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| Three points about the men going their own way movement. | |
| Now, this is a Aaron Clary actually asked me to make this video because apparently this nonsense is still going on with the whole thing. | |
| If you're unfamiliar, Aaron posted a video where he commented that there are some people in the MGTOW community who are just making excuses not to try. | |
| And for some reason, that absolutely obvious statement created a huge amount of furor. | |
| So seeing as one, I'm one of the old school guys here, I decided to make three points about MGTOW that I think a lot of you young pups are getting wrong. | |
| Alright, first of all, men going their own way is not socialist. | |
| The three basic points of men going their own way, like if you take all of the writing and the analysis, the historical understanding of how men and women relate, you can boil it all down to three points. | |
| As Rob Fedders said, masculine men, feminine women, limited government. | |
| Period. | |
| That's it. | |
| A man going his own way does not want to be told what to do. | |
| Does not want a support system where you fill out the form 21B and you get your daily MGTOW allowance. | |
| That is completely antithetical to the movement. | |
| It's about being your own man and about being aware of how people work, of how the world works, and doing your own thing in that. | |
| It is completely anti-socialist. | |
| Now, sometimes, you tell that to a lot of these people, and they'll respond with, yeah, well, those Republicans want us to man up and marry those sluts. | |
| You know, the Republicans believe in male disposability. | |
| And listen, being anti-left, being anti-Democrat isn't the same thing as saying have blind support for the Republican Party. | |
| You know, they need criticism, absolutely. | |
| But it's also missing the bloody point. | |
| Here's the thing. | |
| Men of the last generation are just as deluded and blinded as any of the white knight SJW sycophants you get in this generation, and they don't realize that the institutions that allowed them to have jobs, to more or less have families, that these institutions have been eroding. | |
| They are completely oblivious to this fact and they won't listen. | |
| So yes, there is this whole TradCon, just be a good man and marry them. | |
| And if you got divorced, it's all your fault. | |
| Yeah, okay, yeah, there's idiots out there in the world. | |
| Be aware of them. | |
| Don't blindly trust a tradcon's relationship advice if they are on their third marriage. | |
| But these tradcons, although they give you terrible relationship advice, these tradcons are not the ones that are going to start demanding a bachelor tax. | |
| Because the women are all having the bastard children of criminals, and so we need to tax all of the nerdy engineers to pay for the bastards. | |
| That is going to be something coming from the left. | |
| The Republicans might not be very good allies at times, but they are not our enemies. | |
| Our enemies lie on the left, the ones that want to expand government. | |
| So criticize the Republicans. | |
| Tell them to get their shit together, but stop pretending that you can be apolitical in all of this. | |
| No, masculine men, feminine women, limited government. | |
| Those are the principles of men going their own way. | |
| Next point. | |
| The purpose of men going their own way, purpose of all this literature, the purpose of warning you guys, be careful. | |
| 70% of marriages end in divorce. | |
| 85% seem to be initiated by the women. | |
| And if you're the guy, you'll probably go to the cleaners. | |
| All of those warnings are not saying give up. | |
| You know, it's like I love Aaron Clary's writing. | |
| And just a few days ago, he posted something absolutely depressing. | |
| The do-it-yourself poverty cycle or poverty box. | |
| I'll toss a link down below. | |
| Horribly, terribly depressing article. | |
| Does that mean I'm going to give up on life and go on the dole and just be a loser? | |
| Or does it mean, wow, this is a really terrible situation. | |
| I got to figure out how to zig when everybody else is zagging. | |
| There's some guy criticizing Aaron. | |
| And it was Matt Forney that linked me to this. | |
| And Forney said the most poetic thing I've ever heard. | |
| That this guy's voice sounds like fap and Doritos. | |
| So this guy complaining about how there's no good women left. | |
| Have you ever got out of your mother's basement? | |
| Have you ever lifted weights? | |
| Do you read interesting books? | |
| Hey, listen, like we all have our hobbies. | |
| You know, if you like playing a bit of World of Warcraft or you like reading comic books or video games, I'm not going to criticize you for that. | |
| But if your entire life is these childish distractions, you're in no position to complain that there's no good women left. | |
| You don't deserve a good woman because you're not a good man. | |
| And you know, that's really the third point in all of this. | |
| Like, what this all boils down to is that men going their own way is not anti-woman. | |
| And I am sick of all of this negativity coming out with some of these videos. | |
| You know, not all of them. | |
| There are good guys out there writing in this genre, making videos in this genre. | |
| You know, I'm not going to name names because I'll forget a few and then I'll offend somebody. | |
| There are good ones. | |
| But men going their own way is not about hating women. | |
| It's about wanting feminine women and women who are not mendacious, women who are honest. | |
| You know, it's unfortunate that the marriage contract has been completely torn asunder. | |
| It's not a contract anymore. | |
| You know, with a contract, if one person breaks it, there's penalties to pay, and so everybody's on the same page. | |
| If you do desperately need to separate or divorce, then there's going to be an equitable settlement if there's a contract. | |
| There isn't anymore. | |
| This doesn't mean that women are innately terrible, however. | |
| Many of them are. | |
| But there are good women out there. | |
| There's women I call friends. | |
| I personally would like to get married at some point, although the legal government contract is just a useless piece of paper at this point. | |
| It would be a spiritual union. | |
| And there's a lot of them acting like women themselves are the enemy. | |
| Listen, there are a lot of terrible women in our society, and really women were the first ones to defect. | |
| You know, women were the one that started the whole feminist movement. | |
| Mind you, they were doing it with guys supporting them at the same time. | |
| You know, we grew up with female school teachers that told us that being a boy was bad. | |
| They're putting all the kids on Riddle and nowadays. | |
| But this is not a judgment on all women. | |
| Any more than me pointing out that most men nowadays are utterly pathetic pseudomale simps is hating on all men. | |
| Men going their own way is about exactly that. | |
| Going your own way and being your own man. | |
| And you know, maybe you've been through so many terrible relationships that you're just burned out on women at this point. | |
| And you decide you're going to be a hermit up in the mountains. | |
| That's absolutely fine. | |
| Do that. | |
| But don't spend all day writing about how horrible women are. | |
| You know, find something else to do. | |
| Paint paintings. | |
| You know, write philosophy. | |
| But if you're truly going your own way, you won't be hating on women all the time. | |
| And if you're not burned out and you're going your own way, maybe you do meet a woman. | |
| And you say to her, well, listen, this is my lifestyle. | |
| These are my standards. | |
| You know, and if I meet your standards and you meet my standards, then maybe we can do something together. | |
| Maybe we can build a life. | |
| If not, I'll see you. | |
| No animosity, no harm. | |
| You know, there's a lot of bad women, but there's a lot of bad men out there too. | |
| It's a pretty terrible society overall. | |
| But these MGTOWs that focus exclusively on how terrible women are, who aren't speaking from personal experience either, we're not talking about guys that got divorced. | |
| We're talking about guys that have never attempted to have a relationship with a woman, posting all of this content about how women are terrible. | |
| You guys are just as bad as the feminists. | |
| Grow up and get a life. |