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Sept. 23, 2023 - Fresh & Fit

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Trad Con Chameleon Girl Gets Exposed As IG 304?!

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	What's up, guys?
	Welcome to Fresh Air Podcast.
	After our edition, we're joining a bunch of other ladies.
	Let's get into it.
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	Look at you.
	Nobody cares, bro.
	Get out.
	It's a night.
	Gonna stop.
	In the night.
	No control.
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	And we are back.
	What's up, guys?
	Welcome to Fresh Your Podcast After Hours Edition.
	Really, two announcements.
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	We made a big announcement over there on CastleClub.tv.
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	October 4th.
	Yes.
	So stay tuned for that, guys.
	But yeah, Rumble.com slash Fresh Your Fit, man, the home of free speech.
	That is our home base.
	If we ever do get canceled on YouTube, because you know we like to talk about a lot of controversial stuff.
	And also, casco.tv or freshfade.locals.com.
	Same thing.
	Either way.
	Check us out over there.
	And then Chris, give us an update.
	Yes.
	Shout out to the girls on the panel.
	We got four girls that flew in today.
	So, you know.
	Oh, wow.
	Yeah, girls, DM me the RC Poxon on IG. Make sure if you want to go on to our show, if you're flying in, please let me know, like, the week, like, probably the Monday prior, okay?
	Don't just fly in the same exact day and say, hey, I'm here.
	Like, what?
	You know, so, anyways, shout out to the girls on the panel, and let's have a great show.
	Awesome.
	Ladies, if you don't mind, welcome to the show.
	Give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, your body count.
	And we're going to start right here.
	Welcome to the show.
	Okay, my name is Marita, and I'm 34 years old.
	Yeah, I already know.
	Wait, you said it's what?
	Marita.
	I'm 34, and I'm a data warehouse engineer.
	Okay, where are you originally from?
	Peru.
	Peru.
	Okay, where'd you like go to high school and stuff?
	Here or in Peru?
	Yes, in Virginia.
	Okay, what part of Virginia?
	Percival.
	Where's that?
	How far is that from D.C.? Well, Percival, Virginia is like 40 minutes from D.C. It's in the boonies.
	Okay.
	And then you said you do warehouse logistics?
	Engineer, like a data analyst.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Developer.
	Okay, so data analyst engineer.
	Yeah.
	Especially coding.
	Uh-huh.
	Coding.
	Chimpo!
	And then...
	Kyle.
	Oh, no, it's all the Spanish language.
	What's your highest education level completed?
	Bachelor's.
	What did you get it in?
	Information systems and operation management.
	And where did you get it from?
	George Mason University in Fairfax, Virginia.
	And then relationship status?
	I'm single.
	Damn, still single after all that?
	Well, our standards are going to be pretty high.
	Not really, actually, not really, but...
	Stop the cap!
	What about you?
	Uh-oh.
	Adrian.
	Adrian, right?
	I'm Adrian.
	I'm Asia Sky.
	Welcome back.
	Thank you so much.
	I... What was it?
	I'm a singer.
	Age.
	Oh, I'm 30.
	Wait, 30?
	A singer.
	Where did you from?
	I grew up in the UK, in the US too.
	I finished high school in the UK. What part of the US? So, as far as like the US, I'd say like Louisiana.
	Okay.
	And then the UK, like Barry, St.
	Edmunds, so if you know like Cambridge.
	Come on them.
	Alright, and then you said you're a singer?
	Uh-huh, I'm a singer and VP of Blue Chew Music Group.
	Blue Chew?
	Blue Dream.
	Oh, Blue Chew.
	Blue Chew.
	Okay, and then Highest Indication Overcompleted?
	Hi, I have an associate's degree.
	In?
	Well, I did music and I do humanities too, so a little bit of this, that, the four.
	So just music mainly.
	Okay.
	And then relationship status?
	Single.
	All right.
	Okay.
	Still?
	Still.
	What's going on, man?
	Damn.
	You better call Adrian.
	Adrian!
	Adrian!
	What's your name?
	My name is Severa.
	I'm 21.
	Where are you from?
	Calgary.
	Calgary, okay.
	You know what's funny?
	So, my actual school to be a pastor was in Calgary, Alberta.
	Yeah.
	Are you here just visiting or do you live here now?
	No, it was actually one of our friends' baby showers.
	Okay, so you're just here on vacation.
	Yeah, just visiting.
	When do you go back?
	Sunday.
	Okay.
	What do you do for work?
	I'm currently still in university doing my undergraduate.
	Okay.
	What are you studying?
	Sociology.
	Okay.
	You used this degree, fantastic.
	I know.
	Do you want to drop where you go to school or no?
	It's up to you.
	University of Calgary.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	And are you, you're 21, so you're probably a junior, I'm assuming, or senior?
	Fourth year.
	Okay, so you're senior.
	And then relationship status?
	Single.
	Alright.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Hey, y'all!
	Oh, Jesus, don't do that.
	My name is Kishwan Clark.
	Bless you.
	Bless you.
	Kishwan Clark.
	Oh my gosh.
	Kishwan Clark.
	It's Kishwan?
	It's pronounced?
	Okay.
	Yes, Kishwan.
	Kishwan.
	It's not from anywhere.
	My mom just made it up.
	It's a witchcraft.
	How old are you?
	I'm 29 years old.
	Wait, 29?
	Yes.
	Fight long cry?
	Yeah, you should see my parents.
	I'm from Oceanside, California, and for a living, I am a waitress at a high-end resort, so I serve a lot of celebrities and ballers.
	Okay.
	Yes.
	All right.
	She belongs to the street.
	Absolutely not.
	What is your highest education level completed?
	So it's another useless degree.
	It's a communications major.
	I have my bachelor's in that.
	Where'd you get it from?
	Cal State San Marcos.
	Okay.
	So it's not like your typical university.
	Cal State Bears?
	No.
	Okay.
	What's your old mascot?
	Ooh, God.
	Was it the panther?
	I think it was the panther.
	And that relationship status?
	I am single, but I am going to start dating soon.
	I'm ready.
	What made you stop?
	After my last relationship, I wanted to take a break because I was traumatized after that relationship, so I wanted to do some self-work because no man wants baggage when you're getting into a relationship, a brand new one.
	So after I went to therapy and I started working out a lot more, I feel like I'm ready now.
	And I've also studied to become a personal trainer.
	Good, good, good.
	Excellent.
	Not sticking with the stereotype, man.
	That's great.
	Absolutely not.
	How long were you in that relationship with that guy before it broke off?
	It was a year.
	We were together for a year, but it was not a good year.
	He was good in the beginning, but...
	Who broke it off?
	You or him?
	I broke it off because I couldn't take it anymore.
	Name one thing he did wrong in the relationship and one thing you did wrong.
	Haha.
	I saw this on your podcast so many times.
	Honestly, watching your podcast made me realize my faults in the relationship that I didn't realize before.
	So, thank you for that.
	Honestly, because I thought I did no wrong.
	Accountability.
	Oh, yeah.
	I know.
	That's rare for women.
	The curse word.
	Perfect.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	So, for him, it was a lot of things.
	But I would say, besides the infidelity, the main thing was that he put his hands on me.
	Oh, yeah.
	That's all right.
	Yeah.
	So, after that, it was just a lot of things that he did.
	But for me, I would honestly say...
	During COVID, OnlyFans was getting popping, and I was just like, oh, babe, what do you think about me doing OnlyFans?
	And he's like, hell no, you're not doing that shit.
	So I think that was a big turnoff, and that was a stupid thing for me to ask.
	But he was already a bad guy anyway, so it's not really a loss.
	But you didn't do it?
	Absolutely not.
	You thought about it?
	I definitely thought about it.
	I really wanted to do it, but then how I was raised, I just can't.
	Play yourself or with him?
	Oh no, by myself.
	I told him that he could take all the pictures, do all the videos if he wants.
	I'm not going to show my nudes.
	It'd just be like sexy lingerie.
	Was it just for the money, you'd say?
	Literally just for the money, yeah.
	Because at the time, I was working at Chili's.
	I wasn't making anything.
	Chili's?
	I know!
	I know!
	Listen!
	I gotta ask this since you're about to get into fitness and obviously your background.
	The average African-American woman is about 175 pounds and 5'3 or 5'4.
	What are your thoughts on that?
	That is disgusting.
	The heaviest that I've ever been was 148 and that was because after I had surgery I couldn't do anything.
	I lost that weight pretty fast.
	If you're overweight, it doesn't matter if you're male or female.
	You need to go to the gym.
	You need to work on your nutrition.
	And a lot of people think that, oh, I'm going to do some ab workouts.
	I'm going to get abs.
	No, you have to eat well.
	Like, you can't go to the gym and then eat like shit and then expect to see results.
	And a lot of people that go to the gym, they just do random workouts.
	They don't actually have a structured plan.
	So they're going to start to plateau.
	If you have a structured plan that you actually follow and you're working the muscle groups that you're supposed to be working daily, you'll find results.
	Women, you need to lift weights.
	A lot of women don't want to hear that, but you need to lift weights.
	Cardios is great, but to actually tighten everything, you need to lift weights.
	I don't look manly, and I lift heavy, very heavy.
	I bench heavy, everything.
	You won't look manly.
	Lift the freaking weights.
	Myron, do you approve of this?
	I'm being very serious.
	I approve of this message.
	There you go.
	Thank you, Myron.
	I'm so scared to talk to you, honestly.
	No, that's great.
	I mean, I wish more women in the community had that mindset.
	You know what I mean?
	Too bad, Myron.
	I don't doubt it in the dark, so.
	Huh?
	Listen, it's okay.
	We all have our preference.
	I don't like Asians, okay?
	And that's not being racist.
	We all have our preference.
	It's not being racist.
	I usually don't doubt that.
	My thing is, I dislike behavior.
	It's not the race or the color of the skin.
	I hate certain behavior.
	I will say I understand that because a lot of black people, a lot of black women nowadays, all you see online is them half-naked, them twerking, them saying, hey y'all!
	A lot of them are very illiterate, loud, combative, and I understand that.
	And just the way that I was raised, I wasn't raised like that, and I used to actually get made fun of because of the way I was raised.
	Where's your family from?
	My dad's from Boston and my mom's from the Virgin Islands of St.
	Croix.
	Makes sense.
	Are your parents still together?
	Yes.
	Isn't it like night and day?
	Night and day.
	And my dad is also in the military, so.
	There you go.
	Like when you have a dad in your life, it's fucking night and day.
	This is a base black queen.
	Shout out to you, man.
	Oh, that's so nice!
	Shout out to you.
	I appreciate that.
	Thank you.
	I've been with our OnlyFans, so.
	What about?
	I didn't do it because I knew I wanted to have kids in the future, honestly.
	I don't want to do that.
	You almost went there, but you didn't do it, which is good.
	What about you?
	Konnichiwa.
	I don't know how to...
	What's your name?
	Megan.
	Megan.
	Where are you from, Megan?
	I'm from Canada, Canada.
	How old are you?
	I'm 26.
	What part of Canada are you from?
	Alberta.
	Okay, y'all came together, I'm assuming?
	Yes.
	Wait, whose baby shower was it?
	Wasn't it yours?
	What?
	Damn.
	Damn.
	You having a baby?
	Oh, you do?
	I have a dog.
	Oh.
	I'm a paralegal and I study law.
	Okay.
	Are you in school right now to be a lawyer?
	I'm studying for it.
	I just study on the back end because it's exhausting and tedious, but yeah.
	Okay.
	So you're going to go to law school at some point, I'm guessing.
	If I'm smart enough, yes.
	Okay.
	What's your highest education level completed?
	I also have a useless degree in sociology.
	That's actually how I met Sabera.
	You guys met doing that?
	Like having useless degrees?
	You guys met that way?
	Yeah.
	That's amazing.
	How'd you guys meet?
	Go to school for useless degrees.
	You guys have a very big age difference though.
	She's 21, you're 26.
	Normally you wouldn't be attending college at the same time.
	How'd you guys meet them?
	That's correct.
	So I actually did HR at first.
	I went into human resources.
	Yeah.
	So I was HR. I got into that.
	Like I finished school, everything.
	And then I got into HR and I realized I didn't want to listen to people complain all the time.
	Oh, okay.
	But now you want to argue with people.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, exactly.
	Exactly.
	And then you majored in sociology at, I'm assuming, the same thing?
	University of Calgary, yeah.
	Okay.
	Calgary.
	Okay.
	And then relationship status?
	Single.
	Okay.
	Why are you whispering?
	I don't know.
	I'm just like, "Is it hard dating in Canada?" Finding a good guy, you would say?
	Is it hard?
	No.
	I just find everyone very unattractive.
	So wouldn't it make it hard then?
	Yeah.
	I guess.
	Yeah.
	Okay, never mind.
	We'll move on.
	Wait, hold on.
	What guys are your date?
	Pardon me?
	Chris, put the mic.
	Put the camera on.
	The girls don't know who the fuck is talking.
	I told him earlier.
	Yeah, bro, but they're not going to remember your weird voice.
	- It's you.
	- All right, yeah.
	- That's daddy. - All right, go ahead.
	- Oh, that's daddy, okay? - He told us to call him that.
	- Oh, he did?
	- Yes.
	- Mix some girls.
	- Yeah, get him, Chris.
	- All right, go ahead.
	What was the question, Chris?
	Go ahead, ask her one more time. - What type of guys do you date?
	Black guys, Asian guys, white guys?
	Okay, so definitely not Asian.
	Yeah, no, I don't know.
	I just can't.
	I think we all look alike, and it's just like me.
	Wait, is it the shrink connotation?
	No way!
	No way!
	I couldn't tell you.
	Oh, okay.
	I honestly couldn't tell you.
	I've never been there.
	I'm crying.
	So, Chris, what do you, to finish, to answer Chris's question, what do you like then?
	What is your preferred race?
	I just want to say everything about Asian.
	Is that bad?
	Anything but Asian.
	That's fine.
	That's your preference.
	You like white guys, black guys, Hispanics, everybody except for Asian men?
	Yeah.
	Even Indian guys?
	I like Asian.
	That's kind of Asian.
	A little bit.
	Yeah, South Asian.
	No, I don't think I can do that either.
	No, I can't.
	Realistically, no.
	Wait, so you wouldn't sacrifice your parents for an Asian boyfriend?
	No?
	What?
	Wait, can you repeat that, please?
	You wouldn't sacrifice your parents for an Asian boyfriend?
	Sacrifice my parents for an Asian?
	Ooh, that was dark.
	Well, there was a Canadian girl, actually, that killed her parents for her boyfriend.
	We covered it yesterday on FedEx.
	What?
	Yeah, Jennifer Pan.
	Actually, she's from your country.
	My country, China?
	No, from Canada.
	But you are Chinese?
	I am a Chinese Vietnamese.
	Yeah, I told you.
	You said Kruji.
	That's Japanese.
	What?
	Who's Vietnamese and who's Chinese?
	So dad is more Vietnamese and mom is Chinese.
	Oh, yes, of course.
	There you go.
	I made that shit up.
	No, okay.
	Fantastic.
	And are you first generation?
	Yes.
	What do your parents think about your tattoos?
	Ooh, that was bad.
	I got this one in a basement when I was like 14.
	In a basement?
	FBI, open up!
	What did they say when you came home with the tattoos?
	Because normally in most Asian countries, having tattoos is frowned upon.
	Yeah, it is.
	And so I had to wear everything covered up all the time, or my hair would be covered all the time.
	and then when she found out it was bad yeah it was really bad did you get kicked out of the house?
	yep of course you did really?
	yeah actually what would you do like when you were kicked out at 14?
	well you know I love my mom and at the end of the day I was like okay I'm not it was not literally so you were kicked out for like a day yeah I was like I'm bad and then I just went out yeah so it was fine crazy alright what about you?
	What's your name?
	Hi, I'm Nicole.
	How old are you Nicole?
	I am 26 years old.
	Where are you from?
	I'm from Avon, Indiana, but I currently live in Miami.
	Okay.
	How long have you been here now?
	How long have you been here?
	I've been here for about a year.
	It's too late!
	I wouldn't say so.
	What was your question again?
	What do you do for it?
	I was a former NBA dancer in college.
	She belongs to the streets.
	Whatever you want to say.
	For the Miami Heat or for who?
	For Pacers.
	Go Pacers.
	Okay.
	But I kind of go both ways.
	I love the Heat as well because I love Miami, but a Pacer fan at heart, of course.
	You know who Reggie Miller is?
	Yeah, of course.
	Yeah, I met him.
	He's a great guy.
	Very tall.
	What's up?
	Chris is very tall.
	Alright, Chris.
	What's your highest education level completed?
	I got my bachelor's at Kelly School of Business, majored in marketing, and double majored in international business.
	Okay.
	And then, relationship status?
	Single, but trying out dating, trying to find my husband, you know.
	Okay.
	So, do you have someone right now that you're talking to, or you mean as in you're dating with intent now?
	Well, I'm trying to date with intent.
	Just a week ago, this guy kind of started pursuing me.
	We've been hanging out ever since.
	Nice.
	It's on the low.
	That's good.
	Like every day?
	Yeah, every day.
	Okay, alright, cool.
	What's his name?
	Secret.
	Alright, Chris.
	Wait, okay, I'm curious.
	What race is he?
	He's Lebanese.
	Habibi!
	Okay.
	All right, what about you?
	Hey y'all!
	What's your name?
	My name is Deja Nay.
	I'm 21 years old.
	I'm from Bar Harbor, Maine, but I currently live in Irvington, New Jersey.
	Okay.
	Bar Harbor, Maine.
	How far are you from Kennebunk?
	Oh, that's like a 45 minute drive.
	Okay, north or south?
	Going down.
	Okay, so you're closer to Vermont.
	Yeah.
	Is it Vermont or New Hampshire?
	I think it's Vermont.
	New Hampshire.
	Yeah, it's Vermont.
	Okay, so you're closer to the Vermont border.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And you said Barbara Maine.
	Is that on the water?
	Yeah.
	Like on the coast?
	Okay.
	That's what I'm assuming.
	And then what do you do for work?
	I am a travel, live-in, home caregiver.
	Okay, so you're like an au pair?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	You work for like a rich family?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And then, what is your highest education level completed?
	I have an associate in science, and I'm going back into school for nursing.
	Okay.
	And what is your relationship status?
	Single.
	Are there any black people in Maine?
	Yeah!
	In Bar Harbor?
	Not that much, unless you own a boat.
	Okay, so it's an affluent area.
	Yeah.
	Okay, fair enough.
	What about you?
	Hello, my name is Gabby.
	I'm from Venezuela, born and raised.
	Welcome back.
	Hello.
	How old are you?
	23.
	What part of Venezuela are you from?
	Maracay.
	Okay.
	What else?
	What do you do for it?
	Yes, I work in the restaurant industry and I also started OnlyFans.
	No!
	Just kidding.
	Wait, you did?
	Yes, I did.
	I am.
	Highest education level completed?
	I'm currently studying hospitality management.
	So you're in college right now?
	Yes, I am.
	Do you want to drop where you go to school?
	No.
	Okay, that's fine.
	Relationship status?
	I'm taken.
	Okay.
	How long have you been in a relationship?
	Four or five months now.
	Alright, congrats.
	How'd y'all meet?
	Um, she is one of my best friend's friends.
	Yes, it's a she.
	Okay.
	Okay, you gave up on men?
	No, it's just like, I like everyone.
	Alright, okay.
	Yo, what's going on?
	Okay, alright.
	Did y'all just start the OnlyFans together or like what?
	Whose idea was that?
	No, it was my idea and she supports me.
	Of course.
	The blind leading the blind.
	Holy crap!
	What about you?
	These lost souls.
	Hey y'all!
	Hi.
	My name is Daphne.
	Okay.
	I'm 34.
	Wait, 34?
	Yeah.
	What's going on with these 30s panels, man?
	Where are you from?
	I'm Haitian, but I grew up here in Miami.
	I live here most of my life.
	Okay.
	Alright, what do you do for work?
	I sell insurance and my corporate job, I'm a scientist.
	I work for the CDC. Oh, shit.
	Oh, shit.
	Big boss is in the house today.
	And it got lines we uh We don't have any masks We don't have any We got wipes We got wipes We don't got no masks I got you COVID is kind of over now, so I'm doing STDs.
	Yes.
	But be honest though.
	Can you tell us the truth?
	Is it going to be a part two?
	I can't tell you guys.
	But I do work in STDs now.
	I was doing COVID like two years ago.
	No, I'm doing STDs.
	HIV. Yeah, they call it STIs.
	Okay, question for you.
	Okay, question for you.
	Okay, go ahead.
	What gender has the most, I want to say, cases of these STDs?
	Men.
	Makes sense.
	Transgenders.
	Transformers.
	Transformers that were originally what, though?
	Yeah, what was their first gender before they transformed?
	Male to female.
	That's what I thought.
	Bumblebees.
	Bumblebees.
	Okay, it makes sense.
	Okay.
	We gotta put the masks on.
	I guess within heterosexual who gets more affectionate?
	Do they come from the female side or the male side?
	New diagnoses.
	Honestly...
	From your expertise.
	Yeah, I would probably say male.
	Really?
	You get a lot of male.
	Gay ones, though, right?
	Gay ones, yeah.
	Hey, y'all!
	All right.
	Interesting.
	Very, very interesting.
	So, now it's STDs slash STIs or...
	Here's the thing.
	I remember they used to call them STDs when I was in high school, and then they switched it to STIs because it would be less derogatory.
	Are they back to saying STDs now?
	Well, STI is more like chlamydia and gonorrhea.
	Oh, so if it's serious, it's STD. Yeah, so if it's syphilis, herpes, and HIV, that's considered STD. They used to say STDs or HIV. Now they're putting it in STDs.
	That's crazy.
	Wow.
	Oh, wow.
	Interesting.
	Then I'll play no more.
	Yeah.
	Okay, and then...
	Shit.
	Highest education level completed?
	Bachelor's.
	And?
	Biology, of course.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	I'm making my sense.
	And then, relationship status?
	I'm single.
	I work a lot.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I'm working!
	I'm working!
	All right.
	This is going to be very interesting with the chat.
	Y'all got a CDC scientist on here.
	Okay, so let's hit some of these chats real quick.
	And as you ladies know, it's Friday, which means it's a supporter question.
	So let's see what they got to say.
	And I'm aren't 20 bucks and up?
	Yeah, so I'll read the ones that came in, but from this point forward, we're going to read 20 bucks and up, guys, because we've got a tighter show.
	What do you ladies think about the concept of shaming in society?
	Do you think shaming is a net positive or net negative?
	Lastly, do you or have you personally felt shame or ashamed for anything?
	What and why?
	Okay, that's a bunch of questions, so I'll just make it simple.
	Do you think shaming is good or bad?
	And then have you felt shame before?
	We'll start here and then work our way.
	So do you think shaming in society is good or bad?
	I mean, I feel like everybody is entitled to their opinion, but I have been shamed before.
	Do you think shaming in general is good or bad?
	I would say good.
	Okay.
	And what were you shamed about that you could recall?
	Putting a mask on?
	No.
	Focusing on my career.
	Okay.
	Because people feel like I should be married now with kids.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Good or bad?
	Shaming is bad.
	Okay.
	My personal experience, I really don't give a fuck.
	I really don't pay attention to anything that people said, so I don't feel shame.
	What's the last time that you can remember someone tried to shame me then?
	Everyone saying here that I'm just someone that came for...
	To take their husbands and be an illegal worker, yes.
	Really?
	Yeah.
	That's real life for me.
	But I really don't give a fuck.
	They just don't know.
	Steal husbands and illegal workers.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Do you think shaming is good in society?
	And when's the last time you were shamed?
	I think shaming is bad in society.
	I think they normalize it way too much.
	I get shamed for being skinny.
	You're skinny?
	I don't know, am I? Alright, what about you?
	Do you think shaming is good or bad?
	And last time you can remember.
	I think shaming is horrible.
	I think it comes down to, you know, the use of social media where it's really emphasized.
	And I think it has a huge effect on mental health.
	You see celebrities talk about it every day, people that you think are stars, even confronting, you know, society about how they feel about it.
	And the last time I remember really being shamed on social media, I posted a dance video that went viral.
	It was, you know, the Hit the Quan.
	And I got shamed for being too white, which, you know, I was in college, like, whatever, like, I know I'm white, I'm a dancer, whatever, I dance a little white, but it still affected me.
	I do, I know, I know.
	I know who I am, and I own it, but it still affected me a little bit, and I just, I don't like knowing that it's affecting other people in society.
	Interesting.
	What about you?
	Do you think shame is good or bad?
	Oh yeah, she knows already.
	I think it's fine.
	I think society's been really soft lately, and I was shamed growing up.
	I think that would be deemed as bullying, and I think it's completely fine.
	Well, when's the last time you can recall that you got shamed recently?
	Oh god, probably by my old mother.
	What'd she say?
	Tattoos?
	Yeah, she's like, what the fuck are you going to Miami for?
	I'm like...
	Oh, she shamed you for going to Miami?
	Don't worry about it, mommy.
	It's all good.
	No, but I honestly think it builds character, right?
	Especially as a woman, like, it builds character, it helps you develop personality, and just don't be a little bitch.
	Okay.
	Respectfully.
	Okay.
	Absolutely.
	What about you?
	Do you think shaming is good or bad, and why?
	I think shaming, honestly, is necessary because a lot of people that are shaming you, it comes from actual facts that they're trying to tell you.
	If you're overweight, you should know that you're overweight.
	I mean, I guess it depends, like, if you're asking for their opinion on it, they will tell you that you're overweight.
	I mean, it is what it is.
	I've been shamed in my life a couple times.
	I guess I will say...
	Most recent as you could think of?
	Besides potentially joining OnlyFans on the show.
	I would never...
	Okay.
	Yeah, one last time you guys...
	Okay, so one moment I can think of right now was like two years ago.
	I went on the show Judge Judy.
	Oh, shit!
	Wait, is it real?
	Honestly, yes.
	If I'm being honest, it is real.
	But the friend that I went on Judge Judy with, we had to fake like we didn't like each other.
	But the court cases are real.
	We actually had to go to a San Diego court, file it, and then direct it to her.
	What was the...
	I mean, obviously, it's a civil case.
	What was it on?
	YouTube equipment.
	So we had a YouTube channel.
	Who was the plaintiff?
	Me.
	Him.
	Did he take the equipment from you or he owed you money?
	He owed me money for it.
	How much did he owe you?
	Over 500 bucks.
	Like for the camera and stuff.
	Of course.
	We were young so we couldn't afford the high quality stuff.
	But that's what it was for.
	But the shaming part came into when I posted it on my Instagram that was on Judge Judy.
	Some girl, she said, oh, people do anything for clout.
	And then I responded back to her.
	I said you'll do anything for McChicken I just think shaming is necessary because you need to bring people to reality a lot A lot of the times, like she said, everyone's very soft now.
	You can't say anything without being, you're racist, you're all these phobias that we make up today.
	It's necessary.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	What are your thoughts?
	Do you think shaming is good or bad?
	And when's the last time you got shamed?
	I also agree.
	I think shaming is important.
	Okay.
	Important.
	Well, not important, but I think it enhances performance.
	Okay.
	Like, I remember when I used to play soccer, I used to kind of get, like, shitted on by my, like, brother, older brother.
	He's like, oh, you don't do this, that.
	But, like, back then I used to be like, oh, he's hating on me.
	But when I slowly realized it, I was like, Jesus.
	I suck.
	Yeah.
	What's your ethnic background?
	I'm half Paksanian and half Tanzanian.
	Habibi!
	Are you growing up in a Muslim family?
	Yeah.
	Habibi!
	Not covering your hair.
	Haram!
	Alright, so you think it's important, and then when's the last time you got shamed?
	The soccer, I guess?
	Yeah, sure.
	Is that the most recent?
	That was a while ago.
	I mean, like, when I was a little bit more chubbier, I'm not gonna lie, like, a lot of people would be like, oh, like, you know, you'd be prettier.
	Oh, you used to be fat?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	You'd be prettier if you're skinnier, so I took the advice, and then I lost weight.
	You look great.
	Good on you.
	Good job.
	You think if you had never been told that you were fat that you wouldn't have lost the weight?
	No, I need, no, wait, what?
	You wouldn't have lost the weight if they didn't make fun of you, right?
	Yeah, exactly, yeah.
	Okay.
	I needed that.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Do you think shaming is good, and when's the last time you were shamed?
	Besides on the show.
	Yeah, besides on the show.
	I think shaming, obviously, there's levels to it.
	There's going overboard with it, but to an extent, I really do feel like shaming, you know, hey, you're being a fucking hoe.
	People don't know that they're being a fucking hoe, or they just don't know.
	So if you just kind of be like, hey, you're fucking up, you know, it's like you learn better.
	Do girls have to be told that they're being a hoe now?
	Yeah, you have to tell people you're being a fucking hoe.
	Yeah, you have to.
	Yeah, because people think it's normal now.
	Have you had to tell your friends a lot of the times like you're being a hoe?
	Or I'm like, hey, you look like a fucking hoe in that outfit.
	They're like, you know what, you're right.
	I should change.
	Me personally, I grew up with a really tough father.
	He was an Air Force dad.
	I had to deal with a lot of shaming.
	I learned from it.
	It probably did damage me to an extent, but at the same time, what I learned from that definitely helped me out.
	I chose to see the good in the shame.
	And yeah, people are too sensitive, like, nowadays anyway.
	Like, how are we supposed to learn?
	If nobody says, you know, tells them the truth, you know, how are we supposed to learn?
	Yep.
	All right.
	Okay, and then when's the last time you got shamed?
	Ha ha ha.
	Right now?
	Just kidding.
	I mean, you know, on the internet or here and there, I did a fake divorce court episode.
	You know, that was hilarious.
	Like, you know, they were like all, you know, because I was body shaming the dude because, you know, it was fake.
	And they're like, oh, you're body shaming.
	Like, yeah.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Do you think shaming is good or bad?
	And I think shaming is good.
	I mean, it does build character.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	And then when's the last time you got shamed?
	Probably, like, before I went to college, by my friends.
	For what?
	They will say, like, oh, you're an airhead.
	Like, I don't think you'll get into school.
	Like, you don't look like you're the type of girl that will go to college.
	That's the way you look?
	Oh, wow.
	That's the way I look, yes.
	But yes, I went to college.
	You know, I got into the business school, got my degree in information systems.
	When I graduated, I got a job for the DOD, and I got a clearance.
	So, boom!
	I'm assuming in DOD you probably got at least a secret, or did you get a TS? I got a clearance.
	A lot of you said that shaming is good.
	For the girls that think it's horrible, do you guys think that society would be better if we didn't shame?
	I think there's a difference between shaming and constructive criticism you know growing up as a dancer I had a lot of constructive criticism and I had to grow upon that it was hard but there's a difference between that and completely bullying someone or coming at them from a different view or viewpoint and you know I think there's a lot of ways where we can learn to express ourselves and our feelings towards people that's constructive and in a positive manner and I look forward to like Eventually having a world like that,
	I don't think it's ever gonna happen.
	But wouldn't it be fair to say that the person might interpret it however they want, so you might construe it as, hey, this is a constructive criticism, but they'll be like, you're shaming me?
	Yeah, of course, of course.
	That's one of the things that I feel like growing up in Venezuela was like, I never took anything that people say to me as shaming, just because maybe at the time I was really fat and this person came up to me, yes, you're fat.
	I'm aware of that, so why I will take it as shame, you know?
	So I just have to like...
	It's just how you take things.
	That's how you take things.
	I mean, it's the truth, honestly.
	So, question for you.
	You said if it would be better if people were more understanding.
	But what if it's the truth, though?
	You need to hear the truth.
	Would you consider that as shaming?
	No, I think there's constructive criticism, and I think there's shaming, and I think there's a fine line where maybe we can work together to figure out how to communicate.
	But what's that line, though?
	Who knows the line?
	Yeah, can you distinguish the line?
	Who knows the line?
	I mean, can I distinguish it for everyone?
	No, because I'm not a doctorate in psychology.
	But I know that it exists and I think like if we all communicate and work on it towards work towards it together We could find it We could find it maybe one we could find it Female type answer.
	I think that I think shaming is fantastic.
	I I think we need it.
	I think it keeps people in line.
	I think it keeps people honest.
	And I think some of the ladies already said it.
	I think it builds character.
	And I think the reason why we have so many mediocre people in general is because we don't shame them for being losers.
	A lot of times when you shame someone, it's because they're not adhering to some type of standard.
	And when you don't shame people, what you're effectively doing is you're saying there is no standard.
	We accept you no matter what.
	And I think that's a bad precedent to have because when you accept people no matter what, then that's when you end up with the fuckery.
	But isn't it crazy?
	Your own kids or your own family, you're going to tell them what they need to hear.
	People that you don't know, oh, well, I'm going to watch your feelings.
	Do what you got to do.
	Hell, we got a bunch of criticism right before the show.
	We did.
	Real quick, Sean and the Chakademics, man.
	Oh, he's in here?
	Yeah, he's in there.
	Big Akin Building, shout out my homies at FNF. Yo, shout out to you, DJ Academics.
	When the hell are you coming over here, man?
	I thought you were coming.
	You should have been here by now.
	Bro, come on, man.
	Actually, we should shame him.
	But yeah, yeah.
	We already have.
	But yo, let me know when you're going to come.
	Hey, Kate.
	Anybody else have anything before we move to the next question?
	There's a difference between a boundary being set and shaming.
	So you can create a healthy boundary, you can get constructive criticism, and then shaming is more negative.
	So I think you can tell someone, hey, You're being a fucking idiot without saying, hey, you're fucking stupid.
	Shut the fuck up.
	Well, I think that's just being rude, though.
	Because being shaming and being constructive criticism is very different than just being bluntly rude with no precedent behind it.
	Right.
	Who do you think handles shaming slash constructive criticism, however you want to say it, handles it better?
	Men or women in general?
	Definitely men.
	Women handle constructive criticism better?
	It depends on who's a better communicator.
	I definitely feel like men have to because they kind of like just with the role of being a man, they kind of have to, you know, kind of women can just kind of cry.
	Alright, so you think women, you think men.
	What about you?
	Who do you think handles constructive criticism slash shaming better men or women?
	I think men as well, because I feel like women are more emotional.
	So like, if you kind of tell her like, oh, kind of looking a little hefty today, she's going to take it in.
	What about you?
	You don't know.
	Who do you think handles it better, men or women in general?
	Definitely men.
	I mean, just look at the army.
	Majority of them are men.
	They could take a man yelling in their fist, telling them, get the fuck on the ground!
	And the girl like, you know.
	Yeah, I can't do it.
	What about you?
	Can I say Transformers?
	I'd say they probably can't handle it.
	Well, they cry so much to use my pronouns.
	Okay, well then, men.
	Men?
	What about you?
	I feel like people want to say men, but I've met a lot of men that just, honestly, they're hiding their emotions.
	And they are taking it just as harshly as women are, but women are more expressive about it.
	Okay, so who do you think takes it better than in general?
	It goes both ways.
	Okay, very interesting.
	I mean, you're saying that the men repress it.
	Wouldn't that be a way of taking it better because they don't necessarily lash out with emotions?
	No, because they're internalizing it.
	But if you're able to internalize, that shows that you have greater control of your emotions, right?
	I don't know if that's the way that I would put it.
	I do say that women usually will react louder.
	So who takes it better than us?
	Taking it better is the way that you're processing it, not the way that you're reacting.
	So the way that they're processing it, I don't know if that's better.
	Okay, who's more likely to actually make changes from constructive criticism and or shaming than you think?
	That's a hard one.
	I don't know.
	Men.
	Men are very stoic.
	They show absolutely no emotion.
	And that's because they're literally taking everything in.
	They're going to figure out how they're going to change it.
	Because they're logical.
	Yeah, they're very logical.
	Women, a lot of times if someone were to tell you, oh, you're doing this wrong, we're going to just break down and we won't want to do it right.
	Oh, sorry.
	We won't want to do it right because we're so upset that they even told us that we did something wrong.
	A man will be like, oh, thanks for telling me, man.
	And they'll just do it.
	I will say women are a little more stubborn.
	At least my friends, like if I give my friends criticism, the girls, not the guys.
	When you give guys criticism, is it easier?
	When I give guys criticism, they'll be a little butthurt, but I feel like they listen.
	Girls, my girlfriends, I'll tell them, they'll be like, fuck you.
	So by your own answer, it's men.
	Well, if you want to put it that way.
	I mean, I'm just taking the duct of problem solving off of what you said.
	It's a little deeper than just one answer, is what I'm saying.
	That's why I said Transformers.
	We need to find the line.
	What about you?
	Who do you think takes constructive criticism and or shaming better, men or women?
	Men, most definitely.
	Okay, what about you?
	Men.
	What about you?
	I would say men.
	Interesting.
	Pretty much all of you said women except for this NBA dancer and then you.
	Why do you think women?
	Well, I'm just speaking of my experience.
	You know, like I, you know, because when I get shame, I don't, I work on it, you know?
	Okay, but I'm talking about in general women.
	Do you think you can criticize women the same way you're being criticized and they'll take it well?
	No.
	Yeah, I'm just speaking of my experience, but yeah.
	I feel like women will be more emotional.
	What was that?
	We can kill Twitch and Twitter and Facebook.
	Guys, come on over to YouTube and Rumble, please.
	IS goes, ladies, what is the biggest lesson you learned from your last relationship?
	That's a pretty damn good question.
	What is the most important thing you learned?
	We'll start here with Ms.
	C.D.C. Besides social distancing, what's the most important thing in your last relationship?
	Biggest lesson, I would say, just trying to get to know the person before you get your feelings involved.
	Alright, what about you?
	I don't really know.
	I think I learned not to date white guys.
	Oh.
	God damn.
	I was thinking I'm giving it a try.
	Damn.
	Wow.
	Okay.
	Oh my gosh.
	Big dick comes with big problems.
	Oh.
	Okay.
	She ain't lying though.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	I learned a lot from my last relationship, but it was also just such a weird relationship.
	Really just be protectful of yourself and just always be true to yourself.
	That is so cliche and so...
	Okay, do you want to dig deeper?
	Can you explain deeper?
	Ask me a question and dig deeper then.
	Yeah, he does.
	What'd you learn that was like, okay, you know what?
	We can apply it to ourselves.
	Just stay...
	I know it sounds cliche, but seriously, stay true to yourself.
	What he did to me was try to get me to be someone else to fit him and his lifestyle.
	And he was very controlling.
	Trying to change you.
	Very controlling.
	Just out of curiosity, what did he try to get you to do?
	What did he not try to get me to do?
	I mean, he tried to get me to not talk to friends.
	He tried to get me to delete my Instagram.
	He tried to get me to not wear certain clothes, not talk to certain people.
	And I know you guys are like, oh, this sounds great.
	But it's not because it totally was changing who I was.
	Someone should fall in love with me for who I am.
	And yes, it should be a respectful relationship, and if I wasn't who he was looking for, then fine, but it shouldn't get to a point where it's abusive and controlling.
	Wait, did he hit you?
	Yeah.
	Okay, that is not acceptable.
	However, I'd say other stuff.
	Did you hit him?
	No.
	Did I hit him back?
	Maybe.
	No, no, no.
	It was more like me protecting myself, to be honest.
	Okay, well, I won't speak on your relationship because I wasn't there.
	But I will say that it seems like he cared about you.
	That's why he was saying certain things.
	That's not an excuse.
	Not to hate you, of course.
	I'm saying the other stuff.
	Talk about the other stuff.
	Instagram dressing.
	I think the way that you guys are hearing it is more like what you see every day.
	Like, I don't want you posting this.
	I don't want you saying this.
	No, this was like...
	You have to show me everything you post before you post it and then it turned into you're not allowed to have an Instagram and then it turned into like days where he would take my phone and like hide it and just like yeah.
	How long were you guys together?
	We were together for eight months.
	Did you live with him?
	Yeah.
	Did he pay all the bills and take care of you?
	Well he had to because he didn't let me work.
	Okay.
	What did he do for a living?
	He is the vice president of a tech company.
	Okay, so he was a high earner.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Was he an attractive guy?
	Tall and all that?
	Yeah.
	Would it be fair to say that guys like that are probably going to have standards?
	I mean, yeah, everyone should have standards.
	And male standards, a lot of the times, I would argue, typically limit a woman's freedom to a degree.
	I mean, that's just the reality.
	That's how men are with women.
	They're territorial.
	And a man that actually cares about you, that has standards, they're typically going to limit your freedom to a degree.
	And that will encompass going out with certain friends, being on the internet, exposing yourself to certain things.
	I think a man, once he starts putting boundaries on you, it means he really cares about you.
	I'm not condoning him hitting you.
	I don't know what happened there.
	But what I am saying is that a lot of girls tend to misconstrue a man caring about them and they say, oh, he's controlling because he put limits on me doing certain things that I was able to do when I was single, but isn't that the whole point of a relationship?
	Be a leader?
	I see where you're coming from, especially because in relationships, it's a lot about compromising and having respect for each other.
	And it's your point of view and your perspective of what respect is.
	And some of that is covering up a little more, being a little more classy, not talking to certain people that could come in between that relationship.
	This was a little different.
	This was, you're not allowed to have any friends.
	You're not allowed to see friends at all.
	You only need me.
	Was it your female friends that he didn't want you to hang out with?
	No, it was no friends at all.
	I wasn't allowed to have one friend.
	How's the basement Okay, so you just didn't want to I guess You didn't like that he put these boundaries on you you felt like it changed you so be true to yourself is what you yeah Yeah be true to yourself obviously be respectful like You know when you're in a relationship and you want to change things about yourself for someone because that's who you're truly meant to be and And flow into.
	For example, if I found a guy where I felt comfortable, of course there's certain people I would stop talking to.
	There's certain things I would stop doing naturally because that would be a natural flow of things.
	If he was forcing you?
	Yeah, of course.
	If you were sitting here right now, would you say that you're full of shit?
	No.
	I'm being a thousand percent honest.
	What I've noticed about a lot of, and here's the funny part, I didn't even look at the chat.
	And I'm not saying this about you, but typically when women talk about their acts, they super over-exaggerate treatment and what was done.
	And typically they don't...
	What I've realized just from talking with the girls, because we actually had a girl say a bunch of stuff about her boyfriend and he called into the show.
	And he was like, oh, well...
	I would love if he called in.
	Wait, call him.
	We'll do right now.
	He's blocked.
	But if you want his number, you can call him.
	Because what I've realized with girls is they'll tell you what the guy did, but they never tell you What led to him behaving that way?
	Yeah.
	Girls never talk about their own behaviors that might have led that way.
	Maybe you were on the phone too much.
	Maybe you were talking to exes.
	Maybe you were dressing in a certain way or whatever and he felt like, yo, I gotta put...
	Typically men don't put strong boundaries up like that unless the woman has done something to somewhat deserve it.
	Not saying you deserve any type of treatment like that, but I always am skeptical when women tell me that men are controlling because they never say what they did wrong.
	Yeah, no, I totally understand what you're saying, especially because there's a lot of women who Are on the wrong side of things where they're like over-exaggerating or it's like they're very selfish and they want it to be all about them.
	This is not that scenario.
	This is just a weird scenario where he honestly has something weird going on.
	Are he hitting you?
	I'll give you that.
	That's messed up.
	Never hit women.
	I mean, I'm really about mental health and like being the best person I can be personally just because of all the shit that I have been through.
	All right.
	Okay.
	What was it?
	One thing you learned from your last relationship.
	There you go.
	Bam.
	I'm so sorry.
	Could you someone repeat that?
	One thing you learned from your last relationship.
	I guess I can piggyback off hers is that I would say knowing who you are as a person, what you're not willing to change, and what you're not willing to give in if you're going to dress up as a quote-unquote hoe.
	So what are you not willing to give up now?
	Me currently?
	Yeah.
	Probably my career.
	Okay.
	You're not gonna give up your career?
	My career, my education, everything.
	So if you want me to stay at home and be a mom and not work, I would have issues with that.
	But that's just me.
	Do you want a man that's like dominant and restorative and a breadwinner?
	I want to say yes, but I'm hesitating because I am also very dominant in my own way.
	I don't know.
	I feel like if I saw you being motivated and a breadwinner, it would motivate me.
	It would have to be someone that is a healthy competition, whereas if you don't just cry.
	Do you think men want to compete with their girl?
	Probably not.
	No.
	Interesting.
	Okay.
	And since you're a fairly masculine woman and you're competitive, wouldn't it be fair to say that you probably need a guy that's even more competitive than yourself and more dominant than you are?
	I would agree with that, yes.
	Do you think dominant men like dominant women?
	No, that's the problem.
	Are you going to change to find a man?
	It would have to get to the point where I actually achieve my career where I'm not actually striving to it on the ladder until I get there and I know what I'm capable of.
	Then I can settle down because it's not forever.
	How long are you going to strive to go up the ladder?
	I don't know.
	Stay tuned.
	We'll see.
	I don't even know.
	What if you never make it?
	Well, then, that's why you just settle.
	At that point, you settle.
	Because you're 26 now, so let's give it another two to three years.
	You're going to be 29.
	Yeah, I expire at 30, so realistically speaking.
	That's what I'm asking.
	It's not like you're a man and you have all day to find your stride career-wise.
	It's kind of do or die for you at this point.
	It's like, if you want to find a guy that you find super attractive that you think you can command, you might want to look now, right?
	Versus later on when you find your career and you're kind of...
	I'm not disagreeing with you.
	I totally agree.
	It's just about making the time.
	Is it important enough to me as a right now to make the time to do it?
	No.
	No.
	Okay.
	What do you think is going to give you more overall satisfaction in life?
	A family and children or a career and money?
	I don't know.
	I'm torn.
	I don't know.
	I can't answer that.
	Can you go ahead and achieve a career and money after a family?
	No.
	I'm gonna say no.
	Because when you are a mother and when you're a parent, I really truly believe that you are going to focus strictly on that over career and money.
	Okay.
	But it's possible.
	Because you can always go back to school and re-enter the workforce maybe, right?
	If you have the energy to do it.
	Yeah.
	But if you chase a career now and you wait until your 30s, do you think that you can have a family then when you're older and have a child and a bit older?
	I mean, it depends.
	It really depends.
	I'm not saying no, I'm not saying yes, but it's just, do you want a kid at like 38, 39, 40?
	Is it possible at that point?
	I'm not saying that it's not possible.
	It's definitely possible.
	Very slim chance, though.
	But are you speaking towards me?
	I mean, in general, a high-risk pregnancy is 35.
	By the time a woman hits 30, most of her eggs are gone.
	Exactly.
	So if you've got a finite amount of time to get the best guy, it would be better to do it when you have the best chance to do so.
	Wait, are you asking me if I want to have kids?
	Yeah.
	Oh, okay.
	Well then, that changes the topic.
	If I want to have kids...
	That's what I met my family, yes.
	Well, I mean, if I want to have kids, it would really depend on where I'm at with my career overall.
	I can't put a yes or no.
	Just say no.
	It's career first.
	That's fine.
	I mean, that's, you know, I just have come to realize that most women derive satisfaction or life fulfillment through family and children, not necessarily a career and income.
	Oh, that is true, but I also do have a son.
	Oh, okay.
	That makes sense.
	That's why she has that mindset.
	She left it out conveniently.
	That's why she's like, I can wait around and stuff like that.
	Why did the relationship end with the father?
	He was just a toxic person.
	It was not the right person.
	Stop the cap!
	Wait, so he was toxic and you gave him a kid?
	You gave him a kid.
	So he was bad and you gave him a kid?
	No, he gave me a kid Pardon me, okay, if I know someone's bad for me, right?
	Yeah, and I know that ultimately Okay, yes, yes, yes, yes.
	But at the same time, you don't go into that knowingly knowing, hey, you're a terrible father, you're a terrible person, I'm going to get impregnated by you.
	But okay, be honest though, you might have seen some signs beforehand.
	So this is where I was hopping off on her question, on her answer, is that knowing what you want, who you are, and sticking to it.
	Was he, just out of curiosity, was he like a breadwinner type guy?
	Yes.
	He was financially stable and everything?
	Yes.
	He wanted to provide for you and take care of the kid or no?
	You ended it.
	Did he even want the kid?
	Be honest.
	Did he want the kid?
	Yes.
	Yes.
	But here's where it gets a little bit finicky.
	It's like you say yes, but your action says no, right?
	So how do you gauge that?
	What action did he take that made you say no?
	Well, he was never around.
	Ever.
	Was he working a lot?
	No, he would be out with his friends, partying, gaming, whatever he was doing.
	Damn.
	Interesting.
	He gave some sperm and said, Sayonara!
	What about you?
	What you learned from your last relationship?
	- It was real. - Damn. - I would say I learned not to start a relationship unhealed.
	Like, heal yourself first.
	Make sure you don't bring in any baggage or drama.
	That's what I would say.
	Because that's what ruined it.
	Damn.
	Partly.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	I respect that.
	What about you?
	That was real.
	I was quite young.
	Like, probably like 17, 18.
	But, I think.
	Haram!
	Did your parents set it up?
	No.
	Haram!
	But nothing happened.
	It was a very high school type.
	Did y'all smash?
	No.
	Let's go.
	So, I think that he told me, or I guess my relationship told me, was that when he...
	Oh, sorry.
	When, like, he used to tell me about my friends that were girls, he was usually right.
	And I found out later.
	So, like, a lot of advice he gave me, I would, like, question it at that time.
	But now, as I grew older, I was like, wow, yeah, you were right.
	So your ex-boyfriend was right about girls?
	Well, like, about my, like, friend group, yeah.
	What did you say about them?
	They're hoes.
	They're hoes, yeah.
	They're jealous.
	They don't, like, they're not gonna really help you.
	And yeah, he was right, so...
	Damn.
	Listen to the guys, you know?
	Alright.
	What about you?
	I would say pay attention more to their actions compared to what they say.
	I think at the time I was dating this guy and he just said all of these beautiful things and I was like, yeah.
	Sold me a whole dream.
	Sold me a whole dream.
	Sold Adrian a fucking dream.
	I'm a good champion.
	Love bombing you So yeah Don't fall for the dream Yeah, so I was really just kind of tied to a lot of the things that he said and his actions weren't really like incincise with what he was saying a lot.
	What about you?
	Me?
	I would say you can love someone but you have to walk away for your own mental health.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	You walked away from your last guy?
	Yes.
	But you love them?
	I mean, I do, of course.
	You know, like, I dated here for like three years, but you know, like, when I have a problem, I want to solve it instead of you avoiding me.
	Why did you walk away?
	Well, because I was trying to have a conversation with him, trying to communicate, like, we have an issue, and he didn't want to talk about it.
	He ignored me.
	So the issue was, I don't know if you guys know, there is a group on Facebook called, Are We Getting The Same Guy?
	Someone posted him and, you know, they have a picture of him and they're like, hey, this guy is like red flags, blah, blah, blah, you know?
	And I was like, so, you know, I screenshot it and send it to him, like, yo, like, what the fuck?
	Are you on the dating apps?
	And he's like, no, no, I'm not.
	He's like, I swear I'm not.
	He's like, one of my ex probably posted it and, you know, like, stuff like that.
	And I was like, okay.
	And I was like, well, I was like, are you really, like, are you telling me the truth?
	Like, what's going on?
	I mean, your picture's there, you know, and it's a Tinder thing.
	And he's like, no, no, no.
	So he's like, I don't want to talk about it.
	And he stopped talking to me.
	For the whole day, he didn't talk to me.
	Next day, he says to me, good morning.
	I'm like, okay, good morning.
	And then he's like, you went out last night?
	I'm like, no.
	I was like, because you were mad at me.
	So I was like, so I assume you went out and like talked to other guys.
	I'm like, are you kidding me?
	I'm like, why would I be like, if I'm like having an argument with you, why would I go out and like talk to other guys?
	Because I'm mad at you.
	A lot of women do that.
	Well, I don't.
	That's the thing.
	I'm a real woman.
	You saw Nagy as fuck, man.
	You saw Nagy as fuck, man.
	Do I? But the thing is, I want to communicate.
	Okay, so you want to know why he was posted in the chat?
	He wouldn't talk to you about it.
	No, he ignored me.
	That's the thing.
	If you find my...
	How long were we all together?
	Three years.
	And it was on the third year that you saw this picture, I guess, came up after three years?
	Yeah.
	And did the girl say that he was on Tinder recently?
	No, no, no.
	Someone posted it, but there's no name of the girl.
	They just posted his picture?
	Yeah, on his Tinder account.
	Okay, but was it recent?
	Huh?
	Was it recent?
	No, it was like in 2022, but we were still together in 2022, November 2022.
	Hold on, you went that far back?
	No, you can go to the search bar and type in the name of the guy.
	Oh shit!
	That's crazy!
	So you don't even know when he was on Tinder then?
	But we're doing it since 2021, so why was he posted on 2022?
	I mean, it could have been old.
	It could have been an old Tinder profile.
	No, because the pictures on his Tinder profile were the pictures we...
	They're recent.
	Those pictures, like, we went on the trip together.
	So you broke up the relationship because he wanted to answer you on that?
	Yeah, because I'm like, okay, if you find my profile, I will move mountains to talk to you and tell you, hey, this is not me.
	Like, someone, you know, apparently he says someone posted, you know, like his ex.
	I was like, okay, if that was my case, I will go to your house, drive, and tell you, hey, this is not me.
	I swear to God, it's not me.
	But he instead, like, he didn't do that for me.
	He ran away.
	He avoided talking to me, and the next day he's like, oh, did you go out last night?
	I'm like, are you kidding me?
	So you broke up with him over that?
	Yeah, because I was like, you don't want to communicate.
	It's like talking to a wall.
	And then he talks about marriage.
	I'm like, how am I going to marry someone if you don't have communication with me?
	There's going to be bigger problems in marriage.
	And if you don't want to talk to me to solve the problem, how am I going to marry you?
	She threw away three years because...
	A picture on Tinder.
	It's not about the picture.
	It's about communication.
	I think that's more important.
	If you want to marry me, I want to be able to communicate with you.
	I want to be able to solve everything.
	What did he do for work?
	Well, he wasn't working.
	He was looking for a job, actually.
	So you were the breadwinner.
	Did you guys live together?
	No.
	So you made way more money than him?
	Yes.
	Did you pay for stuff for him?
	Yes.
	Yeah, of course.
	So, typically what happens is, a guy that's not making a lot of money, he's actually finessing you because, once again, he's not getting a job, you're paying for his stuff.
	Hey, I'll take advantage.
	Well, I didn't pay for all of it, but it's not like...
	No, no, no.
	You were paying for some of it, and then somebody else was paying for the rest of it.
	Now it makes sense why she was nagging him.
	Yeah.
	Let me know nag men that they like like that, bro.
	Because they'll be like, shut up, or else I'm leaving.
	Oh, okay.
	I'll be quiet.
	Like, women only nag men that they know they can nag.
	No offense.
	But he was getting a lot of things paid for, basically.
	No, no, but I wasn't nagging.
	I just want a man who's loyal.
	And a man who wants to communicate with me.
	Wait, did he pay for the vacations, too?
	Sometimes he will pay, too.
	Yeah.
	Cookie how money safe you know like yeah, yeah Like women treatment differently based on you know, I mean a bunch of different criteria static Status, finances.
	Honestly, it wasn't like that.
	I really like this guy.
	I'm all about connection.
	I'm all about connection.
	And I don't care what you have in your pocket.
	You know there's Wi-Fi and wire connections?
	That was Wi-Fi.
	Why?
	It was going off and on.
	I'm just saying!
	Wait, wait.
	Was that bad?
	It was a little rainy connection that day.
	There you go.
	What else do we got here?
	Okay.
	Camp, where's he at?
	Oh, I'm training to be a pro wrestler and I coach wrestling at my old high school.
	There's a video of a lady saying men that like wrestling is big ick.
	So ladies, do you like guys that are into wrestling or would you date a wrestler?
	If not, I got two words for you.
	Okay, raise your hands if you like wrestling.
	Oh, like WWE? I mean, I'll watch it.
	Shut up, bitch!
	I'm actually surprised.
	How many of you would be turned up by a guy that liked wrestling?
	Oh, you would.
	Really?
	Well, social distancing.
	yeah oh my god cauliflower air Disgusting.
	Alright, hey, Myron, I'm 23, getting out of the military and finishing my bachelor's soon.
	Where are my chances of getting selected for federal employment?
	This job market is about as fucked as the dating market.
	We'd be down.
	Well, I mean, apply to all the agencies, my friend.
	FBI is hiring, but they're typically going to want some type of work experience.
	You got the military, so that'll probably help you.
	But, yeah.
	What else do we have?
	Okay.
	Adrienne Chick Tweet.
	Ask her what's she on.
	Haha.
	I'm high on life.
	I think maybe they should have their own currency instead of inflating the U.S. dollar.
	Okay.
	Gentoo goes, shout out to Miss Oceanside from La Mesa, a good role model for other black women.
	That's nice.
	Thank you.
	Ah, man, I can't read.
	Martin, I commend you on your courage.
	You lost your voice and fought against the victimhood mentality on the previous show.
	I am an immigrant from India who works $6 an hour job and now successful.
	Shout out to your quote, privilege and visible to those that have it.
	Yeah, dude, I'm not gonna let these fucking idiots come in here and cry about they're not successful because of the color of their skin.
	That's a lie.
	Marvin, 10 bucks, goes, do women think it's acceptable for the woman to have a higher body count slash sex experience than the man for marriage?
	This is a good question.
	Ladies, do you think it's acceptable for a woman to have a higher sexual partner count than her man for marriage?
	We can start here and then work our way.
	Uh, no.
	Why not you sexist?
	I mean, a woman, it's...
	I don't know, like...
	Well, I'm speaking of myself.
	Yeah.
	I mean, I wouldn't...
	I'm not, like, I've always been the type of girl who's been in long relationships.
	So, my body count is very low.
	I just, I wouldn't be able to be intimate with someone like, I just, I don't know.
	Like, I just, I don't know.
	Like, who the hell wants to drive a, like, 1988 beat-up Honda Civic with high mileage?
	You know what I mean?
	All right.
	Beat-up Honda Civic.
	Okay, thanks.
	And then, you know, your body is like a temple, you know?
	Like, it's just, I don't know.
	Alright.
	Do you think it's acceptable for a woman to have a higher body count than her men in a marriage?
	Um, I would say no, uh, it's not, not, uh, cause I, when it comes to marriage, I think that men are the one that choose their wives.
	It's kind of like not the other way around.
	Like we don't go find our husband.
	They, they find us.
	So, um, I think a guy would prefer, actually I'm pretty sure for the most part, nine times out of 10, a guy would prefer a girl with less mileage, uh, You know what I'm saying?
	Like a girl with high mileage, I would say it's very hard to get them to be a normal.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Like when you live that lifestyle where you have sex with 500 dudes, you're not going to be the same as a normal girl that's probably, you know, might have been with one guy.
	You get me what I'm saying?
	It's just a different lifestyle, a different vibe.
	You get me?
	The vibe changes after that many.
	You're a bigot.
	You think so?
	Yeah, you're a bigot.
	What about you?
	What do you think?
	Can you repeat the question?
	The question is, do you think it's acceptable for a woman to have a higher body count than her husband?
	No.
	I guess when you're married to someone, especially being a wife, you have a responsibility, and I feel like you want to...
	Make your husband proud and kind of be his kind of like you know like you don't want your husband to be like ashamed of you and like okay there's someone a guy that pops up and he slept with you and now you're his wife and it's just you want to kind of like okay support and keep what about you what do you think?
	I don't think it's acceptable for a woman to have a higher body count than her man.
	Because a man is supposed to have experience and know his way around a woman's body.
	A woman doesn't necessarily have to know everything about what a man likes sexually.
	And also because when it comes to being a mother, you want to be a role model for your kids.
	Alright.
	Cool.
	What about you?
	What do you think?
	I think it's not acceptable, no.
	Damn, you guys are a bunch of bigots, man.
	Where were y'all on the last panel?
	Literally.
	Alright, so why no?
	I just think it's kind of trashy to be sleeping around, and then if you're...
	Well, I'm being honest, and if you're...
	It's fucked up.
	Well, is it though?
	Yeah, exactly.
	Because if you're with a man, and this is exactly what she said, and...
	If you realize, oh, this many men have been in you, like entering you, penetrating you, I think it's a very different scenario.
	Whereas if a guy has slept with many women, you would never, as I, okay, my personal opinion, if you meet a guy and he says he's a virgin, would you still sleep with him?
	No.
	Yeah, it's kind of tough.
	Right?
	Ladies, would you sleep with a guy if you said he was a virgin?
	Yes.
	Honestly?
	Yeah.
	Really?
	You would?
	Yeah.
	I've dated virgins.
	Just dated?
	Just dated?
	Wait, did you take his virginity?
	Where'd they go?
	So she didn't fuck him then.
	She dated one and she didn't take his virginity.
	No, I'm very respectful.
	Just cut.
	Alright, well.
	He didn't want to smash?
	My point proven.
	No, no.
	I mean, maybe he wanted to, but...
	But you didn't want to.
	No, I just...
	I liked our relationship.
	I liked how delicate it was.
	Oh, good boy.
	Good boy.
	Platonic.
	Platonic only.
	Stay in the house.
	Makes a lot of sense.
	Good boy.
	You do a fantastic job of not making sense.
	So you were saying?
	Well, she just proved my point.
	You wouldn't sleep with a man that is a virgin because if he can't find the G-spot after 10 women, what makes you think he's going to find one after none?
	Okay.
	There you go.
	Fantastic.
	What about you?
	Do you think a woman having more bodies than her husband is good or bad?
	I mean, I think it's bad.
	I would say, like, in a perfect world, you know, you'd have the same body count or, like, none.
	That's impossible.
	I think it just comes down to, you know, his perspective, your perspective again.
	It's all a perspective thing and, like, what you want out of the relationship and, like, what you're okay with.
	So why is it bad, though?
	To me, I mean, it's like a societal thing and I just would prefer to have...
	Smaller number that way.
	I don't feel like oh like I'm a slut, you know, and it really is a societal thing it really is a second ago be true to yourself Be comfortable and if he's okay if for some reason you have a higher number then that's yourself Maybe I would prefer to have a smaller number, just to be honest.
	If he's okay with you having a higher number, that's a you thing.
	That's a couple decision.
	What about you?
	Do you think a wife should have a higher body count than a husband?
	No, I don't.
	I feel as though the wife is basically a prize.
	You're like a package for your husband.
	How do you like it if like your Amazon Prime package comes caved in?
	Okay.
	That's a very good one.
	Way better than mine.
	Someone's been in this package before.
	That's pretty good, actually.
	I like that.
	Okay, alright.
	What about you, Ms.
	Venezuela?
	Do you think the wife should have more bodies than her husband?
	How do you really know how much body counts do the other person have?
	I mean, behaviors.
	Behaviors?
	Behaviors.
	But in general, what do you think?
	The vibe changes.
	Let's say your son was going to get with a woman and you knew that her body count was pretty damn high, probably higher than his because he was a good boy.
	What would you do?
	Would you be okay with that?
	He was really a good boy.
	Was he?
	He was a church guy.
	He wanted to, you know, live a good life.
	He wasn't, you know, running around banging a bunch of girls.
	But the girl that he gets with was a former stripper or dancer.
	All right.
	I really think that, yeah, like, I believe that women have to preserve themselves.
	Okay.
	And it's not nice to be fucking everyone around, I believe.
	Okay Yeah Damn Okay They'll preserve themselves Alright what about you Miss CDC Yes Besides diseases I agree with all the ladies Besides the disease So why should women not have more bodies than their husbands?
	Because I felt like you shouldn't.
	I want to piggyback on what she said.
	I wouldn't want other people to be pointing at me.
	Let's say if we're in public.
	And I'm a very private person.
	I can only speak for myself.
	We know.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, so...
	Question for you.
	How does someone adequately avoid STDs?
	I know this is very...
	I'm not having sex.
	How do you adequately avoid STDs?
	Well, I would say being monogamous.
	So being monogamous, right?
	Thank you.
	So one man.
	Condoms don't protect you 100%.
	Only 99%.
	And also, I know a lot of people are not educated about PrEP.
	But that also...
	Well, that only protects you from getting HIV. Yeah.
	Which is, you know, that's something that...
	They being, you know, they putting out now, like, we want a lot of people to get on PrEP and stuff.
	But because, you know, there's no cure for HIV. Yeah, there's none.
	But you can also get other stuff like hepatitis, syphilis, herpes.
	So question, do you get blowjobs?
	That's a good question.
	You know, I give it like a random job.
	I need to answer his question.
	I knew that was coming up.
	Another thing is, there's a theory that says you can get STDs from blowjobs.
	How true is that?
	You can, yes.
	But is it common?
	Yes, because it's bodily fluid.
	So, yeah.
	Bodily fluid.
	You don't want to do this shit in Miami, man?
	You know, the girl, but I'll get you a blowjob because it's safer.
	That's what they say.
	No.
	I have a question.
	Yeah, but I want to answer his question.
	So, being in a lab, like, you know, reviewing labs and, you know, you see people having leisures and...
	Alright, alright.
	So...
	Question!
	One more thing.
	I have a friend that works in labs too and he sees people that actually have it outside doing things.
	Right.
	Have you ever seen that?
	Like they have like certain uncurable STDs and they're dating people like normal.
	Have you seen that?
	Yeah.
	That's crazy to me.
	And they look perfectly fine.
	And you have people that are asymptomatic.
	So...
	A what?
	They don't even know if they have it.
	Wow.
	Yeah.
	That's scary, by the way.
	Yeah.
	I have a question.
	Do you actually, when you go out with someone or you're dating someone, do you actually ask them for their body count?
	Oh, me?
	No, like generally.
	Like everyone.
	Okay, I mean, no.
	I never do.
	But the actions is what tells you?
	Yeah.
	Women will never tell you that.
	What kind of actions?
	What type of actions?
	I want to know more.
	I mean, there's a lot of...
	Traits that promiscuous women have that you can use to decipher where she stands.
	But I think in general, men should never ask women for their body count.
	You just got to watch behaviors and watch it over a period of time.
	period of time.
	But give me an example of a behavior.
	Oh, man.
	Mm-hmm.
	Are we going to really reveal this and go down this line?
	Yes, please.
	Probably.
	She talks about this.
	Why don't we have a bed?
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	How about when it's your turn to ask a question?
	You can save it and we'll do it because that's going to be a whole...
	I'm going to forget about it.
	We don't forget it then.
	We're going to turn it to the ladies to ask a question as well.
	Because I know if I go down that road, we're going to absolutely go on a whole other...
	We've done many podcasts where we actually talked about like, hey, 10 signs, she's for the streets.
	We've done whole podcast episodes on it.
	And it's stuff that when I say it, y'all are going to be like, oh yeah, that makes sense.
	But men don't know this stuff.
	But you should never ask for a girl's body count.
	There's no point.
	And how do you feel about a girl asking you for your body count?
	Do you guys exaggerate?
	Do you know your body count?
	She might assume off of behavior, but once again, it doesn't matter.
	But do you guys know your body count?
	Yes.
	Do you keep the names in a book?
	Is it normal for a girl to ask you that question?
	No.
	Women almost never ask about that.
	I've realized that girls find it more attractive when you have a higher body count.
	Now again, that doesn't mean you tell her, I have a million, No, but the behaviors that you exhibit when you have a higher body count tend to make you more attractive because you know your way around females, so therefore you're more attractive because you've had a lot of experience and you understand what makes women go, oh, this is hot, versus like, oh, this is not.
	Now, she won't ask a question, but she'll make it to us like, oh, was your other chick last night?
	Oh my gosh.
	You'll get what I call temperature feelers of where she...
	When you're too smooth, she starts to say, oh, you do this with every girl?
	Oh, is this your pickup line or whatever?
	So if you're too smooth, that's what girls do.
	It's what I call a temperature feeler to see how you react and you always just play it off.
	So do you think you can have a high body count and still be loyal to one girl and just not really fuck around?
	Or does...
	High body count.
	Probably not.
	Count.
	Being a player.
	Well, it's up to the man to decide that.
	I think for the most part, you have multiple partners.
	You have a neurological response where you're like, okay, if I have a lot of partners, I'm going to want more partners.
	So having one may be kind of tough to be real with you.
	I think that's if you're younger.
	When you get up to your mid-30s, that's when your mindset's going to change.
	You think so?
	Yeah, because I've watched this podcast many times, so I wanted to ask my dad.
	Because I asked my dad personally, because my dad was a thot.
	He's probably a bigger thot than the both of you combined, to be honest.
	My dad, too.
	Because he was in the Air Force, so he's gone to a lot of different countries.
	Anywho, he told me all the women that he would go through, and he said that it was something about my mom when he met her, because when he met her, it was in a club.
	He said that by the way she was standing at the bar, he could tell that she was a virgin, which she was.
	So he was like a dog.
	Like, he can tell.
	And he stopped.
	He said he didn't have sex with no other woman after her, because there was something about her that was different.
	Stop the cow!
	- No, I'm sorry.
	- Wait, what?
	- Wait, what? - I mean, he's smooth.
	- He's smooth, right? - He had to, right? - He's smooth, right? - He had to, right? - I mean, I asked, I mean-- - No, you asked him, of course he lied to you, man.
	Come on, man.
	- I mean, I wanted to really know, like, do you, I mean, if he actually was sleeping around my mom He's not going to tell you.
	Once a dog, always a dog.
	Because I asked him, have you ever wanted to cheat?
	And he said, yeah, I've thought about it, of course, but look at your mother.
	I couldn't do that to her.
	A little close.
	I've even told him about the things that you both say about sleeping around having multiple women and stuff and he said that it's just because they're young guys and they probably are new to having a lot of girls.
	I think that's a good crutch though.
	that's what might be I mean it is 2020 we don't know that nigga like yo yo shut your dad by the way I will say this I will say this don't worry when you're a player it is a part of you And I get your mom is amazing, but he's going to have an urge for other women no matter what.
	So it's kind of like, he can say that, but I don't really know.
	I'm not there, but I can only assume from being a man.
	You can have an urge, but you can also control it.
	You can, but for how long?
	Forever.
	I mean, if you make a commitment to a woman and you say, you know what, I'm going to be with just you and only you, I want to start a family with you, then why break that commitment that you started?
	That's the foundation of a relationship.
	Well, again, like I said earlier, it's the man's choice.
	But it's super hard when you have multiple partners from the past to change that behavior.
	It's super hard.
	I also think it's your personality, though.
	If you know you're an alpha male and you're wanted, whether in your prime or your peak, and usually men are in their prime older.
	Sorry, when they're older.
	So then, when you get to that stage, I truly believe that it's harder for men to be more loyal to their woman.
	And I think it's you as a woman to understand and actually in a way appreciate that and respect that.
	Because women want what they can't have, let's be real.
	Same for men.
	No.
	My dad chased my mom.
	He thought she was going to move to New York for modeling.
	He's like, no, I can't let this go.
	Okay, and that's great.
	But at the same time, I think the overall concept of the general idea, the common theme of men and women, who is going to be more so...
	Doing that realistically.
	Are men going to be more promiscuous?
	Yes, but if you make a commitment to a woman and you say that you're a real man, you're honorable, you're all these things, I mean, you shouldn't break that.
	Let me ask you this, ladies.
	Let's go into a dream scenario here, okay?
	Gotcha.
	Let's say you trained in martial arts for 30 years and you worked really hard and you got your black belt.
	Right?
	But then someone tells you, hey, you got your black belt, you no longer can practice martial arts.
	Would you stop practicing martial arts after 30 years of training to get that black belt?
	What are the consequences?
	Yes or no?
	Would you stop martial arts after 30 years of training and you killed yourself to get this black belt?
	Would you stop?
	I would say yes.
	Really?
	It depends on where I'm at.
	At that moment.
	What about you?
	Would you stop?
	No, you've been training martial arts for 30 years, and you have a black belt, and now you're telling me, yo, stop training martial arts.
	Would you actually stop?
	If I don't have a good reason to.
	I mean, if there's a health problem or something, obviously, but if there's not a good reason...
	No, but you're fine, and you can still continue to train.
	And you're just getting better as you continue to train.
	And who's telling you to stop this?
	Someone who never trained martial arts.
	Oh, no.
	Of course not.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Would you stop training martial arts?
	No.
	Would you?
	No.
	Would you?
	I mean, if I find, like, a nicer, newer white belt, that can give me, like, five little gray belts.
	Bruh!
	You know what I mean?
	You're saying, like, trade your black belt.
	If you're talking about relations, it's never trading.
	I can find a shinier, newer...
	Okay, you know what?
	The person that's telling you to trade in for these gray belts has never stepped in a dojo in their life.
	Well, then they shouldn't be stepping into my life.
	Oh, interesting.
	So you ain't giving up that black belt.
	Okay, what about you?
	I'm not giving up that black belt.
	Okay, what about you?
	Oh, hell no.
	No?
	Yeah, most people wouldn't.
	Okay, so ladies, men being able to attract women is the equivalent of training 30 years at a dojo and getting a black belt.
	It's very difficult and very few men can actually do it.
	And when someone tries to come into your dojo and tell you, you need to give up this black belt, right?
	And no longer train in the martial arts since you've come to learn and love and struggle to get this black belt.
	You're going to look at them like, fuck you.
	You've never trained martial arts in your life.
	And that's typically the female experience.
	Women don't train in a dojo.
	Women don't have to work to be attractive.
	Men do.
	So once you learn that skill set, it's very difficult to give it away.
	Especially when men have to earn their sexual market value.
	And the other thing too that women get wrong is that male and female loyalty isn't the same.
	We show loyalty by being willing to die and protect you.
	You show loyalty through sexual fidelity.
	Men and women show their loyalty and commitment to each other in different ways because we are different.
	We are for different things.
	So our loyalty, it would make sense, that would be different as well.
	There are some women out there that will literally kill for the man, die for the man.
	I've seen a lot of videos of women literally shooting a guy that knocked their man down.
	Yeah, but the thing is that women don't have that natural instinct to protect and provide like men do.
	When they have children, yes.
	But that's for their children, not for the man.
	Yeah, it's more for their children and their children's preservation than the man's.
	Like men, we just gotta call a spade a spade.
	Men in general are deemed as expendable.
	It's been that way since the beginning of time because you need women to continue a society.
	You don't need men necessarily.
	One man can continue society with 100 women, but 100 men and one woman were fucked.
	We're dying off.
	So women since the beginning of time have always been looked at as more valuable.
	That's why I say women and children off the boat first, right?
	With the Titanic.
	That's what they did.
	The men died.
	The women survived.
	So, with that said, once a man gets to a certain level where he's no longer expendable and he's attractive and a bunch of women want him, he's rare.
	He's effectively the prize now.
	It's very difficult for men to give that up.
	And I think for women, they need to be intelligent, understand, okay, I got a guy that's a winner.
	All the other girls want him.
	They're getting dick, but I'm getting real loyalty.
	He's protecting and providing for me.
	And I think it's very difficult for women to put their ego aside and understand that, number one, you're not that special.
	Number two, there's a bunch of women that will do what you're willing to do.
	And once you reach a higher level of man, he's a black bone in the dojo and you've never trained.
	You can't tell him what to do with the black belt.
	I get what you mean, like completely.
	And, you know, rightfully so.
	I think the issue comes down to when you have these urges.
	Like, I know you like money, so, you know, I don't know if you've read the book Think and Grow Rich.
	So they have a part in the book where they talk about sexual transmutation and the fact that most men fail in life because they can't control their sexual urges.
	Now, of course, like, you know, you're a man, you're going to do what you want to do.
	Yeah.
	At the end of the day and nothing's gonna stop you but it's something to kind of just keep in mind You know as you go along with the journey and then obviously like having sex with women you already know that we're emotionally Charged when it comes to sex and things like that so it's like Are you really trying to fuck around with a lot of crazy women's emotions at this point you get what I'm saying?
	So it's a it's a it's a you know I mean, yes, men should absolutely control themselves.
	Men should, to a degree, control themselves.
	But what I'm saying is that once a man reaches a certain level and he's effectively a black belt and he's successful, why should he not be able to enjoy the fruits of his labor?
	I look at it like...
	Women get their satisfaction when they lock down the best guy that they can get, right?
	And it's like, oh yeah, happy wife, happy life.
	I think that's a fucking lie.
	Supposed to be happy king, happy kingdom.
	Because women never can really be happy, if you're going to be honest here.
	Women need to be in a perpetual state of...
	How do I say this?
	Chasing.
	Without sounding fucked up.
	Yeah, they need to be unsure of where they stand with their man to actually be satisfied, unfortunately.
	That's how female attraction works.
	Female attraction works by being sure they have the best man.
	And the only way that a woman is sure that she has the best man is when he's not sure about her.
	I'll say that one more time.
	The only way a woman is sure that she has the best man is when he's not sure about her.
	Keeps her on her toes.
	Keeps her attracted.
	Other women want him.
	That's what women are attracted to, unfortunately.
	I want to make the rules.
	It is what it is.
	It's a very...
	The unflattering reality with female biology is that women want men that other women want and other men want to be.
	So for a woman to stay attractive, she's got to feel like she has the best guy.
	You're saying no.
	Why are you saying no?
	I'm saying no because I feel like this is all coming from a hurt mentality.
	I think everyone wants what they can't have.
	It goes both ways.
	Okay, what did I say specifically that was hurt?
	I totally see what you're saying on both sides.
	Like, yes, women want what everyone wants.
	And same for men.
	Men want what everyone wants.
	But at the end of the day, what you really want is security.
	Men want what everyone does not have.
	What everyone does not have, but what everyone wants.
	No.
	Okay, so what is that, though?
	Okay, so men want what people may want to have, but can't have.
	Yes.
	Exactly.
	Thank you for reemphasizing.
	Okay.
	So would you say only religious men are faithful?
	So I'm still trying to understand here.
	What I literally just described is female attraction from a biological standpoint.
	What about that is hurt?
	I think that there was a lot of rambling, so I'm having trouble going back to it.
	But basically, women just actually want to feel secure in a relationship.
	That's what they actually want at the end of the day.
	So let me get this straight.
	You made a conclusion and said that that sounded hurt when you didn't even understand everything that was stated.
	What I meant by hurt is it sounds like it's coming from...
	A bad place.
	A bad place of hurt where we all have that.
	It's not you.
	We all have this innate hurt in us where we're like, oh, we want what we can't have and we want this and that.
	But really what we all want is security.
	Both men and women.
	Where did I lie in what I said?
	No, you didn't lie.
	I'm just saying it came from a place of hurt.
	Okay, so is telling the truth me and you're hurt?
	No.
	So then I'm trying to...
	No, but I think this goes back to the dojo concept.
	I think you're coming from a place of hurt.
	No, this comes back to the dojo concept where he's been working on it and then you just don't understand because you've never done it because you're a woman and you're an attractive woman.
	You're never going to get it.
	Maybe.
	Maybe.
	She's right, man.
	It comes back to what I said.
	It's funny because you said, oh yeah, give up your black belt and take these five gray belts.
	Your answer to my question literally illustrates that you don't understand.
	But at the end of the day, wouldn't you want what a woman wants, like security, like a family?
	What do you want then?
	This is where the issue rises.
	You think men and women are equal.
	No.
	They're not.
	No, but I do think at the end of the day, they kind of are innately.
	Okay, so since we're not equal, wouldn't it be fair to say that we don't want the same things in the opposite gender?
	Yes.
	But I think what would solve it is if we look deeper and found that we all just want security and a secure relationship.
	No, women search for security.
	Men don't search for security.
	That's why you were able to live with that guy for a while and he didn't care about you working because men don't look for security.
	So then what do men search for?
	You should know that as a female.
	But, going back to what I said, hold on, hold on, hold on.
	I absolutely know what women want.
	That's why we have this podcast.
	But what I'm trying to say is...
	Your answers exemplify everything.
	I said, you worked for 30 years to be in a dojo with a black belt.
	Your response literally was, give it up for these five gray belts and a white belt.
	That tells me in itself, you don't understand what it's like to train in the dojo, so therefore you're coming from a position where you don't understand.
	And what I stated before, you're saying it's a place of hurt.
	No, it's a state of biological fact.
	Men and women are not the same and we're attracted to different things.
	So, I mean, if telling the truth means you're hurt, then I don't know what to say to that.
	But I think that was kind of a deflection of me stating unflattering truths about female nature, and you don't like it.
	And that's fine.
	No, that's not true.
	Because I totally agree with you.
	Like, that's what everyone wants on the surface.
	So are you hurt to that?
	Yeah, of course.
	Everyone's hurt a little bit.
	I'm definitely hurt.
	Yeah, she's definitely hurt, yeah.
	So maybe you're projecting on me.
	I just think this ties into society.
	Nothing towards you, but society being more soft and not understanding because everyone's trying to equal and be level with everybody, but it's not practical and it's not economical.
	Someone else want to say?
	Oh sure, go ahead.
	Going back to the black belt, because I say yes, I will give it up.
	But, you know, I was saying it depends on the situation where I'm at.
	If I was younger, I would definitely not quit, you know.
	But now that I'm like my 34, I do want to meet a guy who's loyal and ready to settle down.
	If he tells me, hey, can you stop doing the black belt and let's get married, I'll be like, yes.
	Because I do want to get married.
	I want to have kids.
	So if that's the trait for me giving up training for a black belt, I will definitely say yes.
	I mean, you're 34.
	Exactly.
	But you know what I mean.
	But I do, you know.
	But here's the thing, though.
	Women don't earn their black belts is what I'm trying to explain to you.
	I see.
	Women don't earn black belts ever.
	You guys don't even step foot in the dojo.
	Yeah.
	A woman's value is given to her as soon as she turns 18.
	Oh.
	So, because you mentioned before, security.
	Men don't look for that.
	The guy that you got with that was successful, I know it was an abusive relationship or whatever, but he was highly successful, but he was okay with dating you and he was okay with supporting you.
	Why?
	Because men don't care about women's status and income.
	I think it was more of like a controlling factor, but I see where you're coming from, yeah.
	But he was with you, right?
	Females with one security, that's why.
	Well, yeah, I mean, yes, but I'd be okay with giving myself security over a man giving me security if he could give me security in a relationship.
	But that's you though.
	I don't get it.
	Money security versus relationship security.
	So if he provided you all the money in the world, but was still a toxic individual, you would stick with him?
	No, I was saying I would give myself security with finances.
	So you would work?
	Four.
	Well, no, that's not...
	Wait, what?
	Yeah.
	I would rather have everything paid for myself and have him secure with me in a relationship than him pay for everything and fucking around.
	Okay, let me ask you this then.
	The guy that you're with now, the Lebanese dude, does he make a lot of money?
	Is he successful?
	Yes, but I actually didn't.
	No, but that's not why.
	That's not why.
	He paid for the date and everything, man.
	How'd you guys meet?
	How'd you guys meet?
	Oh no!
	If people are watching this, they're gonna figure it out.
	So I'm from Indiana, and when I moved down here after my ex, I moved back down here to just do everything on my own from a fresh, clean start.
	My friend hooked me up with his number.
	We all thought he was still in a relationship.
	They were like, you know, you shouldn't be alone down here.
	He's from Indiana.
	You know, you got good Midwestern people around you.
	If you can, like, text him.
	He's supposed to be going to the same club that you're going to tonight.
	We ended up not going.
	But we followed each other on Instagram, kind of like kept in touch.
	And then I was invited out by him and we kind of like digged each other and...
	The point I'm trying to make is that socioeconomic status and income is an absolute metric that you need in your man, but men don't care about it in women.
	That's all I'm trying to say.
	Yeah, I mean, sure, but I would, again, rather make money and have the guy give me a secure relationship than give me a secure income.
	That doesn't change anything.
	What I've found, even when women make their own money, is they still want a man that makes about 56% more money than they do.
	So you making money does nothing but increase your own standards.
	And it's funny, you said...
	So money does matter then.
	Yeah.
	I mean, it's preferable.
	And it's funny, you said earlier, the guy, his status didn't matter to you.
	No.
	But you saw his Instagram before you saw him.
	So, I mean...
	Come on, you know.
	That had nothing to do with it.
	You know.
	So you didn't see any type of wealth?
	It's not about the wealth, whether I saw it or not.
	And Arab niggas always flaunt their money.
	Okay, I thought we were just going to be friends.
	No!
	I thought we were just friends.
	She saw the gold before she even got there.
	Oh, damn.
	Again, like I said before, notice how we're not saying you're hurt for wanting a guy that has his shit together, whatever.
	I'm just saying it's a biological reality that women respond best when they're with a man that they're not sure where they stand.
	It just sucks, but that's what it is.
	I mean, girls want a guy that...
	The woman needs to chase the man more than he chases her to maintain attraction.
	It's attractive when a guy is successful, period.
	So how do you guys feel about women?
	Do you want a successful woman yourself?
	Or do you not really care as much?
	It doesn't matter.
	It's not important.
	It is less important for the man and more important for the woman.
	Today you learned that.
	I already knew that.
	I just like to get a little deeper.
	I'm trolling her.
	I have a question.
	Can I say something?
	So would you say that men on all levels don't care about a woman's wealth at all and how much money that they're bringing in?
	Like even lower income, middle class?
	Okay, good question.
	The more money a man makes, the less he cares.
	The less money a man makes, the more he does care.
	But the thing I want to say that's very important is that a man's sexual attraction to a female has absolutely nothing to do with her socioeconomic status.
	That's what I want to say.
	Okay.
	So, like, no guy's gonna be like, damn, you make a hundred grand a year, my dick is hard.
	It's like, she's attractive or she's not, and then if she makes money, it's a plus, and then the more money you make, the less of a plus it is, the less you care.
	Okay.
	But if you're looking at this woman as a serious partner and you don't make as much, then her making money matters more.
	But you're not going to lose arousal for her.
	I think the important distinction is this.
	If she loses her job, you're not going to give a fuck.
	You're not going to be like, oh, I'm losing arousal for you.
	You're still going to bang her.
	But if you lose your job as a man, arousal will absolutely dissipate to some degree.
	Yeah, I agree with that, but men that are middle class and lower class, it is important for both of them to be making money right now.
	But the man's attraction is not contingent upon her money.
	Oh, just based on attraction.
	Yeah, that's the point I'm trying to make.
	I agree with that.
	He'll look at it more as a compatible partner, but his attraction to the woman is not going to be contingent upon her income, versus her attraction to him is absolutely contingent upon his income.
	That's true.
	Yeah, I agree.
	But do you think there's like a level?
	Like a guy can be attractive in like multiple ways, you know?
	But income is one of the most important.
	Income is attractive.
	Just success is attractive.
	It's a given.
	But it's not everything.
	It is one of the most significant attributes that I look for.
	It is absolutely one of the most significant things.
	And you're telling me as a former NBA dancer, you don't care about that?
	Come on, man.
	I do, but it's not everything.
	I think, you know, work hard for yourself and make it yourself and whoever's around can add to that.
	For any long-term relationship, money's going to be a factor.
	It's a factor.
	It's not everything.
	It's a factor.
	And the most attractive girls care even more about it.
	Come on, man.
	Used to be an NBA dancer around multi-millionaire successful guys like stop capping matches.
	If you try to virtual signal on this podcast, stop.
	Just call it a spade a spade.
	The number one reason for divorce is finances.
	And here's the thing.
	Ladies, I'm never going to shame women for wanting money on the podcast.
	That's fine.
	I'm gonna shame you for lying about wanting money on the podcast.
	Oh no, I'm not lying.
	We all want money.
	Yes.
	But it's just not everything.
	It's a significant component to the attraction matrix for women.
	It will absolutely disqualify a man that you otherwise would have given a chance.
	Let's say a guy was attractive.
	He was like, oh man, this guy's really attractive.
	Then you find out he's a barista versus he was a lawyer.
	It's absolutely going to change your perception on him 1000%.
	Versus if I went out with a girl and I found out that she was a lawyer versus a barista, I'm not going to give a fuck that she's a lawyer or a barista.
	That's the difference.
	You as a woman want the guy to provide for you.
	Yes, 100%.
	Keeping it at 1,000.
	Stack says, thought the BW in blue was a potential W for not doing OF. Then I was shown she gave it for free on Instagram.
	WDiscordL304.
	The black woman.
	Yeah, you.
	Discord game!
	No, my Instagram does not look bad.
	Is it fitness videos?
	Like health videos?
	Not yet.
	I'm transitioning my Instagram.
	I'm going to start deleting stuff and putting that stuff on.
	Okay.
	Diamond4 says, I'm making $195k a year.
	Got my shit together.
	Got a job in cybersecurity.
	Just want to let you know, man, you're a blessing since 2020.
	Much love, bro.
	Sending my balance statement in Instagram.
	Okay.
	PreciousDog.
	PreciousDog says, Myron, be careful, bro.
	CDC chick is going to stab you with AIDS. Blackwolf Inc.
	says, Angry Beavers, what body type would you want for your ideal man?
	In shape, making $30k a year?
	Skinny, making $50k?
	Dad bod, making $70k?
	Or Chubby, making $90k, like the land wheel took down from Myron?
	Or an obese piece of ish, making $100k?
	Booyah.
	That's a wide range of lists here.
	Ladies, what did you choose?
	30k?
	In shape?
	Wait, can you read the question again?
	We'll start here then.
	30k?
	In shape?
	Skinny?
	50k?
	Dad bod?
	70k?
	Chubby?
	90k?
	And land will obese?
	I see what they did there.
	100k?
	I see what they did there.
	Well, honestly, I don't care about that money, but I will just go with dad bod, because I like dad bods.
	Dadvods?
	Yeah, I think they're hot.
	It's very masculine, you know, I like that.
	So 70k.
	Yeah.
	At Dadvod.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Okay.
	For you?
	I don't want them real skinny.
	Yeah.
	You know, that's just my preference.
	I prefer a little thicker.
	Let's go Dadvod.
	Let's go Dadvod again.
	Dadvod.
	I love Dadvod.
	Alright, two for Dadvod.
	What about you?
	Um, I think skinny.
	Damn, really?
	Skinny, 30k!
	Yeah, because I feel like maybe he's younger.
	Wait, 30k is the entire year's salary.
	It's 50.
	I thought it was 50.
	You don't go on a vacation.
	Skinny 50.
	Skinny 50.
	That's the low, though.
	So 50k for the year.
	You want to go on vacations, get your hair done, all that stuff.
	Maybe we're growing.
	Maybe he needs to grow.
	What if it never grows up?
	Make with what to do, you know?
	Sacrifice some trips.
	Okay, so 50k skinny.
	You?
	It'd be between the skinny and the dad bod.
	I would ultimately say skinny because we could work on your nutrition and work out together.
	The dad bod, I can't touch fluff and be attracted to that.
	I'm sorry.
	Okay, so you're going to say skinny.
	The skinny, because we could work on his body.
	And 50k?
	He could lose weight though.
	I mean, he could be a bartender.
	Bartenders make like over 100k a year.
	Especially at my job, yeah.
	His max is 50k a year.
	Well, he could get another job.
	He doesn't want another job.
	If he doesn't want another job, I'd have to just settle for the dad bod, because at least he's making, he's not as much, but...
	Woo!
	We can go to the gym.
	Give it a good three months.
	He'll get solid.
	So your final answer would be dad bod.
	Dad bods are in.
	So dad bod three.
	Skinny one.
	I'm just reading.
	This is really difficult because if you had a lot of...
	Chris, keep the chat up on screen and stuff.
	I feel like if you had a lot of money, wouldn't you naturally want to make yourself...
	This is why you can't ask women this kind of stuff, because we could start diving into the details.
	Like, what's his name?
	What's his horoscope?
	Basically, we're just going off of body type and income.
	For now.
	He's a Libra.
	I would go with a dad bod.
	You can't go wrong with a dad bod.
	So that's four dad bods.
	But this doesn't mean go get a dad bod if you're fit.
	I couldn't do it.
	And you can work with the dad bod.
	They can work out, dude.
	It's fine.
	But they're daddies.
	I'll feed him better.
	If you meet a guy and he's at a certain age and he's at a certain body type, he's more than likely not going to.
	I will cook him high protein, low carb.
	Lots of guardians.
	It's interesting to me how girls think they can come into a guy's life and change him.
	You're not going to change him, dude.
	I'm not changing him, but I'm giving him healthier options.
	He's probably eating fast food and shit.
	It doesn't matter if he doesn't go to the gym and doesn't lift weights.
	This is why it's so important for girls to pick the right guy from the beginning.
	You're not going to change him.
	He's going to look at you as like, this is a dumb bimbo.
	I don't give a fuck what she thinks.
	Look at Gucci Man and Keisha.
	I mean, Gucci Man.
	He went to prison and went to gym.
	Apparently she's the one that changed him to make him look guinea.
	He went to prison and went to the gym there.
	He wanted to make the change himself.
	She might have aided him in making a choice, but he ultimately said, you know what?
	I want to change.
	I'm tired of being this way.
	But how old was he when he decided he wanted to make that change?
	Because he's saying when you get to a certain age, they're not going to want to change.
	So how old was he?
	Well, I mean, that's drastic.
	He went to prison for a significant amount of time.
	You're going to be in a gym.
	And he came out of prison in great shape.
	Yeah, but you don't think that a woman that is literally like a personal trainer lives in the gym that the guy's not going to want to, like...
	I'll be honest with y'all ladies, if you can actually influence your man to that significant degree where he was a fat piece of shit and then you get him in shape, you don't want to be with him in the first place.
	Because women are attracted to men that lead.
	Women want to follow, men lead.
	That's true.
	I feel like it's being a good assistant.
	No, by you getting him to get in shape, you're effectively becoming a leader.
	But what if you're inspiring your man and supporting him to do his best?
	Shaming.
	No, seriously.
	You don't want that guy.
	If a man needs your inspiration, he already lost.
	Wow!
	Really?
	You think so?
	Do you think so?
	I want to see his best version.
	The reason why is because women are inherently lazy.
	And what I mean by this is that women are naturally lazy when it comes to resource creation.
	Women don't necessarily work as hard as men.
	They don't earn as much money as men.
	And there's a bunch of reasons for that.
	A lot of them come to natural biological proclivities.
	Women are just lazier than men when it comes to creating excess resources.
	And the reason for that is because women's value is not determined on making money and being successful.
	It's based on, do you have a family and children?
	Women are very hard working when it comes to taking care of their family and their children.
	But when it comes to going out and making money and being successful, they don't have the natural proclivity that men do.
	So what I'm saying is that, why the hell are you going to get inspiration from someone that is not designed to work as hard as you?
	Because that's feminine energy versus masculine energy.
	So why am I going to go ahead and get feminine energy if someone that's lazy doesn't create resources the same way I do?
	We make up for what they lack.
	If he's lacking in the gym, you can help him get in the right headspace.
	That's masculine energy.
	It's masculine to try to tell your man to go to the gym.
	Yes.
	I don't think that's masculine at all.
	I think that's just common sense.
	It's your health.
	You have to take that seriously.
	Do you think it's masculine?
	Going to the gym, being disciplined, being consistent, dealing with pain, facing adversity.
	These are all masculine traits.
	But that's also what all the things that creates a mother.
	We have to be very disciplined.
	We have to do all of these things to be able to keep control of all the kids in the house and be able to provide for every single one of them.
	One of them is sick.
	We have to put our freaking cape on.
	We got to help that kid out.
	If this kid is sick, but it's taken away from this kid because we have to help them with their homework, we have a lot of stuff we have to do, too.
	It's not just simply just masculine.
	Yeah, but that discipline doesn't come in until you have a child.
	That's the difference.
	Like, for men, that discipline and that consistency needs to be in you from the beginning.
	For women, women don't adopt that until they have children.
	This is why, matter of fact, let's have fun with this.
	This is why career women that end up being lawyers or doctors, etc., as soon as they have children, what do they do?
	Bang!
	Switch!
	Whoa!
	I have kids now!
	Fuck this career!
	My kids come first!
	So, that's what I'm saying, like, Women are naturally selfish until they have children.
	Then it switches.
	So that consistency, that discipline, that being selfless, that comes after children.
	But for men, that needs to be in you from the beginning because you need to be selfless to be able to provide for a woman and for children in the future.
	So men cannot afford to be naturally as selfish as women are.
	And here's the thing, I'm not going for doing it.
	Go for it because you need to get the best guy to have the best children.
	But men can't be that way.
	But what if the man is already chubby and he wants to go to the gym and, like, work out and you're just inspiring him to go do what he already wants to do?
	Yeah, okay, but it was self-imposed.
	That's different.
	That's what I'm saying, like, if a woman's inspiring you, you're already lost.
	It needs to be from you.
	I mean, do you think it's masculine for a woman to, like, encourage him to be his best version of himself?
	Like, assisting him in whatever that he needs?
	If he already has the motivation to do it, fantastic.
	And she makes it easier.
	But her telling him, you should go to the gym and train, blah, blah, blah.
	It's an L. He should be doing it on his own.
	You should be making his mission easier, but the mission's already forged out.
	But if you're being his inspiration and he needs to go to the gym off of you, then it's an L off rip.
	Because women, again, back to what I said before, it's ridiculous, it's counterproductive to get your motivation from someone who's inherently lazier than you are when it comes to resource creation about your masculine imperative.
	And that's not to be an asshole or anything like that, but men and women are very different and we view the world differently and we have different strengths and weaknesses.
	And unfortunately, resource creation and being successful is not the female trait.
	Some girls are good at it, sure, right?
	But as far and few between, how many people are in your career field that are women?
	Actually a lot.
	Really?
	Yeah.
	Engineers?
	Yeah.
	Stop the cap!
	Really?
	No, I swear.
	I guess because the vice president hires most females, so...
	Oh.
	Yeah.
	What is it, 50-50 or what?
	I would say like 70%.
	70% are females?
	Yeah.
	That might be her office.
	Yes, in the engineer department in Virginia, because my job is in Virginia, it's 70%, but we also have the engineer department in Argentina, and we have in other countries, and I would say in India, in Argentina, they are mostly males, yes.
	More traditional countries.
	That's why I disagree with the idea when women say, I'm going to inspire my man.
	If you have to inspire men, you're with the wrong guy.
	But inspiring coming from like, they want to do it, and you're just supporting them.
	Okay, you're supporting them, cool, but you're not inspiring them.
	Inspiration is like support.
	Women love to over-inflate their role, man.
	Women love to over-inflate their role, man.
	Seriously.
	Next one.
	I'll tell you this, ladies.
	If you're with the right guy, your life should be very, very easy.
	You don't do nothing but be pretty and show up if you're with the right guy.
	That's really how it should be.
	You can give, like, I want to say, your touch or opinions on things, but ultimately he should be the one saying, you know what?
	This is what I'm about.
	I'll be able to support you.
	Once again, if you've got something to go to the gym, I mean, that's an L. No, like, he should want to go to the gym and he wants to go more because of you, is what I was saying.
	Like, it's not your rule to, like, make him go.
	I'm against that, too.
	It's like, oh, I want to go more because I'm in your life.
	I mean, think about it.
	If you don't tell your man what to do, is he really your man?
	I mean, like, you're the leader at that point.
	You're telling him what to do.
	He's not a weak man right there.
	I mean, that's not necessary.
	It's a weak man.
	I don't...
	I mean, personally, I love men.
	I want a man that I admire.
	So that's how I'm going to fall in love.
	If I admire you...
	How can you admire him?
	So he must be the authority.
	If you tell him what to do.
	Yes.
	Man needs to take the lead.
	For me, definitely.
	I mean...
	Alright, hit the elevator.
	I mean, you got to treat women like children for them to really respect you.
	If I'm going to be all the way honest, you've got to treat them like children.
	You've got to protect them from themselves, their impulsivities, their emotional outbursts, etc.
	That's why men have to be in authority roles over women.
	And I know you didn't like what I said earlier, potentially with boundaries and everything, and obviously he should have never put his hands on you, because that's a man that's out of control at that point, and not in control.
	But I think women respond the most favorably to men that treat them like children.
	Because he protects for you, provides for you, you don't have to really do anything, just be pretty, be there, be quiet, don't be a pain in the ass, help him out in the house, and you'll be good, man.
	So, women get mad at me and say, you're misogynistic, but women are attracted to men that have misogynistic tendencies by their fucking...
	Because, if you look at it, right?
	Chivalry, right?
	A man treating a woman like a gentleman.
	It's really infantilizing females.
	That's all it is.
	Opening the door for you, paying for the date, planning everything, telling you what to wear, etc.
	That's like a fucking child if you really look at it.
	Chivalry is literally infantilizing women and women love that.
	Oh no.
	Think about it.
	It lets you be in your feminine flow.
	What?
	Your child flow.
	I'm serious.
	If we really think about that critically and people, you know, controversial take, whatever, like literally women love being infantilized by a man.
	Think about it.
	Oh, I want to be a princess.
	Child!
	I want a Disney fairytale!
	Child!
	Carry me, child!
	Yeah!
	Is that not what you want, though?
	No, I mean, I'm not arguing.
	My thing is this.
	I don't have an issue with it.
	I will step into that role, and I'm okay with putting the woman in that position.
	My issue is when women try to lie about reality, about what they're actually attracted and aroused by.
	They want a man who...
	Does the shit that I do, but they'll sit there and say, oh, that's toxically masculine.
	Well, guess what?
	Women love toxically masculine guys because toxically masculine men don't let women pay for dates.
	Toxically masculine men don't let women walk in front of them.
	Toxically masculine men pay for the bills.
	Toxically masculine men tell them what to wear.
	Toxically masculine men protect them.
	This is what women want.
	They don't want no fucking soy boy.
	Oh, let's go have one this day.
	Oh, what do you want to do?
	Oh, wow.
	Your opinion is really valid.
	No!
	Shut up, being quiet.
	Being attractive.
	Shut up, bitch.
	Be cool.
	Don't embarrass me in front of my friends.
	And we're good, and you like that.
	That's what women want.
	Yep.
	Eight months.
	What?
	Anybody have anything?
	What do you say about the men who are not masculine?
	The ones that don't take charge?
	You know there's men that exist like that, right?
	So what do you say to them?
	Well, I would say women like you are part of the reason why they're pussies.
	And I'll tell you why.
	And I'll tell you why.
	Because I actually agree with you on a lot of your points.
	I just have arguments against some of the way that you come across.
	I'll tell you why.
	So earlier in the show, right, I said I gave you a biological reality, right?
	And here's the thing.
	A lot of men would agree with the things that I say.
	But when they vocalize them, they get hit with the, oh, you're hurt.
	Oh, that's toxic.
	Oh, that's controlling.
	Blah, blah, blah.
	So most men just don't say anything.
	Or, worse yet, they listen to women.
	Oh, you want equality?
	You want to be looked at as equality?
	I'll be that for you.
	Cool!
	Let's be equal.
	Let's go half on the bills.
	You pay for this day.
	I pay for the next one.
	Let's split everything down in the middle.
	But women don't like that.
	And I've always said women don't want equality.
	They want a dictator.
	Dictator is such an ugh.
	I'm Asian, I can agree to.
	I know what you mean.
	I know what you mean.
	I just ugh.
	Dictator.
	Yeah.
	King John.
	You gotta be a dictator.
	Hey, we're gonna do this and give you the dick.
	You want both.
	But that's what it is.
	It's just that, see, when I say these things, It's politically incorrect and it's looked at as like sexist or misogynistic or whatever the fucking bullshit buzz term that people want to use.
	But women are attracted and aroused by these things.
	The things that women like and are attracted to are not politically correct.
	So when I say these things, it's like, oh my god, this is so fucked up.
	This is so sexist.
	But reality is sexist.
	Chivalry in itself is sexist.
	It's different treatment based on your gender.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I agree.
	True.
	Okay.
	So...
	Anybody have anything?
	I only have to say that you have to be a little bit ugly to be really handsome as a guy.
	Ugly?
	What do you mean?
	Like don't be a pretty bitch.
	What do you mean by that?
	How does he gotta be a little ugly to be handsome?
	Isn't that counterproductive?
	As a man, you have to be a little bit ugly to be attractive.
	A little ugly in what way?
	Physically or what do you mean by ugly a little bit?
	I mean, it can be physically, it can be...
	Like personality?
	Personality-wise.
	Oh.
	Like you have to be an asshole, you mean a little bit?
	Yes, you have to be a little bit of an asshole.
	You can't be like...
	Don't you date women?
	Like a porcelain doll?
	Don't you date women?
	I date women and men.
	Because they weren't ugly enough.
	Excuse me.
	Excuse you.
	Okay, okay.
	Alright, uh...
	Wait a minute.
	I saw another hand or somebody wanted to say something.
	I want to make sure all the ladies get a...
	That's awesome.
	Okay, I'll read the rest of these things.
	Okay, Nicole Becky took a 13-inch BBC once in her life when she leaves that experience, gave her the wisdom to spread the doctor's advice.
	What?
	Probably her.
	Oh.
	Okay.
	Que pasa?
	I don't think...
	Was the last guy black?
	Last guy wasn't black, right?
	No.
	He was Peruvian.
	I'm not surprised.
	How would you constructively criticize and advise someone about exposing themselves on something that is incredibly damaging to one's future?
	What?
	I think what they're saying is if somebody who's on OnlyFans, how would you kind of tell them to maybe choose the light side instead of the dark side?
	If that's what it means.
	What?
	That's what it sounds like.
	I don't know.
	Who's asking the question?
	I think he's saying general.
	Okay.
	We'll move on.
	Fear, 100 bucks.
	Appreciate that, my friend.
	Thank you so much.
	Uh, Lenny, say you leave your man because you aren't happy and you go off and lived a single life, but your ex decided, uh...
	To get close to God.
	God damn it.
	And read the Bible.
	Throw it by yourself, man!
	Yes.
	Right here.
	Okay.
	But your ex decided to get close to God and read the Bible and go work on yourself every day and lift weights.
	Would you see attraction in him?
	No.
	No.
	I would give him a second chance.
	I had to see the actions.
	I would definitely see more actions.
	But those are actions, right?
	People say that.
	I read the Bible.
	I know the Bible.
	Yeah.
	I don't believe in people that read the Bible.
	They don't care, bro.
	You religious guys, bro.
	Unless you get with a super religious chick, most chicks are going to look at you as a pain in the ass, man.
	Sorry, bro.
	Tino has tipped 20.
	He goes, love the show.
	Guys, keep it up.
	Likes.
	Please guess the body count for each girl based on personality.
	Oh shit!
	Alright!
	I think it means ladies.
	Alright, so we're going to go ahead and have...
	You're about to start a fight.
	It's going to be fun.
	Miss CDC, go ahead and guess the girl's body count to your left and then we're going to go around this way.
	You know what?
	And guesses STDs.
	No, no, they want you guys to guess.
	This isn't us, right?
	You were next level.
	You brought it there.
	Chris, how many more tests do you have?
	We got Rumble.
	We got about 15.
	Okay, 50 and up, right?
	No, 20 and up.
	Didn't we make an announcement?
	No, that was before, though.
	The much earlier ones.
	Oh, okay, okay.
	Alright, so guess the body count of the girl to your left, and then you can correct her if you want, by the way, ladies, as well.
	Okay, so I gotta start from here?
	Yes.
	No, no, no, yeah.
	You're gonna guess...
	Do you want her to guess every girl on the panel, or each girl?
	No, it's gonna take too long.
	The one next to her.
	Yeah, just the one to your left, and the one next to me.
	Okay, that makes sense.
	Yeah, so go ahead.
	And then you will do her.
	So go ahead, give a number.
	What do you think her partner count is?
	Honestly, she didn't say a lot, so it's hard for me to guess.
	But I would probably say about 10.
	10?
	Alright.
	You can correct her if you want, or just stay silent.
	You're being nice.
	I'm a good girl.
	Okay, give her a number.
	I will say...
	Oh, she's looking at me up and down.
	I'll say...
	15?
	No, 2.
	Okay.
	Yeah, I do long-term relationships.
	Okay, what about you?
	I'd say 4.
	I'd say...
	Oh, she ain't correcting her.
	Alright, alright.
	What about you for Miss China?
	12, 12.
	You can correct it, you can say the number if you want.
	Like five?
	Like five, okay, so.
	Okay, cool.
	Alright, what about you?
	Hi.
	Jesus.
	There you go.
	Can you hear me?
	Yeah, go ahead, talk into it.
	You gotta talk into the circle.
	No, but I Oh, you unplugged it.
	Stupid!
	Push it in there.
	Can I use hers?
	Can I use hers?
	Okay.
	Yeah, what's the number?
	I'm going to go with...
	Eight.
	Oh, you're close.
	Damn!
	Stop the cap!
	Hey, you want to correct her or no?
	Yeah!
	My god, it's only four.
	I've been in two relationships.
	I'm not kidding!
	I've been in two relationships and then I fell off for like two times.
	Okay, and then go ahead and give her number.
	Two.
	Two?
	Two.
	One.
	Oh, yeah, because she looks innocent.
	Wait, did you marry him?
	Haram!
	Get the fucking...
	Abdul, get the rocks.
	Give her a number.
	Into the mic, though.
	Yeah, look up and down, do your thing, and then come into the mic when you're ready.
	How'd be it?
	13?
	No, lower than that.
	13.
	Stop the cap!
	Okay.
	Do you want to correct it?
	No, it's right.
	It is lower for sure.
	Okay.
	It's for sure, for sure lower.
	Stop the cap!
	She's at three.
	Three?
	I'm going to say three.
	Hundred?
	Damn!
	She is 34.
	She is 34.
	You're going to go with three?
	Come on, it's 34.
	Come on, man.
	Okay, 5.
	That's right.
	Oh, 5.
	Yeah, but they're all...
	Fuck yeah, I got it right.
	They're all with relationships, though.
	I don't do, like, the one night stand.
	Oh, yeah, sure.
	I swear, I swear.
	And then what about her body count, Miss CDC? I would say 5, too.
	You close.
	What?
	Is it higher or lower?
	More.
	Lower.
	That's capping.
	No, I'm not.
	I'm not capping.
	I guess you really want social distancing for her.
	Are you vaccinated?
	Oh, no.
	You're not vaccinated.
	I can't fucking sorry.
	Sorry.
	I'm a relationship type of girl, so I've been in like four relationships.
	Relationship with the vaccination.
	Yeah.
	When's the last time you fornicated?
	Last time?
	Yeah, last time.
	With my ex.
	How long ago was that?
	That was like in May.
	You haven't smashed since May?
	I swear to God I had.
	Girl, you gotta get out of there.
	What was the last time you smashed?
	When was the last time I smashed?
	It's been a minute.
	It's been a hot minute.
	How long?
	30 minutes.
	Actually, right now, I'm totally fucking doing it right now.
	Yeah!
	In this chair.
	I mean...
	I don't believe that's not my smash probably me me bro yeah okay her answer yeah when's the last time you smashed ms pakistan 2019 No, probably like two years ago.
	What about you, Ms.
	Geim?
	It's been a year and a half.
	I'm not even kidding.
	Last March, I... Wow.
	It was last March.
	That was the last time I actually...
	I'm not kidding.
	I swear.
	What about you, Miss...
	Like a few weeks ago.
	A few weeks ago?
	How many weeks ago?
	Like a week ago.
	A couple?
	A couple weeks ago and a few weeks ago.
	Was it in the month of September?
	She's blinking hard as fuck.
	Trying to say she didn't have love in a long time.
	What about you, Miss...
	Her parents with a letter, Myron.
	Myron, her parents with a letter, so she had to do what she did.
	What about you, Miss...
	No comment.
	I'm recently dating, but I'm not going to comment on his behalf.
	On his behalf.
	Oh, so you fucked somebody else.
	No!
	I don't know.
	He probably doesn't want me commenting on it.
	We don't know who he is.
	Nobody knows who he is.
	He knows who he is.
	Is he watching the show right now?
	I have no idea, but I wouldn't care if he did.
	But if he's married one day, he's going to watch back and he's going to know.
	It's online forever.
	Did you see him today?
	Did you see him today?
	No.
	Yesterday.
	Yes.
	There you go, yesterday.
	I don't know.
	Alright, what about you, Miss May?
	I fucked up.
	September 16, 2023, 9 o'clock.
	That was a week ago.
	Yeah, that was me and my ex's four-year anniversary and then I broke up with him this morning.
	Damn!
	Wait, why did you break up with him this morning?
	Because I prayed for a man like DJ Khaled and I got a blue face.
	Oh, shoot!
	Caved in the Amazon package.
	Yes!
	Caved!
	That's crazy.
	Bust down.
	I believe or surprisingly.
	Yeah, that was a little too detailed.
	What about you?
	What's the question?
	When's the last time you had sex?
	With a man.
	With a man?
	Yeah, thank you for clarifying.
	Not a girl.
	Eight months ago?
	When's the last time you had sex?
	Take that hat off!
	Holy shit.
	Last year.
	Yo, this shit is fucking crazy, bro.
	Yo, a girl is never now smashing somebody, bro.
	No, that's not true.
	Honestly, I'm not.
	Okay, so you're having a dildo?
	I believe it.
	She's practicing social distancing, bro.
	No.
	I don't need one.
	I feel like that's making you feel...
	How do you get off?
	I really don't have sex at all ever since my last Okay Alright, a flying raptor.
	Myron, you trying to get your ESG score up or something?
	This is a hella diverse panel tonight.
	She's fresh.
	Fuck the haters, bro.
	People really think they know you.
	Stay true to yourself, WFNF. Shout out to you, bro.
	Sounds familiar from earlier.
	The handyman goes, little Oprah next to you.
	Myron You're trying to say You look like Oprah Winfrey I love it I love it What's the question?
	You get a mask Wow You get AIDS! If a woman in your relationship out of...
	Oh, question for the women.
	If a friend...
	If a friend, you're a relationship out of jealousy, would you try to fix the friendship or move on with your relationship?
	What the fuck did they say?
	I'm lost by your question, my friend.
	Please try to correct it.
	From now on, we are not calling them Transformers anymore.
	or we're calling them Decepticons.
	That's good.
	Princeton-ness.
	Is feminism for you good or for your doom?
	Why W Freshman and FNF crew?
	How many of you think feminism is good?
	Raise of hands.
	None of y'all think feminism is good?
	No, not at all.
	All of you think feminism is bad?
	Horrible.
	Good panel.
	Horrible.
	Damn.
	Okay.
	I'm speaking for myself.
	We're based.
	Like I said, I like the men to take the lead, so...
	Exactly.
	And they think being naked online is body positivity.
	Absolutely the fuck not.
	So why is no one married then?
	Oh, shit.
	I mean, I already told you.
	I made it perfectly clear.
	I guess I'll say it again.
	Before you get into a relationship, you don't want to have any baggage.
	You want to have a clear mind.
	And if you have baggage, get that shit fixed.
	It's good.
	A lot of people try not to get married for such a while.
	You know, for yourself.
	I don't know why, but...
	Question for the woman, if a friend tried to ruin your relationship, okay, out of jealousy, would you try to fix the friendship or move on with the relationship and hope the friend gets it together?
	Okay, so you're with a man that you like, okay, all y'all are leaving?
	Fuck that bitch?
	No, that friendship's over.
	The bitch is jealous.
	I don't have time for a jealous energy.
	I'll make it simple.
	How many of you tried to fix the friendship with her?
	Raise your hands.
	I've been through this situation before, and I kind of tried, but once I saw it was kind of getting to the next level, that jealousy is something more deep-rooted than...
	I feel like you as a friend, you can never go into your friend's relationship because you're always going to be a bad man.
	You're never going to be right, and they're always going to get back together.
	That's very true.
	It's also not your place to say.
	A friend should like what's best for you.
	So if that's the relationship, why are they getting in between you and your man, you know?
	Would you guys agree that women typically ruin good relationships like single friends?
	I agree.
	They can.
	They can.
	They can give you purposely bad advice.
	I think this goes down to when women want what they can't have and when a woman sees a good, you know, I'm just saying.
	Interesting.
	I start giving my friends advice in their relationships just because they're always going to go back into them.
	So why am I going to bother to give them anything?
	Yeah, just date them.
	Yeah, just keep crying, bitch.
	Just keep crying.
	Keep crying, bitch.
	Girls who do want you to be down and shit.
	Venezuela doesn't care.
	All right.
	Girls these days think they can just decide to pick up a marriage like it's coffee at Starbucks all the time.
	Also, the only marriage that matters is one that lasts.
	Edgar goes, Myron, what's the shampoo for hair restoration?
	I'm 24 and already have a patch on the side of my head.
	Your hair's looking good, Myron.
	I did a hair transplant, and then I also use Intelligent Elephant.
	It's a shampoo, but also for hair restoration.
	Use the code FRESH at checkout.
	I'll get the link for y'all.
	Mo, can you pull that up real quick for them?
	It's...
	Derek for more plates, more dates.
	It's his company.
	Shout out to him.
	Intelligent Elephant is what I use for my shampoo and conditioner.
	That means it works well.
	Yeah, it's pretty good.
	What's your opinion on MLM companies like Primeric or Avon, like my ex for trying to be a boss babe.
	Now she's been...
	Huh?
	Trying to crawl back to me.
	Went from 60 to 105k, y'all saved my life.
	Number one, don't take her back.
	Fuck that bitch.
	And then number two, I don't know enough about MLMs to talk about it, bro.
	Sorry.
	I think for development, if you're an average person, the books you read, the environment, people you're around will help you grow.
	But the business itself is kind of like iffy because you have to get people to join your team and it's always going to be either detriment.
	So it's kind of tricky, that industry.
	But, you know, it's the way it is.
	Pick a better industry.
	That handyman says, Ms.
	Clark is literally the most logical woman and black woman to be on FNF. Oh, that's nice.
	Clark, start a podcast, save these pre-304s from buying cats to be happy.
	Shout out to FNF and the crew.
	BW Saving Humanity.
	Can I respond to that?
	Ms.
	Clark, sure, go ahead.
	I look up to Candace Owens, and honestly, she really helped mold me, honestly.
	She, to me, is an inspiration.
	Besides my mother, of course my mother.
	But outside of my mom, Candace Owens, for sure.
	And honestly, watching your guys' podcast helped me realize, like I said, what I've been doing wrong and things about myself that I needed to change and fix.
	I mean, I know a lot of people talk about how therapy doesn't really do much, but I think that you guys are also part you guys are like therapists Not like I mean, honestly Not licensed I'm being so angry Not licensed I mean, sometimes, you know, because we brought psych hacks on and he gives therapy and he's a psychologist and one of the things he says is that he's real big on telling people, okay, well, you fucked up and you need to do this It's not just listening to their problems, it's actually coming up with actionable solutions as well.
	That's very important.
	But no, skudos to you for realizing, okay, I need to improve and taking the steps.
	A lot of women don't do that.
	And I didn't think I was ever going to get that from your podcast ever.
	Because when I very first watched you, I did not like you guys.
	Yeah, I'm sure.
	Of course.
	But then I kept watching it more than I kept realizing the patterns that I was doing.
	I was like, oh, fuck.
	You guys are actually right.
	This is the way you guys say it sometimes.
	Of course.
	Of course.
	It's time to get hung up on how we say things.
	But I've always said, a lot of married women watch this.
	If women watched this, bro, they would find a husband.
	I'm serious.
	They would be able to find a guy, keep him, and get married.
	Yeah.
	And you would know what men actually want from you.
	Yeah, you would know.
	No, you'd think what they should want.
	Yeah, they would know what they really do want.
	Alright, cool.
	What else do we got here, Chris?
	And then we're going to get your ladies' last thoughts and then get you guys out of here.
	Hey, white lady, realize you're stupid and speak less.
	You're making us other whites look like window lakers.
	That is fucking insane.
	Miss Kwan, do you have anything you want to say back to him?
	All love to you.
	All love to you.
	Wow.
	Kindness.
	Love it.
	Yeah.
	But in reality, it's fuck you, motherfucker.
	Yeah.
	Question for ladies.
	Should paternity test be mandatory before a man signs a birth certificate and or paternity fraud be a criminal offense?
	Yes.
	Okay, so two-part question.
	Should paternity test be mandatory before a man signs a birth certificate?
	Yes.
	You guys, raise your hands if you think it should be.
	I mean, if you're married, no.
	Yeah, if you're married, that's true.
	So only two of you think it should be mandatory?
	No.
	I don't think so.
	Who are you with?
	Like, who'd you get with?
	That's like saying if you got with a good Christian woman, you're really gonna say, I'm gonna go get a paternity test.
	Like, that's insane.
	If you're married, you know.
	People cheat in marriage, by the way.
	Should it be mandatory?
	Yes.
	Should it be mandatory?
	For sure.
	Yeah, who thinks it should be mandatory?
	Yes or no?
	Okay, so only three of you.
	Four.
	Okay.
	I don't know.
	There's been times women have gotten married, and they had sex before they got married, and that guy I married her wasn't a father.
	And he's on the birth certificate, so he has to pay child support.
	How about this?
	What of your son?
	Yeah, now we're going to switch it up.
	If it's your son, should he get a paternity test before he signs the birth certificate?
	Depends on the lady.
	I think every baby should get a paternity test.
	Okay, you think it's every?
	But if it was your son, would it change your mind?
	Would you say yes now?
	I'd have to get to know that girl, to be honest with you.
	That's what I'm saying.
	If I see that she's trifling, yeah, I would tell her, you need to get the DNA test.
	A lot of times, moms know.
	The kids won't listen.
	If you say, oh, your girlfriend's a hoe, or she has hoe tendencies, he's not going to listen.
	Mom, no, you don't know her like I do.
	If I notice that, yeah, I would tell them.
	But if I know that she's actually a good girl, I mean, what was the point of doing that?
	People can lie very well.
	I don't see a point in doing that.
	I think in today's day and age, with the way how women are so devious, I think it should be mandatory paternity testing.
	Mandatory, for sure.
	Just because they set people up all the time for that check.
	You guys are shocked at how many women...
	It's going to get the man.
	There was some kind of shocking stat that came out that, like, Something, wow, like one in three or one in four or five men go to get paternity tests and they can't disclose it, obviously.
	Or maybe at the birth clinic.
	Either way, it's some staggering number of men.
	The child is not theirs, but the doctors can't tell them that because of confidentiality for the mother.
	I think it's going to be better for the man, too.
	It's going to give him more ease.
	Speaking of setup, Ms.
	Clark, so you're saying that you've had sex in what?
	A year?
	It's been a year and a half.
	And your IG isn't that bad?
	I don't think it's that bad.
	I need to take some stuff off.
	Do we have YouTube on or not?
	Oh, shit.
	No, Mo?
	Mo, you good?
	Yo, Mo's like it or die, bro.
	Yo, it's bad, bro.
	It's bad?
	It's bad.
	I don't think it's that bad.
	How bad?
	I know the size of your areolas.
	I'm crying, no.
	Oh my god.
	Oh my god.
	What?
	Shadow Realm.
	Okay, ready?
	Nick, what are you doing, bro?
	We're going to Shadow Realm?
	Okay.
	That niggas pulled up her Instagram?
	Oh, shit.
	Bro, look at that shit, bro.
	Yeah, but she's hot as shit.
	That's so cute.
	Honestly, I want to hear what the guys have to say.
	I mean, honestly, I don't think it's that bad.
	Alright, Mo, why did you laugh so hard from looking at this?
	Wait, who's that nigga?
	Oh my god!
	Who's that nigga?
	That's Dave East, because I met him on set when I did my very first music video for Nipsey Hussle, Double Up.
	He was there, so I say, oh, can I get a picture?
	Shut up, Dave East, man.
	And then you guys asked me about when the last time I had sex.
	I kid you not, it was last March.
	I don't like being touched, to be honest with you, by other men that aren't for me, or that aren't mine.
	I'm not even joking, I really don't.
	Alright, Mo, why were you dying so hard?
	You're talking about women, bro.
	So what?
	Explain, mom.
	Explain.
	Go ahead.
	I want to laugh, too.
	You watch the show.
	You should have known better.
	I understand.
	I understand.
	You watch the show.
	You should know better.
	I mean...
	You know you're sexualizing.
	Come on.
	You watch the show.
	You know better.
	That's why I'm here too.
	If you guys tell me that and tell me what is too much, I'll take it down.
	I mean, do what you want.
	I don't want to tell you what you want.
	Tell her what to do and what to not do.
	When I say that, when you as men are looking at that and you think that I'm over-sexualizing myself, let me know and then I will take it down.
	Pretty much any bikini pic, you know, that's what they do.
	Any bikini pics, anything showing thongs, showing ass, anything like that, pretty much too much skin, yeah, anything like that.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Listen, you know better.
	Yeah, you know better, man.
	You know better.
	That Instagram doesn't drop up with the woman I spoke to.
	I'm like talking to her and I'm like, wait, hold on.
	What the fuck?
	This is like a...
	So, I mean, my thing is, if a man's gonna take you seriously, he's definitely gonna have an issue with that IG. 1000%.
	Bro, like, Chad was saying, yo, yo, Chris Miller is bad.
	I'm like, it's not bad, man.
	I saw it, I was like, this is like, probably top three, man.
	Top three.
	Top three.
	And then the chats...
	I want to say top three, but it's definitely not good.
	Compared to what you said, the size of her nipples and the color, that's pretty bad.
	Pisties?
	No, hell!
	Really?
	Bro.
	Can I do it?
	I made it on screen.
	Bro, look at this.
	I made it.
	I made it on time.
	Bro, look at this.
	That's pretty bad.
	Sorry, Candice.
	Come on, man.
	Candice is literally rolling her cheer.
	Because Candice actually talks about this like sexualizing herself on social media.
	Yeah. - That's Moe.
	I can take accountability, okay?
	I'm taking it!
	A lot of girls don't know that.
	Like bikini pics, you know, dudes kind of think a little something else.
	They don't know that, though.
	They really don't.
	She actually brought the worst pictures to wrap before she came on.
	Everybody get these things to follow.
	Yo, this nigga has to get every fucking night.
	She got you, nigga.
	But yeah, but pictures isn't all of who I am.
	No.
	I understand.
	Yeah, but just listen to me speak.
	It's not like, I mean...
	Here's the problem.
	Everything you just said now is invalidated.
	Think about that.
	No, no, no, legit.
	I'm going to give you some game here.
	Everything you said, all the things you said, now has been invalidated off your Instagram.
	But I really don't have sex, like, at all.
	I kid you not.
	I really don't.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	I understand that, but I'm saying in the public eye now, they're going to, oh, that really articulate, like, really logically sound female.
	Now they're going to be like, ah, she's one of those.
	That's how they're going to look at it.
	That's how men think.
	You know what's crazy?
	You know what's crazy?
	You speak very well and you know what's going on.
	Yeah.
	But then when a guy sees that, he's like, damn.
	He's not going to take you seriously.
	I understand.
	Because it's perception.
	So you speak very well, and what you're saying is right.
	Here's the other thing, too.
	Like I've always said, if you're a woman, and you're actually intelligent, and you have a good head on your shoulders, whatever, the last thing you want to do is sexualize yourself.
	Because what ends up happening is men just look at that, and that's all they equate you to.
	No matter how smart you are, no matter how well-rounded you are, they're just going to be like...
	Die, that's all they're gonna say.
	Uh, I want to...
	No, I want to...
	No, I want to...
	Yo, bro.
	You must smack him back.
	No!
	You must crush that man's dreams, bro.
	Swag him back.
	That was one of the best laughs I've ever had.
	- Hey, I have to hold up, man. - At least I don't have an OnlyFans, okay?
	- Oh, I don't, I don't. - I mean, you might as well. - No, you might as well, man.
	- Oh, God. - Somebody found one? - I can take it all and take what you guys say It's gonna be gone.
	I'll tell you this, if someone that actually spoke to you and heard you before I saw you, Yeah, a lot of guys are going to be disappointed.
	I understand.
	Yeah, a lot of guys are going to be disappointed.
	So, you definitely...
	Hey, man.
	I understand.
	And I'm only telling you that advice because you actually have a good head on your shoulders and you listen.
	Yeah.
	So, I'm telling you that after speaking with you, then seeing that, I'm like, oh, wow.
	Yeah.
	Actually...
	I feel like I've disappointed you.
	I feel bad now.
	Yo...
	If I was a guy that was trying to date you, I'd be like, fuck.
	I'd be really pissed.
	Stack says, hell no, Ms.
	Clark.
	Candace Owens would rip you.
	Fuck out of here.
	I love you, Candace.
	I'm sorry, Chad.
	I'll do it, my arm.
	Hey, well, you know what?
	She learned.
	Thank you for shaming me.
	Don't worry about it.
	I take back my black queen status.
	No!
	Take it back!
	Don't take it back!
	You will be now known as-- Everybody take that shit back!
	Bro, bro!
	I just completely know how force a fit, bro.
	The refurbished queen.
	No, no, no, I'm not a bitch.
	I didn't say you were.
	You're so cool.
	She was like, she couldn't understand you.
	She was like, refurbished.
	Refurbished.
	Come on, man.
	I'll change.
	I'll change.
	I'll be a better woman.
	I swear.
	We got this handyman.
	You just want to make fun of a white girl again.
	No, we got that one too.
	Yeah, we have too much fun over here.
	Someone I know knows a guy who has two daughters, a five and seven, and a newborn.
	After baby was born, some drama happened.
	He did a paternity test and found out all three kids weren't his.
	They should all get paternity tested.
	Oh my God.
	And please excuse me, I don't have the stat on hand, but I'm going to go look it up.
	But yeah, some wild number of men are not the biological fathers, but the doctor can't disclose it because of HIPAA laws and the privacy of the woman.
	I didn't know that.
	Happens all the time.
	And men can't insure a paternity like women can.
	So, I mean, the baby's yours because it's clearly inside you.
	We can't insure it, though.
	Where we at here?
	Bro, I'm dead.
	Chris?
	I'm dead, bro.
	Man, man.
	Yeah, I want my $50 back for the handyman.
	A flying raptor against someone I know.
	Follow Jesus, man, and everything else will fall and land.
	Oh, that's...
	Hey, Jenny, when are you coming to the show, nigga?
	I'm out here catching cup-kicking people, if you know what I'm saying.
	Come back on the pod.
	EDP. Yeah, facts.
	This one wasn't that bad.
	God bless FNF and Zerco.
	Remember, get that date IQ. Let's go.
	Shout out to Zerco.
	Let's go.
	And then last three here, or two.
	A woman will never cry for the things she has done, but will always cry for the consequences she has to pay.
	True.
	Goddamn.
	She's trying to say that.
	Y'all cry for fake.
	Question for Myra, Chris, and Moe.
	Would you actually take a girl who's a born-again virgin seriously, or would you say that she's still a cat?
	She's 100% cap, bro.
	I mean, born again means that you did stuff in the past to be born again.
	So that means your past is kind of crazy, which means, ultimately speaking, you may go back to your past.
	So I would say no.
	Yeah, it's a no for me, too.
	Chris?
	Yeah, no, man.
	Come on.
	Yo, you know what girls say?
	Oh, I don't drink anymore.
	Why you don't drink anymore?
	Oh, any stuff that I didn't like in the past, I'm good.
	No matter how much a woman tries to convince you, she can never go back.
	That will answer one of her questions before, because she said, how do you tell a promiscuous woman?
	We'll get into that.
	Hey, y'all.
	How do I remember your questions?
	You see, I totally forgot about that shit.
	How do I remember it so far?
	All right.
	He goes, hey, y'all.
	W Myron, W Fresh, W Chris, W Moe, W Blitz.
	Fuck the fresh haters.
	You're a legend.
	Big love from Toronto.
	Shout out to Canada, man.
	We love y'all, man.
	Hey!
	All right, so we'll go ahead and give it to the ladies for last thoughts and other questions.
	We'll start right here with Miss Engineer.
	Oh, God.
	What?
	I don't know.
	How was the show for you?
	Yeah, last thoughts, criticism, disagreements, questions, whatever it may be.
	Oh, okay.
	Actually, I like the show.
	It's very fun.
	Yeah.
	I feel like you guys are not, like, you guys are very smart, too.
	Oh, thanks.
	Yeah.
	I can, you know, have a good argument with you guys.
	You guys don't, like, I don't know, like, on IG, it makes me think that you guys are, like, rude or something, but honestly, like, it's not, and I enjoy it.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	Are you going to nag the next guy?
	I wasn't nagging.
	100% I wasn't.
	I just want a good communication with a man.
	That's what I want.
	Get with a guy that's on your level.
	Ladies, please, if you guys want to be happy, meet a man that at least makes as much money as you, if not more.
	That's the only way you're going to be satisfied.
	Trust me, I know female nature better than y'all.
	You're going to be angry if you're with a bum.
	Alright, so what I think is...
	Welcome back, right?
	Yeah.
	Yes, it's good to be back.
	Well, I think that we live in a really fucked up culture, just in general.
	And so, unfortunately, a lot of decisions that women make devalues us.
	Obviously, throwing that cat around like crazy, that's not what you want to do.
	And I think that more women should focus on giving men something to respect more.
	So, here's what I propose.
	National No Pussy Month.
	Just kidding.
	No pussy for nobody and so that the men will only have...
	There'll be mass evictions on females if that happened.
	Sure will, yeah.
	There'll be mass evictions.
	Yeah, you're absolutely right.
	Yeah, because it's like you got to come up with different skills.
	You know, you can't just be an old pussy.
	Wait, what?
	You know what I'm saying?
	Because that's all you're going to be.
	You're going to grow up and just be a pussy.
	You know, just a real life pussy.
	That's all you talk about.
	That's all you are.
	If y'all stop giving your fucking vagina up for one month, what else can you talk about?
	You know what I'm saying?
	Or what else can you do?
	So what I'm saying...
	We got you.
	You're giving me a saying.
	National No Pussy Month, 2024.
	We're going to have the highest evictions we've ever seen that month.
	What about you?
	So, like, comments?
	Last thoughts, questions, disagreements, whatever it may be.
	You didn't really say much.
	I know, I wanted to, but...
	Why did you...
	Go ahead, here's your chance.
	I mean, y'all started, you know...
	Go ahead, it's your chance now.
	To be honest, my brother put me on you guys, so you guys, like, I used to, like, I used to be kind of outgoing.
	I didn't do anything bad, but you guys really taught me a lot, and I really enjoyed being on the show, so thank you for giving me this opportunity.
	It's not going to stop Abdul from getting rocks.
	I'm just kidding.
	What about you, Miss...
	Don't even...
	No, no, no.
	I don't know.
	I'll just say Judge Judy.
	Go ahead.
	I kind of...
	I had a couple questions, but I'll just ask one.
	Yeah, sure.
	Go ahead.
	I just...
	It's a kind of hard question.
	I don't know how you guys are going to take it.
	Sure, it's all right.
	It's a hard question.
	Okay.
	So, for guys to be on this podcast, they have to provide something or have some type of influence or, you know...
	And there was one guest that I saw that came on here that I didn't think embodies that at all that was a good person to have on here and that's that Charleston white man.
	I did see that he had racist videos talking about how he graped women in the past and his friends would lace their cigarettes with crack and he doesn't like Asians and Asian children should be sodomized.
	When looking for these types of men to come on here Like, what are you really looking for?
	Because I just don't think that him, out of everybody to bring on, anyone to bring on, I don't think he was a good option.
	You want to tackle that first?
	Well, I mean, guests that come on shows, they're individuals, and they have platforms of themselves, and they'll say what they want to say.
	Now, for us, obviously, we want to bring a diverse panel of people and guests, because bringing the same people on will be redundant, but His views are his views.
	We don't agree with them.
	But again, that's his views.
	Once again, guests will say what they want to say.
	We're controversial as well.
	Not like that.
	Again, the level of controversy that you have is going to be determined by your audience.
	I'm just saying for us itself, guests come on to get their perspective and We may not always agree, but on some level, it does add an aspect of enlightenment.
	But then why give a man like that platform at all?
	He would have the platform.
	Yeah, but even more now, because you guys are very popular.
	You guys are doing great for yourselves.
	But having men look up to someone like that, I don't think is a good idea.
	Well, if you look at it, like I said, the same thing about us, honestly.
	Yeah, but you guys are nowhere near, honestly.
	No, but controversy doesn't have a face.
	It just has people that are kind of like, I want to say, championing their own ideals.
	So ultimately, I'm just saying, for us, we're not the most clean channel either.
	Let me address this, bro.
	You asked a very good question.
	I'm going to answer it.
	Give it to due diligence.
	Because this has come up, and I'm going to answer this question once and for all.
	Sure.
	The Greatest Comments.
	When he talked about that, I want to emphasize that he was talking about his past, and he was referring to a song from a two-life crew, right?
	When he was talking about that.
	His life story about his life of crime, the stupid shit that he had done before, how he went to prison, and how it reformed him.
	So I want to make sure that the context is there, that he was describing his life story, was talking about a song, and the stupid shit that he did when he was young, including murder and everything else.
	Wait, hold on.
	We can't defend him.
	No, no, I'm not defending him.
	Because that was not on our platform.
	No, he said that on ours.
	No, but he said elsewhere, too.
	Okay, but he said on ours is what I'm addressing.
	Which one do you mean?
	On ours or elsewhere?
	She means on ours.
	No, I've seen videos off your platform.
	I saw him talking about it when he was in a bathroom, talking about the stuff that he did with his friends, and when he was in a car, the stuff that talked about the Asians and stuff.
	She's talking about us.
	So to address your first thing, so he was talking about his life, right?
	And he was referring to the two live crew, and then he was talking about all the mistakes he made in his life, and he was building up to it.
	Then he went to jail for murder, blah, blah, blah, right?
	And then how he changed.
	But we don't agree with that, obviously, but he was telling his life story.
	So, hey, it's part of the life story, his mistakes, right?
	As far as the Asian comments and the racist comments, he made those after he was on our podcast.
	Obviously, we don't agree with that.
	Saying ridiculous shit about that, about Chinese people like that is wild.
	We don't agree with that, right?
	My thing is, when I do racism, it's about being funny.
	Are you going to have him back on your show?
	I would.
	No.
	And there's a bunch of other reasons for that as well.
	But as far as the context of the grave comments, that was him describing his life.
	We don't agree with that, but we understand that that was a part of his life and mistakes that he made in his youth, and he talked about that, and he was referring to the song Two Life Crew.
	I forget the name of the song.
	And then as far as the racist comments that he made, that was after we had him on.
	Okay.
	So, yeah, but would we have him on again?
	Absolutely not, no.
	Okay, I was just curious about that.
	No, no, no, it's cool.
	Because people have asked that question, so this actually gave me the chance to finally answer it fully.
	But that's what it was as far as addressing the grave site and then the racist comments.
	That was after we had him on the platform.
	Because it's like one thing having someone that doesn't agree with you totally and you have them on your platform to have a debate on it, but it's just like, I just didn't understand that person.
	Yeah, and the thing is, I know people said, oh, you should have pushed back or blah, blah, blah.
	How are we going to push back on him telling his life story?
	That's what he did.
	And he's clearly saying, yeah, that was fucked up.
	I shouldn't have done that shit.
	I made mistakes in my youth.
	And he went and talked about all the crimes he committed in his youth.
	Do I have time for another question?
	Sure, go ahead.
	Hit us with a quick one.
	Why could you not see yourself...
	I don't know about you two, but I've seen Myron talk about it mostly.
	Why do you not see yourself ever being able to fall in love with a woman?
	You said that you would have love for one but never fall in love with one.
	Because all rationality and objectivity goes out the window once you fall in love with a woman as a man.
	And that's when you open yourself up and you become susceptible to making really bad decisions like hitting a woman or attacking a woman because of your emotions blinding you.
	But men are really good at being stoic.
	You lose that stoicism once you fall in love with a woman.
	I don't think so.
	The reason why is because men love women for real.
	We don't love women on what they provide.
	We love women ideally.
	It's the closest to idealistic loving that you're going to get.
	Since men love women idealistically, That tends to have very, and don't get it twisted, women love men too, but they love men for different reasons.
	But the way that a man, if the love isn't reciprocated or the man doesn't feel that appreciation or he feels some type of way, the negative ramifications that can manifest from him not getting what he thinks he deserves, from that woman can manifest in very violent and terrible ways.
	So I would say, so if you're saying that men love women for real, how could you say men love women for real if you're not willing to actually fall in love with one?
	Having love for one is completely different to actually being in love with one.
	No, I'm saying like when they do fall in love with a woman, they look for real.
	I was talking in that instance.
	Oh, that's what you mean.
	Yeah, yeah.
	That's what I meant in that instance.
	But I'm telling guys, don't fall in that.
	Because when you fall in love with a woman, you become blinded and you become more emotionally driven.
	And that's not what you want to be with a woman.
	Mm-hmm.
	Especially when females are emotionally driven.
	One of you has to be the logically sound, stoic leader and you do that by not falling in love with a woman.
	You have love for her and you know what's best for her.
	Let me ask you this.
	If you had children, do you fall in love with your children?
	I mean...
	Yeah, I'm in love with my children.
	No, you have love for your children because you understand what's best for them and you are the authority.
	So you have to have love for them to discipline them when needed, guide them, etc.
	That's what the man has to do with his woman.
	You don't fall in love with your girl.
	You have to have love for her, just like you would have love for your children.
	Because, again, back to what I said before, a man effectively, if he does it right, a lot of times, his wife is almost like his child.
	Kind of.
	Because you've got to provision, protect, etc.
	So that's why I'm saying you should have love for her.
	So that you keep that objective mindset.
	It's difficult to do.
	I'm not saying like, oh yeah, this is, oh, you've got to do it.
	But it's difficult to do.
	I'm not saying it's easy.
	But if a guy can do that, he's going to, number one, stay attractive for his girl.
	Stay objective.
	Stay stoic.
	He's going to stay the man that she fell in love with in the first place.
	So she can fall in love, but he just can't.
	He just shouldn't.
	The woman needs to fall in love.
	Women need that emotional stimuli.
	Men don't.
	Women really need that.
	Women are literally driven by their emotions.
	Women do a lot of the stupid shit that they do off their emotions.
	And men do stupid shit off their emotions as well.
	But when men do stupid shit off their emotions, typically there's violent consequences.
	School shootings, attacking their woman, etc.
	Men manifest their emotions in violent ways.
	So then would you say that if a man is marrying a woman, it's not because he's in love with her, it's just because I have some type of love for you?
	Well, here's the thing.
	A lot of guys don't follow what I say.
	They actually fall in love with the girl and they end up in really bad situations.
	My dad's in love with my mom.
	Come on, man.
	You never know that.
	My dad said that he wanted to divorce my mom at some point, but he didn't want to do it because they wanted to just work it out.
	Well, that's for their situation.
	He has love for her.
	He has love for her, man.
	He was being objective.
	He was able to divorce his emotions and be like, you know what?
	What's best for the family?
	I asked my mom the same question.
	She said the same thing.
	I asked her, do you still love dad?
	And she couldn't even answer that.
	Oh.
	But she told me that she, because he doesn't have anybody, like everyone on his side died, everyone, and that we're all he has, so she stays.
	And I agree that, honestly, a lot of relationships and marriages, it shouldn't be about, are you happy and you should just leave because you're not happy?
	I don't agree to that.
	Because I see how my mom is and how my dad is, their dynamic, and she's not fully happy, but she knows that she's going to stay.
	You are blessed with a mother that prioritizes duty over her own happiness.
	And I didn't realize it until I went to therapy, to be honest with you.
	I didn't realize it.
	You literally got a blessing then because your parents are staying together off of duty.
	Which is great.
	That's how marriage should be, actually.
	Actually, my mom and my dad are separated, but my mom keeps washing his clothes for him.
	She's still clean for him and all that.
	Even though they don't even live in the same house.
	That's crazy.
	That's great.
	But my mom really feels grateful about what he gave to her.
	She's a slave, so she comes over.
	That's what girls would say.
	Your mom is a goer.
	I mean, you've got something very rare, very special.
	I mean, the fact that your mom is still with him, regardless of how she feels.
	Most women can't do that.
	Most women are like, I'm not happy I'm leaving.
	And they leave.
	So, that's great.
	Anything else?
	I'll let them go.
	She asked some good questions.
	I thought you guys were going to hit me.
	No, no, no.
	They deserve valid answers, especially the Charleston white one, because we never really addressed this, so there we go.
	Thank you for doing that.
	No, no problem.
	I got so lost.
	What is the commerce?
	No, it's okay.
	I'm just really listening.
	It's final thoughts, questions, disagreements, last...
	No disagreements, final thoughts.
	It was fun.
	It was nice meeting everybody.
	Yes.
	And that's it.
	Good night.
	What about you?
	I really enjoyed being on this podcast.
	I respect you both for having...
	Don't lie, you hate us.
	No, I'm not a hater.
	No, I really respect you guys' educated opinions.
	I love that you created this platform to spread your knowledge and your insight.
	And I'm glad and happy to be on here to kind of have a debate with you guys.
	I have a question.
	Is your guy Muslim?
	No.
	He's not?
	Okay.
	Is his family from Lebanon?
	To be honest, I have no idea.
	It's been about a week, man.
	Just say, I mean, hey man, if he has like a Middle Eastern background and stuff, be prepared.
	I'll keep you updated.
	He's gonna be, he's gonna, hey, I want you to do this and that.
	Just be open, just be open to it.
	It's not you attract it, you want it.
	You subconsciously want it.
	I am very feminine.
	I want my feminine energy to flow.
	But that is what you're going to get.
	It's not about attracting.
	It's about you wanting it.
	If he says make a sandwich, will you do it?
	No, I would just do it for him without asking.
	She's learning.
	She's learning.
	She's got it.
	I like to argue and make it deeper.
	Don't argue with him like you argue with me.
	That's another pro tip for you.
	That's on a podcast entertainment break.
	You're not my boyfriend.
	But yeah, don't argue with him.
	Alright, what about you?
	Thank you everyone.
	It's been a great night.
	How was your first night being single?
	I'm, shit, I'm having a fun, fun, fun day, and this is like the icing on the top.
	It'll hit you.
	Shout out to you.
	It's not gonna hit, cause what he said, no, what he said really hit me.
	I'm looking for a DJ Khaled.
	I don't want to settle for less.
	I know my worth, okay?
	And today's the day.
	You got it, queen.
	You got it.
	Another one.
	Alright, fantastic.
	I always love to be here.
	It's so nice.
	You told me that you're going to address it.
	If a girl tells you, if a girl drinks a lot, parties a lot, does drugs, these are all no-brainers.
	Travels to foreign locations a lot.
	That's a big one.
	Travels alone.
	That's a big one.
	Hangs out with sluts.
	What else here?
	Oh, you look at the track record of guys that she's around.
	Are they like all-partiers or low-lives or degenerates?
	You know what I mean?
	That's a good one.
	Of guy friends.
	That's how you know the girl has a high body count.
	So, if a girl has one of these traits, does it mean that she's a hoe?
	No.
	There's a chance that it's not there.
	But if you see a bunch of them working in tandem, well...
	All right.
	Makes sense.
	Yeah.
	So these are just some traits to look for.
	And there's a bunch of other ones as well.
	She's on yachts and shit like that.
	Her phone is always on D&D. Yeah.
	Damn.
	You know, she's addicted to social media.
	That's a big one.
	You know, has sugar daddies.
	Obviously, she's involved in any type of sex work, like a stripper or escort or anything like that.
	I mean, that's a fucking give it.
	All right.
	Porn star, right?
	Duh.
	Mm-hmm.
	You'd be amazed at these things that men don't see and don't look for.
	These are red flags of girls you don't want to get serious with and have a relationship with.
	Her Instagram looks crazy.
	Yeah.
	Oh my God!
	Listen!
	It'll change, I swear to God.
	It'll change.
	Again, perception.
	I don't want to disappoint you guys.
	Now, here's the thing.
	Let's go ahead and take a short example.
	There are, this is rare, but there are strippers out there that are not hoes.
	Yeah, right?
	I mean most are so So the thing is, is that, like, that's why I say if a girl has one of these traits, doesn't mean that she's a hoe automatically.
	No, that's why it's important to look at behaviors, look at pattern, look, and you got to do this over a period of time.
	You got to vet a girl.
	I tell a guy all the time, you got to date a girl for at least six months to a year before you give her a relationship.
	And there's more.
	There's way more things, too.
	She drives a Nissan Altima.
	Kia Soul.
	Kia Sorrento.
	That's a red flag.
	She's always eating at fancy restaurants.
	That's actually a little...
	I disagree with that one.
	I pay for my own.
	What did I say before?
	One thing doesn't mean that you're a whore.
	It's if you have a bunch of them.
	But that is the red flag of a girl's always eating at expensive steakhouses.
	I know you said, oh, I do it on my own.
	But are you doing it three, four nights a week?
	Probably not.
	Oh, no.
	I saw it once.
	Women rarely, if ever, pay for fine dining on their own.
	So that's why it's a big red flag.
	Because girls don't do it on their own.
	If she has a cat.
	Most girls don't.
	Some do, but most women will never pay $200 for a fucking steak.
	Hell no.
	Of course not.
	I paid $350 though.
	How many times do you do that a year?
	I have to have a discount.
	I mean, I went to Peru.
	So I went to Central, which is like the number one restaurant in the world.
	Yeah, but how many times do you do that a year?
	I mean, yeah, once.
	That's my point.
	It was like, damn, $350.
	Not even like...
	Fine dining, they pay for themselves like one time a year, two times a year.
	But men, they're doing it all the time.
	That's why if I see a girl going to fine dining all the time, I'm like, yeah, there's a fucking dude paying for it.
	Is she a Snapchat, you know?
	Private Jets?
	That's another big one.
	If I see girls on private jets, oh, and it's not her man?
	That's a big one.
	Like, if I see a girl on private jets or it's a loom or whatever, I'm just like in my head like, fucking slut.
	So if it's family vacations...
	Yikes.
	Make sense.
	Family vacations on a private jet?
	Come on, man.
	Unless her dad is rich, but that's rare.
	That's rare.
	That's rare.
	Oh, I went on a lot of vacations because my dad just has really good money from the military and law enforcement.
	Okay, no.
	Okay, you're right.
	That's my point.
	What I've typically learned is that women rarely, if ever, pay for the most luxurious things in the world.
	It's the men that pay for it.
	If I see her in a sports car, if I see her in a Ferrari or a Lamborghini, slut.
	All these things, and it's crazy to me because women don't know.
	I'll see girls post this shit on their Instagram and I'm like, what the fuck are you doing?
	Do you not realize that you're making yourself less attractive from a relationship standpoint?
	You're like, oh yeah, you're hot, you're living life, whatever, but men look at this and they're like, oh yeah, I'm going to fuck this bitch.
	They don't think I'm going to wife her.
	No, because if I see a girl in a Ferrari, I know that's a nigga's Ferrari.
	Bitches don't buy Ferraris.
	It's an Uber, man.
	You guys all know what I'm saying is true.
	You guys know deep down that when girls take these dumbass pictures, they're in a location.
	It's not them.
	It's a dude paying for it and taking a picture.
	That's true.
	Anyway, anybody have anything to say to that?
	I don't know.
	I have a lot of friends that own businesses or successful that will go on group dinners.
	And that's where...
	Excuse me.
	That's where, like, sometimes I'll have a fancy dinner that I would not pay for.
	But it's like a group dinner, like, friend setting that they just pay for everyone.
	It's not friends.
	The men wanna fuck.
	Yeah.
	But we won't.
	But they want to.
	But they want to.
	Which is the point.
	And since you're there, someone is getting fucked.
	Someone.
	It might not be you.
	But my point is that I'll be fucking damned if my girl goes out to a dinner date with a bunch of rich niggas that are trying to fuck her.
	Well, I would not if I had a boyfriend, which, you know, coming soon, maybe.
	Yeah, but that's what hoes do.
	They go, not saying that you are one, but again, that's why I'm saying this question is so important.
	Like, if you see her do one thing, it's like, all right, red flag.
	But then you need to look at all the other behaviors, and you've got to do it over a period of time, and then you're able to assess the female.
	That's why I said there's so many different traits, and not every single one is a gift, like a telltale, like, oh, 100% a slut!
	You know, I mean, there's some ones that are way more than others, but if a girl's going to dinners with successful dudes, and there's a big group of them, I already know what the niggas are doing.
	They paid a promoter, the promoter went and rounded up a bunch of girls, they got those girls because they're single, and the guys are trying to fuck those girls.
	And a big part of the reason why those promoters picked those girls is because they fuck.
	Some of those girls fuck.
	That's why they got invited in the first place.
	Let's keep it a million.
	If a girl doesn't fuck or whatever, she's not going to get invited to the boat as often.
	She's not going to get invited to these group dinners as often.
	That's just what it is.
	You might be able to finesse that one, two, three times, maybe with a new promoter every time.
	But once you start, if you don't put out and you're not fun, they're not going to invite you.
	That's why I have an issue.
	If I see a girl doing that shit, I'm like, whore.
	I don't like going on boats.
	You have to entertain the guys.
	And I'm like, I don't want to.
	I mean, you're 34, so...
	I've seen girls do it.
	They do those dinner things two or three times and then they stop getting invited because they don't put out.
	That's true.
	I've had guy friends for years that I'm still friends with.
	They want to fuck, bitch!
	They're not your friends, man.
	I see what you're saying, and you know what?
	I'm getting to the age where I'm realizing that, and I do want to settle down someday, and I'm like, okay, I don't want to really hang around those people.
	That's a big one, yeah.
	I'm starting to notice that.
	I don't have guy friends.
	What if it's someone you've known for years, since high school?
	It doesn't matter.
	It doesn't matter, and I'll tell you why, going back to what I said before.
	If I've been training in the dojo for 30 years, and you've been outside just living life, Can you really identify with my struggles, me being in the dojo for 30 years?
	That's why women are useless to men.
	They're not fucking.
	Because I've had a friend for like 14 years.
	He wants to smash.
	I've thought that in the past.
	I never asked him because I didn't want it to ruin the relationship.
	No, no, no.
	I don't want it to ruin the relationship.
	Notice, right?
	You said you didn't want to ruin...
	She knows.
	But if you're Grace's friends, it shouldn't matter.
	Yeah, but if you were to say yeah, then it would make everything weird.
	I don't want to...
	But he's your friend, though.
	Ooh.
	He is!
	No, no, but ask him.
	I don't want to ask him something like that.
	I don't think he would say yeah, but I thought that in the past.
	You asked it yourself.
	It's because you know if he says yes to you, he's not your friend, but you don't want to risk it.
	Yeah, men and women are very different, man.
	You know the truth.
	Like, we're very, very different, and I might have to hit the elevator for this.
	Women are useless if you're not fucking them, bro.
	Sorry.
	They really are.
	Okay, hold on.
	Before you guys get angry or think whatever.
	Think of it objectively from a man.
	You guys are super emotional.
	You cost money.
	We have to lead and plan everything out.
	They don't protect you if you're in a fistfight, right?
	They can't really do much for you.
	If it's a girl fighting him, then I'd whip her ass.
	Yeah, but realistically speaking, I can defend myself against a female.
	Yeah, but you can only hit a girl bad.
	Yeah, but like...
	Utility-wise, realistically, I can't push a girl off.
	Women really don't provide men much utility if they're not fucking them.
	And women can only serve one master.
	That's why if a girl has a job and she's super devoted to it, she can't be super submissive to her husband.
	Women are fantastic if they're your girl and they submit to you, but if they're not, it's a fucking liability.
	It's a burden.
	I mean, I think if she knows, like, the man's needs, like, you know, if they really communicate that, then it would be, you know, more of a benefit to him, you know what I'm saying?
	Honestly, if you saw...
	What do you mean by that?
	Men want to fuck.
	So, I get it, but you're saying, like, all they're really good for is pretty much sex, you know, you know what I'm saying?
	But I'm just saying, like, if a woman can be able to assist you in the way that you need to, in whatever...
	But she's not going to unless she's fucking you.
	That's my point.
	Like, women, like, they give their best treatment to the man that they're fucking and they're submitting to.
	To get the best out of a woman, you must fuck her.
	So, otherwise, you're going to get lukewarm bullshit friendship.
	So, like, if a girl submits to you and she's fucking you, she's great.
	But if she's not, she's useless.
	Well, I'm going to protect and provide for this woman and pay for hangout sessions and she won't even suck my dick.
	That's a waste of time.
	It's literally a waste of time.
	So, I mean, I know it sounds fucked up, but, like, men and women can't really be platonic friends.
	But I had boyfriends that liked him.
	They thought he was cool.
	What?
	I mean, I kid you not.
	If you honestly saw him and you saw our dynamic, you would see.
	But it's not what's on our friends.
	He wants to fuck.
	I mean, I have friends that are like family.
	You know what I'm saying?
	They want to fuck too.
	Alright, girls, we know.
	Oh, God.
	Okay.
	And here's the thing.
	Like, yo, think about it.
	Why do women keep male friends around?
	I honestly don't like females, if I'm being honest with you.
	And you want us to be friends with that?
	Honestly, the only male friends that I have are people that I work with.
	I'm not talking about new female friends.
	I've literally known him since we were in high school.
	No, but that's what I'm trying to say.
	I've noticed females always keep male friends around, but they'll be like, well, why not just have female friends?
	I don't like bitches.
	You expect me to hang out with girls?
	You don't even like them, and you know them.
	If you know her from childhood, I feel like that would be different.
	I feel like she's polarizing.
	It's a polarizing ego boost for women.
	Like, I like having guy friends in my life because I don't have a boyfriend.
	I need, like, that masculine energy, but I won't give them anything.
	So, like, they're just in the friend zone.
	So it's an L for them.
	Yeah, I guess.
	Thanks for admitting that.
	Like, you're getting all the benefits of a boyfriend almost without having to fuck them.
	It's a W for you.
	It's an L for him.
	If I have a boyfriend, then I would be all eyes on him.
	I know.
	No, yeah.
	Not the guy friends.
	I wouldn't keep him around.
	I understand that, but do you see now why it's an L for men?
	You literally just...
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	I see that.
	You just said it.
	So it's an L. Just so the women understand the functional equivalent, let's say you're with a guy, you liked him, but he only calls you to have sex at 2 o'clock in the morning, but he never cares about what you gotta say, never has conversation with you.
	How did that make you feel?
	Used.
	That's what it's like being in a friend zone as a man.
	There you go, ladies.
	There you go.
	Now you see why it's a waste of time?
	Clarity.
	Alright.
	The handyman.
	I'll waste more money on Ms.
	Clark.
	It's no different than Only Prince.
	Change his name to wire.
	Longest debut streak in history.
	Fuck Andrew Schultz and Akash Singh.
	Yeah, flagrant are a bunch of faggots.
	Oh yeah, last one.
	Your last thoughts and comments or disagreements.
	Well, I don't have any disagreement.
	And thank you for having me on the show.
	It was fun.
	You guys created a scandemic.
	COVID isn't real.
	I'm just kidding.
	You're not kidding.
	It's true.
	That's all facts.
	Let me stop before she does another lockdown.
	All right, guys.
	Hope you guys enjoyed the show.
	All the ladies' Instagrams are below.
	Feel free to send them a dick pic.
	I'm sure they'd enjoy it.
	Please don't.
	We'll say no, but we do.
	We'll catch you guys on Monday.
	Monday's probably going to be our last episode.
	We're going to laugh at it.
	All right, guys.
	Love y'all.
	All these are down below.
	Thank you, ladies, for being good to sports.
	We'll catch you guys on the next episode.
	Peace.
	I just ran.

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