Epoch Times - Kids ‘need to be grounded in reality’: Pamela Garfield-Jaeger, the ‘truthful therapist’ Aired: 2025-04-22 Duration: 01:18 === Reality Check (01:18) === [00:00:00] There's a psychologist called Diane Ehrensaft who said that boys who open up their onesies and dance around, they're expressing that they really want to be girls because that's like a dress. [00:00:10] Or if a girl is pulling out the barrettes, a boy, girl, I'm getting it mixed up, pulls the barrettes out of her hair that she doesn't want to be a girl. [00:00:19] Right? Which I think someone with common sense would just look at, well, these are fussy babies that just don't want to wear barrettes or don't want their onesie on, right? [00:00:29] And that's sort of natural. [00:00:30] Kids don't want to wear their shoes. [00:00:32] They throw off their shoes. [00:00:32] Does that mean they don't want feet anymore? [00:00:35] But that is the philosophy. [00:00:37] And a lot of people start to believe it because people with these fancy letters that come from these fancy institutions repeat that over and over again. [00:00:44] So that's become the mainstream narrative. [00:00:48] However, there are people... [00:00:49] People like me and several others, and I think more than I even know, because they have been silenced, believe that kids don't really know themselves, that they need adults to guide them. [00:00:58] They need to be grounded in reality. [00:01:01] They need empathy and compassion, especially if they're struggling with being in their bodies, but to help them figure out their reality. [00:01:09] And generally speaking, when they have distress over their gender, then we need to wait and see what happens. [00:01:17] And usually they do grow out of it.