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April 23, 2025 - Epoch Times
04:23
‘You can’t reverse the clock’: Pamela Garfield-Jaeger on ‘gender-affirming’ care
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I don't even call it side effects.
I call them effects.
That's just what happens.
Right? Those aren't side effects.
We are sterilizing them.
Right? These are the drugs that they use to chemically castrate criminals.
Lupron. So that's not a side effect.
These are the things that do happen.
We're making a choice.
And oftentimes when you're doing a medical intervention, you make a choice between one difficult thing between another, right, if there's some kind of really severe medical issue.
However, we're taking physically healthy children and then giving them these effects.
That's the difference.
And then calling it medicine.
Instead of helping them with whatever psychological distress they're having.
Or they might not even be having that much psychological distress.
They might have just spent a little too much time on the Internet.
There are so many different levels to this.
And we're told over and over again that these drugs are reversible.
I don't even understand that.
That was the other weird thing when I came back.
How can something that suppresses puberty be called reversible?
That just...
Do we need a study to even see the common sense in that?
It's not reversible.
You're stopping puberty.
I mean, boys end up with, you know, a micropenis, and girls, they don't develop.
Their bones, their bone density, it doesn't develop.
They're not, you know, all of these horrible things happen.
It's just, and you can't reverse the time.
You can't reverse the clock.
There are things that a child goes through to grow up.
Those are very important developmental years, both physically and emotionally.
That's not reversible.
You can't ever get your childhood back.
How does one go about finding a therapist in your mind if they feel they need one for their kid?
Yeah, I mean, I'll tell the truth.
It's not easy.
Especially if you want one in person.
And I don't think Zoom therapy is the greatest, especially for kids.
It's become very widespread, and I don't think it's, oh, it's cracked up to be.
People use it for convenience, but I don't know how effective it really is.
And sometimes that can be dangerous, depending on the severity of the situation.
But there are some websites out there.
There are some lists, some directories.
There's one directory called conservativecounselors.com.
And they will not affirm your child.
There's also a group called Therapy First, and that's therapyfirst.org, and they run some alternate trainings, and they don't believe in affirming children instantly.
Although it depends on what you believe, because some believe that maybe eventually you should affirm.
Some believe that you should never affirm.
So it really depends on what you believe as a parent.
So I think when you're looking for a therapist, you should always screen very carefully and don't be afraid to ask questions.
And also stay very involved in the process.
No therapist can ever fix your child.
Even the best therapists in the world cannot fix your child without you because they're only in your child's life temporarily, and their goal is to help you connect.
And they need to know what's happening with you and with your family and your child's history.
They need to really be involved to be able to help your child.
So that's also a big shift in the profession is just pushing the parents away.
So if you are a parent looking for a therapist for your child...
Make sure that you are very involved, and if the therapist says,"No, I need to have my special place with your child," that's a red flag.
I mean, they do need to have some connection with your child, of course, but they should be talking to you.
And they should be communicating with you.
They should be talking to you at the very least about what are the treatment goals?
What are they seeing are the concerns?
How are they conceptualizing the case?
What do they think is wrong?
What do they think could help?
What are the things that they think you could do as a parent?
So they should be working with you.
You should be working as a team with that therapist.
And that's a lot more work.
And with these overworked, overstressed therapists, even those that are honestly...
I'd say very ethical.
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