Today we're doing the show today, Freshman Podcast with Freshman Fit.
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MLD MK, tell them who you are and what you do for a living.
Go ahead, ladies first.
What's up everyone?
This is Mary Kate of Mary Kate's Matchmaking, your favorite matchmaker in Miami.
Helping people find the love of their life through up-leveling their communication style to lead overall more meaningful lives.
Very nice.
MLD? You guys know me.
It's me, MLD. I'm back in America doing my yearly trip here to Fresh and Fit.
Happy to see the new place.
Happy to finally meet Bills and all the squad.
You guys know me, Money Muscles Game Frame.
That's me.
And I'm a men's self-improvement coach.
I'm the leader of the only centralized Passport Bro community as well.
And we're just knocking them out of the park left and right over here.
So today we're doing a fresh match with Refresh& Fit, and obviously speaking, dating is hard nowadays.
How's dating for you guys, and what's the scope of it you would say for dating?
Well, let's start with that you can't approach dating as just checking the boxes, okay?
A lot of times when people approach it that way, it's just the laundry list of items, and it's a laundry list.
Like, it's long.
Rather, focus on those non-negotiables.
What are those non-negotiables?
And that really stems from your personality trait, like your interests, your hobbies, and your value systems.
But going beyond five to eight things on that list, you're setting yourself up for failure.
Emily?
So, what's the exact question?
How's dating nowadays, you think, for people, men and women in general?
Oh, it depends on where you are in the world.
In the West, it's kind of a nightmare, quite frankly.
I personally think, if you want to go to the root issue of it, I think that we have a family problem in the Western world.
Civilization, you know, and I think more and more people coming from single mother households, single households in general, typically don't have good models for relationships because their model is a broken relationship.
And I think that it's kind of a perpetuating thing.
So I'm doing my best to help turn that thing around and let's see what we have here today.
Doing a good job, man.
Well, we're going to start this off hot and ready.
We've got a couple here right now, two, a man and a woman.
And we're going to do a speed dating round of icebreakers.
So Mary-K, just give an intro real quick.
Let's do it.
All right, guys.
We've got couple number one.
Welcome, welcome.
Just say your name and where you're from.
What do you do for a living?
My name is Janelle.
I am from Miami, Florida.
I'm Cuban-Lebanese, and I was a news anchor.
Now I'm into wealth management.
Okay.
Marvel?
Marvel Bishop.
I go by as Bishop.
I'm originally from New York.
I'm a luxury concierge host there based in Miami.
Luxury concierge host?
A host, yes.
So I provide experiences for the 1%.
Nice.
Awesome, awesome, awesome, awesome.
Alright, so we have a three minute timer.
We're going to do an icebreaker challenge here.
The questions are on the actual table.
The first three are going to be yours and start.
Okay, Ms.
Janelle, how are you doing?
Good, how are you?
Doing good.
Thank you for asking.
Awesome.
Okay, so we already talked about this.
You like to cook, right?
I do.
I love to cook.
Yeah.
What's the most favorite thing that you like to cook?
I like Mediterranean food because I have a Lebanese background, and I really like Italian food also.
Okay, nice, nice, nice.
And let's see here.
By the way, you don't need questions.
If you have to use them, you can, but you don't have to use questions.
Oh, I don't?
Yeah, yeah.
Okay.
And do you like to go to sporting events as well?
I do.
What's your favorite sport?
I like tennis, I like polo, and I love boxing.
Basketball, too.
Basketball, too.
How is polo, though?
Because I've never really seen it.
Polo is, well, it's horses, and it's like golf, but on a horse.
And you're on the beach.
In Miami, they have it once a year.
It's great.
Good for networking, also.
Do you have like a favorite sports team?
I don't.
You know, I'm not really into sports like that, but when they come around and I'm invited, I like to go just because it's enthralling and it's just something else to do other than the regular Miami thing.
Okay.
And it's great for networking also.
Okay.
Yeah.
Okay.
I mean, sports is definitely, obviously, big here in Miami.
But other than that, like, what else do you like to do in this set?
Like, for fun or, like, you know, anything for, like, you know...
Miami.
Miami fun.
I mean, for me...
Well, for you.
For you.
Yeah.
Like, what did Janelle...
What do you like to do?
Shopping the beach.
Okay.
I love the beach.
I love to be with friends and family.
I love to dance.
I used to be a professional salsa instructor.
Really?
Yes.
And I love anything that's related to, like, theater.
Concerts, opera, plays.
Yeah.
So as far as you doing salsa, what's the best venue to go to to do salsa or merengue or bachata?
Well, Cuba Ocho is good.
There's also a place called Copper Blues in Doral.
That place is pretty good and it has amazing DJs.
Do you dance?
I do a little bit.
I do a little two-step here and there.
You know how to do the turns and...
The turn and the spinning and all that.
I can lead.
I can definitely lead.
That's good, because that dance is...
The man is the main leader.
Bachata, yes, but like merengue and salsa, that's...
Is that salsa?
Is that the fast one?
Salsa is pretty fast.
It's pretty fast, right?
The fast one, I'm not really too, too good at.
Bachata, yeah, that's a little, you know...
Do you have Latin in you?
Well, my, no, well, my mother's from Aruba and my father's from St.
Thomas.
Oh, okay.
So you have the Caribbean flavor.
Yes, yes.
And my grandparents on my father's side is from Dominican Republic.
Awesome.
Oh, yeah.
So you have the, you have it in you for sure.
Spanish, yeah.
Cool.
That's awesome.
So I can definitely do that.
And I'm sure you're into sports.
Yeah, I did.
Well, I did play sports back in the day.
Okay.
What did you play?
I played basketball.
Played D3 and I was playing semi-pro in New York.
Nice.
Yeah.
You have the hype for it.
Yeah, 6'11", so.
Yeah.
Okay.
So how old are you guys?
I'm 37.
37?
I'm 35.
35?
Okay, okay, okay.
And then you guys both reside here in Miami?
Yes, sir.
Yeah.
So let's just, this is kind of a little vanilla.
Let's spice this up.
Okay.
Okay.
What do you hate about dating in Miami?
Hmm.
What do I hate?
I'm going to be very transparent with you.
I have very good luck dating in Miami.
Okay.
I go on many dates.
They're not bad people.
I just have very, very high standards.
Do you have a laundry list like I was referring to before?
No.
It's not like an actual list, but...
What can you define laundry list?
Like just like a long list of things.
Like qualifications, parameters, expectations.
No, but you know what?
I will actually, I have, I do know something that I've uncovered.
Depth.
That is the main thing.
Because I've uncovered that most people, they do fulfill the materialistic aspects of it, of what I'm looking for.
But they lack a certain level of depth.
And what is intellect?
What does depth mean to you?
How do you define that?
Spiritual depth or just being able to have the ability to do introspection, to have self-awareness.
And to just be a well-rounded person when it comes to that.
So speaking about introspection, then why do you think you're single?
Be honest with yourself.
Because I... I have very high standards.
So, okay.
So, example.
Let's talk about your standards.
It's too much.
It's too much.
No, no, it's cool.
I'm not trying to, like, humiliate you or anything.
I'm just genuinely interested.
Yeah, yeah.
So, you obviously say you go on a lot of dates and you have a long list of things.
So, is it, like, one thing on the list and you're like, okay, this guy, you know, chews with his mouth open.
It's over.
No, it's not trivial.
It's not trivial things like that, no.
But like I said, it's more like, because it's Miami.
Miami is, it does have, I was born and raised here, so I've lived here my whole life.
So there's nobody that can tell me anything about Miami.
Actually, sorry, real quick, not to interrupt you, Janelle, someone told me the other day, who I think is around your age, yeah, 34, 35, 36, and he was saying, actually, people who are born and raised in this city have better luck in dating.
Really?
Yeah, because they know the ins and outs, they know where to go, not just recall.
Yes, and that's why I'm probably single, because I know it so well that I'm not easily tricked.
Okay, real quick, Marvel, what about you?
What's the problem dating for you?
Because time is up right now.
Number one thing you hate about dating Miami.
Number one thing.
There's a lack of transparency and a lack of communication that we have, honestly, from both sexes.
I had a date a while back, and everything actually went good.
Had the dinner and everything else, too.
She actually spent the night, and then the day after, when we were going down the elevator, she asked me if I'm going to send her some money.
What?
Yeah.
Come on.
Did you smash?
Come on.
Well, she spent the night, right?
You told me you wanted transparency.
She said you wanted transparency.
She spent the night, too.
There you go.
Yeah, she asked for money.
Jesus, yeah.
You know, and honestly, too, I think that if she was a person where she was very, very honest from the beginning, as far as, like, hey, this is what it is, you gotta pay for this, then, like, I will actually be able to have the choice in order to do that, but you perceived yourself as, or you presented yourself as a person that you wanted to get to know me, but then you're asking for a cash app afterwards.
But, just as a context here as well, that is a common occurrence here in Miami.
You meet a girl, cool vibes, whatever, and then it's like, oh, wait, uh, I gotta pay my phone bill or something.
I was like, wait, what?
Yeah.
Like, We just met.
Go pick up a shift.
But I think that's why it's important to take your time to get to know.
Slow burn.
I believe totally in the slow burn.
100%.
Okay, guys.
Where did you meet this girl?
Sorry.
Where did you meet her from?
Where did you source her from?
Dating apps?
No, I hate dating apps.
Probably about a year ago, honestly, at a gym.
Yeah, give or take.
Then we knew each other, but then we rekindled again.
It was a mess.
That's foul, man.
That's foul.
That is foul.
Okay, real quick.
How did it go so far with the actual icebreaker date?
Yes or no second date?
Vice versa?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah?
Yeah, I'm down.
Alright, thank you guys.
That's the first round.
Good work, guys.
Good work.
Next, people coming up.
We have red and black.
Favorite colors, by the way.
Alright.
Welcome, welcome, welcome.
What up, what up, what up?
Welcome to the table.
This is the icebreaker round, so you see your list of questions.
We are on the second row, so you don't have to worry about the one, two, three.
Just worry about the second one, two, three.
And, yeah, start off.
Whoever would like to go first.
Yes, exactly.
Just put your headphones in, if you don't mind.
Oh, next.
The headphones.
Okay, there you go.
We want to be able to hear you.
There you go.
What's going on, Axis?
Hello.
So, I know I got these prompt questions, but I want to ask you, what have you thought about me when you first saw me?
Love it.
Ah!
I think you have a lot of presence.
Okay.
So you have a lot of, like, confidence.
Energy.
With energy.
Yeah.
That's it.
No, answer it.
You look very confident.
Okay, let me think about the question.
Let me see.
Okay.
You have to give an educational or inspirational tech talk five minutes from now.
What topic would it be on?
Shit.
TED Talk.
Okay.
I'll be talking about self-improvement, bettering yourself, learn how to respect yourself, love yourself, shit like that.
What about you?
Well, you have more time, so...
Oh, I'm going to do my fucking TED talk right now!
No, no, no, no, no, no, just a topic.
You're good, you're good.
You wake up in the morning at 5 a.m.
This was your time to practice.
You should take it.
So, if I ask you, like, what's your ethnicity?
I'm from Venezuela.
To be honest, I kind of have some doubts because...
If you're from Venezuela?
No, I don't have doubts about being in Venezuela.
But sometimes I have, like, what ethnicity exactly means.
Because sometimes, when I check, for example, you fill up a form, they ask you more things like, oh, like race, ethnicity.
And I'm like, I'm not white.
I'm not black.
I don't know.
I'm just who I am.
So I'm like...
A little crazy comedy.
They never asked me these questions before in any other country that I live.
I think it's more like a U.S. thing.
I like that.
Oh, thank you.
You say my Barry White voice?
I like it.
I don't think she knows who Barry White is.
You'll Google him after this.
Yeah, he's got Barry White.
How do you spell it?
I'm learning already for the tech talk.
Alright, so listen.
I got my prompt question.
What is the worst date you've been on before?
Bumped up.
He's just like, I cannot have that again.
How many?
No, I'm kidding.
Okay, um...
I haven't had, like, that many terrible dates.
Okay.
But I think I had one where the vibe was so off.
Like, that was so off.
Like, I felt the person was so uncomfortable, and I didn't understand why.
It just made me uncomfortable.
So I think all the dinner was, like, so, like...
So it was awkward.
It was awkward.
And later, I think he was, you know, trying to say bye and give a kiss, but I felt like...
Yeah, I just don't give kisses a person.
But he was a nice person.
And after that, I just text him like, hey, thank you for the dinner and whatever.
And he never replied again.
Oh, no.
He also calls me.
A stutter?
No stutter?
No stutter?
Oh my god.
It was not that terrible.
I think, yeah, I haven't had any crazy, that crazy story, but yeah, it was all the dinner was just awkward and the things that it doesn't have sense with things that he was saying.
It was just weird.
He seemed a good person anyways, yeah.
I can tell you, you got good energy though.
You got a good vibe.
Thank you, you too.
Smiley and stuff like that.
I like the temple.
It's that fucking right one right there.
It's popping.
I like it.
Alright, tell me a question.
Okay, we go to the next one.
Okay, this is a nice question.
Okay.
Describe something you have done that you're really proud of.
What is your greatest accomplishment?
Come on.
Fuck, man.
Dick deep.
I accomplished so much shit.
I gotta dig deep.
I know.
Nah, I'm just playing.
I don't know.
Having a kid, my son, is a good accomplishment.
You know what I mean?
Seeing his face, you know, raising him, teaching him discipline and shit like that.
I really embrace that.
You know, a lot of accomplishments, it comes and goes, but, you know, having a kid and teaching him things is very important to me.
Maxis, would you date somebody with a kid?
I haven't dated anyone with a kid, but it's not that I close.
It's just like most of the people that I met, they don't have kids, so I don't know.
I'm not close about it.
I'm not specifically looking either, so I don't know.
Do you know how to cook?
Yes.
Yes, I cook a lot.
I cook Venezuelan arepas.
This is my specialty.
So listen, if I came to your house and I said, baby, I need you to cook me something, what are you going to cook me?
Yeah, you don't need to ask.
To be honest, most of my friends, they go, because I do a lot of meal prep, so my fridge is always, like, full.
So every time someone goes home, I'm like, help me, help me, just eat, because it's always so fun.
I have so much food, I can eat it.
Do you eat a lot, or do you be nitpicking, and you be saving your meal for all day?
No, I eat a lot.
People get surprised about how much can I eat.
But it's tortures because I need to be eating, like, very frequently.
So it's kind of annoying.
I need to be always, like, every two or three hours, like, eating something.
Yeah, because my energy go low after it.
Okay, time!
That is time for this.
Okay.
We have a question here for you guys.
Second date, yes or no?
Would you go on a second date with him?
Yeah, sure.
Thumbs up?
Alright, perfect.
Good job, guys.
Thank you.
Okay, I'm going to stay here next to us.
Okay, cool.
As you know, come on, come on.
Okay.
Yeah.
We're gonna spice it up a little bit here with extra guests.
Thanks, guys.
Alright.
Come on over, guys.
Surprise guests on the panel.
Sit over there.
What the hell?
What's going on right now?
Ain't no way.
What the fuck?
Is that Audrey?
Hello?
Hey!
So three minute timer.
Icebreaker challenge.
You're just going to get to know each other better.
And let's start.
Questions on the table if you need questions, but you don't need them at all.
That's perfectly fine.
Let's go.
Let's see.
I don't know if you believe in reincarnation, but I guess I would like to know if you were to be reincarnated tomorrow, what kind of animal would you pick?
Does a frog count as an animal?
Could I be a frog?
I want to be a frog.
I'm curious to know.
Why would you pick frog?
What is it about a frog?
I feel like they live life freely.
They just hop around.
They're just frogs.
I like them.
Speaking, I like frogs.
You do?
Sorry, go ahead.
So do I ask a question now?
Yeah, yeah, go for it.
The third row.
There you go.
One, two, three.
There you go.
Alright.
If you have to give an educational or inspirational TED talk five minutes from now, what topic would it be on?
I think that was the last...
Oh, okay, okay.
I could probably give my own.
A different one.
That was the last batch.
The third set of them down right there.
Okay, okay.
There you go.
Describe an argument you had with a previous boyfriend slash girlfriend.
Who was at fault and who won?
Okay.
I would say the last argument I had with a girlfriend was the amount of money I was probably spending on some of our dates.
Over the time of the relationship, I was starting to invest my money into a couple other things.
I wasn't cheating or nothing.
It was just things with the family.
I bought a house at that time, so I was kind of investing more money into my house.
Oh, so she was just being selfish?
Yeah, a little bit.
I mean, that was kind of the argument.
She was just like, you're not spending as much money on me.
I'm just like, I thought it was a little bit more than that, and that kind of broke us up.
Yeah, that sucks.
I hate a gold digger.
Sorry about that.
No one likes a gold digger.
Did you ever ask her, what are your expectations?
How much money are you expecting that I spend on you?
I mean, at that point, I was just like, I didn't really care.
You're over it.
I'd be over it, too.
If you look at me as a dollar sign, then I'm going to skedaddle.
How long did you date her?
How long did you date her?
A little over a year.
And then what?
When dates started going under $100 or something, she's like, what's going on?
Yeah.
Yeah, something like that.
I mean, like, I feel like the frequency was still there.
Like, I was still taking her out at least once or twice a week.
Or if not, do a little bit more than that.
But, yeah, it was just kind of some of the things that we were doing.
I would pay for a little bit more, like, adventurous things to do.
And I guess over time, I was kind of paying for a little bit less or wanting to do kind of more basic things that didn't require a lot of money.
That's annoying.
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah.
Go for it.
Let's see here.
Let's see what your worst dating experience is.
My worst dating experience?
Shoosh!
There's a lot of really bad ones.
So many!
What's the best story?
I get kind of icked out really easily.
There was this one time that this guy had some leftover conditioner in his ear.
I kind of like...
That was really bad.
On a date, yeah.
I don't know.
It's like some of the small shit.
I just kind of look at it and I'm like...
I really can't go through with it.
I can't just get up and leave at the moment.
I have to go through with it, but I can't.
That's wild.
I don't know.
It's like the smallest shit.
So it's almost superficial stuff?
Yeah.
I think it's more physical at first, and then it gets into the personality and stuff, you know?
And how did you meet this guy with the conditioner on his ear?
Yeah, I don't know.
I just met him from my friends of friends and shit, you know?
So, out of all the dates that you've been on, that was like the worst experience was a guy that had conditioner in his hair.
There was another one where he kind of had like a burger hanging out.
It's really bad.
I don't want to get into it.
I really don't.
Easily icked out.
Yeah, I get really easily icked out.
That's why I don't date.
Yeah, I'm sorry.
You're too young to give.
How old are you?
I'm 19, yeah.
Oh my God.
Jesus, you're like fucking, you can't even drink.
Yeah, baby.
So question, if the girl that you're dating doesn't work out, is that an issue for you?
No, I mean, I would just let her know, like, hey, we have her differences.
It's not going to work out.
And, you know, we part ways and try to keep, you know, good energy if we did run into each other again.
So then it is a deal breaker if she doesn't exercise.
Oh, if she doesn't exercise?
No, no, no.
Yeah, yeah.
If she doesn't exercise, hell no.
I've never gone over to a girl that doesn't exercise.
No, no, no.
Audrey, do you exercise?
I don't exercise.
No, I don't.
You're out!
Get out of here.
I was about to go.
So we're going to have to switch Audrey with one of our guests here again, Nexus.
Good job, Audrey.
Thanks, Audrey.
Good job.
Alright, we're going to reset the clock and go again.
And MLD, definitely tell them what you think is happening in real time, by the way.
Oh, yeah.
Well, I mean, okay, okay, okay.
I'm a little rusty.
I haven't been watching this year.
I'm trying to bite my tongue, you know, but...
I got you.
Okay.
We'll go to Rumble.
Same thing again?
No clock again?
Three minutes?
Yeah.
Okay.
Let's do it.
There you go.
Hi.
You guys can do the bottom row.
The bottom row.
Yeah.
For your own questions, too.
Yeah.
Whatever you fancy.
How would you describe yourself as a sexual person?
Ooh, spicy.
Yeah.
Well, I think the question is, would you describe yourself as a sexual person?
Would you?
Or, let me see.
No, I purposely changed that to how.
I purposely did that.
I want to know more details.
I want to know would you.
I want to know how would you.
Next question.
Yeah, we can do next question.
Would you learn about yourself from the last relationship that you were in?
Mm-hmm.
Oh, this is a good question.
Okay, yes.
I think what I've learned is that...
So the last person that I date with, I think we have very different personalities, which I think sometimes the opposite attracts.
Not all the time it feels like it was like a lot of...
It feels a little off sometimes.
And I think...
I guess what I learned about it is just, you know, I think it's good to give the opportunity to meet someone different.
Another thing that I discovered is that I generally value a lot like sense of humor.
And I think there is some things about culture sometimes that it doesn't connect that well.
So I think I have to be someone that is super open to learn about different cultures, about different, like, I would say slang, but different things about yourself.
I would say that's what I learned.
Like, I have to be someone open and interesting about learning more about my culture and, like, you know.
Except not sure if it has sense, but it will be, yeah, it will be that.
Especially because I'm from Venezuela.
I live in Chile for many years.
I moved here.
How long have you been in America?
Three years.
Three years?
And then how long does it usually take you to figure out, like, okay, this guy's not it?
Like we, you know, there's like a buffer period at the beginning where you're like, okay, I'm going to try to work things out.
I think a couple months.
Okay.
Okay.
Yes, because he was a good person.
It just felt like something was not going forward.
And I think maybe they're not necessarily that open to things to progress.
So I think, yeah, I would say that.
How old are you again?
How old are you?
33.
33?
Okay.
Cool.
How old are you, Darius?
28.
You can go for an older woman?
I think we're good here.
Good for how long?
I mean, we can do something.
We can work something out here.
Sounds like a finesser to me.
Sounds like you want to smash and dash.
What are you guys' longest relationships at 28 and 33?
I'd say two years.
For me it was three years and a half.
Here?
Not here.
In Chile?
In Venezuela.
We have some time that we're down distance as well.
And later in Chile I have two years relationship.
Real quick, is that a red flag for you guys, if you meet someone at 33, at 28, and they've never had a long-term relationship?
I guess, for me, I'd have to ask a little bit more questions.
I'd have to be like, who are the men that influence you in your life, and what have you learned from them?
If I can see that you got some good knowledge and I can take the chance, but if it's like I don't have that type of manly authority around to learn from, I don't know if I want to teach you.
Okay, okay.
How about you and Nexus?
No, I think it's not a ref.
It's not a ref?
No.
I always say because you...
You have to understand someone like Pat, right?
Sometimes, maybe depending on the job they have, maybe they were traveling a lot.
I don't know.
I don't like to judge that quickly.
I prefer to get to know them and maybe I'm like, oh, now I understand.
Yeah, absolutely.
I love that answer, by the way.
Don't judge.
Just ask questions.
Yeah, just see how things flow.
Okay, that is time.
So far, so good, I believe.
Second date with him?
Two or no?
Yeah.
I'll do second date.
Alright!
Thumbs up!
So now we're going to do part two.
It's going to be the actual drill date.
So you're going to plan a date where you want to go with the first person that you choose.
Whatever that may be.
Maybe Starbucks.
Maybe Pet Store.
Wink, wink.
And then once you're there, we're going to play in real time what's happening on our date.
But we'll do the first...
The next couple?
Yeah.
Okay.
Um...
Okay, we can start here actually with these two.
But before we begin, MLD and MK, tell us from these experiences here what you think so far with the good couples.
What do you think so far?
Go ahead.
So far, I like the chemistry.
I'm noticing a little bit more chemistry in some versus others.
But sometimes I freaking hate chemistry, man.
It doesn't always come down to chemistry.
Let's focus more on the compatibility, I think, first and foremost.
And so far, it's flowing.
It's flowing.
You guys are doing good.
Yeah, I think both the guys we've seen so far have swag.
We don't really need to jump in and hold your hand.
Some of these guys are a little too good.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I feel like they're good watchers of the Fresh and Fit podcast.
I feel like they know what they're doing.
Okay, so we're going to have you plan a date, because obviously you're the man, so just choose location, time, where you want to be, and then we'll start there.
Yeah, I would usually like to have a date where we're going to be a little bit competitive, so I'd probably take you bowling.
Okay, so let's say we're at Strike 10 down the street.
Strike 10, what time is it?
It's like 9, 9 o'clock.
9 o'clock?
Yeah.
Alright, so, are you picking her up?
Are you going to Uber her?
What are you going to do?
I'm going to Uber her, just because I feel like some women don't feel comfortable with guys picking them up, so I feel like just Ubering them to the place is probably the best idea.
Yeah.
I mean, if I'm, like, getting someone and getting to know him, yeah.
Yeah.
Perfect.
Alright, so let's imagine you have your own lane.
You got some drinks for her.
You're at the bowling lane.
Let's start.
Three minutes on the clock.
Let's go.
Yeah.
What's that combo like?
I mean, honestly, part of it would be part of the game, so I'd just be flirting with you in terms of like, come on, can't you do a little bit better than that?
Because I actually am really good at bowling, so like...
So I would just tease you and be like, oh yeah, no, I'm not that good.
And then after a couple of rounds, I would definitely start picking up the game.
Okay, okay.
How will you take it, Alexis?
Like another date?
No, how will you take that interaction?
I'm very competitive.
Are you?
I probably will be like, let's bring it up.
I'm not good, but I will try my best.
Let's say you just started bowling.
He got a strike.
What's your response to that?
Yeah, we say yay!
You're going down.
Yeah, but I mean, it's a friendly game.
I'm not expecting to...
I have maybe other games that could be more competitive, but I'm bowling, I'm fine.
Okay.
And there's some questions on the table in the envelopes as well for the first date.
Oh, this one?
Yeah.
But let's say, for example, you're done with the bowling game.
What's that competition like in person on the first date?
I would say afterwards it's probably just more of like finding out more about kind of like your day-to-day life.
So let's do that right now then, on the spot.
I guess, I mean, it's a boring question, but it'll be, you know, what do you do for a living?
Yeah, no, for sure.
So I'm an engineer.
I work in technology, and I've been doing a lot of consulting as well.
I spend a lot of time as a speaker and mentor, especially for initiatives that care for me, they're diversity, inclusion, equity.
So basically trying to include more women in tech and more Latinas in tech.
So I spend a lot of my time there.
I have collaborated with more of 15 organizations on that.
Yeah, my day-to-day is product management, so I work a lot with developers developing the end-to-end process of Creating a product.
It could be a software or mobile application.
There was a career that I looked for it because I was a civil engineer, so more designing buildings.
But life, somehow, I was trying to find what I was passionate about.
I think it's something that I like, and I think I do it very good.
Nice.
Sounds like it keeps you busy.
When you get some time to relax and actually wind down, how do you usually do that?
Well, I like to go to the beach.
I like to exercise.
Being outside, I like to go for walks.
I like to go to the pool, to the jacuzzi.
I like to just go for dinners or brunch with my friends.
I have some cousins as well that I hang out with them a lot.
So, that would be...
I do spend a lot of time by myself.
I'm very comfortable as well.
I work most of the time remote.
So, yeah, I spend a lot of time there.
At home, this is why I cook more and do my own routines.
I think in Miami especially, it's very easy to keep busy.
There's a lot of activities and things to do.
Do you have a favorite beach that you like to go to?
Well, I normally go more to, like, South Beach.
I do like, but I do like to go for these, watch the sunset in South Point.
I like it there.
But I don't have a car, so probably this way I go closer.
Oh, gotcha, gotcha.
Don't judge me.
I've been to South Beach a couple times, and yeah, I'm just...
I don't go for the parties because it's easier.
And what do you do?
For me, I'm actually a software engineer.
Oh, really?
Okay.
So I work a lot with engineers.
So every day I'm in front of a computer.
Do you go from home or do you go to the office?
I do a mix, so I try to get out of the house.
It's true.
But yeah, I have days where I do stay at the house and just kind of type away.
That's nice.
Yeah.
That's good.
We share the tech industry aspect.
Yeah, I will say tech is pretty fun.
Once you actually get used to it and actually start building the knowledge behind it.
Yeah, it's a lot of opportunities.
I think not everyone knows, but yeah.
Was that your main thing that you wanted to get into?
Because you mentioned other passions.
What are you actually passionate about?
Well, this is my career, but I do a lot of other things.
I have some, like, second life in modeling as well.
She's a model.
Yeah, so I talk back this passion for saying when I came to Miami.
It has been really fun.
I don't see it doing it full-time at all, but for now it has been fun.
What kind of model are you?
Um, so I do sometimes fashion show or like photo shoots for like brands.
Okay.
Hobby or paid?
Hobby or paid?
Um, they're paid, but most of the beginning it was most free.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So, um, I think for me it's just like, it's fun.
So as long as it came in, um, I don't see it like full time for now.
I really like my career in technology.
I think I could grow a lot and I've been working many years on that.
How many followers do you have on Instagram?
I don't have that much, to be honest.
How many?
Two thousand, three hundred.
You okay with that?
Yeah, that's fine.
Why do you need more?
No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
I took a couple of hours.
You can buy more if you want.
More?
Yeah, yeah.
How often do you post them?
I put more stories.
I would say the post.
I think post maybe once a month or two a month.
Okay, that is time.
Listen, MLD, MK, thoughts so far?
Do you think it's energy or match here?
What do you think?
I think, yeah.
I think it's a good match.
I think already you guys have a lot in common.
And so when you have a lot in common with someone, that's something to go from.
Yeah.
And at the end of the day, like, yeah, do I think next month or next year you'll get married?
I don't know.
But you're starting from somewhere and you're on solid ground.
Well, this is Miami.
Competition is very fierce.
So let's see who ends up with who at the very end.
All right?
Thank you.
Thank you for coming through.
And we're going to have...
You stay here one more time.
We're going to have your next date that shows you specifically on this date.
Oh, wow.
Thank you, Darius.
He's back.
Back again.
Mr.
Charisma.
Mr.
Charisma, Mr.
Charisma.
She's natural, baby.
So this is your first date, taking her out, and you can choose the location, time, where it's going to be, and we'll start the ball rolling.
Okay, so if I'm going to take you out, I'll say, hey, I don't want to go in a restaurant with you.
I want to go to a beach.
We can talk, relax, have a conversation, make a nice little picnic.
That's nice.
And then we can really get to know each other.
Because I like, you know, I don't like doing surface level talking.
I like to really get to understand people.
Does that make sense?
Restaurants and going out like that is more like a second date.
Does that make sense?
Yeah, I like paintings.
Okay, so let's put the frame here.
Is it going to be South Beach?
Is it going to be mid-beach?
Where's it going to be?
It's even depending on the beefing issues.
You're going to set up for the kids.
You're going to set up for the kids to go to Hollywood.
Let's go to Hollywood.
I like that.
Check, check.
So we'll go there, and we'll go around, like, what's sunset?
What time is sunset?
7 a.m.
Nice blanket, little snacks, sandwich.
You like that?
Yeah.
And also, he ordered you a drink, by the way.
Here you go.
There we go.
Thank you, Fresh.
Hey, that's his wrist, bro.
That's his wrist.
That's not me, man.
There you go.
I like that touch.
Taking the lead initiative.
A man should be an initiative, right?
You should take the lead, right?
Every man can't guide you, right?
You gotta be the right person.
It's true.
I think you're saying a good point.
Okay, so run us through you guys' conversation while you're on this picnic on the beach.
How was your day?
Today?
It was good.
It was good.
Well, today I did my nails, so it's special.
I wanted to have a little, you know, boost.
I did some work today in the morning, my laptop, so it was more like, yeah, not too much, like some emails and things.
They pass very fast.
What about you?
I had a great day.
It's been real productive.
I really appreciate that you came on time and everything.
Yeah, you too.
Are you detail-oriented?
Um...
Yes, I am.
I am.
I think my job, I do this a lot.
Practice a lot.
I would say with people, it depends.
Okay.
So listen, I pack these sandwiches right here.
Okay.
Do you like turkey?
Do you cook?
Turkey and ham.
I do.
You know what?
I make a good turkey burger.
Okay, that's nice.
I put the sage, green pepper.
What the fuck you talking about?
Splash it on the motherfucking grill with the grease.
Potato chips.
You like stuff like that?
I like it.
I don't eat it that often, though.
But I like it.
Okay, cool.
But listen.
Everything that is made with care and love is good.
Especially with food, yeah.
This is what came from the heart, right?
Yeah.
But I got the ham and I got the turkey sandwiches.
Which one do you like?
Turkey.
You like turkey?
Okay, cool.
Yeah.
Eat that turkey sandwich.
Eat that fucking turkey sandwich.
So the sunset is going, right?
You want to go in the water?
You want to go in the water with me?
Would you like that?
Yeah, that would be fun.
Okay, cool.
Let's do that.
I really like your bathing suit, too.
It looks very nice to me.
Oh, wow.
You haven't seen it.
You already know.
I'm a role-playing.
I'm a fucking role-playing.
I'm not sure if you're being authentic, because how do you assume that you're going to like it if you haven't seen it?
I don't know.
Seems like you're lying here.
It's like imagination.
I thought we were role-playing.
Maybe we're on a fucking two different pages.
Fuck the script and then tell me.
Oh my god.
Okay, time is up.
MLD, MLK, how did that go?
Up until the last, like, 15 seconds, it went well.
It went well.
Yeah, I like that you were thoughtful.
You know, you put in an intention.
Okay.
Like, the banter was good.
Like, I like you were just being genuine, being authentic.
Like, yeah, I just didn't do that much, did I? Like, whatever, you weren't just like, it was fine.
Like, you actually just said exactly what you did.
Like, you know, more depth, you know?
So...
It's good.
It's good, guys.
It's good.
Overall, I love that idea.
Miami guys, are you listening?
Are you listening?
You don't need the flashy wine and dine, sexy fish, whatever.
Just be yourself.
A beach and a picnic.
The girl's like, oh my gosh, she was actually thinking.
She was actually putting thought to that.
That actually takes more thought than making reservations at sexy fish.
Yeah.
Alright.
10 out of 10.
I think this guy's a natural leader.
I think this guy, it's not his first rodeo.
Definitely not his last.
I mean, great stuff, great presence.
You know, I mean, you got the fitness, you have the leadership, you have the confidence, you know how to carry a conversation, you know how to lead and guide.
She followed well during that conversation as well.
She kind of went into his frame.
She submitted a lot during some of the things.
She could have had multiple opportunities where she'd be like, nah, I don't like turkey, motherfucker, or something like that, but...
Give me that turkey sandwich.
It was good.
Really, 10 out of 10.
Great work.
Good stuff.
Thanks, guys.
Thank you.
And then the last few here, you can come through.
Oh, we're good?
Thank you.
Thanks, folks.
Good job on that.
There you go.
All right, we got the famous, the infamous Audrey back again.
And Marvel, let's go.
So the scenario is going to be whatever you choose, Marvel.
It's going to be your first date.
It could be location-wise, and then time-wise, you just choose that, and then we'll start it off.
And if you get stuck, there's some cards there you can choose from for questions, and let's roll.
Hello.
What's going on?
What's your...
What's your name tag?
Oh, it fell off.
What's your name?
Bishop.
Bishop?
Yes.
Okay.
Nah, I was just confused.
You didn't have your name tag.
I'm sorry.
Oh, yeah.
It kind of came off...
Okay, so location-wise and then time.
Okay, so the time is going to be about 2.30 p.m.
on a Saturday, and we're going to go to the Art Perez Museum firsthand.
We're going to see some art, we're going to walk around, have a little tour as well too, find out what kind of art do you like?
What kind of art do you like?
I don't really like...
I don't really look at it, but okay.
Yeah, that sounds nice.
Okay.
We're gonna do that.
Then after that...
Oh, are we gonna be like in the mix?
Yeah, like in the date.
Like you act as if you're in the date.
Okay, okay.
Walking around.
How short are you?
How what?
How short are you?
How short am I? You just instantly assume.
I'm 5'2".
That's short.
That's very short.
Hold on, can you guys...
Can you do a standing test here?
We want to measure our heights together right now?
Just to see how...
Can we go back here?
Yeah, right there.
This is kind of crazy.
I'm not going to lie, Marlon.
You're tall as hell, motherfucker.
Goddamn.
6'11".
Is he 6'11"?
Yeah.
Damn!
It's like the Addams Family.
Wow.
Okay.
Match made in heaven right there.
There you go.
Okay.
What's the tallest you ever dated?
Like 6'2".
6'2".
Okay.
That's not tall at all.
You said David and Goliath?
Wow.
Okay.
Alright, let's run back real quick.
So you're at a museum.
What's the combo looking like?
It's a conversation.
Okay.
So, what are your likes?
What do you like to do?
What do you like to do for fun?
What do I like to do?
Yes.
I like to film my ukulele.
I like to sing.
You like to sing?
Yeah.
Okay.
What kind of genre do you like to sing?
Oh, like R&B. R&B? Okay.
Can you sing right now?
Can you sing right now?
I'm not doing that for the audience.
I'm sorry.
I know how y'all are.
Your R&B ukulele?
Uh, yeah.
No, no.
It's just like, it's like a mixture.
You know, like, it ranges.
Okay.
Depends on the day.
Do you sing R&B and play the ukulele at the same time?
I mean, I can.
I've never tried it.
No.
But I can, yeah.
Okay.
Probably.
What's, like, the most challenging thing when it comes to, like, making music?
The most talented?
Like, challenging thing.
Like, do you think, do you have, like, do you partake in, I should say, when it comes to, you know, making music?
I don't really make music, but, um, probably, like, Just playing it, you know?
I can't really play it like that.
It's like, just like learning it and kind of like, are you saying like the ukulele specifically?
Yeah, the ukulele.
I can't even really say that.
I'm sorry.
The ukulele, yeah.
Is it hard to play with your nails as well too?
Yeah, I tried playing it the other day.
It was just like kind of fucked it up.
So can you play or can you not play?
I can play, but it's just kind of the nails.
Play notes or songs?
Songs, notes.
I try making my own song, you know.
But, you know, it's like, it's whatever.
Okay.
Yeah, so then, I guess after that, then we'll go to Prez Art Museum, probably for like maybe a couple hours.
And after that, go to the Prez Art Museum.
I'm going to be there.
And then after that, Prez Art Museum.
Prez Art Museum.
Okay, I'm sorry.
Slow down, you're doing great.
Oh, sorry.
My bad.
The Perez Art Museum.
They're going to be there for a tour for about a couple hours.
Then after that, they're going to go to Gyaku and Brickell.
I have no idea what any of those things are, but they sound cool.
Korean barbecue?
Have you ever had it?
Gyukaku, right?
I don't think I've ever had it, no.
Gyukaku.
Okay.
So, yeah.
Yeah, I've never had it.
It's Japanese.
Yeah, it's Japanese, yeah.
That's right, that's right.
You live in Japan.
That's right.
There's a big chain over there.
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, definitely.
So what you do is actually, it's like a little, like a...
Grill?
Grill right there, and we actually cook and everything else too.
Okay, so they cook right in front of you?
You cook your own meat.
Oh, I cook it myself.
That's nice.
You're not like a pescetarian or anything, right?
A pescetarian?
You're not a pescetarian.
I'm asking.
No.
Okay, perfect.
I'm good.
Okay, perfect.
That's fine.
Do you know what a pescetarian is?
Isn't it like when you don't like when other people...
No way!
Go ahead.
Hold on, wait.
Audrey.
When you only eat seafood.
Bruh.
Yeah.
Oh.
Seafood only.
Pesca means...
Seafood only.
Yeah, I'm trying to find out what kind of food do you like.
Do you like pescatin?
Yeah, I range.
Do you like meat?
I don't give a fuck.
That's probably why I don't know that word, because I don't really give a fuck.
Okay.
So you eat anything?
Yeah.
That's good.
Eat it all.
I don't like onions, though.
Or like peppers, or like green peppers.
I don't like peppers.
I don't like the way they taste.
Do you like vegetables?
I like carrots.
Carrots.
And broccoli.
Okay.
I just don't like the way peppers taste.
And onions.
They just taste weird.
So you don't necessarily maybe like spicy food then?
I love spicy food.
You like spicy food?
Yeah.
Okay.
I do.
Alright.
What's the best place do you like to go to as far as getting spicy food here in Miami?
I don't really go out for spicy food.
I usually just have, like, this little, like, you know, the instant ramen packs?
Oh, okay, yeah.
You know, with, like, you know, the spiciness and shit.
That's basically what I do.
So I just do that, maybe just, like, you know, watch a movie, some Netflix, and do that?
Yeah, I like vibing.
I'm a homebody.
Homebody.
So you don't like to go out?
Not usually, no.
No.
What's the thing about going out that you don't necessarily like?
I feel like you don't like people.
Yeah.
I see.
I just said that.
I knew it.
Huh.
Yeah.
He's a very perceptive man.
He's reading me.
He's reading me right now.
He's reading me very well.
Yeah.
Yeah, I don't like people.
All of them?
He's trying to read me even more.
He's like giving me that intense gaze.
I'm analyzing.
When you say you don't like people, dating usually involves people.
So how do you plan to get over that hurdle?
I don't know.
It's a joke.
I don't really like it.
Freudian slip a little bit?
Huh?
Freudian slip a little bit?
Freudian.
Freudian slip?
Freudian.
Freudian.
She's 19.
I don't think she knows her name.
Slow down a little bit with me, okay?
I don't know a lot of things.
Speak Zoomer to her.
Okay, so what I do believe is that you necessarily...
It's not like you don't like people.
You just maybe...
You like more intimate one-on-one conversations versus, like, groups.
Is that what it is?
Very well.
Yeah.
Right on point.
Okay.
All right.
That's good.
That's good.
So I think the tour is actually going to be really, really good for us.
And then after that, we'll probably just go on after Gyukaku.
Gyukaku.
After that, then we'll go to a nice walk on Brickle Bay.
Is it Brickle Ave?
What are the timings?
Like, are we going to watch the sunset or is it going to be dark by then?
Nah, well, it's going to be 2.30.
It's going to be two hours after that and then 4.30.
Then after that, we'll get to Gyukaku around 4.30, 4.45.
And then we'll probably be there from 4.45 to maybe about 6.00.
Then from 6 to 7, I think sunset is 651, then we'll be able to actually change this net to actually watch the sunset.
Okay, you're good with your time.
Yeah, no, I'm very diligent when it comes to timing for what I do for a living.
You're good with math?
I'm terrible with math, but I'm really good at...
But you're really good at time.
I'm really good at time.
Speaking of time, that is time.
Okay, so hold on, real quick, real quick.
Audrey, would you go on a second date with Marvel, with Shipper?
I'm kind of scared.
He's a really big person.
So.
She's made it on this.
Okay.
I'm going to turn up here.
He's really tall.
I don't know if that's gonna work.
Bishop.
Tell us real quick, is that an issue with dating for you?
Like, girls think you're too tall, like you might be too big?
I've been told before that I'm too big, honestly.
Like, no, like, you're too scared of me.
That's really scary.
We haven't gone to the bedroom yet.
Wow.
I'm too big.
That's crazy.
Joke.
How do you deal with that, bro?
Um...
You don't deal with that.
No, I don't.
I mean, caught me there.
Okay.
Yeah.
All right.
Thank you, guys.
Appreciate it.
Thank you, Fresh.
Good one.
Good job.
Good job.
Good date.
So I'm going to have her come back.
Have you two guys come?
I'm going to have you sit over there again.
Oh, we're back.
We're back.
Hey, hey.
You know what?
Like taxis.
Yes.
I was thinking of another N-word.
What?
It's spelled N-A-X-I-S. Like taxis.
Oh, whoa.
Okay.
So this is the last segment here.
A triple deck.
Okay.
We're going to be doing basically...
A triple deck.
Your choice of your next date between these two guys right now.
No pressure.
Okay, no pressure, by the way.
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Okay, back to the show.
MLD and MK, just real quick, do you think finding somebody to actually match your standards is harder nowadays or easier?
As a woman and as a man.
So the objective, do not have too high of standards that are unrealistic.
Yes, it's gonna be very hard.
Abso-friggin-lutely.
And I hate to say that, because I'm not an entrepreneur at Spirit, and as an entrepreneur, you have to be a dreamer, you have to be a go-getter, so I hate to be like, stop being unrealistic.
But the truth is, you have to look at the stats.
You have to look at what you're looking for.
If you're looking for a man or a woman in a certain five, ten year age demographic, and then you put on the stipulation that they can only be six foot plus, and then they can never have had kids, and they can never have been married, but yet they're between the ages 40 and 45.
You have to look at all that you're looking for and really, truly be logical, because falling in love is 50% emotional and 50% logical.
When you look at it, you're like, well, that brings me to about.05% of the population.
That's just not smart.
You have to be open-minded.
Does that answer your question?
It does.
I just think men and women across the board need to lower their standards.
I think everybody is just so out of touch with reality, men and women.
I obviously deal with the majority of coaching men, male clients, but when I deal with women on the fucking podcast, How you guys made your fortune.
The delusions of the average modern woman is just too out of control.
I think that, you know, everybody just needs to chill out and give the other person a little bit more leeway.
Because, you know, I think men and women are so quick to next each other.
And everybody thinks they're so fucking amazing.
Everybody thinks they have no red flags.
Everybody thinks, like, I deserve this perfect person.
It's like, no.
Because you're not even perfect.
And you have red flags, too.
So I just think everybody needs to fucking chill out, sit down, and really just have a kind of objective look at what they want and lower their standards to get that.
And another thing related to what you just said is just that if you're dating someone and there's a clear no-go...
Like for me, if I'm dating a girl and she drinks alcohol...
No.
It's just no.
So if I know I'm dating a girl and she's like consistently slamming back booze, I'm like, this girl, you know, she's got a couple months at best, you know.
But you've got to walk away from what you don't want so you can find what you do want.
And that goes for men and women.
Well said.
Nexus, do you have high standards, you would say?
Yes.
Okay, so all these two guys here, who would you choose for a second date and who matches your standards and why?
I'll put you in the spot here, but trust me, it's worth it.
Time to be a strong independent woman.
To be honest, I think both of them were great.
This is why I put Tom up to both of them.
But if I have to choose one guy...
If I have to choose one, I would say probably it would be more Darius.
But not because I think I buy so well with like you as well.
You're so fine.
It was so cool.
It was so cool.
But I think lifestyle seems like we have this part of like technology, like career thing that I realized that for me is kind of important and someone to kind of understand a little bit more of that.
So, that would be more for that, not for, like, it doesn't...
Because I think I could talk with, you know, in this short period of time, I could have good conversation with both.
I think, like, De Juan seems so cool, like, very charismatic, you know?
So, I felt like...
But I would say that, mainly just for that.
Do you know what I'm hearing here?
Because it seems like lifestyle could be more similar, but not...
I get what you're saying.
You know what I'm hearing here, MLD and NMK? I'm hearing short-term and long-term.
Yeah.
If you know what I mean.
So that one right there was very well said.
One guy's a fun, cool vibe, and one guy's like, okay, more serious, more long-term.
So we're seeing both sides of the same coin here, pretty much.
Really?
I don't know.
Because they're both engineers.
They're both engineers, so they kind of got that left-brain thing.
Within the field of work that they do, it will match their setup.
Compatibility.
The whole opposites attract thing is actually bullshit, in my opinion.
I think you've got to find somebody who is more...
On the same page as you for things to progress, for something to be long term.
You know?
That's what I personally believe.
Okay.
And then, Dwan, anything you want to say?
Last thoughts here for this?
Oh, nah, man.
Forgive me.
You're so cool.
I know, but it's just like...
I enjoy myself.
I had a good time, man.
You know, that's what it is.
I enjoy myself.
That's a good guy.
That's a good guy.
Oh, yeah.
This is fun.
I'm not going to lie.
This is a great experience.
And glad that you guys all came onto the show.
And thank you for letting me ask you some questions.
Thank you for coming, bro.
What about you?
How was the experience?
It was great.
It was great to like hearing from you.
I think there's such a very good vibe for everyone.
So it's been a very like fun experience to do.
So I'm glad to be here.
Glad to have you here.
And MK and MLD, where can they find you guys?
And what's up next for you guys?
Project wise or content wise?
What's up next?
You can find me on MKMatchmaking Instagram, MKMatchmaking YouTube, MKMatchmaking TikTok, MKMatchmaking.
And yeah, guys, the 31st, May 31st, I have a singles event here in Brickell for all the Miami singles.
Ages 25 to 45.
Successful singles, it's called, at DUA here just down the street.
This really is for the person who is not looking for the games, really wants to get behind, not get behind the screens, be in real time, and meet people who are looking for the goals that you're looking for, which is long-term relationships.
So see you there, DUA. May 31st and get at mkmatchmaking.com your tickets.
Alright.
There you go.
Modern Life Dating on YouTube.
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Alright, we got some chats here.
Yeah.
You gotta unmute me.
What's up, guys?
I've been in the back on this one.
I'll read the chats, and then, guys, we're going to have a Zoom call right after this one.
So go on CastleClub.tv, man, jump on in, and we're going to have a Zoom call with John.
My life, Danny, answer some of y'all questions.
So we got here, FunkThat says, MLD, welcome back.
Love the Passport Bros vid.
Help me find hot spots in Tokyo.
I'm out there, and now I got two Japanese girlfriends, one Chinese-Japanese milstress.
I'm also doing some time back in America.
Can't wait to return to a real first world country.
Yo!
Yeah, that's what they say.
You go to Asia, you don't want to come back.
W Japan.
And then we got some Castle Clubs.
Jabril says, can we get behind the scenes on Castle Club during the after-hour show because I'm trying to see FNF girls' reaction when the girls saying some dumb shit, okay?
One stream at a time.
Yeah, one stream at a time, my friend.
And then how I feel about niggas that pay for OF, warning niggas straight.
Yo, what the fuck, man.
Guys, on Castle Club, you can actually send memes like this in the chats.
And it's funny because if you guys look in the last show we did, it's hilarious with some of the shit you guys sent.
Anything else?
No, that's it.
Alright, so guys, CastleClub.tv, join in right now.
We're going to go ahead and have a Zoom call right now with John from Modern Life Danning.
And then we're going to go ahead and give you guys an after hours right after that.
The grind don't end.
We'll catch you guys back here in about, if you're not going to join Castle Club, in about like an hour.
Right?
Yeah.
Yeah.
So yeah, guys.
CastleClub.tv right now.
Zoom call.
We're going to go ahead and answer questions.
Open Q&A. You're going to have me, John, and Fresh answer your questions.