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Dec. 9, 2023 - Fresh & Fit

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OF Girl Refuses To Apologize So THIS Happened…. w/ @KingDreism

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	Thank you.
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	Welcome to the Fresh Food Podcast.
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	Yeah, we got seven new girls on the panel.
	Yeah!
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	Chris!
	Chris!
	Love yourself, kids.
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	Other than that, ladies, have a great show.
	And shout out to the chat.
	Good job, Chris.
	And double your intro.
	Okay.
	Ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status.
	And if you want to, of course.
	And we're going to start right here.
	Welcome.
	What's up, y'all?
	What's up, y'all?
	My name is Kia.
	I'm 26.
	Kia?
	Kia like the car?
	Kia like the car, but you spell it K-E-Y-A. Okay, cool.
	Do you drive a Kia?
	No.
	I work downtown.
	How old are you?
	26.
	Okay, and where are you from originally?
	I'm from Myanmar, but I live in Miami, so...
	That's a red flag.
	What do you do for work?
	East or West?
	East or West?
	East.
	Oh, yeah, bro.
	That's a red flag, bro.
	How's the red flag?
	How is it a red flag?
	Because, okay, in Myanmar, right, where do you go to party?
	We don't party in Miramar.
	I just live in Miramar, but we drive to Miami to party.
	That's a red flag.
	Because you don't know their past at all.
	Come and leave.
	What do you do for work?
	I work downtown.
	I'm a model.
	She's a makeup artist.
	So you're a model for magazines or videos?
	Makeup artist for makeup.
	A muse kind of like, you know?
	Okay.
	What's your highest education level completed?
	Say it again.
	Highest education level completed?
	College.
	Okay.
	You got a bachelor's?
	I got an associate's.
	Okay.
	In what?
	Childhood education.
	I want to own a business like a couple years from now.
	Nice.
	And then relationship status?
	Single.
	I ain't got no man.
	Are your parents still together?
	My daddy died, so they were together.
	They were together before he passed?
	Okay.
	So your mom is widowed now.
	What about you?
	What's your name?
	Oh, me?
	Yes.
	My name is Grace.
	Okay.
	How old are you, Grace?
	I'm 29.
	Where are you from?
	I'm from Ohio, but I've lived in LA for the last seven years.
	Okay.
	So you're just here visiting, I'm guessing?
	Yes, I am.
	Art Basel.
	Oh, for Art Basel?
	Yeah, Art Basel.
	What part of Ohio are you from?
	Are you familiar with Ohio?
	I'm from Kent, Ohio.
	Okay.
	Actually, too late now.
	Kent or?
	Kent.
	Kent.
	Oh, Kent, Ohio.
	I've said it already.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	What do you do for work?
	I'm a content creator.
	I also do stand-up comedy.
	What kind of content do you make?
	Are you a porn star?
	Adjacent.
	OnlyFans?
	OnlyFans creator.
	I'm porn star adjacent.
	Okay.
	All the LA girls do all F-Man.
	It's natural.
	It's like Miami.
	Okay.
	It's final.
	Don't say that to the girls who don't do it.
	They'll be offended.
	And then you say you do stand-up comedy too?
	Yes, I do.
	Okay.
	Wait, hold on.
	You're a comedian?
	Mm-hmm.
	Tell us a joke if you don't mind.
	Just one joke.
	You're your best pick-up joke.
	Don't worry.
	As I speak, I'll be joking.
	It's just natural for me.
	It's natural?
	Yeah.
	See, you laughed.
	It doesn't work like that.
	That's funny, yeah.
	Look, huh?
	All right.
	Highest education level completed.
	I did two years of college.
	I got a couple licenses in a trade or two.
	Okay, you got your associates?
	No, I did two years of college.
	I dropped out.
	Okay.
	I got my license and I got my association's license so I can take care of your skin.
	Okay.
	I went to clown school.
	What?
	I don't know if that's official, but it's true.
	So, okay.
	We got all the sound effects, man.
	Let's fucking go!
	I went to clown school, but don't make a joke out of me.
	Okay, so...
	You are funny.
	I take it back.
	You're funny.
	You got your esthetician license.
	I'm just getting warmed up.
	Alright, so you have your esthetician license, and you actually didn't go to clown school.
	Yes, I did.
	What's the first lesson in clown school that they teach you?
	Oh, you gotta get in tune with yourself.
	Your inner clown.
	No, it's very emotional clown school.
	You might think it's funny, but it takes a lot.
	Wow, that was deep.
	Shout out to the clowns.
	I know, I didn't expect it.
	I thought they would teach you like, you know, hey, you'll flow too or some shit.
	You thought the first thing would be like, squeak your nose or something, but it's deeper than that.
	I thought it'd be like, just pull kids into a drain and say, you'll flow too or some shit.
	I don't know.
	Bro, that's so Pennywise.
	What?
	I'm surprised you didn't do AC. What's the most profound thing you've learned in town school that you just take with you?
	Super profound thing?
	Okay.
	Okay.
	I will.
	Bro, being in clown school is super profound.
	To be a clown to others, you have to know yourself.
	That's it.
	What the fuck is this?
	I didn't expect it to be that deep either.
	Okay.
	What's your relationship status?
	Single.
	Okay.
	We can tell.
	Who brought out here, man?
	Don't make me.
	Are your parents still together?
	Are your parents still together?
	My parents were never together.
	What about you?
	What's your name?
	Hi, I'm Alexa.
	I'm from San Diego, California, but I live in Silicon Valley now.
	27.
	You said you're 27?
	What do you do for work?
	I'm a project manager in tech.
	Okay.
	I was just going to ask if you work in tech.
	All right.
	Do you want to...
	Nah.
	I was going to say what company, but you don't have to do that.
	Never mind.
	It's a fang.
	Okay.
	It's what?
	A fang.
	The thing?
	Fang.
	The fang.
	Like stock markets.
	F-A-N. Oh, oh, oh.
	Okay.
	Gotcha.
	Okay.
	Highest education level completed?
	I got my bachelor's in business and management.
	Okay.
	Where'd you get it from?
	Pepperdine.
	Where's that?
	Malibu.
	Oh, okay.
	That's where they shot Zoe 101.
	Okay.
	That is true.
	Relationship status?
	I am single.
	All right.
	Parents still together?
	No.
	I'm a rebound baby.
	So they were never together?
	They were never together.
	Alright, let me put that down.
	Rebound baby, that's a new one.
	Welcome to LA. Okay.
	And you said you're up in Silicon Valley.
	Single, aren't there a bunch of guys there?
	There are.
	Like way too many men compared to women.
	That is true, but it's not the kind of guy I typically date.
	Okay, fair enough.
	Okay, what about you?
	What's your name?
	My name is Janet.
	Janet, okay.
	How old are you, Janet?
	Yes.
	23.
	I just turned 23 last week.
	Where are you from?
	LA. Okay.
	Are you here for our Basil as well?
	Yes.
	Are you guys all friends?
	Me and her, Grace.
	Okay.
	What do you do for work?
	I do OnlyFans.
	Okay.
	Are you also a comedian?
	Not like her.
	I mean, I think I'm funny in my own way, but I don't do stand-up, but I would try it.
	I don't know.
	Highest education level completed?
	I did go to college, but I dropped out.
	Okay, so do you have your associates or anything or no?
	No.
	No?
	Okay, so I'll just put high school.
	And you said you grew up in Los Angeles, you said, right?
	That's correct, yes.
	Okay.
	Relationship status?
	I'm single.
	Alright.
	Are your parents still together?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	How long have they been married?
	Since I was born, so like 23 years.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Happily in love.
	Okay.
	Mexican?
	Salvi.
	Salvadorian.
	Salvadorian.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	My name's...
	Hey, y'all!
	Sorry, what is it?
	Tyranny J. Your name is Tyranny?
	Tyranny.
	Tyranny.
	Tyranny?
	Tyranny.
	Tyranny.
	Like evil?
	No.
	Tyranny.
	Tyranny.
	All right.
	How old are you?
	23.
	Okay.
	Where are you from?
	Miami, Florida.
	Okay.
	All right.
	What do you do for work?
	I'm a professional makeup artist.
	Okay.
	Instagram is underscore Notorious Glam.
	Okay.
	Period.
	All right.
	So, highest education level completed?
	Graduated high school, currently in college, going to nursing school.
	Wait, nurse?
	Mm-hmm.
	Okay.
	And I'm assuming you got your cosmetology license too or something, probably?
	No.
	No?
	You don't need a cosmetology license to be a makeup artist, actually.
	Period.
	It's more so for, like, you know, estheticians, actually, because, you know, poor words and all that.
	All right.
	Are your parents together?
	Or no, what's your relationship status first?
	Sorry.
	I got a man.
	Okay.
	How long have you been together?
	Two years next month.
	All right.
	There you go.
	How'd you guys meet?
	Facebook.
	Facebook.
	Oh, shit.
	That's a hidden gem.
	Run this back.
	He sent you a message on Facebook.
	You guys met?
	Is that how it works?
	Yeah, eventually we met, you know.
	But he texted me on Facebook.
	We was texting for like a week.
	How did he find you on Facebook, though?
	That didn't go stalking me.
	Okay.
	Say what, then?
	Okay.
	Are your parents still together?
	They trying to get back together.
	Okay.
	So they divorced?
	They was never together.
	Okay.
	Clearly.
	How old is your guy?
	How old is your guy?
	He's 24.
	Okay.
	So he's a year older than you.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	What's your name?
	Hi, my name is Kirsten Heiner.
	Kirsten, okay.
	She get a full name.
	How old are you?
	I'm 24.
	Where are you from?
	I'm from Lima, Peru.
	Okay.
	Chimpo!
	Callao.
	It's like a mo who knows all the countries.
	What the hell?
	What the fuck?
	Are you American?
	No, I'm Peruvian.
	I was born in Peru.
	Okay.
	Because you don't sound like you have an accent.
	Did you go to an American school down there?
	I went to a school in Coral Springs.
	I got here.
	I moved here 10 years ago.
	Okay, that's what I was going to ask.
	And I got here to start freshman year.
	Where's the best fratanga?
	The Pritanga?
	Yeah.
	I don't know, that's not Perucan.
	I know, it's Nicaragua.
	Okay, so you were born in Peru, but you came here in high school?
	Yes, to start freshman year.
	That makes sense.
	Alright, because you don't have an accent, so I was like, wait, hold on.
	Thank you, thank you.
	Alright, what do you do at work?
	I do a couple of things.
	I'm an auto broker.
	I have my own company.
	I work with personally injury attorneys.
	I'm a Zumba instructor, but at the moment I don't have any classes.
	You said Zumba?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	And I also work with a model agency.
	Okay.
	All right.
	What's your highest education level completed?
	High school.
	Okay.
	Relationship status?
	Single.
	All right.
	And then are your parents still together?
	No.
	When did you divorce?
	I would say 2012, but they weren't together since like 2002.
	Okay.
	Oh, so they like just stuck together for another 10 years or something?
	They had me and peace out.
	Okay, fair enough.
	What about you?
	I'll talk to the side though.
	Best place for ceviche.
	Okay, so I haven't really been to any Miami places, so I can't give any recommendations, but in the Broward area, Señor Ceviche, hands down.
	And I started eating ceviche when I moved here.
	When I was in Peru, I actually, like fish ceviche.
	I used to have ceviche de pota, which is calamar.
	How do you say?
	Calamari.
	Calamari.
	And it's all cut in like cubes.
	I don't know.
	It just tastes much better.
	It's like Oreos and the small Oreos taste better for some reason.
	That's just how it is.
	But Senor Ceviche, hands down.
	Der Leche, Tigre and Ceviche, 10 cent recommend.
	Alright, cool.
	Alright, what about you?
	What's your name?
	So my name is Isabella.
	I'm 28 years old and I'm from Fort Lauderdale, Florida.
	Okay.
	What do you do for work?
	So I'm a YouTuber and an image consultant.
	Okay.
	What kind of content do you make on YouTube?
	I make fashion and beauty content, styling videos, things like that.
	Overhauls too?
	Not so much, not really.
	But my channel is called Concept3 and it's a lot of fun.
	I enjoy it.
	No bikini overhauls for you?
	No, I mean, I only do bikini stuff if it's my boyfriend.
	Typical.
	Only if it's my boyfriend's clothing brand.
	He has a line of bikinis and I model for him.
	Oh, nice.
	Alright.
	Highest education level completed?
	A master's.
	Okay.
	And what?
	International relations, which I did abroad in Milan, Italy, which I actually didn't really want to do.
	Which actually I didn't want to do, but I wanted to go, like, you know, enjoy my time abroad.
	So I told my mom, yeah, I'll do a master's.
	She's like, okay, I'll pay for it.
	Okay.
	I hope she doesn't hear this.
	I'm a PhD.
	What was your master's in?
	International relations.
	Okay, so it was in...
	What about your bachelor's?
	Sorry.
	Bachelor's Italian Studies.
	Okay.
	I'm assuming you speak Italian pretty well.
	Yes, I'm fluent.
	Okay.
	What's your ethnic background?
	Forget about it!
	So, my mom is a half Jamaican, half Trinidadian, and my dad is from California.
	She said Fort Lauderdale, so, okay.
	You said, wait, your dad is Jamaican, you said?
	No, my dad is from California, a very mixed background.
	Both my parents are mixed race, so I'm like a big, I'm like all the...
	Ambiguous, basically?
	Yeah, all the continents.
	Wow.
	Yeah.
	Okay, so you're everything.
	Where'd you get your bachelor's from?
	UC Santa Cruz.
	Okay.
	And then you got your masters there too?
	I got my masters in Italy, in Milan.
	What was the name of the school?
	Universita Catolica del Sacro Coro.
	Oh, you went like two.
	Sacred Heart University.
	Sacred Heart Catholic University.
	Okay.
	Private school, yeah.
	Are your parents still together?
	No.
	Okay.
	When did they divorce?
	I was really small.
	I was like probably not even two.
	Okay.
	Yeah, I don't remember any of that.
	All right.
	And then are you in a relationship?
	Yes, a relationship.
	How long have y'all been together?
	A year and a half.
	Okay, cool.
	Very diverse panel.
	All right.
	Interesting.
	This guy, Chris.
	Last but not least, our guest of honor.
	Yes.
	King Dre.
	Yeah, welcome.
	I'm King Dre.
	I go by Captain Saver Bro.
	I save men from wicked women and women who don't have their best interests at heart.
	Misogony!
	Women who want to separate them from their money and hurt them.
	Women who are bad people.
	So I save men from women like that.
	There you go.
	Nice.
	That's what I do.
	You want to hit the first question?
	Um...
	Have you ever cheated on a man or a boyfriend and why?
	Okay.
	We can start.
	Why?
	Don't forget the why.
	I ain't never cheated.
	How old are you?
	26.
	And you never cheated on anybody?
	I ain't never cheated.
	Stop the cow!
	Lying.
	Okay.
	I ain't lying.
	Like texting ladies, texting?
	Don't forget why.
	Don't forget to tell us why.
	Dre, do you want to give them some of the actions that might constitute as cheating?
	Even though in their head they might be like, that's not cheating, I just talked to my ex.
	Or I went to the club.
	Entertaining any other man for any other reason.
	My last boyfriend I had, I just felt like...
	Merch.
	I just felt like he was just like the best in my eyes.
	I ain't text no ex.
	I ain't text nobody who I had a crush on.
	Any nigga that DM me, I ain't respond.
	They was getting ignored.
	So I don't cheat when I'm in a relationship.
	I don't cheat.
	What happened with it?
	Why the end?
	It was crazy.
	Alright, so...
	It just didn't work out, no.
	Alright, so what about you?
	What about you?
	No, I've never cheated.
	I'm not a cheater.
	Why are you saying?
	Why are you profiling me as a cheater?
	No, I'm just saying.
	I'm not a cheater.
	I never cheated.
	I've been cheated on.
	So, I know that side.
	What about you?
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Never.
	Never.
	I'll be honest.
	Thank you.
	There you go.
	First one to tell the truth.
	I'm a very loyal person, but he did cheat on me first.
	Did you get somebody that if he knew it would hurt him?
	Was it strategic in the get back?
	Oh, not at all.
	So it was a random?
	Not a random, but I didn't purposely cheat on him.
	You just fell on the dick.
	You just fell on the dick.
	Oh, shit!
	I'm on a dick.
	How does that work?
	So you didn't cheat because he cheated back?
	No, no, no.
	I mean, like, okay, because, like, I didn't, like, sleep with someone else, but I was, like, talking to someone else.
	You get me?
	Like, I didn't slip on the dick, like what he said.
	Did you take a break first?
	Didn't you?
	I mean, we were on and off for, like, the whole time.
	So you slept with the other guy when y'all was off?
	No, I didn't actually.
	I didn't sleep with someone else.
	I just texted.
	Emotional?
	Emotional.
	And then he broke my phone and he found out.
	He was abusive.
	You're not with him anymore, right?
	You're not with him anymore, right?
	Oh no, I'm single.
	I've been single for a whole year.
	Let's get it.
	What about you?
	Me?
	So, I'm actually a very loyal person, but in my last relationship, I did feel at a moment like I wanted to get a payback.
	Not like I wanted a payback with the same coin.
	And I did entertain talking to someone, but I didn't do anything sexual.
	I didn't hang out with the person.
	It was just all texting.
	We skipped her.
	What about you?
	Oh no, I said no.
	She said no.
	Oh, okay.
	Yeah, so for me I haven't just because the moment I feel like I'm not fully in, I respect the guy's time and I tell them it's not working.
	And you leave.
	And I leave because it's like, it does a lot to someone's self-esteem.
	Like a lot of people don't think that guy's...
	Take it hard, you know, are sad about it, but it destroys them.
	They're never the same after it, so I just would always, you know, if it wasn't the right fit, I would just tell them, like, you know, this isn't working, and then end it.
	Like, it doesn't make sense to stay in it when you're not fully in it, right?
	And then it also says something about your character, too.
	That's very mature of you, if that's true.
	If that's true.
	Yeah, if it's true, because you never know.
	No, I mean, it's true.
	Okay, so, I'm pretty sure you've slept with a bunch of women that have boyfriends.
	I'm pretty sure you, I have.
	Yeah.
	Why women don't admit to that when they do?
	Because women cheat, if not more than men.
	I've never even, I've talked to throughout my life, I don't know how many women, and no woman has ever admitted to, hey, I've cheated before.
	Yeah.
	Ever.
	Or if they do, it'll be like, I talked to another guy, it'll be something.
	Let me ask y'all this, do y'all know a homegirl that cheated on a man before?
	Oh, hell yeah.
	Yeah.
	Probably.
	Like, right now, they're like, okay, yeah, I kind of did.
	Yeah, but they don't always tell you the full story, though.
	They'll say, oh, yeah, just a little blowjob.
	I've never heard...
	It's okay to watch this.
	Have anybody got a homegirl that's cheated on a guy?
	Yes.
	A friend?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Every single one of you?
	Not that I know.
	You know a girl that cheated on a guy?
	I don't think so.
	Not none of my...
	That's interesting, right?
	Not, like, girls who are close to me, but people that I know about.
	Same.
	It says something about their character, like...
	Why do you think that they cheat though?
	Because they want to have their cake and eat it too.
	They want him there to have their fun and then just go back to him when they're lonely.
	I think that for a woman...
	Women know that when they be doing whole shit that it make their value...
	That's why they never admit it.
	You're not going to find one woman.
	If you're dating and courting a woman and talking to her, you're never going to admit to it.
	I just wanted to know that.
	But it's crazy how they all got a friend.
	They all know somebody that did.
	I don't know nobody that.
	She sucks on dicks.
	Okay, do you have another question for the ladies?
	No, that was just it?
	Do you want to ask the thing about the mom?
	Not yet.
	Alright, I'll read the chats real quick.
	Alright, so we got two more semesters and I'll be finished with welding school.
	This is from Logan.
	Is it never true when a woman says she has a lot going on in her personal life?
	Where we at here?
	But makes effort to see or talk to you.
	Is it never true when a woman says this?
	Straight, what do you think about this?
	So he's asking the question, is it never true when a woman says she has a lot going on in her personal life, but makes effort to see you or talk to you?
	I think he means doesn't make effort to see you.
	That's bullshit.
	Yeah, women, they want you to be there.
	They want to suck your energy.
	They want your help.
	They want you to be around if they like you.
	They want you to be there going through the shit with you.
	Who hurt you?
	No, he don't sound hurt.
	I mean, I'm pretty sure...
	No, but like, every comment that has to do towards a woman, you're like...
	I just started talking.
	Nah, he don't sound hurt to me.
	Listen, we live in America.
	Everybody has been disappointed before.
	Like, that's not...
	Every person.
	All right, so why are you asking me that?
	No, but like, honestly, like, if you're going through something, we can talk about it.
	I'm not a You a therapist, Ms.
	Peru?
	I'm not a therapist, but I'm really in touch with my vibes and my energy.
	So you feel like I'm hurt?
	No, but sometimes when people make comments about something over and over again, it's because they feel it.
	What you saying?
	Like, what I said.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	I mean, the energy sucking is not exclusively to men.
	To women or men?
	Well, I had a close friend in high school.
	She was a wreck.
	Constantly getting drunk, crying in the bathroom, sleeping with multiple guys, lying to me about it, locked herself in the bathroom with a guy.
	I'm like, did you just with him?
	She's like, no, no, I didn't.
	While she had a boyfriend.
	What?
	So this is bringing me back to you.
	I had an ex-best friend.
	And then she got pregnant at 19 and had an abortion.
	Oh, shit.
	No, she got pregnant at 19, had the baby.
	Then the second time she got pregnant six months after the baby was born, she got pregnant again and then got an abortion and then took off and left her baby daddy with the kid and went off and dated other guys and didn't take care of her child.
	Wow.
	And after that, I found that out, I dropped her.
	I'm like, I can't be associated with this sort of like...
	Trashiness.
	Some people, you can't help them.
	They don't want to be helped.
	They're going to go in that cycle and they're going to drag you down and suck your energy.
	One point to the guy who ever asked the question.
	If that women want to stay, all that, oh, I'm going through all this shit, that's bullshit.
	They want you to be there for them.
	If they look at you like...
	You there, man.
	They want you there.
	They want the support from you.
	That's what I'm saying.
	A woman will drive hours or flight hours just to see you.
	Just to see you and breathe.
	She'll find time, bro.
	She'll find time.
	She just doesn't like you that much, man.
	That's what it comes down to.
	Blackest Panther goes, Ladies, if you believe most men aren't worthy of submission or respect, you are correct.
	Just look at the rise of OnlyFans as one example.
	Question.
	Who slash what do you think is causing boys to grow up into worthless, simpish men?
	And what can women slash moms do to help?
	We can start right here and then work our way that way because we started with her before What do you think is causing men to grow into worthless?
	Simps and what can women slash moms do to help sorry twitch basically lazy?
	Yeah, we can go ahead and kill twitch if we Yeah, we'll kill Twitch.
	Just YouTube and Rumble.
	They're not becoming men that they need to be.
	Yeah, why are guys simps?
	What should they do?
	A lack of a male figure in their life.
	Phoenix, please.
	Sorry.
	A lack of a male figure in their life, for sure.
	That's important.
	I think children need a mother and a father because there's that feminine energy, the nurturing, the masculine energy, providing an example, how to be a man, how to do things, how to build things with your hands.
	That part is missing.
	So there's a lot of...
	Broken families where the father's out of the picture and the men don't get to their fullest potential.
	It doesn't make them bad, but just makes them have to make an extra effort.
	That's one big part of it.
	That's a very good point.
	What about you?
	I honestly think the same.
	The father figure is a really big point.
	Sometimes people just go on in their lives reacting and not acting.
	Okay.
	Who hurt you?
	Who hurt me?
	A couple people, actually.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Like everybody.
	Damn.
	What about you?
	I kind of agree with them, honestly.
	It's really the male figure, you know.
	You can't really learn how to be a man without seeing a man in action.
	And then the guys that do have fathers in their lives, they're really not the best dads.
	Like, you know, they're not.
	And the mamas, stop babying your sons.
	Please.
	I agree.
	For real.
	I agree.
	Question, what made you choose your guy over non-stalkers?
	Well, he was a stalker, though.
	He was.
	Non-stalker.
	But he was a nice stalker.
	He was a good stalker.
	No, I'm just kidding.
	I chose him, honestly, because he was consistent.
	He was consistent.
	You know, he was just honest.
	He was there.
	I didn't have to ask him.
	I didn't have to constantly tell him.
	Some things, it was a work in progress.
	But for the most part, he was just honest, there, and loyal.
	He's never, never made me even question him.
	And I love money.
	Dre, what do you think?
	When you say he was consistent, you mean as far as what y'all say, applying pressure?
	As far as courting you and trying to get your attention or whatever?
	Courting, not really.
	Like I said, it was a work in progress with some stuff.
	But he was consistent in letting me know it was me for him.
	I never had to question that.
	And this was before y'all went on a date and y'all started seeing each other?
	Yeah.
	Honestly, then too.
	When we first started talking, it was kind of shaky because you just met the person, but...
	I want you now.
	What was it?
	Okay, let me ask you this.
	Don't lie.
	Okay.
	What was the gap between the last guy and him?
	Hmm.
	I know.
	Why you trying to get me caught up on that?
	I know.
	You ain't got to answer that.
	Remember I told you about that rebound shit?
	Yeah.
	My man, no.
	You see, he had to wait, right?
	He had to wait.
	Wait, wait.
	I can retract that answer because it was six months.
	Me and my ex-boyfriend, before him, we had like broke up for six months.
	Not broke up, I'm talking about still dealing with it because you can break up.
	Oh, hell no.
	Oh, no, no, no, no.
	Okay.
	I wasn't even talking to that man.
	Fuck him.
	So six months.
	Fuck that nigga!
	So six months then, after the six months, then he started hitting you up?
	Literally six months.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	You was just like celibate, like cleaning.
	Don't ask my business.
	You know what I'm saying?
	You was just like going through the motions, just like, you know, I'm not going to date.
	I want to get myself together first.
	No, yeah.
	For the first four months, it was like that.
	But then I started talking to this boy I had a crush on in high school.
	And it wasn't that dude?
	No.
	Okay.
	That's fair.
	Alright.
	What do you think is causing guys to grow up into simps?
	And what can women slash moms do to help?
	Well, I just want to say that I love simps.
	It's your fault!
	It's your fault.
	I would say it's my fault, you know, but there's a lot of reasons why, but I was agreeing with the girls too, you know.
	I was agreeing with these ladies as well, you know.
	Which is what?
	the lack of a father figure, broken homes, and not having that right role model.
	- Why are you shaking your head?
	- And yeah.
	- Okay. - He got something to say.
	- He do.
	- What happened?
	- He don't agree.
	- No, she's shaking my head.
	- Why?
	We gonna get to him, go ahead.
	- Nah, y'all finish.
	- He's shaking his head?
	- Mm-hmm.
	- Okay.
	- Y'all finish. - I was gonna say, definitely having a father figure, but I'ma put that also on the women of who you choose to have a baby with.
	So I think that's a big thing.
	I was raised by a single mom, so it's one of those things I think Even if you're an only child or you're raised by a single parent, it's the job of the parent.
	My mom was hard on me.
	I grew up with a very...
	I would say sometimes she's more of a dad as harshness instead of a mom in that sense.
	So I think it's important that single moms of sons don't baby their sons, but also find someone who's a strong male figure to put in their life.
	I think a lot of women that I know that raised sons felt bad, and so they overcompensated by babying their kids.
	And the strong men that I know that were raised by single moms, their moms had them really step up, and they also made sure that they had, whether it was a coach or a teacher, a strong male figure that they went to, and then they had that piece.
	What's your mom's ethnic background?
	She's Hispanic and Filipino.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	She's like a tiger mom, though.
	She's a tough cookie.
	Would you say her disciplinarian side is what made you finish school, get a job in tech, and aspire to be successful?
	Oh, for sure.
	Versus her nurturing side?
	Yeah.
	So like my mom, I'm the first in my family to go to college.
	Okay.
	Let me ask you this then.
	Do you think that fathers are better parents than mothers?
	No.
	For the betterment of their, well, you just literally named.
	So better as far as raising the kids or disciplining?
	There's two different parts of that.
	Well, raising the kids to become a, how do I say this, a reputable member of society.
	I think that's from both sides, but I think for sons specifically, like women need that.
	Well, your mom had some masculine traits and you ended up okay.
	That's true, but I would say most people wouldn't be able to handle it.
	I also was the kid that listened to motivational tapes when I was seven because I was like, I need to change my life.
	I wasn't reading Harry Potter.
	I was reading How to Retire When You're 40 kind of thing.
	I'm an odd, I'm an anomaly and I recognize that.
	Yeah, but what I'm trying to get at here is that the disciplinarian side is far more important to the child's overall development and becoming successful and being a contributing member to society than them being nurtured.
	I make the argument that I think fathers are the more important parent than the mother.
	Especially in adolescent years and the formative years where that child can start making serious mistakes that fuck them up.
	Yeah.
	For boys?
	For both.
	I've always said that strong dads keep daughters offshore poles and sons out of jail.
	Well, I can see that.
	Because as a woman, you do.
	You do.
	You know?
	Like, your father is kind of like the first line of defense.
	I get it.
	Like, the mom is important, right?
	Especially in the baby years and the child-rearing years.
	But, like, as you become older, you get into teenage years, like...
	Fuck you, mom, blah, blah, blah, right?
	Especially with a son who's physically capable now to bully his mom if he needs to physically.
	It's a dad that's kind of like...
	Violence gets respect, right?
	That's just what it is, right?
	The reason why we follow the law is because the police and the military have the monopoly of violence.
	We obey the law because we know that there's going to be physical consequences and we can't necessarily overtake them.
	So it's the same thing with parents.
	If your dad can beat the shit out of you, well, you're going to more than likely comply to some degree.
	I think your dad should expose you to the real world.
	He gives you that taste of what the real world really is.
	And there was a study, Roald Tomasi talks about it in his book, shout out to him, that single fathers actually do better with producing children that don't become criminals and degenerates, etc.
	when they compare them to single mothers.
	That's true.
	I've done time before and most of the guys in there didn't have their fathers.
	That's like that.
	I would say I guess I partially agree with you because I hear more people have daddy issues than mommy issues.
	So I think that's a good way to put your argument.
	Don't get it twisted.
	You might end up with maybe some attachment issues or whatever when you don't have a mom.
	But what I'm saying is that with the father, he'll at least tell you what's right and wrong and tell you how to not be a fuck up.
	Yeah.
	But she did mention having a strong male figure with the mom, so that's good too.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	But I just find it interesting that your mom, it displayed masculine traits and that led to you becoming successful and getting into tech.
	Yeah.
	She's an interesting one too.
	And you got into a male-dominated field too.
	Yes.
	I'm usually like the only woman in a meeting or anything like that.
	But my mom is also like hyper-feminine, which is the interesting part.
	Interesting.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Just not with you, I guess.
	All right.
	What about you?
	What do you think will keep guys, or why do you think guys are simps nowadays and what can women slash moms do to help?
	First off, I don't think guys are simps nowadays.
	I think guys have probably been simping since any time.
	Well, let me ask you this question.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Define simp real fast.
	In your terms, what do you think a simp is?
	I never really thought about the term simp until it was posed to me from other people.
	So it's like somebody who gives up a lot to care for a girl over anything.
	Okay, so simp, right?
	It's like a word that stands for something.
	Right, yes.
	Do you know what it is?
	I do, but I'm asking what your definition is.
	I'm not as sure exactly the acronym, is it?
	No, no, but you were going well.
	Okay, so, like, I'ma just not defy it by the letters.
	Don't worry about the acronym.
	Don't worry about the acronym.
	What does it mean to you?
	It's like a guy, a person, who, like, wants to give up things to someone, like, more than what their life has going for them.
	They'll just do anything for someone regardless of anything related to them.
	They give too much to someone just to please someone or try and get their attention.
	So you don't think there's a bunch of guys that do that?
	No, I do.
	For sure.
	I think she was saying that it's always been like that.
	It's not nowadays.
	You said nowadays, right?
	Yeah.
	But the question was, what makes people seem like now?
	So you said from back in the day, it was like that.
	You said now, but I think people have always been probably doing that in one way or another.
	I kind of disagree with that.
	And I'll tell you why.
	Because the problem is that...
	I look at it like you're simping once it's unreciprocated.
	So if you're giving a girl time and attention and she's not reciprocating and giving you something back in exchange and you're simping because that girl doesn't like you and you're investing too much.
	It's just a guy who lets a woman take advantage of it.
	And just to go further, because you said you think people avoid simping.
	I disagree because, right, okay, it used to be you can give a girl flowers on a first date and you wouldn't get punished for that.
	She would like, you know, you'd be meeting a nice, dutiful, feminine woman that wasn't going to be a scumbag and wouldn't dog you out.
	But nowadays, you can't give a girl flowers, right?
	Because you'd be a simp nowadays and girls don't respect that.
	But back before, guys used to be traditional and they'd give girls flowers and it'd be okay because she would reciprocate to that nice treatment.
	But girls don't treat nice guys nice anymore.
	When you say you wouldn't get punished for that, what do you mean, like, you would get punished for that?
	If you showed up on a first date and gave a girl flowers in 2023, she would probably think you're a little weird.
	She would probably ghost you.
	She just don't like you.
	She would think you were a sucker.
	That's so sad.
	I mean, sometimes, like, it's...
	There's a phrase, nice guys finish last.
	And the reason for that is because...
	If that shit worked, flowers would be the most booming business ever.
	If you just give a woman some flowers and she could...
	That's bullshit.
	Not in American culture.
	Like, American girls don't appreciate it.
	They're like, oh, he's too nice.
	Oh, it's too much.
	Like, oh, just he's doing too much.
	Yeah, also, it's like, what's your angle?
	Why are you so nice to me right now?
	What do you want from me?
	Like, yeah, that's...
	Maybe harder to work with people, and that's unfortunate that you can't do that demonstration, but I think maybe sometimes it works if you're genuine.
	Rarely.
	And that's my point, is that it used to be if you went out on a date in the 1950s and you brought a girl flowers and you opened a door, chivalry was respected back then.
	Nowadays, chivalry is punished.
	If you act like a gentleman to a lot of these modern-day girls, they're going to punish you for that shit.
	They're not going to call you back.
	They're going to use you for dinner dates.
	You're going to get taken advantage of.
	Yeah, like, sometimes it is.
	Like, maybe back in the day, like, if you did that, like, the majority of the time it would be received.
	And now, in modern day, if you do that, like, it's not the majority of the time it would be received.
	It's, like, the minority of the time that it would be received.
	So, like, that's unfortunate.
	But just because it's the minority of the time that it would be received and, like, welcome doesn't mean that it would never happen.
	Mm-hmm.
	Do you think?
	That's not the argument, but thank you.
	What is the argument?
	I'm a hopeless romantic.
	I like to imagine that somewhere, someday, if someone gives someone flowers, that works.
	I don't want to accept that no one can ever receive flowers and be happy.
	Well, I get it.
	You can say that because you're a woman and women can live in a fantasy world.
	But don't you feel like Let me flip it.
	Let me flip it.
	Let me flip it.
	How about this?
	How about if I told you, all right, before every date, you're going to have to spend 50 bucks, right?
	You got to pay for the dinner and you got to spend another $20 to get the flowers, right?
	Mm-hmm.
	And you went out on 10 dates that week, but you knew...
	70, we're at 70?
	No, 10 dates.
	Yeah, 70.
	Yeah, 70.
	50, 70, right?
	You had to spend $70 per date, right?
	But you knew that of those 8 or 9 dates, or sorry, those 10 dates, 8 or 9 of the girls are not going to receive those flowers properly.
	Would you actually go to this extent and buy the flowers for every single one of those dates, knowing that you have a 10 to 20% probability of success?
	Oh, you don't know what I would do?
	Anybody can answer that?
	Or that's for her specifically?
	Yeah, I mean, would you spend the money on the flowers?
	Knowing that your chances of a return are slim?
	That's more of a your character type of thing.
	It's like a genuine.
	If you're genuine, you want to do that, you're going to do it.
	Okay, let's go straight.
	Pragmatism and probability.
	Would you actually spend the money?
	Realistically speaking.
	No.
	No, right?
	Most of you would not.
	And that's what I'm trying to say.
	Women have the luxury of being hopeless romantics because you guys don't spend the money it costs to be a hopeless romantic.
	Okay, so if you do the math, 10 days, 70 bucks, how much is that?
	Wait, I have my answer.
	Yeah, she wants to give her answer.
	Okay.
	Obviously, you wouldn't do that all the time, right?
	But, like, what if you saw somebody and you guys had a super connection and you stared into each other's eyes and you had a sparkle and you just felt like, yo, like, me and you, I feel some type of way about you.
	You're the one for me and I want to bring you flowers out of anybody else, right?
	So, like, that would be the moment I'll bring somebody flowers.
	Obviously, you don't want to, like, go around all day bringing How about this?
	Let me ask you a better question.
	Do you think most modern day women deserve flowers on a first date?
	Let's keep it real.
	I think anyone who finds a person who like...
	Do you think most modern day women deserve flowers on a first date and will receive it properly?
	Yes or no?
	Of course, everybody gets to have flowers.
	I'm not going to deny anyone a flower.
	I'm talking from the male perspective.
	If you were a guy out here, and you knew how women are, because you're a woman, right?
	And you're in L.A., one of the toughest places.
	I wouldn't mind, honestly.
	I would just give them flowers.
	What's it cost me?
	Like $12?
	More than that.
	More than that.
	Flowers are expensive.
	$5.
	$9.
	Go to Trader Joe's, they're like 10 bucks.
	Trader Joe's is good for us.
	Who cares?
	Give her like a random...
	You know what's funny?
	The fact that you said it's $5, right?
	Girls know that.
	So I'm spending $5 on flowers for you.
	Is it, I'm that cheap?
	I wouldn't think of flowers.
	But again, you're assuming that she likes you off-rip.
	Most girls don't like most men.
	It depends on who it's coming from.
	Let me ask you this.
	Have all of you been on a date before with a guy that you didn't really like that much, but you just were like, fuck it, I'll give it a chance?
	Yeah.
	Fantastic, see?
	Girls clearly go out on dates with guys that they don't like like that.
	So, me as a guy, I know that women are prone to do this because they like attention, free meals, whatever it may be.
	I'd be an idiot, knowing how women really move in 2023, to spend money and get flowers and increase my investment to a girl that hasn't invested back in me.
	Just from a pragmatic standpoint.
	I get it, you're a hopeless romantic.
	But you're not the one spending the money.
	So you can say shit like that.
	But men are the ones that spend the money.
	We're the ones that spend the time.
	We're the ones that have to actually go there and attract you guys.
	And women tend to look at things typically like you're already attracted to the guy.
	But the reality is if I come and bring you flowers before anything else, I've not had you invest anything, you're not going to respect me, unfortunately.
	If it worked, men would do it.
	Men trying to do whatever works.
	If it worked, they would do it.
	If it worked, dudes would be out here buying flowers.
	But sometimes it does, don't you think?
	I feel like some girls go on a date with a guy where maybe they're not sure about him and they give it a chance, and then sometimes that chance turns into something that they actually really like.
	You have a situation that some women, and not all, not even most, there are a few women that actually love flowers.
	That may click for a woman like that, that type of gesture.
	But most women...
	Can care less about flowers.
	But they like the thought.
	I agree, right?
	There's connections as well that are real.
	But to find out, the odds are not in your favor.
	Because for most men, they're going to have to prove themselves to her on some level.
	And it's going to be like, okay, flowers, what's the angle here, nigga?
	What are you trying to get from me?
	It just depends, though.
	Sorry.
	Someone want to say something?
	I just feel like it just depends on the person.
	It just depends on the girl.
	Like, okay, y'all talking about buying flowers for a girl that don't really like y'all, whatever.
	I just feel like...
	Merch.
	I just feel like...
	Merch.
	Some girls, they just like you to be there.
	The flowers are just extra.
	Like, you know, some boys, they could talk to a girl.
	The boy don't even have to do nothing.
	They're already in love with the boy.
	So it's like, it just depends on the type of girl.
	If y'all, if the man is romantic and he want to do romantic gestures, that's going to be a plus.
	But it just depends.
	Would you go out there and buy flowers for a girl as a man in 2023, knowing that most girls don't receive flowers well?
	If I like the girl, yeah.
	You would go and spend the money?
	If I like, yeah.
	If I like the girl, yeah.
	She's smiling, she's lying.
	No, I'm not.
	On a first date?
	You don't know if you like her yet.
	Yeah, exactly.
	I think it's a feedback.
	So you'll go by, let's say you got 10 dudes lined up for the next 10 days.
	You'll go by...
	10 NBA 2K 24s.
	No.
	That's not the same price range.
	But that's not what I'm saying.
	Yes, it is.
	Flowers, what?
	60, 40, 50, 60 bucks?
	NBA 2K is the same price.
	That's how you know women are out of touch, man.
	You're saying $5, $10, man.
	For what world?
	Yeah, women don't buy flowers.
	That's how you know they don't know.
	I don't know.
	Some $10.
	Would you go spend that?
	You said for 10 dudes lined up.
	I don't like all them 10 dudes.
	I might like two.
	Not for two.
	That's the point, though.
	Okay, so have any of you ever brought something of significance or something tangible to a date as an offering?
	A first date.
	A first date.
	Not after he didn't hit it and all that and you attached.
	I'm talking about a first date.
	Not on a first date.
	I don't feel like it's the girl's job to do that on a first date.
	Because the guy approaches.
	You know, the guy comes to me.
	Damn, so selfish.
	Why don't y'all have to do anything?
	Why do y'all feel like you don't have to do anything but show up?
	Because they're the ones asking us on the date.
	Wait, I have a really good question.
	I thought you like me.
	I just showed up.
	I mean, it's a cultural thing.
	Alright, what if I told you, hey, I need you to make me a sandwich on the first date.
	Would you do it?
	No.
	If I like him.
	Hold on.
	Wait.
	That's what you're supposed to do.
	I know.
	You're supposed to make a sandwich.
	I'm supposed to make a sandwich?
	Yeah.
	You're supposed to fuck.
	Y'all talking about the first day?
	Yeah.
	This is going to be our generals.
	I think that y'all are out of touch with reality.
	Y'all talking about this on the first day.
	You like that?
	Yeah, see?
	Now we out of touch.
	You're out of touch.
	You talking about making somebody a sandwich on the first date and fold my clothes on the first date?
	Wait.
	So imagine adding flowers.
	So y'all want a maid.
	The same thing.
	As a man, it's supposed to be a generous provider.
	You're comparing oranges to apples.
	Okay, but the first date is like...
	Hold on.
	You talking about organizing a closet on the first date?
	I want to get back to that original question, too, because I thought that was some...
	That was some bullshit.
	But go ahead.
	I just don't want...
	You talking about organizing a closet on the first date versus, oh, I'm just going to get some flowers on the first date.
	That's easy.
	Organizing the closet, you asking somebody to come to your house.
	We're comparing roles, though.
	You ask somebody to come to your house.
	That'll take no five minutes.
	That should don't take no time to do that.
	We're just a comparison of general roles.
	You're hanging out the actual example too much.
	I'm just making a sandwich.
	I'm trying to be funny here.
	But the point is that you guys want us to be...
	They asked us out.
	I'm the girl.
	Like, I don't have to do anything.
	Ask me, I'm cool.
	Let me make a sandwich.
	What do the woman have to do?
	I mean, at the restroom, you want me to clock in and make a sandwich?
	You know what the woman does?
	You know what the woman does?
	Nothing.
	The woman...
	Gets ready.
	Looks good for you.
	The woman mirrors the man.
	Okay, he's showing me this.
	He doing this.
	He doing this.
	Okay, if I rock with him and I like him, I'ma do it back.
	Or I might do even more, because he's showing me appreciation first.
	That's what we supposed to do.
	Y'all making it seem like y'all want the women to do this and do that first.
	No, we would like you to come in providing value the same way that we do, but just do it in your way and not waiting for me to do something.
	And then if you do something, then I'm going to do something.
	Because if that was the case, then...
	But it all goes back to you liked me first.
	I'm walking down the street.
	I'm going to the mall.
	You want me first.
	I'm minding my business.
	So you already attracted to me before I'm attracted to you.
	So why would you not want to go get me?
	But it's reciprocity.
	Like if someone is giving you energy in one way, it has to come back to the other person.
	Right.
	So if your boyfriend or whatever is taking care of you or taking you to dinner and you can't make a sandwich for him, even if you're not the best sandwich maker, it's kind of messed up because even if you don't like doing it or whatever, you do it because it makes him happy.
	No, no, but for the first time, for the first encounter, we're just saying, look, flowers, we get it.
	Some girls might like it, some girls might not like it.
	We're just saying, as a general rule here, for a guy, you come up with flowers from the first encounter, it could be taken as bad or good.
	So to avoid that, we just come into it and we see, from that point of view, the value up front.
	But again, you're saying, do it rationally, but we might get turned down.
	Why would we do that at all?
	It don't even make sense.
	So you're doing it just out of fear, oh, I'm not going to do it because she might not like it.
	She has to earn it, by the way.
	I got a point.
	For example, if you earn the flowers, you actually appreciate it.
	If I just give it to you, oh, thanks, nigga.
	Like, cool.
	She have to earn the flowers?
	Yeah.
	What she got to do to earn the flowers?
	I got a question.
	Hold on, wait, wait.
	What she got to do to earn the flowers?
	First off, I need to know that it's real and genuine.
	It's just a connection.
	From the first date?
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	It takes time, of course.
	Yeah, it's from the first conversation.
	But when you meet somebody for the first time, you can tell a frip, alright, you know what?
	This person here, I can see has values, they're on some shit, and they're cool as hell.
	There's a vibe going on here.
	And we'll do my closet.
	Right?
	From the first encounter.
	So you can know from the very beginning, alright, this nigga weird, this nigga cool, I'll fuck with him.
	From the very beginning.
	So you're saying they shouldn't expect that right off the bat?
	I'm just saying it is earned, not just given.
	Because if you give it right away without any value behind it, it's kind of like, yo, like, alright, I get free shit for this nigga?
	Cool.
	Let me ask you a question real fast.
	Would you say that you decline most guys that approach you?
	Yeah.
	Do you decline most guys that approach you?
	Just say, yeah.
	I'm talking about, just so you ladies know, I'm talking about the weirdos that come to you up on the street.
	I'm talking about the guys at the club.
	I'm talking about the guys on Instagram that DM you.
	I'm talking about the guys that hit on you while you're walking down, you know.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	The gym.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Fair.
	Fair.
	Awesome.
	You have to be selective, right?
	Just like you guys are selective, let me also let you guys know that I have to be selective as well because most women are useless hoes.
	Let me just be honest about it, okay?
	I'm just gonna keep it a thousand with y'all.
	Since most women are useless hoes that don't appreciate chivalry and don't appreciate gentlemen, I need to make sure that you're not a useless ho.
	You have to make sure that you're willing to add value and you're a good female before I give you any type of good treatment.
	But just because I decline someone don't mean I would be like, oh, you're useless.
	Just because I'm not interested in talking to them, I'm not going to put them into the category like, oh, you're useless.
	I wouldn't degrade them.
	If you come into any situation and you don't provide value, you're useless.
	Like, just because I'm not interested in someone or maybe I don't feel something with someone or I don't want to talk to them, I would not, like, put them in the category of, like, they don't have value or, like, say that they're useless.
	Let me just stop you real fast.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Let me stop you real fast.
	Actually, when a woman declines a man, what she's effectively saying is, your genes are not worthy to be replicated amongst me and continue a lineage.
	That's not true.
	No, thank you.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Stop, stop, stop, stop.
	Says who?
	Stop.
	When a girl declines a guy, she's effectively telling him, I don't feel like passing on your genes.
	That's what she's basically saying.
	So I would say a female rejection, at least I'm giving you a chance to show that you have some kind of value as a male.
	Women don't even give niggas a chance.
	That's true.
	Too fat, too short, not good looking.
	Socks don't match.
	Women decline men for some dumb shit.
	And then you guys have the audacity to sit there and want me to give you the benefit of the doubt and show up with flowers, knowing that most of you girls are useless hoes.
	Hell no!
	That's bullshit.
	No, no, no.
	Real talk, because it's ridiculous to me.
	Hold on, stop.
	I find it ridiculous that women will sit there and reject 99% of men that come up to them.
	Not tall enough.
	Doesn't make enough money.
	Doesn't have no swag.
	I don't like his fucking, the way his socks and his clothes don't match.
	He doesn't have drip.
	Any dumbass reason that women reject men, right?
	Dumbass.
	But then I come in and I say, you know what?
	Since most women are selective, but they don't necessarily bring the same value and a lot of them are useless hoes, I'm gonna reserve the right to not be a gentleman off rips so I don't get used and abused by these chicks.
	And you guys look at me like I'm an asshole, but you guys reject 99% of guys and basically tell them, nah, your gene pool ain't good enough, nigga.
	I'm good.
	I can understand your point of view, but that's what the talking stage is for, right?
	When you get to...
	You're going to text for a few days, so you're going to see how they're talking.
	Maybe get on the phone.
	That's what that is for, to actually get to know just a little bit.
	Text is to set up dates in person, not to have a pen pal.
	But I get what you're saying.
	Talking stage, in-person dates, I can fill out who you are.
	Yeah, I get that.
	But at the same time, you're still just having a conversation.
	You're still getting a feel of something.
	So then why bring flowers off rip when I don't know if it can or not?
	Because on them phone calls, on them text messages, if you're vibing, if you're vibing, then you're going to be fucking with it.
	I could be pretending on the phone.
	Personally, I'm weird as fuck.
	You don't know.
	Personally, I don't think guys should be sitting there talking on the phone with girls.
	Just meeting around a date in person versus talking.
	I get it.
	Your situation is a safety perspective because you're mad on Facebook.
	But in general, that's not a very good way to start a conversation with women because they'll sit there and talk with you all day.
	From a male perspective, it's a whole other thing.
	Yeah.
	But yeah, I just find it interesting how you guys kind of like, yo, just bring the flowers, blah, blah, blah.
	But it's like, y'all reject most guys, so why should I? I think guys should reject most women when it comes to being a...
	But were you rejected?
	You didn't DM me, but...
	Rejected what?
	No, I'm saying.
	You say women decline most guys, right?
	Yeah.
	That should say you.
	DM me.
	Me personally.
	Okay.
	You DM me.
	I'm texting you back.
	Yeah.
	No, you're not.
	I didn't say that.
	No, no.
	No, man.
	I'm sick of Chris, man.
	He views me.
	I respond.
	You're right.
	We're having a nice convo.
	Yeah.
	We FaceTime maybe a few times.
	Yeah.
	We're liking the vibes.
	Okay.
	Hey, what you doing?
	You want to go out to dinner?
	You want to do whatever?
	Whatever.
	You're gonna get flowers.
	Because why?
	We've already been talking for a few days.
	You're feeling the vibe.
	That's not how that goes.
	No.
	No.
	Yeah, we don't advocate guys talk on the phone with a girl a bunch of times and shit like that before first date.
	But you wanted to say something?
	I was just gonna say, it's one of those things like, I think flowers should be reserved for someone that maybe like the third date and like you can actually see it going somewhere.
	But like, unfortunately, guys do get used for a lot of first dates and I actually do feel bad for guys.
	And I work primarily with men.
	I have a lot of guy friends because of where I work.
	And I can't tell you how many of them are like, I think she thought that was too much.
	Because a girl's...
	Again, you're going on a date.
	That's true.
	You're going on a date.
	And like you said, you're trying to figure out if you like him.
	Right.
	And if he comes and brings flowers, for some girls, if you're like, I don't even know if I like you.
	It's like, oh, he's looking for a girlfriend.
	It's a little too...
	Have you ever been approached by a guy and you're like, this is too fast?
	You like him, potentially, but you need to, like, test the water.
	Yeah, but it was kind of a different situation with me for that.
	But I would say, for most guys that do approach women, it is one of those things, like, if a guy comes off a little too forward, you're naturally going to push back because it is a lot soon.
	And anything, any niceness today is like...
	Yeah, second or third.
	Second or third, I think it's...
	Women don't appreciate chivalry like they did 50, 60, 70 years ago.
	Society has changed.
	That came to mind because back in the 50s and 60s, he would show up to your front doorstep, knock on the door with flowers, put your jacket on, put you in the car.
	But now it's like, okay, with, let's say, all these dating apps, it's like you don't know who's on there for what.
	It's not like you met Sally at church in your hometown and there's only a couple hot girls, so you're going to pick Sally.
	And give Sally the flowers, and Sally doesn't have, like, you know, your options are more limited, so you have a higher chance of success in pulling Sally in and, you know, making her your wife or whatever.
	So I think also society, being in a big city, also Miami, dating is probably horrible, thank God I'm not in that situation now.
	I don't know, big city, New York, Milan, it's just, it's a mess because there's a lot of people, a lot of demand, and people aren't getting what they want, and they're being picky.
	This is simple, man.
	A guy and a girl meet.
	There's a battle going on.
	It sounds crazy, but it's a battle.
	They're trying to see what they can get for at least the amount of upfront value.
	That's sad.
	I know it's sad, but it's reality.
	So what's happening here is that when I bring the flowers up front, I'm giving my power away right away.
	Yeah.
	Versus we talk, we connect, we vibe, we actually have a connection where we speak one-on-one.
	There's no type of value up front.
	I can see real-time, alright, what's her about?
	What's her mindset like?
	What's she about?
	Is she cool?
	Then from there, she earns the right to say, you know what?
	Damn, she's worth it.
	I'm going to invest in her as well.
	And vice versa.
	So it makes sense.
	Let me ask real quick.
	Do you think chivalry is dead?
	No.
	Okay.
	That's a problem.
	Do you think chivalry's dead?
	You said women don't appreciate chivalry like they did 60 or 70 years ago.
	Do you think it's dead?
	What are you talking about?
	I'm asking you.
	Were you alive 60 or 70 years ago?
	Just answer the question.
	We got grandparents and uncles.
	They can tell us, bro.
	What the hell?
	Hey, grandson.
	Is it okay?
	They're basing it off movies.
	Yeah, like, what do you mean?
	Women don't appreciate chivalry.
	Yeah, we have, like, relatives.
	Like, we have relatives that, like, damn, y'all niggas have it hard out here.
	Like, what the hell?
	That's crazy.
	I mean, like, things are for sure different.
	And, like, I think, yeah, like, things are hard for everybody.
	But, like, people saying they don't appreciate chivalry.
	Do you think chivalry is dead?
	Yes or no?
	Hold on, hold on.
	You're the only fans, right?
	Yeah.
	Your fans themselves.
	Would you ever date any of them?
	Sure.
	Absolutely.
	Keep it a thousand.
	So why are you not doing it?
	I'm so non-judgmental.
	My shit is not...
	I'm based on if I like somebody and we have a spark and I understand you and all that.
	You said if you have a spark.
	If you have a spark.
	I would date any of my...
	Exactly.
	That's why dating is special to me.
	So why are you single then?
	I'm like...
	Bruh!
	You can't, man.
	Come on.
	Maybe I lied.
	Maybe I'm not single.
	Alright, man.
	We can move on.
	Do you think Chauvin is dead?
	Yes or no?
	That was the question.
	I don't even know how you got into it. - 10 hours later.
	Do you think Chauvin is dead?
	Yes or no?
	20 hours later.
	Can you please answer the question?
	Blue screen.
	What the fuck?
	Grace, answer the question.
	Me?
	I already did.
	No, you didn't.
	I swear they don't want me to talk anymore.
	I'm literally asking you, do you think Shiver is dead, yes or no?
	No, I'm asking you.
	Do I think Shiver is dead?
	No.
	I'll be Shiverous to you right now.
	Awesome.
	So, your first date, you better come up with flowers for that man.
	I'm super down.
	Okay, cool.
	I'll hold you to it.
	Tell me, okay?
	Okay.
	You think chivalry is dead?
	It's rare.
	You think it's rare?
	Yeah.
	I appreciate chivalry, but it's on live support.
	But be honest.
	What if you don't like the guy?
	What's the honesty?
	Sorry.
	So, the question is, first date, you know what?
	Let me feel this guy out.
	Comes with flowers.
	You don't like him like that.
	Oh.
	Be honest.
	That's ill.
	Keep it real.
	No, I would appreciate the flowers.
	I would just tell them that I'm not interested afterwards, but I appreciate the date.
	I'm lucky if a guy pays for a date.
	The day is rough.
	I'm going to be honest.
	Oh, for real?
	Oh, yeah.
	Damn.
	Super woke.
	There's some people that come up and try to drink your drink because they don't want to buy their own.
	What the fuck?
	Shout out to California.
	That's crazy, bro.
	Shout out to San Francisco.
	Hey, y'all want equality.
	There you go.
	Shit in the streets and everything.
	Newsom fucked y'all up.
	What about you?
	Do you think Chivalry is dead?
	No.
	Okay.
	Because my fans.
	I love my fans.
	I know you do.
	Have you ever dated a fan?
	Multiple, yes.
	Really?
	Yeah.
	Where'd they now?
	Gone.
	Well, my ex was a fan.
	Really?
	That's your ex.
	Yes.
	Wait, hold on, hold on.
	Hold on, hold on.
	So he's paying you OnlyFans first and then you went out with him?
	Well, I met him in person.
	I didn't know he was a fan.
	Man, she's capping to sell a dream to her fans.
	He was a fan, and even after we broke up, he was still a fan.
	Wait, hold on.
	Did he show you his actual account, or did he just say, I'm a fan?
	He did?
	Yeah, he was liking my stuff and all that stuff.
	Is he still subscribed?
	I should ask him, but he was subscribed like months after we broke up.
	What?
	What about you?
	What about you?
	They can't believe it, but it happened.
	I think I agree with her.
	I think it's just rare.
	What about you?
	Do you think Chivalry's dead?
	No.
	No?
	Okay.
	What about you?
	In my opinion, no.
	It's not dead for the women who are deserving of it and who give off that energy.
	But do most women deserve showery?
	No.
	In Miami, no.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	She's smart with answers, man.
	Okay.
	Interesting.
	All right.
	Okay, we got some ratings here.
	I'll ask one last question.
	If you were a man in 2023 dating in a major city, would you bring flowers on a first date?
	Yes or no?
	No, because there's very little chance of a second date.
	You don't know the person.
	You don't know the person, and if you're on dating apps, you might have a lot of dates, so you want to save it for the special person.
	What about you?
	No.
	I think no, I'll do it on the first second.
	Just after hearing y'all point of view.
	Oh, you do it on the second, you said?
	What about you?
	Would you bring flowers on the first date?
	Maybe the second date.
	Third date.
	What about you?
	No, I'm guarded.
	So you're not bringing the flowers?
	You changed your mind?
	No, I have my walls up.
	What?
	She's a comedian, bro.
	That's right.
	This is so funny.
	Now you get it.
	My answer is no.
	No, you wouldn't?
	Damn, y'all changed your minds.
	Just my little...
	But you know what's funny?
	If they knew the guy was buying flowers for every girl, they would never appreciate it.
	It wouldn't be special anymore.
	It wouldn't stand out.
	He's doing this with everyone.
	Bro, I'm not saying you should.
	I'm saying you can.
	He said you should!
	It went from should to can now.
	I'm not saying you should, but if you feel a spark, bro...
	Shut up, bitch!
	What the fuck, Chris?
	You can.
	That shit went deep, dog.
	Clone school!
	Alright, do you have anything?
	Go ahead.
	You want to finish your thought?
	Go ahead.
	Okay.
	That was a random...
	No, it wasn't.
	It wasn't directed at me because it seemed like...
	Nah, it was.
	It was for a clown in the room.
	Chris didn't direct it at you, but if you want to finish your thought, go ahead.
	So maybe, no, I shouldn't.
	Because I swear I just heard a, shut up, bitch.
	So maybe I thought...
	So you don't want to finish?
	Was it a shut up bitch or not?
	Don't mind him.
	Yeah, don't worry about Chris.
	Go ahead and finish.
	We want to hear you.
	Do you want me to talk or do you want to say shut up bitch?
	Okay, never mind.
	I want you to finish.
	Never mind.
	I want you to finish.
	Okay, Chris.
	I'm going to try to if you don't talk.
	Hey, we don't talk that fish!
	Yo.
	Yo, holy shit, man.
	Oh, man.
	The more you talk.
	She's the definition of women are to be seen and not heard.
	Just honestly kick me out.
	No, man.
	Captain Time says...
	Go ahead.
	Where are we at?
	Question, ladies.
	What is something you think men do when they lie?
	Like, what reason or why men lie?
	Something you think men do when they lie.
	Alright, we can start with Miramar.
	What is it?
	What's something you think men do when they lie?
	Okay.
	What do they do when they lie?
	Like a mannerism?
	And what is the reason?
	I guess like an action or like a reason behind why they lie.
	I feel like when they lying...
	They, like, trip over their words.
	They start stuttering a lot.
	Okay.
	Like Frush?
	Like Chris?
	And I feel like...
	And I feel like they lie.
	I feel like they lie because they don't want to mess up what they got going on, so they try to just keep it under wraps.
	You know what I mean?
	Okay.
	Thanks.
	Frush be lying.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Like you, nigga.
	They swear on their mama.
	All right.
	I swear on my mama.
	I ain't lying.
	Bro, you look at me.
	Okay.
	She been out with some niggas.
	Throw it back on me.
	You don't see no white dudes.
	I swear at my mom.
	Like, it's niggas that say that shit.
	I swear at my mama.
	I'm right, huh?
	Okay, why do they lie then?
	No.
	Yeah, no, but I'm asking you, why do they lie?
	Why do they lie?
	You displayed how they lie and then why do they lie?
	Oh, because they don't want to get caught, probably.
	Okay.
	Why does anybody lie?
	They don't want to answer for what they did.
	Yeah, it's easier.
	Okay, what about you?
	What do they do?
	I would say avoid eye contact.
	Okay.
	It's a big one.
	When they're talking to you and then...
	Why do they lie?
	So there's two parts of it.
	I think, one, yes, because they don't want to get caught, but two, I think some men lie about things, they omit truth, but women view that as lying, and it's just because they want to keep the peace in a relationship, and they're like, I don't want to, like, I'm not going to start a fire in my house, kind of thing.
	What is the biggest truth that's omitted, in your opinion?
	Maybe, like, A female co-worker invited him to lunch at work or something like that.
	Like an omission of that.
	You know what I mean?
	They're going to be like, how was your work?
	It was good.
	Okay.
	But women consider that lying, but men don't consider it.
	Omission is something that I think men would argue about.
	That's what girls do all the time.
	All right.
	No, we tell you what we had for lunch.
	We tell you what we argued with our co-workers.
	We tell you everything.
	You don't mention what a guy asked you before lunch.
	Oh, no.
	I'm going to tell you.
	Typically.
	Yeah, typically.
	What about you?
	What is one way that guys lie and then why do they lie?
	I'm going to be honest, sometimes I fall for the lies.
	I'm kind of gullible.
	Kinda?
	Kinda.
	But I feel like they just lie because they don't want to get caught.
	Okay.
	What is one way that they lie then?
	One way that they lie.
	I love you.
	Like a physical display.
	She was saying stuttering, lack of eye contact on my mama.
	Damn.
	You're the best in the world.
	I feel like they got them all.
	What was that?
	They got them all, yeah.
	You really are gullible.
	You can't think of anything else.
	Okay.
	Fantastic.
	What about you?
	The way they lie, they don't really answer the question.
	You know, they try to, like, float around it.
	And why?
	I would say why.
	The same thing.
	You know, they probably don't want to tell the whole truth or they don't want to lose out on whatever they got going on.
	They want both.
	Okay.
	Whatever.
	All right.
	What about you, Ms.
	Pru?
	I've seen guys that pick their notes.
	Not like pick their notes, but like scratch their notes.
	That's actually a show when you lie.
	And they lie because they lie to themselves.
	Oh damn.
	That's kind of deep.
	Pause.
	Alright.
	Alright, for me, it's maybe deflecting or turning it back on you and being like, oh, well, you're just being paranoid.
	I mean, I've never had, like, maybe when I was 18, I had my first boyfriend, he probably lied about a few things, but I don't have that experience of, like, suspecting that my boyfriend's lying.
	Like, I don't have that worry.
	Alright, and so why do you think they lie then?
	So deflecting is an action, and then why do you think they lie?
	They don't want to hurt your feelings.
	Okay.
	That segues perfectly into my next question, actually.
	Do you think women can handle the truth?
	We can start here and then work our way.
	Do you think women can actually handle the truth?
	It depends the truth, like according to what?
	About what men really think?
	How men really behave and act.
	I feel like they have to get warmed up to the situation and certain ones will be able to accept it and others won't because they just want to deny it.
	Because it feels better to deny it.
	Do you think most women can handle the truth though?
	Most, no.
	No?
	Okay.
	Do you think women can handle the truth?
	Oh.
	It's you.
	Oh, yeah, yeah.
	It's your goal.
	You.
	Oh, just wait until I ask you the question.
	Okay, you want to use the bathroom?
	Okay, yeah, yeah.
	Let me just...
	Yeah, let me just answer the question.
	Yeah, answer the question.
	Okay, sorry.
	Do you think Muslims can handle the truth?
	I mean, I wouldn't say most.
	There's women that handle the truth.
	There's men that handle the truth.
	There's women that don't.
	So, not most?
	Okay.
	Can you handle the truth?
	I can't.
	I like the truth, yes.
	Interesting.
	I can't say most because I don't know most, but I think some can because I can personally.
	And I've been in a situation where I wanted the whole truth because I knew what it was and he just wanted to give it to me.
	I've always just wanted only the truth.
	Can your friends handle the truth?
	Your friends, honestly?
	Like, yeah, bitch, I'm about to cheat on your ass.
	Nah, uh, yeah.
	Yeah.
	Really?
	Mm-hmm, for the most part, yeah.
	Because the people I hang around, just from what I know.
	All right.
	I'm going to give you guys the truth here in a second, but I just want to get the question.
	All right.
	Do you think most of them can handle the truth?
	I think so, yeah.
	I think so?
	I can handle the truth, too.
	You think you can?
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Go ahead, I know you got to...
	I'm your number one fan.
	Just try to be fast.
	I'm a fan, too.
	Yeah, shit, man.
	Yeah, right.
	All right.
	What about you?
	It depends on the person.
	I think women like a...
	What's the word?
	I think women like a softened version of the truth.
	So not the real truth.
	Not, like, yeah.
	So softened version.
	Yeah.
	I like the truth.
	That's how I was raised.
	What about you?
	Do you think most women can handle the truth?
	Personally, I think it's subjective, not objective.
	For me, I don't care what I want to hear.
	I want to hear what I need to hear.
	So, lady, you got it.
	Nah, I said, I don't care what I want to hear.
	Tell me what I need to hear, which is the truth.
	Being on OnlyFans is going to significantly reduce your ability to find a man to take you seriously for some type of long-term relationship and your chances of getting a marriage with a man that you will actually be attracted to and aroused by simultaneously have been diminished.
	Crazy, right?
	I know I have to live my life knowing that and trying to find a partner is more of a challenge for me and I hope it works out.
	Right?
	Did you go to clown school to kind of laugh at the circumstances?
	Okay.
	Fair enough.
	Yeah, I did.
	You did?
	Okay.
	100%.
	My turn.
	Hey, I'm doing pretty good.
	All right.
	My answer...
	Yeah.
	Do you think most of them can handle the truth?
	I'm going to say it depends on the woman, but me personally, I'm going to say no.
	Because I don't want the truth.
	Just...
	I'ma just say...
	I'ma just say...
	Only girl keeping it real in the fucking battle right now.
	No, to be honest, I'ma say...
	Because I already peeped.
	Like, you know, I could tell what's going on already.
	So you don't got to tell me that.
	Right.
	Don't tell me that because my feelings are going to be hurt.
	So...
	Tell me you.
	Just, you know, be respectful about it.
	Don't just blatantly do it in my face.
	But me...
	Don't tell me that.
	So I agree.
	Because to be honest, men can't handle the truth either.
	It's just like, like I said before, people know what's going on.
	Nobody's dumb.
	Everybody knows what's going on.
	Everybody have intuition.
	Everybody know actions like, yeah, I've seen this before.
	So you don't have to say out your mouth, oh yeah, I'm about to do this.
	Because I'm going to take it as, oh, you're being disrespectful now.
	You don't have to tell me that.
	You could have just kept that to yourself.
	So I'm going to say no.
	So, last podcast, we mentioned how guys should, like, approach girls, for example, of cheating or, for example, just telling them what it is.
	And I mentioned before that I don't really say what I do.
	I just do.
	And she's going to pick it up.
	Okay.
	It's already moving.
	So, I move accordingly.
	Right.
	That's it.
	That's exactly what goes on.
	She's going to know what's up.
	Nobody have to say blatantly out your mouth.
	Yeah.
	I'm gonna take that as a disrespect.
	Oh yeah, that's why I'm about to do this.
	I'm about to cheat on you.
	And what you gonna say?
	Oh, I was being honest.
	You don't have to tell me that.
	But, Kia, you gotta remember, in the aspect of truth, if we're having a conversation and I'm asking you, don't sit and lie in my face.
	That's one, respectful and just being an honest person.
	It depends on the circumstance of if y'all sitting down, having a conversation.
	Or if you're just talking about it.
	No, but it depends if the guy smashed or not.
	So, if I didn't smash it, I'm gonna lie.
	Y'all gonna lie regardless, but I'm just saying, my answer is no.
	Can't believe it.
	Okay.
	Don't tell me that.
	Alright, so some of you guys said some can, some of you said no, some of you said you think so, some of you said soft truth, whatever.
	Okay, what if I told you this?
	This is the truth.
	I want to have sex with as many girls as I can.
	I expect you to stay loyal at all times.
	I don't want you to be on Instagram showing your body all over the internet.
	I don't want you talking to other guys.
	I don't want you to have guy friends.
	I don't want you girls nights out.
	I don't want you dressing like a whore unless I'm present.
	And I don't want you to do anything that's going to embarrass me and our relationship in the future.
	I expect you to be fully loyal while I can go ahead and pick and choose When I'm with other women.
	Are you okay with that?
	No.
	You?
	We gotta figure it out.
	I respect the fact you're honest, but I wouldn't date you for that.
	But I would respect it.
	No, I'm not dating.
	No.
	The part about sleeping with a woman, no.
	The dressing part and other stuff is fine.
	Congratulations.
	Now you guys know why men lie to women.
	Well, I'm down.
	There you go.
	What did I just say?
	Here we go.
	Here we go.
	You trying to say every man wants that?
	I lined up 100 dudes.
	Mm-hmm.
	Right?
	And I said, yo, you can have as many girls as you want.
	Your chick's going to still be loyal to you.
	You're not going to have no problems.
	They would say, abso-fucking-lutely.
	Every man is going to agree with that.
	If most men can say, I'm not, if there's no consequences, you're not going to be, yeah, most guys, they're going to have it.
	Here's the difference between men and women, right?
	Men, we're realistic.
	We understand that human beings are way more alike than they're different.
	Women on some other hand, you guys all think that you're fucking different.
	Like 2 Chainz.
	Like all these shits think that they're special and they're different.
	No, y'all are all very similar.
	So men, we're very similar.
	We're very simple.
	Y'all very similar.
	Thank you!
	So since we're very simple, we're all very alike.
	If I lined up 100 dudes, 90 of them would go ahead with the option to have multiple women and have a girl that's loyal to them.
	Hold on, hold on.
	You know what they're saying, right?
	You know what they're saying, men are dogs?
	We agree, because we understand.
	But I feel like every man don't want that.
	Some men really like just one woman.
	Like, I just love my girl and that's it.
	I'm not going to do all that extra stuff.
	Men are only as faithful as their options.
	95% of the time.
	Are there guys out there that will be monogamous no matter what?
	Of course.
	That's only if he's like with me, right?
	Nah, like with me, I haven't been out there, did my thing or whatever.
	I've been out there doing my thing or whatever.
	So now it's like, I don't need to do that.
	But if you take most guys who haven't gotten out of his system, they're going to take that up.
	To be honest with you, most men...
	Can I see the study, the paperwork, the files, the charts?
	Where are you getting this from?
	Because it's biology.
	Your experience?
	No, it's biology.
	Men, since the beginning of time, have always wanted variety.
	Pull up the graph.
	Show me the source.
	Show me the chart.
	How about this?
	I want to see the facts.
	Where are you getting this from?
	Hold on, let's look at your OnlyFans.
	Why are men subscribed to your OnlyFans?
	Look at my OnlyFans.
	Why are men subscribed to your OnlyFans?
	Everybody, look at my OnlyFans.
	Answer the question.
	Why are men subscribed to your OnlyFans?
	I don't know.
	They like it.
	I do a good job.
	I'm entertaining.
	Let me answer the real question.
	It's because men are visual and they want variety and they like different types of women.
	Okay?
	So, men, there's two types of guys.
	There's guys that satisfy that need through pornography and then there's guys that satisfy that need through real females.
	The reality is most men can't do it through most females, so they do it through pornography.
	Right.
	Or hookers.
	There's two types of guys.
	But if given a choice, and they can do it for real, they will do it for real.
	I feel like they only do that...
	I don't think that.
	I think that's way more complicated.
	I feel like they only do that when they don't have the person they actually want.
	Like, you know how when you got somebody that you actually want, they fine, they this, they funny, they got the full package.
	You're not looking at nobody else.
	You're going to say, oh, my girl, the best thing.
	I like that you mentioned that.
	Not when a guy's younger.
	No.
	If you got a guy who's 40 and...
	You don't think so?
	I know so.
	So you think a 26-year-old, he could see this girl be like, she got everything that I want, I need, I like.
	He's not looking at nobody else.
	Yes, he is.
	You crazy if you think that.
	Huh?
	If he have options, he gonna...
	Okay, but then why think like...
	You think so?
	If you're gonna think like that, how are you ever gonna really find your person?
	If you think like that.
	If you think like what?
	If you think like...
	If I'm gonna walk around thinking every dude I talk to is just probably gonna cheat on me, I'm never gonna...
	Let me ask you a better question.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Let me get the ladies' mindsets.
	Do you think you can sexually satisfy a man by yourself?
	By myself, yeah.
	Do you think you can sexually satisfy a man by yourself?
	Wow.
	Do you think you can sexually satisfy a man by yourself?
	Yes?
	Me and my homegirl.
	Do you think you can sexually satisfy a man by yourself?
	I'm confident, yeah.
	You?
	If I know what the man likes, yes.
	Okay.
	Fair enough, yeah.
	Okay, there you go.
	There's your answer.
	There's your answer.
	That tells you why their mindset starts out.
	Look at how baffled they are.
	What?
	What are you trying to make by that?
	Because you mentioned a man can't love his girl and love other women.
	You said a 26-year-old man.
	You said a 26-year-old man.
	If a woman was sexually everything, a 26-year-old man.
	He wouldn't look elsewhere.
	That's crazy.
	Why not?
	Now, maybe a 40-year-old man whose testosterone levels are declining.
	If she was everything that he wanted up and down, he would have been like, yo, my girl is...
	Hold on.
	Let me just stop real quick.
	There's one thing that you can't do.
	You can't provide variety.
	Don't matter how many wigs you wear.
	Costumes, don't matter.
	You're not going to be able to provide variety.
	Is that what they want, variety?
	I'm going to be honest with y'all.
	I'm going to be honest with y'all.
	It was one day I was at a party, right?
	I think it was Halloween party.
	Okay.
	And I was outside and I said, dang, he fine, he fine.
	Keep finding her.
	And then I said to myself, I said, dang, I see why men be doing this.
	I get what y'all trying to say, but I feel like when it comes to relationships and you emotionally attached to somebody, you're not going to do, like, you're not going to, oh, let me try this, let me try this.
	You're projecting, though.
	You think that men think like you.
	They don't.
	Men don't think like you.
	I'm just trying to give an example, like, Oh, I see ten fine men right here.
	All of them look good.
	But are you going to fuck them?
	No!
	That's the point.
	But y'all would, is what you trying to say.
	That's the difference.
	You got to think.
	You got to think.
	He may be thinking, well, I could do this.
	I might not get caught.
	It's all type of shit that go into this.
	How's she going to know?
	It's just going to be one night.
	I'm going to just hit it.
	I ain't going to never call her again.
	A 26-year-old man is going to take that up.
	45-year-old man that got a family and shit to lose, maybe.
	He'll take twice.
	A 26-year-old man who can, will.
	You said it earlier.
	Men chase you, right?
	Because they come approach you when you walk in the street.
	So if he's chasing you head over heels for you, why do they cheat?
	Think about it.
	I'm not trying to discredit your opinion because I think you're probably right.
	But what makes you feel like that you're the voice for all men?
	Just because you know your friends and you know other guys.
	You know how many men I coach and talk to.
	I swear when I ask you this, I'm not trying to discredit your opinion at all.
	I'm super just curious.
	What if it's my profession that I deal with men on a day-to-day?
	No, of Of course.
	That's why I'm asking you, like, tell me.
	So I didn't know it was your profession.
	Like, tell me more.
	I'm asking you this because I'm super curious.
	I'm not trying to, like...
	So you got anecdotal and professional evidence from him.
	I'm going to tell you it's a fact because men...
	How much sperm can we release in a day?
	I don't know.
	Tell me.
	The point I'm trying to make is...
	Men have 10 times the testosterone as women.
	Men are far more hornier than women.
	And men would have sex with most women versus most women would not have sex with most men.
	You understand?
	So since most men would have sex with most women, guys just have a natural inclination to be more open with who they have sex with.
	And men want variety.
	That's why guys are okay with, yo, I'll get an Asian girl, a black girl, a white girl, blah, blah, blah.
	Right.
	Like, men are way more open.
	It's definitely impossible to suppress that.
	You can't pregnant for nine months.
	We can't pregnant many women in one day.
	So y'all think it's like a boredom thing?
	No, it's biology.
	It's biology.
	It's not boredom.
	If women were less loose, they would have less success.
	So if women just, like, didn't have one-night stands, they would have a lower success rate.
	So, also, it's our fault, too.
	We already have a lawyer.
	How do we get on women?
	No, I'm just saying, if they can just go have a one-night stand with a girl at a party...
	She's right, though.
	We give access to our bodies.
	So, if we stop giving easy access, they're going to have less opportunity to do that.
	So, why would you say it's not boredom, though?
	Why would y'all say it's not boredom?
	Because I got this homeboy.
	He said that when they have a girlfriend, like, okay, the girlfriend could be everything they want.
	But to them, their girlfriend become regular.
	Like, oh, I got her already.
	Like, whatever.
	Like, I already know how this is.
	So let me go try something else.
	It's called post-nut clarity.
	Well, not only that.
	It's a girlfriend, not post-nut clarity.
	That's just somebody like...
	Oh, go ahead, Dre.
	Go ahead, Dre.
	It's not necessarily boredom, but it's like a...
	You need something new type thing?
	No, it's not even conscious.
	It's like you dig it hard like 50 times a day when you're 26 years old.
	I got a better way to describe this for them because the women here are a little, no offense, you guys are kind of dense when it comes to this because you guys are not men.
	How about this?
	Let's say you're with a guy, right?
	And you guys are about to hook up.
	It's a guy that you're dating that you're seeing, right?
	And he fingers you and he gets you all hot and shit and he's about to put it in.
	Then he says, you know what?
	Gotta go.
	Puts his pants on and leaves.
	And just leaves you hung and dry like that.
	And you're like, what the fuck?
	I'm horny.
	I'm like, I want to go.
	Imagine being like that.
	24 fucking 7.
	21 years old.
	Hold on, hold on.
	No, no, no.
	Ladies, I need you all to listen.
	Like, burn that into your brain.
	Guy that you're about to hook up with, that you're really aroused by, he has you wet and ready to go.
	Fingered you in everything.
	And then he says, oh, sorry, gotta go to work.
	Puts on his pants, walks out the fucking house.
	And you're sitting there, blue vagina-ed, I guess.
	Imagine being like that, 24 fucking 7.
	Yeah, blue waffle.
	Think about that.
	That's how you guys are?
	That's how men are feeling all the time.
	Why?
	I live it, you know.
	That sounds like it sucks.
	Okay, so men live like that 24-7.
	Alright?
	Think about it.
	Why do we sit there and hang out with dumb bimbos that don't have anything smart to say on a date?
	Why do we spend ridiculous amounts of money to take you out to dinner?
	Why do we go ahead and do a really boring conversation with you guys?
	Why do we hang out with you guys when we don't feel like it?
	Guys want sex that bad, well they will sit there and do a female that they don't like.
	Men will go ahead and hang out with girls they don't fucking like for sexual access.
	Women don't do it the other way around.
	They'll even pay you for the idea of it.
	Virtually.
	Niggas pay you to look at you naked.
	Think about that.
	Come on!
	What the hell?
	You guys literally can make a living off of men wanting variety.
	Thank you guys.
	I'm trying to display the male sex drive for you guys so you can understand.
	So imagine, you literally got left fingered and nothing else.
	But that's why we help them.
	That's not the point.
	The point I'm trying to illustrate here is why men want to have other women.
	You don't think women are as horny?
	No.
	Look it up.
	Look it up.
	Please look it up right now.
	They're not.
	No, women are, but we suppress it.
	That's the thing.
	I just told you a fact.
	Women have one-tenth of testosterone as men.
	You said it's a fact.
	Even the horniest women.
	Stop.
	Even the horniest women don't come close to a guy that is not that horny.
	Google it.
	So, women want sex too?
	Maybe the HOs be a little bit more horny because they have more testosterone because they're doing things that they shouldn't be doing it.
	Google it.
	Right now.
	So, then, you know, maybe, but I don't think normal, regular women are horny all day.
	You know what?
	I think we should do right now to figure it out.
	We should Google it.
	We should find out the scientific shit behind this to see if we're more horny or less.
	We have a link tree.
	Google it.
	Why not, right?
	We have all the access to all the information about who's horny or who's not horny.
	Be quiet for two seconds.
	I have a book.
	It's called Why Women Deserve Less.
	I actually researched this shit, so I know what the fuck I'm talking about.
	Who wrote it?
	I did.
	I'm going to shut up.
	What?
	Sex rates?
	Yeah, I wrote a book, Why Women Deserve Less.
	You wrote that?
	Yes.
	Why are you so negative?
	So we're gonna Google it or we're not gonna...
	No, go ahead, read it.
	Negative about what?
	About women.
	Why do we deserve less?
	There's a bunch of reasons why you guys deserve less.
	No, go ahead, read it.
	I'm hornier.
	But you're not.
	I know, but...
	I am!
	There's a bunch of reasons why, but the point I'm trying to make here is that sex rates between gay and lesbian couples are revealing.
	Gay couples have sex about 6.5 times more frequently than lesbians, indicating women's interest in sex at only 15% of that of men.
	Testosterone levels can also be used to measure sex drive, putting women's interest in sex at only 6.7% of that of men's.
	Proxy measures such as porn or consumption by gender show women consume only 1 25th the porn of men.
	Hmm, interesting.
	Only 20% of prostitutes are men, suggesting that only had 20% interest in sex.
	And an infamous 1970 study by Dr.
	Russell Clark showed women had zero interest in sex when bluntly propositioned.
	So in other words...
	If a guy comes up to you and says, hey, let's fuck, you're more than likely gonna say no.
	But if it was the other way around, a girl bluntly propositions a guy, hey, let's fuck, and she's mildly attractive, he's gonna say yes.
	So women are not nearly as horny as men.
	Even if you're trying to use yourself as an example, I'm horny!
	Do you fuck every guy you talk to that's hot?
	Hopefully not.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Do you fuck every guy that you talk to that's hot?
	I barely ever see a hot guy.
	That's the point.
	Exactly.
	Just hold out, man.
	Hold out, bro.
	Stupid.
	I just feel like, why do we deserve less?
	Just because we're less horny?
	Somebody bring me my book.
	There's a multitude of reasons why women deserve less.
	And the book in the cover, right?
	You know what?
	Read the book.
	Read the book.
	You can see it on the panel, man.
	And the cover real fast.
	I'm going to write a book why men deserve less.
	Okay, perfect.
	On the book, right?
	I got money, then I got rings for marriage, then I got social media, and then I got time.
	And the reason why I say that is because, and I talk about it in general, women have changed significantly, and most girls don't deserve the things that you used to give to women 50, 60, 70 years ago.
	Since women are independent, they behave in a different way because of feminism, and I tell guys, hey, you need to pick the right girl, not just any girl.
	So, and I go into detail.
	I just feel like y'all just been going after people that y'all don't even like.
	Because if you like somebody, you're not thinking of all this, what y'all talking about.
	But what do you mean by it goes both ways?
	Whatever you just said, it goes both ways.
	So you're like...
	Are men taking money from women and social media attention and rings?
	I know you are.
	What am I? It doesn't go both ways at all.
	You?
	No, it doesn't.
	I know you are, but what am I? You're a vampire?
	Women don't invest nearly as much resources into men that men invest in women.
	On average, probably not, but there are women that do.
	There's very few and far between, though.
	Okay, but that doesn't mean that we deserve less.
	I didn't say we deserve less.
	There's a science behind it, though.
	No, no, no.
	They do deserve less.
	Most of them deserve less.
	Well, with all due respect, you're a sex worker, so yes, you do deserve less.
	That's the reality.
	Fast money comes with slow problems, and one of those is that if you decide to go into certain professions, you might not deserve a certain caliber of guy.
	That's just what it is.
	It's tough out here.
	Maybe y'all just talking to girls y'all don't like.
	Are you single?
	What do you mean?
	Am I single?
	Yeah.
	That's an interesting question that you asked.
	Are you single?
	Because we're both single, so it's like, does the profession matter?
	No, but it's different.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Is a single man the same as a single woman?
	We're both single.
	No.
	Okay, let me ask you this.
	Do you control who fucks?
	Yeah, right?
	Like a guy can't have sex with you unless you like him, right?
	And you tell him, yeah, we can fuck with him.
	Well, yeah, my body, my choice.
	Fantastic.
	If it was the other way around, what is it then?
	No, no, no.
	You're right.
	It is your body, your choice.
	Guess what?
	My ring, my choice.
	I pick who gets a relationship.
	Me too.
	No, you don't.
	My own life.
	Men pick you.
	Right?
	Men are the ones that give relationships and security.
	Women are the ones that give sex.
	So, for you to sit there and say, oh, are you in a relationship?
	That's like me asking, do you fuck guys?
	You can fuck any guy that you want.
	Well, I could commit to any girl that I want.
	I would just ask if you had a girlfriend.
	Simple question.
	It's not the correct question to ask because we give different commodities.
	What you should be asking is, can you fuck girls?
	And I'd be like, oh yeah, maybe.
	But that's like me asking you, do you fuck guys?
	You'd be like, well, I can, because it's what I give out.
	You can't try to ask me about something that I give out.
	I give out the relationships.
	You're selective on who you fuck, right?
	Yeah, so are you.
	No, I'm selective on who I give a relationship to.
	That's the difference.
	So women are not selective on who we are.
	But to answer your question, I do have a girlfriend.
	Yes, to answer your question, I do.
	But it's an open relationship.
	I can do what I want, and she's close on her end.
	Yeah, so I see what you tried to do there.
	This is what women do.
	Shame.
	You'll prove them wrong, and then they'll try to shame you.
	Do you even have a girlfriend?
	Why is she closed and why are you open?
	Because I'm a man.
	It's their arrangement, so they can do what they want to do.
	You don't have to do that.
	They can do it if they're happy.
	I think that's just what people do in general.
	Because open relationships with women never work.
	Your girl can't go out there and fuck other people.
	It doesn't work.
	See, I fuck other girls, and I appreciate my girl even more.
	But if you fuck other guys, you're gonna go ahead and probably lose attachment to your guy.
	Men and women are not the same.
	New point there.
	There you go.
	So look, ladies, if there's a guy, right, and he's like a player, he's community dick or whatever y'all call it, do you think he deserves a good, loyal woman?
	No.
	Yo.
	Do you think he deserves a good, loyal woman who's going to stay faithful and look after him and all that?
	No, he's not going to be loyal to her.
	Huh?
	He's not going to be loyal to her.
	What about you?
	Yeah, because she can change him.
	Oh, no.
	We got to be better than that.
	What about you?
	I'm trolling.
	I'm sorry.
	It depends on their dynamic.
	Like, in your situation, your girl knows what you do and she accepts that.
	Like, I think that's your guys' relationship.
	That's your choice.
	Well, you think a guy...
	Let's say if I was a guy.
	Not where I have an arrangement where...
	Not where I have an arrangement where it's like, okay, we're going to do this shit, agree.
	But if I'm a guy slaying wood out in the community and whatever, playing on women, do I deserve a good lawyer woman?
	I just want to know.
	No.
	No?
	I feel like everybody deserves that, but at the same time, if you out here just giving it up, you can't expect somebody to be just willing to give it up like that.
	What about you?
	The same.
	No.
	What about you?
	Not off backs, right?
	Damn.
	What about you?
	I said no.
	No.
	Oh, so let me ask you.
	Does a sex worker...
	I knew he was going with this.
	I already knew that.
	I already knew that.
	Go ahead, finish.
	Because they asked me this earlier.
	Does a woman who's like a sex worker or a stripper, do you think she deserves love and a good man?
	Of course.
	Everybody does.
	We're human beings, too.
	We're human beings, too, who deserve love, too.
	Who deserve love, too.
	Answer it.
	He got you.
	He got you.
	I already knew he was going to say this.
	Do she deserve a nice, loving relationship?
	A good man.
	A good man.
	Maybe he don't care about that.
	Oh, maybe he don't care.
	Crazy.
	Interesting.
	What about you?
	I think every person deserves love.
	They get all fucking communal and I know, why are you guys being such haters?
	I don't know, y'all just...
	How are we hating?
	Let's answer the question.
	We don't deserve love.
	Why?
	Well, you just said a second ago a player doesn't deserve a good woman, right?
	Let people have love.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Or loyalty.
	Did you say a second ago that a player doesn't deserve a good...
	His question was, if they're a community dick, does he deserve a loyal woman?
	Yeah, and you said no.
	Okay, so by your logic then, because a community guy doesn't deserve a good woman, then a community woman doesn't deserve a good man, right?
	By your own logic.
	But didn't you say that men and women are not the same, so why should that be equal?
	Oh, good point.
	And I'm going to answer that here in a second.
	You think you got something there?
	No, no, no, no.
	I'm going to explain here in a second why.
	The math is not mathing.
	No, the math does math here in a second.
	I'm going to explain.
	But by your own standard, you're saying that it's...
	It's different, though.
	Oh, now it's different.
	- A loving relationship is like what he was asking.
	- No, I asked what I asked.
	- Loyalty and loving.
	- Swing in that dick.
	- Can we all finish giving our own opinions?
	- Yeah, what about you?
	You didn't get to give yours.
	I think everyone deserves love, but I'll say you get what you give.
	And it's very interesting to see the women's answers on this one, because we have two girls on the panel that are involved in sex work, so they're gonna give pussy answers.
	What about you?
	You think yes?
	Okay.
	Contradicts your logic, but okay.
	Everybody deserves love, right?
	That's the question?
	Everyone deserves love.
	No, no, no.
	Does a sex worker, female sex worker, deserve a good man who's going to love her, protect, all that shit?
	Yeah.
	Does she deserve that?
	Yes.
	Yes, because she's human.
	Exactly.
	So Community Dick doesn't deserve love, though.
	No, I didn't say that.
	I said he should.
	Oh, you said he should.
	Yeah, I said he should.
	What about you?
	Yes.
	But community penis can't get well done.
	It's two different things.
	It's the same thing.
	If the woman is working, that's her job.
	If you're a community dick, then you're just fucking around because you want to fuck around having a loyal woman.
	Okay, I have a question for you on that one.
	Do you think it's easy for men to get sex?
	To certain.
	Well, we went on the panel.
	Most of the women here said they reject most men that talk to them, correct?
	Correct.
	There's going to be somebody that give it to him.
	You really think so?
	There's always somebody who's going to bust it open.
	What if I told you that women are pretty similar in what they look for in guys, and if a guy struggles with one girl, there's probably a good chance that he might struggle with five, then he might struggle with ten, might struggle with a bunch.
	There's going to be somebody that give it to him.
	It might not be the girl he want, but somebody...
	That's a very female way of thinking.
	Tell that to all the niggas that watch Korn and watch OnlyFans.
	Somebody that give it to him.
	Any man that's in a relationship or got women that's satisfying him, pretty much ain't watching porn like that.
	Somebody gonna give it to him.
	I don't know if that's true.
	So you said no because he's giving out community dick, but do you think it's easy for men to give out community dick, as you're saying?
	It's different.
	What was the question?
	Do you think it's easy for men to get sex from women?
	To certain, like I said.
	You said what?
	Certain.
	Certain men.
	Do you think most men it's easy or hard?
	No, I wouldn't say most.
	You think for most men it's not easy or you're saying most men it's hard?
	Or it's easy or hard for most men?
	Yeah, for most men.
	It's easy or hard for most men?
	Certain men get it easy, certain men don't.
	I just think that there's a lot of generalization going on here that I don't usually do.
	I don't stand with generalization, so that's why I maintain it.
	But the world works in generalizations.
	- I don't. - I don't. - That's how the world works. - Your world. - Your world. - Your perception of the world is a reflection of what's within.
	- Planet Earth, hold on, hold on.
	See, this is the difference between-- - Planet Earth.
	- Look, look, look.
	The world operates on generalities, okay?
	For example, when you go to the bathroom, even though they're trying to be crazy about it, there's typically a men's bathroom and a women's bathroom, right?
	Because in general, there's two genders, right?
	Despite clown world or whatever they're trying to say, there's two genders.
	In general, most people have two legs and walk, right?
	So we have stairs for people to be there.
	There's handicapped every now and then, but that's not the general, so we don't have handicapped railings, everything.
	So the world operates on generalities, right?
	There's umbrella everywhere because most people can see, correct?
	So I get that you're like, this is offensive because this is a general conversation, but the world works on generalities.
	That's how it goes.
	Most people are right-handed, right?
	So therefore, when they make guns, they make most guns right-handed because most people are right-handed.
	So that's in general.
	But if you're left-handed, you get a scholarship.
	Stupid!
	Alright, you gotta limit the low IQ comments.
	Look it up!
	So anyway, back to what I was saying, as far as, so do you think a majority of men struggle to get sex, or not?
	Yes.
	Okay, so, by definition that means it's difficult for most men to get sex, so is it really hard to give out community dick?
	Because you're trying to equate the two.
	Like that giving out community dick is the same as being a female and being a sex worker.
	Which one is harder?
	A guy that's good with women and has a bunch of girls and able to give...
	What I wanted to say is that if a man per se, if a man is a sex worker, it's like saying that the man doesn't deserve love.
	The man also deserves love.
	But if you're a community dick or a community pussy, then you're not...
	Well, he didn't say the man's a sex worker.
	He just said he's out here smashing girls.
	That's what I'm saying.
	Like, it's two different things that you're comparing.
	But what makes them different?
	She's saying one's getting paid.
	That when you have a loyal...
	One is like a profession.
	That's what she's saying.
	That's what she's saying.
	That's her argument.
	Okay.
	Let me ask you a better question.
	Is it easier for a woman to be a sex worker or for a man to get sex?
	I would say for a woman to be a sex worker.
	So, wouldn't it be fair to say that when things are easier, they're not respected?
	Correct.
	Okay, so by that logic, that is why a guy that can go out and have sex with a bunch of women is not the same as a female sex worker.
	By your own logic.
	You just admitted it.
	Okay.
	I think that's an opinion, but...
	What about you?
	Hold on, hold on.
	Wait.
	No, it's an absolute fact.
	Is it easier for a girl to be a sex worker or for a man to have sex with girls?
	Absolute fact.
	It's easier for a girl to be a sex worker.
	So, therefore, it is not respected.
	I mean, look, we just gotta have the comfortable conversation.
	Uncomfortable conversation.
	Why have prostitutes and sex workers and porn stars etc been in mind since the beginning of time?
	Because female promiscuity has never been respected because it's easy.
	Whereas men that have a bunch of women are respected.
	Look at guys like Dan Buzarian, the Tate brothers, etc.
	Guys that have a bunch of women, right?
	Hugh Hefner, etc.
	They got a bunch of girls.
	That's not hard to do.
	Sorry, that's not easy to do.
	So it's respected.
	But no one gives a fuck about the bitches that are there.
	They care about the guy because he's able to get the girls.
	And clubs and everything.
	Back in the old days, kings had many women and wives.
	They had the resources.
	Now the guys who are able to access a lot of women are the ones who have the resources.
	And is it easy to get resources?
	No.
	No, it's very hard.
	That is why men that can get a bunch of women are respected and women that are sex workers are not.
	It's very simple.
	I know you ladies don't like to hear that because it's female empowerment and yeah, we're special and we deserve the world.
	No, you fucking don't.
	If you get into certain professions, you don't deserve the world.
	You put yourself in a box.
	Congratulations.
	That's where it is.
	I don't think that it's not really that they don't deserve the world.
	No, you don't deserve to damage a guy.
	Like, you get a good guy, he don't deserve that.
	So because she's a sex worker, that means she's gonna damage the guy that she dates?
	So hold on, you're a guy, right?
	I'm what?
	No, you're a guy, I said.
	You're a man.
	You love him, right?
	You love your guy, right?
	Would you want him to date a sex worker?
	Would you want him to date a sex worker?
	Oh, would I want to date a sex worker?
	Him, him.
	Would you want him to date a sex worker?
	Be honest.
	He's dating me, no.
	But why though?
	Why?
	Because he's dating me!
	It wasn't dating you.
	Oh, okay.
	And you still love and care for him.
	Let's say maybe your son.
	Should he date a sex worker?
	Be honest.
	If that was like my son, Fran, whatever, I mean, I wouldn't want him to because like we say, the profession is not respected.
	Let's call it what it is.
	The profession is not respected.
	No, I've been said that.
	I've been said that from the get-go.
	The profession is not respected.
	But my point is that...
	No matter the profession, as a human, as a person, if this girl wants to say that she wants to go find a man that loves her and whatever she wants, she does deserve that.
	And if a nigga, I don't know if I say that, but if a man wants that and he does that, he can do the same.
	It's just there are people and everybody deserves love.
	Do you think that people who are not doing good things deserve the right to damage people?
	But see, good things is an opinion.
	That's the kind of opinion they do.
	Generally speaking, men are not okay with their women showing their bodies, having sex.
	It makes them feel bad.
	So what I'm saying is it does emotional damage to men, whether you like it or not.
	You're a woman.
	People having access to your woman does extreme emotional damage to men.
	So what I'm asking is, do you feel that...
	So does a lot of things, though.
	One second.
	Let me finish real quick.
	With that being said, do you think a person deserves the right to damage another person?
	No.
	But that's the thing, though, because to you, that's damaging.
	But to most men...
	A lot of this conversation could be made with that.
	Generally speaking...
	And what happens to them?
	Generally speaking.
	Even the guys who don't mind, they do mind.
	They just give in.
	To everything.
	No.
	Unless a dude making money off you...
	You got a lot of nerve to talk about the way you view someone else being damaging to them.
	It is emotionally damaging to a man.
	But that's to you.
	I know, but don't you think the way that we're having conversation at this table and you're putting certain things on them is emotionally damaging?
	No offense, right?
	It's your show.
	You're talking about your opinion, but how you are, don't you think that could be emotionally damaging to put somebody else out there?
	Wait, did you say a second ago, I want to hear what I need to hear?
	Did you say that earlier?
	I think about 17 minutes ago.
	This isn't personal to me.
	No, no, no.
	You literally said, I hear what I need to hear.
	I'm telling you the truth.
	It's not personal to me at all.
	It is emotionally damaging to a man.
	Most men.
	I know about the emotionally damaging conversation.
	Emotionally damaging to a man for people to have access to his woman.
	Now, even the guys who accept it, they just give in.
	And the only guys who don't, who do accept it, they either the pimping or they don't care about you.
	Yep.
	He said it.
	So, what I'm asking again, is it, is a woman who will emotionally damage her man, does she have, does she deserve the right to do that?
	Do you think that's intentional?
	Who gives a fuck about intentions?
	We talking about what happens, like the outcome.
	I don't know, I'm just curious.
	I don't know.
	It's intentional.
	If you have a man and you give your body to somebody else, you didn't slip up and just like, oh shit.
	So do you think that people do that with intentions?
	Hold up.
	Hold up.
	Just make it matter to the man who don't want that.
	And then the man who do one.
	You get what I'm trying to say?
	Like...
	If the man want it, you want it.
	And if you don't, just don't go for that type of girl.
	Just go for what you want.
	Don't go for her.
	If she's not what you want, don't go for her.
	I'm all for that.
	I'm all for that.
	I just want to know.
	Because we have this thing to where it's like men are somehow zombies.
	Like, we don't feel shit.
	We don't go through emotional pain.
	We don't get damaged by shit.
	And it's just like, oh, well, you got to accept that.
	I'm going to show my titties.
	That's no problem.
	No, no, no, no.
	I feel like men kind of put that kind of stereotype on themselves.
	But I just asked y'all.
	I just asked y'all.
	I just asked y'all.
	Does a woman who's doing sex work deserve a man who's going to treat her right now?
	Y'all said yes.
	No, they don't.
	I said no.
	I haven't answered it, by the way.
	I haven't answered it.
	I say no because if they're doing that at the moment, they're giving men access to see their bodies.
	They're selling their bodies.
	So you shouldn't be dating anyone.
	That's my opinion.
	If you want to try to date after, do that.
	But I think it's equal.
	It goes both ways.
	Question for you.
	If they stop while you're dating them, right?
	It's the internet forever.
	Yeah, it's there forever.
	So you have to know that your kids are going to see it.
	So regardless, it's still going to be there.
	It's still going to be there.
	But I'm just saying, for sure at that moment when you're doing it and you're making money off of it, no, I don't think any guy would be okay with that.
	I wouldn't.
	You were going to say something?
	I don't really think it's like anyone else's place to tell someone how they find their happiness or not.
	Okay.
	So the past doesn't matter?
	If it doesn't affect them.
	No.
	The past doesn't matter?
	No.
	I'm saying like another person living their life, I shouldn't get to tell them why they get to be happy or not if it's not affecting someone else.
	If it's not affecting me.
	I don't think that it's another person who is like viewing shit from the sidelines to tell someone that they don't deserve happiness.
	Mm-hmm.
	So, are you saying that, like, okay, what you did in the past doesn't matter.
	You deserve happiness regardless?
	No, I'm saying that if I see someone maybe not doing something that I understand or that I agree with, that I get to tell them that they don't deserve happiness.
	I'm saying, like, I don't think...
	So you have to earn happiness.
	I don't think that anyone here can answer the question as to, like, how another person should, like, get to be happy in their life.
	It's interesting how when we asked if Community Dick deserves a loyal girl...
	A lot of you were very quick to say, no, he does not deserve a loyal woman.
	But when we flipped the script and said, yo, does a girl that's involved with sex work deserve a dutiful, loyal man?
	You guys were like, yes.
	So I find it interesting how for women, they don't feel like they need to earn their man.
	That's not what I'm telling you right now.
	I didn't say that.
	You gave a troll answer before.
	You don't even remember what you said.
	Let's say your friend was about to enter a bad relationship with somebody.
	Would you lie to them or tell them the truth?
	Hey, this person's bad for you.
	Just so you know.
	I don't even think that I would fully be able to know or not because I'm not them.
	But you know they have a bad past.
	You know that you're a great person.
	How about that?
	From their past.
	I would do the best I can, but I don't think it's my responsibility to decide.
	That's your friend, though.
	That's your friend, though.
	So what?
	It's not my responsibility to figure out someone else's life and for them.
	That's crazy.
	Let me ask you a question, then.
	Hold on, hold on.
	How about this?
	Let's say you were with a guy for two, three years, and you liked them, and you're like, damn, this might go somewhere.
	But you find out that he did gay porn before, and he sucks some dicks.
	Would you stay with him?
	Yeah.
	Hold on, I'm asking her.
	I don't know, honestly.
	This is something that depends how I feel.
	Do we have chemistry?
	Yeah, you got some chemistry.
	It's a possibility.
	You think it's a possibility?
	Yeah, it's a hypothetical situation.
	I never lived through it, so I can't tell you for sure.
	Alright, but it'd make you question some things, right?
	Of course.
	But doesn't he deserve happiness with you?
	He deserves happiness in his life.
	It might not be with me.
	No, but that's the key to the happiness is being with you.
	No one should ever rely on someone else for their key to happiness.
	So you're telling me his actions directly affected his ability to get happy?
	No, I'm saying no one should ever rely on someone else to feel happy.
	No, but you see my point that I'm trying to make here?
	Is that actions have consequences.
	And sometimes you relinquish your ability to pursue happiness from bad decisions.
	His happiness was with you, but now it's being questioned because he made a bad decision.
	Your happiness being with someone else is already where it's a problem.
	This is why women be making bad decisions.
	You think your happiness should rely on someone else?
	We could talk about men too, but a lot of women, and I'm saying this because you're a woman and I'm just speaking, right?
	A lot of women, they don't fucking psych meds, half crazy nowadays because they make bad decisions.
	Happiness, you have to earn happiness.
	Happiness is a luxury.
	You don't just get to wake up, do bad shit, fuck whoever you want to fuck, take drugs.
	It don't work like that.
	Why not?
	It don't work like that.
	You don't get to dictate other people's happiness.
	Did it go?
	The problem is when you make bad choices sometimes, it can really affect you.
	Who cares?
	You don't get to dictate other people's happiness.
	Focus on your own happiness.
	Who cares if someone else is happy or not?
	If you're going, you could dip right now.
	Your IG is off the description.
	She got triggered.
	The cam?
	It is with us.
	Yeah, she got sugar, man.
	But yeah, you don't just get to wake up and just be happy.
	You have to earn your happiness.
	If that was the case, we'd all stay in bed all day, eat sugar, eat cake and shit.
	But what if somebody did?
	What?
	Like, what if you knew somebody who just woke up and you were happy?
	I don't know nobody like that.
	I do.
	Okay.
	I don't get it either.
	I don't know why she's like that.
	Happiness is just like a choice.
	Like, you're right.
	You do have to earn your own happiness.
	You have to work for that.
	You have to wake up every day and be like, I'm going to be happy today or I'm going to do whatever, you know, brings me this joy.
	You have to choose that because if you just wake up just in a nasty mood, how you going to get out of that?
	You need to tell yourself that.
	I'd rather more people in the world wake up and be happy and not bother me than people wake up and be mad and I have to fucking talk to them or bump into them in the street and it's a problem for me.
	I don't understand it either, but I do know some people who that's how they view their life and I admire that.
	I don't want to tell anyone why they do or don't get to be happy.
	All I want to worry about is how to be the best happy I can.
	Everyone has a right to live their own life, and if you choose to do that route, that is your choice.
	You're in a country where you have the blessing that you can do that, make your money, do your thing.
	It's just saying be mindful that there might be consequences of most men are not going to like that.
	And if you can say that and say, okay, that's going to impact my selection of who a future mate is, and maybe you don't want a future mate, and that's perfectly fine, too.
	It's just saying be mindful of the fact that there are things out there.
	The things that are hard in life are the things that are respected.
	Of course.
	And, you know, like, some people you might want to tell to be mindful, you're assuming that they're not.
	Right.
	Most people aren't.
	I would argue a lot of young, especially young people because of TikTok and all these different social medias, it's easy to make money and they don't think about the future.
	I think a lot of people are in the industry that you're trying to remind them of the consequences are very aware of that and that's something they deal with every day.
	Yeah.
	Well, and that's the thing.
	It comes with the territory.
	I have friends that do these things, and that's their choice, and they recognize that.
	Hold on.
	See, here's the thing.
	You're aware of the consequences, but you're not going to experience the full brunt of the consequences until you get older.
	But why does it matter?
	It's all good and dandy when you're in your 20s and it's like, oh, this is awesome.
	Like, I'm traveling and guys want me and this is awesome.
	Like, look, your friend can't even handle the truth.
	She's walking out right now.
	Oh, shit, I better get her.
	Yeah, well, yeah, I don't know.
	I think she's butthurt about the truth.
	But the reality is if it wasn't so painful and so taboo, she would not be wanting to leave.
	But she's very uncomfortable in the conversation because we're telling the truth.
	Yo, you get in a certain profession, you're going to inhibit your ability to find a man that's going to take you seriously.
	That's of some real consequences.
	and attraction.
	The only guys that are going to go for you are going to be simps.
	We can lie to you, but the truth is it's a fact.
	That's what it is.
	Source?
	Source for what?
	Life.
	In particular.
	Source for what?
	Yeah, I know you are.
	So, what happened, Chris?
	If she's going back on, she has to apologize.
	Oh, she's changed her mind?
	No, honestly, bro, I can be.
	I'm sorry.
	Listen, I'm going to do some answer question.
	That's what it is.
	What's the deal, Chris?
	Honestly, I need to not run my mouth.
	There's some, like, chaos going on in the back.
	She got emotional.
	She left.
	I said she was leaving.
	Yeah, that wasn't even that tough, bro.
	Damn.
	And this bitch had to leave, too.
	Get him off, man.
	It's fine.
	I mean, that's it.
	Show goes on.
	Yeah, like, yo, like, ladies, just so y'all know, you can't just, like, walk off the show and think it's gonna be all good and shit like that.
	Like, if your feelings are triggered or whatever...
	Hey, it is what it is.
	But, I mean, if you're gonna just, like, go off and shit, like, I don't know.
	Chris, what are you saying?
	Hey, listen, she has to apologize, man.
	If she wants to come back on, she gotta apologize?
	Yep.
	Alright, yeah.
	If you want to come back on, you gotta apologize for disrupting the show.
	Show goes on.
	Huh?
	You gotta do it on camera.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Get back on the set.
	Come back on and apologize for being fucking crybabies.
	Take a deep breath.
	We have real conversations on this podcast.
	Here's the thing.
	Let me make this explicitly clear for y'all real quick.
	Women tend to be not appreciative of certain things.
	This is a big ass podcast.
	Probably the biggest podcast you're going to be on.
	Y'all are fucking nobodies at the end of the day and you're here as an opportunity and it's a privilege for you to be here.
	It's not a right.
	It's not, you know, entitlement.
	I know you guys live life on easy mode, being on OnlyFans with Simpsons, shit like that.
	But you're on the Fresh Fit Podcast, so if you're going to come on our show, you got to respect the rules.
	Now, I'm not really familiar with what went down a second ago, but Chris is saying if you apologize, you come back on, that's fine.
	But you go ahead, I'll just turn it to you.
	And also, just once again, guys, we could lie to you all day.
	We can tell you the truth.
	It is what it is.
	This ain't some sucker podcast we're going to sit here and simp on you and tell you, oh, you're a sex worker, great.
	Nah, man, that shit's a L. So if you don't like the truth, it is what it is.
	You're free to walk off any time.
	But if you want to come back on and Chris giving you the privilege, because I'll be honest with y'all, normally I'll be like, get the fuck out of here.
	We don't give a fuck what y'all say because we already got a platform.
	It's an opportunity for you to be here, right?
	So go ahead.
	You got something you want to say?
	I wanted to say that I'm sorry for getting up and leaving.
	I just got too sensitive, and I am a crybaby sometimes, but I'm gonna put my feelings aside and continue.
	Alright, cool.
	Just don't walk off.
	That's it.
	Yeah.
	Cool.
	And then you?
	Oh, me?
	Yeah.
	I was just making sure she was okay.
	Yeah, I don't know about that.
	It seemed like you wanted to walk off, too.
	No, I was just checking on her.
	Oh, well, you gotta apologize, Will.
	I do?
	Yeah.
	For what?
	For walking off.
	For walking off.
	I wasn't like, oh, screw this podcast.
	I just seen my friend was in a little bit of distress and I went to check on her.
	Bruh, apologize or just get kicked off the show.
	Because I'll be honest with you.
	If Chris didn't say, yo, I'll give him a chance, I would have been like, yo, I'll get the fuck out of here.
	You didn't see that.
	I wasn't like...
	This is enough for negotiation.
	It's an apology or not.
	Wait, if I get kicked off the show, what happens?
	I told you before the show.
	Are you gonna like rip me out my seat?
	I won't invite you.
	The niggas will DM you for like a month and then they'll forget about you, okay?
	Wait, tell me one more time.
	Sorry.
	You know what?
	How about this?
	Just get the fuck out of here, bro.
	Just get the fuck out of here, man.
	Seriously.
	Just get up.
	What?
	Just get out of here, bro.
	You set your homegirl up like that.
	She was the bigger person apologizing.
	Sorry, I'm like all mad.
	Just get up and leave.
	That's crazy, bro.
	Just get up and leave.
	Just get up and leave.
	We have girls in the studio.
	Just get up and leave.
	This ain't your crib.
	Just get out.
	Grace.
	Wow, bro.
	This is a Florida.
	This is a stand-your-ground state, man.
	You trespass now.
	Get out.
	So should I stand my ground or I shouldn't stand my ground?
	You should not.
	You should not.
	This ain't California.
	This ain't California.
	Get up and leave.
	Grace, come on.
	Get up and leave.
	They're kicking you off, love.
	You made her politics and everything.
	I made her.
	Yeah, no, she good.
	You get up and leave.
	What if I tell you I'm sorry?
	No, you good.
	We gave a chance to do that earlier.
	Get out, man.
	Get out.
	I wasn't going to.
	Get out.
	We're different over here, man.
	I can tell.
	Like I said before, you're lucky Chris is feeling nice today.
	I would have told Bocha how to get off, but Chris was like, you know what?
	If you apologize, you come back on.
	She's here, but you just get out.
	We ain't no damn sentence, bro.
	Anyhow, show goes on.
	She's never been told no in her life, you can tell.
	It's sure ridiculous.
	Don't touch me, bro.
	I could've hang around a dude who wouldn't take one for the team.
	Fucking ridiculous.
	If I would've did that, and my homie just...
	The bait, man.
	Fucking weirdos, man.
	Crazy, bro.
	Fucking weirdos.
	Yeah.
	Anyway, welcome to Pressure Fit, niggas.
	Welcome back.
	Yo, what the hell?
	Show goes on.
	These fucking crazy-ass chicks, man.
	Anyway.
	Yeah, Dre, did you have anything?
	Or did someone say something?
	I forgot.
	A lot just happened.
	I kind of got confused too.
	I don't know.
	Talk about happiness.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Okay.
	Shout out to ladies in the back handling that bullshit.
	Othon goes...
	Ladies, listen to the guys that stopped being 304s, but you won't...
	All you need...
	You all need Jesus.
	For a number one men's podcast, God bless you all.
	Got the best crew in the game.
	I appreciate that, Othon.
	Yeah.
	Let's see here.
	You're committed?
	Yeah.
	Get that fresh.
	My BF of seven years wants to fuck or receive head on a daily.
	We have a nine-month-old at home, and sometimes I'm just not in the mood or tired.
	It creates an argument almost every time if I don't abide.
	What do I do?
	I feel like every day is not realistic.
	So, he's asking, sorry, she's asking, her boyfriend wants to have sex or get had, basically, on a daily.
	But she doesn't want to do that, and she's tired sometimes.
	Let him get some other girls.
	I could, I could.
	That or, you know, be smart.
	Like, I mean...
	Because, you know, you ain't going to feel like fucking every day, but sometimes you got to sacrifice.
	Like, I don't feel like going to work today.
	Like, I don't feel like paying all these fucking bills by myself.
	I don't feel like taking out the trash.
	Sometimes I want to let the trash.
	I don't feel like telling you you're beautiful, even though you look like a rockhead.
	I don't, you know, so sometimes you have to sacrifice.
	Now you can be smart.
	Like, you know, if you want some sex, just trick him a little bit.
	Give him a massage and rub his feet and, you know, massage him to sleep and boom, you're good.
	You know, just, it's, you gotta sacrifice though.
	You know, but you gotta take care of your man.
	You gotta take care of your man.
	There's a saying, if you don't please him, someone else will.
	Alright, what do we got here?
	Question for ladies.
	How is it easy for y'all to submit in the bedroom but But not outside the bedroom.
	Oh, okay, okay.
	Yeah, that's true, man.
	Rhetorical.
	Well, I'll tell you, man, you just gotta put your foot down.
	Like, I'll be honest, like, that girl right there, give out an example, that's a chick that's never been told no in her life.
	Like, you could tell just from her behaviors, like, rambunctiousness.
	You know trolling all this other shit like she has no idea of authority or respect or hierarchies like just behaving like that.
	She normally should have been gone a while ago.
	But we're respectful here you know.
	Yeah.
	So bro you just got to really to get girls to submit you got to be able to put your foot down to tell them like this is not your house this is not how this shit goes and the thing is especially with girls like that like you really got to be on your P's and Q's man.
	So, what do we got here?
	Just realize it's Scrum Master Girl from Access Vegas.
	She's pretty cool.
	FYI, Scrum Master is a female-dominated position.
	Who's that?
	Who the fuck is Scrum Master?
	He's talking about me.
	I was on Access Vegas.
	Oh, okay.
	I need to get my certification.
	I said, I'm not a Scrum Master.
	It's a project management cert.
	Oh, okay.
	Schwarzenegger says, to the lady in red, why are you here?
	What do you get out of being here that them boys send you?
	I was invited.
	I'm here for Art Fazzle.
	Okay, there you go.
	I don't know.
	I think...
	I would like to say that I hope I offer a different perspective or opinion, and I know my opinion doesn't mean shit on this podcast, to be honest, and I'm okay with that, too.
	Like, I'm not...
	I'm not mad, but, like...
	Misogony!
	I'll put it this way.
	I do think a lot of girls are...
	Who told you that?
	No, no.
	Thank you for coming, by the way.
	No, but, like...
	But it's also one of those things, like...
	Because of the environment that I work in and a lot of things like that, I feel bad for a lot of guys who are the good guy that do bring the flowers.
	And I like to keep it real.
	I respect it.
	And I think more girls need to tell other girls the truth about what they do.
	So, like, you're in your 20s, you're young, you've made the decisions that you have, and you probably make bank for doing it.
	And it's an easy job in that sense, and that is fine.
	But it is, you probably don't have a lot of experiences where you're around people that say, hey, this isn't forever, and you have to be okay with the choices.
	Like, again, I have friends that do it.
	I have friends that are dominatrix- All different types of sex work.
	They're about to hit their 40s, and they're realizing, hey, my life isn't what it was in my 20s.
	Like, someone that I know wants to adopt, and she can't because of her job.
	They won't give her.
	Like, you don't think about that.
	So it's like, even if a girl says, hey, I don't need a man, or I can find a man.
	You can find a man.
	It's probably not going to be someone you want, though.
	That's the difference.
	You can find a man.
	That's never a problem.
	Is it the guy that you want?
	And if you say, hey, I don't need a man.
	I can raise kids on my own.
	I can do it.
	You have to think about things like that.
	And I don't think a lot of other girls talk about that.
	I think that's a real thing.
	I'm here to tell the truth is what it is, you know?
	Okay.
	Cool.
	Question.
	Did your friend that was here, did she like get you into it?
	OF? How'd y'all meet?
	We met through a mutual friend, but I was already doing OnlyFans when I met her.
	Oh, Sawyer.
	Sawyer's hope for her.
	Well, no, because she's significantly older than you.
	She's like in her late 20s, in your 23.
	Yeah.
	And how long have you been doing it?
	Four years.
	Going on to five.
	Oh shit, you start at 19?
	Yeah.
	Pre-COVID. Okay.
	Island paper.
	Yeah, he goes, can women and men be friends?
	Well, let me answer.
	If you show up drunk, A, looking fine, and kiss your friend on the neck until you want to smash, see what happens.
	But if a dude did that to his friend, he'd probably go to the hospital with a broken face.
	Okay, I see what you mean.
	Yeah, that would make him gay.
	We got here.
	I like this guest.
	You should bring him on more often.
	He's adding a lot of insight to the subject matter of your show instead of degrading the quality like some of your others.
	Glad to spend 20 on the chat instead of going out here in West Palm.
	Yeah, it is what it is, man.
	Thank you so much, and thanks for joining us.
	We got, what, almost 20,000 y'all watching right now between YouTube and Rumble.
	At least you know me.
	What do we got here?
	The only way from Iron to Castle the next girl to fresh is to tell her E.T. go home.
	Too late, my friend.
	Too late.
	Cobalt.
	Yeah.
	And you know what's funny?
	Chris, you want to know a sign?
	What?
	I knew she wouldn't apologize.
	Yeah.
	I knew it.
	Like, I said that, and I was like, nah, you gotta apologize too, knowing she wasn't gonna do it.
	Like, bro, I read her from the beginning.
	I was like, yo, this is an entitled-ass bitch.
	Like, she's not gonna say shit.
	No one's ever told her no.
	No one's ever told her shut up.
	Like, she thinks she's, like, you know, special and shit.
	She ain't gonna say it.
	Her pride is too high.
	So I knew she wasn't gonna do it.
	I'm not glad.
	She was kind of funny.
	She was funny.
	She was kind of funny.
	She was kind of funny.
	You know what's funny, right?
	She was annoying funny.
	The girl in the red, she warned me.
	She was like downstairs, she's like, yo, Chris, nice to meet you, but this girl downstairs, she's a little off.
	I'm like, what's the girl?
	I was like, you'll see in a bit.
	You'll see in a bit.
	Oh, man.
	Bless her soul, man.
	Bless her soul.
	Yeah, but I knew it.
	Like, when I said, yo, you got a podcast, I knew that she was going to be like, no.
	I knew she was going to be like, no.
	Fresh Mario told me, wait till the show goes, you know, goes live before your friend castle.
	Oh, you want to kick her off before?
	Thank you, sir.
	No, I mean, I wanted to see what she was about, but I was like, fuck it, man.
	Okay, Chris.
	It's Tracer, man.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Thanks, Chris.
	I appreciate it.
	Bro, these...
	What the hell?
	I said, fuck these hoes.
	Oh, let's talk about...
	An Italian?
	Oh!
	Nah, nah.
	Nah, bro.
	Not today.
	Go on my Twitter, bro.
	Unplug FedEx.
	I talk about that shit over there.
	He got you.
	I have certain beliefs and my family is in politics.
	I'm heavily against this...
	What?
	Oh, shit.
	But my family is Italian leaders and also supporting such and such.
	I made enough money to step away, but it sucks.
	I don't want my name associated with them.
	Yeah!
	He's one of them boys?
	Something like that.
	Oh.
	Hey bro, there's charities you could donate to.
	There's charities you could donate to.
	The best kind of coochie is new coochie.
	Face it, ladies.
	After we smash you the first few times, your box gets boring and we want new pussy.
	Put your egos to the side and face the reality that you alone aren't that special and that most men want variety.
	I don't know, man.
	I mean, I think all the girls here said they could sexually please their man by themselves.
	So, have any of you guys ever been cheated on by a guy?
	Yeah?
	Yeah?
	Actually, yeah, that's why you get back.
	Actually, to my knowledge, no.
	To your knowledge.
	To my knowledge.
	Okay, so you don't know.
	Got it.
	No, I've asked, and they told me no.
	They could be lying.
	They would never tell you yes.
	I'm just saying.
	So, if your guys, if all your, if boyfriends have cheated on you before, don't you think that, like, Bro, we're the same, bro.
	We almost are the same, man.
	Yo, we're the same.
	We're telling you guys the truth, man.
	The only difference between...
	Okay, I'm just going to give it a thousand.
	A rich guy will tell you to your face, yo, I'm going to fuck other bitches.
	Take it or leave it.
	A regular dude will lie so he can keep you there.
	That's really the only difference.
	The more money you have, the more you can afford to be honest with chicks.
	Because then they got to pick and choose like, damn, all right, he's going to go out and fuck other girls, but he takes care of me and he's attractive.
	Alright, I'll look the other way.
	And that's what they do nowadays.
	I literally just seen a girl on the podcast saying that as long as the dude paying the rent and doing all that, she don't care what he do.
	Because they're going to cheat either way.
	Yeah.
	Unless they're a good Christian man.
	Oh wait, that's a general statement.
	Come on, man.
	Come on, it's general.
	Come on, come on, man.
	I'm getting in the mood with y'all.
	Why are you generalizing?
	Why are you generalizing?
	We're all special.
	Who aren't you, man?
	Who aren't you, bro?
	Come on, man.
	Fuck, man.
	See, now she's like, oh, men?
	We can generalize for niggas, man.
	We can generalize for niggas, man.
	Men deserve less.
	Oh, man.
	Here's the thing.
	I'm super critical on guys, too.
	A lot of niggas are bums and don't deserve a chick.
	But my thing is this.
	We can openly shit on men and nobody cares.
	It's just that no one criticizes women.
	I think we're way harder on men to become better men.
	For you guys, by the way.
	We're big on like, you should pay for the first date, you gotta be a leader, you gotta have your shit together, you gotta be able to provide for your girl, she should work electively, etc.
	Don't be lazy, work hard.
	My thing is, most women don't deserve that treatment.
	That's my argument.
	I'm saying like, okay, I'm a traditional man.
	I'm gonna protect, I'm gonna provide, I'm gonna do all this for you.
	But, are you a traditional woman?
	Hopefully you are.
	I don't think it's a fair trade if I'm going to be a traditional man and provide all this shit and you're not a traditional woman.
	That's how I look at it.
	We got these new feminazi women, feminist women.
	I'm strong and independent.
	I don't need no nigga.
	They say dumb shit like that.
	When women say they're independent, who are they saying they're independent of?
	Men, right?
	So it's like...
	We all need each other, bro.
	Yeah.
	Bro, I'm gonna start to go around saying I'm strong and independent.
	See how many girls I can get.
	I'm strong and independent, man.
	Champion Poppy.
	All right.
	Go ahead.
	He says, I'm never fucking you, so take that out of your plans.
	I'm gunna all you niggas till the ring is on my hand.
	Then I search your name, find you on the gram click, the link tree, and see you sucking dick on the cam.
	What the fuck?
	That's a trick line.
	That's a trick line.
	That's the Drake line, yeah.
	Oh, shit, man.
	Okay.
	Drake!
	Drake!
	Oh, no.
	Secret Asian man.
	Question for ladies.
	On any one of your past one-night stands, what do two or three things that the man do say or help make you feel for you to let him smash that first night?
	Bro, they ain't gonna admit that shit, nigga.
	Come on, man.
	Yeah, they won't.
	You must be new here.
	I just watched a vid on the Fresh Prince CEO when you guys went to see the new studio, and I'm like, poor Bills, bro.
	He is getting demolished by two fat black orangutans.
	Then Mo had to do the arm thing for more room.
	Yo, get this.
	We're in the backseat of the Range Rover, and it's not that big.
	Yo, I'm sorry, Mo.
	You and Chris, when you get in, bro, Bills is struggling.
	Yeah, y'all niggas fat as fuck.
	I was surprised I fit, though.
	He fit!
	That was amazing.
	Roll ratings.
	From Prince to Fit.
	Kaya, 2.
	Clown, 6.
	Siri, 5.5.
	Guanaka, 6.5.
	Tier Annie, 3.5.
	Constant...
	Cuntstin, 6.5, and Isabella, 5.
	Is that this way?
	Yeah, so he gave Kaya, and then he gave the clown girl, and then Siri, 5.5.
	Guanaka, okay, was the crybaby.
	And then Tyranny, 3.5.
	Cuntstin, 6.5.
	And then Isabella, 5.
	You guys agree with those ratings?
	Okay, you guys are all 10s out of 10s?
	No, not a 10.
	There's always room for improvement.
	Okay, what do you rate yourself?
	1 to 10.
	10 being perfect.
	8.
	Okay, what about you, Peru?
	I would say 6, 7.
	Alright, what do you rate yourself?
	1 to 10.
	9.
	Oh my god.
	9?
	Okay.
	Don't worry, you're fine.
	We'll fix that.
	What about you?
	Earlier I said 7.
	You gave yourself a 7?
	What about you?
	7, 8.
	8?
	I'll say I'm at 8.
	Okay.
	Fair enough.
	Here, run the show while I deal with this TV in the back.
	No comment.
	Okay.
	Worst Generation says, in middle school, I would get mad at all the girls in relationships because I always wanted a relationship in middle school, but I knew I had no chance.
	But now, I can't stop laughing.
	Now I see the funny part.
	After age 25, women expire.
	Okay.
	Freshers' ball.
	Oh, God.
	What are you doing after the show?
	We would like to take you out to dinner and get to know you better.
	Then take you back to the crib and rigorously clap your cheeks while you say freshest name in pleasure.
	Big homie's ready to put in his tension anaconda to work.
	Alright, Jon.
	Yeah!
	Don't mind him.
	Don't mind him.
	Get him fresh!
	Dixie, you can probably save this one for later on in the show.
	When the girls have had a chance to know each other and ask them if they were old like milk and had a son...
	What girl on the panel would she want her son to marry?
	And who she wouldn't want her son to marry based on what they know about each other?
	So you're saying in a nutshell, if you had a son, who in here would you want them to marry, basically?
	And who you wouldn't?
	So I guess we can start here.
	So if you had a son, who should he marry in here based on what you know about them?
	And who shouldn't he marry?
	In here.
	Yeah, here.
	Right now.
	Based on what I know.
	So one person he should marry and one person he shouldn't marry.
	He should not marry OnlyFans, girl.
	Okay, and who should he marry?
	And he should marry...
	Pam.
	I don't know your name.
	Isabella.
	Okay.
	She just gave me a relationship, girl.
	I don't know.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Not a clown school.
	Okay.
	So not your friend?
	Not a clown school.
	Okay.
	And I was going to say you, too, because you sound like you take care of your man.
	Oh, wow.
	What about you?
	Who should you marry?
	You're not married.
	I don't know, but I would marry her.
	Okay.
	Your son.
	I would make my son marry her.
	And then?
	I'm not married.
	I don't want to be mean.
	I don't know.
	Just say, you know.
	You like the truth, right?
	You gotta be honest.
	Your friend?
	No.
	Okay, who?
	I would say her.
	He shouldn't marry her?
	Yeah.
	Damn.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I would say not marry the clown school girl.
	Okay.
	And then marry her.
	You just seem like, you know, you're just going to do whatever her man won't.
	Wow.
	And for you?
	Yes.
	Wouldn't marry clown girl.
	And she just seems like she's very in touch with her emotional intelligence.
	Define emotional intelligence.
	Okay.
	Emotional intelligence is when you are in tune with your emotions like you know how to process them you know what emotion you're feeling you can be vulnerable and talk about how you feel openly and yeah I mean that's pretty much emotional intelligence you know you can handle your emotions you know how to process them you can handle other people's emotions okay and last but not least what about you?
	I wouldn't want him sorry I wouldn't want him to marry the girl with the yellow top who left and wouldn't apologize because that's not a good character.
	And is your name Alexa?
	Yes, you.
	Okay, Dre, what about you, bro?
	For your son?
	The girl that left, she out.
	And then...
	It's either her or her.
	Probably her.
	They're the two least damaged ones based on their...
	Current status?
	Yeah, based on what they've been through, you know, people who haven't been damaged typically feel better in relationships, so it'll probably be her or her.
	Okay, that's fair.
	Missogony!
	Alright, next one.
	Bills?
	Yeah, Myron and Chris are here fixing the broken TV. Okay, ICSite2 says, WKingDre, well, he looked like the type of dude who gets offended when you ask him about practice.
	We're talking about practice, bro.
	We're talking about practice.
	Okay.
	FJ92 says, question for the panel and the hoes.
	What percentage of all women do you believe are three or fours?
	Basically hoes.
	Out of 100%?
	What do you think?
	It depends on the city.
	Like, where are we talking about?
	Because if you're talking about like a small suburb...
	Let's say America in general.
	America.
	That's New York, Vegas, Miami, LA. Percentage out of 100.
	Three or fours.
	Basically holds.
	I would say...
	55.
	Okay.
	For you?
	I would say like 60, 70% because, I mean, it goes by city.
	Cities are very superficial.
	Like Miami, there's a lot of superficial people and that's just what they look like, what they look for.
	That's tough.
	I already told you a couple people.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	45 maybe?
	Oh, below.
	Like America, right?
	Yeah, America.
	Yeah, 45.
	Okay.
	For you?
	I would say like 50.
	50%?
	Half and half?
	Half and half.
	That's too accurate.
	What about you?
	Okay, if it's all women, I'm looking at age percentage of all that.
	So I would say women like 18 to 28, I would say it's a lot higher.
	But women overall, probably like 35, 40 percent.
	If you're counting women of all ages.
	Yeah.
	So I'd have to do a stat breakdown of age.
	I think that's a big part of it.
	Okay.
	And then for you?
	Oh, I would say their answer is like 30, 40 percent.
	Drop that.
	Trey?
	Alright, it depends on what you define hoe.
	So when y'all say hoe, when you think of a hoe, what do you think of?
	When you say, oh, she's a hoe, what do you think of?
	A woman who sleeps around with no intention of dating a guy or forming a relationship or a woman who sleeps around solely for a financial gain?
	That's my definition too, but also like a woman who can sleep with more than one man at a time.
	Not like a train, but like...
	I like if she's dating one guy and she's sleeping with both the guys she's dating.
	Yeah, to me, that's bullshit.
	I would say about...
	60%, 60%, 70%.
	I think it's in every woman, though, just the circumstance.
	I think it's a little whore laying dormant in every last one of them.
	You got a point?
	Comes out at night?
	But yeah.
	But like actively, probably like 60% to 70% maybe.
	I would agree.
	Like 70%, 60%.
	Yeah, that's pretty fair.
	Okay.
	What's next?
	What do you think, Myron?
	What percentage?
	What was that?
	Nevermind.
	Okay, my balls...
	I'm almost back.
	Okay, cool.
	His name is MyBallsIsWasHot.
	Let's try a new question for ladies.
	If you're traveling at 80 miles per hour, how long does it take you to get to...
	Oh my God, bro.
	They're not going to answer this question, bro.
	Emilio Mucca says, Ladies, you want a 50-50 relationship with an average guy or a high-status man who checks everything?
	But this is the catch with the two guy.
	No girl, trips, no club, no social media, no male friends.
	WFNF. Okay.
	So he's asking, for example, 50-50 with an average guy or high-status guy who checks everything, but no girl's trips, no club, no social media, no male friends.
	Who are you taking?
	So for me, I don't, I'm not, I'm more traditional, so 50-50 doesn't make sense for me, so I would be willing to give up the club, whatever, I got that out of my system in my early 20s, girls, trips, I've never taken one in my life.
	So high status man who checks everything?
	Yeah, I mean, male friends, I've never had guy friends because it's never worked.
	They've all tried to get with me.
	Social media, I use it for my business, but I don't use it in like a sexual way like bikinis look at me, but I would need it for work.
	Chris, I got it.
	Okay.
	And if you, what do you choose?
	High status men.
	Why?
	Why?
	Because, I mean, girl trips, I don't really mind if I do trips with my man.
	I do like trips, though.
	So that would be, like, the club scene, I'm not really into it at this point.
	If I go out now, it's just more for networking than actual, like, fun.
	Same.
	Me too.
	Your time being.
	And, yeah, I mean, I don't mind my man going through my phone.
	I don't have everything that's said there.
	Wow.
	Okay.
	For you?
	I would say 50-50.
	Really?
	Why?
	Because, in the question said, no girls trips.
	I'm 23, I don't really like clubs, so I'm not focused on that part.
	I'm not really focused on the no club part.
	The girls trips, I just feel like it's good to take trips with your friends and The no male friends, I don't care about that much.
	And what was it, no social media?
	Yeah.
	Well, I do both.
	So I have, you know, my regular Instagram, and then I do have my business page.
	So I would need it for the business page.
	But I still want the business page.
	Can you agree that when girls travel sometimes, things happen?
	You know, you're out of town, you're lit, everyone's having fun.
	Oh, don't be a pussy, like, come through, like, let's have fun.
	And things can happen just off a chance, just you being in Vegas, you know, everything stays in Vegas.
	So it's kind of like, he's saying to you, you know what, to avoid a lot from happening, just don't go.
	Isn't that fair?
	Well, I've never heard of that happening, honestly.
	I've literally only heard of that in, like, scenarios, movies, you know, funny scenarios.
	I don't know nobody that's done that, and when I went on girls trips, my birthdays or my friends' birthdays, I don't get down like that.
	That's not my stilo, and that ain't my friends' stilo.
	I ain't here to sleep around with everybody, baby.
	I ain't trying to do all that.
	So, the girls trips for me is literally just a girls trip.
	That's it.
	That's my stance on it.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	When they said no male friends, does that mean like no gay friends either?
	That is...
	It said no male friends.
	That's the guy's discretion.
	Yeah, because sometimes they enable you to do bad stuff too.
	So it just depends.
	But it just depends on the guy.
	So we'll just leave it as ambiguous.
	But yeah.
	Well, I would rather go 50-50 than rather have my freedom.
	Okay.
	That's very telling.
	I'm sorry, I didn't know it said no male friends.
	And that way I would say 50-50.
	I do have a male best friend and I wouldn't leave him for anything.
	You wouldn't leave him for anything?
	You're a dream man?
	So you would be single forever to have a male friend?
	I've already done it before and I know that it didn't bring me anything good.
	I don't like leaving my friend for someone who is potentially going to leave my life.
	That's crazy.
	Why not just go him then?
	I'm not looking for anything like that.
	I'm a person that...
	I appreciate friendship, and I know that y'all gonna talk shit about it, but I appreciate more friendship because if we get into some sort of relationship or sexual thing, not everybody can handle having sex with someone and still keep a friendship.
	So I'd rather now step there and just keep the beauty of the friendship.
	So you guys have never hooked up, not one time.
	We have never hooked up.
	We have never had anything.
	We've never even kissed.
	We kissed the first time that we met.
	We didn't talk for like two weeks.
	And then after that, we had a 10-year friendship.
	See?
	I knew it, bro.
	That we have not done anything.
	Now, let me ask you this.
	10-year friend zone.
	So, I mean, well, clearly he wants something more, but you friend zoned him.
	Do you genuinely think that if the opportunity presented itself for him to have sex with you, he wouldn't take it?
	He's already had it.
	He has seen me naked.
	We have slept in the same bed.
	He has seen me wasted.
	Like...
	But that's not an opportunity.
	If you just get naked, he can't just...
	There's people that see it as an opportunity, though.
	If you told him...
	What's his name?
	Bradley?
	John?
	Richie.
	Huh?
	Richie.
	I love you, Richie.
	Is he watching the show right now?
	No.
	He's working.
	If you call him right now and said, hey...
	I'm horny right now.
	I want you.
	Do you think he would take it?
	What would he say?
	I wouldn't.
	That's just something that I wouldn't say to him.
	Oh!
	Let's do it then!
	Get the phone, niggas.
	He's your friend, right?
	We got you.
	He's your friend.
	Let's see.
	Let's put her to the test.
	Or him to the test.
	All right.
	Where's Icy?
	If you found the man of your dreams, you would be like, no, I want to have my male friend.
	You would be single.
	That's crazy.
	That's wild, bro.
	That's wild.
	Yeah, Icy.
	All right.
	So Icy's going to prepare you.
	You're going to take you off set real quick.
	And have you make the phone call to him.
	Hold on.
	Let's process this real quick.
	You're telling me a guy friend can be better than your real dream man.
	That's crazy.
	I see.
	You know what to do.
	She got to call her friend.
	You know what that is.
	It's like having a man without having a man.
	You don't have to take care of him.
	You don't have to suck his dick.
	You don't got to cook for him.
	But you get the protection.
	It's the easy way out.
	That's crazy.
	She could hurt for sure, bro.
	So Icy took her off.
	She's going to give her some instructions and everything else like that.
	We'll do the phone call because we know how that shit usually goes.
	She ain't here, ladies.
	What do you think is going to happen?
	You think he's going to pass or not?
	Yeah, you think he's going to pass the test or no?
	No.
	You think he's going to pass the test?
	I think he's going to think something's up.
	Because he's been waiting 10 years.
	10 years, bro.
	That's a long time, bro.
	If she just brings it up.
	If she said, like, hey, I just realized, like, what I've wanted to spend in front of me all the time.
	We're going to phrase it in a way.
	I was going to say, that way I feel like he might say something.
	What do you think?
	Come on.
	I don't know.
	Come on, man.
	I don't know.
	You know.
	Maybe he'll fail.
	I don't know.
	You're thinking why?
	Do you think he's going to fail or not?
	If you had to bet your life on it, what do you think?
	Probably.
	You think he's going to fail?
	Yeah, probably.
	Damn.
	All right.
	I just think he's going to be real suspicious.
	Oh, no.
	Don't worry.
	We're going to phrase it.
	We're going to phrase it.
	Don't worry.
	I want to see.
	I just, I don't know.
	Because she said they would be fair for like a long time, like years.
	Wait, she don't want to do it.
	It's been that long.
	I don't know.
	He's watching.
	Oh, he's watching?
	No.
	No.
	He said she's not watching.
	It's not.
	You don't.
	Bro, he's watching, bro.
	Can you pretend like you went home and you had a couple drinks in your room?
	You know.
	Those guys suck.
	The fact that he knows, we could try it.
	I mean, we could try it.
	If he kissed you, right?
	If he kissed you, he liked you and...
	He's attracted to you.
	Yeah, that don't stop.
	Yeah.
	Wait, here's the question.
	Is he in a relationship?
	Okay.
	But he's not in a relationship.
	He's single, basically.
	Yeah, that's the question.
	That's the thing, bro.
	So his ex is your best friend?
	Yes.
	It was a very tricky situation when it first happened, but now it's been like...
	For five years since I broke up, or four years.
	But let me ask you though, so you would, like if you found that guy, it's like he's everything, but it's like, okay, I'm not feeling the male friend shit.
	Like you don't have to just own him and call him and say, hey, never again and shit, but like you can't, you got to cut contact with that.
	I'm not feeling that.
	You would choose like being single and, you know, to have access to this male friend?
	My answer is going to be as of how my life looks like right now, and my answer is yes.
	That's crazy.
	Alright, we're going to try it anyway.
	Fuck it.
	It's yellow.
	So, Icy's going to take you real quick.
	We're going to tell you exactly what to say specifically.
	If he's watching, hey, he's watching.
	Fuck, it is what it is.
	But I think we'll get our answer.
	Just go real quick with Icy.
	Okay.
	And then, yeah, it'll take one minute.
	The rest of these chats real quick.
	Yeah, and then I'll read the rest of these chats.
	Do any of y'all have anything before I read the chats?
	No?
	No.
	Okay.
	Denying the truth won't change the truth, but make you live in a lie.
	Okay, worst generation.
	Is Jizai the qua...
	The quaalude clown.
	Zero fucks.
	Okay.
	That's crazy.
	Yo, was she on some drugs or some shit, man?
	Come on, man.
	Tell us.
	No.
	She was off her rocker.
	Not sure she was drunk.
	She was just drunk?
	Yeah, off a yacht.
	Oh.
	No, that was me.
	No, me, both of y'all.
	No, she wasn't there with me on the yacht.
	The fuck she was doing then?
	She came from like a party or something.
	I was on the yacht.
	What happened on the yacht?
	My friend was doing like a wine tasting thing.
	Wine tasting?
	Yeah.
	On a yacht?
	Yeah, wine tasting.
	It happens.
	But hold on.
	You get drunk on the yacht though.
	You mean a nigga?
	My homie.
	Oh, your homie, huh?
	He has a yacht.
	He has a yacht?
	My homie has a yacht.
	He invited me.
	I go.
	Are you guys just friends as well?
	Yeah, we're just friends.
	Never smash?
	No.
	I mean, he probably knows.
	So wait, is he not trying to smash too now?
	Is he just a platonic friend as well?
	He wants to smash.
	Come on, be honest.
	I mean, he's older than me.
	How old?
	He's like in his 30s.
	He's trying to smash.
	Anyways.
	Is he trying to smash?
	He is, right?
	Yes, yes.
	Yeah, he is.
	She's like...
	Niggas!
	She's stiff-arming him.
	Invite girls on boats to just chill and relax.
	No, but he's the homie.
	To you?
	Yeah, to you.
	Call him right now, then.
	Call him right now.
	Yeah, yeah, you want to call him too?
	I don't want to call him.
	He's probably out partying anyways.
	Nah, yeah, yeah.
	You want to call him too?
	Hey, homie, what are you doing?
	Yeah, hey, homie.
	Yeah, he told me to pull up.
	Exactly.
	So you know.
	No, what if you told him, no, no, no, can you come to me?
	I'm tired.
	No, I already told him I was doing this.
	What did he say when you said that?
	He's like, go do it.
	And I'm here.
	After the yacht.
	Interesting.
	Okay, look, she's back.
	Very interesting.
	Alright, we gonna do it?
	Let's do it.
	Alright, so guys, we're gonna call...
	What's his name again?
	Ricci.
	Ricci?
	Ricci.
	Ricci.
	Oh, Ricci.
	Okay.
	No, but it's saved under Ricci.
	Oh, okay.
	So we're gonna call Ricci here.
	Hopefully he's not watching the show.
	So Icy instructed her on what to say.
	Do not deviate from what you guys say.
	Don't laugh.
	Don't deviate.
	Don't laugh.
	Don't do nothing.
	Hold it out.
	If y'all niggas speak in Spanish, speak in Spanish is fine.
	We got translators.
	We got translators.
	Everybody be quiet.
	Hello?
	Hello?
	Hello, mama.
	Hello, Chichi.
	You're fine?
	I'm fine.
	I'm sorry.
	Nothing.
	I'm here.
	Am I feeling?
	Where are you?
	Here.
	Sugar.
	I've been drinking.
	You've been drinking?
	What is that?
	It's this club.
	Sure, fact.
	Well, yeah, so...
	I've just been here, like, reminiscing and thinking, like, why we never worked out.
	With who?
	You and me.
	With what?
	Like, why we never tried things.
	Wait, what?
	Why we never tried things out.
	You and I. I don't know, that's a question.
	Okay, tell me more.
	I don't know I'm just thinking like it's been a lot of years so we know each other and I like you.
	You what?
	I like you.
	Say hello now.
	De verdad.
	See?
	Hello?
	Thank you.
	Thank you.
	Te oigo.
	I'm like...
	shocked.
	What do you think?
	I'm super in shock.
	I'm in shock.
	And I'll tell you what to say.
	What do you think?
	What do you think?
	What do you think about me?
	What you asked me is...
	but you are with me.
	Well, I am with you.
	I mean, how do you feel about me?
	Almost.
	I feel like you're incredible, Kiki, from Panama.
	But why are we talking about this?
	Because, hold on.
	What do you think about this?
	If we come and talk about this, it's better.
	Okay.
	Are you okay, though?
	Be honest.
	See, I'm just drunk.
	I'm going anywhere.
	Thank you.
	¿Y el carro?
	El carro que sé que está en casa de mi amiga parqueado ahí en un building.
	¿En un building?
	Uh-huh.
	Ok, pero no te lo van a llevar.
	No, I don't think so.
	I pay for parking.
	Ah, ok, ok.
	- Why not? - Damn it. - Damn it. - Damn it. - Damn it. - Damn it. - That nigga like you.
	- Oh! - All right, so Moe, do you wanna translate real quick? - Moe! - Moe! - Moe, translate. - Moe, translate. - What do you say? - What was the part where y'all was like, oh shit, what was that part? - Let Moe translate, go ahead Moe. - Icy, Icy, go ahead. - Or Icy. - Basically, he was just saying, I think you're very incredible. go ahead. - Or Icy. - Basically, he was just I'm in shock right now that you're saying this.
	I can't believe you're saying this.
	So, at the end of the day...
	That man likes you.
	He was just being your friend so he could have you one day.
	Regardless if he was with your best friend.
	I live with him.
	What?
	The facts come out!
	That's why he was like, why don't you come and we talk about it.
	Hold on.
	Do you see now why 99% of men are going to have a problem with you keeping your guy friend around?
	Come on.
	I mean, did we not just prove it in that phone call?
	If given the opportunity, they will absolutely go on it?
	Unfortunately, that's like most people nowadays.
	They just sexualize you.
	No, no, no, no.
	We're just saying your friend, your current friend, isn't really your friend.
	He wants you.
	Yeah.
	He wants you more than sexually.
	Exactly.
	Clarify that.
	He wants to...
	If you want to have a man in your life at the same time, you're cheating, basically, because that guy wants to be with you.
	That's the only reason a man is your friend, because it's like, okay, this is all you're going to be, but...
	Y'all don't really, I'm not to, like, sound crazy, but, like, there's really, like, unless you, like, like, I have females that I'm cool with, but we do business.
	Like, I'm a female that do my marketing and stuff like that.
	But, like, to just have a woman, like, there's nothing in common.
	Like, we have nothing to talk about.
	You're nice to me, Dre.
	I genuinely think Ladies, you guys could disagree with me if not, if you want.
	I think women are completely useless if they're not giving you, like, romance.
	And let me explain why.
	A woman can't give you her all and give you the real benefits of being with a female if she's not your chick.
	If you're not romantically involved with her, there's very little she can actually do for you to help you.
	What's she going to do?
	Give you life advice?
	Well, men and women live different lives.
	What's she going to do?
	Give you the male experience?
	That doesn't work.
	You're better off just having male friends versus female friends.
	Like, if you get in a fight, she ain't going to do nothing.
	But then if something happens to her, you're obligated to protect her and she won't even suck your dick.
	That's crazy to me!
	There's no value in having a female friend.
	As a man, there's no value.
	But on the female side, though, I will say this.
	For a female, you're playing your cards right.
	Like, having a guy friend, you get boyfriend energy, you get a provider for a degree, you get a protector, somebody gives a shit about you, like, he would come pick you up if you needed it, you know what I mean?
	He was getting ready to pay for her Uber.
	Yeah, like, you know what I'm saying?
	You know what I'm saying?
	Never pay for an Uber.
	He does not pay for my bills.
	Okay, but the point is that you have...
	A lot of people would, but I do pay my own.
	The point we're trying to make here is that you have a masculine presence that you don't have to give sex to or give some type of reciprocal romantic energy to, but you're getting the benefits of boyfriend energy.
	You got a man without having to do anything.
	And you live with him, bro!
	I don't feel that.
	You live with him!
	Yeah, and what does that mean?
	You're able to get the benefits of a relationship without being in a relationship with him.
	Does that make sense?
	He's still giving you boyfriend energy.
	I can see it from the way he was talking.
	He cares about you.
	You're getting boyfriend energy from him, but he's not getting romance from you.
	So you're winning.
	Don't get it twisted.
	We're not shitting on you.
	You're winning.
	But what I am saying is that on his end, it's an L. But this is why men are like the boyfriend, the guy friend shit is out.
	Most men know that.
	All men know that.
	If a girl's not fucking you...
	You're not getting her best.
	Period.
	Because a girl can't really submit to you and give you her all unless she's having sex with you.
	A girl can't serve two masters.
	That's just how it is.
	Women want to be able to nurture and take care of a man that they love, admire, and respect.
	A girl falls in love when she does acts of service for you.
	She can't do acts of service for you if she's not your girl and she's not having sex with you.
	Period.
	And if another man is in your woman's head, another man is in your home.
	If a guy got with you right now, you have two different men.
	This man got his own way of doing shit.
	This man got his own way of doing shit.
	He got his own program.
	Both of them in your ear is confusing.
	So, nah, that guy friend shit is out.
	Can I ask a question, though, on that?
	Yeah.
	Because I have a lot of guy friends, but it's also like, if they have a girl, I'm friends with their girlfriend.
	Can I still be friends with them?
	But I'm friends with a girl, too.
	They all have ulterior motives.
	No, they got a girl, though.
	They're happy.
	But if they had the opportunity to have sex with you and they wouldn't get caught, they would do it.
	You're not an ugly chick.
	You know what I mean?
	It is what it is.
	Yo, I hate to say it.
	See, I was talking shit about women earlier.
	I'm telling y'all the dirty side about guys.
	Yo, dudes...
	We'll literally have sex with any girl that allows them to have sex, especially if they're not gonna get caught.
	Like, I'm telling y'all, men are not loyal.
	Like, at all.
	We're not.
	Now, we show our loyalty differently.
	We're not loyal sexually, but we'll give a girl our all.
	Like, we'll love our wife, right, and protect her from, like, danger and die for her, but we'll go fuck another bitch.
	We show our loyalty differently.
	Women show loyalty but not fucking other people.
	We show our loyalty by willing to provide and protect for a woman.
	We ain't gonna provide and protect for a hoe, but we'll do it for our main chick.
	That's how men show our loyalty.
	I know some good men that are loyal to them.
	That dude that you're with, he will probably fight somebody for you.
	He'd probably kill for you.
	Yeah, he will.
	Just the way he has a pet name for you and everything.
	Yeah, bro.
	Pet name.
	Just date him.
	Just date him.
	No.
	No, so here's a question.
	Do you not date him because he's friends with his ex as your friend also?
	No.
	We started our friendship when I was in high school.
	They started dating like two years after I met him.
	And they were together for like six years.
	And they broke up and...
	Is that why you wouldn't?
	Why wouldn't you date him is the question.
	Yeah, why not?
	Why wouldn't I? Because at this point in my life, I just appreciate his friendship a lot.
	And I appreciate people's friendship, if it's women or men.
	Because I like women too.
	He wants you and a friendship.
	You got both.
	I don't know a Frenchman.
	He sounds soft as fuck, man.
	Pet names and shit, living with you, man.
	He's soft as fuck, man.
	He cares about you.
	That's crazy.
	Well, let me ask you this.
	You do realize that any guy that you get that has any type of masculine presence is going to have a serious issue with you having a guy friend, right?
	Um...
	I've already been in a relationship where I made it clear that I was not going to get rid of any type of friendship or anything that makes me happy to accommodate my relationship, and I got married to the person.
	I mean, I'm not going to get there, but either way.
	You're divorced?
	I am.
	You divorced him or he divorced you?
	I guess you would say it was a mutual agreement.
	Nah.
	Someone always initiates a divorce.
	Emotional, damn it!
	Would you be okay with your man, not just the filler guy, but the man, your dream man, having a woman he can go to to confide in?
	Absolutely not.
	She didn't even have to let me finish.
	Would you be okay if he can go and confide in this woman and, you know, she cooked for him from time to time when he's lonely or need an ear to vent to?
	You know, she can caress his head.
	No sexual, nothing, but, you know, he can go to this woman.
	Oh, that's kind of too much of him.
	Huh?
	All that what you said is kind of too much, though.
	No, it's not.
	Yeah, it was a little too much.
	Yeah, that's a little much.
	He doesn't even do it to me.
	Take away scratching the head.
	Hold on.
	He was in your bed.
	He saw you naked.
	What do you mean?
	He saw you naked, bro.
	That's what you said.
	He was in one side.
	I was in one side.
	We were asleep.
	He saw you nakara.
	Okay, so take away the scratching on the head.
	Just a woman to confide in, you know, if he's in pain or he needs somebody to go and, you know, nurture him or whatever.
	Can he have a friend like that?
	Yes.
	She said no.
	What you saying?
	Keep it for real.
	Be for real.
	See, my boyfriend had one.
	Had.
	But the only reason I told him to cut it off was because she made a nasty comment.
	So that's the only reason.
	I try not to really get between it too much.
	What about you?
	You letting him have that friend?
	Come on, man.
	And she got a boat, too.
	And she lets him go wine tasting.
	Yep.
	She let some wine taste too.
	She got a yacht.
	She got a yacht wine tasting.
	You cool with it?
	Yep.
	You cool with it?
	No.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	At least you kept it real.
	Over you.
	Man.
	No.
	You'd be like, what?
	No?
	No, I'd have a problem with it.
	So, fellas, you see how territorial they are?
	You have the right to be as territorial.
	I'm not...
	I'm a territorial woman.
	All of them territorial.
	You have that right.
	You don't let them shame you because you territorial.
	They more territorial than you are.
	You can't even have a few...
	You see?
	Here's the thing.
	I don't have a problem with them having friends, but we all gotta be friends.
	That don't matter, bro.
	I think we all go to...
	I'm gonna go all the wine tasting, too.
	If you're gonna go hang out with her, I'm coming.
	She'll smile on your face and be like, oh yeah, we're just friends.
	They go fuck him.
	What you gonna do then?
	Oh, you're friends?
	No.
	You said that you were married before.
	Who initiated a divorce?
	Somebody initiated.
	Was it him?
	He initiated a divorce.
	Yeah, he did.
	I am the one who made the comment that brought the conversation downhill.
	Okay.
	So I guess they would say me.
	But someone had to file.
	Who filed?
	I paid for the divorce.
	I filed it.
	You filed it.
	You're heartless, man.
	What comment did you make that made him say fuck this shit?
	It must have been something diabolical.
	What comment did I make?
	You said you made a comment and it went downhill.
	She initiated the divorce comment.
	I initiated the conversation.
	Okay.
	And then you filed?
	Yes.
	What made you want to end it?
	He didn't like your friend, did he?
	I really don't want to talk about this.
	Okay.
	He didn't like her friend.
	Yeah, it was your friend.
	That's what it was.
	It has something to do 100%.
	No, it was not that.
	Bruh, come on.
	Then what is it that has you so shook?
	Well, I fell in love with someone that used me for papers.
	W Riz.
	Yo, your life is fucked up, man.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	So the guy used you for papers?
	Correct.
	How'd you find out?
	Somebody else.
	Because I was the only question that they had after...
	I mean, I didn't want to talk about this because I haven't really talked about this since it happened, and I really don't care about changing people's perspective because I know that he's going around giving a story that I haven't really given time to change it.
	Did you go to the police?
	You know that's a crime, right?
	Did you go to the police?
	No.
	So what, he made it work for two years, he got his green card and just skated?
	No.
	We were married for six months, so it was all worthless because he has to be married to me three years in order to get paid.
	So why do you think it was the thing?
	Maybe it was something you think that...
	That's just...
	I don't know.
	It seemed like to me that's your way out.
	It's just easier to say, oh, he wanted me for a green card instead of like...
	I mean, he did.
	He did.
	I know the person that...
	I can't say I know the person anymore because I haven't talked to him in a really long time and people change.
	But at the moment, I know that he was a boy that was not ready for marriage.
	He wasn't going to be ready anytime soon.
	I think, I believe that he got pressure into it.
	And once that he was in the situation, he realized that shit ain't sweet, you know?
	It's not like, oh yeah, we high school sweetheart.
	Maybe he just didn't like the shit you was maybe doing.
	I'm not saying you're a bad person because I don't know you, but maybe he's like...
	He didn't like your program or he didn't like the fact that you had a male friend.
	If I find a woman willing to give me a green card, I'm going to stick it out.
	I'm going to act like...
	So for him to just leave like that, right?
	And it's like, fuck it.
	Yeah, he has a lot to lose.
	Only six months?
	Yeah, only six months.
	I mean, that specifically was never a conversation or an issue in the relationship.
	He never mentioned it.
	It was just never an issue.
	But...
	I mean, I'm going to say that's the reason why it went that way.
	Because at a certain point, you just realize that the person doesn't truly care about you.
	And I realized that he didn't love me.
	Therefore, he didn't act like he would care about me with the things that he would do.
	And then when we had a conversation that went downhill, and I mentioned the divorce, I mean, what I said was...
	Our problem right now, our chronic issue right now is communication.
	So if we don't fix it, we're going to end up divorcing.
	It is what it is.
	Would he just bottle his feelings in and shit?
	He didn't want to talk about his feelings?
	Yeah.
	That's a lot of men though.
	Well, then those type of men shouldn't get into a relationship.
	If you aren't able to communicate, then that's one of the main things in a relationship.
	Yeah, but a lot of guys don't want to share their feelings with women because women don't Women don't respond favorably to emotional men, unfortunately.
	Especially if those feelings don't serve you.
	So it's best for a lot of men, because a lot of these relationships, there's no room for me to have a problem, for me to feel an ill way about you.
	So a lot of men are just like, fuck it.
	I'm going to deal with it.
	I'm going to just deal with it.
	Women don't respond favorably to crybaby men.
	You hate that?
	I hate that men feel that they cannot be heard.
	Because me, I try my best to always let my man know.
	You try your best.
	Don't try, just do.
	So hear him.
	All I can do is put my best effort.
	So when he communicates to me, I sit down, I hush.
	I do my best to just keep my mouth closed and just listen.
	But it's not fair.
	But at the same time, Both parties got to take accountability.
	Because as a man, you have to also learn how to do it in the right way.
	You know, you can't say that you want to communicate but then be yelling and that's not what you're saying.
	All right, let me just get to dictate how.
	It's not dictate, it's respect for communication.
	As long as a person is like respect.
	Now, I ain't talking about he curse you out like a dog and all that shit, but it's like, oh, well, you didn't do it right or you didn't say it right or it's not the right way, so there's nothing.
	That's bullshit.
	No, but tone, all that stuff is important.
	If I'm talking to you, but then I'm like...
	Nigga, you ain't shit.
	Nigga, you ain't doing nothing.
	The fuck wrong with you?
	You ain't never gonna want to talk to me.
	My woman can vouch or any woman that has ever dealt with me can vouch.
	I allow a person to be a human being.
	So if you're upset, let it out.
	Don't disrespect me though and watch what you say.
	We're saying the same thing.
	We're literally saying the same thing.
	All I'm saying is tone.
	But if you're talking about tone, maybe she passionate about it.
	Maybe she's passionate about what she's saying.
	Maybe she feels like she gotta defend herself.
	So I'm gonna allow my woman the room to express herself.
	And if that's passion, if that's anger, if that's hurt, whatever.
	So there's no, oh, well, you gotta say it right, and it gotta be all this old shit.
	That's crazy.
	Let me ask you a question.
	It's just easier to not just like, fuck it.
	Because you're saying you want a guy to...
	Do the rest of you guys agree that you want a guy to open up to you?
	You?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Yeah?
	Yeah?
	Okay.
	How about this?
	Let me give you a scenario.
	Let's say I lose my job.
	And two scenarios.
	One, I cry about it for like two weeks to you and I'm like, fuck, I don't know what I'm gonna do.
	Or, I shut the fuck up, I don't say nothing, I find something else, and I just take us on a vacation.
	And I don't say shit.
	What's more attractive?
	Wait, can you read it?
	I would argue that those two situations are very different, though.
	They are.
	But in the sense of going and being reckless and spending a bunch of money and lying about it.
	No, no, no.
	I'm talking about in one situation, I lose my job.
	Yes.
	Right?
	And I cry about it.
	The other one, I lose my job, but I shut the fuck up about it.
	I don't say a word.
	I find something else.
	Oh, okay.
	I missed that part.
	Yeah.
	I find something else and I take us on vacation.
	The other one, I cry for a couple weeks about it.
	Like, fuck, I don't know.
	I'm not so sure.
	I eventually find another job that maybe we go on vacation.
	But what's more attractive?
	Me not saying shit about it and just fixing a problem of my own and then taking on vacation to get the benefits of it or me crying about it?
	I think it's more attractive to fix it.
	You can mention, by the way, I lost my job.
	I'll find it.
	Don't sweat it.
	Maybe after the fact.
	What about you?
	Talk about it.
	Me crying to you?
	Yes.
	You think so?
	Okay.
	I think talking about it is healthy.
	I get what you're saying.
	What's more attractive though?
	Not what you want, what's actually more attractive?
	I get you.
	I feel like you being able to just fix it and do the trip, that's more attractive.
	Okay.
	You?
	Fixing it.
	I'm attracted to driven men, so yeah, fixing it.
	Fixing it.
	Okay.
	So, see, women don't respond favorably to emotion.
	Now, you could come to me and cry so you lost your job.
	It ain't gonna do shit to me.
	I'm not gonna lose attraction for you.
	I don't care if you get us a vacation.
	Men and women aren't the same.
	So, men understand, deep down, Opening up emotionally about our vulnerabilities might not get well respected.
	Most of the girls here said, oh, it's more attractive if you just fix it.
	She's the only one that said, oh, no, you can talk to me.
	Who knows?
	When your security is at risk, your mind might change.
	But the point is that most women don't respond favorably to it.
	So most guys say, you know what?
	I'm going to keep my emotions to myself.
	But see, the thing is with what you just said, with the fix it, the key point in that is that drive.
	Yeah.
	That's the key point in that.
	If I had my man lose his job, he can't cry to me, alright bae, you know, damn cry about it.
	We'll get through this together.
	But then guess what?
	You gotta get your ass back up and get on that horse.
	Exactly.
	That's what he did in that little second scenario.
	He didn't say nothing about it, but guess what?
	He got up, he recognized that L, he got up and he fixed the problem.
	That's a man.
	And also crying, but fixing it is a man too, but you didn't say that in the first scenario.
	All you said was cry about it.
	No, no, no.
	Both individuals are men, but here's the problem.
	The female's perception changes when she sees her man cry the first time.
	And see, the thing is, is that you guys can't tell me anything right now because it's easy for you to sit here on a podcast in 2020 and be like, man, I wouldn't leave my man for crying.
	Oh, let's see, the light's not being paid.
	The fucking water cuts off.
	You're living a little bit harder of a life.
	He's crying.
	He don't know what the fuck to do.
	And your security depends on this man.
	You're going to have a way different mindset on him being emotional and vulnerable and all this other bullshit that women say they want.
	No.
	You want him to be vulnerable and fix all the problems, all this other shit.
	It's better if you just don't know a lot of the times and just get it done.
	Yep.
	Because women sit there and say, oh no, be vulnerable to me, whatever.
	But then once shit starts getting tight, you don't have money, security's being compromised, women, fuck that shit, they leave.
	It's a visceral response.
	This woman went on the Joe Rogan podcast, I'll never forget this shit.
	She was dating this MMA guy.
	And...
	She watched her boyfriend get beat up in a cage.
	He's a professional fighter.
	Could beat up 99% of men.
	But something happened and triggered in her head where she loved this man, but she seen him get beat up and she switched.
	She never looked at him the same.
	She broke up with him after.
	A lot of women operate the same way when they see a man cry for the first time because your security is dependent on this individual.
	Your livelihood is dependent on this individual.
	So if he's like, fuck, I don't know what to do.
	You're going to be like, what the fuck?
	Fight or flight?
	I'm out!
	I'm going to go find somebody that can take care of me.
	If you're out in a war zone, and fucking guns are going off and shit, and the lieutenant's like, fuck, I don't know what to do!
	Shit!
	You're going to be like, fuck, I'm not following this nigga.
	This nigga's a bitch!
	But if he's like, alright guys, yo, artillery fire coming this way, you go this way, you go this way, he's telling you what to do.
	Even if he's not sure, but he looks like he knows what he's doing, you're going to follow him.
	But you just described two different types of men, though.
	The first man, you said that he over here crying, I don't know what to do, I don't know what to do.
	Who the fuck wants that?
	But sometimes you don't know what to do.
	And that's okay, but at the same time, all he's doing is, I don't know what to do.
	Sit down, sit down.
	But at a certain time, you gotta come back, you gotta sit down, think about it.
	He communicates with you in that way.
	You don't know how he's going to respond to you.
	And other thing, too, is that, again, 20-20 hindsight, you can sit there and say, no, I'll be there to console him.
	But when your life is on the line and your security is dependent on this guy, you're going to have a way different mindset.
	Like, oh, I don't know if I can stay with this guy.
	He can't pay the bills.
	I don't know.
	He's not sure of himself.
	Whatever.
	You're sweating.
	It's okay for everyone.
	Everyone's going to have a moment of doubt and a moment of weakness.
	I've had my men cry.
	My exes have all cried to me.
	You're single for a reason.
	I'm single now.
	You're single.
	Single by choice.
	No, it's not by choice.
	You broke up with all those guys that cried?
	First one cheated, second one got deported, third one was a...
	What?
	Are you sure it wasn't her ex-husband?
	Yo, can we acknowledge the amount of bad choices women make for men?
	Can we acknowledge that, bro?
	No, here's the thing, here's the thing.
	It's terrible, bro.
	It's terrible.
	It's really bad.
	Don't be real, man.
	I'm gonna say it's terrible.
	So, like, the last relationship, it was a mutual thing.
	But you broke them all up, right?
	No.
	The one I initiated the breakup was the cheating, which I think is fair.
	Okay.
	But he cried to you?
	Yeah.
	He's a war vet and everything.
	It's okay.
	Here's the thing.
	This is where I will stay on the side.
	I don't think it has any problem to do with a guy showing weakness for a second.
	I think women expect men to act like women when they're vulnerable.
	And that's the part that's not cool.
	And then I think a big issue that women do is they weaponize it if the guy does show that.
	That's another reason I was going to say.
	That part I'm not cool with.
	So if my man cries to me and he doesn't know what to do, I'm like, we'll get through this together.
	That's fine.
	If he stays in that If they open up and they say it you have to say okay, I can never use this against a man and And I don't think a lot of women will agree to that.
	This is why your dick's mom, nigga.
	So, I mean, like I said, like I said, all of you guys agreed that the guy that doesn't cry and just fixes the problem is more attractive.
	And the guy that doesn't show weakness and just, even if shit's crumbling all around him and he doesn't show it and he's still, you don't know about the problems and it looks like he's going to figure it out, that's more attractive.
	So what I'm saying is this.
	Women say they want a vulnerable man until they meet a vulnerable man and they're with that guy and they have to picture a future with that guy.
	That's when they say, fuck this shit.
	I'm out.
	I don't think men should be vulnerable women.
	I don't think so.
	You land in the bed all scared and shit.
	You know, hey, business ain't going too good.
	This happened, this happened, this happened.
	Then you land in the bed not knowing what the fuck to do.
	I'm upstairs or I'm somewhere trying to fix it.
	And you land in the bed all scared and shit.
	That fear and anxiousness is going to manifest itself in the way that you behave.
	It's just better that...
	But the thing is, everybody has that.
	It's normal.
	A man can lose it.
	Everybody has that.
	I do!
	But the difference is, if you lose your job, if you're vulnerable, your man's not going to lose respect for you.
	Because you're a woman.
	Different and fucking...
	You know, it's just different.
	Some things you just...
	I don't think y'all wired for certain things.
	I think it's the wallowing in it.
	If it's the wallowing, that's the...
	Even then, sometimes it takes time.
	If something happens, it's traumatic.
	If something happens...
	I ain't no fucking robot where it's like, turn on the lights.
	Okay, I'm back.
	I'm Superman.
	This shit take time.
	It's not...
	But we're talking about two different things.
	Time and wallowing.
	Listen, you're saying time.
	Okay, I'm fucked up.
	I'm fucked up right now.
	I'm going through it.
	Wallowing.
	Oh my God, I can't do this shit.
	What the fuck?
	For years, I'm giving you a plan.
	We're talking about it.
	That's what communication is.
	You got to learn to talk.
	You got to learn to work through your emotions.
	You can't respond to trauma.
	You can't tell them, oh, don't do this.
	It's going to happen.
	It took two years to get out of that mood.
	Was you crying every day or was you working towards to figure out a way to make it better?
	I wasn't crying every day, but I was walking around fucking dressed and A woman can wallow.
	The man's gonna be like, whatever.
	Yo, it's fine.
	I got us.
	If the man wallows, it ain't gonna be the same way.
	That's what I'm trying to say.
	Women can afford to be vulnerable with their man because men don't give a shit about your ability to provide security.
	Men, however, can't afford to be vulnerable because women do give a shit about security.
	That's the point.
	I'm the protector.
	I'm the provider.
	If I'm not showing myself as the leader, You're not sure in me.
	But if you're not sure in yourself, it don't matter.
	You're the follower.
	I don't give a fuck if you're not sure in yourself.
	I'm sure in myself.
	We'll be fine.
	Does that make sense?
	If I become successful, you become successful as a benefit.
	If you become successful and I'm a loser, you're gonna leave my ass.
	Women and men are not the same.
	When men go up, women come with them.
	When women go up, they will look over the horizon for something better.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	Let me ask you this, right?
	Okay, so we're going to put you in a scenario where a man expresses his feelings or emotions, right?
	So a fucking frog get in the house, right?
	And you're like, babe.
	And he's like, listen, I'm fucking terrified.
	I'm like extremely terrified.
	I don't know what to do.
	I'm terrified.
	You scared of frogs?
	That's your fear?
	Okay.
	Again, see, you're trying to choose what the man's going to be fearful of or...
	No, he just...
	I'm asking you.
	Is he scared of frogs?
	That's what you're saying?
	Yeah.
	Okay, so he's scared of frogs.
	I'm terrified.
	You terrified of frogs?
	That's your fear?
	Okay.
	What the hell?
	I don't know what to do about it.
	What you mean?
	You don't know what to do about it?
	Exactly.
	There you go.
	Exactly.
	I'm telling you, bro.
	In a scenario, they don't know what they would do.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	I think it's easy for girls.
	You kill a frog.
	I'm scared of it.
	You get it out of here.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	I don't think it's just that big of a deal.
	That's me.
	Everybody different.
	I just don't think it's that big of a deal.
	Trust me.
	When it's your man, it might be till death do us part and he's responsible for you, your safety, your security, etc.
	You're going to look at him sideways, man.
	I just don't want a wallower.
	I'm not a wallower.
	That's how I am.
	I'm literally doing so much shit for myself.
	The spiders I got, I can't be like, oh shit, no.
	You know...
	Men can't show weakness, man.
	I can't fucking...
	I don't like spiders and shit either.
	Because not everybody can be strong 24-7.
	So everybody will have to show weakness at some point.
	You're human.
	You're going to show weakness.
	No, no, no.
	This is what I say.
	Show weakness to your guy friends, not to chicks.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	But then marriage, the conversation of marriage, you married somebody for 40 years, you never show weakness?
	You're down on hard times?
	You're never going to cry about it to your woman?
	I mean, it might happen, but I advocate that guys don't do it.
	Minimize it as much as possible.
	Wait.
	You know, because you want to be treated like a king, you got to act like a king.
	You don't see the president, whoever the president may be, he can't be like, oh, I'm scared, and oh, I don't know what we're going to do, because we're not going to trust him.
	Get him out of here.
	It's the same as in a relationship.
	You have to control the frame.
	You have to control yourself when you're the leader, or the people who follow you is not going to be safe.
	Perfect example.
	I'll say this, because some of you guys are way too young to even remember this.
	Watch President Bush's address to the United States right after 9-11.
	Very rarely do they have an Oval Office address to the country.
	There are very few times this happened.
	His address after 9-11...
	Galvanized the United States to go to war with Iraq, which that's a whole other thing.
	But the point I'm trying to make is, we just got hit with a tragedy.
	3,000 people died.
	Sun, unprecedented.
	That is the perfect example of stoicism, maintaining a face of stoicism in fucking chaos.
	So if you watch that, that's like perfect frame control.
	But that's how men have to be.
	Even in the face of chaos.
	Steadfast.
	Step fast.
	Also, emotional men shoot up schools, they hurt people, so you should not be emotional, at least all the time.
	Yeah.
	We got some chats here.
	Yeah, and then we got to close this thing out.
	It's been a lot of time past.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	A wise man once said, how am I going to fight off intruders if you don't make sandwiches?
	I need sustenance.
	I wonder who said that.
	W Kick.
	She's a comedian that don't realize she is the joke.
	Yo.
	She was funny, though.
	Support the show.
	Get the likes up.
	Shout out Blake Henrys.
	She was retarded, though, man.
	Well, get the stats for that.
	I was like, what the fuck?
	That's why it was funny.
	Bro.
	Girl left of the guest is a 10 out of 10, but minus a 4 points for OF. She could have had a high-value man, but ruined it.
	No chance now.
	Get a dog and die alone.
	Goddamn, nigga!
	I mean...
	Oh, shit.
	I mean...
	Women don't want your money.
	They want to be around.
	The success makes you walk, talk, and move different.
	I know from experienced men.
	Get your money up sales and make it simple.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	I have a kingdom in the house.
	Oh, shit.
	I have a kingdom in the house.
	Oh, shit.
	What do you say?
	Salute, guys.
	Much love.
	Fresh Fit and King Dre asked the girls, would they have sex with their favorite celebrity this weekend in a free trip?
	Oh, yeah.
	They will.
	That's pretty obvious, bro.
	Shout out to I have a kingdom.
	Bro, you need to come on the show.
	I know where the fuck you've been at, man.
	Come on, man.
	Come down to Miami.
	MLD. MLD in the house.
	He goes, the fact that she would put...
	Oh shit, come on Chris.
	Alright, the fact that she would even put her male best friend on blast like this and toy with his emotions live on the air just proves that she don't deserve anything but the streets.
	God damn.
	Prue, you have anything you can say back to him?
	I mean, it's part of the show, and I'm here as part of the show, so I'm just doing things at the show.
	Hey man, thank you, bro.
	Your personal life.
	Goddamn.
	He ain't going nowhere, nigga.
	He's been there.
	Bro, when she said, oh, I like you, this nigga was like, in the silence?
	Yo, you know that nigga put the phone on me like, yes!
	Oh my god!
	Yeah!
	His boy's probably in the back.
	Yo, she likes me, and they fucking start slapping hands and shit, you know?
	Why are you laughing, though?
	That's her friend?
	Oh my god!
	Is that Peru?
	I love her too!
	Nigga threw on Despacito for 10 seconds.
	Yes!
	Niggas play the daddy ecky part.
	Bung, bung, bung.
	It's like, yes, I got that.
	Yo.
	Oh, shit, man.
	That ain't going to hype.
	He probably salsa dancing right now.
	She like me, man.
	Okay.
	Prince of UAE. Fucking entertainment.
	If the captain of the ship sees a storm ahead and starts crying, the passengers are gonna freak.
	If the passengers see a storm and start crying, but the captain says, don't worry, everyone's gonna relax.
	Big difference between leader of the relationship.
	Yep, that's why the guys gotta lead, man.
	And then we'll get anything else, Chris, or last thoughts?
	We're done.
	Chris wanted to end the show earlier, but he was scared to say it.
	We'll get last thoughts on the show, last comments, thoughts, disagreements, us kicking out that girl.
	I don't know, whatever you want to say.
	I just feel like the show was good.
	There's a lot of different opinions here.
	I just feel like y'all just gotta find somebody who'd like y'all.
	And all these different...
	Who do you agree on more, the niggas or the chicks?
	Be honest.
	Who do I agree with?
	Yeah, do you agree with the niggas or the girls more?
	Niggas.
	That shit's quiet the whole time.
	I'm going to say men are intelligent.
	I like hearing what they have to say.
	But it's not who do I agree with more.
	Everyone is different.
	So everybody have a different mindset.
	Who do you side with more during the course of the conversation?
	Who did you agree with more?
	Us or the girls?
	Come on, Queen.
	Myself.
	Come on, man.
	She agreed with us, man.
	You're fucking up, Queen.
	Yeah, you're fucking up, Queen.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	What are your final thoughts?
	I had a good time.
	Thank you for inviting me.
	I enjoyed it.
	You don't have to lie.
	No, I did.
	I actually really enjoyed it.
	I like the honesty, so I appreciate it, and I think you guys are good at giving everyone a platform to debate their opinion, so I appreciate that.
	Are you going to let your future guy cheat?
	No.
	So, question.
	I'm going to find good Christian man, so I gotta...
	Wait, hold on.
	Are you a virgin, though?
	I am not.
	But I have a low body count.
	I can count on one hand.
	I'm a serial monogamist, so I've been in three relationships in my life.
	Three dicks, man.
	And you count everything.
	What do you mean?
	A lot of people don't count everything.
	I don't do that with anyone that I'm not dating.
	Like, that's weird to me.
	Like, why would you...
	Why am I putting my mouth on that?
	I don't know where you've been.
	I mean...
	Got a blast!
	It was not...
	Jimmy Neutron, Chad?
	No.
	Oh, okay.
	That's fucked up.
	I mean...
	What about you, Crybaby?
	What are your final thoughts?
	thoughts in the show I like being called baby I like being what did you say I like being a crybaby yeah I like being called baby okay what about cry in the beginning I'm down to cry.
	I appreciate you guys having me and I appreciate the conversations we had and meeting these beautiful ladies.
	What are you going to say to your friend?
	Fuck her, man.
	She's still here, man.
	Damn!
	Wait, what?
	She's still here?
	No, no, no, no.
	What do you mean?
	What am I going to say to my friend?
	When you see her, like, hey, are you fucked up?
	I mean, I'll have a conversation with her.
	She don't care, bro.
	She don't care, bro.
	They're just associates.
	They travel together.
	Did y'all travel here together?
	No, we didn't.
	We have mutual friends.
	We've barely been friends for a couple months.
	She said fuck that bitch.
	Fuck that bitch.
	Why are you guys talking so negative?
	I was trying to be happy.
	If that was your friend friend, you would have left with her.
	Oh, shit.
	No, she would apologize with you.
	Yeah, I know, right?
	That too.
	Oh yeah, that too.
	I didn't want to leave after I apologized.
	I thought she was gonna...
	No, no, no.
	We're not knocking you for that.
	I'm just saying like...
	You know what I'm saying?
	But he's saying I'm not a real friend for leaving with her.
	Like...
	I don't think that's true.
	She's not a real friend for not apologizing with you.
	Yeah, she's supposed to take one for the team.
	Yeah, she didn't.
	Even if she didn't, you know, you put yourself out there like that.
	She was supposed to, you know, as a friend.
	But he knew she wouldn't do it.
	Yeah, I knew she wouldn't do it, bro.
	She a brat, man.
	She a brat.
	They're like, I could tell.
	You could tell when you meet a girl she's never been told shut the fuck up before.
	We gave her so many opportunities, bro.
	That's one of them, bro.
	What about you?
	I enjoyed it.
	It wasn't as bad as I thought it was, honestly.
	Damn, what did you think it was going to be, man?
	What did you think?
	I thought you was going to be an asshole.
	I was not a stubborn ass asshole, but you're not.
	Because you only see the clips, right?
	Yeah, but you just got a real strong opinion.
	And honestly, the stuff that you said, you know, made me realize some stuff.
	But most importantly, y'all, come get y'all makeup done by me.
	That's really what I came in for.
	Fantastic.
	Mindy makeup artist, thank you.
	All right.
	Of course.
	Fantastic.
	All right, what about you?
	With the plug.
	Nothing.
	Thank you guys for having me.
	It was a nice experience hearing y'all's perspectives.
	Might as well get Richie, man.
	Just give Richie a chance, bro.
	I love Richie.
	Yeah, just give him a chance.
	Yeah, we know.
	Just give him a chance.
	He really cares about you, man.
	He loves you, too.
	He's gonna treat you right.
	Yeah.
	That guy loves you.
	Bro, just give him a chance.
	What?
	Are you attracted to him?
	No.
	Not at all.
	Nope!
	He's probably short, fat, out of shape.
	Huh?
	Nothing.
	Yeah, she would have quirked you right away if it wasn't.
	You know what?
	Richie Rich!
	Yeah.
	I don't know, man.
	Look, if you guys sound good, he would probably be a great boyfriend for you.
	I'm keeping a thousand.
	Wait, so...
	Go ahead.
	No, go ahead, Chris.
	What are you going to say?
	Question.
	Does he bring girls over?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Yes.
	I mean, he's living his life.
	I mean, how often, though?
	Yeah, she definitely don't like him.
	All the time.
	He lets me know when he's about to fuck someone.
	Because a chick that likes you, she'll kind of shut that down.
	She'll be hitting all the time.
	She'll be home making noises like...
	Do you leave when he's smashing the girls?
	I don't stay on top of his life like that.
	I don't know what y'all think this is.
	He's got to obviously let you know, hey, I'm about to bring a chick.
	That way you don't come out and be like, random chick in the fucking river.
	Yeah, that can happen.
	It's his house too.
	It's my house too.
	I'm not going to be like, hey, I'm bringing someone.
	I don't live with my fucking mom or dad.
	Wait, you said he does tell you when he brings girls over.
	No.
	I see them sometimes when they're over, but it's not like he lets me know, hey, I have someone over.
	He can have whoever the fuck he wants over.
	Have you ever had a situation to where one of his chicks that he was dealing with had a problem with you?
	Actually, my best friend at the beginning, she was, when we were in best friends, obviously, because I met her through him.
	But at the beginning, she was honest with me.
	One time we had a conversation and she told me that she felt kind of like a little out of place because she would see how close we are and like, we are very like, you know, like this.
	Duh.
	But then she knew.
	I don't know.
	She started hanging out with us more.
	And obviously she is the girlfriend.
	So it's different levels to it too.
	Then they were together for six years.
	Do you like pets?
	Do you like animals?
	I love animals.
	Yeah.
	That's what you should end up with.
	A lot of cats.
	I don't know.
	Just consider it because, I mean, you're 24 now, so it's like, woo, I got the world as my oyster.
	Bro, you're going to be 28, 29, 30, and you're going to be like, shit, where is somebody?
	Shuffling.
	Every day we shuffling.
	He might have a girl, and you messed up.
	You know what I mean?
	I'm not looking to have anything right now.
	Don't worry.
	He ain't leaving.
	Ricardo ain't leaving.
	Yeah, she got that.
	So, I'd like to say...
	What would I like to say?
	Creating controversy and diversified opinions creates a lot of great content.
	So...
	It's interesting to see that.
	It's a beast for marketing and it's brilliant.
	So I give props to you guys because you're really doing it the right way.
	Possibly.
	No, really.
	It's very intriguing.
	We'll find out soon.
	And it was an interesting experience.
	And for those of you who are on YouTube, follow me at Concept3 if you're interested in fashion.
	I don't know.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Cool.
	Dre, what can I find you, brother?
	KingDreism.
	K-I-N-G-D-R-E-I-S-M. All social media platforms.
	Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, YouTube.
	That was Chris.
	Chris said I always did.
	Nah, man.
	I ain't doing it like that.
	All social media platforms.
	Kingdreism.
	K-I-N-G-D-R-E-I-S-M. Cool.
	Guys, I hope you guys enjoyed the show, man.
	We'll be back on Monday for Money Monday.
	I think you said you got a guest or something like that?
	Yeah.
	You got a special guest for y'all on Money Monday, man.
	And then we might have something special for y'all as well.
	I just got some new equipment that we're going to test out in the real world, if you know what I'm saying.
	So I'll catch you guys next week.
	Peace.
	Peace.

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