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Jan. 19, 2023 - Fresh & Fit

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5 Tips To Deal w/ Flakey Modern Women in 2023!

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	What's up, guys?
	Welcome to the Fresh Air Podcast.
	Today, we're gonna talk about ways to mitigate flaking, man.
	We got a lot to talk about.
	Let's get into it.
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	So...
	Today's topic.
	Today's topic, man.
	So you want to tell them real quick what the topic is and I'll give them an overview of what's going on and why this is so important.
	So we have five steps to deal with flicking, right?
	And of course, as men, we do flicking no matter what we do.
	You can be successful, broke, in between.
	Well, we all get flicked on.
	However, how do you combat that?
	How do you deal with that?
	Because off-rip, you're going to be emotional about it, you might get mad at it, and it can be stressful.
	So we got you guys today with how to break it down, how to avoid being flicked on if possible, and how to mitigate the risk.
	So the first thing you guys got to understand is how did we get here, okay?
	How did we get here?
	And if you go back in time...
	The cold hard reality, guys, is that women used to depend on men.
	Women used to respect men.
	And most importantly, women used to like men to a certain degree.
	But thanks to your girl, Beyonce, saying dumb stuff like all the single ladies, Destiny's Child, independent woman.
	City girls.
	Independent, you know, Missing Summer.
	Yeah.
	What's happened is we have a culture where it's cool to disrespect, ostracize, and not take men seriously.
	And in reality, guys, I think...
	And this is tough because...
	Most men fall in this category.
	A lot of you guys watching right now fall in this category.
	Most women don't respect most men.
	If you take an average man and an average woman, that average woman still thinks or she assumes she has higher value and higher status than you, even if she doesn't.
	And that's the key.
	Even if she doesn't have more value than you, doesn't bring more value than you to society, she doesn't contribute more, etc., she still is going to think that she's better than you.
	And the reason why this is so important, guys, is because that's going to influence how she behaves.
	And how a lot of girls behave is they think their time is more important than yours.
	And what's resulted from feminism, from women thinking that they're better than men, is that We've had a flake epidemic.
	I have an entire chapter in my book about this, guys.
	And just to give you guys some numbers...
	Women account for about 56% of flakes, right?
	Whereas if you look at lay reports and field reports from this side of the internet, the RP community, it's closer to about 70%.
	And then Tinder insights show that only 8.6% of people talk on Tinder.
	However, dates rarely come out of that.
	So we got pretty much a 91.4 flake rate digitally effectively from Tinder.
	Women in general, guys, and I go into way more detail as to why women don't like men in general.
	In the book.
	In the book.
	But the main thing is, is that I need you guys to understand, women don't like you that much.
	Period.
	Women don't like men that much in general.
	That's why we have a society nowadays where women can openly run around and say, men are trash, I hate men, kill all men, etc.
	Now, I want to make that one thing extremely clear.
	That does not mean that they hate all men or that they don't like all men.
	The problem is that they like a small percentage of men.
	Most guys don't measure up.
	And actually, just to be fair here, to be honest with you guys, most guys are not working on themselves to become better.
	And that means, for example, the women are becoming better and we're becoming less.
	So, to bear with you, it's our fault as well.
	Yeah, it's on both ends.
	Like, the guys need to become better, but at the same time, the women don't like men.
	Women respect men less now than ever before.
	Way less.
	So, we're burning the candle at two ends of the stick here, right?
	You got guys that aren't doing what the fuck they're supposed to do, right?
	That's burning one end.
	And then you got women, on the other hand, who are constantly being told and indoctrinated that men are trash, you're independent, you don't need no man, blah, blah, blah.
	So, it's burning the candle at the other end.
	What ends up happening?
	The flick rates are going up.
	Girls don't When I actually meet guys up and I actually put a tender chart in the book to where a girl had like six hundred thousand Swipes she only swiped right like sixty four percent of the time sixty percent of the time some excuse me like sixty like six thousand times something wild like that so Once you guys understand that girls don't like you that much it's gonna be a lot easier to swallow this We're about to tell y'all okay now with that said Now that we know where we're at,
	right, with feminism, with girls in general not liking men, now we understand that is the root cause as to why the flake rate is so high, okay?
	Because a lot of you guys, you're like, yo, why do girls act like this?
	Why is this so tough?
	What the hell is going on, etc.?
	And some of you guys go crazy just trying to find answers.
	And let's be honest here, some guys have wanted to hurt themselves and or self-delete because they don't have answers.
	Their girl leaves them, their wife divorces them, it cheats on them, and they're like, man, I gotta end it.
	This is too much pain.
	Sometimes, knowing why the pain is there, Is the solution.
	And someone in the chat asks, what is flaking?
	Flaking just means you set up a date with a chick and she doesn't show up.
	That's pretty much it.
	Yeah.
	Making some type of plans and the girl saying, oh yeah, I'm down, blah, blah, blah, and the next thing you know she don't show up, or it's a no call, no show, or whatever it is.
	And imagine some guy set reservations, set up their whole day, takes the time off of work for a date, and then you don't show up, he's going to be mad.
	Yeah.
	I get it.
	Yep.
	Yep.
	Big fact.
	So...
	But hopefully that makes sense to you guys.
	So just to sum it up, right?
	For some of you guys, I see we got 3,500 in here pretty much now.
	Summary is this, guys.
	Feminism came, right?
	And feminism told women that they don't need men.
	They're independent, they can make their own money, etc.
	So now, women don't deal with men from a need perspective, they deal with men from a want perspective.
	And since women deal with men from a want perspective, they only want a small percentage of the top-tier guys, okay?
	So this has effectively made the flick rate go up.
	Women don't respect men.
	And a lot of guys are sexually frustrated and or annoyed with women in general because women having a higher perceived sense of value than they really actually do bring to the world.
	You got someone who might be a plumber making 50, 70, 80 K per year.
	And he'll meet a chick who's a fucking secretary at some law firm.
	She makes 20 K per year.
	She's going to think she's still better than that plumber because her title might sound better.
	But she doesn't know that that guy adds way more value to society.
	But women are indoctrinated to think that their careers matter.
	They're indoctrinated to think their degrees matter.
	They're indoctrinated to think their office job matters and that they're more important to society than someone who's literally taking care of the plumbing so that you can live the first world life that you live, you dumb hoe.
	But...
	They think that they're better than you.
	And that's the cold hard reality.
	And if y'all don't believe me, I guarantee all 3,000 of you guys watching this fucking show right now, right?
	All of y'all watching right now, you guys have dealt with some female fuckery, which led you to this type of content in the first place.
	And trust me, nobody's safe.
	Me and French deal with this BS too.
	Yeah, nobody's safe.
	Actually, accountability, that word is funny because you hear by text or phone call, oh, I fell asleep.
	Oh, this came up.
	My dog died.
	It's like, bro, really?
	So we all have been through this ourselves as well, guys.
	We're going to break down for you today how to combat this.
	We got some chats here as well.
	Yeah, so read the chats and then we'll go into the steps.
	But I just wanted you all to understand why we're here.
	Yeah.
	So we got thoughts on women who are in serious relationships with still like or have crushes on male celebs.
	I personally think it's haram.
	And that's from Silent Chaos.
	Yeah, it's unacceptable.
	It's just weird.
	Yeah.
	Freshman, Wpod, Apple Ace.
	Even the ugly ones are hypergamous.
	Bezos' wife divorced again.
	They're never happy.
	Also, my thanks for buying me and my bro a drink at Vendome, the two Alaskans.
	There you go.
	Fresh Jones.
	Just seen Batman on Sage.
	The Albanians.
	Yeah, the Albanians?
	Yeah, the Albanians.
	Oh, shoot.
	Fresh Jones says, Just seen Batman Kevo on Sage Cheese.
	What's your thoughts on tricking?
	I don't mean a girl you're trying to take seriously.
	Yeah, bro.
	I just showed Mariana earlier.
	That's just hilarious.
	I mean, we know what Kevo does, bro.
	It is what it is, man.
	Y'all are about a year late.
	Once again, Kevo's already established.
	You can do whatever he wants to.
	Most of you can't.
	So here's the thing with tricking.
	We're not fans of it, guys.
	We don't do it.
	Especially here in Miami because I just...
	Nah.
	Just internally, bro.
	We can't do it, bro.
	Yeah, I can't do it, bro.
	I can't do it.
	But...
	Kevo has his reasons.
	He's still our friend.
	He's still RP aware.
	Like I told you all before, some guys with RP awareness, they take it and they're going to say, I'm going to go ahead and smash these chicks for free.
	Other guys are like, okay, I'm aware of what's going on here.
	I don't want to deal with female fuckery and waste my time, which I think is why Kevo does it.
	It's time.
	But I think if you know what it is and you can choose to do either or and you choose one path, that's up to you.
	You're a man.
	We just want y'all to know.
	Yeah.
	Like, I don't care what you guys do with the information.
	Yeah.
	I just want you guys to get the information and not hurt yourself.
	That's the key.
	All right?
	Because a lot of you guys, you know, put yourselves in very dangerous situations or hurt yourself because you don't know why women behave the way they do.
	And ultimately, the benefit should be in your favor.
	Yeah.
	That's the whole goal here, guys.
	Yeah.
	Christopher Harris says, Yo, Myron, it's 34 block me because I wouldn't let her be our group leader in Call of Duty.
	I'm done with these hoes.
	Bruh.
	What's okay?
	It's Jordan.
	Fresh be real with me.
	What the fuck was that show with DDG? Bro, he has a girl, bro.
	I mean, man, some of y'all, right?
	Want a guy to do a whole long explanation about why he should bang a horse or whatever.
	Bro, he has a girlfriend.
	I get it.
	He's doing his thing.
	And he said before the show, look, I have a girl.
	I gotta be conservative.
	I get it.
	So...
	It's what it is, man.
	She about to do a Disney movie, too, isn't she?
	Yeah.
	I mean, he's happy, man.
	It's a little bit different, bro.
	You guys got to understand that you got to move different when you're dealing with those kinds of people.
	I have guests on the show.
	You can't say nothing crazy.
	You just can't.
	They want to come on the show, but because I have a girl, they don't want to come.
	So I'm like, you know, at least she showed up.
	I came.
	So I appreciate it, you know?
	So, it's what it is.
	Yeah.
	You guys gotta understand that, like, not everybody's RP-aware, and even if someone is RP-aware, they're not gonna talk about it openly with 30,000 people watching, bro.
	Yeah.
	You know what I mean?
	Like, he's...
	His girl's getting a Disney role, whatever.
	He's cool.
	Yeah, bro.
	He's gotta do what he's gotta do.
	So, it is what it is.
	RetroNinjaFlow says, Sawgirl on BLK, repping the FNF merch, The Reach.
	Okay.
	What's up, BLK? Black.
	Or the black app.
	Okay, go.
	What the fuck?
	That's funny.
	That'd be hilarious.
	What the hell?
	KG Hall Capture says, Have you guys heard of Matthew Cox?
	He might be great for Monday, Monday or Fed episode.
	Two mil on the way.
	Thank you, bro.
	We have not.
	Have you?
	I don't know what it is.
	Christopher Harris says, Do you try to be like, I'm done playing if I'm not good later?
	I was like, bye.
	Thank God for FNF. Alright.
	Bro, why are y'all playing video games with girls anyway?
	Facts, bro.
	They suck.
	Yeah, like, yo.
	Call me a jerk or whatever, an asshole.
	But, like, when I used to play video games, I used to play Overwatch.
	When a girl joined my lobby, I would kick her out.
	Dude, you know what's funny?
	Like, I'd be like, yo, like, get the fuck out of here.
	For Call of Duty in our lobby, bro, if a girl joined, we'd just find another room.
	Like, girls are not good at video games, guys.
	Yeah, we're going to lose, bro.
	The only way I'll play with a girl, Overwatch or something like that, is like, yo, you better play Mercy and just heal me the whole time and boost up my shooting power when I use McCree.
	Other than that, if you're not going to pocket, you call it Pocket Mercy, which is like she's there just healing you the whole time and powering you up so you can just mess somebody up with McCree.
	But in general, yeah, nah, bro.
	That's awesome.
	That's my main character.
	Who you?
	Yeah.
	Put your fat ass hands, nigga.
	How you moving the mouse around?
	You feel me?
	How you got that next day?
	We got McQueen in the house, by the way, guys, too.
	Shout out to him, man.
	So, have you guys checked with Skippy since you had him on?
	I looked at his channel, and out of curiosity, dude seems like a lost cause.
	I tried, bro.
	We were going to shout out to him.
	I tried.
	But, yeah, bro, that guy's on his own path, man.
	Wish him the best, though.
	Yeah.
	I mean, some guys just don't want the help, guys.
	We offered to fly him here, teach him everything, make him a better guy, but some men seriously want to sit there and just be sad and not become a better version of themselves and just, yeah.
	You can only help who wants to be helped, man.
	That's pretty much it.
	RepoDad says, I repossessed a female's car the other day.
	Got her number.
	Checked her Instagram.
	Turns out she was at the one more party.
	What the hell?
	Who's that?
	What?
	Don't sit on the stream, though.
	Just send me a DM. What the fuck?
	Damn.
	Let me know who it is.
	LetageOfficial says, if me and a girl are texting back and forth and starts responding for seemingly no reason, is it okay to text her again a few days later?
	Um, you can, but it shouldn't be, like, the next day.
	It should be, like, a week or two after, if anything.
	There should be some, like, changes, bro.
	And you know what's funny?
	Don't make a statement.
	Do it, like, a question mark.
	Yeah.
	Like, you don't want it to be too, like, you feel me?
	As, like, a double text.
	Question mark most.
	Frankie Baltimore says, the sauce you guys serve for is remarkable.
	How to approach a dating MP for a place of advantage?
	I saw a gruesome video of a Florida man stabbing his wife on Facebook Live when he caught her cheating.
	Yeah, bro.
	Some niggas don't play.
	Yeah, bro.
	And we want you guys to never be that dude on Facebook Live stabbing your girl, bro.
	That's terrible.
	That's too much.
	Yeah, bro.
	We want you guys to have an abundance mindset and get the help.
	There's so many girls out here, bro.
	When a girl does some BS. You know, I saw someone run a truck into a house because his girl's cheating.
	Yeah, yeah.
	What the hell?
	That's wild.
	Monarchist1 says, hey, what's up, guys?
	Just got back from China.
	Left 27th of December.
	Came out yesterday.
	Missed a lot of my man Top G and stuff at the party, at least.
	They jailed Greta.
	They jailed?
	Yeah, she got arrested.
	I think she was protesting at some, I think, coal.
	They carried her, though.
	Yeah, because she was protesting.
	She wanted to leave.
	It's crazy.
	Yeah.
	Man.
	Man.
	That down syndrome, bitch.
	Anyway, how do I maximize my options on Tinder?
	Any tips or advice?
	Well, number one, understand that Tinder is trash.
	And then number two, you got to have really good pictures.
	And you got to get the girl off the app immediately.
	And about 70 to 80% of Tinder users are men, guys.
	So, Tinder is actually one of the worst places to try to meet girls.
	We told you guys a year ago, actually two years ago, the best app to use for your best advantage.
	And some people are like, oh, that's weird, bro.
	Sugar's like, nigga.
	In that environment, you're a tall G. So, like, bro, use it to your advantage, bro.
	Yeah, Instagram, too.
	Yeah, Instagram, too.
	Yeah, but, like, Tinder is, like, definitely lopsided, bro.
	Definitely lopsided.
	If you're not with abs or, like, successful as fuck, bro, she doesn't want to fuck you, bro.
	Yeah.
	Corey, man of God.
	The One Mill was dope.
	Glad to meet all of y'all.
	All the Discord people and my team.
	Shout out to Fresh Wingman.
	Chris still a bum.
	Shout out to Corey, man.
	Taylor by nature says, the de-evolution of Western women has risen to such a level that they oppose their very nature that's designed for their preservation, longevity, and protection.
	Yeah, bro.
	It's like doomsday.
	WP says, I'm 21 and a plumbing apprentice.
	Been watching you guys since November 2020.
	You guys help motivate immensely.
	Thank you.
	Shout out to you.
	Good stuff, man.
	And your job matters.
	Your career matters.
	Don't let these dumb bimbos try to, like, oh, you're a plumber.
	Because, unfortunately, girls look down on guys that have blue-collar jobs, which is wild to me.
	Yeah, I would avoid just saying I'm a plumber in general.
	Yeah, I hate to say it like that, bro.
	That really bothers me that we have to tell guys that, like, you know...
	Because here's the other thing, too, you guys got to understand.
	A lot of girls are stupid.
	They don't have a good concept of money, and they don't understand what certain careers make.
	They think if you don't have a big title, you're not going to make six figures, which is going to be further from the truth.
	There's plenty of plumbers that make $100,000 plus a year.
	But their association is that you're under a sink somewhere with your fucking ass crack out, fixing a pipe that's leaking, making $10 an hour.
	And the reality is that's not how it goes.
	But women don't know that trades make a lot of money.
	Because a lot of girls think, oh, if you don't have a career and a degree and a title, you don't make money.
	If you're not a CEO. Yeah, so I'm not saying totally hide the fact that you're a plumber, but you definitely don't want to lead with that because she might go ahead and think, oh, he's broke, even though you might not be because they're stupid.
	They think they're better than you sometimes.
	Yeah, exactly.
	Which is crazy.
	They'll think that they have a higher perceived...
	Status than you.
	Monarchs1 says, Will you guys promote passport bros more overseas?
	Where is that for girls from other countries?
	And they're very different from US girls when you're getting Jordan Peterson.
	Jordan Peterson.
	I don't think Peterson promotes passport bros.
	I don't think so either.
	I've never heard him once mention anything about passport bros.
	Listen guys, for all you passport bros out there, man, we love y'all.
	We all use the same tool.
	We have RP awareness, etc.
	But I want you guys to get this through your heads.
	Women don't give a fuck that y'all niggas are going to Brazil, that you guys are going to fucking, well, used to be Ukraine, Colombia, Philippines, Thailand, whatever.
	Women don't give a fuck that you guys are going to other countries to find women, alright?
	They keep asking, yo, ask the girls what they think about passport bros, blah, blah, blah.
	Women don't give a fuck, bro.
	They really don't.
	Hell, we can go to Colombia and say, we're going to be passport bros too.
	They won't give a fuck if we left either.
	Alright, guys?
	So understand that women don't give a shit because they were never interested in the first place.
	That's why I want you guys to get this through your heads.
	Not enough Red Pill content creators say this uncomfortable truth.
	Women in general don't like men.
	Get this through your fucking heads.
	Okay?
	Women in general don't like men.
	Accept it, understand it, and change your tactics because of it.
	That's the cold, hard reality.
	Alright?
	The reason you can go to Colombia, you go to Thailand, you go to these poor countries and get the best out of women is because you have higher perceived status in these countries and feminism hasn't leaked in And indoctrinated the women to think that they're better than you and they don't need you.
	Women still have some semblance of needing a man.
	Versus in the United States, women want men.
	There's a big difference between wanting a man and needing a man.
	Poor countries, women need a man because it's difficult to have certain economic opportunities.
	In the United States, women want a man.
	So since they want a man, they only want the best men.
	Okay?
	That's the cold heart reality not enough guys in the red pill talk about.
	Women just don't like y'all that much.
	Okay?
	That goes for us too.
	We're not safe either.
	There's a lot of girls that don't like us.
	All we've been able to do really is elevate our status to a certain level, keep ourselves attractive to a degree where we have a better chance of less girls not liking us.
	But it doesn't change the fact that most women don't even like us either.
	Yeah, especially Amari.
	Alright, yeah, me too.
	Yeah, especially me.
	Right?
	So, once you guys understand this, it's gonna make that bitter pill a little bit better, easier to swallow.
	Swallow, yeah.
	That when you get flaked on or when you get fuckery for women, you understand, okay, well, most girls just don't like niggas.
	That's just how it is.
	The thing is, is that girls can't openly say this, right?
	They do it through other means.
	Fuck niggas, I don't need no man, blah, blah, blah, blah.
	They do it through other means.
	But in general, right, by their actions, women don't like men that much.
	They just don't.
	I literally have an entire chapter dedicated to just this talking about how women don't like men that much because they don't fucking need you anymore.
	Yeah.
	Thanks to feminism.
	That's the root cause of all this.
	And actually, they throw you guys in the group chats all the time.
	It's crazy to see what they say, bro.
	Like, bro, like, I love y'all passport bros.
	And here, you guys keep doing it.
	Keep giving guys the game.
	Keep telling them where to go.
	Keep telling them where they can go meet beautiful women, et cetera.
	Women that are better.
	But understand that modern day women in general Don't give a fuck that you guys are leaving the United States.
	And the girls that are bad, the most attractive women, don't even realize you guys are gone.
	The only girls that might know about it a little bit are the weird chicks on this side of the internet that look at RP content that aren't hot in the fucking first place.
	Bad bitches don't give a fuck that y'all niggas are leaving.
	That's the cold hard truth.
	Yeah, bro.
	We did a poll here the other day.
	How many of y'all know about Password Bros?
	What is that?
	They have passports from their brothers?
	Yeah, like what?
	What is that?
	Yeah!
	These bitches can't even name three countries!
	You think they give a fuck?
	You think they give a fuck that y'all niggas are leaving?
	Oh, man.
	That's big facts, though.
	What the fuck, man?
	All right, Chris, let's do 20 it up, and let's get into the first point.
	Chicks flick on me Saturday.
	Didn't react, found a replacement two hours later.
	Before you guys, I did get upset.
	Now we have an abundance mindset.
	Show the fresh and fit from Francisco.
	Cool.
	And Mamet says, would you be up to moderating a debate between Destiny and the Saint of Sinner?
	Would be fire.
	Yeah, we can.
	I mean, I don't mind it.
	We're friends with both of them.
	Shout out to the Saint of Sinner.
	Yo, he was roasting that chick yesterday, bro.
	He was?
	He was cooking her.
	Hey, man.
	Shout out to him as well.
	Shout out to Marquette, man.
	Yeah, next time he's in town, we can set it up.
	We're all in the same space, man.
	Yeah, we're all in the same space, bro.
	Like I said, I get along with Destiny.
	I get along one more quick.
	Shout out to both of those guys.
	They're both very sharp individuals.
	My name is Be Nice.
	Y'all considering getting T. Kirkland on the podcast, this is pretty RP aware.
	I consider doing a collab with Kevin Samuels.
	All right.
	Alex the Best says, I just canceled a date to go hit the gym.
	Instead, she blocked me.
	LOL. See, girls don't do well with that rejection, though.
	Amen.
	They'll get mad at you, but if they do it to you, they won't get mad at all.
	Yeah, thanks.
	Mouth's forehead vein.
	Ayo, Myron, talking about all this womanizing got me thinking.
	We should invite the legends from Simple Pickup.
	Having the old school with new school can help a lot of the audience.
	Shout out to the merch gang.
	I don't know where they're at right now.
	I think Kong is doing his own thing and then the other indie guy has his own program.
	I forgot what it's called again.
	Yeah, I don't...
	I don't know where they're at, bro, honestly.
	Yeah.
	I'm gonna try to get mystery for y'all, though.
	I'm gonna keep working on getting mystery for y'all.
	Yeah, he is a mystery.
	Yeah.
	Literally, he's a mystery.
	This guy's only new.
	Yeah, I'm going to work on getting him for y'all because I think that would be really cool because, I mean, people can say whatever they want to say about Mystery, but he definitely was a legend in this space and he definitely gave a lot of concepts and ideas as to becoming an attractive guy and the whole seduction thing.
	Originally a lot of concepts.
	Yeah.
	RepoDaddy says, send you the info on your DMs, Chris.
	Need that whole fax?
	Thanks, man.
	Vanessa says, yes, it takes time to develop yourself.
	In the meantime, whiten your teeth, have spearmint gum breath, chapstick, and wear cologne.
	We'll definitely help you get the real women in.
	We'll be drawn to you.
	Big facts.
	And last one here, Ethan says, guys, I told this girl I live alone.
	Now she wants to link Friday.
	I live with my mom.
	Am I screwed?
	Hey, man.
	Call her when she's not home.
	There you go.
	Now, we got points to cover here.
	That's the topic, right?
	Yeah, we got 5,000 plus of you guys in here.
	So, number one, thank you for joining the show.
	Like the video.
	Subscribe to the channel.
	We're live on Rumble.
	Rumble.com slash Fresher Fit Guys.
	Subscribe to that.
	And also subscribe to Fresher Fit Clips.
	So, we're going to get into...
	We have five or six different points here.
	I'm just going to go ahead and read them in no particular order because they're all very, very important.
	Round one.
	Fight!
	So number one, guys.
	FaceTime and or phone call over text messages.
	Very important.
	Okay?
	With girls.
	And I'll kind of give a...
	Marks, you want to hit this first?
	Yeah, I got it.
	You do this a lot.
	Yeah, this thing could put me on the spot.
	But basically, right, guys?
	Understand, girls are getting hit up 24-7 by you, a guy she met at work, a guy she met at the coffee shop, she's been hit up on Instagram, all over, right?
	So the main point is, how is she going to remember you out of all these guys?
	And what it is?
	Feeling a connection.
	So off-rip, right?
	You text a girl back and forth, it's texting.
	It's not anything intimate.
	It's just like, back and forth texting, cool.
	But you do a FaceTime call, they sing you one-on-one, they sing your emotions, how you move, how your energy is, And once again, guys, the vibe that I talk about is how you make them feel.
	So if you're on a FaceTime call with a chick and you connect with her on a level, she's going to say, you know what?
	Damn, he's pretty cool.
	I'm going on a date.
	However, if you just text all day back and forth, hey, how's your day?
	How's work?
	It's like, bro, you're just a pen pal.
	But FaceTime call has a more intimate presence.
	And at the same time, if you're not scared at all, if you're not nervous, you can put yourself in a better light.
	So I would say, guys, if you want to make a connection with a girl up front for a date, FaceTime between 20 to...
	How long?
	Yeah, I say somewhere between 10 to 20 minutes.
	10 on the lower end, 30 at the absolute highest.
	Yeah, highest.
	At the absolute highest.
	I think 15 to 20 is the sweet spot that you want to be in.
	And the other reason too why you guys want to FaceTime is it lets you build a stronger connection over a shorter duration of time.
	So therefore you don't have to spend as much time.
	So I would say if you spend 10 to 15 minutes on a FaceTime call, that's the equivalent of like two to three days of texting a girl.
	Right?
	Like that same building, that same level of connection.
	Because you've got to get her invested in you to some degree.
	The other reason why FaceTime calling is good is because it allows her to see her face.
	She allows her to see how you speak.
	It allows you to see her too.
	Make sure she look like her pictures.
	Because we all know most of these bitches don't anyway.
	So, if you guys...
	My rule of thumb is, if you see a girl on Instagram, always assume she's going to be one to two points below her pictures, guys.
	Every single time.
	Like, y'all have seen it where...
	Hell, nigga, we've been on the show.
	Pull up a girl's Instagram on the thing.
	Is that you?
	Is that you?
	What the fuck?
	Right?
	You'll be like, what the hell's going on here?
	So always assume a girl's one to two points below what she looks like in person anyway.
	And the FaceTime call is going to...
	It kind of gives you a little bit of an advantage as well.
	Because when you FaceTime call her, she doesn't have the benefit of filters and weird angles to use to make herself look better.
	So it kind of takes her off her pedestal a little bit, puts her on her back foot, and gives you, for once, an advantage to talk to her.
	And then also, it's very important for her to see your tonality and how you speak.
	Because a lot of the times when you just text a girl...
	Context is missing and she doesn't know how you speak, right?
	So if you're like a sarcastic guy like me, that joke might not be taken well over text versus if you get that same joke on FaceTime, it'll make sense.
	And this, guys, this is very important.
	How you start the call and end the call.
	So off-rip, right?
	Let's say you text it back and forth.
	Hey, I'm pretty busy, but when are you free for a FaceTime call?
	That simple.
	She'll say, okay, you know, I'm free at 7 p.m.
	after work or even right now.
	Or you can just call her ass.
	You could, but she might be at work.
	So I just ask first just to make sure.
	Once that's done, and she's on the phone, make sure you bring up all the time the date...
	And time and place for the day.
	So, for example, let's say you're going to text, yo, I'm going to text you at 7 p.m.
	on Wednesday.
	Hey, I'm looking forward to seeing you on Wednesday at 7 p.m.
	Make sure you dress nice, make sure you're looking good, because obviously we're in a nice spot, and I want to have a cool vibe.
	Then, when you end the call, make sure you're leaving first.
	So, for example, you may talk to her for 10 minutes, 20 minutes, and you may be like, yo, okay, now that we're talking, you seem pretty cool, I like your vibe.
	I gotta run because I head back to work, but we'll talk and chop it up on the actual date.
	So you're gonna end the call smoothly and say you're gonna talk again on the date.
	Yeah.
	Another thing, too.
	You lover boy, motherfuckers.
	Yo, do not get on that FaceTime call and have a full-time conversation.
	For four hours.
	Ask her about her sign and all this other fucking pussy shit.
	You're on that call to establish some basic rapport, build a basic connection, and most importantly, okay, set up the date.
	One more time for you, motherfuckers.
	Alright?
	Yeah.
	We gotta spook you this, right?
	To make sure that they don't fucking waste time.
	Because what'll happen is, that girl, if you're, let's say you're a good talker, you're a good looking guy, whatever it may be, she'll sit there and suck your time and your attention away if she can.
	Your job is to give her just a little bit, right?
	Build attraction, a little bit of investment, and then set the date, get the fuck out of there.
	Okay?
	Because girls will sit there and waste your time if they can.
	And you don't want to overdo this because some of y'all will be on the phone for an hour, two hours, three hours.
	You try to set up the date.
	What's going to happen?
	Oh, sorry, I got busy.
	Because why the hell does she actually need to go and meet up with you when she can get what she really wants, your attention, right?
	For free.
	Okay?
	Why the fuck are you going to buy the car?
	When you can drive it around whenever you want it without necessarily having to pay for it.
	That's how girls operate.
	If they can get your attention for free, talk to you for free, etc., they're not going to meet up with you.
	So you've got to put some goddamn value on your attention by making it more scarce.
	You set up the call to...
	Obviously build rapport, mitigate some flaking, show some attraction, show some tonality, show some dominance, show a little bit of your personality, and then most importantly, set up the goddamn date.
	Day, time, location.
	Okay?
	Also as well, just to add to that point, the tone is very important.
	So guys, obviously speaking, I don't stutter that much on the phone call.
	I'm more chill, more relaxed, and I keep it cool.
	This nigga don't talk at all.
	You just let the bitch talk.
	Ask questions.
	So that right there...
	Makes me interested because she's like, for example, I know about her, but she doesn't know about me.
	And secondly, the tone is very important.
	So I got friends, right?
	They'll go on a phone call, a FaceTime call.
	They'll be like, yo, the other voice is like, yeah, babe.
	So when I see you on that date, it's going to be lit, right?
	You know what time it is.
	So their voice changes completely.
	That right there is seductive.
	It's a lower tone, but still strong.
	And it's more like manly.
	So I would just say tone is very important throughout our whole phone call.
	All right.
	All right, so that segues perfectly into number two.
	Round two.
	Fight.
	We told you guys to set up the date, right?
	When you do set up the date, this is very important.
	She has to come to you.
	Alright?
	One more time for you motherfuckers.
	Alright?
	Because I really want to hammer all these points home because if you miss one thing, it's going to lead you to disarray and turmoil down the road.
	Always have her come to you.
	All right?
	And what I mean, why I say this is because we know women are flaky.
	We know women are fickle.
	And when you go to her, what ends up happening is you start to invest.
	And when you have to invest, a lot of times girls don't respect that shit.
	Okay?
	And they're going to go ahead.
	They can flake on you.
	You drive an hour to go meet her.
	Next thing you know, oh, sorry, I got a stomachache.
	Or, oh, sorry, I had another appointment.
	Or all my friends in town or whatever it may be.
	Never!
	Never!
	Don't ever go to a girl.
	Okay, guys?
	I don't care.
	She could be the baddest chick ever.
	Don't go to a girl.
	She has to come to you.
	Okay?
	And the reason why she has to come to you is because we know, as a guy, you're the one planning the date.
	You're the one setting the date up.
	You're not going to flake on her 99% of the situations.
	But she will definitely flake on you in most of the situations.
	So don't put yourself in a vulnerable position where you're driving out to some chick.
	Okay?
	And then she can flake on you last second, and then you get all mad and pissed off and all this other stuff, which is going to segue to our other points.
	But the point is, you have to get the girl to invest in you.
	Your job as the man, okay, since women are entitled on our pedestals nowadays, a lot of you guys give women more, which is why the book is coming out, Why Women Deserve Less, okay?
	Your job is to be that guy that gives the woman less so that she respects you more.
	One more time!
	You give the woman less, she'll see respects you more, you fucking imbeciles.
	Too many of you guys give these girls the star treatment, offer it, she don't fucking respect you, she flakes on dates, she talks to you any fucking way that she wants, and you wonder why you ain't getting no goddamn cheeks.
	You ain't getting no goddamn cheeks because she doesn't fucking respect you.
	No guy who's worth his fucking marriage assault is gonna drive to a random bitch that he just met off Tinder.
	It doesn't work that way.
	She's gotta come to you, alright?
	Don't invest in girls.
	They must invest in you first.
	Then you can reciprocate.
	You don't invest first.
	She invests, because remember, you're the one that initiated the conversation.
	You've already fucking invested.
	So now it's on her to reciprocate that investment and come to you on the first date every single fucking time.
	Whether, you know, it's not sipping if you get her Uber.
	There's no wrong with that.
	She could drive, whatever the fuck it may be.
	But she's got to come to you guys.
	You don't go to her.
	Also guys, don't forget, you are paying for the date.
	So off rip, right?
	You're the leader.
	Depending on where you're at, your ear is going to be set up for either a bar, a restaurant, club.
	The point is, guys, in that dynamic there, you're the leader.
	So on the date, you set up where she goes.
	So if she's telling you where to go over by her spot, that's a bad environment, bro.
	You set up the date, you take it to a nice spot, multiple locations, that you know personally, that we can have a better outcome.
	Because if it's her spot, bro, you don't know the variables, you don't know what's out there.
	And, bro, it might be an L. So you drove over there for nothing.
	So off rip, you're the leader, bro.
	Set up the date in your environment and make it work, okay?
	Yeah, you have to do it that way, guys.
	Because if you do it the other way around, number one, it comes off as a little bit needier because not only did you initiate, but now you're driving to her.
	So she's going to be like, hmm, is this guy?
	Because you guys got to understand that so many things are going through girls' heads, right?
	Especially when they're meeting a guy that they haven't met before.
	So they'll start to get nervous.
	They'll second-guess themselves.
	They'll second-guess you.
	Wait, if this guy's so cool, why the hell is he driving to me?
	I'm just some random limbo.
	Like, and girls know they ain't shit.
	A lot of them, yo, the cold hard truth.
	Welcome to Fresh and Fit, motherfuckers, misogyny headquarters.
	Yo, most of us know they aren't shit.
	So when your dumbass drives over to them, they're like, man, this guy ain't the shit because I ain't shit.
	What the fuck is he doing driving to me?
	What the fuck?
	And on top of that, a lot of girls have weird living situations where the house is fucked up, it's dirty, they have multiple roommates.
	They can't bring you back anyway.
	All right?
	Big fact.
	So it's got to be on you to have her come to you.
	All right?
	So that she can invest.
	You need girls to invest in you.
	Girls start to like you, love you, and invest once they start to invest in you.
	All right, guys?
	Because most girls rarely invest in men.
	That's how you get the most out of a girl is when she starts to invest in you.
	That's the cold heart reality when it comes to intersexual dynamics with men and women.
	All right?
	Most girls are not used to investing in men, so you got to be the differentiator guy.
	You know what I hate to hear?
	When a guy is like, oh, bro, my iron fresh.
	Like, she wants to bring me alcohol or food to my spot.
	Should I tell her to bring me something?
	I'm like, bro, yes.
	Why not?
	She's investing time and energy to bring you an item or gift.
	Take it.
	Let her work for you.
	Yeah.
	At least a little bit.
	Yeah.
	Women fall in love with you through servitude.
	That's what they're here to do.
	Like, I know that's, oh my god, Byron, that's so misogynistic.
	The truth is, a woman would prefer to be with a strong, dominant man that she serves versus working, making her own money, and serving herself in her own life.
	Now, most girls do that out of necessity because most guys don't measure up to them.
	So they're like, fuck it, I'll go make their own money.
	But if she could be with a successful guy that checks all her boxes, etc., she would prefer to serve that man.
	Yeah.
	The problem is that most women don't want to serve most men because they think that they're better than them because of their careers, they make their own money, etc.
	I want y'all to be that better guy so she feels comfortable serving you.
	Or your value isn't high enough.
	Yeah.
	That's why women are...
	Bro, women want to serve their man and most importantly, their children.
	Okay?
	Remember, women want some semblance of a family.
	Alright?
	And to have an effective family, the woman must be in a serving position to her man and her children.
	Yeah.
	Alright.
	So, okay.
	Next one here, right?
	Now we're going to go into round three.
	Double book.
	Yes.
	You want to talk about this?
	This is what you want to do.
	Guys, expert at this.
	This technique is an ancient lost art known to mankind only by the Chinese.
	And I'm just kidding.
	No, but, um, so guys, real talk, man.
	Double booking.
	What does that mean?
	That means you book two dates or three dates or four dates the same night.
	That was easy.
	Are you wondering, hold on a second here.
	Why am I going to book multiple dates in one night?
	That makes no sense.
	Like, I can't move four places at one time.
	However, the art is in secrecy.
	So now...
	I mentioned earlier, girls flake all the time.
	So bro, I guarantee you, out of four, at least two to three might flake.
	So one might actually show up.
	So I like to say...
	Now the ball's in your court.
	When you double book on a date, right?
	What happens is, if you have four, let's say you got three dates lined up, right?
	And let's say two are available, one flakes.
	Understand that now you're in the power position because you have to make a choice here.
	Who do you want to go on a date with?
	So now beforehand, she had the power.
	But now you do with double booking.
	In this scenario here, you choose the best-looking one to you, and you go on that date.
	Now, however, let's say, for example, you do the double booking, and one doesn't show up, and only one is left.
	Then you have a date, no matter what.
	I'm just saying, to cover yourself and kind of have like a buffer, double book.
	Now, worst case scenario is, you double book, and nobody shows up.
	But I'm just saying, if you want to mitigate the risk, double book.
	That way, if one flakes, the other one is there to stay.
	Yeah.
	Double booking, guys.
	I'm not going to lie to y'all.
	I don't like doing it, but it is something that you need to do in today's day and age, bro.
	Like I told y'all before, you know, the root cause of all this is feminism.
	Women don't like men that much.
	So you got to go ahead and find a girl that likes you.
	And sometimes that's going to be accomplished through setting up multiple dates with multiple girls.
	What you could do is you could do it where you're supposed to meet at the same time, which is a little bit riskier, but you could do it anyway.
	Right?
	Where you got two girls set for a certain time or you can stack it where you got one girl at six or seven, then you got another girl at eight or nine, etc.
	And the reason why this is so important, guys, is because that naturally gives you an abundance mindset.
	So when a girl does flake, you don't act emotional, which actually segues to another point that we got.
	If and when she does flake, guys, don't get emotional about that shit.
	Can I give an example of how to double book?
	Yeah, go ahead.
	So just...
	Because we're attacking two different points here that work in tandem.
	Some contacts here, guys.
	So...
	This is me back in the day.
	As a man of God, I don't do this anymore.
	You know, I'm more veered now, but back in the day, what I would do, right?
	I would set the day up for the 7 p.m.
	So I finish work at 5, get home, shower, whatever.
	Day at 7, right?
	If she shows up, great.
	And she probably will show up.
	But if she doesn't show up, cool.
	I've done a date set for like 8.30 p.m.
	So if she sucks or she's not cool at all, the vibe isn't there, all right, bet.
	7 p.m.
	by 7.30, I already know what time it is.
	All right, you know what?
	I got work in the morning.
	I got to go.
	Boom.
	So remember, one's at 7.
	Next set is at 8.30.
	So wait a little bit.
	The second date shows up.
	Cool, I'll go on that date.
	But let's say, for example, the first date was awesome.
	The connection was there.
	The vibe was there.
	Second date, hey, something came up.
	I can't make it.
	Because I guarantee you, bro, she'll do it to you without even a thing in a heartbeat.
	It sounds harsh, but bro, they don't care about how you feel when they flake.
	So why don't you care about how you feel?
	I mean, how they feel when you flake.
	It's like, for example, you're in a position where you're in power rather than you're in a losing position.
	And I just say, for example...
	Spread it out, like 7pm, 8.30, 10.30.
	That way you've got time to rethink or see where they're at.
	And if you like one, just stay there.
	Don't move.
	But I'm just saying, off rip, if they're going to flake, make sure that you're in a good position to win.
	That's all.
	I mean, another thing you could do if you're a little bit riskier is you could just meet them both at the same fucking place, which is hilarious.
	I've seen that happen as well.
	Justin Tate!
	Yeah, you could do that type of shit.
	The wrangle!
	Yeah, you know what I mean?
	So you could do that as well, and you'd be amazed at how girls will respond to that shit.
	It'll automatically put them into competition anxiety.
	You gotta be a G though.
	Yeah, you gotta have your young together to do that.
	You've got to have a high-status game.
	You've got to have everything all together because some girls might take it as an insult and not even want to fucking stay.
	So, rest the piece of Tom Terrell.
	He told a story about this.
	We just had two girls show up at the same time, which is hilarious.
	But regardless, guys, the point is that you end up multiple dates stacked so that you have an abundance mindset because that leads into one of our other points, which is...
	It allows you to not be emotional when a girl does inevitably, if it does flake.
	Because it is going to happen.
	She's going to say some bullshit.
	Oh, sorry, I don't feel so good.
	Or, oh, something came up.
	Or, can we rain check?
	You know, one of these fuckery responses that girls give last minute.
	So, you don't want to go, you stupid bitch!
	Fuck you!
	Blah, blah, blah.
	Because you know what's going to happen in her head?
	She's going to go...
	I'm glad I didn't go out with him.
	You're crazy anyway.
	And they'll use that to rationalize in their head their fuckery, right?
	Again, guys, get this through your brains.
	Women have no fucking honor, okay?
	Integrity, being a man of your word, all these things, these are masculine traits.
	Men are taught, do what's right.
	Women are taught, do what's right for you, girl.
	Now, will girls show some honor maybe with another female?
	Yeah, maybe.
	But they don't give a fuck about showing honor to you.
	Because women are not put in a position typically where...
	You have to serve a man or show some type of honor.
	So she'll flake on you and not think twice about it.
	Or if you go, you stupid bitch, fuck you, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
	She's in her head that to rationalize her poor treatment of you as a human being, she'll go ahead and say, oh, I'm glad I didn't go out and date with you because you're crazy.
	And they'll use that to go ahead and hamster their excuse and mechanism to not feel at, to not, um, Take accountability for their actions.
	This is what girls do.
	They manufacture bullshit in their head for why they do fuck shit.
	That's the reality.
	That's the hard reality.
	You guys call me an asshole, call me a jerk, whatever it may be, but this is how women think.
	They'll flake on a date with you to get a reaction out of you, and then once they get that reaction out of you, they'll go ahead and say, oh, I'm glad I didn't go.
	This motherfucker's crazy.
	And that will let them hamster no accountability in their head as usual.
	Y'all know that modern-day women don't have accountability in general.
	When you do that shit, you give them a nice excuse to go ahead and say, oh, look at this girl.
	He crazy.
	Or they just want to get a reaction out of you.
	Man, very important, guys.
	You need frame.
	Perfect.
	And if you get out of character, you get upset for a flaking, she already won the battle.
	So here's how you do it, right?
	Let's say you set up a date, you leave for early, you get a reservation, you dress nice, you buy a new outfit, you're excited for this date, right?
	And she says to you, sorry love, my mom's sick, I need to go to the hospital, and my cat died of leukemia.
	And you're like, bro, this is cap.
	This is total cap.
	And you're mad as hell because you spent a lot of time preparing for this date, setting it up, and now she's not going to show up.
	However, like I said before, if you follow the steps we did earlier, right?
	Double book.
	You know, your frame is on point.
	And, as well, if you want to add to another layer, just add another point here, you show you can still go on that date with somebody else.
	So, for example, what I used to do back in the day, Cool.
	Remember, I double booked.
	So I would bring the other girl to that same spot, and I'd post it on my Instagram story.
	So mind you, all girls that I talked to back in the day were on my Instagram.
	So I'd always follow them, they'd always follow me, so they would see me still on that date with somebody else.
	I'm like, damn!
	I missed out.
	Now imagine if I got mad or angry, like, yo, you dumb hoe, blah, blah, blah, blah.
	Like, I don't want to see you.
	Then she would be like, you know what?
	I'm turned off.
	However, me being chill, calm, no problem.
	Cool.
	Have a good night.
	I go to somebody else to that same location.
	We have a great time.
	She's like, damn, that shit a little lit.
	Hey, sorry, love about flicking the other day, but like, are you free tomorrow?
	So me being calm and collected and cool, she's like, damn, he's not bothered.
	He's different.
	What do most guys do?
	You dumb hoe!
	Or like, fuck you!
	And off rip!
	Emotional state is gone.
	The frame is gone.
	So she's like, oh yeah.
	Like you said earlier, justified.
	You can call girls out, but you don't want to do it in a butthurt manner.
	Yeah, yeah.
	You can say, oh, okay.
	Well, that's fine.
	Not really.
	You know what I mean?
	Two ways you could do it.
	Yeah, go ahead.
	Either be nonchalant, chill about it, like, no problem, cool, or call them out in a smooth way.
	Yeah, yeah.
	You don't say, you stupid bitch, you don't swear at them, it's not aggressive.
	You'd be like, oh, all right, well, I guess flaking is a new thing to do nowadays.
	Ha ha ha, make a joke about it, right?
	But call her out at the same time.
	Yeah.
	You could do that.
	But the point is, is that you don't want to show that you're a butthurt or mad.
	Yeah.
	Because once you do that, again, it allows her to take zero accountability.
	Justify flaking.
	And justify her fuckery.
	And then she wins.
	When you get mad, it lets them justify their fuckery, guys.
	I'm telling y'all, bro.
	Like, women really don't have accountability.
	If you guys don't fucking believe me, watch Fresh and Fit After Hours, goddammit, where y'all see that the girls take zero fucking accountability, bro.
	Zero accountability.
	Because society doesn't hold them accountable.
	So why the fuck are they going to be held accountable?
	Facts.
	Excuse me.
	Society doesn't hold them accountable, so why the fuck are they going to take accountability?
	Facts.
	That's just the reality.
	They don't have to.
	Women don't deal with the consequences of their actions most of the time.
	And if she's really attractive, she might have never dealt with consequences in her fucking life.
	I know you're saying, freshman, this sounds harsh, bro.
	I just want to choose one girl and have one date, bro.
	If it was the other hand, they don't care about how you feel, bro.
	So why do you care?
	Yeah, bro.
	Seriously.
	Alright, cool.
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	And we're back.
	We're back.
	So, guys, real quick, we're going to kill Twitter, Twitch, and Facebook, because what we're going to get into now is not politically correct at all.
	It's not politically correct at all.
	Hey, man, we're the older brothers that you guys need, okay?
	Come on over to YouTube right now.
	We're going to give y'all some sauce.
	Yeah, YouTube and Rumble only.
	So we got two other points.
	Actually, you know what?
	This is important.
	Guys, another thing, right, to mitigate flakes.
	I want you guys to start collecting more than one contact point, okay?
	What do I mean by this?
	I need you guys to collect a phone number and an Instagram bare minimum, okay?
	And if you don't, let's say your Instagram sucks or whatever, pick up a WhatsApp or a Telegram.
	Why do I say this?
	Or Snapchat.
	Or Snapchat.
	Yeah, damn.
	Snapchat too.
	Whatever works.
	Yeah, depending on the girl.
	And the reason why I say this, guys, is because...
	Sometimes girls aren't as responsive on one medium as another one.
	I'll give you guys an example.
	Let's say it's an attractive girl, right?
	And she gets a bunch of text messages.
	I'll be honest with y'all.
	There's girls out there that will fuck you twice and still not have you saved in her contacts on her fucking phone.
	That's called our reality.
	You'll call her ass and it'll still be the number and she don't know who the fuck it is, right?
	And then if you text her, she might not remember who you are either.
	Alright?
	So, another point of contact, let's say on Instagram, where there's a face of the name, if you've been displaying higher value on Instagram, DHVing, she'll remember who you are even more so.
	So, having that second contact point will allow you, right, to be able to continue contact and or...
	Maintain contact with a girl that is typically maybe a little bit harder to reach because a lot of girls, guys have filters on their phones where they don't get messages from certain phones or they might not have you saved.
	They get a bunch of text messages every single day.
	So she might not catch you on iMessage, but she'll catch you on Instagram.
	Or let's say her Instagram is blowing up too, but she uses WhatsApp a lot because you're abroad or something like that.
	Well, she might see you on WhatsApp.
	So having multiple contact points a lot of the times will allow her Allow you to stay in her mind as far as being able to maintain conversations and set up the date.
	You're only texting, DMing, or doing FaceTime to set up dates, guys.
	And you need to maintain that contact in the period leading up to the date.
	And having more than one medium allows you to do that.
	Again, you want multiple points of failure.
	If you only have one point of failure, you're done.
	If you've got two points of failure, you have another route to go.
	Bro, we know girls that literally don't respond to texts.
	Only FaceTime calls from people that actually know and DMs on Instagram.
	Because to them, texting is no point.
	Either FaceTime me or I want to see who you are on Instagram.
	Some girls only talk on Snapchat.
	Yeah.
	I hate to say it, guys, but you've got to have multiple points of contact because Every girl's different as to where she's most responsive.
	And here's the benefit of using Instagram or Snapchat.
	You can show lifestyle.
	So often, they're not right.
	Girls get phone numbers from guys.
	They don't know who they are.
	They might not remember.
	However, a lifestyle post, seeing your Instagram page, if it's getting lit, it's like, oh, this guy's pretty interesting.
	And you'd be surprised how many girls will say, you know what?
	This guy's cool and all, but I don't know him like that.
	I'll go back to my ex because I know my ex.
	However, you have a social media page.
	Oh, he's cool.
	He's in, like, a fun time.
	I'm gonna go check him out and see what's up.
	So that one point of connection, Instagram, Snapchat, who knows what Twitter they want to use to say, you know what?
	Damn, this guy's interesting.
	I want to see more.
	It helps.
	Yeah, it does.
	It does, man.
	Because if you only have one point of failure, guys...
	Well, if that one point of failure fails, you're done.
	It's tough, bro.
	Yeah, especially with the new iPhone update.
	It allows them to filter out their messages in certain ways, different inboxes.
	So she might not even see your joint, guys.
	That's the reality.
	Look at any girl that's halfway attracted to this phone.
	Hundreds, if not thousands of messages, bro.
	A bunch of emails.
	It's wild.
	Any average looking girl's phone, dude, you look at her joint, it's lit up with notifications.
	And we've had students in the Damage On Demand course that said, yo, bro, me posting my lifestyle posts on Instagram, girls that were flicking on me, hit me up after the fact.
	Respond to my stories.
	So it happens, bro.
	That's just how it goes, man.
	Having multiple points of contact is very, very important, guys.
	It's actually an underrated tactic.
	And again, guys, y'all ain't gonna get sauce like this anywhere else because there's no one else in the RP sphere that's still young, in the game, in the United States, doing this shit.
	Every single day.
	Every day doing this shit.
	Niggas out here really doing this shit, bro.
	You know what I mean?
	Most of these guys, they're old.
	They don't know what the fuck is going on.
	They're unaware.
	Or...
	Let's be honest.
	You're just dealing with ugly hoes.
	We're here in Miami who deal with the most attractive, most hypergamous chicks.
	So we're giving you a real-time game on how the fuck this shit works.
	In the West!
	A lot of dudes be out here getting a third-world pussy trying to flex.
	Bro!
	We're here in Miami.
	First-world hoes.
	First-world problems.
	Still making it happen.
	Evening!
	The meet and greet.
	Y'all party one mil.
	Y'all saw us in action, man.
	Y'all did see us in action.
	For all those fucking losers.
	These guys don't even get girls.
	You fucking hating faggots.
	We get girls.
	We do what we gotta do out here.
	We teach you now the sauce.
	We're only able to give you guys this level of detail.
	Why?
	Because we fucking do and live this shit.
	A lot of these guys, they're out here talking about Niggas are in third world countries talking about I got game.
	Fuck out of here, nigga.
	I can get a passport.
	Go there, too.
	Yo, fresh.
	Live with no script, bro.
	Yeah, we're doing this shit live.
	From the dome, nigga.
	Live.
	I just took some notes.
	I got one page of notes here.
	Not even have a page.
	Dude, this is in my head, nigga.
	Yeah.
	Live this shit.
	We live this.
	Yo.
	Mine was carried out by three girls.
	Yeah.
	Three girls.
	Yeah.
	It's about three girls.
	Literally.
	Literally.
	Yes, sir.
	I should have let...
	I mean, allegedly.
	Allegedly.
	Two girls a day keeps the flakes away.
	Allegedly.
	All right, man.
	And then one more point, and then the last point for Rumble.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, yeah.
	So, shit, where are we at here?
	Oh, we should read the chats.
	Okay, chats.
	Last one.
	Oh, yeah, guys, do me a favor.
	Like the video, subscribe to the channel, by the way.
	Follow up.
	We don't got to go to Rumble for the last one.
	We polish it.
	Alright, it's fine.
	It's fine.
	Well, it is kind of crazy, but fuck it.
	We'll stay on YouTube for you ninjas, but as you guys know for after hours, we're going over because it's going to get crazy tonight.
	Alright, where we at here?
	John Doe says, how do you make the mindset shift away from being a Fed?
	Current Fed here, preparing for transition to civilian life.
	John Doe.
	I mean, just use your skill set to do whatever you got to do.
	What did you do, though, in particular?
	I don't know.
	You got to tell me what you did.
	Were you military?
	Were you law enforcement?
	I mean, different worlds.
	Luxurious life.
	Started watching six months ago.
	Just hit a new bench.
	405 pounds.
	Passive residual income.
	12k.
	Biggest trip next month.
	Financially free.
	And it's not bad.
	Stop being a simp.
	Get to work.
	Everyone fresh and fit.
	Keep it up.
	Shout out to you, bro.
	We have here, Monikers1 says, oh yeah, what if she wants to bring a friend and shit with that typical excuse?
	Bro.
	Yeah, girls will do that too.
	There's two reasons typically a girl want to bring her friend.
	I'm actually doing this BS right now.
	She's nervous?
	Yeah.
	And she wants to have a friend to kind of like mediate and see how you are as a person.
	And she may even tell them to leave after a while.
	But still, what's the main point of them doing it?
	They might not like you that much.
	Exactly.
	And then the other one also is that if you live in a vacation destination, they don't want to leave their friend.
	So that happens a lot with me and Fresh, where a girl will come, she'll like you, but she'll have a friend and she can't leave her friend because girls are very catty like that because if she leaves her friend for even an hour, he left me!
	And she doesn't want to deal with her bitching at her for an hour or during the entire trip.
	So they don't want to leave each other's side.
	So if you live in Vegas, in New York City, in Miami, in LA, whatever, and a girl comes with her friend, She might not want to leave her side.
	And she'll be like, oh, can you bring a friend, blah, blah, blah?
	So that your friend can go ahead and game the other chick so you can talk to her.
	So that's also something that happens if you live in a vacation destination.
	Which is why you need a wingman.
	At most times.
	Very important to have one.
	Very important to have one.
	But yeah, like, yeah, bro.
	And that happens actually a lot with me and Fresh, where girls will come to Miami, and they'll have a friend with them.
	And they're like, oh, I can't leave her.
	Can we do something?
	Blah, blah, blah.
	So, it's common.
	Just bring a friend.
	Yeah, just bring a buddy with you.
	Like, someone that's not an idiot.
	Yeah, bro, dude.
	You're better off not bringing anybody.
	That's an L for both y'all.
	Because even if you're smooth, but your friend is weird, or some shit like that, it'll mess both y'all up.
	Yeah.
	It's so sad.
	Proverbs 11, 22-23 says, Bro, this is not a church sermon, bro.
	But, uh, we'll talk after this then.
	Yeah, I can, nigga.
	Saint God Army says, just became a one-sided open relationship with my girl of nine years.
	Thanks to FNF. We live together.
	When closing at the end of the date, do I go back to her spot or get a hotel?
	This is why you shouldn't be living with your girl, nigga.
	Yeah, bro.
	Nigga, what are you doing?
	You did a good job.
	You've been with her for nine years and you're able to make it a one-sided relationship, which means you did something to increase your value.
	Now the next step is getting her out of your house and living by yourself.
	I'll be honest with you, bro.
	Don't live with women.
	Don't do it.
	Yeah, bro.
	I know you've been with her for nine years and shit.
	If y'all got a kid, then maybe that's one thing.
	But if you don't got a kid, there's no reason for you to be living with her at all.
	That's tough, bro.
	Yeah.
	That's tough.
	Put her ass in another apartment or you move out.
	But don't live with women, bro.
	I'm telling y'all, man.
	It's not worth it, bro.
	CallMeCon says, would you guys ever consider a special episode where you have a panel of average guys on and ask questions about their dating experiences?
	Would that make for good content?
	Bro, we get a shit all the time.
	Listen, man.
	If you want, bro, you know what you can do, bro?
	Make your own podcast.
	Invite guys on it.
	Talk about dating.
	How about you do it?
	Cool.
	Here, let me answer this.
	The reason why we haven't done it, guys, is because, quite frankly, women don't give a fuck what your niggas think, bro.
	That's the truth.
	Yeah.
	That's the truth.
	I mean, we could bring regular guys on and do a show, etc., right?
	And, you know, we can all sit here and complain about, yo, modern women this, modern women that, blah, blah, blah.
	It's bullshit.
	Flaking.
	This is annoying.
	Oh, my God.
	They really want to hear us, if at all.
	Yeah, but, bro, the reality is...
	All that's going to do is that's going to allow you guys to sit there in misery.
	Misery loves company.
	And if we have a bunch of guys here that are dealing with the same bullshit, because trust me, we're dealing with the same bullshit, right?
	That you guys are.
	Trust me, we are.
	All right?
	We haven't been famous that long, niggas.
	All right?
	Yeah.
	So, in anything, our fame, if anything, hurts us.
	100%.
	Yeah, it definitely hurts us, yeah.
	Guys, understand...
	You have to do extra to even get the same result, bro.
	We have to literally go through a phase of like, so you did multiple girls, right?
	What's that like?
	I feel like you might just cheat on...
	Dude.
	I see clips of you.
	The shit we have to do with, bro, is so much you not even understand.
	We got the wrong clout.
	We got the wrong clout.
	Y'all niggas lucky, man.
	We gotta do a lot of shit, bro.
	I'm telling you.
	Yeah.
	But the point I'm trying to make here, guys, is that Bring in regular guys on.
	Maybe we'll do it for an episode for y'all just so that, you know, make you guys happy.
	But the reality is nobody gives a fuck, bro.
	That's the cold art.
	No one gives a fuck.
	Yeah.
	They really don't.
	They might say, good boy.
	Yeah.
	I agree.
	I agree.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Bring y'all on with a bunch of girls.
	When they leave, back to the dude that's treating them like shit.
	Yeah, bro.
	Like, they don't give a fuck, bro.
	They really don't.
	All right.
	The Godfather.
	Okay, cool.
	All right.
	Last point here.
	Wait, more chats?
	No.
	No, we're good.
	We're caught up?
	Okay.
	All right.
	So, guys.
	All right.
	So, we got a recap real quick, right?
	Number one, FaceTime.
	Before I recap, do me a favor and then just like the video, subscribe to the channel, Fresh and Fit, subscribe on Rumble.
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	Okay, guys, so we're going to recap this thing.
	First, we talked about how feminism has come in, indoctrinated women to not necessarily need men.
	Since women don't need men anymore, especially in Western countries, they no longer feel the need to deal with most of you guys, which has led to the anti-male society that we have now.
	Definitely.
	Men ain't shit.
	We're independent.
	Blah, blah, blah.
	Fuck all men.
	They don't need you.
	And most importantly, they don't like you guys that much, okay?
	That's the reality, right?
	Women don't like men that much.
	Now that you understand this foundation, now we're into the problem, which is what?
	We have a flake epidemic going on, where girls in general will set up dates or hang out, say that they'll hang out with you and they don't fucking show up.
	I know a lot of y'all deal with this bullshit because we definitely deal with it.
	And they got options, man.
	And they got options, right?
	So you went over some ways to deal with the current flake rate, right?
	Sending up FaceTime calls, between 10 minutes on the lower end, all the way up to 30 minutes, building more rapport, and setting up a date.
	Then, when you do set up that date, she comes to you so you don't overinvest and put yourself in a vulnerable position.
	Also, always double book.
	So if she does flake, you have something set up.
	Also, double booking does what?
	Gives you an abundance mindset.
	When you have that abundance mindset, if she does, or if, or when, she does flake.
	You don't take it personal.
	You're able to say, hey, that's just cool.
	It is what it is.
	And if you got her on Instagram, you can go ahead and post a story of your date with the other chick and make her dumbass feel very stupid for not showing up.
	Then you also want to make sure that you can...
	Hold on.
	Sorry, guys.
	I'm going back through my notes.
	Make her come to you.
	Oh, collect two to three different ways to contact her.
	So that if you miss her in one way, you can go ahead and contact another way, whether it's Instagram, text message, etc.
	I suggest that you guys get at least...
	Her phone number and an Instagram.
	And you can show lifestyle to better your chances of her showing up on a date.
	Exactly.
	Especially your stories.
	Now, we're on to the last point now.
	I think I covered everything, right?
	Yeah, pretty much.
	And I also cited some stats where women flake on approximately 56% of dates, and then field reports put it closer to 70%, and then Tinder Insights show that only about 8.6% of people actually message each other on Tinder.
	So we got a 91.4% flake rate digitally online, which is wild to let you guys kind of know how wild this stuff is.
	And I go into more detail on this in my book, Why Women Deserve Less, which is going to come out later on, but I have an entire chapter that specifies and outlines why and how women don't like men that much, thanks to feminism.
	Alright?
	But, now that we've went over that, we got the last point here.
	Guys...
	After a couple weeks, a couple months, you can reinitiate contact.
	Okay, guys?
	And see what happens.
	And the reason why I say this, guys, is because...
	I'm just gonna say it.
	A lot of girls go through what I call a whore cleanse.
	Okay?
	And what a whore cleanse is, guys...
	What did you say?
	A whore cleanse.
	A whore cleanse.
	Sorry, I was just funny.
	Right?
	And what I mean by that is a girl will say some shit about, oh, you know, I was just finding myself.
	I was on a personal journey.
	I was, you know, being spiritual.
	I had to, you know, come to terms with certain things.
	I had to fight some demons, blah, blah, blah.
	You know what that means in fucking English?
	Ah!
	Translate that womanese.
	That means I was being a fucking hoe and I'm going ahead and I'm taking a break from cock for a little bit.
	Okay?
	Anytime a girl says, I'm taking a break from guys or I'm not doing this or I'm not doing that, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
	That's all translation for I was a hoe.
	I need to think about my wholeness because being a hoe goes against my nature as a woman and I need some goddamn time to think about this.
	So what might have happened, guys, or she went through a breakup or some shit like that.
	What happens, guys, is girls will typically go through these, you know, what I call whore cleansing phases, maybe once or twice a year.
	And it might just be where you caught that girl during her whore cleanse.
	And she's like, eh, you know what?
	I'm not really interested in meeting any guys right now, blah, blah, blah.
	And some of you guys might be like, well, why the fuck does she go through the time of talking to me, whatever?
	Well, we told you guys already.
	A lot of girls are attention whores, and they still want to feel desired, even though they're going through their whore cleanse, right?
	Because women love attention.
	So they still need that dopamine hit.
	So, you gotta understand that sometimes you might catch a girl at a bad time.
	Timing is everything a lot of times, guys.
	If you look at, like, a guy, like, and I'll give you guys an example of this.
	Look at, like, your typical club promoter.
	Sleazy, skinny, probably a cokehead.
	Not the most attractive guy, not the highest status.
	But, those guys pull a lot of tail.
	Why?
	Well, they're at the right place at the right time.
	They're there with a bunch of drunk girls at a club.
	Got them into the club for free.
	Show some kind of status, right, in that window.
	Of opportunity.
	And then a lot of them take that and they're able to close and fuck the girls, even though they aren't necessarily that great of a guy on paper.
	And the reason why is because timing.
	Timing is very important with women, guys.
	And we don't talk about this enough in the red pill space about catching a girl at the right time.
	A lot of times we'll get you late, right?
	So understand that there's times where it's not the right time and a chick might be going through something.
	And that is why she can't necessarily meet on a date or whatever it may be.
	I want to add one more layer here as well.
	So a lot of females as well are not ever really single, which means she might talk to you, give you her phone number, her Instagram, back and forth chat, but she might have a boyfriend or a man she's talking to.
	And until that's over or until she feels like, you know what, this guy has no more value for me, I'm not going to take you serious.
	So what happens is most of the time, you talk to a chick and she's kind of like giving you like signs or whatever, but she's not really pushing forward because she's like, oh, you know what?
	I'm going to keep this hair under wraps.
	And when her man does something like weird or dumb or like something that she doesn't like, you know what?
	Jimmy was talking to on the side here.
	I'm going to give Jimmy a chance.
	Hey, Jimmy, you want to meet up?
	And then finally you get that chance to go on a date with her because she's free from this guy's, I want to say, you know, reign of terror, so to speak.
	So that point in time is the right time because now she's open to you because her boyfriend or her man she's talking to is not giving her what she wants.
	And that right there, guys, is opportunity.
	Now it's your turn.
	Wink, wink.
	Yeah.
	So just, and I, like, another thing too, just to give you guys kind of a perspective on this, I've talked about this before.
	I want to give you guys this feeling so you guys understand.
	I want you guys to go into an imaginary world.
	Imagination.
	Right?
	Let's say you're in bed with two bad bitches, right?
	And you just ended up, you know, busting a nut, and you just, you're in the bed with them, and, you know, they're like, ah, yeah, this is awesome, right?
	Timmer!
	Yeah.
	Wait, what?
	The fuck?
	What?
	What the fuck?
	Anyway, I don't know where the hell that came from.
	What the fuck, Fresh?
	Yo, put it on a chapel brush, man.
	Elfresh, man.
	Elfresh.
	Elfresh, man.
	Oh, shit.
	His name is Timmy.
	Timmy's in bed with two bitches, bro.
	Timmy!
	Anyway, so let's say you're in bed with the two girls and you just finished busting a nut, right?
	And you got that moment of post-nut clarity.
	I want you guys to freeze frame that real quick.
	Freeze frame that feeling where you got that moment of clarity after busting a nut with two bad bitches in bed.
	That right there, guys, that moment of clarity that you're experiencing, that's how women feel all the time.
	Now, I want you to multiply that KO Ken times like fucking five or ten.
	That's how girls that are going through their whore cleanse feel, okay?
	They don't need to be around...
	They want the attention from men, but they don't want to actually be around men or hang out with men.
	And a lot of times, that comes after maybe...
	They went through some trauma.
	Maybe they're recovering from some type of alcohol or drug dependence.
	Maybe they're recovering from too much cock.
	Bad relationship.
	Finding themselves.
	Anytime a girl gives any type of I went through a spiritual journey or this other fucking weird shit.
	Nine out of ten times they were traumatized by something and they were doing some ho shit and they need to do what I call the whore cleanse.
	And you might have just caught her during the whore cleanse.
	And hey, it happens.
	So there's nothing wrong with following up maybe weeks, months later.
	Hey, what's going on?
	Trouble.
	And then you put a nice picture of yourself so she remembers who the hell it is.
	Right?
	A lot of times when I send a text to a girl, I send a photo of myself and I'll say like some funny one-liner.
	All right?
	Like, hey, did you get kidnapped or some shit like that?
	Ha ha ha.
	Do I got to send a search party?
	And then I'll send a photo to myself.
	She's like, oh, this is the guy.
	I remember him.
	Blah, blah, blah.
	So that's something that you could do as well to follow up with a lead that might be cold with a girl who was going through a whore cleanse.
	And we don't talk about this enough where girls just might not be in the right mind state to want to meet up or hang out with a guy because they're being a 304 and they're trying to cleanse.
	Emotional damage!
	What I'll do as well, instead of texting the girl, I'll just DM them or respond to their story.
	Because what are you going to do?
	That works as well.
	Who's this?
	We'll go to your page.
	If it's lit.
	Damn.
	Who's this nigga?
	Oh, I remember him from that day we met.
	Whatever.
	Before you know it.
	Hey, stranger.
	Or hey, what's up?
	So, yeah.
	So, just understand that as well, guys.
	A lot of the times when you get rejected by a girl, sometimes you didn't do shit wrong.
	Yeah.
	You know, she just had a wrong point in her life because she decided to be a hoe.
	So, that's the reality.
	That's just how it is, man.
	This is why it's so important to double book.
	Have multiple dates set up.
	Have multiple girls that you're talking to.
	Get two to three different points of contact.
	Get that Instagram.
	Show your lifestyle.
	Face time for 10 to 15 minutes.
	This is not, and I want to make this very clear.
	These steps that we gave y'all, it's not going to stop the flaking.
	It's never going to fucking end.
	Disclaimer.
	We cannot ever mitigate all of flaking.
	But we can reduce them on flaking.
	But taking these actions, we listed out here for you today.
	Taking these steps will give you guys maybe a 50-60% chance of getting the date through.
	You know what I mean?
	But you're never going to be able to completely destroy or mitigate flaking.
	You ain't.
	In today's day and age in society, bro, sorry, but the atmosphere is too anti-male.
	It's too, I could replace this guy.
	Girls have too many fucking options.
	It is what it is.
	So the only thing you could do, instead of crying about it, is take these strategies that we're giving you guys, adapt, overcome, play the numbers game, and use these strategies to try to mitigate your risk.
	And most importantly, don't over-invest in these girls.
	Alright?
	Don't over-invest.
	Because when you do, that's when the emotion comes in and you send these angry-ass Bible messages.
	You stupid bitch!
	Fuck you!
	Yeah, also, yeah, keep the frame, guys.
	Stay solid.
	Don't get emotional, like you said earlier, because if you get emotional, bro, you really lost the battle.
	You could call her out respectfully, but don't fucking sit here and cry and call her names.
	Whatever you do, don't swear at her.
	You fucking bitch, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
	No, bro, don't do that, because that's going to make her feel better that she flaked on you, and you don't want her to get that satisfaction.
	You want that bitch to feel like shit.
	A lot of times, I'll make them feel guilty.
	I'm like, you know, if a girl flakes sometimes, I'll be like, wow, I didn't expect that from you.
	Like, I really didn't think you were that type of girl.
	Wow.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	And the reason why I do it like that is because instead of calling her out and saying, you stupid bitch, fuck you, blah, blah, blah, so she'd go back home or show that message to her friend and get the satisfaction of, like, I'm glad I didn't go out with him.
	Instead, I'm going to attack her character in a respectful way.
	Like, damn, I didn't think you were like these other girls, man.
	I really didn't.
	Wow.
	I'm disappointed.
	But hey, it's cool.
	No worries.
	You're not special?
	I thought you were special.
	Damn.
	Yeah.
	I guess you're not.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, and sometimes attacking a girl from that angle, right, where you're attacking her integrity or her character to a degree, right, even though we know most girls don't have any character, but attacking her from that degree, it's going to pummel the little bit of character or integrity that she did have, because what you're doing is you're humanizing yourself on the other end.
	Does that make sense, guys?
	Yeah.
	Okay?
	Because if you attack her, she's like, oh yeah, I made the right decision.
	But if you say, damn, I didn't think that you were that type of chick.
	Or, wow, I thought I didn't think that you would stoop to this level or some shit like that.
	And then that will go ahead and make her feel like shit.
	And that's what you want to do.
	You want to make her feel guilty.
	I just be like, no problem.
	It's cool.
	I just act nonchalant, go on a different date.
	It is what it is.
	You can see my story.
	You can see me being lit.
	Alright, cool.
	Yeah.
	Or I had you in high esteem.
	Damn.
	I didn't think you were like these other girls.
	You know what I mean?
	Clever.
	And then you'd be like, hey, but no worries.
	We can schedule something else.
	It is what it is.
	But the point is that you got to hit her with the guilt.
	Okay?
	Don't get her mad.
	Don't be emotional, little bitch.
	Make her feel guilty.
	All right?
	That's the key.
	Guilt.
	And there's different ways to go about this.
	Yeah, you know what timing is fresh.
	I mean, Chris.
	Alright, cool.
	Alright, so yo, I need y'all ninjas.
	Like the video.
	I hope you guys like that.
	Oh, Darryl Blake goes, what's your take on the female officer who got a train ran on her by six other cops in her own unit?
	She belongs to the street.
	She belongs to the street.
	She belongs to the department in that case.
	You're the right timing, bro.
	Yeah, she ended up getting fired too, but yeah, bro, that was a fucking L. Once again, bro, a woman is never...
	And her husband is like supporting her through the shit, which is like wild.
	He allowed it.
	Yeah, she cheated on him because he has simp.
	I'm telling you guys, women will punish you if your masculinity isn't on point, if you're a simp, if you're a sucker, whatever.
	They will make your life a living fucking hell.
	I will say though, she is equal opportunities because she don't discriminate.
	Black, white, Hispanic, she didn't give a fuck.
	She wasn't even hot.
	It'd be those threes and fours that'd be really getting down.
	Facts, bro.
	All right, guys.
	We're going to show up some girls coming up to you shortly.
	Chris, call it.
	What time?
	10.
	10 p.m.
	Cool.
	All right.
	We'll catch you guys back here.
	It's only 8.30.
	Nigga, 9.30.
	A little sooner.
	Nigga, it's early, nigga.
	Yeah, you know how it is.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, they play got us for the opportunity of a lifetime they fight for that shit, bro.
	Yeah, so nobody's safe.
	Yeah We ain't safe either, man.
	Everyone's dealing with the same fuck shit.
	Trust me.
	It doesn't change when you get some more money and status.
	The girls still be on the same fucking fuckery regardless.
	Alright, guys?
	We've seen Trey Songz get rejected.
	Alright, if that niggas get rejected, you ain't got a fucking chance.
	You have no chance.
	I saw 11 Club over there, bro.
	This is hilarious.
	We live in a basement, man, fucking dating society.
	No chance!
	You know what I mean?
	Like, fuck, that's what you got.
	Yeah, man.
	So, guys, the only chance you do got is to take the steps that we taught you guys.
	Get your value up.
	Don't get mad at the situation.
	Understand that most girls don't like you in the fucking first place.
	That's a cold, hard fact that most of you men need to understand and just accept reality and adapt.
	And they got options, too, man.
	So, it's the way it is.
	The best man will win, so...
	We don't cry over here at Fresh and Fit.
	We give y'all niggas solutions.
	Alright, man?
	Love you guys.
	We'll be back here with some lovely ladies.
	Like the video on your way out.
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	Peace.
	I ran.
	I ran so far away.
	I just ran.

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