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May 6, 2023 - Fresh & Fit

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	After our edition, we'll join a bunch of lovely ladies.
	Let's get into it!
	Let's go.
	What's it doing?
	How many cares, bro?
	Get out.
	Get out.
	It's the night.
	I'm the fuck.
	In the night.
	No control.
	Go.
	Put your shoes on outside.
	You don't got to put them on in here.
	We are back.
	What's up, guys?
	Welcome to the Fresh Shift Podcast.
	After our session, we're joined with a bunch of lovely ladies.
	So, quick announcement as we get into the show.
	Number one, especially after the last show we just did, rumble.com slash fresh and fit, man.
	All right, guys.
	If y'all don't know, we covered an episode with Ryan Dawson.
	Probably one of the most canceled guys on the internet, guys.
	They canceled them back in, like, 2006 with MySpace days.
	And it's because of the content we just talked about with 9-11.
	MySpace?
	Certain people's involvement...
	Them boys, Saudi Arabia, the deep state.
	The show was a bombshell.
	Yes, it was awesome.
	And we only covered...
	Grow up, man.
	Grow up.
	And we only covered part one, guys.
	There's going to be a part two that we're going to cover, which is probably going to have to go on Rumble right away.
	I don't even think we could put that part two on YouTube.
	So we'll definitely announce it for you guys.
	It'll probably be sometime next week, but rumble.com slash fresherfit.
	So if we do get cancer, you guys know exactly where to find us.
	Also...
	Fresherfit.locals.com, guys, so you can go ahead and check out the behind-the-scenes stuff.
	Also, check us out on Megaphone, where we have the audio version of the podcast.
	Just make sure you wear headphones so that you don't get fired at your job, especially with that 9-11 episode we just did.
	Also, get the merch at FresherPodcast.com.
	All the hoodies and merch is there to include the Chris the Bum shirt, my favorite.
	But I Feel Like shirt as well, which I'm wearing right now.
	Or no, sorry, the Who Hurt Your shirt I'm wearing right now.
	My bad.
	And then also check us out on our Clips channel, guys, Fresh Fit Clips.
	As you guys know, we post six clips on there per day with 10 shorts.
	And then we also have another Clips channel called More Fresh Fit Clips.
	So go ahead and subscribe to that so you guys can get your fix of the content.
	And then also, Fresh has a vlog.
	So guys, recently I bought some equipment to show my face more.
	So in the vlogs, in the streams, because they couldn't see me in the streams, bro.
	I'm too dark.
	But now you can see me in the streams, guys.
	Adding more value every single day.
	And once again, guys, May 1st, we open up the CEO network.
	It is going crazy.
	So many guests, a lot of value.
	Hop in there while you still can.
	Shout out to y'all, man.
	Cool.
	And check me out, guys, on Fed1811.
	As you guys know, I break down criminal cases on there.
	I got an audio version of the podcast and a video one on YouTube.
	For all you guys that like true crime, the last episode I did was the DC Snipers.
	And then I just dropped the Bonanno Crime Family and Donnie Brasco yesterday at 7 p.m.
	So, yeah, go check that out.
	If you guys like the mafia, terrorism, bank robbery, serial killers, I cover it all on there.
	So, if you guys like that content...
	Forget about it!
	Go ahead and check it out.
	And then...
	Oh, and then go ahead and get my book, guys.
	My bad.
	I keep forgetting about this.
	Why Women Deserve Less, the paperback and hardcover.
	And I also got it on Audible as well as Kindle.
	So if you guys want to consume the book, I got you whatever medium you like.
	So go ahead and check it out, Why Women Deserve Less.
	And the book's only about 80 to 90 pages because women deserve less, of course.
	So go ahead and get it.
	And then, Chris, you got something?
	Yes.
	Ladies, dear me and Nancy Parkson, happy single day Mario, guys.
	Hey!
	For you alcoholics out here, not yet, at least.
	Is it Cinco or Cinco?
	Cinco, nigga.
	Ladies, DM me on Aaron C. Parkson on IG. Make sure your page is not private.
	Stop sending me paragraphs.
	Swear to God.
	Every time I tell your girls to not send me paragraphs, I get more paragraphs.
	I'm not going to read that shit.
	All I'm asking you is, are you in Miami?
	And let me see your photos.
	Simple as that.
	So, let's have a great show.
	Awesome.
	Cool.
	All right.
	Ladies on the panel.
	We're going to introduce the ladies.
	Happy Friday.
	If you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course.
	Your body count.
	And we'll start right here.
	Hey!
	What's up, everybody?
	My name is Yayo Brinks.
	I'm 23.
	I'm from Indiana originally, and I'm an artist.
	I do music and stuff, so y'all can follow me anywhere at YAYO Brinks, like the money truck.
	I'm currently single, I would say, and then, yeah, that's about it.
	What's your highest education level completed?
	High school, college?
	I did a couple years of college and then I ended up trying to pursue my dreams for music.
	Okay.
	Do you have like an associate's degree or?
	I don't know.
	So I'll put high school here.
	All right.
	And then you said you do music.
	Like what specifically?
	Are you a singer?
	Are you a rapper?
	Honestly, I don't just vary to one genre.
	I do all of them.
	So I could do country, rap, gospel.
	I'm doing just about everything right now.
	Really?
	Yeah, everything.
	I'm telling you, everything.
	What part of Indiana are you from?
	I'm from Scottsburg.
	It's a really southern part of Indiana.
	It's like 30 minutes from Louisville, Kentucky.
	Okay.
	What's your best genre?
	I think, I don't know.
	Everyone really goes crazy whenever I rap, but I think that's just like the whole like wow factor.
	Like she doesn't look like how she sounds.
	Okay, we need to hear it.
	We got to hear it on the show.
	One rap, whatever you want to spit, let us hear it.
	Right now, right now.
	Right now, right now.
	Oh, shit.
	Okay.
	I'll just do a really hard rap.
	I mean, I don't know, because I'm really not a rapper like that.
	I like to do pop punk and all that other stuff, so...
	What's your best genre?
	Just something.
	It's fine.
	I would say pop punk.
	I would definitely say pop punk.
	So she ain't a rapper like that, guys.
	Like that?
	No, no, no, no, no.
	We're sure not.
	Ghetto Chris wanted that real bad.
	Okay, cool.
	What about you?
	What's your name?
	Hi, guys.
	I'm Maria.
	I'm 18 years old.
	I'm a receptionist.
	I'm just starting it, you know?
	Okay, sorry.
	I'm Maria.
	I'm 18.
	Where are you from?
	I'm Brazilian.
	Were you born in Brazil and lived there?
	Yes, born and raised.
	Okay.
	I'm a receptionist.
	I'm just starting, you know, like, I don't really know, like, I'm trying to figure out where I'm gonna go next, what I'm gonna do.
	You finished high school?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	And, and yeah.
	Relationship status?
	Do you have a boyfriend?
	I'm single.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	All right, cool.
	Welcome.
	Thank you.
	What about you?
	Hey, everyone.
	My name is Mona.
	I'm 28 and I'm from Fort Lauderdale, Florida.
	I am a nail technician.
	I've been doing nails for about five years.
	Follow my page, Nails by Mona, with two underscores.
	And my personal page is Royal Mo with one underscore.
	Okay.
	What's your education completed?
	Cosmetology school?
	Some college.
	Okay.
	Like you have an associates or?
	No.
	Well, yeah.
	Cosmetology.
	And associates in cosmetology.
	Okay.
	And then what's your relationship?
	In a relationship.
	All right.
	Cool.
	Cool.
	How long y'all been together?
	Seven years.
	Nice.
	Wow.
	Oh, shit.
	Why did y'all get married yet?
	She's like, ask him.
	Smart man.
	What about you?
	Hi, my name's Milan.
	Okay.
	And I make music.
	I go by 19 mil.
	How old are you?
	I'm 23.
	Okay.
	Where are you from?
	I am from Tampa, Florida.
	Okay.
	And then what genre of music do you make?
	Dark pop.
	Okay.
	Dark pop?
	On my Billie Eilish shit.
	Okay.
	And then what's your highest education level completed?
	I guess you have to say high school.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	Well, unless you have an associate.
	Do you have an associate or no?
	No.
	Okay.
	And what's your status?
	I am single and ready to mingle.
	Do you think I'm single?
	No, not really.
	Oh, okay.
	Like months ago.
	Is that a choker or a chain on your neck?
	It's both.
	It's a choker and then it's a Rick chain.
	That should look evil as hell.
	God damn!
	It's not evil.
	Okay!
	Fantastic.
	What about you?
	My name is Jay.
	What do I do for work?
	I work on an executive team for an e-com venture capital and retail company based out of Miami.
	I have a legal background.
	I went to school and studied paralegal studies.
	Do you have a bachelor's in that?
	Associates.
	Okay.
	And then how old are you?
	I just turned 30.
	Oh, 30!
	And then where are you originally from?
	I'm from New York.
	Okay.
	The city or?
	Westchester County, the suburb of the city.
	What did you hear before?
	Yes.
	Oh.
	Dark hair.
	Okay, so associates in legal studies?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	And then what's your relationship status?
	Pass. Pass. Pass. Pass. Pass. Pass.
	Pass.
	It's complicated.
	Pass.
	They have that on Facebook.
	It's kind of valid.
	Wait, wait, wait, what?
	She's seeing somebody.
	Alright, cool.
	No, from last show.
	What do you mean?
	Because she was here.
	Oh, yeah!
	What was her answer last?
	Yeah, last show.
	And that was like a year ago.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	Cool.
	Yeah, seeing someone.
	Fine.
	Alright, what about you?
	My name's Alondra.
	I'm 23 years old.
	I'm from...
	Alondra?
	Alondra, yeah.
	Okay.
	How old are you?
	I'm 23.
	Okay.
	I'm from Puerto Rico, but I'm local here in Miami.
	I work in sales.
	Okay.
	And high school will be my highest level of education and I'm in a relationship.
	Okay.
	How long have I been together?
	Five years.
	Okay.
	Nice.
	And then you said you do sales.
	What type of sales particularly?
	It's citizenship.
	So more on the legal side for an attorney's office.
	Oh, okay.
	I do the sales part of the attorney's office.
	Finding them clients.
	Right.
	Okay, cool.
	What about you?
	Welcome back.
	Hello.
	My name is Mel.
	And, you know, I'm 22.
	And I'm a writer and a singer.
	Where are you from?
	Well, my family is from Colombia, but I am from Venezuela.
	I was born in Venezuela.
	Okay.
	All right.
	And then what do you do for it?
	You say music?
	Right now, I am selling bongs.
	So if you want to contact me, bongs to smoke the beer.
	If you want to buy a unique piece, you can just hit me up.
	So I'm confused.
	Why is Chastin all hell now?
	Not her.
	Nigga, you forgot?
	Yeah, I forgot.
	Bad memory.
	The alcohol hitting already.
	What's your highest education level completed?
	High school, you know, and I did a little course for cybersecurity and for but tender.
	What's your relationship status?
	Right now I'm single by choice.
	Stop the cap!
	What about you?
	My name is Sydney.
	Hey y'all!
	Hey!
	My name is Sydney.
	I'm 19.
	I'm from Charlotte, North Carolina.
	Right now I'm currently new to the singing industry or little business thing.
	Okay.
	And just figuring out Florida by itself.
	What's your highest education level complete?
	11th grade.
	Oh, so you dropped out of high school?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	You say fuck it?
	Yeah, pretty much.
	What's your relationship status?
	I'm taken.
	Alright.
	How long have I been together?
	A year.
	Nice.
	Congratulations for you.
	Thank you.
	But you can sing, right?
	Of course.
	Let's hear something real quick.
	She was ready looking.
	We prepared way to split.
	I was just...
	I was gonna sing this song I sang before I did, I guess.
	Um...
	I can't love you when it's dark.
	It's like we're oceans apart.
	There's so much space around us, and baby, I'm already defeated.
	What did I say?
	I'm done.
	You gotta be put on the spot.
	Alright, what about you?
	That wasn't bad at all.
	Me?
	I'm Aria.
	Aria the Libra.
	I'm 21.
	Where are you from?
	I'm from New Jersey, originally.
	Okay.
	When do you have work?
	Right.
	I'm a wardrobe stylist.
	I have an early 2000s vintage boutique called Scent from Above.
	Do you do, like, personal shopping for people or, like, you just have a wardrobe and people buy from it?
	I've worked with, like, some artists for, like, music videos and things like that.
	That's really, like, one of my passions.
	But also just generally just selling the clothes, like, I have a really good eye for it.
	So I just source a bunch of really good Y2K Vintage.
	Okay, so you collect vintage clothing and then you sell it and people buy it from you?
	Mm-hmm.
	And I also style the whole look, but I do well.
	Okay.
	All right.
	And then what's your highest education level completed?
	um 10th grade if we're being technical oh man yeah all dropped out of school oh yeah high school okay and then what's what's your relationship um single what's your sign um Libra, are you the Libra?
	Yeah, we heard you the first sign.
	Libra twin!
	You said it last time.
	I never forget a Libra.
	All right.
	So let's see here.
	So we got a couple.
	So guys, just so you guys know, it's Friday, which means we are going to go ahead and field the questions that you guys have for the podcast.
	Yes.
	But before I do that, I do kind of want to ask this question for the ladies and then we'll turn it over to y'all.
	What did you hear prior to coming on the podcast?
	How about us?
	Good, bad, whatever it may be.
	I just want to know.
	And then we'll kind of go around.
	We'll start here and then work our way.
	What'd you hear?
	What were you told?
	Your first time.
	First time, one of these talent coordinators that I had known told me...
	Fresh and Fit was looking.
	I was in Miami on vacation and he was like, oh, Fresh and Fit was looking for girls for the podcast.
	Like, you should have went.
	It was during like the Britney Runner time.
	So it was about a year ago that backlash that I watched the video.
	Yep.
	That's what I heard.
	Okay.
	Backlash on January.
	Okay.
	Yeah, that was January of last year.
	All right.
	What did you hear about the backlash?
	I don't know.
	People are saying she really cooked y'all.
	Yeah, we got roasted.
	But if you watch that entire pod, she got roasted.
	But okay.
	Obviously academics had to clickbait it.
	Cool.
	Alright, what about you?
	Full circle.
	My boyfriend, actually.
	Yes, I see you got a copy of the book.
	Shout out to the boyfriend, man.
	I thought that was your book!
	Wow!
	Impressive!
	Shout out to her.
	So I came in.
	I guess you guys didn't know the story.
	They do.
	I came in and I saw it on the counter.
	I'm like, what is this?
	No, not acceptable.
	He's like, open it.
	I'm like, no.
	He's like, open it.
	So I read this.
	And I'm like, okay.
	So then I read another page and it was like Tom Dickening.
	Hey.
	And I'm like, I like that.
	So I just kept reading.
	I'm on pace 20.
	Then I started watching the podcast and I was like, okay, okay, okay.
	Then he was like, okay, just DM. I think it's Aaron.
	Yeah.
	And I did.
	And he was like, cool.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	It's not really about giving women less.
	It's more about you not being a simp.
	You know, obviously we got to catch a title and trigger everybody.
	But yeah, too many guys are simping on girls that don't like them.
	Alright, fuck it.
	It is what it is.
	Guys, come on over to YouTuber Rumble.
	We'll kill the Facebook and Twitter shoots as well.
	Forget about the fucking YouTube.
	Forget about it!
	What about you?
	What have you heard before coming on the show?
	Good and bad, don't worry.
	We're not going to get mad.
	Well, honestly, no one told me nothing before coming here, but when I came here, I knew and I know that you guys speak truth.
	So I love that, and I'm all about that.
	So I heard you cry last time.
	A lot.
	I did, but...
	Nigga, you were here.
	I will not cry anymore.
	I was sensitive, but...
	No, the chat told me.
	No anymore, right?
	No, no.
	Bueno.
	Okay.
	Yeah, because we asked her what she get for Valentine's Day.
	Yeah.
	Nada!
	Nada!
	What did you hear, if anything, before the show?
	Initially, just through social media.
	Just the clickbaits.
	And I wasn't very positive about it.
	But then my boyfriend and I went through a breakup.
	And when we decided to reconnect, he brought up you guys' podcasts.
	So my first flag was...
	Why the hell have you been listening to them?
	How is that going to help us to get better?
	And then, you know, through more conversations trying to, you know, work through our relationship, we decided to make those those shifts in dynamic.
	And then I started listening to the podcast and it's actually been helpful to me, too.
	So I'm kind of here because it's been a huge help for conversation for us.
	So, you know, that's a it's a huge win.
	So we started charging niggas.
	Y'all niggas got the benefit.
	What about you Jay?
	To be completely honest I knew absolutely nothing.
	No, dead serious.
	I'm not in tune with this whole world or anything like that, to be fair.
	So, I had somebody reach out to me through Instagram.
	And I was like, yeah, whatever.
	Sure, why not?
	I had no idea what I was walking into.
	I got an idea after about 20 minutes.
	But yeah, I didn't have a bad experience.
	And you're back now, right?
	Well, here I am.
	She doesn't hate us that much.
	What about you?
	What'd you hear prior?
	I had never heard of this.
	I feel like I live under a rock.
	But I don't know.
	I told one person this morning before I was coming on that I was going to come on a podcast.
	And ironically enough, they were like, is it Fit and Fresh?
	And I was like, yeah.
	Stupid.
	Oh, freshman bit.
	My bad, sorry.
	But they were like, oh, is that it?
	And I was like, what?
	How did you know?
	Like, yeah, that's it.
	And they were like, look it up before you go.
	But I did, because I don't care.
	I was just like, YOLO. They didn't warn you?
	No, they did.
	They told me to look it up, but I didn't.
	I was just like...
	What did they say when they said look it up first?
	He said they bring on...
	It was a guy?
	Yeah, it was a guy.
	He was like, they bring on a lot of girls and they ask them some pretty crazy questions, but I'm down for crazy.
	So I was like, okay.
	Is this question that I asked you crazy?
	Absolutely not.
	It's not crazy enough.
	Okay.
	Oh, shit.
	She wants to talk about all the animals that she kills in her basement.
	I wonder how many guys tell girls, be careful, which is scary.
	I feel like all of them.
	That's alarming.
	Hey, chat, don't worry.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	What did you hear, if anything, prior?
	Honestly, it was mostly negative.
	That's true.
	I'm sure.
	That you were a woman hater.
	I've seen the podcast just scrolling through Instagram on the reels, but I never really knew the name of it.
	I would just watch it briefly.
	But as I was doing her nails, she was telling me that she was going to be on.
	So she asked me if I wanted to be on.
	I was like, okay.
	So after that, I watched the episode at home just to kind of see like how it would be like.
	Do you remember which episode it was, by chance?
	It was, sheesh.
	I think it was like the most recent one that I clicked on.
	Okay.
	But I don't remember.
	It was someone from this week.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Was there a dude in a white shirt in the middle?
	Yeah, it was more of like, he yells at females and he's a woman hater.
	I was hearing a lot of that, so I was like, let me see what you mean, because I got to see what I'm going to get myself into.
	So I was like, you know, it's not that bad.
	Let me just feel it out.
	And I ended up here.
	I feel like if you are disrespectful and rude, of course, everyone is going to treat you that way.
	But honestly, people only can talk about what they see in the outside.
	But he's not rude.
	I think it's more of a truth thing.
	He's just being real.
	It's not about him hating women.
	It's just the reality of what goes on.
	I appreciate that, ladies.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	What did you hear?
	And guys, y'all could be as negative as you want.
	I'm not going to attack you like, oh, fuck you!
	Like, it's just very interesting to me to kind of get girls' perspectives before the show.
	And then what I'm going to do, actually, after this is if you guys had a question off of any of the clips you might have seen or what you've been told, we'll go with that first.
	And then we'll go ahead and hit the supporter questions.
	What did you hear first, if anything?
	I'm not gonna lie.
	I've never heard of the podcast before.
	But like she said, I mean, I'm not really into this.
	Like, I don't really be watching this type of stuff.
	But then Kim, she posted it.
	She was like, oh, does anyone want to be like on the podcast?
	Shout out to Kim in the back.
	Yeah, shout out to Kim.
	Who's Kim?
	Right there in the green.
	So she told me about it and then I looked you guys up like on Instagram and I was like, I honestly, I was rethinking it a lot.
	I was like, do I really want to do this?
	But then I was like, no, why not?
	You know, trying new things.
	Yeah, I guess.
	YOLO. Okay.
	So you were scared at first, but you said, fuck it, let me try.
	All right.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And then you'll go last and ladies.
	Think of a question that you might have had before coming on and we'll go.
	We'll, you know, whoever wants to ask first or a topic that you want to discuss or disagreement.
	Go ahead.
	Okay.
	Um, yeah, I had seen definitely some of like the whole academics thing whenever it was going on and all of that, you know, the shade or not just the whole ordeal.
	But aside from that, um, or your thoughts when you saw those clips, you know what?
	I never really can, like, make my own opinion on something that I didn't watch the full, like, podcast of, you know what I mean?
	So I couldn't really judge anybody based on anything.
	It just felt like some of the women really just get too emotional sometimes with some things that, you know, you've got men have to say and, like, we just don't know how to communicate properly sometimes or something.
	I don't know.
	It's a lot, really.
	But aside from that, no, I mean, I haven't really heard anything negative, just the whole controversial stuff, which, you know, good and bad.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Very smart girl.
	Okay.
	So I'm going to turn it to ladies.
	If you guys had any questions or disagreements or anything you might have heard or seen or any topic of discussion that you guys want before I turn it over to the chat.
	Anything?
	Let's go!
	Fantastic.
	Let's go!
	Goddamn.
	Alright.
	Hey, at least I tried it because one girl was like, "Can we switch the topic?" It didn't even know what to do.
	I'm like, "Bro, I'm giving it to the ladies first.
	Let them see if they want to talk about something and they don't have anything.
	So now we can go ahead and just go through the chats, I guess.
	Why you be screaming?
	Okay, in what particular instance?
	Well, every video that I would see on the Reels is like you like just yelling.
	I understand you're passionate.
	Is it just me aggressively?
	It's not at girls.
	It's got to be on the daytime shows.
	The daytime shows.
	Yeah.
	So what ends up happening and I've noticed this with men.
	With men, you have to be painfully blunt and honest about where they stand in life, and you have to kind of give them a stark reminder as to where they stand in life for them to actually pay attention.
	So, for example, I've noticed when I communicate with men to get them to self-improve and actually take action, you got to tell them, you're a fat piece of shit, you're a loser, no girl wants to fuck with you, etc.
	And you have to hit that pain point really hard because men are extremely stubborn.
	I'm sure all of you ladies have probably dealt with that at some point with a male counterpart.
	Yeah.
	Right.
	men, however, don't typically respond favorably to that type of coaching.
	I've noticed with women, you got a shirt coated with men.
	You have to be brutally honest and direct and even downright sometimes rude for them to get it.
	Right.
	So that's why I yell.
	Mm-hmm.
	You know?
	I mean, if you look at, like, Division I sports, military, etc., how do they get guys to do something?
	You fucking maggot!
	Get down and give me 50!
	Blah, blah, blah.
	That's how you get men to respond favorably.
	But you obviously have to speak from a position of authority.
	You need to be fitter, better, stronger than that individual, whatever you're telling them to do.
	But if you have the authority to do so, men will respond favorably to it.
	Women, however I've noticed, don't.
	Does that answer?
	Yeah.
	Cool.
	Anybody else?
	Sweet.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Wyatt chat.
	Chris, go ahead and call it because we already got almost 10,000 people in here on YouTube alone.
	20 and up.
	20 and up.
	All right.
	So I'm going to read these chats that come through.
	However, from this point forward, we're only going to go 20 and up.
	So Wyatt goes, ladies, what advice would you give to a girl that is fresh into the dating scene that will land her her dream man?
	Okay.
	All right.
	We could go ahead.
	We could start right here with Miss Singer.
	What advice would you give to a girl who just got fresh into the dating scene?
	You know, I don't think I would be the best one to give somebody advice that's fresh into the dating scene.
	So I honestly, I don't think I could conjure up anything that would just like, I think I could say something like, you know, as long as you know what you want, you know, and like you and another person can be on the same page and be, you know, mutual or whatever the case may be, then do your thing as long as it feels good.
	I think as long as it feels good.
	I don't know.
	I think you were right with the first response.
	Exactly, exactly.
	As long as it feels good.
	Alright, guys.
	No, never that.
	Alright, what about you?
	What would you tell a girl?
	And remember, I think the key point here, guys, ladies, is he's saying to find her dream man.
	To find the dream man.
	I mean, I think to find your dream man, I think it's like I don't know.
	To find your dream, man.
	That's complicated because do you ever really find your dream, man?
	Like, you know, everyone has their problems.
	That checks off the most boxes with the least amount of boxes that are unchecked.
	So what advice would you give?
	If any.
	If you don't have any advice, that's fine, too.
	I mean, I would just say don't rush things.
	That's really important.
	I think so.
	Don't rush things.
	You know, see how it goes.
	See if you guys vibe.
	Okay.
	That would be my advice.
	What about you?
	I would say experience as much as you can.
	Don't get too attached.
	Have options.
	Well, I feel like...
	Honestly, I feel like in order to find someone or your dream guy, you have to go through those experiences with other men to know what you like and what you dislike about the guy, if that makes sense.
	Do you think a woman hurts her chances of finding a guy once she gets more experience?
	Not necessarily.
	No.
	It doesn't even have to be in a sexual tense either.
	It's just about knowing what you want from a guy.
	Because sometimes I feel like you'll be with somebody and you'll have this experience with them and it's like you...
	I don't know how to put it in a way...
	Experience as much as you can, and you also mentioned have options.
	So date multiple men.
	Yeah, because that's the only way you're going to know what you want.
	Well, you didn't mention not having sex, but you just mentioned that after.
	City girl type stuff.
	I'm just saying it doesn't have to be in a sexual sense either.
	It just has to be knowing what you want as a female in a whole.
	What?
	Okay.
	Does that make sense?
	I don't know.
	Does that make sense to everybody?
	I mean, I kind of...
	I mean, to summarize it, basically you're saying experience as much as you can, have options, so you have, I guess, a foundation to base opinions off of on men.
	That's what it sounds like to me.
	Yeah.
	Do you have dogs?
	Do I have dogs?
	Yeah.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Dog shit advice.
	Oh, man!
	Oh, God!
	What about you?
	What would your advice be to a girl that just got on the market to find her dream man?
	I was saying...
	I think that you definitely need to love yourself and you need to see the value in yourself and the right guy will be attracted to you for that.
	So love yourself and see value, and then a guy is going to come along and be like, damn, you really love yourself!
	No, it's just like guys aren't going to value you or respect you or think that you bring things to the table unless you believe that too.
	And whoever's not meant for you isn't going to interrupt your own process.
	It'll just work out better if you're not looking, to be honest.
	Interesting.
	All right.
	Interesting.
	All right.
	What about you, Jay?
	So I just think that, like, you would need to, I guess, mirror what you want.
	Realize that your actions are going to affect how another person views you.
	So if you want a certain thing, you can't really act the opposite way, if that makes sense.
	Take it slow.
	A lot of options doesn't necessarily mean a good thing.
	Question for you, you said mirror what you want.
	So should a girl, let's say she wants a guy that has his shit together and wears a suit to work every day, should she wear a suit to work every day too?
	No, but I mean, if she doesn't want a guy that's, you know, getting sloppy drunk every day or on the weekend, you know what I mean?
	Like, you can't be doing those things.
	Okay, so mirror certain behaviors, I guess.
	Certain behaviors, not, yeah.
	Okay.
	So if you go to the gym, find a guy that also goes to the gym.
	Right.
	I mean, not to every single extent, but I mean, if you want a certain quality in somebody, but you don't necessarily have that quality, you can't really expect them to want to be with you either.
	Well, how about if she's like a really feminine girl and she just wants a guy that's very masculine and dominant?
	Wouldn't it be fair to say that that's the opposite, though?
	That is the opposite.
	I mean, those are not necessarily the tributes that I'm talking about.
	Okay, so mirroring in certain things.
	Yes.
	Okay, all right.
	What about you?
	I would even piggyback off of that as just attracting what you want.
	I mean, obviously...
	We're gonna bring different things into the relationship, but you should have an idea of what you're looking for in contrast of what you bring into the relationship, whether it's material or as a value of who you are as a person.
	So it would be the way that you would find your dream person is by also working on yourself and being a contrast to that person.
	Would you say that your current man is your dream guy?
	I would say so.
	Absolutely.
	And even through hardships, you work through those things.
	What about you?
	What should a girl do once she gets in the market to find her dream guy?
	I feel like don't be a stripper.
	Don't do OnlyFans.
	And hear your family advice and also don't be every night out.
	Because you will not find your partner in a night out.
	Alright, so don't do sex work.
	Also, don't be having sex, like, every weekend or whatever.
	So, every day?
	So, only every day, not every weekend.
	Every day, every day.
	Weekdays.
	No, though, don't be having sex.
	At all?
	At all?
	No.
	Girl, that gets you away from God.
	And also, if you don't have sex...
	If you don't have sex, you can be more intuitive.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I would have to say accept change and compromise.
	Okay.
	Accept both sides.
	He has feelings.
	You have feelings as well.
	Talk to him.
	Communication is key.
	When you say accept change and compromise, you mean like your partner suggests?
	Is that what you're saying?
	Mm-hmm.
	Okay.
	Like, view both sides.
	Be definitely open-minded.
	Don't be particular on, this is how I do this, and I'm going to stick to it.
	Because he may have a solution to where it's a better solution and quicker and a faster solution.
	And now you're sitting there like, okay.
	That's a good point.
	This is good.
	I like that.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	What would you say?
	I would say keep your virginity if you can.
	Same like what she said.
	It does bring you farther away from God.
	But also, if you're having intercourse with the guys you're interested in, what are they interested in?
	Probably that side of you.
	So I would say best advice, don't do that.
	That sounds to me like just don't be a hoe.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I'll put that.
	Are you a virgin?
	No, but I'm giving advice to the virgins.
	Okay, okay.
	For you guys.
	Yeah, these are new women in the dating world, remember?
	They're unexperienced.
	That is part of the question.
	Interesting pieces of advice here.
	Okay, David K goes, ladies, if when born, you were given $1 million that could only be invested when married.
	However, every man you sleep with takes $100K from your stash.
	Would you still have slept with the men you have?
	Okay, let me try to boil that down.
	So, let's say you're 18 years old.
	At 18 years old, you get a million dollars.
	Every guy that you bang has to take $100,000 from you.
	Knowing that you would lose $100,000, would you still have slept with those guys?
	We could go around the table here.
	Okay, so I guess for a majority of y'all, it's a hell no.
	Was there any guy that was worth the $100,000, though?
	Yeah, absolutely.
	Okay, so how many were worth the $100,000?
	We'll start for you.
	I'll be honest, I haven't really, like, been with somebody that was just, like, super worth it.
	So I know for a fact that there were only two.
	Two?
	Like, two, yeah, for sure.
	Two guys that would have been worth it?
	And my whole life.
	Worth it?
	Come on now.
	So question, where is he now?
	I actually don't know.
	I don't know.
	Did you break up with them?
	It was like a mutual thing.
	We were kind of holding each other back.
	He broke up with her.
	Yeah, pretty much.
	Not at all, actually.
	I promise.
	What about you?
	How many of those guys deserve 100k?
	I don't think men deserve that much.
	It's a hybrid.
	How dare you?
	No, no, no.
	Not like that, though.
	Not like that.
	I would rather keep my million, to be honest.
	I wouldn't, like...
	But you clearly still, you clearly, are you a virgin?
	No.
	So you, okay.
	So have you met any guy that would, that would have been worth the 100 from?
	No.
	You haven't?
	I don't think so.
	That much money?
	I don't think so.
	Okay.
	So none.
	I would have rather kept my million.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Then what about you?
	Selfish.
	The one I'm with now.
	The one you're with now?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I would say, honestly.
	How many good ones came through worth 100k?
	I'm really selective and like I only see people I'm in a relationship with and I do not get in a relationship I don't want to be in.
	That being said, I would say all of them were worth it, but if I could go back in time, I would never do it still because I want my money.
	Okay.
	But they were worth it.
	I mean, okay.
	So like four.
	Four?
	Okay.
	Four guys that you're in a long-term relationship with?
	Yeah, what is this counting from?
	18?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	That's gonna be one.
	One?
	What the fuck?
	That's Fresh's dog.
	That nigga's still here!
	Get him out of here, bro!
	I think Fresh rolled over his foot with his chair.
	Okay.
	Accidentally, of course.
	Alright, then.
	So, one.
	Alright, cool.
	What about you?
	One.
	One.
	Is the guy you're with now?
	Okay.
	What about you, Ms.
	Venezuela?
	Well, my ex-angel from Venezuela, my mom separated us because I was smoking with him.
	So, that's why she decided to bring me to the United States.
	So, when she bring me, he got into depression and he was taking, you know, drugs.
	And he almost killed himself.
	Oh shit.
	Here, someone sold him a bad weed.
	So he ended up in the hospital and he was looking for me.
	So I think he deserved the 100,000.
	Okay, so one guy.
	Alright, what about you?
	One.
	The guy you're with now?
	Yes.
	Sweet.
	What about you?
	I'd say one.
	One?
	Why did it fizzle out?
	What happened?
	Where's he now?
	She said, um, he's waiting to text me.
	No, we weren't together.
	And that's why I would even say, like, maybe he's not even worth it because I wouldn't have wanted to smash.
	I would have wanted to wait till marriage and lock him in, but whatever.
	It is what it is.
	I'd still give him the $100,000.
	Have y'all smashed yet?
	Yeah.
	Oh, okay, okay, alright.
	Probably too early.
	Interesting, yeah.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Okay.
	Alright, then.
	Where are we at here?
	Okay.
	Jared Choi goes, would you date a 9-6 conservative man who loves guns and gym culture or a liberal man who marches with you about deleting Fetty on a Tuesday afternoon that hates guns but loves body positivity?
	Bro, that's subjective, bro.
	Okay, I think...
	Like, what?
	I'll make this simple.
	Would you guys prefer a liberal guy or a traditional guy?
	Mm-hmm.
	Liberal guy is going to be marching with you on feminism protests and believes in equality.
	Conservative guy thinks that men and women are different and there's two genders and votes Trump.
	The other guy probably votes Biden.
	Which one are y'all taking?
	I'm traditional, for sure.
	Okay, raise your hands for the traditional guy.
	I'm going Trump with it.
	I need my man to be in control.
	Me too!
	My man needs to be in control.
	There you go, Troy.
	They want a traditional guy.
	Blue Boy TV goes, your last episode of Orion was fire.
	Any chance you guys might do something on the UAP hearings in Washington?
	There's been major developments recently.
	Probably not, man.
	I'll be honest with you.
	When it comes to Ryan Dawson, we're going to cover...
	Obviously, we're going to finish 9-11.
	We're going to do the JFK assassination.
	We're going to cover Ukraine.
	We'll probably do the Iraq war.
	And that's what I could think of off the top of my head.
	But UAP, no.
	Blackest Panther.
	Let's get an idea of the ladies' priorities.
	Place these in order from most to least important.
	God, work and career, husband, and kids.
	Good question.
	So, ladies, we're going to start here and then work our way the other way around.
	Put it in order.
	God, work and career, husband, and kids.
	What's number one for you?
	God, husband, kids, working career.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	The same thing, honestly.
	Oh, copycat.
	No, I'm not.
	God, husband, honestly, work, no, kids, and then work.
	Okay, so kids in a career.
	Alright, so same exact thing.
	What about you?
	I feel like God, then work, and then my husband, and then kids.
	I struggle with this one, I think.
	What about you?
	I struggle with this one.
	Because my career is equally as important as my relationship and my family.
	But I think it's because I'm also one that can differentiate between the two.
	So for me, it's kind of mixed, actually.
	Okay, so if you had to number it, what is it?
	What's number one for you?
	If you had to choose, like...
	I would say God, career, husband, kids.
	For me.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Yeah, I would say God, husband, kids, and career can come very, very, very, very last.
	Career comes last for you?
	Yeah.
	Has your priorities changed?
	Because, I mean, you were in the legal world and you had a career and everything else like that.
	Would you say, looking back, that family and kids is more important than career?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, it definitely is.
	Yeah, I mean, I have an amazing career right now, you know, and it becomes unfulfilling once you get to a certain point, I think.
	What about you?
	What comes first?
	Pull up the numbers again, Chris, or not?
	The chat again, just so the ladies can reference it.
	God comes first.
	Next would definitely be my career.
	Are you sure God or the other guy?
	100% God.
	Literally Jesus.
	She said literally Jesus.
	The other two don't even get a rate for me.
	They don't mean anything.
	What was number two?
	My career, but a husband and kids don't mean anything to me.
	If that's made for me, it'll come along.
	Sacrifice them.
	Oh my gosh!
	Doesn't rate.
	Alright, fair enough.
	Okay, what about, who's up next?
	Me.
	I would say God, husband, kids, and work.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Well, I'm not necessarily religious, but I think it's important to have faith in something, so I would say God, work, career, and then husband and kids.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	God first, for sure.
	That's first and foremost.
	I think next would definitely be husband and kids.
	And I'd put my career last because I've realized, you know, if you don't have the love from your family and you're not good for your family and stuff, the work and everything else, it really just doesn't even matter.
	Okay.
	So all of you said God first.
	How many of you are actually religious?
	Yeah.
	How many of you are virgins?
	Gotcha, bitch!
	You guys mentioned God.
	How many of you actually follow those tenements of being in a religion?
	You?
	You're like literally looking at me so crazy.
	I don't expect you to be the last, I'm not gonna lie.
	Honestly, I would say in my older years, but I've always gone to Catholic schools.
	But the commandments are no stealing, respect your mom and dad and all that other stuff, right?
	Yeah, I love my parents.
	My parents are the best.
	I want to kill my mom.
	Real quick, since all of you said God.
	Let's go real quick, get an idea of everyone's religion here.
	What are you?
	What do you identify as?
	For religion?
	You.
	Me, I would say Christian.
	I just don't practice, like, the Christian ways, you know?
	What about you?
	I'm not necessarily religious.
	Like, I don't really follow anything.
	Yeah, I guess.
	Courts, courts.
	Oh, God comes first.
	Okay.
	All right, so spirits.
	What about you?
	Yeah, I grew up as Christian, but I don't follow...
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Lucifer.
	I'm old school Catholic.
	We can tell.
	What about you?
	Christian.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I'm a Christian.
	Since I was a little girl, I used to sing in the church.
	What does that mean?
	In the church in Venezuela, I used to sing in the church.
	What does that mean?
	In my school.
	What does that mean?
	That means that I learned how to sing in the school where I used to study.
	Does that make you religious?
	It does.
	Like, you can see the light in the person.
	Like, that shows.
	Wait, can you see the light in her?
	The one in all black?
	Honestly, no.
	I don't really give a fuck.
	What about you?
	What do you identify as religion-wise?
	I'm a Christian preacher's kid.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I practice Hinduism.
	I ate like a bunch of shrooms and I didn't believe in anything and then I had so many shrooms and then I found God and I changed my whole life.
	I just find it funny that like girls will put in their bio like a bible verse Ephesians blah blah blah whatever whatever and then kind of find out they're at the club twerking and going crazy and I just wonder like how many of them actually follow the tenements of that religion and it's funny because none of you probably do.
	But it's fine because, I mean, it's like a buzzword.
	Oh, I'm religious.
	Yeah, so, okay.
	Okay, so most of you said God, which we see no one here really on the panel is that religious.
	And then most of you said right after, some of you said career and then a lot of you said husband.
	What are you actively doing to find that husband then?
	Let's start right here and then work our way.
	Actually, no, you went first last time.
	Sorry.
	Start here, I think.
	No, the other way.
	All right.
	What are you doing to find that husband?
	Since he's number two in your party list.
	After Hinduism.
	Oh, my God.
	Right, right.
	Well, I mean, I'm perfecting my recipes.
	Every time I perfect one, I'm like, alright, the kids are going to love this.
	So I already got them all in my headspace.
	I mean, I'm looking for him, so that...
	Did you say he's going to text your other?
	Yeah, I'm waiting.
	Call me.
	Other than that, I just, like, cleaned up my life a lot.
	Like, I changed everything.
	Like, I was on a different wavelength.
	I'm not there anymore.
	I don't, like, know her.
	I was doing better, following God's plan.
	I've seen you outside a couple times.
	And I was standing still.
	I don't shake ass.
	In that moment.
	No, no, no.
	Okay, so question.
	So you said you're single before.
	Why aren't you in that relationship with this guy?
	It's really complicated, okay?
	I mean, it boils down to one of two things.
	Either A, he doesn't want to commit to you because there's something going on.
	Or B, you don't want to commit to him because there's something going on.
	Yeah, I want to commit to him and he wants to commit with me, but he doesn't know yet.
	He's working on himself and his business.
	He puts his career before wife, so can't blame him.
	He's making the money for us and our family.
	Okay.
	Whatever he calls you.
	Whatever he calls you.
	That's fine.
	So you're perfecting your recipes.
	Fantastic.
	What about you?
	What are you doing to actively get the husband?
	Well, hopefully I found him.
	If not, I would just work on my money trying to stack up and then when I do find that husband, be able to multiply.
	Okay, so the guy you're with now, you want him to be the husband?
	Okay.
	What about you, Ms.
	Venezuela?
	What are you doing to find this husband?
	Wait, actually, you put...
	He has to find me.
	Okay, he's got to find you.
	Yeah.
	I'm not desperate to find the husband or boyfriend, but he has to find me.
	But if it's number two on your priority list, wouldn't it be fair to say that you got to work to find him too?
	Work how?
	Like, maybe put yourself out there.
	You know, be an asset.
	What?
	Claro.
	See, but I'm actually not trying to attract a guy right now.
	Stop the cow!
	It's hard.
	You know, I have a lot going on.
	Stop the cow!
	You put husband as number two on your priority list after God.
	No.
	The second is my career.
	She said career.
	I feel like if you don't have a career or job, how you guys will be happy.
	Okay, then she said career.
	Never mind then.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	To...
	I'm sorry.
	I was focused on her answer.
	Yeah, what are you doing to...
	I would say I'm just daily working on my current relationship for that to be my marriage.
	Okay.
	But didn't you say career before your husband?
	I said it's a close second.
	I mean, it's a long distance relationship.
	So my career is equally as important for both of us.
	Where's he at?
	He's in Orlando.
	So it's not that far.
	You know, we see each other pretty consecutively.
	Not that far?
	No, it's only a two-hour drive, three-hour drive.
	Three hours.
	That's not that bad.
	That's kind of fun.
	You work every single day and you have the weekends off.
	It's not that bad.
	You go to work, you go to the gym, and then you go home.
	You make it work, then that's all that matters.
	Right, right.
	So it's just a matter of whatever works for you.
	That's what I would say.
	Okay.
	All right.
	What about you?
	What are you doing to find that husband?
	Since he's number two on your list.
	I really started to change a lot of my habits, I guess.
	I drew back from a lot of things, like a lot of social settings and things like that.
	I mean, not all of this necessarily has to do with that, but I think it kind of coincides with that.
	I mean, I don't...
	Not outside.
	I don't drink alcohol, period, anymore.
	I got so much more engulfed in my health and fitness and just focusing on basically, I guess, things in life that really matter.
	And I think that in that change, it started to attract a lot of different quality things in my life.
	All right.
	Cool.
	All right, Chris.
	And then for you, you said career came second.
	You didn't really care about the other stuff.
	What about you?
	I mean, I found him, so I feel like right now it's just more of a thing like...
	Maintaining?
	And you haven't been together for seven years, right?
	So I feel like it's just more of a thing like...
	Why do you think he hasn't committed yet?
	That's a good question.
	I can't answer.
	I can't answer it for you.
	I probably wouldn't do it.
	What would be the answer?
	Do you want him to tell you why?
	Sure.
	So, in this case of scenario, seven years, right?
	So, if a man is really committed to you and wants to be with you, right?
	Do you know what he wants ultimately?
	Marriage or no marriage?
	Kids, no kids?
	Both.
	Kids and marriage.
	So, if in seven years he didn't ask you, when is it coming?
	I think it was just more of a thing like...
	When we got together, well, we were friends first.
	So, I feel like it was more of a thing like where we were like financially and mentally.
	Were you friends on him first?
	No, it wasn't even like that.
	It just honestly randomly happened.
	Okay, so y'all were friends first.
	Yeah, it honestly, it caught us both off guard.
	Really, but as far as like him not committing to me, obviously, I can't answer that question.
	But I feel like where we were in life, it just wasn't the time.
	Because I feel like with kids and marriage, it comes with mental stability and also physical health.
	How old is he?
	He is 28.
	How old are you?
	I'm 27.
	You have no kids, right?
	No.
	So, question.
	Did you and him break up or have breaks in between the seven years of marriage?
	No.
	No breaks.
	Nothing.
	No breaks.
	Everything is sweet.
	Ultimately, at that point, if he hasn't committed to you in terms of, for example, putting a ring on it, it's probably because he's seen things where he's like, you know what?
	I'm not comfortable doing it yet.
	Which is not a bad thing, but it's more like...
	Was he watching our podcast?
	A long time.
	Yeah, he was...
	If I can add, wouldn't you say that as a man you want to be in a certain place financially before you start for marriage?
	I feel like that would be a responsible thing as a man.
	So it wouldn't just have to be with whether he wanted to or not.
	Maybe he's in a different place.
	That's a good point.
	It's not like he's never had the conversation.
	We've spoke about it.
	I can understand you're not there yet.
	I'm willing to wait just because of the guy that he is.
	What if he never marries you?
	I mean, I have a time limit, but I don't have to tell him when it is.
	I mean, two years.
	If he's a supporter of the show, then yeah.
	Well, I'm going to be honest with you.
	I grew up, I never really wanted to get married until I started dating him.
	Like, I didn't grow up in that light where people in my life was getting married.
	So it wasn't like something where I was like, oh, I always wanted to get married.
	When I met him, that's when I felt like maybe that could happen.
	So that's why I never really pushed it.
	Are you happy right now?
	Yeah.
	Why do you need to get married?
	You said, why do I need to get married?
	If you're happy right now.
	I mean, I never said I needed to get married, but I said I'm open to it with him.
	Like, I've never been open to it with other people.
	You said you had a deadline, right?
	So that means it matters to you.
	But if you're happy right now and he's doing everything right, then why?
	No, you're right.
	You're right.
	I understand.
	It matters to me only because I feel like I want you to show me, like, okay.
	Show you what?
	Show you what?
	I feel like, okay, we've been together for seven years.
	Like, what's next?
	Like, what are we doing at this point?
	So, yes, at that point, it does matter to me.
	But if it doesn't happen, then maybe it's not meant to be.
	What if he married you without any government assistance?
	For example, no legal contract.
	Just say, you know what?
	Let's go to a church.
	Let's get married.
	Would that be cool?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Would you be okay if we made you sign a prenuptial agreement?
	Oh, shit.
	That's a no.
	That's why he don't want to get married.
	There you go.
	There's your answer right there.
	I just never really thought about it.
	That's the thing.
	So I don't have an answer for it.
	So do you live with him?
	Like, do you stay with him?
	Yes, we live together.
	We'll pay some rent.
	The answer for the prenuptial agreement says it all.
	Yeah.
	We'll pay some rent.
	Cool.
	Because that's definitely come across your head.
	Come on, man.
	Keep it a thousand.
	If you're thinking about marriage, prenuptial agreement is something that's right there next.
	I don't think everybody thinks about prenups when they think about marriage.
	Women don't.
	I don't.
	Like I said, I never thought about getting married, so I wasn't really thinking that deep.
	I don't really care for the whole huge wedding, like...
	Even if we just got married in the courthouse, even if it was a small proposal, it's not going to be something where I feel like, even if it was a small ring, I'm not going to feel like any kind of way about it.
	Yeah, it's easy for you guys to feel comfortable about it because women don't take risk when they get married.
	Yeah, only men do.
	How are only men taking a risk?
	Because 80% of divorces are initiated by women and 90% of alimony is paid from men to women and child custody always goes to women 90% plus of the time.
	So men typically a lot of times end up getting destroyed by a divorce.
	Very rarely do women feel the wrath of divorce.
	I mean, I feel like we still have a lot to lose.
	Men lose way more.
	That's not even an argument.
	Divorce destroys men far more than it destroys women because most of the time, women don't marry guys that make less money than them.
	So since men are in the breadwinner position most of the time, the women get all the benefits from the divorce.
	Hey, hi.
	Have you guys seen Johnny Depp's story?
	He had like a lot of wife.
	And, you know, I feel like if a guy is for you, every day, every time he's giving you the time and everything, you guys don't need to get married.
	Because a guy, if he wants to be with you, he will be with you.
	No matter what.
	Yes.
	It's...
	I don't think that it would change that much if you were maybe to get married.
	How do you feel that would change for you?
	What do you think that would make you feel?
	Honestly, I don't really think a lot would change, to be honest.
	But you said you had a deadline.
	Right.
	No, I do have a deadline, yes.
	But you have to understand that's based off of what I grew up on.
	Like, to me, I look at it, okay, he is a little bit more religious than me.
	He grew up in the church.
	So I look at it like, okay, how you grew up is like, okay, you meet a woman, you get married, you have kids, you know, that's how it goes.
	Yeah.
	So, that's how I expected it to be meeting him because, like I said, I never thought about getting married originally until I was with him.
	So I felt like, okay, this has to be the person I want to be with if that's how I'm feeling.
	Right.
	So I feel like, okay, as time goes on, you want more from the relationship because it's like things become like the same.
	So it's like, okay, next it'll be like we're buying a house or like we have kids or we get married.
	So that's how I'm looking at it because it's like, okay, we've been together for seven years.
	Just for some security.
	Well, just so you know, getting married won't make things any more exciting because, once again, if you are not satisfied just being with him right now, a paper you signing with him is not going to change anything at all.
	So I would just say, most women want to get married.
	I get that part.
	But ultimately, at the end of the day, marriage itself is just a contract.
	If you love somebody, you're going to be there no matter what.
	I'm curious, though.
	Who else pays for rent, though?
	Well, we ain't going there.
	After being with a guy five years, he has to take care of you.
	After being with a guy five years.
	So if you get married with him...
	No, no, no.
	Hold on.
	So you're saying we ain't going there.
	I mean, you're splitting the rent down in half or are you paying the majority of rent?
	Because if so, he's finessing you for seven years.
	Oh, man.
	No, that's not even the case.
	He takes care of me.
	That's all I gotta say.
	He pays the majority of the bills.
	Yeah, he takes care of me.
	Does that make sense for you as far as why divorce is inherently more risky for men?
	I just feel like you're saying because women tend to be the person who initiates a divorce, correct?
	Yes.
	That's why it's riskier for men, but why do women tend to end divorces?
	And with successful men that have money, they cheat.
	She said it earlier.
	They do all these things that women don't want to put up with.
	It's a feeling.
	Feelings change from day to day.
	Yeah, so I could have been in love with the person at the moment, but if that person is no longer treating me well just because we're married, I have to say, no.
	That's the point.
	Because he can't be a good husband.
	So as a man, that's all I'm asking.
	If I marry you and you decide, you know what?
	He's not the guy I thought he was anymore.
	I'm leaving.
	You say half my stuff.
	So?
	Is there no risk with that reward?
	Oh!
	You married me, right?
	You wanted to marry me.
	You thought you loved me enough that it would be worth it to you to marry me and take the risk.
	Hold on, stop the show.
	You just basically admitted it with your own words why guys don't get married.
	I just explained to you that marriage is inherently...
	You're saying because they're afraid.
	Hold on.
	I said, marriage is way riskier for men than it is women.
	And you just said it by yourself.
	I can go up and leave at any time, which is true, which is why it's not smart for guys to get married in the West, because you're incentivized to leave because you get money and resources by leaving.
	But a man can leave me too in a marriage.
	It's a two-way street.
	Hold on.
	He gets punished for leaving you though.
	How?
	If he divorces you and he's the breadwinner, you can still take him to court, get child support, alimony, and have his stuff.
	If I had a child with that person, don't you think that I deserve to get child support?
	Wow!
	Well, here's the thing.
	So, child support, right?
	A lot of the times...
	I have to now take care of a child that took two people to reproduce.
	Yeah, that's...
	Here's the thing.
	I understand that.
	But the way child support is calculated is based off of income.
	And a lot of times, if the guy makes a lot of money, the girl's going to get, let's be honest here, an undue amount of money for that child.
	And she's also going to get alimony, which, let's be honest here, a lot of women don't use that money all for the kids.
	They use it for their own personal choices.
	And don't get me wrong.
	There's a lot of women who do get married...
	For the sake of they want the money and they want to divorce them.
	But I wouldn't say that that's every marriage.
	No, that's not true.
	Matter of fact, I have my own money to where I don't know if I would want to get married because quite frankly, I don't want to split money.
	So now what are you arguing at this point for?
	I'm just saying like, I feel like you're saying that it's so risky for men.
	But see, in my case, if I got married, I would say it's risky for me though.
	But that doesn't mean that my case doesn't exist.
	But it's an exception to the rule, and quite frankly, statistically insignificant.
	The majority of men that get married to women are the breadwinners, okay?
	And since they're the breadwinners, they're the ones that get penalized for being in a divorce, and then they're the ones that have to pay the money.
	Just because, here's the thing, you say, I have my own money.
	That's great.
	Let's say you make $100,000 a year.
	Statistically speaking, you're going to want a guy that makes $150,000 per year.
	Statistically speaking, yes, of course, I want someone who makes more than me.
	Because I would want to be taken care of by a man.
	Okay, fantastic.
	So thanks again for proving my point.
	So even you, who's a higher earner, still wants a man that makes more than them?
	I think everybody does.
	I think at the end of the day, all girls, yeah, they ideally want to be taken care of, but I don't think that you should say it's riskier to marry if you're a man.
	I feel like it's so risky when you're a woman.
	You said it yourself.
	You would prefer a man that makes more money.
	I know, but you're saying it's only risky because they lose their money.
	What the fuck?
	Who's mess is this?
	What the fuck?
	Can I jump in for a second?
	Oh, God.
	Like...
	Yo, do you not see how you're contradicting yourself in your argument?
	I'm just, like, I see both sides.
	I'm not going to lie.
	I do.
	I see both sides.
	No, you don't.
	Yeah, I do.
	I really do.
	I see what you're saying because there are, how I said, a lot of women who solely use men for their money.
	You use yourself as an example, like, I'm going to make money.
	Then in the next sentence, stop interrupting.
	In the next sentence, you say, I want a guy that makes more money than me.
	So you make your own money.
	You go to a guy that makes more money than you.
	He's going to have to pay you money when you're divorced because he makes more money.
	So it's irrelevant that you make more money.
	So your point is null and void.
	Does anyone else not see the logic here?
	So even if you make money for the girl, even if you leave the guy that makes more money, it just means you get more money?
	Yes.
	Because whoever makes more money a lot of the times in the divorce is the one that's responsible for paying the other one.
	So that's why I always laugh when girls say, well, I have money too.
	No one gives a fuck if you got money.
	Right.
	Because the guy, 9 out of 10 times, has to make more money than you to even get married.
	Women don't marry men that make less than them most of the time.
	Right.
	So if she makes 100 grand per year, but she marries a guy that makes 200 grand per year, that guy is so responsible for paying her some level of money to make her lifestyle to where it was before, where they were making 300k combined.
	Yeah.
	So he's still on the hook to pay her.
	Now, are there situations where the woman makes more and she pays the man?
	Yes.
	But that's rare.
	Less than 10% of the time.
	Because women aren't stupid enough to marry someone that earns less money than they do.
	Men are that dumb, but women aren't.
	So that's why her point is null and void.
	Because even in her situation, I make money too.
	It's irrelevant because your man's going to make more money.
	So he's still on the hook for child support, alimony, and everything else.
	But you know what's scary, though?
	Her mindset was scary because I told you before, the man loses, you're like, so?
	I deserve it if I stay with him.
	I'm like, that's crazy.
	No, if that man took the risk to marry me, if he really loved me, then he wouldn't see it as such a loss, I feel like.
	In an ideal world, I don't want to get married and have a divorce, to be honest.
	Nobody wants to go through that.
	And how I said, it takes risk to get reward.
	You're saying it's risky.
	Yeah, but the argument is men take way more risk than women is the argument.
	Women don't put as much risk in marriage, hence why every girl wants to get married.
	Yeah.
	If women had the same risks in marriage that men did, y'all would not be fantasizing about walking down an aisle in a white dress.
	But the reason why women love marriage so much is, number one, it provides security, and then number two, it's the unspoken thing that even if it doesn't work out, you can go ahead and still get benefits from that marriage after the fact.
	And there's minimal consequences in a lot of cases.
	Yes.
	And you can say, oh, I was married.
	Or I'm a wife.
	It's a marriage.
	It's a status.
	How about this?
	Let's have fun with this.
	Can any of you name one benefit that a man experiences from marriage that he doesn't get in a regular relationship?
	Oh!
	Just one.
	One.
	There you go.
	Okay.
	I can agree with that though.
	Yeah.
	There's no benefit to marriage for men in 2023 and beyond.
	There's only risks.
	By the way.
	What?
	Oh, 11k watching only two points.
	Yo, guys, come on, man.
	Yo, first and foremost, man, I need y'all to like the video, subscribe to the channel if you haven't already because I'm already losing hair.
	Like the video for a hero, man.
	Yeah, what happened to him?
	Chris made me hurt him.
	Oh, I made you?
	Yeah, it's Chris's fault, bro.
	He's like, oh, come talk to me.
	Nigga, just text me.
	Nigga, fresh.
	Anyhow, continue the show.
	Your arguments are hilarious.
	Smoopy the God goes, girls, would you let your girlfriend live with you and your man for a year?
	Roomy type situation.
	If no, why should your man trust you at the club with that 304?
	What?
	Nah, move on.
	Have you looked into them?
	New Apple card savings account, 4.15% APY. Your thoughts?
	Love the podcast.
	I'd rather just invest in crypto, man.
	Remember, those interest rates fluctuate.
	Blackest Panther.
	Ladies, what matters more?
	How you feel about yourself or how your man slash children feel about you and why?
	Good question.
	What matters more, ladies?
	How you feel about yourself or how your man and or children feel about you?
	We can start right here.
	Um, man, I feel like it could definitely go both ways.
	But I feel like if you don't feel like good about yourself and take care of yourself, then you're not going to be able to be what other people need you to be or, you know, how they need you to be or whatever as far as that.
	But also at the same time, I could say like...
	It matters how they feel about you more because they're the ones bringing you...
	I don't even know.
	I'm just rambling at this point.
	Well, at least you identified it.
	I started rambling.
	I apologize.
	I apologize.
	Very accountable.
	I'll give you a thumbs up for that.
	A lot of girls just be talking to dogs.
	Perfect!
	I definitely think it's important how you feel about yourself because that's how other people are going to see you.
	But I do think that your man or your children are a reflection of you some type of way.
	So I think both of them matters.
	There's no...
	Alright, what about you?
	I like that.
	I agree with them as far as I feel like you have to love yourself in order to be good to other people.
	Okay.
	Satan?
	You?
	Oh, sorry.
	I think you definitely, what matters first is how you view yourself.
	Okay.
	How you feel about yourself first?
	That's it.
	Alright, what about you?
	I mean, I think they do go hand in hand.
	I think if you're not your best self, you can't properly reflect on other people.
	Okay.
	So first, yourself comes first.
	What about you?
	I would say yourself as well.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I think that you have to look good for other people to see you good.
	Yeah.
	I don't think she means physically.
	You mean like on the inside, right?
	Like how you treat other people and stuff like that?
	I don't know.
	Let her explain.
	It matters how you feel about yourself for other people to feel the same about you.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Claro.
	What about you?
	Myself.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I'd say like obviously both but when you're thinking from the perspective of self like you're kind of it's just gonna be selfish and if it was like about your husband and kids how they feel about you right yeah like your husbands and kids should be able to like how they feel about you should be like an accurate reflection of who you are so I would almost say them Let me ask you a question real quick.
	Who do you think is more selfish in a relationship, men or women?
	Women.
	Whoa, whoa, whoa.
	Hold on.
	Relax.
	Men or women and why?
	We'll start here.
	Men.
	Men.
	Okay, why?
	Because they're like just every man cheats.
	That sucks, but it's true.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Women.
	Why?
	We often think about ourselves before we think about our men.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Men, because they want attention all the time.
	And women, the last.
	Because we care about...
	Who do you think wants attention more, men or women?
	Men.
	Really?
	Yeah, of course.
	Interesting.
	Okay.
	So men because they want attention.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	What was the question again?
	I'm sorry.
	Who do you think is more selfish within a relationship, men or women?
	Definitely women.
	That's on me.
	Okay.
	Women.
	Why?
	For sure.
	Because we always want to talk about our feelings.
	And that's always been me.
	I've always been the one that's me, me, me, my feelings, what I feel, what I think, what I want.
	And men don't sit there.
	At least my partner does not sit there and tell me what he feels, what he wants.
	And sometimes I don't like to hear it because he comes with logic and it's a little rough.
	Logic what?
	You know.
	Well, Ask you a question.
	Who do you think's feelings and wants are more important in a relationship, the man or the woman's, for the relationship to be successful?
	Whose is more important?
	Whose wants and needs are more important to be met for the relationship to work, in your opinion?
	I would say for the women.
	Okay, so would you agree with the phrase, happy wife, happy life?
	In a sense, absolutely.
	Damn.
	Brainwashed.
	Yeah, I disagree with that.
	Well, how so?
	I mean, what do you mean?
	Do you disagree with happy wife, happy life?
	Why do I disagree with that?
	Yeah, absolutely.
	Because it's the woman's job to keep the man.
	And anytime the guy is sitting in a position where he's constantly supplicating to his girl and trying to make her happy, he already lost.
	Because women are never happy.
	I mean, it's kind of built into your guys' biology that you always want the best and brightest, and you want the best man that you can get.
	If the guy is constantly supplicating to you and constantly, you know, walking on eggshells to make you happy all the time, well, by his actions alone, that demonstrates that he's a lower-value male than yourself.
	And women need to be with a man who's superior to them.
	So in other words, women are only satisfied when they're chasing the man, not the other way around.
	Because when a woman is chasing the man, that tells her in her hindbrain, this guy's better than me.
	This is the best that I can get.
	I'm happy with this guy.
	That's how women need to be.
	You need to basically...
	Sorry to cut you off.
	Wouldn't that be an equal exchange?
	No.
	Not 100% equal, but you would want...
	Because if he's busy chasing you, he can't lead you.
	Absolutely.
	And as a result, Picture it this way, right?
	If I'm a guy and I'm trying to lead you and my family, if I'm spending my time, oh, does she feel good about this?
	I can't really lead you.
	Sometimes it has to be hard choices where I say, you know what?
	This is good for the family.
	Sorry, but it is what it is.
	Yeah, you get the best treatment from women.
	I mean, you said that your relationship got rekindled when you were with your boyfriend, right?
	After watching the podcast?
	Right.
	I guarantee he employed a bunch of our tactics and strategies.
	And I can confirm that.
	That's the exact reason why our relationship ended.
	I broke our relationship because I was that person that was 100%.
	It's all about me.
	It's all about my feelings.
	And he wanted to cater to that.
	And obviously, I ended up with me saying, hey, I think it's, you know, I want to be on my own, whatever that journey was.
	Because we're trying to make the point here.
	Clearly, I didn't, I expressed myself with the bias of the conversation that we're having, but I'm agreeing with him.
	And what he's saying.
	So, this is a learning curve from my experience.
	Yeah, I mean, that's why I talk about in the book, why women deserve less, is that if you pedestalize a woman, she has no choice but to look down on you because you're pedestalizing her.
	And I agree.
	And you disagree with hyperlifes.
	Chris, come on, man.
	Somebody in the back.
	You were saying what?
	I don't know if he was talking to me.
	Yeah, he was saying that you were making the argument.
	He's saying that you were making the argument for happy wife and happy life.
	Initially, I was making the argument against it, but then I'm correcting myself as we're having the conversation due to my experience with...
	Because I'm talking from both experience.
	My previous experience when my relationship felt from that mindset...
	And then adjusting to this mindset where, you know, I do have to be the one that follows and he leads.
	And that's been a complete dynamics shift for me.
	I don't want to sound like an asshole, but the reality is that when you pedestalize women, they treat you poorly.
	We can't have leverage in a relationship because if they have leverage like you had before, what do you do?
	You break up with him because you're like, this guy's a pussy.
	Why is he letting me lead?
	I'm a woman.
	Like, what the fuck?
	You should be leading.
	So what I tell guys is you need to be the leader in the relationship and she needs to like you more than you like her.
	And I would argue more than likely a relationship was rekindled because he started to have a more...
	I come first before you and take it or leave it attitude.
	Women only respect men that can replace them.
	So that's why the whole happy wife, happy life mantra is bullshit and doesn't work because I don't want to sound like an asshole, but women don't know how to behave when they're in a leadership role.
	They become terrible people when they have leverage in relationships.
	Yeah, and I would even agree that some of our friends said that too.
	They see the behavior in myself or in him and they say that it's like a completely different relationship.
	But those were the beliefs that I had before.
	It's always the empowerment.
	The indoctrination.
	Right.
	And so when you learn out of that, it still takes a little bit to adapt.
	I understand.
	Okay.
	Who do you think...
	Shit, going back to the question.
	What's going on?
	Are they good?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Sorry, guys.
	We got some stuff going on back here.
	I got distracted.
	Going back, the question was...
	Who needs to be more happy in the relationship for it to work?
	So you're next.
	I thought it was who's more selfish.
	Oh, that's what it was.
	Thank you, Jay.
	Who's more selfish in a relationship, men or women?
	I mean, I think it's situational.
	I mean, I think it depends on the type of person that you are, the type of person that they are.
	I feel like if you're a woman that's more nurturing, you tend to be a lot more selfless.
	It doesn't necessarily make your partner selfish.
	But what did you say in general?
	I mean, I can only speak for myself.
	I don't really know.
	I think I'm a super selfless person.
	I think I give 150% to my relationships.
	Okay.
	Think of your girlfriends and the women that you've met throughout your lifetime.
	Were they as selfless as you?
	The majority?
	No.
	There you go.
	So there's your answer.
	No.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Who do you think is more selfish in relationships in general?
	Men or women?
	Women.
	Why?
	Because women, it's all about what we want and if we're happy and we're not happy and he doesn't do this.
	I feel like guys just leave you or cheat on you.
	I don't think they sit around and nag you.
	Do you think you can ever make a woman happy?
	Me?
	No, as a man.
	Do you think you can ever make a woman happy?
	No.
	No.
	Honestly, no.
	I mean, you would have to try really, really hard.
	And then, yeah, still how you said, she's going to be like, oh, well, blah, blah, blah does this and you don't do that.
	And it can be one thing, but she'll find it.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Who do you think is more selfish, religious men or women?
	I say women for the same reasons.
	Like sometimes we could be a little needy and ignore like what our men does for us.
	Okay.
	All right.
	What about you?
	I definitely think women.
	But most of the time, because we can't understand men's feelings, and at least that's for me.
	You know, like she was saying, like, oh, like I'm only talking about my feelings, but whenever you come up to me and you talk about your feelings, I can't really understand it.
	I'm like...
	Whose fault do you think that is, that women don't understand men's feelings?
	I think...
	Men repress their feelings so much sometimes and they're like, they don't really talk about it sometimes that when they do, we just call it kind of bullshit, I guess.
	I don't know.
	It depends on the situation of the person and everything.
	Okay.
	Wouldn't it be fair to say that if I wanted to have sex with girls, I kind of have to figure out what turns girls on because girls are never going to admit to me, like pull my hair and tell me I'm a slut.
	Yeah.
	So I had to go ahead and take the active step to figure it out, right?
	Why can't women take the active step and figure it out on the male side?
	I mean, I guess it's just really different point of views.
	I think that men and women are like really different.
	I mean, we didn't answer the question.
	Why is it that men should go ahead and figure out what women want and just get it versus women have the ability to not have to get it and just say kind of what you said, like, oh, yeah, they don't open up on their feelings.
	It's not my fault.
	And I don't know.
	I mean, it's not that, it's just, it's like, it's hard to understand sometimes, you know?
	Okay, it's hard to understand women.
	What's your excuse?
	Okay, it's hard to understand men too.
	I would argue that it's harder to understand women than men by far.
	But that's your point of view.
	Like, as my point of view, like, your point of view as a man, it's hard to understand me, and for me, it's hard to understand you.
	Really?
	Because we're just different.
	Okay, let me tell you why you're wrong.
	Who has more requirements of the opposite gender, men or women?
	What do you mean by that?
	Who requires more from the opposite gender?
	Do men require more from women or do women require more from men?
	Oh, women require more from men, 100%.
	So therefore, since women require more, that means I need to understand more, correct?
	And I'm the one that has to approach them, correct?
	So that means I have to understand them to be able to do that successfully, correct?
	Yeah.
	So it's women that require more, not men.
	I mean I was talking I wasn't talking about materialistic.
	I was just talking about feelings.
	I guess that was for me.
	That doesn't help your case.
	That's even harder to understand and be able to connect with you on an emotional level and women change their emotions every two minutes.
	So that doesn't help that makes it harder for men to understand.
	A woman can understand more than a man because don't you remember when a woman or a girlfriend told you like, oh, I saw you in my dream with a girl, you know, things like that.
	I don't know.
	What?
	Well, I have seen people in my dreams.
	So you're saying women can't understand men's feelings, but my argument is that shouldn't women just get it?
	I mean, we should.
	I mean, we should, you know, but sometimes it's complicated.
	That's all I'm saying.
	Women are more complicated.
	So that's not really an excuse.
	We're both complicated.
	No, men are very simple.
	We expect men to read our minds, but then, like, we never step back and think, like, dang, like, We're not giving them any leverage or any type of hints to allow them to know what we want.
	I don't think that's I would argue most women are lazy and just don't want to understand men because you guys don't have to actually prove yourselves much a guy comes up to you with your phone number you're cute you guys think it's good Y'all don't do any work to really keep that guy the man on the other hand has to do a bunch of work to be attractive to you get your number take you on a date understand what you like what you don't like make you feel comfortable have sex with you etc But women don't have to really do anything I mean, I agree with you 100%.
	I just think that when you're in a relationship, at least this happened to me, you know, because I will talk about my feelings and I'll be like, listen, like, this bothers me and that bothers me, you know?
	But when he would tell me, I wouldn't see, like, a big deal.
	I wouldn't understand why that upset him so much.
	Whose fault is that?
	Because we're simple.
	I guess, I mean, I guess it's my fault.
	I guess that's why I don't want a man.
	That was me a lot of times.
	Yo, this panel is terrible at arguing, bro.
	What the hell?
	You just dug your own grave.
	What?
	What do you mean?
	Because he told you what he wanted and you said it wasn't a big deal.
	No, not like that though.
	I wouldn't understand why it was such a big deal.
	I don't understand what you're saying right now.
	What the fuck?
	See, I just find it funny because ultimately, right, as a woman, you want a man of your dreams.
	But then when it comes to find out what that man actually wants, you have no idea.
	And I think personally speaking, for things to work, you need to communicate.
	So both parties have to say, you know what?
	I like this.
	I don't like this.
	The problem is, you guys tell your man what you like.
	Never listen to what he likes.
	Exactly.
	And that is why things don't work out.
	Now, for you...
	It happened in real life because you're still single.
	But ultimately speaking, I think if most people could say, you know what?
	Damn.
	My partner, what does he like?
	What does he do like?
	Then at that point, it makes sense.
	But Generally speaking, though, most girls don't know what their mouth actually wants.
	Which is crazy to me, but...
	What if a girl feels too much and you guys get scared because of that?
	What do you mean?
	Because she's too psychic.
	When a girl is too psychic.
	Too psychic?
	Yeah.
	I'm really psychic.
	Like, I see things in my dreams and I can tell him, like, I see this and I see that and he will be like...
	Like, I can tell when you're lying.
	How you saw that, like...
	Yeah.
	All right, let's move on.
	No, no, no, no.
	First, ask her question, man.
	Nigga, I don't know what you're talking about.
	No, she's saying what if she was sleeping and all of a sudden she had a dream and she's like, oh shit, I saw you had a dream about me, about her man cheating on her.
	So what's up?
	And I see what's going on, right?
	That's really true.
	The thing is that some people are not awakened.
	Some girls are not awakened.
	So every cheating dream is a reality?
	Is that what you're saying?
	Not every cheating dream.
	It's not about cheating every time.
	But what if you saw him robbing someone in your dream?
	Because I have seen that in my dream.
	And it happened?
	And then that's true?
	Yeah.
	Definitely.
	So how do you know if it's true?
	So you're psychic?
	Yeah, I am.
	That's crazy!
	I have seen a guy robbing in Dominican Republic.
	And it's true.
	Wow!
	Tell me more.
	Yeah.
	Like, he was...
	He told me that he...
	I was just kidding.
	Let's move on.
	Alright, fine.
	Okay, videos layers.
	Have a great night, sirs.
	Big Boston CEO Network is fire.
	Shelter fresh in Marin.
	And thank you guys for constant value.
	The 9-11 stream was deep diving.
	Them boys, keep up the great work.
	Shout out to you for supporting, bro.
	We got here.
	Leek my balls says, greetings from the Netherlands.
	It's my birthday today.
	Gouda cheese for everyone.
	Shout out to you.
	Appreciate that, man.
	Cam2Time says, ladies, have you ever had a boyfriend that was a sports fan?
	And have he ever invited you to a live game show?
	Did you go?
	If so, did you enjoy it?
	Or was it just for him?
	WWE counts.
	Is that everything for you?
	You went to a sports event?
	Yeah.
	Raise your hands if you've been to a live sports event with your boyfriend and he invited you.
	Oh, no.
	Oh, just one?
	Where do you take you?
	To the Saiyan games?
	No.
	Hockey.
	Okay, what about you?
	Where'd you get?
	I've been to UFC. I've been to baseball.
	I think that was the only two sports I've been to.
	My dad played professional baseball, so sorry.
	On MLB? Yeah.
	What team do you play for?
	The White Sox.
	Nice.
	We got here Cabello Azonde goes from South Africa.
	Shout out Fresh and Fit.
	Shout out to you, man.
	We all over the world.
	Seymour Butts goes, ladies, if I provide the house, car, money, kids, safety, and good family values as a man, why can't you provide monogamy, subservience, and submissiveness?
	Also, I need strange box on the low.
	Your values are not high.
	It's not on the wall anymore.
	Okay, hold on.
	Let me go ahead and go through that real quick.
	And I'll do this with a raise of hands to keep it simple.
	So ladies, if a man provided a house, car, money, kids, and safety, good family values, etc., would you guys be okay with being monogamous to him and he be able to get some strange on the side?
	Raise your hands if you guys would allow that.
	He's taking care of you, but he fucks a bitch from time to time.
	Who'd be okay?
	I love being submissive.
	Two?
	Raise your hands if you'd be okay with it.
	Can I do it with him?
	Maybe, yeah.
	So three?
	If he's with him.
	Okay, so we got four, but two of them have to...
	What is that?
	It's like a half.
	What did we discuss before for the relationship to work?
	Happy wife or happy husband?
	Compromise.
	Damn, she's still indoctrinated by feminism.
	No, I mean, I'm here.
	I'm a half.
	Okay.
	I'm here.
	Okay, so four girls would accept that two need to be involved.
	Oh, you two.
	Damn, make a decision, ladies!
	Bro!
	Goddamn women can't make decisions.
	Raise your hands high if you'd be okay with having your partner have sex with other girls without you being involved.
	But he's taking care of everything.
	Raise your hands.
	Who'd be okay with that?
	I just don't want to know.
	Okay, so we got three that would be okay with it.
	Okay, now how many of you need to be involved?
	Okay, so that would make it five total.
	So three would be okay with not being involved, just don't want to know, and then two have to be involved.
	I don't want to be involved, and I don't want to know.
	I don't want to know.
	I don't want to know.
	Definitely wouldn't know.
	What?
	I think you should be in understanding.
	I'm okay with it.
	I just don't, I just rather not know.
	That's six of y'all.
	Sure.
	So who is not accepting cheating, then, to make this more simple at all?
	You?
	Not accepting it?
	I mean, I guess it's only cheating.
	I don't want to know.
	So you would accept it, too.
	Who else would not accept it at all?
	Only one?
	What about you?
	You didn't raise your hand at all.
	I mean, he's the only one that can cheat.
	Can I cheat too?
	No, because he's saying you need to provide monogamy and subservience.
	But do you really want to fuck another guy when you're married?
	I wouldn't want to know.
	I mean, I wouldn't want to know.
	So that's a yes.
	Okay, so everyone except for you would accept cheating to some degree.
	Am I correct here?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Damn, man, that was difficult.
	Only from the right guy.
	All right.
	Cam, two times.
	Hey, Venezuela, you still got that Valentine's Day gift from Fresh?
	That...
	That is too...
	No.
	Bro, who are you?
	Alright, Marvello Mable goes, let's play a game, the country game, but have the ladies name one country from the four big continents, America, Asia, Africa, and Europe, bro.
	What?
	America's not a continent.
	Yeah, we can just do three countries.
	Yeah.
	Alright, three countries.
	Alright, we'll start right here with the Miss Singer.
	Name three countries and you can't name the United States or Canada.
	That's crazy.
	This would be the question I get.
	I'm literally geographically ignorant.
	Like, I have no...
	I just am gonna pass that one right on.
	I'm gonna pass that one right on.
	You gotta try.
	At least you're honest.
	You gotta try.
	Okay, okay.
	Out of where?
	Tell me...
	Can I read it one more time, please?
	The world.
	Yeah, you just can't say U.S. or Canada.
	Think of your bucket list where you want to go.
	So, like...
	So, like...
	I don't know if I want to...
	I don't know if it's a continent or a country, though.
	So, I say I'm like...
	So, like...
	Asia?
	Okay, yeah, yeah.
	Europe?
	Okay, okay.
	What?
	No?
	Oh, snap.
	One more, one more.
	Oh, I'm so ignorant when it comes to that.
	I want to say something funny.
	Like, I don't know.
	One more, one more.
	I'm going to say something like...
	I'm so embarrassed.
	I told you before, though.
	So, like, don't judge me.
	I don't know.
	Maybe, like, Africa?
	Yeah, I'm good on that one.
	Okay, good job.
	What's the capital of Africa?
	That one I'm not gonna know.
	I'm not gonna know.
	What about you, name three countries?
	Three countries?
	France, Italy, and Cuba.
	What about you?
	Puerto Rico Haiti DR Puerto Rico Haiti and DR yeah all right what am I doing um Italy Japan I think she said Italy Oh, my bad.
	You can't name a country that someone else named.
	Japan.
	And is Australia?
	Does that count?
	Okay, we'll give you that one.
	And then one more country, because she said Italy already.
	China.
	Morocco.
	Spain.
	Saudi Arabia.
	Speaking of Saudi Arabia, go watch our podcast on 9-11.
	Brazil, Colombia, and Uruguay.
	What about you?
	Chile, Colombia, and Venezuela.
	Did somebody say Colombia?
	Yes.
	One more.
	One more.
	Ecuador.
	Ecuador.
	All right.
	What about you?
	South Korea, North Korea, and I'm not going to have the last one.
	South Korea, North Korea, what else?
	I don't know the last one.
	Stupid!
	Bro, you're right there!
	Where's your family from?
	North Carolina.
	What about you?
	Thailand, Philippines, Cambodia.
	Shout out to the girl who named 3A. I said, wait, I don't know which one is which.
	That's terrible.
	That's terrible.
	Dun, dun, dun.
	Kevin Rivera goes, fresh and fit, love the show.
	Question for ladies.
	Why do you think it is socially acceptable for females to be masculine than for males to be feminine?
	Okay, let me give you guys an example.
	It's okay for girls to say, suck my dick, and act like a dude, etc.
	But it's not acceptable for guys to be like, oh my god, that's so awesome.
	Why is it socially acceptable for women to behave like men, but not socially acceptable for men to behave like women?
	Because women's standards are too high.
	Hold on, we can go around the table on this.
	Give us your take on it.
	We'll start right here, and then work our way.
	I think it's just like men are like, okay, women and men are both kind of doing the opposite right now in these times.
	Like men are acting feminine and it kind of is getting socially acceptable.
	Like they're posting in the sunlight and trying to be baddies.
	Posting in the sunlight and being baddies?
	Yes, like these guys, you could just see it on them.
	Like, oh, that guy thinks he's a baddie and he's going to act like...
	Like, he's a girl.
	Okay.
	And then girls, like, vice versa, they're being masculine and trying to, like, control the situations and stuff.
	But I think it's just because everyone's doing the opposite.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Sorry, like I bled it out before, women's standards are too high.
	Meaning, guys accept a little bit more than women accept.
	Good point.
	Okay.
	So, masculine women are accepted because men's standards are lower.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I will not like a feminine guy.
	That's not the question.
	Why does society allow men...
	Why does society let women act like dudes, but it doesn't let men act like women?
	I feel like a woman acting like a guy is just not cute.
	But a lot do, though.
	Why?
	I know that you say it's not cute, but a lot of women do.
	Because they are, like, lesbian.
	They just want to act rough because they...
	Okay.
	They feel scared.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	I don't know.
	Why do you think it's more socially acceptable for women to be fairly masculine but not socially acceptable for men to be feminine?
	I would say because society is weak when it comes to that.
	And we don't talk about it.
	So we accept it rather than deal with it.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	I just think everybody's so obsessed right now with being politically correct.
	And yeah, I mean, I don't think it's acceptable at all.
	But I just think that, you know, yeah, for the same reason.
	I think we just let it go because nobody wants to be offended.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I feel like women just have more lenience, honestly, like in the public.
	Like guys are so, they have to be a certain way and they have to act like this or else.
	Okay.
	So men are held to, I guess, a rougher standard, I guess, of behavior?
	Yeah, so it's like if they want to do that, they can't.
	But like women have the freedom to act manly or feminine if they want to.
	One day this, one day the other.
	But men, like we don't really allow them to do that.
	You're like, you have to be a man all the time.
	Sorry.
	And I think it's the same thing, too, that what we were talking about earlier, almost about, like, when men even, they're not really allowed to talk about their feelings.
	Like, we kind of just brush it off.
	We're like, what?
	Like, you're not really allowed to feel like that.
	But, like, they are, but women kind of, like, do it.
	They put it down.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I agree exactly with what she's saying.
	It's just a double standard.
	Fair enough.
	And it's like, that's just the way it is.
	Okay.
	I think they both get judged a lot.
	I think that women that are masculine, they get judged a lot.
	And I also think that men that are more feminine get judged a lot.
	I think it's like both sides.
	Do you really think so?
	I mean, if you look at the music industry, for example, masculine women are promoted.
	You look at Cardi B, you look at Meg Thee Stallion, whatever.
	But I can't name a rapper that's getting promoted that's acting like a chick, really.
	I mean, I don't know.
	I guess it's just...
	That's one male rapper that's...
	Oh, you know what?
	No, but he's gay, though.
	He's not heterosexual.
	No, he's 100% homosexual, which is why they promote him.
	If he was heterosexual, they never promote him.
	Well, it came out that he was lying.
	But who knows?
	Who really knows, though?
	Who knows?
	But if you think about it, like his music, it was pushed because he was...
	To push the alphabet agenda because he was operating under the pretense of, I'm gay.
	So they don't want to restrict that.
	No, no, no.
	We're not going to shadow ban you because you're gay.
	No, we're going to push you.
	But if he had been heterosexual behaving like that, it would have been different.
	I mean, hell, think about it.
	Why did he say that he was gay all that time?
	Because he knew.
	Because he knew, if I'm heterosexual, they're not going to push my music.
	Somebody mentioned Bob Bunny, wouldn't that?
	I did, yeah.
	But he's technically bisexual, so I feel like that goes into it too, right?
	Well, he's never been open with that.
	Has he?
	No, I thought that he has.
	Or like Harry Styles.
	Yeah, Harry Styles is a good one.
	But he's trending.
	Is he heterosexual though?
	Yeah, he is.
	And he'll wear a dress and everything.
	But that's too, like Young Thug wore a dress.
	Or like A $AP Rocky be wearing skirts.
	Yeah, I don't know.
	Honestly, I don't know.
	But see, it doesn't really get the recognition that maybe it should.
	It's kind of still like in the dim light.
	Yeah, exactly.
	It's definitely not pushed mainstream.
	If it's brought up, it's brought up in a negative light versus if Cardi B says, my pussy wet as fuck, blah, blah, blah, it gets on the playboard.
	And that's true too.
	Women are allowed, I feel like, to say a lot more stuff than guys are.
	And get away with it.
	I don't think so.
	I don't think so, personally.
	I think that men, like, if you listen to a guy rapping, he will say the wildest things ever.
	He will say the wildest things.
	Cardi B made that one song and everyone was talking about it and everyone was either judging her or, you know, like, But you're missing the point.
	The argument is that women can get away with being masculine versus men can't necessarily get away with being feminine.
	That's the argument.
	The men that you're talking about, they're making, what's that, heterosexual music?
	Yeah, and they're being masculine.
	Yeah, so they're being masculine, so it's getting pushed and it's mainstream.
	But we're saying, like, if they were taking, like, a more homosexual point of view, it would never be...
	Yeah, okay, feminine.
	Sorry, my bad.
	All right.
	Okay, what about you?
	I think that society is just really confused nowadays.
	Honestly, I don't really know.
	I feel like people don't want men to be men and women to be women.
	I feel like people don't want men to have feelings and stuff like that either.
	So, like you said, I really like what you said over there.
	You were talking about how women...
	We don't put up with more than men do.
	It's basically, I feel like people just want to keep women happy.
	They just want to keep them happy.
	They don't want to hear all the bullshit that comes with it.
	I feel like people just let women do whatever they want just because it's a problem if it's not what they want to do, I guess.
	Interesting.
	Alright, we got here.
	T.F. John goes, out the way, broke super chatters.
	W. Chris, A.J. Myron Gaines, please never fire this man.
	His interjections, lack of grammar is important to after hours.
	Pro tip for men, don't multiply body count by 3 divided by.3333.
	20 divided by.3333.
	Okay.
	Fresh, can you read these?
	Colorado Roughneck says, if she got formal, just say no.
	Which means fair of missing out.
	Roberto Moreno says, Happy Cinco de Mayo.
	Goat, one year ago today we lost the great Kevin Samuels.
	To all my brothers, please take control of your blood pressure.
	110 over 80.
	120 over 80.
	Ladies, why do you deserve a high-value man and why do you qualify?
	Okay, how many ladies on the panel think they deserve a high-value man?
	Raise your hands.
	One, two, three, four.
	Okay, all of y'all think you deserve one.
	Fantastic.
	Okay.
	And just, I guess, so we can qualify what it is.
	A high-value guy is a guy that, you know, has the money on point, has social status, has respect from his peers, has a network of individuals, in shape to a degree, competent, has a lot of life accomplishments.
	Obviously, this is like the top 1% of man.
	What qualifies you for that guy?
	Shoot with you first.
	I think that I... Are you saying what qualifies me for a high-value man?
	You raise your hand because you think you deserve one, right?
	Yeah, I think I definitely do.
	I feel like I deserve one because I... Well, I definitely try to practice high-value woman qualities, I guess.
	What about high-value female qualities?
	Maybe possibly being able to communicate, maybe to differentiate between something being personal and something just being something in general, in a general sense.
	Is it not common sense?
	I mean, I guess it could be.
	I guess.
	Okay.
	What else makes you qualify?
	I feel like I am a very respectful woman.
	I feel like I try to definitely let the man wear the pants in the relationship or just in general.
	Okay.
	So, yeah, that's how I feel.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	What qualifies you for a high-value man?
	Well, I think you are definitely, you are who you're surrounding yourself with, you know?
	And so, I think that, like, when you respect yourself and, like, when you have goals for yourself and, like, you know what you want to do, I think, I don't know.
	I don't know how to really put this.
	We can tell.
	Yeah.
	Can you pass me on this question?
	Yeah, what makes you qualify for a top 1% man?
	Why should he choose you over every other girl here?
	Yeah.
	Because all of you clearly feel like you're entitled to one.
	Or you deserve one.
	I don't know.
	I'm just going to pass this question.
	Have you ever had a dream?
	What about you?
	I just feel like, why not?
	My loyalty and my ability to submit.
	Go, queen.
	Why not me, nigga?
	Why not?
	Choose me, nigga!
	Okay, what about you?
	What qualifies you for a high-value man?
	I think if you're a good woman, like, at all, I just think you deserve somebody that you think is valuable.
	Like, a high-value man.
	What qualifies a good woman, though?
	That's the question.
	A woman who wants to be there for their man.
	They want to also do things for their man.
	Okay, now why do you qualify to get this guy?
	Because I'm very, like, submissive.
	You're submissive.
	Yeah, I think...
	No, I just...
	I would love to have a man that values me.
	I would do whatever he wants.
	As long as he's good to me.
	If he's not good to me, then...
	Okay, so you're submissive.
	That's your quality.
	Yeah, but I think, like, girls, I don't know.
	I don't know.
	I don't know why.
	I just feel like everyone should believe that they deserve a good man.
	They feel, okay, based on Lucifer.
	But I don't think if you're gonna do nothing for your man that you deserve the best man out there.
	Alright, so feel like you deserve him.
	Alright.
	Incredible.
	What about you?
	What qualifies you for a top 1% man?
	I mean, I think kind of somewhat in the same sense.
	Like, I am very submissive.
	I am very nurturing.
	Stop the cap!
	No, I do know how to play my role.
	Not the cap.
	I lost now.
	I'm losing my train of thought.
	You said submissive, nurturing, and you play your role.
	Yeah, I mean, I have traditional values, and, you know, I believe in gender roles.
	Stop the cap!
	Alright, what about you?
	What qualifies you for a top 1% guy?
	I would say that someone that is going to be with a high-value man needs to also make that man's life easier, in a sense, and be of value to that man.
	How would they make his life easier?
	I don't know, in a sense of also being a submissive woman, but also playing the gender roles and just holding to the standard of whatever it is that he cannot do and add.
	What about you?
	What qualifies you for a high-value man in the top 1%?
	Okay, so relationships are about giving your all to the person, to your friend.
	So if you do that and you don't make it about yourself, then he will do the same for you.
	So you're going to give him your all?
	Yeah, relationships are about giving.
	Okay, so what would you give?
	Like, what is giving your all?
	What is that specifically?
	Your time.
	Okay, giving time, what else?
	I feel like...
	All right, what about you?
	What makes you deserve a high value guy?
	I didn't raise my hand.
	What about you?
	What qualifies you for a high value man?
	I'm not ready.
	I'm just like a man pleaser.
	How would you please the man then?
	Specifically?
	Cooking, cleaning, holding his baby in my tummy for nine months, like being a good mom.
	Being loyal, submissive, like, everything.
	Yeah, obviously, how do you think the baby got there?
	I'm like hearing everybody, I should have kept my hand down.
	So just so I get this straight, the man that we're talking about is in the top 1%, makes six figures, respected by people, has competence, fit to a degree, confidence, etc.
	Very attractive.
	All the women are chasing him.
	And you guys are saying that you're going to basically bring what the next girl next to you is going to bring.
	Y'all all basically said the same thing.
	Being submissive.
	I'm going to play a role.
	I'm going to give him my time.
	Traditional values.
	One girl said, why not?
	Respect.
	I mean, to be honest, ladies, like all these things that you guys described, another girl can give that.
	So what would be the correct answer?
	The point wasn't about having the correct answer.
	The point was, you guys are not as special as you think you are.
	That's what that exercise demonstrates.
	Every girl thinks they deserve a top 1% guy, but the reality is you guys are giving 99 percentile type shit back.
	So why should he pick you?
	So what wouldn't be 99 percentile?
	Why would he pick you when you're literally providing the same exact thing as the girl next to you?
	I said earlier.
	What is special for Myron or for Fresh?
	What did I say earlier?
	What women do that doesn't make things work.
	They don't try to figure out what that guy actually wants.
	That's the biggest thing because, once again, if you personalize your care and consideration towards that man, then you're going to automatically do what he wants in his life, which makes you what?
	Irreplaceable.
	If you're just doing the same thing that she's doing, how do you stand out?
	And here's the thing.
	I'm not making fun of you guys.
	These are good traits, but if you want to get a guy in the top 1%, Y'all are literally providing the same exact thing to the girl next to you.
	That should probably be what should already be provided.
	Which is why I ask, what would be, not necessarily the correct answer, but what would be what the man is looking for that would differentiate the woman?
	The fact that you have to ask shows that you don't deserve a 1% guy.
	Well, I'm asking because I'm talking to two men that are asking us this question.
	So as a woman, I'm asking you for your perspective, not because I don't know.
	I'll answer it, but I'm saying the point is that women don't know which is the problem.
	See, men have to understand women to get women, but women don't have to understand men to get men.
	I just told you.
	I understand, but he asked me the same question, so I'm basically rephrasing it to him.
	I'm agreeing with what you said.
	I agree with what he said.
	You gotta basically be able to come in and figure out what that man wants.
	Mm-hmm.
	You have to be almost like an indispensable tool in this toolkit.
	But the problem is that a lot of you gave dispensable traits.
	A lot of other girls have these things.
	So why would I go with you when I can go get a girl that's younger and hotter that provides the same exact thing?
	I get multiple girls that provide it.
	So then we're all going to answer the same thing because it's different for men.
	How many times on the show a girl said, yo, I'm going to figure out what he wants and give that to him?
	It's so small.
	You were trying to say something?
	Sorry.
	I kind of just have a question.
	Sure.
	It's like, so does that mean that we should walk around and not, like, aim to have the best man?
	Like, we should just be, like, settling and saying that we are gonna settle for the less than guy?
	Because to be very candid with you, most women don't deserve a high-value man.
	Most women barely qualify for an average guy.
	And a lot of women think...
	That they deserve an above average man.
	And the reality is a lot of y'all don't.
	Like, you know, a guy that's 5'7 making 37, 40k per year, he's probably going to be a fantastic and good husband, but a lot of women would never give him a chance.
	He's invisible to a lot of women.
	Like, average women no longer think, yeah, white women deserve less, haha.
	I think more girls need to get their dating standards on par with where they actually stand.
	You know, only in 2023 in the United States do we have women that are very average saying, I deserve a top tier guy in the top 1%.
	Well, are you prepared to deal with the problems that come with that?
	Are you prepared to have him fuck other girls?
	Are you prepared to only see him once a week?
	If that, if you're lucky, are you prepared for him to not be around and give you as much attention as you want?
	Girls want high value guys, but they don't want to deal with high value problems.
	Because the problem is that a lot of y'all think that you're special and you deserve this guy, but you're not willing to deal with the consequences of being with that guy.
	You have to bust his ass to get to that point.
	Y'all didn't.
	So you're going to have to concede.
	So in an ideal world for you, you want a woman who works or doesn't work?
	I mean, I don't really care.
	A woman's job is irrelevant.
	She just has to add value to you then, I'm assuming?
	Yeah, I mean, I would say most guys don't really care about a girl's career or her ability to earn money.
	No, I'm just asking.
	Me personally?
	I don't care at all.
	So what do you want?
	What?
	Or fresh?
	What do you want?
	I mean, if a girl has a career and she works, that's cool, but it's not mandatory for me.
	I'm never going to disqualify a girl because she doesn't work.
	It doesn't matter.
	I think if she's asking questions or trying to figure out what I need as a man and she's actually putting effort behind that, that goes a long way.
	Versus like, oh, well, this is how I do things from my prior relationships.
	I'm just going to do this one thing.
	It's like, if I didn't work last time, why is it going to work now?
	I'll take a girl that's pleasant and unemployed any day over a girl that has a career that's a pain in the ass.
	Absolutely.
	Yeah, but what is pleasant to you two?
	Like, what makes a girl pleasant?
	Men are very simple.
	Feminine.
	Culturable.
	Non-argumentative.
	Not loud.
	Not annoying.
	Don't embarrass me in front of my friends.
	Don't be a pain in the ass.
	No one really gives a fuck about your opinion, to be honest.
	A lot of women think that their opinion matters.
	We really don't give a shit about it.
	It just doesn't.
	And the reason why your opinion doesn't matter a lot of times, ladies, it's not like some fucked up sexist shit.
	It's that women tend to interpret the world through their feelings.
	And unfortunately, when you interpret the world through your feelings, you get a lot of things incorrect.
	Because you feel a certain way about something versus interpreting the situation for what it is.
	And I think that really...
	Talks with the women's abilities to see things in an objective manner.
	Women tend to look at things extremely subjectively, which is going to limit your ability to understand things properly from an objective standpoint.
	This is how I feel about the topic versus this is what it is.
	For example, if you look at voting, what do women tend to vote more?
	They tend to vote Democrat.
	Why?
	Because Democrats are more for Let's give people benefits.
	Let's increase welfare.
	Let's go ahead and be communitarian.
	Let's go ahead and give benefits to everybody.
	People that tend to vote conservative a lot of times tend to be more male-dominated.
	Or if it is women, it's women that are married or women that have a man in their relationship.
	People have an issue with Donald Trump because a lot of women don't like Donald Trump because he said grab her by the pussy.
	But they don't realize that Trump did a pretty damn good job in office when he was in there, right?
	The economy was better.
	We were doing well.
	He didn't get into random stupid-ass wars.
	But they're more concerned with how he made them feel.
	I didn't like the fact that he took grabber by the pussy, but he still did a good job as president.
	But a lot of women are unable to divorce their emotions from being objective and getting something done, even if it hurts their feelings.
	Not all, of course, but I would say a good amount of females have issues with things based on how they feel.
	Honestly, because of Biden, I have my papers, you know, but Trump is a good president.
	So that's what it is, you know what I mean?
	Well, to be fair, Trump is grabbing mature pussy, Biden's grabbing underage pussy.
	Can I move on?
	But that's an example.
	People voted against Trump because of how Trump made them feel versus his political policies and making the country better.
	And my take.
	Objectively speaking, too, the economy was doing fantastic when he was in.
	So that's not even just my opinion, that's fact.
	But you get what I'm saying here?
	Just because of how they felt about him saying certain things, they voted against him.
	Because they're feelings.
	Alright, cool.
	We got here, who else?
	Assy goes, ladies, how long should a guy last in order for you to consider a good dick?
	Also size preference 20 minutes 20 minutes, okay, what it was 20 minutes?
	Um, okay.
	Yeah, go ahead Just give us what do you think is it?
	What's the bare minimum for you?
	A good 15.
	What about you?
	That's it!
	To me, if it takes an hour, like, what's wrong?
	What's bare minimum for you, though?
	An hour?
	No, but I'm saying, like, it better be, like, to me, in my brain, again, I'm like a pleaser, like, 666 minutes.
	Fantastic.
	Oh my god!
	Good job, mate!
	Oh!
	So she said 60 minutes, I was like, yeah, okay, you ain't fooling us.
	I didn't say I wanted it to last that long.
	I said there's a problem.
	Like, if he lasts that long, then there's a problem.
	Yeah, like, if he's still going after an hour, like...
	Like, what am I doing wrong?
	Yeah, what's wrong here?
	Like, I'm getting mad at that point.
	Like...
	Maybe he's just...
	Like, do you want to be with somebody else or something?
	Or what?
	I doubt it.
	What if he got stamina like that?
	Yeah, right.
	If you have, like, the power of the pussy or whatever, he is not lasting an hour.
	Speak for yourself.
	I'm saying if it was the best girl you've ever had, you're lasting over an hour.
	You're the best?
	No, I'm not saying that.
	I'm saying like in your world.
	Yeah, of course.
	What about you?
	You're saying that it should be longer?
	Within an hour?
	Yeah.
	I mean, you start to waste time at that point.
	That's what I'm saying.
	Yeah, it's kind of a waste of time.
	I feel like if we were going to do it, we would have done it by now.
	That's a long time.
	Alright, what about you?
	10, 15.
	Alright, what about you?
	20, 30 minutes.
	20, 30?
	Alright, what about you?
	An hour for you?
	Yeah Yeah Alright what about you?
	I'll push it up 40 What about you?
	25 They said size We can go run around real quick What's the bare minimum size for you?
	I'm like, like nine.
	What?
	Like could I really marry a guy with like a low average?
	Like no, that would be a thing in my head.
	Well it's a bare minimum, not your idea.
	It's a bare minimum.
	Fantastic.
	What about you?
	She likes more stars.
	What about you?
	It's a bare minimum for you.
	Well it just have to be like, can they use it?
	Like it doesn't matter their size.
	I mean there's gotta be a bare minimum, come on.
	Oh shit, I'd give it a seven.
	Seven?
	All right, what about you?
	I want to know if guys come faster with a blonde girl or with a blonde girl.
	What?
	Yeah.
	That wasn't the question!
	I just want to know because guys can turn on...
	Alright, we'll save that for the end, but can you please answer the question?
	What's the bare minimum size for you?
	For me, a good size is like...
	Like this?
	What the fuck?
	How many?
	Hold on, she might not know.
	Okay, centimeters.
	That's like seven.
	Give us centimeters.
	Seven inches.
	How many centimeters?
	I don't know.
	Do it again.
	It was looking like six.
	It was like seven.
	BBC, ABC, WBC.
	We'll just move on.
	No.
	What about you?
	What's the minimum for you?
	Like seven.
	Seven.
	What about you?
	Six or seven.
	Okay.
	You?
	I'm gonna have to say at least eight.
	Let's go!
	What about you?
	6.57.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Like seven or eight.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I think bare minimum, like six.
	Okay.
	You know what's interesting?
	I think the average penis size is only about five to six inches.
	Yeah.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	I don't like average penis.
	Did you catch that shit though?
	What?
	This girl's 18 and she wants 8 inches?
	I don't really know about, like, the whole...
	She's Brazilian, so that's, like, normal.
	Yeah, you're fucking young, man.
	Come on.
	All right, all right, all right.
	Pastor Yoda.
	Okay.
	Pastor Yoda.
	Always late, Chris.
	And tell a girl in pink, no crying today.
	What?
	No, he means Venezuela.
	Alright.
	Thanks for saving me from depression.
	Your channel changed my life.
	180 kilos, 400 pounds, losing 100 pounds.
	Inspired by my aren't unplugged mindset.
	And his book, Making Motivational Vids, Still Pushing on Life, Lifesavers, grads from NL. Yo, shout out to you.
	Yo, also, just so you know, dude, Mo, you want to tell him how much weight you lost as well?
	I have, I have actually officially reached a hundred pound mark, a hundred pound down mark as well.
	And including 14 pan sizes down.
	So y'all gonna have to talk to me nicer.
	Don't fucking talk to me at all.
	Okay, okay.
	Hold on, just so you guys know, because you guys asked before how men communicate with each other when it comes to coaching.
	Because someone asked, you asked, why do I yell?
	Mo, what was the first thing I told you when you came off the elevator and I met you?
	Goddamn, nigga, you fat as shit!
	Goddamn!
	He's 500 pounds, man.
	I have to say, son, he was fat as fuck.
	But men, with a woman, you would never be able to do that shit.
	We would cry.
	I thought it was Godzilla Earthquakes.
	You want to lay down and eat more.
	We're going to keep roasting him until he hits 200 pounds, so it's fine.
	But to answer your question before, that's how you have to deal with men.
	You have to tell them the truth and kind of hurt their feelings a bit.
	With women, I noticed, though, it's like...
	Women are more concerned with how things are said and how they make them feel.
	Remember how I said a big inhibitor?
	On female growth is feelings.
	If you tell a girl, hey, you're fat, you need to lose weight, she's going to be more concerned with how she felt from you saying that versus actually making a change so that she could feel better.
	That's why we tell women bullshit like love your curves.
	Yeah.
	Right?
	It's very interesting because sometimes like now that I think about it, it's like people like I have even used in my conversations with my partner, like it's not what you say, it's how you say it.
	Yeah.
	You know?
	And it's like, I can see how he'll say it because it is what it is.
	And I'm over here concerned about my feelings.
	Yeah, I mean, to be honest, it's one of women's biggest weak points is that women put more stake in how something is set versus it's set.
	If I tell you You know, this is what the fuck it is, blah, blah, blah.
	Right.
	You're going to be more concerned about how I said it to you.
	But, like, men, we don't have that issue a lot of times.
	Like, especially if it's someone that you know, and they tell you, hey, man, this is what the fuck it is, blah, blah, blah.
	You're like, okay, men prioritize the information.
	We care about how it was said after the fact.
	Women prioritize how it was said, then the information.
	Versus what you're saying.
	Yeah.
	But that's, like, very dangerous.
	Because if you feel, oh, I don't like how this makes me feel.
	But it could be life-changing information.
	Yeah.
	You're going to discard it just because it doesn't make you feel good.
	And I would argue that's why women in general are so fat.
	Because the average woman in America is like 175 pounds, bro.
	And 5'5".
	And no one says anything.
	No one says shit.
	That's crazy to me.
	It's wild, but...
	Whatever.
	Anyway.
	Brian Rosales.
	Okay.
	And then from this point forward, Chris, what?
	50?
	Yep.
	All right.
	Oscar Rodriguez, Mario, you saved my life.
	I was suicidal and life going down the drain.
	The press over a female.
	I just started watching a couple months ago.
	Life is looking up.
	Keep doing what you're doing.
	Much love.
	Appreciate that, my friend.
	Oxymoron goes, ladies, how would you like to look back and see your legacy 30 years from now?
	That would be 60.
	Alright, we'll move on.
	Women don't give a fuck about their legacy, bro, a lot of the times.
	Does anybody here care about that?
	I definitely care.
	I'm leaving a mark.
	Go ahead, 30 years from now.
	He's like, oh god, here we go.
	Here we go.
	No, it's definitely going to be a positive one.
	I don't know.
	I feel like there needs to be a lot of reaching out with men and their mental health and stuff like that.
	I lost my little brother in November 2022.
	So I feel like that's a really important topic for everything.
	And I feel like your podcast definitely touches base on men's feelings and stuff like that.
	So I just want to be seen as somebody that really made a positive change towards things that matter.
	Things that matter.
	I want to make an empire for my kids.
	Yeah, I like that.
	I want to create greatness.
	Generational wealth, you know?
	Like, just break all the curses that were bound to my family and stuff like that kind of thing.
	Just whatever, you know?
	I want to make an empire for my kids and, like, my generation, like, Owning my own business.
	Sorry.
	Owning my own business and just creating a golden path for my kids to not have to go through what I went through growing up.
	Anybody else want to talk about their legacy?
	Yeah.
	I want to leave a legacy because the future of this world needs to have mentors.
	Have you ever had dreams that There's a lot of children that don't have mentors, so they need to have like...
	They need to have mentors.
	Okay, anybody else have anything?
	Fantastic.
	Alright.
	Ombre of the house, 10 bucks.
	Do the ladies understand that there is between probability versus possibility?
	Would you spend your savings...
	Wait, I thought it was 20 notes.
	This nigga can't read!
	No, no, no.
	What the fuck?
	Yo, Chris can't read, bro.
	I swear to God.
	U.S. Marshal Service goes, W. Chris, early for 9-11 take, late for 3-0-4 is why women deserve less.
	I appreciate that.
	Marshal Service.
	Oxymoron goes, a woman is a man's greatest weakness and another man is a woman's greatest weakness.
	Damn.
	Oh, okay, I see what you mean.
	I see it.
	All right, Hearn, 50 bucks.
	Beauty standards imposed by women are yikes.
	Most attractive woman is jean jacket with no makeup.
	Strange how women try to look like a standardized version of Kim K or a beauty standard pushed back by the media.
	That look is for recreational use only.
	Anybody have a comment back to him?
	What?
	I don't think so.
	Most attractive women is jean jacket.
	Basically saying like, no makeup.
	I'm wearing bagels, but I have a light makeup.
	He's not talking about me.
	I don't know.
	Do you want to say back to him, ladies?
	Anybody?
	Yeah.
	What do you want to say?
	I'm sorry.
	Thank you.
	No makeup just shows the realest version of a woman.
	But also, you couldn't even tie a girl with no makeup from a girl in makeup.
	Okay.
	If you wear makeup, you're feeling insecure.
	That's the thing.
	Yeah, if I wear makeup, I'm feeling insecure.
	If I wear not makeup, I just don't give a fuck.
	Anybody agree with her?
	I don't know.
	To an extent.
	To an extent, yeah.
	She's trying to say y'all are insecure.
	You guys agree?
	Yeah, yeah.
	I'm like, hold on.
	You don't want to show your eye box.
	Oh.
	Like when people wear makeup.
	Shots fired.
	She's talking to me?
	Yes, you.
	Oh, I'm just talking to you.
	He's trying to egg it on.
	Come on now.
	I will take that from her.
	You're instigating over here.
	Me personally, I would never take this little distance back.
	Yeah, I would never take that.
	Next.
	Ever.
	All right, give it a some more.
	Okay.
	It's been a while since she's been in a visual reading.
	We got outdated pictures of the profiles.
	He goes, this is the official rating.
	One hour out call rates for tonight's episode.
	He goes, area, $600.
	Sydney, $500.
	Mel, $9, $1,000.
	Alondra, $1, $0.
	Jay, $4, $0.
	Melon, $3, $0.
	What in the world is going on?
	Wait, who's...
	$600 Yayo Brinks for $0.
	What is that?
	That's crazy, Jake.
	He's giving you a rating and what he would pay you to bang you.
	Yes.
	For alcohol.
	All of you know.
	For alcohol.
	You can tell this nigga uses Backface back in the day.
	Backface terminology right there.
	My man gave y'all a rating on how much you would pay you guys to fuck.
	What is that?
	Yo, this is gonna have to work, right?
	He'll log into Backface and show us, ain't calling O'Connor.
	What the fuck is Inco Outcall?
	Nigga, that's Outcall.
	We go to Chickie, pay the smash.
	Oh my God.
	What the fuck?
	Wait, wait, wait.
	So, I'm curious.
	Why don't you pay Mel a thousand dollars?
	Who's Mel?
	Which one is Mel?
	Obviously, you like the Latina persuasion.
	Yeah, for sure.
	Goddamn, bro.
	Alright, that was actually pretty funny, though.
	I ain't gonna lie.
	It was.
	Namor, you need to start asking these 304s if they're liberal or conservative.
	Everyone here at the table seem pretty conservative.
	Conservative.
	Conservative ladies?
	I would say so.
	Recently.
	Do you know what that means?
	Recently?
	Here's the real question to see where they stand.
	Pro-life or pro-abortion?
	Pro-life.
	Or pro-choice.
	I mean, I don't know.
	I'm okay with abortion.
	Does that mean you abort?
	Yes, that means you can abort.
	Okay, yeah.
	Okay, raise your hands nice and high.
	Nice and high.
	Who's pro-choice?
	I will not abort.
	Wait.
	I will not abort.
	I'm a mistake.
	Okay, holy.
	Pro-choice means abortion is okay.
	Yeah.
	Okay, raise your hands nice and high so everybody can see.
	Who's pro-choice?
	I'm like half.
	You can't be half on this one.
	Yeah, but I'm up to a certain, like, before it has a heartbeat, I'm okay with it.
	Okay.
	I'm through the roof.
	All right.
	Interesting.
	Okay.
	So they're somewhat liberal.
	Justin L. Ladies, describe a situation where you went on a date with a guy you never had any intention of smashing slash dating.
	Chris, I heard you dine and dash from a homeless shelter, bum.
	Alright, I'll make this nice and simple.
	How many of you guys have been on a date with a guy that you never had intentions of having sex with?
	Um, yeah.
	Pretty much everybody.
	Okay.
	No?
	Okay.
	Can you tell us a quick story of that date when you went out with him?
	Shoot.
	Was it a dinner date?
	It was just a dinner date.
	Yeah, definitely a dinner date.
	It was just to see how things would go, and I just decided I was good at that.
	It was actually called Puerto Vallarta.
	It's like a Mexican restaurant.
	It's so good, so good.
	Wait, here in Miami?
	No, I'm originally from Indiana, so that's where...
	What about you?
	Honestly, I don't really remember much.
	I just was hungry.
	Was there at least a good restaurant?
	Yeah, I think I, I believe I chose.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I don't know.
	There's been so many dinners that are just free dinner.
	Okay.
	So you just went just for the free dinner?
	Yeah.
	When's the most recent one that you can remember?
	Popeyes?
	No.
	Um, actually like probably two months ago.
	Where'd you go?
	Of course.
	Carbone?
	She ain't good!
	I heard that one's better than New York.
	That's one of the most famous slash fancy Italian restaurants here in Miami.
	You gotta make reservations or know somebody.
	What about you?
	When was the last time you could remember where you went on a date with a guy you had zero intention of smashing?
	Like at no point in time or just not quickly?
	Ever.
	Like you were like, I'm just going out with this guy for a free mail or an experience.
	I don't waste my time.
	I don't do that.
	No?
	Okay.
	When's the last time you went and then you were like, nah.
	Like I just didn't like the person?
	Yeah, I guess.
	Yeah.
	I mean, I can't exactly remember because it's been a long time, but I know it's happened.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I didn't raise my hand.
	Oh, you didn't?
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I did not expect free dinner.
	But he's cute, so, you know, it was a surprise.
	But the question is, when you didn't like the guy, when you went on a date, have you ever been on a date with a guy you had zero intention of hooking up with?
	No.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	You said you've been...
	Yeah, I have.
	But, um, one of them I ended up dating for, like, a whole year.
	So...
	We're talking about the guy you didn't like.
	Oh, no, I'm saying I didn't have any intention of that.
	But I'm saying, like, keep doing it, guys.
	Hard work pays off.
	I'm not gonna lie.
	How long did you make that guy wait until he smashed them?
	Um, well, technically, whatever.
	Like a year and a half, but I was underage when we met.
	Stop the cap!
	Whoa, whoa, whoa!
	Alright, we'll move on.
	First of all, ladies and general, do you think modern women respect men?
	1,607 women experience pleasures unparalleled.
	Will like the same treatment shorty two down from us?
	Take it away, big homie.
	Yes, sir!
	Yes, sir!
	I'll just make this a yes or no with the panel.
	Do you think women in general respect men in today's day and age?
	Raise your hands if you guys think yes.
	Damn.
	Just respect?
	Yeah, respect men in general.
	Do you think women respect men in general in today's day and age?
	Damn, all of you say no.
	Okay.
	And it's sad.
	Alright, fair enough.
	That's what it is.
	Okay.
	Dark Ice.
	Thanks for being honest about that.
	Dark Ice, 20 bucks.
	RIP Patrice O'Neal.
	He was here.
	He was before Kevin Samuels, but respect to both.
	YouTube, The Black Phillip Show.
	Shout out FNFQ with the hard work.
	Hooah.
	Appreciate that.
	Lalo goes, ladies, what would make you more upset?
	Finding out your man stepped out or finding out he bought a chick a $300 bag?
	Okay.
	So what would make you more mad?
	Let's say you're in a relationship with a guy and you find out in one scenario he fucked another chick and then in another scenario he bought her a $300 purse.
	Which one would piss you off more?
	We'll start here and then work our way around.
	The bag.
	The bag?
	Why?
	Why?
	Um, because I'm very like, I feel very possessive over my resources.
	And if you're my guy, like, okay, I already said all men are gonna cheat.
	So that's cool.
	But why are you buying her a bag?
	You don't have to buy her bag.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	What would piss you off more?
	Fucks another girl or 300 bags?
	Fucks another girl.
	Okay.
	Why would that piss you off more?
	Because you didn't invite me.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	And I hurt my feelings.
	What if she wasn't your type?
	And then Dan, why?
	That's a downgrade.
	Not your type?
	What?
	No, maybe the girl wasn't your type.
	Oh, not my type?
	Yeah.
	I could've watched.
	Oh, God.
	Okay.
	Well, hold on.
	Why do you want to watch?
	I don't want to watch.
	That's her thing.
	First off, a $300 bag of purse.
	Like, that's the money.
	That's the same thing.
	Do you watch porn?
	Of course.
	Men and women?
	Man or girl porn?
	Yeah.
	Wait, I'm confused.
	What would she watch?
	Oh, yeah, I want to watch my man.
	I was like, you don't watch porn normally, but maybe you might.
	But still, I don't know.
	Yeah, that's actually she might be an exception because most women overwhelmingly don't watch porn.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	What about you?
	I want to say that if you want to bless her, bless her with the three...
	I don't know.
	Okay, what would piss you off more?
	Him buying her a $300 bag or having sex with another girl?
	Your man.
	Which one would piss you off more?
	I will not be pissed.
	At all.
	You won't care?
	No.
	Okay, which one would hurt more then?
	Which one is worse?
	He...
	He don't let me know that he left.
	You know, or that he's how...
	I will not be mad.
	Okay, we're gonna move on.
	What about you?
	The bag.
	Why the bag?
	Because why are you investing into another woman?
	That's a completely different conversation.
	What about you?
	Probably being with another woman.
	The sex would piss you off more?
	Okay.
	Why?
	You said earlier you'd be okay with him cheating on you, so why would it piss you off more?
	Okay, maybe if it was like a $3,000 bag, it would piss you off more, but a $300 bag is not.
	So the sex is worse.
	Because the bag isn't expensive enough.
	Is it expensive enough?
	Okay.
	Because we know your price.
	Why?
	Why?
	What about you?
	Put yourself in her shoes.
	The bag, because sex is just sex.
	Why are you buying her gifts?
	Are you in love with her now?
	And I don't care if it was a $300, $3,000 bag.
	Why do you want to buy her gifts?
	Earlier though, that sex is...
	cheating is unacceptable for you?
	Yeah, but I'm saying if I was hypothetically in this situation, I would still be more mad that you...
	Why are you buying her a gift?
	You love her?
	Okay.
	Like, you have feelings for a girl if you're gifting herself.
	If you're spending money, yeah.
	If you just screwed her for the night and never saw her again, you didn't care, so...
	Alright, what about you?
	What's worse, the bag or sex with another girl?
	I feel like sex is more intimate.
	Okay.
	More intimate.
	You think that's more intimate than buying a girl a bag?
	Yeah.
	Men invest.
	If they buy the bag, they invest.
	I feel like I will be mad if that sex affects my pussy.
	If that sex affects my pussy, of course, I will be mad.
	What about you?
	What about you?
	What's worse, the sex or the bag?
	The bag, 100%.
	Just like she said, sex is just sex, but why are you buying her stuff?
	You know, like, it's a $300 bag, it's a lollipop.
	Like, why are you buying her stuff?
	No, she's saying the difference.
	It could be worth a lot.
	It could be you bought her a lollipop and she would still be mad.
	Just as mad.
	And that's what I'm saying.
	It's the thought and action of doing it.
	What about you?
	What's worse?
	I think the bag, honestly.
	Because I don't think men think about sex as deeply as women do anyway.
	Let me ask you a question.
	Can women handle the truth?
	No.
	We act like we can, but when we get told the truth, we want to get emotional and upset about shit.
	It don't make no sense.
	What about you?
	Do you think women can handle the truth?
	No.
	What about you?
	No.
	Okay.
	No truth about what?
	Satan!
	In general.
	I feel like, yeah, I could handle the truth.
	I feel like I would much rather have the truth than have you lie on my face.
	Let me preface this.
	This question isn't particularly to you.
	This is women in general.
	Oh, okay.
	Then maybe, no.
	Probably not, no.
	Okay, what about you?
	Generally, no.
	Okay.
	You?
	No.
	What about you?
	If he disappears at night and I'm sleeping, nothing will happen.
	But if he disappears...
	No, no, no.
	If he disappears two days, I will not be mad.
	I will be mad.
	Sorry.
	Okay.
	Alright, what about you?
	No?
	Alright, let me ask you this.
	Does a man love his girl more if he lies to her or if he tells her the truth?
	If he lies to her.
	Okay.
	Does a man love a girl more if he lies to her or if he tells the truth?
	If he lies, yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	If he lies because maybe he's protecting me about something that I can't handle.
	What about you?
	I want to say lies, but I want to say truth also.
	I don't know.
	I'm torn.
	If you had to go on a balance of probabilities with most women in the world.
	Not just yourself.
	Lie.
	No, 3000%.
	If he loves you, he's telling you the truth no matter how bad it hurts.
	He's not lying to you.
	Okay.
	But you just said a second ago that most women can't handle the truth.
	Yeah, but he doesn't care.
	If he loves you, he's telling you.
	And he knows you can't handle it.
	Yeah, but it's going to hurt more when you find out in 20 years that he's been lying.
	He's thinking you're never going to find out.
	What if he's taking that risk?
	You're going to find out if all lies come to truth.
	What about you?
	I think lie, because I think they're afraid of our reaction or they don't know how we're going to take it.
	But it doesn't mean they don't care about us.
	Right.
	Just protecting you in a way.
	All right.
	I think both, but I'm going to go with lie.
	Okay.
	I would say the same.
	Both, but generally speaking, lies.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	So you guys all just admitted basically that women can't handle the truth and that men lie to protect women.
	So why do women initiate breakups with men that lie to them?
	Lesson learned.
	Why do women initiate breakups to men that lie to them?
	Yeah.
	If most women can't handle the truth and you're saying he loves you more if he lies to you, then why do women initiate breakups with men for lying?
	That's a good one.
	Now we know.
	Anybody got an answer for that?
	Nope.
	Guys, I love you don't lie.
	Okay, fair enough.
	Wait, you said guys that...
	You're the one that said that?
	Yes.
	But you said most of them can handle the truth, as you said before.
	Yeah, they can.
	But again, if he loves you, he's going to tell you whether you can handle it or not.
	It's not going to be about you're going to be upset.
	Regardless, you're going to be upset.
	He's not going to just protect your feelings because he did you so wrong.
	There's no way someone that loves you just lies to you.
	I'm sorry.
	That is delusional.
	Fatality.
	Some guys will never rebuild themselves.
	Dark Ice goes...
	Oh no, I read that one before.
	Just Relax goes, Devil Girl, what's your favorite animal to sacrifice for Satan?
	None.
	Stop the cap.
	All right.
	Randy Rarback goes, I started watching your show and ended up happier than ever living in a cabin with peace and quiet.
	Trying to get women to understand is beyond hard.
	God bless you guys.
	All right, bro.
	It's fine, man.
	First Line Firearms Academy, 50 bucks.
	Appreciate that super sticker.
	Then we got Chris Callie goes, ladies, how would you react if a man set strict boundaries with you in a relationship?
	No girls night out.
	No girl, you know, bachelorette parties.
	No going to the club.
	No guy friends.
	No sexy pictures of yourself on Instagram.
	It's got to be on private.
	Would you guys be okay with that?
	We'll start right here.
	I think that, I mean, if they're trying to set boundaries and you should be on the same page with them, if you don't agree with that, then that's not, you know, your thing.
	I don't think that a man is trying to be controlling in that.
	I just feel like the things that he's asking you not to do is just what doesn't work for him specifically.
	Okay.
	What are your thoughts on that if a guy tries to pull boundaries on you in a relationship?
	For me, it's a no, because I think if you can't trust me enough for me to go out or just have friends in general or anything like that, then it won't work out.
	Let me ask you a question.
	Are women spontaneous?
	Spontaneous?
	Yes.
	With what?
	In general.
	I guess sometimes it depends.
	Who's more spontaneous in general, men or women?
	Women?
	Women, I guess.
	I mean, it depends with what.
	Who's more emotional?
	Women.
	Who's more likely to go off of their emotions?
	Depends with what.
	I feel like men also, when they get triggered, they let out their emotions.
	Yeah, but who's more willing to actually act upon their emotions, men or women?
	Women, I guess.
	Okay.
	Who's more influenced by their friends, men or women?
	Both.
	Both.
	I would say women.
	Who's more likely to be a follower, a male or a female?
	Female.
	I feel like dudes follow what their friends say a lot.
	Who follows more, though?
	I don't know.
	I can't...
	If I'm speaking for myself, you know, I've had friends who have...
	I'm speaking in general.
	In general?
	Okay, I guess I'm gonna say women.
	Okay.
	So, wouldn't it be fair to say that you could just trust a woman to be a woman, which is emotionally erratic, follow their friends, and their friends, if they're hoes, can lead them to bad situations.
	Then if you add alcohol to that, it'll make it even worse.
	No, because I think if you actually want to be with someone and actually love someone, no matter how much alcohol, no matter how much someone is pressing you or telling you to do something, you're not going to do it.
	Okay, how would you feel if your boyfriend, right, was invited to go to a club where hundreds of women are going to approach him, offer him free alcohol, offer him trips, offer him money, offer him the opportunity to have sex without any type of consequences, and...
	He could pick any girl he wants.
	And not to mention, all these girls, or most of them, are probably going to be hotter than you and better than you in every regard.
	How would you feel about that?
	Like shit, 100%.
	So do you think it's reasonable for a guy to have boundaries on his girl?
	I think there should be boundaries for both of them, you know?
	Well, who needs boundaries more?
	I guess I'm still going to stick to both of them.
	Who has more opportunity in the dating marketplace, men or women?
	Women.
	So since women have more boundaries and they have more power, doesn't that power need to be contained to a degree?
	To a certain point, I guess, but not like that.
	You can't have friends.
	You can't go out ever.
	I don't know.
	You're contradicting yourself.
	I think if you trust someone and if you actually love someone, you're able to let them go out without having to worry.
	A thousand women can come up to you.
	So would you let your boyfriend go to the club knowing that there's going to be girls that are hotter than you, that want to fuck him, going to give him alcohol, show him a good time, and they're just better mates than you in general?
	And there's hundreds of them talking to him.
	If we're seriously committed and, like, I trust that person, I honestly wouldn't mind that much.
	Because I know that maybe they're hotter, maybe this and that, but I don't know.
	I mean, maybe I'm saying this right now, but if I was in a situation, it would be different.
	You don't know.
	Exactly.
	It's because here's the thing.
	Women don't invest as much in relationships as men do.
	That's easy for you to say now, but men are typically the ones that are paying for the relationship, they're protecting, they're providing for you, etc.
	So it's easy for you to say that from a female perspective, but I would say women need boundaries, 100%.
	Because since women have more opportunities, you need to control those opportunities to a degree.
	As a man.
	And I don't mean like control her.
	I mean, as in have boundaries.
	Like, hey, I don't commit to girls that do X, Y, Z. If you want to do that, cool.
	Then you're single.
	I mean, that's just a relationship, though.
	When you're in a relationship, you've got to have boundaries, one with another.
	But I would argue a man's boundaries are more important than a woman's boundaries, by far.
	But if you notice, right, it's only a problem if you don't like the guy.
	If you like the guy, alright, my man wants this, alright, cool, no problem.
	If you go fuck another guy, the relationship is over.
	If I go fuck another girl, it's not that big a deal.
	I'll come back to you.
	I mean, even you said you had more issues with the bag.
	There's a reason why you said that.
	You don't even really care about a fucking other girl.
	You're more concerned about me buying her a bag.
	Or a lollipop in your case.
	I definitely feel like boundaries are necessary, but that's where you have the conversation on what's accepted and what's not.
	Okay.
	Can you pull up that super chat again, Chris?
	Uh...
	Okay, so you'd be okay with a man's strict boundaries?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I love it.
	Bring it.
	Sand!
	Okay, alright.
	Same thing.
	I specifically seek that out.
	If somebody doesn't give me boundaries and doesn't lay down ground rules or doesn't care about certain things, that bothers me more than not having it.
	I actually have those boundaries in my relationship and I respect him more for it.
	I agree with her.
	What about you?
	I will know what a guy needs to be happy with.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I accept it.
	You accept it?
	You?
	Yep.
	I love it.
	Did you accept those boundaries maybe five years ago?
	No.
	Yeah.
	Me?
	I was...
	Oh.
	Yeah, because you're a young woman.
	I was like 16.
	Oh, okay.
	Let's say three years ago then.
	Last year.
	Last year.
	Yeah, our last year in this case.
	Trust me, last year.
	No, I wouldn't have, but I did change a lot and I set those boundaries for myself.
	So that's why I'm like, I want a guy that likes that.
	So do you think guys need to have boundaries nowadays with women?
	Yeah.
	Okay, fair enough.
	Would you say that if a girl doesn't have boundaries, she's going to be a hoe?
	Yeah.
	I've always said that I think men need to protect women from themselves because if you let a girl just do what she wants, she's going to do dumb ho shit and fuck the relationship up.
	And the reason for that, before everyone calls me a misogynist or a sexist, the reason I say that is because we live in a society nowadays that encourages women to be hoes and get out there and experience guys.
	And like she was saying earlier, no offense to your thing before.
	We encourage women to go out there, date a bunch of guys, be promiscuous, live their life and all this other shit.
	But what we don't tell them is that there's consequences to living your life.
	Yeah, I just think because if your man has standards or boundaries for himself and you respect him, you're going to want to follow him because you care about that man.
	But if you don't care about that man, you can do whatever you want.
	Because he's firm and he gives you the security to lead.
	Because you're following his program.
	If you like him, you will.
	If you don't, you won't.
	Fair enough.
	All right.
	And then we got here, Austin Michael goes, ladies, if you were with a man for three years and had a child with him, would you be offended if he asked for a DNA test to ensure the child is his?
	Or should he address this concern from the beginning of the relationship?
	All right, let's say you had a kid with a guy.
	Would you guys be offended if he asked for a DNA test?
	Raise your hands if it would be yes, you'd be offended.
	One, two, three, four, five, six.
	Okay, all of you would be offended.
	Only you three wouldn't be offended.
	Why wouldn't you guys not be offended?
	If I didn't do nothing, I ain't gotta worry about it.
	Yeah, exactly.
	Facts!
	I'd be offended, but I would take it.
	Go, queen.
	Okay, what about you?
	I will not be offended.
	You're just being insecure.
	Insecure queen.
	Stop laughing, my impression.
	We'll just move on.
	Alright, uh...
	Slang went...
	Oh, okay.
	Wait, are we going?
	15 up?
	Nigga can't read, bro.
	No, nigga.
	What'd you say?
	Nigga, 50.
	Yo, guys, it's Friday night.
	Questions.
	Some of the chats.
	Nigga, who?
	Niggas, I got you.
	Guys in the chat, man.
	Just fucking read the questions.
	What'd you just say?
	I don't know.
	What the fuck is this nigga talking about?
	Nigga, we said 50.
	You can't hear me.
	No, no, no.
	No, but this is what's before Fresh.
	This nigga retarded, bro.
	No, Fresh, before.
	Then niggas will complain.
	No, we...
	Slang wanger.
	I don't understand what's going on, bro.
	Am I insecure for telling my girl that if she goes to the club with her girlfriends alone, then her stuff will go out the door with her?
	No you're not bro.
	Billy Cho, especially if she lives with you.
	What the fuck?
	Yeah, fuck that bitch.
	Billy Cho, 20 bucks.
	Do the ladies want a man or do they need a man, any man?
	Unless you're a woman in the top 10% of earners, you won't make into retirement as a single earner.
	Top ramen and female roommates for single unmarried woman.
	What?
	What?
	What he's basically saying is that if you stay single for long, you're going to have to probably get female roommates because the price of living is going up.
	Ladies, if a man could have any superhero, do you think he'd choose invisibility, super strength, or the ability to read minds?
	Why?
	Definitely not read minds.
	Read minds.
	They don't want to know.
	Super strange.
	I want to hear what you guys think.
	What would you rather have?
	Super strange.
	I want to hear that from a male perspective.
	He's already strong, so I will say...
	I mean, if you're good enough for body language detection, you'll be able to read the minds.
	Because a lot of body language is really what you think.
	I would choose invisible.
	Yeah, that's probably the only one you can do.
	Invisibility.
	At night time, he already is.
	Let me explain.
	At night time, he is.
	Turn the lights off.
	When you're in the shadows, right?
	Let me explain real quick.
	When you're in the shadows, right?
	You can learn.
	You can achieve a level of listening that can't be heard when you're there.
	Which means when you're invisible, you can find out people's true intentions.
	Which is powerful because then you can act accordingly and plan a plan of attack.
	Yo, someone in the chat said the Columbia girl can't even read her own mind.
	Yo, I should blank it out.
	Alright.
	All right.
	304s bring up the minority argument when a generalization is made.
	The best analogy is left-handed people exist, but since they are insignificant statistically, companies make merch for the majority.
	Lefties by custom are taken out.
	Yeah, that's true.
	Yeah, I'm a left-handed guy and I can tell you that.
	No one gives a fuck about us.
	Now all of a sudden everyone is religious after they've been in the streets.
	Question for the ladies.
	What does your dream man have to have in order to be submissive and feminine, etc., etc.?
	Shout out to Myron and Fresh.
	Changed my life completely.
	Just take care of me when I need food because when I don't have food, I'm angry.
	What the fuck?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	We'll start here.
	What does it take for you to be submissive to a man?
	I feel like definitely just security.
	Is it lots of money being strong?
	What is it?
	I think just feeling secure in my position in their life.
	I think that's really...
	Okay.
	I guess, I mean, are we talking about, like, physical or are we talking about...
	It could be a combination.
	It could be confidence, it could be personality, it could be whatever.
	Honestly, confidence is a big take on it.
	I think so.
	So if he tells you to stay your ass at home, that's confident?
	I guess, yeah.
	It's amazing how women contradict themselves all the time.
	They'll say, oh no, you don't trust me!
	But then, on the other hand, it's like, yo, stay home.
	Okay, that's kind of hot.
	That's why when the camera's on...
	I don't want to be an asshole, but this is why you can't really listen to women on what they say they're attracted to, because what they say they're attracted to versus what they're actually aroused by, two different things.
	The thing is, when it's actually him being super controlling in a toxic way, that's kind of different.
	Wait, what?
	If that makes sense.
	It's only toxic when you don't like the person.
	There you go.
	I'm telling you, you know what?
	My man wants this.
	Okay, let me hear that.
	I want to hear that.
	No, I'm I said it earlier.
	If a guy comes up to you and says, hey, you're cute.
	If it's an ugly dude, it's creepy.
	If it's an attractive guy, he's charming.
	Women label guys based on who's providing the information, not the information itself.
	Again, going back to feeling.
	How does this guy make me feel?
	A handsome guy can literally be like, hey, yo, what's up?
	Nice ass.
	And you'll be like, Oh my god!
	If it's ugly, dude, you're like, oh my god!
	HR! That's why I say nice guys never get like...
	That's crazy.
	Damn.
	Nice guys never get recognition.
	Yeah.
	Move on.
	Chris 50.
	Yep.
	Alright.
	And then we got Billy Cho.
	Well, okay.
	Hold on.
	What would it take for you to be submissive?
	Go ahead.
	We'll go through here.
	I'm big on loyalty.
	Is your guy loyal?
	Is that why you're submissive?
	Or not?
	Yeah, he is very loyal.
	Very loyal.
	Very trusting.
	Stop the cap.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	What do you need to be submissive?
	He has to be loyal for sure and he has to like know more than me and just put me in my place and then I'm thrilled.
	So tell you that you're wrong?
	No just yeah but not like in a mean way like you're wrong and you're wrong and you suck.
	How else is he supposed to tell you?
	Just like you know nothing like and teach me.
	Oh that's better?
	Yeah like teach me I want a teacher.
	You know nothing and teach you?
	Yes.
	Instead of saying you're wrong?
	It's so contradicting we are.
	That's what I like.
	I'm not contradicting myself.
	You just contradicted yourself.
	How?
	Bro.
	Tell you guys.
	Do you not hurt yourself?
	Damn.
	It's making me feel so bad.
	I said from the get-go that I like a guy that tells me what to do.
	That tells me that I have to stay home.
	But if he can teach me some stuff.
	I don't know.
	I mean, even if he says it, I guess if he says it mean, I probably still like it.
	I'm just saying.
	I might cry a little, but I'll like him more after because, I don't know.
	I'm gonna be very honest about this.
	No offense to you, this isn't directed towards you, but only when we get the privilege of being stupid.
	Holy fuck, man.
	Like, if you're hot enough and you're a girl, you're cute enough, you'll make it through life even though you're retarded.
	Bro.
	Alright, what about you?
	That's true, man.
	That's crazy.
	Yo, it's true.
	That's crazy.
	It really is.
	A chick that's retarded could be on a boat with billionaires.
	Yeah.
	You're right.
	I gotta be really smart to be on a boat with billionaires.
	It's crazy.
	It's like you say one thing and then the next thing is the opposite.
	It's like, what are you saying?
	What?
	I'm not saying you're dumb, but I'm just saying in general.
	No, she is dumb, though.
	Chris, come on, man.
	Chris, bro.
	I mean, you kind of dumb, too, nigga.
	Yeah.
	A little bit.
	I mean, I'm pushing the button, so...
	All right.
	What about you?
	What do you need to be submissive to a band?
	I think just like masculinity.
	Like hyper-masculinity.
	Like make me a sandwich.
	Shut up, nigga.
	What about you?
	I would say safety and security.
	Alright, what about you?
	If he's intuitive, then of course I will be submissive.
	He has to be intuitive.
	Like, for example, if he tells me, hey, stay home because, you know, you should not be going out to this party because something's gonna happen.
	Of course.
	He's psychic too.
	Yeah, he has to be a little psychic.
	Right.
	Tell me more.
	Yeah, that's all.
	Yeah.
	I don't think she understands very well.
	No, she does.
	Type shit.
	Okay, let me know then.
	The fact that she's been on the show for three times already.
	Okay.
	Show you girls like niggas don't give a fuck.
	And she's hot!
	Yeah, what's the name?
	Simonis would pay her a thousand bucks.
	You guys don't give a fuck about my opinion.
	I do.
	I do.
	Do you really?
	Stop the cow.
	Stop the cow.
	All right.
	Fantastic.
	What about you?
	Leadership.
	All right.
	And what about you?
	Damn.
	Damn, I have them on the top of my head, but we, like, talk so much.
	Just general dominance.
	I'm going to be submissive if he has to be dominant, so.
	All right.
	All right.
	Fantastic.
	Fernie goes, now all of a sudden everyone is religious after...
	Wait, we read that one, Chris.
	Yep.
	Double reminder.
	Ladies, you consider yourself to be high-maintenance.
	Raise your hands if you consider yourself to be high-maintenance on the panel.
	No.
	In what way?
	Yeah, what is it?
	Taking a while to get ready.
	You need a lot of hair.
	Nails.
	Botox.
	Tanning.
	Wait, y'all are high maintenance?
	No.
	Y'all two are high maintenance?
	I mean, I take a while to get ready.
	I do.
	I do too.
	Really?
	I'm definitely high maintenance.
	What did you fucking say, Chris?
	No, no, no.
	And then y'all two as well?
	You guys are high maintenance?
	I am, yeah.
	I get my hair done like every month.
	Nails every two weeks, etc.
	What about you?
	Nails every two weeks, hair every seven weeks.
	Because, you know, when you get a man...
	Blonde!
	You gotta pay for that.
	Fair enough.
	No!
	No, he doesn't.
	Okay, so most of the girls on the panel, except for Brazil...
	You're not high maintenance?
	Stop lying.
	I do my own nails, and I do my own hair, and I don't even do my makeup, so...
	Yeah.
	She shitting on all y'all, by the way.
	She shitting all over the panel.
	All over it, man.
	Okay, ladies, that red cup in front of you is 4.25 inches.
	You're telling me you all can fit two to three?
	X that, SMH, send that at Meteor.
	Oh, shit, he's right.
	Uh, yeah.
	No.
	Yeah, y'all would have wanted...
	Oh, I was like, what is he talking about?
	So this is the six, or how many?
	It's 4.25 inches in height.
	Add three to that.
	That's crazy.
	I told y'all it was big.
	Okay.
	304s have no special perception.
	50th percentile is 5.7 inches.
	60th is 6 inches.
	93rd, it's 7.
	And at the 99.5%, it's 8.
	Girth correlates moderately.
	This dude actually studied penises.
	We have statistics.
	Black average is only 5.8.
	BBC is a myth.
	Cool to add the delusion calculator.
	If you have a little penis, just say that.
	Speak for yourself, bro.
	Speak for yourself.
	If you had a little one, just say that.
	Yeah, speak for yourself, bro.
	Haram!
	Haram research, my friend.
	Your best amount is fresh.
	Alcohol means they come to you.
	Stop trying to act like you don't know the channels.
	Nigga, I don't fucking know!
	How does he know?
	He does alcohols.
	He openly admits that he pays girls for sex.
	Do you guys ever pay a girl?
	No.
	I've never done it.
	I did one time in Colombia and I never did again.
	But you guys ever pay a girl to pay her bills?
	The fuck?
	Alright, we're moving on.
	Justin Reyes.
	Sex mark.
	No.
	He's trying.
	No.
	Justin Reyes, 50 bucks.
	Ladies, what do you notice first about a guy when he approaches you?
	Okay.
	That's actually a decent question.
	We can start right here.
	Hair, look, smile, face.
	What do you notice first when a guy comes up to you?
	I notice a smile for sure.
	That's the first thing they do is open their mouth, you know?
	What about you?
	His look, like how he looks at me.
	mm-hmm okay uh okay that's kind of like I mean obviously they're looking at you like his eyes yeah like his eyes like because there's like some people have a creepy stare yeah some people have a creepy stare like that okay or like a really like strong stare intense like he wants What about you?
	What about you?
	I guess like his eyes and he needs to look clean.
	Like some guys look dirty.
	I like that.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	I guess like his demeanor.
	His confidence.
	His swagger.
	Okay.
	Like how he carries himself.
	Okay.
	I would say his physique and his smell.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	The way he talks with me.
	That's a turn on.
	What if he says don't talk to me.
	Just be quiet.
	That's not a turn on.
	No, no, no.
	I think I get excited if he can't turn my mind on.
	We've been trying this whole show.
	Yeah, the whole time.
	What about you?
	Just nails.
	Okay.
	You notice it to see?
	That's actually a good tip right there.
	If his nails are dirty, he's more than likely a dirty ass person.
	Smoking pot and shit.
	What about you?
	How tall do they got to be for you, bare minimum?
	Black.
	I don't care, guys, too.
	I'm like 5'2", so I say like 5'10".
	5'10", minimum?
	Yeah, unless I look further into him, then I could, like, fall in love with a short king.
	But other than that, like, first impression, no.
	Alright.
	Are you a Knight Rider?
	A what?
	A Knight Rider.
	Oh, I understand.
	Yeah.
	Is that a yes or a no?
	What is that?
	Does she fuck black eyes?
	Oh, yeah.
	Well, not anymore.
	Like, I don't fuck anyone anymore.
	I don't have sex anymore.
	Bro, okay.
	What about the guy that you are waiting for you to text you?
	Is he a black guy?
	Yeah, he's half.
	Okay, so you like the BBC. Okay, now I gotta ask this just because she's making a lie up here.
	When's the last time you smashed?
	Don't care.
	Oh my god.
	Whatever, a couple weeks ago.
	You know what's funny, right?
	What's funny?
	Really?
	You're giving me like a blackout look.
	I don't understand.
	So you said a couple weeks ago.
	How long specifically?
	Four weeks ago, two weeks ago, one week ago?
	I have to like think.
	I just came back from New Jersey.
	Wait, New Jersey?
	I don't know.
	I don't know, like two weeks or something.
	Balcony gang?
	Yo, bro.
	So last time you snatched was in mid-April?
	Is she capping?
	Mid-April?
	What about you?
	What's the last time you smashed?
	It's all a blur.
	That's realistic.
	That's realistic.
	What about you, Miss Columbia slash Venezuela?
	What's the last time you smashed?
	I don't fuck since February.
	Damn, he's double capping.
	What about you?
	What's the last time you had sex?
	Two weeks ago.
	I'm in a long-distance relationship.
	Pause, pause, pause.
	Two weeks ago, right?
	Yes.
	So you're saying you have not smashed in two weeks with your man?
	Very grumpy.
	I just saw him two weeks ago.
	Long distance.
	Wait, wait, hold on.
	You said every weekend.
	Oh, well, obviously we try, but I didn't see him last weekend.
	That ain't good cheating, bro.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	When's the last time you smash?
	January.
	Stop the cap.
	No, I'm not lying.
	September.
	Stop the cap.
	Of last year?
	Yeah.
	Stop the cap.
	What about you?
	Last week.
	Okay, kind of believable.
	Tuesday.
	just this past Tuesday I want one 10's Tuesday I'm like wait you got me confused I don't know Tuesday can I wear one wear you want one you want a hat alright now I'll fuck up her hair - Cougar Slayer, 50 bucks.
	Yo, Mario, I watched that series.
	Zero, zero, zero, you mentioned one time.
	And damn, the accuracy is on point.
	You have any other series like that you recommend?
	Also, whatever happened to the podcast with Christian Guzman?
	The Christian Guzman podcast, I'll probably drop it this Monday for y'all.
	But wait, what does he mean by zero, zero, zero?
	A documentary.
	No?
	Kind of like Empire on Mars documentary?
	The series?
	I don't remember Zero Zero Zero.
	Wrong podcast, didn't they?
	Yeah, maybe, whatever.
	But yeah, I'll drop the podcast with Christian Guzman on Monday for you guys.
	And we got the one with Max tuning as well.
	He's so extra.
	Cool.
	The 9-11 was amazing.
	The 9-11 podcast was amazing.
	Thank you.
	Thank you.
	I appreciate that.
	We might not be alive next week after it.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	So we read all the chats.
	We're going to turn to the ladies.
	Ladies, any disagreements?
	Last question?
	Comments?
	Last thoughts on the show?
	Yeah.
	How was it short for you?
	I think the show was great.
	I really learned a lot about the male perspective and etc.
	I feel like I definitely was trying more to listen and learn than I was to really speak.
	You were very honest and I like the accountability.
	I appreciate it.
	Who bought you that Rolex?
	I was about to say.
	And is it real?
	It is real.
	You can diamond test me right now if you want to.
	Oh, sorry.
	You can diamond test me right now.
	That's a Datejust probably, right?
	Yeah.
	And it's actually, I do music and stuff, so I've been earning a lot of money and I gifted it to myself.
	She belongs to the street.
	Come on now.
	So a man didn't buy that for you?
	No.
	Actually, no.
	It's a female Rolex.
	You get one of those and ice it out for like 10, 15k.
	So it's not a big deal.
	Yeah, for a female Rolex.
	How was the show for you?
	Questions, comments, statements?
	It was fun.
	I liked it.
	It was fun.
	I mean, it's nice seeing everyone's point of view and how different everyone thinks.
	Did you learn anything?
	Nope.
	Sorry.
	My finger slipped.
	Yeah, sorry.
	Same, same, same.
	I don't know.
	I guess I did try to understand more your point of view, like man's point of view now in certain things.
	But, yeah.
	But who cares?
	Okay.
	What about you?
	You gonna pressure your husband to get married now even more?
	A lot of self-reflection.
	Like what?
	Pretty much every topic that we spoke about.
	Like I said, I listened to everyone's views on everything.
	Everyone had valid points.
	And like I said, a lot of self-reflection.
	What are you going to reflect on the most?
	Emotions.
	Controlling your emotions?
	Yes.
	Are you emotional?
	I'm very emotional.
	House off.
	That's why the nigga ain't getting married.
	You bitch ass nigga marry me!
	Take the plunge!
	I'm not even like a yeller.
	I just, I get emotional about little things.
	How?
	She's punching niggas.
	What about you?
	Get over here!
	Okay, you liked it?
	Yeah!
	What'd you like the most?
	Say hello!
	Listening.
	Listening?
	What do you listen to the most?
	I just listen to, like, I don't know.
	It's cool to hear, I guess, a lot of females, and then...
	What'd you learn?
	What did I learn?
	Yes.
	That you guys are rough and tough.
	That we're tough?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Fair enough.
	What about you?
	She hates us.
	Yeah, probably.
	I don't hate you.
	Hate is a strong word.
	No, I'm not.
	No, I'm not.
	It's not hate, it's dislike.
	Go ahead.
	Not even.
	I think it was just super chill.
	I think everyone was super respectful.
	Alright, so I'm curious.
	You're 30 years old right now.
	What are your next steps in terms of do you want to be married?
	Do you want to create a family?
	What the fuck do you want right now?
	Chris is asking the right questions.
	Yeah, it is what I want.
	And I'm like I'm not speaking a whole lot about what's going on right now.
	It's on the way.
	Yeah.
	Cool.
	Working towards it.
	All right.
	That's good.
	What about you?
	I would say that it just opens the conversation.
	I feel like a lot of people are starting to hear men's side now, which is good.
	And it's actually, you know, I actually applaud you guys for what you guys are doing because it has helped my relationship.
	And I know it's helped a lot of men and women.
	You know, clearly there was some issues with, you know, at least for me and my perspective, in the way that I was thinking and the way that I thought was right and was empowering.
	But really, it wasn't that way.
	And so I think that for me, it was, again, just having more of those conversations and just being able to experience.
	I feel like in social media, we only get certain clips and we miss a lot of the message.
	So actually being here with you guys, the message that you guys are portraying.
	Gotcha.
	So question for you.
	And guys, by the way, I'm looking right now.
	There's 12,000 plus y'all in here, but we only got 5,000 likes.
	We should be at 10,000 likes easily, guys.
	Okay, we gave y'all a bunch of content.
	We almost threw our podcast on this one.
	We did another three hour for you guys.
	Almost six hours of podcast.
	9-11.
	On 9-11.
	We're probably going to get killed by the Mossad.
	So guys, like the goddamn video.
	Question for you.
	You said that you kind of had an idea.
	You had your relationship, and then it kind of went sour.
	Then he watched the podcast, kind of changed course, ended up working.
	Would it be fair to say that before watching this podcast, there wasn't information out there like that as far as women being ladies and men being men?
	I would say 100%.
	I mean, I had a lot of podcasts that I could listen to that would empower me to be the boss, to be the leader.
	And I was listening to those podcasts.
	And so we even had conversations where he's telling me, hey, this is the podcast that I'm listening to.
	And I'm like, the podcast that I'm listening to tells me that I need to do what I want to make my money.
	And that started sparking conversations.
	Men don't have a lot of those conversations.
	Do you think listening to those, I'm assuming they're probably like feminist-type podcasts that are telling you to empower yourself, make money, become successful, become the man that you basically want.
	Absolutely.
	To traditional relationships, yes.
	If you're not necessarily looking for a traditional relationship, then by all means, subside to that belief.
	But for me, I was subscribing to the belief of being an empowered woman while wanting a traditional relationship.
	And the two do not go together.
	And that's a lesson that I have had to learn.
	And I'm still learning.
	As evident earlier with the whole happy life.
	I don't know.
	Still learning.
	All right.
	Well, I mean, it takes a lot of humility to be able to admit that.
	So I appreciate that greatly.
	And I've talked about that.
	I think that there's not enough.
	I think women kind of buy the feminism lie, hook, line and sinker.
	And then it's not until they get older that they finally realize like, damn, being a boss babe or being empowered.
	It's actually exhausting.
	It hurts.
	I remember when I was in my relationship, I said, I want to be independent.
	I want to do things on my own.
	And now I do things on my own and it fucking sucks.
	You know, it's the reality.
	Are you happier now in your relationship that's been amended?
	Or were you happier before when you were the boss doing things?
	Now for sure.
	I appreciate you telling us that and I'm glad that your relationship was safe.
	There's some things you need to learn, but it's fine.
	You're a lot better.
	We're rehabilitating a former feminist.
	A reformed feminist.
	Which is fantastic.
	Thank you for sharing that story with us.
	Mel, take us away.
	Well, so I feel like I will need help from a guy because, you know, it's hard, you know, like a woman being alone in this world.
	I feel like alone.
	So if a guy helps me to grow my legacy, that would be amazing.
	Wait, so I support my friends in this podcast because you guys are really amazing.
	I think that you guys speak truth.
	Who's your friend?
	Wait, France?
	France?
	Yeah, Sina.
	Sina is my friend.
	Oh, not us.
	Not us.
	But you guys are my friends.
	Yo, she gone.
	Zina!
	I love you, baby.
	You're the best.
	I feel like I appreciate you guys.
	You guys are really special.
	No, she's my girlfriend.
	Alright.
	Fantastic.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Why did you do that?
	Why did you do that?
	What?
	No, no.
	The question.
	There's no question.
	No, no, no.
	It's question, last comment.
	Question, comments, disagreements.
	We're turning it to y'all.
	Oh, okay.
	I like the podcast.
	I'm glad I came here open-minded and didn't cuss my boyfriend out because of the title of the book.
	Okay.
	It was like, women do need men.
	And we do need to understand that.
	And we are understanding it because of this podcast.
	And I feel like you guys are opening a lot of doors for the futures and the future generations.
	Are we as mean as the clips?
	No.
	Never mean, just truthful.
	People can't take the truth.
	You know what's funny?
	I thought of a good prank video.
	If someone bought that book, put it on a table counter, had the girlfriend or wife come in the room and open it, it's like, what is this?
	That's what happened to her.
	It's a conversation starter for sure.
	You literally said, what is this?
	That's what happened to her.
	I'm like, okay.
	That reaction you post online, that'd be hilarious.
	What about you?
	Sorry.
	I like it.
	I came on, like, literally, like, a year ago, and my mindset was a lot different then, so now I'll be, like, watching you guys, and I'll be, like, telling my brother, like, oh, yeah, I'm on...
	Yeah, yeah.
	I had purple hair, though.
	Purple hair, I should put it on three times.
	I don't remember.
	I've only been on one time.
	One time?
	This is my second time.
	Whatever.
	Point is, my mindset changed a lot, so I really agree, and I'll be telling people, like, oh, you know, like, I agree with this and this, and they're very, like, they just see everything as bad with this show, but there really is some truth.
	It's just the hard truth, and people don't really like the truth, especially women.
	What was the thing you took away the most from the show before, or now, I guess?
	I mean, I'm not going to say that the show is why my mindset changed.
	It was definitely the shrooms.
	Like, did you go down to South America and do ayahuasca or something?
	No, I want to at the end of this year.
	But no, I just was taking a bunch of shrooms and having like multiple trips.
	But it made me like tap into my inner self.
	And I was just saying the same things.
	Like, really, why were you doing all that other stuff and just be a good wholesome girl?
	Took down all my slutty pictures on my Instagram.
	Living a different life now.
	Would you say that like being like open sexually and being empowered to embrace your sexuality was a lie?
	I don't know.
	I never thought it was empowering.
	I was always just like a money getter.
	So I was like, I'm gonna just make this money.
	Like it comes easy.
	Was it OnlyFans?
	Yeah, I was an OnlyFans.
	Like a little bit of porn.
	Oh, okay.
	So you were doing like sex work and shit.
	Yeah, and I wasn't empowering at all.
	Like it was just for money.
	But now my mindset is like, yo, fuck that money.
	Like the guy will bring that money.
	Like I'm gonna just be a good girl.
	Okay.
	Are you okay with you having limited options, I guess, with guys because of your past?
	Have you accepted that yet?
	Yeah, if I could go back and change it, I definitely would, but I can't.
	Yeah, I'm aware.
	I'm facing the reality, but I'm not letting it make me...
	Sad?
	No, it makes me sad.
	I'm not making it make me...
	Whatever.
	It'll work out.
	Whatever it wants to be for me will be.
	I just learned about manifestation.
	Okay, fair enough.
	If you could go back in time and be a virgin, would you do it?
	Yeah, that's what I was saying.
	Well, I lost it before 18.
	But no, I was really saying, for real, anybody that was a girl starting to date or anything, or even my daughters, it's like, no, no, no, whatever people are telling you around you, save that shit.
	It's not worth it.
	What made you come to that realization like, fuck, I don't want to do this shit no more.
	I'm tired of the porn.
	I'm tired of the OnlyFans.
	I'm tired of whatever, maybe Sugar Daddies.
	I don't know.
	But what made you say, fuck this?
	What was that turning point?
	It's interesting because when I started doing all this, I had told my dad before I even started because he was going to find out the way my family works and everything.
	And he was like, probably, I mean, he never cried in front of me, but the poor guy, like, I know he was crying about this for, like, a year, and our relationship was really bad, but that didn't stop me.
	Like, even then, I was like, I don't see it's a big deal!
	I respect myself!
	What are you talking about?
	No, but did I really respect myself?
	Because now I feel like, even why I wouldn't, like, have as much casual sex as before, because I just feel like there's nothing liberating about sharing, like, the most vulnerable parts about myself with someone, like...
	I don't know.
	It kind of like grosses me out now.
	But my mindset really did a complete 180.
	And I can never imagine doing what I did.
	Well, what was the actual turning point?
	So you said your dad crying.
	It was the shrooms.
	I don't know.
	I just took them and damn, everything changed.
	Yeah.
	I mean, I don't advocate for drug use, but I guess if it helped you wake up, I guess in this situation, I guess that was a good outcome.
	They say like if you DMT and shrooms and everything, more people start believing in God after using them.
	And it's true.
	I didn't believe anything before.
	Alright, so what's your advice to girls that are thinking about potentially getting into sex work or sex industry?
	We don't support drugs, by the way.
	Yeah, we don't, but...
	Don't do it.
	Like, don't do it.
	I mean, money, like, I think it's just like selling your soul because you're just doing anything for money and, like, I had to reflect and think what I was doing and be like, okay, like, no.
	That doesn't align with the person that I am.
	You know, I'm a good person.
	But doing that does kind of, like, it's like demon time, you know?
	Did our show plant the seed for you, though?
	Huh?
	Did our show plant the seed when you came on last year?
	Like, man, maybe I shouldn't be doing this shit.
	I already, like, it wasn't like I was 100% on the opposing side.
	Like, I'm very rational, so I could weigh out both.
	But I would say, yeah, I don't know, the whole culture changed.
	Like, Fresh and Fit, Andrew Tate, like, now everyone's just talking about that, so it's kind of everywhere.
	But yeah, I would say you guys could get a little bit of credit.
	Like it opened the conversation.
	Yeah.
	I see her and she looks a whole lot healthier, you know what I'm saying?
	Number four?
	Okay.
	Yes, because her eyes are nice and on point.
	Well, I wasn't strung out before.
	I never even did drugs.
	I got a smoke toy.
	I mean, when I first met you...
	But my hair was purple, so I'll give you that.
	Your friends, who you was with, Oh, she brought some girls.
	I'll go back and look at the whole podcast.
	I don't remember.
	All right, cool.
	Well, I'm glad that you made a change for the better.
	Alright, cool.
	So guys, all ladies' Instagrams are below.
	Go ahead and send them a dick pic.
	I'm sure they'd all love it.
	Please don't.
	Question for ladies.
	Why do you objectify themselves and their bodies for attention yet get mad when people actually objectify you and see that you have nothing else to offer than when that's all you promote?
	I don't think the girls here on this panel objectify themselves like that.
	I mean, she did, but now she...
	I did, and I'll be telling my girlfriends now, like, stop posting those whole pictures.
	Like, then you wonder why guys just want to smash, but...
	You're just showing him, like, basically what it's gonna look like when you're smashing.
	So, come on.
	All right.
	Water weeks, or water works.
	Watery weeks.
	Okay.
	There's no salvation outside the Catholic Church.
	The Bible proves the doctrines of the Catholic Church.
	Okay.
	Winky wanky woo.
	Black chick has cottage cheese.
	Gosh.
	What?
	Okay.
	Those $1 comments are gonna be terrible.
	Go ahead.
	This panel is as useless as a solar panel in the Amazon rainforest.
	Go ahead.
	Alright.
	He paid $10 to say that.
	High drop goes, calling out Ricky out of law.
	Nick, stop taking advantage of the sad women in your locals, you loser.
	What?
	What the fuck?
	That's some, like, beef shit.
	Alright, these guys never used a tape measure in their life.
	Need hand measurements.
	That's not right there, but next.
	Gotta hate.
	WMO, 100 pounds down, so please give Mo this $100.
	Congratulations.
	It's a lifestyle change, not a diet.
	Aww, there we go.
	Shout out to you, my friend.
	He gets paid.
	Yeah.
	Alright, yo.
	We'll catch you guys on the next episode on Monday.
	I'll probably drop the Christian Guzman show for Money Monday.
	And yeah, all the girls' Instagrams are below.
	Send them a dick pic.
	I'm sure they'd love it.
	We'll catch you guys on the part two of 9-11.
	Peace!

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