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Oct. 27, 2023 - Dan Bidondi Show
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Discussing The Book of 1st Corinthians 7 - The Dan Bidondi Show Bible Series
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truth radio show dot com shalom and welcome to the damn show truth radio show dot com and welcome to the book of first Corinthians chapter 7 and If you missed chapters 1 through 6, please go watch them before you go any further, because this will not make sense to you.
But we don't just read through the Bible, guys.
We do an in-depth comprehensive study of the Bible.
So sit down, take some notes, because we're going to be here for a little while.
So we do a specific Bible study approach.
Number one, we pray for wisdom and understanding.
That's most important.
So please follow me in prayer.
In Jesus, yes, your Messiah, we come before you again to once again ask for forgiveness and redemption of the sins that we may have committed, Lord, today, and any abominations, any desolations, anything that we may have done bad.
And we ask you to bless us and anoint us with your precious blood to make us holy before the Father.
To dip our robes in your precious blood to make them pure white.
And Father we come before you and ask you for help today to help us with the Holy Spirit.
Write your word upon hajj today in 1 Corinthians chapter 7 and let us really understand your divine word, Lord.
And we ask you to comfort us all, protect us all from the forces of evil, protect this broadcast, and protect everybody here.
And we ask you in your mighty name we pray, Amen.
Alright, so what we do is read description and context, because context is key.
What many ministries don't do, unfortunately, but we need to do that.
And let description interpret scripture.
We proved that the last chapter, how important context is.
So, you got a Bible, guys?
Open it up to 1 Corinthians chapter 7.
We've got it up on screen if you don't have one.
So, and by the way, guys, if you need a Bible, if you really don't got one, I mean, I got a couple of them.
But if you really, really need a Bible and you don't have one at all, please contact me and I'll do my best.
I'll send you one, or if I don't have one, I'll get you one somehow.
So, and we gotta start a resource thing of Bibles.
This way we can help people.
But anyway, 1 Corinthians chapter 7.
So again, Paul's letter to the church of Corinth.
There's much division going on, and he just scolded a bunch of people in the last chapter for fornicating and everything else.
Which is sexual sin.
And so, leading on to the next chapter, Paul's still going at it here, just saying, yeah, ripping these people a new one.
And it's a sexual manner, by the way.
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
So, again, back in our description says when the man and woman, when they have sex, they become one flesh.
We discussed this in the last chapter.
So, to avoid fornication, fornication is having sex outside of marriage.
Could be with your girlfriend, and most of us are guilty of this stuff, right?
Thank God I got a fiancé here and you know, we're married by common law.
We're still gonna get married.
Like, legitimately married, I call it.
So, um, yeah.
To avoid fornication, marry somebody.
And don't just marry them for the sex.
You marry them because you love the person and all that stuff.
All that good stuff, right?
And let every woman have her own husband.
And let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence.
And likewise, also the wife unto the husband.
So let me see what I think I know what it means.
But no, it means in the Bible.
So, a disposition to do good, kindness, or act of kindness.
So, be good to your wife.
And likewise, wife be good to your husband.
So the wife has not power over her own body.
Now understand this guys, this is a good lesson.
Very good lesson here.
For marriage.
Because what's one of the most problems we have in marriages today?
It's sexual depravity.
Right?
When somebody deprives their husband or wife of sex.
And it causes what?
A man to stumble.
And go out and cheat.
Not that it's an excuse, but that's what it does.
Or vice versa.
Especially if you've been married not too long, whatever the case is.
Yeah, it's healthy and perfectly good in the eyes of God to have sex with your wife or husband.
Perfectly good.
Perfectly well in the eyes of God.
Right?
So this is the same, right?
The wife in the description is not to deprive your husband or wife.
But, it says here, the wife has not power over the body, but the husband.
And likewise, also the husband has not power over his body, but the wife.
What does this mean?
That body, ma'am, any ladies listening out there that's married, your body belongs to your husband.
And men who are married, guess what?
Your body belongs to your wife.
So I'm going to be blunt with you guys.
If your husband, unless you're going through a ministration or fasting or something like that.
Other than that, yeah.
If your husband wants it, you give it to him.
And if your wife wants it, guys, get off your video games and give it to her.
We're all adults here, so this is with the Bible's plain straight up like this.
And if this offends you or anything, you don't belong here.
I mean, sorry to say.
Yeah, go to a lukewarm church out there that, you know, soft plays everything.
You know, plain and simple.
And, you know, I don't mean to offend anybody, but this is how it is.
If you're married, okay?
Plain and simple.
Don't opt to deprive your husband or wife.
Because it leads to sexual promiscuity.
It causes problems in the marriage.
Big problems.
Arguments start over this.
This happens a lot, guys.
This happened to me in my last marriage.
My wife cheated on me and all that.
I didn't deprive her.
It made no sense at all, by the way.
Yeah, like she was always like yelping that I want it all the time, but then she goes out and cheats on me.
Makes no sense at all.
Whatever the case, but sorry to spew my own business here, but I'm just giving examples.
Don't deprive your spouse.
And defraud ye not one another.
Don't defraud each other.
Except for be with consent for a time.
That you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer.
That's what I was just saying, right?
So this is a Bible study.
We look up the words.
for your incontentity.
So this is a Bible study.
We look up the words.
Lack of control in particular manner signifies a chastity.
So don't let Satan build you up for lack of control because if your husband or wife is not put out, right?
Self-control, or lack of self-control is what?
Cheating.
Satan will do that.
Okay, he's done that to me many times attempt me And while I took everything in my power not to do something Okay, uh Did I cheat once I was put in a situation that I prayed on my way out of there and god save me because uh, I'll tell you one thing and I don't want to get into details guys.
This is a while back.
All right, so um, yeah, you need to be in the faith guys because uh, say or you just say your your wife out there right isn't putting out for a long time, right and you Would you say you're in the situation that a girl comes on to you?
Well, vice versa, for a guy or a girl, whatever.
Satan will, oh, wow, Satan will do that.
Put you in that situation, and yeah.
Temptation is a B word, okay?
So yeah, right here again, don't deform each other.
which is a female dog.
So temptation's a bitch.
It's that swearing.
The Bible talks about that too.
Anyway, yeah.
So, yeah.
Right here, again, don't deform each other.
Except, you know, in other words, don't deprive each other.
Accept and be consenting over time.
In other words, like, your wife will say, hey, listen, it's like, I'm sorry, honey, but I don't want to have sex right now because I want to do a three-day fast, or whatever the case is.
Or I'm sick, or whatever the case is.
All right, no problem.
But if you're just like, yeah, just because they don't want to, that's wrong.
You can't do that.
Oh, you're tired.
Well, yo, well, too bad.
You know what I mean?
Yeah, because that becomes a, that only works so long too.
And I'm speaking as a person who's in a relationship too, you know.
So, I could understand that everybody works hard and everything else, and yeah.
One night, oh I'm tired.
Next night, you're tired, you're tired, you're tired.
All my head hurts, you're tired.
All of a sudden week two go by, you didn't get, you didn't get anything.
That'll build up massive frustration to the other partner.
Especially us guys with testosterone.
You have no idea what testosterone is if you don't understand it.
Testosterone can be used for one of two things.
For pleasuring the wife very well or it turns instantly into aggression.
And I'm talking about aggression that you like want to pound through ten walls.
Testosterone is like a Steroid, if you will.
You know what I mean?
So, yeah.
Every time you say, oh, I'm tired, or whatever, you know, you're a bitch about it.
The man gets angry.
Very angry.
And it's not the man's fault, it's the testosterone in him that does it.
And it could be the same way with the girls with the libido, or what's that called?
Yeah, not testosterone, women don't have that.
But you get the point.
So, yeah, and, uh, so, we're gonna consent for a time.
That means, like, he or she be like, yes, I'm gonna do a fast then, or, or in prayer, whatever the case, and then after that, come together again.
After that's done, then you come together and have sex.
And that Satan can't tempt you for your, uh, inconsistency.
Meaning lack of control, because it doesn't matter, and chastity, right?
But I speak this by permission and not of a commandment.
So he's saying, I speak to you by permission and not of a commandment.
I'm not commanding you, right?
For I would, all men, were even as myself.
But every man has proper gift of God, one after this man and after that, another after that.
And I say, therefore, to the unmarried and widows, So if you're not married or widows, it is good for them that they abide even as I. So Paul didn't have a spouse.
He stayed celibate.
Which means he didn't go around having sex, he didn't have a girlfriend or anything like that.
He was unmarried.
Just go around with the Word of God.
So now widows, yes.
We studied marriage in the Bible, right?
Widows, if your husband dies, you are free from that bond and you're allowed to marry again.
But the Bible says here, or Paul says, it's good for you to stay, just stay the way you are.
Or if you're unmarried, it's good for you to do that.
If you're, you know, especially if you're in ministry and all that stuff, it's good.
But if you have to, okay, if you can't control yourself, then you go marry somebody.
Out of love, of course, you know?
You know, it actually says it right here.
My bad, so I didn't even have to say that.
It says it right here.
But if they cannot contain, let them marry.
For it is better to marry than to burn.
Oh, we could go down a bunch of roads on this one, yeah.
So again, yeah, as he's saying, it's better if you're unmarried or a widow, just stay sober.
But if you can't contain yourself, your hormones or whatever run through the roof, Let them marry, for it is better for them to marry than to burn.
Look here, burn!
Oh yeah, what's that?
Dispensationalists are these people out there.
Oh, God doesn't torture people.
You just burn up and die, that's it.
And you're forgotten about.
No, it's not.
You literally burn.
The Bible makes that very clear when it talks about hell and the lake of fire.
You don't just burn up and disappear.
You are tormented for day and night, forever and ever.
That's what Revelation chapter 20 says.
These people are crazy, man, I tell you.
I deal with these people all the time.
I did a show, two shows, on hell and the lake of fire.
Specifically, reading right from the Word of God, what happens to people.
They're tormented.
They don't just sleep in the ground.
They're tormented, then they get judged, they go to the lake of fire, and they're tormented day and night.
These people think, oh no, no, God wouldn't do that.
You just die, and that's it, you go away.
No, that's not what the Bible says.
Paul's even verifying it there.
It's better to marry than burn.
Literally.
And unto the married I command, he said, now I command, I command the married people, yet not I, but the Lord, let not the wife depart from her husband.
So women out there, ladies, don't depart from your husband.
And if she departs, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband and let not the husband be put away Let not the husband put away his wife.
That's divorce.
So, if you get a divorce, right, and you are allowed, I mean, you're allowed to reconcile with your husband, your former husband, whatever the case is, A lot of people do that.
They'll get married, then they get divorced because things happen, unfortunate.
Then later on, they get back together and they remarry again.
That's happened so many times with people.
That's permissible in the Bible.
To reconcile with your husband.
And not the husband put away.
That's divorce right after that.
But to the rest I speak, not the Lord.
If any brother has a wife that believes not, like if you're a believer and your wife doesn't believe, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.
So this is a big question in the Bible.
You know, people ask, oh, what if, you know, a guy comes to a repentance or he becomes a Christian, right?
And his wife doesn't believe.
Should I divorce her?
What should I do?
No.
The Bible says, yeah, don't divorce her.
And the woman which has a husband that doesn't believe, right?
So if a woman out there, if your husband doesn't believe, And if he'd be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
So what is the saying?
What is the saying?
If you're a believer, men out there, if you're a believer and your wife isn't, don't divorce her.
And women, if your husband's not a believer and you are, don't leave him.
Stay with him.
For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband.
Else were your children unclean, but now are holy.
They holy?
So, because, here's the thing, right?
Remember in the beginning here, we talked about the two flesh becoming one?
Also says this in Genesis and all that?
When a man and woman come together, two flesh become one?
So, if you have the Holy Spirit in your temple, she becomes part of you, you become part of her, right?
Therefore, the Holy Spirit dwells within her, even though she's an unbeliever.
So, this is what's going on, guys.
If you're, because of you, you're saving your wife.
The women out there, because of you, you're saving your husband, if they don't believe.
Because it says right here, Paul says, The unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband.
Else were your children unclean, but now they are holy.
So if your children were clean, now they're holy.
Because the whole family is one.
But if they're unbelieving, depart.
Let them depart.
So basically, men out there, right?
If your wife is unbelieving, right?
And they want to divorce you, or whatever the case, because they don't want to tolerate you, is the question.
Says let them go.
Don't let them go, or don't divorce them.
They're saying, right?
Don't divorce them.
Because she's unbelieving, right?
But she wants to depart, let her go.
Same thing for the woman.
Let them go.
The husband, right?
A brother or sister is not under the bondage of such cases.
So if you're a brother or sister, this does not apply to you.
This is talking about married people, he's saying.
You know, I love how Paul specifies these things, because it's very important to understand specification when he's talking about it.
But God has called us to peace.
For what knowest thou, O wife, whether you shall save thy husband?
Or knowest thou, O man, whether you shall save thy wife?
He's asking, don't you know whether you shall save your husband because he doesn't believe?
Or your wife because she doesn't believe?
But as God has distributed to every man, as the Lord has called everyone, so let him walk.
And so I, so ordain I in all the churches.
Is any man called being circumcised, let him not become uncircumcised.
Is any uncircumcision, let him not be circumcised.
So he's saying circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is nothing.
But keeping the commandments of God, oh look at this, oh look at this.
Oh, look at that!
I must be driving the dispensationalist people crazy right now.
Look!
We just... How many times have we mentioned the commandments over and over again in the New Testament, right?
Oh, by the way, if you don't know what circumcision is, guys, or people out there, especially ladies, probably wouldn't know.
So, a guy's penis has foreskin on it when they're born.
Circumcision, they cut off the foreskin.
That's the extra skin that goes over the top of the penis.
That is like a little slot for you to pee on or whatever.
I know it sounds gross, but that's what that is, right?
So anyway, look at this.
Buck keep in the community.
So he's saying circumcised is nothing and uncircumcised is nothing.
So he's saying it doesn't matter.
If you're circumcised or not, it really doesn't matter.
Because that was old Jewish customs at the time.
So right now, if you're uncircumcised, don't worry about it.
And if you're circumcised, don't worry about it.
It doesn't mean nothing, he's saying.
But!
But!
Keeping the commandments of God.
Look at that, huh?
Yo, the commandments of God, which is 10 commandments.
Oh, they were abolished!
Really?
Oh, that's funny, because why is Paul saying, telling you to keep the commandments of God?
Now I gotta bring this up again.
I tell people I don't go all over the Bible, but I have to here.
14, 12, KJV.
So look at this.
Yeah.
Here is the patience of the saints, that's us, the end time people, right?
Here are they that keep the commandments of God!
Look at that, huh?
In the faith of Jesus.
Then people say, no, no, no, we're supposed to keep Jesus' two great commandments.
Yes.
Jesus' two great commandments does not abolish or change the ten commandments.
Jesus goes on to specify as we cover it in the scriptures, yeah?
Specify it.
That the two great commandments are the two hangers on which the commandments hang on.
The laws hang on.
So whether, however you slice it or dice it, the Ten Commandments do apply in the New Covenant.
I know this is hard to accept, people out there who have been brainwashing these disobedient churches, but that's what it is.
We've done tons of shows on the commandments.
So, yeah, right there.
You are not getting away with it.
You are not getting out of it.
The Ten Commandments do apply all to the Scriptures.
Plain and simple.
You can't pick and choose things.
Yes, all ten of them do.
Do you see anywhere that says, oh, the commandments of God except for this one or that one?
Or that over here either?
Everywhere it's mentioned in the New Testament.
Commandments of God, that refers to all Ten Commandments.
Plain and simple.
So let every man abide in the same calling where he was called.
So if you're called by God, keep doing what you're doing.
So are you being called a servant?
I cannot for it, but if you don't, may as be made free, use it rather.
So are you not a servant?
Are you being called a servant?
I call myself a servant of God.
I don't call myself a pastor, a preacher, or an apostle, or a prophet, or these grander titles.
No, I'm a servant of the Lord Jesus Christ.
That's it.
For he that is called in the Lord, being a servant, is the Lord's freeman.
Likewise, he is also called being free in Christ's service.
So we are free.
We are free from the bondages of sin.
We are free from death, like spiritual death and all that.
We're free from all that because we belong to the Lord.
We're sanctified.
We're adopted as His child.
We're sanctified through the Lord Jesus Christ.
I can't stand when people do that.
The area it takes me, when you use these ministries out there, they literally revere themselves as some kind of a prophet or a prophetess or some kind of a noble title.
It's crazy.
They come out on stage and everybody just, like, reveres them.
Like, worships them when they're sick.
And they dress in these fancy suits that are worth more than a car.
You know, a man of God or a woman of God doesn't do that.
I'm sitting here in regular clothes and, yeah, I would never do that.
I don't care.
I'm just a servant of the Lord.
No better, no different than you're watching.
So, you are bought with the price, but not ye the servants of men.
So we're bought with a price, like we explained in the last chapter.
That price is the blood of Jesus Christ.
He sacrificed himself, that's the price he paid in his life for our sins.
And we're not the servants of men.
Brethren, let every man wherein he is called therefore abide with God.
So, now concerning virgins, I have no commandment of the Lord.
He's saying, you virgins out there, I have no commandment of the Lord.
Yet I give my judgment, this is Paul's judgment, he's saying this is not the commandment of God, but this is my judgment, this is Paul saying, right?
As one has ordained mercy of the Lord to be faithful.
I suppose, therefore, that it is no good for the present distress, I say, that it is good for men to be so.
And are thou bound to a wife?
Seek not to be loosed.
Are thou loosed from a wife?
Seek not a wife.
So if you don't want a wife, whatever the case is, don't seek a wife.
But if you want to be bound to a wife, seek her.
And the thing is, again, he's saying, like, if you don't have a wife, don't have sex.
have sex.
But if you though marry, though has not sinned.
And if a virgin marry, she has not sinned.
Nevertheless, such shall have trouble in the flesh, but I spare you.
And so he's again saying if you marry, though has not sinned.
And if a virgin marries, she has not sinned.
But nevertheless, he's saying, such shall have trouble in the flesh.
But I spare you his aid.
But this I say, brethren, the time is short.
It remaineth, and both they have wives to be tough through, I'm sorry, they have wives be as though they had none.
And they wept, weep, I'm sorry, as though they weep not.
And they rejoice as though they rejoice not.
And they die by as they possess not.
So they that use this world as not abusing it for the fashion of this world passes away.
So we say that the time is short.
So if you're not serious about getting married, don't do it.
And stay settled at the same time.
So I'm trying to get better, clear, If you guys know what this here, please put it in the comment section.
Because like I said, I'm learning as I go myself, you know?
So some things the Holy Spirit reveals to you at the time, some things they don't.
And the cool thing about this, I can go back and read this chapter again.
I'll find new stuff.
And every single time.
It's pretty cool.
That's why the Bible needs to be studied constantly.
It can't be just read once.
How many people out there say, oh, I know the Bible.
I read the entire Bible.
And they scoff at it.
They make fun of it and try to debunk it, right?
Yeah.
I tell them, yeah, don't flatter yourself because it doesn't mean you know it.
Everybody's read the Bible perhaps at one time.
And no, not everybody's read the whole Bible.
But yeah, regardless, it needs to be read and studied.
You can't redo it like a novel.
That's not learned in the Bible.
And they weep, and though they weep not, they rejoice, and though they rejoice not.
So basically, they show a false presence.
Yeah, basically, you know, that's what he's saying here.
Yeah, so I'm trying to get a clear understanding of that, but anyway.
And they use this world and not abuse it for the fashion of this world passes away.
But I would have you without carefulness.
He that is unmarried cares for the things that belong to the Lord.
How he may please the Lord.
So if you're unmarried, whatever the case, not married, care for the things that belong to God.
And please the Lord.
Don't worry about nothing else.
Cause when you're married, you gotta please your wife.
Both mentally, physically, sexually, the whole nine yards.
Pleasing the Lord is doing his bidding and obeying his commandments.
But he that is married cares for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.
So you got two groups of people.
You know, if you're not married right now, you know, just focus on the Lord, he said.
Focus on God.
Don't worry about nothing else.
And if it's His will for you to have a wife and you desire one, He'll give you one.
But when you're married, you do focus on things in the world.
Because you gotta worry about, oh man, how am I gonna afford the rent?
You know, you guys get it, right?
And you gotta please your wife.
Many different ways you gotta please your wife.
So, there is a difference also between the wife and the virgin.
The unmarried woman cares for the things of the Lord.
Because she's never had sex or anything like that, and yeah, all she does is focus on the Lord.
That she may be holy both in the body and the spirit.
But she that is married cares for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
So what is it saying there?
Paul's saying that.
Paul's simply saying, listen.
Again, sorry to sound redundant.
If you're not married, focus on the Lord.
Both men and women.
And yeah, when you do get married, you focus on the Lord too, but you focus on your wife as well, your husband.
And this I speak for your own profit, that I may cast a snare upon you before that which is calm.
And that you may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
Yeah, because the thing is, if you're a single out there and you're trying to work for the Lord, right?
If you're focused on, like, looking at all these girls and going on dates with different people, yeah, yeah, you get distracted.
But if any man thinks that he behaves himself calmly—uncommonly, I'm sorry, calmly is like pleasant, whatever it is—uncommonly toward his virgin, If she passes the flower of her age, she need so require.
Let him do what he will, he sinneth not let them marry.
So what does this mean?
So if man that behaves himself uncommonly toward his virgin, in other words, has sex with the virgin, if she passes the flower of her age, in other words, like virginity, and so required, let him do what he will, He sits not and let them marry.
So it does sound like to me, if you're... Because back then, in today's world, I mean, you're lucky to find a virgin.
Literally, yeah, I mean, it's sick to say that.
I mean, even a 16-year-old, 17, 18-year-old, you're lucky they're a virgin.
But back then, yeah, most women were virgins until they got married.
So basically saying if you're with somebody together, right, and you have sex with them before marriage, get married quick, okay?
Let them marry.
And with my wife, yeah, we're married by common law, but, you know, we had premarital sex.
It's fornicating, yes, but we got married.
You know what I mean?
Like, we're going to do a biblical marriage, hopefully soon.
So he's praying, saying, yeah, don't, yeah, try to hold yourself before you get married.
fast in his heart.
Have no necessity, but have power over his own will.
And has so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin does well.
So he's saying here, don't, yeah, try to hold yourself before you get married.
Until you get married, I'm sorry.
Much as the hormones fly and all the sparks fly, guys, and women, yeah, try your best to hold out until you get married.
So when he gives her in marriage, does well.
But he that gives her not in marriage, does better.
The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband lives.
But if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will, only in the Lord.
So remember I said this earlier, guys?
A woman is free from the bond, a widow, we talked about the widow at the early in the chapter here, a widow is allowed to marry another person because she's free from the bond because her husband passed away.
And that's right here, it's confirming it again.
And a wife is bound by the law as long as her husband lives.
So the law, right?
The law that God set on marriage.
So as long as her husband lives, she is not allowed to remarry.
If she divorces him or something like that.
Or if she, you know, wants to leave him or whatever.
But yeah, long story short, as long as her husband lives, you get married, as long as her husband lives, yeah, you're bound to him.
But if her husband is dead, he dies, right?
She's at liberty to marry another person.
Only in the Lord, though.
But she is happier if she so abides after my judgment, and I think also that I have the Spirit of God.
So this is a great chapter.
It really is.
And now, if you want to know more about marriage, Jesus talks about it too.
And if you put all this stuff, anything to do with marriage and sex in the Bible, it lays everything down.
And it really helps out a lot with couples, because a lot of couples are privates.
They're spouses.
Don't do that.
Don't.
Even if you're a little tight, suck it up.
Because it's going to cause problems, guys.
Even if your wife or husband does ball and cheat.
Which, you know, a godly person won't do that regardless.
But they're going to get very agitated.
They're going to get aggravated.
Then all of a sudden, you know, a woman out there because, like, oh, he's not giving me massages no more.
He doesn't bring flowers home for me no more.
He's not showing me attention no more.
Well, ask yourself why.
Because every time he comes to you.
Oh, I'm sick.
I'm not sick.
I'm tired.
I did this all day.
Yeah.
Then you wonder why he stopped paying attention to you.
And the same thing, vice versa.
For you guys out there.
Oh, I'm playing my video games all night.
Oh, I'll have sex with you tomorrow night.
Tomorrow night comes.
Same excuse and all that.
Then your wife gets real jerked up on it.
Right?
And rightfully so!
And that really irritates me, man.
There's so many women out there that husbands, they play video games all night, or whatever the case, and they deprive the woman.
It's crazy!
It really is!
Not just video games, whatever they do, you know what I'm saying?
You can't deprive your spouse!
That leads to so many problems.
Then you wonder why they stop making dinner for you.
Then you wonder why they stop giving you massages.
Then you wonder why you stop getting flowers and everything else.
Oh, yeah!
Stop and ask yourself, well, what am I doing?
And here's the thing about marriage, ladies and gentlemen, yeah, right?
Men and women think differently.
The average man and the average woman, right?
So, if you're married, right, and you say, oh, all you watch is sex all the time.
And the guy's like, oh, all she wants to do is cuddle all the time, right?
Then you get frustrated, right?
Guess what?
Ladies, guess what?
Men don't think like you do.
And men, women don't think like you.
The thing is, if you want to get to the woman's happy place, right?
You gotta go to her heart.
And women, if you want him to go to your heart, guess what?
You don't go to his heart.
You have to go to his happy place.
That's how it works.
Imagine two magnets, if you will, right?
You got two magnets, so you got the North Pole, the North Pole, South Pole, South Pole.
You try to put them together, they repel.
You flip one upside down, all of a sudden they stick together.
That's how a man and a woman work.
So women, you really need to understand, if you want them to go through your heart, you have to go through the happy place, which is sex.
The men, if you want to get lucky, okay, with your woman, guess what you have to do?
You have to go through her heart, to get lucky.
So if that means you're gonna come home, bring her flowers, give her a massage, to get some... Yeah, if you know what I mean, right?
Yeah, that's what you do.
Don't bitch about it, don't moan and complain about it, just do it.
And act like you like it.
And women?
Yeah.
If you want that emotional, like, uh, you know, uh, attachment, like, oh, uh, him to cuddle with you and all that stuff, guess what?
You're going to have to go to his happy place first.
That's just the way it works.
If both of yous can come to agreement and full understanding of that, you're all going to have a blessed marriage.
And I'm talking about loving each other, lots of sex, whatever the case, whatever you guys desire.
And it's perfectly great in the eyes of the Lord.
So if you're going to understand this, what this teaching is about, you're going to have a blessed marriage.
So if you've got any questions, comments, answers, guys, hit me up in the comments section and don't take my word or anybody else's word for it.
Read it for yourself.
And when I get done here, I want you to go back and read this chapter again.
Especially if you're married.
Read this chapter and really visualize this.
Don't deprive your husband and wife.
Comfort them.
Nurture them.
And it's not just sex either, guys.
It's... Nurturing them and everything else.
You guys need to take time, okay?
Understand this.
You need to... Never stop dating your wife.
I don't care if you've been married for 30 years.
You get your ass up and you bring her on a date.
Excuse for the language, guys.
I gotta be straight up front.
You get your butt up!
Bring her on a date.
I don't care if you've been married for 50 years.
Once in a while, you know, take her out to dinner.
Romance her.
Plain and simple.
That's what you do.
If you want a long lasting healthy marriage.
The other thing is, I don't care if you've got 10 kids and two jobs you're working.
Oh well, make time.
There's no excuse.
You guys go to bed together.
There's no excuse.
You can't take even 15 minutes out to pleasure each other.
A happy husband and a happy wife is a happy home.
That's the way God intended it.
And it's, again, perfectly beautiful in the eyes of the Lord.
It's a gift from you to her.
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Matthew, Mark, Luke, John, Acts, Romans, first Corinthians here.
And we're going to move on to second Corinthians after we get done with this chapter.
We're going to go straight through to revelation and we're going to start the old Testament.
Even though I should have started the old Testament first, but.
Anyway guys, so yeah, thank you for tuning in to 1 Corinthians chapter 7, this in-depth comprehensive study of the Bible.
So God bless, shalom, and remember you are the resistance.
And guys, remember, don't deprive your wives, and women, don't deprive your husbands.
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