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Oct. 21, 2023 - Fresh & Fit
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We Showed Her Chance Of A Husband Are .7% & She Said THIS...
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Thank you.
And we are live.
What's up, guys?
Welcome to the Frustrated Podcast After Hours Edition, man.
We're joining a couple of ladies.
Let's get into it.
it.
Let's go.
Look into it.
How many cares, bro?
Get out.
It's a night.
Kind of hot.
In the night.
No control.
Get out.
Put your shoes on outside.
You don't got to put them on in here.
All right.
What's up, guys?
Welcome to Fresh Fit Podcast, after-hours edition.
It's been a bit since we've ran that chat.
Intro?
Yeah, sorry, we ran, I said that chat as I saw the Rumble chat.
Oh, shit.
Since we ran the intro.
So we'll see what happens.
But anyway, guys, rumble.com slash freshfitcastleclub.tv as you guys know.
You have any announcements for the people?
We did a fire stream earlier, a call-in show, and we did an actual, I want to say, team event yesterday in Orlando, Halloween Horror Nights.
It was dope.
If you want to see it, locals, castiglove.tv.
Yeah, about that.
Chris got sick and he's here.
Wait, Chris, were you drunk or were you sick?
No, I was sick because my tolerance is pretty high, but that rum punch is like two cups of that.
I was like, what the fuck?
Vertigo is going on.
I'm like, yo, I can't handle this shit.
You came in slurring.
He's still drunk.
And guys, go get my book, Why Women Deserve Less, man.
I actually found a copy somewhere looking around in my room.
So yeah, man, Why Women Deserve Less is in stores right now.
Amazon bestseller.
Go get it.
It's a short book because, well, of course women deserve less.
And stop simping.
Chris, you got something for the people?
Yes, ladies, Aaron C. Poxa on IG. Make sure when you send me a DM, please don't send me paragraphs.
You girls still send me paragraphs about why you should come on to our show.
I just want to see your face, titties, something that looks good on cameras.
Shout out to the girls that's coming on to the panel.
We got five new girls.
We had eight, but three got triggered doing a college show.
I don't know.
Tell other people what the hell happened.
I mean, Icy knows.
All I heard was Icy called me.
She's like, Chris, yeah, three of the old bitches left.
I'm like, who?
Yeah, three of the old bitches left and they was watching the show.
I don't know.
I was downstairs doing a run.
I'm like, okay, here we go.
So, you know, now you know when girls come on, they get triggered, even though they've done their research.
Did they see the girls leaving?
Yeah, they were very...
It's good they left.
Because they would have made themselves look stupid and they would have gotten kicked out anyway.
I don't have a problem with talking about people that disagree.
They didn't fit the age group.
It wasn't even just that.
They didn't even want to sit down, look us in the eye.
They were nicely dressed.
I think it's literally because they were like 50.
I was looking.
Yeah.
No, they look 50.
You want a nursing home sticker?
Yo, Instagram is like a trap. - They look young on Instagram.
They said the show is too ratchet for them.
Oh really?
They're classy.
There you go.
I got waves out too, so they probably thought I was ratchet as well.
Fuck it, man.
We niggas, man.
Nigga, nigga, nigga.
Yeah, they're like, what the fuck is this shit?
No, I mean, it was funny because you guys are probably wondering, like, yo, how do you guys not know?
As you guys know, we're doing the show, and then the girls bring them in, and then they go to the back green room, right?
So we don't even see them, and I didn't even know that they had left or whatever until after, and I was like, oh yeah, I guess they didn't feel comfortable or some shit like that, or that we brand management.
They had a pretty Tam Collins show, by the way.
It wasn't even...
Yeah, I didn't say nothing that crazy.
I feel like we all tried to be nice, too.
No?
Like, we did.
They didn't even want to talk to y'all?
No.
No, they didn't talk to y'all.
You can tell by their vibe, it was that not us.
They were literally, like, 50.
Like, they were literally, like, 50.
Like, I'm not lying.
Grandma!
Okay.
Alright, well, I mean, if they couldn't even survive that, then they would have cried on air, then, with the chat.
Yeah, they'd probably, yeah.
Chat would have been, because, yo, I'll tell y'all this, man, the chat is ruthless when it comes to older women, so.
Yeah.
And Wells.
And what?
And Wells.
Oh, Wales.
Okay, okay.
It's fine.
We don't need him anyway.
Yeah, it is what it is.
Because I know some of them are probably wondering, why was it so, why were y'all late, blah, blah, blah, or why was Chris not showing up, or why did he did show up?
Yeah, I mean, I'm still not 100%, but I'm still here, you know what I'm saying?
Bro, this is a dynamic show, guys.
We really do.
Y'all see so much.
We're very transparent.
You guys see a lot live.
Chris made it here.
Proud of you, Chris.
He's alive right now, being a bum still, but it's okay.
All right.
Hey, I'm here, man.
Ladies!
If you don't mind, welcome.
We need your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, we're going to start with Abby.
Okay, my name is Abby.
I'm 19 and my occupation, I work for Fresh and Fit.
Woo!
Let's go!
I'm originally from Fort Lauderdale.
I've lived in Fort Lauderdale my whole life.
Not anyone special.
I work for a local podcast in Miami.
Local radio station.
A small local radio station.
That's what Mo would say.
Yeah.
I love my job.
It's great.
I love everyone here.
I love the girls here.
It's a great job.
I think that's it.
Dating status?
Dating status.
Single.
Body count?
Zero.
It's zero.
Not the cow.
I mean, there you go.
All right.
On to my twin.
You can't tell us apart.
Is that your twin?
Yes, I'm also Abby.
Her dark side.
Yes.
How old are you?
I'm Abby.
I'm 26.
Where are you from?
I grew up in Tampa, but I've been around Florida my whole life.
Now I'm here in Fort Lauderdale.
I... Alright, what do you do for it?
So I'm a model, DJ, and a photographer.
That's a lot.
Yeah.
Damn.
I like to keep it creative.
Okay.
Yeah, I'm married too.
What's your highest education level completed?
I dropped out of college.
Okay, so you finished high school.
Did you get your associates or any type of trade or something like that?
Um, no.
Okay.
I just went right into corporate America and started my own business.
Gotcha.
Which is the model DJing and photography business.
Okay.
How long have you been married?
It's been three years, together eight years.
Good stuff.
How'd you guys meet?
College.
College?
Yeah, first year, I was dating another guy, and he introduced me.
I'm like, this guy's a win, so...
Wait, what?
Is that considered homie hopping?
Yeah.
They knew each other for two weeks, so were they homies?
No.
Damn.
I was closer to him than the other guys, so were they homies?
I was a better homie to him.
Okay, so you guys were not...
Wait, wait, I just want to understand this.
So a guy that you were seeing introduced you to your husband?
Yes.
Okay.
And then you're like, okay, this nigga better.
I'm gone.
Yeah.
Guys, don't do that shit, man.
It's my homie, bro.
It's done, though.
It's done.
It's done.
I'm married.
I'm good.
Well, hey, at least she got married.
If I meet your chick, I ain't touching her with a 10 foot pole, bro.
Just saying.
Okay, different.
Whatever works.
What about you?
My name is Kelsey.
I am a marketing coordinator.
Well, real quick, how old are you?
Oh, I'm 21.
Hey, y'all!
Where are you from originally?
West Palm Beach, Florida.
And you said you're a marketing coordinator?
A red flag.
Yes, I'm a marketing coordinator.
Highest education level completed?
I have my bachelor's degree.
Okay, and?
I was going to say I'm a real estate agent.
Okay.
But I have my bachelor's degree in marketing.
Okay.
Where'd you get it from?
FAU. Okay.
And so you're a marketing coordinator and you do real estate.
Yes.
Okay.
And then, and I'm assuming, yeah, you obviously have your realtor license as well.
Yes, I do.
Okay.
And then relationship status?
I'm single.
How's the market for you in Florida with the highest interest rates?
The market's doing really good right now.
You know, people are always still looking to sell and get out while they still can, so it's still going pretty good.
Yep.
Okay.
Did you say high interest rates?
Well, she said people are still looking to sell.
Yeah.
If you're selling, interest rates don't really matter.
Well, they do to a degree.
You can't oversell your house like crazy, but it's Florida, so people are trying to buy anyway.
Because I heard high interest, I was like...
Ah, yeah, well, we already know.
Not in terms of buying, you know, getting your loan, but selling.
They're selling properties.
That's still...
It's still on boys, but it's fine.
What about you?
Don't worry.
Insider thing.
What's your name?
Olivia.
Okay.
Olivia, how old are you?
Liv.
Hi, sorry.
I'm Liv.
Nice to meet you.
How old are you?
26.
Where are you from?
Boston.
Oh, shit.
What part of Boston are you from?
Right outside of Boston.
Like Somerville, Framingham.
Okay.
Right outside of Boston.
Yeah, right outside of Boston.
Okay.
So, wait.
Are you Brazilian?
No.
Okay.
Well, Framingham has a huge Brazilian population.
That's why.
I wish I could speak Portuguese, but like, no.
What are you, black and white or something?
Yes.
What do you do for work?
Bartend and serve.
Here or back in...
Here.
I live here.
Oh, so you live here now, but you're originally from Boston.
Yes.
Highest education level completed?
Yes.
Yes.
It's New England for you.
I know.
Come on.
What's your highest education level completed?
Some of college.
Okay.
So do you got your associates or you just left?
I just left.
Alright, fuck it.
So, high school.
And then...
Hello!
It's highest completed, remember.
I tutored people in college.
Okay.
Where'd you go to college that you dropped out?
Birmingham Straight.
Okay.
Do it.
Let's go.
And then relationship status?
I'm single.
Are you kidding?
That's just it.
You've seen me ask a bunch of other girls before you the same exact questions, so...
Yeah.
Are you kidding?
Yeah.
Are you kidding, Mari?
Yeah.
Don't play with her.
Yeah, I'll play with her.
Alright, what about you?
I'm Mimi.
Okay.
Is that your actual government name?
Actually, my name is Maria.
I just go by Mimi.
Okay.
How old are you?
I'm 20.
Where are you from?
I'm from Chicago.
Oh, shit.
Red flag.
Don't shoot us.
Don't shoot us, bro.
No, I promise I won't.
Are you Polish?
No, actually, I'm half Bulgarian, half Russian.
Okay.
Mother Russia.
Yeah, because Chicago has one of the biggest Polish populations.
Chicago, just the hood, ain't it?
That's why.
Okay.
What do you do for work?
I'm a full-time student.
Okay.
Do you live here now, or are you just...
Yeah, I go to school here.
Okay.
I mean, it's up to you.
You could drop where you go to school if you want.
UM. Okay.
University of Hurricanes.
And then...
Hold on.
So you're pursuing your bachelor's degree right now.
What are you majoring in?
Finance.
Okay.
Cool.
All right.
And then, relationship status?
Single.
Okay.
Okay.
You know what?
I thought she was Greta Thunberg, whatever her name is.
How dare you?
She looks similar.
How dare you?
I actually get that a lot.
You do that?
I do.
Like, all the time.
How dare you?
I don't know why.
Are you an environmentalist?
Not really.
Okay.
Fuck that environment, I guess.
Alright, what about you?
What's your name?
Lyriss Underwood.
I'm sorry, what is it?
Lyriss.
Lyriss, okay.
Like, lyrics, but with an S. Okay.
Alright.
How old are you?
I'm 22.
Where are you from?
Palm Beach.
Red flag.
Big red flag.
Are you from West Palm Beach or are you from Palm Beach County?
I'm from Palm Beach.
Okay.
Nigga.
Nigga.
What do you do for work?
I'm a behavioral therapist for kids on the spectrum and I also do media and event coordinating.
We need your help.
Chris needs help.
Bad.
Bad.
Yeah, bad.
Okay, we can talk after.
Yeah, we can.
Alright, what's your highest education level completed?
High school.
Oh, okay.
I'm in college, but high school.
Okay.
You're pursuing your bachelor's degree?
Yes.
Business and marketing.
Okay.
Do you want to drop where you go to school?
I don't.
Okay, that's fine.
What's your relationship status?
Exclusively dating to one person.
Okay, so you're in a monogamous relationship.
Absolutely.
Nice.
Okay.
If I were to ask him, would he claim you?
Absolutely.
He knows I'm here right now.
Okay.
How long have you guys been together?
I'd say eight months.
Okay.
How'd you meet him?
I went to go watch a game with my sister.
Which game?
Yeah.
It was a U.M. game.
Okay.
You just said, yo, I like that ass.
What did he say?
No.
So we sat next to him, but he was listening to a conversation I was having with my sister, but he kept laughing at my jokes, and I'm like, nigga, what's so funny?
Yeah, nigga, but what's so funny?
But he was kind of with it.
Is that what you literally said?
No, I was just like, so you keep laughing at what I'm saying.
He said, you're funny.
Okay.
And then I pulled a joke on him, he's white.
So I was like, you're racist.
I said he's racist, and he like, I like to fuck with white people, but...
He didn't take in no kind of way.
I said, okay.
Oh, he didn't get scared?
I like you.
No!
He was like, I am!
Put that hood on!
I dab on the dark.
Yo.
But we went on a date like a month after that.
You smashed?
That's a boyfriend, bro.
Yes, later in a month.
I mean, like, first date.
He's not a slut.
I mean, first date.
Wait, how long you make him wait?
Four months.
Oh.
It wasn't about that.
Did Tyrone wait four months?
I've had other niggas wait a year.
Oh damn.
A year?
A year.
Next question.
I'm sure other Tyrone didn't wait a year.
I mean, it's not about Tyrone or Matt or Matthew, but I'm just saying like some niggas, it's not about that.
Alejandro.
I ain't never had no Spanish dig.
Okay.
A Spanish dig.
My bad.
I don't want to get cancelled.
Okay.
Okay.
You must have forgot where you're at.
We're already cancelled.
No, I'm just kidding.
Alright, so what we'll do is...
We'll read some of the chats.
I actually do got a line of questioning.
However, it is Friday, so what we're going to do is, as you guys know, we get your guys' questions in.
We're going to filter some of them out, though, so we want the good ones, guys.
Please.
From this point forward, we're going to go 20 and up.
So a chat that came in, we'll read it, but from this point forward, 20 and up, and then it's probably going to, as we go up, it's going to go to 50 and up.
Jared goes, no, seriously, though, how much do y'all drink a day?
I'm honestly curious.
We are curious now.
Shout out to Mr.
Crowder.
Drink alcohol or?
I don't drink alcohol at all, man.
Chris drank a lot, though.
I mean, not really.
Chris, come on, man.
No, not really.
Last night was like, what, I want to say, it's been a week and a half.
We got to Halloween Horror Nights.
Nigga chose it with a cup of rum punch.
Bro, what the fuck?
Hey, hey, listen.
Someone had to start the party off, man.
Come on, man.
I'm not gonna lie.
It tastes pretty good, but...
Hey, I explained why I was...
Hey, listen.
What?
Someone has to start the party off.
That's all I'm saying.
You know what I'm saying?
Okay.
Yeah.
Go ahead first.
Can you...
Okay, Campstine says, question ladies, what are your thoughts on the analogy if one key can open many locks, it's considered master key, as opposed to a lock that can be opened by any key, it's a shitty lock.
Come again?
Yeah, so he's saying, if one key can open many locks, it's considered master key, as opposed to a lock that can be opened by any key, it's a shitty lock.
I think that is a powerful quote because once you think a little bit more into it and you think about, okay, that's an analogy about a person.
If you're the person who's the master key and you have that knowledge and that power to be able to access and open up Other people but nobody can unlock you then you have the power like you're the master but then if everybody can open you up and everybody can get you exposed and get everything out of you and you can't have that same power and have power over somebody else then you lost so for this analogy who do you think is the man and then who do you think is the woman?
So, that's interesting because I think it could apply to both.
I think that it could apply to both, honestly, because it could be the man who is the master key, right?
But there also could be the man who also can get opened up by all the different women and get used and abused by women.
So it could be a girl or it could be a male perspective and you could be the lock or the key.
Male or female, you want to make sure you're the master lock.
It's just our weight is the same.
That's a different outlook.
If it is the master walk, it can't be used and abused by a woman, right?
Would that make sense or no?
I think so.
Makes sense.
Makes sense.
I don't really agree.
I'm not going to lie.
It's for mainly like sex, though.
Yeah, I saw someone just said it's about...
I'm talking spiritual.
So, I mean, yeah.
So, okay, if it's talking about sexual.
Yeah.
All right.
I think that...
Who's a man in this analogy?
Who's a woman?
What if she's a breadwinner?
That still doesn't mean it.
As it relates to sex only.
A lock or the key?
The key.
I get that.
Okay, so think about a femme fatal girl.
A girl who's able to get men to do anything and the men are opening up for her.
Doesn't mean that she's even opening up for them.
She has power, right?
So it could be like that.
But then the girl who's getting opened up by every single guy, obviously that's a loss of power, you know?
You don't have control over who's that master lock, who has power with you.
When you're sexually with somebody, it is a balance of exchange of power between the two of you and you are giving yourself to that person.
So if you're a lock opened up by everyone, then you are a weak lock.
But if you're a strong master lock and you have the power to keep people out, but also have the power to open other people up, then you're a winner.
You know?
So I don't know.
Different outlook.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I mean, I would say men in general are typically the keys and women are the locks.
And then it's on the men to be the best key that they can be so they can open up as many locks as possible.
And it's on women to preserve their lock trustiness and not open up to any key.
But we know most girls fuck that up.
So, yeah.
What else we got here?
Anybody else have any commentary on that?
Good insight.
And I got here a question.
Pretty deep question, so ladies be prepared.
Jim, Jimmy.
Donate five bucks.
Appreciate that, my friend.
And just so you guys know, if you want your thing shown on screen, it's 10 and up to be shown on screen, and then we're going to read 20 and up.
But if it came in from before, we'll read it.
We got you guys.
But 10 and up, though.
Question, everybody.
Have your parents ever talked to you or asked you about your sex or sex life?
About sex or your sex life?
If so, how did it go?
Cancel the Fifth Amendment.
Alright, we'll start hearing that work our way.
Has that ever happened to you?
Yeah, but like, my people were kind of okay with what was going on.
Okay.
Yeah.
Wait, what did they say to you?
Okay, when I was in high school, my mom came to me and was kind of just like, okay, are you going to tell me when you have sex?
And I was just like...
Just like that?
I was just like, probably not the day it happens, but I'll definitely bring it up.
And then when I was having sex and she knew I was sexually active, she was kind of just like, okay, but...
That nigga better be doing something.
Or that girl better be doing something.
Or that girl.
Yeah, I'm bisexual.
Oh, okay.
Makes sense.
Alright.
Why does it make sense?
Nothing.
You like vanilla.
Oh, okay.
So, like, if a black girl likes white guys, then she just has to be bisexual?
Right.
I'm just saying it makes sense with the actual, like, dating.
No, but I've never dated a white man until the man that I'm dating now.
Yeah, so you're fed up with black niggas.
I had bitches too, so what does that have to do with what you're talking about?
I'm just saying, typically, if you're going to date another race, you're open to different things.
I get what you're saying, but it's reversed for me though.
I already knew I was into girls long before I even dated niggas.
I like Caribbean men.
Yeah, that's all I'm gonna say about that next question.
Okay.
I think what my partner's trying to establish is that, in general, black women tend to date within their race, right, statistically speaking?
Absolutely.
Very tightly within their race?
Typically.
So if you see an African-American woman with a white guy, it means she might be more open to other things, is what he's trying to say.
No, I understand that.
Okay.
But for me, it was reversed.
It wasn't like white dudes.
You liked girls first, is what you're saying?
Mm-hmm.
Okay.
And you actually liked them?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Since you actually like them, let me ask you this then, since you're bisexual, who do you think you get more benefit from the relationship when you're with women or from men?
To be honest, I've been in a relationship with both.
I'm going to be completely straightforward and say that it really didn't depend on my relationship.
It depended on the person.
So I think it's a case-by-case thing.
Okay.
But who do you think you have a higher, who has more requirements when you're dealing with a woman or when you're dealing with a man?
Who are you pick you're with?
Men.
Why?
Because y'all are hard-headed.
You have to compromise.
You have to maneuver a lot.
And I'm a type of genuine person, so moving strategic allows me to gain in a critical thinking and just using my mind kind of way, but at the same time, it's just...
Y'all niggas be trifling.
Like, every time I was with a girl, even if she did me green...
I knew that's the type of girl she was long before.
Can you define did you green?
Cheat, lie, steal.
Okay.
So you can read girls better than men.
I can read men better than women, but I think that the women were most honest.
But as a woman, I feel like we know when we lie, do shisey shit, no matter how good you are.
But at the same time, it's like, y'all niggas telling us this.
Okay, no, fair enough.
Are you saying, was she actually more honest though, or were you just better at...
The girl I was in a relationship with?
She was more honest.
Okay, because you're saying like, if I get with a girl that's green that steals or whatever, it's they're more honest.
But is it that they're more honest, or that you're just able to identify women better because you're a female?
Both.
Okay.
Alright, so you're saying that it's easier to be with women than men.
To some extent, yeah.
What would you prefer?
If you have to pick one gender to be with for the rest of your life, what would you prefer?
Okay, I don't have a preference.
That's what, okay.
If you have to pick one, though, is what I'm asking.
It depends on the person.
Let's say both are optimal.
The girl gives you what you need, the guy gives you what you need.
What do you think is a better, what would you go with?
I still can't pick one.
Because I love women and men equally.
So you want both?
If I need somebody, I could have both if I want to.
Absolutely.
But I don't really think that's...
To marry and live with forever.
Which one would you actually choose?
Your family.
Kids, if you want kids.
I get what y'all are saying, but it still doesn't matter who.
The process to even have kids, yeah, bruh.
The process even to have kids, I'll go through that same process and still probably be in love with that woman the same as I would with a man.
But you're pickier with men than you are with women.
I am, because y'all are more difficult to deal with.
Okay, would it be fair to say that men, for a guy to deal with you versus a woman that has to deal with you since you're pickier, by definition that means the man has to bring more to the table to get you than a woman would?
I just have a biased opinion when it comes to guys in relationships.
So that means they have to work harder to get you than a girl would, because you're pickier.
Yeah, sure.
Okay.
So, for example, let's say you meet somebody the first time, guy and girl, who waits longer for sex?
The man does.
They're both the same, right?
I think that men have an instilled thing in them to enjoy not only competition but not just competition but We're good to go.
So obviously, in essence, that's gonna not only sometimes it offends men, but most men that have money or power or any type of strength in community or like the social world, he's gonna want to conquer you no matter what.
So nine times out of ten?
Niggas trying to fuck.
That's fine.
Conquer doesn't have to mean, oh, I have to spend the most money on her.
It means I have to fuck her.
It could be anything for anybody.
Because men have different desires.
No, but the end root of it is trying to smash.
But that's fine.
But y'all niggas will go to hell.
I had a nigga chase after me for seven years before he could actually get in the same vicinity as me.
Stupid.
Stupid.
Really.
Holy.
Goddamn.
Okay.
All right.
You're toxic.
Toxic as hell.
I'm not toxic, I tell them no.
What about you?
What was the question?
I forgot.
Pull it back up.
Which one?
The question was originally...
Let's see right here.
Did your parents ever ask you about that?
They asked me, but we never got into really deep talk, I guess.
When I had my first boyfriend, they kind of knew.
They didn't care?
Yeah, they were fine.
They were actually pushing me to socialize more, go out there.
Have some kids, baby girl!
No, not kids.
So they were pushing you to deal with the opposite gender?
Sorry?
They were pushing you to get out and meet men.
Yeah, because I was more shy.
Okay.
Are your parents still together?
No.
Okay.
Was it your mom that told you to get to meet guys?
No, my dad actually.
Oh, okay.
He probably wanted you out of the house.
He wanted you gone.
Bye-bye.
Alright.
What about you?
What was it like talking with your parents about that?
I would say...
They're the same.
What does that sound effect mean?
Alright, go ahead.
No, you're good.
You're good.
Go ahead.
Just keep going.
They can hear you.
I would say, like, my parents both push me.
Like, my parents definitely push me.
Like, my dad, yes.
Like, I tell him everything.
And then, like, my mom, she's like, bitch, get out in there.
And, like, she's like, do some shots.
Or, like, whatever.
I'm like, okay.
Oh, shit.
Are your parents still together?
No, they're divorced.
Okay, so both parents, like, push you to get laid.
Yeah, I tell them everything.
Wait, everything?
Yeah.
Even blowjobs?
Yeah, I'll give them the details.
Like, I don't know.
What the fuck?
Maybe not my dad, because, like, I'm closer with him, but my mom.
She's like, well, how did it go last night?
I'm like, well...
Goddamn.
All right.
Take us through a one-night stand with your mom talking about it.
How does that go?
Hey mom.
I'm like, his dick was so big.
He was really tall.
He had really nice long legs.
Okay.
That's a strange compliment.
He has long legs.
Shout out to Boston, man.
I don't know.
And my mom's like, okay, good.
Keep it going.
I mean, dad will be like, okay, like, I will not give him that details, but I'll be like, okay, hooked up with this guy last night.
He's like, all right, live, like, bye.
All right.
He's like, fuck that shit.
Yeah, for real.
I also tell him, like, who cares?
All right, TMI. What about you?
Yeah, they definitely gave me that talk when I started, like, dating and stuff.
Are your parents still together?
No, they aren't.
What'd they say?
Mainly just, you know, be safe, use protection, don't get pregnant, you know.
So they didn't tell you don't do it, they just said, like, be safe about it?
Yeah, they said they couldn't stop anything from happening if I choose to partake in, you know, sex or do shit like that, but just be safe, make sure I'm good, always use a condom, and don't get pregnant.
Alright, alright.
What about you?
Wait, hold on, real quick.
Do you always use a condom?
No What about you?
Yeah, my dad never wanted to hear about that stuff.
My mom, she's like, when it happens, let me know.
So I definitely was open to her, but then it was a handled...
Welcomely, of course.
She was mad.
It was?
Oh, so she told you to tell her and then she didn't like the result.
No.
Oh, shit.
Woman.
So then, from there, then I just kept it to myself, you know.
Gotcha.
Yeah.
Are your parents still together?
No, they're not.
Okay.
What story pissed her off that, like, she got offended by it?
I was just like this, Mom.
I thought it was magical.
I'm like this, Mom, guess what?
I lost my virginity.
Oh, okay.
And she's like...
What?
Oh, so she didn't even care about how you did it.
She just was mad that you lost it.
That I did it, yeah.
Yeah.
So she told you, I want you to tell me the truth, then you told the truth, and she got pissed.
Bruh.
Go to the show, Myron.
We want the truth.
Yeah, facts.
They say they want it, but they don't.
Fair enough.
What about you?
My dad's been telling me forever, like, boys want one thing, they're dirty, don't talk to them, blah, blah, blah.
So I have a great relationship with my dad.
He's like my best friend.
He asks me all the time.
He asks me a million questions, but I just tell him the truth.
I don't do that, Dad.
Period.
What if you want to lose your B card?
When I find the right person.
I thought I was waiting for one for a minute, but it didn't work out.
No, he's not in Miami.
He goes to Miami, but he's not in Miami.
No, but you're in here right now in Miami.
Well, it's for the podcast, so it's different.
He knows I'm here.
What the hell did you say?
She's in here right now, so it's not going to happen anytime soon.
I guess not.
I'm confused, bro.
You know what's crazy?
You can tell that she...
Shout out to you.
You understand what that nigga said.
We didn't even understand.
All right.
Fantastic.
What else we got here?
We are all under the weather, bro.
Yeah.
Okay.
We got here.
Ladies, have you personally ever approached a guy or slid into a guy's DMs?
If so, what was your opening line?
Good question.
We'll start here.
Okay, once, this was a while ago, before I was talking to the guy I was waiting for.
Sorry.
Bro, how long you been here and you've been knocking that?
It's an accident.
It's in my way.
I need it taken away.
It's in my way.
I've slid in the guy's DMs and I've said something along the lines of like, I'll block everyone for you.
Something like that.
Just something along the lines of like...
How do you respond?
He gave me a snap, so I blocked him, because I don't do snap.
That's for the hoes.
He gave you a snap?
Yeah, he gave me a snap.
Who gives a girl a snap?
That's for hoes.
I don't do that.
He's fucking Gen Zers, bro.
Okay, explain this.
He gave you his Snapchat handle.
So I blocked him.
That was the end.
Okay.
I mean, she has a point in a way.
Okay.
That is for, like, I want to say bad behavior, if you know what I mean.
Okay, that's why he did that.
Yeah, he probably wanted to get some nudes.
Wow!
For example...
I'm genuinely intrigued now.
Is that how Diggas asked for nudes in 2023?
I don't understand.
Why do people prefer the nudes on Snapchat now instead of text?
Because it goes away.
Because it disappears.
Why do you want to disappear?
Because you put work into that.
You put work into that and it disappears.
Are girls more comfortable to give you a Snapchat to send nudes because, again, it disappears?
And again, it's like, okay, here today or tomorrow.
And if they like you, they can screenshot it and save it for another time.
But it's definitely the app to disappear and not have a trace of what you're sending.
And if you, as the other person, do a screenshot of that picture, they can tell right away.
Yeah, yeah.
The truthful parent is real.
Alright, so that was a slide in a DM and then you blocked him after.
Because he said, here's my snap.
First time and last time.
I'll never...
Well, not never, but I don't slide in guys' hands.
So guys, if we go get your Snapchat, you're in there, buddy.
Alright.
I learn something new every day.
Alright, what about you?
Have you ever, I think it's slid in a DM or approached a guy?
Yeah, I mean, I'm the one who pulled my husband first.
Oh, shit.
So, like, he was approaching things as a friend.
We went out one night after me and my ex broke up.
And I'm like this, hey, listen, we're going home tonight.
Okay.
Claimed, like, I wanted him.
You took him on a date.
I took him home.
She smashed him.
She was like, we smashed him, buddy.
Wait a minute.
And now they're married.
So you took him out on a date and they say we're going home and smashed?
Yes.
Oh, so you actually asked him out on a date too?
Yes.
And I still like to plan our dates as well.
Okay.
So you initiated it.
Okay.
Is he white?
Yes.
How did I know?
You know what's weird, though?
I think when he first met, when she first met him, he was throwing moves on her.
And then that's what happened afterwards.
Because there ain't no way in hell she's going to be like, yo, nigga, come on.
Absolutely.
Bro, he's white, dog.
It makes sense.
All right.
All right.
Elaborate on that.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay, so let me say something very general here because I don't want to be too racist.
Let's just say in terms of men and actually being confident and going after girls, that's more of like a Hispanic black minority move.
White niggas just be like, hey, I'm here.
Yeah.
And I'll go wherever you want to go.
I'm a son.
I met some black dudes like that, though, too.
But generally, if we're going to put it into the perspective of the general population, it's going to be they're more easygoing white guys.
Okay.
Just out of curiosity, because, I mean, for a woman, that's a pretty lofty risk to take, right?
From a societal standpoint, like...
From a social standpoint, you know, it's your ex's friend, even though it was only two weeks and they didn't really know each other like that, you know, there could be some social stigma, especially on a college campus where news travels around.
What made you take that risk?
What did that guy exemplify that made you say, you know what, I'm going to take this risk and shoot this shot?
So I think...
Was he extremely handsome?
Was he very charismatic?
Was he charming?
Did he have money?
What was it?
It was the charisma, the way he carried himself, the way he presented himself in front of other women, in front of other men, and everything that he approached his way of life and his dreams and his ambitions.
That's what made me like him for him and look at him differently, I guess.
So I put myself out there.
And you were able to identify that in a pretty short period of time.
Yeah, yeah.
We were talking, hanging out, like picking each other's mind.
I'm always the kind of person who likes to go deeper in conversations, so I like to know somebody's values and who they are.
Okay.
Like from the jump, friends or not.
Did he match your type physically that you would normally go for?
Yes.
Because what I've come to realize, Austin Dunham talks about this, shout out to him.
If you look at a girl's past three or four boyfriends, you're going to notice that they look pretty damn alike or have very similar traits.
Women tend to have a type and they tend to be very close to it.
Sometimes they'll venture out of it every now and then.
But in general, women have a type and they tend to stick to that.
Women are very linear in the type of men that they like versus men are way more open.
But if they hurt bad enough, they'll change.
Yeah, facts.
They'll change, like, you know...
Oh yeah, but at that point, it's over.
Yeah, but at that point, it's a wrap for you, nigga.
Yeah, pretty much.
If they fucked a bunch of...
Fuck black guys!
...and then they come back to you?
Oh, white guys!
Yeah.
Okay.
Alright, cool.
So...
And I ended up working out for you.
You got married.
Cool.
By the way, I want to tell people that you homie-hopped.
Just say you met him.
I mean, she's married now, so she don't care.
Probably better.
I think about it, and I actually genuinely think, did I homie hop?
Yeah, you did.
Did I? They weren't friends.
It doesn't matter.
Still, man.
It's a circle.
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah, don't say that no more.
All right.
What about you?
Sliding.
Have you ever approached a guy and or slid in a guy's DMs?
That's the correct question, right?
Let's pull it up on screen.
I don't remember the last time I really approached.
What about in person?
In person?
I mean, I probably have.
Can I remember it?
No.
Okay.
Not surprised.
What up, nigga?
Not surprised?
No, I'm saying I'm not surprised because most women don't approach men in general.
What about you?
I did, yes.
You approached the guy or slid at the DM. Tell us the story.
Yes.
Cute.
He was just, like, walking down the street.
I was like, uh, like, cute.
Like, you were so hot.
What was your line?
I was just like, you're really hot.
Just like that?
Yeah.
I was like, okay, you're looking good.
Like, Okay, tell us the verbatim way that you actually did it.
Matter of fact.
I like that, and we looked at each other.
Well, yeah.
If looking counts.
No, literally.
Do you know where you lock eyes?
That's a lady.
Fresh, let's demonstrate it.
Well, if you lock eyes, yeah, I will demonstrate it.
Get 15 and 16 ready.
Wait, what?
Yeah, I want to actually see this shit.
I want to see this shit.
Don't do it again.
Alright, ready?
No, no, no.
Hold on, hold on.
Yeah, so I'm going to get some mics real quick and we're going to actually demonstrate this.
No, I'm being deadass.
I'll do it.
No, no, I believe you.
I just want to see.
Yeah, exactly.
They know what they're talking about.
He's like, what?
This is the Johnny Bravo of, uh, never mind.
Johnny's spicy, but Johnny.
I think it was Johnny?
Yeah.
Johnny, I'm just losing you.
Sorry.
You're so hot.
Okay, should we do it?
Yeah, we can do it right here.
All right.
We're really doing this.
I want to actually see how y'all did this shit.
You know what it is to just look at a dude.
You just give him the eyes.
Give him the eyes.
Give him the eyes.
I'm going to go ahead.
Give him the eyes.
Hit one.
Oh my gosh, walking by Gekko.
Okay, act like you're walking there.
Right there.
By Gekko, right?
So, okay.
Yeah, like, oh my God.
Ew, what?
One works.
Cool.
Go this way.
Are you going this way?
Yeah.
The demonstration.
You guys ready?
Yeah, ready.
He was kind of behind me, and I was like...
Oh, behind you?
No, keep walking past me!
Okay, so he walks, bam, alright?
And I was like, I was looking, like, we were making eye contact type thing.
Like, you know.
What'd you say?
I was like, oh my god, you're so hot.
Thanks.
I was like...
I want to make sure I get this right.
I want to really...
Because here's the thing.
I want the audience to see...
Okay, I was in heels like...
I was looking cute or whatever.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
The reason why I'm demonstrating this is because I really want the audience to see this.
And I want you all to see...
Well, I don't want to reveal why I'm doing this right now.
Okay, so he's coming this way, and you're standing here, right?
No, I'm walking.
Walking past each other.
Okay, so you're coming this way, he's coming that way.
Okay, bam?
Okay, so he makes eye contact with you like this.
Okay, and then you turned your body to him.
Okay, and then he still keeps going or does he look back like this?
Okay, so he faces you like this then.
Okay, and then what did you say specifically?
I was like, you're so cute.
He's like, oh my god, you're so cute.
I was like, alright.
I was like, you're so cute.
Okay, and then what did he say?
I said, can I get your number?
And he was like, of course.
Okay, so just like that.
So he's just like, oh yeah, sure, of course.
Yeah, of course.
And then he gives you his number, and then what?
Yes.
And then, I don't know, we've got a little thing going on.
Wait, did he smash?
Um...
Let's be honest here.
Not that night.
Okay.
He's a really nice guy.
Yeah?
Okay.
Yeah, he's really nice.
He lives across the...
We're neighbors, you guys.
Oh, so you had seen him on multiple occasions?
No, I haven't.
No, I was like, he's so hot.
So you found out he was a neighbor after the fact?
No, yeah, we're neighbors now.
Okay, but you didn't know he was a neighbor before?
No.
I'm on the light?
That was good.
Fuck out of me.
What?
And she got no ass.
I know.
Please, I'm working on it, okay?
Bro, I'll be scared, dog.
Y'all like the new studio, man?
It's fire.
W Myron.
No, no, but at least you're brave enough to do that, because most girls are scared to do that.
So you're brave enough.
And the reason why I wanted to demonstrate that for you guys is because girls can get away with a really bad game.
That's the reason why I wanted to say that.
Because if a guy did that to a girl, he would have to be exceptionally handsome or really have some shit together to be able to pull it off most of the time.
He was so hot.
That's what I mean.
That's why I was like, okay, I'm going to shoot my shot.
No, I mean, if it was the other way around, and a guy did that on you...
That's what cigars all the time, and girls are like...
What I'm trying to explain is that women are able to get...
The whole reason why I even demonstrated that is because women are able to get away with really bad game, whereas men are not able to do that.
If a guy did it, he would have to do it in a much different way.
He might go to jail, too.
He might go to jail.
You never know.
If the audience wants, I could demonstrate to y'all...
How the guy would have had to do it to be more attractive.
They want to see it.
They want to see it.
Give me one to the chat if y'all want me to show you guys how you would have to do it as a guy.
I would like to see it.
Let's do it.
Why she was able to get away with it as a girl and I can do it as a guy.
Like I said before, we're switching shit up on this goddamn show.
Hold on, guys.
I don't whistle.
Okay, we're getting it.
Yeah, sure, sure, sure.
We can do it.
Alright, so I guess who wants to do it?
You want to do it?
Alright, cool, sure.
So, 15 and 16?
Alright, so come on.
So, we're going to demonstrate a live pickup on the street cold approach.
So, same exact scenario, right?
So if I was the guy, right?
So just to recap with the audience real quick, right?
So she was the girl, she walked by like this, and you come by, come by.
And what she does is she turns her entire body to engage him and tell him, oh, I'm interested in you, blah, blah, blah, right?
And as a girl, that works because the guy doesn't have any physical worry that you're going to hurt him, correct?
Because that's why you're able to be a bit more assertive in how you approach the guy and do that and telegraph interest like that because there's no physical fear from a male perspective, right?
However, when it's reversed as a guy, right, you have to take that into your head and be like, okay, I'm going to approach her, but I have to do it in a way where I'm conveying interest while not coming off as creepy while still making her feel safe.
So this is how a guy would have to do it, right?
So if you're walking by as a guy, right, same situation, walk past each other, I'm not going to stop you like this or engage you like this because this is scary.
I'm much taller than her.
I'm much bigger than her.
I can hurt her.
She doesn't know who the fuck I am.
I'm really close to her, too.
That's weird.
I would have to do something where I would have to turn my head and be like, oh, you're attractive.
And still kind of almost go and see how she reacts to it.
And then based on how she goes, and mind you, by the way, as a man, you're thinking about this is happening real fucking time.
You have to make adaptations.
Because if she keeps pushing, I keep pushing.
Because if I chase after her, that might be a little weird.
Or, I can fully commit and stop her like this, so she gets a full perspective of who the hell I am, and she knows, okay, this guy's approaching me, but he's not weird about it, and I'm approaching, obviously, with a smile on my face, not being strange, giving her enough space so that she knows I'm not going to do some weird shit.
So there's two ways.
Either I stop her overtly and let her know, hey, I'm going to make an approach, or, come by.
Yeah.
Or like this, where I'm doing it subtly, and I'm turning my head like this, and if she sees me, and she interacts with me, and then she turns her body to me, like that, then I know...
Hold on.
Wait one second.
You're the one with the bad game here, right?
Or then I can reciprocate, and then I can match that, right?
Bam.
Then I can telegraph a little bit of interest.
But I have to be more subtle with the way I do it, because as a woman...
And here's the thing.
Y'all are women.
You guys don't even know...
Of the shit that we have to think about to have in mind to make this shit come off and make it look smooth so you don't get creeped out and shit.
So, as a guy, you initiate, but then you have to go off of, okay, I'm going to initiate, but then if she doesn't reciprocate, I need to keep it pushing.
Like, if she's not showing interest, I got to kind of count my losses.
Because girls know right away.
Going from behind is an L. That's L. It's a huge L. Don't call someone from behind.
Don't do that.
And this is more for the men now to learn.
For you guys, you'll never be in this situation, but this is for the men.
That's when you get pepper sprayed.
Yeah.
And then also, another tip is, once you're long gone, and you're already passed, It's too late.
Yeah, it's my thing that approach of like right next to or like when you could see eye contact.
Make eye contact first.
Eye contact and conversation is much better.
So the two ways for the guy, right?
You either stop her overtly like this, bam, hey, I just had to whatever, say your line.
Or if you're passing by and you make eye contact, oh wow, you're really cute.
You give her a compliment and then if she turns around to engage you, then you match that.
But the point is that I still have my feet placed going this way and I'm just turning my head.
Why am I doing that?
To show that I'm willing to walk away from this interaction.
I know it's very weird, like, whoa, Myron, that's a lot of thought process, whatever.
But you've got to understand that body language telegraphs 80% of communication a lot of times.
And when you show that you're willing to walk away from a girl, it actually shows a good amount of value as a man.
Because most guys, what do they do?
Oh my god, I hope you like me.
But it's like, okay, I'm going to offer my...
How do I say this?
I'm going to offer my attention to a degree, but it isn't going to be here forever.
And then what they do is they'll walk past and be like, should I talk to her real quick?
You know what?
I'll do it.
And then they run back.
It's like, nah, nigga.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
And that displays like a lack of confidence.
Now, are you going to be...
Can some guys pull that off where they run back and...
Yes.
If they're handsome, right?
Super good-looking, or maybe they got some status on campus and she figures out who the fuck you are, that's different.
There's always going to be exceptions.
But in general, she'll know who the fuck you are.
You'll know who the fuck she is.
You're not the best-looking Chad.
You gotta, you know, be able to read situations like this.
So, but yeah, I say all that to say this.
Like, what you did, if a guy did that shit, he'll probably get rejected.
But women can get away with making, like...
Terrible game.
Random stuff.
I just look.
Like, eyes.
I feel like eye contact.
Like, even, like, you know.
Like, if your eyes are in, like, the right place and, like, you see each other, yeah.
100%.
You know?
I'm curious.
Do you do that often?
What?
Talk to guys?
No.
No?
Thank you for being there.
No, no.
No, I mean, I always taught him.
He made the eye contact.
I was like, oh my God, you're super hot.
And like, I was like, okay, I'll shoot my shot.
Like, the worst thing he's going to say is no, you know?
There you go.
Like, that's the worst I'm going to get.
Like, maybe ew, but like...
But have you ever been rejected by a guy?
No.
Yes?
So she said no?
Um...
How many?
Maybe like a couple.
I have a girlfriend or something.
Like, I don't know.
Yeah, definitely in college.
Yeah.
Well, they probably seen her in college.
Wait, wait, wait.
Like going up to them in person and saying what's up?
Yeah, definitely.
Really?
Were you sloppy drunk though?
Yes Come on girl friends!
I'm a psychic That's you And niggas don't want to go to jail Or Okay, or they have girlfriends FBI open up!
A nigga with a girlfriend, they don't care Okay, yeah, that's a lie, right?
I got a girlfriend Like, come on, that's the biggest I'll pray for you, okay?
Thank you.
Alright, hope the chat enjoyed that one right there, like I said before.
So, where were we at here?
We were at...
Chat.
About DMs.
Oh, yes.
So she went over her...
Oh, yeah.
Have you ever approached a guy or a DM them?
I don't think so.
Probably I have, but very, very rarely.
Can't remember.
Can't remember.
Yeah, I'm more private.
I like when guys approach me, not...
The opposite.
Not the opposite, yeah, definitely.
Okay.
What's your type?
More like, I don't know how to say it, like masculine, like, you know, protective.
Well, you're a Russian, so it makes sense.
Cool.
Okay.
And then for you?
I've definitely slid into guys' DMs before.
I already know.
What'd you say?
How you know that?
What up, nigga?
It's me.
I'm not that aggressive.
No, it's hey.
I don't even like Friday like that.
I'm just kidding.
No, but honestly, like, I would walk up.
I didn't say I didn't like it.
I just said I don't like it like that.
I didn't ask that.
Mo, you were the one.
Yo, y'all niggas need to put the cameras on yourselves when you say the shit that you guys be saying.
I didn't hear Mo at all.
What was your question?
No, she answered it.
I was like, you don't like Friday?
I like Friday, but it's cool.
Deebo or Bully?
But yeah, I've definitely slid in a guy's DMs, but I'm more comfortable talking to them in person.
I don't really like texting in the phones.
Tell us your last cold approach, how'd it go?
It's with the guy I was with now.
Okay, how'd you make that approach?
Like I said, he was laughing at my jokes, so I was just like...
That wasn't an approach, man.
He was laughing.
No, but I didn't have to say anything to him.
He wasn't going to talk to me.
He said that he wasn't going to talk to me.
And I asked for his number.
First.
Yeah.
Okay.
But not only that, I asked for his number first.
And he didn't think that I was going to.
But he gave you like a sign though.
Like a signal.
Yeah.
Him laughing at my jokes.
Niggas don't think women are funny.
So...
At least you know that.
She said a funny joke, but that's true, yeah.
Yeah, y'all act like...
But women aren't funny though, to be honest.
We are, y'all just are sensitive.
Nah, it's...
Who?
You!
Nah, not for real.
Some niggas are sensitive.
Humor is selective.
If you could make a man laugh, I think that their food and their stomach and them making them laugh is...
The laughing isn't it.
Maybe the stomach.
No, because I like to laugh.
The hotter girl is the funnier she gets, right?
Yeah.
Right.
You laughing right about them drawers.
No, we're laughing to make you think that we like you.
Yeah.
No, no, but I know a fake laugh between a real laugh.
You can't really tell.
I can.
Yeah, you can.
You can speak for yourself, but not me.
It was the first time you met him, right?
So therefore, you're not going to be able to identify if his life is authentic or not.
You have to know an individual to know that.
No, but it really had nothing to do with that.
I think that he thought we were attractive.
I don't...
He was into white girls before he met me.
Look, look, look, man.
I'll be honest with you.
Women are not funny, just as you said before.
I'm hilarious, though.
Well, women in general are not funny.
And if they were funny, there'd be more female comedian specials.
There aren't.
I feel you, but I'm not speaking in general.
I'm talking about me.
And I'm hilarious.
Okay, other than your previous guy right now, do you ever approach a guy?
Yeah.
First?
Yeah.
Okay, can you give us an example of how it went?
So we know the one where you are funny.
And then what's the other one?
I'd throw looks.
I didn't have to do a lot, but if I really wanted somebody that I thought wasn't...
Okay, let me define a cold approach.
Hold on, let me stop you real fast.
A cold approach is when you approach an individual that you don't know and you initiate a conversation for some type of courtship, or in this case, to get courtship from a man.
So have you ever done that besides giving a look?
Because that doesn't count.
Yeah, I've given a compliment, whether it was physical looks or, like, I noticed the peace on them because I'm into clothes.
Okay, give us an example.
So, like, I'd say, like, yo, I like your shirt.
Or, like, I didn't know that a lot of people wear this type of shoe.
Okay, you know what?
Or sometimes I've went to a hockey game and I've, like, kind of started up a conversation, but he asked me for my number.
I wasn't even trying to run down on him.
She went to a hockey game.
I see what she's doing there.
Yeah, smart.
Ain't no niggas there.
It's niggas, but not the niggas you talk about.
I want to know how you...
How'd you approach the guy?
I just find something to connect with them on.
How'd you go in there and be like, nice shirt?
How'd you do that?
I would just tell them.
I feel like I'm confident enough to speak to someone.
But see, it's so simple for her.
Yeah, because I'm in media, so coaching is really easy for me.
Alright, mic time.
Again, I want to see this.
Because, again, I want to show people the polarity between what women can get away with versus what men will never be able to get away with.
I think that's very important for the audience to learn.
And women hardly ever get, I want to say, told no.
Because, again, you're a woman talking to me.
Outside of crazy examples like you're pissed drunk and they don't want to go to jail.
Okay, so go ahead, Fresh.
Since you are a drippy individual, is that what you guys call it nowadays?
Oh, bro, I'm drippy today, bro.
I'm chilling today.
I'm recovering from Orlando.
You got the iced-out Arab dial Rolex.
Yeah, I'm recovering from Orlando.
Okay.
Yeah, yeah.
What up, nigga?
What's good, nigga?
I want you to specifically show how you go up to a guy and give him a comment.
I want the body language, everything.
Mimic it.
I'm here at a game.
Watching right now.
How would you do it?
Who you betting on?
I'm not going to lie.
I'm just here to watch a game.
I don't know.
Okay, cool.
I noticed that I liked your watch, but you don't have any shoes on.
Why?
I'm in the booth chilling.
So you take off your shoes in your booth if it's private?
Yeah, I don't want to relax.
And you know what?
I can respect that.
I like that.
I've never taken my shoes off in the booth.
I normally wear heels.
Try it.
Do it right now.
Okay, cool.
There you go.
This feels weird.
I'm cold.
I know, but you get used to it.
I can use your jacket.
No, nigga.
Nigga is crazy.
Okay, have a good night.
Thanks.
You're kind of cute by the way.
Okay, let's break that down real quick.
Okay, you be the guy.
Give her the mic real fast.
You be the guy.
I'm going to do exactly what she did, but now I'm going to do it as a guy.
This is what I mean when I say girls get away with a bunch of bullshit.
She already laughing.
She already laughing.
Alright, so I come up to you like this.
I noticed right away you invaded his private space and he was bladed like this.
Real close.
Okay, he was like this.
And then you came right up like this and you were like...
I was not even that close.
Don't flag.
Yes, you were.
I was watching you very closely.
You were very close to him.
Imagine if that guy stank or smelled bad.
Yeah.
And it's fine, though, because you're a girl, right?
So you could get away with that.
But if a guy came up to a girl like that in her personal space and was that close and made an observation, I think, she'd be like, what the fuck?
Get the fuck out of here.
That would have been weird.
Y'all are in a skybox, though.
What if the skybox is crowded?
Still there's going to be some semblance of like this.
And I'm not saying this to say your game sucks.
I'm just saying this is the level...
What I'm trying to illustrate here is that women are able to get away with a lot more shit than men are, right?
So, okay.
So, you came into a space like...
Let's face this way so the audience can see what's going on.
So, you came in this close, right?
And then you said your line about...
What was it again?
She said, nice shirt?
Or no, I like your...
I like his watch, but he don't got no shoes on.
No shoes.
Okay, so she gave a compliment.
She looked at me, saw what I was wearing, and talked about that.
She gave a dismissive compliment, which actually is kind of good, because as a guy, you don't want to show too much interest, right?
You would be like, oh yeah, I like this, but you can make fun of her at the same time, especially since so many women are cocky nowadays.
So I get what you did there.
But you were really close to him, and then you immediately asked for his sweater.
Which, hey, it's cold in here.
Can I get your sweater?
Which, as a girl, you can get away with that.
But could you imagine if you walked up to a girl like, hey, man.
I have to work up for my feminine angle.
Hey, yo, man.
It's cold in here.
It's cold in here.
Yo, give me your jacket.
They're going to ask you if you want a drink or something like that.
I think that you should work your angle as a man or a woman.
No, no, but the point is that girls are able to get away with ballsy requests like that.
Oh, yeah.
That's what I mean.
With a low failure rate.
Wayne says, as a white guy...
Okay, cool.
That was good enough.
But I think that was a really good illustration for our audience to see how girls can get away with certain things.
As a dude, you'll get fucked up for doing that shit.
I'll give her this, though.
As a woman coming to talk to a guy, she's very, I want to say...
Thanks.
Relatable because she mentioned, oh, I'll take my shoes off as well.
And she kind of like was calm about it, chill about it, relaxed about it.
So I would say she's very, I want to say, somewhat nice to talk to.
So there you go.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And she made some jokes too.
Yeah.
Oh, she is funny.
Well, I mean...
Funny in the context of a girl coming up to you versus like, yeah, actually being funny and being a comedian.
No.
Yeah, most girls suck at that.
Alright!
That's funny though.
Okay.
Good breakdown.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
For sure.
Next question.
We had Wayne.
Wayne had a good one.
He says, as a white guy, if any woman can make you laugh, it sets her apart from money.
ST women.
100 bucks.
Okay, Wayne.
Shout out to you, Wayne.
304 in prison shirt left of Myron has that KSI forehead.
This is wild.
BN says, Myron, please forgive.
Sorry, please get the 304 in prison shirt next to you.
Your hair transplant.
Doctor and regiment.
She's not here right now.
She's not here to defend herself.
She's in a bathroom, bro.
Oh, man.
Billy says, question.
Name one reason men should get married in this day and age.
Western society.
Did I win?
Alright, we can go ahead and ask.
Ladies, can you name one reason why men should get married in today's day and age?
And if you can't name anything, that's cool too.
Let's start here.
A reason men should get married?
Yeah.
To have a girl that can...
What?!
To have a girl that can just like...
What the fuck?!
Do all the basic things that...
Take extra time off their hands.
Like, any girl that can help out a guy with basic things to make his life easier.
Do you know what I mean?
I feel like I worded that a little weird in the beginning, but any girl that can make a guy's life easier.
So the reason is to get basic needs met?
Is that all that marriage is for?
Okay, I think a better question is this, bro.
Name one benefit that a guy gets through marriage in the West that he wouldn't get through a regular relationship.
That's a better way to phrase it.
Having an easier life and someone that can maybe emotionally support him, do all the small things...
Would you get that in a relationship?
Wait, can you say that again?
You can get that in a relationship without being married.
You can, but...
Here's a but.
Yeah, you can.
Okay.
Here's a but.
Is there anything that any of you guys can think of where a guy would get a benefit of being married that he wouldn't get in a regular relationship?
For, I could say that it depends when you find the right girl, because I always say, and I've heard it a lot of times before...
But if she's the right girl, once you get in a relationship without a marriage?
Marriage is like a business.
So when you put your finances together, and when you put your strategy together for life, and you actually team up together, then it can become a strategic plan for your life.
But if it's just somebody for the benefit of having comfort, having sex, having your home taken care of, that's when it starts actually becoming a loss in your life.
But does it benefit a guy to combine his money with a girl, when a lot of the times men bring more money than women?
So that's why I think that's when it comes in with the whole strategy for life.
So when you guys are teammates, and you guys have a common mission, a common purpose, and you both have these strengths that you guys can fill in each other's gaps, like for example with my husband...
He doesn't have a lot of the strategy part, but he's a strategy in terms of connecting to market, connecting to emotions, and the appeal to where it kind of takes more of a feminine approach for that kind of things.
But then he's more like, okay, I can handle the finances.
I need to know closing the sales.
I need to know this stuff.
He can get that out of you with you being his girlfriend, realistically speaking.
He doesn't have to marry you to get that benefit, being honest.
So the question, ladies, is specifically, what would they get out of marriage that would benefit them that they can't get out of a relationship?
Yeah, I guess the marriage is just a piece of paper.
Can anyone think of anything?
Marriage is a promise, no?
I guess you can make that argument.
I think that it's a contract as well.
Promise to what?
Promise to both being loyal to each other and like fulfilling the common goals.
Yeah, but what benefit does the guy get that he wouldn't get in a regular relationship though?
Okay, so I think that with anybody in a relationship...
Just for her.
Oh, I'm sorry.
Go ahead.
No, no, it's good.
No, no, no.
Okay, so I think that when it comes to having a partner, the luxury of having a partner or a village or a community in your life is the fact that you can lean on someone when you're weak in certain areas and then they have those strengths in the areas that you're weak and vice versa.
So I think that having a partner, it means that marriage...
But you're getting that in a relationship without the marriage title.
The question is specifically...
I mean, yes, but I think that it goes based off of preference.
Marriage is a complete and total business deal at the end of the day.
It is just creating a contract.
You can get all those benefits without signing the contract.
But that's why I'm saying it depends on preference.
It doesn't necessarily...
Because some people...
No, I'm saying that because my mom, she's been with her man, her boyfriend for 12 years.
They have no desire on getting married.
My mom has been married before to my father.
And I've asked her plenty of times, well, you don't want to marry him?
And she'd be like, no, I really don't.
And I'll ask him and he'll say the same thing.
So I just think it depends on preference because I know...
Translation, he don't want to get married.
No, no, no.
It was my mother.
Really?
Yeah, no tea, no shade, sir.
Anyways, I just think that when it comes to marriage, because I have grandparents, my grandma's about to be 100 in November.
Wow.
She spent 80 years with my grandfather before he passed away.
So I think it depends on preference, but mostly strengths and weaknesses with what your partner and you have.
That didn't answer the question at all.
I wanted to answer your question.
Okay.
One benefit.
Yeah, exclusively to marriage and that union.
I was going to say some people don't fully devote themselves in the relationship status as they would once it's finally like a marriage and union.
That benefits the man?
Yeah, if you have a fully devoted wife.
Like, that's what I'm saying.
Some people don't give or, you know, kind of show off or do as much as they would until that, you know, Let me ask you a question.
Who's likely to work harder?
An employee that has a job that is guaranteed in their tenure, they can't be fired?
Or someone whose position is unsure?
Who would work harder?
Probably the person whose position is unsure.
So wouldn't it be fair to say by that same analogy that a girlfriend is probably going to work harder than a wife would?
Not necessarily.
Why?
You know, because some women may believe, you know, they're not going to cook for a man until they're, you know, that wife status.
Or they may not do XYZ or help out in XYZ way until they become a wife.
They're given that status of a wife.
So, you know, I'm saying...
If you're trying to get a job or if you're in a position and you want to get promoted, wouldn't it be fair to say that you need to do what that position requires before you get the job?
If you look at it from a job promotion type standpoint.
Yeah, but isn't that what promoting a girlfriend to a wife is?
I mean, not necessarily.
Realistically speaking?
No?
Why not?
Because that's what I'm saying.
Some guys will make her the wife if they want, you know, based off what she says, you know, I'm not going to do X, Y, Z until you make me a wife, then they're going to abide.
But is that a man that a woman actually wants that doesn't have the ability to dictate terms?
She is running the relationship if he's on her terms like that.
Men get into relationships all the time with women who don't do certain things.
And they're made a wife.
But do those women actually respect their husband?
Realistically speaking, if you can bully them around like that and say, I'm not going to do XYZ unless this happens, who has the power?
Who has the power?
In that situation, you could say that she holds power.
But there might be other rules.
Hold on.
That's very important.
You're saying that she holds the power.
What are women attracted to?
When they have the power or when the man has the power?
When a man has the power.
Ah.
There you go.
So it wouldn't be fair to say that if she has the power and she's able to do that.
It might not apply to every single situation where she has the power over the man.
Generally, though.
If she's able to dictate something that important, like marriage, where that guy is going to put himself in a compromising situation and lose half his assets if this doesn't work out, I would argue she has an overwhelming amount of the power.
She's able to bully him into marriage.
Bully into marriage?
That's absolutely what it is.
She's bullying him into marriage.
I don't like that word.
What?
I feel like it's setting a standard.
It doesn't have to be bullying.
If he doesn't want to get married...
If you care about somebody, you're not thinking about, oh, I need to protect my...
And I'm not saying...
I'm saying this...
Take my words with a grain of salt or for a lack of better words.
We do.
You're not...
No tea, no shade.
Be quiet.
You are, you are.
But in all seriousness, I think that sometimes women have a certain standard and some men that may not live up to that standard are not prepared to hear things that they're not ready for or haven't experienced.
They say, well, listen...
I'm okay with X, Y, and Z. Are you okay with that?
It's important to meet a partner that's okay with your standards.
It has nothing to do with saying, because I'm not, like you just said, I'm not dating a man that I can run over.
I don't think that's attractive at all.
I want you to lead with reason and not be led by a blind horse.
But at the same time, my standards shouldn't offend you.
They should motivate you.
Well, here's the thing.
Women are blind horses.
And what I mean by this is that, yeah, the controversial thing.
Women are blind horses.
And what I mean by that is that women are ruled by their emotions, okay?
She might feel, I want to get married!
With the translation, I want the wedding, and I want the ceremony, etc.
But do they want to actually be a wife?
I would argue most women don't.
And if a woman sits there and says, I'm only going to cook and clean for you, or have these wife duties, if you elevate me to wife...
That's ridiculous.
Red flag.
That's ludicrous.
Can you go into your job and say, promote me to CEO. Then I'll become that person.
Then I'll become that person.
No.
But we live in a crazy clown world where women are able to dictate terms and tell you, this is what I want, right?
And then your dumb ass is supposed to go ahead and give them what they want without them necessarily meeting their requirements.
Could you imagine if...
Hold on.
Hold on.
Again, this is why female logic doesn't make sense.
Could you imagine if you could walk into your employer's office to say, look, man...
I want my salary tripled.
I want these XYZ benefits.
And then, and only then, I'm going to go ahead and complete my duties.
And on top of that, by the way, I reserve the right to stop those duties at any time and still get my salary and pension.
Would that employer actually allow you to do that?
Yes or no?
The answer is a profound no, no.
Hold on.
The answer is a profound no.
That is exactly what marriage is.
And that's what I mean when I say these women bully the men into the marriage because marriage, realistically speaking, it was a trick question, ladies, doesn't benefit men at all.
You can get everything that a woman provides without the confinements of marriage in today's day and age, especially with the way women are as far as promiscuous and having sex.
So it really doesn't benefit men at all.
It actually puts them in a detriment.
And that's why I'm arguing, if you're able to tell a man, I'm not going to cook and clean or display these wife duties until you elevate me to wife, and he actually complies with that, you ain't going to respect him in the first place.
Because that tells me he doesn't have leverage to tell you what the fuck it really is.
If you are working at a Fortune 500 company or a prestigious law firm, You can't tell them, I'm going to be a partner and I'm going to do this after the fact.
They're going to tell you, get the fuck out of here.
We have other qualified employees that are better than you that we can hire that will gladly take your job.
Then, and only then, will you respect that position because you could be replaced.
It wasn't a point to just say, oh, I'm never going to do anything.
I'm just going to be a horrible girlfriend until I'm a wife or whatever.
But it's like, it's more so you're not going to do...
Well, if you're not cooking and cleaning, you're a horrible girlfriend by default.
That's facts, yeah.
But that's what I'm saying is, what are the rules and responsibilities of a girlfriend?
And what are the rules and responsibilities of a wife?
And what's the difference?
Why would men get married if there's ultimately no difference?
Outside of that.
So also, question for you.
Yourself, dating, you ever been in love?
Yeah.
Okay, question.
When you're dating that guy, did you do wifely duties offer it?
Yes, I did.
So what?
But that's me.
But you didn't need marriage, right?
No.
Why?
Because I did it because I wanted to, not because I felt obligated to.
So marriage is going to be based off of your preference or in your head what you think it should be, which means, by default, you let somebody regardless of the facts.
So if you're telling men you need to get married because if you don't, I won't become that wife, what are you really saying?
You're saying that on some level, as a red flag, I'm going to change because it's going to benefit me in the future.
Versus you love him generally, you're going to do it regardless.
Yeah, but I asked what are the responsibilities and roles of a girlfriend compared to what are the roles and responsibilities of a wife?
And why would men get married if there's ultimately no difference?
What have I told you?
Tricky.
They're the same.
They're the same.
And that's where so many girls fuck up.
They think, oh, I'm gonna behave like a wife after I become a wife.
That's why a lot of chicks don't get married.
Because guys are looking at it like, wait, you can't even do the job, and you want the promotion?
But only in America and in the West do we allow women to have crazy standards where they're able to demand things without providing the value back.
That's not even just in the West, though.
They practice this in lots of other cultures.
In African cultures, Nigerian weddings, they have to give money, give gifts, give promises to the wife.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
Let's put some onus on the females.
What are they getting back in exchange from that woman?
They're getting a virgin.
They're getting a woman that comes from a two-parent household.
They're getting a woman that understands basic rudimentary things of cooking and cleaning, not talking back, not interrupting stuff for two seconds.
Okay?
They're getting a woman that has some semblance of traditional values in exchange for them doing that.
So my thing is, if y'all want to use marriage as the crutch, Is the guy really getting a fair return back?
The answer in the West, in general, is a no.
So is it only in Western culture where women get or have sex before marriage?
Is that the only difference?
That's the only difference that I heard.
It happens a lot in the West because we've de-centivized sex.
I mean, we asked you guys, a bunch of you guys openly speak about sex with your parents.
In other places, that's a big fucking, that's a no-no.
So, here in the West, we've sexualized women and it's open and that's fine, but what I am saying is that you can't sit here and be progressive in that aspect, but then want to be regressive in other aspects such as marriage.
I think that a huge thing that people are getting caught up on is like, in Western society, marriage is such a huge contract because it involves these contracts and it does involve putting your finances together and tying yourself and then getting unmarried is so complicated.
So the preference of- Hold on, hold on.
You're missing one important thing.
It only benefits women.
And so the preference of what a marriage is...
I love how she didn't address that.
Yeah, because I'm thinking about it and what you're saying, it makes sense because what the preface of what people want a marriage for.
And I've also heard men say they want a marriage and then the woman is saying no.
So I've heard that before.
But I think what people are tying marriage to is monogamy.
And so they're like, okay, if this person marries me, they have to be with me for the rest of their life.
And so that's like a preference that they put on it.
Or if this person marriages me, then our finances are growing.
And that's another perspective that some girls take.
But notice what I heard on both those things you just mentioned.
Monogamy and finances being tied together.
What does that inherently benefit?
Hold on, that's important.
That's the man's perspective on when a man wants the girl to be married, it's because they want the girl to be locked down.
On some level.
The two things you just mentioned.
Hold on, stop, stop, stop.
Because if we're going to have this conversation, we need to look at it from a holistic standpoint.
What did you just mention?
The monogamy and then combining of the finances.
Who does that benefit?
The women, most of the time.
Right.
That's what I'm saying.
I totally agree with you.
And that's what I'm saying.
The question was about Western society.
No, the question is what benefits men?
In Western society, right?
Marriage?
No, no, no.
So you guys don't even remember the question.
It started first was basically relationships.
What would you bring to a relationship in a marriage or whatever?
It was a little hard for you guys to understand, so I rephrase this so it makes more sense.
Name one benefit that a guy would get in a marriage that he wouldn't get in a regular relationship.
Okay, so that's what I'm saying.
There are men who have the construction that, okay, if I lock this girl down, she's going to be monogamous to me, and then that's the only reason that they're proposing.
And men get tricked into that for that reason.
Otherwise, a girl is also looking for the same thing.
She wants monogamy, or it could be the finances thing.
She wants the finances tied together, right?
So it could be one or the other thing.
But what...
What, like, overall...
The first thing you mentioned with he wants the monogamy from the girl, he's doing that because she's threatening to leave, like she had mentioned and then she had mentioned.
Yeah, or societies, or societies, or the built-in fear.
Because women bully men into marriage all the time.
But I also disagree with your statement about their bullying, though.
That's quite literally bullying.
You're telling him, if you don't, you're giving him an ultimatum.
Ultimatum, yeah.
To do something that he doesn't want to do.
So, I wouldn't give an ultimatum.
I think that it's important to state your desires, what you want in a relationship on the first date or when you communicate with somebody before you move forward and say, this is an ultimatum.
That's easy to say in 20-20 hindsight, but how many times do girls end up in a relationship with a guy?
It goes one year, two years.
Okay, but I'm saying in general because I've talked to a million women about this.
They've been going for two, three, four, five years.
Oh, he's not marrying me.
They threaten the guy.
If you don't marry me, I am going to leave.
I think that anybody that puts you in an ultimatum is selfish, and they don't want to be with you.
But I've also heard that guys don't need three, four, five years to determine whether or not they're going to...
They don't.
But you made a good point.
If a guy's pushing for marriage, it's because one, he wants to tie you down, he might lose you.
But two, what he's saying is, for example, the girl's saying to him, oh, if you don't marry me, I'm going to leave.
Exactly.
That's the tactic to tie you down as well.
Right, right.
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
I'm both hands.
Yeah, it's like on both sides.
That's what I'm saying.
Because there are some weak men who do allow girls to manipulate them.
And they're like, this girl is going to leave me.
I'm going to be by myself, so I have to lock it down.
So it's not just the girl wanting marriage.
Sometimes it's guys that aren't thinking clearly.
No, he wants marriage in response to a threat of her leaving.
That's way different.
She wants the marriage.
He doesn't.
She tries to leave.
Now his goal shifts because he understands if I don't commit to her, she's going to leave me.
She has the power.
Or his parents or something put that thought and the girl didn't even say something.
It's the woman most of the time, man.
Let's just keep it a million.
It's women that want to walk down the aisle in a white dress and spend a bunch of money on a ceremony.
And you know what I mean?
It's what women want.
And guys are stupid and go ahead and actually marry women.
But the reality is if your girl is able to bully you or tell you this is the ultimatum and you actually comply...
She never liked you like that in the first place.
You don't have any power.
You don't have any leverage.
And women don't respect that.
That's why most marriages end in divorce anyway.
What's so funny, Foot Locker?
Would you plan on getting married?
Foot Locker is crazy.
I would have preferred you calling me a Red.
That's a good one too.
Yeah.
It's funny because I've seen men also manipulate women and make them feel like they have to commit and lie and cheat and be deceitful.
Commit in what way?
Not through marriage.
In marriage?
Typically not through marriage.
I have.
Really?
How?
I have.
How?
What do you mean how?
But is that the norm?
I've seen a man force a woman into a marriage and maybe cheat on them or control them.
No, it's not the norm.
That's my point.
It's the women that are typically angling.
So I think that, can I be honest?
I don't want to offend anybody, but I think that men have a lack of accountability.
We are all adults when we enter a relationship.
And I think that nobody, I think women can be intimidating, but nobody can bully you into a relationship.
Y'all know that y'all don't want to be in relationships.
And instead of saying, hey, this is not what I want, you guys go through with it.
And then long term, you wake up 36 years later, unhappy as fuck with your four kids, living in the suburbs of Rhode Island, wondering why this isn't what you wanted or what you desired.
And then you meet a redhead on Rodeo Drive in California on a business trip, and then you think this is all of what you need.
Nobody hurt me.
I'm just saying that a lot of times men don't...
I think that because you guys are so out of touch with your feelings...
Y'all don't realize and think...
To me, they want a new pussy, man.
So if they want a new pussy, they should be fine, right?
When you experience...
Another thing that y'all need to wake up to...
Y'all are not...
A commodity, a hot commodity in a sense.
Women naturally are.
And I'm not saying that in a bad thing.
I'm saying that in a sense that pussy wants the world.
We all know that, which is why you guys are making the point that, okay, women can bully a man into a relationship.
It's not necessary bullying.
You guys come out of the womb being expected to...
Fuck your feelings, you're supposed to produce.
Whether it means work, money, or whatever the case is.
But when y'all are pushed into that, you're not thinking about your emotions.
That's why you wake up 36 years later wondering why you're on Rodeo Drive worrying about Andy.
Who's on Rodeo Drive right now?
I'm giving a hypothetical.
I'm giving a hypothetical.
I don't know anybody from California.
Tyrone, I take it back.
You are kind of funny.
I know.
Thank you.
No, but for real though, I don't know nobody from California, so please don't quote me.
I'm just saying that I've heard stories and I've read things and I've met people that really feel like, damn.
I've met men that are unhappy with their lives and rather than them thinking that one thought back then of...
Old girl was like damn.
I don't really want to be with her because this this girl makes me feel X Y& Z. Y'all convince yourselves it's the woman's fault and not your own.
No, not even they just stay.
Do you ever think that guys get married to a woman for money?
Almost never.
Men don't give a shit about female money.
Yes, 2080 in essence.
Yeah, men don't care about money.
You're the 20.
No, you ain't tricking if you got it.
And most women that have money are intelligent enough to not marry a man that makes less money than themselves.
Typically.
Men are the only ones that are idiots that don't marry, that marry a chick that makes significant less love.
To your situation with the guy waking up later on in life, I agree with you.
Most guys don't take accountability and they let a woman bully them into a bad situation and they get fucked up and they don't realize until later on.
I agree with you on that.
But that's why podcasts like this are very important.
We tell guys to understand their value and I would argue that...
Because you're saying women are the, I would argue, I think men are the prize once you reach a certain spectrum.
But it's the women that are chasing their relationships.
It's just that guys don't understand that women are chasing their relationships and they don't give, they don't make women wait for relationships.
Just like, you know, girls control sex, men control relationships and then not enough guys understand their value.
Okay, I can see that.
But yes, I agree with you that it's a lack of accountability of understanding their value and that's why they end up with predatory or shitty girlfriends.
Yeah, they allow it to happen.
So we agree with you on that.
Just like girls that date broke niggas and fall in love with them.
I'm not promoting that, I'm just saying like...
I've read like a few times, and I actually went through like coaching programs and stuff, and it's weird because the coaches that were in there, they always pushed marriage, and I never really understood why.
If you are a married couple, you have more leverage.
If you're in business and you're a married person, then people trust your opinion more than if you're a single person.
That is true.
What are your thoughts about that?
In corporate, it does benefit you to be married.
The woman has more leverage.
The key word is the woman has more leverage.
The man doesn't.
I actually didn't know that.
But in terms of the mentorship that I was getting, they were actually talking about the males.
Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
Who was the mentor?
Was it a male or a female?
It was male mentors.
And they were saying that who has more leverage, the man or the woman?
They were saying the man has a leverage to have a woman on his arm.
A woman that's classy, a woman that's presenting herself well, and that's showing that you're a man of a household and bringing a family household up together.
He's a blue pill retard.
He don't know what he's talking about.
The woman has the leverage in every marriage.
It's not the man.
Once a man gets married and signs that dotted line, Mm-hmm.
And especially if he makes more money and is more successful than that woman, she absolutely has him by the balls.
Yeah.
In the corporate sense, in the workplace, yes.
But in actual real life, after you leave work, no.
Because in that sense, if the boss is married and you're married as well, okay, you know what?
Who needs a raise here?
He's married, he's stable, I'm going to hire that guy for a promotion.
Versus the guy that's single, eh, I don't know, he's okay, but this guy's married, I'll trust him a little bit more.
But that's corporate.
But the other thing too, when you're single and you don't have a family, you can work harder.
So, it's a give and take.
Like, yes, you might be more potentially trustable as a guy that has a family, but when you're single, you can work harder and you can just outperform that other guy that might have a family because you're not leaving at 4 or 5 p.m.
And I know this from coming from a law enforcement background, etc.
I used to smoke the guys that had families because I was wanting to put in those extra hours.
I was wanting to do the late night surveillance.
I was willing to write the affidavits and do all the raids and shit like that at a weird time because I didn't have a family.
And those are the guys that move up a lot of times.
So yes, is it better if they have a family and they're a hard worker?
Of course.
But realistically speaking, who's more capable of working hard?
Someone who's single.
Right, right.
Do you guys believe in getting married?
Okay, so that's a really good question.
I believe in it as a practice.
However, it's a broken institution in the West and it doesn't work in America and Western societies because women are incentivized to divorce you and take your money.
That's what I was referencing in the very beginning about Western marriage.
So would you marry a woman out of the West?
I would marry a woman if the state isn't involved.
By the church.
Or in my case, by the mosque.
So I would do it where it's done religiously only.
No official court paperwork or nothing like that.
So it's a union between us under the eyes of God.
Just a ceremony.
Whatever it may be.
So I have another question.
But not to stay involved.
So would you meet a woman from the West?
And let's say she doesn't have Western values.
Then would you marry her or no?
When I marry a girl that...
You mean...
She's from the West, but she doesn't have Western values.
She has Western culture, and then I would...
Race correctly is crazy.
Yeah, no, dude, in the West, you're raised fucked.
Oh, yeah, no, you don't have to tell me.
I mean, when I marry a Western girl, is that your question?
Are you guys single?
Yes, but without Western values.
Yeah, because then she wouldn't be a Western woman.
I want to know your guys' relationship status.
Why is that important?
Well, I mean, that's not important.
Yeah, now I'm curious.
Why is that important?
Because I just, you know, you guys are basing a lot of things based off, you know, our criteria and things going on.
I'm just curious now.
We're doing well.
So you have multiple contenders?
Are you, like, an eligible bachelor?
Are you dating exclusively or not?
This is very interesting when women bring this up, because normally when women bring this up, it's to disqualify the advice.
Oh, well, you're saying all this stuff.
No!
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
Let me finish.
You have all these opinions, etc., but do you even have a woman?
Blah, blah, blah.
And my argument to that is...
It don't matter.
Just kidding.
It's not as simple as you are.
We're not cornering you like Justin LaBoy.
We just want to know.
Like, we're just making conversation.
Justin LaBoy?
I'm genuinely just curious.
He's a sim.
Big sim.
What was that, Chris?
Twitch.
Oh, shit.
We're still on Twitch?
Yeah, we're still on Twitch.
Oh, yeah, yeah.
Kill all the other streams except for YouTube and Rumble.
Kill everything except for YouTube and Rumble.
So, let me ask you a question real fast.
Are you having sex with dudes?
Am I having sex with dudes?
Yeah.
Don't answer the question.
Kind of a dumb question for me to ask, right?
Because you can kind of just do it whenever you want, right?
You're a pretty girl.
You got options.
You can do it, right?
Yeah, I guess.
But it's ridiculous for me to ask you, are you having sex with dudes, isn't it?
Not if you're just genuinely curious about asking me about my sex life.
Okay, let's call a spade a spade.
It's a ridiculous question for me to ask you that because you're a pretty girl, you can get sex whenever you want.
And obviously, I'm assuming you're somewhat selective or very selective on the men you have sex with, correct?
Yeah, I would say that.
So wouldn't it be fair to say that you asking me if I have a girlfriend or what's the status of my relationship would be kind of stupid because I'm selective on who I pick as a girlfriend?
But that doesn't reveal what your status would be.
I'm trying to give you the functional equivalent here.
Women pick who fucks, we pick who gets relationships.
Do you understand?
Okay.
So since I'm the gatekeeper of a relationship and you're the gatekeeper of sex, you are selective on who you fuck, I'm selective on who I choose for a relationship.
Okay.
So asking someone if they're in a relationship after they give you their takes on a relationship, it's irrelevant if they're in a relationship or not, just like it's irrelevant if I ask you if you're fucking people, because if you're a virgin, that does not lower your value or your opinion on things.
If anything, you not having sex increased your value, just like me not having a girlfriend probably increased my value because that means I have more requirements, correct?
Yeah, that's fine.
It was out of genuine curiosity, not trying to come at you in a calculated way, analyze, you know, you answered it in a roundabout way, but I'll take it.
No, no, no, no, no.
It's just that because women love doing this.
Yeah.
Well, tell us about your relationship, etc.
Whenever we say this, because you're not the person to do this.
Did you not open up asking us what our relationship status was?
I don't know why it would be, you know.
Yeah, it's more for stats and to assess the conversation.
Y'all don't want to contribute to your stats?
But it's your job to get a boyfriend.
It's my job to give out the boyfriend energy.
The vibe.
Are you successful at that job?
Did you find a candidate?
Hold on, hold on.
Keyword.
I'm picky on the candidates I select.
Are you still in the interview process?
How's the applications coming along?
Oh, okay.
Well, that's a better question.
Going great.
That's a better question if you want to look at it like that.
Because I genuinely look at girlfriends as, from an employee, an employer standpoint.
And I think that's the best way men need to look at it.
Take the emotions out of it and look at it as, this girl's an employee at this prestigious law firm.
I have high standards.
Is she the best employee?
Am I going to raise her up to, you know, second in charge, you know, whatever it may be.
Do you employ multiple people at the same time?
Absolutely.
There you go.
That's a better question.
Because guess what?
When you have competition, you have multiple employees, guess what everyone does?
They work a lot harder.
But when you only got one employee and they know that they can't be fired, guess what happens?
They become fucking terrible.
Are you telling the employees that they're having other competition, though?
Do they know that?
Yes.
That you tell them?
Fuck yes.
Okay, okay.
You didn't answer anything over there.
So to ask your question, I have multiple applications.
Multiple applications.
We know last night.
Chris, what the fuck?
I mean, hey, listen to Frasca.
Hey, hey, hey.
I say all that to be funny about it, because I love when girls ask that quench of...
But yes, I do have a main girl and I see other women.
It's an open relationship.
She knows that.
And that's it.
I mean, you know, I don't believe in monogamy.
I think monogamy is a lie and most guys don't want it.
So I have a question.
You're practicing a poly relationship.
Yeah.
Do you have moments where that gets frustrating for your man-girl or the main relationship that you maintain or no?
I mean, women are emotional, so obviously it's always going to bother her to a degree.
I give her a lot of credit because she's gotten used to it and she's been able to deal with it pretty damn well.
But I'm not delusional.
I understand that it might bother her every now and then, but I make sure to let her know that I appreciate her and she gets certain benefits that other girls are never going to get.
So does she practice polygamy as well?
That's what I wanted to know.
Let me ask you a question.
You are funny.
Do you think a guy like you would ever accept a girl being open?
Hold on, answer the question.
You already know the answer.
I could smile off you.
Hell no.
That's not really an open relationship.
I think that a lot of times in polygamy, because I'm poly, it depends on the type of person I'm with.
I'm poly as well.
But it's the type of person that...
Wait, can you help other guys?
Yeah.
Oh shit.
Anyway!
That's what a polyamorous relationship is.
No, but what I was going to say was, back in the days, if you go back to ancient times, a lot of kings have many wives or many lovers.
And for some women, they couldn't extend that same courtesy or have that same luxury.
But for some men, they were able to because they are kings.
Now, I think it's a load of balogna, if you ask me.
You mean a load of baloney?
I said what I said.
Balogna?
What is balogna?
Is baloney just how it's spelled?
From the hood.
Okay.
From the hood is crazy.
I like to misspell words.
Anyways.
Stupid.
I think it'll be pronounced more like...
It's stupid in turn of that.
Thank you.
That's fine.
Go ahead.
But what I was saying is that I think that some men believe that they're kings.
Like, in the Middle East, they're able to practice those things because those women are okay with that as long as they get food, shelter.
And sometimes those wives contribute to their households and vice versa.
I think that's crazy.
Let me ask you a question real quick.
You strike me as a fairly intelligent woman.
Do you play chess?
Um, kind of.
I haven't played in a long time.
Are you aware of the rules?
No.
I haven't played it in a while.
I'm intelligent, but yeah, don't.
In the game of chess, right?
And I love chess because it personifies life.
The queen is the most powerful piece on the board.
It can move into the many spaces it needs to, any direction that it wants to, and I would argue that's the female existence.
At 18 years old, y'all could be on a yacht with billionaires, in Dubai one week, in Miami another, not pay for it, have men court you, shower you with gifts, etc.
However, The queen can be taken over and be lost in the game, and the game can still continue on.
But if the king is surrounded and there's a checkmate, the game is over.
Okay?
And on top of that, the queen, you can take a pawn and get it to the other side of the board and turn it into a queen.
But if the king is checkmated, the game is over.
And I say that's very true of life.
Women cannot do things that men can do.
And the reason why is because men have to earn their value.
The king can only move one direction at a time.
He has to earn his value.
But if he's surrounded, the game is over.
Women live life on easy mode, and since they live life on easy mode, they don't get certain benefits.
They don't get hard mode benefits.
Since men live life on hard mode, we get hard mode benefits.
We can run around and fuck a bunch of girls because we have to earn our value.
We have to earn the status, the competence, the fitness, the money, everything else.
Women don't.
Y'all could be 18, dead broke, and be hanging out with a millionaire.
I can't be 18 years old, dead broke, and hang out with a chick that's a millionaire because she'll be like, what the fuck, nigga, you bum?
Get out of here.
I'm surprised you would even, you know, a man such as yourself would want to deal with multiple women.
You don't strike me as the type that would want to deal with a bunch of, you know, emotions and, you know, women to women and how that might vary.
Every guy wants multiple women.
If I lined up 100 dudes, 95 of them are going to want multiple women.
What it comes down to is, are they capable of actually doing it?
For semantics, you said every guy, not 95.
Well, she said it in her own phrase, but it's semantics.
Again, real quick, you're funny.
You said you're a man.
It's cool.
Would you see another man?
Yeah, I'm not right now, though.
I don't think that there's any man right now that can compete.
I know he was white, bro.
I knew it.
I just knew it, bro.
Yo.
I know.
Doesn't it sound crazy, though?
I knew it, bro.
Would you...
Because you said that you guys are in a monogamous relationship for the past eight months.
If I asked him, would he claim you as his girl?
Not the full eight months.
Okay.
If I asked him, would he claim you as his actual real girlfriend?
Yes.
No, you won't.
Says who?
Who said that?
Because most guys are not okay with their girl being open, being honest here.
That's okay.
But a lot of women are okay with their man being open if his value is high enough.
Okay, so it's something that I disclosed to him from the moment that we were on our first date, but...
Can he see other women?
He can't.
Yeah, there you go.
But at the same time, he's not.
He practices monogamy.
Nice one.
By choice?
No.
Yes.
By choice.
Because he wants to please you.
No, by choice.
When he's dating somebody, he has no interest in somebody else.
That's just how he is.
Who wears the pants in the relationship?
You or him?
I think you do.
I think it's me.
That's obvious.
That's an L for him then.
It's not an L for him.
That's how he likes it.
What I've come to realize is when a woman is the more masculine and dominant party in the relationship, there's no way that she can truly respect and admire her man.
There's just no way, unfortunately.
It's not biologically possible.
I think that a lot of times that...
You know how you're saying that guys should have a higher standard and be more picky about the dating process and who they're choosing to be their girlfriend or if they're going to do something like that?
Well, I think that a lot of girls don't put that same standards on and they take whatever guy is going to give them the attention because not every single girl gets showered with attention.
So...
When a girl does find somebody of high value and a guy that's doing everything, being the protector, being the man that he needs to be, then it does put a girl in a position to where they're like, monogamy is for me.
And I do feel like that does end up happening and you just don't have an attraction to other men anymore.
That goes away.
Because you have your man now.
And I feel like that's naturally innate within women.
Yes.
Which is why women that are promiscuous are not respected.
And that is why a woman having multiple dudes doesn't make sense.
But on the other hand, let's reverse it.
If I got a girl and I'm fulfilled and I love her and everything, I'm still going to want to fuck other bitches.
And that's like the other part of what I'm saying.
I feel like a man has this innate urge.
You win by getting that guy to take you seriously.
That's how a woman wins.
No.
But I remember those wifey dudes that said, I'm going to wait and put that off.
No, you got to do it from the beginning with that guy and get wifed up by him.
That's how you win as a woman.
While he's still fucking other bitches.
Absolutely.
And I'm just supposed to sit here with a...
Smile on your face.
Smile on your face.
Your bill's paid.
Yes.
I got my rent done.
Yes.
Because men and women are not the same at all.
You want a winner?
You got to deal with winner problems.
So, would you agree with the statement that all men cheat?
A majority staggering.
And the more successful they are, the more likely they will cheat on you.
That's the reality.
And I think that if they're not, even if they aren't going to cheat, all men are still going to have those thoughts because men innately are hunters.
And that's innate in them.
And that's either with your job, with your career, with your lifestyle, with making sure your children are okay, and with women.
Like, men hunt.
And that's what it is.
And the chase is part of what makes you a man.
But then that takes that partner with you, like how you said, I found a girl who, yes, she's emotional about things because, of course, the girl wants monogamy, right?
But then if that's not what the guy is looking for, it has to be a guy who is doing what he needs to do as a man, not somebody who's a weak man.
And so that he has that strength to be what he needs to be for her.
And then she's willing to be...
She's being monogamous.
He's still going to have that desire, but then that takes the strong...
I feel like, like me personally, I'm willing to bring another girl into the relationship because my man is everything that I want him to do.
That's who, Chris, that will fuck you up.
And I know that over 60 years of being with him, there's absolutely not going to be any way that there's not going to be a thought in his head that's going to pop up one day.
She's intelligent.
That's why she's married.
Look, ladies, it's your job to keep the man.
No, here's the thing.
It's your job to keep the man.
I don't know why girls don't get this.
The man's job is to fuck you.
Your job is to keep him after he fucks you.
Okay?
And girls think, I'm a princess.
I'm a queen.
This is the way it's going to be.
Not really.
And the more attractive the guy is, the less leverage you have.
Remember that prestigious law firm I told you about?
Yeah.
There's qualified applicants graduating from Harvard every fucking day that want that job.
Would you say that monogamy doesn't exist in Western society?
It's not feasible?
I'm not saying that, but I'm saying the man that women want that's tall, attractive, money, charismatic, charming, etc.
Every other girl wants him.
And most of the time, he's gonna exercise those options and fuck other bitches.
So what are you gonna do?
Are you gonna sit there and be like, I'm gonna be delusional, I'm gonna find this guy that has all these benefits and think I'm just gonna get him for myself?
Or are you gonna accept reality and say, okay, I got him, I need to get him to commit to me, and if he fucks other bitches, it is what it is.
I'm just preparing women for the real.
So you're agreeing with the fact that you're supposed to be everything for a man.
He's tall, handsome, charismatic.
That's your type.
That's what you want.
Yes.
But even in doing everything as a woman is cooking clean, make a house a home, is you're still going to have temptations of him cheating on you, being deceitful and so forth.
Because he brings way more value than you do.
So why is...
Hold on, hold on.
Let me make that very clear.
When you're dealing with a guy like that, He's the prize, not you.
And this is where women need to humble themselves.
Stop, stop, stop, stop.
This is where I'm saying like women fuck up.
Y'all think you're princesses.
You guys think you're queens.
I could be a princess and you be a king.
Can you please stop interrupting for two seconds?
That's what I'm talking about.
Okay.
They think that they're special.
And the reality is when you're dealing with a man of that caliber, you're not special.
He's the one that's special because all the girls are chasing him and he's a 1% guy.
Every other girl is pretty, can cook, can clean, can do the things that you do.
And as a matter of fact, I'll argue, your jobs can be outsourced.
He could go get a hooker, he could go get a cleaner, he could go get a chef.
However, you can't outsource a husband or a boyfriend.
He can outsource all the duties of a wife.
So I think women need to humble themselves and understand that y'all are not that special and when you're dealing with a guy of that caliber, you're replaceable.
Your job is to be irreplaceable by adding value, not just by existing.
But if you said that monogamy is feasible, then why would I settle for someone who's not giving me one of those requirements?
What do you mean by one of these requirements?
Monogamy.
That's what I'm talking about.
You ain't gonna get it from a winner.
So why can't you be...
But you said it's feasible.
So why would I just...
Maybe not from him.
Pull up the delusion calculator, please.
Wait, what is it?
What are you saying?
You're gonna say something?
No, I was gonna say that...
So I can't be irreplaceable because you are a king and I'm supposed to treat you as such.
Both things can be true.
No, because most women are not as special as they think they are.
Okay, but you're talking about most women.
I'm saying that the fact that most things both can be true in some cases.
I'm not talking about most cases.
Can you agree to that, though, is my question.
Just because it's possible doesn't mean it's probable.
Okay, that's fine, but what I'm saying is it's a yes or no answer.
Just because it's possible doesn't mean it's probable.
It's a yes.
I'm okay with that.
I'm okay with that.
There you go.
That needs to be right.
If you're dealing with a guy that's a top-tier dude, you really think you could compete?
Who's rarer?
I think that he can be a great dude, but I know I have better chances than most women, and that's okay, too.
What do you rate yourself on a scale of 1 to 10?
Physically or overall.
Like, looks only, no makeup, etc.
What do you rate yourself 1 to 10?
I'd say like an 8.
Why would you say an 8?
Mind you...
Wait, hold on.
She'd be a 10, right?
See?
It should be a 10, right?
Girls!
Call her a 10!
I mean, why can't you as a guy reach yourself as a 10?
She a queen!
Yeah!
She a black queen, too!
Okay, hold on, hold on, hold on!
I'm not diminishing myself!
Why do you guys feel like you're not 10s?
Yes, we should all be 10s, queens!
Slay!
Slay, queens!
Can't make this up, guys!
Confidence!
Yo!
Yo, man!
Why don't we see all the stems?
Yeah, yeah.
By the way, she was trying to be humble about her choice.
I wasn't trying to be humble.
I think that...
I was trying to save you, but fucking kill it.
Yeah, beauty is an enhancement.
I mean, I still think I'm a 10.
I think I'm beautiful.
It's ready, by the way.
She liked you, by the way.
Real quick.
She my homegirl, of course she liked me.
What do you rate yourself?
That's not important.
So you are married, right?
Yes.
You have a guy.
You love him.
You care about him.
Yes.
If he cheated on you, would you stay?
We've had multiple conversations about this.
We've actually had multiple conversations about this.
And I know that he, as a man, has attraction to women.
Yes or no.
Women are attractive.
Okay, so I always told him, if you ever are feeling like, if it really got to the point to where you're like, I actually just want to do something.
Every day.
Then, I would say, okay, I would like to bring the girl to the relationship.
She just wants some semblance of control.
Yes, I would rather bring that so he's not going behind my back and talking to other women.
You have to allow it then.
Yeah.
See?
That's the verbiage there.
You want control.
Okay.
I want the semblance of respect to where he's not going behind my back.
Okay.
Translation, I want some semblance of control so I can oversee what's going on and I make sure that the woman doesn't take my spot.
We can translate the womanese for y'all.
We got you.
Trust me, we know what y'all are going to say before you say it.
It's fine.
Okay, so she's a 10, but we want to find out your dream man, right?
My dream man.
Monogamy.
Yeah, she wants monogamy.
Yeah, so.
So, alright, let's go ahead and pull this calculator up right here.
We'll test here real quick.
Yeah, we got a test here.
So, we're going to go ahead and build your dream guy for you, okay?
Welcome to the Pressure Fit Dream Man Show.
This is a thing.
So, we're going to go ahead and just put in the numbers and see where he ranks.
Okay, what is the minimum age?
Let's run through this real quick.
Minimum age...
He has to be...
He has to be as old as me, so I'm gonna say 21.
Okay, 21 to what?
You good.
Maximum age...
Let's go...
Let's go 29.
All right.
Minimum height?
I don't really have...
Well, I guess it has to be taller than me.
So I would say he has to be at least like 5'10".
Alright, 5'10".
Okay.
Sorry, black.
What race?
Preferably race?
Black.
Next.
I guess.
Are you open to white or Hispanic for your dream man?
Keep it a thousand.
I mean, preferably...
Black only?
Black.
Okay.
But I never said only, but, like, preferably, preference, you know?
Then we'll put black, then, yeah.
Yeah, I told you, man.
All right.
Education?
Bare minimum education?
I would say at least, like, at least an associate's degree.
Okay.
Bare minimum income per year?
Um...
Keep it a million.
Don't lie here.
He has to make one million a month.
He has to make at least like 80,000 a year.
That comes out to about, what, $6,000?
No, that's like $5,000 a month, roughly?
Yeah, something like that.
$5,000 a month?
Yeah.
Okay.
That's the minimum.
Okay.
And what is that?
Can he be married?
No, he can't be married.
Can he be fat?
Obese?
No.
Sorry, Mom.
Thank you, Chris.
Sorry.
All right, so let's see where this guy ranks.
And just so you know, this comes from the National...
U.S. Census Bureau and the National Health Survey.
So this is the most accurate assessment of men in the United...
Oh, wow!
Holy shit!
Exactly!
You scored a perfect 5 out of 5.
CapEx is the likelihood of you finding your guy...
You will not...
More than likely, you will probably be single.
Wait.
How is this scaled?
How did they get to that percentage?
Okay, I was explaining that a second ago.
This comes from the U.S. Census Bureau and the National Health Survey.
It's the most accurate assessment of men in the United States.
So that's all the men that are not married and not obese in between...
The percentage, what was it?
What was it?
Pull that back up, like less than 1% of men?
Wow.
Yeah, something like that.
Okay, and we have how many?
Now let me ask you this question.
See how rare that guy is, right?
How many other women do you think are chasing him?
What's that have to do with me?
Bruh.
Competition.
I don't care about the competition.
You should!
I don't have to.
I only have to worry about myself and what I bring to do.
Go, queen.
You got it.
Bruh.
You got it, queen.
You realize right there, like, on some level, they want your man too?
Okay.
Bruh.
Say a delusion.
How niggas think I'm kidding around when I say this shit?
That women live in fucking La La Land.
Like, yo...
But as a man, what are you worrying about?
I'm going to give you a chance to respond.
But this is what I'm trying to say.
In the face of cold hard statistics facts, we literally just showed her that her dream man It's like less than 1% of the population.
And she's saying, I demand monogamy.
When every other girl wants this nigga, you're more common than he is.
You think that you're going to be able to get monogamy from this guy in the face of statistics?
Okay, in the face of statistics, that's still a positive number, which means it's positive.
Okay, period.
0.79%, that's still a positive number.
It didn't say negative.
Less than 1%.
And with all the people that we have in the world, he's still out there.
It's not a zero.
And with all the people that we have in America, he's still out there.
I just learned about Manifestations.
If you guys even drive together.
He will be those things.
Oh, we didn't even talk about that!
This doesn't include if he's good looking.
This doesn't include if his teeth are nice, if he's in shape.
That percentage determines that my man is out there.
Whoever he is.
That's all that matters.
And I really feel like we should all practice that level of delusion.
This is scary.
Okay, but as a man, do you spend your every waking moment thinking about other men that you're in competition with?
No, I understand as a man, if I don't do well for myself, I'm a loser.
So by default, competition is always there.
So knowing that, I play my role correctly.
You yourself know that other women are going to be competition, but you don't want to accept it, and that's why you're single.
No, but that's all.
So all I have to do is play my role and be the best candidate?
No, he's saying if you want the man, fight for him and understand what it really is.
Which means he might have other women, but don't take it personal.
See, this is what it is as part of the plan.
I think it's realistic to rank yourself.
Wait, for him to fuck other women?
It can happen.
It's a possibility.
It can.
But that 0.79% page says that my man falls in that bracket that won't.
You know the problem?
Girls want this monogamous man, right?
And they don't understand that on some level, you might find him, but let's say he does cheat, and you leave him, the next guy, what's he going to do?
The same thing.
So it's kind of like you're leaving the guy for another guy that's going to cheat anyway.
So stay unhappy for the rest of your life?
No, I was just saying, accept it.
Doreen is falling.
Use her umbrella.
And keep moving.
He won't shoot some height in the percentage, but I don't believe it.
Hold on.
Let me ask you a question then.
Let's go into a dream scenario, okay?
All right, dream scenario.
Let's say I live in my mom's house.
Couch surfing.
Don't got a place right now.
But I got a friend who's really successful, fresh, right?
He invites me on a yacht.
There's a bunch of bad bitches on this yacht.
And I get on this yacht and I'm like, yeah, I'm fucking lit.
I'm going to talk to all these girls.
But they know that I'm couch surfing and I don't really have a job right now and I kind of have a porn addiction.
But I'm going to get one of these bad bitches on this yacht.
What do you think my likelihood of getting one of these chicks on this yacht?
Your likelihood of, like...
And there's a bunch of millionaires on this boat, by the way, that are way better off than me.
I mean, that comes down to your qualities.
What do you have to offer?
Are you funny?
No, but what are my chances of getting a girl on this yacht?
Like, are you funny?
Do you have other good qualities that can increase your chances?
I mean, the other guys on the boat are funny, too.
Yeah.
We're game.
We're game.
You might meet someone who just likes you for you.
Who wants to get it in with you.
Okay.
Do you think I have a realistic chance of getting...
Broke thing is gay.
Like bitches all the time.
Hold on.
I'm on this yacht though.
And I'm competing with these guys.
Do you think I'm going to get any of these girls?
If you're a young kid, maybe, but as an adult, no.
You have to think of how you position yourself.
What do you have to offer?
What other qualities you got?
You may not be the richest.
What else you got?
I just explained it.
I have the same traits that all the other guys on the boat have.
So am I realistically going to be able to get any of these girls?
Wouldn't it be crazy if I went in there and said, yo, who cares about the competition?
Yeah.
Wouldn't that be fairly delusional?
Not delusional.
Some girls like that.
Yeah, some girls like confidence.
Wait, first of all, you won't even do it.
If I saw you on a boat, you won't do it.
I spoke up because I would do it.
No, I mean, the other girl with the money.
Bro, every day, dudes that don't have shit going for them are couchsurfing.
But I gave you a specific scenario.
I'm giving you a specific scenario.
The girls know that I'm a bum and I'm on here competing with a bunch of millionaires.
Do you think I'm going Alright, let's start here.
Am I getting one of these girls?
You think?
No.
What about you?
That's up to you.
But also, I've seen a lot of girls also get with low-value guys.
Exactly.
I see it happen every day.
But they know that I'm a loser.
Yeah, but most of the time it's also like...
They always know you're a loser.
For how long?
Unless they're dumb.
I'm being so serious.
Some girls...
I literally just heard it the other day.
Can you let her finish and then you can...
Go ahead.
What were you going to say?
How long?
I was going to say a lot of trashy...
Guys that are able to get girls like that, it's normally not a girl they would regularly want.
It's a girl they would settle for.
And would it be fair to say that the guy probably had some smoke and mirrors in place?
Yeah.
So he purported some status?
Yeah.
But then the girl finds out and then he's gone?
Yes.
But again, ladies, listen to this scenario.
The women know that I'm a bum.
But it's also normally a bum girl, right?
A slut type girl?
That's what I'm saying.
Some girls are gonna be down for it.
Realistically, a high value girl while somebody's word of mouth invited her on the yacht.
What do you think?
Do you think I'm gonna get a girl on this yacht?
I'm gonna go for statistics, no.
But it could happen.
Fantastic.
What about you?
What do you think?
No.
I mean, if we knew you're a bum, no.
What about you, Miss Russia?
What do you think?
I don't think so.
What about you?
If you have the gift of gab, yes, but if not, fuck no.
I explained to you that I have the same gifts that all the other guys on the boat have, but I don't have money.
Then you might get it.
But what if a girl likes how you look in comparison to the other guys?
Yeah, you actually might get it.
It's actually insane.
We watch it happen.
This perfectly illustrates why, no offense, with all due respect, this perfectly illustrates that women are absolutely retarded in general.
No, can I say something?
Stop.
Y'all said enough.
I just established in this example that all the men have the same exact situation, but some have money and I don't.
Okay.
Okay?
This is what I mean when I say women don't understand hierarchies.
Right?
If all the guys on the boat are competent and have money, etc.
Girls pick and fuck and date up, typically.
Why the fuck are they going to go for me if they can get a guy that has the money and the status and everything else that I provide, but I'm a couch-surfing bum?
They're going to go for the better option.
Now, I get it.
Some of y'all might not want to admit that because that's a very...
How do I say this?
Surface level type attraction that women don't want to admit that women date for status and income and all these other things that come in.
But if everything else is all equal, money absolutely matters.
Why am I giving this example?
Because an example I gave you, you're just like every other girl.
Okay?
So, the fact that you're not willing to compromise, see how I brought it back?
The fact that you're not willing to compromise on him having other women, guess what?
There's chicks that are badder than you, that are younger than you, that have less bodies than you, that are willing to accept him having other chicks.
So why the fuck is he going to pick you?
The answer is no.
Just like me being on the yacht like all these other men that have everything that I have, but they got the money and I don't have the money, guess what?
The bitches aren't picking me.
I'm competing on this boat.
You're competing in real life.
Ta-da!
Holy shit!
Like, y'all not get it?
Like, it's an analogy.
That's all I was trying to show here.
Yeah, I get your analogy.
I'm just saying, but that's just a very, like, pessimistic.
You don't believe in yourself.
You don't think you can get any bitches.
Like, I don't know.
Oh, man.
Like, your stats are still unique to you and you alone.
Incredible.
Chris, Chris, this is what I mean.
Like, yo, the reason why women don't understand, like, competence hierarchies and hierarchies in general that there's just better people than you is because women don't really compete.
Women go through life and don't understand that there is a competition going on.
I do not feel that way.
The knowledge or the work ethic or what they know compared to an employee on the bottom.
Some CEOs don't even fucking know what they're doing, but they're still in charge of the company.
They're still running stuff.
They're not competent.
This ties in perfectly into the question that I was going to ask, which I was going to be the theme of the show.
Ladies, is there a difference in how men and women express camaraderie Men typically express camaraderie through insults without malice, while women offer insincere compliments.
Does this affect authenticity of friendships between genders?
Say that one more time for y'all.
It's a complex question.
That's a loaded question, yes.
Is there a difference in how men and women express camaraderie?
Men tend to express it with insults without malice, while women offer insincere compliments.
Does this affect authenticity of friendships between genders?
We'll start here and then work our way around.
Go ahead.
Yes.
In what way?
I think that a lot of times we act on things as women, but men initiate it always, most of the time.
So yeah.
That didn't answer the question.
But do you think that since men and women display camaraderie differently, that it affects the authenticity of friendships between the genders?
Yes, because I feel like a lot of times people don't believe that men or opposite sex could be friends with each other.
Well, no.
From meal to meal, woman to woman.
I thought you were smart.
I am smart.
But, no.
There's three parts to that question.
Right.
Three parts.
So you said yes, and then why did you say yes?
I said yes initially because I think that a lot of times it's like, I'm having a brain fart, I'm sorry.
Have you ever had a dream that you had...
Women need to break this down further.
Okay, camaraderie, friends.
I mean, I kind of insult my girlfriends without malice.
Okay, I'm going to go through this one more time.
Alright, please pay attention.
Is there a difference between how men and women express camaraderie?
That means friendship.
Men tend to express friendship with insulting each other without malice, which means without ill intent, while women tend to offer insincere compliments.
You look great today, even though you know damn well she looks like shit.
Meanwhile, men, you look like shit today, even though he looks great.
Right?
Does this affect authenticity of friendships between the genders?
And what I mean by between the genders is intra-gender.
Like, the men between the men and the women between the women.
Yes.
Yeah.
Yes, because I feel like some women and some men are insecure.
Depending on their level of jokiness and jovialness.
So, yeah.
Because they take it personal?
Yeah, I think some people do.
All right.
Alright, what about you, Ms.
Russia?
What's your thoughts on this?
How dare you!
I think that there's a big difference between friendships between males and males and females and females.
I think female-female relationships are so much faker.
I have more boyfriends, guy friends.
Because it's just more honest, more open.
The whole friendship is so much more different.
While with a female, she's always hiding something.
It's always being sneaky.
She's always lying.
Even in a friendship.
That's the difference, truly.
Have you ever seen women give each other deceitful...
Compliments.
Yes.
Versus constructive criticism where constructive criticism was needed.
Sabotage.
Yes.
Oh, they sabotage.
Yes.
Interesting.
Okay.
Definitely.
Okay.
What about you?
What are your thoughts on this?
I can build off that.
Like, hell yeah.
I mean, so my best friends, like, You're jealous, huh?
Oh, sorry, sorry.
Someone's always going to be jealous.
Are you kidding?
But then, like, those are your real friends.
If they, like, will tell you, like, oh, even if you have something on your lip or, like, whatever, like, they'll be there for you.
But, like, most of the times when not, they're not going to be there for you.
Even, like, your guy friends will be like, all right, like, bitch, you got something, like, like, you look like shit.
I'm like, okay, that's fine.
But, like, a girlfriend would never say that type thing.
Like, sometimes I do.
It depends who, maybe like the one or two close friends, yes.
But in general, when we give each other that self-sabotaging?
Um, yeah.
Alright, what about you?
Authenticity between the genders, what do you think?
I mean, I pretty much keep it real with both parties.
I don't really tell my girlfriend if she looks fucking shitty.
How many friends can you actually keep it real with, though?
I only have a handful, so those are the people I keep it real with.
But yeah, I don't really do the whole insincere compliment with my friend.
If she looks bad, I'm going to tell her if she looks bad, or if I think she should change to a different outfit, vice versa.
Really?
Okay, so that's in your situation.
Wait, are you guys close friends?
We are.
We're friends.
Perfect.
Okay, y'all are not that close friends.
Not like super close, no.
Okay.
You said you keep it real, right?
Yeah, I keep it real.
Did you say she was a 10 earlier?
And that's my personal opinion.
I think she's hot.
I keep it real, my friends.
You quite literally lied a second ago.
That's me lying, saying she's a 10?
What number would you think I am?
You asked me my opinion.
Yeah, but let's be objective and honest here.
That's literally subjective, though.
Yeah, but a 10 is flawless.
A rating is subjective.
Yeah, but a 10, you're objectively saying she's perfect.
But that's your opinion outside of, like, you're judging her opinion.
You asked her if she thought I was a 10 or not.
But that's not honest, by her telling you that you're flawless.
Let's keep it simple.
But your 10 might not be the same definition as my 10.
A 10 means literally flawless.
Across the board.
But someone you might rate as a 10, would I rate them the same thing?
That's why I said it's subjective.
A 10 by definition is flawless.
Maxed out 10 out of 10.
I think she's a 10 out of 10.
As a good friend, tell her how she can improve her looks.
And be honest.
How she can improve her looks?
I don't cap.
Bro, your reluctance to answer the question proves our fucking point.
That's not reluctance.
Can I decide?
Can I make a decision?
You should know this already because you're our friend.
Y'all hung out before.
You know what she looks like.
You've seen her already.
You know what she looks like.
You know what she needs to work on.
You're just thinking in your head.
What can I say?
To sound nice.
No, I've never thought about this question.
I've never been asked this question about her.
This show gives y'all more game on female psychology than anywhere else.
You literally gave me 0.2 seconds to formulate a fucking response.
Like, I don't know what you wanted me to say within that time.
Tell her.
I don't know.
You got that shit on today.
No complaints.
What about you?
Well, either way, proves my point because you can only be honest like that with a small percentage of your friends, not even her.
Okay, what about you?
Do you think women are...
Who's more authentic in their friendships, men or women?
I definitely think there's a lot more authenticity when it comes to male relationships.
Men are very straightforward with each other.
They just say things as they are.
They call you out on your stuff.
They say, get your things together.
Or they just say, I don't like you anymore.
And they just won't cut it up.
But girls, it's like the way that circles are created, you have to maintain face, kind of.
And if there's a whole group of girls and you're talking crap about one girl, and it's the truth or whatever, then it's spreading around.
And so you kind of hide your true feelings because then it ruins the whole group dynamic with girls because it's...
It's just that way.
If you're saying the truth with one girl, you have to say the truth with all of them, but then it's more sensitive.
Guys are just more honest from the straight.
You don't put on this facade to try to make things feel better than what they are.
What are your thoughts on this?
You know what?
I do genuinely wish I could have a relationship with a girl that guys have with their guy friends.
Because I do think a lot of girls are in competition with each other without saying it.
You know what I mean?
Subconsciously.
Yeah.
I wish I could have a girlfriend, which I don't.
I think.
I wish I could have a girlfriend that Would be, like, guys are when they're, like, loyal to each other, best friends, you know what I'm saying?
I brought this up.
The reason why I brought this up, ladies, is because you said something like, I don't have competition or whatever, and a lot of women tend to say, no offense, stupid shit like that, where I'm not in a competition, there is no competition, I'm me, men should accept me, and they tend to think I should come, I should be accepted the way that I come.
What I realized is that, we even did it with this test right here, The lack of authenticity in female relationships leads to the delusion because you guys don't even know that you're competing because your friend is very scared to put your feet to the fire and tell you, you look like shit, hey you need to do this, X, Y, Z. Very rarely do women actually hold each other accountable and establish hierarchies of, you're fucking up, you need to do this to become better.
We tell girls just like you did a second ago, you're a 10!
You're perfect!
Instead of telling her...
You know, you could probably be more attracted by doing this.
You should shut up a little bit more.
Stop interrupting niggas when they're speaking.
Blah, blah, blah.
Some traits that I can objectively say right now from literally knowing her for a few hours.
But you've known her as a friend and you have been able to put out or you're scared to put out.
But my point is this.
Women will backbite each other, right, and establish that there's a competition, subconsciously, but not let it be overt, versus men will tell each other, you're a fucking loser, and let each other know that there's a competition overtly.
That's the difference between men and women, and this is why women in general don't understand competence hierarchies, and they don't understand that there's a one, two, three, four, five, not a, you get a championship, you get a championship, everybody wins.
No.
Men understand there's a meritocracy.
Women don't operate on meritocracy.
They operate on feelings, and let's all be together.
Sandus Center brought up a really good study.
They took little boys and little girls.
And they found that when little boys play together, they play some type of sport where there's a clearly defined winner.
You're better at this, you take this position, etc., they compete.
When girls play together, they play house, hopscotch, things that don't have a defined winner.
And that's because women don't like competition overtly being put in their face because it highlights their inadequacies.
Girls don't want to hear, you're ugly, even though it might be true, because it hurts their feelings.
Those are like more nurturing, more girl, more feminine type games.
That's my point.
Women don't understand the concept of competition because it's a masculine thing in general.
But that keeps you guys delusional to say the things that you've been saying.
There is no competition when in reality you're competing for that 1% guy.
I never said there isn't any competition.
I said I'm not focused on any other competition or anything except me because that's all I can focus on at the end of the day.
The bottom line is you don't think that there's competition then.
It's always there.
I feel like I'm in competition every day I walk outside.
Yeah.
Why, though?
What do you feel?
What's the competition?
For me, personally, I just feel like every single day is a challenge in how I present myself, how I'm walking, the people that I surround myself with, the way that I word my words.
So I feel like I'm always trying to push myself to be better, so I have that...
Competitive edge in me.
I know that I got that from my dad though.
He always told me.
But that's what I'm saying.
Is that a competition with yourself or a competition against others?
It sounds like you're just trying to better yourself and be the best person you can be.
Look, we're all put on earth to mate with the opposite gender and whether we want to accept it or not, we're all competing with each other for mating rights of the best mate.
And for women, your goal is to get the most competent and higher status man.
For men, it's to get the most women possible.
That's just how it is.
But with men, since it's way more competitive and we have to live in reality, we understand that it's a competition.
Women get the privilege of saying some of the delusional things that you guys have said during the course of this show, where there is no competition, oh, she's a 10, blah, blah, blah.
Women are allowed to say stupid shit like that, no offense, because women don't live in reality.
I mean, even right now, why are you wearing makeup?
Because I felt like it.
No, that's not why.
What do you mean that's not why?
Take it off then.
Give me a wipe.
Alright, we got you.
I see you know what time it is.
Come on.
Get the makeup wipe.
Okay, but I have a question.
And you know subconsciously whenever you go out.
Oh!
You don't want to take it off?
Subconsciously.
You don't want to take it off now?
Instagram posts, hair, nails, eyebrows, lashes.
It's all to look better.
For who?
For others.
For me.
For others.
For me.
And you know what's funny about this whole topic here?
Yeah.
You don't deep down what you're doing.
I got the makeup wipe here if anyone thinks they're a 10 for real.
Let's take it off.
Any of y'all think you're a 10 for real, let's come on, man.
Let's put the feet to the fire, man.
No competition.
I have a question.
I do have a question.
I'm going places after this.
Hold on, where are you going?
Where are you going?
Club, right?
I mean, I don't know what time it is if I'm still able to go.
Hold on, hold on.
Who's going to be at the club?
I'm going with my friends.
No, no, but who's going to be at the club?
My friends.
But who else is going to be there outside of your friend group?
Well, I'm going for my friends.
But who's going to be there?
That's the question.
I don't know.
Me.
People.
No, no, no, no, no.
Answer the...
There you go.
Men and women.
Okay, cool.
Men and women are going to be there.
How are the women going to be dressing her?
Wearing club attires.
Are they going to have makeup on?
Probably, maybe.
How are the men going to be there?
Wearing attire, wearing stuff.
And what are they going to be doing?
What are they going to be doing?
Yeah.
There's gonna be a hierarchy, right?
Drinking, being with other men.
Yeah, but there's gonna be some guys in a section.
Trying to get other male validation.
But there are gonna be guys in sections.
There's gonna be guys not in sections.
There's gonna be guys, right?
There's gonna be a hierarchy, correct?
I guess.
So, for you to compete in that hierarchy, would it be fair to say that you need to look your best?
Um, sure.
And a component of that is wearing makeup?
Yeah, right now.
So aren't you competing with other women at that club?
Bam.
Dead to rights.
I've gone to the club without wearing makeup before.
Do it tonight then.
Do it tonight.
Come on man.
Let's do it.
Why are you wearing your watch?
Why are you wearing your bracelet?
We're not denying competition.
I admit.
You can't admit it.
She never denied competition.
Why would you buy something if it's not for yourself then?
To fuck girls.
To fuck girls, man.
Who wants to fuck?
Listen, I can be honest.
That just sounds like a dumb investment if he didn't do it for you.
It's not dumb if he's fucking.
I have multiple watches.
This one's just a stunt.
And girls.
And at the same level, it's competition.
So listen, I'm in the club, flexing on fucking haters, bagging bitches, but I know what it is.
You don't want to admit it.
Yeah.
I don't know.
Niggas buy watches and cars and expensive shit for us.
For us?
No, it's for you dumb hoes, man.
Come on, man.
Look at you.
That's sad.
I don't know what you say.
Listen, we would literally live in a one bedroom studio cardboard box with one couch, one couch, one bed, a futon.
That's your competition.
What?
A girl still might go for the guy without any of that shit and you just did all that for no reason.
And you just did all that for no reason because she didn't do it for you.
We just spent all your money and you still didn't get anything.
You on the other hand are lying to yourself.
I'm not lying to myself.
I think that you guys are confusing her saying that she doesn't acknowledge the competition means that there is no competition.
It is still there.
No, she acknowledged it.
No, but that's what I'm saying.
She acknowledges.
She's just saying that she's not thinking about the competition because she thinks she's adequate.
Or not.
I'm just not like...
To have the hubris to say I don't acknowledge the competition is almost worse than saying there is no competition.
Yeah, bro.
See, women don't even see their arrogance.
I know what you guys are saying.
Women don't even see their arrogance.
What I'm saying is that you can acknowledge it and notice that it's there.
Like, why are all my decisions have to be based at the end of the day of like...
Right, I say all the time there's an ecosystem on this planet.
But at the same time, that doesn't mean that you have to think about the next lion or the next tigress or the next tiger.
You don't.
In my group, But friends, we actually talked about competition a lot.
You don't have to worry every single day.
So it's still there.
Bro, we've symbolized the world so much and we've given women so much attention that they can sit there and say, I don't even acknowledge competition.
I'm in my own world.
And I would argue saying that you don't even acknowledge competition is cockier than saying there is no competition.
Delulu.
I guess.
It's been working out so far.
That's what you want to say.
Let me guess.
You got an A in biology?
Did I get an A in biology?
Yeah.
I'm sure, yeah.
You did?
I did get an A in stats, actually.
There you go.
An A in stats.
I did in college.
Took it a couple semesters ago.
Dead to rights, nigga.
There you go.
Dead to rights.
We showed you stats a second ago.
Yeah, and you showed me a positive statistic.
At the end of the day, it's still positive, no matter how small the number is.
And there's literally nothing you can argue against that because it's still a positive number, which means that it's correct.
We tried helping you.
I mean, less than 1% is positive to her.
That's not positive.
That's fine.
So a 0.79 is not positive.
Anything above a 0 is positive.
Understandable.
We're just seeing.
The odds are not in my favor.
I wasn't arguing against that.
I never argued against that.
I just said the number is so positive.
0.8% chance to jump out of a plane.
Would you still jump out of a plane with a 0.79% chance of the parachute of the plane?
I'm talking about jumping out of a plane.
It's your life goal of being with a family.
Why is that my life goal?
That's your life goal.
I don't know.
Who said that's my life goal, though?
You don't want a family?
That's all I want to attain in life.
No, but ultimately, you don't want a family?
That's not my ultimate goal.
I think my ultimate goal is just being fucking...
Delusional.
Getting a goddamn house.
Like, I want a house.
I want a property.
I want, you know...
With nobody in it.
But you.
My ultimate goal is not to just start, like, your life over after you become a mother and, like, have kids and get married.
Like...
That's not a life goal.
I want to travel.
If that's the only thing that you want to achieve in life, that's Wayne.
That's me.
That's my personal opinion.
That's not my life goal.
It's just to be a wife and be married.
Don't save her.
She don't want to be saved.
Don't save her.
You're going to want a family.
Not because you need it, because you're going to want it.
And secondly, you do need it.
Secondly, I'm going to say this.
To you and to your facts, yes, a house is a great goal to have.
But after that, who's going to be in there?
Yourself?
No.
But you asked me what my ultimate life goal is.
It's not to be a wife.
That's not my life goal.
My life's aspirations.
But when it's all said and done, you achieve all your goals.
What's next?
A family.
That's the ultimate conclusion to your goals.
Because without the success in house and money, what's the point?
Okay.
All right, man.
She just wanted to hear dog shit.
I really don't know what the meow is.
Meow now.
I guess if it's laugh, but...
All right, Chris, we got to close this thing out, right?
All right, let's go ahead and...
She just wanted to hear dog shit.
Chats?
Okay, cool.
All right, we'll get the ladies out of here.
America.
What do the ladies think of this statement...
Oh no, we gotta go 50 and up, man, from before, right?
This is before, yeah.
Women are utterly incapable of loving a man by the way that a man expects to be loved.
That's true.
John May.
High value women, Tess.
Ladies, who is Exodia?
Does anyone know who Exodia is?
No.
No, you wasted $20.
You triggered my trap card!
And here's the thing, bro.
Not only do they not know, they don't give a fuck.
Take that into consideration.
They don't give a fuck that they don't know.
Why would they?
All right.
Myron, please don't lose any more of me to these three or fours.
Oh, this is Myron's hair.
This is my hair.
Make it too late, bro.
I wish I saw this earlier.
Fresh, if you're still a lawnmower, I need you at my place this weekend.
Ladies, why do feminists think they don't need men when 96% of all infrastructure is done by men?
They don't even know and or care about that.
You're fine.
Moe looked like he's a worker at NASA with that big-ass soundboard.
Well, it's a mixer, but okay.
What else here?
Someone get my...
Some chapstick.
Thanks, man.
I appreciate that.
I'll just lick my lips.
Pause.
BN. Someone get my...
Oh, sorry.
What else we got here?
Juncoil.
Regarding the marriage question, while still not necessarily a benefit to the guy, I believe the title portrays a better image for children.
Take yourself, for example, would you rather see your parents are married or in a relationship?
I get what you're saying, but we didn't talk about kids.
Regarding the marriage question, while still not necessarily a benefit to the...
Oh, no, I got that one.
Okay.
Gonna be talking about wholesome with titties hanging out.
That ain't wholesome, that's whoresome.
Let me speak in for the real old school women.
Goddamn.
You're all worthless to men, dumbass dog shit, nor disrespect.
Oh, shit.
Damn, that's actually...
Stop it.
Get some help, Miss Footlocker.
Stop it.
Get some help.
I'm doing just fine.
I think he was saying that when you were talking about the polyamorous thing of you having other niggas.
It's funny how all these women say Myron's wrong.
So many guys, including myself, have implemented his ideas and seen nothing but progress.
Shout out Fresh and Fit.
We gain boundaries and acknowledging our worth.
Yep, there you go, man.
You got it.
Zerka's father.
What?
He goes, fucking lying horse.
Goddamn, nigga.
Fuck, man.
Ouch.
Myron's here.
Myron's here goes, yo, Wednesday, Adams woke up.
Best one on the panel.
Ladies, come to Illinois and I'll show you a good life.
Abby.
Oh, Abby.
Okay.
Wait, what?
Wednesday.
He called her Wednesday.
The Adams family.
Oh, okay.
Bender the Offender goes, two down from Fresh shoots buckets, buckshot from her nose when she sneezes.
What?
Oh, yeah, because he's saying she had a big nose.
Who has a big nose?
Two from Fresh.
Married.
Oh, Abby.
Married Abby.
Oh, pay for a nose job then, man.
Okay.
They made a nose job point to me.
Goddamn.
Oh, shit.
All right.
KSI 4-head?
Oh, okay.
He's rating you guys.
He's rating you guys from 1 to 10.
Okay.
You.
He said negative 5.5.
Greta, negative 4.
No, okay.
Sorry.
No, no.
5.5.
He's giving you a 5.5.
He's giving Ms.
Russia a 4.
And then he's giving...
Green Top, 6.5.
Oh.
Oh, okay.
Green Top, 6.5.
Walmart, Rihanna, a 4.
What the...
The married woman, he called, he talks too much, a five, and then Mona Lisa, what do you get?
Six.
Call her Mona Lisa.
I'm dead.
Yo!
Mona Lisa's crazy!
Yo, you fuck, bro.
Yo, Mona Lisa's crazy.
No!
Yo, pull up the Mona Lisa real quick.
That's gonna be funny.
Durag Byron.
It's the same shit as how there are many Coca-Cola rip-off brands and cheaper, yet people still prefer the original Coca-Cola.
LMAO, man is the original Coke, and y'all the great value.
Call that facts, bro.
Oh, shoot.
Bro, y'all about to start seeing niggas copying us with, like, the skits of the mics and lie detectors and everything, man, bro.
Oh, shit!
No!
Ab, you gotta do the pose real quick.
Do the pose real quick.
Alright, go ahead.
Do the pose.
You gotta put right hand over left like this.
Yep.
Yo, what the fuck, bro?
This is horrible.
This is my last time.
Was she a virgin?
By the way, Mona Lisa or no?
No, she wasn't.
She probably fucked to do that painting.
Question for you, man.
I caught my five-year-old boyfriend using prostitutes and buying OF. Oh, this is from a girl.
Was I wrong to leave?
We shared child.
I'm 25.
Currently decently attractive.
I was not withholding sex.
He was living in my home that I own.
We both worked.
Well, we messed up there.
You got a child with him.
You got him to stay.
He was staying with you, girl.
Yeah, he's staying with you and he's cheating on you.
This is a good question.
See, here's the thing.
If he was paying the bills and it was his house, then she would accept it.
But he's a bum.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But also, ladies, once again, men always have a need for other women, no matter what you do.
Yeah.
That's a tough question.
I need some more facts.
But on paper, he fucking up.
I ain't gonna lie.
He is.
You can't be doing shit like that, nigga, when you a bum.
You're the...
The sub?
Nah, bro.
Oh, lord.
Alright.
What do we got here?
This is my username.
PJ goes, Boy, Mr.
Collins Show.
Oh, boys, Mr.
Collins Show.
Recommendation, get a digital pad to write in when you take notes so these girls say dumb shit, then deny it later.
You can pull it up on screen.
Timestamp.
Love y'all.
Evan, I've changed my life.
Wow.
I like Ryan's writing, though, because, you know, what I used to do for work.
Change your life is crazy.
Okay, we got anything else?
You don't believe we will change people's lives?
I mean...
Go ahead.
That's subjective.
I hope so, you know?
Do you want to be lied to?
Do I want to be lied to?
Yeah.
Your entire life?
Yeah.
No.
Or be told the truth?
Be told the truth?
We told you the truth.
You don't want to take it.
You can't tell the truth.
What do you mean I don't want to take it?
Bruh, are you serious?
Competition?
How do I know when I take it?
What do you mean, Frash?
You're mad at me because I just said, change your life, that's crazy.
He's not mad at you, he's just saying the truth and you can't take it.
She got it, see?
Meow.
See, the difference is that when we tell men the truth, they typically take it a lot better than women do.
I mean, a big part of the reason why the show is so successful is because women can handle the truth and people love to see the reaction when we tell them the truth.
Kind of like tonight.
So, yeah.
W. Well, I'm glad that you guys are successful at this and you're changing people's lives.
That's great.
Thank you.
Okay, what else have we got here?
What do you guys think on Justin Walker's mom speaking on YouTube?
I have no idea what you're talking about, bro.
Ladies, how do you think growing up with the internet and smartphones has affected modern women and dating?
L, Chris again, put the baddies next to us, man.
Abby is attractive, but we don't fuck with employees.
Who do you think we are?
Limp Dick Kenny.
Oh, shit, that's Precious Balls.
Precious Balls.
Okay, okay.
Yeah!
Okay, bro, waiting seven years for some Arby's roast beef.
Buy one, get one.
Free special is crazy.
What?
I like to perform an experiment.
Pick a commonly used term among the panel and have them write down the definition of what that term and then compare after any term you think you know the meaning of.
Wow, that's really good.
Because remember, meanings have different meanings to each person.
I'm going to write that question down.
We don't got time for that on this show, but that's a good question.
I'm going to actually write that one down.
And that was another good question.
Go back real quick.
Nope.
Nope.
Next one.
Next.
Damn, that was another one.
It's fine.
It's fine.
Fresh, can you keep going while I write that one down?
So, Fresh, I actually informed myself about having multiple wives as a Christian, and God didn't condemn having multiple wives.
But where did he say you can do that, though, is the question.
Because you can say that, but where's the opposite where you can actually do that?
So that may be a great area there, but like, bro, you don't really know.
My dog says, girl next to Myron, a Brittany Renner wannabe.
She go to games to scout athletes for baby trapping.
She even showed up to the Foot Locker uniform to show.
Shake my head.
Oh, shit.
Wow.
I just want to say that I don't even go to games like that, dickhead.
Oh, shit.
And someone said the Old Testament, but on some level, we're in the New Testament teaching, so I get the Old Testament as well, but...
On some level, I want to see where he says that in the New Testament.
Cardinal Nurse says, Yes, I have.
Yes.
Alright.
Cool.
Can you imagine if you're walking down the street with your boyfriend and you get attacked and he says, I'm not going to protect you until I'm your husband?
Oh, that's funny.
That's for you.
Oh, yeah.
You have a response for that?
That's a good one.
Well, you said that the girlfriend responsibilities and the wife responsibilities are the same, so I guess I would argue that the same for the boyfriend, so I guess he would be supposed to do it anyways if he wasn't my husband.
That means don't go out with him, ladies.
Y'all missed the complete point of the question.
He's trying to say that your logic is ridiculous.
When you said, oh, I'm going to cook and clean when I become a wife.
I wasn't speaking from my point of view.
I was giving out a scenario.
I already answered that.
I said I could and, you know, do all that.
But anyways.
You married and y'all's sex life has slowed down and if your husband came to you on a few occasions that if something doesn't work, he will look elsewhere.
If he actually looks elsewhere because nothing changed, who's wrong?
Well, they're going to say the nigga's wrong, bro.
Every time.
I have a better chance of Icy taking me back than money dress has of getting that high-value man.
Icy side tooth.
Oh, shit.
Yo, that's a lot.
Yo, y'all rest in the staff.
I like this, baby.
I like this arc right here.
I like that y'all make fun of the staff, man.
All right.
The moment she's pregnant, all the men going to be in the living room talking about stuff.
Whoever the baby daddy is, just know I tore it up last night.
What?
That's so random, bro.
You married and y'all sex...
Oh, got that one.
FNF, y'all should add that whoopsie sound clip from the Mortal Kombat.
Probably.
Ben Zell goes, Guys, when are you going to do a live show with Top G on Rumble?
Ladies, what do you think about him?
Love your podcast, FNF. We don't got time for that one, my friend, but we will have him on soon.
Men, or Myron, me and the boys were watching your podcast when you first had the big Hooter lawyer.
We played a drink game for every time she mentioned she was a lawyer.
We were lit.
Yeah, I know.
You're gonna die on that one.
What?
Thanks to the marketing mentioned earlier, fresh jumping in that money.
FYI, I'm white with so much swag, I pulled the Haitian away from the traditional.
By the way, Henny Chris and Penny Moe, what up, though?
Hey, bro, you can have it, nigga.
I'd be happy.
When I see black women and white dudes, I'd be happy.
I'd be like, yes.
Take them.
Hey, man.
Take them, man.
Ladies, how would your friends describe you, don't cap, I can easily authorize an audit on you?
Gently trying to understand what qualifies as cheating.
Much love, Myron and Fresh.
Your podcast has been a game changer for me.
Tune in the next episode and I'll ask that question because I actually have a very good question on that.
Time to flip it on women.
Every man you want for a commitment, a real 10 wants.
Every fan you want a real 10 wants.
Every subscriber you want a real 10 wants.
Pussy market is flooded for high value men.
I described that earlier.
Shout out to you, my friend.
Chris Lancaster.
And that's from Chris Lancaster.
Anything else?
That was the last one.
All right.
Ladies, last thoughts.
We'll start right here.
No, no, we have one more.
I want to fight when they are wronged.
Masculine men get banned everywhere on the net.
When my instinct is to fight bar silence in the beta male world, what to do?
What?
Okay, that's kind of...
What was...
Okay.
I don't understand that.
PJ, listen, Walmart Rihanna, thanks to FNF, my credit score is up.
I make six figures now and have a side hustle and left a long-term sexless relationship.
0.7% enjoys the cats are dying alone.
Goddamn it.
That's good for you.
I haven't changed my life.
Here's another hundo.
Thank you, bro.
I appreciate it greatly.
I don't know why you need a podcast to get your credit score up, but I'm glad it worked out either way.
Wow.
So salty, then.
No, I just, you know, the fact that it took a podcast for him to raise his shit up.
That's the whole point.
We told people the truth.
And also, you gotta keep in mind, they don't teach financial literacy like in high school or college, really.
I don't think they ever taught in high school.
That's what I mean.
That's the whole point.
They don't teach it.
Well, like I said, it's still a positive.
He's still got his shit up at the end of the day.
I mean, you got an A in stats and you couldn't even look at a stat here, so is education really serving you?
I looked at the statistic.
It wasn't about looking at it.
You guys just didn't like my answer that I said it was still a positive number at the end of the day.
But, um...
Like I said, you know, your podcast is changing lives.
So at the end of the day, that's what's important here.
So I'm glad that you guys are able to do that.
Thank you.
Niggas watching the show understand it's going to change your life.
The women are going to fuck, bro.
It ain't going to change their life, bro.
Your credit score is going to go up.
You're going to get better relationships and continue to be a high-value man.
It's helping you.
It's helping you a lot.
It's helping society.
Are you trolling?
Yes, you're trolling.
It's fine, though.
All right, last thoughts.
We'll start here.
How's the show for you?
Last questions, disagreements, points, anything?
I had a good time.
I think that everybody has really strong values and opinions, and I respect all of them, everything that I heard today.
Well, we mostly stayed at facts.
Y'all had opinions.
Facts and opinions, if you need me to correct it, Myron.
Okay.
Myron!
What about you?
You didn't say much.
I was just listening.
Okay.
That's a good quality.
That is a good quality.
I like listening first, then talking.
Yeah, what are your thoughts on the show then?
How dare you?
From listening and hearing both perspectives.
How dare you?
How dare you?
I liked it because you got both perspectives for sure.
Who was right and who was wrong?
I don't think there's right and wrong.
It just depends what side you're looking for.
Who was correct most of the time?
Somebody's wrong.
Lord.
Come on, Miss Russia, you know.
I mean, there were instances that you guys were right.
I can't lie.
Okay.
I would agree with a lot of things you said, for sure.
Who was more correct during the course of the show, the men or the women?
Everything.
I can say more or less, you don't know.
You guys asked a lot of subjective questions, not a lot of yes and no.
Y'all messy.
I mean, I was just asking a pretty general question because there was obviously more correct versus wrong because I would argue that we were on the side of facts and statistics.
You were on the side of, I feel like this.
No, absolutely.
But she just gave y'all an answer to y'all question.
Y'all repeated your question.
Yeah, I just don't want to take a side, you know.
Because I'm a girl.
I don't want to, like, you know, take your guys' side.
That is very truthful.
With the theme of the show that we described earlier.
You confirmed our question.
Can't be honest.
No hierarchy.
Competition.
Thank you for proving your point.
How dare you?
No, I can be honest.
I'm actually pretty honest with my close friends.
Not on a public podcast with a bunch of black girls.
Okay, cool.
I'm just going to say not many other people just because people get offended so fast.
Here's your answer, niggas.
I just don't want...
You don't hurt your feelings.
Yeah, it's fine.
No worries.
But again, proves our point on the show that we've said before.
Yes.
Yo, this show has been...
Yo, real talk for the audience out there.
So much of female psychology was shown on this podcast, this episode.
If y'all...
I know the ladies are like, what the fuck are you guys talking about?
And it's funny because they did it indirectly.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So much female psychology was shown on this show.
Alright, what about you?
What about you?
Someone's always going to be jealous.
Someone's always going to be jealous.
I'm never getting married.
Oh, how?
Oh, no.
I already decided that a long time ago.
No.
I don't need a fucking man.
I don't care.
You don't need a man at all?
No, I don't care.
Like, what the fuck?
You guys fucking taught me a lot of...
A lot of shit.
What did you learn?
How do you guys think?
Are you kidding?
I already know.
That's why I don't put up with that shit.
It's not for me.
Wait, what?
Like...
Um, like, lying, and, like, I don't have time for that.
Like, I want to focus on myself, and that's it.
I think we've been pretty honest during this podcast.
No, you know, you guys have been very honest.
Like, nothing bad for you guys.
Like, I love it, but, like...
Oh, you don't want...
Okay.
No, it's...
You mean, like, in a marriage, you think you're gonna get lied to?
Oh yeah, hell yeah.
Are you kidding?
But can women handle the truth?
Um, no.
And that's also why I don't want to do it.
No, duh.
Duh.
That's why I'm not doing it.
Alright, fair enough.
That's why I'm not doing it.
Thank you for coming.
Ninjas that are watching the show.
Ninjas that are watching the show, by the way, we only got like 2k likes.
Like, yo, what the fuck, man?
We need to get the likes out.
And over 20k watching?
We should easily have like 5,000 likes plus.
Get the likes up, guys.
We gave you guys literally a psychological clinic on females in general.
Like the goddamn video, because everyone's trying to copy us, and they suck.
And we're showing you guys where we're the innovators.
Big facts.
All right, what about you, Miss...
Miss Weitz.
I'm trying to think of a proper term here.
Delusional.
There you go.
Miss Delusional.
Yes.
Well, I can say that this podcast has totally changed my life.
For the better or worse?
Stop the cow!
For the better.
Okay.
It's been a truly eye-opening experience.
Wow.
What did you learn that you're going to incorporate?
Maturity.
She's being sarcastic.
I like it.
I know she is.
Yeah.
No, she's being serious, bro.
She's being serious.
You guys have cleared, like, my delusion.
Yes.
I have lowered my self-worth and my standards, and, you know, I'm going to be the subservient woman that I'm supposed to be.
Wow!
This is amazing, bro.
And I'm going to do whatever it takes to keep my high-value man.
Wow.
Forget about it.
This is so good, bro.
She's learning.
You know?
As I said, this changed my life, truly.
I'm one of the supporters.
Like, you know, I love you guys.
Invest in Chewy, guys.
Invest in Chewy.
My credit score just went up like seven more.
Alright, what about you?
And, you know, like, I'm like more financially literate and I think I'm gonna go back and take another class in statistics because clearly, you know, I need better.
I just want to better myself so I can stand against the competition.
Do me one favor, though.
Yeah.
My last point to you.
To change forever.
Change forever.
Take it off.
The makeup.
No.
Eat it.
I knew you were going to go back to that.
Damn.
Why are you so with the makeup?
For real.
She said she learned a lot.
This last point, she needs to learn.
Take it off.
I said I'm going somewhere.
See?
You're all a cat, man.
Anyhow, let's move on.
All right.
So the show is good.
I appreciate that you guys are sharing that it's good for men to have higher value on themselves and think of themselves as better because it makes them better men for women to be able to trust in.
Yes.
Because it makes you more positive and makes you more confident in yourself and your abilities to step into that role of being a server, of being the support in the house.
And, you know, honestly, when a man is able to do that, it makes a woman feel safer.
So it's good in that aspect.
And then I think it's good that you bring girls onto the show as well, because for a girl to hear what a man is saying, it has to be communicated in a way for a girl to hear.
So it's good to have girls share it.
Girls who agree with you share it as well, too.
Because just hearing it from a man to a girl's ears, it doesn't sound the same.
Yeah, she agreed the whole show.
Yeah.
She was amazing.
Yeah.
Like I said, fresh and fit for life, you know?
That was easy.
What about you?
I had a great time on the show.
I love the show.
I love being behind the scenes.
I love coming What do you have anything else you wanna say no I Had a great time.
That's it.
All right.
Fantastic.
Guys, we will be back on Monday.
We're going to have bigger pockets in here.
We're going to talk about real estate investing, guys.
How to go ahead and acquire your first real estate property.
101, step-by-step, man.
For all you guys that have been asking about real estate.
This is going to be the episode, okay?
Literally, us and the biggest real estate channel on YouTube are going to break it down for y'all.
Tune in Monday at 6pm or 7pm, one of the two.
We're going to be here with David Green.
It's going to be lit.
We'll catch you guys then.
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They can imitate.
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