Welcome to the Friendship Podcast, after-hours edition.
We're joined with six lovey ladies, or seven with Zuby.
I can't count tonight, but let's get into it.
Let's go.
Let's go.
Get out!
Get out!
Yo, put your shoes on outside.
You don't got to put them on in here.
I know the night is not for this would seem.
I'm up to reading something, so I'll make myself believe it.
It's nice and nice.
I will never tell a story.
If you can't forget, I will never tell a story.
All right, guys, we're actually on time.
10 p.m.
Eastern Standard Time for once, man.
Give ourselves a dime to Marco for that one, man.
My bad.
Nobody cares.
All right, guys, quick notice when we get into the show.
Rumble.com slash FreshFit.
As you guys know, this type of content is almost always censored, and at some point, we're probably going to get silenced and kicked off every platform, just like our boy Andrew Tate.
Free him.
He's definitely in the city.
Shout out to Andrew Tate.
But yeah, guys, Rumble.com slash FreshFit.
And then also, do me a favor, go subscribe to Rumble.com slash Tate Speech.
Also, go enroll in Hustlers University.
Go show them support because, you know, people are trying to hate and say a bunch of bullshit that isn't true.
Also, guys, FreshFit.locals.com.
As you guys know, Fresh Record shows right before we go on the real show.
Gives you guys behind the scenes stuff.
His dates, him out in the club doing the nigga shit that Fresh does.
If you guys want to go out and see it, Fresh and Fit at locals.com.
Check us out on locals, guys, alright?
If you guys want to see the lifestyle, go ahead and check out Freshman, because I'd be inside.
I don't want to be outside like him.
So you guys want to see the cool shit, check us out on Locals.
Also, guys, check us out on Megaphone, okay?
If you guys want to listen to the podcast, audio only, make sure to check us out on Megaphone.
Just make sure you wear headphones, because if you watch an interview like the one that we just did with Zuby, like just a second ago, which was lit, by the way, you will probably get fired from your job and or get called into HR, okay, guys?
So make sure to wear headphones.
It's too real.
Also, Check us out on Discord.gg slash Fresh and Fit, guys.
You guys can speak to like-minded people from all over the world.
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Okay, guys, it's our other YouTube channel.
80% of you guys that watch that channel are not subscribed.
I need you guys to go like the goddamn videos and subscribe to that channel so you can get another golden plaque and flex on the haters.
And then Fresh, you want to talk about your vlog channel?
Yes, guys.
For buying the scenes, man, check out the channel.
I will do more live streams rather than vlogs because I feel like that's more personable.
But yeah, 20K on the way.
Let's go.
Cool.
And check me out, guys, on FedIt.
As you guys know, it's more true crime stuff.
I break down serial killers, FTX collapse, terrorism, everything you guys want.
I break it down from a former Fed.
So check me out over there on FedIt1811, man.
I drop two videos a week, one on Sunday.
I'm going to drop the toy box killer for you guys.
You guys have been asking for that serial killer forever.
It's a weirdo that lived down in New Mexico that basically used to lock girls up in a trailer.
He had a bunch of...
Torture sexual devices in there.
And when the girls would be locked up in there, some saw shit, he would have a tape recorder ready to go.
And he'd be like, hello there, bitch.
You're probably wondering why you're in this toy.
Yeah, yeah, dude.
Crazy shit.
Saw stuff.
I'll go ahead and cover that for y'all.
Because you guys have been requesting it.
Actually, a lot of girls have been requesting that one, which is strange.
Artelio was bad.
Yeah, I know.
Yeah, bro.
Yeah.
It's wild, man.
So yeah, if you guys like that true crime stuff, go check me out on Fed1811.
And Chris.
Yep.
Ladies, DM me Narcy Pox on IG. Make sure you come on time.
Come early.
And yeah, just have a good time.
And DM fresh and fit million to go into our party is next week, right?
Is it next week already?
Yeah, it's the 14th.
Oh shit, yeah.
So ladies, DM me, or not me, but the page on there.
And no guys sending DMs to that page at all, okay?
And then Zena, anything to say?
And stop sending me dick pics.
Keep sending her dick pics, guys.
Xena the Witcher.
Keep sending her dick pics.
Okay, ladies, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, education level, and if you want to, of course, and we'll start right here.
Welcome back.
Thanks.
I'm Kara.
I am 22.
Where are you from?
Oh, I'm from Cleveland, Ohio.
Okay.
But I live here.
I work in finance and I have a bachelor's in finance from Ohio State.
And is that it?
Dings at us?
Oh, I'm single.
Cool.
All right.
Hi, I'm Laura Laurel.
I'm from Miami, Florida.
Red flag.
How old are you?
26 and I work in marketing and I'm currently single at the moment.
Okay.
Well, let me know.
What's your highest education level completed?
College.
College?
You have your bachelor's?
Yes.
And what?
Marketing.
Okay.
And where'd you go for your undergrad?
I went to Broward College.
And you said you're single, right?
Yes.
Alright, cool.
What about you?
Hey guys, my name is Oriana Pirella.
I'm from Venezuela.
What is it?
Oriana Pirella.
How old are you?
I'm 27.
I'm from Venezuela.
I'm an artist.
We couldn't tell.
Okay.
When you say artist, you mean like music or like art, like painting, drawing?
I do both.
Okay.
Yeah, I do painting and I'm a singer as well.
Okay.
Like what?
Like Spanish music?
I do Spanish.
I do also some English music.
I mean, I have music in English, but I'm a painter, so I kind of created a performance that I sing and I paint at the same time.
Okay.
So I do both.
All right.
And you said you're from, did you grow up in Venezuela?
I did, yes.
When did you come to Miami?
Six years ago.
Okay.
Six years.
And what's your highest education level completed?
Electronic engineering back in Venezuela.
Okay, so you went to college.
You got your bachelor's degree.
Yes.
Okay.
Electronic engineering?
Yes.
You said, fuck that, huh?
You ain't doing nothing.
I know.
Okay.
And what's your status?
Relationship?
Sugar daddy?
Single?
Okay.
Single.
Cool.
All right.
What about you?
What's up?
I'm Liz.
You can call me Lotus.
Okay.
And I'm 31.
Wait, 31?
I know.
I'm going to hear it.
I know.
I heard that before.
And I finished some college.
Okay.
Where are you originally from?
I'm originally from Germany.
My father was in the military.
Okay.
And my mom's Korean.
So, a lot.
So, did you grow up in Germany?
Yeah.
Until I was 12.
Okay.
And then when I moved to South Carolina, I was 12.
Konnichiwa.
And then I came to Miami.
I've been here about eight years now.
And I also do OnlyFans and I DJ. And yeah, I'm 31 years old.
And I'm single.
Okay.
Highest education level completed?
Some college.
Some college, you said, right?
Yes.
Okay.
So, 31, Germany, OF, single.
Okay, cool.
You said you DJ and OnlyFans?
Yes.
All right.
What about you?
Hi, I go by Karma.
I am an artist.
I do rap and singing.
I'm 27.
27?
Okay.
So you're a rapper, what else?
Singer.
Okay.
I also am licensed for electrology, so laser hair removal.
Okay.
Is that like your main day job?
Yeah, it's a medical esthetician.
Okay.
Medical?
Well, I mean, that's not nurse, though.
Yeah, it's not nurse.
Okay.
So you do hair removal.
That's a boom in business, especially here in Miami.
What's your highest education level completed?
I want to say trade school for the laser.
Okay, yeah, trade school counts.
All right.
Relationship status?
Single.
Okay.
And where are you originally from?
So I was born in Chicago, raised in Broward County.
Oh, Chicago.
Raising Broward?
Broward?
That's a bad combo, man.
That's a bad combo.
Fort Lauderdale, Pompano Beach, what are we talking?
The market area.
Okay.
That's pretty good.
Yeah, but your raps, though.
Wait, you rap?
Yeah, I rap insane.
Okay.
What's wrong with rapping?
Hold on, hold on.
I gotta do it, man.
I love it.
I got karma.
Here we go.
I need at least a couple bars.
Come on.
Something nice.
I hear them whispering, mentioning my past again.
Those who like to talk, love attention, but they lack in it.
Drama, they be passing it.
That was good, that was good though.
An artist on the panel, Zuby.
One out of ten, what do you rate that?
I'll give it a four, but I think with more confidence, it could go way up.
I think you were not feeling confident.
Man, Zoomy's being nice.
I wish I had an extra hand so I could give that three thumbs down.
Holy!
What the hell?
You like the confidence.
All right.
Give me one more shot.
What about you?
Okay.
What about you?
What about you?
My name's Milan.
I'm 26.
Milan or Mulan?
Milan.
Okay, Milan.
Like the city.
Okay.
You're 26?
Yep.
I'm an esthetician.
Okay.
What specifically?
Skin, hair?
I do skin and full body waxing.
Okay.
Okay.
And what's your, I'm assuming, highest education?
Trade school or did you go to college?
Yeah, trade school.
Okay.
Okay.
And where are you originally from?
Michigan.
What part of Michigan?
Ingster.
Has she been home before?
Yeah.
Oh, okay.
Well, I was like, in my head, like, wait, is this like deja vu or something?
Okay, okay, okay.
Alright, alright.
You're the one that stole your boyfriend's car.
Oh, shit!
I memorize girls.
You know how I memorize girls about the crimes that can do?
Yeah.
I think so.
Yeah.
Oh, you're the drug dealer.
Oh, okay.
You're the scamper.
Okay.
You got it.
Mine is a number of girls.
I'm listening to the crime.
Yeah.
I don't remember that.
If I didn't hook up with her or if she committed a crime, that's, if I hooked up with her, if she committed a crime, then I'll remember her.
Alright, cool.
And then, what's your status?
I got me a little boo.
You got a boo?
Okay, so you're no longer single.
Okay, so I'll put Pooh here.
Okay.
And you're from, what part of Michigan are you from again?
Was it Detroit or?
Inkster.
Inkster.
Yeah, it's like 25 minutes from Detroit.
Okay.
All right.
Inkster.
Michigan.
Michigan sucks, bro.
I'm sorry to hear that.
One of the worst real estate markets, man.
And what about you?
Welcome back.
My name is Janina.
uh-huh I'm 39.
I was 37 the first time I came.
What do you do for a living?
I'm in private equity.
Okay.
Oh, money.
Hello money.
I sell money.
She'll be lending money to people.
Yeah.
So she will own your soul and give you some debt.
Okay.
Private equity.
How is education level completed?
I have a bachelor's in criminal justice and an MBA in finance.
Okay.
Okay.
Cool.
CJ is a useless degree.
I know because I have one as well.
Yeah.
MBA in finance.
Cool.
And where are you originally from?
I was born in Peru and I grew up in Pompano and I've been in Miami for the last 10 years.
Pompano?
You guys had Kodak and he actually used to be...
I used to be a probation officer.
Juvenile probation officer.
Kodak used to be one of my kids.
What the heck?
I believe it.
I believe it.
Small world, I guess.
Small world.
Okay, so...
Okay, and then relationship status?
I'm single.
Single?
All right.
Cool.
All right.
She said that reluctantly.
Last but not least, our guest on the panel, Zuby!
What's up?
No doubt.
My name is Zuby, independent rapper, author, host of the Real Talk with Zuby podcast, international public speaker, and I'm from the UK. Born there, family background originally from Nigeria, grew up in Saudi Arabia, went to both American and British schools, graduate of Oxford University in computer science, but I don't use that.
International man of mystery.
There you go.
You're just like her.
Not using her degree.
Alright, cool.
So I'll read some of these chats, guys.
Just so you know, it's Friday, which means you guys go ahead and send in the chats and we're going to go ahead and ask the questions you guys Ask, I guess, because it's Friday.
I guarantee you they're going to ask the countries one off-road.
Dreamer4523.
Name three countries.
They love this segment.
Name three countries of what?
Three countries outside of the United States.
Are you serious?
Don't get scared now.
Last time I was here, I want to say that the majority of girls failed.
Are you serious?
It starts here.
Three countries.
Peru, Colombia, Ecuador.
What about you?
You can't name what she said.
It's okay.
I only got like another 160 to go.
Canada.
Two more.
South Korea.
Bangladesh.
What about you?
Greece, Dominican Republic, and Haiti.
Thailand, Indonesia, North Korea.
All Asian countries.
Hilarious.
Alright, what about you?
Three countries.
No, no, no.
Let's only cross.
Venezuela, Argentina, Croatia.
I would say Nigeria, Ghana, and Benin.
Let's put that finance degree to the test.
Three.
Germany, Ireland, and Cuba.
Yes.
Okay.
This is the third panel.
All the girls actually have a name, a country.
Oh my gosh.
I just want to say, someone said Texas.
Someone said Asia.
No!
Last time I was here, one girl said, someone said Africa, someone said Asia, someone said Texas.
That's so embarrassing!
I was there, I was like, oh my gosh.
She don't know her geometry, okay?
We're doing good.
High IQ panel.
So far so good.
Ladies, who caught in the Civil War?
What?
What?
The South or the North.
I think he means to say who fought in the Civil War, I think is what he means.
Okay, what's all the ladies' body counts?
Hashtag FreeTopG's.
You know they ain't gonna tell you the truth, bro.
Whatever they tell you, add seven, multiply by two, and then divide by one.
What is that?
What is that?
Ladies, should the past matter?
If not, would you stay with your partner if you found out they were intimate with the same gender in the past?
Dreamer.
Goodbye.
No, I wouldn't care.
Okay, we'll go around the table on this one.
We'll start here.
Does the past matter, number one?
Okay.
Yes or no?
Yes, to a certain extent.
Are we talking about guys, girls, both?
We'll just say guys in the 60s.
Can we say the question one more time?
Don't worry, I'll ask it to you when we get there.
Don't worry.
To a slight extent.
Would you be with your guy if you find out he fucked another dude?
I actually would.
You would?
Yeah.
Okay.
What about you?
Does the past matter?
Yes.
It does matter.
Would you be with a guy if he had sex with another dude?
Keep it real.
It's okay.
Yeah, I might.
You would?
What about you?
Does the past matter?
I think the past, you can change it with your present.
So, whatever you do in your present is actually who you are at the moment, and I don't mind about that, but if you, I mean, if you was with another guy before, maybe he's confused, so that would be our situation.
Alright, would you be with a guy that banged dudes in the past?
I don't think so.
Okay, so what happened to the present?
He's straightened out!
He's straightened out, bro!
He's good to go now on, man!
I mean, I don't think...
Contradiction!
Contradiction, ma'am.
No, it's not a contradiction.
I don't have anything to do with you.
If you have things in your past, I wouldn't be with you.
If you're like another gender, that's it.
No, but he likes girls now.
It's his present.
Yeah.
Maybe he likes girls at that time as well.
He changed.
Yeah, he liked dudes, and he realized, you know what, man?
This is a cool...
He changed for you.
He's tired of these hairy buttholes.
Yeah.
I want girls.
He changed for you.
Yeah, it's his present now.
Yeah.
No?
Don't accept him?
I don't think so.
Okay, fantastic.
Nope.
What about you?
So, there's a past matter, number one.
It matters.
Okay.
Yeah.
If the dude banged another dude, would you be with him?
I would.
I mean, we can enjoy it together.
Not the cap.
Wait, what?
No, there's not a cap.
We can enjoy it together.
If he's providing for me and he wants to be sexually pleased, then, yeah, fuck it.
So he's doing his job.
He's pleasing me financially, right?
And he's doing his job, right?
And this is what he likes.
And I'm going to do what he wants that pleases him.
So you'd be okay with him banging dudes?
Yeah.
If he's doing his job, right?
I'd watch your show, right?
And the man does what his job is, which is to financially care for his women and his family.
What if y'all go on 50-50, though?
What is 50-50, babe?
I mean, you pay half the bills, he pays half the bills.
Okay, that's a totally different story, though.
Oh, so he's got to pay all the bills for you to accept the gayness.
The conversations that you bring up on this show is that he provides financially, right?
And if he's doing his job, then I'm going to accept who he is and I'm going to please him.
So you'll accept him being gay only if he pays all your bills?
No, I never said that.
Okay, so if he's providing, you know, partly, no, this is a different story.
Have you ever had a dream?
Okay, hold on, hold on.
What are you really saying?
Okay, question for you.
What if, right, he wanted to smash other girls?
Would you be cool with that?
What are the conditions?
No, he's doing his part.
That he's providing financially?
Yeah, he's doing his part.
Um, you know, we're open to him having fun with other people, and I would like to be included.
So, okay, hold on.
If it's guys, you're cool with it.
If it's girls, you gotta be included?
No, it's girls.
I like girls, mostly.
Okay, but he's trying to bang dudes, though.
Okay, I can be open to it, for sure.
So you'll get banged by two gay dudes?
I mean, sure, fuck it.
If he's providing financially, fuck it!
Okay, I'm gonna be real with you.
You want me to count?
No.
Okay, I didn't think so.
Okay, so if he pays all the bills, you'll accept it.
And more!
Okay, but if it's equal, if you guys are both paying the...
I never said equal.
I said he's providing more.
I'm giving different scenarios.
So you would accept it if he paid the bills and took care of you.
Fine.
But if it was 50-50, you would not accept it.
I'd be a little more, you know, not as the same.
Hey, I'm being real.
So he can only be gay if he pays the bills.
Yeah, he's like, you know, really providing.
Chassa and Chun-Li Wallen.
What about you?
Does the past matter?
Depends.
Okay, would you date a guy, be with a guy that used to bang dudes?
Okay, I guess the past does matter.
Alright, what about you?
That's karma.
The past matters, yes, and no, I would not.
Okay.
That's crazy.
Fair enough.
Would you steal his car if you found out?
No, I would.
We don't know each other.
Well, I don't even know each other.
No, but I'm saying, like, let's say you didn't know, like, you found out later, like, you were with him, and then you found out they used to kiss dudes and do all that other stuff before.
What would you do?
Oh, that's another case.
What about you?
Does the past matter?
To a certain extent.
Let's say you used to bang dudes.
You date them?
No.
Absolutely not.
That's actually surprising.
Half the panel would fuck with a guy that used to be gay.
It depends.
It's got to be conditional.
If it's our sugar daddy or something, he's like, oh, alright.
But are you really with him at that point or are you with the money?
Exactly.
How about this?
Would you actually have sex with and take him seriously is the real question.
No, that's the point of like...
Okay, so you would literally just use him for money.
You wouldn't even fuck with him then.
We using each other.
It's like an equal exchange.
It's mutual, but...
It's mutual.
What benefit would you give him then if you're not fucking him?
I mean, hey, whatever he find beneficial.
Like if he say, let's go out, I'm going to take you out, just time conversation.
But why would he be doing that?
I don't know.
Ask him.
No, no, no.
I mean, realistically speaking, he has an end goal, right?
If he's taking you out?
That's his business.
Newsflash, he does.
My business is the money.
Okay.
So let me get this right.
So you're kind of the same boat as her.
You would accept...
The past.
If he paid your bills and was a sugar daddy.
Yeah.
Okay.
But if he was just 50-50, you would not fuck with him.
No, because then that's my nigga.
And I don't...
That's...
Yeah, no.
That's different terms and conditions.
Okay.
So you would use him for the money.
So you wouldn't really be with him.
I mean...
Would you even bang him?
Realistically speaking?
Okay.
So you would not be with him.
All right.
So, okay.
Okay.
That's an important distinction.
I want to know from Zuby.
Does it matter for you, bro?
Absolutely.
Absolutely.
Could you break it down a little bit further?
Why does it matter for you?
Because just like current actions tend to be a decent predictor of future actions, past actions are a decent gauge of where someone is in the present.
Not absolutely.
You know, these things are not absolutes, but I'd totally be lying if I said that a past doesn't matter.
I think a past matters to any man who is being I'm sure some dudes can be brainwashed to think that it doesn't matter.
And I'm sure that that exists.
But if we're being real, then yeah, myself and the vast majority of men absolutely care about the past.
Alright.
Ladies, is thick the new fat?
If not, how do we distinguish a fat girl from a thick girl?
What are the differences between the two?
Oh, Dan, you put them on the spot.
Is thick the new fat?
And if not, how do we distinguish a fat girl from a thick girl?
If they're working out or not.
Hold on, hold on.
We'll get to you.
Don't worry.
No, thick is not the new fat.
If you're fat, you're fat.
And if you're thick, you're thick.
But how does someone distinguish them between fat and thick?
Yes.
Because when you're thick, you're not having rolls and flab and look like a potato sack.
Okay.
You look like an in-shape person, but thick.
They're different body shapes.
Thick is still an hourglass.
It's just a thicker hourglass.
Fat is just round.
Are you thick to you?
I already know where Chris is going with this.
He's going to say stand up.
Chris, I want you to stand up and twirl for that hair.
If you want to, it's up to you.
I don't think I'm thick.
I'm sure the chat will differ.
You thick, girl!
You thick!
Stop!
Alright, we'll move on.
What about you?
To pull up that question again, Chris?
Yeah, sure.
I want to make sure I contextualize it correctly.
The question is, is stick the new fat?
Let's stick the new fat.
And what's the difference between those two?
Um, no, I don't think it is.
I feel like people confuse it.
Okay.
Sometimes, like, they want to make it that way, you know?
But in reality, they're just fat?
Yeah.
Okay.
But, like, if you got, like, all that extra on here, like, the arms and then the stomach coming out.
Okay.
All right.
What about you?
What are your thoughts on that?
It's thick and new fat?
No.
It's not?
Okay.
How do you differentiate?
I mean, I guess...
Let's say you got two friends, right?
One thick and one's fat.
How do you tell them this?
Baby, you're not proportional.
I mean, I would do like the little secret, like, hey, you know, would you like to come to the gym with me?
And, you know, that kind of thing.
I'm not going to just be like, oh, indirect.
Yeah.
How can you tell when they're fat or when they're thick?
How do you tell?
Yeah.
What's the distinguishing feature for you?
For her, it's the neck.
For her, it's the rolls.
What about for you?
Girl, does black dress look good on you?
Put it on.
Body weight.
I mean, I guess...
It's pretty noticeable.
Alright, help us notice.
What is it?
Okay, so I can answer that.
Wait, you don't have anything?
No?
You can't give us one feature?
Okay, let's just say if you have a problem, you know, reaching certain areas, getting to clean certain areas.
Okay, interesting.
What about you?
So my answer has nothing to do with physicalities.
It's not like how you physically look.
I think there's a difference between how you mentally feel.
How women is...
Thick versus fat, right?
So a thick woman, she's working out.
She's healthy.
She's doing it because it makes her feel good versus a woman that's fat where she just feels sluggish.
She looks like she's shit.
She feels like she's shit.
She's exerting energy that she feels like shit.
There's a total difference.
Alright, well, I'm 300 pounds and I feel skinny.
I am.
Yeah, and you exert an energy and people feel that energy.
I am skinny!
And people feel that energy.
Translender.
Yes.
So you've got girls that are thick and they're like, they own that shit.
They're like, I'm thick.
Mo, you're skinny, bro.
Mo, you're skinny.
And then you have girls that are fat and they're like, but they actually are thick, but they just have low confidence, low self-esteem and they exert that energy and people feel that shit.
They're like, oh, and then people are like, oh my God, you're fat because they exert that energy.
When you own your shit, you own your energy, people feel it.
I get that girl, I understand that.
I feel energy.
Yeah, exactly.
As an Asian, I change weight and when I'm thick, people still love me and when I'm thin, they still love me.
Can I feel anything and become it with that logic?
Yes, you can.
Alright, you know what?
I feel like I got a full head of hair.
But you don't.
I feel...
Hey!
I feel like I'm a multi-billionaire.
And I also feel...
Like, what the fuck is going on right now?
What the hell?
So we can just feel what we are?
Yes, because you manifest your future.
You're a king.
Imagine if everyone had that thought process, bro.
Zuby, tell us a world like that that was possible.
Tell us, bro.
What happened to the world if it was like that?
Oh, boy.
What happened, bro?
Everything would just cease functioning over time.
Everything would just break.
Like our brain?
Yeah.
I mean, we already live in this age of, like, emotion trumping reason and logic way too much.
And if you took that to its logical conclusion, then you can't function because we don't even aren't speaking the same language.
Fuck you guys.
I feel like a billionaire.
No word means anything anymore, right?
If being a billionaire just means you feel like a billionaire, then being a billionaire doesn't mean anything, right?
I want to ask you a question.
That is true.
What's the one thing that trumps logic?
Reality.
What's the one thing that trumps logic?
Yeah.
What?
Like, it's higher than logic.
People say intuition, right?
No, intuition is not higher than logic.
That's nonsense.
What?
Who told you that?
So far.
No!
There's a time and place for intuition, but it doesn't trump life.
That's discernment?
Hello?
Wisdom, I would say, is the best.
I'd say wisdom is bringing these things together combined with knowledge, right?
Okay, so that's what I'm trying to say.
Yo, who put these girls on the panel?
Nigga, you!
Okay, so you can feel your weight.
What about you?
What separates thick and fat?
Well, I think fat will be pretty overweight.
Okay.
So, and then thick.
What's the difference you would say between the two then?
I mean, everything depends on the body of the person.
Everybody has like a kind of their own body.
But I will say when somebody's fat is when you see that it's really overweight, that probably there's like actually cons with health.
But what if they feel skinny though?
Well, that's on them.
Nice for me to have.
I mean, if they feel good with themselves, that's okay.
But I think when you're overweight, you're not eating right, you're not eating healthy, you're having situations in your body that may be...
But I feel skinny, though, even though I do all these things.
I'm sorry?
I feel skinny, though, even though I eat poorly and I don't want to exercise.
But if you feel skinny, you feel skinny.
I feel like I'm skinny.
I respect that.
Wow.
Yo, this is very telling.
Alright, what about you?
What are your thoughts?
What separates thick and fat?
I think proportion.
Just like how you look.
How your body looks.
Okay.
Yeah.
Can you give us an example of what separates the two?
Like you said earlier, like an hourglass shape, but just...
Okay.
If it was a slimmer girl, if she get thicker, it just looks thicker.
Do you also think that someone can feel skinny, even if they're fat?
Yeah.
I do it all the time.
Only women, bro.
I promise you, bro.
That's like a short guy saying he feels tall.
This is like the opposite of anorexia, right?
Bro, literally.
This is entertainment.
You're not joking, right?
No.
What about you?
You were serious too?
I was definitely serious.
I'm so real.
Everything I say on here.
I feel the energy.
What about you?
What are your thoughts on thick and fat?
I would say proportions and curves.
I think if it's an hourglass.
I don't know.
I think on the scale it probably might look similar.
Or on a health scan it might look similar.
But culturally I think proportions and looks.
Okay.
Zuby, what would you say is the guy that's written a couple fitness books and helps people get into shape?
I'd say a couple things.
Number one will be body weight, right?
There's a level of body weight where if you go past it for your height, then you're fat.
Yep.
Straight up.
Thickness only takes you to a certain level.
Exactly.
Proportion is important as well.
As I said before, I'd say hip-waist ratio.
If your stomach sticks out more than your chest does, then you're fat.
You're not thick.
100%.
If you've got, like, rolls, then, yeah, that's fat.
That's not thick.
Common sense.
Yeah.
Well, you're the one that says you can feel it.
You said you can feel it.
You can feel like you're skinny.
Common sense when you know you're having rolls.
No, but they feel skinny, though.
Oh, yeah.
Your logic doesn't stand up, does it?
How do you feel skinny when you have rolls?
You just said earlier that I can think that I'm skinny even though I'm fat.
No, I never said that.
What'd you say?
I never said that.
No, you didn't say it that way.
You said...
Verbatim.
Hey, if you feel like you're skinny and you're fat, you are skinny.
Okay?
Go, girl!
You can have confidence.
I'm fat, but I feel skinny.
And you're like, yeah!
I never said fat.
I said you can be thick.
I literally said I'm obese.
No, you never said obese.
Yes, I did.
I said obese or fat.
Let's take it back.
Bro, we can take it back.
Let's take it back.
I said obese or fat.
Yo, I feel like I'm skinny.
And you're like, yeah.
And you just like egged me on.
And I was like, all right, cool.
I guess, you know, I'm a billionaire, too, in this case.
And whatever tea you're drinking, then you sell.
Yeah, bro.
Shit, man.
Shit, yo.
Okay.
I would add to that, you know, fat-free mass, right?
Like, you know, your body fat percentage, right?
Like, if your body fat percentage...
Because you might weigh a lot, right?
But your body fat percentage is low.
Then you're good, right?
You have a high amount of lean body mass.
But yeah, dude, I mean, I would say, objectively speaking, it can't be how off you feel.
It's literally what's real.
Like, what's on the scale?
What's your body fat percentage?
Those two things in conjunction, working together, will tell you if you're fat or not.
I mean...
That's pretty objective, I would say.
I wish we had a bigger panel.
I'd be like, yo, pick on a panel who's fat and who's thick.
That'd be hilarious.
They can do it.
If you're in doubt, go to probably an African country or an Asian country and ask people.
And they will keep it 100% with you.
When I was in Romania, you know what the girls used to say?
She'd be like, she's fucked.
If a girl was fat or whatever, they would just say, yeah, that'd be she's fucked.
They didn't care.
Don't worry.
There you go!
Hold it, Al!
I love it!
I love it!
Fantastic!
Alright!
Well, they said Al audio.
They weren't able to hear it, Chris.
Al, Chris.
Anyway, we need these sound effects.
Myron sang, fantastic.
Chris sang, gold queen.
Big Mo, get!
And Fresh sang, comfortable.
Okay.
My apologies if this isn't allowed.
I would like to know.
Guys, basically we ran the audio back and she said what we said she said.
She didn't think we were going to play it back.
My apologies if this isn't allowed.
I would like to know what the ladies think of the late, great Kevin Samuels in just three words if Myron wants to keep it short.
No, bro.
That's not that type of show.
Yeah, recipe's in, but no.
Dreamer4523.
A lot of them don't know who he is, bro.
You guys gotta understand, bro.
People barely know who Andrew Tate is, let alone Kevin.
You know what I mean?
Like, a lot of people, a lot of girls don't know who Andrew Tate is.
They're like, oh, wait.
Hold on.
They might know it now because of the allegations, but they don't know anything.
Matter of fact, most of them don't even know what he says.
They did an experiment on this at college campuses.
Yeah, I hate him.
Okay, can you name one thing that he said?
None of them can name one thing he said, bro.
They don't even know.
They don't even know.
They just know that everybody else hates him, so let me hate him.
Just like with Zuby, right?
He wanted to go do that talk.
50 people showed up.
They couldn't even name what they disliked about you.
Like, anyway.
Ladies, rate Lizzo from 1 to 10 from a man's perspective on her physical attractiveness.
Follow-up question to this after we hear the ladies' responses.
What?
They want you to rate Lizzo, but from a man's perspective?
Bro, they're women.
They're women, bro.
What do you mean by that?
Ladies.
I'll give you this.
Go ahead and rate Lizzo on a 1 to 10.
We'll start right actually here.
I gotta go first?
Okay.
We'll start here.
Me?
Yeah, Lizzo.
One.
Okay.
What about you?
Yeah, I'm gonna go with about two.
Okay.
Four.
Four.
What are we rating her on?
One out of ten.
Just looks, nothing else.
Like looks?
Yeah, just looks.
Not how she feels.
Damn.
Yeah, keep it objective.
Just looks.
Okay, one.
Damn, one?
Keeping it real.
She really does feel skinny.
No, she's like, she's very obese.
Yeah.
Let's be real.
Wait a minute, but she feels skinny.
She feels it, but let's be real.
She's a woman.
Let's keep it real.
Okay.
Okay.
I get it.
Oh my god.
I'm gonna have whatever Ling Ling is having over here.
Ling Ling!
I'm gonna come for you.
What the hell is going on?
Bro!
Yeah, she must be on that za-za-la-la-la-something.
I'm good to go.
We regretting being on the show now.
You actually went to sleep.
Alright, Lizzo, one to ten.
I don't know who's leaving.
Girls like that, they just get executed.
What about you?
Seven?
I'm gonna represent.
Of course you would.
Support the other black queen, right?
Okay.
What about you?
I'm gonna say like a three.
Her makeup's really good.
What the fuck?
Alright, let's pretend that she was, I don't know, Caucasian.
What would you rate her?
7 You would still give her a 7?
Yes Alright, let's say she was Asian You're not gonna catch me slipping Let's say she was Asian Let's say she was Asian What would you give her?
She's on guard I'll give her a 7 Bruh She on guard, man Okay, ladies, who is one girl on the panel that you wish was your daughter-in-law and one girl you would tell your son to stay away from?
That's a good question.
You know what?
You can ask it now, then ask it at the end.
Okay.
What do you think?
Who's one girl you wish was there?
That is a complicated question.
Don't worry, don't worry.
I'll simplify it for you, ladies.
Alright, pick one girl on the panel that you would want your son to marry, from what you know now, and one girl you would want him to stay away from.
We'll start...
In other words, who do you think is crazy?
You wouldn't want your son to be one.
We'll start right here.
Who do you want him to marry and who do you want him to stay away from on this panel?
Okay, so I work for an investment bank, so probably my finance girl right across from me.
Even though she's 39?
What the fuck?
I didn't think that much.
So wait, that's not part of the question.
It doesn't have nothing to do with age.
It has everything!
She's giving you her answer, and you're not that far off, Myron.
Well, I'm a guy.
It's different.
Okay, so you pick her.
And then you're such a hater.
You pick her.
Alright, cool.
No kids for your son then.
Linnea's gone.
What about you?
Based on the...
Chris.
Chris said you're 40.
Alright, then who would you not want to be?
Okay, based on the car story, probably you.
All right.
Who would you want to be your daughter-in-law?
Who would you not want to be your daughter-in-law?
I'm going to choose her.
As a daughter-in-law?
No, not the Asian one.
Why?
Because she seems like, you know, self-assured, calm, innocent.
And then who would you not want as your daughter-in-law?
Don't let her fool you.
She's karma.
Dang!
- Oh shit.
- What happened?
- What happened?
- Call out of the car.
- Call?
- You would have done the same thing.
Y'all would have done the same thing.
- What happened?
- Call out of the car.
- Call?
- You would have done the same thing.
Y'all would have done the same thing.
It was in my name.
That was my car.
So, tell the story real quickly then.
Oh, me?
Yeah, yeah.
Okay, basically...
Put the camera on you when you talk, bro.
The girls don't know who the hell is talking.
You want to tell your felon story?
No, but it's not a felon story.
I'm not a felon from that.
But anyway.
You didn't get caught?
No, because he know he was wrong.
But anyway, so I took his car because we're supposed to hang out and he was playing with me.
He was in the car like laughing with his friends, like talking shit.
So I'm like, okay, mind you, the car is in my name.
So this is my car.
So you're playing with me.
And so I came and took the car at 5 a.m.
and he was calling around thinking the car got stolen and I had it the whole time.
I didn't know it was in your name.
You didn't do anything if it was your car.
There you go.
You still stole it.
What about you?
The girl on the panel that you would have as your daughter-in-law and the girl you would not want as your daughter-in-law.
Maybe as a daughter-in-law, she looks super cute and sweet.
Because she's cute and sweet.
Who would you not want?
And why?
I said you.
Okay, why not?
I would say no, because...
I mean, you're amazing, but, you know.
Stupid!
Because what?
Well, I don't know what this means.
She don't want to say it.
She don't want to say it.
You want to say it in Spanish for us?
It's okay.
We got a translator.
I would say wild.
It's wild.
She's wild.
What about you?
Who would you want as your daughter-in-law?
Who would you not want as your daughter-in-law?
She seems so innocent.
Okay, you would take her?
Okay, because she seems innocent.
That's Kat.
That's not Kat!
I'm looking around and I'm like, who's the most innocent?
And then who would you not want as your daughter-in-law?
She seems the most innocent that I can see so far.
And who not?
God, this is a hard one.
Oh no, you already know who it is.
This one over here.
That's her thing.
Lizzo was a seven, I guess.
Exactly, she capped me.
What about you?
Who would you, um, who is your daughter-in-law and who would you not?
Um...
Kinda hard.
Come on.
That's what he said.
Oh, oh.
So funny.
Been a long time.
I want to see you.
Don't let him bully you, okay?
As the daughter-in-law?
Okay.
You don't want a grandson?
Fantastic.
Yes, you are.
So what?
Do you know if I froze my eggs or not?
40.
You froze your eggs?
I did, actually.
Oh, wow.
She's at that age.
Way more.
I still love you.
My eggs are 36, okay?
I don't want to say- I don't- Your eggs are 36?
Yes!
So what?
Exactly, so what?
Yes!
That boy made a bag off of her.
By 35, like 80 plus percent of your eggs are gone.
Bro, you're such a liar.
I got like 20 frozen.
Are you a doctor?
You leave it out.
You put in the garbage stuff in the days.
I got that hair BBL.
That makes me never coming back.
Yo, expert eggs.
I'm sorry, but you're too smart to sound how you sound right now.
Bro, your attorney just had twins at 39.
What are you talking about?
But, hold on.
That is true.
Okay, naturally.
And her husband is 45.
So what are you talking about?
Okay, the husband doesn't matter.
It does.
Smart quality does the crease.
No, no, no.
But here's the thing.
You can bust nuts the day you die and have children.
But with a woman, by the time you're 35, literally 80 plus percent of your eggs are gone.
And you don't know.
I mean, I don't want to get into detail here, but you don't know what it took to conceive in that situation.
I do.
She's my best friend.
Do you know everything?
I mean, I wasn't in the room.
Regardless, look.
A lot of women are having healthy children at a later age.
Like, straight up.
Isn't it a gamble though?
It could be, but I also know a lot of girls that had kids in their 20s that did not have successful pregnancies.
You know, but not the world.
I already know Zentius is going to comment below.
Listen, man, you can have a kid, but the likelihood of it coming to term or not coming with some kind of, you know, ailments...
But it's not up to you, it's up to God.
But it's true.
I mean, to be honest with you, my mom hung me at 40, and I ain't gonna lie.
I was just saying, bro.
I was just saying.
No, no.
It's bad.
It's really bad.
I mean, I don't know.
I don't think you're that bad, so I've seen worse.
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Appreciate that, man.
You've seen worse?
I'm trying over here.
All right.
She's in delusion, but it's fine.
Alright, so you pick her and no grandkids.
Okay, who would you pick as the other one?
High grandkids.
I got 20 poses.
Who would you pick as the non-woman?
Oh, my first decision was Grand Theft Auto, but...
I put it here for the evidence.
Okay, I put it here for the evidence.
Yeah.
Who do you choose now?
Not Guilty.
I'm gonna have to choose.
Lovely right here.
Chun-Li?
Okay.
Alright, what about you?
Who would you pick as the...
Sorry.
Daughter-in-law and the girl that you would not be with your daughter-in-law.
Okay, daughter-in-law, her.
Not you.
Okay, why her?
Why not her?
Well, I don't know.
I was just trying to keep it, you know, in the culture.
She's just falling like everyone else is doing.
Okay, you have to keep it in the culture.
No, she's not.
We haven't even met each other yet.
No, but the reason I said not you is because the only fans and then the gay stuff, like our views are different.
What about you?
I would pick somebody like me.
You cannot pick yourself.
Other than me, I would pick her to be the wife.
Who would you pick to not be the wife?
Liz, I'm sorry.
I love you.
Wait, y'all are friends?
Yes.
Oh, she knows too much.
All right.
No, we love it.
We love it.
Fantastic.
They're friends long time.
Yeah.
Exactly.
Question for the ladies.
Who needs to take the first step to fix the current state of modern relationships?
Men or women and why?
That's actually a thought-provoking question.
That's kind of deep, bro.
We could go with that one.
Okay, I'll make this simple.
Do you guys think the state of relationships right now are fucked up between men and women?
Yes.
Is that a yes all the way?
Okay.
Who needs to take the first step to fix it?
Men or women and why?
We'll start here.
Um...
Damn, they're both really bad, especially in the city.
Like, the women are fucked up here.
But I would say...
In general.
Yeah.
Who has to take the first initiative?
Men.
Men?
Okay.
Why do you think men?
Because you guys are the leaders.
So, if you set an example, the woman that you want to be with should follow.
Okay.
Okay.
Alright.
What about you?
Yeah, I was going to say the same thing.
Creative.
Yeah.
Profound.
Can you give us another reason besides what you just said?
I don't know.
Like she said, they're the leaders.
And I feel like the reason why so many women behave the way that they do is because we think that men want the girls who have the only fans and the ass out and all that because they give a lot of attention to.
Do you think they want them for a relationship though?
No, they don't.
So I think at a young age, women get that misconstrued.
And then for the ladies who are doing it right and then we get fucked over a lot of the time, we're like, okay, well, she's getting all like everything.
So I might as well change it up.
You said the state of relationships are trash.
Who do you think needs to fix it and why?
I wish I could say both.
But if you had to pick one gender, who do you think it would be?
The man.
You think the man needs to fix it?
Why?
For the simple fact that if you're thinking about having a family with this individual, you want them to be able to lead by example.
What about you?
I think that women need to change it up.
I think in this day and age, women are so pushed to be so independent and to be so masculine now and to be the boss, bitch, right?
And actually, that turns men off.
And so I think that in today's society, it's just kind of twisted right now.
So yeah, that's my answer.
Okay.
What about you?
What do you think needs to fix it?
I think the person that made the mistake.
Which is?
I don't know.
I mean, if it's a woman that made a mistake, she has to fix it.
And if it's a man, he has to fix it.
Well, that's what I'm asking you.
Who do you think messed it up and has to fix it?
I mean, in my position, because I'm a woman, I would say my personal case, I would say a man.
Because I like a different case.
But if I will be the person that had the situation to fix, I will fix it.
Okay, so you think men, though, in general, need to fix it?
Yeah.
Can you tell me why?
Can you tell me why men need to fix it?
I would say cultural things and like how everything is going on right now, but I don't really want to like kind of push any gender in a specific because, again, it's not about if it's a man or if it's a woman.
What if you had to pick one?
So you're saying the men?
Well, I would say a man because I'm a woman, but I would say that's not fair.
Okay.
What about you?
Trying to be political?
Yeah.
I would say both, but if I had to choose one, I would say women.
Women.
Why?
Because I feel like, you know, the P got power.
Okay.
And I just feel like if women have the power to like control or like lead the dynamic of the situation.
So that's why I feel like women could fix it.
How could, how should they fix it?
Should they fix it?
It depends on what the issue is, but I would just say like...
You're the one that said relationships are in the trash, so what makes them trash?
What makes them trash now?
The lies, the inauthenticity, the games, the mindsets.
Should I go on?
Yeah.
No, I mean, that's fine, but okay, so you're saying the women got to fix it.
How are they going to fix it, though?
Are you saying the lies and the mindsets and the...
I feel like women could fix it because, like, in a sense, like, if you're not witty, you're not witty.
So, like, you have to be a willing participant of the game.
Like, if you come through and you're like, hey, this is the dynamic I'm on.
This is how it's going to go.
And you actually stick to your own code.
Like, it should go like that.
Okay.
You shouldn't deviate from plan A. Plan A should work all the way through.
Interesting.
All right.
What about you?
Well, who do you think?
Well, you said relationships suck.
So when you're saying who's more responsible for fixing, in your opinion, men or women?
I think both.
I know that's so not what you want to hear.
But I would say men.
Men?
If I had to choose.
Why?
I think...
Women devalue themselves in today's society thinking that they're empowered.
And I think that we need, as a gender, to stop doing that.
But I also think that men...
Men can, like, contribute and give things to a woman's life and not be selfish.
So I think women are more selfless, at least, like, in youth.
And men are more selfish, so...
You think women are more selfless than men are?
Mm-hmm.
Well, when a girl gets into a relationship, does she have more requirements of a man than a man has of her?
I think over time women develop more requirements, but I'm from Ohio, like girls are really nice where I'm from.
That's a good excuse.
Yeah, but I mean in general, like women still require more from men than men require of women.
I mean, that's pretty universal.
A girl just be pretty and exists and a guy's gotta bring something to the table to get her.
That's true.
I think that's especially true in Miami.
But I think that women are, I don't know, outdoing a lot of things that were traditionally male.
And I'm not saying to become more masculine.
I'm trying to make this politically correct, but You don't have to make it politically correct.
Stop being a fucking pussy.
Say it with your chest.
I think men just want quick and easy a lot of times and women can't give quick and easy if we want to be valued.
Men, yeah, I don't know.
Let me ask you a question.
You, you, and you three, because you guys all said that men need to be the leaders, etc.
And men need to be the ones to fix it.
Let me ask you this.
Are women worth the fix right now?
Always.
Of course you would say that bullshit.
So we'll start here and then work our way this way.
Are women worth the fix right now?
Since you're saying men need to be the ones to initiate and fix.
Are modern day women worth the fix?
As a whole, there's a lot of problems with modern-day women, but I think if you want an end goal of a family, then you have to work together.
Okay, so you think it's worth the fix?
Okay.
What about you?
Do you think it's worth the fix?
For sure.
You think so?
Yeah.
Okay.
What about you?
Because you said it's on men.
Well, you two, but her first.
You said it's on men need to be the ones to fix it.
Are modern women worth the fix?
I mean, it depends.
On what?
On?
On if she's taking accountability for what she's doing.
Okay, interesting.
Alright, let's say she takes accountability for actions, but let's say she's, okay, listen, I have a 300 body count.
Is it worth it at that point?
No.
No?
So accountability can only go so far, right?
So not worth the fix?
You tell me, I'm asking you.
If your son told you, hey, she's a good girl, she got 300 bodies, though, would you let him go and fix her and deal with that, or would you tell him no?
So what makes her a good girl?
I'm asking you the question.
I mean, you tell me.
If you think 300 bodies is not that big a deal, then...
Well, I mean, it is, of course.
Okay, so is it worth the fix?
Not for that woman.
Not for that woman, okay.
Not for that woman.
Okay, all right.
What about you?
Are modern women worth the fix?
I would say yes, because all women aren't feminists, like how they try to put out there.
All women aren't like that.
All women don't want to work hard like men and do all this other stuff.
So I definitely think, yeah.
Interesting.
Okay, what about you?
Are women worth the fix?
Modern women?
Absolutely, because if it doesn't get fixed like now, it's pretty bad.
All right, let me ask you a question.
Is it better to fix something or just buy a brand new?
It depends, because the new thing that you get could be really, really bad.
Okay.
Are we talking about women in general?
Let's be real!
I'm saying, in general, if you're going to buy a product, is it better?
Right, so what I'm saying, you're saying, are modern-day women worth the fix, right?
Well, that's what I asked you first, and then you said yes.
Now I'm asking you.
In general, is it better for you to purchase something brand new or to get something that's used and fix it?
Like a car, for example.
An object?
Like a car, for example.
An object is better to get brand new.
But you're not talking about objects.
You're talking about humans.
I mean, you can interpret it how you want.
No, you asked me a question about women.
That's not an object.
It's a human.
It's a little different.
What's the answer then?
Misogony.
Get something brand new.
Get something brand new.
Okay, what about you?
Is it better to get something brand new or fix it that's used?
Brand new.
Brand new.
Okay.
What about you?
These questions.
I know.
It's forcing you to think.
I know.
It's a lot of critical thinking.
Like, wait, hold on.
Yeah, because you're also talking about, you know, how long you've been with somebody and, you know, the trauma you guys probably went through, you know, the things that you face together.
Well, I'm just saying in general, like, is it better to buy something brand new or to fix it?
Well, I guess if you're talking about, you know, dating, you know, in a civilized manner.
You think it's better to fix it?
You can go get a new one.
I mean, if there's like...
Okay.
What about you?
Is it better to buy something brand new or fix it?
Well, you said men.
You said I'm challenging the girls that asked about that said men have to fix it.
Okay.
Everything depends on the quality.
That's a good one.
Okay.
So what's better?
Is it better to assuming all qualities equal?
Let's see, for example, you're actually, let's say, let's put the object, like, situation.
We use a car, then, if you want to make it simple.
Let's do the car.
Okay.
Is it better to buy a brand new car?
That is amazing, and it could be vintage, and then you can fix it, and use it, and it's going to be amazing for you.
Or you can just buy a Corolla.
Everything depends on you.
Okay.
What car is going to be more reliable over the long term, though?
I'm not really good about cars, but...
Okay, I'll answer for you.
It's going to be the Corolla.
Okay, it's going to be the Corolla, for sure.
The other car you can only drive in the summertime.
What about you?
But you got my point.
Not really, but okay.
What about you?
Partially.
So, what is better, to buy something brand new or to fix it?
If you have the money to buy it brand new, you better do that.
I like that.
If you have the money to buy it brand new...
Let me ask y'all a question real fast, okay?
Because you guys like to say, a lot of girls like to put the onus on men, like, no, you should fix it, blah, blah, blah.
Realistically speaking, if you can get a younger girl that has less experience, that doesn't come with damages, etc., wouldn't it be better to just go that route versus taking a girl that's been through a bunch of shit and trying to fix it?
Realistically speaking?
Sometimes it's nice to connect with someone that's been through the same shit you've been through, though.
Would you say that female hardships are mere male hardships?
Yeah, it can be.
Really?
For sure.
And it's nice to connect with someone that's been through the same hardships.
What if I told you male experiences and female experiences typically are fairly drastically different?
Poverty, right?
It's the similarities, right?
Like, through tough times, your family doesn't have money.
Those are the similarities.
Yeah, it can be, but the thing is, is that...
Abuse.
Okay.
The similarities right there.
I mean, abuse is a very broad term.
If we're going to talk about poverty, poverty doesn't affect men the same way it affects women.
It can, though.
Yes, because I see what you're saying.
It's easier for women to deal with poverty because, right, if you're a beautiful woman, you just be like, oh, put your hand out and people want to help you.
But still, that's still a lot of shit to go through, same as a man.
Not necessarily, because when you...
Here's the thing.
When you're going through a hard time, The exit strategy of that hard time Directly reflects how you feel about said hard time.
I'll explain.
As a man, if you're broke and you don't have money and there's no way out, there's no way out.
It's like, damn, I have to become successful or I'm going to continue to experience this.
As a woman, it's like, okay, this sucks.
I can be successful or I can go find a rich guy or I can go dance or I can selfie pictures on OnlyFans.
There's way more routes and options for a woman to get out.
So that's going to directly affect her mind state while dealing with the adversity.
So what I'm saying is that Though women can go through the same adversities that men do, they'll never fully appreciate the same level of adversity that a man does because, quite frankly, men live way harder lives than women do.
I think that we can appreciate it to a certain point more than a girl that's just so naive.
Okay.
You can maybe sympathize, but you're never going to be able to empathize.
I think we can still.
We can still empathize for a man that goes through.
Because I can still see a man and what they've gone through to get to where they've been.
Okay, okay.
A woman will never be able to empathize with a male experience because men have certain obstacles that women never have to deal with and or endure.
And I'm not saying that just to be like, oh my god, feel sorry for me.
me but what i am saying is that women can sympathize for you but they'll never be able to empathize with the male experience you know just like me as a man i won't necessarily be able to empathize on certain things like your period i won't be able to understand no exactly i won't be able to understand those cramps or whatever but i would argue that men have to be more empathetic to the opposite gender because for us to attract and retain and keep a woman around we have to be empathetic to you guys any guy that's good with women is empathetic to a certain degree because Because guess what?
He's got to understand her comfort levels.
He's got to know when to escalate.
He's got to know when to kiss her properly, etc.
Otherwise, you end up in jail for fucking raping chicks.
So you've got to understand women to a degree and empathize.
But women, on the other hand, don't necessarily have to empathize with men.
Because you guys are in a privileged position where we have to attract you.
You don't have to necessarily attract us overtly.
Does that make sense?
Yes, it does.
Okay, Twitch.
Oh, yeah, yeah.
We've got to get on Twitch.
Twitch.
Twitch.
Facebook and Twitter.
What's your take on this, Zuby?
Do you think the onus is on men more or on women?
I'll give my opinion last, but I'll have you take it first.
Honestly, in most things in the world, I would put the onus on men.
Yeah.
Yeah.
On this one.
And perhaps this is also to be take a bit of a counter position.
But I think this is my where I'm leaning right now is actually more women.
OK.
And I say that because ultimately women are the gatekeepers of sex.
Yep.
That's really the kind of the quickest summary of it.
Yeah.
So when it comes to sexual dynamics, and at least the early stages of relationships and how those form, women truly set the standard.
Good point.
That women set the standard, right?
We know male and female sexuality is very, very different.
Women are the gatekeepers of that.
If women set the bar very low for what they're willing to accept, then...
Look, men are always...
If you think of what the term game is, game is simply men responding to the standards that females in any given society and culture set.
Absolutely.
Which is why, over the course of history and around different countries in the world and different cultures, game is different.
In the past, the game was basically be clean and hygienic, have a decent job, be a nice guy, be somewhat romantic.
That's how you got a wife in the 1950s.
And that model still applies in many parts of the world.
If what women are responding to is, you know, Bad boy traits or, you know, certain pathologies or whatever it is.
Criminal background.
Criminal background, right?
Then if a man in that society or culture or community wants to attract a woman, he's going to start modeling those behaviors, whether he's truly that thing or not.
Yeah.
He's going to start modeling that behavior because he'll be like, wait, who are the guys around me who are getting girls?
How are they behaving?
Let me model that.
Yeah.
So, I would say that I think, like a lot of people have said, it's largely both, but I think women being the gatekeepers of sex, I'd put the onus for this particular topic more on women.
If the women change, then the men will acclimate.
They must.
They have to.
Anybody have anything that they want to say?
Like an add-on, disagreements, whatever?
I thought that was a good overview.
Okay.
Yeah.
So, I'll add on to that.
What I'll say is that...
The men are supposed to be leaders.
I agree with you guys a lot on that.
And they're supposed to lead.
But the thing is that they're supposed to lead and take the dynamic of the relationship.
But I would argue that most women are not worthy of them putting the work in a lot of the times.
And the reason why is because a lot of women aren't necessarily feminine.
A lot of them are overweight.
A lot of them are hoes.
A lot of them have certain backgrounds that might disqualify them from being wifed up.
And They've made bad decisions in the past, just like a lot of you guys wouldn't want a guy that used to suck dick in the past.
A lot of guys don't want a girl that has a promiscuous background.
That's just what it is.
You don't want the mother of your children having a certain background.
So my thing is, I think it's a two-part issue.
The women, right, have kind of done a whole bunch of stupid shit, right?
And guys acclimate, just like you said, to whatever they need to do to get laid.
Like, guys do whatever they need to do to get laid.
They acquiesce.
But the women kind of set the standard.
They really do.
Because women set the standard, and then guys have to rise to that standard or not.
So a lot of guys are looking at it like, well, I don't want to fucking rise to the standard because I can look at porn and just whack off.
Like, I'm good.
What the hell?
Or I can just play video games, right?
So it's on both parts.
But I would say the guys are lazy, right?
For not wanting to take initiative, don't want to be leaders in the first place.
And then the women aren't worth working for.
So it's like a two-part issue, right?
I don't feel like that's the whole story, though.
Like you say, the women are not worth working for, but there's women that are.
So be inclusive of them, too.
But they're a minority.
Yeah.
They probably might be, but they deserve a voice too in the audience.
Like, you know, there's women out there that do do all of the things that you want in a wife.
You know what I'm saying?
But, okay, that's a great point.
But are you going to take a chance knowing that there's a 95% failure rate?
I mean, you got to.
You want to procreate?
You want to leave your legacy behind?
You don't got to procreate in the United States.
I mean, if that's what you want to do, like if that's a goal for you to have a family, you got to create that with a woman.
No, you're absolutely right.
Do you know what I think about a lot of these conversations is that, you know, I understand, you know, we were we just had a whole conversation about the decline of many aspects of the West.
But there are still millions and millions of great men and women out there.
If you're not meeting them, then you're probably not meeting the standard, whether you're a man or a woman.
Yeah.
I'm not being cocky here, but, you know, I have no issue whatsoever attracting like genuinely good, solid people, women, not just not just hot, but like actually like.
good women, good human beings.
And there's tons of good, solid guys out there.
There's tons of bums out there, too.
No problem.
But I'd say if you're a woman and all you're attracting is bums, then, you know, what's the bait they're being attracted to?
Yeah, I think both parties have to play the part.
But I would say that here's the thing.
Like, as a man, though, right?
Like, you have to be I'm more on the defensive because men have more to lose when they get in relationships, right?
If you get in a relationship with a terrible girl in the United States, well, you get the risk of her taking your house, divorcing you, taking your money, taking your children, you paying alimony, etc.
So I think guys need to be more cautious.
But why did y'all create that dynamic?
I'm curious.
Well, I wouldn't say men really created it.
I would say feminism kind of started that.
And that's a whole other...
Well, feminism is like...
I'll be real.
Ultimately, men did create those laws.
Yeah, yeah.
Feminism.
It's not we men here, right?
Like, this is guys many decades ago.
But I would say that, yeah, men took a massive L when they created some of those laws.
And I think one of the big issues that we have right now is we're stuck in this weird time where men and women are still traditionally attracted and biologically attracted to the same qualities that we've always been.
Yes.
But we're living in this weird era and place where we have this sort of faux equality.
Right, where there's equality in certain ways, but people kind of want to have their cake and eat it too.
People want to be like conservative and traditional when it suits them and then be like hyper progressive and egalitarian when it suits them.
Yeah.
Right.
Women want to be on their, you know, boss boss stuff or whatever.
And, you know, you got to pay for that.
But then you got to pay for that.
Right.
And then, you know, but I still want the man to pay for the date.
I still want him to provide.
And then they'll still two seconds later bragging about how much money they earn or whatever.
And so there's just this weird dynamic.
And I think that a lot of men and women are just confused as to what they're supposed to be doing, right?
The feminist narrative does sell to whole generations of young women.
You shouldn't really have to rely on a man.
Like, you know, you should provide for yourself.
You can do this.
You can do this.
Whatever.
And there's some truth to some of it, right?
And then men at the same time are being told...
It's set in very mixed signals, right?
At the same time, you're being told that you're toxically masculine just from being a male.
But then you're also being told that you should be a provider.
Yeah.
But then you're also being told that, you know, women don't actually need men and this and this.
It's all just very mixed.
And I think that people, at least in an individual relationship, I think people need to decide, okay, are you truly going to do this whole egalitarian thing?
Is that truly what you believe in what you're going to do?
Yeah.
Especially when children come into the picture.
Or are you going to go for the more traditional conservative thing?
Look, the man takes the primary lead in these things.
Woman takes the primary lead in these things.
And we have the studies and the data for the egalitarian stuff.
We're in a more liberal time.
We are, but it's not freaking working.
I like that we're here because now we can figure it out.
Now everything out in the open.
It's not hidden anymore.
Do you think it was working before?
I think that, look, there's always going to be issues, right?
There's always issues.
I'm not going to pretend that, you know, the 1950s, all these marriages were perfect or whatever, or that in, you know, more traditional countries, everything is perfect.
But I'd also say that what we've got going on in many areas of the West is a whole disaster zone, I mean.
Every single country in the West has a below replacement birth rate.
People are not even reproducing to replace themselves.
That's actually long term a big problem.
People don't even know what freaking gender they are.
There's all sorts of confusion that's going on.
And I think some of this is just because it's so new.
We're only talking in the past couple decades where some of these ideas have even...
We have the data.
The egalitarian stuff simply doesn't work.
Even if you look at successful marriages and successful couples, with exceptions, they tend to be ones that are more based off of the traditional model.
Absolutely.
People can try other stuff.
I'm sure there's exceptions where it works fine.
There's exceptions where the man is happy to stay at home and look after the kids and be a house husband, and the woman is out there earning the money.
Traditional is always going to work because it's structural.
It's time-tested.
The thing is, people forget that a lot of this stuff is not based on the patriarchy and men wanting to bully women and misogyny and this and this.
It's actually based on biology.
I get it.
It's primal.
And that makes sense.
But I feel like now women at the space where we like We know just as much as y'all.
I don't want to do that.
Here's the thing.
The more money a woman makes and the more she knows, the more she wants a man that knows more than her and makes more money than her.
It doesn't change your hard wiring.
It's hard for a man to ever know.
Here's the thing.
If a chick makes $100,000, she's going to want a guy that makes $150,000.
Women don't date...
Typically, rarely date their equals.
Preferably, they want to hire.
So all that happens when a girl knows as much as a guy is she just wants a guy that knows more than her.
So her standards go up.
Men cannot price themselves out at the dating market.
As a man, the more money you make, the more education you get, the higher status you become, all of that stuff, the more women you have access to.
For women, it's actually the other way around.
It's just like really tall women.
It's harder for a six-foot-two woman.
A six-foot-two man has an advantage.
Did I miss her?
No, no, no.
She's 6'2".
So she understands this analogy very well.
You're 6'2"?
I'm like almost 6 feet.
I'm right under.
I was going to say you're not 6'2".
This analogy is fantastic.
A woman who is 6'2", Like, she still wants a guy who's taller than her, or at least her height in most cases.
So she's only like 5% of men or whatever.
3% or 6'2 or above.
Okay, 3% of men are over 6'2.
So if she wants a guy who's her height or taller, then that's what it is.
A woman who's 5'2 Men don't care how tall their woman is.
Any guy will date a woman who's...
Whether he's 6'11 or 5'8 or 5'3, he'll be happy with a woman who's 5'2.
Biology rules all.
I've always said it.
As men make more money, doors open.
When women make more money, doors close.
When men become emancipated from their success, women become prisoners of their success.
Are you guys speaking strictly dating-wise in that sense when you say women...
Marriage, too.
Yeah.
Yeah, it's even more pronounced in marriage.
Because super high-powered, high-earning women want men who are at least equal to them in that department.
There are always exceptions.
There can be a woman out there who's a high-powered lawyer earning, you know, a quarter million a year.
And she's, you know, I'm sure there's a situation where there's a woman like that who's totally happy with a guy who's making 40 or 50k and it genuinely works and they truly, truly love each other.
Exactly.
So, exceptions.
10%, you know, maybe it can work.
But the other way around, like, if a guy's earning quarter million a year, like, he doesn't give a crap how much his girl is earning.
In fact, the only thing that might, like, intimidate, whoa, if, like, the girl's earning freaking two million a year, then even he, as a high earner, might be like, man, like, that's kind of a weird...
That's a weird dynamic.
And that girl who's earning 2 million now wants the dude who's earning 10 million.
And there aren't that many.
And also, for a woman to be earning that much money, she's probably now into her freaking 40s.
And a guy who is earning 10 million...
That wasn't me!
That was Chris!
That was you!
No, I saw you!
No, but a single man earning 10 million dollars, as long as he's not, like, he's gonna be going younger.
Yeah.
I got assaulted on camera.
Someone get that multiple times.
I agree with you 100% on that, Zuby.
You made a point earlier saying that now we're starting from zero, we can figure it out.
The problem is we're seeing that it doesn't work.
And before, we could say we're figuring it out, but now that it doesn't work, how do we come back from it?
We can't because it's too far gone.
So my thing is we let the dogs out of the house and they're out right now to bring them back.
It's almost impossible because at this point, we're too far gone.
So what you just saying, we just gonna let that shit just be fucked up?
No, we are.
We gotta fix it, so.
How do you fix it?
Listen, we're in the rabbit hole.
We got to find a way out.
Women are settling.
Like, here's the thing.
They predict more and more women are going to be single.
Like, as women make more money, become successful, they would prefer to stay single versus be with a dude that's a loser.
And that's fine.
Like, what's wrong with that?
Why would you want to be with a dude that's a loser?
No, y'all could do it.
But remember, he just said that our birth rates are declining.
Yeah, maybe they don't want to have...
Because now women...
Listen, it's a different dynamic now.
So now women can say, I don't want to have a baby.
Back in the 1950s, I had to have a husband because how else I'm going to eat?
I mean, I get what everyone's saying.
When was birth control developed?
Like, they didn't have options.
Okay, exactly.
But even then, like, in the 1950s, you couldn't get a job.
Women weren't allowed to work.
So you had to have, like, a husband or some source of income, which had to be a man.
Do you know something that's really interesting about humanity?
And it goes way beyond this topic.
And there's a term for this.
I can't remember what it's called right now.
But having...
Having sort of infinite options with no constraints isn't actually good for people individually nor collectively, right?
If you have too many options, like if you go into a restaurant and the menu is this thick, it's like, you know, the menu is the size of the Bible and you want to pick what to eat.
Like, that's not actually a good situation to be in, right?
It's actually better to just have a few things and you're like, cool, okay, cool, I want that chicken.
They did this experiment with the ice cream flavors.
Yeah, exactly.
It was like three flavors, they made a selection.
When they had like 20, they couldn't make one.
So it's fair to say that in the past, yes, there were fewer choices, there were fewer options, there were more constraints and restrictions on both men and women.
And this goes with everything.
This even goes with like jobs and careers and stuff like that.
But that's not something that's inherently...
I think in this modern era, we always think more is better.
But I think that that's not actually quite true.
And even if you look at people's genuine happiness and contentedness with life, it's not like, okay, just having more of everything and more options and more freedom is...
If you even choose to get in a relationship, for example, a committed one, and choose to be faithful, or people choose to marry, you're cutting off Tons of options.
You're cutting off a bunch.
You're saying, okay, this one person, we're going to create this path, but all these other branches, these are now inaccessible.
But actually, people who are happily married, genuinely happily married, are generally way happier than single people are.
And here's the other thing, too, to add to what you were saying.
They found that as women have become more and more liberated thanks to feminism since the 70s, they've actually had lower and lower approved ratings of happiness.
Yeah, I know.
And anti-depression medication has been prescribed more to women since they've become more and more liberated.
So is it really career and money make women happy?
I feel like women figuring it out.
I feel like we in that.
You know how a company will try to make a new drug and they drop it for the first trial to go through it?
That's what women are in right now to say.
But what I'm trying to say...
Because we're just coming out of the stage of being liberated.
That's true.
But what we found...
So, men and women are very different, right?
And what I mean by this is that men typically tend to derive a great amount of pleasure and fulfillment from career, earning money, etc.
Because as a man, when you introduce yourself, people ask you what you do next.
Your status is you.
With women, however, A lot of women become successful, make a lot of money, etc.
And they realize, damn, I'm not fulfilled.
Typically for women, that fulfillment comes from people, children, a husband, being able to come home to something.
This is why women are way socially superior to men.
Women are interested in people, men are interested in things.
Even if you look at career fields, what men go into versus what women go into?
Men go into science, technology, engineering, math, more practical things.
Women go into nursing, you know, Teaching, psychology, sociology.
They deal with people.
So, I mean, it makes sense that women have become less and less happy as they've made more and more money, become more and more successful because women don't derive their pleasure from money and income because that doesn't matter.
A woman's status doesn't make her sexier to a man.
It doesn't make her hotter in the dating marketplace.
But a man does.
And let's be honest here.
What do we all put here to do?
We're put here to procreate.
So as a man earns more status and makes more income, he's fulfilled because he's also more attracted to the opposite gender.
She earns more money, becomes successful.
She's not sexier to the opposite gender, even though she might think she is, because she's literally ostracized herself from a large majority of men that she could have been with.
I mean, I understand that point, but I don't think that's the focus of that kind of a woman.
I think a woman who prioritizes career, her focus is security.
It's financial stability.
It's not probably mating.
Yeah, until she gets older, and that's the problem.
Women have a finite amount of time to find the best guy.
But some women don't want that.
And that's just up to the woman.
Everyone wants that.
Not every woman.
Most women do, but not all of them want that.
Everyone wants the whole husband with kids.
So why aren't they doing it?
Because they don't found no one yet.
Society makes them think differently.
There's so much pressure coming from everywhere else.
We think that way.
Every woman wants a husband with kids.
One at a time.
So how about this?
We'll let her say her point and then you guys can go ahead because you guys disagree with her.
The dream of 2023 is every woman wants a husband and children.
That's it.
Period.
Okay.
You disagree with that?
I mean, that's something I want, but that's not something that every woman wants.
I've talked to women who are like, yo, I never want to have kids.
I don't want a husband.
I'm pretty sure over 90% of women want.
Right, but it's up to that independent woman.
I think over 90% of men want kids too.
But she did say most women want a family.
No, she said every woman.
Okay, 99% of women.
The majority?
Yes, majority.
But you ask the question, why don't they want kids, though?
That's the thing.
I mean, I don't know.
Some women are maternal.
Some women are not good moms.
Some...
Just, they don't want it.
They don't want the responsibility.
A lot of them have been in the dating market, and for them it's like, okay, cool.
I've been out dating guys, but it's always been bad.
So you know what?
I'm just going to give up and say, you know what?
Fuck it.
No more guys.
Focus on myself and my career.
However, if they found a guy that was actually worthwhile, and then they picked the bad guys that were not good for them, they might say, you know what?
Damn.
I can find a good guy, have kids, I'll do it.
But I think society, also the pressures as well, like you said earlier, do make them say, you know what?
Damn.
I could go this route and figure it out, but like, once again, you're trying to figure out what?
Because if you figure out what's happening with the current climate of dating and men and women, it's messed up because both parties think that they're right, but they're wrong.
So I don't know, man.
I think for women, the mistake has issues because you guys have a clot, right?
So like girls will say, okay, I'm looking for security now.
I'm going to chase my career.
I'm going to make my money.
I get that security.
Cool.
I got my security.
Now I can look for a man.
And girls kind of go from a perspective of, I want a man versus I need a man.
And when you go with the perspective, I want a man, you're not going to work hard enough to keep that guy.
I'll be honest with you.
A lot of modern day women think, I'm going to come to a relationship.
I'm going to be like myself.
This guy better be my dream guy, etc.
And they don't think they have to perform.
And the problem is that when you meet a guy who already has performed.
What do you mean performed?
They think that they just have to bring themselves to the table and they'll be fine.
And my argument is this.
If you meet a man who's already performed and you come in thinking, I don't have to perform, well, you're going to be gone.
You're going to get kicked to the curb because another girl will perform for him.
She might not have the career that you do.
She might not have the performance in the boardroom or in the college or whatever, but she'll perform where he needs her, which is typically inside the home, maybe outside the business, etc.
So my main thing is this.
Girls will put off a career thinking, I got my security, I'm going to get a man because I want one now.
The problem is that to get a guy and to keep a guy, especially a higher status guy, you need to need that man.
Because if he doesn't feel needed, he's not going to want you.
I agree with you on them.
And I feel like both parties ought to be seductive, period.
Like, you know, seduce your partner, whatever, like romance them, however they want to like feel Love.
That sounds great on paper, but most women are not going to be bothered to put in the work to actually keep a guy around.
And whose fault can you say that is?
That's men's fault.
No, that's women's fault.
That's men's fault because if you're a man and you want to experience something, how are you not experiencing that?
You're an adult.
It's your job to make sure you're creating that.
You can't force somebody.
No, you can't, but that's why you, guess what?
Have you dated modern women as a guy?
Most modern day women are very titled.
I'm special.
You need to give me the world.
This is how it is, nigga.
I will agree with you.
A lot of girls are super titled.
What do you expect?
You've been happy for me.
Chris.
Chris.
Do you have something?
Go ahead.
Yeah, I want to say I feel like most women haven't been taught how to be a wife and things like that.
We're usually just taught, you know, go to school, make your own money, da-da-da.
And then also I feel like a lot of men haven't been taught how to be good husbands also and good leaders and providers.
Like there's not an example.
I know especially like in the black community.
I was going to say, do you know one thing that I will definitely put on men more than I'll put on women?
And this is...
No, it's cool.
I got a drink.
And this is more of a generational thing.
But I think even one of the reasons why a lot of modern-day women feel this need to chase careers and financial independence and not relying on men, etc., is because...
Sadly, in a lot of situations, they haven't seen that modeled well within their own families and communities.
So I can understand how, like, I'm very blessed to be, you know, my parents have been together like almost 50 years, right?
And they've got a, you know, what you'd call a traditional relationship, right?
That is the main breadwinner, you know.
Five kids, tons of grandkids, like very traditional sort of.
But I recognize how if someone came from a situation where their father, for example, let alone other fathers in their community were bums or abusive or not reliable, I can totally see how a woman from that situation would be like, man, I can't put myself in a position where I need to totally...
Rely on a man and submit to a man because look at these effed up situations all around me from women who made that decision.
So I would say that that's one thing where On a generational level, right?
Like our generation of men, when we go on and become fathers, I think that both for our sons and for our daughters, that's something that we have to model well for both of their sake.
Because as we know, modeling is very important.
Most people model what they grew up with, rightly or wrongly, even if they don't know that they're doing it.
And I think like on a deep level, that's where a lot of these ideas come from.
And, you know, everyone knows who their mother is.
Yeah.
But they don't know their dad.
Millions of people out here who don't know who their fathers are.
Yeah.
Or if they do, it's very superficial.
Yeah.
So that's where I'd say that men have created a big L in that regard.
Yeah.
Because there's a void of masculinity.
So what ends up happening is the mom has to be the dad and the mom.
And the reality is, I'll be honest, most women are terrible men.
Parents, when it comes to like the most important part of the child's phase, which is like the teenage phase, right?
You really need a disciplinarian there.
You know what I mean?
Because that's the critical moment where they're going to start experimenting with drugs or trying to play hooky from school or they might do some dumb shit.
And that's where the father's got to come in and be honest, like smack them with reality.
Because I've always said it.
The father is the first line of defense from the state.
Your father will slap you before the police slap cuffs on you.
Right?
And teach you, this is the way the world works.
There's consequences to your actions, etc.
But mothers, a lot of times, you know, you got a 14-year-old boy, 15-year-old boy, you know, hey, why are you skipping school?
Blah, blah, blah.
Fuck you, mom.
You can't do none to me.
And there's also a problem just when boys become, with boys, I mean, I think when boys become, like, physically bigger and stronger than their mothers, which will typically happen in the early teenage years, then...
It changes the dynamic.
Because we know, look, as men, ultimately men, you know, all interactions between men on a deep, deep level are sort of backed up fundamentally by a potential threat of violence.
And we always recognize this and we learn this from a very young age.
So you do learn, like, you just can't You know, you can't mess with men in a certain way.
You can't push people past certain limits.
I think female relationships are different in that regard.
There isn't kind of that underlying current of that potentiality.
Men understand violence so well.
Gay men have way lower domestic violence rates than women do.
Lesbian couples have the highest rates of domestic violence versus gay dudes.
Way lower.
So that goes to show you that women typically don't have a good grasp of violence.
Like the consequences of violence.
Because y'all are so weak.
So I think with fathers...
Thank you.
Women don't have a good grasp on the concept of violence.
With a lot of little kids, a young boy who's misbehaving, do you know the biggest threat?
When the dynamic is proper, the biggest threat his mom can say?
Your dad.
Don't make me tell your father.
You know, you can push mom around a little bit, whatever.
I've heard it happen the other way around, though.
I'm sure it can.
For sure.
I'm a black belt.
Exceptions and caveats exist to absolutely everything.
But yeah, in most cases, that's just what men respond to.
That's just how we're wired.
Fair enough.
Did anyone else have anything?
Why do you say women are weak?
Because y'all are.
Why?
No, you're saying we're weaker than men.
You know what?
Let's do this right now.
We have different strengths than you guys.
Are we talking physically or mentally?
Okay, physically, obviously.
I mean, I'll just keep it.
Women are physically inferior to men in almost every regard.
Of course.
I mean, except for the fact that we could take more pain in y'all.
We have higher pain tolerance.
No, no, no, no, no.
Not in every regard if we're being technical here.
And I do think women have our strengths in different ways.
All right.
I mean, that pain tolerance comes in when you're childbearing.
Fantastic.
But does that have practical use in the real world?
No, it's always there, babe.
No, yeah, actually, it is like that.
Even, like, tattoo artists will say, like, women do take pain more than men.
Okay, is that like...
For sure, we go through childbirth.
Okay, fantastic, but you know what?
Are y'all really, like, in the military like that?
Are you guys in positions of defense?
No, not at all.
So it's useless to you.
It's useless to society.
You can have a kid, but that's about it.
And I feel like emotionally, too, like, we can take heartbreak.
Are we arguing that men are physically superior to women?
No.
But y'all made it like that for yourselves, though.
What?
Because y'all made war.
Who else making war out here?
No, we're defending you guys and the children.
No, y'all defending y'all bullshit.
What?
What?
Y'all are bullshit.
Like, come on.
Have y'all ever seen...
Yo, she's not totally wrong.
A lot of wars are some nonsense.
A lot of wars are some bullcrap.
But here's protecting families.
The guys on the ground, what are they defending?
For real.
The guys are defending the family.
I'm making more a political point.
They're defending her ability to say that women are stronger than men right now.
Which is ridiculous.
You had something you were trying to say?
Yeah, I wanted to bring back about the career.
Women career.
I'm an artist and I love deeply what I do.
And I actually wake up every day.
That's one of my biggest murder.
And I don't think this is going to be actually a It won't be a block to have a family or have a husband or somebody because...
What do you mean?
It won't be a block, no.
At all.
And then even though, because of course, if you do your career and you love what you do, you want to become successful for sure.
And then...
Well, here's the thing.
I love that you mentioned that because we've had so many girls come on this podcast that majored in engineering.
Maybe they had some kind of trade that was, you know...
Hard labor or something like that.
And they decided, I didn't want to do it.
Highly educated.
Yeah, or highly educated and they don't use their degree.
And what I've come to realize is that women, typically, if they have a higher level degree and it's in something that's like maybe STEM related or whatever, they're more willing to not use that degree and go follow their passion.
Do something in arts.
Do something in dancing.
Do something typically more female oriented.
Something to do with people, right?
Mm-hmm.
And what I've typically argued is that women have that privilege because there's no burden of performance on women to earn money.
What do I mean by this?
You can chase your dream as a woman and be a poor artist and no one will care.
Oh, you paint?
You sculpt?
Whatever?
You don't make any money?
Who cares?
You can still get a date if you're hot enough.
I guarantee you have no problem finding a man.
Let's switch around, though.
Let's say me.
I want to trace my passion.
And I want to be an artist and not make any money or anything like that.
Well, there's going to be an issue with that because women are going to look at me first and be like, okay, you're cool, but you're an artist.
You're not really making money like that.
You're poor.
So that's going to disqualify me from a lot of women.
Yeah.
Men are more likely to sacrifice their dreams to earn money or go into majors or do things that they hate.
Dude, you know how many Nigerians I know that are pharmacists and doctors and don't want to do that shit?
Yeah.
But they're doing it because of intense pressure from their family and they understand I have to be the breadwinner and they know me chasing my passion and doing this is not going to work.
Shout out to my Nigerian parents for actually supporting my passion.
You know what I mean?
So they support your passion rarely.
But they're the anomaly.
Yeah, they're the anomaly for real.
They're the anomaly.
So what I'm saying is that men are far more willing to sacrifice their passions and doing what they really want to do to earn money because they know there is a burden of performance on me to make money.
It's not even willing.
You have to earn money as well as the women.
They want to uphold the system.
But men, that's what I'm trying to say.
It's not willing.
They have no choice.
Okay.
I'm trying to be nicer about it.
I know.
You're trying to be nice.
But there is a burden of performance on men that is not on women.
Yeah.
Women can't afford to do a job.
I can't tell how many times I've had girls come on this show that don't make any money.
They do some random shit.
They have no problem meeting men though because they're attractive and no guy is going to sit there and be like, wait, you're an artist?
I don't know how I feel about that.
They're like, awesome!
You're an artist.
You do something in your free time.
I don't care if you make money, especially if he makes money.
But if you're a guy, you go on a date with a girl.
Let's say she makes $100,000 a year.
Oh yeah, I'm an artist.
I sculpt and I paint.
She'll go out there twice and I'll fuck with you.
I feel like women are harder on men.
I know a lot of artists, girls and guys as well.
And I know a lot of guys, artists that they have women supporting them behind.
And also the opposite.
And actually, in any case, if you have a career and you love what to do and you follow your dreams, you're going to get in a point that you want to be successful.
I know that sounds good on paper, but I promise you all those guys that have their girls supporting them paying for everything...
They're not supporting and paying.
I mean, you have to work.
I have never somebody paid for anything that I have.
No, no, no.
You're missing a point.
What I'm saying is that a man will be more willing to pay to support your dream than a woman will be willing to pay and support for a man's dream.
Yeah.
And also, it's a time clock.
So, for example, yes, they may be supporting them for now, but...
Two months.
Two years pass and it's, hey babe, are you getting that art exhibition?
Are you going to be there?
Are you making more money?
Oh, I'm still trying.
It's like, hold on.
I'm 27 now.
I've got three more years.
So I'm just going to say like, yes, at the beginning they might stay there, but for how long?
Oh, and one more thing.
This is going to be more controversial.
Women are terrible people when they pay the bills.
They're literally terrible people.
They're raging bitches.
What are you doing?
You don't have a job?
Like, yo, they are terrible fucking people when they pay the bills, bro.
I tell you guys all the time, yo, you better make more money than your girl.
And if you, you know, you guys have something going on, you better make more money than her.
You better not have her paying any significant bills because she's going to be a raging bitch because she has to go step into her masculine.
And next thing you know, you went from her boyfriend to her son.
And I hate to say it, but that's just how it is.
Women are terrible people when they're the breadwinners most of the time.
They don't want to do it.
You force them to do it, they're going to be mean.
I guarantee you, those artists that their girls support them, they're probably, you fucking bitch up and smacking them around and shit.
Yeah, making fun of them and shit.
It's terrible, bro.
Anybody else have anything, though?
You know what?
I want to add that.
I think it's really good what you guys are doing by...
It's making a lot of females realize that, hey, you kind of have to have a balance.
You shouldn't sit there and just wait for a guy to marry you and take care of you.
You should go to school.
You should do something to be able to provide your own livelihood, but you should be able to balance it as knowing, hey, don't be just focusing on your career.
And then when you're done with your career, go find a husband.
It should be like, hey, if you're going to study for your career, go out and date while you're in school.
We weren't taught a lot of girls to be wives.
We were taught to survive.
Why?
Because the generations before us were just housewives and didn't have any options.
So when they did have kids, they're like, hey, go to school.
My parents are still married.
They've been married 44 years.
And my mom always was like, hey, Make sure that you're financially stable because if anything does happen, you can walk away.
You don't have to be stuck in a situation where like...
Was your dad the breadwinner in the relationship?
Yeah.
And he took care of your mom?
I mean, my mom works, but she doesn't make money like my dad.
He was a predominant breadwinner?
Yeah.
Yeah, he was.
Okay.
And my dad is a great father and instilled in me a great, you know, like what a man should be.
So that's another thing.
If you're a woman and you grow up in a household with a father that is a man, that takes care of your mom, that loves your mother.
I mean, my mom's been with my dad since she was 15.
Yeah.
That fixes everything around the house.
That opens my mom's door still to this day.
Like, I grew up seeing that.
So how am I gonna let a man in my life that does not do what my father did for me?
That's not what I saw.
But in school, I was raised as like, hey, and even from my father, he always told me, focus on your career.
He never once told me like, hey, listen, focus on your career, but also like, find a husband.
He was more like, hey, make sure that you're okay.
Because your parents are always going to give you the safe advice to self-preserve.
They're not going to give you the most optimal advice a lot of times.
Your parents are going to tell you, do what's safe.
Because at the end of the day, they want you to self-preserve.
Something I want to say as well.
Well, it's also like survival.
I'm sorry.
I didn't mean to cut you off, but my parents are immigrants.
Yeah, of course.
I came from a different country.
In my country, my father was a pilot and my mother was a stay-at-home wife.
We had maids and we had drivers and, you know, I had ladies that could carry me.
Yeah, come here.
My dad works construction.
This was back in the 1960s, right?
Yeah, yeah.
Yo!
Yo!
I'll start again!
I'll start again!
That's why she said so, bro!
That's why she said so, bro!
That's why she said so!
That's why she said so!
Goddamn it!
Oh my gosh!
Emotional!
- She was a kid with a Zodiac, and was running around killing people in the sixth college.
- Again, again, for times.
- Yes, man, that's why she's sick with all salt.
All right, go ahead.
- I'm sorry, go ahead. - I lost my train of thought.
Anyway, listen, you're pointing out something that a lot of us don't see, When I was in school, I didn't see that.
Like, oh, hey, you know, I should learn how to balance career and be a wife because nobody told me that.
they just told me like hey make sure that you had school back then okay i was gonna say something and this goes across men and women um and this might sound harsh but most people don't have careers most people have jobs Yeah.
Right?
So this whole, like, career thing, like, most people just have jobs, and most people, men or women, don't really like their jobs.
Like, people who have, like, a true career that they're genuinely passionate about, and, you know, they're building a business, or they're not...
It's actually quite rare.
Most Americans hate their jobs.
Yeah, most people don't like their jobs.
You know?
If they didn't have to do them, they wouldn't do them.
But those are not the ones that are, like, in trouble.
The people who have jobs.
It's the career women, not the job women.
Well, I think they...
My point is actually that I think oftentimes people say career when it's just job.
Yeah.
You know?
And I think that certainly towards women...
I honestly believe that millions of women have kind of been sold this lie that somehow it's like empowering to work a job for some boss or company that doesn't give a crap about you.
And that's super empowering and you go girl.
But somehow it's disempowering and, you know...
Giving into the patriarchy or whatever to work and provide for a husband and a family and children who freaking adore you and would literally die for you.
And I think that that's massively warped.
And, you know, not everyone falls victim to this brainwashing, but I think that there's millions.
Even if I say the phrase like, oh, I think a woman should serve her husband and serve her family.
People are like, serve?
You said serve?
I think a man should serve his wife and his kids as well.
People jump on these things and you're just like...
It's the word serve, though.
No, but it's correct.
You're warping the word.
Everyone has a definition, I guess, of that word.
That's that feminist stuff.
That's that feminist stuff.
Where you jump on it and you're like, oh, that's a bad word.
Like, I feel it in a negative way.
I guess I have a negative connotation.
Society wants you to think that.
Exactly.
It doesn't have to be negative.
What about submission?
He serves you and you serve him.
You just submit to your man.
And he submits to you as well.
I can't just take care.
I can't take care of something.
Look, here's an interesting dynamic as well, right?
So, if a man comes out and says, yeah, you know, I want a woman to, you know, make me a sandwich or cook me a meal right now.
Somehow that's considered demeaning, all right?
For some bizarre reason.
But if, like, But then again, as a man, you're, like, if you go out to a restaurant and you drop, like, a couple bills on food or whatever, like, that's totally fine, and women expect that.
So, if we go out to a restaurant and I'm happy, cool, $100, $200, whatever, on a dinner, and then I'm, like, hungry at home, and I'm like, hey, can you make me a sandwich?
And it's like, what am I, a slave?
Like, I'm on your server.
I'm like, wait, what?
Like, hello, how's this?
No!
I'm not worried about this, but I'm just saying more dynamically.
Sorry, more generally.
I don't know.
I think actually the women on this panel haven't been hit as hard with the feminism brainwashing as a lot of women have spoken to.
There's some where it's just like...
Okay.
Yeah, it's weird.
This panel's pretty good.
Yeah, this panel's solid.
Oh, okay.
We're just intelligent?
This panel's solid.
I don't think anyone here is like hardcore delusional.
I will speak for myself, though.
Well, she believes you could be skinny, so I don't know.
But she walked that back.
She walked that back.
All right.
Okay.
Okay.
Where are we at here?
Okay.
Question for the...
Oh, shit.
Okay.
My wife locked in a job offer in Japan, which we have been planning for eight months.
After failing to take my instruction, she is now at risk of losing the offer.
I told her, if that happens, I'm moving out the house and my son will...
I have to be raised this degenerate society.
What?
Okay.
Wait.
Don't go Monco.
Monco.
Well, he didn't really say enough.
I'm a little confused.
My wife locked in a job offer in Japan, which we have been planning for eight months.
Okay, so I guess she failed to take his instruction, and now she's at risk of losing the offer.
So he told her to do something, and she didn't do it, and now they're...
And I'm guessing he doesn't make any money because why is it so important that she's not making the money?
So it sounds like he's not the breadwinner.
That's what it sounds like to me.
Maybe he had to move with the family and then this was a deciding factor?
Yeah, because he's not the breadwinner.
That's the problem.
We don't know, but...
Come on.
Fuck that.
Go ahead and give us some more context so we can properly discuss that.
Because I don't know, bro.
L. Weiss, bro.
And W. Tristan, when they came over the mansion, he warned Andrew about letting in that snake.
Also, that Weiss video had the comments on originally, but took it off 30 minutes later.
I left a comment on that, bitch.
That's why.
Because I know that girl.
I've heard that story a million times.
It's an old story.
It's Cap, bro.
That girl.
It's 1,000% Cap.
And he was never charged as well.
Yeah, that's crazy.
Big Mo's Metabolism.
Oh, this is hilarious.
If Freshly BBC doesn't claim Walmart Alicia Keys down two from Myron, then I call dibs.
What the hell?
Alicia Keys!
Hi!
Next, next.
Okay.
Let's talk about Miss Grand Theft Auto.
Alright, ladies.
What physical feature attracts you in a guy the most?
For example, height, smile, body, etc.
Okay, we can go around the table on this one.
We can start right here with Ms.
Cleveland.
Or, yeah, because I think we started for whatever.
Okay, most physical feature in a man that attracts you the most?
Height, smile, body, I don't know.
Oh, that's a hard one.
That shit is easy for me.
No, it's like multiple.
Shoot.
Smile, I think.
Okay.
What about you?
Eyes.
Okay.
Smile.
Okay.
Eyes.
Can they be widescreen?
Actually, I prefer fullscreen.
Fullscreen?
Yeah, I have to ask for my Asian guys out there.
Cancel!
Can we cancel?
If you see a widescreen show, you know what I'm saying.
You don't like your own kind?
No, I don't, actually.
I did that for you guys.
You don't have a motor?
They actually did a thing on this.
Asian women actually don't prefer Asian women.
Yeah, exactly.
And I'll tell you, I prefer not to be with an Asian guy.
Asian guys are good.
I don't know.
I'd explain it.
My mom told me, since I was a young girl, not to be with an Asian guy.
Why?
I have no explanation.
That's just what she told me.
Is your dad Caucasian or is he Asian?
My father's white.
He's German.
Exactly.
He's 6'3", 250 pounds.
I promise you, Asian girl's biggest fetish is white guys.
Is that true for you?
Yeah, actually, I like white guys.
Stop the cap.
No, there's no cap, actually.
That's why every girl wants black dudes, bro.
No, no, no.
I actually prefer white guys.
Now, question for you.
I have no cap.
Have you ever had BBC? Yes, I have.
Okay, so how can you go back?
Because I just like, I think what it is, it's like, like they say, it's like what, I hate saying it, but it's like, whatever, yeah, I just like, I like white guys.
I like white guys.
I like guys with brown hair, blue eyes.
That's my thing.
But that is a preference, though.
It's fine.
That's my preference.
I've been with black guys, okay?
But I'm...
No, no.
How many blue guys are one?
I'm going to do it with a few.
But you won't take it in serious, though.
No, I can't take them serious.
It's the culture.
I can't take you guys serious.
Fair enough.
That's normal though.
It is what it is.
She's keeping it real.
What about you?
Smile.
Not a drug dealing abilities?
No.
I have to try.
What about you?
Height.
All right.
Fair enough.
Cool.
All right.
If you was a guy for a day, you'd probably want to experience intimacy with a girl.
However, if us men were a girl for a day, we would never want to experience a man inside us.
So are all women somewhat bi-curious to an extent?
I'll make this simple.
Are all of you guys bisexual?
Yes.
Who's bisexual here?
Raise your hands.
Okay, only one?
Okay.
More curious.
She'll kiss a girl.
I can't date a girl, but I'll like fuck a girl.
You guys tell me what you think about this.
Most of the girls I've come to realize, most of the girls I say they're bisexual, I've realized it's a lie.
They say that to be more attractive to men.
The reality is they don't like bitches that like that.
No, I love it.
It's fun, but I won't date a girl.
You literally said you're bi-curious.
So you don't like women like that?
No, I won't date with them.
That's what I mean.
Okay, perfect.
We agree.
What can I do?
By the way, stay over there to white people.
Stay over there.
And then real quick, ladies, if you were a man for a day, what would you do?
We'll start right here.
I'd fuck mad bitches.
Is that really?
Yeah, I walk around all day and I'm like, yo, if I was a guy, I'd be super broke and I'd have hella kids in Miami.
In one day?
In one day?
Is there a time limit?
Okay, you were a man for 24 hours.
You would fuck mad bitches.
Do you think you can actually do it?
Yeah.
I got one day.
They got pills for that shit, though.
What the...
She's talking about the physical act, but I'm saying, can you actually talk to, attract, and have sex with a girl?
Do you realistically think you could do that?
Okay, maybe like, at the same time, maybe.
You're trying to be Shaq Lizzy, bro.
What do you mean at the same time?
I'm confused.
Like, you asked me what I would do.
If I was a man for a day, I would literally pick up...
You would try to have sex.
Yeah.
But do you think you can actually succeed and attract a woman and have sex with her?
Yeah.
I think what Myron is saying is you may be surprised by how difficult that is.
Oh no, we got a game for that.
Don't worry.
Not in Miami.
Yeah, exactly.
Not in Miami.
Miami's like...
Okay, cool.
Hold on to that thought.
What about you?
What would you do if you were a dude?
Yeah, I would definitely want to feel what it's like to have sex for a guy.
Okay, do you think you'd be able to do it in 24 hours?
You'd be able to get a guy?
Yeah.
I mean, sorry, a girl?
Yeah.
Easy?
I mean, it might take a couple tries, but I feel like I can get it.
I feel like I got a little game.
Alright, what would you do if you were a guy for a day?
I think I would test my strength.
Okay.
Would you go to the gym?
I'm gonna come back.
Yeah, or like...
What'd you box?
Yeah, like hang out with the homies or something.
You guys do like the slap boxing and whatnot.
What about you?
What would you do if you were a dude for this?
I would fuck all the bitches.
You see?
Alright, now you're an Asian guy.
Do you think you'd be able to do that?
Hell yeah.
You see why I scream?
You think you'd be able to do it?
Oh, totally.
It's all confidence, baby.
It's all confidence.
Alright, this is gonna be fucking fun.
Alright, what about you?
It would be fun to go to like a bar and then, you know, to talk to girls and then see what's up.
Are you going to go up to them and say I'm an artist?
Maybe.
Okay.
I have my talks.
All right.
First, you got the rest of these.
I'm going to set up the...
Okay.
What about you?
I will be a war general.
A war?
Wait, wait, wait.
In one day.
This is a one-day event.
What are you going to be in one day?
I'm gonna be a war general.
In one day?
How you gonna work your way up to a war general in one day?
I don't know.
God better align it.
Let's say you were a war general.
What are you doing as a war general?
I'll be taking over some shit.
I don't know.
I think men have a great...
They're great at war.
Yeah, you win this war, man.
What about you?
I don't think I would pull a girl in a day.
Um, I think I would like experiment and like play, you know, like see what it feels like.
off okay and then yeah Guys, when a ghost says to you, suck my dick, no, you know why.
They want to be a man.
They want to be a man real bad.
But it's funny, because if we asked all the guys here, what would you do if you were a girl, none of us would say, get fucked by a dude.
So you think it's easy to get a girl as a guy.
So this is what we're going to do.
And you think it's easy in Miami, which makes it even fun.
So this is what we're going to do.
We're going to play a game, okay?
The imagination here.
So he's going to be the girl.
You're going to be the guy.
I have two mics over there.
What you're going to do is I want you to be the guy and approach him and tell us how you would do it.
Alright?
Okay.
Well, hold on, hold on.
No, we're going to actually have you stand up and do it over there.
We're going to do this all the way.
Now, what is the club or what is the location you're going to meet the girl at?
We'll let you pick the location.
Let's do it, nigga.
I would just download a dating app.
You would download a dating app?
No!
My whole boys get mad bitches off dating apps.
And they fuck on the first day.
I'm like, wow.
Okay, okay, okay.
Which dating app would you use?
I don't know.
Tinder.
Hinge.
Would you use Hinge?
Probably.
Okay.
Alright.
You would use Hinge.
Now, describe yourself as the man.
What would you be?
M66. Stop fucking capping!
This is my fantasy!
You know what?
Let's go with that.
You're 6 plus 6.
What do you do for a living?
I don't need to do shit.
I'm 6'6.
You'd be surprised.
This is Miami.
What would you do for a living?
I'm a scammer.
Okay, you're a scammer.
Okay, so this is what we're going to do.
I'm going to have you message him on Hinge, how you would as a dude or her, okay?
And what I want you to do also is...
And then...
Yeah, so we're going to do Hinge.
So you're 616, you're a scammer.
And, oh, the other thing is you can't pay for sex.
You can't say, oh, I'm going to pay you to foot.
So that's the rule.
Alright, so here, I'm going to show you.
Stand up real quick.
Alright, so call me, and then we have a mic right here.
And then Chris, you're adjusting the things?
Here you go.
Since this is a dating app, you're going to just message him.
How many pictures do you have up?
What's your bio?
Very important.
I'm 6'6".
Is it on?
Can you guys hear me?
6'6".
Love to travel.
Love to eat.
And...
Looking for company.
Okay.
All right.
Now, okay.
Let's say, you know what?
We'll make it easy for you.
Let's assume you match.
Okay?
Even though only about women swipe right on only about 5% of men on dating apps.
But we'll give you the thing that you swipe right.
Now, what are you going to say in the first message to the girl?
Go ahead.
I love your picture with the hat and the hair.
It's really pretty.
Are you Jamaican?
Yeah.
All right, Fresh, give a realistic response.
And here's the thing, we're not going to try to fuck y'all up.
We're going to give you guys women's realistic responses on how men deal with it.
Go ahead, Fresh.
Oh, I'm so bored.
Another Tinder match.
Oh, he's kind of hot.
What'd he tell me?
He likes my hat and my hair?
Typical response.
Hi.
What are you going to say to that?
So he sent you hi.
What are you going to say to that?
Hey, how are you?
Where do you live?
Thank you.
Goodbye.
I live in Miami.
Amazing.
I'm gonna be in town.
Let her just do it, guys.
You can just sweep.
Hold on.
All right.
Oh, that's nice.
I'm gonna be in Miami and I would like to take you out for dinner.
Didn't say that, nigga.
I'm gonna be like, honestly, I'll be like, okay.
Okay, when are you coming?
I'm here right now.
Wait, you said you were coming here.
Yeah, I'm on the plane.
Okay.
I have Wi-Fi.
Let me know when you get here, okay?
Okay.
Now what are you going to do?
So you land.
Now what are you going to do?
Hey, I'm here and I have a business meeting tomorrow.
So I'd love to see if you had some time for me today so I could take you out to a really nice dinner.
Well, I work in the morning, so I can't be out that late.
That's perfect.
You don't need to be out that late.
I have a business meeting tomorrow.
Let me show my calendar real quick.
One second.
I can send you a car to pick you up in like two hours.
Where are we going?
Where would you like to go?
I want to go to Roof Chris.
Perfect.
And actually...
Which one?
The one in Carl Gables?
Yes, that one.
Okay.
Can you be ready in two hours?
Give me three.
Okay.
Perfect.
Three hours.
Where do you live?
I live in Brickell.
Amazing.
That's where I'm staying.
What building?
Oh my goodness.
I'm in a building.
I can hear you smiling through the phone.
We're on the phone now?
Yeah, we're still on the app.
We're still on the app, bro.
You're still talking around the app.
Typically, I'm going all the way for you.
But okay.
Yeah, and he's being nice because girls don't respond on the app that quick.
So you're even, yeah.
Alright, so I'm going to send you a car in three hours.
You'll be ready.
Do you need your hair done?
Because it looks really nice in your pictures.
Are you going to pay for my hair?
Of course.
Well, just so you know, it's a bit expensive.
It's like $400.
We don't have the time right now because you said three hours.
Well, I have an in-home person that comes to my house, so they can come here right now.
Okay, that's fine.
Yeah, they got me.
Alright, so just, I'll give you the money when we get to the restaurant.
So my cash shop is BadBitchFashina.
Wait, I can't pay, right?
Oh, no, go ahead.
You want to go to this route?
Go ahead.
BadBitchFashina, okay?
That's $600.
That's my cash shop.
Here's the link.
$600.
Damn, fuck.
Alright.
Pay for it by my new Tinder, man.
So good job.
Alright, so you paid for the hair, right?
And now she's supposed to meet you in three hours.
What are you going to do now to set it up?
You're still talking on the app?
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
I'm getting a phone call.
Davian, where you at?
Oh, come to Wynwood right now?
I just got my hair done.
Okay.
No, no!
No, no, no!
This bitch!
Go ahead!
Go ahead!
I'm dead!
Yo!
Remember!
Remember!
You called me...
No, that was my sticking link.
So, you got me my hair done.
So, you're going to go to Winwood and not Ruth, Chris?
Continue like you don't know what's happening.
Alright, so I just sent the card for you.
Sorry, babe.
Something came up.
Emergency came up.
Can we meet tomorrow?
that's better for me it's annoying right Yeah, that is really annoying.
What are you going to do?
Okay, so you pay for the hair, you set the car over, and she literally tells you right before the car comes, hey, an emergency came up.
I'm going to throw a solid.
Babe, look at me.
I'm tired.
I love my new hair.
Wait, this really happened?
Yeah, it's happening.
Babe, tomorrow I'll see you.
I promise.
Girl, I got a business meeting tomorrow.
After your meeting.
I got you, babe.
Yeah, I'm flying back out.
Sorry.
No, it's okay.
I can find other bitches at Ruth Chris.
Alright, that's an L for her.
Yo, you know what's funny?
You heard me say that.
You heard what happened.
Most guys never know what happens.
Oh, emergency came up, they're just dipping, and then it was somebody else.
Yo, yo, a couple fuck-ups.
You kept talking around the dating app.
You're lucky he even responded to you.
You didn't get her phone number.
You didn't get her socials.
Number two, you offered to pay her hair.
You didn't even meet her.
For 600 bucks, you just sent her on the couch.
And then three, yeah, but those guys don't get respected.
And then three, like, every girl has another dude on the line.
Like, you randomly, oh, I'm coming into town, blah, blah, blah.
She probably, if she's attractive, had other plans with somebody else, it's going to be very difficult to do anything.
And you let her pick where you were going to go.
Oh, Ruth Chris, the most expensive spot.
She don't respect you, bro.
You're willing to drop $600 and you're willing to drop even more without even meeting her.
And I was being nice.
And that was him being nice.
I think that since I'm 6'6", I could just go anywhere and just pick up girls there.
When's the last time you fucked a guy for getting your hair done off of Tinder and Hinge?
Never.
I'll tell you why, I'll tell you why.
Okay, not paying for the hair and stuff, but my boys hook up with girls on apps.
They be doing some shit like that?
No, they fuck on the first night for like no money.
I have a whole boy who's a chef and he'll be like, come over to my house and let me cook for you.
And they come to his house.
Okay, look, man.
And he fucks them!
Okay, look.
Why'd you offer me money?
Okay, hold on.
If you can do it without any money, why'd you offer me money?
It's kind of like you're doing the opposite of what you're saying.
Yeah, but because you look like that's the type of girl you were.
Here's the thing you never said.
And you looked like you needed your hair done.
So...
Well, you're the one that's down 500 bucks.
That's alright.
When she sent me her cash out, I hacked into her phone.
Either way, so Elle right there, just doing a bunch of sim shit, whatever.
And just so you know, you're saying your homeboys fuck these girls on the first date, whatever.
One of two things.
Either, maybe they're good at it and they're able actually to do it, but it's actually very hard to get a girl to come straight to your place and have sex for her.
That's what I was thinking, but it's apparently Very common.
He tells you just his W's.
He's not telling you all the L's.
And other thing too, guys chronically lie about how many girls they fuck and they also chronically lie whether they paid the girl to fuck or not.
A lot of girls be fucking for money in Miami.
Oh, of course.
That's why I offered money.
That was the first thing I offered him.
Money.
But imagine that.
You and everyone else offered me money.
Who am I going to go with?
The guy I actually want.
They got to call me just now.
Offer me no money.
You drove yourself.
But that's the saying.
You're offering money up front.
I get it.
Respect is gone.
On some level.
Who else wants to try and fail?
Sorry.
Wait, you said you couldn't.
Chris, come on.
Where's the event happening?
Is it like a club, bookstore, lounge?
You said you could!
You don't want to do it no more?
You scared?
Oh, you want to try it?
Yeah.
Okay, hold on.
Okay, she gonna do it?
All right, I'll run the cams.
No, hold on, Omar.
She's fine as fuck.
What's the scenario that we're going to do this?
What's the scenario?
Just take a seat.
Hold L, bro.
Hold L, man.
Call you Lee.
Not G anymore.
Oh, I'll get your hair done.
What the hell?
What's the scenario?
What's the scenario?
Okay, so we're at a bar.
Okay, what bar?
What in Wynwood?
What's that one?
Alright, name the bar.
Rabbit.
Dirty Rabbit?
Dirty Rabbit.
Alright, for the audience, just so you guys know what kind of bar this is, it's an outdoor bar.
They have a little bit of a section, but it's a little bit...
It's very dive bar-ish, but...
Somewhat, somewhat not.
Just so the audience kind of knows.
It's in the art district of Miami, which is like the Williamsburg of Miami, where it's graffiti and shit like that.
Kind of diverse, but they have a section as well.
We've got Myrina here.
I'll be the girl.
Alright, so you know what?
Fresh stay by me, because since this is a club, let's be honest, girls are never alone.
Yeah.
Okay, so I want you to go ahead, and I'm going to act very realistic in how girls act in bars.
Okay.
Yeah, we're going to act very realistic.
No, Fresh real.
Don't be ghetto or nothing.
Alright, stop.
Stop, bro.
Come on, man.
Not that realistic.
Not that realistic.
Alright, so we're on roll.
Go ahead.
Are you going to turn towards me?
No, it doesn't work that way.
You got to come to us.
Go ahead.
Can I pretend like this is...
Okay.
Hey, ladies.
Hey, beautiful.
Oh, hi.
Hi.
I have this bottle.
Would you guys like some?
I got a section right over there.
Yeah.
Would you guys like to come?
Can you send us a bottle?
No, we bought it.
It's at the table.
How many of your friends are there?
Well, we got three of us, and then looks like you two are together.
Yeah.
What kind of bottle is it?
Is it tequila?
Yeah, we have 1942.
We also have the Classe Azul.
Okay, we'll think about it.
Just give us a second.
Okay, all right.
Yeah.
All right, so what are you going to do now?
What are you going to do?
So how long are you going to wait before you come back?
Oh, you're going to raise your hand at us.
No, okay.
Alright, boys.
I'm going to be right back.
Okay, so you're going to come back again.
After how much time?
Four minutes.
Four minutes.
Literally coming right back.
Okay.
Oh, hi.
Hi.
I see you guys' drinks are almost gone.
No, I just came back from the bathroom.
I was just wondering if you guys want to come join now.
Seriously.
Don't worry about it.
We can go for a little bit.
A little bit?
Okay, but we can't stay long because our friends are going to come and we got a mansion party to go to after this.
Okay.
Yeah, it might be mine.
Alright, so we're going to come to your section.
Now we're in your section, right?
We're drinking your alcohol and shit, right?
Cool.
And then your friends are probably around.
Alright, so what are you going to do now?
So we're drinking, right?
What are you going to do now?
Wow, did anybody tell you how beautiful those long legs are?
You know, even though that was a terrible line, I'm going to entertain it real quick.
Oh, thank you so much.
Yes, I've gotten a lot of compliments.
I used to play volleyball.
I could tell.
Thank you.
Are you drunk?
No, but do you want to be?
I mean...
I don't even know how to respond to this, bro.
Yeah, sure.
Yeah, we're drinking.
We're having a good time.
Let's do shots when the beat drops, okay?
We got them lined up, ready?
Okay, but we want to pour our own shots.
Oh, That's okay.
Okay.
All right.
Let's take the bottle.
I'll pour my shot.
I'll pour her shot.
All right.
Cool.
Yeah.
Woo!
Cheers!
Cheers!
Okay.
Hey, cheers!
Woo!
Cheers!
No, I poured it.
We're fine.
Then we take the shot.
Now what?
Now what are you going to do?
Yeah, so...
I bet y'all are popping on socials, huh?
Maybe I could get yours.
Sure, I'll give you my Instagram.
Okay, yeah.
So I take your phone, I put my Instagram in, I follow myself, I give you the phone back.
Now what are you gonna do?
Wow.
Alright, perfect.
I'm gonna DM you if that's alright, okay?
Sure.
Stay in contact, yeah.
Okay.
I live here.
I also live in New York, but this is my primary, so don't worry.
Okay, that's cool.
Yeah.
Well, alright.
It was fun.
We gotta go, girl.
Yeah, it was fun.
Okay.
Yeah, we gotta go.
Alright, I'll message you.
Alright.
Star Island later, okay?
Alright.
Okay, thanks.
Bye!
Yeah, that's a fail, bro.
That's a fail.
But I feel like I made leeway.
You were doing so good, and then she failed in that.
How did I go wrong?
You were literally talking too much.
You just, like, you gotta get to the fucking...
You just gotta go for the moment.
You were just talking too much.
You know what?
You know what?
Show her!
She was talking too much.
No, show her, show her.
She don't fail too much.
I'm not gonna fail.
Zuby, come on Zuby.
Come on Zuby.
Zuby, strongest woman in the world?
Oh god, here we go.
So ladies, just so you know, Zuby is recorded as the strongest woman in the world.
He is.
Literally, he is.
What's up?
What's the scenario?
What's the scenario?
You can take your headphones off.
Okay.
I'm a chick.
You're a chick.
What's the scenario?
Fresh, you gotta help him, bro.
What's the scenario?
No, you pick the scenario.
What club, what bar, where y'all meet?
We're at a club.
Alright, which club?
I'm fucking Liv.
Okay.
What's up?
Hey, what's up?
Hold on, hold on.
Hold on, perfect.
Guys, just so you know, Liv is a very high-end club here in Miami.
Very famous.
It's on Miami Beach.
Okay, I'm just telling the audience because they don't know what it is.
They might not know.
So that's the scenario.
So this is a very fancy spot.
So, all right.
I guess there are two girls.
Approach them how you would.
No.
Don't worry.
Fresh will run the interaction for you, bro.
Don't worry.
So typically it wouldn't be my bottle, right?
So it'd be like their bottle.
Mike, Fresh, what are you doing?
Bro.
Nigga.
Focus on the goddamn show, man.
Focus.
No, I can't even take them seriously.
You see this shit?
Yeah, be an adult.
Take the mic, Fresh.
And just run it with Zuby, okay?
Okay, so typically it wouldn't be my bottle, right?
So it'd be the guy's bottle.
No, I want you to approach the two girls.
Okay, so I'm the guy?
So I'm the guy?
I'm attracting the girl?
Yes.
I'm like, okay, hey, what's up?
Yeah, record us.
Record us, girl.
Okay, hey, what's up?
Hey, what's up?
Let me get in them on that.
Oh, hey, let me get you guys a bottle.
Like, you want a drink?
I don't know.
You guys want a drink?
Oh, you don't want a drink?
I have water for you, though.
Like, I want you guys to meet my friends.
What's this nigga on?
Yeah.
You guys are new to Miami?
I'm from Miami.
You guys should meet my friends.
Let's join my friends.
What's up?
Yeah, exactly.
What's up?
Hey, I feel like we haven't, like, met yet.
Yeah, I know.
Let's meet.
Exactly.
Come join my friends and we can, your friends can be my friends.
We'll be friends.
Biggie Smalls?
Exactly.
I got you.
I got you.
Exactly.
Wait, that's A champagne?
Tequila?
What do you want?
My friend isn't bothering you guys, but we got some nice drinks over here if you guys want to come join us.
Got some food and stuff.
Exactly.
Girl, I just came back.
I see two guys talking to you.
What's going on?
This nigga weird as hell.
He trying to tell us to go over there, but we don't know that nigga.
Look at you, girl.
Oh my God, look at you, girl.
This is unrealistic.
No, this is very realistic.
No, there isn't.
Oh my God.
Bro, like literally you just walked in and got into their selfie.
I know, exactly.
That's an automatic L. Okay, you know what?
I'm used to being a girl, that's why.
Oh!
You're criticizing her!
You're right, you're right, you're right.
You literally got in there selfie, what do you expect?
I'm like, that's my automatic feeling.
She's speaking words so fast.
What are you saying?
You're a turbo.
I'm sorry, that's my automatic feeling being in the selfie.
Let her lead.
Yes, let's do it.
- Let's do it.
- Yeah, maybe she should leave. - No, she should leave. - Okay, guys. - She should leave. - Go ahead and leave. - Leave, guys. - All right. - I'm like a chick.
I'm gonna read that shit.
Okay, so you're gonna run the interaction.
You're gonna talk to them?
Yeah.
I want to see how you actually do this.
Alright, then go ahead.
Y'all got it.
Damn, I ain't gonna lie.
Me and my boys, we've been vibing all night.
You know, we got the vibes.
- Where are we?
- Girl, where are we? - Picture time.
- Damn baby girl, that's why you need me in life.
I'm going to take care of you.
I got all the details.
Come on, get situated.
They don't hear you.
It's a loud club.
What are you doing?
Filter time, filter time, filter!
Oh my god!
Cheryl, your dress is down.
Pull it up.
Let me pull out my camera.
There you go.
We got a good picture of you.
We got a good picture of you.
Hold on.
Stop.
Stop real quick.
Stop real quick.
So you're taking pictures of them taking pictures of me themselves?
Yes.
Yes.
Women gonna love this.
Let me play it off.
Women would love this.
Trust me.
Damn, baby.
Look at this picture.
Y'all look like some stars.
Wait.
Wait.
Who the Are you niggas?
I'm about to tell you right now, baby.
Chill out.
You looking good.
What you need?
How long were they standing there?
Um...
Yo, are y'all fucking serious?
So creepy.
Yo, when's the last time somebody was taking pictures of you and then came up and you actually got with them?
Oh, okay.
Wait, wait, wait.
Run that back.
He said, who are y'all?
Baby, this is my spot.
You are my spot.
So why don't you come over here and join me in my section.
You can have whatever you want.
It's on me.
All right.
What are you on?
The building you're in right now.
And the land is on.
He's the owner.
He's the owner?
We are here.
Yes.
We're partners of this club.
You know the other.
I know the other.
Oh, you know the one.
You fucked up or what?
I can't tell.
Girl, you're lying.
Okay, but baby girl.
Whoever told you that was on a day line.
You don't know Grutman?
Hold on.
Hold on.
Yo, we're not talking about real shit.
Mommy's small.
Hold on, let me play your game.
Girl, we know Dave.
That's not Dave, but you know what?
Let's play this game.
We're playing the game.
Okay, we'll come, we'll come.
We're playing.
Yeah, let's go.
Where you at?
Right over here.
Come on.
We're on Venetian Island, baby.
You got drinks?
445.
We got drinks.
What y'all like to eat?
Yeah.
Because they're 1942.
Class A. Class A. Food at live.
We got gluten free.
There's no food at live.
Yo, I'm dead.
We have vegans.
All right.
Chef, I'm going to hook you up.
Anything you need, I'm going to take care of.
What you need?
It's plant-based and gluten-free.
Don't worry, she's not from around here.
Don't worry, I'll have our Uber Luxe pick you up.
So, what are we doing right now?
I'm confused.
I'm getting my Uber Lux to pick you up right now.
Uber Lux to pick you up.
It's for like two minutes.
What the fuck?
What's going on?
No, no, no.
He just planned, baby.
He just planned.
We finna take you back to the section.
We finna order the food and we gon' catch a bar.
Like, that's what we gonna do.
We can do whatever you wanna do, please.
You know our man's got a good sense of humor.
You know, he just be vibing like that.
That wasn't funny, babe.
It's okay.
My friend was trafficked the other day.
Don't worry.
I'm going to take you to a real comedy show.
Just for right now.
How about we go back to the section?
We catch a vibe what you need.
Whatever you need, I'm going to provide.
Zuba, Ina.
Ready?
Zuba, Ina.
Sorry, girl.
I fucked up.
Let's go.
Bro, they wouldn't even go this far.
Bro, they would've been done by it.
You're taking pictures of everyone.
They're taking pictures.
They would've been done.
You're trying to order Uber?
You don't even know them?
You're trying to order Uber Lux?
And then you lie about who you are?
What?
What?
Bro, L! All right, ladies, just take the L. Goddamn.
Yo, take the L. Just take your seat.
Take the L, bro.
Yo, when I say that women have zero concept of what it takes to be attractive, this is what I mean.
This is why we do this experiment.
Because we don't have to go through that.
Bro!
We just have to look cute!
What the hell was that?
- You just have to be cute. - I mean, that's what guys would do anyway. - I was cute, brother! - Yeah! - I was a gentleman.
- Oh my God! - Hold on, hold on, hold on.
I'm gonna tell y'all where all of you guys fucked up real quick.
Okay, tell us.
So you were giving weird compliments like nice legs and you were kind of like not all the way there.
It was weird.
Yeah, but like that's still creepy.
You fucked those guys that are like weird and saying, oh, nice legs?
I don't know.
So why do you think it would work on me?
And then you, like, you took a picture of them as they're taking a selfie.
But here's the thing, you come off as a fan doing that.
So, automatically, they're like, yo, this guy's sending out some weirdo shit.
Then your friend comes in, oh, hey, we're the owners, or whatever.
And then any girl that has half a brain in Miami knows that Liv is owned by the Groupman Group, and they're probably going to know a couple of people in it.
But I dropped their name.
I was really good at it.
But they don't know you, though.
The other thing is, I was good at faking it.
Bro, and then also on top of that, you're like, oh, I got the Uber Luxe coming.
What?
I don't know you.
I dropped my SIM and I said, relax.
Bro, do you know how easy it is to swindle girls like that?
It's not going to work.
Yes, it will.
They're going to be like, oh, really?
Call him in front of me.
And you're not going to be able to.
And then you.
You said, I'm going to take you to a comedy show?
What?
No, no, no.
Because he said something.
He said something.
And he was like, oh, what?
And then Here's the other thing, too.
She said she owns the club, which they know off a rip.
Like, what?
That was the scenario.
You didn't say that.
That could be the scenario.
Let's say I believe you, right?
And then you're not.
What is that?
Great allegation.
Because you just lied to me.
You're not the owner.
I never said that, actually.
I said that I knew the owner.
I think she said she was the owner.
She said she's the owner.
I said I knew the owner.
Either way.
Either way, a lot of these stories guys do use to get girls.
Okay, the last time a dude told you, two minutes of the meeting, I got an Uberlux coming and you went with him.
Hell, never.
We never were that quick.
So if it didn't work, then why do you think it's gonna work?
I have no fucking idea!
It was so much fun though.
Oh God.
Maybe they'll work on home.
Girls are so easy to swindle.
Who's date would you have won on mine?
I'm not gonna lie.
None of you guys won.
You're such a liar.
Who f*ck know?
Because you paid 600 for a girl you don't even know.
You didn't even get her number.
I think I did a great job.
But I was a gentleman.
I showed my true intentions.
I don't know you yet.
You don't know me, but I didn't try to like...
Sending a girl money to get her hair done on Tinder.
Girls get turned off when you offer right away.
When you're offering money right away...
Gentlemen no longer...
Here's the thing, I get it.
Your dad was a gentleman to your mom back in the day.
That doesn't work no more in 2023.
I agree, man.
Girls don't treat gentlemen well.
They treat them like shit.
That's why I got money.
They get red flags right away when you're like, oh, pay for your hair!
It's like, what's the agenda?
Why are you doing it to me?
Yeah, exactly.
Because I know that it takes effort for you to get ready, and I want to make sure that you look pretty.
But they're taking money out of front, alright, use this nigga, or for example, he's a simp.
So it's like, alright, I'm going to take advantage.
Right.
Either way, there's no respect because you gave your money away quickly to a girl that doesn't know you on him.
If you really like the guy, it doesn't matter what he does.
Once he's a leader, he takes you out.
That's what's important.
Yeah, sending money to a girl like that is just wild.
I'm sure there's dudes who do that.
I just love doing this exercise.
The reason why I like doing this and we go through that pain is because it reveals how little women really understand about what it takes to attract their own kind.
We gave you guys typical objections that girls give guys all the time.
Y'all don't know how to deal with it.
You guys use the same terrible things that guys try on you that don't work on us.
I feel like the things I did was good.
I'm going to take you to a comedy show?
Nah.
Go ahead.
She was the best, but she still sucked.
She was like, bro, none of you did it well at all.
And she took a picture of y'all taking a selfie.
She took a picture of her.
She said she's not the best.
Not you.
It is funny because what it actually takes to get a girl...
She was creepy.
I felt legit uncomfortable when she was talking to me.
Niggas that are drunk will do that.
But it's still weird though.
I would just say what it takes to get a girl in a club is so precise and so calculated.
You gotta be smooth.
And as well like...
And you were waddling around when you were talking to me?
Like, yo, that's weird.
Like, you're like, I like this, like, whatever.
Like, yo, as a guy, you can't look too intoxicated in front of a girl.
I was thinking like a chick.
Men have to understand this stuff about women.
They have to know, okay, what's her comfort levels?
I can't come off too drunk.
I can't be off too creepy.
I can't be sending her 600 bucks.
I can't be taking a picture of her.
When she's at the club, I'm not on some fan shit.
Men have to know all these things, but y'all are out here doing some weirdo shit.
You came up to me like, oh, nice legs, and then you wobble like this.
I'm like, this bitch.
I thought I was a dude!
At least I got the follow-up, though, because if I was having a house party the next day, y'all would've come.
Bro, I just got my follow-up on Instagram, thanks to you, and that's it.
I'm never DMing you again.
That's a free follow.
I did what every girl does.
Oh, here's my Instagram.
Follow myself.
Give your phone back.
Good.
I'm not going to follow you back.
I don't care what your Instagram is.
Right?
Tell me I don't do that to dudes.
No, I did go to a house party the day after of a guy that did that to me.
Okay, did you fuck him?
No.
But he had a second chance, you know?
Did you fuck him then?
Exactly.
Thank you.
Yeah, I got a follow-up.
But you didn't go to the follow-up for him.
You went because it was experience.
There was a party there.
Yeah.
How do I know women better than they know themselves?
Why would that work?
You didn't go for him.
You went because of the experience because there was a party.
And you probably brought a couple girlfriends with you, didn't you?
No.
I went alone, which is like dumb that I do that.
I know.
No, it was a day party.
It was like, we met at Komodo and the next day it was like, okay, uh, mansion party catering like 1 p.m.
That's why she went.
Mansion party.
Yeah, mansion party.
Okay.
Okay.
Uh, alright, cool.
Uh, guys, come on over to Rumble, by the way.
We're gonna switch over to Rumble real fast.
Yeah.
Uh, rumble.com slash fresh and fit.
Guys, come on over, come on over.
Rumble.com slash fresh and fit.
Um, We got what?
Go ahead.
You go ahead and kill it.
Come on over.
All right.
And then I'll read these chats real fast.
Cool.
Okay.
Now, I always love doing that exercise.
If there was a guy for it.
No, we read that one.
Okay.
I don't know.
You guys sponsored a Make-A-Wish kid.
He's doing great kind of wear crisp peanut butter.
Okay.
Why do we eat spinach and kale?
To tell these bitches to go to hell.
It's been a year since you guys saved me from suicide.
Ex-wife took everything, including her daughters, during the divorce.
Glad you guys showed up on my YouTube algorithm when you did.
You guys are truly saving lives.
Niggas, the name is OJ, didn't do it.
Wait, you did kill your wife, though, nigga.
I'm just kidding.
Well, he did.
We all know OJ did it.
Allegedly.
It's probably before a lot of your guys' time.
Yo, guys.
Thoughts of the gym followed by the beach and pool as a first date?
That's girlfriend activity, bro.
I don't like taking girls to the gym on the first date.
I've never even heard of that.
Some guys do it.
I don't like taking girls to the first date.
Taking girls to the gym?
That's weird, man.
I know, I agree.
That's weird.
I'm just there squatting and benching.
And I mean...
This is going to sound kind of fucked up, but I'm going to say it.
What I've noticed is that most girls are lazy, so I don't like to work out with girls because most of them are pussies and they're lazy.
Also, you get sweaty.
You may get tired.
You don't want to go take a bath to your crib.
It's like, oh, I'm going to take a shower.
Bro, that's L. It's L. So, Shardy Milan, want to get flued out to Wakanda?
Yo, man ain't it.
I got that vibranium money.
Look at his name.
You want to get flown out to Wakanda?
I'm straight.
No?
Alright, sorry, brother.
Alright, I DM you on IG. I'm a Marine trying to get into real estate.
Can you hit me back up and spin me on real estate as the active duty?
Guys, here's the thing, man.
I'm not going to lie to y'all, man.
My consultations, I increased the price.
If you guys really want to do a consultation, DM Christina at Christy Rojas, and she'll set it up for you if you guys really want to do it.
But I'm trying to stay away from doing consultations, but they're expensive, so it's up to y'all if you want to do them.
Had a woman that was 15 minutes late to the date she picked.
I left and sent a respectful text.
Should I have waited longer?
Yes.
Yes.
Yeah, hell yeah.
15 minutes?
Hold on.
Date time she picked.
Alright, so you know what?
Let's see what the girls have to say about this.
Should it be waited?
She was 15 minutes late and it was the time that she picked.
Yeah, because you don't know what happened.
Like, let's say we get to Capitol Grove.
There's a bridge right there.
Like, you don't know what it is.
Now, if you're texting me or if I don't even give you the respect to be like, hey, I'm gonna be She didn't text him though.
It's very obvious.
He's saying that he waited 15 minutes.
She didn't come.
So he left.
She didn't text him.
I mean, if she didn't text you, then yeah.
What about you?
So I would say if you're hitting her up and she's not responding, then yes.
But I mean, there's so many times I've been late and I'm really not trying to.
It's just I'm trying to get ready.
I'm trying to look cute.
You never know what would happen.
If you're not responding, then I'm out.
Okay.
So you think, but do you not think that you should be there on time and you should deal with consequences of coming late, which means missing out on a guy?
Yeah, but he, you know what I'm saying?
I was asking her.
Oh, sorry.
I mean, yeah, if you're going to take 15 minutes that seriously, then yeah.
I mean, what if it's a guy that's successful and takes his time seriously?
Everything is portioned out.
I mean, then maybe for him, that might be a big deal.
Then that's just not the girl for you, obviously.
All right.
What about you?
15 minutes late.
She picked the time.
If she didn't send any type of response, like, hey, something happened.
Can you give me a few more minutes?
I'm going to be there.
I'm around the corner, whatever.
Then, yeah, I think he...
Alright, what about you?
Yeah, he should just dip.
He should dip?
Yeah, if she's not responding, saying anything.
Okay, so you think he should wait, too?
Even if she did, he should not take her as seriously, for sure.
Because she's not taking his time seriously.
Okay, so he should leave.
Yeah, he should leave.
What about you?
I'm Venezuelan.
What does that mean?
We actually...
It's funny, guys, because in our culture, we kind of always late.
So, for me, 15 minutes...
I know, but, like, 15 minutes is...
I mean, everything will happen, you know?
I don't think 15 minutes is just, like, so...
It's not that much time.
You know, you can just sit down a little bit.
50 minutes is fine.
Nigga, you can wait on me, nigga.
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
You can wait on me.
I'll be late.
I'm gonna be late.
Yeah.
Alright, cool.
What about you?
I love that the first answer was on Venezuelan.
Yeah.
It depends if it's like our first date or our second date.
First date.
It depends how many dates.
First date.
I'll wait.
I'll wait a little longer.
Even though you didn't get a response?
I'll wait a little longer than 15 minutes.
I mean, she out here taking pictures of chicks taking pictures of themselves.
She got to.
I'll take you to a comedy show.
What, nigga?
What about you?
I would wait tops half hour and then leave.
Get a drink at the bar.
Like, half hour, don't talk to her anymore.
But I've waited more than 15 minutes.
But I would just say, get yourself a drink at the bar, wait, and if she's 20, 25 minutes, just leave.
But I would give a little bit more than 15 minutes.
Interesting, okay.
Okay, Zuby, what did you do if that was you?
I'd probably leave after about 15.
Okay.
Just assuming that...
I mean, if I haven't heard, if I haven't got a call, a text, anything saying, hey, I'm running late.
Hey, you're running late.
No problem at all.
Whatever.
Yeah.
But to be honest, I wouldn't treat it that differently to if it was like a friend or an acquaintance.
Yeah.
After about 15 minutes, I'm like, okay, I haven't heard anything, whatever.
Like, I'm going to bounce.
I'm going to assume that this person is not coming or whatever.
Okay, so here's a tip, right guys?
This is like a fresh special, just so you guys know.
Alright, you set a date with a chick, right?
You're meeting at a location.
You know what you always do?
Show Blake.
No!
That's the most nigga thing I've ever heard!
We can't even say that!
How are you allowed to say that?
He's black!
I know, I read the comments, okay?
No.
It's because I'm telling you right now, bro, girls, do their hair, do their makeup, they're going to be late, bro.
I guarantee you.
All right.
And, but then again, a car coming to you, I'm on the way.
Nigga, they're still home.
So, yo, every time, you know what?
I'm going to wait a little bit longer, then pull up.
I'm going to be like, yo, are you close?
Just to make sure.
If not, I'm going back home.
But, just show up late, bro.
But they're responsive.
But they're responsive, which is important.
If they are.
You're the one that said to leave, even if they're responsive.
No, I said if they're not responsive.
Wait, what did I say?
Can we rewind it back?
No, not again.
What did I say?
It's fine.
I think running more than 15 minutes late for a meeting with anyone and not letting them know, giving them an update, I think is massively disrespectful.
I agree.
I wouldn't do that to a friend.
I wouldn't do that to anybody.
I agree 100%.
Okay, cool.
What was the next one?
Chris?
Sure.
Regular question.
Okay.
Zentius.
Zentius goes, ladies, more like 304 panel, who is buried in the tomb of the unknown soldier?
What does that mean?
We don't know yet.
The answer is inside of the question.
When you guys come to Australia, please come to Perth.
Yo, there's a bunch of people in Perth, bro.
I've heard about Perth.
What is the hype about this?
I don't know.
We need to find out.
Yeah, without you.
Question for the ladies.
The last relationship you were in, what was the one thing you did wrong and one thing he did wrong?
Good question.
Alright, we'll start here.
The last relationship you were in, one thing you did wrong, one thing he did wrong, shoot.
Okay, the last relationship that I, what I did wrong?
Yes.
Let him have too many female friends.
Okay, alright.
What did you do around the relationship then?
I would say be too laid back, one.
And two...
Wait, what he did wrong was he was too laid back?
No, I was...
No, no, what did he do?
Because you said that what you did wrong was that you let him have female friends.
And then what did he do wrong?
Oh, okay.
What did he do wrong?
Yeah.
This is an easy one.
He was too emotional.
Alright.
What about you?
What was your last wish?
One thing he did wrong, one thing you did wrong.
Um...
Dang.
Okay, one thing I did wrong for sure was there was a situation where I felt like I should have taken his lead on it and listened to him.
Okay.
And I didn't.
Okay, what was that scenario?
Okay, so basically the father of my child was like trying to come back into our daughter's life after a while and basically he was like the main father figure in her life.
Yeah, he's your dad, yeah.
Yeah, so it was just like a situation where I felt like I should have listened to him.
Okay, so you didn't let him back in?
The dad?
Yeah, I didn't.
Oh, you did let him back in?
Yeah, he wasn't feeling it.
So...
I'm confused.
Wait, are you confused?
So what did you not follow him in then?
So you let him back in.
Alright, cool.
Yeah, so basically he was like, well, I don't want you having any communication with him, like all this stuff, but I felt like that wasn't right.
Like I really didn't agree with him on it.
Oh, so the father figure didn't want the biological figure if father To have any contact with me or like anything like that.
Okay.
Okay.
All right.
All right.
Which I just wasn't comfortable with that because my daughter doesn't know him like that.
I need to know what's going on.
So you wanted the biological father involved in the daughter's life, but you think...
Yeah, not like...
In hindsight, though, you're thinking that the guy that you were with He was a better father figure.
No, he definitely was, but I feel like just the way I went about it.
Okay.
Did he break up with you for that?
No.
But it led to problems that were in our relationship.
And then one thing he did wrong?
He wasn't providing how he needed to.
You weren't?
Okay, he was a bum.
What about you?
One thing you did wrong in the last relationship and one thing he did wrong.
I gave too many chances.
Of course.
Typical textbook.
Thank you.
So you did nothing else wrong?
What was that?
You did nothing else wrong.
I mean, I take accountability for staying when there were signs that...
That is zero accountability, by the way.
That is a super accountability.
She probably didn't do anything bad.
Bro, you see what's going on here?
The women, the sister Uber Alice is closing in.
No, no, no.
It's okay.
You guys are just, you know, continuing what we've already said.
All right.
Okay.
So you did nothing wrong.
Fantastic.
What did he do, Ron?
I just feel like he wasn't...
He didn't know what he wanted.
He was indecisive.
Yeah, and then by the time I already was like, yeah, I don't want this no more.
He was like, yeah, I want this.
Okay.
What about you?
One thing you did wrong in your last relationship and one thing he did wrong?
I accepted a guy that was financially less than me.
Okay.
How much less did he make?
Was he white?
He's Spanish.
Okay.
You messed up, man.
Did he make half of what you made?
Half of what I made.
Okay.
And that's where I fucked up.
Okay.
Yeah.
And so I lost respect.
And yeah.
All right.
Just didn't work out.
Cool.
So you're probably a raging asshole to him.
Kind of.
As a woman, you kind of lose respect for a man that does make less than you.
You start to walk all over them and you just lose respect.
It's fair to say you did not love him for a long time.
It didn't last long.
It did last long?
It didn't.
It lasted eight months.
So yeah, it's like I stomped all over him.
Yeah, you did not love him for a long time.
Fantastic.
No love long time.
What did you do wrong?
What did I do wrong?
Oh, you accepted it.
My bad.
Okay, you're perfect.
Okay, then what did he do wrong?
I am so perfect.
No, what I did wrong was accept that.
No, but what did he do wrong in the relationship?
He didn't do anything wrong.
He did the best that he could.
Damn, Danica tried his best.
Which he really did, but you know, the best he could was not enough.
Make real with you guys, no cats!
Yo!
Okay?
No fucking cats!
Yo!
Alright!
That was terrible.
Okay, that was so bad.
Fucking hilarious.
Here's the wording.
No, we need to ask him a question.
I'm so tired of us.
I want to hear us like, turn it for him.
Yeah, I can just picture her, her boyfriend, don't make no money.
She just comes in with a fucking stick.
Let's get down to business, to defeat, to broke.
And she's like, I'll make a man out of you.
She looks like that nigga, bro.
She's like, oh my god.
She's trying to teach him how to make money.
Yo.
I love it.
Yes.
I can only imagine dating her, bro.
That would be crazy.
You have no idea.
That dude didn't want to fucking work and she was like, no, I'm going to make a man out of you.
I will.
You ever seen that movie Mulan?
Yes, of course I've seen it multiple times.
I know, you've seen it, but then you've seen it.
But as well, it's like, what is that?
I'm going to make a man out of you.
What is Disney?
Oh, man.
Chinese.
Korean, please.
She got the stick.
I mean, Korean, Chinese.
Korean, Korean.
Okay, hold on.
You ever had Korean fried chicken?
Miss Korea, you ever had Korean fried chicken?
Of course I've had Korean fried chicken.
It's tasty.
It's the best.
Yeah, very good.
The best in the business.
Wait, KFC? Okay, that's too much.
Why are you even asking that?
I'm just curious, bro.
Last relationship.
One thing you did wrong, one thing he did wrong.
Go ahead.
I would say kind of the same as you.
I gave so many chances.
Okay.
Of course.
And then what did he do wrong since you're perfect?
No, lie.
He lied to me.
He lied to you?
What did he lie to you about?
A lot of things.
What was the lie that made you say, no, I'm done?
He just lied too much.
I think he has a problem with lying.
Liar!
Did he cheat?
Did he say I'll be there in 15 minutes or what?
He said I'll be there in 15 minutes?
I think he made worse.
And he showed up on time.
Alright, what about you?
One thing you did wrong in the relationship, one thing he did wrong in the relationship.
Um, one thing I did wrong.
Yeah, I know it's tough.
He believed in the matriarchy.
I don't think I do anything wrong.
Of course.
Oh, please, please.
No cops.
No cops.
I knew that was coming.
Bro, I saw that one coming to my heart.
You did nothing wrong.
No, no, she did nothing wrong, bro.
She did nothing wrong.
Fantastic.
Okay, one thing that I did wrong, I would say, was date a guy that, like, I wasn't ready to date.
Fuck.
You guys are missing what this exercise demonstrates and we'll explain in a second.
Alright, what did he do wrong in the relationship?
What did he do wrong?
Fuck around dating me.
Like, he shouldn't date me.
Facts!
Facts!
Alicia knows.
He messed up dating her.
One thing that you did wrong, Alicia, one thing the guy did wrong.
Okay, so I'll be honest.
My ex said that I was whiny, so...
Okay, so you're whiny, and then what did he do?
And then he was a terrible communicator when it wasn't about something about him.
Like, if he was out of town, I was, like, non-existent.
But you're whiny, so how would you...
Well, when I FaceTime you at 8am and there's a girl's voice in the background as a boy's trip, I kind of want an explanation, so I might whine a little.
What?
Oh.
Me too.
That nigga was single the whole time.
Oh, yeah.
Fantastic.
No, why we like doing this exercise is because typically when we ask a girl, what did you do wrong, they always give some bullshit.
I gave too many chances.
I was too nice.
Blah, blah, blah.
Girls rarely actually say what they did wrong, which is normally...
I was a raging bitch.
I was rude.
I was insufferable.
I was mean.
Maybe I cheated.
I sucked his best friend's dick.
Something like that.
Girls rarely ever say what they really did wrong.
But the guy, they got a bunch of things.
He lied to me.
Cheater.
Blah, blah, blah.
Yeah, something like that.
Sure, 15 minutes late, but I showed up 20 minutes late.
I don't know.
Something like that.
What are you saying, bro?
What, my answer to this one?
Yeah, yeah.
Oof, man.
One thing that you did wrong, one thing that she did wrong.
And a value.
Jeez.
Cheese on bread.
Zuby's a man of God.
Zuby's like, yo, there's too many men.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
No, I'm genuinely thinking.
I'm genuinely thinking.
Um...
Thank you.
Something I did wrong is I think I... Wanted more hoes.
No, no, no.
I think there were a couple, not red, but yellow flags, which I picked up on early on, but ignored because...
I kind of overrided...
I overrided certain flags that I wouldn't have for someone who I wasn't as attracted to.
Okay, alright, so she was hot, but she had some flags that you should have looked...
Certain things, yeah, not like, I'm not talking like major red glam, but certain things where...
I know the girls here probably want to know what the yellow flags are for the girls here so they can maybe become better women, even though it's too late anyway.
Just one or two.
Shut up!
I'm the greatest woman.
I'd rather not.
I've got reasons not to.
That's fine.
They'll be able to identify her.
He's a cultured man.
Very cultured.
What did she do wrong?
She belongs to the street.
No, no, no.
It's not one of those ones.
It's not one of those ones.
Otherwise it would be easy to just be like, this is why it just didn't work, you know?
Perhaps...
Oh, man.
Careful with his words.
Yeah, I'm genuinely thinking of the situation and then also like...
Okay, we can come back to you, brother.
You want to come back?
I have a question.
Somebody had a question?
Yeah, how is his answer different from the several chances?
Oh, what do you mean?
What's it called?
Yeah, that's like similar.
No, it's a very different answer.
It's not that it was like chances.
It's just that there's certain things like early on where most of the time I would have been like, yeah, I think that's maybe a potential deal breaker.
Yeah, that's like a chance.
That's like a chance.
Okay, I think he means like this.
I don't mean like actions.
Yeah.
But we're saying most men are going to tell you, alright, you know what?
I cheated.
I messed up.
Most women, for example, would be like, oh no, it was his fault.
Or like, for example, it was something about him, but like, I was fine.
So in that scenario, he's correct because he would actually do that.
He's still putting the onus on himself for not identifying the yellow flags and taking action upon them swiftly like he otherwise would have.
Versus you said, I just gave a bunch of chances.
And I also said that I was denying, you know, what it was that he was showing me as far as interests.
You said that?
Yeah.
I did.
I don't remember you saying that.
Yeah, I just remember I gave a bunch of chances.
Well, if you did, still no kudos for you.
Where are we at here?
In the occult, a man is home.
A big home is a mansion.
The French word man is home.
Also, a husband is a house bond.
And a wife is a wifey.
She's the bonus.
Her job is to maintain fidelity.
Wi-Fi literally means wireless fidelity, Annabelle.
What?
Bro, what was that?
Jesse Bennett.
Okay, Xena the Witch.
She's wrong.
Law of Attraction isn't based upon delusion.
What you think, you create, but you also need to get the fuck up and work for it.
Girl, please don't have kids.
I fear for the world.
Goddamn.
She's BTS, bud.
I said that earlier Oh that's earlier Justin Bennett Oh that was way earlier It was in the beginning when she was talking about Oh if you believe it that's how it works No it's not how the fuck it works You have to work for it Hey bro Hey man she sees widescreen bro It's a different world We can tell her that delusional You know what I believe I'm a trillionaire.
We don't have that many Asians that come on the show.
this is too fun man fuck y'all fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you shitty shitty walk shitty walk shitty walk hard to have a bite my boy hard to have a bite fuck you oh man what are you doing alright we might as well make more racial jokes while we can oh my god none to scuff money okay uh
If a stranger gave you a million dollars, but you weren't allowed to spend it on yourself, family, or friends, how would you spend the money?
That's a damn good question.
Stranger gives you a million dollars, you're not allowed to spend it on yourself, family, or friends, what would you do with the money?
Shoot.
First, I'd get a tax person to make sure that I could get the full thing.
Get the full million.
Wait, you can't...
Well, okay, I guess it's tax-free.
You selfish bastard!
No, no, no!
Did you say earlier that women are selfless?
Did you say earlier that women are selfless?
Yeah!
A bigger chunk.
To give a bigger chunk to whoever I'm giving it to.
That's so thoughtful.
I would probably just do charities.
Probably.
Yeah, after we call you out, you want to do charities.
Alright, what are you doing?
I would probably give the money to a charity in my name.
The Warlord Fund?
Oh, that's smart.
Lizzo?
Maybe.
Okay.
What would you do with it?
I would do charity, for sure.
What charity would you donate to?
I will, for sure, I will help my country.
You send it back to Venezuela?
Yeah.
Who would get it, though?
The politicians or the people?
For sure not the politicians.
I was about to say.
I'll make sure that's not going to happen.
Okay, you'll send it to the people?
Yeah, for the people that need it.
That's brave.
All right, what about you?
What would you do with that million?
I'd spend it on our country, America.
Okay.
On our kids.
Okay.
Kids are our future.
What charity would you donate to?
Of course I want kids one day.
How many kids do you want?
Like five.
Oh, for real?
Fuck yeah.
You better start smashing now.
You're 31.
I am 31.
Doesn't mean I can't freeze my eggs.
You trying to freeze your eggs too?
I might.
Maybe.
You should.
You should.
Hey, hey, her eggs are 36 or something like that.
That's all, Gia.
That's me.
I would definitely put it towards the kids of our future.
Our country.
What kids are you donating?
Kids that have been left.
Moms that have just given their kids away at a young age.
What would you do with that $1 million?
I would build homes.
For who?
For the unfortunate.
Can you specify?
There's a lot of unfortunate people out there.
You can't build it for yourself.
No, she said the unfortunate.
I know.
But which unfortunate people?
I know.
I'm messing with you.
Oh, you're trying to say you're unfortunate.
Okay.
Let's see what you did there.
Okay.
Which unfortunate people?
Because there's a lot.
Like, what category?
Like, African...
What?
What are you trying to say?
You feel me?
What are you trying to say, bro?
What are you trying to say?
All right, so you're going back to Africa, huh?
the unfortunate was too broad for the mind spectrum for you guys so So I had to, you know, at least narrow it down.
So we all know.
Are you saying that we're all unfortunate Africans?
Africa, like, just basically on resources, if we wanted to bank everything back on Africa's resources, they would be like the richest country.
But are they though?
Okay, wait, wait, wait.
And resources?
Yeah.
Yeah, but are they the richest like in general?
Well, no.
Okay, so we got to operate in reality here.
Not the feels.
No, it's not.
This is reality.
You're operating in a reality that's like constructed.
This is real world.
They got real diamonds.
They got real gold.
They got real resources.
The white man owns them.
No, they don't.
The white man owns them.
No, they don't.
The Chinese men own a lot of Africa.
What about you?
What would you do with that one million dollars?
I would definitely want to do something to help save like traffic kids, sex traffic kids.
Okay.
What about you?
What would you do with it?
Buy more eggs?
I think it did there!
No, I would not wait.
Too soon, too soon.
That's a sip of salt, by the way.
Too soon.
No.
Okay.
Go ahead.
I'm finished.
I've been writing down the times and everything.
Last one was at a...
Actually, there'll be more.
I would build some type of schools in the inner city that would teach the kids how to, like, It's how to like, - How to what?
like, eat better, be more fit, financial things, like taxes, mortgage, how to build financial wealth.
So you'd put it in the hood?
Yeah, I mean, I think that's where the worst eating habits are.
It's true.
You know what I would do with that million bucks?
Build a bridge, right?
But to cross it, you have to have common sense.
Anyhow, okay, cool.
- Why? - I'm just saying, I'm just saying.
- Do not clap, Russ. - Jesse Benson says to stop.
- Hey, I'm a little lost too, I ain't gonna lie. - West Blair. - Okay, your 15 year old son comes to you heartbroken for the first time.
What do you tell him?
I've been there, bro.
What do you tell your 15-year-old son and he's heartbroken?
Cleveland started last time.
I wouldn't discredit it, like, make him think, like, say, oh, you know, you're gonna meet more girls.
I mean, he will eventually, but I would just listen to what he has to say.
Okay.
She didn't show up on a date, Mom.
Fucked up.
I waited 15 minutes and left like you told me to.
Okay.
Yeah, I mean, I would just listen to him and validate his feelings and then tell him, you know, go talk to your dad.
I hate women, mom!
Go talk to your dad.
Fucking sluts, I hate them all!
What would you say?
Go talk to your dad.
All right, what would you do?
Heartbroken, 15 years old, what are you going to tell him?
I don't know.
It's a dirty game out there.
There's going to happen plenty of times.
- It's still a car, nigga.
- That's what you got to happen to the dirty game.
- It is.
- That's it? - I mean, I don't know what else to do.
I'm happy.
- Now she goes, go forget that car, son.
Go forget that car.
All right.
What are you doing?
That's a hard choice.
I mean, I think I would try to do something, like maybe go paintballing or something with him.
Okay.
Try to get his mind, like...
But mom, I'm so mad.
Like, this girl, she stood me up.
Alright, well, there's a record room.
We could go break some shit.
Now, she's gonna be late.
Sorry, son, that was unfortunate.
Yeah.
So you're just gonna take him to a room and he's just gonna break shit?
I mean, we could talk about it after, you know?
Get your anger out.
Most of the time, you don't feel...
What the fuck?
This is what my mom taught me!
This is how I deal with my trauma.
My mom taught me this.
She's a respectable woman!
She donates to Africa, bitch!
She gives niggas chances!
What about you?
What are you doing?
I'd help him pick up another girl.
show them how easy it is He could just say hey to 50 girls and the chances of him picking up a girl is so easy.
50 times?
Yeah, you could talk to 25 girls and there's going to be two girls.
I'm going to go home with them.
Boom.
So literally just, hey?
Hi, my name is whatever.
What's your name?
Oh yeah, I go to this high school.
I play this sport.
What's up?
Yeah, I got a house.
Let's get a drink.
He's 15.
Yeah, he's 15.
You know how easy it is?
Oh yeah, my mom is so fucking cool.
She's going to pick us up and take us back to my place.
Oh yeah, boom.
My mom is so cool she's going to pick us up.
When you're 15, do you know how fucking easy it is?
Okay, that's what I thought.
That was your experience?
Yeah, fuck yeah.
When I was 15, my parents were not that cool.
So if someone told me their parents were that cool, I'd be like, oh, fuck, that's awesome.
So you were just sucking dick because the mom would take you in the soccer ball band?
I was not sucking dick when I was 15.
It took me a while to get to that point.
But, no, you just can't face the reality.
Oh my god.
Oh my god.
Okay, so you're just telling me...
Okay, alright.
I don't even know.
Okay, what would you tell your son 15 years old?
I would speak to him.
I would try to find a way to distract him.
And I would tell him, like, this situation happens and he needs to...
Distract?
Yeah, to distract himself.
How do you distract him?
I mean, I would say that...
Son, you're Venezuelan!
I said, Venezuelan, you do this, okay?
Do this, do this!
We don't talk like that.
I'm trying, I'm trying, okay?
I suck, I know I suck.
But definitely, I would distract him, like, what do you want to do?
You want to, you know, whatever, it depends.
I don't know, I don't have a son right now, so I don't know what he's going to like, so everything depends on him.
Well, obviously vagina, that's why I hit on the other drugs.
For sure, not drugs or nothing like that.
Actually, there's many ways to get away of difficult situations that include drugs, sex, or any addictions.
Like what?
So I would do exercise, sports.
Okay, gym, okay.
Uh, fashions, you know, like music, a lot of things.
Do some push-ups, son!
I know your heart is broken, but you must work your chest to be stronger!
So your heart does not hurt next time!
More push-ups!
That's Russian, nigga!
Whatever, nigga!
Hey!
Hey, man!
Similar to 1991, alright?
What about you, man?
Hey, I know you ain't talking!
What would you tell your son?
I would validate his pain.
Okay, how would you do that?
I mean, everybody...
The common ground for any humans is, like, emotions.
So, like, we all feel emotions.
So you're gonna tell them to cry?
Yeah, cry.
Go ahead.
If you need to cry, cry.
Like, it's okay.
You're gonna love again.
Good boy.
Good boy.
Turn your son into a bitch.
All right, fantastic.
What about you?
What are you gonna tell your son?
Okay, so I would do, like, a two-pronged approach.
I would do, like...
You know, I'm here for you if you need.
Like, do you want to talk about it?
I would just put that on the table.
And then for a distraction, I'd say, you know, I'll get pizza for your friends tonight and, you know, have them come over and, like, just do something fun to get your brain off of it.
You're going to cuddle your son.
Is that bad?
There's always something bad whenever they say something good.
Because your advice is all terrible, but that's fine.
No, it's not.
What are you going to tell your son?
I don't think that was terrible advice at all.
I'd obviously just hear him out first.
Understand the situation.
Let him air it out.
What happened, how he feels, all that stuff.
We're talking about a 15-year-old as well.
I wouldn't treat it that differently to a 25 or a 35-year-old, to be honest.
Dude, breakups suck.
Heartbreak sucks.
We've been there.
Guys have been there.
You know, I'd hear him out.
Just listen.
And then, yeah, give him some words of encouragement.
Let him know that, look, at 15, you always think, like, stuff is the end of the world.
This is the biggest thing in the world.
It's not.
And I'd frame that for him and let him know, like, look, man.
It might feel like the end of the world right now, but it's not.
Well, you're telling him to cry, bro.
What the hell?
No, you said if he needed to cry.
He's getting slapped.
Alright.
There you go.
My son ain't getting slapped with you guys.
Why?
Because, bro, life is way harder than some hordes turning you down.
What the hell?
Like, bro, you gotta...
That's true.
Not at 15.
No, he's going to slap.
At 15, definitely going to slap.
Like, yo, what the fuck are you doing crying, bro?
I mean, here's the thing.
I'm very big on guys not being vulnerable to girls.
I'm very big on guys.
If you're going to cry, well, I mean, if he cries to me, I'll be like, alright, nigga, like, whatever, but I'll be like, don't do this shit again.
You're telling them they should suppress their individuality.
Because that's part of it.
Your emotions is a part of your perception of how you perceive in your human experience.
How does crying help you solve anything?
That's expression of your emotions.
You're releasing whatever you're feeling.
You can go to the gym.
Okay, that's one way to do it.
But if you feel you want to cry, that's one way to do it too.
Real talk, real talk.
If you're genuinely, genuinely heartbroken, you're going to cry.
I don't care how frickin' macho, masculine the dude is.
If you are genuinely heartbroken, you feel genuinely heartbroken.
I'm not talking about like a girl standing up for a date or some crap like that.
Someone's genuinely heartbroken, most dudes are gonna cry.
That's the reality of it, man.
And then, yeah, second part, you know, do other stuff.
Get his mind, brain, body occupied with different things.
Don't dwell on it forever.
Don't just sit there and talk about it for eternity every single day and go through it all.
Have that conversation once and then.
If you cry to me, I'm just kidding.
I'm going to slap him.
I'll be like, alright, listen, son.
You get this one freebie.
Don't fucking cry over this bullshit again.
This unacceptable behavior.
As a man, your job is to control your goddamn emotions.
And suppressing crying is a big thing about that.
And I'll just tell them, bro, no one wants a soft-ass bitch.
You know what I mean?
This is cool you get this freebie here, but don't fucking cry over women, bro.
And I'll teach them very early on to never be in a position where girls can make you cry.
If you're never in that position, though, then you're never really in love, right?
I mean, if you don't want your son to ever truly be in love, then fair enough.
Well, hold on.
That's why I would tell him, bro, you can't...
Because here's the thing.
It's going to sound evil, but I'm going to say it.
Women love opportunistically.
And what I mean by that is it's not in your best interest to love a girl.
Now, what I mean by this is, and I'm going to bring this full circle, That's not women.
That's primal.
What?
That's not women.
Let them finish.
Let them finish.
I don't know where you get the primal thing from.
Because you said women love opportunistically.
Let me tell them what I mean.
That's what you think about them.
So like even animals do that.
Animals like when they go mating.
100%.
Yeah.
So thank you for proving life normal.
Women love opportunistically.
So since that is the reality that women love opportunistically and men love idealistically, men need to be a little bit rational when it comes to that.
I know love is very difficult to do.
Humans love opportunistically.
Men gonna look at a woman and be like, you think he gonna go with a woman that's like, you know, fucked up and be like, yeah, I'm gonna go make with her.
Like, no, he gonna look at her and be like, she look good, badass, fat, she look healthy.
A woman gonna look at a man and be like, hmm, he got a nice beard.
He ain't missing no vitamins.
Maybe he could...
I don't know.
You know.
I think what you're saying is like women love opportunistically like when it comes to resources from a man and men love opportunistically when it comes to no we don't love opportunistically.
Women love opportunistically.
Men love women idealistically or tend to love idealistically but the point I'm trying to make is this.
I tell guys don't love girl like you can have love for a girl but don't fall in love for a girl.
And I think falling in love for a woman even though a lot of guys tend to do that and it's a Disney fairy tale and it sounds good.
I don't think that's strategic and well placed for you for a long term situation because when you fall in love for a girl you lose rationality you lose the ability to make good to sound decisions with your girl.
You're not going to be able to do things that you need to do to include disciplining your woman when she does stupid shit punishing your girl when she does stupid shit because as the man you got to be the leader in the relationship and let your girl know that there's certain consequences when she does stupid shit because girls will test you and do stupid shit.
But when you're in love with her you're going to be less likely to you know enact on these punitive things.
I know that sounds terrible but I think guys need to have love for their girl but not necessarily be in love with their girl.
I mean, then it's never going to be deep.
Like, how are we ever going to get that deep if you're not going to take it that deep?
Good, you could fall deep in love for me.
I don't have to fall deep in love with you.
That's what I'm afraid.
You're not going to get all of somebody if you're not doing your full part.
You have to be in love, but you have to set boundaries.
I mean, but you can't be stupid in love.
As I know men, like when men fall in love, they fall in love for real.
That's when they do the stalker shit.
That's when they're sipping.
That's when they kill their chicks.
That's when they do all this wild shit.
That's when they do the Chris Benoit.
Oh my God, you divorced me.
I'm going to kill everybody.
When men fall in love and when men don't have emotional control, that's how you end up with school shooters.
You end up with all these crazy people.
Prison is filled with a bunch of dudes that are emotional.
That's emotional control.
I wouldn't conflate falling in love or being in love with either being a simp or Or not having, like, any control of it, right?
Like, if you're...
Look, I think if you genuinely...
Say you meet a woman who you, like, legit want to marry.
Like, you have love or love her that deep that you want to freaking marry this woman.
Like, how can you not fall in love with her?
I think you have love for her, but I think...
But if it's the right freaking woman, how are you not going to fall in love with her?
Well, here's the thing.
If she's the right woman, how am I not going to fall in love with her?
Yeah, if this is the woman, you're like, man, I like this woman so much.
I got so much love for this woman.
I want to spend life with her.
I want her to be the mother of my children.
How are you not...
If the woman is that great, you're going to fall in love with her.
No.
I'm going to love her, right?
I'm going to have love for her, but I'm not going to fall in love with her.
Because I get what you're saying pragmatically, like on paper right now, theoretically.
I don't think it's realistic.
Pragmatically, I get what you're saying.
Pragmatically, how are you going to actually enact it?
I'm going to have multiple wives.
Maybe you sometimes act like that, but then actually that means that when you start having feelings, you push away people because you're afraid of them.
No, no, no.
It's not that I'm afraid of it.
It's that I understand that women love very differently.
So I need to be logically sound about this.
And one way I'm going to...
And I didn't explain that.
I'm going to have a failsafe is I'm going to have multiple wives.
That way, it's all spread apart.
So they'll never get all the love.
You could still fall in love with all of them.
Yes.
No.
I'm going to have love for all of them.
It's going to be spread out.
But you could be in love with more than one person.
Yeah, but four?
I don't believe that.
Really?
I'm going to love them, but I ain't going to fall in love.
The point is that I'm still going to have the mindset like, yo, this is what it is.
This is how it is.
Because I'm not going to spend too much time with just one.
I'm not going to have all my eggs in one basket.
Multiple wives.
And here's the other thing, too.
Women behave a lot better when you have multiple chicks.
Yeah.
I get what Zuby's saying.
I get what Maya's saying.
However, there's a middle ground where most guys, I think, will fall in love for sure.
You can't stop that for happening.
However, if they could choose to not fall in love, that would be the best way to go.
Of course.
Yeah.
You can control your emotions, you know what's going on, and you don't kind of like get comfortable in that scenario.
I totally agree that like falling head over heels in love to the point that you just lose all your faculties and normal like reason and really that's stupid.
Dangerous as a man.
That's extremely dangerous.
And also you'll make yourself less attractive to your own woman with that needy and supplicating, right?
Whereas on the other end, if your girl falls head over heels in love with you, it works out better.
I genuinely think the woman always has to love the man more than he loves her.
She needs to care about him more than he likes her.
My mom taught me the opposite.
Completely the opposite.
My mom told me that the man should love me more than I should love them.
Of course she's going to tell you that.
How's that advice treated you?
It's been great.
Well, in your case, I love you in totality.
No, the reason why the woman has to love the man more is because women don't feel like they're satisfied unless they got the best option.
For you to feel like you got the best option needs to be chasing that guy's validation.
For you to be feeling like you're chasing that guy's validation needs to be superior to in every way and you need to like him more than he likes you.
I have seen a lot of examples of women that are actually in love and they do the best and then the men don't appreciate them until they leave.
And now they come back.
Oh, now they appreciate them when they don't have them.
That happens in every kind of relationship.
You said something fantastic.
Who left though?
Yeah.
She left.
Thank you.
Men rarely leave their women.
Yeah, but they treat them bad, or they're cheating on them, or they don't respect them, or they don't value them.
Yeah, they rarely leave them because it's cheaper to have multiple women.
Let's be objective here, right?
That guy, that's women, right?
Does he really care about her?
No.
Not if he's doing all that stuff.
Because if he did, he wouldn't do that.
So she chose the wrong guy from the right jump.
No, but that happens a lot.
And I actually, I have a lot of friends that are guys too.
That happens that they don't value them because you're too in love and men like to chase.
You know, men like to conquer.
That's actually natural in men as well.
And when you have a girl that is texting you, calling you every five minutes, hey, I'm in love with you.
I'm here at the door downstairs.
Okay, we're not saying be crazy.
Yeah, yeah.
What I am saying is that...
See, here's the difference.
When a man falls head over heels over a chick, she's eventually going to get tired of his ass for being a simp because he's giving her way too much attention, too much validation, and women need to feel like they have the best deal.
If the guy is giving them all this attention, simping on her, she's like, well, you know what?
You're chasing me.
That means my value is higher than yours.
Well, guess what happens when girls think that they're better than you?
They start to treat you fucking terribly.
When men know that they're better than their girl, their girl is happy, she feels validated, and then she continues to chase him, and it works better that way.
Because you guys are programmed to want a man that's better than you.
We don't care about where you stand with us, but you care a lot about where we stand with you.
That's what I'm trying to say.
So, of course you say that.
I can agree.
So every guy that likes me more than I like him, I usually start to stomp all over him and I get bored.
Exactly.
He's right.
I get bored and I start to walk all over them.
My mom gave me...
Let her speak.
We understand you.
Alright, go ahead.
A girl that love bombs you and is all over you doesn't give you room to breathe.
Of course, I said that's annoying.
You don't understand.
Negative consequences of a woman love bombing you are not the same negative consequences of a man love bombing a woman.
If a man love bombs a woman, the likelihood of her getting tired of him is going to be significantly higher than if a woman love bombs a man because men rarely get validation like that.
When men get appreciated, it's rare.
We actually appreciate that shit.
When you guys get appreciation, y'all are fucking drunked up on that shit.
Dude's validating you all day just to have a vagina.
Women don't appreciate...
Here's the reality.
Women don't appreciate male attention.
They rarely do.
They only appreciate male attention from certain types of guys.
Men, however, appreciate female attention.
So you're less likely to get broken up with if you appreciate your guy.
But on the other hand, if that guy over-appreciates you, you are more than likely going to be like, this nigga's a cent, fuck this shit, and leave.
That's why bad boys are winning.
Yeah.
And the argument is, let's say you find a guy and you love bombing him, and he's taking advantage of that, he doesn't really care about you.
It's because you chose the wrong guy.
But you gotta understand the type of woman that you're talking about, too, because, like, you're saying that's why the bad guys are winning, but they're winning with who?
They're not winning with high-value women.
Oh, yeah, they are.
No, they are.
Yo, you don't have high-value women.
Huh?
Fuck.
Go ahead.
Okay.
I forgot what were you saying.
You said the bad boys are not dealing with high value women, right?
They're not.
Okay.
Explain.
A woman of value of character, somebody who's not a hoe, somebody who is a wife and is looking for a husband is not going to put up with the shit that a low life guy is going to throw at her.
No, but she did at one point.
What do you mean?
How do you know that?
You're speaking in general terms.
How would she know what's good for her if not from experience?
Who doesn't know?
That's right.
I can speak for me.
Like I said, I have a father at home who taught me good values of what a man is.
So I haven't been dogged out.
I haven't been...
No, but that's you.
Most women don't have that.
So they choose poorly, and then they wonder, why did he hit me and cheat on me?
And you're talking about a woman who doesn't have value for herself, who's not a high-value woman.
A high-value woman, and I know in your world, it doesn't exist, but it does exist.
And it doesn't have to be monetarily.
It could just be a woman that has high values for herself.
So, what?
You guys don't think high-value women exist?
Nah, bro.
Because they rarely come in this apartment, that's why.
No, no.
Maybe that's why you're attacked.
No, no.
I'm curious, because I'd absolutely say high-value women exist, so I'm curious.
Okay, can you break down what high-value means for you, for a woman?
Sure.
Youth, beauty, high character, good values and morals, and has her head on straight.
I'd say that's absolutely a high-value woman.
Okay, so this woman that's high value, right?
Let's say she finds a man that's high value and they come together.
What is that?
That's a power couple.
Strong relationship.
Assuming they're, right, like, if their values align, that's a potential lifelong relationship.
How does she aid him in being high value?
He's already high value.
How does she make him high value as well?
Respect.
Bear his freaking children and raise them well.
Respect him in public.
Respect him in public.
Be his, you know...
Rock.
No, I wouldn't even say rock.
I'd say the man is more the rock.
Be his peace.
Add to him.
Man, I don't know if, like, Miami might just be an effed up place.
I think the Miami thing might be, like, skewing this.
Yeah, but that's on both spectrums.
Maybe so.
I thought you were saying, but I call it desirable.
You can say desirable.
You can call it whatever you want.
You could use the term to hire.
The burden of that is on men to be high value.
A woman being high value is kind of like...
Why?
Why do you say that?
We're actually going to be the man protecting right now.
You're talking about money.
To me, high value isn't just like hot.
I wouldn't say like a girl just being hot means she's a high value woman at all.
And I think people maybe conflate that.
So, I would agree with the point that, like, you know, guys who are acting like lowlifes, I would say, are not getting high-value women.
They might be getting hot women, and they might be getting a lot of them, but they're not getting women of high character.
They're not getting women that you'd actually want to, like, wife up and have raise your children.
And you will get insecure women.
That's my...
I'd like to differ.
And we can have different opinions on this.
My thing on this is that Thank you.
So, the reason why I say there's no such thing as a high-value woman is because a high-value woman cannot arbitrarily call herself high-value unless a high-value man designates her as one.
So, I look at it like you have to...
Bro, please stop.
So, I look at it like a woman, right?
There's a reason why women fight tooth and nail to get married and carry a man's last name that they admire, love, and respect hopefully one day.
That's what women typically want to get married to a man that's better than them.
So, I look at it like this.
High-value is typically earned.
Women don't earn their value if we're looking at it from a natural standpoint.
Young, beautiful.
They're giving their eggs up front, right?
In some cases.
In most cases.
They're giving all their value up front, right?
It's her job to land the guy that's high value and then she becomes high value as a byproduct of being with that man because the man, the burner performance is on him, right?
So I cannot attribute high value to someone who's given their value.
So I get it that she might have some characteristics that make her desirable, attractive, a good candidate to be with a high value man, but I can't...
Name a girl, high value, when in reality, the things that make a woman valuable, they're born with.
Versus a man, he has to become high value.
He has to get his money up, get in the gym, etc.
Everything that a man gets is earned.
Everything a woman has given is given to them.
Can I argue that you're a woman and then you just get everything like that?
Okay, let me ask you a question.
It sounds really easy for you that you say that.
But it's not really.
It's not.
And that's why when you're a person, you earn your own character, your own self.
Okay, look, I need you to get out of your feelings for two seconds.
There's an 18-year-old girl, okay?
Look, no, no, no.
I'm going to shatter your little argument here right now.
Men don't care about how much money you make.
They don't care about your status.
They don't care about what you do.
What makes a girl valuable?
I know girls that are 18, 19 that haven't done shit.
Stop interrupting.
Stop interrupting.
I've seen girls that are 18, 19, 20, haven't done shit in their life, but they're on boats with billionaires.
They're rubbing elbows with celebrities.
There are certain celebrity parties, etc.
How did they get in there?
Not because they're artists or because they do something.
No, it's because they're young, attractive, and fertile.
That's the reality.
A woman's value is 100% contingent most of the time on her looks first.
Now, does that mean if you're an artist or whatever?
It's the same when you get a person that is how they get the money.
They get the money working hard or they got the money scamming people.
Okay, regardless, it doesn't matter.
The man has to earn the money.
No one cares if women earn money because women get opportunities for men that have money just for being beautiful.
A man that's attractive is not going to get the same opportunities that it's a woman that's attractive.
What?
Who made it like that?
Y'all made it like that.
Yeah, that's how the word works.
So now that we know...
Now that we know a woman's value is her beauty, we'll just give it to her, and a man's value is his success and what he earns.
In a woman's eyes, that's not just her value.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
Realistically speaking, realistically speaking, okay, to me, my value is my personality and my ability to be a nice guy, blah, blah, blah.
But women don't give a fuck about that.
When they meet me, they're like, okay, what's his character?
What's his ambition?
Is his ability to provide high?
It's the same as a woman.
Does he have confidence?
Yo, stop interrupting.
What I'm saying is that I... No, no, you're interrupting.
You're interrupting.
No, you're interrupting.
Because I haven't asked the question, so I don't know what you're answering.
So anyway, let me continue on.
I'm going to ask the question.
I don't know what you're answering.
What I'm saying is that we cannot sit here and say what our value is, what we think it is.
It's based on what the opposite gender wants.
Men want youth, beauty, and fertility.
We already know this.
Women want success, security, height, a bunch of different factors.
So you might be able to say, I think I'm this.
That's cool.
But the opposite gender isn't looking for what you think you bring to the table that's valuable.
That's why our city is the way it is, though.
Because you guys are putting value on beauty and youth.
I know a lot of beautiful, youthful girls that ain't worth shit.
Okay, but that's what men want.
Yeah.
Right.
So you guys made it.
You're putting value on the wrong thing.
Look, I think, look, men will have sex with that and want to.
But if those guys, those high-value men, to me, a high-value woman is the kind of woman that they would want to marry.
And have bare their children and raise their children.
If it's like, okay, she's 18 and she's 19 and she's hot, and yeah, sure, she can come on the boat.
Yeah, sure, like, we'll date and mess around or whatever.
But would you like, is that who you want to be, though?
Is that who you'd want to marry and have your children?
And who you're taking care of.
To me, there's a gigantic chasm between a woman being physically attractive and being what I would consider high value or highly desirable as a potential wife.
Hot women are not that rare.
There's hot women all over the place.
So I wouldn't say like a hot woman just, oh, she's hot, so she's high value.
I'd be like, no.
If she's hot and her personality is trash and her values are trash and her morals are trash and her baby is trash, she's low value.
Of course, but what I'm trying to say is that the reason why I can't call a woman high value is because the things that make her valuable, she is born with.
Not always.
I disagree with that.
Youth, beauty, fertility.
There's more than that.
We talked about morals.
We talked about character.
We talked about actual ability.
Can you cook?
Can you feed?
She can learn all those things.
If she's with a strong, dominant man, she can learn how to be a submissive, dutiful girlfriend.
If she came from a strong father, he will teach her these things.
What I'm saying is that typically the things that make a woman valuable, she has by the time she's 19, 20.
Versus a man, he's useless at that age.
Do you think most 19 or 20-year-old girls have all these qualities?
I'd say they don't.
They don't.
They really don't.
I've watched so many episodes of how you talk about a low-value woman versus a high-value man and I love hearing him You're so spoken about this all the time.
I've watched so many episodes.
I think most hot 20-year-olds running around here in Miami, I'd have zero interest.
A lot of them don't have a strong father figure at home.
They don't come with good family morals.
What I'm saying is that if you take a girl that's young and hot, attractive, with a good family, etc., Well, more than likely, she's going to be ready-made to go by the time she's an adult.
No way, bro.
No way.
Like, you're not emotional.
You haven't gone through enough life.
And I'm not talking about being a hoe, this and that.
I'm just talking about life and period.
Let me ask you a question.
How about this?
Do you think men care about women's experience, realistically speaking?
What do you mean?
If you're too experienced, I don't like that.
Because you're looking at it from a male perspective.
I want a guy that's experienced.
You're too experienced.
They don't like that.
Exactly.
A man is turned off by a woman that is too experienced.
What about a girl that's experienced?
Men don't care about that.
And they should.
Because if you're looking for a wife, that's something you should look for.
I was married at 22.
Looking back at the type of woman I am now.
That was 20 years ago.
It doesn't matter if it was 20 years ago or not.
It doesn't matter if it was 20 years ago or not.
I still love her.
She's amazing.
I'm listening.
Go ahead.
Go ahead.
I'm listening.
The maturity that I had then to the type of woman I am now, you don't know how to be a wife at 19.
You barely know yourself.
There's a set foundation that you have for your parents, right?
That's still there.
So you grow into it.
We're just saying offer it, right?
A girl that has a good household can mature to that.
A girl that doesn't have that Right, but not at 19.
I love how you said this.
You said, well, he should care about experience.
Well, you know what?
Women shouldn't care about height.
Women shouldn't care about income.
You should like a guy because of his character.
You shouldn't care about youth and fertility.
Do I want to breed my child with a short man?
You didn't see what I did there.
You didn't see what I did there.
It sounds ludicrous for me to say that.
Women shouldn't care about these things, but they do.
We don't operate on should, could, or would.
We operate on what is.
So you're saying men should care about a woman's experience.
They fucking don't.
Just like women shouldn't care about a man's height, but they do.
Women shouldn't care about his earning capacity, but they do.
So let's operate on what is instead of what we think it should be.
Men don't care about a woman's experience like you care about a man's experience.
It's different.
That's you, though.
He made a good point.
He doesn't agree with you.
Zuby doesn't want a girl that's old and is experienced with sexual and stuff like that.
Unfortunately, when women say experience, sex comes with it.
I totally agree.
Okay, so guys don't want experience like that.
Okay, but just...
Who's talking about that?
We're talking about values.
That's what experience means.
Nine out of ten times a girl says, experience!
That means dating other men, sex, etc.
So every girl that says experience, it has to do with sex.
It can't be about life experience.
There's a lot of things that are about sex, babe.
That's for real.
And that really sucks, because that's not true.
Men don't generally...
How would I put this?
Yeah, men don't want a woman with too much experience.
Even outside of things with sex, it's definitely not a plus.
Exactly.
It might be a neutral if it's like non-sexual stuff.
If it's like, oh, I've traveled to like 40 countries.
But honestly, if a man hears that a woman's traveled to 40 countries, I'm like, what is she doing?
Because we can't pay for our own trips, right?
No, it's not that.
It's just the way a man's mind works.
Right.
If a man says that he's traveled to 40 countries, then that might be like a pro to a lot of women.
Like 40 men.
If a woman says she's traveled to 40 countries, or just telling you how a man's brain works.
I understand.
A man is like, was she traveling alone?
Like, what was she doing?
Like, what was she doing?
You know, your brain goes to places.
Can I just say, I think the point that women are trying to make at this table is that when you're 19, you don't understand how to handle a lot of life situations that comes out negatively in that relationship because you put it on the man because you have no gauge of how to handle it on yourself.
I love how you guys are trying to tell us, well, when you date with a 19-year-old, you shouldn't like this, you shouldn't like that, blah, blah, blah.
Notice how we know that you guys want guys that have money.
We know that you guys want guys that are tall.
We know that you want guys that have security, etc.
Nobody bats an eye.
We're not complaining.
We accept that this is what women want.
It doesn't matter what I want.
That's what they want.
And I don't operate on shoulda, coulda, would.
But we say, yeah, guys want youth, beauty, fertility...
But wait, she's not experienced.
She can't do this.
Blah, blah, blah.
Why is it that men say what they want, women say, well, it shouldn't be that way.
But when women say what they want, men don't necessarily say, it shouldn't be that way.
It shouldn't be that women want guys that are six feet plus tall.
I don't make the rules.
I just report them.
Why is it what women want?
It's okay.
What men want?
Oh, no, it shouldn't be that way.
It's taboo.
Y'all just been making arguments for what men want the whole time.
Like, it shouldn't be that way.
We're not the same.
Another thing that men value a lot, and I don't know if women are aware of this, maybe they're not aware of it or they kind of ignore it, and this is linked to the experience thing, which is often linked to age, is men want a woman who is moldable.
Black slate, baby!
Holdable and cooperative.
Right.
So if a woman already is kind of like rigid and set in her ways, then that can be a pretty big turnoff.
And also just practically it cannot work as well, especially if the guy is older and it's like, okay, I want to If it's like you already know everything, you've already been everywhere, you've already experienced everything, whatever, then it's like, okay, well, number one, who was all that with and how did all that happen?
But number two, it's like, okay, I don't think I can like, you want your girl to be like coachable.
Bro, no one wants to pay full price for a car with 100,000 miles on it.
I'm going to keep it 1,000 with y'all.
Zuby's being nice about it.
Men don't want to pay full price, which is marriage, for a vehicle that's been used.
They want to get a car with the least mileage possible so that it can bear the trip of driving cross-country.
That's how men think.
We look at y'all as cars.
Mileage matters.
Right?
I hate to say it like that, but that's the truth.
That's why men typically want younger, more youthful women that are more impressionable, etc.
But when you talk about mileage, are you talking about, like, bodies?
Okay, well, let me tell you something.
A lot of these young girls got a lot more bodies than older girls.
You're absolutely right.
Okay, you're right, you're right.
But here's the thing.
If I take a girl that's 21 and I line up 100 of them, then I take a girl that's 41 and I line up 100 of them, more than likely, the chicks that are 41, more of them are going to have more bodies than 21-year-olds.
So the likelihood that an older woman is going to have a higher body count is just going to be higher.
So what am I going to do?
I'm going to go with the younger girl.
Because I'm going to assume it's a lower body.
Does that mean every girl that's in her 40s has a high body count?
No.
But the likelihood that she is is going to be higher.
You take a modern day woman, easily she could fuck, what, one guy a month?
Over 20 years?
Come on, man.
Do the numbers.
Do you know what's crazy about these conversations is that it's really not that hard for a woman to be like Really, really high quality and stand out.
They just most refuse.
So many just refuse to.
It's really not.
It's difficult for a man to become a top tier man.
It's genuinely difficult.
I would argue that there are more useless women than useless men by far because men must provide value.
Women don't have to.
It's just simple.
For a guy to get a girl, he has to bring value.
It's not hard to be a top-tier woman at all.
But you know the worst part?
And the more effed up the society is, the easier it is.
Most women could easily do this, right?
Because they think, oh, I know what a man wants, and they don't want to ever take advice or listen to what we have to say.
It's like, oh, you're wrong.
It should be this way.
We're telling you what it is.
So, okay, tell me, how are women more useful than men in a relationship?
Well, I mean, if I'm going to tell you, you're going to tell me what I'm thinking.
You're going to refute whatever point I have.
Exactly.
Because I know you are 1000% incorrect.
Yeah, you are.
That's why I can speak so confidently on it.
Because I know for a man to deal with a woman, he must bring value.
On the other hand, women don't have to bring value.
Listen, from your life philosophy, you're correct.
Always.
From my life philosophy and my views on things, I'm always correct.
So that's just how I feel.
You do realize that...
You can be incorrect in your philosophy.
Yeah.
I do believe I can be corrected and I can learn like, okay, that's not what it is.
So I'm telling you what the mating strategy that women employ.
Women extract value from men.
Men don't necessarily extract value from women.
Yeah, they do.
You extract in the eggs, the fertility, reproduction.
You're extracting something.
Nurturing.
You know what I think is confusing this conversation?
And I think that I think the term value is almost being used, and maybe this is why you guys are kind of saying you don't think high-value women exist.
I think if you're quantifying value by the exact same measures for both men and women, then, well, number one, I don't think that's accurate.
But I think maybe that's something that's confusing the conversation.
Because you said you think you can have a highly desirable woman.
Yeah.
To me, that's like a synonym for high value, but not by the same metrics that I'd measure man being high value.
There's some crossover in terms of character and morality and ethics and actual values, but in terms of the traits, the things that are kind of more measurable objectively or subjectively, those are going to be different.
So, for example, youth...
Money is going to get a much bigger score, value score for a woman than it will for a man.
Money is going to get a much bigger one for a man than it will for a woman.
You see what I mean?
I just think the things that make up that value are different.
They're very different.
And I think that oftentimes, just like a lot of women get confused with stuff, because a lot of women will think that A big mess up a lot of women make.
So what's your definition of a high value woman?
Say it again.
I want to know.
I want to know again.
He's confusing me now.
I'd say qualities include, like I said, youth, beauty, Health and physical fitness, morals, values, ethics, behaviors, coachability, kindness, like how much of a good mother she'd be, how nurturing she is.
All these things are like if a woman is like a freaking 10 and all these like she'll be off the market.
That's a better answer than earlier.
I don't know.
You want a detail.
I like that.
She's going to get a ring put on that real quick.
The reason why I don't think a woman is...
High value is fairly rare.
Every girl is born with her value.
A man, though, however, has to create his value.
I look at it like a girl isn't high value unless a high value man deems her value.
The reason why is because For a girl to win in life, let's be honest, is to get a man and have a family.
That's a woman's metric of success.
A man's metric of success, though, is can he create change in the world and be valued by his peers?
So a man creates value for the world, the world pays him money, gives him status, etc.
He's considered a high value man to the world because he's provided change and provided value to the world.
Women, however, provide value to their man, who is high value, and they are getting a relationship with him.
So if she can lock down that man, then she, by virtue, becomes high value.
She adopts his last name, she becomes high value.
So I can't attribute high value to a woman because they're born with it.
That's why, to me, I look at it like, I can't give y'all high value because all of you guys are born with technically high value if we're going to go that route.
But I can't attribute that because, to me, high value is earned.
I could say highly desirable, I could say attractive, but unless she could lock down a high value man, she's a high value herself.
I don't feel like every woman is born with that though.
I feel like if this was the 1950s, that would be like a perfect, you know, mindset to fit that scenario.
But women now is like, they're not leading with the, I need a high value man to like take care of me.
But they all want one though.
I mean, yeah, we can want what we want, but it's like not everyone wants, like we also want the same thing like how men, like you said, they want to make an influence on the world.
Women have these mindsets too.
Women think these thoughts too.
Like they have these desires too to leave their mark on the world.
There's a lot of women throughout history prior to the 1950s that were like much of a dynamic in the world and made much influence.
Okay, but most women don't care about creating change in the world.
They care about creating a family.
Exactly.
Women don't have the same drive to create.
What do you need for creating a family, as you said, as a man?
What would you, like, put on the table?
What do you think every woman would love to have, you know, as a family man?
Tell me.
What?
That has nothing to do...
No, no, I'm just asking you.
Like, what do you think?
99% of women are chasing the same archetype of guy.
I think she...
If I understand correctly, I think she's asking what qualities someone like yourself would be looking for in...
No, I think she's saying, what does the guy provide is what she's asking me.
Yeah, like, I'm actually saying, what do you think, because you know exactly what all the women in the world want.
So I'm asking you, what do you think exactly will be the perfect fit for the father of a family?
Here's the thing.
Women are not that special.
That's what I'm trying to say.
You guys are all attracted to the same types of qualities in a man.
Tall, ambitious, makes money, security, confident.
These are all things that women universally want from men.
Like, you can say, I'm special, I want this.
No.
You want the same traits in men.
Decisive, assertive, dominant.
All these different traits.
Now, does every guy have it?
No.
Every guy does not have it.
So a lot of the times, you might not be able to get a guy that has all these traits.
You have to consolidate.
He's not tall enough, but he makes money.
He's attractive enough.
All right, I'll make a thing.
But if you could have it, you could build your dream man.
It's going to have all the traits that I pretty much mentioned.
So women look for an array of things.
It's a bunch of different things.
But women are not as special as you guys think you are.
They're all looking for the same dude.
But everything you said you were looking for in a woman, I feel like every woman is not born with that.
Every woman is not born beautiful.
Every woman is not raised in a household with these morals.
Not every woman is taught how to be a wife.
Right, but that's what I'm saying.
So there is a separation.
So obviously there are women who are more high value than other women because they don't all encompass all these things that you are naming.
So wouldn't they be high value for a high value man?
No, because every girl is born with her value.
Even an average girl has more opportunities.
But it might not be high value because she might not be cute.
Her body might not be hitting on nothing.
Remember, I just said there's no such thing as a high value woman.
So she could be highly desirable.
When you are saying things that the high value man would want, you are saying these are what a man would want.
So that would be a high value woman.
But not every girl qualifies for one.
And not every man qualifies.
So this woman would be a high value and this woman wouldn't.
Can I jump in and ask a question?
Because I think we're getting lost on semantics here.
Actually, mainly a question for Refresh and Myron.
For you, what's the separation between value and desirability?
In terms of like...
So for example, you say there's highly desirable women, but not high-value women.
So that delineation, that separation, how are you defining that separation?
So for me personally, I would just say regarding value itself, I think it's earned, like what you said earlier.
So if it's earned, I have to work towards getting this value versus if it's desirable, all right, these traits I just innately have, so that makes me on some level desirable.
But it's different because when it's earned, when it's just given to you.
So it's different.
But what about height?
Like people would say that's a high value quality and a male, that's something that's just given.
We don't work for that.
That is true.
What about good looks?
But remember, for a guy, it takes everything, not just one or two.
It takes everything.
But I'd say for a woman to be highly desirable, at least from a long-term relationship sense, it takes a lot more than looks.
Right.
It's a number of things as well.
I'm just saying from each person's standpoint regarding man and woman, what is going to be the value?
And the value for a woman is going to be, okay, is he successful?
Is he ambitious?
Is he working on stuff to become that guy for my family?
If that's true, he earned his value.
Versus a woman, she can just show up, have these traits, I want it to be my wife.
It's different.
I base a woman's value is can she attract?
Right?
Number one, can she attract and retain a man?
That's how I base a woman's value.
If you can't retract and retain a guy, you're effectively useless as a woman.
I hate to say it like that.
No offense, ladies.
I'm speaking from a biological sense because we're all put on earth to procreate.
So if a girl can't attract and retain a man long term, she failed because no one cares about a woman's income.
Nobody cares about a woman's social status.
Nobody cares about her ability to create.
We care about Yo, can you create a family?
Are you pushing on your lineage?
For women, it's like, you only have one job.
Be pretty, get a man to take you seriously.
If you can't do that, I'll look at you as an L as a woman.
Here's a question.
What if...
The bar is set low, then.
No, no, I'm genuinely curious, because I'm wondering...
Do you think you could have a man who is high value but not desirable to women?
Yeah.
Yep.
This is why I'm trying to understand.
Could you have a man who's a high-value man, but he's not desirable to women?
Or is a man who's high-value, by definition, a man who's desirable to women?
I mean, generally he would be, but, you know...
Yeah, because there's some guys that are high earners there but are still like strange.
You can be a multimillionaire and be completely unattractive.
Like socially awkward, short, little dick.
You can also be a very low earner and be freaking smashing left.
I would say you have to be the full package to be high value.
You could be a higher earner, you could be an attractive guy, whatever, but I would say you got to be full package because the girl's got to be able to read your value to a degree, right?
To find you attractive.
But the world most important looks at your value and is like, okay, this guy provides something Yeah.
Right.
Okay.
Because I think a man's value is contingent upon what he provides to the world, right?
Like, for example, if a guy's a doctor, right?
He walks into a room, he commands respect from everybody because of his title.
What has he done?
He saves lives.
People know this.
He's universally respected.
A byproduct of him being universally respected.
Women are attracted to him too.
The number one amplifier for women we know is status.
A doctor can be a complete dork.
This is true.
This is true.
I'm just using the title.
I'm also assuming he goes to the gym, he takes care of himself, he's well versus women, etc.
He's a full package.
I'm saying full package, but I use a doctor title because that's the easiest.
So I look at it like a woman's job, can you attract a man?
A man's job, can you create change in the world?
And a byproduct of you creating change in the world is women are going to find you attractive.
I use Drake for an example.
Drake has parties, etc.
He doesn't go hit on the girls.
The girls come to him.
Why?
Because he's created such an impact on the world, his status speaks for him.
Now that's obviously like the most amplified version.
He's also probably got a lot of game.
He's decent looking.
He's tall.
Exactly.
He dresses nice.
He's got off his hair.
I think before Drake was like, Drake, how he is.
He's probably still doing all right.
My old girl back, she can't get the mix back.
So...
They're already frozen though!
They're already frozen!
Oh!
Oh my god!
Let it go!
We'll see the hair grows back!
Okay?
We're closing out on four hours here.
I triggered the girls.
Let me turn it to Venezuela and you before I go because I know you guys are mad about whatever.
Go ahead.
She had a point earlier where you said basically if the guys have high value and a girl has high value, right?
Can you kind of like summarize it?
So basically what I was saying is, if you're saying a woman is born with all her value, then okay, well if we say that, then that's basically saying that every woman is high value, which that is not true because we just established that.
Remember we said that there's no such thing as a high value woman.
We did.
Right, but I feel like we're just so stuck on the word high value that it's taken away from the whole point.
Like, okay, if we want to say a desirable woman, then we'll just say that.
There's desirable women and then there's undesirable women, right?
Right.
Yeah, it's a scale.
Right.
So a high-value man wants a desirable woman, right?
So there's a separation between women, is basically what I'm saying.
Because every woman's not beautiful, doesn't have a banging body, isn't young, youthful, and can give you lots of kids, and is well-mannered, is going to follow your lead.
I feel like, yes, that's a high-value woman.
But somebody else, if they don't have those qualities, then they wouldn't be a high-value woman.
So I feel like, yes, there is high-value women and high-value men.
And I'd also say that women can raise their value.
Yes, I feel like you can change that.
If you were raised in a home where you weren't taught these certain values, but then you go out into the world and you start making changes yourself because you know what kind of man you want, like I feel like you can change yourself into that.
You could have a woman who's like higher value at 25 than at 20.
I know that might not be a popular thing to say in any type of Manosphere circle, but that's reality.
No, no, she could absolutely improve her value, but my argument is simply that an average woman, right, can come out and get an above-average man, maybe even a higher-status man, versus an average man, he's got to increase his value, because most women are not checking for average men anymore.
I agree with that.
In other words, when a woman, right, I'd say it like this, Women come pre-assembled.
They're ready to go, right?
Then, on the other hand, you've got to put instructions and assemble it, and you've got to make it ready to go.
Sorry.
I was going to say, I think the average young woman is certainly more desirable than the average young man.
Yeah, 100%.
I think that's based on what you're saying with that inherent value.
There's no question that men need to grind and achieve certain successes and qualities in order, which is generally why, like, say, by 30, 35 years, At 30, the game tends to change quite a lot for men.
Assuming you've done the work over the past decade, then your 30s as a guy, you should actually be much more successful and much more attractive than you were in your 20s.
For women, generally, it's going to be the other way around.
That's just reality of it.
There's truth in all these statements that are flying out.
Did you have some?
Well, only thing I can add to the table, they already actually speak pretty well and thank you so much for saying that.
Yeah, I think we are talking about perspectives and I think everybody has their own perception of what is a good value or not.
I don't think every man or every woman, maybe some of them, they were actually born with it, but a lot of them, they actually make a great job of raising self-value.
And I think that should be something that we have to kind of appreciate.
When you have somebody that even though it's a woman or a man, you have to appreciate that kind of things.
I understand your term about maybe a younger lady is easier to mold or something, but in a point she's going to get to a certain age as well.
So you're going to have to face the same situations.
I don't think.
Maybe at the beginning, age just matters.
But then when time passes, that person is going to become, you know?
But if she's young and she did it under my leadership, that's different than if I meet her and she's older and she did it on her own.
So basically, you're a husband or you're just like a military guy that's going to tell her what to do and whatever?
Well, I mean, typically men want girls that follow their lead, right?
And women want leaders.
Yeah, but there's not a lot of men that are leaders out here.
What was that?
Okay, that's fine, but when I'm speaking about what women want in general.
So, like, she's saying, like, oh, well, she's going to be older, but it's much different if she's older, but she's been under my authority, and, like, she's been following me.
I have seen a lot of marriage of guys that pick younger girls, and when they become 35, they feel like an appreciation, and they want to get out, and then that's when divorce comes, and a lot of situations that you guys have seen.
Because women initiate, hold on, you say that, but women initiate 80% of the divorces.
Yeah.
Yeah, because she's been taken advantage of at that point.
What?
Well, based on the scenario she just gave.
I mean, there's a lot of the scenarios.
They start off young, they get married to them.
But men aren't the ones breaking up with women.
Exactly, because they're not the one doing the abuse.
You don't get it?
Abuse?
That's what she's saying.
She's saying some women, they start off young, get with a guy.
He molds them.
They're under his authority.
And then they violate that.
They violate their position or whatever they're supposed to be doing.
And them women end up divorcing them.
They end up leaving because it's like, damn, now I'm 35.
I don't have to take this.
They probably got to a certain point.
There's a lot of situations that the guys, they just get bored about the same girl every time and they want to find another young woman.
You want an uncomfortable reality?
99% of the time, he's always gonna want other girls.
You're not that special.
Yes.
There you go, ladies.
No matter how.
Hold on.
Listen very closely.
You're not the special either, honey.
I'm not.
That's the difference.
Because I don't get offended at that.
I am not special.
The difference is this.
But shouldn't your person make you feel like that?
Anyway, I operate in reality.
Feelings.
This is what it is, ladies.
No matter how hot you are, no matter how young you are, no matter how wet your pussy is, guys are always going to want more than one girl.
Nine out of ten times, unless it's Zuby.
But most guys are going to want more than one girl.
I believe it.
He's the only guy I know that's higher status, that's monogamous.
But most dudes, they're going to want multiple chicks.
Nine out of them.
Can I try to explain what she was saying really quick?
Um...
15 seconds.
I'm just saying women-led divorces are typically in their 30s.
They feel like they have a small threshold of time before they can remarry versus men.
Male-led divorces are typically in their 50s.
She's saying if you feel unappreciated in your 20s, you're going to break it off in your 30s in hopes that you can find someone before 40 versus men...
It's later on.
That doesn't change the fact that women overwhelmingly initiate divorce for a multitude of reasons.
They do.
So what she's arguing is that, oh, he might leave her or whatever at 35, and I'm arguing that men are not going to leave.
On the same mind, it would be any situation.
There's men that don't want to be married with women, and there's also women that don't want to be married again.
Yeah, but then you mentioned cheating, and what I'm saying is that men are almost always going to cheat.
Almost always.
It's like a damn near certainty.
I strongly disagree with that.
No, I'm not capping in the slightest, man.
He doesn't want to believe it.
No, we run in different circles, man.
We run in very, very different circles.
If you think that the vast, vast majority of married men around the world are going to cheat, then I don't think that's based on reality.
Here's the thing.
It's one thing to say that men are always going to be sexually attracted to and find other women desirable.
It's another thing to say that every married man, the vast majority of married men are gonna act on that impulse and pull the trigger and risk effing up their entire situation.
I get what you're saying, dude, but the problem is that religion Any place you go, dude, where religion isn't necessarily, it's kind of watered down, morals are watered down, first world, you know, English-speaking countries, first world countries in general, men are going to only be as faithful as their options.
That's less than 20%.
But also, Zuby, you're forgetting, right?
Some men can't, or they don't want to actually do the action, but they'll go on OnlyFans, they'll go on webcam, and they'll pay the girls to see because they want to do it, but they...
Most men in the world don't even know what OnlyFans is, man.
No, no, but I'm saying some do, or they just watch porn.
So I'm just saying, like, they may not actually physically do it, but mentally or visually they'll watch it.
It's different than physically.
It's still cheating though.
I don't think watching porn in your marriage is good at all.
So you think porn is cheating?
That's a whole different discussion.
It's not the same as having sex with another woman.
That's a totally different discussion.
I wouldn't say it's the same.
And it's not!
So is it the same for girls though?
If a girl's watching porn, is that cheating?
They could do it.
Not to the same degree.
Not nearly to the same degree.
Women consume 125th of the porn menu.
I'd love to see some actual statistics on this, although it might be impossible to get them.
It would be impossible to get them because people aren't going to report.
I still have hope for men.
He gives us hope.
Jesus.
Jesus.
Uh...
20 other girls actually come from outside of Miami, right?
And they actually cheat, more or less.
That's true.
So, the majority of the girls come from outside of Miami, and I see them, ah, from vacation!
All of a sudden, they'll be like...
I get it.
We live in a hyper-sexualized city.
I can see why you say that, bro.
But I'm telling you, man.
Dudes, if given the opportunity, they're going to fuck another chick, man.
Like, if I line up 100 dudes, yo, bro, you can have another chick and your chick ain't going to find out or she ain't going to get mad.
They're going to want to have sex with another girl.
Are you talking about married men or are you just talking about men in general?
Men in general.
Men in general.
Boyfriend, girlfriend.
Do you genuinely...
Do you believe that the majority of married men cheat?
Yes.
Where'd you get that from?
No, where'd you get that from?
Talking with guys, from getting angry women on the show, talking to me.
I don't know the specific stats on the guys that actually cheat because, you know, obviously that's not something that they're going to want to report.
Yeah.
And also...
Show clubs?
Girls in the sex industry?
Most guys, right?
It might even be their action.
It might be because their wife says, you know what?
We have sex tonight.
Or they just say a week or two.
You know what?
I need to bust a nut.
I'm going to go do what I got to do.
It might not always be him, but it might be his wife as well.
Yeah, a lot of sexist marriages.
I'd be interested to see, like, find some actual data on this, even if it's, like, not that accurate.
I don't know.
I'm going to look it up.
I'm going to go out and look it up.
I do know.
Is it going to be accurate, though?
I mean, cheating is never really going to be that concrete, so to speak, but it's even tough.
I mean, hell, even women cheat a lot nowadays.
Men are like programs.
Even women, like 50% of women polled that were married had a backup dude.
Yeah.
You know what I mean?
It's a culture of cheating in the West, man.
That's horrible.
Everything that's popping up is saying 15 to 25%.
I don't know.
I haven't...
These are like top lines.
He's research over here.
These are top lines.
Like the girls that was actually dancers, right?
They said, yo, the door to the guys that come to the...
Are married.
Yeah.
You guys are understanding that you're getting a natural filtration bias on all of these things that you're judging off of.
Yes.
Thank you.
If you're going to a strip club, and then it's like, oh, well, there's a lot of married men in the strip club.
It's like most married men are not in the strip club.
Exactly.
Yes, there might.
I know there's married men that go to strip clubs.
I know there's married men that use OnlyFans.
I know there's married men that do all these things.
But it's like, that's a very biased sample.
Just like even on this very podcast, I mean, like, I mean, how many married people even are coming?
I don't know if you guys even talk to married people.
Mostly single girls.
Yeah, but it's primarily single.
So it's like in those circles, I think you're going to get like a natural, there's going to be a natural skew.
Just like if someone did all their polling in like a tight-knit religious community, you're going to be like, man, like almost nobody cheats.
Like almost, like you'll think so much, some of these things are going to be so foreign.
Those people that don't even know what OnlyFans freaking is.
I would say that, however, we have a global audience, and guys from Australia, Canada, and remember the same problem.
It's not a sample of the general population.
It's not an accurate sample of the general population.
Nobody has that, though.
Well, you're good if you did a proper poll or did some data properly, but I'm just saying you're naturally going to get a skewed sample.
Okay.
Yeah, it's very difficult to obtain that data because, number one, most guys are not going to admit that.
That would fuck them up.
Why would they?
Yeah.
And, you know, cheating is something that is obviously kept in the shadows.
And remember, what I said was, I'm telling women prepare because more than likely men are always going to want other sexual options.
And a lot of times them enacting on it comes down to are they going to get caught or not?
And if they can get away with it and not get caught.
A lot of guys, man, they're going to go ahead and be like, fuck, man, my wife hasn't fucked me in a while.
I got this hot girl here.
They're going to do it.
I'm just saying most guys, if given the opportunity to cheat and not get caught, they will absolutely take it.
Now, does that mean that, you know, that guys, there are guys out there that don't cheat?
Absolutely.
But what I tell girls is be prepared to understand that most guys are going to cheat.
We live in a deregulated sexual marketplace.
We don't have religion.
We don't have buffers like that.
We don't have shame.
So we know women cheat on a crazy level.
Guys are going to cheat too.
So you just want them to be desensitized to this?
What if that's something that's about?
Prepare for the worst.
And y'all are not that special because men always want sexual rights.
What if that's something that's important to them?
Like exclusivity and just being monogamous?
Listen, there's a minority of guys that take that seriously.
Zuby's one of them.
But most guys...
Yeah, because girls are designed to be monogamous to a higher degree than men are.
Y'all can only have one baby a year.
We can have many babies a year.
I mean, I get what you mean with that point, like, biologically or whatever.
Yeah, so therefore, since you're biologically inclined to have less children a year, you're less likely to be a whore.
Well, excuse me, you're less likely to be promiscuous versus a man who can bust nuts all day.
Like, if a girl's hot, a guy will get a heart on him.
But for a girl, it's like, okay, he's attractive, but does he talk well?
Does he smell good?
Girls need more to have sex than a guy does.
I mean, yeah.
I mean, we have standards.
Which therefore makes you less likely to have sex with everyone versus a man.
It's like, is she hot and available?
I'm down.
Okay.
We're going to do this because it's almost four hours, guys.
Cool.
All right.
My friend's mother was never worried about her daughter when she struggled because someone would always take care of her.
She was much more worried about her son when he was struggling because she knew that nobody would ever take care of him.
Yeah, it's true.
Okay, I think that goes back to her poverty question.
I hope this West agenda doesn't reach us in the Middle East.
You guys should visit us in Dubai.
The word restrictions are insane on here.
The 35 plus panelist chances of conceiving and carrying the term are not as good as...
Oh, this is for you.
This is actually a doctor.
So he goes, the word restrictions are insane on here.
The 35 plus panelist choices of conceiving and carrying the term are not as good as useful.
He didn't put as not.
He put are as good as her usefulness.
Sexually.
Not even recreational material.
Nightmare fuel.
He basically said y'all are useless for anything but sex.
That's what he's trying to say.
This is a guy who's paying $50 to...
But he's a doctor though.
He's a doctor.
I know stupid ass doctors.
Come on.
Yeah, come on.
I can't wait to show up to your podcast with all my healthy ass kids.
You don't realize that statistically speaking, the chances are lower.
We're not saying you can't bring a child to term.
We're just saying the chances are slimmer.
I mean, I'm a healthy woman.
Compared to somebody else who's not.
I can't help my age, bro.
You could have had kids younger.
I could have.
But don't you think if I would have had a suitable suitor to do so, I would have?
I guarantee there were plenty of nice guys that came along.
Yeah, nice guys.
So just breed with a guy because he's nice.
Yes.
That's a breed with a girl because she's young and hot.
Nice guys will treat you well.
To be honest, if she's young and hot and not a complete degenerate.
Yes.
Okay.
That's why a lot of guys are fucked up right now because they had babies with girls and now they got baby mama drama.
People should get married before they have to.
Exactly.
The more money women make, the closer we are.
I know that's old school or whatever, but still.
Dildo Swagin says, it's funny that the women that say they want children are the oldest ones on this panel.
99% of young women that say they don't want kids will always change their minds.
Womanism teaches women to fight their own biology, which is a losing battle.
That last sentence.
That's true.
Feminism does teach y'all to push it off.
I don't agree.
That's weird.
That was weird.
D-Walk says, I had been leeching off of porn, OnlyFans, strip clubs, but after watching your show for the last few weeks, I realized it's time to wake up, stop selling, and put more effort into myself.
Here's the better 2023.
Shout out to you, D-Walk.
Straight up.
And Fuck Dat says, Context.
Me, 160k, pre-tax.
She's 80k, Japanese-American.
Bamboozled me playing some Mrs.
Feminine until we had the kid.
I was quitting a career to manage rentals, playing $4,500 a month, and part-time teach English to move with her looks like I had to job hunt in Japan with the feds again.
He got financed by a girl because she was playing feminine, I guess.
Any rumble rants, Chris?
Yep.
Cool.
We got here as well.
OGKingLife says, a 40-year-old talking about experience is like a car dealer trying to make me pay full price for a 20-year-old Honda van with a transmission about to go out.
So you're saying you shouldn't be talking about this stuff.
So a 20-year-old could come talk about experience.
That makes sense.
Apparently.
Hector says, the Asian persuasion is real tonight.
Hey, Zuby.
Can you please sing this chorus to your viral song one time?
Which viral song?
What song?
I guess one of them.
Angry Orb says, W Sneeko will spend on you too.
Okay?
Sneeko says, W spending your salary on Lonely Fans.
Wait.
Angry Orb says, W leads from making women more confused than animals.
Ice513 says, can you ask the girls, is there anything they have to completely change about themselves now to be with their dream man?
Okay, one thing you would change about yourself to be with your dream man.
One thing that you would actually change about yourself.
Let's go here.
One thing you would change about yourself to be with your dream man.
What would I actually be?
I have a good one.
Maybe your age?
Oh.
That's good.
Oy, oy, oy.
Yeah.
Oy.
No, no, no.
Stop it.
Stop it.
Look at you.
No, no, no.
She's out.
I could have lied about my age.
Yeah.
I get so many young guys.
We know.
We're teasing you, okay?
Damn, you hurt her.
No, no.
Because it's like, yo, I can't change it.
You know what I'm saying?
That's not an answer.
What if you could change it?
Is that your answer?
No, no.
My age wouldn't be.
What be your answer?
I don't know.
I think maybe...
Attitudes?
I don't have an attitude, actually.
We can tell!
No, she actually does not have an attitude.
One thing I would change?
I guess maybe...
Okay, answer it.
Be more fit.
Be more fit?
Okay, cool.
For you?
If I could be a virgin, I would...
Okay.
What about you?
One thing you could change to get your dream in?
What would it actually be?
How about yourself?
Okay.
I would say my confidence.
Your confidence?
What about you?
My career.
She's being very genuine.
What about you?
My attitude.
Facts.
You need to get a reality Venezuela.
My aunt!
I have a special!
Don't work that way.
What about you?
I would work out more and I would learn how to cook more meals for the two of us.
You can't cook?
I can, but I do more when I have someone to cook for.
She don't season a chicken, bro.
She don't season a chicken.
That chicken dry as fuck, bro.
That chicken dry as fuck, man.
Nigga, eat that shit and start cropping.
Stop choking.
That's it, Chris?
Nope.
All right, cool.
Ice.
Ice, 513.
No, we just read that one.
All right.
Angry Orbs.
Free tape, bros.
Go ahead, Fresh.
Let me rumble.
Oh, China traditions.
Heritage.
What does that mean?
That's like gibberish.
Erica Jaharu says, Freetop G, the truth will come out soon.
Facts.
Well said.
Shout out to Vice, those faggots.
Cam2Time says, Never have I ever had sex in a public place.
Have you?
If so, where?
Preferably the craziest public place.
A car comes if it was somewhere open.
Okay.
It's Kumasan.
Question.
What is one thing you can give the man of your dreams that you haven't given any other man of your dreams?
They're gonna say something gay like my heart.
Yeah, yeah, okay.
Yeah, faggotry.
Okay, better luck next week.
WZina, W. Hubert.
Zina, you're a beautiful lady, and I love that you finally changed for the right male, W. Hubert, even if he has a Walmart take.
Bruh.
Excuse me, he means Sniko.
Yo!
What the fuck?
Niggas use his name.
Okay, never mind.
I live in Japan.
I've traveled throughout Korea and Southeast Asia.
Widescreen ladies are the best.
Come back to the dark side.
All right.
Is that me?
Yeah.
I think so, yeah.
What does that mean?
Yeah, I think so, yeah.
What does that mean?
I'm confused.
Folks, they are all found down below in the description box, their Instagram.
Zuby, where can I find you, bro?
At Zuby Music on everything.
Just hit a million followers on Twitter last week, so definitely follow me on there, but I'm on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, everything.
At Zuby Music.
Cool.
All right.
And I will have the studies on what percentage of guys cheat that are married.
I'm going to try to find something on that.
But yeah, guys, all the girls' Instagrams are below, so go ahead and send a dick pic, and they love it.
And I'll catch you guys on the next episode on Monday, Money Monday.