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June 27, 2023 - Fresh & Fit

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	Welcome to the Fresh Show Podcast After Hours Edition.
	We're joined with seven lovely ladies and our boy Brandon Carr.
	Let's get into it!
	Let's go.
	Look at this.
	Nobody cares, bro.
	Get out.
	Get out.
	It's a night.
	Find us back.
	In the night.
	No control.
	F*** out.
	You don't got to put them on in here.
	All right, cool.
	What's up, guys?
	Welcome to Refresh Your Podcast, after our edition.
	It's already got over 2,000 of y'all in here, man, between platforms.
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	Real quick, now, before we get into the show.
	So, quick announcements.
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	Double Dates, Frank Castles, all that shit is up on Locals, and we actually upload the Frank Castles immediately after So check us out on FreshFit.locals.com and shout out to Icy for recording behind the scenes.
	Also guys, our new store is FreshFitFitStore.com So you guys get all the merch, hats, all that stuff is there.
	FreshFitStore.com The FreshFitStore podcast one I guess died or whatever.
	I don't know.
	Lame.
	Domain issues.
	Spring is trash.
	Yeah, it is.
	So yeah, freshenfitstore.com to get the merch, guys.
	Okay?
	Chris the Bump shirt, get it.
	It's there.
	Okay?
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	As you guys know, we post six clips, ten shorts per day.
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	Check us out on Spotify where you can close the app and be able to still, you know, listen to the pod.
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	Yes, guys.
	So I'm going to be adding more blogs, for example, of lifestyle, networking, and also business.
	So go check it out.
	Twitch account on the way.
	Let's go.
	And guys, if you want to have a network of people that are successful, you know, do better, add more value, join the studio network as well.
	A lot to gain in there and want to see you in there for success.
	So let's go.
	Alright, and then check me out, guys, on FedReacts.
	You guys know I've got criminal cases on there.
	You guys like true crime, we'll cover it there.
	The case I did yesterday was the Travis Rudolph case.
	You guys know he, well, you may or may not know, here in Florida, he ended up shooting at some guys that came to his house at midnight after he got in an argument with his girlfriend, killed one of them, he went on trial.
	He ended up beating the case.
	Shout out to Florida and the standard ground law.
	And the Castle Doctrine.
	And then I'll also be covering the YW Melly trial.
	As you guys know, he's on murder right now for killing his two best friends back in 2018.
	So I'll be covering that as well.
	I've been doing a couple live streams reacting to the trial.
	So if you guys like true crime, we cover that as well.
	So go check it out on FedReacts.
	And then also, don't forget to go ahead and get my book, Why Women Deserve Less.
	Hardcover, Kindle, Audible, and all other platforms that you guys like to consume your books.
	It's only about 86 pages because women deserve less.
	And stop simping.
	Get the book, guys.
	And then, Chris...
	Yep.
	Girls, send me a DM to Nancy Poxa on IG. Make sure your page is not private, too.
	And once again, ladies, be flaky on the podcast.
	Don't even DM me back.
	You know what it is.
	And shout out to the team in the back for helping me talk to girls.
	Let's have a great show.
	All right.
	Without further ado, ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what we do for a living, dating status.
	And if you want to, of course, your body count.
	And we're going to start right here.
	Welcome back.
	Hi, my name is Jocelyn Montes.
	I'm 19.
	You said what?
	Jocelyn?
	Jocelyn, yeah.
	Jocelyn Montes.
	I'm 19.
	I'm currently single.
	And you said my job status?
	Where are you originally from?
	I'm from here, but I'm Puerto Rican in Mexico.
	Okay.
	And what do you do for work?
	So, I'm actually in the Army Reserves, but I also work part-time at BOLA. Okay.
	Okay.
	Highest education level complete.
	I'm gonna probably say high school.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	And then what's your relationship status?
	Single?
	Single.
	Okay, cool.
	What does your shirt say?
	I get no bitches.
	Lovely.
	Fantastic.
	What about you?
	Hi, I'm Kara.
	I'm 22.
	I'm from Cleveland, Ohio.
	I have a bachelor's in finance from Ohio State University.
	I currently live in Miami, Florida, and I am a financial analyst.
	Okay, financial analyst, BA, and single, right?
	And I'm single, yeah.
	I know, I knew you were going to say that, unfortunately.
	How long she was on here before single?
	Yeah.
	How long ago was that?
	It's been a while.
	She need to let her borrow your shirt.
	Hi, my name is Nati.
	I'm 18 years old.
	I own a business and I also do acting and modeling on the side.
	Where are you from originally?
	I'm from Miami, but my parents are from Venezuela and Cuba.
	Okay.
	Oh, what business is this that you own?
	A catering business.
	Catering.
	Okay.
	Yeah, it's called Food Crafters for You.
	Okay.
	And then your highest education is probably a high school single?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	So you said catering and what else?
	Acting and modeling?
	Yes.
	Acting and modeling.
	Have you been in a movie?
	Not yet, sadly.
	Okay.
	So you're acting like you act.
	Fantastic.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	What about you?
	My name's Alyssa Burcham.
	I'm 18.
	I just graduated high school and I work at like...
	Where are you originally from?
	Ohio.
	Ohio.
	Okay.
	What part of Ohio?
	Procterville.
	How far is that from Cleveland?
	From Cleveland, like four hours.
	Okay.
	You said what?
	Proctorville?
	Yes.
	Where the hell is that?
	I don't even know that, and I'm from Ohio.
	It's like on the border, like you share a bridge with West Virginia.
	Oh, okay.
	Are they like cornfields?
	No.
	Oh.
	Okay, so it's out there.
	Okay, and then what do you do for work?
	I work at a local college.
	I'm a lifeguard there.
	Okay.
	And then I'm going to school for...
	I'm majoring in nursing.
	Wait, nurse?
	So you're in college as well, pursuing your bachelor's?
	I'm just entering, yes.
	Okay.
	And relationship status?
	Single.
	And body count?
	This nigga.
	I'm sure Zerka will love that.
	Yeah.
	What about you?
	My name is Bella B. I'm 20.
	I'm from Procterville, Ohio.
	That's my sister.
	Oh, okay.
	Wait, what?
	No way.
	Yeah.
	Wait, real sister?
	Yeah.
	Someone's dad has...
	Wait, mom has to explain, actually.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	Like, I'm on vacation visiting her.
	Like, my flight's at 4 a.m.
	Like, today.
	Like, tomorrow.
	Oh, shit.
	Yeah.
	Oh, shit.
	Okay, you ain't gonna sleep.
	So, blue-green eyes, dark brown eyes, or light brown eyes.
	What's going on here?
	Do you have the same dad?
	Yeah.
	Same mom?
	Yeah.
	What?
	Stop the cat!
	Somebody cheated, man!
	Who was it?
	Was it dad or mom?
	No, everybody says that, but I... Did you dye your hair?
	No, this is my natural hair.
	And is that your natural hair color, too?
	Yeah, our mom has very, like, dark hair, and then my dad has light blue eyes and light brown hair.
	Wow.
	I mean, it's possible, but goddamn...
	Me and my sister are like that.
	My sister has blonde hair and blue eyes as well.
	But you guys have at least like...
	Same dad, same mom.
	No, but they don't even have like similar even face structure.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, people say we kind of look similar.
	Shut up, bitch!
	No way!
	No way!
	Okay, you learn something new every day.
	Okay, so you're also from Procterville, Ohio, and then what do you do for it?
	I'm a beauty specialist, so I do lashes, makeup, facials, things like that.
	Okay, so you're an esthetician, basically?
	Yeah, exactly.
	Do you have your esthetician license?
	Yes.
	Okay, so out of you two, who's the most trouble?
	Okay, it's definite.
	Okay, cool.
	Okay.
	So, esthetician, esthetician license.
	What is that?
	Two years?
	Three years?
	Well, it depends on where you go, but normally two.
	For Florida?
	It depends on where you go, but normally two years.
	I just moved here, so I'm not sure for Florida, but typically two years.
	Does it work?
	Like, interstate?
	Like, if you have it in Ohio?
	It does.
	It just depends.
	Sometimes you have to transfer over hours, and it's more.
	You have to go back, things like that.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	And then what's your relationship status?
	I'm single.
	She belongs to the street.
	You know something that we don't, Chris?
	No, no.
	Oh, okay.
	Okay, what about you?
	Welcome back.
	Hey, guys.
	Amy Dangerfield, 27 years old.
	I am single.
	I am from Australia.
	And I do high-ticket sales.
	That's about it.
	And body count?
	Not this time for us.
	What part of Australia?
	It's called the Gold Coast.
	Gold Coast, Sunshine Coast.
	In the state of Queensland.
	The Sunshine State.
	And then high ticket sales.
	Highest education is associates in justice and legal.
	Basically the equivalent of a criminal justice.
	Nice.
	And single.
	Alright.
	Cool.
	That last part, nobody asked you.
	Nobody.
	Just kidding.
	Hi guys, my name is Audrey.
	I'm 18.
	Where's he from?
	Cuba.
	I was born in Cuba.
	Where'd you go to high school, here or Cuba?
	Here.
	In Miami?
	Yeah.
	Alright, and what do you do for it?
	Nothing.
	Well, actually.
	Unemployed?
	Unemployed, yeah.
	Get no bitches, I guess.
	You also get no bitches.
	Well, I mean, she got a bitch tonight.
	There you go.
	What's your highest education level complete at high school?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	And then relationship status?
	Still single.
	After three years.
	Cool.
	All right, then.
	And our guest of honor.
	Special guest in the house, Brandon Cardin.
	Brandon Cardin.
	Hi, my name is Brandon.
	I'm four years old.
	I'm a model.
	I have a business.
	I'm from Chicago.
	Are you single?
	Southside, girlfriend.
	Girlfriend.
	Your body count, Brandon?
	Your body count?
	700.
	We actually had a girl one time that came on that was like 600 or so.
	I was there for that.
	Oh, you were there for Demon Girl.
	And she had a great night.
	No, tell us more about that.
	Oh, no, no.
	I'm assuming.
	I think someone in here can tell us.
	No, no.
	Someone in here can tell us.
	Somebody in here.
	Not me, though.
	I don't know who it could be.
	I'm in the dark.
	Trust me, I'm always in the dark.
	Just continue on.
	You is the dark.
	Someone in the chat is going to say, why is this naked?
	They're going to be like, he's wearing all black, why is this naked naked?
	Like a silhouette.
	You're all black, man.
	Sneaking up on niggas.
	Anyway, I'm Brandon Carter on Instagram, King Keto.
	And I have a few businesses.
	The number one business, my main one is called High Ticket Trainer.
	I teach personal trainers how to build their online fitness business.
	Myron is an alumnus.
	Wouldn't be no freshman had he not been through this.
	He'd still be working for the feds.
	Probably.
	Locking up the homies.
	You know what I'm saying?
	If I didn't meet Brandon 100%, I would still be working for the government.
	100%.
	But that's what we do.
	Shout out to Brandon.
	Love you, Brandon.
	Yes, it's a very rewarding, awesome business.
	But I'm not here to sell y'all that.
	I got something free for y'all.
	It's called Baller Mindset.
	The course is free.
	And it's linked in the description.
	It's really better than almost any course that you're going to buy on making money.
	And it's free.
	And the reason I made it for free because I was thinking I got life insurance for my son.
	I got him all set up for everything.
	But it's like, fuck, what happens if I... How's he going to get the game?
	How's he going to get the sauce?
	If something happened to me.
	So it's set up.
	So if anything happened to me, he'd know how to get to the money.
	And I figured I'd give it to you motherfuckers as well.
	And I'm giving it to you a free because, you know, I'm already like super, super duper rich and I don't need your fucking money, jerk.
	And you can just download that shit.
	And really, like, people have been, we've been getting a lot of good feedback.
	It's even better than the last free course I gave y'all, like over 100,000 people.
	High value, alpha baller.
	Over 100,000 people downloaded that and y'all see what people say, you know what I'm saying?
	Because I made it for Fresh and Fit.
	And, uh, This time I actually wanted to try.
	So I put effort into this one and it's free.
	Ain't no fucking upsells.
	There's nothing to buy.
	There's literally nothing to buy.
	No trick funnels.
	You just download it and get the gang.
	And we did an amazing show earlier today, Money Mondays.
	It was amazing, guys.
	Yes.
	W Mindset.
	Yes.
	All right.
	So I can read the chats real quick.
	And guys, from this point forward, we're going to read 20 and up just so we don't get backlogged on it because I want to make sure that we get to the video and get to the other content as well.
	But every single chat that came through, I will go ahead and read it.
	But let me ask this question first.
	We'll start here with Audrey.
	Have you ever disrespected your boyfriend or significant other in public?
	Don't care.
	Personally, I haven't.
	You have not?
	Never?
	No.
	Let me give a couple of examples.
	It could be yelling at him in public, berating him in public, telling him he's an idiot in public, maybe even in front of his friends.
	Or insulted him in front of his peers.
	Have you ever done that before?
	No.
	Okay.
	What about your friends?
	Yeah, my friends have.
	And I've actually been, like, involved in that.
	And it was so horrible.
	Tell us a story real quick.
	What happened?
	What happened?
	Well...
	Basically, I was friends with this one girl and her boyfriend, they've been together for a month or so.
	And out in the streets, we were out in a little walkside area, Bayside.
	I don't know where it was, but it kind of looked like Bayside.
	It was stores and stuff.
	And it was a lot of people around.
	And out of nowhere, she just started screaming at him off the top of her lungs.
	Damn.
	And I was so embarrassed.
	I was in the corner walking away because I didn't want anyone to know that I was engaging with them or anything.
	And yeah, that was the most embarrassing thing in my life.
	How long ago did that happen?
	That was like a year ago.
	I'll come back to you on that.
	What about you?
	Have you ever disrespected your boyfriend or significant other in public?
	I would say my first relationship, yeah.
	My first relationship, I dated him 14 to 18.
	Sorry, yeah, we dated 14 to 18 and I would say we had a couple of public fights.
	But yeah, when you get to adulthood, you realize that there are certain things that should be private.
	Can you tell me what specifically happened?
	I literally cannot.
	I actually could not even remember exactly what it was.
	I mean, I was 14.
	I'm 28 in August, so it was a really long time ago.
	But I know we definitely had some public fights, and that's the only type of public...
	You know how to use the boomerang?
	Yeah, no, no.
	None of that.
	I mean, that would be a little bit more interesting, but unfortunately not, no.
	But yeah, when you get a little bit older, you realize that there's things that just need to be between you and your partner in your own private time versus stuff you bring other people.
	So, it was your first relationship, public fights.
	Can you remember at least, like, maybe one or two?
	I don't even remember.
	It was honestly probably something stupid because, you know what?
	At 14, like, we were...
	The town that I was in, we were drinking young.
	We were going out partying young.
	So, it was honestly just some stupid...
	What about your last relationship?
	Never.
	Never publicly.
	Ever.
	Ever.
	That's honor, respect, and integrity for your significant other is number one.
	What about a friend of yours?
	Have you ever witnessed it?
	And witnessed it.
	Her embarrassing her man in public.
	What happened?
	I actually don't want to bring it up because they actually watch the show.
	They do?
	Well, you obviously don't use names.
	Just give a very...
	I've just seen someone who I have a lot of respect for.
	He makes a lot of money.
	He does very well for himself.
	And I've seen his woman completely undermine him in front of a large group of...
	Fresh!
	Fresh!
	I can never get through a sentence without you trolling me, bro.
	It's a serious...
	It's Brandon!
	How did she specifically undermine him?
	By being disrespectful in public and also she wants...
	Did she like call him a name?
	Yes.
	Yes.
	And also just her tone of how she was speaking to him was speaking to him like...
	Y'all!
	Oh my god!
	I'm sorry, Myron.
	They're distracting me.
	No, just speaking to a total disregard for how anyone around would perceive that.
	Definitely speaking down on him.
	And also certain stories that she posted as well were very disrespectful.
	Oh, on Instagram after?
	Yes.
	What about you?
	Have you ever disrespected a boyfriend or a significant other in public?
	Actually, no.
	Never?
	No.
	Okay, have you ever been a part of your witness your friend do it then?
	Um, I don't think so, actually, no.
	Damn, really?
	Never?
	Never.
	You live in a cave?
	I mean, Malice Walsh lives in Ohio, so...
	Have you ever seen it then?
	Maybe it wasn't a friend or a peer, but maybe at a workplace or in school?
	I mean, I've definitely probably seen couples argue in my life, for sure, yeah.
	Can you recall an instance?
	Not like something that stands out, like worth repeating or anything.
	I'm just saying probably generally in my life, yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Have you ever disrespected a boyfriend or a significant other in public?
	I've had one boyfriend when I was 15, but I wouldn't say rudely disrespected.
	I guess I could have lectured him in a way he was acting.
	What did you do specifically?
	I brought up him talking to other girls in front of other people.
	Or if I were drunk, I would cry in front of other people.
	When you were drunk at 15?
	- Wait.
	- Yeah.
	- Oh, wow.
	- It's okay. - I guess that would be more embarrassing. - So do you think when you got drunk, it kind of like brought out your emotions more?
	Yeah.
	Okay, cool.
	So I could have just embarrassed him by like doing that in front of his friend group because he was older than me.
	Just so I get this straight, you lectured him in front of your peers about him talking to other women.
	Yeah, basically.
	Or other stuff, because he did cheat on me.
	And I stayed with him, so if he did it, I was more angry about it.
	That's very mature what you said, but I'm just curious.
	Yeah, about staying with him after the cheating.
	Sometimes you gotta do that.
	That's a mature thing to do.
	But do you think, looking back now, that it hurt him more, or are you more for saying that in public?
	Who do you think it hurt more, you or him?
	Me?
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Have you ever disrespected a boyfriend or significant other in public?
	Yes.
	It was one night.
	It was like the same situation.
	I got very drunk at a party.
	And it was something so stupid.
	It was that I fell down a step.
	And he was trying to grab me.
	My boyfriend was trying to grab me.
	And we fell.
	And I thought that he pushed me.
	And I thought it was his fault.
	And I'm a very aggressive drunk.
	So like...
	I don't care what anyone does or says.
	I'm gonna punch you.
	So yeah, I punched him.
	And it was like a misunderstanding, but we got over it.
	We talked and...
	Okay, so you thought that he pushed you down the stairs.
	Yeah, so I just started yelling at him and screaming at him and cursing at him.
	And there were people watching.
	And yeah.
	So he was in an abusive relationship.
	That's what I'm hearing.
	No.
	Like you physically abused him.
	As long as you don't get me drunk, we're okay.
	Fantastic.
	Oh!
	Have you ever embarrassed and or disrespected a partner or boyfriend in public?
	No.
	Have you ever been to a party and witnessed it?
	I've been at parties.
	I've seen it happen.
	No, I meant a party to seeing it.
	No, I can't think of any of my friends.
	Really?
	No, I really don't.
	You've never seen it like, bro, you're a bum, what the fuck?
	Or, yo, get your shit together, yelling at you.
	No, like at a big party, people drunk, I've seen it, but not my people, really.
	Not even like, you ain't ever like, embarrassing with no finance shit?
	Like, you don't even understand the yield curves?
	No, like, I always get upset after, you know, like, in private, but no.
	You've never even, like, lectured a boyfriend, like, on him just being inadequate or something like that or nothing?
	Like, I've been racking my brain since the whole table's going.
	I can't think of any time.
	Alright, what about you?
	Very mature of you.
	Have you ever dispected a boyfriend or seen it?
	When I was drunk at 15.
	No.
	I was 12.
	For me, I ended a relationship because I went into the army and I came back and I tried to, you know, fix it or whatever.
	And how'd you do it?
	How'd you disrespect them?
	So, he actually disrespected me.
	And so, because I found out that he was talking and fucking his ex the same time that he was fucking me.
	No way!
	Yes.
	And so, I ended up contacting the ex just to ask, like, oh, did you know?
	And when I went to visit her, he ended up coming through the plaza.
	And his ex is crazy, so she went crazy on him.
	And I kind of just, like, tagged along.
	So, wait, you contacted the girl and then went to go visit her that he cheated on you with?
	I just wanted to ask some questions.
	Oh, she agreed to meet with you?
	Yes, because she didn't know.
	We both were in the dark about it.
	Okay, so, and then when you went to go meet with her, he showed up?
	Yeah, he showed up to her job to go visit her.
	Okay, when you were there?
	When I was there.
	He didn't know I was there.
	And then what happened?
	Like, you yelled at him?
	No, the ex ended up yelling at him, and I'm not a very confrontational person, so I ended up just, like, yeah.
	Okay.
	Okay, so the girl that he was cheating on, okay, gotcha.
	She yelled at him when she saw him.
	And I was just, I had no words to say because at that point I just felt disrespected.
	I'm not going to give you any more energy.
	Okay, so now I'm going to go to a second question.
	Sound like y'all both lost a good man.
	No, there's no words in that story.
	So going backwards, why did she specifically yell at him?
	I think she just felt lied to.
	She felt hurt.
	It's not like he was open about it.
	He didn't communicate that he was speaking to other people for both parties.
	Okay.
	So she just didn't like the lying, I guess?
	Yes.
	Deceit, basically.
	Alright.
	And then you said no.
	You've never seen it at all.
	I've seen...
	There's like one relationship I can think of, yeah, of my friends.
	Okay, now you think of one.
	Alright.
	What happened and why did your friend disrespect the guy?
	Uh, they were just, like, toxic.
	Like, should have ended a long time ago.
	Um, she would get mad at him for, like, not responding late at night, saying he was gonna pick her up, and then, like, being nowhere to be found, like, phone died type of stuff.
	Like, was gonna pick her up, and he was passed out.
	So, okay, so she got mad at, so she would disrespect him because he wouldn't stick to his word?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Was there any other reasons why you could think of?
	No, I think she got frustrated because, like, I think he, like, wasn't taking her out on dates and stuff, and she kind of felt like he was just taking an easy road in a relationship, so I think they thought about that, too.
	She wasn't just a side piece?
	She was like a serious girlfriend?
	Yeah, of like three years.
	Oh, okay.
	Alright.
	So, just a toxic relationship and him not sticking to his word.
	And would she like, I guess, yell at him in public and shit like that?
	It was like we'd be in a group of like eight of us at his place and it would be like people over.
	It wasn't like in the club or like at a restaurant yelling.
	But she would embarrass him in front of like close peers.
	Close friends.
	Okay, gotcha.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I mean, in your case, I guess it's because you thought that he hit you.
	Was there another reason why you feel the need to disrespect people when you get drunk or disrespect your boyfriend?
	Um, not necessarily.
	I guess it was just in, like, the moment type of thing.
	Like, I was just angry and I just bursted out.
	Are there other things that might have contributed to you, like, lashing out?
	Because, like, for example, maybe a guy is, like, kind of a bum or he's lazy or whatever.
	And you don't say anything about it, but then it comes out all in full when they do something.
	And you're like, what the fuck?
	And then you just explode.
	Yeah.
	Was there other underlying situations?
	Like her ethnicity?
	That too.
	Like, you know, Latina's mucho caliente.
	That's true.
	He wasn't a very, like...
	He didn't really show attention or show that he really cared or, like, showed that he would care in the small things.
	So for him not to, like, know that I was going to fall and not catch me, I don't know.
	It was just, like...
	He doesn't see the little things and that's...
	It just adds up and adds up and adds up.
	So you weren't as mad that you fell.
	You were mad that he didn't attempt to stop you from falling.
	At the time, yeah.
	Sometimes you got punches naked.
	Yeah.
	Right?
	I was like, you know what?
	No!
	Wait, so where's he now?
	Oh no, we cut things off.
	Like, yeah, we don't talk anymore.
	Too toxic?
	Too toxic.
	What's the primary reason?
	Who broke up with who?
	He kind of ghosted me.
	Oh, I wonder why.
	Have you beat his ass in front of everybody?
	You fucked him up for no reason?
	I don't think it was no reason, but I don't know.
	When he broke up with you?
	Yeah.
	Did he text you and say, hey, it's over or anything?
	He said it was because of his mental health, but I'm not damn well.
	I'm not damn well.
	That's a good excuse.
	Let me use that next time.
	I need some space.
	You know what?
	I'm hurt emotionally.
	So he sent you a text saying, hey, I need my mental health.
	No, he didn't send me a text at all.
	I had to text him and I had to be like, hey, what's going on?
	And then he was like, listen.
	How long had he not contacted you at that point?
	A month.
	A month, yeah.
	Damn.
	That's why I was like, hello?
	Yeah.
	You should have beat his ass again.
	You better stay, nigga!
	So he didn't say any other reason for leaving you.
	He just literally said my mental health.
	Yeah, and I was trying to like, come on, we can work it out.
	Like, I could be there for you.
	And he was like, oh, I don't know what could happen in the future.
	I don't know.
	Like, he said he's focused on some other things and he doesn't know.
	How old was he?
	He was 19.
	A year older than you?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Out of full transparency, do you think that you played a role in that mental health going down?
	Being honest?
	I mean, yeah.
	I actually thought that, like, I can help the guy because...
	Do you think you played a role in his mental health going down?
	Why he broke up with you?
	Do you think you were maybe a negative contributor to his mental health is what I'm asking you?
	No, I was always very supportive.
	Yeah, you know what an appliance don't work?
	That's what you gotta do to these motherfuckers' heads.
	Okay, how about this?
	How many times did you physically hit them?
	Oh no, it was just that one time.
	Like, okay, maybe a little slap, but not like a full-on pun.
	Sometimes you gotta slap these niggas around, man.
	That shit is not crazy.
	You should've hit them harder, then knock some sense into this motherfucker.
	That's what I do.
	Start talking crazy, man.
	You gotta communicate.
	So you would slap them every now and then?
	As a joke.
	That is not a joke.
	What would he do that would lead to you slapping him?
	I don't know.
	He can make fun of me or something and I'll just slap him as a joke.
	I'll say it's a joke, but is it really a joke?
	So you were just spam.
	Sometimes I slap the shit out of niggas, man.
	You're single now, right?
	Okay, so moving forward, would you do that again?
	Would your next guy?
	No.
	I feel like I could talk things out.
	Stop the cap!
	Hopefully.
	I've learned to be more mature and talk things out and more in privacy and stuff like that.
	Did your...
	Just out of curiosity, did your ex ever...
	Let's say you hit him or you slapped him or you said or did something mean to him.
	Did he ever put you on ice or punish you for the way you behaved or did he just tolerate it and, oh, it's okay.
	I mean, he would get sad.
	Like, he would put the puppy eyes to make me feel bad.
	Okay.
	So he tried to garner sympathy.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And just being 100% real here, when he would try to be, when he'd go the more sensitive route, did you lose respect for him when he did that?
	No, it just like, it made him chase me more.
	Let me stop you.
	Let me rephrase that.
	Not that you lose respect for him, but did you continue to do what made him try to get the sympathy?
	Did you stop doing what you were doing?
	What do you mean stop?
	So, you do something to him, right?
	You do something to him.
	Instead of him, like, maybe putting his foot down here, try to do the puppy eyes and try to make you feel sad about it.
	Would you continue to do that behavior again?
	No.
	I swear.
	It might have manifested in different ways that she's not saying.
	So many girls like a real MMA style relationship.
	Yeah, I think so.
	What about you?
	So going back with you, you said that he cheated on you and you lectured him in front of your peers.
	Why did you do that specifically?
	Besides him just cheating on you, what made you lecture him in public in front of everybody when you could have done it behind closed doors?
	Well, I'm an emotional drunk.
	I get very emotional when I drink.
	And I think what happened, now I do it in private.
	But, like, he would show that he cared about me in front of people.
	Like, he was, like, good about that.
	Like, he did give me attention and everything.
	But he would go and do it to other people, like, just kind of, like, being disrespectful.
	Like, he would do it with other people at that party.
	Other girls?
	Yeah.
	So he showed you PDA into other women.
	Sorry?
	Like, public display of affection.
	Yeah, no PDA. He did that to you and other girls at the party.
	Yeah, not, like, anything physical or touchy or anything like that, but, like, just something that, like, I didn't like because he had cheated on me, which I didn't stay with him.
	That's my fault.
	But, like...
	Okay, so you were just sensitive to him interacting with other women?
	Yeah, after saying the stuff he would say to me or treating me like...
	I have a question for you.
	So I get 100% it does happen that way, but do you think staying with him made it worse because you made a choice to stay with him?
	Yes, I do think it made it worse because I would say I'd forgive him, but I'd bring it up probably every single day, if I'm being honest.
	So it was pointless.
	It was dragged out for three years.
	I can relate in so many ways.
	Some nigga cheating on you?
	No, no.
	I'm saying I was about that nigga.
	Okay.
	So for you, I guess lack of emotional control being a girl.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	You said that you've never seen it and you can't recall.
	So I guess we skip you on this question.
	I said in general I've probably seen, but yeah, just skip.
	Nothing specific that you can remember.
	Okay, well, I'll ask you this general question.
	Why do you think women, if you had to speculate, or you could speak from maybe being a woman, why do you think women disrespect their men in public?
	I think just out of frustration reacting too quickly not thinking like oh this is going to embarrass the both of us and not just he's not going to think about what he's doing he's probably thinking why are you doing this in public then later you're going to think the same thing like why did I act that way all these people are seeing me do you think it's out of frustration For sure.
	Do you think that frustration comes from maybe them having to do this?
	Because frustration typically comes from like repetitiveness not working.
	Yeah, I'm guessing it's like repeated behavior that it takes it to that point probably.
	What about you?
	You said in your case someone that you know undermined him and called him a name in public and followed up with Instagram posts.
	Do you know why she did that?
	What was the name?
	I really can't tell y'all.
	I can't tell y'all anything because it's so...
	This is actually kind of a recent example, which is why it kind of came to my mind.
	So it may pop up.
	But yeah, no.
	But why do you think that?
	Did it come from frustration?
	The name, it's in what you said.
	Why does that disrespect occur?
	It's in the name.
	It's a lack of respect for your partner.
	When you have a respect for your partner, you will never bring anything like that up in front of other people.
	That is a conversation that needs to occur privately.
	Why do you think the lack of respect stemmed from specifically?
	Wrong intentions.
	Oftentimes, if women are with a guy and they don't respect them, maybe it's because of the guy, but oftentimes it's because they got into the relationship for the wrong reasons.
	Can you give an example?
	So you're saying, so lack of respect, but bringing that back, you're saying wrong intentions.
	Can you explain, like, clarify that?
	They're not there genuinely for love.
	They're not there genuinely for the support or the camaraderie or the emotional or literal support that they get.
	The male or the female?
	The female.
	The female is not there for that.
	It's for some other alternative motive.
	And when you bypass that and there isn't any genuine emotional respect there, that's when all this fuckery ends up occurring.
	Yeah.
	Crush, why are you looking at me like you're about to laugh again?
	Do you think that like, let's say you got cheated on, right?
	And you were in that emotional state.
	You think that would also occur if you were emotional and you got cheated on?
	Versus her not being there for the right reasons?
	Would that also add to like, you doing that in public?
	I think it could, but also like, no.
	I think simultaneously, even if you found out something that was so...
	Shocking, jarring to you.
	If you have enough respect and rapport, mostly respect with your partner, yeah, you're going to deal with that in private.
	Okay.
	You said women are there for the wrong reasons.
	Would you say their fear of being alone is the reason why they might get into a relationship that's less than optimal?
	Maybe, I would say that, and then also hypergamy, which maybe doesn't occur necessarily everywhere, but then probably in cities more like Miami, where that lifestyle is very much so advocated.
	But wouldn't the practice of hypergamy be dating up?
	Yeah, exactly.
	But then...
	Sorry, but they could still disrespect a guy if he is just...
	Sorry, hypergamy in the sense of if he's, like, paying for her shit, paying for her bills or whatever, but maybe not in the sense of, like, status, hypergamy-wise, but from a monetary standpoint.
	Okay, so she's getting with him to fulfill a need.
	Exactly.
	So she'll disrespect him if he's...
	Okay.
	So she's getting with him to fulfill a need versus...
	Because it's enough to get that need met, but the other things aren't being fulfilled, so she's lashing out in other ways.
	That's what I've seen in this recent experience.
	Exactly.
	That's the experience I've seen and what I was referring to recently, and it's very sad to see.
	Alright, Twitch.
	Alright.
	Alright, we'll kill the Twitch stream.
	Guys, come on over to YouTube.
	We'll kill the Twitch.
	So come on over to YouTube.
	We're also on Twitter and Facebook right now.
	So...
	Yeah, okay.
	Might as well.
	Yeah, fuck it.
	Alright, come on over to YouTube.
	Just come on over to YouTube.
	Let's go!
	Come on over to YouTube.
	And like the video, goddammit.
	Okay, what about you?
	You said, yes, your friend screamed at him in public in a shop.
	Why did she do that?
	Honestly, it was...
	I'm pretty sure it was because he was talking to other girls.
	Basically the same reason that every girl lashes out on their man.
	Because he was talking to other girls.
	Okay.
	That's the only reason you say that?
	That's the only reason.
	I mean, it's the top reason.
	Was there an underlying reason?
	Actually, this segues perfectly into the next question that I was going to ask.
	Would she have taken that line of disrespect had the guy had status or money?
	What do you think?
	Would she have disrespected him to the same level if he had status or money?
	Because you're saying he cheated.
	Okay, cool.
	Understandable.
	He cheated.
	But if he was that guy...
	What if she thought twice and bit her tongue in that situation?
	Probably.
	So was it that he was a, I guess, maybe lower value male?
	Yeah.
	And he did that shit that pissed her off?
	I guess so.
	What did he do, this guy in particular?
	He was texting other girls.
	Oh, he didn't do anything.
	Texting other girls.
	So if he had been somebody, had his shit together, you think maybe the chick would have maybe tossed that to the side a bit?
	Had more tolerance for it?
	Probably.
	Oh, so is that why Chris Brown doesn't get disrespected?
	Is that why?
	Yeah, I guess.
	Nobody talking to Chris Brown, they know what's up.
	Amy, what's your situation?
	Do you think the girl would have still disrespected the guy to the same level if he had status and money?
	He did.
	That's a sad thing.
	I'm still trying to figure it out.
	Honestly, I'm still trying to make sense of it in my head.
	You still don't know why.
	Yeah, because based off everything you guys have taught me, I've learned so much about how this stuff works and dynamic relationships.
	And she still did it.
	She still freaking did it, dude.
	It's insane.
	Now, let me ask you this.
	Did he break up with her after she did that shit?
	Yeah, and got back together with her less than a week later.
	There's the answer.
	There's the answer.
	He's a pussy.
	And I tell you all the time, man, having a status of money isn't enough.
	It might curb it a bit, disrespect, but it's still going to happen if you're a bitch.
	And also, was she drunk or sober?
	When she disrespected him?
	Birth.
	It's not just one occasion, bro.
	That was an extreme occasion towards the end, but yeah.
	And she was giving birth?
	Yeah.
	That's just my accent, Brandon.
	It's okay.
	It's okay.
	You're good.
	You're good.
	That's a really good example.
	So this guy had the money and the status, yet she still disrespected him.
	And he broke up with her after, yet he got back with her a week later.
	Correct.
	Who reinitiated the contact when they got back?
	I actually don't know because I think he's been too embarrassed to even tell us that they got back together.
	We had to find out.
	Oh, wow.
	We saw through Instagram that they were back together because they're the movies together.
	Okay, if you have to get...
	Okay, probably...
	I mean...
	Yeah, I can't go too much deeper.
	It's going to be too obvious.
	It probably already is at this point.
	They're going to fucking know if they watch this.
	Maybe she apologized.
	He took her back.
	Maybe he went to her...
	I mean, we don't know.
	I honestly want to know what good bullshit she fucking spun because it would have been impossible from my perspective and any man who would have respected himself would never have taken her back.
	Yeah.
	I think that's a really good learning point for the audience here.
	Like, guys, status and money is not going to save you from female disrespect if you don't have a set of nuts.
	For you, we were going through why women...
	You said basically out of frustration, repeated frustration of dealing with men.
	Would you say that if a man has status and money, it might hurt the chances of a woman getting frustrated with her guy?
	Maybe decrease the odds?
	I mean, probably, yeah.
	Okay.
	Fair enough.
	What was that, Chris?
	I said profound.
	No.
	Like, not all of the time, but...
	Fair enough.
	Your boyfriend, in your situation, he was in high school with you, right?
	Probably?
	Had he been older, had his shit together, had some money, had some status, would you have behaved the way that you did?
	Maybe not as impulsively, but I still would have liked...
	Let me add another caveat.
	And knowing that if you behave that way, he is going to literally break up with you.
	Would you have acted the way that you did?
	Oh, no.
	If he would break up with me, no.
	Okay.
	Interesting.
	So, like, if he had money, whatever.
	Okay.
	You would have still done it or whatever, but it's more about if you knew he would...
	Let me ask you this, going a little bit deeper.
	In the back of your mind, when you were lashing out at him at this party or whatever the fuck it was, and you're being emotionally erratic or whatever, did a part of you know he ain't going nowhere?
	Yeah.
	I mean, we had been off and on forever.
	It was never a long break of time.
	We'd argue, and then I'd stand out with him the day later.
	Who reinitiated the relationship back every time y'all broke up?
	Probably me.
	It was you?
	Yeah, probably me.
	Maybe sometimes him.
	Happened a lot.
	Okay.
	But he always took you back, no questions asked.
	Oh, yeah.
	Wow.
	Okay.
	If y'all read between the lines here, you guys are really getting an expose on female psyche here.
	No offense, ladies.
	I don't even mean to make y'all guinea pigs.
	Sorry, you guys on brand?
	I think he's going to the next one.
	Brandon, would you have hit Chris Brown?
	Chris Brown?
	Yeah, if you were dating Chris Brown and he did that same shit, would you hit him?
	Hell yeah.
	Spanish girls is different, man.
	Latino girls is different, man.
	I like spicy, though.
	Brandon, question for you.
	What's up, man?
	If that was you and you was dating her and she hit me, what would you do when she hit me?
	What state are we in?
	What state are we in?
	We are in Florida.
	The way to stand your ground is set up, she can shoot me if I fight her back and get away with it.
	You know what I'm saying?
	In a stand your ground state, I have to take evasive action.
	Because if I attack her, you know what I'm saying?
	She can shoot me.
	In New York and California, you identify as a woman and hit her back.
	Yeah, man.
	No, man.
	I'm a lesbian.
	I'm a lesbian woman.
	In California, I identify as a lesbian woman, man.
	Right before you hit her.
	I'm a woman.
	Oh, man.
	Then it's like, oh, man.
	But we don't condone hitting women, guys, just so you know.
	For you.
	Daniel's back.
	Help him slap, though.
	Oh, man.
	Given your situation.
	That was a good one.
	He's one of the legends, man.
	So, you know, you punched your boyfriend when you thought that he accidentally pushed you down the stairs and slapped him a few times when he made jokes about you, right, that you didn't like.
	Would you have thought twice, maybe?
	Maybe you still would have hit him, but would have you at least thought twice had your boyfriend been maybe older than you, more experienced than you, and he probably wouldn't accept that behavior and break up with you if you did it?
	I mean, honestly, you're saying status, right?
	Like, him being older, you mean?
	Older, more, having more money, more status, being a bit more, not as sensitive.
	Pretty much, he would essentially be like, we're done.
	I mean, I feel like the money and the status doesn't really matter.
	I feel like it's about the maturity of the guy and how he treats me.
	And like, as I said, the reason that caused the fight before is because there was a bunch of little things that he did that led up to that.
	But if a guy is mature and he knows how to treat you, then that wouldn't happen.
	Doesn't matter how high.
	Can you give me an example of these little things that built up?
	It can be like every time the girl wants to make plans, the guy always cancels or he always gives an excuse for something.
	He always canceled on you?
	Yeah, or always gives an excuse.
	He didn't care.
	Exactly.
	He wouldn't show that he cared.
	I would check up on him.
	I would give him little gifts like surprises, but he wouldn't do anything for me.
	I went all out on Valentine's Day.
	I got a teddy bear, which I don't care about.
	She gave you a teddy bear, but what did you do?
	She gave him a teddy bear.
	No, I did something big.
	It was a whole setup with pictures, multiple teddy bears, candles, flowers.
	Was it at a hotel or some shit?
	No, it was at his house.
	I set it up all at his house.
	That's so sweet.
	Did he know you was there doing it?
	No, his brother let me in.
	So he didn't know?
	No.
	Did you punch him down?
	I'm just curious.
	I guess you would have thought twice if he was a different caliber of guy.
	Maybe he wasn't so sensitive.
	You would have thought twice about punching him or slapping him for making jokes.
	You still would have done it because obviously you would have hit Chris Brown too, right?
	I think that's Cap, but whatever.
	Would you punch Bad Bunny?
	No.
	There you go.
	But what if he didn't catch you on the stairs, though?
	That's what I'm saying.
	You had to fuck Bad Bunny up, right?
	Okay.
	But like, you gotta think, it's Bad Bunny.
	You can't fight Bad Bunny.
	Why not?
	He paints his name.
	You can't fight the Bad Bunny, bro.
	You can't.
	The Bad Bunny's the Bad Bunny.
	The Bad Bunny's the Bad Bunny.
	I ain't even thinking about it like that, man.
	That nigga up there, bro.
	Damn.
	I didn't even think about it like that.
	And the toxic relationship that you described that your friend had, you said that it was toxic and I guess an ingredient for that was that he didn't stick to his word.
	Do you think if he had his shit together, maybe some status, some money, that him not sticking to his word would have been tolerated more?
	I think, honestly, if he had status and money, he would have been able to stick to his word a lot more because I think some of what she wanted was things that cost something like food and dates.
	So I think he would have done a better job maybe even calling her Ubers.
	If he had less of a care about finances, I think he would have been able to be a better man for So the lack of adherence to his word was stemmed in financial difficulty.
	Not in him just being a fucking liar.
	Sometimes he cared more about his friend's reassurance and his friend's approval than his girlfriend's.
	So she would get really upset about that, like trying to show the boys that he's got it, but she knows that he doesn't.
	So she would get upset about that.
	So he'd go to the club with them, maybe buy a bottle or some shit.
	Yes.
	Spend all his dollars and then not take her out.
	So that's what pissed her off.
	And he would promise to do so.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Understandable.
	Crazy, bro.
	Yeah.
	You know what's funny?
	This goes to show.
	Let's say he had made the promise, but he didn't do it, but he had the money, she probably wouldn't have been as mad.
	Possibly.
	Think about that.
	Because then he could always say, I was busy.
	But if you don't have the money, and she knows you don't got it, and you spend it with a bunch of other dudes, then that's where the anger can come in.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Interesting.
	She's like, that's my money, nigga.
	I hope the people are taking notes, because y'all are really getting like a 101 psych evaluation on how women think a lot of the time.
	Behind the scenes.
	Yeah.
	What about you?
	In your case, you said that basically a guy cheated on you.
	You went to go talk to another girl.
	He showed up and she yelled at him.
	Yes.
	There.
	Why do you think she flipped out?
	Do you think she would have flipped out on him at the same level if he had some status and more money to his name?
	Yes, because he allowed it.
	Explain that.
	So they ended up getting back together after the whole thing.
	His mom ended up pulling up and she was still making a big scene and they're still talking now.
	Was she hitting him physically?
	She wanted to, but no, she was going crazy.
	So basically he chose X over you.
	No, he just couldn't get me.
	I cut him off.
	I told him he disrespected me.
	And the reason why he said that he went back to his ex is because he thought I was talking to other guys.
	So she won is when I'm here.
	She can have him.
	She can have him.
	So, did this guy have his money and shit together?
	He was getting his shit together.
	I don't really know his finances.
	It's none of my business.
	Okay, so you didn't know?
	No.
	I'm gonna assume the girl that got back with him probably knew more than you did?
	Maybe, yeah.
	Maybe that's a reason why?
	Yep.
	Okay, but he was soft, I guess, because she acted like that because she knew he would grovel for her back.
	Was she Latina too?
	She was Latina.
	If you notice, there's a pattern here.
	There's a pattern here.
	A very good pattern.
	There's a pattern there.
	Yes, there was.
	See, none of these questions matter when you're talking about the Latina girls.
	I'm telling you, mi gente muy peligroso.
	Muy peligroso, man.
	She would hit anybody but Bad Bunny.
	And I believe her.
	I believe her.
	Literally anyone.
	Perfectly to my last question before we get into the thing.
	And then the last question, ladies.
	So we kind of, and we stack this, right?
	So have you ever disrespected your boyfriend or a significant other?
	And then some of you guys said yes or no.
	And then I asked if you didn't, have you seen it?
	Why was the disrespect there?
	And would you think twice if the guy had some status of money?
	Now we're going to go another, one more layer.
	If he was famous, what if they behaved the same way in your particular scenario?
	For you, we already know it's a no, because you said no bad bunny.
	If they were famous, and we're talking major influence, damn near A-list celebrity, would they have behaved the same way, yes or no?
	It just depends on the type of boundaries that he puts onto her.
	If he allowed it, then yes.
	You think that chick still would have acted that way if he was famous?
	Possibly, yeah.
	I'm saying yes because she was Latina.
	There you go.
	What about you and your situation if he was famous?
	What if he still acted that way?
	Traumatized.
	I think...
	I don't think so.
	I think it would have been different if he had that status.
	And she was white.
	No, she wasn't.
	She's black.
	She's black.
	Oh, shit.
	We know your answer.
	Yes.
	In your situation, in your particular, if he was famous, would have you behaved the same way you did?
	Probably not.
	I guess it depends if I were close.
	If it were a house party and I were close with his friends also, if they were someone famous, if that was me with the guy being famous or whatever, it would depend how close I was with them.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Do you think, I guess, in general, if they were famous, do you think it would still happen the same way it goes down typically?
	With the frustration that you mentioned?
	Probably not in public.
	You just don't want...
	Okay.
	Might still have it, but maybe not in public.
	Did you ever meet the guy she was dating?
	Or no?
	Oh yeah.
	Was he like a cheater?
	Was he just like having fun?
	I mean, I think...
	He sounds like a cool nigga, man.
	He sounds like one of the homies.
	Nigga networking, back and forth, feel me?
	Yeah, man.
	He's like meeting people.
	He's the life of the party.
	I mean, yeah.
	He kind of was.
	He held the parties in our small town and stuff like that.
	He was that nigga.
	Yeah, he sounded like a cool dude, man.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	In your case, the guy had the status and the money to a degree.
	What if he was famous?
	Do you think your friend would have done the same stuff?
	I'm mostly friends with him, but I would say probably not.
	No.
	I do want to make a point.
	Especially with the IG stuff.
	Yeah, exactly.
	Exactly.
	He's actually, he's pretty big on IG, but I would call that like D-list compared to actual like A-listers, right?
	Gotcha.
	But he's pretty big on IG. One thing I want to bring up, it's funny.
	She's Latino also.
	Something about That's a good pattern, man.
	Tacos will follow you.
	I know my people, you know what I'm saying?
	For you, I mean, you said already that your friend might have tolerated a little bit more if he wasn't a bum, but if he was famous, do you think pretty much it would have been a no?
	No.
	Do you want to have done that shit?
	Yeah, definitely not.
	Yeah.
	This line of questioning, guys, I don't know if y'all noticed it, but there's basically buffers to female disrespect, right?
	You got money, status, fame, and then obviously I think the most important one is awareness and the ability to walk away from a girl.
	And standards.
	And to curb disrespect.
	Like, will it mitigate some of the female disrespect when you have your money together?
	Of course.
	Will it mitigate some of it if you got your status on point?
	Of course.
	But I think at the end of the day, having the frame is the most important thing.
	Because even if you have all these things, like in her example, which was great, The girl can still disrespect you, even in public, even if you got your shit together, if you're a pussy.
	But if you notice, when the girl felt he was going to walk away, it kind of had like a...
	You know what?
	If I do this, he's going to walk away.
	I shouldn't do it.
	Yeah.
	So let's go ahead.
	We got a video to play for y'all.
	A trending video.
	A trending video right now, which, you know, was in line with the questioning that I had here.
	As some of you guys know, the BET Awards was last night.
	Not that I watch that stuff.
	But Mo told me about this, so shout out to Mo.
	And you want to give the backstory on this?
	Because you know more about the hip-hop scene than I do.
	So basically, guys, you guys know Uzi Vert, legend in his own making, awesome music, has awesome raves.
	He's that guy.
	Debatable.
	But, you know, he's dating someone that's a city girl, JT. And as you guys know, they don't play around.
	So what happened was, at the BT Awards, as you guys are going to see in the video, He shot out Ice Spice in one of his songs.
	And as a result, they don't like Ice Spice.
	So you're going to see what happens here when that occurs at BET and Broad Public, which is crazy.
	Broad Public?
	Broad Dele, but it was Dele.
	Broad Public.
	Here you have it.
	All right.
	Now JT got bad cousins.
	Susie was talking to Ice Spice.
	So, as you notice, So she yelled at him, right?
	And then after the fact, he tries to, I guess, mediate the situation and get her back.
	And not only did she do that, this is BT, guys.
	One of the biggest awards for this genre of people.
	Black people, of course.
	Genre of people?
	Genre of people?
	I'm trying to be funny here, bro.
	The point is, this is one of the biggest hip-hop R&B places you could get nominated for, and known throughout the world as one of the best places.
	So notice, this is happening in real time in this environment.
	One of the biggest stages for this genre of music.
	Nigga Awards.
	You can start the music for now.
	Okay, they've been arguing for like 20 minutes.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Yeah, good call for us to turn the music off.
	Okay, they're still going there.
	You can see them conversing.
	And then...
	And then they'll be fine.
	Okay.
	And then it's a bit of ice spice.
	Okay, here we go.
	Okay.
	Oh, shit.
	Can we at largest, by the way, Chris, if possible or no?
	I've been trying to see, but so far...
	Okay, that's fine.
	Just roll it.
	Just enlarge it on there and you know how to do that?
	Like, click the top left screen.
	Yep, there you go.
	So basically, he was begging back for her.
	Yep, right there in public.
	Let's go run it.
	Damn.
	Damn.
	Okay, and this next one?
	What's that, Smiley?
	Uzi Vert and JT leaving the BAT Awards So after all that happened He still left with her And, like, nothing happened, honestly.
	And there's a video of her throwing the phones at him.
	We got that one too, Chris, or no?
	I think Mo had it in there as well in the chat.
	But she literally throws a phone at him in his face and walks away.
	So let's get the timeline of events.
	Crazy.
	So she yells at him first.
	Yeah.
	So basically what happens is...
	Give us a timeline.
	She hears him talking about Ice Spice, basically, in this recollection, right?
	In the song.
	And she's like, I don't know what it is that triggered her, but something with her name triggered her.
	I think she hates her or something like that.
	And as a result, she got up, threw the phones at him, and then showed at him nonstop.
	So what we saw first was after throwing the phone at him.
	After, yeah.
	Okay.
	So then, as you can see, he's like, you know what?
	Let's calm this down.
	I'm going to talk to you real quick and figure it out.
	And he's talking to her during the performances on his knees.
	And I suppose I think she does something in the background.
	I can't remember what she does, but something in the background kind of like ease the whole scenario.
	But I don't know what she did, but it was there on camera.
	I don't know what she did.
	She just said, hey, it was just like that.
	But she's getting mad because of that.
	Okay.
	Okay, and then are we missing anything, Mo, on your end to the story?
	You think it would have been different if it was like a different genre of people?
	I'm just asking.
	You think if it was a different genre of people, it might have worked?
	I don't know.
	I'm just asking questions.
	Well, I mean, if we're going to speak to that, I'll say, I will say this.
	This might be offensive.
	Okay, what I'm about to say does not necessarily represent any of the members of the panel.
	Nothing you say represents me.
	I like black people.
	I want to be clear about that.
	I like all my black queens.
	Yeah, man.
	So what I will say is what I've noticed in the black community in general is that there tends to be a lack of respect for male authority.
	And, you know, we can talk about the systemic situations.
	Why behind that?
	But a lot of, I think, two out of three African-American children are raised in a household without a father present.
	So there's just a lot more father figure.
	Like Jay-Z ain't have a dad.
	Look at him.
	Yeah, he's an exception to the rule.
	But in general, right?
	There's a lack of a father in the household, so therefore there's no respect for male authority in the black community in general.
	Which is why, obviously, I think he's behaving the way that he is and then she's reacting the way that she's reacting because...
	You know, we live in a culture nowadays where they say niggas ain't shit.
	If you look at hip-hop music, it shits on men a lot of the times.
	And both sides.
	The men shit on the women, too.
	But there's just a general lack of respect for the opposite gender in that community.
	I mean, just her music alone speaks volumes about how she treats men.
	It's just crazy.
	But ladies, what's your thoughts on this?
	We'll start right here.
	It doesn't have to be about race, just in general with the Uzi Vert situation.
	I think that was insanely out of proportion.
	I think that was very disrespectful.
	And she shouldn't have thrown the phone at Lil Uzi like, that's my mans, bro.
	But no, that was completely unprofessional.
	Let's say in a parallel universe, let's say that was you throwing the phone.
	If your man took you back, would you respect him the same way?
	Shout at him.
	Good couple minutes or a couple seconds, whatever.
	Throw the phone.
	Multiple phones.
	With you.
	Multiple phones.
	I think it was one or two.
	I can't remember.
	Okay.
	To be honest, I... If he got on his knees like that...
	I don't know whether I would find it insanely hot or I would just lose respect for him.
	It's kind of like in the middle.
	I don't know.
	I would lose respect for him, but at the same time, it's kind of like, damn, you're on your knees for me.
	Depends what he did, right?
	What did he do?
	That's what I'm still trying to get.
	What did he do before that that actually caused her to freak out?
	I didn't get that from the start.
	Well, this is what he's showing when he said her Ice Spice's name in the song.
	He mentioned a female artist.
	Yeah, another artist.
	In a song.
	Apparently.
	And I don't know if there's a beef or whatever between JT or the City Girls and Ice Spice, but whatever it is, there's something going on there.
	And because he said her name, that triggered her for some reason.
	I don't know why.
	It's completely unreasonable.
	We're going to get to the chats here as well.
	Sorry, I want to get everybody's take on it.
	What about you?
	For that, it's completely unreasonable.
	It's ridiculous.
	What about you?
	I mean, I don't think we know her full reasoning.
	Maybe she has an issue with her already, so I just think maybe something happened people don't know about that caused her to get so upset.
	I think she has her head on her shoulders probably.
	No, she's at a big event.
	And maybe there's a reason she was so upset.
	She was following Kevin Gates.
	I got two phones.
	We'll go to you.
	I want to get your take on it.
	What do you think?
	What's your take on it?
	I would definitely not act like that at a big like a word like that with a bunch of people but yeah we also like my sister said we don't know actually everything because if she's gonna act like that in front of so many people it's probably more than him just saying the name.
	All right what about you?
	Yeah, I also agree on that.
	Like, there's also, there's probably some things that build up to that for her to react like that.
	But I don't think it's reasonable for her to do that at a live event with all those people watching here.
	I think that she could have gone another way and corrected him in private.
	Yeah, yeah.
	If you're throwing your phone at your boyfriend, that shouldn't be your boyfriend.
	You just shouldn't be throwing phones at the person you're supposed to love.
	He also shouldn't be on his knee.
	Like, this is just such a mess, and they should have exited the relationship prior.
	And also, if he wants to be cool with iSpice and his girl's not, like, either...
	Have your girls back or don't be with your girl.
	Like, you are together but you don't know that these things bother each other.
	I think they shouldn't be together.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	So I feel like he's setting the standard for how she's going to end up treating him again.
	So I wouldn't be surprised if this does happen again.
	You know?
	Brandon, what are you talking about, bro?
	Well, here's the thing, man.
	People are going to do whatever they're positively reinforced for.
	When they get a positive reinforcement, they're going to continue that behavior, right?
	Him being on his knees was kind of like positively reinforcing that behavior.
	If it's something he didn't want, right, then maybe that wasn't the right move, man.
	I mean, you never know, man.
	Maybe he liked that kind of shit.
	You know what I'm saying?
	He's one of them motherfuckers who paints their nails and shit, so maybe he kind of liked his girl to whip his ass a little bit.
	You know what I'm saying?
	This guy's like, I ain't trying to kink shame nobody if that's what you into, right?
	But if you're not into your girl fucking you up, You probably don't want to reward her for fucking throwing projectiles at you in public.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Like, you probably don't want to reward her for that, right?
	Like, positive reinforcement is, like, really super powerful.
	Like, I read a book on...
	It was a weird book on people who train dolphins, and they only train them with positive reinforcement.
	They have these motherfuckers jumping through hoops, jumping through fire, doing all sorts of tricks.
	You can't whip a dolphin, right?
	So it's all positive.
	We enforce men.
	They get them to do everything.
	But people are like that too.
	So if somebody does something you don't want and you positively reinforce that, you can probably expect that to happen again in the future.
	Yeah, I mean, I just think, personally speaking, Lil Uzi versus a legend.
	But, of course, him being a legend doesn't mean that his girl won't, you know, take advantage.
	Because, once again, if he loved it to happen, it's because, you know, it happened either before or, for example, it happened in multiple instances before.
	And I think, personally speaking, Uzi knows his girl.
	So, for him to say that, I'll put it in a song.
	Come on, bro.
	I mean, if it happened to BT, that's wild, bro.
	We've never seen the way he danced, though, man.
	He might like getting...
	Could I say something as well?
	Because you mentioned that like, could she respect him for taking him back after?
	I would guess that he probably loses respect for himself every time something like that happens and he takes her back and that therefore lessens his ability to be able to put a god up and really set some solid boundaries when that happens again.
	So every time he does that, he loses respect for himself.
	It's making it more likely for it to repeat in the future.
	You know what I'm saying?
	And she might be scared.
	She's way more than him.
	Musically, I think, you know what I'm saying?
	Like, she might be a little shook, man.
	You know what I'm saying?
	We see the artist, Uzi Vert, which is musically, he's like a freaking genius, I think, personally speaking.
	And, like, that's who we see.
	But the person behind the artist, his standards are probably not that high because he's saying, you know what?
	Do this to me.
	I'll take it back.
	I'll buy you whatever you want.
	That, to me, is crazy.
	And then for the BET, come on, bro.
	That's wild.
	What's your favorite line?
	What's your favorite bar?
	Uzi Vert bar?
	I just want to rock Rock Rock Rock Oh that's it That's how it go How it go No how it go No how Fresh Mike go ahead Okay fresh how it go Nigga no I miss nigga Nigga bro I just want to rock Rock Rock I don't know man He's a legend though You said he's like a legend.
	It's on 20 minutes.
	I just want to rock.
	How'd 20 minutes go?
	Girl, why you keep calling?
	Go ahead, bro.
	I was taking some notes as you guys were speaking.
	So, objectively looking at this, more than likely for her to lash out the way that she did at him, there's some aggravating circumstances behind the scenes that we're probably not aware of.
	He's a rapper, has money, status.
	He's probably having sex with a bunch of groupies, cheating on her, lying, whatever it may be, right?
	We can just speculate because we know what comes with guys like him typically, right?
	Now, with that said, right, him doing all that stuff, it still doesn't give her an excuse to behave the way that she did.
	But what I think guys need to take away from this and learn from this is that, thanks to feminism being here, a lot of women don't respect most men, if I'm going to be all the way a thousand with y'all, because most women out-earn men, a lot of women are more career-oriented, more women are more ambitious than a lot of guys nowadays, a lot of guys are sitting there whacking off to porn and playing video games and not getting their shit together, right?
	So a lot of women, by default, don't respect most men.
	Now, what I would argue, right, and I talked about this briefly a second ago, but this is even more pronounced in the black community, where there's the absence of the father, there's the absence of a male authority, there's the absence of men in the community to look up to.
	So a lot of the time, when black women grow up, they don't have a father there.
	Every male they do have in their life or know is maybe involved in drug trafficking, involved in criminal activity, isn't necessarily a role model, right?
	And the guys that they did deal with, they were doing some bullshit.
	So there's just a negative taste in their mouth when it comes to men in general.
	And I would say it's even more pronounced in the Black Mini.
	So she manifested her anger and frustration towards him in the worst way possible on the biggest stage ever with the guy's status, which what women don't understand is when you embarrass a man publicly, you also make yourself look stupid.
	Because what you've now proven is that you're with a lower value male that doesn't have your respect.
	And you look like an idiot as a woman because now since you've disrespected him and he took it, you inadvertently put yourself in a leadership and dominant role.
	Which as much as women sit there and say they want to be, you know, strong and powerful and independent, blah, blah, blah.
	No girl wants to lead their man.
	That's the biggest lie I think we tell modern-day women is that you can be a leader of your man.
	It doesn't work that way.
	No woman wants that shit.
	So with Uzi Vert accepting this, what's going to happen now is she now controls the frame of the relationship because he's effectively told her your behavior is acceptable.
	As a matter of fact, I'm going to apologize for my behavior and I'm going to tolerate your behavior.
	So now it's only going to get worse here because now she has the leverage.
	He's the one in the weaker position.
	And what I tell you all in this podcast, women have the leverage.
	They're terrible people.
	So she's going to continue to disrespect them even more so.
	You made a good point.
	Who does it really hurt?
	Ultimately, his hurt and for sure.
	But him, he's famous.
	Yeah.
	So now it looks like he's a little light bitch.
	Women don't lose status from having a man disrespect them.
	I'll give you an example.
	No one thinks twice that Jay-Z cheated on Beyonce.
	People are going to continue to listen to single ladies.
	People are going to continue to give her respect.
	She's going to keep getting booked for Super Bowl, whatever the fuck.
	She's still going to be an icon.
	If she was to do some fuck shit to Jay-Z though, it will hurt his reputation because when a man gets cheated on, he loses status.
	When a woman gets cheated on, it might even increase her status.
	Look at Kobe Bryant's wife.
	Will Smith.
	Will Smith, that's an example of, yeah, your girl cheating on you and losing status.
	Dude, the guy's a fucking legend and his name has been tarnished because his wife is a whore and did some stupid shit Took no accountability for it, put it out in front of everybody, and now he's lost status because of that.
	But I guarantee you, if it was the other way around, and you smash a chick and she stood by his side, she would regain respect.
	And I think Kobe Bryant's wife is a good example of that.
	Beyonce is a good example of that.
	Yeah, guys, female disrespect will fuck you up and tarnish your legacy down the road.
	But you disrespecting her won't necessarily tarnish her legacy.
	When men have the leverage, it always works.
	When women have the leverage, it's an L. And Will Smith fuck you up.
	I was asking Mo, man.
	I was trying to get Mo to find a video of Lil Uzi dancing, man.
	I feel like we need to see this so y'all can really understand the kind of nigga we're talking about.
	I feel like it's just some light on this shit.
	Yeah, he is fairly feminine for the audience out there.
	Paints his nails, makes a lot of crybaby music, doesn't go to the gym and train seriously, very skinny, frail.
	And that's another thing, too.
	I think that's a good point.
	That's the importance of image as well.
	Like, when you're in shape, guys, and you're a physically imposing person, I'm not saying your girl's gonna, oh my god, he's gonna beat me up.
	But there's something in the back, in the hindbrain that lets people, when they look at you, they're like, oh, there might be a physical consequence for this.
	Let me not disrespect this individual.
	You know, I think this is very apparent in men, because when men meet each other, there's an unspoken respect, because they know that it can get physical.
	There's always a threat of violence.
	There's always a threat of violence with men.
	But you know, sometimes women, though...
	This is kind of my...
	I broke up with or left a lot of women for this because they would talk to me loud and shit.
	And I'm like, I'm thinking, yo, bitch, I have really fucked people up.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Like, why are you doing this?
	And I just felt like they knew they could get away with it because I wouldn't hit a woman.
	You know what I'm saying?
	So it's like, oh, now it's like...
	Now you're trying me.
	Yeah, oh, why are you fucking with me?
	You know what I'm saying?
	And I had to leave that situation.
	And the thing is, you're a guy that's in good shape.
	So if you're a guy and you're small and frail and you have feminine characteristics...
	They really think that they can do that shit to you.
	You know what I mean?
	I guarantee you, his chick, probably to some degree, thinks that she can physically...
	She weighs more than him.
	Maybe in a different weight class.
	I'm not even joking about that.
	This is the importance, guys, of being in shape, man.
	Like, if your girl's bigger than you...
	Look at this, look at this, look at this.
	Yeah, bro.
	Oh my gosh.
	I'm just saying.
	I'm just saying.
	He might not mind.
	Getting slapped around a little bit.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Oh, man.
	When it comes to Uzi, I think, for example, his work ethic is crazy because the music he puts out and the work in the studio he does is crazy.
	But his image itself is definitely not masculine.
	It's like Prince or some shit.
	You know what I'm saying?
	And the thing is, too, you gotta remember, his girl is extremely masculine.
	So it's like, you know, when you deal with girls that are hyper-masculine like that, you have to elevate your level to your masculinity to a level that you might not be comfortable being in.
	You gotta be damn near ready to slap a bitch to get her in line.
	You gotta be fucking rambled.
	Yeah, you gotta be like...
	It's crazy.
	And I tell y'all on this pod, right?
	I tell y'all, don't deal with masculine women because you're gonna have to be at a level of masculinity where you're damn near almost on violent mode all the time to get her in line.
	Some girls like that shit, but is it worth...
	You gotta really have your communication skills.
	Nah, man.
	It ain't worth it.
	Just get with women.
	This is the importance of a girl having a strong masculine figure in her life, whether it was her father, her brother, maybe an uncle that was involved, a strong stepfather if he stepped in when she was still young or whatever.
	It will allow her to have a general respect for male authority in general, and that will make your job a lot easier.
	You can tell a lot of times when a woman grew up with a father in her life, it's night and day difference a lot of times the way they behave.
	Okay, so fellas on the panel, How would you handle this situation here if that was you?
	Because it was so much like I get a phone thrown at me?
	From the very beginning.
	Let's say you're an artist.
	You're performing.
	She didn't like what you said.
	Maybe you had a fight the night before.
	She acts all like that in public.
	What do you do?
	Is she attacking me?
	She's throwing phones at you, shouting at you in public.
	When it gets violent, right?
	You know what I'm saying?
	You gotta...
	I was joking about fucking communicating all that shit, but the truth is you can't get away with hitting a woman even if they deserve it.
	Chicks have hit me before.
	I didn't talk to them again, but they hit me.
	I didn't hit them back.
	It's just you take evasive action because that's the case.
	You can't come back from that reputation-wise.
	Even if you're in your right to knock her the fuck out, don't do it.
	It ain't worth it.
	I'm like a G, right?
	Y'all know me, man.
	Whatever.
	You know what I'm saying?
	A lot of y'all know my past and shit.
	Whatever.
	Fuck it.
	I've talked about that shit before.
	Like, for a bitch to hit me is, like, insane.
	For anyone to hit me is, like, insane.
	You know what I'm saying?
	But, like, yeah.
	Like, two chicks hit me before, and I was just like, oh, shit.
	I just took a base of action.
	And then I was like, all right.
	And I just never talked to them again because...
	That's how you catch a case.
	Even in those SIP shit, it's like you're gonna catch a case and your reputation's gonna be fucked up and you're gonna be forever known as like a woman beater, even if she hit you first.
	They won't even want to hear your side.
	I mean, controversial take.
	Chris Brown.
	Rihanna, get the fuck out of him first.
	100%.
	But the story has been spun that he attacked her when in reality she was beating his ass in a Lamborghini.
	He had nowhere to go.
	She was literally assaulting him for minutes.
	Then he finally retaliated.
	But all they remember...
	Is the pictures of Rihanna's face.
	That's all they remember.
	Yeah, you can't not hit a chick.
	No matter how much she deserves it.
	No matter how much you want to.
	You can't do it.
	You just can't do it.
	It's not your best interest, bro.
	I would say this.
	So I'll take it a step further.
	I would say don't even date a musician or a female that's an entertainer in the first place.
	And there's a reason for that.
	So, number one, they have higher levels of infidelity and cheating and divorce in general.
	That's statistically proven from a divorce attorney.
	And then the other thing people really need to remember when you're dealing with a woman that's an entertainer or whatever, it's going to sound dark, but a big part of the reason why she openly was okay with disrespecting him like that in public, what's it going to do?
	Clicks, views, awareness, attention, clout.
	Okay?
	Because now, she's the winner from this.
	You know what I mean?
	In the court, you know, in this feminized, crazy clown world that we live in, right?
	If she did this shit in, like, a Middle Eastern country, a country where the gender roles are very clear and concise, like, this bitch is out of order.
	Get her the fuck out of here.
	But in the United States, where it's a clown world, oh, you go, girl, whatever.
	They're going to empower that fuckery.
	We empower degeneracy here.
	So, when you're dealing with a woman, right, that makes her money off of garnering attention to Don't be scared when she garners that attention at your expense.
	Yeah.
	Well said.
	And you know the worst part?
	He's seen groveling at her feet, basically, trying to calm her down.
	But when you see that dancing, are you surprised?
	I don't know.
	I feel like everybody's glossing over that shit.
	This shit shouldn't be shocking to see a motherfucker doing that shit.
	You're right.
	He had his tongue out and shit like a thot.
	Now...
	I will say this.
	I asked you guys, right, about men that you may have disrespected or men you witnessed get disrespected by their woman, right?
	I don't want to tell you all this because I don't want to give it away.
	But what I always say is that a woman's behavior typically is a mirror reflection of her man's inadequacies.
	If she's beating his ass, whatever it may be in public, especially if they're in a long-term relationship, more than likely that guy doesn't have his shit together to some degree.
	Whether he's just a rich cent that pays her bills and she don't respect him, or he's a guy that's attractive but a bum and doesn't take care of business behind the scenes and have his shit together financially.
	Regardless, when a woman is attacking you or disrespecting you blatantly in public, etc., it says a lot about the man.
	And it's the man's fault for allowing it to even get to that point.
	Because a girl never shows up on a first day and sucker punches you.
	No.
	No.
	It starts with a minor insult here.
	Then it goes with a not listening to your order here.
	Or then it goes with, hey, can you do this for me?
	And she says, no.
	It's a snowball effect, right?
	It never starts with her sucker punch in the beginning.
	That's the end cause of you fucking up multiple times.
	Unless she's Latina, man.
	I'm just saying, man.
	Like, I've seen some shit I can't unsee, bro.
	Like, yo, you ain't...
	Puerto Ricans.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Brazilians, bro?
	Bro, I'm telling you, man.
	In that case, you can't fix her.
	That's a girl you just streets immediately.
	Curb immediately, right?
	I'm talking about a girl that you...
	That you were with and she wasn't like that in the beginning but then she ends up becoming more aggressive or angry or even assaulting you because you're such a fucking loser that that's the only way.
	She mentioned frustration earlier.
	Frustration from women typically comes at the end of repetitiveness of you not getting your shit together.
	Her having to get in her masculine to tell you go to work.
	Hey, maybe we should go to the gym.
	Hey, do that.
	If a girl's like Coaching you and telling you what to do about shit that you should already be doing as a man?
	Yeah.
	You fucking lost, bro.
	What you're saying is true for the most part, but if you meet one of these Puerto Ricans, you know who wants the black lipstick?
	You know what I'm talking about?
	Y'all know what I'm talking about.
	That bitch will fucking stab Conor McGregor, man.
	But that's your point, bro.
	So, honestly speaking, this just goes to show that nobody's safe.
	Celebrity, average guy, below average guy, if you're not on your shit, this could be you.
	Now, there's also another scenario.
	It can't be feminine.
	Your status and money can't save you all the time with...
	With chicks sometimes.
	Like, you're being feminine, whatever.
	Like, look at his girl.
	She just literally tried him in front of everybody.
	But typically what happens is, let's say a guy gets a girl, right?
	They're going well for a little bit.
	Maybe he's on point.
	He has frame.
	Alright, he's doing good work.
	Then, he slacks off, gets comfortable, and things start to turn where, like, the girl's more masculine than him.
	It happens too, as well.
	But I think, personally speaking, it's setting standards.
	As you said earlier before, People want to love, you know, to do things that you actually love for yourself.
	Yeah, you know what I'm saying?
	It's like, that shit happens.
	That shit can happen like once, but it shouldn't never happen again.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Either you leave or you got to communicate.
	It should only happen once.
	Alright, so we'll go ahead and hit the chat.
	Any ladies have anything to say on this topic or whatever before we transition?
	Go ahead.
	I do.
	I was just gonna say to the point that you said like nobody's safe.
	I think like status-wise you're right and then I also think there's another side to it where there's these soft qualities that can make you safe if you're in a relationship where that stuff is happening.
	I think you should exit and get in another relationship.
	And I think you're right, Myron, about finding a girl who's feminine and soft in the beginning because if you get with someone who you constantly have to put in place, obviously that stuff's going to happen.
	So if you get someone who's, you know, like gentle or more feminine in the beginning, If that stuff starts to happen, you're absolutely right.
	It's a sign that the guy is not being masculine.
	In her homeostasis level, she's always feminine.
	That's why I don't like these conditionally feminine women that are masculine all the time.
	Oh, I just need to be around the right man to submit.
	Fuck out of here, bro.
	Because I'm not going to go ahead and wear dresses and be a man when I fight, meet the right lady.
	Like, that's ridiculous.
	That's an assline concept.
	So, these women that are, like, just masculine as fuck, that you need to always get into place, it's not worth it, man.
	It's a headache.
	My man, static feedback knows something.
	So, what do you think, like, what does, like, say a first date look like with a girl that is, like, those traits that you want versus, like, a first date?
	Because I think that would, like, help to clarify.
	Like, what does it look like in the beginning?
	That's not the one.
	I'm sorry.
	A nice first date goes a certain way with the right person and then it goes another way with the girl that's rough and rigid.
	It's happened before where girls will try to switch the venue up or, oh, I want to do this or let's do this or whatever and then you just got to politely correct her and let her know that this is not how this is going to go.
	And typically, and you know, I think that's a byproduct a lot of times of like going out on dates with guys that like don't have plans or don't necessarily are indecisive.
	So they kind of just like, it's in their instinct to like, okay, let me step up because this guy's not going to do it.
	So you got to kind of remind her like, oh, I'm not that guy.
	Because it's so common where guys are pussies and deferred to what women think is the right that women are used to like giving their opinion or whatever.
	But, you know, you have to kind of almost bring them back and be like, no, we're not listening to it.
	We're not going to do what you do.
	I've had it before where I've had a date planned and she says the place that I had in mind.
	I'm like, no, I'll change it.
	I'm like, no, we're going to go here.
	Yeah, that's how important it is to let women know that you set the precedent, not her.
	And it's very important, from a cognitive standpoint, it's very important to set that up early and let her know that she really doesn't have any control of the situation or frame.
	As terrible as that might sound.
	But that's how women only respect authority, is what I've come to realize.
	So you have to be that way with them.
	Yeah, I agree.
	I even think even ordering food off the menu, you can literally maneuver that to where you're in more of a control.
	I'll order it for her.
	I ask her, what do you want?
	And then I'll order it for her.
	Yeah, or like share some things, like what would you like to try things?
	Yeah, I've seen, because I've seen the opposite of that, which is a red flag when girls just like run up tabs or like you said, like choose really expensive places, kind of like make it their day and not like a date.
	Yeah, you have to, as the guy, you have to like, but that comes with everything.
	You have to pay for the date, you got to plan it, you got to have everything set up, etc.
	Like you can't like half-ass it.
	Like, oh, let's go here.
	Oh, let's split it, by the way.
	Like, no, it's got to be all the way.
	Because one thing I've noticed about females is they look for congruency in all aspects of how you behave.
	So if you put out this demeanor and then she sees a chick in the arm or whatever, she'll notice that and she'll try to exploit it.
	That's where this death from a thousand paper cuts comes from.
	That's why the disrespect is always small in the beginning and it builds.
	Yeah, I agree.
	I mean, if you're the man that's paying for the actual date, go where you want to go, bro.
	Like, my thing is, she's not paying for it.
	So why do you care where she want to go?
	Well, do you like...
	Do you want her to have a good time?
	Do you want her to have a good time?
	No, no, no, no, no.
	But get on the same though.
	Who cares what these hoes think?
	I got you fresh.
	Because what will happen is, especially in Miami, you have to be very cognizant of this.
	The girl will say, oh, let's go to Komodo.
	Let's go to Poppy Steak off rip.
	And if you fall for that and say, yeah, let's go.
	She already knows, okay, even if you're a guy that has money and you have the means to do so, if you accept that, what you're inadvertently telling her is, I am willing to sit here and spend money on you, even though you don't necessarily deserve it and have not earned it.
	But that's my favorite restaurant.
	- That's what I'm saying though. - I don't have poppy steak.
	- I'm counting steak.
	- It's pretty good. - And here's the thing, let's say you got the money, right?
	And you like this place that she mentioned.
	I would, like, let's say here in Miami, right?
	Yeah.
	Oh, I'm gonna go to Komodo.
	I'd be like, no, we're gonna go to Novo instead.
	Just so I can make sure I control the frame because I like both plays, violent or pick.
	Oh, man, you gotta do that shit.
	Yeah, man.
	You know what, man?
	You guys know the fucking rules like you guys read.
	No, you wrote the book, man.
	I'd be doing all types of shit that I'd be like, damn, you're not supposed to do that shit.
	But the point is, right, as a leader, you plan the date from beginning to end.
	So for example, I know it's fun.
	I know it's good food.
	I know Miami very well.
	So I go where I want to go.
	And I know by default, I've been in many scenarios where I've been on multiple dates.
	I know it's fun, what's not fun.
	And it's multiple locations.
	So for example, I'm going to get some tacos.
	So I'm quick, nice and easy.
	We're hungry.
	I'm hungry.
	So she's just plus one.
	And then maybe drinks at a spot down the street.
	You know, maybe like a club.
	The point is that like...
	It's an example, nigga.
	The point is, your leader, your plan to finish, and that's you being a man.
	The foundation is you controlling it.
	If you lead that scenario, she's like, damn, you know what?
	I can sit by, relax, and enjoy the ride.
	There you go.
	These too many rules, man I feel like that saves the guy more time because girls are really indecisive exactly So it's just boom.
	Like we're going here and that's it.
	No worries.
	You ready?
	Ready for what?
	Where?
	Oh, she's like 18!
	I'm so confused.
	Are you ready?
	45!
	There you go.
	No, I'm not in general!
	In general, bro!
	Alright, let's read the chat.
	No, nigga!
	Okay, let's go!
	Okay, let's go!
	We gonna get Chris Hansen on this.
	Why it goes, uh, ladies, when was the last time a man complimented you on your looks and when was the last time you think the average guy received any physical compliment from a woman?
	Okay, so, um, when's the last time a guy complimented you on your looks?
	We can start, I think we started here last time?
	Yeah.
	Here, when's the last time a guy complimented you on your looks?
	It could be Instagram, in person, whatever, maybe.
	Literally today.
	Okay.
	So, and the last, oh yeah, that's it.
	To make it nice and simple, we'll go with each of the girls.
	When was the last time you got a comment?
	It could be internet or person.
	Today.
	Yesterday.
	Today.
	Yesterday.
	Okay, now let's contrast.
	When's the last time you think an average guy received any physical compliment from a woman?
	Let me put this in perspective for you.
	An average man in the United States nowadays is about 5'7 to 5'8.
	Making about 45.
	We'll say 37 to $50,000 per year.
	Average looks.
	Not a chat or anything like that.
	When's the last time you think he got a compliment?
	I don't think it's that common within men because men shoot the shots.
	Okay, when do you think the last time they got one?
	At least once a month.
	Once a month?
	On average.
	Yeah, like last week.
	Yeah, about last week.
	Yeah, it'd be like a week.
	A week ago?
	All these girls are Bobby Shmurda.
	Yeah.
	About a week ago.
	Alright, what about you?
	Never.
	No, no one's gonna get it.
	Like, you laughed when we said that shit.
	Like, from me?
	Yeah, like, we could use you as an example.
	Go ahead.
	When's the last time you've complimented a guy?
	Oh, like...
	An average guy.
	Oh, never.
	Okay.
	I called it!
	I said never!
	Yeah, she laughed, so...
	I called it.
	What about you?
	When do you think last time an average guy compliment got a compliment?
	A week to a month or longer.
	Okay, what about you?
	Yeah, guys don't usually get compliments like that, so it's probably like a month.
	I would argue there's some guys out there that probably have never gotten a physical compliment from a woman in their life.
	I'll tell you this, though.
	What's the number one compliment women give to men?
	You guys know?
	You're fine.
	Not only that, but it's the cologne, how they smell.
	Oh, you smell good?
	Oh, really?
	Yeah.
	Ladies, let's keep it a thousand.
	Women rarely give guys direct compliments on their physical looks.
	They'll give something like, I like your outfit, I like your smell, whatever, because...
	See, here's the funny part.
	You know why women don't do it?
	Why?
	Because they know that when they get physical confidence on them, it immediately puts them in a power position and they have less respect for the guy that gave it to them to a degree.
	That's why girls don't want to concede leverage.
	What do they do?
	Oh, you smell good.
	I like your outfit.
	They'll give you something.
	They'll give you a comment about something that's neutral that can change at any time.
	So it's not inherent to you.
	Versus a guy will always say, oh my God, you're so beautiful, blah, blah, blah.
	And the back of my mind is like, yeah, got you, bitch.
	And also, they are scared of rejection.
	100%.
	You have to put your nuts on the table a little bit to give a physical compliment like that, which I'm not telling you not to compliment women, but it's got to come from a certain place.
	Maybe, for example, an accessory.
	Not really about her because you put it on her.
	Here's all the time.
	You're beautiful.
	Versus, that's a nice dress you got on, a nice bracelet.
	Yeah.
	Something like that.
	If you complimented women the way they compliment us, girls would be a little bit more humble.
	You don't smell too bad.
	Yeah.
	Venom, finally beat Wyatt's first super chat.
	No, no, no.
	But you lost.
	Michaka goes, if Mario was a rapper, his name will be 9, 11, and fresh 50 cents a day.
	What the fuck?
	I see what you did there, sir.
	Treat her like a concubine.
	She would treat you like a king and do whatever you say.
	Treat her like a queen.
	She would treat you like a god.
	Pretend like you don't exist and only talk to you when she wants something.
	Stay toxic, gentlemen.
	That's actually funny.
	Question for the ladies.
	You meet a guy who checks all your boxes, 6'2 tall, nice smile, dress as well, and have a good job where he makes six figures.
	Y'all decide to switch numbers.
	He pulls out an Android phone.
	What are you doing?
	I want you ladies to be honest about this.
	Everything checks out, but he pulls out that Android, aka green text messages.
	What are you doing?
	We'll start right here.
	What's at me?
	Like, come on now.
	Okay, okay.
	You'll be okay.
	What about you?
	I would make a comment on it.
	I would make it playful.
	Like, oh, what's going on here?
	Literally, I've had this guy, he had like that Google flip.
	And he was like, oh, I work at Google.
	Like, he had a story behind it.
	So I try to see why.
	But it raised questions.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	What would you do?
	I would tell him to like I would suggest for him to buy an apple but like if he doesn't want to then I'll be fine with it too.
	It doesn't matter.
	But you can't FaceTime though.
	I know.
	What's up?
	We can zoom.
	What about you?
	What are you doing?
	I'd probably laugh, not making fun of him, but just initial reaction.
	But I wouldn't be like, ew, he needs an apple.
	But I would be hesitant about it.
	He's probably a scammer.
	What would your response be?
	What would you do?
	I would probably definitely make a comment at first.
	I guess the first opportunity I have to buy a gift, I'm buying an iPhone.
	What would the comment be that you would make?
	Because remember, you're just meeting this guy for the first time.
	What would the comment be?
	Damn nigga.
	I don't know what I would say to be honest but something probably like...
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	I would just be planning already when's the first like holiday I can buy you something.
	Okay.
	It's a good gift, though.
	So you would be attracted to him, but you would immediately...
	Yeah, I like him.
	He's a fixer-up.
	What about you?
	What would your first thoughts be?
	I would make a joke about the green bubble, probably.
	You'd make a what?
	A joke about the green bubble.
	The green bubble.
	No, it would be okay.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	It depends.
	Is it the one with, like, the detachable battery?
	Or is it, like...
	It's a Samsung Galaxy.
	Like, it's a good one.
	It's a Note.
	I mean, no, I don't really mind.
	You want to care at all?
	You want to question it?
	Yeah, no.
	Well, your opinion is relevant.
	You know, when I think about it, when I think about it, my girl, when I met her, I had an Android.
	I had an iPhone too, but the iPhone was like for business and the Android was personal because I just, I liked it.
	I liked the Android.
	It's a better phone.
	Yeah, she used to clown me for that shit.
	You know what I'm saying?
	We were just fucking, we were just...
	She's smoking in the back.
	What are you doing, nigga?
	She ain't like that shit.
	But then I lost, what happened was, it was like the beginning of the pandemic, like before we knew what it was about.
	Remember, everybody was kind of like really scared.
	Yeah.
	And especially in New York.
	So I was going to see my son.
	But he lived in Queens and I was in Manhattan so I bought an electric scooter and I was scooting all the way to Queens and I had the fucking map shit on here.
	You know what I'm saying?
	The android is the map and then I'm on the fucking bridge.
	The fucking Queensboro bridge on the fucking electric scooter.
	And that shit flipped off.
	And then I was too scared to go in the Verizon store.
	I think the Verizon store was closed.
	Everything was closed in New York.
	And so that's when I switched to the iPhone.
	I was like, oh, I kind of like this.
	I stayed there.
	Good choice.
	And now I got a girlfriend.
	So maybe that's...
	Anytime we have this discussion on iPhone, someone in the chat is going to cry and say, you guys are apple sheep, blah, blah, blah.
	Okay, I'm going to say this again for all the fucking low IQ retards out there.
	I've said this before, I'll say it again.
	We acknowledge that Androids are superior devices to iPhones on every level when it comes to processors, cameras, everything.
	Absolutely.
	I acknowledge this.
	However...
	They are better phones.
	They are better phones from a hardware standpoint.
	However, when it comes to women, that's why I love to ask them these questions before I bring this down for y'all.
	They're always going to question or have issues with you having an Android, regardless of how superior it is, because women are group thinkers.
	What does everyone have with the popular device?
	An iPhone, not a fucking Android, because women aren't critical and independent thinkers most of the time.
	So they go with what everyone else does, so when you don't have an iPhone, they're like, what the fuck?
	Yo, when I think about it, that shit probably cost me a lot of pussy.
	Like, you know what I'm saying?
	Like, yo, I'm trying to tell you.
	There are girls, right?
	Like, I've always said it.
	The hotter the girl is, typically the lower the margin of error for, like, certain things that you have.
	Some girls will disqualify you simply off of having you having an Android because they automatically negatively have connotation that you might be a scammer, a criminal, lower socioeconomic status, you don't have money.
	They automatically assume negative things to an Android, unfortunately.
	Well, because we like tech nerds.
	Like, all this shit in here, like, you know, I got all this shit, too.
	We know, like, I used to build better devices.
	I think, yeah, the best Samsung to me is Google Pixel.
	It's amazing, by the way.
	You know what?
	That just came out.
	I mean, you could bypass that a little bit.
	Why make it harder for yourself?
	It's an unnecessary handicap.
	I've said it before.
	Bro, MacBooks are inferior to PC. You could build your own PC for a fraction of the cost of a fucking MacBook.
	Nah, I don't know, man.
	That M2 chip is special, bro.
	No, no, for real.
	I used to think that too, until I got the first one with the M1 chip, and I was like, oh shit.
	I tried to crash that shit, and I couldn't do it.
	No, it's good.
	But, bro, you could build a PC for a fraction of the price.
	A PC laptop?
	No.
	No, I'm talking about a computer.
	Oh, yeah, yeah.
	A desktop, yeah.
	A desktop, yeah.
	But you're not building a laptop better than a MacBook.
	No, no, no.
	But I'm talking about a PC. Okay, okay, okay.
	For a fraction of the cost.
	But the thing is, guys, is girls don't care about this shit.
	And to be honest with y'all, when you pull out an Android, some girls will look at you sideways.
	That's why we ask them.
	And if you have an Android and you want to take your dating life seriously and get as many girls as possible, you are shooting yourself a bit in the...
	You're giving yourself unnecessary handicap.
	Yeah.
	That's all I'm going to say.
	Do what you want.
	You know, so I already know people in the comments, you guys are iPhone sheep!
	You fucking idiots.
	We acknowledge Android is better.
	Yo, are you guys really upset about that?
	Yo, you fucking nerds.
	I use a bathroom dealing with these nerds caring about iPhones.
	Blackest Panther.
	Treat her like...
	No, read that one.
	Chris?
	Oh, Chris.
	20, no, Chris.
	Uh...
	Chris, man.
	Nigga drunk.
	Ladies, your brother is seriously dating your best friend of 20 years.
	You find out he's smashing another chick.
	Do you tell your best friend?
	Remember, she's your 20-year friend.
	Okay, her brother is dating her best friend.
	Okay.
	So he's cheating.
	Do you tell her that he's cheating?
	Yeah.
	20-year-old friend.
	So you're gonna tell on your brother?
	Or your allegiance go to your 20-year friend?
	Okay.
	It means you've known her for 20 years.
	Yeah.
	No, yeah.
	What'd you do?
	Personally, I would tell her because she deserves to know.
	That's your brother, though.
	That's blood.
	You cold, nigga.
	Goddamn.
	I don't have any siblings, so I don't know what it's like to have siblings.
	We keep this one simple.
	How many of you would tell your friend about your brother's activities?
	Nice and high.
	Damn.
	Pretty much everyone except for you.
	Okay.
	Why would you not tell your 20-year friend?
	I don't necessarily have a reason.
	I just, I don't know.
	It's hard because my family has been, I've been through a lot with them personally.
	We've developed with each other a lot.
	So I would ask, like, are they, is he getting married or no?
	They've been together seriously, so let's assume that it's a marriage-minded relationship.
	It's on the way.
	I would have to seriously see where my brother's head is at before I make the decision to go and ruin their relationship.
	That's what I was going to say.
	Okay, so, no, don't change your answer now.
	What would that conversation be?
	You'd pull him aside, what would you talk about?
	Just see where his head's at, like, okay, you are committing to this woman, you love this woman, but why are you going out of your way?
	Okay, what if he responded to you, I'm just fucking these other bitches, I love her.
	So then you better let her go.
	Oh, you would tell him to break up with her?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Or, I mean, maybe she knows.
	I don't know their whole situation, you know?
	Okay.
	Alright.
	But you would go to him first?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Now, for some of you guys that would tell your friend, why your friend over your brother?
	I have closer relationships with my friends, I think, personally.
	So that's why I answered that way.
	But I would consult my brother first.
	I would just be like, take the information and like run to her.
	But yeah, I just have closer relationships with my friends.
	But you said you would consult your brother first, so I'm confused.
	Explain that.
	Yeah, so I would kind of do like, hey, I found out what's going on.
	Like, why are you doing this?
	Like, this is totally not you.
	And then I would also...
	I don't know.
	I mean, actually, maybe I would let him convince me to not go to her.
	Alright, so you would also go to your brother first.
	Alright, what about you?
	What are you doing?
	Um, I think I would talk to my brother first, and I would be like...
	So why'd you raise your hand?
	No, because, listen, no, listen.
	Bruh.
	See what I do when I say women are indecisive?
	And here's the other thing.
	I don't know if y'all just saw with that psychology experiment.
	When they saw a couple of them raise hands, they followed and raised hands.
	Now that I'm asking them, they'd switch their answer up.
	So...
	Women are group thinkers, bro.
	It's really bad here.
	It's even worse.
	We'll ask girls questions and they'll go like, well, everybody says, then they'll hear the first answer.
	Wait, hold on.
	Why did I do that?
	But continue on.
	So now you're going to go to your brother.
	You're switching up.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	So I would talk to him.
	I'd be like, the same thing.
	Like, I know what's going on.
	I would necessarily tell her.
	I feel like I would just give my best friend more hints, and I would tell my brother to stop.
	And if he doesn't, then I'd give my best friend, like...
	You'd be a double agent.
	Basically.
	You'd be giving her hints, and then you'd be telling him why.
	Exactly.
	I would be telling my brother to stop and then I would be helping my best friend and giving him tips.
	Yeah, you'd be double dipping.
	That's quite literally what you're doing.
	You're a double agent.
	I mean, not really, because if I'm telling my brother to stop, isn't that kind of like working for my best friend too?
	Like going on my best friend's side if I'm telling my brother to stop.
	AKA double agent.
	What about you?
	You said that you would go to your friend first.
	Why your friend?
	Because my brother's the one doing the wrong thing.
	Okay.
	So I would just go tell her it's not her fault.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Why would you go?
	So, I know you're going to call me indecisive, but I, like, halfway put my hand up.
	I was like, yeah.
	Because I was thinking, like, logically, like, I do have a lifetime best friend and a brother.
	So, I think I would give him, like, I would want to kind of tell him that that was wrong and give him the opportunity to go say something about it himself, maybe.
	But then how she said she might...
	You would get a first crack.
	Yeah, I would kind of give him the option.
	What if he says, I just want to fuck other bitches, but I love her?
	I don't know how to say that.
	It's not okay.
	But it's my dick.
	It's his decision.
	Yeah, of course.
	It's his choice.
	That's my brother.
	His life.
	Yeah, she's scarred from her past experiences.
	He's cheating!
	Oh my god!
	What about you?
	What would you do?
	So I think that with the question, there's a lot of variables that weren't already obvious in the situation, right?
	So for example, we don't know the conditions of their relationship.
	So is that okay in the first place?
	Which is why I was kind of like half and half.
	Sorry, if that was never something that was established in their relationship, absolutely, I would go to my brother first.
	Like blood is thicker than anything else, right?
	So that's the person I'm going to go to.
	You said earlier too that you would tell your friend.
	Yeah, yeah, I would.
	But again, it depends on number one, what is the variables?
	What is the situation of their relationship?
	What are the conditions?
	What have they agreed on already?
	And then number two, if they had agreed that they were going to be monogamous together, I would go to him and give him the opportunity to bring it up with her first.
	Before I was the one who stepped in.
	And if he agreed that they were monogamous to her, but then decided to do shady shit behind her back, and I gave him the option to go and speak about it and rectify that situation and explain what he actually wanted in the relationship long term, because that's the only way it's going to work, long term, right?
	If he wants to go and sleep with other women, but he loves her, the only way that's going to happen is if he is 100% honest.
	So you would tell him, you gotta go tell her the truth?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And then would you say, if you don't tell the truth, I'm gonna tell her?
	Yeah, I probably would.
	You would give him that ultimatum?
	Honestly, I don't know 100%.
	I probably would though, yeah.
	But because I would feel morally, if he's saying I love her and I want to be with other women and he never told her that at the start, that's my 20 year friend.
	She's not in the rung for that.
	You would basically tell him, you gotta go tell her.
	What about you?
	What would you do?
	You would tell your friend first, right?
	Why?
	Why did you choose that?
	Because, like I said, I don't really have experience with my brother, but if I did have a brother, I would tell my friend first because she deserves to know.
	Alright.
	Fair enough.
	That was a very hard question.
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	Dink Boss Hut says, Ladies, what are your number one priorities in life at this current moment?
	I'm sorry.
	Go ahead.
	My brother could kill like 30 people, right?
	And I'd be like, alright bro, we need to get you out of here.
	You can explain to me what happened later.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Because my fucking brother, man, even if he's wrong, that's my fucking brother, man.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Like, I ain't doing shit.
	We'll figure it out later, and I will reprimand him later.
	Hey, listen, you can't be killing people like that, man.
	You gotta cut it out.
	Knock it off.
	In the moment, he did some shit.
	That's my brother.
	I gotta protect him.
	You know what I'm saying?
	My older brother.
	He wouldn't kill nobody.
	He's a good guy.
	Shout out to him.
	Ladies, what are your number one priorities in life at this current moment?
	Do you think they're conducive to finding the man you know you want to inevitably settle down with?
	What's your number one priority, you would say?
	Let's start right here.
	I'm trying to develop myself into the best person I can become, whether that be financially, with education.
	I'm still young, still trying to figure out what I want to do.
	So self-development.
	Exactly.
	For you?
	Uh, I guess I have all my, like, duties of the week.
	Like, my job, you know, like, I don't know, like, duties of my life.
	I get 10,000 steps a day.
	I, you know, I'm good at my job.
	I keep my job, you know.
	I develop my mind, my friendships, and social.
	What's, like, a life goal you'd say?
	Like, number one life goal priority for you right now?
	Life goal.
	Number one life goal priority?
	My new modeling agency wants me to go to Colombia.
	So that's a pretty big goal of mine for the fashion week right now.
	Cool.
	Yeah.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	Fresh.
	So the question is, ladies, what are your number one priorities in life?
	And what are you doing currently?
	And, you know, so the girl before you said she wants to maybe have a career.
	So do you think a career is conducive to a family?
	No, you.
	You're speaking to me?
	Me?
	Yes, that's you.
	No, no, no.
	Her.
	I don't want to...
	Okay, so initially when you're in a relationship, you have to bring something to the table.
	Okay.
	And at the moment, I'm not looking to depend on a guy, so I have to depend on myself, which means I'm going to have to find a career to provide for myself.
	So is that, like, conducive to actually creating a family?
	Like, think about it.
	If a guy has the money, has the fame, has everything going on, right?
	And he's taking care of you.
	So why should he care about your career, though?
	He doesn't have to care about my career.
	But if I want to go travel, I don't want the restrictions as of right now.
	But when I'm ready to come in...
	Why should you travel, though?
	Because, like, at the end of the day, it's like, why would I want my girl to travel?
	Exactly.
	I don't want the restrictions of a relationship.
	Oh, so then you're not my girl.
	Exactly.
	Like, she's not my girl.
	I don't want a relationship as of now, so I'm not looking to build a family.
	She belongs to the streets.
	Chris was trying to get you to not focus on your career so you can be a girl.
	That's what he was trying to do.
	You ain't read between the lines.
	He was like, listen, baby, you ain't got to worry about your career.
	Let's help you get a man long-term, bud.
	Obviously, you don't care.
	So am I done?
	No, your priority.
	Oh, my number one priority?
	Oh gosh, I don't even, I don't know, I guess culmination of doing well in my career in finance, doing well in modeling and just keeping my body right and my friendships and happy.
	Yeah.
	So Chris answered a very good question, which relates to the first question as well.
	Does it help you get a man, you think, long term?
	Well, I have been dating, so I'm trying.
	She belongs to the streets.
	Just first dates.
	Nothing's made it past yet, but yeah, I know.
	I've been dating, and I'm very receptive to the feedback, and I've found, like, some...
	I'm sure you have.
	No, some guys really, like, you know, hear about what you do in your day and, like, having your mind enriched.
	And work does that for me.
	Work doesn't stress me out.
	So, yeah.
	And I get bored.
	I don't know what I would do without my job.
	What would she do in her job?
	And I'm good.
	She's single.
	Like, what would she do if she...
	Didn't.
	Yeah, like, I'm trying.
	What the fuck would she do?
	You would clown her if she didn't have a job, right?
	Go ahead, Chris.
	I mean, blowjobs, man.
	Come on, man.
	Oh, my God.
	No, no, no.
	You would clown her if she didn't have a job, so, like, what is she supposed to do?
	Like, she doesn't have a...
	With no job, Chris.
	Uh, just aid me in my life, you know what I'm saying?
	If you have no job...
	But she doesn't have a man, that's what I'm saying.
	Yeah, it's...
	It's also like you come from a family, like I come from a family that really values education and really values my success and it doesn't have to take away from a relationship.
	I'm happy to do the relationship stuff too, but I come from a family that made me, you know, I couldn't drop out of college and it wasn't an option, you know?
	No, but Chris, how would she actually tackle that if she's single?
	So, if you're single, right?
	What, you're 20 or what?
	How are you?
	22.
	So, basically, just find out what a guy wants.
	Because, personally, do you know what a guy wants?
	Like, in terms of creating a wife or a family?
	I've never been on a date with a guy that was like...
	Let me just fully support you.
	I don't know if you do that to women and if you have a girl in your life that you do that to, but a guy's never been like, cool, you don't have an income, let me be that right now from the jump.
	Maybe a guy who has a business can put you on payroll eventually or something like that, but he can't do it from the start when he doesn't really know you.
	I mean, long story short, just see what a guy wants, see what he likes in the girl.
	For example, if I was you, I'd be like, you know what?
	What are you doing?
	So here's your business, right?
	So if you're like Brandon Carter, a big money baller, you know, more or less, you have to know what a guy wants in terms of his day-to-day basis.
	If I found...
	If I found a great compatibility, I'd be totally happy to do...
	I know what you're saying.
	I'd be totally happy to make a cookbook of all the things I can do and do all the groceries.
	I've done it before, and I would do that, but I haven't found someone that would make me...
	I feel like you're trying to shame her for having a job.
	Maybe I'm misinterpreting it.
	Maybe I'm wrong.
	Listen, I'm only on this shit every other month, so maybe I'm missing it.
	I feel like you're trying to shame her for having a job.
	She ain't got a man.
	I might be wrong.
	Maybe I just don't understand.
	I'm not trying to come at you either.
	Tell us you have a job.
	What about you?
	I feel like my priority is to think of ways of how I can grow for my future.
	For example, starting the business that I have, trying to find multiple different connections, networking, trying to find a place for my future financially and using all those connections I can build and grow from that.
	Do you think the man that you actually want to be with long term wants those things to be a part of your priority?
	I mean, it's kind of like a side hustle.
	It's not like, oh, the man has to depend on me or I have to depend on him.
	I can have my own things.
	I know guys don't really like girls.
	They like having a girl that can depend on them, you know?
	But I feel like I would just have my own thing and my guy can have his own thing and we both grow and support each other and build together.
	That's what I think.
	Hmm, okay.
	What about you?
	Number one priority for your life, does it help you get your dream man?
	Ohio?
	To help me get my dream man?
	Yeah.
	Would it help you if you...
	I'm not sure, because my main priority would just be to get through nursing school right now to, like, help support myself.
	So, like, I don't know if I would do anything for, like...
	Like, my man, like, as a priority.
	Obviously, like, having a job.
	Pop the question, Chris.
	Well, I mean, you're 18, so I mean...
	Yeah, like, I just graduated high school.
	I feel like I see what you guys are getting at.
	Maybe I'm wrong.
	Maybe y'all can correct me.
	I feel like I see what y'all are getting at, but there's only so many niggas who can support a girl.
	You don't have to work.
	The average income is like $50,000.
	You know what I'm saying?
	There's not that many guys around who could do that.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Who could like, hey, stop working.
	Let me fly you around.
	That's kind of rare.
	They still got to pay bills too.
	Yeah, they still got to live.
	They still got to live life, right?
	You know what I'm saying?
	Yeah.
	Well, if I'm not mistaken, that's not what they're asking, right?
	You guys are asking, like, what's your main priority?
	So what are you doing to set yourself up for what you want in the future?
	So are you mainly prioritizing long term that relationship of possibly being a mother, being a wife, or is the priority more so?
	It's a two-part question, but no one's brought up family until you just brought up, which is hilarious.
	What about you?
	Sorry.
	So of course like your job or whatever, I feel like that's just a daily responsibility and like you can hate or like the answer I'm going to give, but my biggest priority in life right now is sacrificing my personal wants and just letting like God take the course of my life.
	I've been really trying to give up my personal needs and I think that would help me honestly get the husband I'm looking for in the future.
	Because I think building my relationship with him and, like, when you strive to talk to him every day and love him correctly, that follows over into your relationship with your husband, I would think.
	Wait, so what's your number one priorities in life right now?
	Specifically?
	I just think, like, work and things like that is just, like, a daily thing, not really, like, a priority.
	Like, you have to do that.
	You have to go to work.
	You have to do a healthy, balanced lifestyle.
	Okay, so, like, your number one priority, would you say it's work then?
	Or is that just something that you're kind of doing right now?
	That's just like, I'm always going to work, but that's not like my priority.
	Sounds like your relationship with God.
	Yeah, my relationship with God is my priority.
	Okay, and then the question is, do you think that you prioritizing God is going to be conducive to finding the man that you inevitably want to settle with?
	Yeah, of course I do.
	Okay, cool.
	Alright, thank you.
	So, your thing is religion.
	Yeah, right now I'm just growing on my personal relationship with him.
	Like I grew up in church and things like that, but I was never really invested.
	When did you become religious, have this religious awakening?
	I mean, I wouldn't say it's religion.
	It's more of just like a personal relationship.
	It's not necessarily like, I don't know if that makes sense.
	So you talk to God one-on-one basically?
	Yeah.
	You read the Bible?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	So it's through Christianity?
	Yeah.
	I'm just coming to the logical conclusion.
	She's putting aside the traditional go to church, pray, get baptized.
	She's saying, you know what?
	I'm building a personal relationship with God one-on-one and he wants to see where it's going to take her.
	Yeah.
	And then two, you said you were out of the two, you were more trouble, which means you probably had to check her past a little bit.
	Yeah, but I think it helps you go towards him more because it's like my way is never going to work.
	How I live my life now, I know that wasn't me who did that, if that makes sense.
	So who was it then?
	It was with prayer.
	Yes, you have free will or whatever, but he worked through me to do a lot of things that I've changed personally and myself.
	And that doesn't have to make sense to you.
	It makes sense to me.
	She just kicked it with the sinners.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Mary Magdalene was like a fucking prostitute.
	That really happened.
	Legend has it.
	What you're saying makes a lot of sense because when you go through a lot of shit and you cause a lot of shit, go through shit and you possibly cause it through your actions and how you are, then it can cause you to seek You know, those things more so, like seek a relationship with God.
	So I completely agree with you in that regard.
	For me, so I'm a bit older than most of the women on this panel.
	Play the sound if you want, Chris.
	I'm 28 years old, nearly.
	And for me, I have moved across the world.
	I've made a lot of money.
	I've done all of the things.
	And you know what?
	None of it's ever made me fully happy.
	You hit a goal and it's like, okay, what the fuck is next?
	And even down to a scientific level, there's really only four main happiness chemicals in the brain.
	The top one that overrides everything is a chemical called oxytocin.
	And you can only get that through genuine devotion and love and pursuit of other people in your life.
	And yeah, you can do that through your work.
	You can do that through service of other people.
	But the easiest way to do that is through your husband, your family, and serving those people within your immediate circle.
	And so I've realized that no matter how much I achieve, on literally a scientific level and a philosophic level, it will never supersede me creating my own family and creating my own legacy.
	So knowing that, do you think women are pursuing an empty future, pursuing a career in status and income?
	Yes.
	Does anyone here on the panel agree or disagree with that?
	I think you can still pursue a career, but you just need to be very aware.
	What are your priorities?
	What is most important?
	And what are you willing to sacrifice?
	That's what it comes down to.
	What are you willing to sacrifice to actually get what you want?
	And ultimately, your decision is going to tell you what you place more importance on.
	Real quick, for the girls that said career, because it seems like, well, actually, all four of you said career.
	Do you guys agree with that?
	Or do you guys say, no, you know, the money and the status is going to fulfill me?
	I agree.
	I agree.
	I just feel like when the right man comes into play, then I'll sacrifice those things.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Yeah, I agree with what you said.
	I think because you're a little bit older than us, and I'm even older than you guys, I think our priorities are more career-oriented, but I think there's a time where you change.
	Do you also agree with that, or do you disagree?
	It's okay to disagree.
	No, I agree.
	Like, careers for us, like for me, especially, is important than a relationship.
	Career is more important than a relationship.
	Yeah, like it depends.
	So you disagree with her then?
	Yes, it depends the type of guy.
	Well, it's just like, it's not...
	The reason this conversation is confusing me, or this topic in general, is because it's just not binary.
	It's not like you've got to not have a career to have a husband.
	And if you have a career, you can't have a...
	It's not binary.
	Two things can be true, bro.
	What you're saying is, yeah, the guy may not care.
	Oh, she's a fucking CEO. Let me fuck her.
	He might not be thinking that.
	But at the same time, it's not...
	It doesn't have to be a deterrent.
	You know what I'm saying?
	It doesn't have to be.
	I'm not saying...
	It doesn't have to be a deterrent.
	It's not binary.
	We're not saying that it's not possible.
	We're just saying, for example, if she chooses that career path, what is the end goal for her?
	Does she want a family still?
	Because it's like a cycle.
	You're going on this path of career.
	You're still focused on that.
	You don't think about anything else.
	And then when it's too late, you're like, damn, where's my family?
	Why is that?
	Who says it's like that?
	It doesn't have to be binary.
	I'm sure it happens, but that doesn't have to be like that.
	You can say that about anything.
	It's like, oh, Brandon, he fucking works out twice a day and counts his macros.
	He's not focused on money.
	No, I focus on both.
	And I'm a father.
	And I'm a good father.
	You can succeed at multiple things.
	But again, that comes down to your sacrifice, right?
	So what are you willing, what is your ultimate goal?
	And right, clarity of mind and your ultimate destination is very, very important.
	You're a motivation guy, right?
	So clarity, having that end goal in mind.
	So as a woman, what are you willing to sacrifice for?
	Are you willing to sacrifice for your family, the people you're dating, your loved one?
	Or are you willing to sacrifice for that career?
	And having that distinction in mind is very- Why are you yelling at me?
	I'm sorry.
	No, I just speak loud in general.
	I'm sorry.
	She's awesome.
	You got to take it down a notch, man.
	Y'all.
	Australian accent.
	I'll take it down like Bible.
	You sound like Peppa Pig.
	I'm not trying to...
	You're just going to take it down a notch.
	Did you say Peppa Pig?
	That's a term of endearment.
	That's hilarious.
	You've got to take it down a notch, man.
	Say that calmly.
	My speaking voice is a yelling voice.
	I do apologize.
	I'm really not trying to...
	These are inside voices.
	Yeah.
	I have not yet really found that inside voice, so I apologize.
	I'm really not trying to go off on you.
	I like your work as well.
	I really do.
	I love your videos.
	I love your psychological stuff that you draw from.
	I'm not trying to go off on you.
	No, it's cool.
	No, it's literally loud.
	You're right here.
	I'm not trying to clown you either.
	You're just super loud.
	I am.
	All I'm saying is, it's not binary.
	It's not binary.
	You know what I'm saying?
	It's not like if you do this, you can't do that.
	I just don't understand the sacrifice part.
	I don't know.
	Like, why do you mean...
	Do you want me to clarify?
	Maybe I'm missing something.
	If you can express that in a calm manner.
	I'll try to keep my voice several decibels down.
	I really apologize.
	This is a thing that happens.
	My speaking voice is literally like it comes out yelling a lot of the time.
	So imagine when I'm yelling.
	I believe you can get this point across.
	I definitely can.
	So here we go.
	So here's the thing.
	Ultimately, clarity is everything, right?
	Being able to see the end in mind and having that clarity, that depth of vision.
	And for guys, that's oftentimes a lot of the time easier because having a family does not come at an expense of a career because the two are not mutually exclusive.
	Whereas for a woman, oftentimes it is because it's very hard to direct equal amount of focus into both things.
	So I think If you really want to be a person who is self-directed, who knows what you want in life and who gives yourself the best opportunity to be able to actually achieve that, being able to clearly define it very early on is key.
	Therefore, being able to differentiate, okay, family, career.
	It's not to say that you can't have both, but which one are you going to prioritize ultimately and being able to make those decisions very early on and decide what are you willing to sacrifice in order to get to that goal.
	Even if we go with that premise, right?
	What do they do in the meantime?
	I guess that's my main question.
	Like, yeah, okay, if you want to sacrifice and give up everything for a man, that's cool.
	Like, that's cool.
	Like, my girl quit her job, moved to Miami, it's all good, right?
	But what the fuck do they do in the meantime?
	You get what I'm saying?
	Because they gotta do something in the meantime.
	And who's to say that they find this fucking guy?
	Statistically, there's not many fucking guys who can afford to do that.
	So now they should just sacrifice any chance of making money in the hopes that they find.
	You guys pull up the stats all the time.
	There's not that many fucking guys, right?
	Am I right?
	What percentage of Americans make $10,000 a month?
	It's less than, it's the top 2-1%.
	Yeah.
	It's extremely rare.
	So all these women are supposed to do fucking nothing?
	And that's something that I do have.
	And hoping they find there's not enough guys.
	What are they going to do?
	And that's something I would probably direct to these guys as well, because I'm curious about that in the red pill space.
	It's like, oh, I'd rather a girl who does nothing because, you know, she's more easily modable and this and that.
	That's not going to be realistic for every single woman.
	So I totally get what you're saying.
	But I think what they're talking about is ultimately when you are entirely career driven...
	You're going to ultimately end up absorbing and exemplifying a lot of characteristics that maybe take you out of the ideal mother, the ideal partner, because oftentimes in order to succeed in your career, you do need to kind of take on more masculine characteristics, which can sometimes maybe make you not as sensitive as a partner.
	Maybe not as empathetic as a mother, these various other things.
	So I think it's not more so about it's this or that, but mostly being mindful of these things and these various different things that really impact the journey and ultimately knowing where you want to go and making your decisions accordingly.
	It's not like it's this or that, but just having more awareness.
	I feel what you're saying, right?
	But...
	You can be this way at work and be a different way at home.
	You know what I'm saying?
	That's what they're saying.
	You caught me.
	Myron literally says that you caught me.
	That's literally bullshit.
	Because I was raised by a fucking woman who worked fucking hard.
	She woke me up at four.
	She woke me up at like 5 a.m., walked me to preschool.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Then got on the bus and fucking went to work.
	And then worked on the fucking weekends, too.
	I had to go to the office with my dad on the weekends.
	But she was a good mom, loving mother.
	She fucking cooked, cleaned everything.
	And I'm not saying that's the ideal situation.
	I'm just saying it's possible for these girls who are fucking 18 to get a job.
	And if they find the guy that's willing to take care of them, to switch roles.
	That's all I'm saying.
	It's possible.
	You don't have to just...
	It's like, what it sounds like, you're telling these girls, hey, you guys shouldn't do fucking nothing.
	That's not what I'm trying to say.
	I know.
	Cool, correct me if I'm wrong, because this house is coming off, right?
	So if I'm wrong, please correct me, right?
	It sounds like...
	You girls want to work, but you 18?
	You want to go to school, get a job?
	What the fuck are you doing, man?
	You need to be out here looking for a baller, right?
	That's not what I'm saying.
	That's what I'm saying, where I see some contradictions because there are literally on enough high-value men to take care of all of these women here.
	So I totally get it.
	But what I'm saying, all I can speak from is my personal experience, right?
	And I know from the age of 18 to like...
	26, 27, right?
	Just from the last couple of years.
	I've made a lot of money.
	I've done a lot of things.
	I've moved across the world.
	I've traveled.
	And none of it ever made me fulfilled.
	That's what I know.
	And I can agree with what you're saying.
	I know that oftentimes that fulfillment can come from a higher power, can come from God.
	But I think that really what we're meant to do on this earth from literally a biological level is to procreate.
	No one's saying you can't do that, man.
	What is the top priority?
	The question is literally, what is your top priority and what are you willing to do to be able to make that happen?
	That is the question.
	It's not, can you do one or the other?
	But you're changing about fulfillment and all this shit.
	Money is not supposed to make you happy.
	Money's job is to be exchanged for goods and services.
	Exactly.
	Right?
	That's the only thing it does, right?
	Like, nothing should make you happy or say you should be in charge of your own emotions.
	Now, unless you're telling me women are incapable of that, and maybe that's the argument, right?
	Maybe that's the argument.
	But, like, you should be in charge.
	You should control your own emotions, right?
	Money's job is not to make you happy.
	It's to provide for your family.
	Money's job is to be able to take care of yourself if shit hits the fan.
	That's what money's for.
	Money's not supposed to make you happy.
	You can do other shit to make yourself happy or I do.
	I literally get what you're saying.
	I just think that for guys, it's very easy to make those two things not mutually exclusive.
	It's easy to have a family.
	It's easy to do that.
	But for women...
	Would you say women are incapable of it?
	No, I'm not saying it's not capable.
	I'm saying it's a lot more difficult.
	And they will start to realize that when they get to my age.
	You don't realize it until you get to the 26, 27, 28.
	Maybe if you've been in a long-term relationship and where the guy is willing to support you through all of that, maybe not so much.
	But what I'm saying is someone who has been career-focused for most of my life.
	That has been my main priority.
	It doesn't work out the best in your relationships.
	And ultimately, that's not what's going to make you happy.
	It's not what's going to make you sleep well at night.
	Right, right, right.
	I'm saying these girls are single.
	That's what I'm trying to say.
	If you got a relationship and you want to change court, what happened to you is you focused on your career and it sounds like you fucked up your relationships as a result.
	Not necessarily, but I'm able to recognize that maybe I... It wasn't the best.
	Yeah, for sure.
	They're single.
	What are they supposed to do?
	And they're also...
	That's what I'm saying.
	What I was saying is I'm 18.
	My priority is to get a job.
	And I still want to be a mother and a wife, but I also want to have a job.
	These girls are fucking children.
	What are you trying to tell them to do?
	When I had that, I'm only going to have that.
	I'm not saying I'm going to be all over my job, but I want to have the job when I love my family.
	I'm definitely not telling you guys to just work at McDonald's or something.
	I mean, I know that's something that some red pillars say.
	Like, hey, I'd rather date a girl who just works.
	I don't agree with that.
	I think that when you're able to provide some intellectual stimulation, you have some value and utility you can bring to the world.
	I think That's great.
	That's fantastic.
	And if your career builds you up to do that, then great.
	But what I'm saying is just don't lose sight of what's actually really matters in here for the expedient shit.
	That's a good point.
	That's a good point.
	Don't lose sight of it, but like That's all I'm trying to say.
	These girls are literally children.
	The question here was literally like, what is your long-term goal?
	And is that conducive to finding a husband?
	That's what I was answering on the basis of.
	Not of me being an 18-year-old, brand new, fresh, like, what am I going to do?
	I'm talking from my perspective.
	Okay, okay, okay.
	I get what you're saying.
	But I'm not talking about you.
	I'm talking about these girls who are 18.
	Can I give some better, like, more bounce?
	I'm sorry.
	Did you say something?
	No, go ahead.
	Like I said, I've been listening here very closely because I came in in the middle of this question.
	So I'm just taking notes on what you guys are saying.
	Go ahead, continue on.
	I was just going to say, I think there's a better answer.
	I think you can do both.
	I think if you get a job that's in a city that you want to start a family in or meet somebody that you want to start a family in.
	For me, I work remote.
	I can work from anywhere in the world.
	Like, being, like, in a way, portable.
	You know what I mean?
	Like, somewhere where you can, I work a job that I can work out at convenient times for my energy levels.
	You know what I mean?
	Like, doing something where I'm putting yourself in social positions to meet the people that you want to meet.
	Like, other things where you can have both, where you can have a fulfilling day.
	Mm-hmm.
	You're proud of yourself, what you did at work, but you're not, you know, taken away from the fact that you did your workout and you want to look nice and you want to dress up and you want to go meet a boy and see how it goes.
	Think about this.
	Think about this.
	There's only so many guys, right?
	You think about what industries they probably work in.
	The chick who's a financial analyst versus like a chick who doesn't have a job or something, who's in a better position to meet the kind of guy you guys are talking about?
	Who's in a better position to miss?
	If her career is more important than that relationship, then that's a different conversation.
	I'm just talking about right now, why she's single.
	I think she's in the right position.
	Just because they can meet doesn't mean that he's going to want to take her serious.
	True, but that's with any situation, right?
	Yeah, man.
	If you meet some fucking...
	The people going to the conferences talking about finance are mostly the guys that the girls want to meet.
	Stuff like that.
	The girl who can go on a trip to Europe next week is usually the girl who can have enough PTO or can take her job with her or things like that.
	There are traits that are more desirable.
	The Wall Street guys I know The girls they end up with are fucking Wall Street girls.
	I know guys on Wall Street.
	I've seen it.
	I lived in Manhattan.
	They end up with Wall Street girls.
	Teachers fucking end up dating teachers.
	You see this shit all the time.
	It's not uncommon.
	Waiters fuck other waiters.
	Waitresses and shit.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Pilots and stuff.
	She's got the proximity.
	She's in the best position actually.
	Did we finish going around the table on that question?
	No, I think you were next.
	Number one priority.
	What is your number one priority and is that conducive to getting the man that you want?
	To be honest, my number one priority currently right now in life is to restore my relationship with my father and it's going pretty well.
	And that, yeah.
	And yeah, I feel like that would really do something in...
	It will be conducive to you finding the man that you want?
	Yes.
	Nice.
	Okay, because re-establishing the relationship with your father will put you in a better position.
	All right.
	Fair.
	Okay.
	All right.
	So that was a very interesting conversation.
	Should we go to Rumble?
	Yes, Rumble, guys.
	All right.
	Yo, guys, let's switch over to Rumble real quick, guys.
	Come on over.
	I'll give my take on this.
	Rumble, because there was a lot of good points made here.
	He's going to break it down for you guys.
	Rumble.com slash fresh and fit.
	Guys, come on over real quick.
	Come on over.
	Come on over.
	Let's go.
	I really wasn't familiar.
	Sorry, I really wasn't yelling.
	I just laughed.
	That was cute.
	Sorry, I feel bad.
	He thought I was yelling.
	And I want to make sure, did anyone else have anything on this topic of what your priority is versus conducive to find a man that you want?
	All right.
	So let me go around the table real quick.
	How many of you want to pay the majority of the bills when you're in a relationship with a man?
	Any of you?
	None of you.
	Okay.
	Fair enough.
	Okay.
	So all of you are pretty much looking for a man to be a provider or a predominant breadwinner in the relationship by default, correct?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	So I think what Amy was trying to describe, right, which I agree with and understand, women, on average, most women, want a relationship with a man who's going to be the predominant breadwinner and leader in the relationship, right, and be able to work kind of from a leisure standpoint.
	Work, because she wants to, electively versus mandatorily versus the man as the main provider, right?
	And what Amy is saying is that The pursuit of resources, income, and status, right, contradicts that to a degree.
	And the reason why is because a woman has a finite amount of time to utilize her beauty to get the highest status man that she can, because beauty is a woman's main commodity.
	Men sell success, women sell sex, right?
	So, what she's saying is, if you prioritize your career in your 20s, which is great, I think what she's trying to say, and I'm going to kind of give my insight on this, women need to go into it with their eyes wide open.
	And what I mean by this is, You guys that are single, that are young, pursue your career, go to school, chase the success.
	However, I think women need to have a shifting priority here where if the right guy comes along, that can be this predominant breadwinner, etc.
	You need to be able to shift that priority to him and put your career on the back burner.
	I think that's the most important and applicable advice for modern day women because of course, Most guys are not going to be able to support and take care of you as a single breadwinner.
	I think women need to be able to shift and understand that if you find that guy in that time with that window, you need to be able to shift.
	I think the issue is the girl that, let's say she's in med school or about to go to med school and she finds that fucking guy.
	And he says, I want you to move with me, blah, blah, blah.
	She says, no, I'm going to prioritize my career.
	Great!
	You can do that, but understand that that guy might not come along again.
	Are you okay with that?
	And I would argue that a lot of girls think that they can find another guy.
	A lot of the times you won't.
	Because a lot of guys will say, I want you to split 50-50 with me.
	I want this to be a partnership, whatever, because we live in a very feminized world where guys don't understand being leaders and being dominant anymore.
	They think that men and women are equal.
	So, I think if women can make peace with the fact that that guy comes along, maybe once or twice in your lifetime, you are willing to say, no, I can do better, or no, I'm not willing to give up my career, you need to live with the fact that you're probably going to have to deal with a guy that might not be able to provide that lifestyle that you wanted.
	And the thing why this is an issue is that Typically, to acquire status and resources takes time.
	And for a woman to do that, she's got to give up her peak years to do it.
	And here's the scary part.
	As a woman acquires more status and resources and makes money, she's also getting older.
	So what's happening is your taste for men is going up because you're making more money and going up the social totem pole.
	But your value as a female in a dating marketplace is going down.
	So what ends up happening is they're kind of here, you're hot, and you're making money.
	And then as you get older, your looks go down, but your standards in men goes up.
	And then there's this disconnect.
	Next thing you know, you're 39, 40, 45 years old, making 300K per year, but you can't command a guy that makes that kind of money to commit to you.
	So what I'm saying is...
	It's okay to chase the career, but be prepared to shift priorities if the right guy comes along, right?
	Because, of course, you've got to earn for yourself.
	And we live in a world now where single income is very difficult to live off of.
	But if that guy comes along, are you prepared to make that sacrifice?
	Which I think you should make that sacrifice because you can always go back to school.
	You can always gain a skill.
	You can always make more money, but you can't necessarily always find the right guy at your peak.
	Well said.
	I agree with everything you said.
	I think you just maybe articulated it a lot better than me because that's what you talk about every day.
	Right.
	But it's like, yeah, I was just saying, like, what are they going to do in the meantime?
	That's everything I'm saying.
	Like, it is time to switch.
	And that's what I was saying, too.
	I'm not saying they should only not work a job and only go after.
	So it's like the same thing.
	But women need to know, especially for you girls that mentioned like career, that all that's going to happen when you acquire more money and get older is your standards are going to go up while your value goes down.
	So basically, you're burning the candle at two different ends.
	And then you don't want to be in a position where you're pretty much almost burnt out.
	You're making all this money, but your status and income has now ostracized you from the very men that you want in the first place.
	You've outpriced yourself, essentially, is what happens.
	You can no longer pay for the quality of man that you want.
	Not financially, but with your looks and your beauty.
	Because he's going to want the girl that's 21 versus you being 31 or 32.
	That same breadwinner you want that can take care of you, he could go take care of a younger, hotter girl.
	Does that make sense?
	Yeah.
	I think that's the biggest thing that women need to know.
	Go in with your eyes wide open.
	Your value goes down as you age.
	And your income going up only hurts you.
	But we tell women, you making more money actually helps you.
	It hurts you.
	Does that make sense for everybody?
	Yeah, we're on the same page.
	I was just thinking, what are they going to do in the meantime?
	Because I have a sister, she's a doctor, and I had this conversation with her, and I had to tell her, yo, you've got to find a guy now when you're in your 20s.
	It's only going to suck more as you make more money and become a specialist.
	It's going to fuck you up.
	And she found a guy.
	Great.
	You know what I mean?
	But I don't think we tell enough women this that your career will hinder you in the long run when it comes to finding the man.
	Especially a breadwinner.
	Cool.
	Wayne says, 20, get the subs.
	Shout out to you, my friend.
	Shout out to Wayne.
	Thanks to FNF for providing such entertainment and value, especially on a day like today when I had to put down my 14 and a half year old dog.
	Wow, bro.
	That sucks, man.
	That's not easy, bro.
	Sorry to hear that, bro.
	Shout out to IRS for gifting 10 YouTube memberships.
	Thank you, bro.
	Shout out to Dr.
	Evil for gifting 10 YouTube memberships.
	I appreciate that.
	Can2Times goes, women be like, if he cheat, I will too.
	And then if he can have multiple women, why can't I? But if men were the only ones jumping off a cliff, would you do it just because they can?
	Following deplorable actions will leave you a deplorable person.
	Fair enough.
	And at the end of the day...
	Women just can't do a lot of the shit that men can do.
	You know, I've always said it before, just because someone is capable of doing something doesn't mean it's optimal, right?
	Women can enter the military, but I prefer to have 20,000 men in infantry versus 20,000 females in infantry.
	They both can shoot a rifle, but who's better?
	The men.
	And they say they want to do it, but honestly, do they really want to do it?
	No.
	So...
	Just cope.
	Is that Saudi Arabia?
	I think so.
	50 bucks US. FNF, gang.
	Ladies, do you think women work as hard as men to get money and status?
	No.
	Call me G. Scott.
	It depends on the field.
	There are some fields where women have a chip on their shoulder, but in general, no.
	Tech?
	Male-dominated fields.
	They're not going to be respected to the same degree.
	Silicon Valley.
	One thing I've always said that kind of sucks for women that are attractive but smart is they won't be taken seriously.
	They've got to deal with that first hump of being labeled a bimbo or whatever because most girls that are attractive are fucking retarded, unfortunately.
	Not all, but a lot.
	Ladies, children tend to be emotionally unstable, lack critical thinking skills, and are frankly a liability.
	If an adult says someone with XX chromosomes shares those same characteristics, wouldn't it be entirely appropriate for them to be treated as such?
	I'm not tracking her.
	What?
	Huh?
	If an adult says someone with...
	Oh, okay.
	He's saying that a lot of women behave like children because a lot of girls don't have critical thinking skills and are emotionally unstable.
	Hey, I would say to a degree, yeah.
	Like, I mean, bro, that's the world that we're in.
	Women don't deal with the same level of accountability that men do.
	If you fuck up as a guy, you're gonna have to eat it.
	Fresh Book of Love, chapter...
	Oh, this is your balls.
	Chapter 15, verse 35.
	If you can make her laugh and giggle, you can make her a 55...
	Ass.
	Ass.
	Oh, clap and jiggle.
	Natty Smiley, you want to have your cheeks clapped by Fresh?
	Yes, sir!
	Cousin!
	Cousin!
	Who's Natty?
	Oh, you?
	Oh, okay.
	Get her fresh!
	Get her fresh!
	I ignore that.
	Get her fresh!
	It's fresh as balls.
	Yes, sir!
	IRS. Official IRS rating starting from the shadow wearing the cross.
	So he gives Josie a 5, Kara a 5, Natty a 6, Alyssa a 5, Bella 6.5.
	I bet you could talk your way out of trouble.
	With a heart emoji.
	Sorry, eye emoji.
	Miss Nur, a six.
	Marjorie, a five.
	If you're looking for a job, I can hook you up so you get some bitches.
	Okay.
	There you go.
	And then Pill Weddy goes, recently had a chick to suspect my time and be late twice in a row.
	I blocked her after the second time and afterwards she came out the woodwork from two different numbers trying to apologize.
	Question is, where are the good girls that don't get blocked at?
	Married.
	Wait, what?
	I mean, they're out there, bro.
	You didn't choose the right ones.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, bro.
	I mean, yeah, dude.
	That's just...
	Sometimes you got to be able to just let girls go, man.
	Yeah.
	It's part of the game.
	Yeah.
	So it's honestly part of the game.
	Mine are fresh with the real deal.
	I'm 22 on self-made, multi-millionaire, six foot two shredded, etc.
	It's easy mode, but got to stay on the grind to...
	DECA? Oh.
	Deca?
	What does he mean by Deca?
	Appreciate that.
	And you're 22, bro, so make sure that you don't become a victim of, you know, we talked about this earlier, when guys, like, make money and they don't have, like, some rudimentary basics in place.
	If you don't have, like...
	If you have super bad habits, just bad habits, regular bad habits, if you start getting success and you have leverage at that point, then you can really magnify those and really fuck your life up way more than you could have when you were broke.
	It exacerbates a lot of your weaknesses.
	Let's say you have a weakness for alcohol and drugs.
	It's going to be even worse because now you have the resources and ability to do so.
	If you're simping on chicks, you're going to...
	The guys that sipped on chicks when they were broke, when they got some money, like a lot of these rappers, they start tricking off on a whole other level, bro.
	Or even ballplayers.
	There's a reason why the people who win the lottery, they lose all their money in the first, I think it's two years or something, right?
	Because they don't have the fucking habits.
	Controversial take.
	I think it's very dangerous for a guy in their 20s to get financial success immediately.
	Because you have to have extreme discipline and a good mindset.
	Maybe a mentor or someone to guide you to make sure you don't do stupid shit.
	Bro, I can't imagine having money at 21.
	I would have been a danger to myself and everyone around me.
	It would have been game on.
	Holy shit.
	And here's the other thing.
	Look at a lot of these celebrities that were like...
	Child stars.
	Yeah, like child stars or whatever that end up rich and famous.
	Drugs?
	A lot of them end up committing suicide, fucking themselves up because they just weren't prepared for it.
	Oh, Provisions.
	That's his shirt.
	Yeah.
	Oh, okay.
	Give this to the girls with the I Get No Bitches shirts.
	Split it 50-50, please, this nigga, bro.
	No, no, no.
	That's not his shirt.
	That's his brand.
	The man, the legend, Brandon Carter.
	Salutes you, brother.
	I mean, Dania.
	Get the likes up, blubber lovers.
	I mean, Dania.
	Yep, you fat asses.
	Jmar goes, Blue Chew just pulled their advertising.
	For example, no more sponsorship, for example.
	I just started once in an ad read.
	I missed it.
	I just said it one time.
	Okay, did it?
	He did great.
	Rams goes from Canada.
	Both career and family are competing for the woman's time.
	Sacrifice include.
	Do you want to be 100% of the time teaching your children or do you want another person or the state to educate while your career uses more of your time?
	Great question.
	And I think a woman's got to understand that sacrifice, the more and more she climbs up the social totem pole.
	Because high income, high status comes with a lot of times a high amount of time that's required to maintain that level of status and income.
	Brandon, a woman shouldn't spend her entire life making work a priority, passing on good men who do not qualify for them because there is a high likelihood they will die alone.
	If a family is what truly makes you happy, choose a man and stick with him. - We know what you're saying, it's okay.
	We know that's what you're saying.
	- We know, we know. - We are clarifying.
	- He's saying in the meantime, when a girl is young, pursue a job, pursue a career, pursue an education, do that.
	But when the right guy comes along, you got to be able to identify that and shift.
	You know, make an audible.
	Women need to be able to do audibles.
	As a guy, It's always focus on the mission.
	The woman, you need to be able to put that mission second place to the guy.
	Because the guy that has his mission first ain't gonna put you first.
	Where do we go here?
	We good?
	Oh, any Rumble Rants?
	Yep.
	And then we'll close out because we got a special guest.
	We got to be mindful of time.
	Brandon's an early riser, as you guys know.
	It's way past the bedtime.
	At four, right?
	Yeah.
	Okay, cool.
	Chris, you got...
	Give me one minute.
	Okay, so what I'm going to do is, in the meantime, I'm going to turn it to the ladies if you guys have any questions, disagreements.
	We had a good productive discussion today.
	Or any points of disagreement or whatever may be.
	Or last thoughts on the show.
	Fresh favorite part, yeah.
	Anybody?
	I'll give it to the ladies first before we go around that wanted to say anything else or whatever.
	No?
	No.
	Fantastic.
	Can it be something unrelated?
	Yeah, it can be.
	What is it?
	I watched a video of Brandon today because I wanted to get a little bit more familiar with him.
	And he mentioned that he doesn't necessarily know if he believes in the law of attraction, but he believes in the reticular activating system, which is a part of the subconscious brain.
	I've studied a lot about that.
	I'd just love to know a little bit about that from your perspective.
	Well, it's just like, if you get the reticular activation system, it's a part of your brain located at the bottom of your brainstem, and its purpose is to To bring things to your attention, right?
	Because there's so much stimulus, so many colors, sounds.
	It's like a million things that are happening.
	It's like we can't possibly...
	You'd go crazy, right?
	But it's like when you or one of your friends get a car, you start seeing that car everywhere.
	You didn't attract it.
	It was there the whole time.
	You just didn't notice it.
	It wasn't activated in that part of your brain.
	So it's like what you want to do is focus.
	The way you want to use that to the advantage is to focus on things you want as opposed to things you don't want.
	For example, we talked about this earlier in another episode.
	Instead of saying, man, I ain't got no money, it's like, no, I need to work on getting some money.
	How can I get money?
	The questions you're asking yourself, basically.
	Because that's going to focus Change your focus, right?
	Because you focused on, if you keep saying, I ain't got money, right?
	Then you'll see more reasons why you don't have money and see more things.
	But if you frame it as, I need to get more money, they're both true, right?
	But one, you sound like a punk, right?
	Someone who just gave up doing the towel.
	But the other one, you sound like somebody who's like, somebody you'd actually bet on, right?
	And you'll start seeing different Different avenues to acquire that capital the same way you saw the car before.
	Does that make sense?
	Yeah, no.
	I absolutely love that because I think putting all your stock in the law of attraction is just such not a good way to live.
	You got to move.
	You got to make shit happen, man.
	Right.
	But when you say, like, I believe in this RAS, it's actually a part of my subconscious mind.
	You take accountability for that.
	I love that.
	And even in the secret, right?
	The chick who wrote it, she said she based it off a book she read before.
	That book was called Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wallace.
	And if you read that book...
	Over 50 times, in all caps, he wrote, do all that can be done each day.
	He was talking about working hard.
	Do all that can be done.
	That's not like work hard.
	That's as much as you can do.
	All that can be done.
	And it wasn't like sometimes.
	It wasn't every once in a while.
	It was each day.
	Do all that can be done each day.
	How do you feel if somebody does that?
	You can't feel.
	I've never seen somebody...
	Most people have no idea what it's like to do all that can be done each day.
	But if you were to do that, how could you fail anyone?
	The person who does that, within reason, he's going to succeed.
	Look at this podcast.
	You go all out.
	You went all out.
	You guys went all out.
	And now look at it.
	In my business, I went fucking all out.
	It's difficult to lose.
	She left that shit out of the secret because it wasn't as marketable.
	Thank you.
	And one other thing I wanted to say, too, because we mentioned, like, the career and everything else like that.
	I think if anything, like, girls should go to school and, you know, enter certain career fields, etc.
	Like, use it as a networking tool and the priorities to find the guy.
	Because, yeah, I agree that certain circles will put you in certain circles with the men that you might want.
	And I would say, like, use that as an opportunity to meet that guy.
	Be attractive to that guy.
	Don't be like the other girls that are in your field that are trying to compete with them.
	Right.
	And, you know, take that guy from these dumb assholes, that thing that they can compete.
	Because it will put you in their proximity.
	But I think the biggest thing with women is being able to have that audible and going with your eyes open.
	Know that you got a finite amount of time.
	If you find that guy, drop everything you're doing for him.
	Because at the end of the day, you can always go back to school.
	You can always pursue a career.
	You can always do these things.
	I've seen women have children, etc.
	And they come, go back into the workplace or go back to school.
	Older.
	And to be able to pursue that career.
	Or start a business.
	It's very difficult to do the other way around.
	When you're older and get that guy, get him to commit to you, have children with him, etc.
	It fucks you up.
	So that's kind of the dance that women have to do, unfortunately, because y'all have a finite amount of time.
	Versus men, we got all decades.
	Chris, ready?
	Cool.
	First one here.
	Snigger.
	Shout out to Chris.
	Damn, is every girl on the panel single?
	No wonder why niggas ain't getting any sandwiches made no more.
	That's facts, bro.
	Ladies, you meet a frugal millionaire, on paper, determined to be a billionaire by age 50.
	He will pay all bills but ask you to pay for dates and discretionary spending for 20 years.
	Are you staying?
	No.
	Yeah, bro.
	Raise your hand if you're gonna stay.
	I think I would.
	Yeah.
	I mean, I'm not surprised.
	Alright, what's next?
	Girls only give a fuck about your resources if you're willing to share them, bro.
	She ain't got no hands, Tristan Tate.
	Champion, ask the Aussie girl to clear the rumors up about her stealing money from her ex and running away.
	I actually cleared this up in my video, which is dropping this Thursday on my Instagram.
	A lot of people said that I married him for a visa.
	We actually got divorced before the visa ever went through.
	And I will never disparage any of my exes publicly.
	So if you guys are waiting for that, that's never going to happen.
	But that relationship didn't work.
	I walked away from it.
	And I'm showing receipts that I paid for my own visa and handled all of that shit after the fact a couple years later when I was able to actually pay for my own lawyer.
	Wait, this wasn't the last guy that you were with?
	No, they were talking to my ex-husband.
	So after my ex-husband and I broke up, about six months after that, I started dating.
	No, but was that the last guy?
	No, no, no.
	So my ex-husband, I met him in Australia.
	He moved me to Hawaii.
	We dated for like three months.
	He proposed to me.
	We got married.
	We were divorced like six months later because the relationship was not sustainable.
	Okay.
	And then about a year after that, nearly like six-ish months to a year after that, I started dating my other.
	Gotcha.
	The guy that you just recently got out of.
	Who I was with for four years.
	Exactly.
	The guy that you were...
	Okay.
	Correct.
	So the guy prior.
	So yeah.
	And whatever that is, that's all going to be cleared up this Thursday.
	If you guys want to check it out, Amy Dangerfield on YouTube.
	Okay.
	All right.
	They're doing some investigating behind the scenes.
	They are.
	They are.
	Myron, we men keep it straight with each other.
	We help each other improve.
	So I'm here to help you.
	The word niche is pronounced niche, not niche.
	No one seems to have corrected you.
	LOL. I got you.
	People pronounce it birth ways.
	Yeah, it's both ways.
	English can be described.
	It sounds different.
	Tomato, tomato, my friend.
	This Australian doesn't shut up, does she?
	Our heads really just stop working.
	RIP everyone with headphones like me.
	Sorry, guys.
	I'm very loud.
	Super chat goes, women should be at home assisting their dad learning how to maintain a house and wife skills until they find a guy like their dad, not in a SJW camp for four years and learning job skills.
	This is not Rapunzel.
	You know what I'm saying?
	She's got to go.
	All right, man.
	Cool.
	I think as long as women understand that to adapt to the current dating marketplace, that go out there, do what I tell girls all the time, go ahead, chase your career, whatever.
	Just be prepared to shift.
	I think once women understand that their career isn't that important to the guy that you want that could pay the bills, I think that's the most important thing Like, your career really doesn't matter when you find that guy.
	Alright, ladies, if you don't mind, questions, comments, statements, or...
	Last thoughts?
	What?
	Last thoughts?
	That's what he was getting to, Chris.
	Last thoughts.
	And also, what you learned from this whole show.
	If anything.
	If anything.
	If you didn't learn nothing, it's fine.
	I definitely got a new perspective, especially coming from a man's perspective.
	You know, I feel like as women, we don't get that a lot, especially because there's so much controversy within our society now about how women should be or how a man wants a woman to be.
	So I definitely have a lot more insight on that.
	W, what about you?
	You guys know I'm always gonna say something positive, but I always enjoy coming on here.
	I really do.
	I think if women listen to the podcast, they'd be put on so much game.
	And yeah, I think we looked at it from like different perspectives and went into detail that normally doesn't happen when we have a bigger panel.
	So I like when there's less people.
	Yeah, no, I had a great time.
	Thanks.
	It definitely gave me a change of perspective hearing your POV on it.
	It definitely opened my mind.
	POV? Yeah.
	Point of view.
	Point of view, I know.
	And yeah, I could learn a lot from this, I can say.
	What was the most important thing that you took away?
	What you said at the end, the thing about status or like the career over the relationship you want, because that does play a big part.
	Because at first I came here thinking about like, oh, I'm just going to focus on my career for the rest of my life.
	I don't care about like what a guy thinks.
	But then what you just said really like helped me reflect on that and realize that like, oh, I should care what like...
	What a guy thinks when it comes to future having children or having a family.
	Yeah.
	I mean, you're at your peak now to like the next six or seven years.
	So right now is the best time to find a guy.
	Exactly.
	Just don't punch niggas.
	Yeah.
	That too.
	Anymore.
	Anymore.
	Mine's kind of exactly what she said.
	I just learn a lot of a boy's perspective or a man's or whatever.
	You don't hear that much at my age.
	We don't ask our guy or whatever, what do you think about this though?
	Because that's just an awkward conversation to have.
	Do you think it's an awkward conversation or women just don't give a shit?
	I personally find it awkward to, like, talk about that stuff, like, personally one-on-one with a man, but other people could not give a shit, but not me.
	I think most women don't care, to be honest with you.
	Like, if it doesn't, like...
	If it doesn't align with their worldview, they'll be like, I'm going to dismiss this.
	When I tell girls, your career really isn't that important to the guy that you want, they don't like that.
	What the fuck do you mean?
	Because they're going to college, they're spending this time and resources on going to school, so I'm attacking their ego investments, if that makes sense.
	Of course, their natural defense mechanism is to say, well, you're wrong, but The reality is that men don't care about these things, but men can't be honest with women, is what I've come to realize.
	Like, if a guy tells a girl, eh, your career really doesn't matter, because all y'all said you want the guy to be the predominant breadwinner, right?
	So think about that.
	If the guy's the predominant breadwinner, and he pays the bills anyway, does it really benefit him for you to have a career?
	No.
	There you go.
	That's the secret, my friends.
	Think like the man that you want.
	Does he give a shit about this career if he's paying all the bills anyway?
	Yeah, I understand what you're saying.
	I would just say, like, yeah, you gave me free game.
	I enjoyed my time.
	It was, like, the opposite of what I expected in, like, the best way.
	What did you think it was going to be?
	I didn't really know.
	I didn't watch it, but I was, like, on the phone before I came, and one of my friends watches, and he's like, well, you better be careful.
	They're going to, like, do you crazy, blah, blah, blah.
	But I think I actually learned a lot, and, yeah, it wasn't what I thought it was going to be like at all.
	What'd you learn?
	We messed up.
	Yeah.
	What was the most important takeaway for you that you can remember?
	I think the prime situation.
	Same thing that they've kind of said.
	How you have to be willing to sacrifice one or another.
	Using your peak years to your advantage?
	Yeah.
	Cool.
	As always, love it.
	Love the work you guys do.
	I think it's great.
	And I enjoyed hearing from Brennan.
	I enjoyed hearing someone who is technically kind of red pill, right?
	Would you consider...
	I don't know, man.
	Red pill adjacent who has slightly contrary reviews.
	The homies are red pill and I'm there.
	It's cool to hear slightly contrary reviews as well.
	Keeps it fresh.
	Like always, I love everything about this show.
	I feel like women around the world really need to tune in and actually watch this show before you start saying some fucking misogyny or some shit like that because it's not really nothing like that.
	- Question, is the show what prompted you to like fix your relationship with your dad? - This is a serious question, I mean like, or try to, Like, was it a stimuli for that?
	I mean, to be honest, I was a little bit resistant at first.
	Emotional damage!
	Goddamn, bro.
	Yeah, I was a little bit resistant at first, but then I was like, you know what?
	Like, I might learn a few things out of this, so why not?
	Alright.
	So, okay, so watching it made you say, okay, I'm gonna...
	Okay.
	Push me towards it.
	Not really like made me want to do it.
	Okay.
	It nudges you more?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	No, that's good, man.
	That's good.
	I think anytime, you know, a girl can rekindle a relationship with her father, that's very important.
	Because I've always said, man, your dad really is like your dad, your brother, your uncle.
	Any guy that doesn't have sexual interest in you, you're going to get the best advice.
	But that's the first time you ever heard the answer from a girl, so shout out to you for that.
	Yeah, that's good, man.
	I hope everything works out.
	And Brandon, where can they find you, bro?
	What's coming up next?
	Oh man, they can find me.
	I'm pretty active on Instagram, King Keto, K-I-N-G-K-E-T-O. YouTube, of course.
	It's the one with millions of subscribers.
	And then, yo, every Tuesday, we do the podcast, Victory Talk, and Tuesdays at 7 p.m.
	Eastern Time.
	Fresh is going to be on on the 4th.
	Myron was on.
	We're going to have Myron on again.
	Myron came on on Valentine's Day.
	Oh, really?
	Yeah, of course.
	Yeah, no, but I'm really proud of y'all, brothers, man, for what y'all have done, you know what I'm saying?
	The fact that y'all keep going in spite of any Adversity, you know, as difficult as it gets, y'all just keep going in the face of it.
	Y'all never give up.
	Y'all never quit.
	Y'all never let them motherfuckers stop you.
	And I'm just, like, really, like, proud to see y'all, like, keep making moves in advance, man.
	Appreciate it, man.
	Thank you, bro.
	Guys, go ahead and get his course to help your mindset if you're a fucking fat, broke, or...
	All of the above.
	And it's free.
	It's free, man.
	You got no excuse, man.
	So jump in there.
	Get the course, man.
	Get your mindset right.
	Stop being a fast slob.
	Get your money on point.
	All the girls' Instagrams are below, so go ahead and send them a dick pic.
	I'm sure they'd appreciate that.
	We'll catch you guys on the next episode of Fresh to Fit.
	For the week so far, we got...
	Tomorrow, we're not filming.
	Wednesday, we got Jen and her husband coming in.
	We're going to talk about fraternity, the lawyers.
	Then we got Zerka and McQueen at night for after hours.
	Then Thursday, we got Scott Ritter.
	We're going to talk about geopolitics, the Russian-Ukraine conflict.
	Then Friday, we're going to have Ryan Dawson and cover 9-11 Part 3.
	We're going to talk about Israeli involvement.
	We're on YouTube.
	Sorry, we're on Rumble so I can say that.
	And then we got Nick Fuentes coming on July 7th.
	And then do you want to tell the people...
	No, we'll talk about the next episode.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	The other guests that we are secured.
	Yeah.
	We got some heat coming for y'all.
	We'll catch you guys on the next episode on Wednesday.
	Peace.

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