I must believe in something, so I'll make myself believe it this night.
And I will never tell a story.
If you get for need and I will never tell a story.
Of course, it's in the...
What's up, guys?
Welcome to the Fresher Podcast, Half the Hours edition.
We're here with Mike Sartain and a bunch of girls.
Quick announcement before we get into the show.
It's actually maybe like one or two.
Romo.com slash Fresher Fit, guys.
Okay, that's where you can go ahead and find us if, you know, the day comes that we get canceled.
Right now, we're in YouTube jail.
But we're going to be back on YouTube next week.
We are probably going to stream on the Cliffs channel.
We'll probably do like one or two streams on Fresher Fit and then, you know, just so we can get it out there.
But I'll Probably announce it now.
More than likely, we're probably going to do all of our streams on the Fresh Fit Clips channel until September.
And don't worry, we'll give you all a reminder.
But we'll be back on Monday with YouTube.
And then we'll also probably upload some of these podcasts that we did the past two weeks on YouTube as well for you guys.
They're probably going to be edited and stuff, but you guys know what time it is.
Also, yeah, that's pretty much it.
Yes.
Yeah.
So let's go ahead and, Chris, you had something, right?
Yes.
Go ahead.
Alright, girls.
DM me to RNC Poxon on IG. Make sure your page is not on private.
And once again, ladies, gentlemen, we do not send emails out paying you to come onto our show.
So please don't.
I had about three guys.
Scammer, you know?
I had about three guys asked me about emails or whatever.
We don't do it.
So if you're not sure, DM me to RNC Poxon to ask and make sure, okay?
Do not give out your banking information.
I had three girls already did it.
Give out.
I'm like, stupid.
I'm like, stupid.
Like, what are you doing?
I know we look Nigerian, but we're not that.
Come on.
Do you know the way?
Okay, ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status.
And if you want to, of course, your body count.
We're going to start right here.
Welcome back.
Hi, I'm Nati.
I'm one of the hosts of the Young Hustlers podcast, which is a podcast of enlightening young minds to be successful.
And I am single.
And I'm currently single.
Cool.
Come on, man.
You gotta go through the...
Alright.
Alright, what?
How old are you?
I'm 18.
Where are you from?
I'm from Miami.
Okay.
And then you said you run a podcast, right?
Yeah, Young Hustlers.
Where do you guys broadcast on?
YouTube and Instagram.
Okay.
And you talk about entrepreneurship?
Yeah, enlightening young minds to basically be successful in the future.
Okay.
But aren't you young yourself, though?
Yeah.
Alright, and then highest education level complete, I'm going to assume it's high school, and then your relationship status is single?
And body count Okay Name?
My name's Anna.
How old are you?
I'm 24 and I'm an esthetician.
Where are you from?
Washington State.
Okay.
And then?
And I'm single.
Alright, esthetician.
Highest education level completed?
I have a bachelor's degree.
Okay.
Where'd you get it from again?
UAPB. Okay.
Soccer, right?
Yes.
Oh yeah.
I remember.
What about you?
My name is Daniela.
I'm 23 years old.
Daniela?
Daniela.
Daniela, okay.
Daniela, yes.
I'm 23 and I'm an office coordinator in a staffing company from Colombia and Spain.
What passport do you hold?
Both.
You're a dual citizen.
Yes.
Where did you go to high school?
In Spain and Colombia.
You did both?
Yes.
So you did two years in each one?
Like, one year in Spain, one year in Colombia.
And then back and forth?
Yes.
So two years each?
Probably, yes.
Okay, I'll just put both.
And then, what do you do for work again?
I'm an office coordinator in a staffing company.
Okay.
Yes.
You say a staffing company.
I'm assuming like you basically have a bunch of workers or temp workers and you help them find jobs with...
In hotels, yes.
Okay.
All right.
And you do that here in America or back in Colombia or Spain?
Here, here.
Okay, you do it here.
In Miami, yes.
Okay.
And then what's your highest education level completed?
Like marketing and digital business.
A bachelor's degree?
Kind of.
How many years did you go?
Like three.
In Spain?
Yes.
Did you graduate?
No, because I came to America.
Okay, so high school.
All right, and then what's your relationship status?
I have a boyfriend.
Okay.
How long have you been together?
Like one year.
Okay.
A question for you.
Do you work out?
If I work out?
Sometimes.
Do you go to the gym?
Yes.
I like to go to the gym.
What about you?
My name is Monica.
I'm a team.
How old are you?
I'm 18.
Where are you from?
I was born in Honduras, but I live here since forever.
And I don't work, but I live with my boyfriend.
Okay, what do you do?
Okay, so unemployed.
Yeah.
All right, and then highest education level, I'm going to assume is high school.
You graduated?
Mm-hmm.
Okay, and then you're in a relationship.
How long have I been together?
Like two years.
Okay.
High school sweethearts?
Yeah, basically.
All right, cool.
What about you?
Hi, my name is Kinshany.
I'm 33.
Hey, y'all!
Kinshany?
Kinshany?
Yeah.
Bless you.
Sounds like karate.
33?
Okay.
Where are you originally from?
I'm originally from Mississippi.
Okay.
But I reside in Miami.
What part of Mississippi?
North Mississippi.
It's actually close to Memphis.
What's the name of the town?
Coldwater.
Okay.
And what do you do for it?
I'm upcoming.
I just got licensed not too long ago.
I'm a realtor, and I'm also a cosmetic entrepreneur.
Okay.
I'm assuming you're a realtor here in Florida?
Yes, that's correct.
Okay.
Do you have your realtor license in Mississippi too or not?
No, just Florida.
Okay.
And you said you've been living here for a while, right?
Yeah, I've been here for a while.
Okay.
And highest education level completed?
Bachelor's.
Okay.
And?
Interdisciplinary studies, minor community health.
Okay.
Where'd you get it from?
University of Southern Mississippi.
That's located in Hattiesburg, Mississippi.
Okay, cool.
And then, what's your relationship status?
Single.
And body count?
Low.
Stop the cap!
I'm curious to know, how many houses have you sold?
How many properties have you sold so far?
I'm new.
I'm still learning.
I became one during the pandemic.
Oh, you actually meant houses, bro.
I thought you were trying to, like, that was the body count question.
How many properties have you sold?
You know what I'm saying?
I thought that's what you're asking.
What about you?
My name is Camila.
I'm 25 years old.
I'm married.
Where are you originally from?
I'm from Colombia.
Okay.
What part?
Medellin.
Oh, okay.
We just came from there.
Awesome.
I hope you went there for good reasons.
Of course.
I wanted to go film.
What do you do for work?
So, my husband, my brother-in-law, and I open a real estate investing company, multifamily, and it's called Growing Homes.
Okay.
And we also plant agroforestry, natural food, and those properties.
Let me guess, you guys contact owners and say, hey, we'll buy your house cash?
No.
Okay, what do you guys do specifically then?
Multifamily investing.
So how do you guys acquire them then?
So we have different types of relationships with realtors.
We also are doing a lot of ads on Facebook, Instagram.
We're building our online presence right now.
Okay.
But my question is, do you guys buy them?
Yeah.
Okay, so you buy them.
How do you guys get the cash?
Do you buy them cash?
Do you use leverage of the bank?
Yeah, so right now we have eight doors, free and clear.
We don't have any debt on those.
Okay, so you look for off-market deals and buy them cash.
Yes.
That's what I said.
Oh, well, I just...
That's literally what I said earlier.
Sorry.
Yeah.
How do you find the deals?
The deals, like I said, it just depends.
My husband has been working in real estate for a decade, so he has built really good relationships.
They're the people that call you and say you want to sell your house, we'll buy cash.
Well, it's not a house.
So it's multifamily, so it's buildings.
Yeah, yeah, okay.
Right.
It's residential or is it commercial?
It's commercial.
Okay, so you guys are buying like five units and up?
Yeah.
Only.
You guys don't do residential?
Okay.
Okay, same thing about a commercial level.
Like the people that call you and say, I'll buy your house cash or I'll buy your apartment, whatever.
They do it on a commercial level.
Okay.
Yeah.
Cool.
I hate y'all, man.
You guys keep bothering me.
That's why I know it very well.
It's like, they always come, oh, you want to sell your house?
No, I don't want to sell my house.
Boom.
And then you guys do it with commercial.
All right.
What about you?
My name is Albina.
Oh wait, shit, sorry.
What's your highest education level completed?
High school.
High school?
Cool.
And then you said you have a husband, right?
How long have you been married?
We have been married for three months.
Okay.
Yeah, we have been together for three years.
Okay.
Oh, nice.
Okay.
Is he Colombian too?
No.
Born and raised in Florida.
Okay.
All right.
What about you?
Hi, my name is Albina.
I'm 19.
I'm from Ukraine.
Uh-oh.
Oh, yeah.
Okay.
What do you do for work?
Well, I have two businesses.
Firstly, I do modeling business, and secondly, I have apartments in Ukraine.
Nice.
Okay.
So, all right.
So, you own apartments in Ukraine, so you're a real estate investor in Ukraine, and then you have a modeling business.
Yeah, I just possess apartments, yeah.
Okay.
So, with the modeling business, do you find models and get them jobs, or how does that work?
I'm a model.
Okay, so you're a freelance model yourself?
Yes.
Okay, I was a little confused by this.
I mean, am I crazy?
The way she phrased it, I thought, like, she has a modeling agency and she, like, staffs people.
No, bro, it's the chat.
Okay, whatever.
Okay, so you're a model, basically, is what it is.
It's not that you have a modeling business, you are a model.
Yes, I'm a freelance model.
Okay, alright then.
And then you have apartments in Ukraine?
Yeah.
Okay.
Where?
Kiev or?
Kiev and Odessa.
Alright, cool.
Do you have all your tenants still in place with the conflict going on?
Well, it's safe.
It's safe now.
Okay, it's good now?
Yeah.
They probably fled in the beginning and then...
Okay, alright.
And then what's your highest education level completed?
I was studying at university, but I quit it because it's useless.
Fair enough.
So high school is the highest completed.
I just thought about it.
What if we went to Ukraine and then we got caught up in a war?
We would leave.
No, but we can't leave, bro.
You became attacked, no?
I think it's an American citizen.
You can go west and they'll still let you leave.
Yeah.
But yeah, if you were a Ukrainian national, that's a guy, yeah, you ain't going nowhere.
They're gonna put you, they're gonna draft you in the war.
Damn, it's kind of scary.
Yeah.
Okay, and then what's your relationship status?
I have few boyfriends.
A few?
How many is few?
Five.
I'm also interested in this story.
How do you have five?
A lot of the girls on this panel have the same thing, it's just that y'all don't want to admit it.
At least she's keeping it a thousand.
And how long have you been here in America?
Five months.
Okay, cool.
And then what about you?
I'm Kiki.
I'm 22.
I'm from Washington State, but I live here.
And I'm an athlete.
I go to school.
Okay, full-time student?
Yes.
And you play soccer too, right?
Mm-hmm.
Hold on, which one is a better one?
Don't do that.
You guys did that last time.
If I'm not mistaken.
I think it was her, right?
Yeah, she played D1 and she plays like D2 or D3. It really doesn't matter the level you play.
It's how you play.
That is true, but she's better.
We also play two different positions.
Exactly.
Doesn't change the fact that one played D1 and the other one plays D2 or D3. Because why would I go to D1 when I get my school paid for and I'm going to graduate debt-free?
That's a cop-out.
It's not, though.
I mean, there's nothing wrong with admitting...
It's I'm going to graduate with money in my pocket compared to D1, where I might...
I'm messing with you.
But I'm just saying, like, you know, some people don't actually know.
Like, some people are like, oh, D1, this is that.
But, like, at the end of the day, you might graduate and you're in debt, like, a lot.
Rather as going to, like, an NAI and you graduate with money in your pocket.
Yes.
All my school was paid for.
It's because of our mom.
If she had a full ride at a Division I school, and you got a full ride at a D2 or 3...
Technically, women aren't allowed to get full rides, depending on what school you go to.
It's because of our mom.
Women absolutely get full rides.
Female sports are way better funded than male sports a lot of times, because they have to be equivalent to how much money they give the male side.
They say that, though.
It's a law.
They have to do it.
That's why if you look at any Division I school, I want you to take a look at the male sports and then look at the female sports.
There's going to be 20 times as many female sports.
Versus the men's sports, they're going to typically have whatever their starlight sport is, basketball, football, whatever it is.
That's going to be the main thing.
That's where most of the money goes into.
And then the other sports kind of fall under.
But with the female sports, since they have all this money, they're able to fund way more sports.
I mean, this is...
I was a Division 1 athlete.
That's how I know this.
I think it's Title 29 or something like that where you have to equally fund female sports at universities just like men's sports.
Which is why women have way more sports.
She's better.
We know the truth.
It's okay.
I don't have to prove anything.
What positions did you play?
I play center back or defensive mid.
She used to play forward, though.
No.
And you're a striker.
Wingers, maybe.
I play defense also.
Okay.
You play defense right now.
Okay!
Yeah, they definitely are, man.
She impressed.
She mad as hell.
Alright.
Cool.
Is it D2 or D3? It's NAIA. What's NAIA? What's that the equivalent to?
It's NAIA. It goes like junior college, NAIA, and then you go D3, D2, D1. That's how it goes.
Okay, so it's below D3. It's a whole different conference.
It's a whole different conference.
So in the chest of D10. What the fuck, bro?
Alright, we'll move on.
So you're in school.
What are you majoring in?
Psychology.
Okay, and then what's your relationship status?
Single.
Damn still?
Damn.
Bro, it's been two years.
It's been less than a month.
Okay, okay.
Alright.
Cool.
Ladies, I have a question for you.
Actually, Mike, introduce yourself real quick.
My bad.
Hey, what's going on, guys?
I'm Michael Sartain, and I live in Las Vegas, and I coach a bunch of dudes, and I say this every single time.
One thing I want to say real quick is I want to congratulate my buddy, Rolo Tomasi.
Whose daughter got married last night.
He was open and public about it.
So I want to congratulate him for, you know, living the dream.
He's very happy about the whole situation.
But that's why he's not here with me in Florida.
So congratulations, Rollo.
Yes.
So ladies, this came up recently.
I don't know what your opinion on this.
And then give me your take on this as well.
What is the most, I want to say, expected thing that guy bought you?
And what was it?
How much did he actually spend on you?
You would say.
Most expensive and then...
Wait.
Most expensive.
Oh, most expensive date.
Okay, okay.
Oh, most expensive date.
What's the most expensive first date that you've been on?
Yeah.
Um...
I have to think.
Um...
Can I just say how much the bill was?
Sure.
Like, $240 something.
Okay.
Where'd you go?
I don't remember.
It was like a high-end restaurant?
Yeah, it was a high-end restaurant, though, but it was like, you know, like the restaurants with like the big old plates, but like the little food, and they're always like, yeah, always like stupid expensive.
Like a French restaurant.
Kind of, yeah, basically, but we just spent like a lot of money on like drinks.
Like we ordered food, obviously, but the drinks were like $18, $20, like a drink.
It was in Washington State?
No, it was in Vegas.
I stayed at Excalibur and Flamingo one time.
But I have a little connection in Vegas.
Yeah, that makes a lot more sense.
Just hit me up next time.
You'll go to a better restaurant.
But it won't be $2.40.
I'll tell you that right now.
What about you?
Most expensive first date that you've been on?
First date is the key.
First date?
Yeah, that's expensive.
With guys, first date?
Yeah.
Different things.
I mean...
Tell us one.
Maybe like $10,000?
$10,000?
Yeah.
Like in a rubber band, like just handed you $10,000?
Yeah, just hanging out.
He just said, here you go, have $10,000.
It's first date.
First date, $10,000.
Did the date cost $10,000 or did he give you $10,000?
Well, tickets, hotel, traveling, some expenses, restaurants.
Okay, so it was kind of like you guys went on a trip.
Gift, yeah.
Okay, where'd y'all go?
It was in San Francisco.
Okay.
Did he tell you how much it cost or you just figured it out on your own?
Well, it was a problem because I had to pay from my own cart, but he gave me cash.
Okay.
Oh, so he gave you 10 grand.
I see what you're saying.
You had to buy it with your own card.
Wait.
So this guy's a drug dealer.
It's basically...
Okay, so it makes sense.
So she charged it on her card, but he reimbursed it with cash.
Okay.
Actually, you got more because you got points, too.
So show it to him.
Yeah.
I'll give you points.
In San Francisco.
You're not lying, though.
What about you?
Most expensive first date that you've ever been on?
I don't think I've been on a really expensive date.
It's like first date.
Just name the most.
It could be 50 bucks at a restaurant.
I mean, the most expensive that you can recall.
First date?
Yeah, for first date.
I don't know.
150.
100?
Okay.
Where'd y'all go?
I don't know.
I'm just trying to think.
I don't recall something like, oh, that was expensive.
You don't remember if it was dinner or anything like that?
Food, drinks.
Property?
No, not really.
Honestly, the most expensive date that I've been on is with my husband.
Where did he take you for your first date?
We went to here and now in Fort Lauderdale.
What is that?
It's a restaurant that is called Here and Now.
Okay, never been there.
I never...
Chris?
No?
No, I mean...
Is it like an expensive spot?
Like what?
A three-star, four-star type restaurant?
No, I would say it's a good restaurant, but it's not like fancy restaurant.
Here and Now.
Okay.
Hold on.
I don't know about food?
What the fuck?
I'm confused.
Chris, man.
Chris, man.
You got it.
You got it.
All right.
What about you?
Most expensive first date you've been on.
I wouldn't say so much about a date.
I'll say it's a gift.
Okay.
He purchased me a car.
Shit.
Wait.
Hold on.
Stop it.
Period.
What did it get you?
He said it was the most expensive, so that was like the most expensive thing a guy's ever done for me.
So if you say expensive...
Number one, what kind of car?
Yes.
It was a BMW. It was back in 2015.
And what year BMW was it?
It was a 3 Series.
Okay, which year BMW was in 2015?
It was a brand new one?
It wasn't the newest, but it wasn't like older.
Yeah, it was real.
It was nice.
That's number one.
Number two, had you slept with this guy before he bought you the car?
We were in a relationship, love.
Okay, all right.
Let's get that right.
We're smacking morals.
You tell us.
You tell us.
Go on, queen.
Let's get that right.
I'm trying to get it right.
Okay, so this is a relationship.
That's a bit different than what we asked.
We asked, what's the most expensive first date you've been on?
Not the most expensive gift.
Okay.
The only thing I could just be keeping it real, it was that car.
So you paid for your own boob job?
Huh?
Say it again?
You paid for your own boob job?
Of course, I'm a boss, babe.
Okay, so nobody paid for your boob job.
I'm just asking.
No.
Okay, there's no trip to Fort Lauderdale.
I understand that was the most expensive gift that you got, but you're in a relationship with that individual, and I'm assuming, how long were you out together before you got that car?
We was together like four years.
Okay, so you guys were in a serious relationship.
I'm asking, most expensive first date you've been on?
I wouldn't say anything.
Maybe a high-end restaurant.
Something like that.
That's what I mean.
Do you remember the potential...
How much it cost?
I would say the bill probably was close to $1,500.
It was a nice dinner.
Where was this?
It was in Miami.
I think it was...
Poppy Steak?
It was Komodo.
It was alcohol.
Got you $1,500.
Hey, I don't know.
I just enjoy my stuff, enjoy my time.
So if you pay for it, that's all that matters, right?
Alright.
Okay.
$1,500 at Komodo, cool.
What about you?
Most expensive first date for you?
I really haven't been on too many first dates to begin with.
Okay.
Where did your guy that you met, where did y'all go on your first date?
I mean, I have a boyfriend now in life.
Your boyfriend, yeah.
We always go to places.
I feel like the most expensive one, I don't really look at the bill, but that I feel was probably the most expensive was this really, really small restaurant in Coconut Grove.
And it was one old French lady just serving up the whole restaurant.
It was small, but it was really cute.
Was that your first date or no?
No, it wasn't our first date, but we really never went on a first date.
We've been on for two years.
We were messy at the start.
It sounds like they're dating on a budget.
I mean...
That's a good thing.
No?
No, that's good.
I mean, the place was expensive even though it was just one lady.
I don't really know how much it was.
I don't look at it.
But, yeah.
Imagine going on dates and not having to worry about the bill.
That's awesome, isn't it?
Alright, what about you?
So, my first...
It was last year, and I met a guy who invited me to the Grand Cardone Conference.
Okay.
So it was a really good first date.
Okay, so he brought you to the Grand Cardone Conference.
Was it VAP? Regular tickets?
I don't remember.
We went to one.
It depends.
He has different tiers.
I'm going to say somewhere to be safe probably around $5,000 to $10,000 probably is what it cost.
I think so.
And he brought you in as a guest.
And you said this was last year?
Yes.
What about you?
I feel like probably about $200.
Okay.
Where at?
We had gone to this museum and then he took me to Benihana after.
And then he got me flowers.
No.
Do you think that's more?
The flowers, Benihana, and a museum?
The flowers weren't just regular flowers, though.
Yeah, they were, like, colored, but anyways.
But the bill at Benihana was, like, $140, something like that, because we got drinks, food, sushi, yeah.
And then museum entrance, unless it was, like, one of those free days or something.
No, I didn't know it wasn't free.
He bought tickets.
I just don't know how much.
I didn't ask.
Nah, he went on Groupon.
Groupon.
Gotcha, girl.
Somewhere between 200 to 300 probably.
Okay.
And then flowers, you said, right?
Yeah.
Roses or?
Yeah.
No, he went to Publix.
Roses, aren't they?
Are they?
Yeah, pretty cheap.
I feel like probably like 20, maybe a little more.
For roses?
Depends on what kind.
Unless you bought them from Mexicans on the street.
They were blue.
20 bucks, 50 bucks.
Blue roses?
Yeah, yeah.
Mexicans on the street.
So you guys are Mexicans here.
We're in Miami.
I don't know where he got them.
Either way, he got me flowers.
All right, we'll say 200 to 300.
All right, cool.
What about you?
Nice.
It was a date.
We went to Dragonfly.
It's in downtown Doral.
I don't know.
It's like a...
It's like a sushi place.
Okay.
How much do you think it costed?
Like...
200.
Okay.
And, uh...
See, I want to go...
Wait.
Are you the girl that beats up her boyfriend?
That's her.
Okay.
I was like, hold on a second.
Yeah, she's 18.
I remember now.
I was 14.
Wait, yeah, last time she came on, she like, hit him or some shit, Okay.
One time.
Or two.
It was once.
Yeah.
Like, he accidentally, like, I think, uh...
I was drunk.
Fell on her.
Fell on her on the stairs or some shit.
No, he pushed me.
By mistake.
And you hit him, okay.
No, but, like, I softly.
Like, like, can I demonstrate?
Sure, go ahead.
Demonstrate on Fresh, please.
And feel free to use full force that you use during the incident.
Yeah, yeah.
Go ahead.
Are you okay with that?
Yeah, he is.
Completely fine.
Yeah, he's fine.
He's okay, I consent for you.
Someone help me, bro!
He violated his civil rights.
Oh my god.
That's a hate crime.
For real, man.
Black man's a hate crime.
Now, uh...
Okay, let me...
I'm gonna ask a different question now.
Now, going back, starting from here, there...
Did the person that took you out on the first date succeed in getting sexual?
Thank you.
That was my next question too.
Yes or no?
But like sexual after the first date or like sexual in general?
You could say answer both.
So it could have been either that night or later.
Yeah, that night.
It was that night?
Alright, cool.
I just said that.
Was it your ex that you hit?
Maybe.
What about you?
No.
I'm not sexually attracted to him whatsoever.
Y'all never hooked up.
Museum, dinner, flowers.
She got dried up.
And you said your reasoning was you're not attracted to him?
Yeah, I'm not sexually attracted to him.
Why'd you go on a date?
Because he was nice.
He wanted to take me out.
He had good energy.
He said, I'm going to take you out on Friday.
Be ready.
I said, say less.
You wanted to get to know him?
Is every guy hearing this?
This is so important.
And then you said it was your ex, right?
This guy?
Okay, it was your ex.
Alright, cool.
So you were attracted to him.
Okay, what about you?
Did you end up hooking up with that guy that night?
And if not, was it later?
Yes.
Okay, was it that night?
Yes.
What about you?
Well, yeah, it's your boyfriend, right?
So that's a yes.
What about you?
The guy that took you to the Komodo from 1500?
No.
He was never successful?
It was not even that.
It's all about chemistry, love, and that just didn't happen.
But he was really nice.
Guys, two, he was really nice.
Everybody at home, listen to this.
Two, he was really nice.
What was the reason that you didn't...
Was there no spark?
Was he just not that attractive?
What was it?
The chemistry just wasn't there.
We didn't have that chemistry.
You could be nice.
We just didn't have the chemistry.
His star sign.
The energy.
It was a quantum field.
Can I tell you something about that?
About what?
You said two expensive dates and they didn't get nothing.
So, I think that as a man, you need to vet a woman properly before you spend that much money on her.
Like, you should take her to a much more regular place, you know?
And then after that, if something happens, the relationship evolves.
Like, go ahead.
You know?
Okay.
That makes sense.
What about you?
Well, yeah.
It was your husband, right?
The guy that you're with.
Your date.
Yeah.
So, that first night, no.
But, eventually, of course.
Okay.
Wait, so, how long did it take for you to fuck him?
Damn, that long?
No.
Probably, like, one week.
One week?
Okay, okay.
Alright.
Damn.
And then, what about you?
When you went, I hope so, 10,000 in San Francisco?
Goddamn.
Well, first of all, he was submissive, so I wasn't closest.
You are hilarious!
So you're saying no?
You did not hook up with him?
Submissive.
So that means that it's a special way when I'm in clothes.
But, I mean, you should watch some movies maybe to understand what I'm talking about.
We know what you're talking about.
Oh, like butt plugs.
So you were like the one in charge?
You were like the dom?
Yeah, it wasn't like this.
Like whips and shit?
Was he like your slave?
Yeah.
Damn.
Starting to make sense now.
Yeah.
Okay, so no, because that wasn't what I guess he paid for.
Okay.
Would that be fair to say?
What about the other four boyfriends?
Did any of them have sex with you on the first date?
Not on the first date.
It was mostly like continuous dates.
Yes.
Where did you meet the five boyfriends?
Was there a particular website?
Instagram.
You met all five of them on Instagram.
Yes, Instagram and also one I got by recommendation.
I have no idea how did he find my phone number, but he found it somehow.
What?
Oh, that's creepy.
You've stuck a butt plug in all five of them.
Yes.
What?
You stuck a butt plug in all five of them.
No.
Just three of them.
Just one.
So you said no because he was a sub.
I mean, how does it count?
Yeah, so you didn't have sex with him because he was a sub.
That wasn't what the agreement probably was, right?
It counts like intimacy, but it's not.
Not that particular form.
Okay.
All right.
And then what about you?
Did you end up ever hooking up with the guy that's in Vegas?
No.
Wait, he didn't score?
Nope.
I was not feeling it.
Okay.
Why did you not feel it?
He just said some...
I don't even remember what he said, but it gave me the ick.
And for me, if you get the ick, if I get the ick, you're not coming back from it.
Okay, was it like a sexual comment that just, I guess, made you feel a certain way?
I want to remember, but I can't.
I feel like he did something...
Like, I don't know.
It was just like an act or something that he tried on me, and it just gave me the egg.
Was he attractive enough for you to sleep with him, and had he kept his mouth shut, maybe you would have?
Yes.
Actually, yes.
If he would have done what he did to give me the egg, which I... Let's all listen, gentlemen.
Let's all listen.
Yeah.
I'm sorry.
Yeah.
If you give me the ick, you just can't come back.
Less is more.
Like, just be yourself.
Yeah, I think he was just trying too hard.
I think he was being himself, and that's what probably fucked him up.
Maybe.
Or whatever he wanted from a pickup boot camp.
Interesting.
Okay.
Mike, did you have a question?
I did not.
That's exactly what I was going to ask.
I do want to know, actually, for those of you who did not sleep with a guy on the first date, can you raise your hand real quick?
Just those of you who did not?
Okay, cool.
I'm just curious.
The last time you did sleep with a guy, how many dates was it?
I don't want to answer that question.
There's no dates.
On me.
No, I'm imagining you're seeing someone now and then the answer is shorter than what the guy you're seeing now is.
Yeah.
Well, I'm not even seeing him.
I just went on a date with him.
I picked that one out on the first try.
How many dates?
It was like a couple.
It was a couple.
More than a couple.
What is a couple?
More than a couple.
Like, more than two.
So three.
Like, maybe four.
No, so three.
Maybe.
No, it was overload.
You?
Repeat the question again for me.
Okay, so the last guy you did sleep with, how many dates did you make him wait?
Um...
It's been a while.
Yeah, it's been like two.
Two?
Two.
Two?
Who else did not sleep with someone on the first date?
How many days?
Three, probably.
Three?
How many?
Not days, but I hung out with him like three or four times.
And then I let him hit.
So this is what I love.
So she hung out with him.
He didn't spend money.
No, no, no.
I understand.
You're making my point, though.
She hung out with him because she was attracted to him.
He didn't spend money.
They hung out three times.
No, he did.
He did spend money.
Like, just like, we went and got like...
Cotton candy.
Some wings or something.
Yeah, I love wings.
So we just went and got wings and stuff and then came back.
Yo, isn't that crazy?
Wingstop dinner and I get to smash.
Thank you.
You're spending money and you think this is going to make it easier for you.
Then you're either fucking weird or you're too nice.
And then this guy doesn't spend any money or he buys wings.
They hang out three times.
None of them's a date and he smashes.
Yep.
Remember, guys, just pay attention.
Dude, I got good with women because I stopped listening to what women told me they were attracted to and started asking them who they were fucking, and that made all the difference in the world.
And when I started seeing who guys were sleeping with and stopped reading message boards about pickup artists, that made all the difference in the world.
Just pay attention to success, and then all of a sudden you start saying, oh, that's why this didn't happen.
That's why this didn't happen.
Makes sense.
Anybody else I didn't ask?
Yeah, how many dates?
It wasn't like dates necessarily, more like months.
Months?
You just hung out with them several times.
Yeah, like a lot.
But none of them were dates?
Where do you spend money?
It was like once in a while.
Maybe like once every two weeks.
And it went on for like a month and a half.
Okay.
Then you just jumped on him.
There we go.
Wow.
Interesting.
We'll hit some of these rants real quick.
We got a video, right?
Yeah, we got a video here.
We got here...
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Blackest Panther goes, Destiny and ladies, if you can't defend a claim, especially one you strongly believe, without looking it up every time it's challenged and you don't know enough about it to be holding such strong claims, okay?
Blackest Panda goes, why do women demand monogamy when it's clear they can't handle the terms of agreement?
You give him sex whenever he wants and in exchange he can only have sex with you.
You think women are lazy or selfish?
What?
What?
What the hell?
Do you even have a woman, first of all?
I can't.
First of all, I'm not giving sex to nobody in exchange for nothing.
What he's basically saying is, do all of you want monogamy on the panel?
And a relationship.
Raise your hand if you do want monogamy from your partner.
All of you?
Ukraine?
Not so much.
Ukraine and Ms.
Komodo, no.
They're okay with politically.
Okay, so everyone except for Ms.
Ukraine wants monogamy.
What he's basically saying is, you guys want monogamy, right?
So you gotta give him sex whenever he wants in exchange.
He can only have sex with you.
He's saying it's a bad deal, basically.
That's what he's trying to say.
It's not whenever he wants, though.
It's a mutual agreement.
If I don't want to have sex, we're not having sex.
Yeah, so he can't step out of the relationship?
No, it's a relationship.
You can't force someone to have sex.
Your man is working all day.
He wants to be relieved from his girlfriend.
Paying your bills.
And you tell him no.
Is it wrong for him to step over?
Taking care of you?
Yes.
It's wrong.
That's wrong.
Repeat your question again.
So you can't please your man?
That's crazy.
No, that's not that.
Because he went to work, I'm supposed to please him when he gets home?
Hold on, hold on.
How many of you feel, though, if you're in a relationship with a guy, that you are not necessarily obligated to bang him whenever he wants?
Whenever he wants, no.
Raise your hands if you don't think you're obligated.
But I want to explain the point.
It's fine.
You can say, I mean, it's kind of irrelevant.
You just feel as though that you're not obligated, which is cool, fine.
No, but the thing in our relationship is there is an emotional side of it.
He doesn't get it.
Yeah, that's fine.
That's your perspective.
You're giving your reasoning for why you're not obligated.
Cool.
Now, my thing is, what if he said, I'm not obligated to pay the bills and be masculine all the time?
What would you do?
Well, okay.
First of all, you have to have a conversation about that.
No, no, no.
Because I don't want to give him sexual favors whenever he wants.
Yes, so therefore, since you can pick and choose when you want to have sex, you feel like it.
That sounds like prostitution.
What you're paying the bills and I just do it.
Please listen.
Okay, okay.
If you're going to pick and choose when you want to give him sex, which is the main commodity you bring to the relationship, let's be honest, then he should be able to pick and choose when he gives you his main commodity time, attention, and resources.
Myron, are you talking about building a relationship?
Yes, in a relationship, yes.
But if you're building a relationship, you need to understand as a man, That for a woman, she's connected to her heart.
We have emotional needs that you guys can have.
I'm connected to my wallet.
I don't feel like spending money this month.
That's okay.
That's okay.
I agree.
Okay.
See, hold on, hold on.
No, no, no.
All I'm doing, ladies, see how ridiculous I fucking sound?
Because you guys want to be able to forfeit your obligation whenever you feel like it.
You know what?
I'm going to forfeit my obligation, too.
I don't feel like paying the light bill this month.
Facts.
Because I don't have things to do.
I don't feel like paying the mortgage this month.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
You are invading the house.
I don't feel like fucking protecting you this month.
Fucking.
I'm on my period, guys.
I'm on my period.
No, but see how ridiculous you guys sound where you can go ahead and forfeit your responsibility, but I'm supposed to always adhere to my responsibility.
What if it's mutual, though?
Like, example, if you want to pay the light bill, you don't want to pay the light bill.
Yeah.
I'll pay the light bill.
Cool.
Then it's actually equal.
Exactly.
Because if you want to be able to forfeit your responsibilities as a woman, I should be able to forfeit my responsibilities as a man when I feel like it.
I don't feel like paying the light bill.
You don't want to give no head?
Cool.
You don't have to, but I don't feel like paying the light bill.
I think that's 100% fair.
The problem is when sex is used as welfare.
What do you mean by that?
If your woman is...
Manipulating you with sex, I don't think that's a healthy relationship.
But let's say that just your relationship, like if you're going to have a long-lasting healthy relationship, there's going to be ups and downs like a business, like anything in life, right?
So if you're going to have a healthy relationship that is going to last throughout time, there's going to be times that maybe he doesn't feel like it and she feels like it.
There's going to be times that she doesn't feel like it.
Maybe because she's going through something emotional inside or maybe, you know, life is so complicated.
A man's primary duty is not to please this woman sexually, though.
Facts.
It's not his primary thing, but the Bible says that that's one of the woman's rights.
When she asks for sex, that's one of her rights.
Fresh, can you fact check that one?
So I want to say this, first and foremost, it's the wife's duty to please her husband at all times.
Now, what's the point of having a husband if you can't please him?
Definitely.
So then, let's take a step further to sex itself.
If your man has needs, you can fulfill them.
What are you doing?
Okay.
You know, if a woman has needs, but our needs, a woman's and men's needs are completely different.
They're always met, though.
I'm paying the bills, taking care of the family.
But that's the thing.
Those are not the only needs that a woman has.
We have emotional needs.
No, but that's the foundation, though.
So that's the thing.
The thing that a lot of men don't understand is that we have these emotional needs that you guys don't have.
So it's really complicated when you're only focusing on the problems and we're not working towards working together.
So what you've effectively proven is that women require way more of men than men require of women.
We have emotional needs.
We want financial needs.
We want protection needs.
We need security needs, etc.
So the man, all he wants back is to fuck.
And you guys are saying, well, I'll do it when I feel like it.
No, but okay.
No, fucking checkmate, bro!
It's a 1,000% checkmate because, look, men don't ask for much.
So if a guy says, I want to fuck, and you have the audacity to say no, fantastic.
You know what?
I don't want to pay the bills.
I don't want to protect you.
I don't have to lead you anymore.
I'm going to pick and choose.
Stop interrupting.
I'm going to pick and choose when I want to be a man just because you want to pick and choose when you want to be a girlfriend or a wife.
Men don't ask for much.
So if all we ask for a lot of times is sex and silence and you don't give the sex, that's 50% of you being useless.
Gone.
But on the other hand, let's say I decide not to fuck you.
I'm still protecting, still providing for you, still giving you some emotional stability.
Women require way more of men than men require of women.
So therefore, everything we require of you has more weight.
Do you want to be the leader of your home?
That's how it goes.
Exactly.
Of course.
So of course you are the bigger person.
You're the one that has the bigger responsibilities and you're the one that has to give the most.
Yes, of course.
Okay, but what I'm asking for isn't hard, though.
Yeah, no, I understand, and I'm agreeing with you in the sense that, of course, a woman and a wife has to fulfill her duties, but at the same time...
Alright, you know what?
Let me just say it.
If a girl isn't having sex with her man, she's fucking useless.
Definitely.
She's useless.
I agree with that, but there's times...
Okay, so why are y'all saying, I do it when I feel like it?
I go to work when I don't feel like it.
I provide for you when I don't feel like it.
I pay life when I don't feel like it.
I go to the gym and maintain this fucking physique when I don't feel like it.
I'm achieving excellence when I don't fucking feel like it.
But why is it women can go ahead and pick and choose when they feel like it?
If I do all this shit to become the fucking guy, and I'm in a relationship with you, and you pick me, and I say, yo, I want some sex, and you're like, I don't know if I feel like it.
Fuck you!
Done!
Get out of here!
You effectively are useless.
That's the equivalent to me.
Someone breaks into the house, I let them beat your ass.
What if I let that happen?
Y'all would leave me, wouldn't you?
It's the same thing.
The thing is that men and women are not the same.
There's functional equivalence, you understand?
I can't go ahead and compare apples to apples.
Sorry, I can't compare apples to oranges, so I have to make it apples.
I'm giving you the functional equivalent.
If you don't want to fuck me, that's cool.
But don't expect me to protect you when you fucking need me.
I don't like how women go ahead and pick and choose their rules.
So then it's not cool, because you're not okay.
Like, you're sitting here saying that's cool, but then you're like mad because I don't want to fuck you.
I look at it like this.
If your girl doesn't want to fuck you, she's within her prerogative to do so.
That's fine if she's your girl, but you need to kick her to the curb and find another wound.
But why, though?
Because she's useless!
You mean one or two times?
So you mean...
I come home from work and I just go outside.
Would you agree if it's like...
I have a question.
So, the thing is, you're talking about relationships if they're just commodities.
We're really, really complicated beings.
So, for what you said, if it is a couple of times, there might be a fight.
Men are complicated.
No, all human beings are complicated.
We're emotional beings.
Men are not complicated.
No, we all are complicated.
So that's the thing.
You cannot say if she doesn't have sex with you, then she doesn't work.
So what do you want?
Do you want a wife or do you want just a girl?
Because your wife is a completely different job.
It's a lot of work.
You're being successful.
You have a successful podcast, right?
That took you a lot of work, right?
You guys are missing the whole point of this.
Basically, what it boils down to is you are not obligated to fulfill your obligations to your man, essentially, but I'm still required to fulfill my obligation.
I'm still supposed to be a protector, a provider, a leader.
And as a matter of fact, you would probably leave me if I didn't do these things.
On the other hand, though, you want to be able to have the right to say, I don't feel like fucking and me still being monogamous to you.
I think if a woman wants to pick and choose when she wants to fuck, cool.
I can pick and choose when I want to kick you to the curb.
Because men don't ask for much.
We live in a crazy ass society where women want to go ahead and get all the privileges of chivalry without going ahead and giving the guy a fair deal in return.
Fuck that shit.
I tell guys all the time, you're going to want to fuck you no more?
Kick her out the house.
She's no longer your girl.
She's useless.
Because, I'll be honest with y'all, men and women don't have a lot of similar interests.
We don't necessarily align on a lot of our lifestyles and beliefs and experiences.
So if a girl isn't fucking you, she's effectively useless most of the time.
That's what most guys are going to tell you.
That means that you have a better run.
Hold on, hold on, hold on, stop the show!
How many of y'all went on a date with a nigga you didn't even like before?
All of you have probably been on a date with a guy that you didn't like.
Here's the difference.
That proves my fucking point.
That's what I'm trying to say.
Men must add value to the point that women will go out with dudes they don't even fucking like and hang out with them, but it would never be the other way around.
Niggas don't go out with bitches they're not trying to fuck.
So that proves my point that men absolutely provide value to women even if she doesn't fucking like his ass.
Us on the other hand, we're always going out with an intention.
So if that does not prove that men have to provide value men have to bring way more to the table that women do and women are actually Okay, we're going out guys that they don't even like but it's not the other way around Yo, there's a better performance on men and if I do all this shit the least I could get in return is for you to suck my dick Right Dawson agrees there he goes.
Hey Hey, real quick.
There we go.
Dunk on him.
Hey, I have a question for you ladies.
Who here thinks that if a woman decided, let's say you have a brother or a cousin or a nephew, whatever, who decided, I'm not going to have sex with him for like three weeks, who here thinks he should leave her?
Who here thinks he should stay?
What's the reason why she's not?
For whatever reason, they got in a fight, and she thinks that for the next three weeks, she's just not going to have sex with me.
I mean, if they cheated on her, I wouldn't.
It depends on the reason.
I feel like there's a reason, though.
There's always a reason.
It can't just be like, this, this, that.
I feel like it has to be a reason.
So you would not tell your brother, nephew, cousin to leave if she's withheld sex for three weeks?
I'm curious.
Does anybody think he should leave?
That's shocking.
Terrible advice.
It depends on what the reason is.
Not only is it terrible advice, the best thing for the relationship would be for him to do what?
Anybody know?
Anybody know the correct answer?
To communicate?
For him to get the fuck up and leave.
That's the correct answer.
I feel like y'all just want to fuck.
It's so much deeper than that.
It's not about that.
It's part of that, but for you guys, the validation comes from attention.
For us, the validation comes from?
Sex.
Thank you.
And that's the problem.
Because for you, when you have kids, you know the baby's yours.
We don't know if the baby's ours.
That's why when you guys decide, hey, we're not going to have sex, from our standpoint, we're like, wait, but could she be having sex with someone else?
Right?
That's the issue.
For us, the validation comes from sexual intercourse.
I know it sounds incredibly shallow, but it's not just the sex.
It's that that lets us know that you want to be with us.
If you don't have sex with us, there's a chance you might be sleeping with someone else.
But for every relationship I've ever seen, when a woman says, hey, I don't want to have sex with a guy, that to me means she probably doesn't respect him and she doesn't want to validate him.
So for you to say that for three weeks, there is no dude on the planet.
Or she just wants to see if he's really serious about her.
You're already in a relationship.
You've been having sex.
And then there's a three-week period where she decides she does not want to have sex with him.
And you guys are literally telling me that you would tell your brothers and cousins.
You didn't say that.
You didn't say relationship.
You didn't say relationship.
And then all of a sudden, for whatever reason, she just gets into a mood and decides for three weeks she doesn't want to have sex with him.
Who here would say leave the relationship?
That's why I said it depends on if you communicated with your partner or not.
Like, you're in a relationship.
Okay, ask her why she's not having sex with you.
She's not feeling it.
She's not feeling it.
Like, why are you not?
You had one job.
No one's forcing shit on you.
Why is that our one job?
You know what?
We're made so y'all can fuck us.
That's not what we're all concerned for.
That's our one job in a relationship.
I'm talking about oxygen is important.
Until you're choking, then oxygen is the most important thing in the world.
If you're in a relationship and you're getting some sex, it might not be the most important thing in the world.
If you're getting no sex, all of a sudden that thing becomes the top priority.
Why is this happening?
It's a huge fucking red light.
That's the point I'm trying to make.
I get what you're saying.
It's not everything.
That's not all we want to do is fuck you.
My point is...
That's what he was kind of saying, though.
That's what he was making it seem like I'm trying to make the same example from your point of view.
If you're not doing that, that is a massive red flag from our standpoint that you don't respect us.
But the problem is, you guys are saying, well, all you want is sex.
No, it's not that we want sex.
It's the sign that not having sex with us, the red flag that not having sex with us, it's humongous.
It speaks volume.
You having sex with us speaks a lot, compliance, but you might just really like sex.
You not having sex with us in a relationship, that speaks 50 times more.
Do you understand?
Yeah.
That's the problem.
And for you guys to tell me that you would tell your male relatives that a girl is just withholding sex for three weeks and you shouldn't do it about it?
That is fucking crazy.
Girls are super, super horny and they want to have sex all the time.
You know what I mean?
But then you got those girls that don't really care about it.
I've met girls like that.
I like sex, of course.
I can't speak for y'all, but I like sex.
We know, yeah, we know.
Don't play with me.
You don't know.
Anyways.
But then you got those girls that, like, they don't care about it, you know?
Like, it's not their first thing on their mind.
Like, okay, like, okay, I can only speak for myself.
You wake up, you think about sex.
Like, some girls don't think about that.
Some girls are like, oh, my business, this, this, that.
That proves what I've been saying.
Men must provide value to the point where women can have the privilege of saying, oh, I'm not that horny all the time.
I don't really want to fuck.
No, the reality is this.
You're not attracted to that guy that much.
However, he provides you some other auxiliary benefits.
Maybe he makes money.
Maybe he gives you security.
Maybe he listens to your bullshit feelings and listens to you talk about yourself.
Bullshit feelings.
Whatever it is.
Bullshit feelings a lot of the times.
So, the thing is, is what I'm trying to say is that men have to offer utility to the point where women have the privilege of saying, oh, I don't have to fuck him, but I get value out of him.
Men don't have that privilege.
When we deal with y'all, if we're not fucking with y'all, if a man is with a woman and he's not fucking her, she's effectively almost useless.
And if you don't, again, once again, ask the guys here, how many of y'all been on a date with a bitch you don't like?
We don't do that shit.
You guys do that shit.
Why?
Because women are able to extract value from men that they don't like.
The thing is this.
Y'all don't like me pointing y'all's feet to the fire.
You want us to provide value to you while you don't have to provide value to us.
Fuck that shit.
I'm over here waking guys up.
If a girl ain't fucking you, you kick her to the curb.
She's effectively useless.
That's why guys sit here in the friend zone.
How many of y'all have a dude in the friend zone right now?
Every one of y'all probably has a dude in the friend zone.
Right?
Fucking...
Now, I don't got no bitches in the friend zone because women are useless most of the time if they're not sucking your dick.
And that's a God-honest truth.
You think men really care about your opinion or what you think or your views on things?
No!
Some guys do!
Some guys do!
Some guys are actually interested in the girl's mind and what she's about, not just her, but JJ. Is that what he told you?
And then he's not going to, and he's still going to want to do this, this, that, but some guys are attracted to a woman's mind.
It's not just about sex.
What you were saying about oxygen and validation in relationships.
So what is our oxygen in relationships is the emotional validation, right?
So they both go hand in hand.
Sure, then we're not a good match, and you're withholding sex, and I'm out.
It's like why the Jonah Hill thing made no sense to me at all.
Jonah Hill said, if these are the things you want, this isn't going to work for us.
That wasn't manipulative.
He has the right to fucking leave.
The two of you who said you went on a date with a guy, and he was too nice, and then you didn't have sex with him.
Do you understand from our standpoint, we're looking at this, you want to know how I know you didn't like him?
Because you didn't.
I totally agree with you.
You're twisting my words around.
I said he was nice.
That's why I went on the date with him.
I didn't say I didn't fuck him because he was nice.
I said I was not sexually attracted to him.
Totally.
But my point is you didn't pursue a relationship with him because you didn't like him.
And the way you show that, the outer sign of that is you didn't Have sex with him.
He showed things that I didn't want in a man that I actually wanted to be with.
I agree with you, but I was talking about the two girls who said the thing that was nice.
In your situation...
I said he was too nice for me.
Oh no, he gave me the ick, sorry.
That does not disprove the fact that each and every one of you, I guarantee, has been out with a guy that you didn't like that much.
You went out with them anyway because maybe you got a free dinner.
Maybe you got a cool experience that you might not have been able to do on your own.
Maybe you just were bored.
The point I'm trying to make is that women go out on frivolous dates with men that they don't like because men offer value regardless.
Women, on the other hand, don't.
That's what I'm trying to say.
If y'all ain't fucking, you guys are useless.
And if you don't believe me, let's say all of you guys lost your vaginas tomorrow.
Let's see how you keep a man.
You want to be able to.
I mean, yes, I will.
It's not always about that.
I have a lot to offer just besides sex.
If you really like a guy, you like him a lot, you can go to the park with him, you can go to a friggin' Ferris wheel, He's not going to spend a lot of money.
But, I want to say the short term, you like him in a genuine way, you want to smash him.
You do want to.
So on some level, when it's genuine, real desire, you want to smash your guy.
To that point.
Hold on, hold on.
If you're a loser of a genre, how would you keep a nigga around?
Let's start here.
My personality is actually very great.
I have a lot to me.
I'm smart.
I'm funny.
I can put a lot in to something besides my coochie.
But you're not D1. Oh my god.
You said you have a personality.
What else?
I'm funny.
Okay.
I'm smart.
I'm pretty.
I mean, pretty, yeah.
Okay.
But he can't smash, though, so there's a pretty good table.
But why is I have to be pretty if he's smashed?
Like, I have a lot more than just like...
What would you do if you didn't have a vagina?
How would you keep a guy around?
What would that mouth do?
All you want is vagina.
Why?
Why you talk about this so much?
Okay, so she knows.
What about you?
What would you do if you lost your vagina?
How would you keep your husband?
About your act of service.
Cook for him.
There's a lot of value that we have.
So I wanted to say something about your...
Okay, I wanted to say something to your point that you said about you don't have to spend a lot of money and the girl really likes you.
She will want to have sex with you, right?
Yeah.
So that's what I was saying about the emotional needs.
So he can be paying for all your bills and whatever it is, but if that emotional connection isn't there, you don't want to have sex with him.
So a lot of times I feel like men forget that for us, like, there is a deeper connection that is needed.
So what do you want?
Do you want your wife to have sex with you without her enjoying it?
You want your wife to be wet, like...
For lack of a better word, you want her to enjoy it.
You want her to enjoy it with you.
And yes, sometimes you might not enjoy it and she do it because she loves you, right?
But if she's doing it, even though she doesn't feel it, it's because you're fulfilling her emotional needs.
My emotions are really down.
I'm not paying the bills this month.
But no, you just said it.
Sometimes you don't feel it, but I ought to do this for your husband.
You're going to do it.
And you read the verse, Corinthians.
If I feel that I'm loved...
Yeah, but once again, I don't feel like I'm loved.
I'm not paying the mortgage this month.
You're going to do it.
I don't feel the love.
Because you love your man.
Even when you're tired, when you don't feel like doing it.
I don't feel the love, man.
I don't feel like it, so I'm just not going to pay the bills this month.
Can you cover it?
Sure.
Alright, cool.
You won't pay the bills and she doesn't have a vagina?
Damn, bro.
She is fucked, bro.
That is terrible.
The problem is that whenever women say, I need to feel an emotion and blah, blah, blah.
The issue with that is that emotions change minute to minute based on your period, etc.
Women are emotionally erratic.
They're never consistent every single day.
Their moods always change.
So you're telling me that I need to go ahead and base one of the cornerstones of my happiness, sexual fulfillment, on how you feel?
That's crazy to me.
Because, guess what?
Your security isn't contingent upon how I feel.
If someone breaks into the house, no matter how I feel, I gotta protect you.
If we need to go ahead and pay a bill, it doesn't matter how I feel, I gotta fucking pay for it.
If I'm the man and I'm supposed to be the man of the house and the leader, it doesn't matter how the fuck I feel.
I fulfill my duty.
But women, on the other hand, want to feel like they don't have to do their duty.
And that's where I'm saying, I'm calling bullshit on that.
It's not a fair trade.
Why is it that I have to be a man at all times, but you can pick and choose when you want to be my wife?
That's bullshit.
If you're going to play that game, cool.
I'm going to have five other bitches.
That's how we're going to do it.
And I get what you're saying regarding emotional connection and it being something of value.
Fuck emotions!
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
I'll go somewhere with this.
However, that means everything we argue and get upset, you don't want to fuck me.
Which is fucked up because then that means you're contingent upon how you feel, which means it won't happen a lot.
So, is that really beautiful to your husband?
Right.
How do you feel about it?
So, the relationships are such a big work that you need to have a set of rules, right?
So, maybe...
And that's really up to each relationship, you know?
Like...
The thing is, I don't think people that don't have a long-lasting relationship can talk about a long-lasting relationship, right?
Because they haven't had it.
So how can, for example...
Three months?
Three years.
You just got married.
Three months.
But we've been together for three years.
That's barely anything, man.
That's barely.
Three months.
Three years, right?
So in order for me, even though to get to those three months being married and just to get to being married, there was a lot of work that needed to be done.
Because we're...
It's just...
How can we just put things as just black and white?
When even you guys, Myron, you're saying that, oh, maybe I'm not feeling like I want to pay the bills today, right?
Yeah.
So what about you making just...
If she's feeling safe and she's feeling that sometimes...
You're listening to her constantly and maybe the relationship is not going to be perfect, right?
But if overall you're fulfilling your needs and she's fulfilling her needs too, the relationship is a success, right?
That's it.
You cannot put things black or white and then she just doesn't have sex with you to kick it to the curb.
If she's using sex as a weapon, definitely get a divorce.
Don't be with her.
See, what you're missing, though, is that men are very simple and our needs are typically pretty much black and white.
But you keep going back to your needs.
I'm telling you, men's needs in general are fairly black and white.
We're very simple across different socioeconomic classes, whatever.
Men are very simple.
You keep looking at things through a female lens.
How I feel.
And you keep looking at things from a masculine male lens.
So that's the thing.
So how can we, are talking about all these problems, but we're not talking about the solutions.
Yeah, we should look at it from the male lens.
Hold on.
We should look at it from the male lens because the men are the ones giving relationships out.
So it probably behooves you to understand what men want because we have to know what the fuck women want.
You guys make that very apparent in all your music and popular culture.
We know what women want, but we don't necessarily know what men want.
And I would argue most women don't care what men want.
I'm telling you, men are very simple.
What we want is typically linear.
It is black and white.
You're the one that's complicating it.
I don't know if I feel this way today and blah, blah, blah.
I'm saying men don't have that privilege of saying, I don't feel like it.
We have to be a man at all times.
And you guys want to go ahead and pick and choose when you want to be a dutiful wife.
I'm saying that's cool.
I'm not arguing for you guys not being able to exercise things on your prerogative.
That's fine.
But what I am saying is that men need to put consequences on that shit.
You don't want to fuck?
Fantastic.
You're effectively single now.
But you're talking about just one time?
Can you be more specific with that?
When your girl isn't fucking you, nine out of ten times, it's like a long-term thing.
It's a drought, right?
She just isn't feeling you and she just withholds sex from you or she uses it as a weapon for some type of behavior.
Once a woman weaponizes sex against you, it's a wrap.
It's not.
It's disrespect.
That's what I'm trying to say.
That's what most women do.
They weaponize sex, and I'm just telling guys not to tolerate that shit.
To make it clear, though, once or twice, when it's not back-to-back, it's fine.
Okay, yeah.
A long period of time, let's say three weeks.
Is the same thing as weaponizing financial support?
If you're weaponizing it, and I feel like I can pay the bills today, but not tomorrow, you're all sure...
Like, being abusive.
But how did it start, though?
But how did it start for her, too?
Women typically weaponize sex first.
Yep.
But why?
How do you feel?
Why?
So the thing...
So, okay.
So you guys been saying...
It doesn't matter why.
That's like me saying, I don't want to pay the bills.
No.
It does matter.
It does matter.
Myron, you bring it up a lot that it is like 70% of divorces are served by women.
Yes.
Right?
Like 80%.
Right.
Exactly.
So did you know that 85% of women initiate counseling?
Most people don't go to counseling.
Like not even 10% of couples go to counseling.
Which is really sad because we haven't been taught as human beings to be in a healthy relationship.
Okay.
And not only that, going to counseling, they do it in bad faith.
They go to counseling because they know that it'll allow them to get a better...
Not necessarily.
They can say, oh, I need to initiate this divorce because we tried counseling.
It didn't work.
No.
So did you get a mentor maybe for real estate or something like that at any point?
Maybe for business or something?
No, I pretty much did the real estate myself.
Okay, that's great.
Kudos to you.
But in general, if you can get a mentor in any type of thing, your chances of being successful are going to be higher, right?
So that's one of the things that I think, and people don't really talk about it, that people go to counseling when it's too late.
And I've been reading, I read a lot about relationships and human biology and the brain and psychology because I really want to have great relationships.
Not just with my husband, but with everyone around me.
And like you were saying, men are really simple.
Actually, no.
Like, They get a little moody too.
The reasons why we get moody are very, very binary.
Like, you can understand.
We are hungry.
We stubbed our toe.
We lost a job.
It is not like I didn't have a random feeling of panic because I was driving home at some point and a fucking song came on.
That's not how it works.
It's not complicated.
Do you have an example of how men are complicated?
Well, it's just, we all are emotional beings.
Yeah, but ours are not difficult to discern.
I tell this to every girl that I meet, I'm like, hey, they're like, are you mad at me?
I'm like, I will tell you I'm mad at you when I'm mad at you.
You will never, ever have to fucking worry.
I promise you it'll never be a mystery.
Yeah, I will tell you if I'm upset, okay?
I don't think, especially alpha men, I don't think that they're complicated at all.
Do you think they are?
I think certain men to a certain degree.
Some of them you could have been, like you said, in a relationship, you said three weeks, right?
Yeah, for sure.
And you said, oh, I'll kick you to the curb or something.
I'm not going to pay the bill for three weeks.
You don't want to have sex, right?
I would just be like, hey, let's just not see each other.
I'm just using your logic.
Because y'all are saying we should be able to withhold sex whenever we want.
I'm like, okay, well, I should be able to withhold provisioning whenever I want.
Nobody said that.
Nobody said that we should be able to withhold sex anytime.
Nobody said that.
A woman shouldn't have to have sex on your terms.
It's a mutual agreement.
That's what we said.
Yes, you are under zero obligation to fuck the guy.
It's a mutual agreement.
Like she said, you want your woman to enjoy it or you want her to lay there and not have a good time just because you want to get a nut off.
He said he doesn't enjoy paying bills.
Yeah.
But he still does it in the first place.
Like, bro, like, see, the thing is, again, this is what I always do.
I love to use email logic back on them, and then you guys realize how ridiculous it sounds, and then you're like, but wait, no, hold on, blah, blah, blah.
I'm just saying, if you have the ability to pick and choose when you want to get laid, which is cool, Fine.
I should have the ability to pick and choose when I want to be a man and pay the bills and take care of you.
I think what we're saying is that you're making it black or white.
I think what we're trying to say is that we're not saying that we don't want to have sex with you at all or whatever like that.
Exactly.
Remember, it's life.
Things go through things.
We have menstruals.
People die.
You know, we have all of that type of stuff.
You know what I'm saying?
going on so i'm just keeping it real i'm just keeping it real i'm keeping it real like so for you to say you don't want to pay bills because you don't want to pay a bill because you know i'm saying so you're talking about like hey you go through stuff menstrual cycle blah blah blah a man's life is way harder than a woman's life Way harder.
Yeah, but you don't have these emotional, sorry, hormonal cycles going inside of you.
like you you you don't know what it is to be differently differently you Your balls are not sleeping.
Chris, can you check on that?
They're not sleeping.
No.
But on the contrary, a woman's hormonal cycle, you know it's 28 days.
I've had to do a lot of internal work for when I have my period or before my period that I feel like I'm going crazy.
Oh, for sure.
We're talking about three weeks and no actual explanation.
You just decided to not have sex with someone.
I think it's a horrible warning sign.
Now, going back to what you said before, why are men complicated like women?
No, I didn't say that.
I didn't say that.
Anybody else think men are complicated?
Because if you think men are complicated, you're just fucking a dude who's lying to you.
That's what's going on.
Men are not complicated.
What I wanted to say is we're deep human beings.
Men or women, we're deep human beings that we go through emotional things that most of us have some kind of emotional trauma because of our parents or because of our environment.
I agree.
Right?
So that's what I mean.
Emotional damage!
That's cool.
That's fine.
But men experience way more trauma.
Men experience a way harder life than women do.
So if we want to play the sympathy game of who has a harder experience, men absolutely have a harder experience than women, especially in a modern day age.
So you know what?
Let me not pay the bills because I'm going through trauma.
Yeah.
See, here's the thing.
Women lack logically sound skills.
Debating things in logic, right?
I'm just using your same arguments and the functional equivalent back on you and you guys don't know how to respond.
Because you want to be able to hold all the leverage and pick and choose when the guy fucks and all this.
I want to go off how I feel, blah, blah, blah.
But if I use your excuse for me not being a man, y'all will look at me like I'm crazy.
No, if you're going through trauma, if you have a good woman, she should be able to cover the bills if you can't pay them for some reason.
Yeah, it's a relationship.
How long is that going to last?
How long are you going to be in your feelings?
Any human being has a responsibility of getting themselves out of the dark spot.
All I'm saying is that every excuse that y'all have It doesn't work because men live harder lives than women, so a nice try.
Men have more burning performance than women, so a nice try.
Men have to bring way more to the table than a woman does, nice try.
Men have to add more value than a woman does to be in a relationship in the first place, nice try.
So all y'all have to do is fuck.
And if you don't do that, you're effectively useless.
But Myron, you cannot talk about, like, completely remove the value of a woman like that.
Like, the fact that, yes, I agree 100% that you guys go through harder things.
I'm not removing the value.
I'm saying your predominant value is based on sexuality.
That's what I'm saying.
Okay, so if you're just, if you're saying that, if you're saying that, like you're, sorry, I just, I got stuck.
Yeah, when you were waiting Computer leg, freeze Hilarious.
I agree.
I remember what I was going to say.
Go ahead.
I agree with the fact that men have harder lives, but you cannot just say like, oh, just because I have a harder life than you, then your trauma is not valid.
Like...
It doesn't work like that.
Your trauma can be valid, but at some point, I've met girls before, I'm like, wow, this girl's great.
And then the trauma comes out and it's like, hey, I don't hate you.
You're not a useless person, but we don't need to be in a fucking relationship.
So you go that way and I go this way because I have the freedom to do that.
And there's nothing wrong with it.
Again, I'm going back to the Jonah Hill thing.
Jonah Hill said, you're doing things I don't like and I don't want to be with you anymore.
And everyone was like, how dare you tell this woman to not dress like that?
It was ridiculous.
No, he has the right to do that.
By the way, if the Jonah Hill thing is bad, does that not make every single Muslim man a problem?
Every traditional Muslim man would ask the same thing from his woman.
Am I wrong?
And I'm saying this as a Christian.
I'm saying this as a Christian.
Is that not correct?
That was always just very confusing to me.
That's the problem.
We have the right to leave if we want.
Does that make sense?
You have the right to have your trauma, and I have the right to leave.
That's all I'm saying.
I agree.
That's why communication is key.
You keep it honest in the beginning, but a lot of us don't do that.
We leave people on.
That's why we go down the path that we are, like Myron said.
It's easier to leave than to work on it.
Women don't want honesty, though.
It hurts.
It definitely hurts.
I know you're saying communication, but women don't want the truth.
I learn that more and more every day, dude.
That's why niggas lie, man.
I can hear every session.
And that's why the shit keep recycling itself.
That right there, everyone's lying to each other.
You know what I'm saying?
I think women lie way more than men do, though.
Yeah, facts.
You disagree?
You want a date with a nigga that spent $1,300 at Komodo?
And you didn't tell him, I'm not going to fuck you before the date?
Well, it's called giving a person a chance seeing if we have chemistry.
Some girls just ghost and don't give a damn about you.
Was there a chance?
Was there a chance before?
I didn't know the bill was going to be $1,300.
Women lie, men buy.
literally everything about the female existence is a lie man Makeup, we don't know when you're on your period, we don't know when you're in heat, we don't know if you're pregnant or not.
Everything about the female mystique is about fucking lying.
Wearing extensions, wearing nails, not showing interest in a guy, going out with guys that you don't give a fuck about because you're trying to get a free dinner or whatever.
Like, everything about the female existence is a lie to a degree.
Women have to be deceptive in a lot of their practices because women are the inferior sex physically.
So what do they have to do?
They have to be the superior sex mentally and cognitively.
So they have to use deception to attract the opposite gender and retain the opposite gender because you guys don't have the strength to beat us physically.
So women can have a lot of guys.
If I took 100 women, I guarantee 90 of them have probably been on dates and finessed a dude out of that date.
However, if I line up 100 dudes, maybe 10 of them have been able to finesse a woman.
Men are not able to connive women to the same degree that women connive men.
And that's because the whole female psyche is centered around deception.
Everything about y'all is deceptive.
Makeup, lashes, heels, tight dresses, surgeries, etc.
Boobs.
Being on your period.
We might not know it.
Being in heat.
Everything about female psychology is deceptive to a degree.
Going on dates with niggas y'all don't like.
Like, come on, man.
Come on, man.
So, deception could probably attract somebody, but it's not going to keep in my eye.
I don't think you guys care.
I think they just want to hit.
Ladies, if any of you lied about being on your period, be truthful.
At any time, at any You know how I would get them if that ever came up?
Yeah.
Oh, I'm on my period.
I'm like, perfect.
I don't stop.
I don't stop by red lights.
Bro.
What?
What?
You gonna fuck a girl on her period?
Excuse me?
And then what you're gonna do is she's actually on her period.
What are you gonna do?
But then, but then, I'm gonna see if you're lying or not.
Shit.
I didn't understand.
Because if you're lying, you're gonna be like, okay, well.
So you basically just want her to show you.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, shut up.
- Show me the blood.
- How do you want her to show you?
- No, no, no.
She's like, cool with it.
But if she's not, it's like, oh, well.
Some girls are okay with fucking on their periods.
That's, like...
Would you be okay with a girl showing you that's her on her period?
No, no, no.
Again, it's just a statement.
She calls her to either fold or to, you know?
You said if she's down, then that means, oh, she's on her period.
If she's not down, then she's on her period.
But, uh, crush...
I'm curious.
why would a girl go on a date when she's on her period?
Men have to offer value to women and it doesn't have to be sexual for women to deal with us.
But for you guys to offer value, it must be sexual for us to deal with you.
That's the difference.
That's the difference.
Everything about the female psyche is a lot.
Y'all have anything to rebut that?
Yeah, so you talk about women, and I've seen some of your videos talking about high body counts and all these things.
So just because you're going on a date with somebody and you're just trying to get to know them and vet them for the future, so that it's just implicit that you're going to have sex with them?
No, it's not that.
I'm saying that women will go out on a date with someone that they don't like and still be able to extract value, but men don't.
To use your question, you said, like, you're gonna go on a date on your period.
That's what you said just now.
I didn't say that.
Chris proposed a question, why do women go out on dates with their period?
And then I answered it by saying that because men offer utility outside of sex.
No, but what if you want to get to know the guy?
You're in your period, and so you're not going to go on a date just because you want to get to know the guy?
Men offer utility outside of sex.
You want to get to know the guy because women enjoy male attention.
Women are able to extract value from men even when there's no sex involved.
We are not really able to extract value from y'all unless there is sex involved.
I mean, I don't know why you guys don't understand this.
Because it doesn't make sense.
It doesn't.
It doesn't make sense.
How does it not make sense?
I get what you're saying.
How does it not make sense?
It doesn't.
What's your reasoning for it not making sense?
Because you're saying that the whole point of going on a date is to have sex at the end of the date.
From the male perspective.
Okay, from the male perspective, but as a woman, we go out on a date because we're trying to, like she said, we're trying to get to know you.
We're not, oh.
That's quite literally what I just said.
So we can get to know you.
Hold on.
If you want to be in a relationship, and y'all want, you know what I mean?
Did you not hear what I said a second ago?
Literally, like, 60 seconds ago, I said, women are able to extract value outside of just sex, attention, etc., which is getting to know the guy, talking to the guy.
That's what I just said.
Okay.
Are you listening?
Yes, I am listening.
I don't think you are.
Okay.
If you were listening, that would have made sense.
I wouldn't have to have just repeated myself.
But that just comes to show how different we are.
Because for the things that make a lot of sense for you, for us that we're women, and you have had a lot of women that disagree with all these things, it just doesn't make any sense because we're different beings.
I mean, that's okay.
No, no, no, no.
It's because women a lot of times lack logic, reasoning, and deductive problem solving skills.
That's the real reason why y'all can't understand what I'm trying to say here.
Women lack logic a lot of the times.
Definitely, men are better at that.
Like, 100%.
100%.
But that's why we are more emotional beings.
Like, the reason...
That's not a flex.
Okay, but don't you think that's crazy?
Like, I didn't invent them myself.
I came from God, and all of you came from God, right?
So there's a reason why.
There's a reason why this being created these two beings that are so completely different to join and to be together.
Don't you think that's something crazy?
Like, you were literally polar opposites, but at the same...
Yeah, he's not disagreeing that men and women are different.
Why do you think women are more emotional than men, if you were going to guess?
Like, from an evolutionary standpoint, why do you think?
Because we need to bond with our children.
That's exactly right.
You need to love your kids to an irrational level.
And your men too.
Right.
But with men, what do we have to do in order to have kids?
We have to compete with other men, which requires logic and reasoning.
So it's not that, like, if you look at IQ tests, men and women actually score about the same average, but men are outside the first standard deviation more often.
With women, though, like, it's one of these situations where it's not that you're not smart, it's that you're smart, but you have all these added emotions that go with it.
Why?
Because you need an irrational level of, like, craziness to protect your kids, and that's what we want in a good woman.
Does that make sense?
But for me, I gotta worry about this guy trying to kill my tribe, this guy, I gotta make this money, I gotta...
I have this burden of performance to do this.
I have to protect these people.
So that's the reason why.
It's an evolutionary adaptation.
That's why we're different.
I gave a very logically sound argument for why a lot of you guys are wrong, yet you guys are responding to me with emotion versus being able to back up what you're saying.
I mean, this conversation in itself proves that women lack deductive problem-solving and logically sound skills.
Or does it prove that we're just different?
It proves that you guys literally don't have rationale and logic.
Or does it prove that we're just different?
But being different shows that you don't have logic and rationale, which is what I'm trying to say.
You're different, but you're different because you don't have logic and rationale.
I mean, if you want to look at it that way, I just...
Incredible.
Incredible.
No, no, no.
And fuck incredible, man.
But we're different.
Okay, yeah, you're different because you don't have logic or rationale.
But wait, no, we're different.
That's what I'm saying.
No one's arguing that.
Okay, we got some more chat to it, man.
Yo, man.
You've been saying the same shit all over again.
Yo, man.
Yo.
Thank God, bro.
World's coolest nerd.
Let's go!
Let's go!
Yo, man.
Thank God that men are in positions of power and leadership, man.
Women, bro.
Goddamn, man.
If women were around the world, we would be fucking done.
Could you imagine?
I don't know how I feel about this.
I'm going to nuke Russia.
That's the simplest thing to say about a woman.
What was that?
That's what?
I feel like a lot of people say that, like, oh, women can't be presidents because all of a sudden our emotions will make us nuke a country.
Like, that's not how it works.
It's not far-fetched, though.
I guess.
It's just different type of women.
I feel like y'all are trying to categorize women as one.
There's different types of women.
Yeah, but in general, women don't have the same emotional control that men do.
You're saying in general, still generalizing all women in one category.
Well, we're talking about women running countries.
Question.
That's how the world works.
The world works on generalities.
Human beings are way more similar than you guys think.
Only in this crazy first world American society that we live in do we go ahead and run around and say everyone's special.
We are way more alike than y'all actually think.
Quick question.
You're going on a plane trip to Jamaica, right?
Two options for a captain.
A woman on a period or just an average man?
What would you choose?
So we're going to Jamaica on a plane, right?
Two options for a pilot.
Woman on a period or just the average guy?
Why does it matter though?
That's what I'm saying.
That makes no sense.
I wouldn't matter who my pilot is.
As long as they can fly the plane and I get to A and B safely, then it doesn't matter who flies it.
One doesn't.
It doesn't matter if she's on her period and she drives a plane.
What is she going to have like a cramp?
She's going to drive.
You're about to get a heart transplant.
We'll make it simpler.
You're about to get a heart transplant.
Would you prefer your surgeon to be a man or a woman?
What about you, Mr.
Ukraine?
Would you prefer a male or a female surgeon if you're going under heart surgery?
Oh, wow.
I have seen a lot of talented women and a lot of talented and stupid men either.
So I know that men also can be emotional, especially if they didn't have a girlfriend for a long time.
Like in this case, we have seen recently.
Or if they invaded your country.
Can we talk about that?
My bad.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
I apologize.
I apologize.
Sorry.
Which one do you prefer, the male or the female surgeon?
Boss are good.
Boss are good.
It's like me.
She don't care.
I don't care.
They're trying to make a point on your situation.
What about you?
What would you prefer?
Male or female surgeon?
Same.
Either.
Either or.
As long as they get the job done.
As long as they know what they're doing.
It doesn't matter if female or male.
It doesn't matter.
You say that now, but what is life or death?
You were saying that.
No, life or death.
That question you had, the body count, can we do that one?
Okay, so let's go back here real quick.
We got 30 minutes, guys, or 35 minutes, because we got to close this thing at 1230.
So it was here earlier.
Chris, you got it?
Chris is pulling it up right now.
I mean, here I'm first.
What, Chris?
I said, uh, here first.
Okay.
Jay Vanderpool15 says, Myron, Michael, Fresh, what's your thoughts if Joe Rogan interviewed Donald Trump?
That'd be amazing.
I don't think he'll do it, though.
But he'd have to also interview the other candidate.
That's the way it works.
Like, legally, he's supposed to do that.
Now, actually, because he's on Spotify, maybe he doesn't, but that's the way it's supposed to work.
If you interview one candidate up for election, you have to interview another one.
The other side.
That's pretty good.
Really?
Yeah, I'm pretty sure there's a rule about that.
Because I've had that same issue with my podcast where I've had somebody running for state comptroller and I had to get somebody else on there.
What?
For independent media?
Man, I could be wrong.
I could be wrong.
All right.
World's coolest nerd.
If a body is $100 and head is $50, who's the richest and poorest on the panel?
Okay, ladies.
Which one of you think you're the richest?
Go ahead and raise your hand.
Which one of you thinks you're the poorest?
Read the thing.
Which one of you thinks you're the poorest?
The least bodies and the least.
You think you're the poorest?
Okay, you are 12, so maybe.
I don't understand.
Anybody else?
I'm sorry.
Oh, you're 18.
Oh, okay.
I don't feel as bad.
Anybody else?
This experiment proves what I said before.
Women move by deception.
They don't want you to know their body count.
They don't want you to know anything.
Are you going to tell your body count?
yeah what's yours yeah what let me look it up hold on what's your body count let me get google sheets here you too michael no fresh i asked you first uh-oh yeah it's not important i already said it fresh is a man of god what is it you aren't here he's a man of god my body count is one one plus one that's it -
I thought you were a version. - Fresh is a man of God, thank you very much.
Thank you so much.
Can I ask a question?
Out of you three here on the panel, who would be the richest from that question?
Yeah.
Yeah, Fresh.
They're all men of God.
And when it says head, is it like receiving or giving?
Because it wasn't specific.
True.
That's true.
It really wasn't specific, so I feel like I can't answer that question.
Sorry.
I'm a millionaire.
Trying to be smart.
Wait, who said they'd be a millionaire, but it was head?
So raise your hand real quick.
I said receiving.
Receiving head, you'd be a millionaire?
Okay, got it.
What the fuck?
God!
Another example of men providing value.
Really quick, you got head and you didn't have sex with a guy.
Has that ever happened?
That's happened before.
You received head and did...
Ladies, anyone else, this has happened to you before.
the sisters you guys don't believe in heredity that's what I'm saying you don't have to fuck him you've received fellatio from a man and you did not have sex with him afterwards Ladies, anyone else?
Receive head and then you head home.
Okay, anybody else?
Now, this never happened to you?
A guy goes down on you, you're going to have sex with me.
You're going to have sex with him.
Have you ever had a guy go down on you and have fellatio, oral sex?
And afterwards, you did not have sex with him.
I don't understand the question.
I don't understand the question, honestly.
Like, have you ever hung out with a guy and he gave you a head?
You know what a head is?
Like, where he ate you out?
Pussy.
Okay.
And then you didn't poke him after.
You've done that?
Yes.
Yes, there you go.
Well, three of you, okay.
And then the rest of you- Y'all have it?
The rest of you are just lying.
Okay, got it.
Alright, cool.
Yeah, it's okay.
What about you?
What about you?
Have you ever received- Yeah, I don't know how to switch it.
Maybe we're in a car or something.
If we're in a car or a balcony or something like that, then that's not going to work.
But is it because you're already in a relationship?
What is the specific question?
You never had sex with a guy, he gave you oral sex, and you never had sex with a guy.
It doesn't matter.
A guy gives you oral sex and then you choose.
It's like, well, you are attractive enough to give me oral sex, but not attractive enough for me to have sex with you.
Has that ever happened?
You two said yes.
That was my question.
Has that ever happened?
No.
No, okay.
For me, it's equal.
Like, oral sex and casual sex, it's so equal for a woman because she does the same effort she prepares in the same way for every type of date.
Yeah, but it's not the same for a man.
Sorry.
What am I saying about disease?
Am I not?
That's considered a W for them.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Okay, we gonna move on.
Well, this is my point more.
Men provide value way more than women do.
Alright.
Okay, so women do the shit they do and wonder why the entire planet and every major religion has opposed to strict social restrictions on their sovereignty since the dawn of time in every place humans have ever lived.
That is true.
Uh, fuck yo, period.
I'm a crip.
I ain't never been scared of no blood.
Blackest Panther, what do you think is more intimate slash personal, giving a guy a blowjob or giving him access to your womb?
Ooh, that's a very good one.
I would say...
So what's worse, giving head or giving up your...
No, more intimate.
The question is, which one is more intimate and personal?
Well, I kind of want to spin a little bit.
What's worse?
Worst?
In your eyes.
What does it mean giving him full access to the wall?
For example, if you meet a guy, what is more of what I want to say to you?
Giving head or giving your pussy?
Full access is letting him fuck.
Giving head?
Like what's better?
No, like...
Would you regret giving him a blowjob or would you regret having sex?
I would regret having sex.
So sex?
Yeah.
Giving full access.
I don't know.
They're both like...
Yeah.
Which is the greater evil for you then?
Probably...
They're both extremely intimate.
Yeah.
Especially head.
Head is very intimate.
Yeah.
Because you're putting your mouth on somebody.
So for you is head.
Sure.
I don't know.
It's equal.
Sex?
Yes.
For you?
Yeah.
Full access.
Full access?
Yeah.
Definitely.
Access?
It's two equal things for me.
Yeah.
No, but if you had to choose which is a greater evil...
Well, first of all, with condom or without condom?
I just gotta ask this shit.
Yo, yo, you're pretty much escort, right?
Are you escort?
No.
but it's a very harsh question stop the cat come on man just call it you got sugar daddies you got multiple we can read between the lines here you got dudes that are subs and shit she's just a really good sugar baby we're not talking about this are you a sugar baby if a woman doesn't control the condom it's a very big problem for everybody for every woman
Okay, are you a sugar baby?
I mean, what's the difference between a regular boyfriend and a sugar?
Do you have men that give you money Just because.
Wait, shall we get off Twitch?
What does it mean just because?
Like, you have men that financially support you that you may or may not be having sexual relations with.
I had some things when men just send me money just by texting.
And I have no idea who are they.
And then do you have men that you meet that also pay you?
What does it mean pay?
I'm not working.
Maybe they'll pay you to go out with them for a drink.
They'll pay you.
You don't have to have sex, but they'll just pay you.
Pay the bill and then pay you money on the side.
In general, Ukrainian women, they always require flowers, they require jewelry, they require paying for bills, they require helping her mother, and then she maybe will give you something.
She's an expensive girl.
In Russian, either.
But sometimes Ukrainian women, they behave in a bad way.
So I honestly do not see the difference, because as for me, If man doesn't take any effort, he just will not get any pleasure.
Right, so he has to get effort first.
What?
He has to get effort first before you give him anything.
Of course, everybody gets effort.
Like, for me, being like this, like being a girl who just arrived to...
So does effort include cash transfer to your hands?
- You said hell yeah.
- One is a man.
- Okay, nevermind. - If he gives you money, is that him putting in F to you?
- All right, you said you have four boyfriends.
What does each boyfriend provide you?
How about that?
What do the boyfriends do for you?
Those four guys?
Because you said that they got to do something.
So what do these four boyfriends do for you?
Five.
Do they know they're five?
Well, I have no idea.
I mean, I'm in a public place, so they can easily check it.
So what do they do?
Tell me what the five boyfriends do.
What does one of them do?
For me, first of all, I'm trying to move to the US, so I need some help with documents, with businesses.
Every advice, every information.
Okay, so what's a mentor to you?
What's the second one?
Information, money...
Okay, second guy is money and information.
What about the third guy?
Spy.
They're all equal.
So they all provide you information, mentoring and money?
Yes.
Okay.
Hey, Ryan, I changed my prediction.
Rush is going to win this shit.
I'm sorry.
Let me take it away.
I can't say that.
I can't say that.
I'm sorry.
I apologize.
And here's the thing.
At least he's being honest about it because some of you ladies on the panel, come on, man.
Women typically don't exclusively date one guy at a time unless they're trying to take that guy seriously or trying to angle for some type of relationship.
A lot of girls do this where they date non-exclusively.
She's just being honest about it and getting resources in exchange.
Whatever works, man.
What was that, huh?
No, Chad's like, she's a bomb villain.
She's a bomb villain?
No!
Would you ladies agree that most women date non-exclusive have like one or two guys that they're seeing at the same time?
Yeah.
Yeah?
Yeah.
What about you?
I think if you don't have a boyfriend, you can have multiple.
What about you?
Yeah, but I don't consider them my boyfriend.
We're just dating.
Like, we're getting to know each other.
They're not your boyfriend, but they're just like...
Yeah.
You can date multiple people.
That's what dating is for.
Okay.
What about you?
Yes.
Yeah.
What was the question?
The question is, do you think women in general date multiple men non-exclusively at the same time?
Maybe some, but I don't think all.
Okay.
I'll say some, not all.
Okay.
What about you?
Yeah.
Same.
Well, Ms.
Ukraine, we know your thoughts.
Yes.
Okay.
Have you ever been seeing more than one guy at the same time?
Like, dating, dating, like, relationships?
Seeing, talking to, going on dates, whatever it is.
Not your boyfriend, not multiple boyfriends, dating multiple guys.
Multiple men at the same time, yes or no?
Yes.
Alright, cool.
Yep.
Yes.
Yes.
Never?
Stop the cow!
Have you ever been seeing, talking to, and or dating multiple men at the same time?
Yes.
Probably like two friends.
Like that, on that level.
You mean like being in a relationship?
No, you're dating two guys.
Oh, okay.
Getting to know them.
Oh, just getting to know them.
Yeah, okay.
I just wanted to specify that.
One guy in Jackson and one guy in Tallulah.
You know what I'm saying?
One guy in Memphis.
What about you?
So just getting to know them?
Yep.
Yeah.
Going through the courting process or whatever it may be.
Yeah.
You say corny.
No, courting.
Oh, okay.
And then you must know where she stands.
What about you?
Yes.
Okay.
Fair enough.
No, guys, listen to this.
This is another thing.
You're so sure it's just yours.
All of you.
Dude, let me tell you something.
When you guys end up hooking up with a really hot girl, I want you to know that the rest of the world is not happy for you.
And there's always some other dude who thinks that's his because she has allowed that to be the case.
Every single hot girl you meet, I don't care how much she swears she doesn't have a boyfriend, there is some dude who thinks he still hangs around, orbits, buys her stuff, and that guy right there thinks that that's his.
And I'm telling you, every single time I start dating a girl, there's always like 15 dudes who come out of the woodwork and they're like, wait, I thought it was my turn.
Wait, I thought we were going to date.
It's always like that.
So fellas, just like, listen to this.
Every one of them said, I'm dating multiple dudes at the same time.
But if you're her best option, you get more priority and you become that mean guy.
And maybe she'll let you hit.
Let's have fun with this.
When's the last time you had sex over here?
Oh my god.
Do we have to answer this?
Yes.
That would be yesterday.
No.
Monday night.
Cool.
Wait.
When's the last time you smashed Miss Ukraine?
When's the last time you fornicated?
I don't remember.
With no condom.
When was the last time you got paid by your boyfriend?
Paid by my boyfriend.
Yeah, or one of them.
On Tuesday.
Ms.
Ukraine, who brought you that bracelet?
What?
Who brought you that bracelet?
Oh, one Jewish guy.
There we go.
What in?
What in?
I need the belt.
Oh, my God.
Boys.
Okay.
What about you when the last time you smashed?
Do I have to answer like I'm married?
Yeah, I hope it was like yesterday or some shit.
In honor of Ryan.
Yeah?
Wait, no one else.
You and Zico are the only ones to touch that belt.
It's in honor.
All right, what about you?
When's the last time you...
It's been about a month.
A month?
Yeah.
Stop the cap.
Oh, my God.
You don't need the cap.
Keep going.
Two caps.
Yeah.
No.
Okay.
What about you?
When's the last time you smashed?
We'll have a boyfriend, so, like, today.
Okay.
Okay.
Go, girl.
Go, girl.
Sunday morning.
Last week?
Yes.
Wait, and...
Can you go to the end first?
I have.
Can you go to the end first?
No.
I haven't even answered and you're about to put your cap on already.
Oh my gosh, she has three.
I would tell you, probably a little over two weeks ago.
Probably like two and a half weeks ago.
Got the cap!
Oh my god!
What do you think we cap?
What's wrong?
And then what about you?
When's the last time you saw me?
A month and a half ago.
I swear!
They're not going to believe you regardless.
Really?
When was the last time y'all had sex then?
How about you guys go around and answer?
I have a girlfriend, so I'm still making her wait.
It'll happen soon.
Wait for what?
To have sex with me.
You're not the virgin.
You have one body.
My girlfriend, yeah, exactly.
She's your body?
But you're making her weight?
I make her weight, yeah, for sure.
Is she supposed to leave you?
Is she supposed to leave you because you had her weight?
She can get rid of you!
I'm worth waiting for.
I'm worth waiting for.
You're waiting for her to leave you.
She asks for it every five minutes.
So does that give her the right to leave you?
I'm worth waiting for.
Does that give her the right to go see another man?
No, she does not have.
Which one is it?
the left wait uh girls she has her boobs done it's a good guess ladies ladies so we got about ladies we got about 20 minutes left so what i'm gonna do is i'm gonna turn it over to y'all um if you guys have a topic and or question for uh us here or a disagreement on anything go ahead and shoot so who wants to go first i have a question Sure, go ahead.
Okay, so all this entire podcast, you were talking about the women and they're useless without a vagina.
I said virtually useless, which means mostly useless.
Not all the way, but mostly.
What happened with the men if they lose their dick?
They can still pay for stuff.
They can still pay for things.
They can still get a shotgun.
Yeah, that's cool, but again, I said earlier, right?
How many of you have been on a date with a guy that you don't like?
Almost all of you said yes.
That proves my point, that women are still able to get value from a guy outside a dick.
Okay, but we still need sex.
Okay, but that doesn't change the fact that you're able to still get value from that man without fucking him.
No.
It's the same as the opposite thing.
We still want sex, though.
If you ain't got no dick, you can't please us.
Sexually.
Yeah, but you're still able to get value from that man.
That's why their girls have...
Do you have dudes in a friendzone right now?
No value.
They don't have no value if they can't fuck you.
Do you have guys in a friendzone right now?
Yes.
Yes.
Thank you for proving my point.
You still don't understand?
I understand your point, but for us, it's not really all the bits and all kind of stuff.
For us, it's still necessary sex.
And if we want to have a family, what happened in that situation?
Okay, then I guess you can choose.
But here's the thing.
If you choose to fuck the guy, he'll fuck you.
Well, but you don't have a dick.
Because if we don't have a vagina, we're useless.
But if a man doesn't have a dick...
That man can still protect and provide for you and provision for you.
So he still can add value to you.
We just told you we have sexual needs.
Women don't have the same strong urges for sexual needs as men do.
Ladies, ladies, ladies.
This isn't up for debate.
Men have ten times more testosterone than you guys do.
Men have way more sex drive than you do.
Like, this isn't even up for debate.
The entire pornography industry exists because of Male thirst for sex.
Men pay for porn, not women.
Yeah, but we still have sexual urges.
Totally.
Women don't have the same sexual urges that men do.
So therefore, sex is lower on the total pole for women.
Women have the privilege of looking at other things.
Is he cool?
Is he confident?
Is he ambitious?
Can he provide security for me?
Is he attractive?
Blah, blah, blah.
For men, it's sex first and everything comes after.
Don't you look for other things in a woman?
Looks come first.
Yeah, for sure.
You need to be attracted to the person.
So sexuality comes first.
But for a man, his sexuality doesn't come first.
It comes last, I would argue.
But a beautiful woman that's going to have sex with you the whole time, that's not going to keep you, right?
Just because she's beautiful and she has sex with you.
or like whatever you want.
No, there's going to be...
Debatable.
Debatable.
What?
She's got to add value.
Look, look, look.
She's got to add value.
Like, look, look.
The argument I'm making is that a woman at least gets the chance Do you understand?
She gets the chance.
She gets the opportunity.
Men don't get that opportunity unless they become that dude.
Facts.
So anyway, does that answer your question, though?
Because I don't want to make sure.
Okay, that's right, but all that I'm saying is what happened with the girls, because we also have sexual needs.
Yeah.
And I say, like, if you don't have a dick, we can have a dick.
But look, if you get a relationship with a guy, and let's say you guys don't have sex for a bit, you're still going to get some value from that guy.
Do you understand?
Not necessary.
Really?
Well, I do agree with him.
Yeah.
Like, you're gonna get value from that guy to some degree.
Like, women don't have sex as high on the totem pole as we do, in general.
Maybe for you, maybe sex is really important.
For most women, it's not that big on the totem pole.
It's important.
If it was that important, we wouldn't be seeing women putting dudes in the fucking friend zone, bro.
Like, stop.
I'm trying to sit here and say, trying to compare sexual urges with men and women.
It's not the same.
Men have way more sexual urges than women do.
The thing is this.
Y'all have sexual urges for a small percentage of men.
We have sexual urges for a large majority of women.
It's not the same.
It's apples and oranges.
Okay, that's valid.
You don't like the answer I gave, but I'm correct.
Anybody else have something?
I do.
I want to give the other girls a chance.
Somebody has something?
Me?
Ukraine?
I would like to ask you why some women, they can give you sex anytime you want, and they will give almost nothing from a man.
And other women, they can be picky, they can be mean, and you will still give them money, you will still give them gifts.
It has to do with the status of the man.
Even if they look equal, the same age.
Because there are psychological things.
Men like to compete and some psychological things are more important than body because men actually can fuck themselves.
Men can fuck with men.
I would say it's a mindset thing.
It's a guy's mindset.
I don't understand her question.
She's saying, why would a guy pay a girl money that doesn't have sex with him?
Or, why would he not give her money?
What you said before, why are some guys really nice to girls and they don't get to have sex with them, give them money or whatever, and then some guys are mean to girls and then still do get to have sex with them?
Is that your question?
Just to clarify.
Was that what you were asking?
Now, why is the same guy can be nice and give this girl everything, money, even if she doesn't provide sex?
And to another girl, he can be very rude with her.
Physical attractiveness and then how often he's had sex with her.
He's going to take her for granted.
Also, men are going to treat women of different physical attractiveness differently.
If they're both equal, they look equal.
I don't know.
I would have to look at that.
It's what he wants, though.
Like, his mindset.
He might put her in a category of sex only or wifey.
Yeah, that's what he wants.
By your actions.
It depends, yeah, what the woman provides.
If he feels safe with her.
So wife and girlfriend.
So what's the difference if they both, like, have China?
It's what the man wants.
He may want one for just sex, one for actually family.
It's what the guy wants.
Are you asking what is the fundamental difference between a wife and a girlfriend?
Not a wife and a girlfriend.
I'm asking why if almost every woman can provide sex, but not every sex is valuable.
Like, I guess she's saying, like, if the sex isn't good, would it be valid to stay?
Like, most men would leave if the sex isn't good.
Oh, go find another girl with, like, better...
Exactly.
She's saying, why do some men...
Give girls money when they don't put out, but then other girls, you are interested because she put out.
I don't know how to answer that question if it's the same guy, but the reason why men do that...
That's because she's asking the same guy.
I don't know, but the answer to me was it has to do with a man's perceived status, internally and externally.
If he has a lot of status, he's not going to pay women to hang out with him.
He doesn't have to.
If he doesn't have a lot of status, then he is going to.
Is this how he perceives himself or how he perceives women?
Well, the world's going to tell him and then he's going to see it himself.
The world's going to let you know, right?
That's why a lot of rich men, they actually have dominatrix.
They do not have sex with them.
They like that this woman is a special woman, that she doesn't give sex to everybody and they're ready to pay crazy money to her without having sex with her.
Those men are trauma.
No, they are not traumatized.
They are very rich.
They're very rich and that doesn't mean that they're not traumatized.
Everybody can be traumatized.
We all are.
But at that level, if you look at the psychology background of why a man wants to be dominated like that, it's because he had a sense...
He needed to be in control since he was a little child.
So in those moments, he loses control because you are in control as a dominatrix.
That's a psychological background.
So gay are also ill people.
Gay are normal people.
Lesbians are normal people.
So...
Submissive men.
I mean, that's a fetish at that point.
That would be like a fetish.
Because I think from those guys, they work at like a corporate job or they're like a CEO. So the whole time they're being like catered to.
Everyone wants to be on their dick pretty much.
Versus when they come to you, you're like, you're more like the controlling types.
You're actually above them.
So they want to submit to you.
They lose control.
They're going to be a leader.
When it comes to you, you're the leader.
It's a very simple equation.
Just to me.
Number one, the men that you're describing are a minority of men.
I would argue most men probably don't want to be subs with women.
And then the second thing I want to say is that typically this is how it goes.
This is the equation.
The more attractive the man...
The less likely he's going to tolerate your bullshit.
One more time for the ladies.
The more attractive the man, the less likely he's going to tolerate your bullshit.
So in other words, if you don't give him sex or if you don't comply with what he wants, etc.
He's going to more than likely kick you to the curb and get another girl.
Because men typically behave based on their options.
So if a guy has a lot of other available women that will take him, he will not tolerate your bullshit.
That's typically what it is.
And those are the men that women want.
Not guys that they can walk him around like a dog, etc.
Because that guy, even though he might have money...
Doesn't have as many options probably.
Yeah, he's not a good leader.
Can I ask y'all a question?
Yeah, go ahead.
For the men, I guess, in the chat, whatever.
Would you, like, I just want to know, would you prefer, like, because you're talking about if a girl doesn't put out, you know, you'll kick her to the curb, whatever.
Would you rather a girl that you would meet on the first day and she lets you hit compared to a girl that makes you kind of, like, work for it?
Good question.
You know what I mean?
You know what I'm trying to say?
You want to take this one?
Who are you asking specifically?
Some guys are like, oh, I want to fuck with her because she don't let anybody just hit.
But then other guys are like, oh, well, no, I want to fuck with her because she'll let...
That's a good question.
And I have one for you guys afterwards, too.
I've seen a million answers to this question.
Some guys are very much like, well...
He's like, I want genuine desire, so she had sex with me on the first date, so okay, I'm fine with it.
And some other guys are like, well, she has genuine desire, she had sex with me on the first date, which means she would have sex with anyone on the first date.
And so it's a conundrum.
I've seen some guys wait for three dates, some guys wait for one.
To me, you guys were saying before, a woman's really attractive and bad in bed.
My sexual experience is directly correlated to how hot she is.
It is not how good she is at that.
I'm sorry if I'm the only one to say this, but if a woman is insanely hot and just does what I ask, I do not care if she's good in bed.
That is not what I need.
My ability to enjoy a woman or two women at the same time is directly proportional to how attractive they are.
You say you're Christian?
Wait, what's going on?
I'm just saying hypothetically.
It's like terrible.
If she does what I say, she can't really be terrible.
So, okay, so as long as she's pretty, this ex is gonna be good?
Yeah.
Yeah, pretty much.
Yeah.
Men don't need the same emotional stimuli that women do.
And you can teach them.
He's probably done all the work anyway.
What about you?
Yeah.
I would just say, because you answered the question one more time, please.
Uh, basically, like, do you prefer, like, if you're going out with a woman, like, yeah, she...
First night or to wait?
Yeah, basically.
So, for me, personally speaking, I would say...
First night.
First night.
But not because, like, I'm in a hurry, but because it's gonna happen anyway.
But if we can get out of the way, like, who she really is as a person.
But do you think, like, she's a type of woman if she lets you hit first night compared to her making you wait and, like, earn it, basically?
So, Mike mentioned it earlier.
A lot of guys will say, you know what, first night lay, she's probably easy for everybody.
However, I see it as, okay, she's able to say, you know what, this guy's on some level attractive or enough for me to want to smash the first night.
And y'all are both grown.
Exactly.
We're both adults.
The connection's there, it happened.
Now, I want to see after the fact your actions, how you operate, and I'll just try to see how you are as a person after that.
So I don't look at it as bad.
So it doesn't matter?
No.
Okay, so again...
To get the full picture, I always say time is on your side when you're a man, right?
So, if you hook up with a girl the first night, that doesn't necessarily mean she's a whore, but you need to watch her and see her behaviors after the fact and kind of have more of a body of evidence.
So, because there's girls that will make you wait that are sluts.
Right.
There are girls that will make you have sex with the first time that aren't necessarily whores.
So, it really comes down to...
That's why we tell guys all the time, vet a girl for at least six months to a year.
Her behaviors outside of that first date is going to dictate...
and a whore and worthy of being taken seriously.
Not necessarily that first night because girls will always break rules for guys that they like versus guys that they don't like.
So I don't think a guy should penalize a woman for breaking rules for him.
You typically want to reward good behavior and punish bad behavior.
But I would look at it from more of a time perspective of seeing and vetting her because there's a lot of girls, like I said before, that will sit there and make you wait for sex when she was a slut in her past.
Because she'll be like, oh, I don't want to come off as a whore.
I'm a reformed Christian or whatever, but she was a slut in her past.
And she'll go ahead and try to play that game.
Men sell success, women sell purity.
So your job as a man is to figure out if she really is pure.
And the only way you can do that is through time.
You'll never figure that out on her first date.
So it doesn't matter to you?
It doesn't matter or not if she has sex with you on the first night.
But I'm not going to lie to the women either.
Understand that there is a considerable amount of men that will look at you and assume you're a whore even if you're not.
So it's really on the girl to figure out, okay, What's this guy's status?
Does he get a lot of women, etc?
Guys that get a lot of women understand.
They're not going to judge you for a lot of times.
But guys that don't get that many women, and you trust me, you'll fucking know when you talk to him, they might judge you for it.
So it's on the girl to kind of figure out, okay, how I should work here.
One other thing, guys, you remember when you were saying, I'm going out on a date because I'm getting to know the guy?
We're getting to know you?
Mm-hmm.
After we start having sex with you.
Literally, it's funny because we were just talking about Rolo earlier.
His daughter got married yesterday.
He was talking about when he met his wife.
When he met his wife, he was not intending on marrying her the first time they met.
After a while, he came to the realization, this is the woman I want to be with.
So that's how it works for us.
For you guys, you're trying to figure it out before we have sex.
We don't start trying to figure it out until we have sex.
But a lot of people say like...
Oh my god, I look.
A lot of people say like...
Like, they're not gonna marry, or like, they have to see what you're like first in bed before they start taking you seriously, you know what I mean?
I think you're listening to men who just don't really fuck a lot of women.
Like, I just don't really, I couldn't...
Some women have said that.
Some women have said that.
They're not going to take a man seriously unless they know what the dick says.
Did we have someone on here before who waited four months to fuck a guy?
It was terrible.
Who was it who said that?
I can't remember who it was.
That kind of stuff.
Women will definitely have sex with a dude and be like, this was a good idea.
You're like, well, you waited four months.
You made the guy wait four months and it was all for that.
As far as dudes are concerned, I'm sorry.
I know ladies can offend a lot of you and I apologize.
Not really, but my enjoyment in sex Is directly proportional to how fucking hot she is.
That's it.
As long as she does what I ask, it doesn't make any difference.
She doesn't have to be good in bed.
In fact, she could be a little too good in bed and I might get scared.
You know what I'm saying?
Fair enough.
Okay, I'll read the rest of these chats, and then we've got to close out here in a bit, guys.
And I know, you guys, we've got to put caps on it now because we've got some stuff going on behind the scenes.
Why have a sword if you won't get it bloody?
Okay.
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Oh, they're saying, they're calling her the Ghost of Kiev.
You guys are fucking assholes.
Ghost of Ukraine claiming bodies left and right.
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What do you think of women that choose to date younger men?
Let's say a woman 35 plus and a man 18 to 24.
Terrible.
She's immature.
35 and he's 18?
When you see an older chick dating a guy like that, it's coke, man.
What else here?
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Awesome, man.
Of course.
Any other ladies had anything?
Yeah.
Okay, go ahead.
So, do you really think that a woman, besides sex, there is not any value?
Like, for example, I come today from 10X Ladies.
I was in a...
10X Ladies?
Yeah, so it's Grant Cardone's wife.
Grant Cardone's wife.
Elena Cardone's program.
Elena Cardone, right.
His wife's program, yeah.
So, and the thing is, Grant Cardone himself, he says it, and you guys have also Patrick for David here, and they've talked about the importance of their wives in their lives.
So, I'm just...
Like...
The only thing that doesn't sit right with me is when you guys say things like, oh, that's mostly the value of sex.
Because she's also going to push you to be the best version of yourself a lot of times.
And she's going to have an emotional support.
That's what I would say is an accessory benefit.
But in general, men always approach women with sexuality first in mind.
Right.
But do you think that wouldn't it be better to teach men that they should look for women that are going to help them build and grow in their lives?
No, of course.
Of course.
We always tell guys that that's where the vetting process comes in, where the guy's got to evaluate the woman's ability to provide value outside of sex.
But what I'm saying is that sex is the predominant and main reason men deal with court and marry women in general.
Got you.
That's what it is.
It's just like, I watch your videos, your guys' videos, and when you read the comments, the guys that are watching your videos, they're not getting that message.
From what you're just saying, there is a value just depending on the woman.
Yes, you lead with sex, but there's another value that might be added.
Well, in our daytime shows, we go into more detail about this, vetting a woman, making sure she adds value, etc.
But obviously, for the purposes of this conversation, and to simplify it, right, and kind of give you guys...
Because if I talk about how to vet a woman, you guys are going to be like, what the fuck?
This doesn't benefit me or anything like that.
But yeah, I mean, the guy...
Obviously, the sexuality is what gets the girl in the door, and then it's her job to stay in the door by not being useless.
Right, keep him.
But yeah.
Anything else?
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We're going to be starting the daytime show at 6pm from now on, guys.
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Chris, what the fuck?
I mean, yeah.
We're going to start at 9pm.
But either way, we're going to have to cap at 1230, guys.
The shows are going to be sooner.
And we'll catch you guys next week.
We're probably going to stream on Fresh Fit Clips.
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