
A man at 40, he's fine as hell still.
50, same.
A woman at 50, oh.
She doesn't understand that, bro.
Why are you not married at 50?
That's a red flag.
That's true.
Like, that's crazy.
Yeah, I mean...
Like, why would I get you at 50 and nobody else did at 50?
That's crazy.
There's a term in China...
For women that are...
Historically, it was 25 years or older, but then they moved it kind of more to like 27 and older or 30 and older.
It's called Xing Nu, which basically means leftover woman in Chinese.
I don't say that to be an asshole or be misogynistic, but I say that to say, universally, whether Chinese, American, Arab, etc., Since the beginning of time, men have always valued younger women because of fertility and youth and beauty.
These are things we look for.
I think women need to understand that this is how men evaluate women.
It's not your career or having a bag or any of this other stuff.
And they need to kind of adopt to what men want.
And I think, not to pick on you, but like she said, why should I care what the man wants?
And I think a lot of girls have that mantra of why should I care what the man wants?
But if a woman wants to get married or get taken seriously, I think it's very important for them to understand what men want and what men are attracted to.
Yes, and also...
Go ahead, Tommy.
And then you can go.
Unless you want her to go.
Go ahead.
Go first.
I was just going to say...
I was going to switch to Castle Club too, by the way.
Uh...
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