We're going to be covering a very important topic, but quick announcement before we get into it, because we're not going to play the intro, guys.
Rumble.
Rumble.com slash Fresh Fit, guys.
You guys know that is home base for us, man.
If we ever get cancer, you'll know exactly where to find us.
Rumble.com slash Fresh and Fit.
And then also, castleclub.tv, guys.
We're going to be going out on an expedition tomorrow.
Excursion tomorrow.
Basically to, I think we're going to Disney World or something like that.
To celebrate my birthday.
Yeah.
With the team and a little vacay for the team as well.
Yeah, I'm being forced.
But we are going to be going.
But yes, we will be there.
And yeah, we're going to record some locals concert for y'all over there, man.
We'll have some of the crew over there.
So it's going to be great.
Shout out to Gorilla Mind, guys.
Link is below if you guys want to go ahead and get it.
Code is FRESH to get, I think, like 20% off.
I'm drinking grape today.
Yeah, he's drinking grape.
I wonder why.
Yeah, I wonder why you're drinking a black one.
Hope you guys are enjoying the camera angles, by the way, man.
Yo, we...
Hey, man.
I got some...
Man, let me show y'all how hard I go in the paint real fast.
Yeah, he made some great improvements recently as well.
But hey, guys, today we're taking it back to the old times.
Just us and you guys for a stream.
I got two more FX3s.
I'm not messing around, guys, alright?
I got two more of these lenses.
Actually, I just put up a new one there on camera three.
So we're switching all the cameras over to these goddamn Cinema Line cameras.
And yeah, bro, I'm going hard in the pay.
I'm going to make sure that we get y'all the best quality content.
I'm not kidding around when I tell you guys.
That's a new lens, by the way, as well.
You guys like that?
And yeah.
Yeah, you like that?
Trust me when I say we felt it.
Puckets wise.
Puckets wise.
Yo!
Yo!
I got a text!
Yeah, bro!
So, new amount paid for cameras.
I'm like, nigga!
I'm gonna go broke off of cameras alone!
Shit!
This nigga, bro!
Yeah, and that's a new lens right there.
I haven't even put the FX3 on it.
That's a Sony A7R right there, but I got a good, like, one of those big-ass lenses on it.
It's nice.
It's the...
It's a f2.8 f-stop, but it goes from 70 to 200mm, the white lens, the really big telescope shit.
So that's what we're using over there, and I'm going to put an FX3 on it.
That's going to be tonight.
My camera guy, Roberto, is coming to help me out with that because I know cameras to a degree.
I could set shit up, but I'm not as good as him, so he's going to help me out.
They were saying, it looks so good camera-wise.
Oh, look, Kevin Hart.
No way, bro.
Yeah, man.
So, yeah, man.
So, yeah, definitely, guys, we're reinvesting back into the studio.
Like I said before, we really do take this shit seriously, and we're trying to give you all the best content.
Hope you guys like that background over there.
You guys like that?
Yeah, y'all like that, man?
I know y'all like that, man.
Sunset.
Goddamn.
You can't beat it.
By the way, shout out to Bills, man.
So recently, actually like two minutes ago, we changed hoodies.
Pause.
He's in the gallery.
What's this, Bills?
Oh, that's Warren Lotus.
There you go, man.
I'm learning about the LA type streetwear.
So it's pretty dope too as well.
And the back is crazy too.
Go ahead, stand up, stand up.
Show him.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
It's hard.
That shit's clean, bro.
So thank you, man.
Appreciate that, bro.
Some nigga activities going on.
But I don't know what the hell they were doing, but yeah.
Merch!
But yeah, guys.
I mean, I hope you guys like the new studio, man.
I think it's better than the other one.
It's, you know, we got better cameras, better lighting.
And we own it!
Just better setup.
And we own it this time!
You know what I'm saying?
They can't tell us nothing.
Unlike the other building where they didn't like some of our comments that we made with Nick.
Oh.
Either way.
The girls getting kicked out.
We had a great run at that building.
And they got me a check.
So I'm happy.
I don't know for you, nigga.
I didn't get my deposit back.
I was like, fuck this, man.
You didn't care, though.
Yeah, now renew my lease.
Fuck you guys.
Yeah, you didn't care.
Keep my deposit, man.
I don't give a shit.
But either way, nice cup you got there, Myron.
Oh, yes.
Yes.
Shout out to...
Jay the car guy.
Yes, Jay the car guy from the CEO Network.
Forget me the Punisher Cup, man.
My boy.
He gave me two of them because the other one got lost in a move, man.
Some of the stuff that I moved over got lost, I guess.
I don't know where the hell it went.
But yeah, man.
Shout out to you, man.
Thank you so much.
So yeah, what else?
Any other updates before we get into this thing?
Nah, just the excursion tomorrow.
And today's show is going to be a dating show, like back in the old days.
Yes, yes.
We're going to give y'all a step-by-step on this one, man.
We're going to bring it back to...
And look, guys, I know there's criticisms of being redundant or blah, blah, blah.
I'm here to tell you guys that we're absolutely taking that criticism seriously, and we're going to make sure that we improve the nighttime show, improve the daytime show, try to bring in some new guests for y'all, try to give you guys new ideas, etc.
I mean, everyone's going to copy us anyway.
But, regardless, we understand our position as the trendsetters, the innovators, and we are going to continue to innovate.
You know, I know they say, oh, if it's not broke, don't fix it.
Well, we're going to keep a certain formula, but at the same time, we're going to experiment and do new things.
Because...
I mean, yeah, bro, I'll be honest with you.
Even me, I get tired of talking to these hoes.
So I want to switch it up, too.
And we do got some things that we're gonna be using.
I'm waiting in the mail for some of it to come in and some things we have that we're practicing with to make sure that we can, without me giving it away, incorporate it appropriately into the show for you guys' entertainment value.
But I take that very seriously when I say we're the number one men's podcast in the world.
We are the most diversified podcast in the world.
We talk about everything from dating to being attractive to getting in shape.
I just locked in a really big fitness guest for us that's gonna come in December.
Probably one of the best when it comes to an evidence-based approach when it comes to training.
So make sure you guys have your notepads for that one.
That one's going to be great.
That's going to be December 15th.
We've got some other guests lined up as well for y'all, man.
So we're going to continue.
I know you guys really want Tommy Sotomayor.
I've been talking with him.
We're going to make the collab happen.
It's just that we're probably going to have to go to Atlanta to make it happen, guys.
Won't be able to do it here in Miami for a bunch of reasons.
Yeah.
So I might go up there and make that happen for y'all.
What else do we got?
We're going to have AMS back.
Yeah.
CGA? Yes.
Coach Greg?
Yep.
Shout out to Coach Greg.
Oh!
Should I say the...
Fuck it, I'll just say it.
We got Rolo and James Sexton coming on as well next month.
Early next month, guys.
So that's going to be a great show.
They're going to be here early November along with Michael Sartain.
We'll have a great panel show with y'all.
We're going to do multiple interviews.
It'll be a really good time.
Yeah, man.
We're just going to keep improving and giving y'all the best show that we can.
Just because...
You know, we're on top when it comes to, you know, the men's podcast doesn't mean that we're gonna get comfortable.
We're gonna continue to innovate and push the envelope and try different things out, you know what I mean, and make it happen.
And they thought we were out of the game, bro.
You're demonetized, you're canceled, you're done for, but we're still here fighting the good fight.
So, here to stay, man.
Yeah, demonetized, but our cameras alone are worth more than people's entire studios.
Bro, each of these cameras is about $4,000 a piece.
Oh yeah.
And I got them with top tier lenses that are all, the lenses are at least $2,000 to $3,000.
Oh yeah.
See, I'll do the math.
Each camera I'm running is about $6,000 to $7,000.
I have eight of them.
Actually, I have more than eight.
I have...
We have a lot.
Should I say how many?
No, don't say the number.
We have a lot.
We have a lot.
That's just the FX3s.
That's not the Sony A7Rs that I have.
And then that's not also the Sony A6400s that I have, which I'm basically, we're not even using Sony A6400s anymore.
Yeah.
So we've outgrown that, man.
So a lot of you bum-ass haters that talk shit about us, you're still recording on a goddamn A6400 trying to talk about how, oh, yo, we're lit, blah, blah, blah.
You're a fucking bum and you don't invest back into your business.
You don't invest back into your content.
You don't make the content better.
And we're constantly improving, bro.
It's like, literally, one of these setups alone is $67,000, which is more than a lot of our haters with their whole setup.
That's just one camera.
Bro, I know it was bad when he texted me the bill, and I was like, bro, this is insane, dog.
You gotta stop, bro.
Yo, yo, okay, I get it.
A couple cameras here and there, no problem.
Niggas spent like, what, 20, 30k?
Bro, that's wild, dog, on cameras.
Because we got seven FX3s now.
Yeah, like almost 50k on cameras alone.
And that's not even microphones.
I have like 20 Shure SM7Ps.
Dude, I don't want to know how much that lens costs.
That should look expensive as hell.
That was like 2K. Goddamn for a lens!
That's a camera!
Yeah, I can see it in the back in the corner over there.
That's the new iPhone.
Pretty much, man.
Holy.
But yeah, man.
And the reason why I'm telling you how much it costs is to let you guys know we're not just taking, pocketing this Super Chat money or pocketing this stuff and just be like, Yeah, let's go ahead and live.
Nah, man.
I live way below my means so that I can invest back into the studio to give y'all the best experience that we possibly can.
You know what I mean?
Bill's got fucking four monitors over there.
You know what I mean?
So that we can appropriately share a screen and make things nice and fluid and everything else like that.
So, you know, we got Mo with his stuff.
He's got a million screens over there as well.
So, yeah, man.
Anyway, with that said, just wanted to give you guys, and I say all that to say this.
Thank you guys, because without y'all's support, we wouldn't have been able to deal with the demonetization, deal with all the bullshit, deal with not getting our leases renewed.
Literally, bro, we've been through so much bullshit between haters and 30-plus YouTube channels coming after us, getting demonetized, getting canceled off TikTok, getting certain brands that don't want to work with us, getting certain interviews not done because of who we are.
There's been a lot of people that will be like, oh, sorry, bro, I like y'all content, but I can't work with y'all because you guys are too controversial.
Like, we've dealt with a lot of adversity, right?
You know, YouTubers still making 30-plus videos talking shit about us.
So it's like, I look at it like, yo, really the only thing we got is ourselves and you guys supporting us.
So we really appreciate that.
And that's why I work so hard to make sure that the studio is good, make sure that the content quality is good, make sure that the sound's on point, mics are fucking crispy, the video is looking good, the lighting is going good.
You know, I obviously hired my boy Roberto to come in periodically.
Keep them on retainer to make sure that lighting and cameras are always on point.
So, we take this shit seriously, man.
We're going to keep giving you guys the best content that we can.
Now, before they say...
The content quality.
So, thank you.
I don't do anything.
Let me tell them what I did.
Because niggas be like, oh, first it's useless.
So, this whole idea...
First, help me pay for all this shit.
Oh, what?
Yeah, yeah.
But niggas say, oh, I didn't do anything.
So...
We needed a building to move to from our prior building, right?
And I said to myself, you know what?
I have connections in Miami.
I'm going to make this shit happen.
So I looked around all my friends at the real estate, all my realtor friends, and I found two people that I thought could do the job.
My boy, David, and my boy, Steven.
Now, David, I hit him up the same day he said, bro, I got you.
Don't worry.
You're a good friend of mine.
I'm going to handle this shit.
He got in writing.
We could do the podcast in the building.
Incredible.
I don't know any realtor that does that.
Put his neck on the line for us.
He could lose his job.
We got in writing.
The building actually supports our podcast.
So we could film.
We don't have interference.
In this building.
Yeah, shout out to them too for being cool about that.
And then two, as well, the building knows us as good people, you know, showing love to everything we do with valet, front desk, everything.
So on some level, the connections that I made from the past worked in the future.
And now we're here today.
Yeah.
So yeah, no, I mean, if it wasn't for fresh guys, we wouldn't have a studio.
You know what I mean?
That's some bullshit, man.
Apparently.
He was the one that helped me find this unit, and then obviously I put the money up, bought it, and we're here now.
Like I said before, we're very blessed.
People talk shit, say we're demonetized, blah, blah, blah, but they forget that we got a fucking army of guys behind us like you guys that won't let us fail.
In turn, since you guys believe in us, we're going to make sure that we give y'all the best situation ever.
I love it when people hate and talk shit because that just drives me to work even harder.
And today's episode is not going to be any further away.
Today we're going to get back to the basics, man.
We're going to get back to what made us really popular in the beginning, which is giving y'all step-by-step dating advice on how to fucking navigate this game.
Our first show was dating.
What was it?
Cold Approach versus Social Media Game, I believe.
And that sparked...
The podcast going up.
Our three-year anniversary is next week.
Yeah.
Literally.
You were at your crib.
I was at my crib.
Did it virtually.
Got a bunch of views.
People liked it.
Yep.
Did it twice a week.
Hopefully one of our strikes is going to get off unless we get canceled before that too.
And then y'all will be able to see the timestamps finally again.
Thank God.
Yeah.
Because guys, some of y'all say like, yo, you guys slacking.
There's no timestamps.
Guys, we...
Always put timestamps in.
Shout out to our mods that help us with that, by the way.
It's just that it doesn't show on the bar because when you have a strike, the stamps don't pop up.
But hopefully next week that should be gone so you guys can actually see the track path.
And if you want the crazy stuff, just go to Rumble.
It's simple.
Yeah, facts.
Yeah.
Alright, cool.
Today's topic.
So today's topic, guys, we're going to talk about how to deal with online dating apps in the modern day age.
And we're going to go step by step and help you guys out with this because...
Okay, so let's go ahead and now that we covered that, you know, should we hit chats first?
Yes.
Okay, we're going to hit chats.
Yeah, so this is what we're going to do.
I'm going to hit the chats and then from this point forward, 10 or 20 and up?
10 and up.
10 and up from here?
Okay, so I'm going to read these that came in and then we're going to go through this and we're going to basically go uninterrupted, right?
Okay, Myron, have you thought about adding an IRL street interview stream maybe once a week on Rumble only have maybe hire Zerka or someone...
Can you put it with the black?
Yeah.
Only maybe hire Zerka or someone with that personality to conduct street interviews in Miami Beach in real life.
We'd love to see you guys grow bigger than copycats.
Don't worry.
We have things in plan.
I literally, you know, shout out to Icy.
Me and her sat down and wrote out like 15 new ideas of what we're going to do.
So don't worry, guys.
Yeah.
I got to say it, man.
Who came up with the idea?
Which one?
IRL streaming.
Oh, yeah.
You mentioned it a while ago.
Come on, bro.
Come on, bro.
I'm ahead of times.
JD. A long time ago.
But that is something that we're going to incorporate.
Don't worry, guys.
Yeah, we are.
I know you guys referenced white men as having the highest success rate on dating apps, which comes from a study done in 2021.
However, now in 2023, I believe that now changed to mixed men.
I mixed and I get at least five matches a day on Hinge.
Thoughts?
Well, again...
Could be your area.
Yeah, but it could be your area.
It could be where you're at.
It could be how you look.
Pause.
If you're like a light-skinned black dude with green eyes, of course girls are going to find that attractive.
You know what I mean?
But either way, I think...
But in general, yeah, Caucasian men tend to do the best.
JD donated $10, goes, I know you guys referenced, oh no, read that one.
Okay, shout out to you guys, more how-to videos, or redo them for 2023, 2024, and personally thank you, came out of a relationship after being cheated on, broken family now after being unplugged values, going up minus 40 pounds.
Thank you guys, we got you bro.
Good job bro.
And we're bringing it back to the basics for y'all.
What else do we got here?
Fresh, did you catch Marquette's commentary on your hater from the other day yesterday?
As an OG of 45 years old and a fellow believer, I want to say that I'm proud of you, bro.
You're an inspiration, Meyer.
Keep leading from the front.
Respect to the whole crew.
Yeah, so I saw half of it so far.
He was very unbiased.
I thought he gave a very good breakdown of the whole call itself.
And obviously speaking, you know, I definitely have a lot of haters.
That's very apparent.
But to be real, you know, I get it.
You know, I'm not who they think I should be right now, but I'm working on it.
And each and every day, I'm becoming better, so...
Yeah, he's going to boxing, he's going to a gym.
He's self-improving a lot, man.
Just because you can't see it in real time doesn't mean it's not happening.
That's the main point people understand.
And then also, guys, keep in mind that this show would never work if there was two me.
You guys really don't understand how much Fresh contributes as far as the polarity is very important.
If you think about it, so many people have copied us, but they haven't been able to necessarily be able to do it.
Why is that?
Well, because they don't have a good co-host that can counterbalance some of my craziness.
I'll say this too.
I'll say, oh, Fresh is useless, blah, blah, blah.
If I'm gonna be all the way a million with you guys, we would've been cancelled if it wasn't for Fresh.
Damn!
If I'm gonna be all the way...
He doesn't take credit for that shit.
I have some really crazy ideas that I wanted to do on the show that Fresh told me, like, nah, man, we can't do that shit.
Even more, I was like, yo!
Yeah.
I had some really, really crazy ideas that would've got us fucking cancelled, man.
If I'm gonna be all the way a million with y'all, that Fresh was like, nah, man, we can't.
We can't do that.
And I was like, alright, fine.
But, yeah, dude.
If it was...
You know what I mean?
Like, yo, man.
Wild shit that I had planned.
And it was just, yeah.
It would have been canceled everywhere.
Like I was saying...
You need that counterbalance.
On the last show, we have our ups and downs.
Everyone has their own take in the team.
And we all play a part, a major role in the team itself to make it work.
Y'all think I thought the hood was crazy?
Yeah, no, no.
You got to worry about some shit.
We're back in the 1980s.
Cancel right away, bro.
It's wild.
Unhinged Myron is crazy.
So, like, yo, I... You saw Pacific on Sniggle Streams.
That shit was crazy.
Hey, no, no.
There's a reason why it wasn't there.
No, no, because...
No, because I also had Myron's Amazon account on my computer.
I called Myron and said, return it.
Return it.
Return it.
No.
No.
What's your order?
No!
This nigga, bro.
Oh, man.
But to be fair though, you'd be a very good comedian back in the day.
Not now, but back in the day.
So y'all can say whatever you guys want to say, but Fresh is the reason why we're still on YouTube, man.
We would have been canceled if it was just on me, man.
You need that, man.
You need that other voice of reason.
Where else do we have here?
Ice.
I noticed red flags in my baby mother after becoming red pill like she thinks body count doesn't matter and told me if I get a paternity test, she'd leave me.
What...
Should men do when the red pill shows them their girl doesn't respect them?
You leave, my friend.
Leave, bro.
It's very simple.
You leave.
You just leave.
And the reason why she's telling you that, bro, she controls the frame.
If she's over here dictating to you that you can't even ensure your paternity and she'll leave you, what does that tell you?
You already lost.
Like, you need to leave, bro.
More often than not, the answer to the problem is just to walk away.
Because at that point, you know, your respect.
And once again, it's just, I want to say, respect you now.
What's going to happen in the future?
Just more of bad issues, bad behavior.
So, you gotta leave, bro.
Honestly.
Absolutely.
That's your best bet.
And then, Myron, thoughts on the Brett Cooper engagement to some trad con simp that Sneeko hit for free?
Killing Twitch?
We don't know what that is.
Zero clue what you're talking about, man.
Neff says, I really appreciate everything you guys do.
Happy birthday to my boy Fresh.
Keep going, brother.
If you don't have haters, you're not doing shit right.
Love all the haters.
Alright?
Alright.
Kendall Lawson says, Matrix attacks when you're on to something.
Before I went to be yesterday, I saw so many triangles when I closed my eyes.
It's crazy.
Bro.
You okay, bro?
He saw a lot of triangles when he closed his eyes.
Okay.
Much love to FNF and Myron's book.
Can't wait to meet you soon.
Thank you, bro.
Guys, my book is out in stores, Why Women Deserve.
Let's go grab it.
Yes, very good book.
CEO Network, Big Bossing.
Have a great evening, fellas.
Keep up the great work.
Thank you very much.
Thank you, Cody.
Shout out to you, bro.
Third Eye Prophet goes, I'm 26 and my dad passed away this Sunday.
I know what I have to do to make him proud, but I'm hurting bad.
Any words of wisdom you can offer?
Number one, my condolences to your father, you, and your family.
And understand, dude, that...
Think about it like this.
If your father was healthy and he was here today, what would he want you to do?
That's what you need to do.
And more than likely, I'm willing to bet that he wants you to chase success, become the best man that you could be, and create an impact in the world.
There's nothing wrong with grieving, especially grieving on your own, but understand that you've still got work to do.
And that's what he would want you to do, is to continue to be the best man that you can be.
And everything that you do now, maybe you didn't have a purpose before.
Now you have a purpose.
You have to keep his legacy alive.
Yeah, make him proud, man.
That's the best you can do, bro.
That's really the best that you can do, man.
Fresh, remember when Tai Lopez said you want 20% of people hating on you and they are the loudest?
Just know that there are some of us that understand your value.
It ain't fresh and fit without fresh.
Absolutely.
Thank you, bro.
Absolutely.
Love, man.
Live in reality.
Can you do a specific episode on what Asian slash Indian men to do to adapt to their struggles in the U.S. dating market?
How about a panel with Asian Indian men and you help them improve their strategy?
Bro.
Stay tuned for today's episode.
I'm going to go over that.
It's the same shit for all men, bro.
Whether you're Asian, Caucasian, Indian.
Obviously, you have a lower rate of success, but it's the same shit, bro.
If you're Indian or Asian, you just have to max out on other attributes.
Like, if you're Indian and Asian, bro, especially if you got an accent, thank you, come again, or love you a long time!
If you have either of those accents, bro, you better be in the fucking gym, you better be dressing well, you better be getting your money on point.
Anytime you have one of these deficits against you, you absolutely have to max out on other aspects.
Yo, okay, real quick.
Other than the smell, for people that are Indian, they can put on like 10 spits of cologne, bro.
I don't know, because there's a smell though, right?
Like, no offense, it's the curry smell.
I used to be around a lot of Indians and Barbados as well.
So what you do is, you buy some YSL tuxedo or some like, for example, what's that cologne?
Chanel, I forget what it's called.
Anyhow, get a good cologne, spread like 10 spits of it on your neck, on your wrists, Right here on your shirt, some pants.
That way when you go on dates, they don't smell the curry, bro.
Because that's just...
That's an L, bro.
I'm telling you.
That's an L, for real.
They don't want to smell curry all day.
Just saying.
Just saying.
Am I wrong?
That's facts.
That's on God.
I'm just saying, bro.
That's on God.
That is unbearable, bro.
Holy shit.
Just saying.
All right.
Who's next?
It's the next chat.
We have here, RecklessJaw says, Myron's BBL hair job looks so good.
Pause.
That it looks fake.
Keep the wibs going, bro.
It's not BBL hair job.
It's BBL. Well, it is kind of, because they took hair from one part and moved it to the other.
That's why.
I guess you could make an argument that it's a hair BBL, but it is what it is.
A hair BBL is crazy.
But whatever.
What do you guys think is most ideal, picking her up from her home or having her meet you at the location?
Okay, that's a very good question.
Fresh, you actually do this quite a bit.
What do you think?
So, the question, guys, is good, but it's also bad at the same time, because for me, I do what I want to do.
So again, if I want to drive my car, I'll pick her up.
If I want to just meet her to the spot, Meet me at the spot.
But it's what I want to do.
So the date is going on my terms, not her terms.
So again, it's not what she wants, it's what you want to do as a man planning that date.
That's the way I would answer it.
So if I feel like driving, I'll pick her up.
If I don't feel like driving, we'll put her to the date.
Done.
Simple.
Alright?
That's the frame you want to have the date go for.
You're in charge.
She's not.
Malik says, for all the free game you guys have given over the past few years, we will always support you regardless of what the bum ass haters say.
All of FNF team, shout out to you bro.
That's much love from Malik.
OG Insidious says, fire content always.
WFNF, love watching Fed reacts to keep it going, my ninja.
Alright.
Dance Production says, when are all...
When are y'all doing the Couples Therapy show?
Actually, we got a show coming up.
I think...
There's a...
Like Icy told you, but there's a date, so stay tuned.
Yeah.
Stay tuned.
It's actually very soon, actually.
We have two couples, I believe, confirmed for the show, so it's going to be pretty funny as well, the breakdown.
We have here Barry McCockinner.
What the hell?
Interesting guest to look into, Dr.
Paul Saladino, otherwise known as CarnivoreMD.
Great to bring your chat a knowledgeable discussion.
Okay.
Jay Ramirez says, no problem, Myron.
I bet one of your girlfriends took the other cup to their place.
That's why I sent you another cup and a spare.
Shout out to Mo for receiving and transporting.
10 days fresh, Miami.
Yes, we're having a 10 days.
The Seal Network meetup here in Miami.
We're going to do a boxing session.
We're going to do training.
Then we're going to have a dinner.
And if you're cool with the gang, out the party is going to be insane.
So if you're in the network, see you guys there in Miami in 10 days.
Jay, what up?
What up, Jay?
Jay the car guy.
We got here.
That's Jay Rowe says...
Jay Rowe says, I saw him at Burger King.
I want my money back.
I wasn't at Burger King.
I didn't even know why.
You gotta say, which one, bro?
Which one he was at?
Shit, none of them.
Maybe in his dreams, bro?
I don't know.
I was at the clothing store getting new pants again, bro.
Oh, shit.
Okay.
Okay.
We got here...
Withers is cold.
Can me doing a dating coach help you get more girls?
Also was noticing he gets more DMs on his alt account, which is weird since he's saying, I'm flattering truths about women.
Is it the competence?
Austin's also a Chad, bro.
You know what I mean?
He put a lot of work into maxing out his looks and, you know, he's definitely taking advantage.
So shout out to, I think he's assuming, he's speaking about Austin Dunham, right?
Yeah, yeah.
Shout out to Austin Dunham, man.
Shout out to him, man.
Yeah, makes very good content.
Go check him out, guys.
He has two YouTube channels, I think.
Austin Dunham Vlogs and Austin Dunham.
Also, he's not that controversial, bro.
He's more like help men's health improvement, you know?
So it's not really like us.
Where it's like, yo, you just call her a slut.
He gives a red pill in a way better way.
Smart.
In a way more palpable way.
Digestible.
Yes.
In a more digestible way versus us like, these girls are sluts!
Bro.
Either they're turned off or turned on.
It's not in between.
Yeah.
Yeah, and Austin is really good when it comes to looks maxing, right?
Dressing a certain way, you know, obviously grooming yourself appropriately, etc.
You know, the guys worked really hard on maximizing his appearance.
You know what I mean?
He's a Chad, bro.
He's a Chad.
You got to give credit where it's due.
Where are we at here?
Oh, just want to say I appreciate you guys.
Dedication to supporting the supporters.
You guys make sure every super chat is read and every supporter feels heard.
Absolutely.
One complaint is every time you guys say, save the question for later, Chris, you guys hardly ever go back to them.
It's tough, bro.
Wrong of life.
But we will work on it.
We will work on that, man.
We will.
Because here's the thing.
We're in a weird spot where it's like, we want y'all questions to get put on the show, but at the same time, people hate fan questions or supporter questions.
So it's like, fuck.
It's a very delicate balance where we want to ask your questions, but at the same time, not have it derail the show too much.
To be real more important, it's the time factor.
Because time itself, like, okay, I got...
Guys hate when we end the show, I want to say a little bit earlier, but the girls have a time crunch as well.
So to respect their time and our time as well, we have to make it work.
And we have something in place with certain people where we agreed to get the girls out at a certain time, guys.
It's not fresh wanting to go to work at the club.
That's a part of it.
This guy, bro.
I'm just kidding.
But the reality is really, the main thing is we have to get the girls out at a certain time.
Guys, we're running a business.
This isn't just like play along, fairytale.
This is a business.
You've got to understand there's outside parties, parties on the inside.
There's different factions and groups.
So it's about time management.
And I know you guys hate it, but it's just part of the game.
If you did the show yourself, you would understand why time is so important to some people's, I want to say, ventures as well.
Because, once again, people have things going on outside, jobs, careers, all that stuff.
So, kids, you just never know.
So, cool.
Who else we got here?
Got you, come right now.
Okay, Malik says...
I thought we did that one already.
This one too, right?
Yeah, we did that.
We did that.
We did that one.
A little bit further?
Yeah, got you right here.
Next one.
Okay, BossBoyBell says, Yes, brothers, please help me.
I use Tinder, no bio, what do I put?
I get matches, but convos die after three messages, or they don't answer.
Or I get a date for the weekend, and then they unmatch.
Yeah, bro, we got you with this show because, dude, you make a hell of a mistake so I can see it off rip.
No bio, that's terrible.
And I guarantee your pictures suck, bro, because, dude, I mean...
And then three messages, they stop responding to you?
Bro, what are you saying, huh?
Pauly, hi.
How are you?
Typical responses, which are terrible.
Okay, Boss Boy Bell again says, My picks suck.
I told you.
But waiting till I'm shredded to update them and get good picks.
Currently in the gym as I type this.
Help me out, brothers.
Also, what I use as an opener, how to move on to Convo Part 2.
We got you, bro.
Coming up soon with this show.
Kenyo says, Fresh, don't let the haters make you feel like you gotta improve yourself to anyone.
Fuck em.
The real ones know the value you provide to the show, without needing to show it.
WFNF team.
Thanks bro, I appreciate that man.
Bringo Talandrid says, I work 40 hours a week.
I paid a developer to make me a dropshipping website.
Working to launch soon.
I'm learning Spanish and I'm training to become a green barrette.
What else can I be doing to be better?
Honestly, bro, you're on the right path.
I mean, you're in the gym, you're trying to become a green barrette, you're learning Spanish, you're working on a job that's pretty good.
I'd say you're on the right path, man.
What I would do for you, bro, is find a mentor in the space you want to excel in and learn from them as well, because that would accelerate your process even further, find a mentor in your space, so it'll help a long way.
Redbird310 says, the best way to use dating apps, don't.
Have me run them for you, and you just show up on a date.
So that's our friend Casey in Columbia.
Yes.
And actually, Casey runs my shit.
I'll tell you that right now.
Casey absolutely runs my shit.
But here's the most important thing, though.
You still need to understand the process.
You need to understand the process, you need to be good at it, and then you can outsource it.
We had Nehemiah Davis on, and we talked about this, and he said, whenever you're an entrepreneur or you run a business or whatever, you need to learn everything in your business and know how to do it before you outsource it.
Because once you learn it, you know how it's done.
You have an idea of how quickly it can be done, how much is an appropriate pay for, etc.
Then you outsource it to someone.
I told you guys this before, right?
When we used to do our podcast, I used to do the videos, I used to do audio, I used to do everything, right?
And I still am very heavily involved in it or whatever, but I had to get some level of competency, right, to be able to know how to do it so that if they're not around, I can fucking make it happen.
Like right now, y'all have probably seen me running around switching camera lights and all that other stuff.
I'm not the greatest, but I'm able to do it to a degree, right?
Just to make shit happen.
And then, obviously, once you get a competent level, then you go ahead and you outsource someone that's even better.
At least your level, if not preferably better, because now you have the capital to actually hire someone who's better at it, right?
Which is what we've done.
So, when it comes to dating apps, etc., I have Casey run my shit for me because it's too time-consuming.
Because I know what it takes to run a good dating profile and to get a maximum amount of women in your funnel.
It's extremely time-consuming.
And you guys are about to see here when we go through this step-by-step how it is.
Anything else?
Are we caught up?
Jay Ramirez, you should do another show about the importance of having a number one and number two and each knowing their roles.
Y'all the goats and fresh haters are your number one fan CEO network.
Cool shout to you bro.
And then for those that hate question yourself first That is true.
Yeah bro.
I mean, everyone that's collabed with us, like, everyone has said good things about us after.
It was only two certain snakes from Canada that had something to say, but, you know, it is what it is.
Well, actually, one of them, because the other one never even came.
So, but that's fine.
You know what I mean?
Like I said before, he's going to get what's coming to him, so it's fine.
Anything else?
We're loading them up now.
Okay, guys, so from this point forward, because we're already 30, 40 minutes into this, right?
Okay, guys, we're going to go 20 and up from this point forward, because I want to make sure that we get through this, because we've got a lot to cover here.
And thank you guys so much for all the support.
Okay, so you want to hit with step one?
Well, first, let's give them a landscape, right, of what dating...
Okay, so as you guys know, you got the main dating apps.
You got Tinder, Bumble, Hinge.
I would say those are the three big ones.
And then you have other ones like...
More events.
More advanced, right?
Like you guys, sugar sites, which we'll probably have to update a one for you guys on that one because running that is a whole other game, right?
Which we've been talking about since 2021 for all the idiots out there.
They'll say, you guys are sugar days, blah, blah, blah.
No.
Stupid.
Correction.
We use those sites as dating sites, and if you know what you're doing, you can use it absolutely.
But, you know, the key is that you have to go in with a different approach than on regular dating apps, okay?
So, for today's episode, we're going to be focusing on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge.
Those are the three big ones.
And then, obviously, there's Plenty of Fish, OkCupid, which are what I would call more legacy dating apps.
Yeah.
And then you have...
Kind of lower tier, we call them.
Yeah.
They were big back before.
Then, obviously, you got Match, and you have...
Christian Mingle.
Christian Mingle.
And then, what's the one that we went viral for?
Blacked.
Blacked.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
But hey, for all y'all diggers that like, you know, you like your chocolate, you can go on there.
But either way...
But to make this, I want to say, as a preface, guys, this is not a, I want to say, replacement to cold approach, to social media game, to actually get out there and meet people.
This is just another tool on your tool belt to use to your advantage.
And I want you guys to go back and watch the episode that we did on how to get laid, right?
And how to go about meeting women.
And we gave you guys the different types of sourcing options to get women.
You got online dating, social media, cold approach, whether it's day game, night game, social circle game.
Yeah.
And what else?
That's pretty much it.
That's the main ways.
Cold approach during the day or night, right?
Yeah.
Which, those are two different games.
Then you got social media, dating apps, and social circle.
Those are the four main ways to meet girls, typically, right?
So, and we talked about how to get from the sourcing methodologies into getting their contact information, to setting up dates, to closing, right?
Now we're going to focus on online dating, alright?
So...
Online dating, guys.
Five points here.
Five points.
Number one, all right?
Pictures.
Very important.
Holy!
Dude.
This is the foundation of everything.
If you mess this up, it's a wrap for you.
Because, unfortunately, and for some of you guys, fortunately, especially if you're a Chad.
Austin Dunham.
Right?
Like, your looks matter a lot on online dating apps.
And this is where a lot of you guys are going to fail.
Because some of you guys might be good looking, but you take shitty pictures.
Or...
You're not the most attractive guy, and you take bad pictures, which is just a double whammy.
Or the cardinal rule is, or the cardinal sin is, you do selfies.
Bro.
Yeah.
You're not a chick, bro.
That's not for you, bro.
Selfies are a dub.
So, you need to take good pictures.
Yeah.
How do you do this?
Well, guys, it's gonna cost...
Again...
It's going to cost you some money.
I'm not going to sit here and tell you, you can do it by yourself for free.
No.
Hire a professional photographer.
Go out and take a thousand goddamn pictures.
A couple hundred, if not a thousand pictures.
Take a full day of shooting with three different outfits.
And if you're low on money, go to H&M, go to Zara.
Low key spots with good dress wear for a good price.
Yep.
So what you're going to do is I want you to take a couple of pictures in business attire, a couple of pictures in business casual, and then a couple of pictures in street wear.
And if you want, you're a guy, you're in good shape, whatever, you can go ahead and maybe even take some pictures in athleisure.
In gym, yeah.
Like your Gymshark, that type of bullshit.
Let me say Alphalete.
Shout out to Christian Guzman.
That's our homie right there.
Yeah.
You know, in some athleisure, right?
If you're a guy in your good shape, you got a good figure, right?
So, you're gonna take pictures with these four different outfits on, and you're gonna take a couple hundred, if not a thousand pictures, Then, what you're going to do is you're going to take those pictures and you're going to put them into PhotoFeeler.com.
I'm giving y'all niggas sauce right now.
You're going to put these pictures into PhotoFeeler.
And as a matter of fact, I went ahead and I logged into my PhotoFeeler.
It's been fucking years.
But I actually went in and logged in.
I'm going to show you guys how to take pictures.
I'm going to show you guys some of my good ones, my bad ones.
As you guys know, Myron Gaines being extremely transparent, right?
This is my transparency.
He's fucked me up a couple of times.
Better than me, bro.
I don't know how It is what it is, right?
Niggas talk as shit.
Your sugar profile bio is cringe, but then I see everyone copying it.
Fucking crazy, bro.
And you got results, too.
Yeah, I got results.
It works, you know what I mean?
There's a different game that works for different guys, right?
For me, I'm just a fucking asshole.
I'm very straightforward, and girls accept that, right?
But I'm able to back it up with who I am.
Personality.
Right?
So, okay.
So, once again, right?
Shut this down, ninjas, okay?
You're gonna take...
Number one, you're gonna get on the dating apps in the first place.
You're gonna make a profile on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, POF, OkCupid, Match.com, whatever it is.
You're gonna be on every single goddamn platform.
It's a numbers game.
Okay?
Seriously, yeah.
You're gonna be on there and you're gonna be swiping, right?
Now, if you want, you can go ahead and pay for the unlimited swipes.
That's up to you.
But regardless, you're gonna be on every single platform.
Then, you're gonna go ahead and take good pictures.
This is the foundation.
If you don't do this, you fucked up, okay?
Number one.
You're gonna take good pictures.
You're going to get hired a professional photographer.
Go out and shoot for a day.
All right?
And three primary outfits.
One in business.
I'm talking shirt, tie, suit.
Okay?
Because women respond the most favorably to guys that are in business attire.
They've done studies on this and they found every single time when they asked girls, who was the most attractive guy?
It was always the guy that was in business attire.
Why?
Because business attire assumes status.
It assumes income.
It assumes competency.
It assumes a certain class.
Okay?
And that's what women respond favorably to.
That James Bond type look.
Then...
Obviously, you can have something in business casual, then some street wear, right?
That's when the leather jackets and the jean jackets come out, right?
More casual stuff.
And then if you have the physique for it, if you want, you can go ahead and put yourself in some athleisure, okay?
Right?
And an example of athleisure brand is like Alphalete or whatever.
Shout out to our guy Christian Guzman, okay?
So, bam!
Once you have that set up, you're going to put those photos, the ones that you think are the best, into PhotoFeeler.com.
So we're going to go ahead and share a screen.
I'm going to show you all some of my photos.
Again, transparency all the way.
So when you put them in, guys, there's going to be three components here.
Smart, trustworthy, attractive.
The most important thing, niggas, is attractive.
And you guys can see here, these are older pictures, but these are how some of them rated.
If you look, which pictures rated the best?
The ones where I'm smiling...
Right?
My eyes are clearly visible.
Guys!
I don't know why you niggas do this.
Stop taking pictures with fucking sunglasses on.
Stop!
Stop!
Okay?
Yeah, you're not a celebrity, bro.
Okay?
Look at how much different it is when you use certain eye things.
Go up to the middle real quick.
See, look at my dumb ass trying to squint at the camera.
Go down a bit.
Go down.
With the background trying to squint.
Look at how bad that squint.
On the left, yeah.
A 6.7, right?
Get me off the screen real quick, Bill, so that they can see the fuckery.
Um...
Yeah.
Okay.
6.7.
But if I smile, a 9.2.
Okay?
There I am with Hero, my arch nemesis.
That scored a 10 out of 10.
Guys, taking pictures with dogs is very important.
Who put you on game, though?
Yeah, man.
Listen, listen.
It's the accessories and lifestyle.
Girls want to feel like you're trustworthy.
They can trust you.
And if they can see you in the picture or themselves being in the picture with you, you win by default.
So dogs are a safe way to break the ice without having to say much.
Yes.
And why is it that girls like dogs?
Let me tell you guys, the firmware in a woman's mind, why they like you to have dogs.
It shows that you're a caretaker, shows that you're a safe person, shows that you have the capability of taking care of something, a living organism besides yourself.
And most of the time, crazy people a lot of times don't have dogs or can care for them, right?
So that's why girls like that.
Because remember, women are dealing with a gender, right, that is superior to them physically.
So they don't want to get killed and attacked by you.
They want to know that you're a safe individual.
And also, this is very important as well.
They can see you having...
False alarm.
False alarm, ninjas.
What is that?
It doesn't matter!
We ain't leaving!
It doesn't matter!
There might be a fire drill right now in the building, but we ain't leaving!
This is my whole party!
We ain't leaving!
Wait, what?
Wait, what?
We out of here, bro.
We're doing the show.
We're burning this shit down.
Who's we?
We all stay in here.
We ain't going nowhere.
I'm locking the door.
Again, so with a dog, right?
This is very important because she can see as a guy.
You have a dog you're taking care of.
One, you might be a good father because you can take care of this dog.
And once again, girls want to make sure that you're comfortable and you're safe to be around.
And then two, if you can handle a dog, you can probably handle a kid.
Which is kind of crazy because it's two different things.
But that's the analogically sound mind.
So that's the pretext there.
Yeah.
So that's why it's important.
So go back to the pictures real quick.
So look at the ones that scored well, right?
I'm smiling.
I'm looking directly at the camera.
Now look at the ones that didn't do so well.
Look at me.
I'm shredded.
Look at great.
Scroll down.
Pause.
That's me with some gym gear, right?
And on, right?
Those are some Gymshark shorts, I think, and, you know.
And it didn't score that well, guys.
So what does that mean?
That means that the physique shots aren't as good as a lot of people think.
Sitting there flexing, et cetera, guys, it doesn't score as high.
Because girls want subtle demonstrations of a higher value, and they want subtle demonstrations that you're in good shape.
When you're outwardly showing, like, hey, look at this shit, bitch, they don't like that, bro.
Flexing is all the time.
Discovery trumps disclosure.
Absolutely, bro.
So, as y'all can see, my, but here's the other one.
See, you can see the one where I'm like, I got the fake model pick, kinda.
That one scored a little bit higher, 7.7, but it didn't do that well.
You would think, damn, like, girls are gonna love that shit.
Not really, guys.
Like, girls are not gonna find that shit as attractive, right?
Then you can see here, business attire does well, 9.1.
That's me with Brandon Carter.
Yo, who's wearing a hat, bro?
That's funny as hell, dog.
You should wear hats?
What's wrong wearing a hat?
Nigga, you wear hats?
Yeah.
Back in the day, man.
That's funny, dog.
And then, as you can see, look, another fitness photo.
Doesn't do that well.
And then look at the difference, guys, in smiling.
So look at that one picture with the leather jacket, right?
That one got a 9.5, but if you scroll up and I just look at the camera and I'm not smiling, it doesn't do as well.
So it's very important to show a disarming, nice smile.
Pause.
Why do you guys think I'm so big on smiling and then whitening your teeth and getting them straightened?
Guys!
Yo!
I'm serious, man.
What...
One of the best ways to increase your sexual market value, okay, by a point or above, is by getting your teeth straight and white.
Okay?
Straight and white.
Why?
Because it's a sign of cleanliness, it's a sign of health, and most importantly, it's a status symbol when you have nice teeth.
Okay?
And it's a flex if you're in Miami, especially if your teeth are fucking real and they're not goddamn veneers.
Alright?
Yeah, that's a flex by itself.
That's a flex by itself.
Holy!
Alright?
So...
Make sure, guys, that you go ahead and get your teeth straightened and whitened.
That's something that's in your control.
The gym, your teeth, these are things you can fix.
Okay?
That will increase your looks significantly.
Alright?
And you guys can see it right here.
The proof is in the pudding.
Literally.
Show it real quick.
Like, I mean, I can't show clear proof how much a smile is important.
Look, one is a 9 point something and the other one is a 7 point 1.
Trash!
And if you look at all my photos that did the best, okay?
They're all me smiling.
Alright?
And showing off the pearly whites.
There's an old Caribbean remedy where, like, if you want to get a nice white smell, brush with baking soda.
Simple.
Go to your local store, get some baking soda, brush regularly with some baking soda.
I think after you brush your teeth or before, it doesn't really matter.
And then from there, you're good to go.
And guys, there's nothing wrong with touching up your photos as well if you need to.
Like if you need to use an app like FaceApp or one of these other ones to touch up your photos, that's fine.
Just don't be crazy with it.
I've seen some of y'all edit the shit out of your stuff and it looks crazy.
For example, you look this way in real life, you look a cartoon on your Instagram.
It don't match up, brother.
It doesn't make sense.
Facts, man.
So, yo, if you guys are going to go ahead and edit your stuff, make sure you edit it to a point where it's not...
You're not catfishing to grow, bro.
You don't want a catfish to grow.
Just don't do that shit.
Edit it to a point where it's a little bit better, but not like, holy crap, you're a new person.
What else?
Can we go back to the photos?
And then also, guys, as far as the gym pictures and shit, You guys can see it right here with the numbers.
Me being painfully transparent with y'all.
Girls don't give a fuck about your teardrop legs.
They don't give a fuck about your abs.
They don't care about the veins.
None of that shit.
Like, if you're gonna have one photo where you're shirtless, my suggestion is this.
Make sure it's you doing something cool.
Maybe playing beach volleyball.
Maybe surfing.
Maybe where you're doing a cool activity.
Where it would make sense and you have plausible deniability for you to be shirtless.
But when you're just flexing like this shit, it don't work, man.
Y'all can see it right here with the split test.
It doesn't work.
Not smiling.
Doesn't work.
Scroll up.
A bit.
Smiling and looking at the camera always works, guys.
And then always having a nice backdrop also helps significantly.
That backdrop right there, I took on Fresh's old spot.
God damn.
That was a while back, bro.
That was a while.
I mean, we could drop where it was at.
What building?
It was Latitude on the River.
Bam, there you go.
Right next to American Social.
Yeah, so that was before.
Damn, that was like 2021.
That's a good-ass view, though.
Yeah, it is a nice view.
It's a fire view, man.
Scroll up.
Let's throw up some more.
And then, bam, business attire, guys.
Business attire is always going to be good, man.
Yeah, it kills it, bro.
To me, that is the status of being the elite man, having a business casual.
And I threw this picture in here with 6'9 to see how it was scored.
It didn't score that well, guys.
I think he's a rat.
That's probably why.
Oh, my God.
Well, either way, I threw it in there to see.
But no, I mean, there's nothing wrong...
Okay, so on your dating profile, right?
I showed you guys all this to tell you this.
You're going to need an assortment of different photos, right?
If you want to throw in, obviously, that one business photo that makes you look good, right?
Then maybe you can have a photo of you...
In more casual clothes, right?
Like me with a leather jacket or whatever.
Then you can have another one where it might not score as high from like an attractive level, but it shows social proof.
You're there with a celebrity, right?
Then you can have another one where you're showing off your physique.
Might not score as high, but it shows that you're in shape.
But if you have other pictures, right, that score really high in attractiveness, and you have a picture that might not score as high in attractiveness, but it demonstrates something else about yourself, then that's acceptable.
But if you're only going to have gym photos where you're flexing, blah, blah, blah, Not good, bro.
Make sure that you have the foundation of good attractive photos first before you start implementing these other pictures that have a different ulterior motive, such as displaying higher social status, value, displaying resources, displaying social proof, and or displaying your fitness.
Okay?
Because those photos don't tend to score as high.
But it's okay to add into a profile to augment the foundation of what?
Having attractive photos.
Again, guys, key.
Eyes visible, smiling, get your teeth straight, get them whiten.
Professional photos, okay?
Business is always the best.
Then obviously some casual.
And then if you've got the shape for it, some athleisure, etc.
And then you can also throw in some business casual in there as well.
I'm not going to lie, man.
You killed number one.
I can't even top that.
But, for my niggas that are not as good looking as Myron or Austin, like myself, number two is for you.
I'm not a chat either, man.
Number two is for you.
It's Lifestyle Pulse.
You got a big nose, man.
It's about lifestyle.
You good, bro.
How tall are you?
6'3"?
6'3", yeah.
So that helps, yeah.
6'4".
Anyhow!
Number two is going to be lifestyle through pictures.
Now, obviously speaking, guys, some of us are on the other side of the angle where you've got to show lifestyle because with lifestyle, girls can imagine themselves with you either on a date, you know, in the future, or in the present moment in real time.
So, they want to see what you're about.
Now, some people post selfies in the gym, you know, in front of a mirror, and that's just showing you with your face, which is not very attractive.
But...
If you can show actual lifestyle where you're doing something fun, for example, you're doing ATVs, you're swimming in the pool for practice.
Let's say, for example, you're at a nice resort.
You know, you're getting a good dinner at a spot.
Whatever that may be to you as a good experience, or let's say you're like a painter or, for example, an artist, right?
You want to show your lifestyle, your hobbies, what you're doing in real time.
That in itself shows you have purpose, you have passion, and you're somewhat ambitious.
So again, Good pictures are very paramount, of course.
Dress well, look the part.
Have the actual cut as well.
Like, for example, some guys get pictures, didn't get a haircut, didn't get anything done, nothing done with their beard, looking shabby.
And I get it, the rugged look is cool, but for pictures on dating apps, you want to have a secure setup where it's clean cut to the point.
But again, Lifestyle is going to be very important as well.
So, here's some examples you guys can use for lifestyle.
Let's say you're at a hotel, right?
And there's a nice pool.
That's a good pool.
Let's say you're at a nice dinner.
Nice food on the table.
You're just becoming, literally, the guy that shows his lifestyle, and she may want to be a part of it.
That's the whole angle here.
So, I have some points here, and I'll give you some examples.
Can you pull up my Instagram real quick?
Yeah, I got you.
If you don't mind.
And then we'll go from there.
But yeah, also as well, guys, this includes dogs as well.
So dogs, as Mario showed you earlier, is good because, once again, it lowers their guard because, once again, if you take care of a dog or you actually, like, take care of any type of animal, it shows that you have responsibility, you can handle that, and as well, you can be a good father figure, right?
So that's going to go a long way as well.
And let's come down a little bit further on my page.
Actually, let's go to lifestyle real quick on my highlights.
Cool, right here.
Alright, so obviously guys, you don't start with a Lambo.
You start with, for example, your average car, your average life, but...
Pause.
Pause this real quick.
So, guys, I went to Barbados.
This was like, I think, two years ago.
The actual pulse.
That's Jamaican, by the way.
And I recorded myself on the jet skis with some friends.
Now, what happened was, when I posted this on my story, Girls hit me up saying, hey, where you at?
I want to come join you guys.
What's good?
So just be posting this on my actual story itself on Instagram.
Girls hit me up.
Now for you, with dating apps, what you can do is you're going to post yourself on the jet ski.
Two things are going to happen here.
One, you're going to see yourself through fun activities, which is always a good time.
But two, if she's into what you have going on with your lifestyle, she's going to say, you know what?
I can be on a jet ski with you on the back.
Right?
So she's putting in her mind, this guy has a good lifestyle.
I want to be a part of it.
I can see myself in that picture as well.
Okay?
Next one.
And then, pause here again.
So this is me on a boat with my dog.
Actually, you can keep it playing if you don't mind.
This is me on a boat with my dog, right?
I'm showing lifestyle here on Instagram once again.
Now, for dating apps, once again, pictures are going to showcase your lifestyle.
And you could put this on Hinge and you're like, because Hinge lets you put like a quick little video.
Right.
You could put stuff like this on your Hinge, guys.
There you go.
Add a clip from your lifestyle on Hinge.
Because again, they want to see themselves with you doing fun stuff.
That's the litmus test.
When you take the picture, guys, ask yourself, would a girl want to be with me in this experience that I'm currently demonstrating via photo?
If the answer is yes, more than likely it's a good photo if it's taken well.
If not, then don't do it.
Our next one?
Mind you, the photo's got to be good too.
It can't be just a super cool activity, but the photo sucks.
You want optimally a good combination of the photo's good and professional, makes you look good, while simultaneously displaying something cool about yourself.
It could be a hobby, travel, whatever it may be.
Okay, this is me playing tennis, right?
So guys, it doesn't matter what it is.
All that matters is that you're doing a fun activity and you're showcasing yourself doing that activity.
That's pretty much it, right?
So you saw four examples.
Me on a boat, me doing jet skis, playing some tennis here.
It doesn't matter what it is, right?
Continue real quick.
Also, guys, we got only 935 likes.
We got 4,000 plus y'all.
Oh, shit.
Back in the day, it was a legend.
Guys, like the video, man.
Okay?
Like the video, because we're giving y'all all this sauce right now that other people would never give y'all.
So like the video, please.
Let's get to 4,000 likes, guys.
Let's get the engagement up.
So here I'm showcasing lifestyle with friends eating dinner, right?
And this is Komodo, a nice spot.
So I tied up the location here as well.
But again, once again, it's just lifestyle, guys.
It's lifestyle.
And then, obviously, car stuff as well.
You can see that one.
Me shooting guns.
Skip that one.
Actually, once again, this just shows other girls in your lifestyle Once again, it's going to show that you're not a creep, and as well, you're good to be around.
But, don't flex other girls too much, because it could come back and hurt you too.
It could help you, but it could also hurt you.
So keep that in mind as well.
I recommend, actually, don't post girls on your dating app.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Not on your dating app.
No, no, no, no, no.
They can find this shit on Instagram, though.
Yeah.
But that's it, though, guys.
That's it, man.
And then this was us on the yacht, actually, with the Tate Brothers.
Me, Myron, uh...
Oh, yeah.
Oh, shit.
I remember that.
And then Tristan and Andrew.
Yeah.
Back in the day.
Oh, shit, man.
Miami Aikido.
Fun times, man.
Shout out to the Tape Brothers, man.
But y'all get the point, man.
Basically, Lifestyle shows you a lot more than just what you see, and they want to see themselves with you in those activities.
Yeah.
So...
So y'all can see, you know, fresh showing, you know, very good for showing lifestyle, man.
Yeah.
Was that our first NoJump interview?
I think it was.
First one, man.
That was our first one.
When AD came down?
Yeah.
Went to LA after?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Shout out to Adam22 and all those guys.
Again, you can stop here, Mo.
Sorry, Bills.
Again, guys, it's whatever is good for you.
I'm not saying get a Lambo.
I'm not saying get on a yacht.
I'm saying, what can you do for yourself right now to show lifestyle?
Yeah, that's how you thirst trap these hoes, right?
And you guys can see, we have two different methodologies, right?
I don't flex as much as Fresh does, but it absolutely helps.
And I'll tell you guys this, he gets more girls than I do.
So, I mean, hey man, do what you guys, you could go with, you know, he has the honey and the bees want to come, so pause.
All right, so what else do we got here?
Some more chats in number three.
Yeah, we could hit the next one because we did make them wait for a bit.
Okay, so we covered taking photos, displaying lifestyle.
Yes, number three is going to be good bios to start conversations.
Yeah, okay.
So bios, guys.
Huge, very huge.
Here's the thing.
The better your profile is, the less the bio matters.
Okay?
And you can kind of...
If you're going to do a bio, there's many different ways you could go.
You could go cocky funny.
You could be dismissive funny.
You could keep it very short and simple.
If your pictures are good enough, it really comes down to...
How you want to go about it?
I forgot one thing as well.
Couple brags.
Go ahead.
Real quick, for number two and number one.
If you're broke, right, and you're not where you want to be right now, this is kind of a finesse you can do.
I don't want to say it's the best finesse, but you can make it work.
So basically, guys, if you want to get the lifestyle and the dress code on point while still being broke, this is what you do.
You go to H&M and Zara, you buy the clothes, let's say two to three outfits, right?
And then from there, you wear your answer photos and return it.
No!
I know, it was fucked up, right?
It was fucked up.
Oh my god!
Yo, man.
You get your boy with a camera, or with a good iPhone he just bought, Listen, bro.
Help me out, dawg.
Just take pictures of me real quick over here at this spot in Wynwood or maybe by the mall or by this pool.
Help a brother out.
Then from there, bro, you got photos, you're showing lifestyle and dress code without spending any money at all.
And then let's say you want to go even further, right, bro?
Actually, you know what?
Let me stop here.
No, no, go ahead.
Keep going, Digger.
You can actually...
This is how Fresh moved when he was a brokie.
Yeah, 100%.
Oh, no, no.
I didn't return clothes, though.
I didn't do that part.
Okay.
My friends did.
But, yeah, you can do it on a budget, guys.
100%, you can do it on a budget.
And then again, guys, location's very important.
Let's say you show the lifestyle or whatever, you show some cool stuff, then you get them on a date, go to free spots where there's ladies' night.
They drink free all night, so imagine!
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
That's actually a good glitch.
You got her with the hook and line stinker with the lifestyle and the clothes for nothing.
You get her to a location for nothing.
She drinks free all night.
And then you just close.
Simple.
But again, it's a finesse to it, right?
So there you go.
Yeah.
I mean, personally, man...
You guys know my stance.
I don't think y'all should even be bothering trying to get girls unless you have yourself together.
Yeah, you shouldn't.
Because these brokey habits are going to show themselves on a date when you're with her.
Yeah.
But we know you guys are going to do it anyway.
Yeah, y'all niggas are going to do it anyway.
So we might as well just advise you guys, right?
Yeah.
But generally speaking, honestly, if you don't even have...
You got to do returns and all this other shit, you probably shouldn't be fucking around with girls.
Niggas bought a whole catalog, return that shit.
Yo, this shit don't fit.
Yeah.
Then the associate pulls up the Instagram.
It looks like it fits.
You even put it in the description.
Look at the fit.
Mr.
Wilson, this is the fourth time you come back.
Are you okay?
Mr.
Wilson?
Yo.
So, anyway.
Yeah.
That's some nigga shit, but that is funny, though.
Yeah.
But, yeah.
So...
So we talked about photos, lifestyle.
Bio, bro, y'all can see.
Honestly, if your pictures are good enough, you guys see my bio.
My bio, crazy.
Like, you know, if you're XYZ, I'm not interested, blah, blah, blah.
Like, you can see it where you're cocky, funny, you disqualify, girls.
But the point is that it's got to be congruent to you is the point.
Yes.
Guys, bio is a funny way if they're looking into your profile to start a conversation.
Now, what I've seen work nowadays is signs.
You guys know star signs?
Libras?
Sagittarius?
I know this is funky, weary energy stuff, but girls actually respond to it favorably.
They eat that shit up, man.
They do.
So, imagine you have a good profile with pictures, lifestyle, One piece missing, guys, is incompatible with me as the individual, which is the girl.
Yeah.
Should niggas put that they're a Scorpio or this other bullshit in their thing?
You'd be surprised.
So there's two ends of this, I want to say, problem, right?
Take it away, my friend.
So girls have, I want to say, either a positive or negative correlation between signs and the guy that they're dating.
So let's say, for example, her ex was a Scorpio.
She'd hear her like, crap, but she loved him.
Damn, I hate Scorpios, but I feel like they're for me no matter what.
She's going to, I want to say on some record, either disqualify you or qualify you.
So this is kind of like a hard stance here with the signs, but it's an opener because she's going to be like, oh, you're a Scorpio?
You know, just like my ex.
Or for example, oh, you're a Sagittarius?
You're my soulmate.
Whatever it is, it can either polar tour you or against you.
But either way, it's a starter for conversation.
And secondly, I would say, other than science, you can use, for example, hobbies.
So some girls like, for example, going to the beach as a hobby.
You know, they like...
Actually, I think you used this one as well, Mario.
You said you like to take long walks on the beach.
Was that you or somebody else?
No, no.
I never put that.
Anyway, the point is that you can use...
You can use funny quotes like, you know, I like long walks on the beach, you know, I like to go to a rest.
Whatever it may be, activities, you can put in your bio as well, just to show a little bit more lifestyle as well.
Oh, another thing.
Speaking of Mo.
No offense, Mo.
If you're fat, guys, hold off on the fucking dating apps, man.
Because it's going to fuck you up.
If you're fat and you're on dating apps, you're going to get significantly worse leads, significantly less matches.
And you want to be at a point...
I'm not telling you how to be ripped and shredded, but what I am saying is that you need to be at least at a point where it's not blatantly obvious that you're fat.
Alright, so that's another thing too that's very important.
Unfortunately, guys, on a dating app, your pictures are going to be your main commodity and if you're fat, girls are going to disqualify you.
Like if you're a guy and you're a little bit chubbier, you're better off with a cold approach because at least you can show some charisma, you can show some wittiness, you can show some lifestyle, you can show that type of thing.
But on dating apps strictly...
It's going to hurt you to a degree.
So here's something you can use on the bio as well.
It works very well for all parties, no matter what girl she is.
You can say, guess what sign I am.
So rather than say what sign you are, I want to say from the very jump, you say, you know what?
In my bio, guess what sign I am.
She might guess Asajj, you know, Leo.
Whatever she guesses, say, yeah, how'd you know?
And, you know, you kind of like finesse it from there.
But the point is, guys, that you want to have a captured...
Quote, question, or hobby that you can relate to in your bio as well.
Because it's all about being relatable and not being like a creep.
If you can establish that in the profile picture or, for example, in the bio, you want to do that all the time.
So, to be very general, just put in the bio, guess what sign I am, and then take it from there with the convo.
I mean, bio itself, guys, is nothing more than you just displaying it once again, that you're approachable, you're not going to be a creep, and as well, that you're relatable, pretty much.
So, we can have some of these chats real quick.
Okay.
And then we're going to get into, we can talk about now Instagram and then setting up the date.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Okay.
That's super important.
All right.
Because honestly, guys.
Okay.
I'll talk about it here in a second.
Okay.
Guys, don't forget.
This is only one of the things you can do to get girls.
This is only a fraction of it.
So there's cool approach, Instagram game, dating apps is just another avenue.
Yeah.
Okay, where we at here?
We got...
Okay, Ice goes...
I sent in a super chat earlier about a baby mother with red flags.
You really advise men to leave and break up the home?
Well, bro, here's the thing.
It might take that for her to realize your worth.
Because right now, she don't respect you at all.
And here's the thing.
You don't even know if the kid is yours.
That's why you want to do a paternity test.
That's scary, bro.
Like, bruh, like, you know, here's the thing.
You can go ahead and do a paternity test surreptitiously.
You can swab your kid and then go do it yourself.
And she won't know.
And she won't know.
You could do that as well.
But you need to take back some of the frame, my friend.
Like, she has 1,000% frame over you.
But remember.
She already don't give a fuck about you.
When you're a guy, what's your best power?
To walk away.
You're going to walk away.
You're staying there, taking that disrespect.
It doesn't matter time until she walks away regardless.
So it's kind of like, leave now while you still can on good terms for yourself.
Let her miss what she's actually missing.
And then you know what?
I'm sorry.
Act like this.
And you can say, listen, when you want to make that change for the family to do better, then I'll come back.
If not, I'm staying over here.
And that's it.
Yeah, bro.
So, number one, establish that the kid is yours.
Like, that's number one.
Bruh, that's scary.
That's number one.
And I'm willing to bet the fact that she doesn't want you to do a paternity test saying that she's going to leave you if you try?
Come on, man.
I mean, bro.
Most women would be like, yeah, it's your kid.
Do it.
Do it.
And then obviously they get mad at you for accusing them, but they would be like, do it.
Right?
You might have to have an earful after the fact.
But it doesn't matter, bro.
If you're over here questioning if the kid is yours and you want to do a paternity test, come on, man.
You need to look at yourself in the mirror and realize what the fuck is going on in your life right now.
You know what I mean?
That's really what it comes down to.
That is scary.
I need to focus this camera.
God damn it.
18 years, man.
All right.
Where we at here?
First, they don't know because they don't watch the show.
The both of you balance each other.
Whatever.
I don't even know who that chick is.
Keep the content coming.
All these girls say they would date a blue-collar guy.
Would you bring one on the show to see if they really would?
Well, we're going to do a couples therapy show.
Yeah.
So you might have some come on the show actually pretty soon.
Wink, wink.
Yeah, but...
But normally no.
Normally no, bro.
Trezzy Man says, First super chat looking for advice.
I'm a father of two.
Moved my girl 10 years and she just blew up.
Happy home over feelings trying to figure out your plan of attack to move on.
She just blew up?
Probably by size.
Oh!
She blew up a happy home.
Over her feelings.
So she got upset, mad, whatever, blew up.
The only power you have is to leave.
Yeah.
Bro, I don't think y'all get it, man.
You can't Sean Connery these hoes anymore.
It's not 1961.
You can't do that shit.
The only thing you can do is you have to leave, my friend.
That's the only way that women understand what the hell is going on.
Period.
Abundance mindset, bro.
You have to have an abundance mindset.
And here's the other thing, too.
Some of y'all are like, oh, well, I'm gonna break up the home, blah, blah, blah.
What's worse?
An environment where you're constantly miserable, you're being a plow horse for a woman that doesn't respect you, she's abusing you, treating you like shit, and you're over here supporting someone that doesn't give a fuck about you, or you go on your own, and then you fight to get custody of the kid, hopefully you can get most of it if possible, and...
Have a better environment.
And here's the thing.
I tell you all the time, breaking up, especially when you have a kid, isn't the best move.
But for some of you guys, you don't even know if the kid is yours.
That's wild.
And that's scenario for sure, because you don't know if the kid is yours.
Bro, that's scary, man.
Yeah, man.
You need to do a paternity test now.
What's worse is if you don't leave on your terms, she'll leave on her terms.
So you're still fucked anyway, but on her terms.
Exactly.
And she's already probably on the verge of leaving your ass anyway.
If she's over here telling you shit like that.
Bro, a lot of you guys are okay with being placeholder boyfriends.
A lot of you guys are okay with women treating you like shit.
A lot of you guys are okay with women literally not appreciating your masculinity, your presence, anything else.
What the fuck is wrong with you guys?
Have some goddamn respect for yourself.
If a girl is treating you like shit when...
You're doing the best that you can.
And she's over here.
I'm going to do what I want to do.
Do all this other hoe shit.
Like, what the fuck is wrong with you guys?
And stop being fucking simps for girls that don't fucking deserve any good treatment.
Most of these hoes are worthless.
What's wrong with you?
And guarantee someone that she met in the past...
That you're here like, shit?
She give the most to, for nothing.
So you don't pay all the bills, being that man for her, treating you like shit?
Bro, just walk away, man.
You don't deserve bad treatment, bro.
Especially being a man in the household.
You don't deserve that, honestly.
So just walk away.
Crazy to me, man, how you guys sit there and endure fuckery from modern-day women, bro.
It's wild to me.
I'll never understand that shit.
Fuck that.
She should be happy that she even has a guy taking her seriously, taking care of her and her kid that might not even be yours.
Like, what the fuck, man?
Some of y'all need to grow a pair, man.
And get the fuck out of the situation.
Some of you guys right now that are watching the show are placeholder boyfriends, husbands.
You got the girl by the skin of your fucking teeth.
And you're sitting there pleading with her groveling, no, please, I love you.
You're the one.
Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
And it's like, she looks at you like you fucking insignificant piece of shit.
She doesn't even respect you.
She's out here talking to other men.
She wishes she had a better guy.
You know, the one time that you do smash her every two to three months, she's thinking about another nigga.
Like, a lot of you guys literally are getting the scraps, the bare minimum from these women and are happy to do so.
What the fuck is wrong with you guys, man?
We call that charity sex.
Yeah, man.
It's charity.
Fucking terrible, bro.
Losers.
What else do we got here?
MH. Yo, FNF, love what you guys do.
Yeah.
Yeah, you're right.
Yeah, MH. No, no, no, no, no, no.
Oh, no.
Cool.
Karma-sama.
Facebook dating doesn't match with Facebook friends.
Do what you want with this information.
See the boys be up.
Okay.
Oh My Day says, FNF show is A-grade.
I took a break from Love Island UK since watching your show.
I feel how girls are on their move.
You should bring on Tyreek from season 10.
Oh yeah, he's pretty cool actually.
He was slut-shamed for his body count in season 10 episode 3.
Could I bring on a fertility doctor for after hours?
Thank you.
Oh yeah, hit us up bro.
Um...
We have here, Moe the Vampire Demon.
Yep.
If your girl's on the- Oh boy!
Oh boy!
I get it!
He says, if your girl's on that time of the month, you better hire.
Goddamn.
Yeah, that shit.
Alright, Blackie donated four dates.
Oh no, that was ten.
Alright, we good?
Yep.
Alright, so guys, like we said before, 20 and up to get your Super Chat read.
Every chat will be shown on screen, though, however, so thank you guys so much.
Where are we at here now?
Number four.
Number four, okay.
Number four?
You got a sound effect?
Oh, yeah, I got you right now.
Round four.
So guys, after having...
Good pictures for your profile.
Showing lifestyle.
And as well, good bio.
What's next?
Messaging.
Very important.
You have to establish that you're this guy you just portrayed on picture and then translate that into a date.
Yeah.
This is where so many guys fuck up.
Some guy asked it earlier.
Oh, I sent her a couple messages and then I stopped.
Okay, guys.
This is extremely important.
This is where a lot of you guys fuck up.
When you get the girl on the dating app, your number one goal is to get her the fuck off the dating app immediately.
One more time.
Bring this into your brain.
As soon as you get her on the dating app and you match and she responds, your goal is to get her off the app immediately.
Okay?
Immediately.
Why?
Well, because number one, a lot of girls don't take a dating app seriously.
Number two, they're in the data with messages and it gives them anxiety to open it back up.
Okay?
So...
If you are able to get her attention or whatever, get her off the app immediately.
There's two ways that you could do this.
And number three, just out to your point as well, they'll keep you on an app for attention, and that's it.
So don't talk to her on the app, guys.
And actually, this is kind of a screening process here as well.
It does two things.
It gets her off the app, where she's getting inundated, and then number two, it also helps you screen out time wasters.
Okay?
So what you're going to do is you're going to get her off the app and you're going to go ahead and get either her phone number or take the conversation to Instagram.
Alright?
Now, with that said, some of y'all on Instagram is trash.
Don't get it to Instagram.
So use text.
So use text message.
Or FaceTime.
Or FaceTime.
Well, that's the next part.
Or you could go immediately to a FaceTime call with the phone number if you're advanced.
But I would say get it on text and or get it on Instagram.
If your Instagram is good, go Instagram because she's going to be able to go ahead and see your profile, etc.
You're going to be able to do what I call passive demonstrates a higher value.
We'll re-release DMs on demand for y'all because I know you guys have been asking for that for months and we've just kind of been like, It's whatever.
Yeah.
So anyway, yeah, like I was saying, get her on Instagram or get her phone number.
As soon as you get that contact information, whether you move her over to DM or you move her over to Instagram, Set up a FaceTime call.
So, just to preface this as well.
So, on a dating app, you want to say this is kind of...
I want to say the bridge between dating app to text and phone call on Instagram.
You can say, hey, I'm hardly on this app.
Text me so I can keep talking to you over here.
Or what's your number?
Or what's your number?
Or your Instagram.
The problem is, guys, you rely too much on texting back and forth and it doesn't work in the real world.
Because what happens is, while you're texting her, someone's asking to offer her a date or offer and it's like...
Okay, he's a friend pen pal.
I'm just gonna text him back and forth.
Versus, the date is very important for interaction and making things happen.
So, bridge that gap.
Say, hey, listen, I'm numbering on this app.
Hit me up here.
What's your phone number?
And here's the other thing, too, you guys gotta understand.
Like, attention is very important to women.
They will sit there and waste your fucking time if you let them.
All day.
Okay?
Like, let me say that one more time for y'all.
Because a lot of you guys are newer viewers.
You might not know a lot of the steps that we give you guys when it comes to dating, etc.
Women will absolutely waste your time if you fucking let them.
Alright?
And I can't tell you how many guys I've seen get burned with this with over texting, sitting on dating apps talking to her, over DMing.
Like bro, fuck that shit.
You get her off the app and your goal is to get her off the app and have instant communication via phone call or preferably FaceTime.
Why do I say this?
Because a 10 minute FaceTime call guys is gonna be the equivalent to like texting her for like a week.
When it comes to building rapport and shit.
Okay?
Also, you're going to be able to display other attractive features about yourself.
You guys would be amazed at how being able to string along a sentence coherently and not being a weirdo or being a weird mute would make you...
More attractive than a lot of other guys.
A lot of guys are really fucking socially awkward.
So if you're able to go ahead and talk to her on the phone or have a FaceTime call, even better yet, where you got some good lighting on you, you're showing that you look like your pictures, you are who you say you are, that's gonna do a lot to alleviate any anxiety or stress that the girl is going through.
And here's another reason too why it's good.
This is a little bit more of the evil side here, okay?
You want that bitch on her back foot too, okay?
Guys, a big part of dealing with women, especially in 2023, is knocking them off their fucking pedestal, okay?
FaceTiming a girl and getting her on her back foot where she's like, oh, I don't have my makeup, oh, I'm not ready, or oh, blah, blah, blah.
That's what you fucking want.
You want these girls, okay, scared of you.
You want these girls nervous around you.
You want these girls intimidated by you, okay?
Whenever they say that, what that basically means is translation.
You have higher perceived value than myself, and I'm not sure if I measure up.
Good!
That's exactly where you want these bitches.
You never want girls to think that they're better than you.
If they're saying they're intimidated, or they're scared, or I don't look good right now, blah, blah, blah, fan-fucking-tastic!
You gotta get these girls on their fucking back foot, and you have the advantage.
And here's the thing, when it comes to dating and everything else like that, people get mad at me, Myron, you're an asshole, you promote degeneracy, you tell guys to fuck 50 girls, you gotta tell guys to blah, blah, blah, blah.
That's what I'm doing.
I'm telling guys that they need to have a decided advantage in 2023 when everything is against them.
Period.
Okay?
So, FaceTiming a girl, especially out the blue a lot of the times, right?
And having her on her back foot is going to say a lot about you.
Oh, I don't have my makeup.
Oh, I'm in bed.
Fuck it.
You know?
Or let's say she says she doesn't do it, then tease her.
Oh, what?
You need to put on a face-up makeup to have a conversation?
That's kind of weird.
Blah, blah, blah.
Like, joke about it, but let her know that she's a weirdo for that.
You know what I mean?
Do it in a funny way.
Obviously, it's like, you ugly bitch!
You can't do a face-up call!
Don't be an idiot about it, right?
Make a joke about it, whatever.
But the point is that you've got to tug at those insecurities a little bit with these females.
Because, guys...
Women get complimented and get their fucking ass kissed all day, every day.
You need to go against the grain and not kiss her ass and let her know.
You need to humble these bitches and let them realize that they are mortal beings.
They're humans.
They're not goddesses.
They're not princesses.
Your job as a guy a lot of times is to knock this bitch off her pedestal.
So, you made a very good point there.
When you FaceTime a girl, she's either going to say, oh, I'm not ready for FaceTime, I need makeup, or, oh, not right now, I'm busy, right?
So here's a way you can kind of get that FaceTime call as soon as possible.
You say, listen, I understand you don't have makeup right now, but I'm going to see you like this regardless.
So let's do a call.
Yep.
What did I say there?
I said, in not so many words, I'm into you.
We're going to have a great time on this date and after in your bedroom as well.
But I'm saying it indirectly.
So she's like, oh wait.
He said, so once again, what did I say?
I said, yes, I understand, but I'm going to see it like this regardless.
So it's fine.
Yeah.
FaceTime me.
Done.
And that also, that's a sales technique, guys.
That's assuming the sale.
Hey, you already like me, bitch.
You do.
So I'm already gonna see this anyway.
So that's very important, guys.
And here's the other thing, too, when you're dealing with girls, like, you know, saying the funny shit like, oh, yeah, we're gonna have a great life together, whatever, shit like that.
Like, fresh does he be selling the dream?
That works, though, because the reason why it works is because women live in fantasy la-la land.
And to get women interested in you, a lot of times, you have to sell the dream to a degree where you're almost like...
Women are interested in the future.
What do I tell you guys all the time on this show?
Men are interested in the past, women are interested in the future.
If you're able to convey certain things, that number one assumes a sale, and then number two assumes that there's going to be something more in the future.
Girls really eat that shit up, man.
100%.
So you basically kill a couple of...
With one stone.
With one stone there.
You're assuming the sale, which is confidence, and then you're also building...
Imagery in her head.
Imagery in her head.
It's going to happen.
A fantasy in her head that she could see herself with you in the future.
Now, once you get this FaceTime call or text conversation going, listen.
You know what I'm going to say all the time on the podcast?
Let me feel the vibe.
I need to feel the energy and the vibe in the room, you know?
Basically, you're going to cover yourself in a, I want to say, articulate and funny, chill way.
Talk, ask questions.
Make sure you ask questions, by the way.
Not her ask questions.
And so listen.
I like your vibe.
I like your energy.
I want to take you out.
When X you're free, I want to take you out.
She's going to say, oh, I work Monday, Tuesday, but I'm free Wednesday, Thursday.
Perfect.
I'll pick you up.
I'll meet you here on Thursday, 7 p.m.
Don't be late.
And the thing, too, guys, is when you have this phone call, this FaceTime call, not only are you...
10 to 20 minutes absolute max.
You're building some rapport.
You're conveying you're not a weirdo.
You're having some conversation.
You're letting her talk about herself.
You're alleviating a lot of that anxiety, a lot of that stress.
She's seeing that you're a real person.
She's showing that you're killing so many different birds with a single stone when you FaceTime them.
You told me this one.
You said, basically, I need to be afraid that you're not a weirdo or a creep yourself.
That too!
So you're putting it on her.
Yes!
So thank you for that, for reminding me about that.
So as you guys know, women have objections a lot of times, right?
Mm-hmm.
Oh, we're not having sex.
Or, oh, you know, I'm nervous.
Blah, blah, blah.
Like, girls have a bunch of objections a lot of times when they deal with guys.
To be fair, yeah.
Right?
And that's because they're the more vulnerable sex, right?
What I do is I give those objections to them before they give it to me.
Bam.
Right?
So every girl's nightmare is going on a date with a guy that's, like, weird and creepy.
So what I do is I bring that up and I put it back on them and I'm like, oh, well, I don't want to deal with a weird, creepy girl.
Whoa, what the fuck?
So now she went from trying to get me to qualify to her to show that I'm not weirdo and creepy.
She's like, oh no, I need to show that I'm not weird and creepy.
So now she's qualifying to me, which immediately shifts the frame, and then bam.
Now she's operating on my system.
She's in your frame.
You go ahead and you deal with the objections that women have before they even come up by putting them on her.
Is she a weirdo?
Is she creepy?
Is she awkward or strange?
Is she a catfish?
Do you look like your pictures, etc.?
I want you guys in a position where the woman is on her back foot.
You're the one pushing, she's the one...
Not quite literally, I have to say it.
Not literally, but what I mean is figuratively speaking, she's on the back foot, you're pushing, and she's on the defense, okay?
Where she's like, oh my god, I need to defend myself because remember, she has an ego.
She's used to guys kissing her ass all the time.
She's used to guys giving her anything for just simply existing.
You're not fucking doing that shit.
You're going to stand up more.
You're standing out and you're making her qualify to you.
Guys, if you learn this skill set, how to make bitches qualify to you, you're instantly going to be more attractive.
Because what does that do?
Most guys don't have the balls to make a girl qualify to them because they have a scarcity mindset.
They can barely get girls.
So if you're out here making girls qualify to you, you're teasing them, you have them on their back foot, you're hitting them with the objections that they would normally hit you with, well guess what?
That's not common.
That's weird to a lot of girls, in a good way, because most guys are going to do everything in their power to qualify to the girl.
But when you make her qualify to you, that shows social proof, that shows that you have other women, that shows that you are impartial to dealing with her, so she needs to decide what the fuck she's going to do.
And most of the time, if she sees your value to be a certain level, she's going to go ahead and comply with you.
Also, another thing too, because I know some of you guys don't understand this whole concept of selling a dream, etc., After this podcast is done, I need y'all niggas to go listen to Justin Timberlake, My Love.
And the reason why is because that song, right, perfectly and succinctly Gives what women want.
I can see us holding hands, walking on the beach, our toes in the sand.
I can see us in the countryside.
He's selling a dream.
Yeah, you know what I mean?
Niggas lying all over the place.
Making Britney Spears get abortions and shit like that.
But he's over here selling that dream.
Because that's what girls want.
You know, they want it even though...
Men are the real romantics.
They want to be lied to.
Girls want the fantasy, the lie, etc.
So, you know, that song right there, right?
Literally, the reason why women love it so much, besides the fact that Justin Timberlake is extremely talented and it's a good song, is it sells a dream.
It's what women want to hear.
Growing old together, being together long term, etc.
Women want relationships.
Even the biggest hoes want relationships, guys.
100%.
Okay?
There's a reason why they call it Hot Girl Summer and not Hot Girl Life.
So if you can go ahead and dig into that a little bit, even in the first meeting where you're kind of selling this dream of, hey, there might be some more potential out there, et cetera, while simultaneous but letting her know that's only contingent upon you qualifying to me, bam, puts you in the driver's seat for once.
And that's a situation that most women are not used to being in where the man is making her qualify.
And she's instantly going to be attracted to you for doing so because most men never make women qualify.
Don DeMarco!
Bam!
Yo, this is why we're the number one men's podcast in the fucking world, bro.
Who gives y'all more sauce than us, man?
Sub to the channel.
This is A1 Game here.
You niggas thought we got famous and forgot?
For free!
What the fuck?
We're still dealing with these stupid-ass bitches, too!
Yeah, we are.
Every day.
Every day.
We're still in the game, man.
So, clearly, y'all can see what the fuck is going on.
And again, this is extremely time-consuming.
We were doing this before the fame, by the way.
Way before.
This is not even, like, after.
This is before the fame.
We're doing all this shit.
So...
Being on multiple dating apps, etc.
Now, if y'all really want to be on some steroid shit...
You have multiple profiles on the same apps.
So that means you have multiple Tinder profiles, multiple Bumble profiles.
You can do this with different phone numbers and different emails.
Damn.
If y'all really want to go ahead and like fucking capture the marketplace, multiple profiles under different phone numbers and different emails.
And then what you could do is, if you really want to get experimental, switch the pictures.
So let's say you got like 10 good pictures, put four on one profile, put four on another profile...
You know?
And then do that along with all the dating apps.
What does the best, yeah.
So now, instead of having three dating profiles on three different apps, you got six dating profiles on three different apps.
Damn.
And guys, what did we talk to y'all about?
Dating apps are a fucking numbers game.
It is.
Alright?
100%.
So, and then the other thing too is that when you have multiple profiles and they're brand new, guess what?
You're at the top of the algorithm where they're showing your profile to everybody.
Why do these dating apps do that?
And a quick little side tangent on dating apps and algorithms.
They want you on the app and they want you to spend money.
So what they're going to do is when you first make your profile, they're going to show you to every bitch.
Okay?
Which is good.
And you want to use that.
But after a period of time...
They're going to take you down on the algorithm and they're going to put newer users there because their goal is to get you to buy.
Okay?
Now, as far as, like, you know, getting Tinder super or whatever the fuck it is where you can have more swipes, that's personally on you whether you want to do that or make different profiles.
But regardless, I mean, you can maybe make one where you pay for it and then others that you constantly switch out.
But make sure you use different phone numbers and emails because if you constantly make new profiles, they'll ban you.
That's another thing too.
They'll definitely ban you.
So be careful on that.
And then you might have to do it where if you really want to get around shadow banning or whatever, you can use different devices.
That's the game right there.
And the last one we'll do after the chats.
Yeah.
Posting the link now.
Let's see here.
What was that?
Posting the link.
Okay.
Cool.
Hey guys, like the goddamn video, man.
How many likes do we got here?
We got 7K watching on Rumble.
We did that.
And I believe on YouTube we have...
4.4.
There you go.
We only got 1.7K. Come on, guys.
Like the goddamn video.
Are I Been Preach gonna teach you this shit?
No.
Are Playback gonna teach y'all this shit?
No.
To be completely fair here, guys, this is free game.
Most they can sell it to you in a course.
You're getting it for free here on YouTube and Rumble for nothing.
Yeah.
At least like the video, man.
Like the video, bro, because our haters aren't going to give you all this kind of stuff, so we're not going to give you this kind of information, this level of detail, answer your guys' question, do this shit live.
And they're going to charge you what they do.
Just saying.
If they ever do.
Yep.
So, anyway...
Alright, May Rafouts goes, since you gentlemen mostly have conservative views based on what I've seen and you are also Muslim, what do you think about most of the stance on what is going on?
Man, y'all already know what my stance is with that, guys.
I mean, if you guys have watched my other pods, you guys already know what it is.
You know what it is.
What else we got here?
You need some experience, bro.
When I was 21, I felt that way, too.
I didn't go to parties.
I see people on their Instagram stories, living life, whatever, especially when I was in college.
But understand, man, that delayed gratification It's something that you need to learn.
It's a skill set.
And as a man, your value appreciates as you get older, man.
So build yourself up.
Go to the gym.
I'm not telling you not to deal with women or whatever, but understand that your best years are still way ahead of you, man.
So as a 21-year-old male, bro, you're useless in society and no one gives a fuck about you.
Yeah, I think you could do both, though.
Obviously put work as a priority first, but in your free time, when you're done with work, you got some free time, just go on some dates.
But again, once again, you need good profile, good bio, and good conversations to lead to dates.
Yeah.
So, but yeah, man, don't fall for the I'm missing out shit.
Don't get the fear of missing out bug that a lot of guys get and then they end up fucking up their 20s, partying, doing a bunch of stupid shit.
I can guarantee you.
When they should have been building up a legacy in that time period.
The same guys and girls are in the club, partying, having fun, are still going to be there when you're done with your work and your career.
Absolutely.
I guarantee you, bro.
Absolutely, bro.
I'm in the club, trust me, they're still there today.
Yeah.
They were there five years ago, too.
Yeah.
So don't feel like you're missing out, bro.
Because you only have this period of time to build up that foundation.
You're not going to be 21 forever where you have the, you know, saw and vigor to get this shit done and have the time and energy.
As you get older and older, bro, it's going to be harder to work those hours.
It's a cold world, man.
Like, most people party and they have no coats on.
You're going to work on yourself, become successful.
You have a coat.
So when you walk into that cold world, you can handle anything, bro.
Tell me.
Seriously.
Very cold.
When are you going to get Drake on the podcast, have Fresh Sing Miss Me?
I hope that you miss me a little when I'm gone.
I hope that you miss me a little.
Hey, Fresh and Fit, I love what you both do, and I still insist that I would be a perfect person to interview for my story, business, and one-of-a-kind product, GC Windsor.
I would have met Fit at the Tim Cass Miami event, but I never saw you there.
Yeah, I was there for a little bit.
I had to go.
We had a show to do.
Yeah.
But...
Yeah.
As far as like...
I mean, bro, we get...
Dude, you know how many messages I get from people saying like, bro, I'd be the greatest person to interview.
It's like...
Why?
Why?
You know what I mean?
I don't mean to be an asshole or whatever, but it's got to be mutually beneficial.
What else do we got here?
In the New Testament, why is having multiple wives a sin?
What if you want to have 20 kids because it's going to be harder with one girl?
Yeah, again, this is based on new rules and new laws on Jesus dying for our sins.
So, I mean, back in the day, there was free reign to do whatever you wanted to do.
The New Testament is kind of like, hey, if you want to follow the tenements of Jesus, he's going to marry the church, which is basically, you know, those boys.
And that's his bride.
So there's one bride and, you know, one husband.
So that's what it is.
All right.
By the way, we only got 2,000 likes, guys, but 4,000 plus y'all watching, man.
Yo, we should be at 4,000 likes automatically.
I don't know why guys don't want to like the video, bro.
Just like the video, man.
It's free, man.
You don't got to donate a dollar to the show.
We just ask that you like the video because it helps with the algo.
As you guys know, we got demonetized on YouTube.
So it stunts your growth a little bit.
But hey, man, like the video so you can get pushed up in the algorithm.
Someone can find this content and be able to, you know, do better on dating apps or find out how to make money or find out how to just be a better man in general.
Blackie, after four dates...
Wait, no.
Marifouts?
Yeah.
If you have questions, what do you guys think adding a high-value woman would help y'all...
A what?
Yeah.
Would help y'all's end goal, which I believe is to help people navigate dating.
What happened to...
I saw that Lauren...
Nah, bro, we're not talking about that right now.
Okay, Blackie says, after four dates, she told her best friend...
Yo, why do y'all keep asking us about other...
Bro, stop asking us about other podcasts that are competitors.
We don't gossip.
Stop fucking asking us this shit.
We don't talk about other people.
That's not what we're about, bro.
Bro, if you ask us questions about people that are competitors or people that we don't necessarily rock with like that, we're just going to ignore your chat, bro.
Yeah.
Like, I appreciate the donation, we really do, but I don't know why you guys keep asking us about other people.
Like, we don't give a fuck, man.
Yeah, we don't.
We're here to talk about ideas, not talk about other people.
Smart people talk about ideas, stupid people talk about other people.
So it's like, bruh.
And gossiping is basically a sin, too, so there you go.
Yeah, man.
So, bro, stop asking us questions about competitors.
Are you guys gonna collab?
No!
There you go.
There's your fucking answer.
Nope.
The answer's no.
The answer's no.
Okay?
And it's feminine behavior.
We're not gonna collab with people that copy us.
Like, we're just not gonna fucking do that shit.
So stop asking.
It's annoying as fuck, man.
Every single day.
Why?
Why?
That would not benefit us.
They would only hurt us if anything.
It would benefit them.
It would benefit them.
Yeah.
We are the originators.
We are the trendsetters.
We're not going backwards.
We're continuing to innovate.
They want the stamp of approval from us.
No, man.
It's not happening.
So stop asking us this shit.
It's really annoying.
Stay over there.
So Blackie says, after four dates, she told her best friend, BFF, I'm almost perfect, but I insecure sometimes and don't have a strong political worldview.
She's feminine, never goes out, never kissed a guy, and is six attractive on the scale.
Should I keep dating her?
Will she keep dating me?
I'm 24, she's 23.
So she told her best friend, okay, so she told her best friend he's perfect, but she has insecure, no strong political views, world views, she's feminine, never goes up, never gets a guy.
I don't see why not.
I mean, there's nothing bad here.
Yeah, I mean, just keep it going, man.
Yeah.
Looks like you're doing well here.
Might as well.
Hamza Jaholi says, Hey Myron, what song do you listen to?
I heard you listen to Pop Smoke a lot.
Me too.
Mine is Armed and Dangerous, AV Flexing, and Invincible.
I like Invincible.
That's a dope-ass song from Pop Smoke.
That's actually Myron's favorite song too.
Invincible.
I think he likes Culture Goes To.
What?
Invincible?
What rappers do you listen to?
Rappers.
What rappers do I listen to?
What song do you listen to?
I think maybe in the gym?
When you work out?
Okay, oh, okay.
What is it?
I heard you like to...
Yeah, listen to Pop Smoke a lot.
Me too.
Mine is Armed and Dangerous, AV Flex and Invincible.
I like...
Myron loves Drew.
I like Flexin from Pop Smoke.
Myron loves Drew.
That's his older shit, but I like 2018, 2019 Pop Smoke too.
Sometimes you have to lie to girls, but why does Justin Waller extremely dislike men that do this to a certain extent, of course?
Look, man, everyone has different methodologies, bro.
You know, Justin's honest with women, so am I, but that strategy is going to lose you a lot of bitches, if I want to be honest with you.
So, girls don't want the truth, bro.
They don't want the truth.
That's what it really comes down to.
So, everyone has different methodologies.
Bro, not for nothing, but I'd much rather see her grow without makeup first than to see her done up.
These women are experts in physical manipulation.
I'm not trying to take home a closet Chewbacca when the makeup comes off.
Yeah, that's true.
Big facts, bro.
Okay, and then we got here.
Doge, the Dodger.
Myron, get LASIK, you four.
I'd fuck love you guys.
WFNF team.
Myron, Fresh, Chris, Icy Moe, Angie Bills.
I've thought about it, guys, but I don't want no one touching my eye, bro.
I can't even get a contact in my eye.
I can't do it.
Damn.
I can't do it, man.
Really?
Yeah, I can't do it.
That's scary.
What else do we got here?
We got Rumble Rats coming up.
Rumble and Castle Club.
They're doing the Rumble Rats.
So, number five?
Yeah.
Number five, guys.
Last one on the list.
This is going to be one of the most, I want to say, beneficial parts of dating apps is location benefits for travel and scale of numbers.
So again, guys, this is a numbers game.
No matter how you want to look at it, dating apps have a scale because it's online and it's everywhere at the same time.
Now, We mentioned Colombia a couple times, you know, Brazil, all these locations that people travel to for girls.
So location-wise, you can actually set your location, I believe, on Tinder and certain apps for those countries before you even go there.
Yeah.
Now, here's the benefit.
Passport.
Again, numbers game.
You can set up the location ahead of time.
Look at all the girls there that you want to hit up.
Swipe right, of course.
And then let's pick, like, five to ten girls that you want to actually see.
And before you even get there, have dates lined up from the jump.
That to me is scale and average because once again, in real time, let's say you're here in Miami, you're going to go to Brazil, you don't see them face-to-face.
You can create that interaction here from your bedroom on a dating app.
So I think on scale level and location level, that's incredible.
But once again, guys...
You want to swipe at least a week before.
It's going to be having all four steps done first, then this last step.
Because good pictures...
Good lifestyle.
Good bio.
Lead them from the app to text or FaceTime or Instagram.
They say, hey, I'm going to be there on these dates.
I want to have a good time.
Let's go to...
Actually, if you're really smart about it, look at the best spots in that area.
For example, maybe dinner, club, and then say, hey, let's go out when I get there, to this location, at this spot, meet me here.
That way you have a plan of action before you can get there, you know where you're going, she knows where you're going, and it's a seamless transition from wherever you're at to when you land on that country, and you're good to go.
So I think for scale and location, you can't be dating apps as Instagram because, again, it's literally from your home, wherever you're at in the world, you can find girls in that location, set up dates, and in real time, get a response and move forward.
To me, that is, once again, the best thing for scale and numbers.
So for dating apps, that's the part that most people didn't have back in the day.
You have it at the tip of your fingertips nowadays.
Yeah.
For traveling, it's definitely helpful as well if you're going to go somewhere.
But yeah, you definitely want to at least be screening a week or two before you get there, guys.
You don't want to be landing there and then doing it.
You want to do the work up front.
Girls will flake, bro.
They will flake.
Yeah, yeah.
So there's a number of facts.
Big facts.
I mean, that's a big reason why the RP even is so prominent today is because of the flake rate and the fuckery that comes along with dealing with females.
Mm-hmm.
Big facts.
Okay, could we read some of these rants and then we'll summarize this thing and close it out?
Cool.
We have here a freshest dog.
Yo, WMans, bro.
Yo, what do you call her?
Silicone bucket?
Oh, yeah.
Yeah, that was hilarious.
Oh, you're funny, bro.
He says, why are you dating apps when you can slide into your ex's friend's DMs?
You know, DM time, bro.
What the fuck, bro?
You walling.
SlugsBanger says, if you have the two main girls, you got each of them a spot.
If you wanted both of them to have your kids, would it be smart to move them into a house together?
I let my kids grow up under the same roof.
That's going to be under your leadership, bro.
I mean, I think, technically speaking, is that what you want to do, Byron?
Have four wives all in one house or separate?
Separate.
Separate?
Yeah.
Yeah.
I mean, bro, that's going to be up to your leadership, bro, because they might run wild, they might get upset, or they might work.
Yeah.
It depends on how you want to set it up.
Yeah.
So that's up to you, my friend.
Again, Fresh Dog says, Fresh, I suppose supporters know how much work you put into this.
It'd be after hours, only since they'd be hating on you.
Thanks, bro.
Appreciate that, man.
Pedro says, Ryan Montgomery, best man in the space of cybersecurity.
Recommend getting into contact.
Also, next book series would be great if it was two books, one on how the man should treat his woman and daughter from childhood to motherhood, and one for the woman themselves, like the one Barat gave his daughter in the second Barat movie, would be W. Heirloom, WFNF. Alright?
Doom the Goon says, Hawker approached me for my IG the other day.
Do I hit her up or for her to hit me up?
Honestly, guys, when it comes to talking to girls from the texting standpoint, hit up yourself because at the beginning, you put a little bit more effort, but at the same time, you want to create that interaction, let it have that effect where you're putting in the effort at the beginning, and then pull back yourself so she's putting effort in the long term.
So you put effort at the very beginning, you pull back, and she comes to you.
That way it's a seamless interaction between you and her where it's not too much of back and forth.
And then Darkmeme says, WFNF, haven't missed an episode of Fed It or FNF in over a year.
Shout out to you, bro.
Names who top colognes you recommend?
Damn.
I'll give it to you.
YSL Tuxedo, amazing scent.
I find that's very effective for girls because, once again, it's not too manly, not too girly.
It's like right in between.
Again, that's YSL Tuxedo.
And then if you want to have like a general, I want to say cologne that's good as well, it's I give them my sauce, man.
Go ahead.
I give them one.
No, you give them one, bro.
I give them one of my good ones.
I use Kenneth Cole Reaction.
There you go.
I don't even know if you can find that in stores anymore.
You gotta order it online.
Yeah, it's old.
I've been using that shit since like 2008.
Yeah, but that one is amazing, bro.
But yeah, if y'all want to smell a little bit different versus getting all the shit that everyone has.
YSL. Yeah.
What else we got here?
Are we doing 20 and up?
Or these came in from before?
Okay, I'm 25, I'm an 8K a month and have good game with women.
I told myself I had my fitness goals by the end of the year.
I'd get a nose job.
I have a huge nose.
What are your thoughts?
Do it, man.
I mean, nothing wrong with looks maxing.
If your nose is that big and it's something that you think keeps you hung up, do it.
Do it for yourself, though.
Do it for yourself, man.
If you want to do it.
I just believe that if you're a guy, man, it doesn't really matter that much, bro, to be honest with you.
Yeah, it's not that big of a deal, unless your shit is huge.
But, I mean, I got a big nose, too.
Yeah, me too.
For the people that want the show to be longer, what if the after hours, when the ladies leave, you guys do something where you give your opinion on how the night went with the girls?
We kind of do on locals, kind of, sometimes.
But...
It's not a bad idea.
Yeah.
DG Bill, thank you, FNF and the Tate Brothers.
I appreciate that value.
Shout out to you, man, DG. But I kind of want to do it in front of girls though, not behind their back.
You know what I mean?
That's kind of like, we'll sit to their face, how we feel.
No, I think they want a post-show.
Nah, bro.
We'll do it in front of our faces, man.
That's better.
You guys are all stupid.
Out of profile, Tinder, and more or less applied the advice noted, but always ended up with women as fat as Big Mo and rugglier than fresh.
What can I do to improve?
One of two things, my friend.
Either A, your section market value is low, or B, you're in a location that isn't a target-rich environment.
Okay?
And I'll be honest with y'all, bro.
If you're like on Tinder and you're like in one of these, like, you're like in fucking Mississippi or Louisiana, et cetera, where everyone is a fat piece of shit, bro, you all have a hard time.
You know what I mean?
This is why I tell you guys, you know, you want to be in a major city as a younger guy if you can avoid, if you can, or, well, as a guy, if you can, if you can afford it.
Yeah, location's very important, man.
Yeah, bro.
Very, very important.
Should I approach this girl at the gym?
We keep making eye contact, but it's my main gym.
Bruh.
Ooh.
It's up to you, dude.
I'm against fuckable girls that go to my gym, personally.
But if you want to do it, you can.
Just understand that if it's a fail, it'll be weird.
And she's more inclined to reject you, too.
Even if she likes you, she's going to be more inclined to reject you.
I sent the rant on training to become a Green Beret earlier.
Being a former Fed, any advice on running a business in the military, Myron?
Fill out an outside employment paperwork immediately, bro.
Make sure you fill that out because if you go ahead and you start running a business and you're in the military and you didn't get it approved by your chain of command, oh lord.
You're going to be facing all kinds of trouble, man.
So you don't want a JAG prosecuting you in the military court system, which has an 80% plus rate where they always win, bro.
It's the Green Brett one of the top.
Yeah.
But yo, you're not going to have time.
If you're a Green Beret, you're not going to have time to have a side business, bro.
Damn.
You're not going to have time.
You'll be in the jungle with water on you and shit.
Nah, man.
You ain't going to have time.
But yes, if you do want to run a business on the side, make sure you fill out Outsider Plan paperwork.
And that's for all guys that are in the government.
Yeah, bro, that's like against the terms.
Yeah.
What the fuck?
You guys are the pioneers of this.
I also see so many people using the term 304 now keep growing and stomping on these suckers.
Yeah, bro.
Yeah, it is what it is, man.
So, like I said before, man, we're the trendsetters, man.
So, it is what it is.
Okay!
Okay, so...
That was hella content, man.
Last one here.
Question for the both of you.
Should I pick up a 304 on my Nissan GTR, 100K car, or a Tesla?
You know what's funny?
I have fun with this wrong.
You're a car guy.
Because what I'll do, right?
I'll say before I pick them up, I'm like, hey, I'm also in a black Toyota Corolla.
And she's like, you know, it's funny.
Every time they're like, okay, that's fine.
I'll be there.
And it's like, wait, I don't see you.
I'm like, oh, I'm in the G-Wagon.
Oh, I'm in the Range Rover.
I'm in the Rolls.
I'm in the Lambo.
But again, I'm just testing to see how they react to that point.
Good little test right there.
All right, guys, so we're going to recap real fast.
I was going over a lot.
So number one, take good pictures, okay?
We said this before.
Go ahead and invest in a photographer, guys.
It is what it is.
Take good professional photos.
I would say take 1,000 pictures where, you know, you're doing it in different outfits.
Just take a full day to shoot, guys, okay?
Or if you want to finesse.
One in business attire, one in business casual, one in athleisure, and then some in some casual wear, you know?
So you want some pictures in a suit, some pictures of leather jacket, jean jacket, you know, black jeans, you know, typical...
Staple, you know, street wear and or business attire, et cetera.
That way you have an array of different photos that you can use.
Then, put those photos through Photofeel.
I showed you guys earlier that smiling and having a nice disarming smile, clean teeth, et cetera, business attire, those pictures tend to do the best.
And then obviously have some other ones that diversify your look.
Maybe one with a leather jacket, one with a jean jacket.
You know, obviously, modern clothing.
Don't be wearing baggy jeans like a 2005 and your soldier boy.
Like, come on, man.
Get with the times.
Dress.
Fashionably appropriate.
Turn my swag on.
And then the pictures that do 8 or above in attractiveness, you can go ahead and put them on your profile.
But try to shoot for at least an 8 to a 9, optimally.
And then, as soon as you start getting matches on the dating apps, move them off of the app immediately, whether it's to phone number or to Instagram, and start setting up a FaceTime call, or a phone call, either or.
FaceTime call kind of takes them off guard a bit.
And get them to comply to you during a conversation.
And also, make sure that you kind of assume the sale, like Fresh had said before.
You know, hey, we're going to see each other anyway, so it's okay if you don't get the makeup on.
Yes, fine.
Yeah, we're going to wake up together one day.
I prefer girls with no makeup anyway.
Yeah, some shit like that, right?
So you want it to feel a little bit comfortable, but at the same time, you're putting her on her back foot and kind of knocking her off the pedestal.
This is very important, guys.
Then...
Once you get her off the app and you're talking to her, set up that date.
That 10 to 20 minute FaceTime call, not only are you conversing and getting to know each other, you're also going to set the frame up with, what are you doing on XYZ? Set up that date immediately, guys.
Not a week in advance or no, no.
What are you doing tomorrow?
What are you doing tonight?
Set up immediately.
It's 2023, bro.
This whole, wait a week and call me, blah, blah, blah, blah.
That shit don't fucking work no more.
It's so crazy.
Nowadays, you can meet a girl literally in that same hour, smash.
It don't take a week or 20 hours.
Yeah.
Fuck that shit.
All right?
Speed is the game.
The energy.
All right?
And then also, like I said before, if you want to increase your likelihood of chances, guys, be on every app.
Bumble, Hinge, Tinder.
Match.com, Christian Mingle, I don't know the fuck, whatever.
You wanna be on Black?
Eat Harmony!
You wanna be on Black to get some Shaniquas?
Cool, go for it.
Be on all the apps, use those good pictures, and the more fishing rides you have out, the better chance you're gonna have.
We're catching that.
On top of that, you wanna be even more so in the game.
Go ahead and have multiple dating profiles on each of these apps, right?
Use a different phone number, different email, have multiple profiles.
You can split test your photos where you put four of your good photos here that scored well, then another four on another profile, you know, on your two different Tinder profiles.
And there you go.
And then, like I said before, set up that date, and then bam, you're good.
The whole goal of dating apps, guys, is to sit there and get to know the girl on the app or to make friends with her.
No.
The goal is to funnel her into...
A date.
You're not a pen pal.
You're not texting back and forth for no reason.
And then last but not least, number five is going to be location, maxing out scale for numbers, and as well when you travel to a new destination, setting location early, set up dates early on before you even get there, and you get to go from there with some numbers.
Yeah.
So, that's what you guys gotta do.
That's how you max out the dating.
But again, it starts with the pictures, guys.
Hire a professional photographer.
Get it fucking done.
You guys can look back at some of my photos.
Y'all saw how some of them scored.
I thought it came out good, but it didn't come out that good.
Oh, was it smiling?
Maybe it was too much flexing in the gym?
Whatever the fuck it is.
Girls don't like that shit.
The market will tell you if it's good or not.
The market will tell you, man.
And actually, real quick, for the finessers out there, low budget, not making that much money, you get your friend with a good iPhone, or, for example, a good camera, say, hey, bro, with H&M and Zara, got some clothes, Get me real quick.
I'm going to return them tomorrow.
And you're good to go, bro.
And that's where you get pictures, lifestyle, and for super cheap, low cost.
Gotta make it work, man.
Hey, man, we're helping all y'all out.
Even the fucking brokies.
Gotta make it work, bro.
Y'all niggas shouldn't even be dating, but fresh got y'all.
Got you, man.
All right, guys.
What else we got here?
Okay.
A wise man once said they want to be lied to.
I tell them what they want to hear if it's not lying.
It's not lying if they want to hear.
Okay, man.
However that helps you sleep.
You don't really need the apps traveling.
If anything, it shows how overwhelming the apps can be on the female side of things.
Holy options for days.
Yeah, bro.
It is.
That's why I want y'all to get them off the app immediately.
Yeah.
My friend had an overseas relation and planned to get married, but in a recent text, his girlfriend asked him to send her money because she's moving out.
Said she is not ready to tie a ring.
I said, break you.
Or, I mean, break up.
Yeah, that's an L, man.
My ex hit her marriage certificate from me with her ex's name on it.
Guys, you've got to vet these girls.
Goddamn, nigga.
Wow.
Albo Ace picked up a bottle of tuxedo a couple weeks ago.
It's so fire.
Also, any Louis Vuitton cologne is fire, too.
Guys.
I gave you the biggest gem for dates.
You put on Westl tuxedo, you need maybe two spritz.
One here, one here.
She's going to love that smell, bro.
I'm telling you.
The smell alone will get her from a mile away.
Bam.
Alright.
And then last one here, Jamin goes, followed all the rules you've listed and got over 50 matches within two weeks.
What are your thoughts on avoiding ghosting and flaking?
That's where the FaceTime calls come.
Yes.
You're also screening out girls too.
You know what I mean?
So guys, they want to know that you're not a creep once again and that you're cool and you're going to have a fun date with you.
FaceTime call.
Kind of...
I want to say, all those issues that you have at the very beginning, or flicking, or for example, ghosting, if you do a FaceTime call, it might go away from that one call alone.
It goes a long way.
Cool.
But yeah, that's how it goes.
And a camp two times question, how do I manage?
Oh, now you guys want to get the questions in.
How do I manage or operate multiple women in DMs or in my space?
I work at this huge warehouse.
A lot of girls like me and ask for my IG or number or get their friends to do it for them and girls outside of work.
I've never had more than three at once chasing.
Well, bro, that's a good problem to have.
That's where you go ahead and you pick out the girls that are the most useful to you.
You know?
Beauty only goes so far.
So you don't want to go ahead and keep girls around that aren't an asset.
Like, the girls that are liabilities, you need to cut them quickly.
Yeah.
That's how you do it.
That's the triage that I use.
I mean, some of y'all like to keep around girls that are useless because you guys just like bad bitches that much, but to me, I don't care how hot she is.
After one or two smashes, if she's useless, bro, trust me, you're going to start to get annoyed.
Put them in categories, man.
Put them in categories.
There you go.
So that's what you got to do, my friend.
Cool.
So we're going to be back here with some lovely ladies and about...
Chris?
10 o'clock.
Alright, 10.
10.
So, we'll be back here, guys, in a little bit.
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No one else is giving y'all the sauce.
They can imitate, but they can never replicate.
They can, bro.
Because they don't have the prerequisite knowledge like we do.
You know what I'm saying?
We're actually out here in the game and give y'all the sauce.
And we did it before the fame.
Exactly.
Don't forget that.
Yeah.
So, anyway, let's see if the imitators can replicate that.