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What's up, guys?
Well, it's a fresh shit podcast.
After our edition, we've got a packed house again!
And a couch, too.
Yeah, man.
Let's get into it.
it let's go look at this how many cares bro Get out.
Get out.
It's a night.
Kind of hot.
In the night.
No control.
Put your shoes on outside.
You don't got to put them on in here.
You're back.
And we are back.
What's up, guys?
Welcome to the Fresh Fit Podcast, man.
After our edition.
Quick announcement before we get into the show.
Number one, rumble.com slash freshfit, guys.
Because, as you know, the kind of content that we make is not safe for YouTube slash the internet.
So check us out over there.
So if we ever do get canceled, y'all will know exactly where to find us.
Also, we just dropped the interview.
What?
You just got a haircut?
Damn you bro!
You look more fresh than me!
Hey man, I don't know.
You get way more haircuts than I do.
Second thing, guys, you threw me off the train.
I'll just say Dan Bilzerian interview.
We just dropped the Dan Bilzerian interview, man.
We went out to Vegas.
We did an interview with the Playboy.
If y'all don't know, he got, what, 30-some million followers on Instagram?
Legend, bro.
The biggest male IG influencer.
So go check him out.
We did an interview.
We talked about how we made 50 million plus on poker.
We talked about girls, Instagram, using Instagram to get girls to set up.
Talked about his book.
Talked about his dad getting arrested by the feds.
We talked about everything, man.
How girls leave their boyfriends to go to his house.
We had some crazy cheating stories, bro.
Insane, bro.
I forgot about that shit.
Yeah, go check out that interview, guys.
Yes, there was a little bit of an audio issue because, as you guys know...
Fish tank.
You guys can look at the screen.
Don't worry.
We filmed it in his basement, and he has a fish tank there, and the fish tank had some noise, and his mic was close to him.
He was kind of far back, so it kind of created a little bit of...
But you can still hear him, guys.
Come on.
You can still hear him, bro.
You got it.
You know...
Noted, we will definitely make sure that, you know, we switch it up a little bit for the next podcast, but we'll be in Texas very soon.
We're going to actually, I'll give you a, you know what?
I'll tell you who you guys were going to work with.
At the end of the show.
At the end of the show, we'll tell you who we're going to go collab with in Houston.
If you stay into it.
There's some very big YouTubers, though, we'll announce it at the end, but you got to stay until then to hear it.
All right.
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As you guys know, Fresh does live streams before, double dates, all that stuff.
Y'all want to see behind-the-scenes stuff, go check us out on freshfade.locals.com.
That's the stuff that's not even safe for Rumble, okay?
Now, check us out also on Megaphone.
We got the daytime version and nighttime version there.
Go listen to us there.
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Get the merch.
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Hats as well.
And I did a podcast before I posted on my story.
Goddammit.
Now I have a mental break.
Whatever.
Who cares?
Go check us out, guys, on fresherpodcast.com.
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Okay?
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Fresher Fit Clips basically is the channel where we post six clips per day.
Best part of the show.
And then ten shorts.
Yep.
Yeah, 16 videos per day.
Go check us out over there.
And guys, for all the vlogs you want from...
Strike It Big Podcast.
My bad, guys.
There you go.
I did an appearance there.
I was wearing a hat in it.
We have those hats for sale.
Freshatpodcaststore.com.
Shout out to Strike It Big.
Mark Tilbury, multi-millionaire out of London.
Great interview that we did.
We talked about everything.
We talked about my book, Why You Gotta Have Sex With 50 Girls Before You Get Married.
A bunch of crazy shit.
Go check it out.
Very good interview.
Your vlog, sorry.
And guys, for all the vlogs, man, when we travel, we have fun here in Miami.
Go check it out on the vlog channel.
But more importantly, I created a network called CEO Network, as you can see here on the screen.
Join there to become a better man.
There are other people like-minded as well.
And make money as well on the side.
So talk to you guys in the network.
See you guys in there as well.
Peace.
And then...
What?
You said peace?
Yeah, peace.
It's over?
Yeah, it's over.
It's over.
We started.
It's quick.
Yeah, guys, check me out on my other YouTube channel, Fed1811.
And if you guys like...
True crime stuff.
I cover cases on there.
The last one I just did was a Trump pending indictment out of New York State for falsifying business records.
I go over the details of it.
Stormy Daniels, a porn star that's making the bullshit allegations.
All that crap is there, guys.
Go check it out.
And then on Thursday, I'm going to be dropping, actually tomorrow, I'm going to be dropping the suitcase murderer, Sarah Boone.
Yeah, she put her boyfriend in a suitcase and killed him by suffocation.
Really?
Yeah, in Orlando.
Crazy shit.
What the fuck?
Yeah, bro.
And the interview with the police was the most delusional thing ever.
I'm gonna break it down and give you guys a psychology breakdown.
It's gonna drop tomorrow, 7 p.m.
So if you guys like the true crime stuff, go ahead and check it out over there.
And then last but not least, go ahead and get my book.
Number one bestseller on Amazon, by the way.
Why Women Deserve Less, guys.
I got it in hardcover, and I got it also in soft.
And it just came out today on audio.
So for all you literate makers that don't like to read or can't read, go ahead and check it out on the audible version where I narrowed it myself.
So go ahead and get it.
It's in stores.
I need that version.
Just kidding.
No, Chris definitely did it.
Just kidding.
That's the reason why he taught art.
artistic girls DM me on IG make sure send me DMs and Shout out to the ladies for not flaking on today's panel.
I expected at least four girls to flake, but they all showed up.
Well, to be fair, it was raining.
So, I mean, they're not going nowhere anywhere.
Just saying.
You're probably right.
And niggas, stop sending me DMs to come on to the show.
Chris, can you want me on the podcast?
Come on, I got you, friend.
I'll send it back in the parking lot and I'll watch you.
I'm like, nigga, don't DM me.
Join Freshers Network.
Learn how to network.
And I don't want to...
That's it.
Simple.
Listen, man, there's the right way to do it and the wrong way to do it.
You guys are doing it the wrong way.
Just saying.
Okay.
All right.
That being said, ladies on the panel, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, day status, and if you want to, of course, your body count.
We'll start on the couch.
Welcome.
So your name, age, what you do for a living.
Hi, my name is Mary.
I'm 24.
I'm from Boston.
I'm a community engagement manager for an investment fund.
Did you really want my body count?
Yes.
You said you're a community investment manager?
A community engagement manager for an investment fund.
Okay, so do you help find investors?
I help manage the investors and we support black businesses in the Boston area.
What part of Boston are you from?
Are you from Roxbury?
I'm from Cambridge.
I'm not from Roxbury.
I'm sorry.
You're from Cambridge?
Yeah.
Oh, that's not Boston.
I went to school out there, so I already know.
You're across the Mass Ave Bridge, man.
Okay.
And then what's your current, what's your highest education level completed?
I have a bachelor's of science from Northwestern University.
Oh, man.
You went all the way to Illinois?
Yes, sir.
When you had Northeastern right there?
Northwestern is better than Northeastern point blank period top nine school in the country.
Serious.
Okay.
That makes you feel better.
Cool.
It really does.
I went to Northeastern, that's why it's a better school.
And then what's your relationship status?
I'm single.
I'm single in a non-monogamous situation.
I'm single.
I'm non-monogamous.
Okay, so she's seeing someone but he doesn't check off all the boxes so she's looking for something better if it comes along.
Fantastic.
Alright.
What about you?
How old were you again?
24.
Cool.
Alright, so I'm going to switch it.
So you're really from Cambridge then?
Yes, sir.
Big difference.
Shots fired.
Okay.
What about you?
Okay.
Hi, I'm Dizzy.
I'm 26.
Wait, your government name is Dizzy?
Vanessa is my government, but everyone calls me Dizzy.
Welcome back.
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
How old are you?
I'm 26.
Where are you from?
I am from Los Angeles, California.
Okay.
Do you live here now or are you just visiting?
I'm always visiting around March, my birthday, spring break.
I love it.
She belongs to the street.
What do you do for it?
I am a stripper.
I'm a dancer.
I come out here, I dance.
I told you.
And I'm a hostess at a sports bar.
Okay.
What's your highest education level completed?
Some college.
Okay, so high school?
Yes, high school.
And then what's your relationship status?
I am taken now.
She talked about her man.
She had problems.
She cheated.
It took her back.
Oh wow.
Accountability at his fullest.
Bruh.
Yes, I don't take accountability.
I straight up took accountability.
She was very honest on the podcast, I will say that.
So wait, how long y'all been together then?
We've been together for three years, going on four.
Okay, so three years total, but I guess y'all just amended things how long ago then?
Or amended things?
Amended things, I think, back in August.
Okay, so three years total, kind of on and off, but on the right path since August.
Yes, correct.
Since coming on the show?
Yeah, since after the show.
Okay.
He watched it.
He was watching the whole thing.
Okay.
Can you agree with our points?
Yes, he did.
Yes, he did.
We had a lot to talk about after that.
- Somebody said, "Dizzy D's nuts." - Yo, I'll tell you this, a girl comes on this pod, it either makes that relationship or breaks that relationship, bro. - It's one in between. - Yeah, it really does.
All right, I'm really happy to hear that.
All right, three years and you guys since August.
All right, cool.
What about you?
Hi, I'm the Kid Kimora from West Seattle.
Wait, what was your name again?
The Kid Kimora?
Yeah, Kimora.
Okay, Kimora.
How old are you?
I mean, you're not supposed to ask a girl her age, right?
No, I'm playing, I'm playing.
My birthday's in like almost 24 hours, so the 31st, I'll be 34.
Wait, 34?
Yeah.
And you said you're from Seattle?
Yeah.
Oh, shit.
Yeah.
Okay.
Damn.
Does it rain as much as they say?
300 days out of the year.
Do you live here now or are you just visiting?
No, I live in Hawaii, actually, which it rains there every day, but it's spring cold.
My family's originally from there, so I'll move back.
Okay, where are you?
What do you do for work?
So, I'm a new and upcoming rapper, but I crossed over from the adult film industry.
And right now, I also, I'm the owner of...
So you used to be a prod star?
Yes.
Okay.
What's your ex name?
Camilla Moore.
Oh, that's her stage name.
Yeah.
Oh, okay.
So, and then the Kid Camara is my rap name.
And then I also own Chameleons for Cominions, which is my new agency.
Okay.
So, musician, ex-pron star.
Okay.
Yep.
Alright.
And when we say prom, are we talking like...
Like, not just...
Not only fans.
You were doing other stuff.
Yes.
Alright, cool.
You were doing like the big brands.
- Big, big, big brands.
- All right.
- Big WC. - What's your highest education level completed?
I did some nursing.
Wait, nurse?
Yeah.
Not toxic nurse.
You have a bachelor's or your associate's?
No, that's what I said.
I did some nursing.
You completed high school, though.
Remember, ladies, it's highest completed.
And then what's your current relationship status?
Um, I'm kind of, so I just went through a nine-year relationship.
Oh, shit.
And then I wanted to be single, but I kind of like, um, I don't know.
I just, I feel like I'm just going with the flow right now.
Wait, he was cool with you doing a prank?
Yeah, he, I actually started after we were together.
Oh, wow.
Yeah.
Does he do prank too?
Uh, we did some, I tried to get him on OnlyFans and stuff, but it was just like, I don't know, like, um, I'm kind of like the stepdaughter, or, sorry, stepmom, stepmother of his daughter and everything.
She's about to be 18, so, like, I'm still, like, involved in the family with him and everything.
Okay, so you were, you were, okay, so he was a father already when you met him, and you came in after the fact.
Yeah.
These niggas, man.
Okay.
Alright, so you're single then?
Pretty much, yeah.
Fair enough.
Well, it's arguable that you were single the whole time.
I mean, we was in an open relationship, so I let him do his thing, but, you know, it just didn't end up like that.
He just didn't want to be a hypocrite, you know?
What about you?
Hi, my name is Mia.
I'm 29 years old, and I'm from Southwest Michigan.
What are we talking in?
What part of Michigan?
Kalamazoo.
How far is that from Dearborn?
Bless you.
It's an hour.
I want to say like a good hour.
And then how far from Detroit?
Two hours from Detroit.
So Kalamazoo is the city that's like exactly halfway between Chicago and Detroit.
Okay.
All right.
And then what do you do for work?
I currently work as a server.
Okay.
Here in Miami or back in Michigan?
Back in Michigan.
Okay.
Highest education level completed?
I have my associate's degree in culinary arts.
Okay.
Can you cook?
Yeah.
I love to cook.
What's your favorite dish?
Chicken marsala is my favorite to make at home.
Okay.
But I love Indian food and Thai food is my favorite.
Okay.
What's your relationship status?
Single.
All right.
You said that fast.
Alright, cool.
Who's up next?
I'm Brenda.
I am 20 from Broward County.
Welcome back.
Thank you.
I love you from Broward County.
What do you do for her?
I'm a lash tech.
I did her lashes.
Who's lashes?
My lashes.
Okay.
Okay.
What's your highest education level completed?
High school.
You didn't go to cosmetology school?
No, no, I did, but you said completed.
Am I done with that yet?
I'm like still in it.
Oh, so you're doing it illegally.
State of Florida, Washington.
Stop.
I should have recycled that.
I think her lashes illegally.
Oh, no.
Cosmetology police coming.
And then, what's your relationship status?
Single.
Alright.
Cool.
What about you?
Wait still?
Why say it like that?
She had that epiphany last time.
Like damn no wonder they be leaving me!
You gotta stop!
Argue with dudes!
Okay, what about you?
Hi, my name's Lola Bunny.
I also go by Lola Bunny.
Okay, you guys got some unique names.
I'll just go by Lola, okay.
I also go by DJ Lola.
How old are you?
24.
Okay, where are you from?
New Haven, Connecticut.
I'm sorry to hear that, man.
I know, right?
Neighbors.
I'm from New Britain, so...
Okay.
Okay.
Do you still live in Connecticut, or...?
Yeah.
Oh, man.
I'm really sorry to hear that.
I know.
Hopefully not for long.
Gun wave in New Haven, too.
Yeah.
Okay.
What do you do for work?
Dietitian.
Okay.
And then what's your highest education completed?
Bachelor's.
In?
Nutrition.
Okay.
From where?
UConn.
Stores or where'd you go?
You went to stores?
The fake Huskies.
Oh yeah, because you're from Northeastern.
Yeah, the real Huskies.
We had it first.
Seattle's a real Huskies, Washington State.
Man, I'm out of school, man.
Get out of here.
Nobody cares about y'all.
Okay, and then you said nutrition, stores, and then that's the middle of nowhere though, man, stores.
When did you graduate?
2019.
Oh, okay.
Okay, so spring break is trash now.
Okay, what's your status?
Single.
All right, cool.
What about you?
My name is Jeanette.
Okay.
How old are you?
30 years old.
Wait, 30?
30.
You said that reluctantly.
Where are you from?
I'm from Miami, Florida, here.
Born and raised.
305.
What do you do for?
I'm actually an organ transplant coordinator.
Oh, shit.
Wait.
She's the one!
She looks like your ID card!
Hey!
Organ donor!
That is a first.
I think that is the first time.
What's the process though?
How does that work?
Somebody dies and you see it on their license.
What's happening next?
Honestly, it all depends.
So if you do have it in your license, they still speak with your family to see if it's still cool regardless.
But they ask if it's cool?
Yes.
Of course.
I mean, you still have to go and speak with the family.
Are you really from Miami or are you from Hylia?
Hialeah.
But it's still within Miami.
Do you want me to go down this?
Nah, Hialeah is completely different.
Wait.
I was guessing.
I was guessing, for real.
Once he started talking, I was like, nah.
Hialeah.
Hialeah.
You show up.
Hold on, so you're probably the one that shows up and says, yo, you're giving the spleen up, bro.
No, actually, not really.
I just coordinate, like, between the doctors and, you know, with us to see.
Well, between the donors and the recipient.
Sure.
I- I- I- Coordinating!
I know!
Translation!
I heard ten Cuban niggas with chains!
Hey!
And they say it in Spanish!
Give me the spleen!
No!
How do you say it in Spanish?
How do Cuban say it in Spanish?
Give me the spleen.
What's a spleen?
I don't know what to say in Spanish.
Give me a kidney.
Give me a kidney now.
Say it.
Give me a kidney in Spanish.
No, I need it like a Cuban though.
I said it.
Your Spanish don't matter.
We've got to roll the mic in here.
Go.
Oye, chico, I said it.
Hola.
I'm going to go.
We've got that Colombian Spanish, man.
We need more ghetto shit, I said it's actually Cuban too.
So you coordinate with the family.
No, I coordinate between the doc...
I speak to the doctors and I coordinate with the recipient and the donor.
In other words, I have to match the recipient and the donor.
The nigga's dead!
But you still have to match.
You still have to match certain body parts, like the bones or the blood type, all of that, etc.
Like, you know, you still have to coordinate those things.
I still think she'd be hiring niggas soon.
Most people are going to let their family member give away kids' life.
God forbid the black market.
Yeah, bro.
Yeah, man.
I don't know.
The black market's dangerous.
Spanish markets!
Oh, it'd be the cross market.
Alright, cool.
Fair enough.
And then...
Say that title again.
Oregon?
Oregon Transplant Coordinator.
Okay.
And then dating status?
Translation, Oregon.
Okay.
Highest education level completed?
Masters for journalism and communication.
Okay.
You had nothing to do with that degree.
Yeah.
And where'd you get your masters from?
I went to FIU. Red flag.
Yeah.
And then relationship status?
I'm single What about you?
My name is Gigi I am 23 years old.
I was born and raised in Hialeo.
I do personal training and OnlyFans.
And just side modeling as well with other brands.
And they're sisters, by the way.
Oh, they are?
What's your background?
I'm Cuban.
Bro, you couldn't tell from her chain and the way they speak.
Okay, and then what's your highest education level completed?
High school.
Okay, we got one sister is the overachiever, one sister is the overachiever.
Fantastic.
She's like, master degree, fuck that, I'm master only fan.
Period.
What's your relationship status?
Single.
Of course.
Duh.
All right, what about you?
She said, duh.
That's obvious.
Okay.
We can't settle for less.
Okay.
Period.
Book in stores is why women deserve less because they think they want to settle for less, guys.
Get the book right now.
All right, what about you?
Hi, my name is Denae.
Hey, y'all.
Denae.
Hi.
Denae.
How old is it?
I'm 22.
Okay.
Where are you from?
Broward County.
Oh, shit.
Red flag.
Both of y'all.
Wait, why is it a red flag?
I don't know.
You don't want to know.
I don't want to know.
I don't get it.
I think it's awesome.
What's your profession?
I'm a curriculum developer and I'm also a model.
Okay.
Curriculum developer for what?
Math.
Yeah.
Mathematics.
Elementary?
Kindergarten through 12.
All the way.
Oh, wow.
Okay.
And you know I got an axe.
Yeah.
Have you been in Vogue?
No.
I should, right?
Sorry, you're not a model then.
I've been actually waiting my entire life to ask this question.
Oh.
Why the hell are you guys still teaching Algebra 2 and Algebra 3 and Geometry and a bunch of other useless-ass math?
Listen, listen, listen.
I am not the first who made that rule.
You just told me you're their curriculum coordinator!
I'm trying to help the people who don't understand, you know?
I want to know what the hell new math is.
Bro, she's the one that's assigning Geometry, Algebra 1, Algebra 2, Calculus.
She's the one.
Hey, boss.
Hey, boss.
This makes no sense right now.
Take this out, please.
Why do y'all have this useless matter?
I really want to...
No, but honestly, no, it is useless for real.
But honestly, it's about...
But honestly, it's like, it's just the strategy part of it.
You got to know, you know, how to know how to analyze different stuff.
I don't know.
You know?
I don't know.
What do you mean?
How does that rationalize keeping crazy math in?
No, I'm saying the process of figuring out a problem is like analyzing.
Like, solutions.
Problems and solutions.
Yeah.
Okay, no, no, no.
That's not what I'm talking about.
I'm talking about overall.
Math is used so that you can analyze.
Of course.
It's logic.
Yeah.
Of course.
But once you get past...
Division.
Multiplication.
A couple of fractions maybe.
Figure out what a denominator, a numerator is, all that bullshit.
Then you should be good, right?
Let's get rid of it.
Talk to Broward County in Miami-Dade.
She's the curriculum coordinator trying to say I don't coordinate.
What's your relationship status?
I am taken...
Is he a math teacher?
No.
What do y'all mean?
That's a good question.
It was through a mutual friend.
Was he a math teacher?
No.
And how long y'all been together?
Probably like...
He was at math.
It's been a minute.
You don't even know?
No, it's that long.
Man, I've seen it all.
You need algebra 3.
This is the strangest panel ever.
We got a prawn star on the panel.
We got a server that's not a cook when they went to school for culinary school.
We got someone stealing organs.
We got someone else that's doing math.
What's going on here, bro?
I don't know, man.
At this point, you've seen it all.
I don't know what else is on the panel.
Well, I know what else is coming on the panel.
A pineapple.
Can you tell us how long you've been in a relationship?
About three years, probably.
That's scary.
Well, she's not good at mental math.
When is her birthday?
September.
What?
Why?
You want to know?
Hi, I'm Jasmine.
I live in Honolulu, Hawaii.
Konnichiwa.
I know I recognize her somewhere.
Oh, I'm 21.
Welcome back, by the way.
Oh, you've been on before?
So what?
You've been on before?
Oh, where?
I know, he said welcome back.
Yeah, I've been here, yeah.
Konnichiwa.
He doesn't remember anybody.
I'm dead.
Maybe I'll remember.
Okay, 21, where are you from?
Honolulu, Hawaii.
Okay.
And I'm a bottle girl at 939.
I knew it.
What's that?
939 is a strip club.
Where's that?
In Hawaii.
Honolulu, Hawaii.
Okay.
What's it called?
931?
939.
Club 939.
Okay.
All right.
And then what's your highest education level completed?
Yeah, I completed high school and I got my nail license.
Nice.
Damn, you were Asian, you didn't go to college?
I know they were very disappointed!
I teach you a long time!
I teach you!
I'm not that typical Asian, especially my family too.
Where are they from?
Hawaii.
Oh, they're like, okay, they're like, indigenous, like, Hawaiians, like, for real, for real.
Well, they're not born in Hawaii.
My mom, she grew up in Hawaii since she was 12.
Where's her, like, roots?
Vietnam.
Oh, damn.
Yeah, you a failure to them Vietnamese people.
Okay.
No, I'm just kidding.
And then what's your relationship status?
I'm single.
Why?
Because no one checked the boxes.
Understood.
Oh, okay.
Did you have a boyfriend last time you came on?
No, I was talking to somebody.
I was in a situationship.
I remember.
We dropped her off at the hotel.
I was about to say, you don't have a charger, yeah.
Yeah, we dropped her.
Because your phone was dead, right?
Yeah.
Man.
Okay, tell people.
I'm a nice guy.
I stood, helped you charge your phone and shit, and then we dropped you off home, right?
Like, yeah, y'all make sure everybody got home safe.
I told you my phone was dead.
Here, charge your phone.
See, man?
I think I was gone.
Yeah, I know.
Man.
Always leaves me back with the girls back.
I gotta make sure everybody gets holding shit.
They're not gonna clip that part though.
Oh, Myron's an angry massagerist.
He hates women.
Okay.
I got cocked black that night too because of you, man.
Fuck.
Damn.
Now I remember why.
Okay.
No, no.
Not you.
I mean, I had something else.
In general.
Yeah.
Okay.
Allegedly.
Yeah.
Thank you.
What about you?
Allegedly.
Hello guys.
I miss you!
Hello chat!
Please be nice to me today.
Anyways, I'm Nina.
I am originally from Dominican Republic, but I live in Miami now.
I'm 27.
She belongs to the streets!
Give her a chance, Chris!
I mean...
He said I mean...
I have an associate in exercise science.
I do OnlyFans.
Nina the Pineapple on OnlyFans.
Go subscribe.
Um, and...
Yeah.
Relationship status?
She belongs to the street!
I'm seeing someone.
Okay!
Nice!
Okay!
Where'd you meet him?
He used to live in my neighborhood, and I've been seeing him for the last couple of years.
How do you guys actually meet and talk?
At a synagogue.
I'm just curious.
What transpired when you spoke to him, basically?
We have the same exact dog of Black Pitbull.
I'm telling you, man.
Dogs are way in.
I'm telling you.
No, we literally have the same exact dog.
So, like, that's basically how we started conversation.
Awesome.
I'm glad for you, Nina.
Finally.
How long y'all been seeing each other?
Like, almost three months.
Okay.
Hold on.
Very new.
Did he smell shit?
We gotta know.
Uh...
Yeah!
No!
Shout out to the boys.
Shout out to the boys.
Okay, if you know what I'm saying, the boys.
Okay.
Fantastic.
Good job, Nina.
Yeah, we'll move on.
Hi, I'm Eleni.
I'm 21.
I'm from Cambridge, Massachusetts.
Okay.
My highest level education...
Wait, did you come with the other person?
That's my sister, yeah.
She was going to say Boston until...
I was not.
I was going to say North Cambridge.
How old are you?
I said 21.
My highest level of education is middle school.
Middle school?
I dropped out.
What transpired that caused you to jump into medical school?
When I'm 13, I'm coming out home, fuck you.
I'm a boston.
I'm a girl.
Fuck you, mom.
I'm 13.
I'm 13.
This panel has created more tokes.
Like, we haven't even gotten to the first question.
We just lost the panel the whole time, bro!
Oh, Lord.
Okay.
I've been holding back.
I've been saying all my jokes.
All right.
Okay.
So you decided to drop out of middle school.
All right.
Fantastic.
For a living.
Fuck off school.
She saw that curriculum.
I was like, no.
No, I'm good.
No, I'm good.
All right.
I did bad in school.
I did well, but okay.
I did AP English and I just happened to drop out.
I was sick in the hospital most of high school.
You were sick?
Yeah, sure.
They never sent me my schoolwork and they were like, they're going to extend another year of school and I didn't want to do that.
I was trying to get them to fail me but they wouldn't fail me because I wasn't in school enough.
I wanted to do summer school but they wouldn't let me.
They tried you.
They tried me.
Yeah.
But for work, I do OnlyFans and I do Chatterbait as like a cam model.
Fuck middle school!
What's Chatterbait?
It's a cam modeling site.
Bro, I've seen your IG. And I invest a little bit.
What?
What?
Her face is not unearthed photos at all.
It just sits everywhere?
It is what it is, I guess.
What's your relationship status?
I'm single.
I've never been with anyone.
I've never fucked anyone too.
You're a virgin?
Yes, I am.
I've never fucked anyone in my entire life.
She's a virgin for real?
Yeah, 100%.
Phil Myers is about to get all his hats.
Oh my god.
It's for personal reasons.
It's just because I feel like sex is supposed to be between a person that you love.
So that's just how I feel.
What about sex with girls?
No.
So.
She's a virgin, I don't know.
I'm watching this porno to see if the plumber fixes a leak.
She's done one of them scenes.
She knows they never fix a leak.
They fixed her leak.
I don't fuck.
I really feel like it's supposed to be love.
Do you masturbate?
I masturbate!
That's how she make her money.
On camera?
Yeah.
But I don't fuck.
I don't even like dildos.
I hate dildos.
You haven't sucked dick?
I've sucked dick three times in my life.
I'm 21.
So wait, you suck the penis and nothing else happened?
Yeah.
I've been finger fucked I swear I swear on everything that I love I swear on God.
I swear on everything.
I believe you.
Tomorrow.
That's what I'm putting on.
I swear.
Like, anyone, even my cats, I know, like, I don't fuck.
Like, I don't fuck.
So why do they watch you then?
Yeah, what's your content?
Like, it's beautiful.
Look at her titties.
Look at her body.
I tease.
I talk.
I freestyle.
I try to entertain.
So you're a tease then.
Yeah.
That's not fun.
And for some people, it may not be for you.
It's for other people.
Wait, do you, like, get naked and take your clothes off?
Yeah, but I have, like, goals and, like, you know...
Did you get laid, maybe?
No!
I don't!
I don't!
She's saving herself for marriage.
Wait, what?
You're saving herself for marriage?
No, I... No, no.
I cannot wait till marriage.
I'm honest!
Who's your favorite artist?
What?
I like Drake a lot.
So what if Drake pulled up and saved me to your spot?
You want to smash?
Don't cap.
But I love Drake.
So you want to smash?
I love Drake!
What about Futuro?
Nah.
I'm being honest!
I'm being honest!
Like, I wonder what to tell you.
Like, if you tell me, like, why?
I swear.
So all the niggas that look like Drake, pull up to her spot.
She goes smash.
No!
I just, I love Drake.
Like, there are a list of guys, like, I would fuck.
But that's just because I really love them.
Like who?
Like who?
But they don't love you back.
Facts.
It doesn't mean they can't wear me.
Listen man, they made rules for the bearders, not for the outfits.
I haven't lied to you once, I've been honest.
I'm self-conscious about my hair.
People call me bald.
Okay.
What about you?
Hi, I'm Amy.
I'm 21.
I'm from Puerto Rico.
And I'm a nail tech for a living.
Do you have your license?
Yes, I do have my license.
I completed Cosmos Holiday School.
I'm like someone else.
Don't go here like that, okay?
She still slays, okay?
She still slays every time.
Illegally.
Are you being slayed illegally?
Nah, nah, nah.
She good, she good.
No one has the proof.
What's your relationship status?
I'm taken right now.
I've been in a relationship for the past three years going on to four.
Nice.
Wow.
Beautiful.
So y'all are like high school sweethearts?
Yes.
Okay.
All right.
I think we can start a hurt from these hats.
All right.
Super chats.
Yeah, we'll hit the chats real quick.
Education system.
Most of these three or fours don't know what three or four is because they never touch the calculator.
Students, would you rather be a single unmarried millionaire or married to an average man with children?
Okay, this is actually a good question.
We can go around the panel on this one.
So ladies, I'll simplify it for you.
Would you rather be single and unmarried, but you're a millionaire, but you will never have children and or family or a man or married to an average guy, but with children?
An average guy, just so you guys know what an average man is in the United States, 5'8", about 5'7 to 5'8", about 37k to 50k per year.
Made with the average man for me.
Okay, we'll start here and then work our way all the way back, alright?
One by one.
What would you prefer?
So I would prefer an average man.
And be married with kids?
Yeah, because I've always wanted kids.
Okay.
And I don't know.
I just feel like...
But we're Puerto Rican.
That should be easy.
Don't do me, okay?
Listen, it's cool.
I got like four siblings on my mom's.
I got like 16 on my dad's.
That's right.
That should be easy for you.
I mean, yeah, but my dad chose, you know, he'd be freestyling.
So you choose average?
Yeah, I choose average.
5, 7, 5, 8, 37 to 50K per year.
That means you're going to have to work too.
Oh, I like working.
That's why I got my license.
Fantastic.
So I can work.
All right, cool.
What about you?
What are you doing?
Average man.
You'll take the average man?
Yeah, I want kids.
I really want kids.
Not now, but like in the future.
Are you okay with the fact that you're going to have to probably work then?
Yeah, I'm cool with that.
5 with 7, average looks.
Not good looking, not a Chad.
That's fine.
Wait, he can't be cute?
He's average.
Well, you know what?
Most of the people I swipe right on, people think they average.
I mean, I guess you're an anomaly, but yeah, I would say, and I think all the women here would probably agree with me, most women don't find most men attractive.
I find most guys attractive, so...
Are you ever smashed?
Yes, I swear.
I keep telling you it's about love.
Like, I have to love the person.
That's easy to say when you ain't smashed nobody.
Okay, fantastic.
Average.
What about you, Nina?
That's a very tough one, but I think the average...
Especially since you were with one of them boys.
I think the average guy because he can always move up the corporate ladder, right?
No, he's stuck there for life.
I think the average guy.
Okay.
You gonna pay all the bills?
You have to stay on OnlyFans to tell you that.
Forever.
But the other one just sounds like very empty.
Yeah.
It sounds sad and lonely.
Fair enough.
Okay.
So you go average as well.
What about you?
What about you?
I was going to say average, but you said they got to stay stuck in that position.
Because I was going to say, oh, we can get rich together and our kids can take the money and all that shit in the future.
Well, you're going to get them a job at 908?
Yeah.
We can get rich together or I can get rich.
What I'm saying is, if we get rich, at least I can get passed down to the kids.
939.
But, yeah, 939.
My bad.
If I'm a millionaire and I can't have kids or anything, then...
My answer is I'd rather be a millionaire because I can be an auntie.
Okay.
Okay, so you want the money.
Yeah.
All right.
Okay, so you'll be the millionaire by yourself.
I'll be the cool, rich auntie.
Auntie!
Why did it not work with the guy that you were talking to from before?
Hey, shit.
Okay, he was broke?
No.
He lied to you.
Did he have money?
He had money, but it's like, I'm more than just buying me shit and money.
He lied to you?
Because I can pay shit for my own.
I go out to eat by myself.
I went to a buffet by myself.
Did he cheat on you?
We weren't together.
Did he lie to you?
Did he what?
Lied to you.
Yeah, but I wasn't with him, so I wasn't tripping.
I got no reason to be mad at him.
We're not together.
So then, why leave?
Because he's not mine.
Like, he was never mine in the first place, so I'm gonna do me still.
Mm-hmm.
Okay.
I mean...
Like, technically, we're both still single.
We can still talk to whoever, but that just means you're off my list now.
You got a list?
Okay.
What about you?
Average.
Actually, wait, wait, wait, wait.
Hold up.
Wait.
Is the person that's average...
Wait.
Are they smart?
Or are they stupid?
Okay, what about you?
We already know her answer.
Well, I'd rather be with the average guy with kids.
I believe in family a lot, so I would like to have a family.
What happened to, I deserve more and shit?
What happened to all that boss, babe?
Excuse me?
No, she's not like that.
Okay.
I believe in family.
That's all.
Family over money.
Alright, what about you?
Average.
So the average guy.
How'd you not find one now?
Where in Miami, dude?
Like, come on.
Like, are you really...
You see the bunch of locals, like...
Well, technically, you're in Hialeah, so...
Yeah, but honestly, I think I have more chances in Hialeah than, like, in Miami, like, where we at.
No, you don't.
Them niggas are the worst.
They are.
They could be very toxic.
Alright, what about you?
Is the average guy funny?
Is the average man in general funny?
I would say no.
Probably no, no.
But I get the family.
Yes.
So, hey, average guy.
Alright.
It's actually very revealing.
What about you?
Single, a millionaire.
I'm not surprised.
Independent.
Yeah, because money don't hurt you, money don't cheat on you, money don't leave you.
Who hurts you, girl?
You don't want to know.
What about you?
I would choose the average guy with children.
I'm the only one who thought a single movie?
She did too.
The prawn star, what do you prefer?
Average man?
Remember, 5'7", not attractive.
Regular guy.
You said average, you didn't say not attractive.
Ladies, are you not aware that most men are not attractive?
I mean, if you're like me, I'm more attracted to their personality.
I knew it.
Yeah, but if they're ugly, are you even going to get them a chance to show their personality?
I mean, what one person thinks is ugly and not ugly for the other person, you feel me?
And then, yeah, I do want a family.
I have a stepdaughter, so I do actually want my own kids.
Okay.
She'll sit on the average guy.
All right, cool.
What about you?
Definitely the average guy with a family.
Okay.
Have to have a family.
The key is a family seems here is the linchpin.
Okay.
What about you, Mrs.
Cambridge?
Definitely self, the millionaire.
I feel like family is your friends, your people.
I don't need to have kids to do that.
I can create my own family, my own community.
She's saying fuck niggas.
All right.
And then we already got 11,000 of you guys watching right now.
Almost 12k on YouTube.
So from this point forward, Chris, call it 20.
20?
Okay.
Chris is already away from the job.
Fantastic.
Okay.
Like button.
Ain't no sneaking through the back door tonight, motherfuckers.
It's simple.
You can get thrown out like Uncle Phil did jazz or you can picture me as the hottest audience panel and tap that homie.
Yeah, guys, like that goddamn video.
Subscribe to the channel if you haven't, and then like the video.
Junior Choi, shout out to you, bro.
Solve the following equation.
Two plus...
No, three plus two and a half.
Oh, sorry, my bad.
Three plus two and a half.
My vision sucks.
You got it?
I think that's from his curriculum.
What's the answer?
Four.
Okay.
All right.
I thought it was seven.
I'm fucked up.
All right.
Big Red Bandit, five bucks.
Shout out to Myron for that fire interview in Dubai with Strike It Big.
By the way, did you get an award for doing the biggest case as a federal agent?
Yes, I did.
I got the Director's Award in 2019.
What's up with that picture?
What was that?
Some girl in the corner crying.
I know.
That is a weird picture, actually.
I talk about it more on the Feta channel.
Go watch the episode I did where I think I talked about a human smuggling case and I showed my word in there if you want me to go over the detail on it.
They say a man can't define what a real woman is, but women can define what a real man is, but women don't know what a real woman is.
Women just do what they see other women doing.
That was a tongue twister.
All right.
Demon Time Moe.
All right.
Ladies, don't know what to do with that tax money?
Why spoil your little Aiden when you can book an all-inclusive cruise aboard the USS Big Moe?
Patient pancake time, baby.
You will definitely be feeling the motion of the ocean.
He only spent 20 bucks to say that.
I don't want to move on.
Any takers for Big Mo?
I do not want to feel that motion.
This size really matters that much.
That's a real ocean right there.
Oh, Lord.
Oh, shit.
That account is not me.
Alright.
Blackest Panther goes.
Greetings from Wakanda.
Question.
Should a woman expect a man to be exclusive to her and stop selling himself to other women, i.e.
talking, if she refuses to delete her Instagram or stop advertising to other men?
This is a good question.
Alright, so I'll rephrase it to make it simpler for you ladies.
Should a girl expect her guy to not talk to women at all?
Okay?
If she decides to not delete her Instagram.
Does that make sense?
No.
I'll say it one more time.
Okay?
Girl wants her guy to not talk to other women.
However, she refuses to delete her Instagram.
Okay?
Should she expect that?
That her man not talk to other women, but she can go ahead and keep her Instagram up.
We'll go one at a time.
You guys all understand the question.
Does it all make sense?
So in a nutshell, her options are still open because of Instagram.
But he can't talk to other women.
What if that's her business, though?
That's how she makes her money.
Okay, let's be honest.
90 plus percent of women, I'd argue maybe even 95 percent of women, don't monetize their Instagram.
Okay, well, you're an exception.
But let's say a regular chick that doesn't make money off Instagram like most women.
Okay?
So we'll start with the couch and work our way.
Alright?
And the question's up on the board if you guys want to, if you're confused by it.
Alright?
So should a girl expect her man to be exclusive and not talk to other women if she refuses to delete her Instagram?
Go ahead.
We'll start with Ms.
Cambridge.
Oh, god damn.
Yeah, I don't really know.
I just feel like you should just let people do what they want to do.
Like, I wouldn't be put in that position.
That's too controlling.
That's not freeing.
So I really don't know.
So you would be okay with him talking to other chicks and maybe even courting them and shit?
I would be okay with him talking to other chicks.
I would also be okay with keeping my Instagram.
But if I'm in a relationship and he wants that not to happen, then I'm going to follow that because I'm not going to be in a relationship.
But that's going to be tension if I'm not following those certain expectations.
Well, no.
The whole thing is that you're in a relationship is the point.
Yeah.
If he's telling me to do that and I don't want to do that, I'm not going to be in the relationship.
I don't know if that makes sense.
Okay.
All right.
So that's a non-negotiable for you.
Yeah.
All right.
What about you?
You're in a relationship with...
Hey, you're in a situation right now.
Okay.
He wants you to take your...
Or you want him to take his...
Not talk to other chicks, but you got to take your Instagram down.
Yeah or no?
I feel like I would if he takes his Instagram down.
Hold on.
Are we both taking our Instagram down?
That median.
He's already committed to you, and it's monogamy.
Me too, so why does it matter if my Instagram...
Let me ask you this.
Are men and women equal?
No.
Whose Instagram is gonna get more attention?
Yours or his?
Facts.
His, because he's a model.
Okay.
Do you really think that his Instagram is gonna pull more attention than yours?
It does.
No, it does not.
It does.
Bruh.
I promise you, he gets more attention than I do.
I guarantee you, if we look at his Instagram analytics and your Instagram analytics, you're smoking him in every regard.
When it comes to engagement, likes, comments, and then if we looked at DMs, you'd really be smoking him.
We gotta pull it up.
Bitch, he got me beat.
He does not.
He got me beat.
I promise you he doesn't.
He got me beat.
Okay, look.
But I feel like, you know, I feel like I kind of would.
I would.
Okay.
You're saying that because the camera's on.
Yeah, she's never taking her shit down.
I feel like I kind of would.
Keep the question up, Chris.
Yep.
All right.
What was your take on this?
I know you said it was like a business.
Let's assume it's not a business.
Can I just disable it?
That'll work you off the market.
Yeah, I mean, to be honest, like, I feel like...
Merch.
Yeah, can she expect the man to be exclusive to her and not talk to other bitches if she refuses to delete her Instagram?
Can she expect that?
No, but I feel like there should be a medium because I would never make him take down his, so...
Remember, it's two different things.
He's saying, can a woman expect a man to not talk to other chicks if she doesn't take her Instagram down?
Yeah.
I believe so.
You think she can say that or can't?
No, I believe she can.
She can't say it?
Yeah.
Do you think a man talking to women is the same as a girl having her Instagram?
No.
Why not?
Because I feel like if I have an Instagram and if he keeps his Instagram, I delete my Instagram.
It has nothing to do with his Instagram.
It's him talking to girls.
It's your Instagram.
Uh-huh.
So that's what I'm saying.
I would just disable mine.
Okay.
I'm lost.
Ladies, the question is simple.
Can you expect a man to not talk to other chicks if you keep your Instagram open?
No, that's bullshit.
Why is that bullshit?
Because she's pretty much saying like, oh, I'm allowed to do this, but you're not allowed to.
You're not allowed to talk to other girls, but I'm allowed to talk to other guys.
So she's pretty much...
You think her having her Instagram open is talking to other guys?
I think so, yeah.
Okay.
Alright.
What about you?
Yeah, I feel the same way.
I feel like you can't expect him not to talk to other girls because, like, if you have, like, your body on social media and stuff like that, even his home, like, for example, if it's, like, OnlyFans, his homeboys can easily buy the OnlyFans and, like, see what she got.
Like, he's not gonna want to take you serious like that.
So I feel like if she got, like, you know, her body and, like, all that on social media, he's gonna, you know, do him.
He's not gonna take you serious.
Does that make sense?
Like, you can't expect...
Yeah, we understand you.
Yeah.
Alright.
Okay.
Probably one of the few times we have.
Alright, what about you?
I'll say it again.
Should a woman expect a man to be exclusive to her and not talk to other women if she decides to keep her Instagram open?
So if she still has her Instagram, she would still be getting attention.
Yeah.
I mean, you tell me?
Yeah.
So no, I don't think so.
So she can't expect that?
No.
I don't think it would work.
What about you?
I agree.
You shouldn't expect for him to be exclusive only to you and not talk to other women if you're just going to keep your Instagram open.
So if you want that respect, then reciprocate that energy, you know?
Damn.
But what if she...
Have the same energy.
What if she's had her Instagram for like 5-10 years?
Deactivate it?
Not necessarily.
Well, yeah, she could deactivate it, but just don't be active on Instagram because you're asking for attention at the end of the day.
Most of the women could agree here that you do get attention from men.
Even when we don't ask for it, but still, you're going to get that attention.
Yeah.
What if you guys just made an Instagram together?
I think that's toxic and misogynistic what you just said.
I think that's misogynistic.
How dare you?
Seriously.
Disgusting.
How dare you?
Alright, what about you?
What are your thoughts?
I've had this question I've been wanting to ask.
By talking to other girls, like blurting or just like friends?
We'll say both.
Micro-cheat and all that.
Well, I just wouldn't put myself in a relationship if...
If he meets me, he's gonna meet me having Instagram already because I make money off of it.
But if he gets with me, that's something he has to, like, accept.
Let's say he can support you and you don't gotta work no more.
Ever.
Ever.
You're disabling it?
Yeah.
Stop the cap!
She won my family, man.
Yeah, I guess so.
Alright, what about you?
Can a woman demand a man not talk to other women when she still has her Instagram open?
It depends on the content that she posts.
Okay.
Let's say she posts bikini picture every now and then, maybe a sexy picture here in the gym, and then one picture of church per year.
Then it should be no problem.
As long as she's not entertaining anybody, it shouldn't be a problem like that.
Can you admit, when you go outside with a fancy outfit, let's say, a little bit slutty, you get attention?
Yeah.
So, isn't one post enough to get attention?
Just one post?
Yeah.
So, your argument's kind of flawed, right?
Oh.
You just said, bikini picture.
Okay.
Sexy one.
Mm-hmm.
One at church.
Mm-hmm.
But sometimes women post for themselves, not for people.
What is it again when they post for themselves that you said before?
Take the picture and...
Attention?
Yeah, no, but what do they...
When they take the picture for themselves, what are they supposed to do again?
Not post it!
Oh yeah!
Oh yeah!
There we go!
Not post it!
Keep it in your phone!
Yeah, just keep it in your phone!
Yeah, because if it wasn't for other people, you wouldn't put it on the internet.
Oh!
Yeah, I'm not gonna lie.
Take that curriculum!
They didn't say I'm toxic.
No, no, all jokes aside, but yeah, if you're taking it for yourself, then why post it on Instagram for thousands of people to see?
It's not necessarily for everybody, it's just for myself.
Is your page private?
It used to be private, but I made it public.
Because I'm trying to model.
Oh, you're trying to model, okay.
So being a model, you have to be...
Okay, let's take the model out of it, and the man will take care of you.
Yeah.
No problem.
Interesting.
What about you?
Can a woman demand the man not talk to other chicks when she still has her Instagram open?
No, because first, that means you're insecure that you're going to be worried about if she's going to respond back to men.
Period.
So it's the other way around.
You think she can demand it?
What I'm saying is, you can't expect nothing from nobody.
Like, I can get attention walking outside the street and take my phone number, and that's not even social media.
So, what's the point me taking away my social media if I can have people's numbers and all that shit?
But that just means you're insecure, and if you knew that I'm being off the social media, then what's the point?
Hold on.
Are you aware of the term, like, mitigating risk?
What's mitigating mean?
Sorry.
Minimize risk.
Minimize or eliminate.
Eliminate what?
Eliminate the attention from the opposite gender that you would get.
So let's say you have 100,000 followers and then you got rid of that.
That's 100,000 random dudes that I don't got to deal with no more that are hitting up my girl.
So she has fewer men trying to court her.
I get that.
So look, if I post a picture on Instagram, only girls are commenting on my pictures.
Not really men, for real.
So that just means you're insecure.
But you see only girls comment my shit.
But who's looking and following?
I agree with you.
Not following, just like comments.
Like, it just shows.
You get comments from girls, but what do you get?
DMs from guys, though.
Right?
But it's up...
To the female to respond or not.
That's why you have trust.
If you're going to be in a relationship and you don't trust the bitch, then why the fuck are you with that bitch?
I agree, but why not minimize the effort?
And then the talking stage, you didn't discuss that in the talking stage, but why is it that only in the relationship you want to say all that when you should have been discussed that that's going to bother you when y'all are going to get to the relationship?
Okay, well, you know what?
You mentioned trust, right?
Let me ask you a question.
Are women emotional?
Yeah.
Are women erratic?
Based on their emotions.
It can be.
Okay.
Are women, are their actions dictated by how they feel at that moment in general?
Depends how you take it and how they handle it.
Okay.
Yes, but it depends vice versa.
Okay.
Do their emotions fluctuate all the time?
It can.
Do they fluctuate even more so when they're on their period?
You can.
Hold on, just please answer the questions.
Not me, not me, because I don't get gross.
In general, not you.
Yeah.
In general.
No.
Okay, let me go through this one more time.
When I ask you this question, I'm asking for women in general, not you.
Okay, I'm gonna go through this one more time.
We're gonna go through this one more time.
You need to listen and be quiet.
Jackie!
One more time!
Are women emotional?
Yes.
In general, do women act upon their emotions?
No, because I do know females that don't.
Like, they just stay nonchalant with me.
You asked me for my opinion.
That's my opinion.
We don't mean zombies.
The average girl.
You just want me to say yes, but I'm saying what I think.
Yes.
Okay.
Well, I'll tell you what you thought about that is incorrect.
Women are slaves to their emotions.
They do things based off of how they feel at that moment in time.
Now, with that said, do women's emotions change all the time?
Yes.
Okay.
Are they fairly erratic based on their emotions?
Mm-hmm.
And they could fluctuate based on even their hormones and their being on a period.
Right.
Okay.
Are women prone to follow what their friends do?
Most, yes.
Okay.
Okay.
In general, are women group thinkers and go with the flow and, you know, spontaneous and go off of what is going on at the time.
Okay.
So all these traits that you just mentioned combined together is a recipe for disaster that can lead to cheating.
So, I can trust a woman to be a woman.
The traits I just described.
So, I'm not telling you that a girl's gonna cheat just because she has a million DMs, but whatever.
But all it takes is one argument.
All it takes is one shitty gay...
I said gay.
One shitty whole friend, right?
One sip of alcohol.
One party.
One song with Jamie Foxx blaming on the alcohol.
Literally...
All it takes is her to be in a bad mood, be in her emotions, be around shitty friends that are sluts, be emotionally erratic, and then them to say, let's go to the club, girl.
That's all it takes.
But you have to know your person, though.
You have to know your person, so you can't...
Hold on, hold on.
I know my person is a female.
But not every female is the same, not like every man.
Oh, really?
Stop the show.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
Explain this to me.
All right, guys, come on over to YouTube.
Come on over to YouTube.
Come on over to YouTube, because we got to get off Twitch, because I said this too many times.
So you're saying not every female, right?
Yeah.
Please explain to me why every religious text since the beginning of time, whether it was the Quran, the Bible, the Torah, every single religious text refers to women as being kept by men to a degree to control them from bad habits.
Why did every society, whether it's the Asians, all the way to the Mayans, to the Mexicans, to the Arabs, to the Jews, every society did everything in their power, Hispanics culture, Hispanic culture, etc.
Everything, all these societies did everything in their power to control females from themselves.
That's just not accurate.
There are matriarchal societies all over Africa.
Name one matriarchal society that stood the test of time and is still around.
That stood the test of time against colonialism?
That's crazy.
None of them did.
None of them did because of colonialism.
That's my point.
Because men are terrible.
No, no, no.
Well, here's the thing.
Men are terrible, but men protect women from other terrible men.
Men protect women from other terrible men.
If that was true, then we wouldn't have women who are being great.
We wouldn't have women who are being oppressed.
We wouldn't have situations where women are harmed.
I don't see men protecting me.
What's the army for?
Really?
What's police for?
Let's be for real.
Tell us how you really feel.
The reason why you are able to be on this podcast and say the ridiculous and ludicrous things that you're saying right now is because there are men, a majority, that are willing to die to protect the freedom and rights that you currently enjoy now and you don't even know that they exist and they're in the military.
Those men in the military are supporting an occupation across the world.
The United States has 800 military bases across the world.
They're engaging in ongoing colonialism and imperialism right now.
Those are not my men.
Those are not the people who protect me.
The people who protect me are my family.
The U.S. military does not stand for me, does not protect me.
And when your family protects you.
My mom protects me.
My sister right there protects me.
My brothers got me.
Oh, your brothers.
Those are the real protectors.
My brothers, they're men.
They're men, of course.
I'm not saying, like...
And who are they protecting you from?
Other bad men, correct?
They're really not protecting me from other bad men.
Like...
The only bad man I can think of is the ones in the military and the police.
They're the ones that you're saying are protecting me and they're really not.
Who hurt you?
Who hurt me?
Who hurt you?
Who hurt me?
I'm sorry.
I'm just awake in a world where y'all don't want to be awake.
I'm sorry.
We woke up today.
Wait, wait, hold on.
I'm an activist so I feel hurt.
The only reason you're able to say the things that you're saying freely and criticize the military and the police is because the military and police exist to give you that right that you're exercising right now this minute.
I'm so sorry, but that's just not true.
Like, I've had the police follow me for speaking up against issues of injustice.
I've been arrested.
I've had to go to court several times.
Like, I hear you saying that, but they not doing that.
These niggas is arresting and hurting people who are speaking up against freedom of speech.
That's what's happening in Atlanta right now with Cop City.
Like, there are people who are literally fighting for their lives right now who are fighting for freedom of speech, and they're getting that shit stripped from them.
Like, so I don't know what you're saying, bro, but that's just not it.
That's just really not it.
Once again, Okay.
Okay, see that?
Hold on, hold on.
No violence is occurring, right?
Nothing's happening to you, right?
Okay, that's because you live in the United States.
You have a First Amendment right.
Whether you want to acknowledge it or not or say that there's some issues, it's still the best when it comes to freedom of speech in the world.
And again, the military, the police, the civil servants are here to allow you that right that you're enjoying and you're Literally exercising right now.
I'm sorry, but if that was true, I wouldn't have gotten pepper sprayed by the police.
I wouldn't have been beaten by the police.
I wouldn't have seen my friends get arrested.
I wouldn't have been arrested by the police.
If that was the case, if that was the reality, I would believe you.
I would be there with you 100%.
Listen, you probably were doing a protest and you weren't peacefully protesting, which is why you got maced.
I can hear the hurt in your voice.
No, they beat the fuck out of you even when you're not peacefully protesting, when you're just on the sidelines.
Do not.
I was the front line at Black Lives Matter Plaza for a long time, seven months.
Oh, that's the problem.
You're the Black Lives Matter one.
I'm not white.
That's the issue.
I am not white.
I'm white, black, Guatemala, Italian, half Asian, Pacific American.
Okay, but that's the problem.
You are the Black Lives Matter rally.
I am black.
Let's keep it a thousand.
Look, look, look.
Y'all might not want to hear this.
But I'm going to tell you guys the truth.
Black Lives Matter is a domestic terrorist organization.
That's right, but I'm part of the movement, not the organization.
Okay, but here's the thing.
The police don't know that.
So when you're marching with them saying, Black Lives Matter, all sexual shit, they're burning buildings, doing whatever, they only have a split second to figure out if you are an antagonist or not, and they don't know.
But people don't even understand the real definition of Antifa.
Okay, look, they're terrorists too.
Here's the thing.
The definition of a terrorist is someone, right, who tries to embark on violence or something for some type of political change or whatever.
And that's what BLM is.
I've been targeted online.
If you look up, it says...
If you protest with BLM, it says BLM Hooker terrorist.
You're going to have to deal with the consequences of that.
We live in the country.
It says BLM Hooker terrorist.
When we live in a country that engages in the certain kind of violence that the United States does, by any means necessary, are people going to fight back?
Nobody in Africa got free from the people who colonized them by singing Kumbaya, being happy, all that.
These niggas fought.
They fought.
They shot.
I'm from Ethiopia.
We killed the Italians outside.
I will.
If it's that bad, if it's And there's a war right now out there because of the United States government funding the war back home.
So that's another thing.
You tell me to go back.
I would go back if the United States government wasn't funding wars and engaging in terrorism in other countries.
That's forcing people to come here.
If our countries were okay back then, then we wouldn't come here.
It's not safer here.
It's just what you call it.
Go back.
Okay.
That's so simple for y'all to not understand the complexity.
No, no, no.
Here's the thing.
That's a nice try.
But I definitely understand.
Because you know what?
I'm your next door neighbor in Sudan.
So I definitely know.
It's okay.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I'm from your part of the world too.
So I'm 100% aware of what you're talking about.
But guess what?
The United States is still a better country.
If you don't like it, you are free to go back.
I guarantee you, though, if you're a first generation, they'll give you an Ethiopian passport.
Go back if you think it's that great.
But you won't.
Why?
Because you're able to say the things you want to say here, like you are doing right now, without any type of fear of violence.
If you said the things that you're saying back about Ethiopia, the Ethiopian government, you'd be on a pirate ship somewhere.
Kidnapped.
What you still not understanding is people in America cannot speak freely against the violence and oppression that they're facing.
I can't say- You're doing it right now.
I really can't because I know the FBI and the police is watching me right now.
I said, go ahead for all the niggas in the jail.
Let me tell you something, all right?
There's someone that was actually a former special agent with Homeland Security, all right?
People like you, people like you are at the bottom of the totem pole.
They're not worried about you.
Trust me, they're not.
They have real crimes to go after.
I'm telling you, I would not even open a case file on someone like you.
No offense.
Secret Service pulled me out from a Trump rally.
Like, I'm not even allowed.
You're in a Trump rally!
I was chilling.
You had a Trump rally, you'd probably yell at fuck America and shit.
Of course they don't stop.
I didn't get into the rally.
I didn't get into the rally.
Secret Service pulled me out of the line because they called me out by name.
Because you marched to a BLM probably.
Come on, man.
Of course.
They're like, yo, get this chick out of here.
Come on, man.
You gotta, yo, ladies, you gotta exercise a little bit of common sense.
If you're marching to a BLM, right, the police are gonna look at you a little bit crazy because BLM does what?
They burn buildings, they fuck places up, they hurt people, they shoot people, etc.
BLM, if I'm all...
For all I know, it pretty much stands for build large mansions because they'd be peddling money from people, too.
That's true.
That's the organization, though.
That's not the movement.
What's your matter with them?
It's the same banner.
It's not.
It's not.
No, it's not.
The movement for Black Lives is something different.
It started as that, but it's not that no more.
We're talking about...
Well, I specifically am talking about NBC, actual Black Lives Matter closet.
What are you talking?
You're right.
I'm not white.
I am mixed.
White, black, Guatemala, Italian, half-Asian, Pacific American.
Let's get back to the topic at hand, okay?
Because we were talking about Instagram and y'all made this a political discussion.
Which is great.
I love being able to talk about this stuff.
But ladies, without a shadow of a doubt, in another foreign country, you will not be able to say the things that you're saying without fear of some type of violence, okay?
You guys might not like the system, you might not like the United States, but it is still the best country in the world when it comes to the ability to say your opinion, say your thoughts, okay, with With peaceful protests compared to other countries.
Is it perfect?
Absolutely not.
But it is the best compared to the rest of the Western world by far.
Yep.
At least right now.
At least right now.
I need you right now.
So going back, because the whole thing is going back to the conversation about Instagram, whatever.
The reason why it's not the same is because I can trust a woman to be a woman.
You said, oh no, trust a woman.
Or trust your girl.
I'm saying I could trust a woman to be a woman, and if she has bad influences like alcohol, ho friends, bad environment, people in her ear telling her, fuck him, go cheat on him, etc.
It's a bad look.
And also, here's the other thing.
Most women don't have fathers.
And since they don't have a father to sit there, no, bitch, sit your ass at home and stay with your man.
I'm just saying, I could trust a woman to be a modern-day woman, which is a lot of the times prone to cheating.
Go ahead.
Okay, back to what I was saying.
I hear you, but that's why you want to get to know the person first, what her background is, how she moves, what kind of person she is, and when she is in her feelings, how is she going to react to it?
If she's going to react negatively, then you're going to keep note on that.
But if you see that she's mature, She cools down, talks.
You see her action speaks over her words and that's kind of different.
That's why you want to be in a relationship with her.
You don't want to be in a relationship with a woman just because of her looks and this little small talk.
I agree with you, right?
Let's not forget there's alcohol.
I know.
Back to what I'm saying.
You got to know her.
Watch how she moves when she drinks.
Watch how she responds when you talk to her in a certain way.
Like...
But people are accordingly.
When they were their friends, when they were you.
No, no, no.
That's what I'm saying.
In general, not just...
You would never really know.
And here's the other thing, too.
You got to remember, this whole conversation was predicated upon you having your Instagram.
And what did we just say?
With your Instagram, that allows certain opportunities that I might not know about.
There's certain avenues that women are able to enact on certain mindsets or thoughts or whatever without some type of reprise.
That's why girls love Instagram so much.
It lets girls do things in the dirt and deal with men and meet men that are higher status that they would never have had access to before without any type of negative consequences.
I know girls personally, right?
They go on Instagram, on TikTok.
You know what they do?
Oh, her man bought her that?
Why don't I have that?
It's just like, they see things happening and say, you know, why don't I have that?
And then they go do it.
It's like, it just happens that way.
It might not be her fault though, but it's just like, you're in that environment.
Back to what you're saying, like, she can get the attention on social media, she can get the same attention outside.
No.
Not at that scale.
It used to be, ladies, right?
And I talk about this in my book extensively.
A girl had to go outside, present herself well, be feminine, polite, etc.
And a guy might come up to her and talk to her.
If she was lucky, right?
Right.
But now with social media and the internet, girls are able to get literally thousands of men looking at their profile every hour, and then they're also able to get these men to send them DMs.
I've seen average women look at their Instagrams, and there's celebrities in there, athletes in there, men that are in the top 1%.
Now these girls have access to this guy.
You're trying to tell me that if her boyfriend pisses her off and they're on a break for maybe two or three days and she's been drinking some alcohol and listened to some bullshit R&B, she won't entertain that?
No, because I've been in a relation before and...
Stop, stop, stop.
I need you to take critical thinking, put it on.
This isn't about you.
This is about women in general.
It's not about me, but as an example.
But this is women in general.
This is not about you.
You might be a good girl.
You might never enact on this, but there's other girls that will.
I'm speaking for the generalities.
Now I get your question.
I get your question.
Thank you.
There's girls that can't do all that.
Right in that second, but I'm saying there is smart girls that stick to themselves like...
Be loyal to their man, be their rider guy and all that.
There's two different sides of people.
That's why I don't like to say generalized, because yes, there is females that react quickly, follow friends, follow all that bullshit, but there's also females that don't give a fuck with their friends, say that's not their life that they're living.
Your opinion does not determine my life.
That's easy to say in 20-20 hindsight, but if you're mad at your boyfriend, you've been drinking some alcohol, you've been listening to some fucking 1990s genuine pony and shit, It's easy for you to speak like that on a podcast where, objectively speaking, 2020 hindsight, but when you're in your feelings, your boyfriend pissed you off, you're mad, your girlfriend's in your air, he's a bitch-ass nigga anyway!
Because I've always said it, single girls keep girls single.
That's what it is.
They give each other the worst advice.
And God forbid you meet your favorite artists.
Drake!
Drake!
Let me tell you, the reason I'm telling you why it's such a big deal is because if I go, let's say I entertain a DM, okay?
Let's say I entertain a DM in some magical world where a girl says she's gonna fly me out.
It never happened.
But let's say I entertain a DM and I go fuck a bitch because I'm mad at my girlfriend.
Guess what?
I'm gonna fuck that bitch and be like, Man, this girl's useless.
She don't cook.
She don't do nothing.
She's annoying.
Get me the fuck out of here.
I got some pussy.
Nutted on her butt.
Maybe took a video.
I'm leaving, right?
When I have sex with other women, hold on.
When I have sex with other women, it makes me appreciate what I got, okay?
Because then I start to realize how so many women are useless.
When a woman has sex with another guy, guess what?
Girls don't fuck at the same level, typically.
They're fucking a guy above the dude they got.
So when a girl fucks a new guy, she says, damn.
This guy got money.
Damn, this guy dresses good.
Damn, my boyfriend doesn't do that.
She starts to look at all the negatives of her boyfriend that she sees in this new guy.
Men and women are not the same.
So when a girl fucks a new guy, she's like, you know what?
I need to rationalize this cheating that I'm doing right now.
You know what?
Fuck my boyfriend that I got.
This guy's better.
And then they go and chase that guy, not knowing he has 10 other girls just like you, and he never takes you seriously.
Then you realize, oh, fuck, I took an L here.
Then you message your boyfriend, hey, butthead!
You can trade up, right?
Because you fuck that guy, and you can't.
That's what I'm trying to say.
And here's the problem.
When you fuck that guy, your boyfriend is never going to respect you or look at you the same.
Because a woman cheating is the biggest form of betrayal.
So, I'm protecting you from you by saying, yo, I would prefer, if you're my main girl and I love you, I don't want you to even have the option to go with another guy.
Because I know in the back of my mind, if I know and find out that you fucked another guy or went out with another guy, I will never respect you again.
You will never be the mother of my children.
I'm never going to take you serious.
I'm going to dog you off for the rest of your life.
I'll never give you the title.
I'll continue to fuck you, but I'll never take you serious.
And men know that in the back of their mind.
That's why they're scared to death of their girl stepping out on them.
Because we will never look at you the same once you cheat.
But I can still love you and go fuck another bitch, though.
If anything, it'll make me love you more because I'm like, damn, this bitch useless!
I think it's more like an emotional level with women.
Because you get attached at that moment that you're cheating on a man is literally cheating on a man is the biggest betrayal you could do to a man because men don't ask for much, yo.
We just don't.
It does it more out of them being horny and a girl does it more out of emotion.
Yeah.
And that's why it's such a deep betrayal.
Because our emotions are tied into it.
When your guy has all these...
You guys want to know some game?
Your man really cares about you when he puts boundaries on you.
Yeah.
Yo, I don't want you dressed like that.
Yo, I want...
You know what?
I don't really like these pictures on Instagram.
You know what?
I don't want you dressed like this without my presence.
No, you ain't going out to the club with them girls.
Once a man starts to put boundaries on you, he gives a fuck about you.
If he says, oh, no, do your thing, blah, blah, blah, let's do an open relationship, all this other shit, he don't give a fuck about you.
And the reason why is because men are visual.
If I know, or I can even think that you're with another guy, I'm...
Never gonna look at you the same.
I'm gonna be like, oh, you fucking slut.
Okay.
And this is how men really think.
We're visual.
We can't picture it.
Even if we know they used to do some shit before, we don't want to know.
Because if we know, we can't take you serious.
That little fantasy in our head gets destroyed, and that's it.
That's why guys do all this shit.
You might say, it's insecure, it's controlling, blah, blah, blah.
No, it's controlling you from being a dumb whore and ruining the relationship that we're building together because I see you as the mother of my children.
I see you as my potential girl.
That's why I'm putting these boundaries on you because I don't want to destroy what we have.
And here's the funny part.
Most guys will never tell you this.
They'll just date you, fuck you, and never take you serious.
And you're like, where have you been?
It's been two years.
Nothing's happening.
It's because he thinks you're a whore.
Honestly speaking, so...
I have a question.
Same with how y'all think with females.
How about with guys?
Let's say a guy's a promoter, he'd be in the nightlife.
If she asks him, can you not be in that type of lifestyle no more since you're with me?
Is it the same with y'all and us?
No, that's work though.
Yeah, you're pretty much asking that man to leave his job to be with you.
Well, if he's like a club promoter and you're...
You can't pay the bills.
Okay, I see that.
I'm not talking about the profession.
I'm talking about the attention.
I get what you're saying.
Her analogy is that you're in a position where you're around the opposite gender a lot.
Is that fair?
Is that what you mean more?
You worry about me getting attention on social media but you get the attention in person with the lifestyle you got.
Okay, what did I just say a second ago?
If I fuck another bitch...
No, but my question is, is that the same with men?
It's not.
And the reason why is because we're not the same.
If I have sex with another girl, I could still come home and you are my woman.
But at the same time, she's a woman.
They find you being loyal to your female.
How you're asking us, you want us to be there for your man, loyal, right there next to your side.
But if a man's doing that, that means he's not by her side.
Let me ask you this.
Is male and female loyalty the same?
No.
It can be.
You're arguing it is, but it's not.
Why is it not the same?
It's not the same because we show loyalty differently.
Men show loyalty by being willing to die and protect you in times of danger, putting our life on the line for the woman that we love.
You show your loyalty by not being a slut.
What if a guy is going through the same thing that a female is?
If they're in the streets or something and the female is the ride or die, so how is that if they are protecting their man?
Realistically speaking, let's keep it a thousand.
Women want to be with a man that's stronger, bigger, more competent.
And able to protect them.
That's a big thing.
That's why women care about height and the ability to earn money, going to the gym, muscles.
Women look for men for survival traits.
Men look for women for replication traits.
And a big part of replication is me being able to know that the kid is mine.
What does that mean?
You can't be a slut.
And a big part of you being attracted to me is being able to protect you.
Not being a pussy.
We're very different than what we're attracted to.
A man is loyalty when he's willing to put his life on the line.
A woman is loyalty when she's willing to put her vagina on the line only for you.
We're very different.
But I see some women see two dudes getting into a fight.
She's still jumping for a man, even though there's two men.
She knows she's going to get beat the fuck up, but she's still...
Yeah, but here's the thing.
That man...
No man will ever get with a girl and say, oh, yo, the fact that you could protect me is so sexy.
No, that's not my point.
That's not my point.
He didn't even ask her to jump in.
He already is going to do that.
She just jumps in and, like, helps him.
You're missing what I'm trying to say here.
A man protecting a woman is a requirement.
It's mandatory.
A woman being involved in protecting a man is elective.
I have a question.
Hold on, stop.
Men don't like that.
I do understand.
I get what you're saying.
I must be able to protect you.
It's not mandatory you protect me.
But if you're protecting a woman and all of a sudden she got your vaccine and you didn't even ask for it, would it kind of be like...
Oh, I'm sorry.
If you are protecting her, but you got into it and you see she still jumps in, you didn't even ask for it when she would look at her like, wow, she really got my back.
Exactly, that's what I'm saying.
That's cool!
I'm just saying, like, she did it out of her own way.
You didn't ask her to.
And you know you can do it on your own and she can't do shit, but she still did it anyway.
Okay, you know what?
How about this?
Let's use a similar analogy.
Let's say one day you decide to dress up and I wear a matching outfit with you and we look really good together that day It doesn't really matter right?
Oh It's like cool for that day, it's cute, right?
But it doesn't really matter, right?
An outfit is different from a girl.
Hold on, hold on.
Stop.
Ladies, I need you to critical thinking.
Okay?
I'm trying to give you an equivalent.
Just like you didn't care that I'm wearing a matching outfit with you.
It was cute for that day.
Maybe one attraction point.
That's how men feel about you jumping in to help out.
I don't need it.
I don't need it.
It's not that important.
It doesn't turn me on.
Just like me wearing a matching outfit with you.
It doesn't turn you on like that.
It's like, oh, this is cute.
Just like you.
You helped me out in a fight.
That was cute.
But I'm not gonna break up with you if you didn't get with me.
Just like you wouldn't break up with me for not matching outfits with you.
And to be honest, you jump into the fight is kind of like a liability.
Let's say you get hurt, you get injured.
No, I'm like, damn, my shorty's messed up.
So it's like, hey, it is cool to have that, but honestly, do we want that?
I'm not saying that's cool.
I'm saying like, would you appreciate her thinking, okay?
No, not appreciate, just being like, oh, she got me, basically.
I would appreciate it the same way that you appreciate me wearing magic clothes.
You know that she fucks with you, basically.
To symbolize it, you just know she actually fucks you heavy.
They would appreciate it.
Just like you would appreciate me wearing matching clothes.
It's not mandatory.
It's minorly significant.
It's not about the appreciation.
It's just you knowing like, damn, she actually do fuck with me.
We would prefer you be loyal.
That's how you fuck with us.
I have a question.
You know what would be more attractive than you jumping in a fight?
I'm not saying that's how you get men.
I'm not saying that's how it is.
I know, I know.
But you're going to be more attractive.
But you know what?
I dropped all my guy friends.
I'm not going to the club no more.
I took all my sexy pictures down off Instagram.
My shit's on private.
Any pictures I do have of me dressed modestly.
And I got rid of all my guys' access to all the men.
That would be much more attractive than you trying to bust a cap and fight in a club with me.
I cut off all my exes.
You just wanted to settle down.
Go ahead, please.
No, I just have a quick question.
I don't want to say the roles were reversed, but in the same situation, what if the guy that he was getting in a fight with, what if the guy had a female?
That wouldn't be something that you just want the female to just stand there and not fight the other female?
Okay, so that changes the scenario drastically, but again, alright, very masculine men, okay, typically, guys that got their shit together that are masculine guys that are capable and dangerous, you know what they do?
Run.
You tell your girl to run.
Don't get involved in a physical altercation.
You run.
I've never backed down from a fight, so that'd be hard.
Okay, that's fine, but that's a masculine trait in a woman.
Men that are...
Ladies, let me explain something to y'all.
Let me explain something to y'all, okay?
This is very simple.
This is very simple math curriculum, right?
The more masculine a man, the more feminine he wants his woman, okay?
Feminine women don't fight, all right?
If the man is masculine, that means he's capable and dangerous.
A man that's capable and dangerous knows that he's capable and dangerous.
He's done some training to be in that way.
He's going to tell his woman, who he knows is feminine and submissive and soft, You run, bitch.
I will handle this.
Because if anything, you getting in the fight is a liability to me because now I got to worry about you.
I got to worry about me.
I got to worry about these attackers, etc.
So typically, the more trained the man is, the more masculine the man is, the more feminine the woman, the more feminine the woman, she's not capable of fighting.
He's going to tell her, get the hell out of there.
And God forbid, right?
You get fucked up with your face, your body.
You're not the same person.
Liability.
I have one more question pertaining to that.
I get it.
It's cute that you guys are saying I would jump in the fight and help my man with it.
And that's admirable.
But what I'm saying is that it's not a requirement.
So what if you're from where I'm from and people don't like to fight, they just pull out and start shooting if somebody doesn't know how to fight?
Then you should run even harder.
They expect to pull out and start busting back.
You listen, man.
I don't know who you hang with, but like...
I mean, I didn't realize that we're in Compton, but look...
Because we're giving extraordinary examples, which I get it.
You know, you saw the dark in India thing, and you're like, oh my God, I'm inspired to be a dinosaur.
But it's like, yo...
The reality is most women are not trained with firearms.
Most women don't even know how to shoot and properly handle a firearm properly.
Most of them don't even know about muzzle discipline.
So if anything, most girls, unless she's law enforcement, I don't want her nowhere near her gun.
So that's what I was saying, like, besides the violence and her jumping up, my point was, if you see her actions more than just over social media and stuff, when that kind of changed something, like, let's just say she don't even use social media like that, but she already gets attention, but she barely be on it.
Like, is that reasonable for you to tell her to delete it?
If she don't even be on it like that, you see she don't respond to nobody, like, she's showing you her actions.
She might show me to my face.
Okay, cool.
You know what?
I don't respond to DMs.
Look at me, right?
But then when I'm not there, I don't know what's happening.
I'm just saying.
Or what if she has another Instagram account?
What if you guys have a shared account on my phone?
You never know.
This is crazy.
Let me ask you a question.
Because you mentioned she's very attractive and she's on Instagram, but she don't be on it like that, blah, blah, blah, all this other stuff.
Or you even see her account.
Like, she lets you look at her phone.
Alright, cool.
Let me ask you this.
Let me ask you this.
Let's say you buy two watches, right?
You go ahead and you buy one iStyle AP. Not even iStyle.
Let's just say you buy AP, right?
Gang.
Yeah, right?
Gang of them.
And then you go buy a Casio, right?
Piece of shit.
One watch is $30,000.
Another watch is $30,000.
You have a state-of-the-art safe, but it only fits one watch.
Which watch are you going to put in that safe?
The one that values more.
Why?
Because the one that values more, you lose more out of it.
Okay.
Why not just leave it out?
Put the Casio in there, man.
It's not that big a deal.
It's just a watch, right?
Okay, let's break that down.
So, you have to take an extra initiative to protect that asset, right?
Because it's high value, correct?
Right.
So you have to take an extra requirement to protect it.
That's exactly how it is with your woman.
The more attractive, the more value she has, the more steps you must take to protect it in a very cold world where people will steal your asset.
Right.
But if you know your environment too, You just said you put the AP in the safe knowing the environment.
I know the environment.
I need my girl in the safe.
I know what men are capable of.
I know what men do.
I know how men are dirty.
I know how they drug girls.
I know how there's a bunch of weird weirdos out there that will do anything to get girls.
But she's a woman, not a watch.
Right, exactly.
It's an analogy!
It's an analogy!
If you're so worried about the men...
I'm worried about the men because here's the problem, ladies.
I know how men can be.
No, you really don't know how men can be.
I'm going to explain what I mean by this, okay?
Most women are not aware of the carnage and the violence that men are capable of.
Most of you have never been punched in the face full force by a man that's actually trained.
Most of you have never been shot at by a man.
None of you probably have been in a combat situation where there's life and death with a man.
So you don't know what men are capable of.
I do, though.
So that's why I'm putting your ass in the safe.
Because you don't even know what's out there.
But I do.
I'm going to protect my asset.
And for all the idiots out there, oh, I'm not an AP watch!
I understand that.
It's an analogy though.
I have to protect you from the elements because I know what's going on out there.
This AP was hard to get.
It cost me a lot of money.
And I'll be damned if I'm not going to protect my asset because a good woman is an asset.
This is true.
It is true.
Every girl is different.
Every girl knows where her environment is.
I mean, if she has a Casio, I ain't putting her in the fucking seat.
Well, fuck, 30 bucks, I can get another one!
That watch is for the streets!
Everybody got a Casio!
Everybody's watch.
- Yeah, not my wife.
- Not everybody wants.
- Yeah.
- The nigga in the mall was trying it on.
Oh, you want to buy?
- No.
- I don't know.
- You know what I mean? - But you are right though.
You just want to limit the possibilities of things.
No, I get it.
I'm just thinking on other sides of the coin.
Yeah, I get it.
Okay, Nina, what about you?
Yeah, I agree with Myron.
There's a lot of temptation that comes with social media.
Like, even just the average girl already has.
NBA players, NFL players, you know, club promoters.
I can imagine your DMs.
Yeah, a rich simp inviting her to a yeah.
And then another simp inviting her on a mansion party.
There's just too much temptation that comes with social media and being exposed.
And if you're in a relationship with a man who you really do value and respect, it would really just not take anything out of you to get rid of it.
Of course, if that's not your source of income.
The question is, are you going to do it?
That's my source of income though.
I can't.
Richmore is one of them boys now.
No, I can make money from social media.
What about you?
Do I get to keep my Twitter or no?
Twitter is an X-rated Twitter.
Two thousand X-rated Twitter.
X-rated.
I know.
Twitter is X-rated.
That's my business.
Should I have to take that shit down?
Okay, ladies, let's go out of the confinements of your business and your livelihood.
For an average girl that isn't, because let's be honest again, over 90% of women that are on social media don't make a dollar off of it.
Okay, so if it was in business, then yeah, I'd get rid of it.
I don't care about social media.
Yeah.
Stop the cat.
I swear, I really don't.
I'm a gamer.
I'm a gamer.
I watch anime.
You watch anime?
What?
What's your favorite anime?
Yes.
Hunter x Hunter, I guess.
Hunter x Hunter?
Hunter x Hunter.
Okay.
I don't sign him anymore, but yeah.
Demon Slayer, baby.
Who said that?
Me.
Right here.
Cowboy Bebop, he always wears out.
Oh yeah, Cowboy Bebop.
It never calls my spirit animal, so.
Attack on Titan.
Okay, okay.
If you saw my phone case, anime case.
I used to watch High School BXD when I was like nine.
You're still gay though.
Alright.
So, for me, I don't really care about social media.
Like, when I start dating someone, like, I'm down for you.
So, like, you want me to delete that shit?
It's gone.
The moment you ask me.
Your boyfriend told you, hey, get rid of it.
It'd be gone tomorrow.
Yeah, because I don't care.
Like, I'll kill for mine.
I'll die for mine.
That's mine right there.
Like, I don't care.
If you're down for someone, you should be down all the way.
Why the hell are you down halfway?
If I'm down for you, I'm down for you for real.
I'll be there for you.
I got a question for the ladies.
This is a little bit different, but switching gears here.
I'll start with the couch over there with Ms.
BLM. Which one?
I'll start with Ethiopia.
Thank you, Zena.
Zena got it.
Two scenarios.
We're going to start with women first here.
Let's say You see a girl that you don't like at the party.
You hate that bitch, okay?
You hate her.
You can call her one of three insults to embarrass her at this party.
What are you gonna call her?
Either A, dirty whore, B, broke bum, or C, stupid and uneducated.
Which of the three are you calling the female that you dislike?
Again, A. Dirty whore.
B. Broke bum.
C. You're stupid and uneducated.
Remember, this is a woman you dislike at the party and your goal is to embarrass her.
And I have to pick.
Pick one of the three insults.
Which of the three are you using?
Okay, usually I pick peace, but I'll do number three.
I just don't hate women.
No, no, no, no.
It's not about hating women.
It's a girl that you dislike.
This is an op.
Yeah, I know.
I don't have ops, but I would choose three.
You call her stupid and educated.
Yeah, stupid and uneducated, yes.
You think that will cause the most embarrassment at the party?
I think, yeah, I think, yeah.
Really?
Stop the cap.
Interesting.
Strange choice, but all right.
What about you?
Same scenario.
You're calling her a dirty whore, because you know she's a whore, a broke bum, because you don't got money, or C, stupid and educated.
I'm calling her broke.
You're calling her broke?
Broke.
You think that's what's going to garner the most embarrassment?
Yeah.
If you broke, you broke.
Interesting.
Okay.
And this is for a woman, not a man.
Yeah.
Okay.
What about you?
What are you calling her?
I don't know.
I usually say stupid-ass bitch.
Again, it's dirty whore.
A is dirty whore.
B is broke bum.
Dirty whore just sounds too much like you're filming, so I don't know.
Yeah, I guess it's...
She's not a porn star.
She ain't a porn star.
And you know that she's been in the streets.
Which one are you calling her?
Dirty whore.
You're a stupid educator.
Remember, you're trying to shame her in front of a crowd of people.
Which one are you doing?
Uneducated.
Okay.
So...
And then, okay.
What about you?
What are you saying to get under her skin?
Dirty whore, broke bum, you're stupid educated.
I would call her an ugly, fat, dirty whore.
Because you're trying to embarrass her in front of the crew.
And there's men there too.
What about you?
What are you calling her?
Dirty whore.
What are you calling her?
Dirty whore.
What are you calling her?
Dirty whore number three Do you think that's actually gonna hurt her feelings though, yeah Yeah, excuse me get caused the most embarrassment.
Yeah, because I mean she's bad.
I feel like a broke woman.
She's bad though.
Does it matter if she's broke if she's bad?
Yeah, I know you're bad if you're broke.
Men don't care.
How are you bad if you're broke?
She's making money.
She's like, I'm above you.
Okay, interesting.
Yeah, what about you?
What are you calling her?
Dirty whore?
Broke bum?
Stupid or educated?
Dirty whore.
You can only pick one.
Remember, you're trying to embarrass her in front of everybody.
What's the one insult you're going to call her?
No, I get it.
We can't use all three and make it into one.
Right.
Dirty whore.
What about you?
Dirty whore.
whore, you fucked future, and you have no future.
Shots fired!
Feels like a personal problem.
Sounds like she's been watching too much FNF.
That's right.
I've said that before.
That's right, Nino.
All right, what about you?
What do you call her?
I feel like it depends on her occupation, like...
Like if she does like only fans or modeling, that's like, you know, out there.
Nah, she a nurse.
Oh, dirty whore.
Dirty whore.
Yeah.
Oh yeah.
She ain't no sex worker.
Yeah.
Okay.
Because like, it's a feeling.
Okay.
What about you?
What are you calling her?
I would call her a broke bum because I feel like being a bum is worse than being broke.
Because if you're a bum, you're already automatically broke.
Okay.
Now, let's go ahead and switch it up.
All right?
We're going to switch it up now, ladies.
Now, it's a guy, okay?
What are you going to call him to embarrass him in front of everybody?
A dirty or A? B. Broke bum or C. Stupid and uneducated.
I see what you did there.
What are you calling him?
I would still call him a bum because I feel like being a bum is like the worst thing you could be.
For a man?
Especially a man.
What does he do for a living?
I'm not calling him a bum if he's not a bum.
You don't know what he does, but you know he don't got money, but you don't know what he does.
That's tough.
I don't know.
I guess a bum, but I don't know.
Well, you want to hurt his feelings and embarrass him.
Remember, the goal is to embarrass him and hurt his feelings.
What do you call him?
Right, but if he knows it's not true, I don't think he's going to feel embarrassed.
But there's many words that you tell them.
All right, you know what?
Let's say all three are true.
He's fucking a lot of girls, so he's a dirty whore.
Okay.
He's a broke bum.
And he's stupid and educated.
Which of the three are you picking?
He a broke bum.
Okay.
Cool.
What about you?
Brokey.
Okay.
Brokey.
I would have said you're uneducated.
That's why you're broke.
Mm-hmm.
Yeah.
Which one are you leading with?
Broke.
Okay.
Okay.
What about you?
I would have said he's a bum.
Okay.
Yeah, he's a bum.
He's a bum.
He's a bum.
Oh, you lead with education?
Yeah.
Okay.
You're testing his knowledge.
There's a lot of idiots out there that have money.
This is true.
You're an idiot.
How are you making money?
Ask a drug dealer.
You're all in your neighborhood, actually.
We're talking about Miami.
Right now, you're pinpointing to Miami.
You should have disclosed the location.
So stupid.
Okay.
What about you?
I would call him a broke bum.
Okay.
What do you call him?
Broke bum.
Okay.
Call them both, but lead with broke.
What about you?
Broke, bro.
He broke, he broke.
Damn.
That nigga is stupid and uneducated.
Alright, you're big on education.
I think you picked that last time too, right?
Okay.
Okay.
So...
Very interesting.
So, again, just for a little recap here, as I've been writing this down.
So the question is, you meet someone at a party, right?
Someone you dislike and you're trying to embarrass him, okay?
For the woman, right?
Well, there's three options.
There's either A, dirty whore, B, broke bum, C, you're stupid and educated, okay?
Okay.
In the female scenario, most of you said you would call her a dirty whore to garner the most embarrassment and make her feel like shit.
Okay?
And then for the male scenario, every single one of you pretty much, except for Miss Organ Stealer and Black Lives Matter, Wakanda, basically all of you said broke bum.
Okay.
Interesting.
So...
What if I started a movement to empower broke bums?
What would y'all think about that?
I'm trying to empower broke bums.
Love your poverty.
No, like, love your poverty.
Nobody can judge you.
We all deserve bad bitches.
What do y'all think?
You know what?
Nigga, we wanted you now.
Broke bums unite.
Broke bums unite.
Moe, we all deserve bad bitches on Instagram sucking our dicks.
Let's do it.
I for sure dated a broke bum.
So we deserve bad bitches.
We deserve to be getting our dicks sucked by the baddest bitches.
You go, King.
On my soul.
Let's go.
On my soul, you bum.
Yes, sir.
Stop the show real quick.
Ladies, on a scale of one to retarded, how stupid did we just sound just now?
I thought we weren't using the R. No, we're using it for this one time.
We're gonna start right here with Miss Puerto Rico.
How stupid did we just sound just now?
Um, I would probably say, like, shit, pretty retarded.
Pretty stupid?
Yeah.
Okay.
What about you?
On a scale of one to ten of stupidity, how dumb are we?
I think, like, a three or a four.
I don't think it's that stupid.
Like, Okay, you think, are you down with the bump movement?
Yeah, like, if it's a movement, I'm saying, like, if you hype it up.
Are you going to lose your opportunity to one of us then?
Are you going to really co-find us one of your members?
I tried to fuck a homeless guy before, so.
You tried to a homeless man?
You didn't understand.
Yo, yo.
No, I didn't fuck him.
What the?
Wait.
You're a virgin, but you drive home to a homeless man?
It was long ago.
This was like when I was like 18.
He was fine clothes.
Why did you do it?
We'll talk about the homeless humping story in a second.
Because I have so many questions.
I'm scared of the bum bum.
Nina, how stupid on a scale of 1 to 10 were we for saying that we deserve bad bitches and being bums?
12.
Like, it is unacceptable to be broken fat.
But Nina, bums matter too!
Stop it!
How dumb are we for thinking, how dumb did we sound saying that bums deserve bad bitches?
50-50 because females can be bums too and they shit.
So it just, they match.
Yeah, but we're talking about men here.
Yeah, men.
Like I'm saying.
Women aren't expected to create excess resources.
Men are.
Men could still get bad bitches or bums.
But do we deserve them is the question.
They're bums, so yeah.
I'm eating Cheetos and Sprite.
I've seen it happen.
A bum with a bum.
Are you gonna fuck a bum?
No.
You know what?
You're bummed too.
What about you?
How dumb did we sound saying that we deserve bad bitches, the hottest girls lined up for us, and we're bums.
Let's fucking do it.
Nah, y'all sound stupid.
We do?
Okay, fair enough.
What about you?
I think you guys sound extremely dumb.
Yeah.
Damn, okay.
Thank you.
Fuck, man.
Stupid.
Your misogyny is showing.
Your misogyny is showing in this case.
What about you?
We deserve bad bitches and we're bums.
What do you think?
Well, you already know.
It's like a level 13.
Yeah.
Unlucky number.
What about you?
Yeah, it's very retarded.
Retarded?
Damn, okay.
What about you?
Delusional.
Damn, delusional?
Wow!
That's a great word.
What about you?
Man, that's just straight stupid.
That's ignorant.
Ignorant?
Oh, damn.
Okay.
What about you?
Off director scale.
Damn.
Okay.
Shit.
What about you?
I'm surprised she even knows what the Steelers is.
God damn.
I didn't want to say it, but he's either.
I guess she ain't a bummer.
She's talking about busted out niggas, but she knows about earthquakes.
All right, what about you?
How do we sound saying that we deserve bad bitches It's crazy because I've been with a bum for like four years.
No cap.
That shit is crazy.
Four years?
Four years, damn.
Okay, I stamped with a bum as well.
But no, I'll never do it again.
I'll never do that shit again, guys.
Never ever in my life, okay?
I gave you a chance.
What about you?
I'm here for it.
I think this is great.
I think everybody deserves love no matter how broke they are.
Are you going to give me a chance then if I'm a bum?
I'm in between boxes right now.
I think there are other people like my sister who might give y'all a chance.
Hold on.
She's just dry humping.
I'm not trying to get boo-boo.
So, okay.
So, somebody else said, I deserve a bad bitch, but none of y'all are willing to give me a box.
All right.
Fantastic.
So, realistically speaking, none of you guys think we deserve bad bitches for being bums, correct?
No.
Okay.
Fantastic.
You triggered my trap card!
So why?
Hold on, Chris.
Brought to you, bye.
Read the shirt, and that's it.
Brought to you, bye.
I'm dead.
What is this all?
Yeah, alright, so what else I was trying to say, ladies?
You triggered my trap card!
So none of you guys think we deserve a bad bitch for being a bum.
Why do girls that are hoes think they deserve a good man?
They're delusional too, right?
Agreed.
So why don't we run around and empower women to be sluts, be promiscuous, keep their Instagram open, talk to a million guys at the same time, go on dates while they're seeing somebody, right?
Act and behave like whores.
We empower them to do that.
But y'all ain't empowering me to be a bum.
Hey, I'm empowering you.
You wouldn't even give me a chance.
You're too busy protesting again, Mason.
I feel like one thing is being broke and another is being a whore.
It's completely different.
No, no, no, hold on.
That was the whole purpose of that exercise, ladies.
Just like y'all, right?
How are you going to embarrass a man?
You're a bum, you can't provide.
How am I going to embarrass a woman?
You're a hoe, you can't provide.
What?
A child in a stable family.
Mm.
That's how it goes.
I can't create the stability with the finances.
You can't create the stability with the family because I don't know if the child is mine.
We're different.
And you don't know if I'm going to get a paycheck.
It's the same exact thing.
But it's funny how society, right, sets it up where we're supposed to accept hoes and if we don't, we're insecure.
But y'all would never accept me for being a bum, would you?
Alright, you guys are insecure.
Make your own money, bitch.
I can't say that!
If I say that, that's crazy, right?
You're insecure.
You're insecure.
It's more of the energy.
You're misogynist.
All I'm saying is this.
You better not be a hoe if you ain't gonna date a bum, bro.
That's all I gotta say, man.
Alright?
So, I just...
The crazy difference here.
break down what you're saying is hoes plus hoes and bums go together yes yes yeah basically a male that's a bum is a functional equivalent to a woman that is extremely promiscuous or has a bad past It's the same thing.
Just like me being a bum, right?
I don't qualify for a majority of hot girls or whatever.
Like, there's some girls that will take me being a bum, that's cool, but I'm not gonna attract the baddest chicks, I'm not gonna get the best women.
The majority will disqualify me.
If you're a whore, I'm not saying you don't deserve a man, but you're going to be disqualified from a majority of the good men that you want a lot of the times.
They may not tell you why, but they see it.
What is that?
I said they'll make you do crazy things, to be honest.
Okay, but that's supposed to be one dick, though.
It's not supposed to be dicks.
Dick sporting dicks.
There ain't nothing wrong with it.
If it's one dick, that's okay.
I can respect that.
You know what I mean?
But if it's like a million dicks, that's bad.
I mean, let's say you're trying to hire somebody, right?
I mean, damn, did you have to take it that far?
Who got a million dicks?
But we got girls on a show that has 600 bodies.
Go for it.
I used to have a hit list.
I used to have a hit list in high school.
I had a list of guys that I wanted to fuck in high school.
My daughter's dad had that shit with females.
No, it was never finished.
How many guys were on it?
- I think there was like 15 guys and I had five of them. - They were mostly seniors that I had a crush on.
I got five of them.
I feel like two of them were worth it and then the other three were not worth it.
Three cats.
Okay, so I'm just curious about this homeless man on Drake Humphrey.
How did this happen?
What happened there?
What do you mean?
How did he get in your house?
I gave him on Bumble.
I gave him alcohol and mommy found out.
Wait, but I'm so confused.
How are you homeless, but you got a whole phone with a dating app?
If that doesn't prove the sex drive that men have, I don't know what else.
The Duke came and found food.
He's having to find a way to get internet.
He hasn't eaten him in three days, but somehow, someway, he's on a dating app.
He was couch surfing.
He was couch surfing.
He was a couch bum.
Nani, mommy doesn't even know this, but I was actually trying to hide him under my bed.
You guys are both Ethiopian.
Are you guys Muslim?
No.
Definitely not.
Good behavior.
Hold on!
So wait, y'all are Catholic Ethiopians?
I'm Christian.
You guys are Christian Ethiopians?
That's rare.
What kind of Christian are you?
Well, dual get the rocks.
All right.
Chats?
Chats.
Ladies, do you have anything to say on that with the insults or hoes or giving bums a chance or anything?
No.
We did this one right, Chris.
And then ladies, we'll give it to y'all to ask the question to us as well.
If you guys have a disagreement or a topic you want to discuss.
And then you can go home.
Yeah, what?
No, I'm just kidding.
Ladies, name a time you can remember a man curving, rejecting, or ghosting you and why you think...
He did it.
Don't cap.
Don't worry about the panel or the chat.
They ain't gonna do squat.
Chris might.
Okay.
This is a good one.
Remember the last time?
I know it might be tough for you.
I need you to go back in memory lane.
A time that a guy curved, rejected, or ghosted you after you guys hung out and why you think he did it.
This happened in like high school.
I think it was like a sophomore or a junior.
But I was really into this guy.
And like I did everything.
And I was like, I know I'm not ugly.
So I don't know why the hell he's like curving me this hard.
Don't do me.
Don't do me.
I got my lashes done.
I got my nails done.
I know I'm not ugly.
Don't do me.
You're not ugly.
Point out the most insignificant things.
If I'm well done, they care about that.
If I look good, I'll look good next to you.
But no, basically he had just gotten out of a relationship, so I was like, score is mine!
So I went and I tried, but he apparently wasn't healed all the way.
Healed from what?
From whatever it was that she did.
Emotional damage!
She cheated on him, like, in the school bathroom.
No way.
With, like, a group of guys.
A group of guys?
The football team?
No, not the football team.
It was, like, I think two baseball players.
And then, like, one more basketball player.
God damn.
All right.
I was going to just say, she just needs to take the L. But that little Scarry will fuck you up for life.
No, yeah.
He was, like, scarred.
But to me, I was like...
Wait, so they hit a home run?
I mean, she was all over the news at school.
The news is crazy.
So basically Daph and he said, you know what?
I don't want no more girls right now.
Basically, but like we had already like made out and we were talking and he would call me and FaceTime me.
So I was like, you know, like I had somewhat hope, like I thought I had slid in, you know?
Yeah.
But at the end of the day, he just ended up like texting another girl and he ended up getting with her instead of me.
So I kind of took that like as a sign.
And I was like, I didn't really care because- You didn't care after doing all that work?
No, I didn't really care.
Because to me, before I met my boyfriend, I used to go through guys like it was nothing.
Like, if I liked you, alright babe, I'mma try you.
You don't want me?
Alright, that's cool.
I'mma go ahead.
I'mma try him.
You don't like me?
She's Puerto Rican, bros.
I mean, it's in your blood.
I didn't really care until I met my boyfriend.
That's why, like, I always, like, knew that me and my boyfriend had, like, heartstrings attached because me and my boyfriend, before we've been together for three years, he had broken up with me at first.
And he was the first guy that I could never let go of.
He was the one person that I always thought of.
I needed him.
Like, I felt like, like, this is mine.
Like, I don't want nobody else to have it.
I'll kill whoever else has it.
So I was like, all right, so I'm going to go ahead and I'm going to get him.
I want no smoke with you, Amy.
So I was like, all right, bet.
So I'm going to go ahead and get back at him.
And now we've been together for like three years.
So I felt like Yo, Fresh, it's always the one with the crystals on the fucking neck.
So when I was like 18, This was like, this was the guy, like, this was the second guy, like, ever sucked in my life.
So...
You sucked him dry?
No.
No, that's just what I said.
I've only ever sucked three guys off.
It's just the second dude I ever sucked.
By the way, I gotta say, I love your honesty.
Thank you.
I went to his crib.
He made me food.
We were watching anime.
We were watching Spirited Away.
You suck the spirit?
No.
He told me if we were to go on his bed that he would fuck me.
I was like, okay, so I just don't have to be on your bed.
So we're just chilling in the living room.
And then after he made me food and we had some drinks or whatever, and we're just chilling, he was like, I want to fuck.
And I'm like, nah.
So I said I suck your dick because I felt bad because he like he made me food and everything Is that easy to make you food?
I'm telling you what happened.
Okay.
And so what happened was I decided to suck his dick out of pity.
I had to go to work.
I had to go to work.
I worked at CVS at the time, and it was almost time for me to go, so I started sucking his dick for like two minutes, and I said, look, I gotta go.
And so I told him, he drove me to work, and I said, I'll see you again, and I kissed him goodbye, and I texted him.
Wait, you kissed him after you texted his dick?
No, like, after I sucked his dick for like two minutes, I said I had to go.
Like, I didn't finish sucking his cock.
So, like, I left his dick hard.
So, he joked with like...
He had blue balls or whatever.
But, like, I don't care because he never called me back.
So, he boasted me.
I don't blame him.
Wow.
But he said he would call me, but he never did.
And he never texted me.
And you said you would suck his dick, but you didn't.
I sucked his dick for two minutes.
I had work at the time.
You gotta go out at least for five minutes.
I didn't have time.
I had to go to work.
You had time to eat that food.
I told him what time I had to go to work.
Like, he should have timed it better.
Like, he should have asked for heavy work.
I guarantee you, she gets the worst blowjob ever, man.
Honestly, you're right.
Because, like, I'm not.
Because I don't suck.
So, like, you're probably right.
Like, I've only made one guy buzz.
No, no, you do suck.
I suck.
All right.
Whatever.
Yeah, this was about five years ago.
This guy I really wanted just like literally ghosted me and disappeared off the face off the earth.
And it's because I really think he just saw me as Yeah.
Okay, so he just saw you as sex.
Yeah, and I didn't obviously I caught feelings for him.
That's why you're scarred.
He hurt you.
Let me ask you this.
Did you make him wait a while?
No, not very long, no.
After you smashed him, did you do anything nice for him?
Yeah, I did.
What did you do?
Make him breakfast.
What else did you do?
Honestly, I didn't have that mentality back then.
So, yeah, that's it was five years ago.
Yeah, that's when the feminist movement was like booming.
Yeah.
So you're like, oh, no, I'm a fucking man.
You know, I'll come back anyway.
Ladies, if you fuck a guy and he doesn't come back, it's your fault.
I know that might be controversial, but the reason why...
You got setting a 90-day probation period, baby.
What was that?
You got setting a 90-day probation period.
You get a 90-day probation period?
Well, if the guy's high value, if you get a one-day probation period, and what I mean by that is that...
This is the thing.
Once a girl fucks the guy, it's her job to keep the guy.
So if you fuck a guy, and you don't add value immediately after they're after, especially if you fuck them quickly...
He's probably going to think you're a hoe and you're useless.
See, I don't fuck nobody unless I'm trying to build a relationship with them.
I mean, there was a lot of things.
Unless it's content.
Okay, let's get that straight.
Unless it's content.
Okay.
Bro.
Man.
I know you're not talking.
I can't talk to you right now.
Not you, bro.
Wait, first of all, you're black, you're a bar star, apparently.
What the fuck?
Look, look.
If you fuck up things on camera, I can go look that shit up.
And then you're going to make me wait for sex.
That's a hell to the no, no, no, man.
No, but you got to understand, I told you, it was a nine-year relationship.
My second year being with him, that's when I got in the industry.
So, no, but I did make wait 90 days.
What I'm trying to say, all right, ladies, I'm about to give y'all some gear right now, all right?
I need y'all to listen up.
The more attractive the man...
okay, the more work you have to do to keep him.
And what I mean by the more attractive the man, that means the more options he has.
The more options he has, the more competitive to get his attention the way you want.
Not just his sexual attention, I mean his real attention.
He'll listen to your problems, he'll talk to you, he'll hang out with you, he'll give you his non-sexual attention.
He actually gives a fuck about you.
So your job, after you fuck him, is to provide more value than all the other bitches he fucks.
Okay?
I'll give it a thousand with y'all.
I've got a couple bad bitches that I deal with.
But they're useless!
Alright?
So I don't take them seriously.
But I got some girls, right, that are attractive and they're useful.
I hang out with them more.
Shut up.
Allegedly.
Allegedly.
I spend more time with them.
If I go somewhere, I bring them with me.
If I travel, I bring them with me because they're useful.
They're not useless, right?
Girls that are just, like, bad and give sex, cool, that's great, but I'm not going to take them seriously or give them certain benefits.
So your job as a girl is to add value after you fuck the guy so you can go up the totem pole and get into a position where you actually start to, you know, provide him value and then he provides you value in return.
But the problem is that a lot of girls fuck and think, that's good enough.
I'm here.
Woo!
I'm bad.
Take me seriously.
That works if the dude's a loser and he doesn't have options.
But if he has options, he's gonna find another girl.
So Amar, chat knows already.
Allegedly.
What are they saying?
Shut up.
Allegedly, Myra is a man of God.
Thank you very much.
Exactly.
But yeah, so that's what I was going to say.
So I think what happened, Nina, is just maybe you just didn't give him value.
Yeah, and I also had an attitude a lot of times.
So there was just so many things that went wrong on my end.
I mean, he wasn't perfect.
If you're argumentative, Combative.
Yeah.
Non-intensive, like you don't help them out or whatever.
Guys just think, okay, I'm going to have sex with her and never talk to her again.
Because men are able to do this fascinating thing.
We're able to have sex with girls that we hate.
For you guys, y'all can't do that.
If you hate a dude and you genuinely dislike him and he's unattractive to you, whatever, he's repulsive.
You can't fuck him.
Us, on the other hand, we'll be like, I hate this bitch, but I'm going to fuck her anyway.
And then you smash her?
Yeah, that's what I mean.
Chris's ugly face.
And then after you fuck her, you'll be like, alright, I'm never talking to her again.
So Nina, was this the guy that made you how you are today?
Well, after he ghosted me, I told myself that I was going to be celibate until I found someone who...
We don't need a behind the scenes for the streets, surprisingly.
She's one of them boys.
What about you?
Tell us one time you were rejected.
Rejected or ghosted?
Ghosted, rejected.
So remember that dude I told you about that I was in a situation?
Penis.
So when I was in Miami, we would talk to each other every day and stuff.
But right when I got back home, he picked me up everything.
What's it called?
I spent the night at his crib and we had plans the next day.
So he dropped me off back at home so I can get ready.
And after that, he ghosted me for that whole week saying his friend, what's it called, had his phone.
But I think it's because...
He's just trying to look for a female that's just dumb, that don't speak up for herself and all that, because I would like point little things, like how you want, because he'd been asking me to be his girl, and we've been talking for like five months, and I already said no.
I'm still feeling you out.
You said no?
I told him I'm still feeling you out.
You didn't check enough boxes for me to say yes.
You have the money, you are ambitious and all that, but like, mentally wise, no.
Well, I'll tell you what, the fact that he asked you to be his girl so early on, he fucked up, but go ahead.
Yeah, he did.
Yep.
So, I just think that when I confirm of little things like, hey, how do you expect this when you're doing this wrong and he still didn't fix it or whatever, but I feel like...
What did he do wrong, specifically?
This wasn't there for me mentally, just there financially.
That's it.
Wait, mentally?
Was he like a sugar daddy?
No, no, no, no, no.
He was some dude I was trying to talk to, see where things go.
Like, yeah, he'll buy me things, but like mentally, as in like, first of all, he'll be like, you need to open up to me.
So I'll open up about something, but then he'll do me wrong.
I was like, why the fuck do you want me to open up to you about what I've been through if you're going to put me through shit, too?
How did he do you wrong?
Like, just all kinds of ways.
Give me one example.
The whole ghosting bullshit, and then too, like, just not being- He just been responding for like a week, is what it was?
When I got back and he dropped me off.
Yeah, the whole entire week.
And his abuse was- I mean, he did at the beginning.
He waited five fucking months.
But what I'm saying is like...
Wait, five months for sex?
Yeah.
He made it wait five months?
Just for me to be his girl.
Okay.
But like, what I'm saying is he didn't check off any boxes.
I said no.
I just think he was just looking for a girl that is kind of slow, don't speak up for yourself, and money will keep her around and good dick.
Yeah, he had good dick.
Yeah, he had good butt.
It's more than that.
It's more than that.
Than just money and dick.
Yeah, something's fishy here.
Yeah.
I already know what the answer is.
Because I did my part, you know...
I'm a hands-on person.
I paint and all that.
I even gave him stuff that I made with my own hands, took my time on.
Does he really value that, though?
He wanted it.
He was begging me for that shit.
So I'm like, whatever.
We already did.
Multiple times.
Not just once.
It don't matter.
So, how long did you make him wait for sex?
Don't cap.
Um, like, two to three months or something.
Like, it just, when we had sex, it was not the plan.
Like, it just, it was in a moment.
I got the answer.
He wasn't that attractive, but he has some money, so he had potential.
She gave him a chance.
He wasn't that arousing to her, which is why she made him wait two months.
But the thing is, is that in his mind, he was like, alright, I can wait this two months because this girl isn't at the top of the list anyway.
Goes ahead, dates her, blah, blah, blah.
She had a chance to maybe get up in the totem pole.
She fucked it up by saying, oh, I don't know if I'm interested in you, blah, blah, blah.
Giving an attitude, being argumentative, whatever.
That's what she means when she says.
Oh yeah, he doesn't want a girl to speak her mind, blah, blah, blah.
Translation, I like to argue a lot.
And then he got annoyed by that, said, fuck this shit, I'm rich, I don't need a bitch like this.
Went ahead, put another girl above her, and then never took her serious.
Got the sex that he wanted, got annoyed, and then at some point just replaced her and ghosted her.
What I mention to him, it'll be like, he'll try plans.
Perfect.
It happened more than just once.
On that day, he'll flick the very last minute.
Did you not just hear what I just said?
You had a chance?
Hold on, look.
Look, look, look, look.
This is the man speaking, okay?
And I'm telling you what it is.
You had a chance.
You annoyed him.
He wanted to elevate you up the totem pole, but you annoyed him so he put other girls ahead of you.
That's why the ghosting, weird flake periods, etc.
You had a chance and then you kind of fucked it up.
He fucked it up.
Guys don't flake.
I don't hate on people or start any conflict with nobody unless they give me a reason.
For example, it didn't start until he just starts flaking last minute.
I take my time seriously.
No, no, no.
Here's the point.
He just said it.
Guys don't flick.
You know why?
Don't flake or do flake?
No, guys do not flake.
But he did.
He did.
That's the whole point.
He did other girls that were better than you.
That's why he flaked on you.
Men rarely flake on dates on girls.
That's before I started running my mouth.
I'll just sing my peep shit and I'll say shit.
Don't say shit.
Trust me.
Do you make a lot of money as a bottle girl?
Yeah.
It's hot and cold.
It just depends on the day.
Good days, bad days.
When there's clients in there, are you making money?
You're killing it?
When there are people in there and you're making money.
Would you consider yourself competitive?
Yeah.
Would you consider yourself...
Well, I already know that you're assertive because you interject all the time and talk when I'm trying to explain things.
And you're not agreeable.
Again, I'm just telling you this.
Guys that have money...
We don't like that shit.
I know, but at least I can stand up.
So if you know, and you do it, what's going to happen?
He's going to flick on you.
Yeah, but I wasn't tripping shit.
You were tripping.
You know what?
You brought up.
So you were tripping about it.
Yeah.
Look, ladies, I'm going to give y'all another piece of game right now.
Guys that have money, guys that are successful, guys that have status, we don't argue with women.
We don't negotiate with women.
It's my way or the highway.
Here's the scary part.
I'm just not going to tell you it's my way or the highway.
I'm going to sell you a dream.
I'm going to tell you to make a piece of art.
I might buy you a bag here or some bullshit like that if you're a simp.
But they're going to silently curve you.
You just won't know.
You're getting lowered down the totem pole.
Every time you want to argue about him...
Third place.
Oh, I don't know if I want to date you.
I don't know if you can check off this box.
Fourth place.
Oh, uh, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, you didn't text me.
Period.
Place.
And then eventually, fall off the list.
No, I see it.
So, here's the thing, ladies, you gotta adapt your game.
If you're with a guy that has higher status, more money than you, whatever, you gotta come correct.
It's more than just my mom saying it.
Who cares about the arguing?
You gotta be quiet for two seconds.
I don't care what you want.
I'm telling you what the man that you want wants in return.
One more time.
I'm telling you what the man that you want wants in return.
So fuck what you want.
I want to argue.
I want to be myself.
You need to change yourself if you want that man.
Or you can continue to be the girl that you are, get a regular dude, argue with him because he'll tolerate it, and you can be his main chick.
And also, I get it.
You wanted to trust the loyalty.
You want all that.
But once again, it has to be earned.
Exactly.
That's what I'm saying.
On both ends.
However, for your part, he wanted you to just be cool, chill, peaceful, and you wouldn't be.
So as a result, you didn't get what he wanted, so he just dipped on you.
Pretty much.
He extracted sex from you for as long as he could, as long as he could tolerate.
Five months, he was like, man, fuck this shit.
I got another chick lined up now.
She's annoying.
Replaced.
And if you really wanted to keep him long-term, you would have Stay quiet.
But you didn't care, ultimately.
You want to know a lot of rich niggas too that are simps and tricks, kind of?
They'll just keep you strung along buying you bags.
100%.
That's how they keep you on the sex list.
Hush money.
I don't want to give this chick attention.
She annoying.
Alright, I'm going to buy her bags so she shut up and still fucks me.
That's another way to keep a girl on the hook.
So, anyway.
We wish you the best.
Y'all better write this shit down, man!
We're in y'all game!
Goddamn!
Whoever's meant for you, they're meant for me.
If we fall out...
But if you're fucking up yourself, then...
Hold on.
You know what, man?
I'm not fucking changing.
I'm a bum.
You're a bum.
Chris, you're a bum.
No, you're a bum.
You know what, nigga?
We deserve bad bitches.
We ain't changing.
Woo!
fucking podcast I want some bad bitches yeah yeah yeah Yeah!
On my soul!
Wait, we're still acting.
On my soul.
I see what you're trying to do.
I see what you're trying to do.
I run.
I run so far away.
Chris.
Chris, I almost had him, bro.
I almost had him, Chris.
I almost had him.
All right.
The point is, is that if we're going to be bums, right?
It's ridiculous, bro.
We got to change if we want to get what we want to get.
We got to.
We got to change.
Because we know what you guys want.
Do you know what we actually want as men?
That's the problem.
I don't care, man.
So.
Just saying.
I don't care, man.
Okay.
All right.
What about you?
Curriculum.
When's the last time you got curved?
Directed, ghosted or something.
Curved, like the geometry curve, whatever.
I'm so far away!
Well, I had sex with this guy and pretty much he busted fast and he was drunk.
And after that, he seemed a little...
Yeah, like he seemed a little embarrassed and stuff.
So he just didn't, you know.
Yeah.
You gotta let Chris in the chat.
Wait, so hold on.
Did you tell them, like, it's okay?
I didn't even get there.
Niggas full of sleep.
Like, real life snoring.
Like, for real.
I'm not even joking.
That's even worse, though.
I have a little bit of whiskey.
In my ears and everything.
Oh, hell no.
It's the transmission.
Okay, you heard her?
Yeah, you snoring?
Oh, I'm cutting this fucking...
I mean, in her case...
Can you imagine?
Oh, yeah, see?
The rest I came out.
She's getting that kidney.
All right, what about you?
Honestly, like two months ago.
All right, what happened?
Tell us a story.
I had met him through a friend, and it was just a very fun night.
And again, I'm not looking for anything...
Translation, they fucked.
Okay, hold on.
Let me get to my story.
That's all I want to know.
We did, but it wasn't like a full-on, like, I don't want to explain it.
It's a little complicated.
It wasn't a full-on, bro.
I'm not even talking.
It wasn't a full-on, like, what's a nigga's dick inside?
It's a full-on.
It wasn't Catholic style?
Is that why it wasn't?
What is that?
What do you call that?
That's sex.
That's a full-on.
Three, not even like five seconds.
If it goes inside, if it says peekable inside, you're done.
You basically had sex.
But then again, I really didn't care because it was like a fun night, but I wasn't really looking for anything.
What's wrong with y'all, man?
That's why I didn't care.
So anyway, so yeah, so three pumps from him?
You said three pumps from him or something like that?
Something like that.
She got a coffee!
She got some caramel or something, I don't know.
And then what happened?
Sorry, continue on.
Um, so nothing.
After that night that that happened, we, like, chilled a couple times after that, but then I ended up finding out that he had just got out of a relationship, like, a month ago.
So after I found that out, I was like, I'm not gonna, like, put in my efforts and try to convince a guy into, again, I'm not looking for anything serious, so I'm not gonna go on my way to try to convince this guy into trying to, like, take me seriously when I know he just got out of a relationship.
Like a pick-me girl.
Yeah, like, pick me, pick me, like, no.
Wait, so, So how did he go to you?
Oh, nothing.
We chilled a couple times and we would actually kick it off really great.
But I guess what bothered him was that I wouldn't chase him or I wouldn't go on my way to text him.
I wouldn't go on my way to call him.
So I guess that made him feel some type of way.
Okay.
You know what's funny about that?
So, for most guys, right, they're looking for girls to chase them, but until that attachment is actually, like, made, she won't chase you.
So you gotta put in the work at the very beginning, at least.
Yeah.
Yeah, but, bro, I already know what type of time she on.
Yeah.
Like...
Not really.
You know what?
I was on Demon Time that night because I'm going to be quite honest.
It was too long of me not doing something.
So I was like, fuck it.
I don't care.
I wasn't talking about Demon Time about that night.
I mean, as in just in general, what's your behaviors, which I'm going to talk about here in a second.
So let me ask you a question real quick.
Let's say, right?
Like me and you, we go on like...
You know, three or four dates, right?
And you're very attractive to me.
You made the decision from the beginning.
Okay, I want to fuck this guy.
But I bring you back to my apartment and we just sit there and watch TV. I never touch you.
I just sit there like watching TV, right?
Maybe the first time, he's shy.
Happens again.
Second time.
What's going on here?
Third time, fourth time, fifth time.
What are you going to start to think?
If he's not trying to initiate a move on me.
I never make a move on you and we've been on like five dates and you're aroused.
You've been like kind of throwing me signs of shit, but I don't do anything.
I'm just gonna feel like he's trying to take me like somewhat seriously or try to convince me into taking him seriously.
But I never make a move.
I know.
That's the thing.
That's what will convince me into thinking that you're trying to pursue something serious in a way.
Because any guy is going to try to make a move.
Oh no, but I haven't even tried to kiss you.
That's my point.
I'm not doing nothing.
I'm literally, I'll hang out, I initiate like maybe a date, but I don't do anything physical with you.
Like I don't initiate anything.
Nothing sexual at all.
How does that make you feel?
You're my dog.
You're my friend.
I'm not going to go on my way and make a move on you.
If you don't make a move on me, you're my friend.
But you're actually attracted and aroused by me.
So you just put me in the friend zone?
Yeah, you're not making a move on me, so I'm not going to make the move.
Fantastic.
Just like you didn't show that guy attention or make any effort, same shit on his end.
He's not going to reciprocate.
Yeah, and I know he just got out of a relationship a month ago, so why would I? That's delusional.
It's the man's job to attract the girl.
He clearly did that.
It's your job to retain him after he attracts you.
He kind of, like, turned me off.
Not turned me off, but gave me a little wake-up call when he told me he just got out of a relationship a month ago.
If he didn't get out of that recently, would you take him serious?
If he didn't have that, like, lingering?
Probably, yeah.
I would have made more of an effort.
So that mentally had you like, you know what, because of that instance, I don't want to take him serious.
Right.
Like, I'm not going to be like, pick me, pick me, like, get over your ex.
Like, I'm not doing that.
No, but you should have done that, though.
No.
I didn't like him to that full-on extent.
Listen here.
Hold on.
Listen here, because whenever you're on a date with a girl, right?
For example, you want to say, let's say you broke over your ex maybe like three months ago, you say like a year or two years.
Just to be safe.
Honestly, just hit up Xena for advice.
I ain't gonna lie.
That's kind of an L. Because the thing is, if he just got out of a relationship with a girl, right?
And...
See, it's a risk, but at the same time, at least you know he was able to get a girl in the first place.
And you know, okay, he's capable of some type of relationship.
And if you like the guy...
You don't know what type of mental problems that last girl had or nothing, though.
Honestly, he communicated to me in a way how...
How that hurt him.
So, obviously, you're still...
Wait, he told you about everything?
No, he didn't tell me everything, but he told me, like...
And I said, oh, bro.
He said too much.
Let me tell you what men think, right?
If I have sex with a girl, right?
And we talk or whatever a little bit, but I have to initiate everything, I automatically assume she's a whore.
And I know that sounds fucked up.
But the reason why I say that, and I'm just telling you how men think.
This is how men think.
This isn't like, this is ultimately right or whatever.
I'm just telling you how men think.
The reason why men think that is because men know, deep down, that girls take sex a lot more seriously than men do.
Right?
Like, girls think twice before they have sex with an individual.
Men think never before they have sex with an individual.
Okay?
So, we know that if I had sex with you, and you're not even willing to, like, put in a little bit of effort, in my head, I'm gonna think, hold on, in my head, I'm gonna think, damn, she probably does this often.
She's desensitized to this.
Okay?
Now, human beings...
Have a tough time taking accountability a lot of the times.
This is psychology, right?
So let's say I could have a gay, bad dick, or I was just a dickheader.
She just didn't like me like that.
She was drunk and it worked out.
I'm still in my head, human beings are going to do what's self-preserving.
Ah, no, she's just a whore.
Blah, blah, blah.
So it doesn't matter.
It gets to the same...
Denominator.
Same root cause, right?
He's still not going to contact you.
It doesn't matter what the reason is.
He's just not going to contact you.
It might have been, it was my fuck-up, but I'm going to think it was her fuck-up because guys, again, think, she must do this with everybody.
She's just a whore.
Because it's going to make them feel a little bit better about her not contacting.
So what I'm saying is that as a girl, when you don't contact a guy and you didn't like him, he might think you're a slut and then just not take you seriously.
I mean, I put in the effort and I only did this because I don't like just letting anybody know where I live.
So I think me driving from Hialeah to like Kendall is an effort.
To me, go see you.
He's from Kendall?
Yeah.
Oh, you fucked up.
So I think that's my efforts.
I don't think I was going to take it past that.
If he put in more, I would put in more.
See, and the other thing that is problematic is how you said, I don't want to be a pick-me-girl.
I think women need to strive to be pick-me-girls.
Not if you just got out of a relationship.
That's delusional.
It's so delusional.
I feel like he needs to heal.
Men pursue sex.
People don't take the time to heal.
No, man.
Men aren't on that faggot shit like y'all.
Look, man.
Men pursue sex.
It's YouTube, Myron.
It's one time.
Men, right?
Men pursue sex.
Women pursue relationships.
If women aren't actively pursuing a relationship with the guy that they had sex with, the guy's going to think she's for the streets.
Does that make sense?
Yeah.
I agree with you.
But a guy that actively pursues relationships, y'all are going to think, this dude's a pussy.
Like her.
She didn't respect him when he tried to say, you want to be in a relationship with me after five months?
She was like, what the fuck?
He didn't show me, that's why.
Well, he didn't show you.
And then also, like...
Guys that throw, like, give away their commitment too early, women don't respect that.
But also, bringing up your past with your ex to your new girl, it's kind of a L, because, like, no one wants to hear that shit.
And secondly, he turned you off because that one statement you said about having a girl and breaking up a month ago turned you off.
In a way.
Yeah.
Of course.
That one statement.
Yeah.
And here's the thing.
Most girls are scared to be pick-me girls, so when you behave like a pick-me girl, you instantly stand out from all the other girls.
Yeah.
No, I just think it's...
Desperate.
It's pathetic.
Desperado.
Really?
Yeah.
Yes.
The girls that I take to travel with me, the girls that get certain benefits, the girls that get to hang around me and get certain types of benefits from being around me, they're all, they're pick-me girls.
Yeah, but none of them are your girlfriend girlfriends.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
They're your hos.
Well, hold on.
No, they're not.
They're not my hos.
That's what you're looking for.
What are they?
At different levels.
I got, like, made chicks, whores, blah, blah, blah.
It is what it is.
But what I'm trying to say, ladies, is that as a girl, you should strive to be a pick-me girl.
Like, women need to get out of this mindset of, I'm going to make him compete for me and all this other bullshit.
You can do that with a regular guy that's a loser, maybe, whatever.
But if you guys all want a guy that makes more money than you, more attractive than you, not more attractive, but more successful and attractive guy that other women want, bro, you're going to have to compete.
There's not enough of these guys to go around.
But doesn't that look desperate for a girl to go out their way to get your attention?
I'm saying in her circumstances, though.
But then again, it falls back to, I'm truly, like, it's not that I'm faking it.
I'm truly happy, like, single right now.
I'm focused on me, so, like...
Yes.
Hold on!
I feel like guys don't like easy girls.
Y'all don't like easy girls.
If you fucked him, what does it matter then?
Yeah, I see that.
He already conquered you.
Now you need to prove why he needs to stay on the island.
He conquered the island.
Show that the island has some resources.
Show that you have some fruit.
You have some trees.
Or is it a barren-ass desert with nothing there?
I'm going to go to another island.
Once we conquer the island, it's on y'all to keep me on the island.
What the fuck, man?
Like, yo, I don't understand this shit with girls.
You'll fuck a guy, right?
And then you'll say, oh, now he's got to pursue me.
No!
We won, dummy!
You got to keep us.
Our job is to attract the girl.
No.
Our job is to attain the girl.
Your job is to retain the man.
That would go for a woman who's trying to look for a man.
That's fine.
If you're not looking for a guy, that's cool.
If it comes, I'm not going to block it, but I'm not going on my way to look for it.
Ultimately, once again, if you had to bring in that point about having his ex and breaking off a month ago, you would have actually pursued it more seriously.
Ultimately speaking, you would have went for it.
Why?
I just said it.
I'm sorry, I didn't understand.
I didn't catch what you were saying.
Because you said, he said, he broke up with his ex a month ago, right?
Okay.
So if you didn't bring that point, you took it more seriously.
If you didn't bring that topic.
So that one statement ruined your, I guess, your vibe, whatever.
Of course, would it not ruin yours if a girl just told you that she just got a relationship?
No, I'd be happy as hell.
You don't think she's going to be talking to her ex?
You run a business, right?
You're an entrepreneur.
You got your OnlyFans, whatever.
Let's say you got a couple people that are candidates that want to work for you, right?
Responding to the thirsty motherfuckers.
Would you prefer someone that had 20 jobs, working for 20 different OnlyFans models, doing text messages, or somebody that worked for just one model and stood with them for five years?
The one model for five years.
That's why we want a girl that was with a guy that was with him the whole time.
Same exact thing.
Men look at girls just like, you know, employers look at applicants.
No, that's a fact.
But I'm just speaking on my situation as to, like, the whole ghost thing.
As a guy, though, you gotta set boundaries to make sure that, okay, if I'm gonna date you, just finish your ex, cut that shit off.
That's the boundary, though.
So...
Like I said, you didn't care.
It was a fun night.
It is what it is.
I'm just saying, I think women in general, this is for all the girls, not just you, because a lot of girls agree with you on this whole pick-me thing, which I think is extremely problematic.
When a girl's scared to be a pick-me girl, you're never going to get picked by the man that you want.
Because when you have a man that you actually want that's attractive, tall, money, all this shit, guess what?
There's a lot less of him than you.
Okay, can I ask you a question?
Sure.
Would you, if it was vice versa, would you try for a woman that you know she has multiple, like, options or men?
Here's the thing, that's not, that doesn't impress me because all women have options.
Not all of them.
All of them.
Are you aware, hold on, let me give you an uncomfortable truth.
An average woman, maybe even an ugly woman, has more pull than a celebrity man?
Well, that's true.
That's true.
So, tell me why it would be impressive for a girl to have options.
I don't know.
I feel like if you would know that she has a bunch of options, you would just offer her to see her as a ho.
Here's the thing.
If I see an attractive girl, I know she's going to have options, regardless of whatever it is.
Remember that AP that I talked about putting it in the safe?
I have the safe.
Okay.
Right?
But it doesn't work the other way around for a woman.
Yeah.
Because it's not impressive when a girl has options.
It's impressive when a man has options because it's hard to be attractive as a man.
Okay, I could agree with you.
You have to build yourself up.
You have to go to the gym.
You have to learn how to be attractive, speak correctly, all this stuff.
Women don't have to do shit to be attractive, to be honest.
Y'all can roll out of bed and get niggas hitting on you at Target.
And also, I know that I'm her best option, so it don't really matter.
That's what it is.
I love the confidence.
You know, it is what it is.
So, I mean, hey, I don't know.
I think girls need to get on this pick-me shit.
You're going to find a man if you're a pick-me girl.
If he's worth it, yes.
I see both sides.
I see what you're saying, and I see what she's saying, so...
If he's worth it, yes.
Sorry for you to disagree.
No, what you're saying, she's single still.
No rain.
No kids.
Ultimately, if you really want that guy, you put in that for her.
Do you want kids?
I do, yes.
I think the thing is, is that a lot of modern day women are just lazy when it comes to dealing with men.
They think I'm special.
I deserve a guy.
Right?
No matter what, no matter how I behave.
Like, yeah.
And it's just like, I look at it like, that's just not how it's going to go.
It's not going to fall into that.
I think part of it isn't necessarily like the pick me thing, but it's self-love and how much like love and commitment and dedication you have to yourself before getting in a relationship.
Because I think a lot of women end up entertaining men who aren't worth Aren't worthy of them or they're not worthy of that man just because they don't love themselves or in a position to be loyal, to treat that person with respect.
And so even before you get to being a pick-me, I think the security in yourself is the most important thing for all women.
I agree.
Here's the thing.
Women are inherently insecure.
So, I mean, that's never going to be fixed.
I think having a secure attachment and just dealing with insecurity as an emotion or as an experience are two different things.
Being able to be secure in yourself, in your relationships, being able to process that healthfully is a lot different.
Everyone feels insecure.
I disagree.
I think women need to be insecure in relationships for them to work.
Why?
What?
Because that just creates an environment where men have power and are able to abuse and harm that person.
That's where narcissistic comes from.
Okay.
Number one, women are far more narcissistic than men are.
This is a fact.
This isn't even me just talking shit.
If you look at a woman's phone roll versus a man's phone roll, nine out of ten times, a woman's going to have Way more pictures of herself than a man is.
That's not narcissism.
Right.
Yes, it is.
What is that then?
Taking photos of yourself because you want to take pictures of yourself is not narcissism.
Narcissism is literally a mental illness.
I just dealt with it for the last year.
It's niggas who are like, I'm the best.
I have a high ego.
Like, it's been me.
It's been me.
Engaging in unhealthy, abusive, harmful relationships with people because you think you're the best and there's nothing wrong with you.
Here's the difference between men and women when it comes to narcissism, okay?
Men must earn their narcissism.
Women are given their narcissism.
What do I mean by this?
Women are given their beauty, which is where their narcissism stems.
Men have to earn their narcissism through their success.
So 9 out of 10 times when a man is narcissistic, it's because he's actually done something.
9 out of 10 times when a woman is narcissistic, it's because she was born pretty.
Completely different.
So narcissistic traits and narcissism as a mental illness, as something that people fully experience, are two different things.
So I hear you when you say that, that women might be beautiful and experience narcissism as a trait or as a thing, because we do live in a narcissistic society.
But narcissism as an illness, as people engaging in violence and abusive, unhealthy relationships is a completely different thing.
And that's what men do.
Okay, look.
I just want to say that the word narcissist comes from the god Narsicus, and he was condemned, and that's why we got the word, because he was stuck looking at himself at the river all day long, his reflection.
That's where the word came from.
That's not what the word means.
Okay, but that's like the origin.
From a clinical, I guess, clinical standpoint.
So both are correct to a degree, but here's the thing that I'm trying to get here.
Because you're saying, like, insecure, blah, blah, blah.
I'm saying women are inherently insecure all the time anyway.
And if you don't believe me, look at the makeup industry.
Look at the weave industry.
Look at the extension industry.
Look at the lash industry.
Look at the entire beauty industry in itself is predicated on female insecurity with their looks, okay?
So women are always going to be insecure.
Now, that's number one.
Number two, for the relationship to work, the woman must be insecure.
And I know that sounds like a crazy concept, but the reason why I say that is because women...
Know that they got the best guy when they're insecure around their man.
Then why do men try and get after you when they ask you, like, oh, you're jealous, you're insecure, like, stop being so insecure?
Wait, what?
That doesn't make sense.
Say that again?
Okay, so you're saying that the relationship doesn't work unless the woman is insecure, right?
Yes.
Okay, so then why does a man try to ask a woman why is she so insecure that it's more geared towards like jealousy?
Because her behaviors from the insecurity is starting to piss him off.
For example, she nags him.
She's annoying.
She pitches and moans.
She follows him.
He doesn't care about...
The insecurity isn't the issue.
It's the actions that stem from the insecurity.
But that's because the man doesn't have frame.
But most men...
Okay, I'm not going to say most men.
Most men that I know that use the word insecure usually mean that somebody is being more...
Oh, well, they think that another girl is trying to take their place or another girl looks prettier than them or something like that.
Okay, let me ask you a question.
Yes.
When you were a porn star, which porn stars did you want to do scenes with?
Like female or male?
Male.
Which porn stars did you want to deal with?
Ones that I got to know outside of the camera first.
I knew that I was going to actually be able to...
Deal with on camera.
Okay, you wanted the guy that probably had the most status that would get you the most money, that would get you the most views.
Yeah, you put yourself in the right area.
Fantastic.
How many of y'all been in a nightclub before, ladies?
I've never.
Okay.
In a club?
Yeah.
Yeah, you guys all been in a nightclub?
Alright, are you guys sitting in general section?
No.
Sitting in the VIP, right?
How many girls are in there?
A lot.
How many dudes are in there?
Like two, three.
Oh, okay.
Now, let me ask you this.
When you go to the club, do you dress your best?
Yeah.
Why?
Because that's how you get into that section.
Oh!
Okay.
Would it be fair to say that you knowing that there's going to be other bad bitches there competing for the same spot that you want at that club where you're going to be around higher status men stems from insecurity.
Well, I wouldn't call it insecurity.
Look, look, look.
Y'all can call it tomato, tomato, blah, blah, blah.
That insecurity was a fuel for you to get dressed that night, put yourself in a tight-ass dress, wear pounds of makeup, sit in uncomfortable heels, go into a nightclub with dark, loud music, right, to compete against other women for a spot at a prestigious table while higher-status men.
So everything is really insecure.
Now, let me explain.
Let me continue on here.
I just used the club as an example.
You get the best behavior out of women when they're insecure.
That's true.
Wait, can I ask you something, Myron?
But before you ask that question, does that make sense?
Y'all get what I'm saying now with the insecurity?
Why it's so important?
The club thing, a lot of clubs just won't let you in if you don't look a certain way.
But why are you going to the club, though?
You gotta ask yourself a question.
Why are you going to the club?
Networking?
I like music.
I DJ. I like that shit, bro.
I don't feel like every girl that goes to a club is to find a man.
It's not about finding a man.
You're not going to find the right man.
But it's a competition.
You're putting yourself around men that are higher status.
That's why girls that are pretty are always concentrated in the VIP sections.
Okay?
So what I'm saying is that to get the best out of a woman, she must compete.
And that competition creates insecurity.
And that's when women behave the best, when they know that their position isn't safe.
This is in human nature, period.
When you're in a workplace, when you're in school, etc., you're competing, you want to be number one?
You have to be insecure to a degree about where you stand so that you can train hard enough to get the number one spot.
You need women in that position to compete.
Girls looking at what bag is she wearing?
What shoes she got on?
Everything is a competition.
Honestly, I agree with you because there's some scenarios where there'll be a guy chasing a girl for such a long period of time, but the second she finds out that he's in a relationship or he's taking a girl seriously...
Although he's been trying to get her for the longest just because she knows there's another girl in the picture and he's not going to be paying no more mind to her.
That's when she'll jump in.
She'll jump in and she'll try.
I've seen that many times.
I've always said it.
When you have girls, it's easier to attract other girls.
But guess what?
It doesn't work that way with men, does it?
If I know you're fucking niggas, I get turned off and I leave.
If you know I'm fucking bitches, you get turned on and you stay, or you come at me.
That's why I say women must be insecure in the relationship for it to work with a man, but not the other way around.
I've seen men competing for women many times.
Really?
Yeah.
Maybe to smash, but not to take it seriously.
Are y'all just trying to have sex and not take it seriously?
Women want a relationship.
Men want sex.
Not necessarily.
I've had guys tell me that they'll be in an open relationship if they can just be the other one and not sexual.
Nigga, you're a porn star, nigga.
Alright, let me explain something to you.
Men that are attracted that have options that are cuckolds are not okay with that.
Not a cuckold.
If you're okay with letting your chick smash other dudes, you are by definition a cuck.
We're not talking about sexual.
We're talking about just in a relationship.
Okay, look.
Let me explain something.
No sane man that has standards, that's attractive, that has options, is going to allow his woman to be around other men, period.
Something's wrong with that guy and his value is low.
I agree.
He can't dictate terms to you.
He's got to go off what you say.
I want to open a relationship.
Okay, sweetheart.
I can't tell you no, because I'm a loser.
Ethical nominality.
Yo, yo, yo, Chad.
What the fuck's wrong with your nigga?
Hell is hot.
Yo, nigga.
Hell is so hot.
Yo, yo.
Yo, you have anything you want to say back to him?
He said, it was in Boston, police that beat me.
It was the Chicago police.
And then someone also said BLM doesn't march for black people who get killed by other black people.
I've been in several protests in Chicago where we marched for black people who are murdered by other black people and spoke out against gang violence.
Shout out to Good Kids, Man City.
So yeah, appreciate the love for my lazy eyes.
That's not televised though.
Hmm?
It's not televised?
They only go super hard and televise it for the police shootings.
The news stations are kind of scared to go into certain neighborhoods where we have the protests, where we're speaking up against gang violence.
So it's not our fault.
It's just the media doesn't want to cover it.
But it happens.
Y'all just don't pay attention to it.
I'm sorry.
We never got to see it.
We're sorry to hear that.
You had a question?
Yeah, sorry.
Does anyone have anything before you?
Because I know she's going to probably switch to something else.
Wait a minute.
No, actually.
I was just saying why I think women need to be insecure and religious for it to work.
And I was explaining the club dynamic, women competing, the need for women to compete to be attracted to a man versus it's not necessarily required for a man to be attracted to a woman.
When you mean by insecure, exactly what do you mean?
Like, jealous over girls?
Yeah, that's what I said.
Competition.
Yeah, she has to have that competition anxiety and she needs to know that her place isn't secure.
Competition anxiety.
Like, competition isn't always a bad thing.
Like, I feel like as women, we're raised to think, like, comparing ourselves with other women is a bad thing, but it's actually really not.
Especially, like, if you're an- You guys already do it anyway.
Yeah, exactly.
Y'all already do it anyway.
Y'all see it, chick.
Oh, shit.
Boom.
My bag is better.
Blah, blah, blah.
What?
Why not take that same competition and say, that bitch can't cook.
She'll never be able to take my man.
I cook.
I clean.
I'm a way better girl.
I hold him down.
I can make his business better than these other hoes.
She don't suck dick like me.
Well, I mean, you got to go a little bit beyond that because there's always going to be a girl that sucks dick better than you.
You need to keep your man through other things that aren't sexual.
You get your man through sex, right?
And then you got to keep him through what you do outside of the bedroom.
Just because you have a vagina doesn't mean he's going to stay with you.
Yeah.
So, I mean, again, that's what I mean when I say the insecurity thing.
Like, girls must feel that insecurity.
So, I know y'all say, oh my god, that sounds fucked up.
But it's the truth.
Why do you think men, right, the highest status men have multiple girls fighting for them?
Any rapper, any celebrity, etc.
They got 5-10 girls fighting for them.
And they're okay doing that.
You ain't gonna find 10 niggas fighting for an average bitch.
No.
And if they are, they're bums that no one respects anyway.
But you'll have bad chicks at the top of the total polls fighting for the top guys.
Why?
Women are okay sharing men.
That's Chris.
What?
I'm just kidding.
You asked something, right?
You already answered my question.
Do you think guys don't like confident women?
No.
It's not that we don't like confident women.
It's not that important.
Okay.
I mean, but you don't want a girl nagging at you all the time because you're super insecure.
Well, nagging doesn't have to do with confidence.
Not necessarily.
I mean, if you're complaining to him about another girl that you're jealous over, then like you said, no guy wants to hear.
That's the man's fault for not putting a woman in her place before that even started.
If a woman's nagging, you already lost as a man.
For her, like, communicating how she...
You're saying, like, a woman has to be insecure for a relationship to work, but...
Yeah.
How will she communicate that?
If I come into a relationship and I tell you straight to your face, I'm never going to be monogamous to you, you can't nag me.
That's just different.
That's why I tell guys to be honest with girls.
Most dudes aren't though.
They're not.
So I tell girls, he's gonna cheat anyway.
Accept it.
Most people aren't gonna be like me.
Y'all better be in a poly relationship then.
What do you mean?
You mean like I have multiple girls and she's closed?
Or the other way around?
I mean, whatever floats each other's boat, right?
I would never allow my girl to see other men.
That's unacceptable.
But in general...
In general, I'm the only general in this situation.
Like, there is no talking to other men, blah, blah, blah.
Like, that's not...
When women have sex with other men, their value lowers, ladies.
When I have sex with other women, my value increases.
We're not the same.
I mean, she wants to fuck Drake and she's a virgin.
Do you guys know the name Monica Lewinsky?
Yes.
Oh, y'all know how she got famous?
From sucking Bill Clinton's dick.
Think about that.
A man's status was so high that a woman became famous for sucking his dick.
That's the power that men have at the highest levels.
Women can build a name off of fucking a guy.
That's like Kim Kardashian.
But it doesn't work the other way around, does it?
So that's what I'm trying to say.
That is the power of male status.
That is what women are attracted to.
Women can get a come up off fucking a dude.
Women only go on a downfall when they fuck a dude.
Sorry, as they fuck dudes.
But they can get a come up off of the guy.
But if the guy's a loser, then they'll come up.
So, do you mean that a woman should agree and be okay with sharing her man?
Yes.
Yeah?
100%.
Yeah.
It's the reality.
I agree with you.
No powerful man ever has had one chick.
You're talking about powerful men.
Or you're just talking about men in general.
Money, status, clout, looks, whatever.
The rarer the man, the less likely he's going to be monogamous.
Every dude wants multiple girls, man.
Men want variety.
We don't want to wake up and smash the same chick every day.
There's a saying that says women fuck who they want, men fuck who they can.
Definitely speaking, we want to fuck bitches.
Just saying.
Cool.
IRS. Ladies, to those of you who file taxes, y'all are smart.
And to the ones who didn't, y'all got less than a month to get that money.
Y'all better go get that.
I ain't paying this year.
Y'all better act like I'm your daddy and do what I say.
What the hell?
He paid $50 to save that show.
Right.
Movies.
Well, he taxed you to get it.
Movies.
Ladies, imagine you are engaged in planning your wedding and you find out that he has a good amount of money in his savings, but he doesn't want to spend it on the wedding.
What will you tell him?
Smart.
Smart.
Would any of you be angry about it?
No.
None of y'all want an extravagant wedding?
No.
So a bunch of people could just go in and judge about how shitty the food is?
We just gotta go and feed a bunch of people.
That's pretty smart.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
She's 30 though.
Did you want a more expensive wedding when you were younger and you changed your mind?
I mean, when I was in a elementary and in middle school, of course, everybody wants to say, oh my god, I want that Disney Cinderella.
When did you say, fuck it, I don't need an expensive wedding?
30.
Because...
Can I tell you something?
30?
I'm proud, baby.
30 and proud.
How many people make it this far?
But anyways...
So, yeah, of course, when I was younger, I wanted all that, like, fairytale Disney wedding stuff.
But now...
When you're thinking about like what really matters, like what truly matters to me, what really matters is just me celebrating that love with my partner and that's it.
I don't care for everybody else to witness and sit there and freaking judge for my food and my dress and wow her dress looks terrible.
Did you ever have a guy that you thought you were gonna get married to?
I was engaged.
Oh you were?
Yeah.
Shit.
How long were y'all together?
We were together for like a total of like four years, four or five years.
What happened?
Of course, infidelity happened.
How old were you at the time?
Were you like in your mid-20s or early 20s?
That happened when I was like, what, 27, 26?
Okay, so you met him around 26 and then...
Oh no, I met him actually on...
Sorry, I'm sorry, I missed that part.
I met him when I was 21.
Oh, see how we're together total, like nine years.
20-ish.
Like nine years.
Okay.
As friends, it all started as friends.
Like, we're just friends.
You friends owned them.
Yeah, no, yeah, because I was young and this and that, whatever.
But that was cool.
Like, I was that young mentality.
But when were you all together, though?
Together, together, like, I would say like 22 when I was 22 years old.
Yeah.
And then he cheated on you and you said, nah.
Yeah, I was like, you know, I put in all this wifey work, I'm here doing all this stuff, and we live together, you know?
So I was literally 100% committed, doing the cooking, the cleaning.
No, it was literally just the cheating.
But obviously, of course, cheating does cause from things that they're unhappy about.
I get that concept.
No, he could have been happy with you and still cheated.
That too.
That too.
But in this case, I guess, I'm assuming that's what it, huh?
Is he still single?
Yeah, he was trying to run back and I said, still to this day trying to run back and I was like, nope.
You want to hear the best advice?
Out of nowhere, out of nowhere, literally in a fake account type of shit.
Is he successful?
Does he make money?
No, it wasn't even worth it.
I was like the breadwinner and I was still trying.
I was a breadwinner and I was doing all this wifey work and I was doing all this commitment, being loyal and everything and for you to try me like that.
It was an asymmetrical investment from her part.
Okay.
I feel like it was smart for me to just let that go and it didn't benefit me at the end and that's it.
If he was a millionaire, would have you looked the other way?
Keep it a thousand.
If you didn't have to work, you weren't stealing kidneys, you weren't robbing graveyards for body parts, would you stay with him?
Allegedly, of course.
No, because I'm not going to be happy.
I'm very like...
I was raised with my mom and dad together.
So to this day, we're together.
You don't think your dad ever fucked another chick?
I'm pretty sure.
I don't know.
I don't like to dive into other people's areas.
Wait, wait, wait.
Let me ask you this.
I don't know.
I don't know.
Maybe.
Let me ask you this because you and your sister actually do seem fairly bright.
If your dad was able to build a good family and have two daughters and y'all came out alright and he was fucking chicks, what makes you think that you can't do it too?
Yeah, I mean, that's a good aspect.
Your mom did it.
But in this case, not with somebody that I was dealing with.
Your father was a breadwinner.
Both, actually.
My mom and...
Well, there's got to be one breadwinner in the family.
Well, in the beginning, it was mainly him providing, and then they opened up a business together.
He was the breadwinner.
He was at first, yeah.
Now they have a business together.
So y'all grew up seeing your father in a leadership role?
Absolutely.
Okay.
Absolutely.
You know, I can't even knock you then.
If that's the case, like your guy wasn't a leader, then it is what it is.
Yeah, it wasn't.
Damn.
That just sucks, though, because you lost nine years, man.
Like, fuck.
I know.
I was going to tell you, like, yo, go back to him, but...
If he's a bum, then...
It's just not worth it.
It's not worth it.
I'm not winning anything out of it.
Yeah, it is what it is.
I'm telling you, man, it's highly of niggas, man.
Actually, Philly.
Philly.
Oh, shit.
I know.
Philly, Italian.
Damn, Italian from Philly?
From Philly, yeah.
I can't put a marker on it.
I don't know.
South Philly, probably, right?
I don't know.
South Philly is where the Italians are concentrated.
Yeah, that's fair.
Yeah, I mean, okay.
Cool enough.
Alright, fair enough.
Okay, where we at?
We got a lot of these.
Oh, shit.
Okay.
I'll fly through these then.
Alright, Movi, I think we're...
Chris, 50 and up, probably.
Alright.
And then I'll fly through the other ones.
I just won't.
Yeah.
Is anybody gonna dress the poodle on the top of homegirl's head?
Modern Fresh, I'm on my way to the top cause of FNF, Frida Tate's.
Shout out to you.
What poodle?
What poodle?
Huh?
My afro, I know it's fire.
What's your background?
I'm Jamaican.
Jamaican?
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
- I love it.
- Boom, baca. - All right, the sacred one.
Yo, Myra, back in November 2022, I ask you, my girl hasn't given me box in a month, and turns out she wasn't cheating, never was, and I talked it out with her 100%.
I have a nice red BRZ stage 2 plus, and y'all say women don't care.
Nobody cares about your car, bro!
Nigga, that's what she told you!
A woman can only serve one master, bro.
If she's not fucking you, that means she's checked out and she's probably looking for somebody else.
FNF, y'all have changed a lot of young, aspiring men's lives at 20 years old on pace to make $120K this year before taxes.
Good to you.
Listening to your Money Mondays has helped me plan my life and success.
Love y'all.
No homo.
Chris is a bum.
I'm also 20 years old making that kind of money.
You're fantastic.
Good job, bro.
Ladies, do you feel like merch, if your significant other wants to smash other chicks that he doesn't truly love you, and do you feel the relationship is threatened if he exercises options?
Why or why not?
My first super chat.
Let's go.
All right.
This will be a simple one.
If your guy wants to smash other chicks, do you think he can still love you?
No?
Yes.
We'll make it simple.
Raise your hands if you think he can love you and smash other girls.
Start with the couch.
Okay, so we got a majority here at the table and then everyone on the couch agrees?
Except BLM. It's narcissistic and toxic.
Okay.
And then, do you think the relationship is threatened if he exercises his options?
Raise your hands if you think the relationship is actually threatened.
He can still love you, but do you think the relationship is threatened?
Raise your hands if you think it's threatened.
Yep, we know.
BLM. Alright, so most of the girls think it's still threatened at the same time.
So hold on.
If your man cheated on you, I came back like the next same night.
Would you get mad?
What do you mean?
Let's say he went to work, he went to work, he cheated, came home to you.
Yeah.
Is that bad?
Is that bad?
That's horrible.
He's not coming back here.
If I don't find out, no.
I don't believe there's no such thing as like a loyal man in this world and that's like on the Bible.
Yeah.
So it's a little delusional.
real man is never going to have sex with another woman.
Banfire!
Like it's in the back.
Did opening up in OnlyFans make you come to that realization even stronger?
That men aren't loyal?
Wait, come?
For real.
A lot of taken men probably are in your stuff, right?
Honestly, what made me just believe it is when I found out that in the Bible it says there's no such thing as a loyal man.
What verse is that?
No, don't ask me that because I don't know.
It is.
No, it's not there.
Yeah, it is.
No.
No, dude, I've read the Bible.
Tell me what verse is.
Well, the question is.
I said I read the Bible.
Well, my question is this.
Has being on OnlyFans confirmed that for you?
Of course.
There's a lot of married men, yeah.
Fair enough.
Chris is drunk.
Must be drunk.
I think Lurker.
Nigga, you missed all these...
What's the next one?
Yo, Big Mom, Mikey Paradise, Myron, Fresh, Chris, and the whole FNF team, thank you.
And that's from Udo.
And no Iomo.
Okay.
Brenda, you're coming home with us.
If she can handle you, the big homie will buy you a dress and a donut pillow after he's done tearing your walls.
Fresh, show her what you're blessed with, Ninja.
Yo, who's Brenda?
Me.
I'm fucking scared.
She's crazy.
It's freshest testicle speaking.
I don't know what it is, by the way.
Lurker.
Hey, ladies, which men do you prefer?
A tall man that has bad game and a simp or a short man that has good game and toxically masculine?
Quick question.
D-game.
Wait, is it D-game?
A bad D-game or a simp or a short man that has good D-game?
Okay, so a tall guy, bad D-game and a simp.
Or, short man, good D-game, but toxically masculine.
I'm going for the short guy.
Alright, raise your hands for the short guy.
Raise your hands for the short guy.
How you gonna say it now?
Stand on it.
Raise your hands.
Alright, on the couch, how many of y'all go for the short guy?
All of them.
Okay, so we got four girls that will go for the short guy.
And the rest of y'all want a tall guy that's a simp?
Yeah, I do.
I hate singing.
So you want the short guy, too?
Well, okay, so the short guy, like, he has potential to, like, change his masculinity.
He can learn.
That's a shitty phrase.
What he means is, like, he's a traditionally masculine guy.
Like, he's gonna, hey, I'm the leader.
You sit back.
I'm gonna drive.
I'll protect you.
Oh, yeah, then I'll take him for sure.
You take the short guy?
I'm gonna take the short guy.
Short kings.
Short kings.
Okay, alright.
I just saw the toxic part.
The toxic part.
Just threw it off.
Yeah, I was like, um.
You gotta put a woman in these for them.
Jonathan Sparks, a hard-working man making 120k per year, 6 foot, 110 pounds, athletic build, non-smoker, drinker.
Assuming he looked cute to you, do you think a guy like that would want you?
Trick question.
You're a three or four.
He only wants to smash.
Second from iron is 100% cap.
Okay.
Jonathan Sparks.
Jay Martin, so the organ transplant coordinator.
What up?
I've got organ.
I need you to transplant.
In yourself.
As a math coordinator, it'll be harder than Chinese calculus.
What the fuck, bro?
God bless you and may the Lord guide you, baby.
I'd like to thank Fresh and Fit for teaching me womanese.
No father to teach me.
I had to learn the hard way.
I've doubled my yearly wages and my motivation is level 9,000.
I bought the book and I actually saw all your videos.
Only started watching in January.
Shout out to your bro for supporting.
Yo, listen, bro.
We just teach you guys to not be simps.
First, I asked Nina if her new guy beat the dunies down.
She answered, now, Nina, who is a top sniper?
That Carpia's the most girls of the pod?
No, right?
Ignore that, bro.
Oh, okay.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
We wouldn't know, bro.
Cap City and ATL, we're in the initial protest.
The protest was shot at the police first.
Get your facts straight.
Oh, my God, City.
Oh, no.
Here we go.
You got anything you want to say, Ms.
BLM? He's challenging your protest skills.
Oh, my God.
So I'm not answering nothing ignorant.
Thank you.
They shot the police first.
Alright, this is not a question.
I don't ask women questions.
For the Cuban sisters, here's the plan.
You'll be going out with Myron and Walter after the show.
They'll be going back.
Come on, man!
Yes, sir!
I mean, yes, sir!
Think it's a double date?
Yes, sir!
Um, ciao, anyways.
Yes, sir!
Fresh is a good guy.
No, I'm just saying, like, white people are really diving into it.
Yeah, Fresh is a gentleman.
I'm a man of God, you know.
He's a man of God.
Thank you.
Don't let this super sad stop the show.
Keep the combo going.
Long live FNF and the big ups of the whole FNF crew side.
No.
Big Mo, tell the people why you eating spinach and kale.
To tell these bitches to go to hell.
This three or four hasn't missed a meal since she was born and she's talking about how oppressed she is.
Literally on a podcast right now being viewed by thousands of people just because she's a woman.
I'm sure the FBI is watching.
You sound vaccinated.
Are you vaccinated?
No.
Okay.
The FBI's coming.
YouTube user, here to ask tough questions.
You've mentioned it before, that marriage is not about happiness, it's about duty.
But wouldn't you say by men cheating is fulfilling the happiness while destroying your wife's happiness?
No, because your woman is getting the fulfillment she gets from having the highest quality man commit to her, my friend.
Yep.
That's why.
See, that's the thing.
People always look at what the females want, but they never look at what the man wants.
A man is fulfilled when he's on his purpose and getting bitches.
A woman is fulfilled when she has the highest man and he picks her over all the other bitches.
Happy husband, happy life.
There you go, my friend.
Devon Jackson, Broke Lives Matter.
Thanks, Devon Jackson.
I appreciate that.
This is why women deserve less.
To the wise words of J. Cole, don't save her.
She don't want to be saved.
That was actually a 40 first that said that.
That was actually Project Pack.
The original was Project Pack.
Check in your hip hop knowledge.
That's how we use emojis, the corn.
I think it's because you got the cornrows.
Hey Fit, I love your content perspective on life.
Is there any way I could meet you in person?
Question for the ladies.
How long can we be living this type of life?
Eventually we'll be a feet deep.
Is this the type of life you want to leave behind?
Huh?
Huh?
I don't know.
What type of life?
Don't think long-term, you dummy!
Don't invest!
Stupid!
Alright.
Dildo swaggings.
Ladies, a man has to put in the work in order to be picked by women, which means a high-value man is actually a pick-me.
Birds of a feather flock together, so high-value men will always choose pick-me, women.
Pick-mes aren't desperate, they're smart.
Wow.
Anyone have anything you want to say?
I mean, I understand what you're saying, and...
You have your perspective, and that's what it is, but we have our perspective too, so that's that.
You can let your man cheat?
I feel like...
What?
Or you can let your man cheat?
Am I gonna let him cheat?
Yeah.
With what happened to me, hell no.
If you're talking about my story, hell no.
Goodbye.
I'm not going to stop cheating, is what I'm saying.
You don't need to be together if you're going to cheat.
What are you doing for me?
Do you want a rich man?
What?
Do you want a rich man?
I don't care.
What's the minimum you got to make a year?
I mean, at least...
Give us a number.
Like, at least, like, you know, 100k.
I mean, 100k or so.
100k a year.
I'm not trying to look for a rich man.
I don't care about the whole money status.
No problem.
Chris, pull up the calculator.
Get the calculator.
Alright, so let's keep going on here.
Oh, okay, you gotta pull it up.
Alright, we're gonna run through this real quick.
Alright, $100,000 per year?
We're gonna go ahead and see how prevalent her man is.
Well, what's the age range that you want him to be?
What?
What's the age range you want him to be?
For sure, 29 or 20.
I mean, yeah, 29 to 35.
Okay.
Race?
Doesn't really matter.
You gotta put white, too.
Oh, yeah, you're right.
Hispanic, black, and white.
That's it.
Okay.
No Asians?
I've never tried it, so I'd rather, you know.
Okay.
You know about Chinese food?
How tall?
What's the bare minimum height for you?
Bare minimum, at least like 5'9", the minimum, because I'm 5'8", so at least 5'9".
Okay, so one inch over?
That's fair.
Whatever, yeah.
No heels for you.
Alright, cool.
Do you care if you owns or rents?
Owns or rents?
Doesn't matter if he owns a rent, to be honest.
Okay.
Schooling?
You got a master's degree like you?
For sure, he has to be educated.
What's the bare minimum degree he's got to have for you?
Associates, bachelors?
At least associates, because there's a lot of successful people with the social...
I mean, I've seen successful men that just happen to have an associate.
You just tell us what you want.
You deserve the best!
You deserve the fucking best!
Associate's degree, nigga.
Yeah!
Woo!
You sure you don't want a master's?
I mean, he could have a master's.
Definitely a master's, too.
I don't mind a master's.
No, no.
What's the bare minimum?
Minimum, bare minimum.
He has to have this...
An associate.
Okay, associate.
Can he be obese?
Um...
Obese, like, what are you talking about, though?
Let's be specific.
That's pretty fat, yeah.
Like, yeah, no.
Sorry.
No, you're not that well.
Sorry, Mo.
No, I mean, if you're talking about, like...
Can he get married?
Can he be married?
Absolutely not.
Before we go ahead and pull this calculator up, which is...
This is...
This comes from the U.S. Census Bureau and the National Center for Health Statistics.
So this is the most accurate assessment of men in the United States.
Let's see how common your guy is.
Go ahead, Chris.
Crushing dreams one by one.
Let's do it.
I love the delusional score.
I love it.
Goddamn, it's like...
Did it freeze?
There you go.
The chances of you finding your guy are 0.4%.
So it looks like half of a percent there.
So the chances of finding your guy are extremely slim.
So let me ask you this.
And this doesn't even account for him being charming, handsome, charismatic, in shape, none of that.
Smelly.
Do you think that you can really tell a guy that that's rare, that he can't fuck other chicks?
I'm not accepting that.
That's just my opinion and that's that.
I'm leaving it at that.
But statistically speaking, this guy is...
You don't believe in miracles or you don't believe in special things that happen in life or anything like that?
I just learned about manifestation.
No?
Okay.
I don't need a job.
I can manifest.
I mean, to each their own, guys.
That's what's beautiful about life.
Everybody has their own opinions, their own views, and that's why we're on this podcast.
Amen.
Yo, man.
And only life was full of miracles.
I mean, it is.
Isn't that why your podcast is so successful?
Besides your work, but also the work of the Lord.
It wasn't a miracle.
It is.
So you don't think God was a play in this?
You think you just did it on your own?
That is a miracle.
Are you serious?
I have to get up Of course!
Because of your work and the work of the Lord behind it as well.
Anything with God Anything can happen.
You can't use that as a blanket statement.
Let's see what you're doing here.
That's my opinion.
And that's what I run with.
It's too vague.
Just because God gives you something doesn't mean you can just lay back and do nothing.
You still have to work for that.
God does give you the willpower.
That's what I just said.
You guys are missing the point.
You can get a miracle, but you gotta know how to handle it.
At the same time.
You get it in your lap, but do you know how to actually handle it?
Because God's not going to give you something you can't handle, like straight up.
Well, I will say this.
The reason why we became successful is from deliberate action.
I guess you could say that God blessed us with certain things, but we had to take deliberate action to make it happen, right?
Now with that said, Let's say, you know, this guy is obviously very rare.
To get him, you're going to have to take deliberate action to attract him.
Of course.
Okay, so one of those deliberate actions is accepting that this is what comes with the territory of this man, that he is less common than you are, so you have to acclimate to him.
Right.
So I get what you're saying.
You're like, well, I have my perspective.
Well, what about your perspective might be wrong on the man that you want?
Wouldn't it be fair to say that if I want a bad bitch, if I want a girl that's very attractive, that is an IG model or a girl that's really bad, I probably have to be a successful guy to be able to pull her from all the other guys that want her?
Yeah.
Because think about it.
If I want a bad chick, that means I have to take her from someone else.
I see your point of view.
If you want a high-status guy, that means you have to take him from another woman.
Yeah, I say your point of view.
I say mine and I say yours.
So, I mean, all I'm saying is that you gotta take deliberate action.
I think saying, oh, I'm hoping for a miracle.
I'm not saying...
That's what you said.
Okay, no.
There is a miracle within life.
There is a play in that.
So, I mean, if you guys don't believe it, that's okay.
I'm not saying that.
We're gonna stay here and God is just gonna bless me.
We believe it.
I said that you guys put in the work.
Did I not say that?
No, no, no.
I'm way past the podcast.
I'm not worried about that.
No, I know, but that comes into play with...
I'm not saying that it was just a miracle.
Of course, you have to put in the work.
You have to put yourself in position for something to happen.
The blanket statement you just said earlier has to be intentional as well on your part.
Maybe I delivered it the incorrect way, but I'm correcting myself then.
It's possible for you to find this guy and him marry you and take you seriously and give you a family, but is it probable?
Well, statistically speaking, no.
Yeah.
I mean, that's your view.
That's cool.
It's a fact.
I see your view on statistics.
The number was looking you dead in the face.
That's cool.
Less than half a percent.
That's cool.
I mean, how accurate is that?
Jasmine, it's super accurate.
It has all the answers, okay?
Just like Google.
Wait, wait, wait.
Girls, raise your hand if you're married right now.
I get it.
It's from the US National Health Survey.
It's the most accurate assessment of men in the United States.
We had it personally made.
And here's the thing.
Unless you want a drug dealer, right?
Or someone that doesn't report their money, you probably want someone from that statistics because those are people that pay taxes that report their income.
And the age range that she wanted.
A very small percentage of men make $100,000 a year.
You know, that was just me.
That's me being flexible.
You know, I'm not gonna...
That's like cutting out my chances as well.
I was just throwing out a number.
We're really gonna get down to it.
Alright, everybody bring the paper.
Where's the papers?
Let's really get down to it and calculate all these things.
I was just throwing out something to see, you know, like...
I wasn't trying to be too picky.
Do you want more money or less money?
I'm confused.
Can we go onto the next one?
I understand what you're saying, but nobody's really getting my point.
I don't think any of us get it.
Okay.
I think that just makes it right to go on to the next topic, to be honest.
I mean, there's just no point in continuing the back and forth if we don't agree or get it.
Not agree that they don't really understand and I've already explained myself.
And we're going off of the statistics.
Based off the U.S. Of the response.
So that's it.
Somebody has some?
Yeah, no, I'm saying the statistics based off the U.S. So there's love.
There are other men in other countries too.
So I feel like don't have hope.
Realistically speaking, women rarely, if ever...
See, this is a perfect example of women giving each other bad advice.
Only men typically travel outside of their native country to find a partner.
Women rarely, if ever, do that.
Women don't do that.
Yeah, that don't mean somebody from another country not going to come here and just not be counted.
Men are traveling.
Not that women don't do it.
It's just not...
I'm convinced women give dogs your advice.
How about the nuances though?
Depending on where you live, a person can make more depending on the city.
If you live in Boston, an average guy is making around 65 grand.
Generally speaking, it's everybody.
You're not going to talk to everybody.
It's better to look at the people around you or the cost of living because if you're living in an area where things are expensive, you're going to want to be with someone that makes more money.
Homeless person?
What's the point of this statement?
Statistically, it doesn't really matter.
It's the nuance that fucking matters.
That's how I feel.
That's what I'm saying.
I think it matters depending on where you live.
You're going to want what's around your area.
The United States of America.
Everything.
And you can change where you live.
If you don't want to live in a super expensive area, you can go somewhere else.
That's not as expensive.
I still don't understand how...
The point I'm trying to make is that, like, if you live in an area, like, let's say you live in Boston, right?
Yeah.
And you want a guy that makes around $65,000 or more, statistically speaking, you're going to meet a lot more guys that reach your requirements.
But she wants a hundred.
Okay, I get that.
Whatever, never mind.
That's like a drastic difference.
Are you trying to say there's like more men out there that earn like average?
Yeah.
Yeah, like an average, like a higher income, like on average.
So you're saying based on the area?
Yeah.
Okay.
So I'm saying like you're more likely to get what you want statistically depending on where you live.
Yeah, but her standard wasn't that low.
I get that.
I just think the delusion calculator is inaccurate in that sense.
It's extremely accurate because it extrapolates from two reporting systems that are very accurate in the United States.
The U.S. Census Bureau from 2020, which accounts for all Americans living in the United States that actually report what they're doing and report their taxes.
Then you got the National Health Survey.
So it's the most accurate assessment of men in the United States.
Let me ask you this.
Maybe it's a half percentage or a percentage off, but it's still extremely slim.
Do you have a better...
Calculation, Dennis?
Please tell me.
No.
I'm literally giving you out the stats and the facts and you don't like them.
And I'm like, I don't know what to tell you.
This is what it is.
I think what she's trying to say is that depending on what city you're in, there's a different financial status and you put yourself in positions in other cities to engage with folks.
So if I know that my...
I want to live in the South.
I shouldn't have an expectation that a nigga is going to make $100,000 when I know that the cost there is probably a lot less, like around $50,000.
And so I think that's what she's saying is just be mindful of what city you're in, how much a nigga might make is going to impact.
Yeah, that's cool.
That's cool.
But remember, it's relative to what she said.
She wanted $100,000, so we went off $100,000.
No, of course.
That makes sense.
And let's be honest, people don't want to be in bumblefuck Mississippi and Louisiana where $50,000 is a lot of money.
Most people don't want to live in those areas.
That's why they're not populated.
People want to live in major cities typically or close to a major city where it's more expensive to live.
That's why people live in those areas.
That's why they're able to drive up real estate prices there.
Awesome.
Basic economics, man.
That generator was really working.
I love it.
Google the calculator, all of that, whatever.
All the above.
Next question.
Alright, Big Mo.
Read that one.
No, read that one too.
No, read that one too.
Chris is a bum, bro.
I swear to God.
Alright, your favorite part, Fresh.
Go ahead.
Okay, ladies.
No, we didn't do this.
No, Chris, come.
Let him get it.
Wait, wait, wait.
We can do it at the end.
Wait, hold on.
We've read this one.
Go on, brush.
Chris, come down.
It's...
Just get it started and then...
The last year I heard, Chris, after Dildo Wagons.
Huh?
Huh?
Oh, okay.
For future definitions, let's start with asking definitions of particular words like insecure, misogyny, masculine, feminine, feeling, simping, leader, follower, narcissism.
That's a lot.
Thank you.
Yeah, damn.
Right?
You went through a whole list.
Okay.
Hilarious.
I'm seriously taking over Rumble.
Your last After Hours hit 1.3 million views on there.
The Vegas Avengers hit 700k.
Keep on doing the Lord's work.
Stay fresh and fit.
Shout out to Chris.
Still a bum though.
Yeah, we're taking over.
Rumble's going crazy, bro.
Yeah, Rumble's going crazy.
We're taking over YouTube too, bro.
That's why everyone is fucking trying to make videos, trying to cloud chase right now, but fuck them.
W. Christopher, the perfectly timed manifestation button.
That's true.
He got that right.
Rare Chris W. Okay, ladies, this is the last part of the show.
Thank you for coming, but give us your thoughts on the show.
Hit it, love it, comments, questions, and we'll start right here.
I thought it was kind of like very educational because it gives like views on both sides because you don't in everyday life you don't genuinely like sit down and you're like yo like what do you think about this or what do you think about that you know you don't genuinely like sit down and you like talk about it or you get in depth about it or you have somebody like tell you like yo like you're wrong you know because most of the time people won't tell you you're wrong you know because they're scared of how you're going to react you know what I mean?
So...
Real quick question for you.
Do you think men lie to women and don't tell them they're wrong because they want to have sex?
Yeah.
Absolutely.
I'll be honest with y'all.
A lot of y'all were wrong as fuck today.
I mean, I can't really say.
I've only had sex with, like, one person.
Yeah.
Does your boyfriend ever tell you that you're wrong?
Oh, yeah.
He tells me all the time.
Okay, he don't care no more.
Great.
Awesome.
No, that's a good thing, though.
That's a good thing.
Wait, does he watch the show?
Huh?
Does he watch the show or no?
Yeah, he watches this one and then he watches another one with some bald white guy or whatever.
But that's the only ones I know because he be playing them like all the time out loud.
Andrew Tate.
No, no, not Andrew Tate.
I know that one.
But there's another bald white guy.
I'm confused.
What about you?
Mixed feelings.
Give us your mixed feelings.
I think it was cool hearing you speak and hearing you talk towards my sister because her and I, we never agree on anything.
Now you're going to use my debate points on her?
BLN is a terrorist organization!
What about you?
Thank you guys for having me.
I'm super happy to be back.
It's been a while.
Like, I've been behind the scenes, but I haven't been on the panel.
Thank God.
And I love the show.
It's always super educational and it's helped me a lot throughout the last couple of years.
In so many ways, like, I mean, I was 25 when I first came on the show, and I'm 27 now, and I feel like I'm just, yeah, like, we're growing old together, guys.
You better get with them boy guys.
You get old.
No, and I just feel like I'm a Completely different woman.
A lot of that has to do with the fact that I've really taken your advice to heart.
It is good to see your growth, Nina.
You got a guy now, so that's good.
Don't lose him, though.
Don't lose him.
He's amazing.
We're going to be here to roast you.
We're going to roast you.
You're going to be hearing this all day.
We're going to be laughing at you.
Yeah, you better not lose him.
No, he's amazing.
Alright, cool.
Good.
See what happens when girls get guys, man.
That's...
Yeah, that's good.
It's fire, man.
Stay faithful.
Yeah, stay, yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
Go ahead, miss.
Miss, I love you not long time ago.
Call us hitch, man.
I think the show is cool.
I can see everybody's different opinions, mindset.
I do learn from what you guys talk about.
What did you learn today?
Basically, why guys think, why they think, like, all the things you explained backed up to these questions.
Oh, I'm sorry.
Basically, when we have a question, you're able to back it up and I get to understand and not just listen and still not get what you're saying.
Like, you break it down.
Like, I like to hear different opinions.
Are you going to stop arguing?
No.
With men?
I'm still speaking what I want to say, but...
Oh, God.
No, she's not.
This is my second time on the show, so...
Well, no, not argue with us.
I'm talking about the next guy that you're with.
You're still going to argue with him?
Yeah.
I speak what's on my mind.
I wasn't arguing.
Oh, God.
That's the same thing.
I can reach arguments sometimes.
I loved it.
I loved every part of it.
It was cool, but I appreciate the facts.
You guys really told me a lot of things that I didn't really realize, statistically.
Like what?
Like math?
No, but no, for real.
That 0.4% really threw me.
I never expected that to be a thing.
It's math.
Did it hurt?
No.
When it threw you?
No.
Besides the jokes, because I actually do like hearing the ladies' points on this.
So did it like kind of shock you at how rare that guy is?
Yes.
Like, why is it so low?
Well, think about it.
How many guys do you come across that are losers?
Hold on, hold on, ladies.
How many guys come up to you that are losers that you're like, what the fuck?
Ew.
They don't end.
Does it make sense now why only a small percentage of the men meet these requirements?
Yep, I got it.
So, you gonna treat the guy well that you got right now, then?
Yeah.
It's cold in the streets, huh?
Yeah, ladies have a boyfriend.
You better fucking hold on to him tight, man.
I'm telling you, it's cold out here.
Nope, in the streets.
Don't let go.
I appreciate him.
You better go suck his dick when you get home.
Alright, what about you?
Last thoughts, disagreements, anything you think?
I truly enjoyed it, and I enjoyed just seeing everyone's perspective, a man's perspective, and just different women's perspectives.
So I guess it made me a little more open-minded into specific topics.
What are you going to do now different than you did before?
Or nothing at all, if that's okay too, if you're not going to do nothing different.
Nothing at all.
Honestly, no.
Okay.
Sister, take us home.
Honestly, well, first, thank you for having me here.
I appreciate it a lot.
And secondly, I love the show just because it does open up like, I guess, a way of men thinking in a way.
And then...
What was the most shocking fact for you?
Or shocking thing that you didn't know?
Damn, it's just so many things.
I guess let's just start with the basics that you broke down like the whole cheating aspect.
I was more of like, I'm more of the type that is like, well, I'm loyal, I'm this, I'm that, I'm willing to like put up, you know, the good aspects and all the good things about me because I'm very submissive.
Sorry, tongue twister.
I actually have tongue twister.
I can relate, trust me.
I'm very submissive, but when you broke down the whole cheating aspect as to how men, like, obviously if they bring money to the table, that cheating is acceptable or whatever the case may be.
It's inevitable.
Exactly.
So I appreciate that you went ahead and opened that.
Two things before you go.
Go ahead.
Why are you limping?
Honestly, I... She's limping?
Yeah.
I was like, is she okay?
Yeah.
I'm limping because I'm a pimp.
No, I'm just kidding.
LAUGHTER I'm glad I made everybody laugh.
That was the goal, guys.
Relax.
Have a sense of humor.
Anyways, so I'm lifting because I had like a car accident.
Sorry.
Okay.
So, yeah, that's why.
Last question.
Why don't you pay for that chain?
I just think I was going to ask that.
Rather not disclose.
Why?
Because I just don't want to.
That's it.
Next question.
Is it a gift or you bought it?
I plead the fifth.
Is it real?
I'm trying to figure out.
I plead the fifth.
Oh, we got to get the diving tester.
Oh, my God.
Why is it that every girl from Hylia comes with a chain, bro?
Because it's a cute accessory.
If you want to wear an accessory and you want to feel cute, you can do that.
Oh, really?
Because that setting is different than most.
Do you want a girl that doesn't accessorize herself, that doesn't fix herself, that, you know?
Oh, no, I mean, I don't care if a girl has jewelry.
I mean, but whatever I do, and that's what I like, so...
It fits you nicely.
Thank you.
There you go.
Thank you.
What about you?
Thank you for having me.
I do watch the show, actually.
I was trying to figure out why you were silent.
Yeah, soaking in.
I know, I was just nervous, but...
You did good.
I mean, you did say shit, but you did good.
Maybe I'll come back.
She has a gun on her, that's why.
Call it Gun Wave in New Haven for a reason.
I didn't know that guys like Pikmi girls.
I feel like everyone talks shit about Pikmi girls.
Only delusional feminists.
Think about all the women that are single.
Girls that typically say, I'm not no Pikmi bitch.
Do they have a man?
No.
And if they do have a man, it's typically a bitch that will sit there and tolerate her being loud and obnoxious.
The only woman you can take relationship advice from is Xena.
That's it.
Yeah, like for real.
Where does Zena get her game from?
From Myron.
I'd be saying, if girls actually listen to what I say instead of being triggered, they would find a guy.
They would seriously.
Yes, sir!
I'd be giving games to girls on how to pull and hold millionaires, man.
He ain't going to be faithful to you.
I don't work miracles like that.
But he'll definitely probably put you closer to the top of the list if you listen to what I say.
Yeah, listen to Myron, honestly.
I have a quick question about that, though.
Why is it that when women, they want advice from other women that are in a relationship, which, cool, I get it, of course you want that type of advice, why do they still contradict themselves and still end up getting advice from a single person, then?
Because they're so clueless.
Because I know what she's asking.
She basically said, why do women that want to get in a serious relationship take advice from single women?
No, no, no.
What I'm saying is, if women are so pro, oh, yeah, go ahead and let's just take advice from other women that are in a relationship, why do you still question yourself and still contradict yourself on still getting advice from a single woman regardless of you just saying that?
Okay, hold on.
What I'm asking is, there's women out here that they literally say, oh, I'm only taking advice only from women that are taken.
But yet, they turn around and be two-faced and still try to get advice from a woman that's single.
Okay, I get it.
Now I understand why we kept talking.
No offense.
You're very attractive, but you suck at speaking.
It's fine though.
You're from Hialeah, I get it.
So basically what she said is, girls are in relationships, why do they still take advice from single girls?
Even though it contradicts the current state that they're in.
I'll tell you why.
Because single girls give you advice that's easier to follow.
I'll give you an example.
Boyfriend pisses you off?
Fuck that motherfucker, let's go to the club.
Boyfriend talks to another girl.
You know what?
DM that guy back that hit you up.
Like the advice that single girls give to their girls in relationships, it's always damaging.
It's always going to fuck them up.
And girls, to be honest, if they see a chick that's in a relationship, especially with a guy that's like attractive.
What about the ones that are still in good stance?
They still go up to single girls and still ask for relationship advice.
Because single girls give advice that is destructive but easy to follow.
Regardless of that they're in a good stance right now because they still do it.
Yeah, because they give you fun advice.
It's easier, right?
If you're in a relationship and their single girls tell you, let's go to the club, you're going to be like, oh, you know, what's the club going to hurt?
Let's go do it.
Because it's fun.
You get to go to the club, you get to dress up, you get to get attention from other men, you get to get some free drinks.
Let's say she's not like that, though.
Yeah.
That's my question.
Bro, here's the thing.
You said it earlier at the top of the show and I've listened to it very nice and clear.
You said women like attention.
No, I'm asking you a question.
I'm asking you a question.
What if she wasn't like that?
All girls love attention.
Of course all women love attention.
And the club gives you that.
What if she doesn't care about the club scene?
You get what I'm saying?
She still cares about attention.
There's Instagram, there's social media, maybe going out and day drinking.
Do we have to pinpoint everything?
Yeah, but the same taken woman loves attention too.
So what's the difference from the taken and the single?
Well, that taken woman that loves attention is not with a guy that she respects.
Ooh.
Yeah.
Yeah, when a woman is with a guy that she really truly respects and loves, she doesn't give a damn about anyone's attention.
She doesn't even want the attention from other guys.
I'm just curious because I do have a friend that, yeah, she goes ask for advices to take in women, but yet she still contradicts herself and also asks as advices from single women.
And she's in a good stance with the person right now.
So I'm just super confused.
It's because she doesn't like her guy that much.
Okay.
I'm glad you said that.
She's with him out of necessity.
He checks enough boxes.
She doesn't want to be alone.
She's with him.
Okay.
But when a girl's like, with that dude?
All of the guys are invisible to her.
She doesn't seek attention like that.
He can say, turn your fucking Instagram off.
Okay, daddy.
She turned it off.
Because she knows.
I've had tough discussions with girls like that.
I'm like, I don't commit to girls that do X, Y, Z. She stops doing that shit right then and there.
Because she knows.
I will literally tell her, get the fuck out of my spot.
If you don't.
And you have to be able to put your foot down with women like that.
Let her know.
You have no power here, bitch.
I don't need your sex.
I don't care about your attention.
I could go get another you right now.
But you're not going to get another me.
And that's how you got to play with women.
That's the set.
I wish it wasn't like that.
I wish I could be a nice guy.
Give her flowers.
Oh, you're my love and everything.
Women only respect when they fear.
And that fear can't come at you smacking her.
It's got to be reality smacking her that you're leaving her.
That's the only power men have.
Bitch, you'll be single if you keep doing this.
I'm sorry.
I was just curious, that's it.
She doesn't like her man that much.
Yeah, I was just curious to know because I was like, damn, this is weird.
Go ahead.
So, just a different perspective from taking women, accepting relationship advice from single women, that can actually be really dangerous because a lot of women, like a lot of single women, As shitty as this sounds, a lot of single women want their friends and relationships to break up.
They want their friends back to their son.
In high school, one of my best friends is a homewrecker.
She would go out of her way to steal or fuck some other...
No, man, that's like 10 years ago.
Mystery loves company.
And I've always said, let's keep it a thousand.
Most girls would prefer to be in a relationship with a man that they actually like, but most girls can't actually accomplish that.
So since they can't accomplish that, they're like, you know what?
Be single with me so that we can be out on the streets.
The honest truth is the streets are cold and girls don't want to be on the streets.
There's a reason why they call it a hot girl summer and not a hot girl life.
Because girls can't be hoes forever.
Amen.
I agree.
What about you?
Like last time, it was definitely a reality check.
Every time I come here, it's always something new that I learned.
What did you learn this time?
Last time, I think it was, you're going to shut up more when guys talk.
You're not going to argue, right?
If I do shut up, that means I'm listening.
I usually like to argue, but the whole time, I'm usually like...
I'm listening.
Alright, what did you learn this time?
This time, that we aren't that special.
I will be like, damn, I have great pussy.
I think I'm pretty.
Why the fuck aren't you acting the way I want you to act?
Because he can get another me.
At least now you know.
Oh, another thing too.
Just in case, if I have any incoming clients, I do have my license.
He confused me.
I have my education license, not my cosmetology license.
And I'm still in school.
I don't want to look bad.
I didn't finish college.
I'm still in college.
Nah, she's good, y'all.
She's good.
I could give you my word on that.
For all the guys out there that are retro, want to get their lashes and nails done, head her up.
And I have a question for like both of you guys.
Sure.
Okay, so let's say you guys had a daughter, right?
Yeah.
And she came to you and was like, oh my god, this guy's cheating on me.
He told me I'm not special.
Like, he acts like you guys.
Yeah.
Your daughters, what would you say to your daughter?
I'd say, who is this guy?
I'd look him up.
And if he was the guy that I am right now, I'd be like, accept it.
What?
Yeah.
What the fuck?
I would tell her it's true.
You ain't shit.
But if he has care of you, and he's actually there for you, then what are you worried about?
I'm going to have to have this talk with my daughter as soon as she hits puberty.
I'm going to tell her, listen baby girl, The more successful the man, the less power you have.
That's true.
Okay?
If you want a super successful man, you are powerless.
You have no leverage.
But if you want a guy that's going to treat you well, be that guy, you know, oh my god, you're my only one, give me flowers, all that bullshit, and you'll get bored with him in a year, get a more average guy.
But be content with the two different things.
One guy's gonna bore you to death and not arouse you, and you're probably gonna be annoyed and not happy, or the other guy, you'll be a little bit sad, he'll fuck other bitches, but you'll be the main one, learn to accept and be happy in that environment.
Because at the end of the day, that's gonna give you the best environment for who?
The children.
Fuck your happiness, bitch.
It's about my grandkids.
It's true!
Marriage isn't about happiness!
Bitch!
You stay with that man and give my grandkids the best life ever!
Fuck her!
It's my grandkids that matter, not her!
You got your man!
You got your millionaire!
You won!
Give me good grandkids, and that happens in a two-parent household.
So, Mara, she's like three now?
That's the truth, man.
Like, yo, I'm gonna have to tell her.
You will become a victim of your choice.
Pick one.
Crying the Rolls Royce.
Crying the Camry.
What you want to do?
I've heard that.
I've seen that quote on Instagram before.
The Rolls Royce is gonna come with a price.
That's my quote, by the way.
That's it.
That's my quote, by the way.
Oh, that's your quote?
I stole it, yeah.
Oh, wow.
I reposted that show by there one time.
Like, ladies think they're gonna be taken care of and have a good-looking guy and all this other shit.
That comes with a price.
That price isn't fucking other bitches!
That's what I was gonna say, too.
Lil Baby and Jada Waiter.
Y'all be on Jada Waiter's head for getting with Lil Baby, but I'm pretty sure he takes care of her.
He gives her houses, cars, you know?
Oh, yeah, he definitely does, because he'd be simping on hoes, so yeah.
He definitely takes care of his main chick.
He'd be tricking.
So, what about you?
It was really interesting to come on here and definitely to see your guys' whole setup.
I think that's really cool.
And just to hear different perspectives and just to learn what you said about how insecurity, how women's insecurity can keep the man interested.
I didn't think about that.
It'll keep the girl interested.
Girl interested, sorry.
Yeah.
That was interesting to think about competition in that sort of way.
I want to say one thing.
What's better, when you fight a hard race and you win first place, or getting a participation trophy?
Oh, fighting a hard race.
The reality is this.
Women don't want to admit this, but y'all all want to be pick-me's.
You just want to be pick-me's for the right guy.
Because if I pick you from all the other bitches, you're going to know.
Oh, yeah.
Bitch, you're sucking his dick, but I'm the main girl.
I'm having his baby.
So if anything, her insecurity actually will make her feel better about the relationship.
I can see that.
I can see what you're saying there.
Because I picked you out of the other girls.
But guess what?
What did I say earlier?
Y'all gotta be a pick me to get that.
I get what you're saying.
I feel it.
Yeah.
All right.
Cool.
What about you?
Alright, first I want to say thank you for this opportunity and also shout out to Fist of Wakanda in the chat because he's the one that put me on with watching your guys' show in the first place.
Oh, cool.
And then I would say like the two things that stick out to me the most that I'm gonna walk away with here and use it in my next relationship would be The narcissistic, like the other definitions that you guys have made me see a different point of view on.
Okay.
And then also what she was saying as far as being insecure.
So, because I always thought insecurity was a bad thing because that's how it was always traded to me.
No, it just means that you care about the guy.
Yeah.
Don't get insecure with a loser, though.
No, never.
That's where you gotta...
Only bosses.
Yeah, yeah.
Exactly.
You gotta make sure it's the right guy to get insecure about.
Sorry.
Yeah.
Don't tolerate no...
Ladies, don't tolerate no bump fucking a bunch of bitches on you.
I mean, like...
That's on you.
Yeah, like, you know, I always laugh when girls say, you cheated on me.
I was like, you're dumb.
They all cheat on you.
Find the best one.
Yeah.
Yeah, pretty much.
If they're all gonna cheat, just pick the one that's gonna give you the best benefits.
Here's the worst kiss scenario.
Yeah.
He gets you pregnant.
Oh, Lord Jesus.
yeah yeah what are you guys saying I got a three year old daughter fuck y'all man that girl lied that was years ago what are we doing um I always enjoy being here around the show and just listening to everyone's perspective
I've learned a lot the first time I was on the panel and the second time here I feel like it's basically covering almost the same stuff that, you know, I was here the first time.
But it's just crazy, like, hearing the delusions of other women that I had to let go, and that's why I feel like I'm in my relationship now, is letting go of those delusions.
Damn.
And, uh, yeah.
So you said some things that girls said on the panel today, you said that before, and you had to let go of some of those things to make your relationship better?
Yeah, like, oh no, he's not going to cheat.
And also, I just brain farted.
Did it help you be at peace with it a bit more?
Yes, it helped me be at peace with it for sure.
It's just also with...
Not being insecure or a pick-me-girl, but yeah, I feel like I am a pick-me-girl, and if you're not, then you will lose the competition with the man that you want to be with.
So it's important to please your man and offer different things that It's just not pussy and say, oh, I'm beautiful and I have great pussy.
I give good head because there's hella visions that have the same thing that I have.
There's millions of beautiful women here.
I mean, millions?
Yes, there's millions.
How many people on this planet?
There has to be a million beautiful women.
All right.
And also, like, the thing with standards, as far as, like, you know, having, like, an average man or, like, you know, like, someone who might be less attractive but could still provide for you, like, I feel like that you should give everyone a chance.
Boy, you said no bums no more.
No, no, no.
No, no, no, no.
I'm not giving a bum a chance if he can't put in the effort of wanting something better for himself.
Like I said, some zero spitting.
You have to want to have better for yourself as a woman or as a man, period.
And if you are complacent in this one place, then I'm going to have to leave you behind or I'm going to get less behind.
Alright, well, go suck your guy's dick when you get home.
Oh yeah, most definitely.
He's waiting for me.
Hey man, yo, he better send us a check, man.
For real.
Alright, so we're done for tonight.
Wait, wait, wait, we didn't get to her.
No, no, he knew that.
Go ahead, he's just fucked with you.
Oh man.
I peeped.
Thank y'all for having me here.
Wasn't really trying to come, but my sister.
She dragged you?
Yeah, she really did.
I think one of the things that I'm taking away here is that I really don't think love is a competition.
I feel like the way that y'all have been talking about it feels like it is.
And I would really push people to read All About Love by Bell Hooks.
And I think she does a really good job of explaining relationships and how to engage in them healthfully.
I feel like here we've been talking about how to engage in relationships that You can pretend or fake or act to get what you want.
And I think that's very unhealthy and can be really scary.
And so I hope people are really considering what they actually need and what is going to be good for them and not necessarily like, what can I do to get somebody?
Question for you.
Will a woman love me if I stay at home and eat Cheetos and play video games all day?
If that's what makes you happy, if that's what makes you feel loved, then you do that.
Hold on.
The question is, will a woman...
The question is very specific.
Will a woman love me if I do that?
I don't think a woman will love anybody who doesn't love themselves first.
No, I love myself.
I'm eating Nishitos, baby.
She's saying, do you think somebody really loves herself if they're sitting there doing it, right?
No, I love myself.
That's why I'm doing it.
I'm 300 pounds and I'm having a great time, but will a woman love me?
Yes, some woman out there will.
Yes, you are.
This is somebody for somebody everywhere.
Look, what you gotta understand is this.
For me to get love from women, I must add value.
For me to add value, I must go out in the world and compete with other men.
That means getting an education, making money, becoming successful, learning a skill, becoming competent.
This all requires competition.
I get what you're saying.
Love should be ideal, but that's not real.
I think what you're doing is you're competing with other niggas and I'm trying to compete with myself.
Like, you...
But that's life.
Life is competition.
Life is competition.
Ultimately, right?
You may not be thinking it's competition, but it really is.
You must compete.
It's just how we are.
Yeah, you really compete for everything in life.
You compete for jobs.
Shoot, you compete to get on the highway.
Y'all talking about love.
You love your family, but you don't compete love with your family members.
The love that you have, that's not your family.
That person you want to marry and be with is going to be your family.
It's not the same as the love for a partner.
The love for a family is going to be the closest to unconditional love.
But within the confinements of a romantic relationship, it's always conditional.
And for a man, I would argue it's even more conditional.
The man must continue to provide value throughout the relationship.
This is why women initiate most divorces.
You're telling me that it's not competition-based?
It is competition-based.
Now I argue even more so for women.
Love for family is not unconditional.
I'm not talking about...
I said it's the closest to unconditional.
Yeah.
I really hope y'all...
I just disagree.
I'll leave it at that.
Well, here's the thing.
Women have the privilege of being able to say things like love is unconditional and you shouldn't compete for love.
Men have to compete for love.
Women don't.
That's why you say that.
Privilege is invisible to those that have it.
That's crazy, because that's just not true.
You're not about to say, nigga, I got privilege.
You do.
Oh my god.
Women have more privilege.
Women have more privilege.
You can get scholarships to college just for being black.
Did you know that?
Black women have more privilege.
Exactly.
You came on the show because you asked.
You didn't have to pay to get here.
Y'all talking about privilege.
That's opportunity.
That's a chance.
I see why you're supposed to drag you out here because you need the fucking help.
Guys, guys, guys.
Don't attack her.
Y'all talking about privilege.
Male privilege.
Name a privilege that men have that women don't.
Just one.
Name one privilege.
Y'all can walk around shirtless.
That is not that much of a privilege.
Y'all don't have a female tax.
Are you serious?
Y'all don't have a female tax on things.
A female tax?
What the fuck is a female tax?
On tampons, on pads, we pay more to fucking survive as females.
Like, that's the real thing.
They tax.
There's a tax on myself.
What the fuck?
Okay, so when it comes to the period thing, There are different methods to taking care of your period.
You do not have to buy pads.
You don't have to buy tampons.
You can get a menstrual cough.
That shit is from silicone.
Lasts for years.
There's still a female tax.
I don't know what your point is.
There's not a female tax.
I don't go to a store and they're like, oh, you're a bitch.
You have to pay 50 cents to be in the store.
What?
Like, girl, that really doesn't make any sense at all.
I think you should really look it up.
I know we don't have our phones with us right now, but you should, when you go home, like, really look up female attacks.
I will.
I actually will.
I really hope you do because it's sad to me to see men try to, like, it feels like they really brainwashing y'all and it's kind of scary.
So I really hope y'all, like...
Go ahead, read Bell Hooks, read Audre Lorde, like, these black feminists who actually have fought, died, trying to push forth our own liberation.
And, like, we here, having men tell us, be picknets.
You guys are the freest you've ever been in history.
And you're still not happy.
I can't have an abortion.
So, I don't know about your freedom, but I would just say, like, you need some help.
That's all I'm saying.
Cool.
Chris, we got any more?
Yeah, we got one more.
That's my boy right there.
No, no, I just gotta know.
What is one privilege that men have that women don't?
Because I can only think of one privilege that men have that women don't.
Go ahead.
I'm asking you.
What's a privilege that men have that women don't?
Yeah, because you're trying to say there's male privilege.
I'd argue that women have all the privileges and men have very, very few, if any.
Men have very few privileges.
That's just not true.
Men have...
Men's sports teams are better funded than girls' sports teams in schools.
That's a fact.
In high school and college.
In both!
In high school and college and NBA. The fucking NBA, WNBA player can make only 20,000...
I'm not at the bunkie right now.
This is why you're incorrect.
Number one, there's a law in place that in college sports, okay...
Female sports have to get the same amount of funding as male sports.
That's number one.
That's why college female rowing teams are huge and have a lot of money.
Because football teams and basketball teams, that's number one.
I'm just using an example of an expensive sport.
Can you give me an example?
Let me continue the bump.
The WNBA is the only business that's negative every single year.
It's subsidized by the NBA, okay?
So it's a privilege that the WNBA still exists, even though it is a negative business.
It makes no money.
It loses money, and the NBA subsidizes it.
So please explain to me how the WNBA players still get a salary of six figures a year while they're negative and don't generate money.
And you know, because we live in a society that loves men, that dick rides men, that wants to see men in all forms of positions.
So when men are playing sports, we're going to watch that more often than we're going to watch women's sports.
Okay, let me ask you a quick question.
How many WNBA games did you go to this year?
I've never been to an NBA or a WNBA game.
I've never been to a basketball game this year.
Like, I don't know what you're talking about.
So go ahead and support WNBA. Yeah, support them.
Yeah, when I get the red two, the five...
Okay, so look, here's the thing.
If you're going to make an argument, you've got to make it in good faith.
I said before, Title IX, all right, that allows women's sports to get funded as much as men's sports.
So you're incorrect there, number one, okay?
And I know that for a fact because I was a Division I athlete and I know that, okay?
Number two, WNBA doesn't deserve to get paid.
And as a matter of fact, this shouldn't even exist.
It's a negative business, but it's still there.
Why?
Because we value women's feelings over the real.
If it was a men's sport and it was negative, they wouldn't fund it at all.
Okay, so they have, you know, men's football, NFL, is one of the most men's dominated sports, right?
So then why do they have women, female lingerie football?
Wait, what?
I don't understand.
If anything, hold on.
Again, that is another sport that doesn't generate money like that.
It's like lingerie flag football.
It is negative, but it gives women the opportunity to play a sport that, quite frankly, they don't deserve to play.
It's negative.
They don't generate money.
And, like, the lingerie football thing, like...
The women are still being sexualized.
So how much of a win is that really for women?
Yeah, and they chose to do it.
So these women are consciously and willingly sexually objecting themselves to wear no clothing and then put pads on and then running to each other and Like, what?
It's a weird combination.
If anything, I would argue there's more privileges and opportunities to women, even though they're mediocre.
You know what?
Another male privilege is being able to walk down the street and not have to worry about somebody who's going to rape you.
That is not true.
Okay, you're incorrect again.
So y'all be walking down the street not worried about someone going to rape you.
Let me hit you with facts.
While you're incorrect about this, as a man, you actually have a 60% plus more chance of being a victim of violent crime.
So tell me you're actually safer as a man.
The reality is you're not.
You're far more likely to be a victim of violent crime as a man than a woman.
I'm being very specific of it being grape and the violent crime that that man is going to face is by another man.
The crimes that a woman faces most of the time by men.
Most rape victims are men.
It's just not talked about.
Prison.
Yeah.
Okay.
Who are they being raped by?
Inmates.
Inmates.
And that shit don't get reported.
Dude, it's prison.
I've done statistics on it when I was protesting.
Is it not a privilege to not be held accountable for raping other people?
What?
These men are raping folks and they're not being held accountable for it.
They're in prison and they're doing it to other men.
Can we say grape?
Grape, grape, grape.
So, look, man.
You've been debunked on a bunch of the points that you've been trying to make.
Because a lot of the things you've said are erroneous and not true.
That's...
No, it's not.
They're...
Okay.
I've debunked everything you said.
And I think another thing about this show is that y'all have your own information, everything ready, your own topics ready to discuss.
And so when other people come on here, we get frazzled because you direct...
You putting people on the hot seat and just going crazy.
You brought up this topic.
And this is what the show is about.
You literally brought up this topic and I'm debunking your stuff off the top.
You said we have female privilege.
I'm saying we don't have...
I'm saying men have privilege.
Name one privilege that men have that women don't and you can't name one.
I did.
I named several.
I debunked them.
Y'all get to walk around topless?
I already told you that's not a privilege.
Is that really a privilege?
Like, walking down the street for a man with no shirt on, like, how much of a privilege is that?
If I could take this off, I would gladly do that, but I can't because I know that's not.
No, you can't, dude.
You're in Miami.
You can walk down the street fucking half naked in this city, yo.
I don't like clothes, period.
You're more likely to make money and get opportunities given to you by walking down the street in a bra than I am with my top off.
You're more likely to get opportunities in a normal job environment and get pushed higher.
Look, who's in the Senate?
It's majority men.
And they're making decisions about our body, bruh.
Like, bitches can't have abortions?
Like, you saying that you don't have abortions?
Women can't have abortions.
You can't in Texas.
50% of the United States.
Hold on, let me tell you a privilege that you have that I don't.
You can abort a baby.
I can't decide anything about a baby.
Women have 100%.
Unilateral control.
That's cool.
That's cool.
But it's a privilege.
Women have that.
Men don't.
I'm not crying.
Okay.
So and then what was the other thing you said?
Men control the business.
No, you have more opportunities as a woman for the same job as me.
So who runs most of the Fortune 500 companies?
Men.
What percentage?
Men.
That's almost all men.
Rightfully so, as they should run it because they built that business up.
Or maybe because men have engaged in the long practice of colonialism and exploitation that has instilled certain European gender roles in our society.
And that's why y'all think you're leaders.
Because if you look at African societies, they're more matriarchal.
If you look at indigenous societies, much more matriarchal.
But you must think that y'all...
Well, here's the thing.
How many of those societies still exist today?
Because y'all niggas kill people.
It doesn't work.
It doesn't work.
Let me ask you a question.
Is it really European colonialism when you look at the Asian dynasties, you look at the Arab dynasties, you look at Native American dynasties, they were all patriarchies, yet they never spoke to each other and there was no way of communicating back then in the old ages?
Explain that to me.
That's not...
Like, yo, you can't win this!
Why do you all know what colonialism is?
Because colonialism is literally a system that is based off extraction.
Created by Europeans.
And I'm trying to explain to you, they adopted a patriarchy, yet all these other societies did as well, and none of them spoke to each other.
Without the advent of modern telephones, technology, etc.
But they all practice patriarchies and they all existed.
Explain that to me.
It's not a social culture.
An oppressive, racialized patriarchy?
No, no.
The Europeans created a specific...
It's biology.
No.
It's biology.
It's not.
It's not.
But...
It's been that way.
Read Mama's Baby.
Read Mama's Baby, Papa's Baby.
By Hortene Spillers.
By Hortene Spillers, where she gets into how slavery and colonialism has impacted gender roles in America today.
And that's why Black men and Black women are the way that they are.
Here's the thing.
Gender roles...
Y'all not gonna read.
Look, look.
No, I do read.
And that's why you're literally getting smoked right now.
Gender roles...
We are a byproduct of biology, not social construct, like you're trying to argue.
Men are fit-stop.
Men are physically superior to women in every single way.
They're deductive problem solvers.
They're more logically sound.
That's why men build everything that you see around the world.
It's not because women were oppressed, as you say.
Women choose to not go into these jobs.
Even nowadays, with feminism being as strong as it is, women choose to go into jobs that are more socially centered.
They don't go into construction.
They don't go into engineering.
They don't go into math.
They don't go into technology.
Because women choose these jobs.
Judith Butler talks about this, about how people are socialized into their specific gender roles.
I have nothing else to say because it's very clear that we are in different points.
No, you're incorrect.
I really appreciate it.
Please read Judith Butler.
You're trying to argue that gender roles are a social construct.
Yes, they are.
Race is a social construct.
They're a biological construct.
Race is a social construct?
You did not just say that.
- Race is a social construct.
- Race is a social construct. - Listen.
- Could I say something real quick? - So the fact that I'm half black and half white is a social construct?
- Your ethnicity is different from your race.
I don't know what your white part is from or your black part is from, but that's your ethnicity that's different.
Your race is your skin color that's socially constructed.
It was white folks and black folks telling us, you black, you not.
It's ontological.
Thank you.
But I have nothing to say.
If y'all keep reading, then you're not reading.
Look, it's not about reading, because I read.
What I'm trying to explain to you is how is it a social construct when societies that don't even know each other since the beginning of time, Asians, Native Americans, Europeans, Arabs, etc., they never spoke to each other, but they all had patriarchies.
Explain to me how that's a social...
Stop interrupting.
How is that a social construct when different societies that never spoke to each other did it?
It's because it's biologically based.
Okay, so patriarchy is a system.
It's a way of being.
That works.
It's a system that works.
That is not necessarily a system that works.
Because the system that we have of patriarchy here is one that is mixed with colonialism, slavery, sexism.
It's literally a system of oppressions that are working together.
Sexism only benefits women.
What?
Sexism only benefits women.
I'm good.
What?!
I mean, you're even good.
Sexism only benefits women.
There wouldn't be a WNBA without sexism.
There wouldn't be equal opportunities on this other stuff.
There wouldn't be feminism without sexism.
What are you talking about?
Sexism inherently benefits women.
She came in an argument.
She can't get it.
This is an L. This is an L all the way.
Sexism inherently benefits women.
No, you're good, right?
You're on this podcast right now because of sexism.
We normally charge people $20,000 to $30,000 to be on this podcast.
You're on here for free because of sexism.
You're not here for me because you let me, bruh.
That's what I'm trying to say, sexism.
That's not sexism.
It's not sexism.
You're here because you're a woman.
You a simp.
That's why you let us on.
And to be honest, I barely did want to let you on, but I asked your sister, I'm like, hey, is she in Miami more or less?
And she's like, yo, she's flying now in two nights.
I got you.
I'm not here to disrespect or belittle you.
I'm just telling you that if you're going to have an argument here based on debate and logically sound arguments, you have to argue in logic, in fact, not necessarily your feelings.
But I am, and what you're doing is you're just not listening, so I'm not going to continue to get...
I'm listening very closely.
Because you're saying sexism inherently benefits women.
Yes.
And that is just...
Factually incorrect.
If all y'all women are going to sit up here and agree with that and believe with that, I really am going to pray for y'all tonight.
Can I say something real quick?
So I was gonna say because I know that you mentioned that there's like certain jobs that men get and women don't but I've been interviewed for plenty of jobs that they ask you directly like are you a female because people are more comfortable speaking to a female at the front than with a man.
That's why like I see where you're trying to get with this mommy but like At the same time, you also have to understand that this fear that women have towards men, it's not gonna go anywhere.
So there are certain jobs that only us women can do because only us women give that motherly, that nurturing nature.
That's because that is who we are.
But there's no jobs that they would never not give to women is the other point I'm trying to make.
If a job was like, yo, we don't hire women, they would be sued instantly.
We exercise sexism towards men, but we don't exercise sexism towards women.
Let me give you an example.
There's two standards in the military.
There's two standards in police departments.
There's two standards in fire departments.
If we didn't have sexism, there would be one standard and women wouldn't get the jobs.
But we allow women these opportunities through what?
Sexism.
Sexism benefits women.
It's inherently to women's benefit because it allows women the opportunity to compete where they otherwise never have the chance.
That's just not like...
That is the definition of sexism!
And women are socially constructed to take those positions.
Like when we're kids, we are literally raised differently than men.
Are you guys not raised differently than your brothers?
I was raised differently than my brothers.
Girlfriend, do you really want to be on the streets pouring asphalt in 95 degree weather?
Do you want to be out there building buildings in the fucking dirt?
Do you want to be out there pouring concrete?
Do you want to be...
Really?
Get a construction job!
Why don't you get a construction job?
Miami's staying in construction.
Exactly, Miami's staying in construction.
It's the same frame we've had to go large.
events it was my birthday last week I got the bond the same thing building that house in Ethiopia right now I don't know what so the same thing we have right to go back to the BLM events go work a job like that It's fine.
The safety we have, right, to go to BLM events, go work a job that you don't like.
Go work a job I don't like.
We're saying, okay, look, it's very simple.
That energy that you take into the BLM protest, go ahead and apply for a construction job or something in science, technology, engineering, or math, do porcelain asphalt, go Alaska fishing, you know, whatever you want to do.
Work one of these very difficult manual labor jobs that women don't want to work.
Now, you also said something about social constructioning makes you go into certain jobs.
Explain this.
You go to Norway, all these Scandinavian countries, right?
The women are more...
This is the most equal society in the world.
The women are literally as equal to the men in every regard.
Tell me why women still are nurses, still go into social work, and dominate the fields of any type of sociology.
Yet they have all the same equalities as men.
It's because of choice.
Women choose to go into these jobs because women don't like to do physical manual labor.
It's a fact.
No one at this table does manual physical labor.
None of y'all.
But I've done landscaping growing up.
I've done construction.
I've done all that.
I've worked on a farm too.
In general, women do not go into manual labor jobs.
That's a fact.
That's not even up for debate.
And it's fine.
And that's okay.
But you can't sit there and say, it's a social construct.
No, it's a biological construct.
Women don't like to do manual labor because women don't have the endurance, the strength, and the capacity to be able to do it long term.
Women are literally raised not to take those certain jobs.
We are literally raised to be teachers.
What's stopping you from doing construction right now?
Nothing.
It's still a choice to do it.
I'm saying that we are socially constructed.
I'm saying that we are told, we are raised, we are in a society that tells us this is what we're supposed to be.
The cult of domesticity.
Go against the grain and get a construction job.
Y'all can look that shit up.
Listen, if you want to apply for a construction job, you will get a job over a man any day because you're a woman.
Oh, more sexism, by the way.
Don't talk about it.
Be about it.
You can apply for a police department, a fire department.
You can apply for the military.
You will get promoted faster than a man because of affirmative action and you're black.
My thing is, don't talk about it.
Be an example.
Just do it.
Yeah, exactly.
Why don't you go try it?
Y'all are telling me to go do manual labor jobs when I've already done manual labor jobs.
Okay, so what have you done?
I worked at a farm.
I worked in a kitchen.
I worked...
Oh, and you chose to leave, didn't you?
Because I got paid better somewhere else doing something else.
Oh, so it's a choice!
I said that before.
I said it's a choice, but people are socially constructed.
We're literally raised to be told.
It's either a choice.
But you keep talking about being raised, but I was never raised that way.
You're trying to put us in a circle.
Don't cut me off.
You're trying to put us in a circle where you're trying to put us in the middle like we're all the same.
I was not raised that way, my love.
I was raised that if I'm hungry, I get my ass up and I get whatever fucking job I can find and I make my fucking money.
Because that's how my daddy fucking writes.
I get up And I make my money and I get what I want.
I want something, I work towards it.
But I don't sit here and complain, oh, men get these jobs, women get these jobs, everything's so unfair.
I go and I do something about it.
But you're trying to say, I'm not finished.
But you're trying to say that us women are raised to be this way.
I was not raised that way.
I was raised to be a breadwinner.
I was raised to be the top.
If you're second, you're losing.
That's what I was raised to be.
So you're trying to say women are domesticated into these jobs?
I know how to cook.
I could fix a tire.
I could fix the bottom of some shit there.
My daddy taught me.
We'll get to that later.
But I could do all this shit that men can do.
There's certain things I can't do physically because I'm not gonna lie.
I'm thick, but I'm not muscle.
You know what I mean?
So there's certain things.
Don't do me like that.
Let her have it.
Don't do me like that.
I'm thick as fuck this morning.
Don't do me, all right?
I'm thick as fuck.
I'm manifesting the fuck out of my ass, okay?
It's growing slowly but surely, right?
There are certain things that you're saying that us women were raised to do this or we learned how to do this, but...
We don't.
That's your choice.
That's the choice of your parents.
It is choice.
That's the choice of you.
If you really wanted to learn how to lay some fucking concrete, you would teach yourself how to lay some concrete.
Because nobody ever taught me anything.
Nobody ever taught me anything.
I have no family.
I ain't got no friends.
We'll let her say her point.
I agree with you.
What I'm trying to get at is that we are raised in a culture where we're getting messages, where we're being told this is how we're supposed to look, how we're supposed to be as women, and that there's certain jobs that we're being told growing up that this is what women do, that this is what you can do.
And it's rare that we're being told, oh, you can go into these other paths until later on when they start doing more STEM programs for women.
All I'm trying to say is that we are raised in a culture that tells us this is what women are supposed to be like, how we're supposed to exist, and doing a lot of women choose to do that.
Again, it's a choice.
Whether you choose to do that or choose to pour asphalt up to you, but all I'm saying is we are socially constructed.
We are given messages about what it means to be a woman in this world, and we live in that.
Like, that's literally it.
You're contradicting yourself by saying it's a choice and then also saying that we were socially constructed into doing it.
How is it not and both?
Because it can't be both because you're contradicting yourself.
How am I contradicting myself by saying we are raised with certain messages about what it means to be a woman in this world and that those ideas of a woman is what's given to us and that they're being a choice?
Again, if you have a choice in life and you're raised a certain way, it's still a choice.
I'm going to be honest, brutally honest here.
This is typical leftist propaganda that poisons a lot of women and people in the West in general where you don't want to take accountability.
You want to blame society and the past for why you make the decisions in the current.
And this is a very toxic mindset to have because you skirt accountability for your own decisions.
The reality is, okay...
A lot of things aren't a social construct.
It's a personal construct based off your own personal decisions.
Okay?
If I get caught selling drugs and I sit there and tell the police, yo, you gotta understand, it's a social construct that grew up in a neighborhood where there was a bunch of drug dealers and I couldn't control it.
I just had to sell drugs.
They're gonna put me in prison for the rest of my life.
It doesn't matter because I made that choice.
But it's on me to go against those social constructs, become a better man, get out of poverty, and make it.
I can't sit there and blame society for my problems.
I gotta make active changes and go against the grain.
That's how it is.
But we live in this crazy clown world where it's black people's, it's the police's fault, it's the society's fault, everything is sexist, we live in this crazy patriarchy, blah blah blah.
This patriarchy has given you the opportunity to get on this podcast and speak in a comfortable environment where you're not attacked for your opinions and you're able to speak freely, backed by U.S. military, run by men that you say oppress you so you can be protected from the country that you left, Ethiopia.
Let's keep it a thousand!
The only reason you're able to say the crazy things that you're saying right now is because men are willing to die to defend it.
And those men are also killing other people.
Like, y'all are killing other people in other countries to do that.
Why is your life more worthy than somebody else?
It's called the monopoly of power, and sometimes you have to...
Let people know that you have the monopoly of power.
That's why we have nuclear weapons.
This is geopolitics.
This could go forever.
But the point is this.
We are the world superpower.
To continue to be the world superpower, you've got to do things that sometimes are kind of fucked up and unethical.
But that's what it is.
If you don't like it, you can always go back to Ethiopia.
But you're here because you're able to enjoy certain freedoms and certain privileges and rights that you would never be afforded anywhere else.
Why?
Because it's backed by the U.S. military, run by men, run by these people that you are going ahead and saying that were oppressed.
Okay, look, you don't have to be here if it's a fascist government.
You can go back to Ethiopia where there's no government.
The United States constantly sells what you're saying as propaganda to the rest of the world and then the rest of the world comes to the United States.
No, no, no.
What you're spewing is left is propaganda.
What you're spewing is left is propaganda that takes accountability from people.
This is why the youth are a bunch of pussies.
This is why they don't work.
This is why we have a bunch of men that aren't soft because they sit there and blame other people for their problems.
Listen, you're a woman.
You can get away with saying that fuckery.
You know, you cannot take accountability.
It's cool.
But men can't.
You think I could run around here and say, yo, what's the man, bro?
Yo, this is fucked up.
I'm not where I'm going to be because the police are holding me down.
We live in a crazy-ass patriarchy.
I can't do that.
I got to look at the world for what it is and become a better man.
I can't sell drugs and say, yo, man, it's because I'm black and there's systemic racism.
I can make all the excuses in the world, too.
I'm Muslim.
I'm black.
I speak Arabic.
9-11 happened, whatever.
What'd I do?
A real estate occasion.
Became a special agent.
I put the people in jail that used to do that shit to us.
I'm not going to sit here and cry and complain about my situation.
I have every excuse in the book.
But I'm not taking a victim mindset.
I'm in the same exact shoes that you are, but I choose not to go that way.
If I have a problem, it's my fault.
No one else.
I don't think I have a victim mindset because I actively organize with people to have agency.
Like, the place I work for, we literally give money to black businesses so we can be good.
Like, I don't know.
But...
Okay, that's racism in itself.
Let's talk about that.
That's black supremacy, right?
See, we can go ahead and say here, I'm going to only support black businesses.
I'm not going to give money to nobody else.
What if a white dude said, I'm only giving money to white businesses?
It would be an uproar.
I never said only black businesses.
But here's the thing.
When you prioritize a business because of the ethnicity of the people that run it, that's racism in itself.
White people can't do that, but black people can.
Let's talk about that.
You want to have tough discussions.
Chris, what's up, bro?
That's all I'm saying, man.
Let her go, bro.
You can't sit here, black power, all this other stuff, and then get mad and then say, oh, white people are holding us down.
You're practicing racism, too.
All right.
Discussion is over.
It's fine.
We'll end it there.
We'll end it.
Anybody else have anything?
I have one thing.
Sure, go ahead.
Oh, yes.
I just want to say that I liked that Lowlife was part of your theme song.
Great song, Joyce.
What's your theme song?
For your theme song, Lowlife.
Oh, thank you.
I appreciate that.
Future is a great one.
Hey, you can't say sorry when you get caught cheating.
Ladies, what was the one thing you were warned about before coming on the show?
Oh, that's a good one, actually.
What was the craziest warning y'all got?
Disrespecting anybody that's part of the setup.
Don't take it personal.
That was my advice.
Use it generalized and not about yourself.
My friends are like a huge fan of Myron.
I feel like I'm saying your name wrong.
They're just like your sister.
I'm sorry.
No, but they told me to be as logical as possible, like, getting on here, I guess, but...
You failed.
It's cool, like, it's fine.
Oh, wait, wait, wait, can I ask you something?
Middle school education, bro, what do you expect?
Do you, like, do you agree with your sister, like, in a lot of her viewpoints that she just stated?
No, she doesn't.
No, but that's just because, like, my sister and I, like, we're very different.
Like, I grew up being a gamer, and, like, she grew up wanting to be an activist, and so, like, we're just that, we've always just been different.
What's your age difference?
She's 20 from 21.
Oh, okay.
Three years.
Okay.
And then, Jose Perez, she having a stroke mid-argument from getting cooked LMAO. She definitely about to get a cheeseburger after this to calm down.
Guys, I hope you enjoyed that show, man.
We're going to have...
Maybe tomorrow.
Yeah, maybe tomorrow.
A show.
If not Friday.
And then Friday we got a bank for you.
And then, oh, we're going to go to Texas.
We're going to be with Christian Guzman, Max Tuning, and then Friday we're going to have a panel show for you guys with MJ Get Right, FedEx Fearless, and Austin Dunham.
It's going to be fucking lit, man.
So yeah, man, we're giving y'all that heat, man.
And then next week we got Greg Doucette as well.
So, bro, we got the fire.
Go check out the Dan Bilzerian interview.
All the girls' Instagrams are below.
Go ahead and send them a dick pic, but don't be too mean.
And we'll catch you guys on the next episode.
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